Pearl - Women Who Can't Stop COPING Over Divorce

00:00:00.000 if you really pay attention to these women a lot of times it's just a lack of gratitude and wanting

00:00:05.600 more all right what's up guys welcome to my reaction series uh what's up guys welcome to

00:00:11.840 my reaction series so today we're reacting to women um coping in real time and i don't know

00:00:17.360 women we just have this funny thing where um whenever we take an l we just have to make it

00:00:22.640 everybody's problem and it's like we number one we tell everybody and not only do we tell everybody

00:00:31.200 but we also try to cope and make everybody say that it's not an l and that we were right

00:00:38.000 and the cope um is usually pretty funny so here we're gonna watch the cope 0.88

00:00:47.360 and this one's for the grillies who built their whole entire life around another person listen

00:00:51.200 into this okay probably as vulnerable as i get online but i've always been in relationship or

00:00:56.200 some type of situationship where there's another person there for me since i was like 16 my ex

00:01:01.060 cheated on me immediately i got with my husband like to me there was nothing scarier than being

00:01:06.040 alone so my entire self-worth came from another partner validating me like i felt like i had to

00:01:11.860 be loved by someone at all times there was only two things i knew at the time like i wanted to

00:01:16.060 be loved by someone but i also wanted to live in china because it wasn't my choice to come to america

00:01:19.780 even though i'm thankful it wasn't my choice mom got remarried when i was 10 and i just got

00:01:24.180 dropped over here like i literally picked a college major that i do not care about which

00:01:27.940 was international business and all i wanted was like okay if i do international business it

00:01:32.500 probably means i can move to china and i also filed to be an exchange student in china for my

00:01:37.300 second year of college but then i met my husband moved in together pretty much right away okay

00:01:42.020 girls this is a big mistake we literally merged into each other like our hobbies our lives right

00:01:47.460 Right around this time, COVID also hit, so now we're really stuck with each other.

00:01:50.880 At this point, I started planning everything around us, my schedule, my work, and the craziest

00:01:55.940 thing is my purpose.

00:01:57.560 That's the thing. 1.00

00:01:58.500 Women will spend their youth with a man, right? 0.98

00:02:00.980 And then the issue is we tend to resent the man, so we put a lot of time into him, and 0.98

00:02:07.140 then we resent not spending that time on ourselves and spending it on him because men tend to

00:02:13.360 want you to work around their schedule.

00:02:14.980 they don't really like to change their schedule for you and we're not really attracted to them 1.00

00:02:19.680 if they do that so um then the women later are like oh i wish i did all these things it's probably 1.00

00:02:25.680 things they couldn't have even done anyway because most women are lazy but they'll convince themselves 0.93

00:02:30.000 they could have did those things and then it's like a rabbit hole my purpose is to be with my 1.00

00:02:34.200 husband and honestly for a while it worked out just oh fuck until like the moment it didn't 0.97

00:02:39.460 anymore like my brain was like developing literally the beginning of this year we were planning for a 0.98

00:02:43.880 child because i felt like i don't know what my purpose is anymore do i become a suburban mom 1.00

00:02:49.220 get ready with me okay well she'll cope all right now we have a fat woman with tattoos and pink hair

00:02:56.640 all right so when i left my ex-husband it wasn't because i hated him you know things just weren't

00:03:05.740 okay so for no reason she got bored there anymore and i'm too much of a happy person to be miserable

00:03:13.200 in a relationship so i left for the both of us to be happy made her a lot happier but she didn't

00:03:20.840 realize it because he made her richer better you know healthier and just an all-out better

00:03:25.940 life altogether but she will never appreciate him i left for him to have the ability to find

00:03:32.300 someone who could give him the love and attention that i just couldn't give him right and so i

00:03:37.540 explain that to him and he understood i suppose at the time and so i felt comfortable leaving

00:03:46.020 on good terms you know we still co-parented really well together um i moved in with a friend

00:03:52.820 and things were fine until they weren't because flipping the script on me randomly

00:04:00.660 especially after he started seeing other women which is fine that's what i wanted

00:04:06.340 but that's when he changed and then i became the enemy and i was shut out there's a lot more to it

00:04:15.220 i'll explain in more videos yeah there wasn't more to it and she's just coping

00:04:23.140 getting fat number three and why it didn't work out basically it comes down to we weren't 0.84

00:04:28.500 fucking he did not want to be intimate with me everything you know she looks thin so i'm gonna 0.98

00:04:33.700 to say she was such a she was mean to him all the time and then he didn't want to have sex with her 1.00

00:04:38.060 about me was an issue because i very quickly got depressed he we got married a month later he was

00:04:46.980 off into germany for four months between the honeymoon and when he left for germany we

00:04:53.540 twice sorry mom for the language but yes we only were intimate twice and come to find out while he

00:04:59.640 there he was on kick and there was all this other things like i started gaining weight because of

00:05:05.080 oh okay so she did get fat i didn't she doesn't look i can't see how big she is we'll look after

00:05:10.200 she's done how miserable i was and i knew the intimacy was bad but the financial stability

00:05:18.840 that he was gonna be able to provide outweighed you know i would i thought i could make myself

00:05:24.840 continue with the relationship and very quickly as time went on it was always like oh i don't

00:05:32.440 like your hair naturally curly or i would try to initiate oh i already took care of it myself so

