Pearl - November 10, 2026


Women REGRET Their Plastic Surgery…

Woman Keeps LOSING Friends… Then Admits She NEVER Forgives Anyone @JustPearlyThings Married Man CLASHES With Pearl Over Traditional Marriage

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Length

14 minutes

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200.73

Word count

2,998

Sentence count

88

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Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

18

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Hate speech

20

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00:00:00 things women regret and women regret literally everything like it doesn't matter what we do 0.95
00:00:04 we will regret it so she's saying I regret changing my face this woman here this used
00:00:09 to be my face and this is my face now I used to have this mole on my nose and I had it removed
00:00:16 in 2021 and I want to talk about why I got it again now a lot of people will say that the woman
00:00:24 here's the one thing they don't take into account they always put a younger like a picture of a
00:00:29 woman at 20 who got plastic surgery, uh, like at 30 or 35 and say, Oh, she looked better before.
00:00:35 Yeah, of course she looks better at 20. Of course she could have a, she could be 20 pounds heavier 1.00
00:00:41 and still look better. Cause 20 year olds just have that youthful glow. They just look very 1.00
00:00:45 beautiful, you know? So anyways, um, the issue, I'll tell you the issue with that. When women get
00:00:51 older, it's either you look old or you look a little weird. So some I'm not anti-plastic surgery. 1.00
00:00:55 some of it is okay some of it's bad you know um but this girl's fatter here too 0.98
00:01:02 um the mole probably would have looked ugly like just objectively and how i feel about it
00:01:08 this mole developed on my nose sometime during my childhood i don't remember the exact timeline i
00:01:13 have to go back and look at photos but by the time i was in high school i was getting called
00:01:18 like into the principal's office and like across the lunch cafeteria by people that worked at the
00:01:24 school basically thinking I was wearing a nose ring and violating dress code. And it was like
00:01:29 a whole thing. And it was pretty embarrassing for me at the time. I don't really remember my peers
00:01:35 openly making fun of me about it. Maybe they did behind my back. I was honestly don't know,
00:01:41 but it never really bothered me except for that situation. Then in 2021, no, I'm sorry. In 2020,
00:01:51 I started creating content online for my business and on my on a different account. And when they
00:01:58 say for my business, they're usually not even making money off it. Women, look, women are not 1.00
00:02:03 serious people. I work in media. I work in casting. Women don't show up on time. They want to be 1.00
00:02:08 overpaid. They're entitled. They're bitchy. Women do not have serious businesses. I woke up to a
00:02:15 video that had like 85 comments overnight and I'm like, oh my God, what's going on? So I look at it.
00:02:21 it's literally people arguing back and forth overnight this happened about my mole and how
00:02:27 ugly it is and how somebody was at one one person was actually defending me but it was just like a
00:02:33 really odd feeling like here I am trying to promote my business and I'm getting all these
00:02:38 comments about literally something on my nose that I have zero control over and but you do see
00:02:45 instead of being grateful to the men for giving you some control right now you can actually pick
00:02:50 to remove it. She's going to make herself the victim. You're not the victim. You got to get 1.00
00:02:54 rid of this mindset. Oh no, they made fun of my nose. Well, now you can, now you have surgery to
00:03:00 change it. So you should be thankful. I deleted it. And then here and there, I had gotten comments
00:03:05 about it as I put myself out there online. Occasionally I had one lady that kept commenting 0.82
00:03:11 on my videos, accusing me of it being fake. And then I was like moving it around, which I don't
00:03:17 even know. It wasn't fake. I have many, many pictures to back that theory up. It was definitely
00:03:22 not fake, but that was a weird one. And ultimately like it was fine, but I had that in my head at
00:03:28 that point. Then 2021 comes early in the year. I had a medical emergency, had to go to the hospital,
00:03:35 met my deductible on my insurance. So that year I'm like, what can I go do to like get myself
00:03:42 checked out for the year? So I thought I'm going to go with the dermatologist because I had really
00:03:45 not been as ever and i thought i had other moles and i was like i'm gonna just go have them do like
00:03:50 a general check make sure everything looks okay i had one on my back that was kind of bothering me
00:03:55 i had one in my armpit that kind of bothered me because it was like in a weird spot when i would
00:04:00 shave so i had it in kind of the back of my mind that maybe we would remove like a couple of them
00:04:05 we would talk about what that would look like because i didn't know so i go into the dermatologist
00:04:11 and I just told I told him what was going on and I told him that you know I wasn't really sure about
00:04:18 removing the one on my face he confirmed that he didn't think there was anything wrong with it it
00:04:22 was not anything to worry about but then I kind of expressed but he said he could remove it and it
00:04:29 would be quick and easy and I said well I wasn't really prepared to make that decision today I just
00:04:34 wanted some information because I wanted to know if there was any concerns or if she's gonna find
