Pearl - Women HATE Working… While Men LOVE Their Hardest Jobs？!

00:00:00.000 don't ever take it personal if your wife sister or mother bitches and complains about you because 1.00

00:00:04.800 all women do is bitch complain and moan today we are going to show the differences and how 1.00

00:00:09.520 women talk about their easy jobs and how men talk people under it and how men talk about their hard 1.00

00:00:15.280 jobs as you know men do the dirty and dangerous jobs in society and men do not bitch complain

00:00:20.480 or moan women do the easy air-conditioned office jobs and all we do is complain about them working 0.96

00:00:26.800 i hate getting ready to go to work i hate going into work i hate being an hour into a shift i hate 0.77

00:00:31.520 like saying hi to people i hate being perceived i hate smiling like i just i hate do i hate it 0.56

00:00:37.040 i hate working i've worked so many jobs every single job i got two months in and i'm like i 0.55

00:00:40.720 hate this job and i've i like i don't know maybe i just have poor work ethic like maybe i yeah it's 0.68

00:00:46.400 probably what it is right you're lazy so i don't care go to work just am like a top comment by 0.71

00:00:51.600 women work should be four to five hours max eight hours is so long having a job makes me ugly why 1.00

00:00:57.280 can't we just exist easy and i just need to come this is the female laziness epidemic i've been 1.00

00:01:02.200 saying this terms with the fact that i'm just lazy but like i see people that work so hard and 0.52

00:01:07.900 they're such good workers and i just like i don't understand i just have not i've never and that's

00:01:13.660 like i i grew up like doing competitive gymnastics i grew up straight a's in school like that was 0.99

00:01:19.560 like I you had to work in high school like I've always worked I moved by my because women will do

00:01:25.480 the fun things right but the hard things we can't do myself supported myself I've been working

00:01:30.020 since I was fucking 15 right I've always I've been working it's not like I don't work it's

00:01:35.360 I'm just like lazy and I just don't I do work I just you just work easy jobs right easy things 0.94

00:01:41.640 hate it I hate it I hate working I know everyone hates working but I hate working so much and then 0.91

00:01:48.380 like i see like reagan on her like 18th extension install of the fucking week i'm like what like 0.95

00:01:54.220 girl like please and it's just jealousy it's literally just jealousy i see like i'm so jealous 0.94

00:01:59.720 of all of these like pretty young girls that have like these gorgeous like high-rise apartments and 0.74

00:02:03.940 i just think i'm like how how are we doing it how are we fucking doing it they're being escorts like 1.00

00:02:08.940 that's what you have to understand if a woman has a high-rise apartment it's usually sex work unless 0.98

00:02:12.640 she really has a high-earning career it's sex i just don't understand how everybody i don't i just

00:02:17.180 don't get it i don't get it oh my god my bills have been late for the last like two months now

00:02:21.140 and part of it is my fault because they'll ask me they'll call me on lazy of work and they'll be

00:02:27.300 like do you want to come in and i'm like no i don't want to come in no i don't want to come in

00:02:32.320 or they're like do you want to leave early i'm like yeah i want to leave it's my fault i just

00:02:37.500 don't know how i can't think of i also can't think of a single thing i'd be passionate about

00:02:40.940 because people are like oh if you love what you do you'll never work a day in your life i don't

00:02:43.740 think i love anything i actually don't think i love anything i don't think i'm passionate about

00:02:46.880 anything i actually can't think of one thing that i'm like yeah that's something that like i really

00:02:50.240 want to do and like i could go back to school right like i could take take a couple loans out 0.68

00:02:54.580 go back to school but like i don't there's nothing i want to fucking do like everything 0.85

00:02:57.600 seems pointless like everything literally just seems pointless i'm like it just seems like 0.90

00:03:01.080 like i should just continue working in bars even though i know that i probably shouldn't do that

00:03:05.860 for the rest of my life and i there's no point in me doing that on a bar job that's kind of a fun

00:03:09.600 job right i just oh i just want to like all right let me continue all right let me continue all right

00:03:14.960 So she's complaining, right? 0.87

00:03:16.120 For like five minutes straight.

