Pearl - Women vs THE WALL

00:00:00.000 she's mad she's got to procreate with the average guy the average guy is pissed because he's stuck

00:00:04.800 he can't even get these 30 year olds to settle down what up guys welcome to my reaction series

00:00:10.240 where we watch women take l's and cope and today we are watching cope with the biological clock um

00:00:16.480 as you guys know 90 of your eggs are gone by 30 um and it's increasingly difficult to have

00:00:22.560 kids as the older you get and it's more likely they're going to be retarded and that's kind of

00:00:26.160 an L as a woman, but instead of just eating the L, women cope and pretend the L isn't an L. It's

00:00:32.160 the same thing fat chicks do. So let's see what she says. Women in your 20s or 30s and you're

00:00:36.700 feeling behind in life and been feeling pressure and the pull of a biological clock. Let me share

00:00:41.420 some facts with you. Your fertility starts to decrease only 1% every year after the age of 35.

00:00:46.960 It does not fall off a cliff like a lot of people would like you to believe, i.e. the fertility

00:00:50.480 industry and the overall status quo in America. A study in 2004 found that 82% of women aged 34

00:00:55.960 to 39 conceived naturally within a year compared to 86 percent of what's the quality of that kid

00:01:00.520 and how many were through IVF you know most women that do IVF do get a kid but now they're saying

00:01:06.380 like all the IVF kids like look they have IVF face when age 27 to 34 so that's hardly a cliff

00:01:13.460 but they exaggerate the term of what a cliff is because they want to profit off of your fear

00:01:17.980 there are plenty of married women in their 40s and later who have perfectly healthy babies they

00:01:22.780 don't focus on those married women having babies because they're trying to get single women to feel

00:01:27.000 insecure about not being in marriages and having kids. Also, studies have shown, including from

00:01:31.140 the CDC, that advanced maternal age in mothers drastically improves the life of both the mother

00:01:35.560 and the child. Yeah, there's so much money into just lying to women. They try to gaslight your

00:01:41.980 own intuition, which is that younger, you know, women produce better kids, higher quality eggs,

00:01:46.440 etc just is what it is eat the l right um but yeah and then the women come in and they're just

00:01:53.240 professional gaslighters child because not only do you have access to more resources but women

00:01:57.800 are more patient more self-actualized more time to think about what type of parent they want to be

00:02:02.200 i don't think old women are more self-actualized they have more herpes more debt and more problems

00:02:07.960 and the children fare much better academically socially and score higher just in overall

00:02:12.920 happiness additionally something that they don't tell you that advanced maternal age is also linked

00:02:17.080 to the parent living a longer life because they take care of themselves better in order to be

00:02:21.580 there for their children and yes fertility accelerates more than one percent a year after

00:02:25.120 you hit 40 but the data still is looking i think in my lifetime i'm gonna see 60 year old women

00:02:30.340 having kids somehow some way i was literally doomed whenever all over social media i see

00:02:35.720 i can never imagine having you right now imagine having a kid right now i can never take care of a

00:02:40.000 i can't even take care of myself the whole time you're 30. you're 30. i'm not saying everyone

00:02:46.400 needs to okay she's realistic i'm not saying that that's what i'm saying i'm just saying

00:02:52.240 you're 30. what do you mean you can't imagine that yeah it's like you've had so much time to develop

00:02:58.720 life skills but you know a lot of it's the mothers the mothers don't teach daughters anything about

00:03:05.040 men here we go sometimes i do these instagram q a's and a question that keeps coming up a lot

00:03:09.840 is the question of whether i want to have kids or not and i always answer and say that i do want to

00:03:14.160 have kids someday but i want to make sure that i am financially stable and that i can give them

00:03:18.160 the framework to grow up in the same way that i did what's happened now is that a man has answered

00:03:23.120 and said you can't wait too long to have kids otherwise the egg basket will be empty what up

00:03:29.440 guys my name is pearl davis i have a youtube show and i'm a cultural commentator if your wife

00:03:34.720 girlfriend or situationship is acting up, you can hire me to make a personalized video to break the

00:03:40.560 news. I can tell her to lose weight, stop being a bitch, stop spending too much money, get back in