00:04:40 a way to make yourself a victim in this oh no they asked me to remove this thing that i hated 1.00
00:04:45 oh my god women why it's just insufferable we're just such insufferable if what the scarring might
00:04:51 look like i just wanted to know so i could make an informed decision he said to me he looked at 0.97
00:04:58 me and he laughed and he said if i can get that thing off your face why would you not want it off
00:05:04 i was right now she's gonna make it into trauma immediately just kind of stunned because nobody
00:05:14 nobody ever been honest with her he had ever addressed me in a straightforward way like that
00:05:19 making me feel like nobody can make you feel anything it was a flaw and it was something that
00:05:25 was just an just ugly like no argument it's it's ugly why would why would you want that
00:05:32 that's true that's honest so i agreed i was stunned i was like okay i guess let's take it
00:05:40 off like god you're making me feel so bad about it so he took it off it was a simple procedure
00:05:45 i walked out and my face was sore and by the time i got to the car that day
00:05:50 i remember thinking i already regret doing this the way it happened like i wish i would have had
00:05:57 more time to think about it i regretted it almost instantly who loves cosmetic procedures like 0.96
00:06:04 i would fucking have been fucking i didn't malfunction i was gonna get them but my sisters 0.98
00:06:10 needles all up in my face all the time mad surgery if i could afford it but not all of them 0.98
00:06:18 work for everybody which sounds really obvious what is it because i can promise you that there
00:06:23 a lot of people like because here's the thing some people are fat and you know some surgeons
00:06:28 aren't good i mean it's just and so and then there's upkeep you know the yeah me who just 0.97
00:06:36 picked shit because they saw it on instagram yes i am that guy something that i see that a lot of
00:06:40 people have gotten and they love it but i got it and it was kind of a disaster lip flip botox so 0.98
00:06:47 the woman who told me that i should get it was like oh it's awesome it'll just kind of give you
00:06:53 like a butterfly lip it'll look like really cute or whatever yeah no it basically just made my
00:07:00 first of all it didn't flip shit okay okay all it did was make it so that when i was trying to brush
00:07:06 my teeth all the water would just keep falling out because this part of my face was numb so i 0.54
00:07:13 couldn't use my muscles to like hold the water in my mouth it was so bizarre like just like trying
00:07:19 to rinse my mouth with this i am always so i am willing to put up with some shitty side effects
00:07:24 in order to try to make that happen but this was crazy like literally and she said would only last
00:07:30 like a couple days wrong it went on for like two weeks and for what for what it did not give me a
00:07:37 butterfly lip it just made me look like i had bell's palsy yeah again yeah me right now regretting
00:07:43 my rhinoplasty although sometimes i'm not gonna lie rhinoplasties i think are great
00:07:50 your poor kids are still gonna get that chopped nose but yeah i i like it you're lying well you
00:07:57 know what you know what that's the thing like this is terrible what come on kylie jenner you know
00:08:03 like if i'm gonna be doing this influencer stuff i might as well like is this what oh my god those 0.94
00:08:07 are such big boobs that's huge you want to promote i mean you know what pop off do whatever you i
00:08:12 i mean you already did it yeah i already did it i already did it there's no i can't reverse this 0.97
00:08:17 i don't love the ups and downs that we don't even mind when we get my age it's like exciting to us
00:08:22 we like love the down i don't think maybe i need some maybe too hey it's 2025 if you want some
00:08:27 boobies you can have some wait can i touch it oh my god oh i kind of do okay good i give you
00:08:35 permission they feel fake very fake you look like an instagram filter like in real life but see
00:08:40 filters are to enhance and make beautiful so that's a compliment no okay are you able to like
00:08:46 walk up the stairs like just normally and i haven't tried that you should i should i feel
00:08:50 like you're gonna have some extreme back she looks terrible look at the guy the guy's like oh no
00:08:54 again there's winners and losers in plastic surgery see this girl i don't think you would
00:08:58 know that she got plastic surgery i once got plastic surgery and i totally regret it and this
00:09:05 and backstory this all started in my freshman year when i was in college growing up in shanghai
00:09:10 saying my teenage years there i always thought i was not good looking enough and i still remember
00:09:15 when i was just a couple years old my own grandma actually called me ugly she said i'm the ugliest
00:09:21 cousin out of all three female cousins the beauty standards in china it's just like pretty harsh
00:09:26 like you have to be a size double zero you have to wear x yeah so in china it's kind of like what
00:09:32 the u.s is going to be basically in china um they um basically everyone lives in the cities 0.55
00:09:39 everything's really crowded which is kind of how the u.s is going and so women can bang alpha males
00:09:44 and then in the country there's a lot of men that just don't make the cut so they're not in it so 0.65
00:09:49 with women high status society is very competitive and so when they talk about beauty standards
00:09:56 they're talking about the beauty standards in high status circles are very competitive because 0.94
00:10:00 they don't no offense to the lower men on the totem pole but we don't see you as people 0.99