00:05:38.600 lack of intimacy and he was just very financially controlling and so i was going to try to force

00:05:46.920 myself to work through it because i said we just had a big wedding my parents spent this money

00:05:52.120 i made a huge mistake and now i'm just going to be completely complete failure and it was

00:05:58.920 what do you guys if you were in a sexless marriage on your part why was it sexless

00:06:04.040 tell me in the comments talking to my dad and him being like it's okay you can get divorced you if

00:06:12.760 you're seriously unhappy get divorced this is what i mean when men um they they assist women

00:06:19.880 and making terrible decisions like the men will help her move and then take care of those so like

00:06:24.920 the women i don't know a lot of people say women regret divorce and i don't think so because there's

00:06:29.880 too many men that still take care of them and so i did and it relieved so much because i wasn't

00:06:35.880 sleeping well for months trying to like figure out that what i'm gonna do and it was my dad saying

00:06:42.680 listen you don't have any kids thank god for that you can start over and i know you're embarrassed

00:06:50.200 but trust me the right guy's not going to care if you've been married three times

00:06:53.480 also oh my gosh this is your third like to mention that my ex would always throw out oh i know that

00:07:01.480 you'll never divorce me because you'd be too embarrassed to tell people that you've been

00:07:05.320 divorced three times so haha jokes on him so we've kind of wrapped that up basically that's what it

00:07:12.200 It is lack of intimacy, overly financially controlling, and just we weren't vibing.

00:07:19.340 We weren't vibing. 1.00

00:07:20.920 How fat is she? 1.00

00:07:21.880 Is she fat? 1.00

00:07:22.720 She's not. 0.93

00:07:24.000 I guess if you guys want to see.

00:07:26.760 Okay, chubby.

00:07:27.900 Not fat. 1.00

00:07:28.600 She's just a little fluffy. 0.69

00:07:30.780 She's not too bad. 1.00

00:07:32.280 Okay, this woman. 1.00

00:07:33.820 Why I left my husband. 1.00

00:07:34.900 She looks unathletic though.

00:07:36.040 Clearly, I am divorcing my husband after being a stay-at-home mom for six years. 0.97

00:07:42.200 And you guys keep asking me for the tea, so I'm going to tell you the freaking tea, okay?

00:07:46.380 Because most people, like, stay-at-home mom, it's a good life, right? 0.70

00:07:52.220 Why would I be leaving my husband after being a stay-at-home mom for six years?

00:07:57.340 I have everything that I ever hoped and dreamed for, right?

00:08:00.700 Not really.

00:08:02.160 And then she's going to talk about how it wasn't enough.

00:08:04.860 If you really pay attention to these women, a lot of times it's just a lack of gratitude

00:08:09.200 and wanting more. 0.99

00:08:10.820 and i would say that's sort of the it's like women's toxic just never being satisfied 1.00

00:08:18.780 because it's easy for someone to become financially controlling and abusive when

00:08:27.300 you are relying on that person to literally live every single day i would rather be broke

00:08:36.100 and by myself than trapped in a house with that and then if you break it down and say well was

00:08:44.100 he hitting you it's it's always emotional abuse which can be damn near anything and truthfully

00:08:50.100 i guess i'm just another statistic because my daughter died four years ago um and if you look

00:08:57.300 at the statistics like those marriages don't last so maybe it's that i don't know um he threatened 0.89

00:09:05.380 to kill me about a year ago and that's when i was like mentally like i fucking checked out of 0.55

00:09:09.840 everything like so that's the tea i mean it's not it's not piping hot or anything but being a stay 0.95

00:09:16.840 at home mom isn't all that is cracked up to be okay now she's gonna cope um i would agree that

00:09:22.020 being a stay-at-home mom has its own problems um and women never anticipate those but all right

00:09:28.580 let's see what this next woman you know has to say what finally made me leave my husband

00:09:33.840 it wasn't a big fight it wasn't realizing of what was sacrificing it was realizing that i was 0.91

00:09:41.200 literally sacrificing my peace honestly i was still a mom i yeah what's gonna happen is women

00:09:48.360 run um and they say they're sacrificing their peace but the chaos is in us unfortunately

00:09:53.020 we have a hell on earth in us men will never understand the hell on earth that is in our brain 1.00

00:09:59.220 you know just imagine like you guys are so lucky because you're like these women torture me and

00:10:04.000 that's terrible but just imagine like being tortured by yourself yeah i was constantly on

00:10:08.500 the edge and i honestly stayed longer than i should have folks were paid there was food on

00:10:14.100 the table we had a home we had a not a home we had a ranch like we were living life

00:10:19.220 our life together we've worked together for a long time since we were in high school

00:10:23.260 and for a long time i was convinced that that was enough like literally thinking about it now i

00:10:28.840 thought that was enough but what people don't talk about is how lonely it was being with someone

00:10:34.880 who constantly was looking for attention and lusting over other women the cheating and the

00:10:40.500 lies the hiding things they all have a business trip but you were with somebody else yeah the

00:10:47.020 cheating women get tired of it eventually women are very spiteful have you guys i don't know my 0.96

00:10:53.200 experience eventually the women get tired of getting cheated on at some point anyways um

00:10:58.580 guys let me know what you think of the comments like the video and subscribe to the channel

00:11:02.180 um i love you guys thanks for watching and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 25, 2026

Women Who Can't Stop COPING Over Divorce

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