00:03:45.540 the kitchen, or stop being a whore. Is your buddy simping for an overweight mid? I will tell him to

00:03:51.460 stop contributing to hoflation today. Find me on shoutout for only $2.99. You can put your wife in

00:03:58.240 her place today and you can get your friends to stop simping. We're not going to talk about the

00:04:03.820 fact how grotesque i mean that's true right um and a lot of times it's guys that say that that

00:04:09.140 like they're kind of mad because they're forced to date these old broads that's kind of where it

00:04:12.640 comes from because it's not like a normal thing to like say that in normal conversation so it's

00:04:18.020 like you know they're mad they're you know it's like she's mad she's got to procreate with the

00:04:22.440 average guy the average guy is pissed because he's stuck he can't even get these 30 year olds

00:04:27.580 to settle down. It's like a shit show. A woman as egg baskets. That's besides the point, but

00:04:35.120 definitely something to note. I think that this is an extremely outdated view because

00:04:39.100 the medicine nowadays will allow women to have kids. I know many, many people that have had kids

00:04:44.200 in their late thirties and early forties. And it was, that is true. Um, I mean, IVF is more

00:04:49.980 successful than the right wants to admit, but it doesn't mean it doesn't come without problems,

00:04:54.440 right absolutely no problem you have to see what is medically realistic for you that's what i said

00:04:59.960 in my answer and i also mentioned the possibility of freezing your eggs that same person then

00:05:05.080 replied with another question saying did you freeze your eggs how expensive is that now i

00:05:10.840 obviously do not want to talk about that personal part of my life but i do think that this is a great

00:05:15.560 possibility to start talking about this because freezing your eggs let me just start at the

00:05:21.400 beginning okay so what we're telling women in our society is that you have to have kids you also have

00:05:27.800 to take care of your family but you also need an incredible career trajectory and then if you do

00:05:33.720 use nannies you will basically be shunned and be judged by society so what we're expecting i don't

00:05:38.680 recommend nannies i grew up with nannies um all right the side effect egg freezing is generally

00:05:44.840 safe but includes temporary bloating moodiness nausea discomfort caused by hormone injections

00:05:51.080 ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome procedure complications i mean they're saying there's

00:05:56.600 nothing but you never really know from women at this day and age is build a family take care of

00:06:01.720 your family also take care of your job it'll just do anything to not be with average men okay who's

00:06:07.400 next um between the ages of 20 and 35 and you don't know if you want kids or not much like i

00:06:12.360 had absolutely no idea when i was between the ages of 20 and 35 and i felt my body saying

00:06:16.920 should we have a kid it seems like the right time it seems like maybe you should have a kid and my

00:06:19.880 my brain saying, if the only reason that I want to have a kid is because I'm afraid I'm missing

00:06:23.560 a life milestone, or I think I might need someone to take care of me when I'm old. That's not a good

00:06:28.160 enough reason to mother or parent another person. I feel you. I hear you. Here's an exercise that

00:06:34.060 my therapist gave me that really, really helped me do it. So I'll tell you the two things she

00:06:39.240 told me to do. And then the third most important ingredient to helping yourself make a decision and

00:06:44.480 feel good about it because the right decision is the one you decide, right? If you have kids,

00:06:48.800 that is the right decision if it's if you don't then that's the right decision so number one show

00:06:53.260 me for at least one week to i'm actually not pro kids for all women in fact i think most women

00:06:58.620 shouldn't have kids because they just destroy the kids i think there's a bible verse that was like

00:07:03.620 blessed are the kids that weren't born and i'm like yeah because these women just torture them

00:07:07.660 for eternity and act as if i'd made the decision to have a child like 100 i'm there here's what

00:07:12.580 we're doing for child care here's what we're doing um for our apartment here's how we moved

00:07:17.840 Here's how we've modified our lives.

00:07:19.300 Here's the joy and excitement we're experiencing.

00:07:21.600 Think about all the things you're most excited about with parenting.

00:07:24.660 And then the next week, write about you've chosen not to do it.

00:07:27.920 And here are the things you're going to do with your time and money as well.

00:07:30.680 So what I figured out from that was when I was writing about having a child, I was actually terrified.

00:07:37.340 Like I started, my chest started getting tired.

