Pearl - May 05, 2026


Women Getting A Big Dose Of Reality： JOB INTERVIEWS!


Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

190.93135

Word count

2,417

Sentence count

70

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

sentences flagged

Toxicity

28

sentences flagged

Hate speech

35

sentences flagged


Summary

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Today we re talking about how modern women hate job interviews and why it s so hard to get a job. I m talking about my experience with a recent job interview and how horrible it was and how women are so used to being given handouts and free stuff and not having to do any work that it s hard to do the work.

Transcript

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Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Women are so used to being like given handouts and free stuff and not having to do any work 1.00
00:00:04.640 that it's like, okay, yeah, you messed up your interview. You took the L. So just eat it. Stop 1.00
00:00:09.000 complaining. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series today. We are talking about how modern
00:00:13.820 women hate job interviews. So women, we always want the results without doing the work because 1.00
00:00:19.120 a lot of times that's how it goes in our life. A lot of times we do get the results and doing 1.00
00:00:23.380 none of the work. So today we're going to hear women talking about trying to, you know, be men 0.99
00:00:28.180 like we fought to be we said for 50 years we wanted to fight like a man and then the men are
00:00:33.440 like all right we're done um we're done going for corporate america or whatever you can take all the
00:00:38.180 high status jobs honey and then the women are like um interviews that's too difficult i can't do it 0.98
00:00:43.680 what happened to me today i went in for a job interview because i need a job because i don't
00:00:48.140 have any money and i need money for college right so and i go in for the interview i said hey i'm
00:00:54.560 here for the interview at 2 30 and he's like okay do you want a drink took it obviously he's like
00:01:00.480 go sit down in the booth i go over there i get my drink he comes back up to me he goes actually
00:01:04.440 they told me to tell you that the person who does the interviews isn't here today
00:01:09.380 so you'll just have to call back
00:01:11.940 excuse me why would you tell me that it was today if it wasn't going to be today
00:01:17.720 there was a mistake it happens just say okay when can we reschedule because mind you they 0.94
00:01:23.420 text me an hour before saying hey your interview's today good luck what the fuck guess what happened 0.99
00:01:29.000 to me today i went in for a job take the l just eat it it's fine i told you guys what the fuck 0.98
00:01:35.460 just happened to me so tell me why guess what i had a job interview today wow that i look so cute 0.99
00:01:40.180 and i fucking slap the bitch tells me to get there at two o'clock i show up there a little 0.99
00:01:45.960 bit early i'm sitting there hey i'm here for my interview they told me to come in at two o'clock 1.00
00:01:49.160 and they go hey sit at this little table and i sit at the fucking table and then 30 minutes go by 0.94
00:01:54.620 look over 30 minutes go by i'm sitting there waiting i asked the lady hey can you go see 0.99
00:01:59.040 how long it's going to take for someone to like want to talk to me like what's up she goes you're 0.76
00:02:03.560 still waiting yeah i'm still fucking waiting at this table it's okay it doesn't matter the guy 0.89
00:02:12.480 i can i can see why you didn't get the job okay he goes hey uh doesn't doesn't shake my hand no 0.89
00:02:18.280 nice to meet you hey uh uh i don't know i don't really know why you're here i don't i don't really
00:02:24.440 want to women are so entitled it just i don't want to hire any new stuff hey so yesterday when you 0.98
00:02:30.840 guys called and said to come in at two o'clock for an interview so you could hire me as a 0.98
00:02:35.160 fucking server you were doing that for a position that you weren't even hiring for and just wasting 1.00
00:02:39.240 my time making me drive 40 minutes away to a restaurant that i can't even think you're not 1.00
00:02:43.160 been hiring it i just cannot get that agitated okay i hate phone screening interviews i hate
00:02:52.360 these phone screening interviews that's like a person that's not even associated with the role
00:02:59.880 at all and it's like a 30 minute phone thing where they ask like really general questions
00:03:05.560 and then when you try to ask a question about the role they're like that'll be for the next
00:03:09.400 the next interview what that like how do i even know if i want this role if i can't like ask
00:03:17.160 questions about it and then with this one that i just had i just was like you need to understand
