Pearl - June 09, 2026


Women Make THE WORST Financial Choices

Topics
financial struggles and debt management
Orthodox Deacon Seraphim (Richard) Rohlin, PART TWO ｜ THE SITDOWN Female Losers： How Women Are NOT Nurturing

Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

171.56

Word count

1,921

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

sentences flagged

Toxicity

21

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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On this series, we watch women talk about their financial struggles and let's see if we believe them. I believe if you're struggling financially, you shouldn't be calling yourself a poor woman. You don't look poor.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 you don't look poor man like then that's gaslighting the general public what's up guys
00:00:04.960 welcome to my reaction series on this series we watch women take l's and one of the major l's of 0.99
00:00:10.640 modern women today is that we are struggling financially uh so many women out there literally
00:00:16.080 have don't have so anyways um i'm about to react to women talking about their financial struggles
00:00:24.000 and let's see if we believe them i believe if you're struggling financially you shouldn't be 1.00
00:00:28.560 uh oh no all right well we're already starting on this note oh no this woman is fat um again
00:00:35.440 how much can you really be like struggling financially if you're overweight like you're
00:00:39.920 obviously overspending on food but let's see what she says because my card declined when
00:00:45.440 i tried to get groceries manager i wasn't trying to get that many groceries probably a good thing 0.97
00:00:49.760 for you honey it's time to do a water fast or something until your skin so i would get on that 0.98
00:00:58.560 just something to get me into my next payday which is next friday
00:01:02.880 and then my car declined because my car insurance payment came out
00:01:06.780 so now i have no money no food
00:01:11.860 um you don't need food it's impossible it's impossible to live nowadays it just is 1.00
00:01:21.540 you can't afford anything women i don't understand how people can afford anything 1.00
00:01:27.300 Yeah, because women keep increasing the price of everything. 1.00
00:01:30.200 So we've got to take away women's credit cards. 1.00
00:01:32.840 I think that would do the most good in society. 1.00
00:01:39.040 Just working my life away and for what?
00:01:41.240 To barely be able to pay my bills? 1.00
00:01:44.480 I'm so over this shit. 1.00
00:01:45.700 I am so over this shit. 1.00
00:01:47.280 It's infuriating. 0.99
00:01:53.460 That there's nothing.
00:01:55.100 I feel like there's nothing I can do.
00:01:57.300 nothing any of us can do but you can eat less again that is at least that's at least an extra 0.95
00:02:03.360 hundred bucks a week i bet you uber eats i guarantee you uber eat we're just fucking stuck 0.76
00:02:08.880 we just have to take it yes 0.99
00:02:11.160 well i hate this world that we live oh my god okay you're fat let's let's use next all right 1.00
00:02:21.320 this woman fake nails again it's if you're gonna complain okay but like is anybody else struggling 0.99
00:02:28.860 financially like so hard right now i just feel like everything's so expensive bills just keep
00:02:35.180 piling up and i just i'm so exhausted with it i don't know my friend um has a he wants to do a
00:02:43.440 ubi like universal basic income right and um the interesting thing is i told him i'm like look
00:02:48.920 that could be like that would not be a bad idea if only men could get it like if only men could
00:02:54.840 get a ubi because men would spend the money on things that are important where women would spend
00:02:59.580 it on unimportant things she looks poor this is the only one i think i've been poor my entire
00:03:04.860 life 23 going on 24 and i'm broke every single week i get paid weekly at the end of the week i
00:03:10.320 got like 50 bucks to my name all i'm doing is paying my bills and then paying off my debt i 0.57
00:03:16.880 was an idiot in college don't even use my degree but i have a specialized job i'm making decent 0.88
00:03:23.060 money and i have nothing left over at the end of each week i work 50 hours a week i'm just tired 0.99
00:03:32.060 of being poor well you should get used to it because so if you know any side hustles second
00:03:40.560 jobs you could be an editor on my channel google doug at the audacity network.com we do clippers
00:03:45.980 channels so that would be great all right let's see who's next after i pay my bills
00:03:52.540 there's nothing left there's nothing left with fake nails makeup again these are luxury items 0.99
00:03:59.180 and i i think women like accessories fake nails all that stuff is a luxury not a necessity even
00:04:06.060 before i get paid i mean i get it it's tough being ugly you know i have to be chopped every single
00:04:10.220 day in my life and you know i wish i wasn't chopped but um you know it just it's part of life
00:04:17.100 just being a normal chopped woman like i'm already like okay i'm about to get paid but like what does
00:04:24.060 that matter because it's gone even before like as soon as it hits my account it's already gone
00:04:29.500 because i have to pay everything and then i'm still short no savings no cushion no room to
00:04:35.980 breathe and that scared me like it wasn't until i think my daughter started college that it all just
00:04:42.300 was like wait a minute like what is happening here you know what i mean like i can't keep
00:04:47.740 living like this because what if like we have an emergency and something happens we have no savings
00:04:57.180 i have no savings so like what happens you know that's when i knew like i just can't keep living
00:05:03.260 like this like i knew i needed something different and like just i'm going to give myself a heart