00:07:39.380 They're afraid to fail.

00:07:42.380 It's like such an owl being a single mother that women are really afraid to fail, you know.

00:07:47.840 how much was going to change which like intellectually you know that like of course

00:07:51.440 and I the week that I was doing it after that I literally felt the overwhelming emotion was

00:07:57.780 relief to be honest I felt like my body biologically was saying one thing yeah some

00:08:02.060 women are just too selfish to have children and and like I'm I'm not one you know I say want what

00:08:08.720 you want if you don't want kids I mean even if you have kids there's no guarantee they're not

00:08:14.960 gonna be libtards you know what i mean all right hold on he ran into me the other day and he tells

00:08:21.860 me that he's dating this woman and she uses the first date as if it's a job interview she's 34

00:08:27.680 years old and all she's talking about on the first date is how she wants to get married right away

00:08:32.500 she wants kids right away he felt well the issue is um once women get down to the wire it's like

00:08:39.400 we'll do we'll be like anybody will do it doesn't matter the man it's like anybody that's in front

00:08:44.820 so it doesn't really you know make the guy feel special it just makes the guy feel like you know

00:08:50.660 you're looking for a sperm donor so so awkward and it made him feel uncomfortable and it made

00:08:58.400 him feel a lot of pressure rightfully so once women hit their 30s they date differently they

00:09:05.160 don't date and try to get to know the person they date and they rush the person they focus more on

00:09:10.040 their priorities in terms of their biological clock etc but you have to get to know the person

00:09:16.760 you try to see if you connect this makes me actually understand why men want to date younger

00:09:22.140 because if women are right from the get-go on first dates saying hey listen we need to have

00:09:27.940 babies right away and we need to get married right away to a literal stranger that like that would

00:09:34.140 make me think that person's crazy but our biological clock there are guys like this too

00:09:40.400 because again men want kids more than women so yeah and it it just signals i don't have any choice

00:09:47.040 it's not men and then you're like thinking what's wrong with you you know responsibility that's our

00:09:53.580 own responsibility and that's why a lot more women need to realize that they need to date with more

00:09:58.580 intention in their 20s because we it's a real thing we have a biological clock and then when

00:10:03.520 you get to your 30s you don't want to be out there desperately dating trying to rush men into

00:10:08.620 marrying you and having kids because that's just not fair for men at the end of the day right and

00:10:13.320 also you need to really know someone before you commit to them and get married and have kids so

00:10:18.180 this isn't the first time that i've heard this for men this happens to men quite often and i think

00:10:22.720 women need to just chill out just because it's your priority now because your time is running up

00:10:27.640 it's unfair to bring that baggage onto a guy that you don't even know right and it's a little bit

00:10:32.360 different if it's a conversation that comes up. But what I find from these women is that they're

00:10:37.000 bringing it up and they're kind of trying to test the waters and kind of rush the guy. That woman

00:10:42.200 even told him, well, you know what, people are getting married after knowing each other for only

00:10:46.500 a month. Yeah, but that's better women than you or simpier men than you've found, you know. It's

00:10:53.020 just, you know, people that get married quick usually don't have a lot of choice in general.

00:10:57.420 And I was like, what? People are getting married after knowing each other for a month? That's more

00:11:02.140 of an exception that's not the rule dating with intention doesn't mean bringing up marriage and

00:11:06.900 kids on the first date i think that that's that would scare any guy off and rightfully so because

00:11:11.840 that is just crazy behavior get to know the guy see if it flows you both should mutually be on

00:11:19.780 the same page first date yeah you should be more casual trying to get to know the person i mean the

00:11:26.100 first date i in my opinion first three dates figure out if you want to bang or not there's

00:11:31.560 no relationship otherwise so do we want to have sex yes no yeah you know and then you can kind of

00:11:37.820 go from there it's a red flag if a woman brings those things up on a first date okay all right

00:11:44.640 women can cope with their biological reality but you know the reality will hit us sooner or later

00:11:50.140 so let me know what you think in the comments um let me know what percent of kids born today do

00:11:54.740 you think are via IVF because I think it's higher than we think make sure you like the video

00:11:58.560 subscribe to the channel, and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - March 19, 2026

Women vs THE WALL

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