Pearl - Women Finding Out Their Ex Has a NEW Girlfriend…

00:00:00.000 it's so weird like she tagged him in a bunch of photos like in like a carousel i love you so much

00:00:07.460 you really do you know that he cheats maybe he's better maybe he doesn't cheat anymore

00:00:11.040 i hope he doesn't that would kill her ego some men do stop cheating some do i hope for her sake

00:00:15.500 he doesn't cheat anymore but it's very funny because like when you start dating someone you

00:00:18.580 obviously like you learn about like their past you ask you're curious about like the other women

00:00:22.220 that they've dated i can imagine that like i'm like in his story and his perception of the

00:00:28.160 experience like i'm the crazy one like i'm not crazy i mean i did learn that he was dating her

00:00:33.440 on my pin stuff but i'm not crazy there's a cope that women say and it's you're never gonna find

00:00:38.840 a girl like me and here here's the reality as a woman he will find a girl just like you and in

00:00:44.420 fact a girl that he loves more and is better than you in every single way and it's not if it's when

00:00:49.540 you will get older and uglier and um he will just do better and that just is what it is

00:00:55.140 When you see that your ex or the person you was just spending your life with is moving on and pursuing someone else and it's serious, hear me out.

00:01:06.160 Yes, it's going to hurt.

00:01:09.380 Yes, it's going to throw you for a loop.

00:01:11.180 It's going to take you by surprise.

00:01:13.360 Yes, it is going to make you feel uncomfortable.

00:01:15.820 Why? Because you were not ready to see that.

00:01:17.860 even though you thought you were healing from it you thought you were moving on you were not ready

00:01:22.340 to see that person moving on from you but do not allow those emotions to take advantage over you

00:01:30.820 let's be very clear you do not want them anyway you have to remind yourself that you are not

00:01:36.500 missing out on absolutely nothing nothing at all know who you are know what you overcame know what

00:01:44.580 you would never again that's cope right she's saying you're not missing out on nothing no he

00:01:49.660 probably became a better boyfriend and learned from the mistakes and did better while you did

00:01:53.800 worse right and that's kind of the reality you have to take as a woman like one time i dated a

00:01:58.300 guy that was um not like i'll just say he was uh a bigger guy a bigger right and i thought i was the

00:02:06.340 best he could do when i was younger um and then he dated someone hotter and better than me in every

00:02:11.340 way just is what it is sometimes like i'm telling you it's not if it's when um and anything else is

00:02:16.780 just cope you want to go through again know exactly what you went through where you're going

00:02:23.100 and the love you went through what you chose we got to stop with this language it just it makes

00:02:27.820 us be like kids that you desire in your life and you let that situation go you move forward with

00:02:35.900 peace you wish them well you pray through it if you gotta cry a little bit that's fine but you do

00:02:43.980 not sit in those emotions why because you don't want them you don't want them and you're not

00:02:49.880 missing out on anything you're all right let's cope somewhere else woman all right let's see 0.94

00:02:55.080 this lady sucks to see an ex with somebody new it's a jab in the heart it never feels good but 0.95

00:03:00.360 what you need to remember is that people do not change that much. 0.98

00:03:05.980 Men do change for women that treat them well. Unfortunately, we mostly treat them bad, so.

00:03:12.080 That fast, right? So the next person just has your problem, and they just don't know it yet.

00:03:19.600 Man. All right, let's keep going.

00:03:21.380 Brand sounds annoying. It's been four months, and he moved on to a new girl,

00:03:24.460 and I'm healing from what happened.

00:03:25.660 man just that's so sad why are you putting that on tiktok let's see the comments make him feel

00:03:34.640 your absence by mariah gomez baby he's only with a new girl because he can't stand to be alone

00:03:39.120 that's cope he's with a new girl because he was probably cheating he was probably cheating um

00:03:45.020 baby you're gonna heal in the end it's gonna be a sad one i promise you and when he comes back to

00:03:49.640 spin the block remember you were alone trying to heal and he ran to someone else now i mean

00:03:53.360 see that's cope um again they're just gonna cave immediately is it weird that sometimes i find it

00:03:58.080 comforting that i'm still in pain i don't know how to explain it that i didn't move on that i 0.94

00:04:01.580 love deeply it's proof that love is and was it's because women love being sad and just being

00:04:06.480 victims and doing all this stuff i don't we like get off on it you gotta as a woman you gotta get

00:04:11.620 get out of these mindset my ex had a new girl the same week um it turns out she was there all along

00:04:16.880 he finds a new girlfriend two weeks after we break up not two months not two years but two

00:04:22.580 weeks but you left him though so what does it matter if it's two weeks two months or two years

00:04:29.280 you left him your ego took a hit because you just eat that out i agree i agree who is this

00:04:36.380 you wanted that man to be torn up and sad about the fact that you left him and that he lost the

00:04:42.840 best thing that ever happened because here's the thing men they don't like think like we do we

00:04:47.880 think in what ifs and possibilities they think in what is so if a situation's done they just bounce

00:04:53.480 into him but because he didn't do that and he moved on your ego yeah because we want we want

00:04:59.580 to feel like we can take give and take his happiness away took a hit and you can't um men

00:05:05.340 are gonna do what they're gonna do regardless they're gonna do great things unless you legally 0.99

00:05:09.260 destroy him so which a lot of women do and then she went on to talk shit about the other girl 0.93