00:03:21.800 since we do the least work we're kind of at the bottom of the totem pole so we're going to get
00:03:25.080 the worst treatment you know what i mean i'm not going to ask me questions because i never know
00:03:29.480 and then she kind of like she was like okay
00:03:34.280 what am i supposed to do and then like what kind of questions am i supposed to ask if you don't
00:03:38.040 know anything about the role what like what is this and that's it feels like a waste of time
00:03:42.840 because it's like let me just meet with the team like i get it's supposed to be like a time saver
00:03:46.920 i don't think it is like but and also like a phone interview i feel like you can't like connect with
00:03:51.800 the person at all i'm very awkward on the phone and so i would like to either have a video honestly
00:03:57.640 in person like that like makes me want to shit my pants but when i'm in person i feel like i can
00:04:04.360 people just connect better in person duh like hello that's not like an insane concept yeah
00:04:09.000 so women try to connect during interviews men try to show their competence just different
00:04:13.480 women want to get the job because they like me men want to get the job because they're good
00:04:19.240 i don't even care about the job it was supposed to be 30 minutes it was 13 minutes
00:04:24.360 okay yeah it didn't go well all right let's go
00:04:28.680 i just had a job interview 0.98
00:04:30.280 i prepped i love the company my fucking anxiety and my nerves got in the way 0.97
00:04:43.600 i kept tripping over my words and it was so frustrating in the moment literally at one 0.96
00:04:50.380 point during the interview i was like i need to take a deep breath and i tried so hard to recover
00:04:56.500 but they literally ended the call short so
00:05:03.460 yeah see men women are so used to being like given handouts and free stuff and not having to
00:05:12.880 do any work that it's like okay yeah you messed up your interview you took the l so just eat it
00:05:18.240 stop complaining learn how to do it better next time this isn't a dead giveaway the interview did
00:05:24.000 not go well i've never been rejected from a job so fast in an interview i don't even think she
00:05:33.200 really asked me any questions she said tell me a little bit about yourself and then basically
00:05:39.200 just told me i didn't have enough experience i don't know why it's so hard you just get more
00:05:46.700 experience you know go for a different job to find a job i'm not picky i've applied to
00:05:54.620 literally anything i can find i've been applying for jobs since june of last year
00:06:03.340 and it has been absolutely soul crushing
00:06:07.420 getting rejected for seven months in a row my four-year degree did nothing for me
00:06:18.140 because i don't have enough experience where am i going to get experience i don't know because
00:06:24.240 no one will hire me to give me any experience i could rant about this for days
00:06:29.920 if you like to pray please pray for me well if my okay on my four minute interview
00:06:40.340 to an interview i'll update you when i'm done okay do you want to just talk about what i just
00:06:44.840 experienced all right i show up 10 minutes early i don't expect anyone to grab me 10 minutes early
00:06:49.020 i'm just there to show you that i'm punctual three o'clock comes along 305 comes along 310
00:06:53.600 comes along 315 comes along i'm finally grabbed for my interview young guy one of the first things
00:06:58.680 out of his mouth that he says to me is oh your interview is scheduled late in the day 0.86
00:07:01.720 so 3 p.m on a fucking wednesday afternoon i digress we go into his office yeah you understand 0.97
00:07:08.580 it says more about you if you're irritated over that like that's over nothing one single interview 0.95
00:07:15.860 question which is tell me about yourself he then says to me sounds good to me honestly sounds like
00:07:22.040 you're overqualified for this job i have two positions part-time positions that i'm looking
00:07:26.120 to fill. Then he asked me about my availability. Here's what's frustrating about that question.
00:07:30.300 The recruiter that I spoke to, we had a really great phone interview. She said, I would love to
00:07:34.580 get you in for an in-person interview, but your availability is limited. My availability is I can
00:07:38.360 work Sunday, Mondays, a half shift. I can work a four-hour shift. Tuesday, Wednesdays, my days are
00:07:44.000 open. She says, I'm going to call the store just to make sure that those hours work for them. I'll
00:07:48.560 call you back. She calls me back 30 minutes later and says, perfect, works for them. Let's get in
00:07:52.620 for an in-person interview the store manager says i don't know that available that that's limited
00:07:57.640 availability i don't know if it's because i've been in corporate for too long like corporate 0.98