00:03:17.720 Now this is a guy talking about his job.

00:03:19.440 Work right now.

00:03:20.500 I've been off for 12 days on vacation.

00:03:22.780 And I can honestly tell you, I am genuinely excited to go to work.

00:03:26.940 This job is funny.

00:03:28.480 So he's a fire department, right?

00:03:29.860 He could die, you know?

00:03:30.940 We're there all the time. 1.00

00:03:32.420 You can't wait to get the fuck away from everybody. 0.99

00:03:34.640 Have some peace and quiet and not run any calls. 0.99

00:03:36.580 But the exact opposite happens when you're gone too long.

00:03:39.240 If you enjoy where you work, obviously, right?

00:03:41.360 i can't wait to see and smell the station the engine throw my gear on here the sirens run some

00:03:46.620 calls hang out with the boys like i genuinely miss it i can't wait to get there i'm not even

00:03:51.300 going to my station i'm going to an overtime station the captain i'm working with is cool as

00:03:55.620 hell the engineer he's all right you know um just a random dude from another battalion right but i

00:04:02.700 can't wait to get there man it's awesome that is the difference between working a job like this

00:04:07.820 and working a nine to five job i don't care how long you're on vacation if you work a typical

00:04:12.480 nine to five you probably dread that day going back to work but this this job becomes a part

00:04:18.320 of you you literally become addicted to it all right so he's happy happy guy right now woman

00:04:23.240 estimate how hard it is to do anything when you hate your job when you hate the place you spend

00:04:29.920 most of your waking hours at your job during the week like how much of a toll that takes on you

00:04:36.660 the root of all my problems right now is how much i hate my job like as a black woman like i've heard 0.99

00:04:42.020 the statistics there's like 600k black women that are like out of work right now and it's like man

00:04:46.100 i'm about to join you okay because i'm about to just quit my job like my work that i do is such

00:04:50.420 a dead end type of work there's no real like upward mobility unless i want to go back to school

00:04:57.380 or i get old enough to where they'll actually give a a managerial position because it's like it seems 0.98

00:05:02.900 like putting a black woman in charge a woman in general right like they don't want to give anybody

00:05:07.620 under the age of 30 any sort of managerial position the way that you're incompetent right 0.93

00:05:12.500 they have just devalued like millennial workers and young people as workers i hate my job i hated

00:05:19.060 my job when i applied for it because i had already worked at previous but like man at a certain point

00:05:24.660 like i you can only go i'm almost 30 i'm 26 i'm gonna be 27 next week right i'm not taking a job 0.97

00:05:30.900 that pays less than 20 an hour in fact taking a job that pays even 20 an hour is so fucking 0.84

00:05:36.260 disrespectful like y'all are offering jobs to adults that pay less than 20 an hour that's why 0.88

00:05:41.140 i work the job that i work because i'm just trying to stay afloat because you can't go down at a

00:05:46.660 certain point like man you can't go back but who can afford to live off of 20 18 16 people out here

00:05:54.900 working for 16 an hour we live in a country where the federal minimum wage is seven dollars bro

00:05:59.620 seven dollars and some change and yet wages adjusted with inflation would be upwards of 30

00:06:05.420 something dollars an hour right people cannot live can't even barely provide for us okay so 0.70

00:06:10.900 nagging bitching complaining now him my job it's monday morning i love my job and i am legitimately 0.51

00:06:17.080 excited to go to work today to see all my co-workers who i consider my friends and to 0.59

00:06:22.380 continue solving problems that i'm passionate about i'm a founding engineer and the third

00:06:26.160 That's not an easy job, right? That's mentally, I would say, more stressful than the bartender,

00:06:31.180 right? I was a tenured employee at an AI infrastructure startup called Brev.dev.