00:05:14.160 that he's with after she said that she's healed and she doesn't care about him so if you're healed 0.98

00:05:21.080 and you don't care about him why are you making a video about him two months after the fact that

00:05:27.340 you left him move on and be happy with your life and leave that man alone because again you did not

00:05:34.120 want him and one thing about me is i'll never leave a good man yeah so okay let's keep going

00:05:39.280 frustrated because i you know got my whole world got disheveled and i feel like he has moved on

00:05:45.840 and he is healed and moved on and doesn't care about me which he doesn't care about you that's 0.91

00:05:51.420 the thing because you were probably so insufferable you probably have no idea how insufferable you are

00:05:56.820 as women we just there's no humility it's just insufferability and so he probably is so happy 0.95

00:06:03.480 you're gone i don't want him to come back into my life but it still just sucks you know i can't

00:06:09.420 imagine you know thank you guys for sharing stuff like stories that you've been like you've gotten

00:06:14.240 through this and it's been however many years because i could not imagine that i'm fresh

00:06:19.220 ex move on when you know you don't want to be with that person you know very clearly you were

00:06:24.560 the one who yeah but see it's cope because you obviously do want to i don't know when i'm done

00:06:28.420 with a relationship i'm done i i don't what they do i wish them all the best you know i wish you

00:06:36.220 well uh but i hope you do better than me in every way i really do no i seriously do because if you're

00:06:41.920 really done with it you don't care if they move on ended it but just seeing them move on is always

00:06:46.260 so hard okay actually i have to put myself on time out because for some reason why do you see

00:06:50.640 it though i mean don't yeah i was looking at an ex's post now i personally did block him on this

00:06:56.740 app and on Instagram because he would not stop hitting me up. And I kind of knew that it would

00:07:01.240 always be that way because him and his ex-girlfriends followed each other and they remained

00:07:05.040 friends, which is fine. But for me, it's kind of not fine. Like if we're broken up, do not hit me

00:07:10.400 up. He was also trying to reconcile things at one point. And I was just like, yeah, this is too much

00:07:15.340 for me. And you can never be shocked when a guy moves on because they move on very quickly. Like

00:07:19.680 they don't need the time to recover. It's projection because men don't, men, honestly,

00:07:24.360 they'll move on and do other things before they find a new woman it's usually a woman finds them 0.68

00:07:29.520 um i'm not saying some men don't have a f boy just my observations is women move on really fast

00:07:36.780 not the other way around i feel like a lot of women need and also they do jump from relationships

00:07:41.740 to relationships which is why sometimes they don't heal those things about them that are bad

00:07:45.800 so i feel like a lot of these guys just have to find a girl who like accept those things because

00:07:50.580 But I followed him on my business account. So I was in my business account and he came up and

00:07:57.120 then I went lurking on his page and I was like, Oh, he has a new girlfriend. He's posted her

00:08:00.320 multiple times. She is beautiful. She is well-connected. She has better than you in

00:08:05.260 every way. It just is what it is. They always do better. Cause here's the thing once, okay,

00:08:09.380 especially if you were in a public relationship, women that look like you or are in similar 1.00

00:08:16.040 situations i'll just i'll just say in my experience like if a guy dates me other redheads that are 1.00

00:08:23.760 tall will want to date him i mean i don't know what it is but um or like right-wing girls because

00:08:30.280 they know oh he he kind of knows the deal what it's like being with a girl like that you know

00:08:35.700 so great job like i'm actually happy for him because i'm like i feel like after we dated he

00:08:40.720 realized he could do better than what he was doing before and this guy is a little bit of a man child

00:08:45.680 i'm not gonna lie and that's the reason we couldn't be together i mean but she seems amazing

00:08:51.940 maybe even out of his league in a lot of different ways okay how you're gonna cope let's see what

00:08:57.060 she says i was on my finsta today because i found out that my ex like moved on you're not supposed

00:09:03.220 to move on from me you're supposed to never have a successful relationship after me especially if

00:09:09.260 you cheat on me no you're supposed to be sad no i mean look at if they cheat on you that means they

00:09:14.380 could do better because obviously they cheated on you with someone better rest of your life

00:09:18.540 or worse but they'll just keep going supposed to ruminate over ruining my life for the rest of your 1.00

00:09:23.500 life that's what's supposed to happen now he's in a happy relationship please she looks just like

00:09:28.600 his mother it's so weird like she tagged him in a bunch of photos like in like a carousel i love

00:09:35.760 you so much you really do you know that he cheats maybe he's better maybe he doesn't cheat anymore

00:09:40.180 i hope he doesn't that would kill her ego some men do stop cheating some do i hope for her sake

00:09:44.620 he doesn't cheat anymore but it's very funny because like when you start dating someone you

00:09:47.720 obviously like you learn about like their past you ask you're curious about like the other women

00:09:51.360 that they've dated i can imagine that like i'm like in his story and his perception of the

00:09:57.280 experience like i'm the crazy one like i'm not crazy i mean i did learn that he was dating her

00:10:02.580 on my fin stuff but i'm not crazy yeah you are crazy it's coke but it's all right all right guys

00:10:08.140 let me know what you think in the comments if you can like the video and subscribe to the channel

00:10:13.560 I love you thank you so much for watching and I'll see you next time

Pearl - October 15, 2026

Women Finding Out Their Ex Has a NEW Girlfriend…

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