00:10:04 unfortunately that's us and clothes and you have to basically look like a barbie doll or you'll be
00:10:10 considered ugly when i got to college high status men that's what she's saying i got in a relationship
00:10:16 and it was all wrinkles and butterflies i felt like i was finally being loved unconditionally
00:10:23 being loved for who i am until i realized that i had difficulty having sex with my boyfriend we
00:10:30 We tried a couple of times and I started thinking that is...
00:10:34 The way they make this, these videos, you'd think these women were going through so much
00:10:39 and it's like, I had trouble having sex with my boyfriend.
00:10:42 That's your trauma? 0.98
00:10:43 Because I'm not pretty enough.
00:10:45 Is that why he couldn't get up when he sees me?
00:10:48 And every single time I try, it's not even about the sex anymore.
00:10:52 It's more about, can I make him want me again?
00:10:55 Can I make him feel attracted to me again?
00:10:58 And this summer of my freshman year, I decided to go get plastic surgery.
00:11:03 I had always had some insecurities around my nose, and I always felt like my side profile doesn't look good enough.
00:11:09 And so I added this WeChat person. WeChat is kind of like Messenger here.
00:11:13 And so initially, I was just, you know, looking at the pictures, scrolling to find like beauty inspiration.
00:11:17 And then I saw this WeChat person is representing a hospital.
00:11:22 I saw the before and after pictures, and the changes were just so drastic.
00:11:25 And so that made me feel like, wow, this is almost like a kind of like get rich quick, but like get pretty quick procedure.
00:11:30 And so, yeah, I just remember following that account for a while.
00:11:34 And she still found a way to blame a man.
00:11:36 So, again, this was her.
00:11:37 This was her not being grateful enough for the beauty she had and wanting more and more and more.
00:11:42 And somehow it's the man's fault.
00:11:44 Man, did he get.
00:11:46 Oh, my God.
00:11:46 And finally decided to bite the bullet when it's summertime and I go back to Shanghai.
00:11:52 so my family did not know and of course I sneaked out that day I just told my
00:11:57 parents hey I'm just seeing a friend it was definitely one of the scariest
00:12:01 things I've ever done in my life and looking back I'm just so glad that I
00:12:05 didn't die because honestly I don't think that hospital is even legit I just
00:12:09 remember going there and it's the hospital's fault it's not hey I was an 0.69
00:12:15 idiot and test my blood they didn't do anything and the same day I checked in 0.93
00:12:20 That was the day I had my procedures. The procedure that I got done is bridal plastic surgery 1.00
00:12:25 They take an implant. It doesn't like hurt that much during a procedure because you're numbed
00:12:30 But afterwards you do feel quite a lot of pain over here
00:12:33 The toughest thing is to breathe because I have to breathe with my mouth and it makes my mouth really really dry
00:12:39 And I'm not a mouth breather, so I'm not used to it. I don't know why I was like so naive
00:12:44 I thought I could just like go home and hide in my room and no one would see me during the recovery period
00:12:48 period which is like 10 to 15 days which is like not sure like okay again what happened to her is 1.00
00:12:54 there a part two i don't know whatever okay bitches man all right this girl got rid of her 1.00
00:13:00 boob job you got your implants removed i did such a weird thing to ask in an interview i probably 1.00
00:13:06 made a stupid post about how did you have them okay no but let's talk about it because i got my 0.98
00:13:10 breast implants done five years ago and i'm booked to have an explant with breast lift next month so 0.98
00:13:16 So a couple of months ago, I noticed that I was having the shooting pain in my neck.
00:13:21 It was getting worse and worse.
00:13:23 What is the shooting pain? 0.96
00:13:24 How do we know it's from the boobs?
00:13:26 I just never understood. 0.99
00:13:27 Why don't you lose weight before blaming the boobies?
00:13:30 Life was going on. 1.00
00:13:30 Because a lot of the things they say, breast implant illness.
00:13:33 I'm like, how do you guys know that's from the implants?
00:13:36 How do you know?
00:13:37 Like, it's fun.
00:13:38 And then eventually it ran down into my shoulder.
00:13:40 And now it has evolved into my entire arm.
00:13:43 My fingers are fat.
00:13:45 Oh, my God.
00:13:46 tingly i have extreme brain fog my eyes are extremely blurry my right boob is burning um
00:13:52 this one was confirmed ruptured so i have a ruptured implant on this side the doctors say
00:13:58 that it's my anxiety and that a lot of scans can't show if an implant is actually ruptured or just
00:14:03 like squeezed with scar tissue so yeah they've been playing me like i'm a dummy for a couple months
00:14:08 and also i feel like i've been sick been playing me it's not the result of my own choice five 0.94
00:14:14 times so then we got a tranny i think things that make me regret having top surgery at 17 years old
00:14:20 number one is that for the past 14 years i haven't been able to feel the relief of taking a bra off
00:14:28 at the end of a long day number two is that i no longer get to hear the sound of clapping when i
00:14:34 run down the stairs and so i can feel quite lonely number three is that i no longer have 0.99
00:14:39 a place to secure my drinks with straws so now every time i put these tiktokers all right guys 0.99
00:14:46 thanks for watching so much i love you yeah i mean women regret everything that's just kind 1.00
00:14:51 of in our dna i guess so make sure you like the video subscribe i love you i'll see you next time