00:05:10.780 attack just by thinking of all the bills my daughter's tuition just everything right so i
00:05:17.080 just knew i needed something different does anyone else feel like they're absolutely no the music
00:05:24.480 again you look like you have a little lip filler drowning financially that looks like an overfilled
00:05:30.240 lip again i i don't mind if you guys like one of the ladies complaints about being poor she looked
00:05:36.240 poor but you don't look poor man like then that's gaslighting the general public you know i expect
00:05:45.680 you know it's funny um i i used to do vlogs with my family before with the industry i'm in i can't
00:05:51.280 really do it anymore it's why i sort of separate my personal and public life now but i used i used
00:05:56.800 to vlog everything it was so bad and uh one of my favorite comments on my channel is you guys are
00:06:02.160 rich but you look poor guys i was like that's so my family we just look broke um uh but you
00:06:11.200 look rich ma'am um and you've i know you have to spend to look rich as a single 29 year old woman
00:06:18.640 i just i have three jobs and i'm still struggling despite having three jobs jordan skerha finds
00:06:30.100 herself immersed in a financial crisis that is pushing her to the limit both physically and
00:06:35.040 mentally i feel like i'm drowning and i don't know i don't know what to do she has used her
00:06:42.280 credit card excessively trying to maintain a good standard of living but now debts are
00:06:49.140 suffocating her and she doesn't know what to do with her life anymore and i'm just getting myself
00:06:54.260 farther and farther into credit card debt because i don't have enough after the first of the month 0.99
00:06:59.860 yeah she refuses to live in a shitty area with shitty amenities and look poor so to avoid using 0.99
00:07:09.440 it just isn't working take that elsa sorry who's next dude if you're going through a really tough 0.88
00:07:22.600 financial time i'm just gonna i'm gonna give you a glimpse of what it looks like on the other side
00:07:27.860 just in case this is a life preserver of hope for you there are this can make me cry there were so
00:07:35.180 many things that were so hard when finances were not just tight but just absent and so many basic
00:07:45.640 things like I didn't buy in my life and and now looking back it it was the hardest period of time
00:07:53.160 in my life and if somebody would have told me you're gonna be grateful I would have been like 0.98
00:07:57.340 you're an insensitive fuck but now being on the other side of it I'm not gonna lie I am so grateful 0.98
00:08:04.320 what happened because I'm gonna really try not to get emotional like little things in my life 0.99
00:08:11.280 bring me so much peace gratitude and joy I'm gonna show you one of those things yeah I will say when
00:08:17.200 people get to a certain income level like nothing satisfies them I don't know I don't I've lived a
00:08:23.880 really frivolous life before um when I was at the peak of my career and I just didn't like what do
00:08:30.200 you do different day to day um i'd say the biggest difference is maybe i can afford a nicer gym but
00:08:35.840 like i can work out at any gym and i really am fine hold on how many flip this my sock drawer
00:08:44.320 is my pride and joy the fact that i have a full sock drawer i know this is so odd
00:08:50.900 is a sign of abundance it looks poor like i you at least i think she's putting her money where
00:08:56.840 mouthed to me because i never wanted to buy socks it was just like it felt like it was such a low
00:09:01.160 cost purchase and i was like i have enough socks i don't need to buy more socks now i don't even 0.97
00:09:06.920 think about it i know it's so dumb it's so dumb i literally do not even think about it and when i 0.92
00:09:11.640 run out of socks i just buy more and i have a whole drawer filled with socks more than i could 1.00
00:09:17.320 ever need and who would ever feel grateful for socks you broke ass like past broke ass jessica 0.99
00:09:27.480 absolutely feels grateful for socks i used to feel so much shame shopping at the thrift store 0.99
00:09:32.840 because i like had to now dude i buy everything i can second hand it is the i feel so much gratitude
00:09:41.400 for it because i'm like dude oh my god like this is so cool that i can buy things that i want
00:09:47.400 used and and the the thing is it's like is is because you had that starting point
00:09:54.600 that you feel grateful for what you have all of us know those rich people who were given
00:09:59.080 everything growing up they had all the nice things and their life i'll tell you what as
00:10:03.800 someone who grew up with money but my dad was very cheap so i don't know it wasn't really like
00:10:12.280 we always had a big house but i don't know there were still things we didn't do like we never flew
00:10:16.920 or we never i don't know who i grew up wealthier than she did poor women especially with no dads 1.00
00:10:25.080 hate that you grew up with like a dad that loved you and helps you like i i've never seen women 0.64
00:10:30.920 more jealous of anything i'm not saying that she is but just in parts decreases slightly in quality 0.99
00:10:36.200 and they're like complaining and bitching and you're just like dude you have no idea how good
00:10:39.720 you have it i promise you you have the advantage that's how men feel with women complaining about 0.53
00:10:44.620 dating they're like you have no idea most men have never gotten female attention in their lives
00:10:49.380 so and it doesn't feel like that right now but like dude on the other side as somebody who's
00:10:57.700 made it through i fucking promise you you were gonna look back all right guys um thank you so
00:11:03.980 much for watching. I really appreciate you. I love you guys. Like the video on your way out,
00:11:09.900 subscribe to the channel, and I'll see you next time.