00:08:01.660 interviews are they're formal formal questions i'm not one single question in some fucking 0.92
00:08:06.840 rinky dink office in the office at about 3 16 and i was walking out of that office at about 3 20 0.97
00:08:11.640 i don't want the job i do not want that job i don't appreciate like poor management i'm really
00:08:17.560 just like trying to find like a silly little part-time job get me out of the house is this 0.91
00:08:21.440 all this fucking out there yeah i think there's just a lack of like um caring look at this says 0.94
00:08:27.760 oh okay you know there's just a lack of caring amongst people i think people people feel like 0.98
00:08:32.940 they have no purpose yesterday that went so poorly that i'm gonna just stop looking for a job
00:08:38.300 i i i literally cannot do it anymore it's it's killing me so long story short i have my first
00:08:46.900 interview. It went amazing. The manager for the store, really, really cool guy. And 10 minutes
00:08:53.880 after my interview, they literally emailed me and they were like, we want you to have a second
00:08:56.800 interview. I was like, awesome. Great. Cool. So it literally takes four different tries to try and
00:09:04.400 get this second interview scheduled with the district manager. The first time it was at 1030
00:09:12.160 AM and I waited until 11 AM. Cause I'm like, okay, you know, stoners sometimes like we're
00:09:17.500 late. Sometimes you forget we're busy. We have a lot to do in a, in a dispensary. So let me just
00:09:23.360 wait. I waited. No one came. I emailed and I was like, Hey, hope everything's okay. I'm going to
00:09:31.280 get started with my day, whatever. The next day comes around. I get a call. I'm really sorry for
00:09:37.400 the interview we're gonna try again great awesome it's they're not reading between the lines they
00:09:44.140 don't want you you know I mean if you were the best candidate they would you know open like 1.00
00:09:48.820 you're treated as you are which is not the best candidate it's kind of like women treat ugly men 0.97
00:09:53.540 you know you're the you're the ugly man you know schedules it for 12 30 no one shows up schedules 1.00
00:10:00.780 it for 1 30 no one shows up so then I just kind of like get out of the the meeting and I'm just 0.95
00:10:06.500 like going on with my day. I get a call like, Hey, I'm so sorry. This has never happened before.
00:10:12.620 Can you do two 30? I'm like, sure. I'm on a drive right now. When I'm done, I'll log on.
00:10:19.960 Finally, two 30 comes around. He pops on. Okay. We immediately, immediately do not like this guy's
00:10:29.200 vibe. Okay. And you know what? I don't think he even liked me. I don't think he even liked me
00:10:35.180 immediately. And so, you know, he asked me the basic interview questions. And then he was like,
00:10:40.200 do you have any concerns about the job? And I was like, I mean, just the way that this whole
00:10:46.460 interview process has kind of been makes me a little concerned that this is the kind of
00:10:50.720 communication that goes throughout your whole organization. And he was like, okay, next question.
00:10:58.680 i was like okay what do you do for diversity for your company oh no you're you asked about
00:11:07.780 diversity for people of color like what you know i'm just kind of curious what oh my god it's so
00:11:13.380 funny watching internet people meet the real world it's like the real world internet people
00:11:18.000 and people that are like chronically online and care about all these causes they're like um what
00:11:23.400 do you do you care about diversity that is gonna backfire well you do and he was like
00:11:28.360 yeah that's like not really a discussion that I want to get into right now um it would just be
00:11:34.820 too long um but anyone who comes in here with any background uh can get promoted and you know
00:11:43.460 that's just not a rabbit hole I want to go down right now okay cool cool cool cool so we finished
00:11:52.660 the interview and honestly like at the end he was like yeah we have other candidates so we'll get
00:11:58.000 back to you in a couple of days. No, I called that first manager up and I said, Hey, I really
00:12:03.420 appreciate you. Cause I did appreciate him. He was awesome for setting everything up. Um, but I would
00:12:09.460 like to pull my name out of the running and he didn't even say why or anything. I'm sure the
00:12:14.220 other two guys talked. They don't care. They don't care. And he was like, okay, yeah, thanks.
00:12:20.340 Appreciate you too. Have a good day. I'm like, cool. You have a good day too. But yeah, I'm done.
00:12:25.360 i'm done looking oh my gosh women i'm done looking yeah you look unemployed so take that
00:12:33.500 l anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments like the video and subscribe to
00:12:37.060 the channel i appreciate you watching i'll see you next time