00:06:35.720 This is not a psyop, nor am I saying that you should love your job. It's crazy to think that

00:06:40.040 only four months ago, I was working a job that I was not excited to wake up for, that I wasn't

00:06:45.220 friends with my coworkers and wasn't passionate about the work that I was doing. Work was work.

00:06:50.700 I always knew I wanted to start my own thing. I just didn't think it would be this quickly.

00:06:54.380 and even further confirmed to me that money isn't everything

00:06:57.160 because I made a lot more money at my previous job,

00:06:59.960 yet I am far, far happier here.

00:07:02.140 All right, so happy guy, right?

00:07:04.600 Girl. 0.98

00:07:05.720 ...hears into working my nine-to-five job,

00:07:07.560 and this is awful.

00:07:09.100 So you're telling me I'm having the Sunday Scaries every week

00:07:11.760 to dread five days of my life to then be rewarded? 1.00

00:07:15.880 Bitching. 0.98

00:07:16.440 Now, even men say they don't like their jobs.

00:07:18.140 They say, well, yeah, I didn't like it.

00:07:19.740 Work is work, you know? 1.00

00:07:21.400 The women catastrophize it. 1.00

00:07:23.120 with a little thrill on friday but then be so tired from working that i pass out at like 10 p.m 0.99

00:07:28.160 live for saturdays love them but really that is only one full day of fun because sunday have a

00:07:33.720 great sunday morning and then sunday afternoon rolls around and i have the sunday scaries and

00:07:38.180 i'm dreading my life for the next five days i went to college for four years to be stuck in this

00:07:42.360 cycle what no two years is enough so i'm on tiktok and i'll be promoting products and posting my way

00:07:48.600 out of this god awful cycle i cannot settle for a life of dread especially if they want us to

00:07:53.280 retire at 70 now um no i'm gonna be using the internet because i see people yeah so again

00:07:59.920 bitching moaning now this guy right a blue collar man 32 hours straight i've had two one hour naps

00:08:06.240 within that time but uh my question to y'all is do you love what you do for a living as much as i do

00:08:13.560 Let me know in the comments.

00:08:15.120 Yeah, look at ILWU, 13 years for 20 years, 15-hour shifts for seven days straight.

00:08:21.940 F, yeah, 20-year long horseman.

00:08:24.240 ILA local 1422, Charleston, South Carolina, 24 hours straight, 120 hours a week.

00:08:30.600 They love it.

00:08:31.400 Y'all do for a living. 1.00

00:08:32.460 Yeah, so then we got, you know, the woman complaining. 0.98

00:08:36.240 All right, here we go. 0.99

00:08:37.040 I hate my job.

00:08:37.900 I am literally crying at my desk three to four days out of the week. I feel guilty to speak

00:08:45.600 about the fact that it's a great job, but no matter how good of a job it is, it is not my purpose.

00:08:52.920 It's not. And if you are a purpose-driven person with dreams and there's something that you want

00:08:58.200 to do with your life, it does not matter where you sit if you know for sure that seat does not

00:09:05.260 belong to you and i am tired of crying at this desk all right so she's crying at her desk right

00:09:11.600 now again a guy in corporate to say i love corporate life i love the hierarchy the drama

00:09:17.440 the rituals gameplay and the formality the stages the perks the regularity god corporate life is

00:09:23.260 like high school but just in suits man man all right guys um that's that's just to prove a point

00:09:32.680 don't ever try to make us happy. We're never happy. We love complaining. I hate that we love

00:09:36.860 complaining, but we just complain, complain, bitch, moan, nag. So anyways, let me know what 1.00

00:09:41.300 you think of the comments. If you can like the videos and subscribe to the channel,

00:09:44.500 bring that notification bell. Um, I'll see you next time. I am a tried wife.

Pearl - October 19, 2026

Women HATE Working… While Men LOVE Their Hardest Jobs？!

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