Pearl - Women Who Embarrass Their Husbands Online

00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. As more and more Gen Z women and millennial women

00:00:05.760 get TikTok, there's more and more women that are going to publicly embarrass their husbands. Now, 0.98

00:00:11.220 Facebook women have been doing this for a while, but now instead of embarrassing their husbands 1.00

00:00:18.660 in front of their hometown, they embarrass their husbands in front of the whole world. So today 0.90

00:00:23.500 we're going to react to women doing just that. 0.67

00:00:25.960 love my husband but i wish that i never married him i'm sammy and i'm currently deconstructing 0.89

00:00:32.280 from religion why would that be a good thing like even if you feel that way you can't help how you

00:00:37.880 feel right um well you should just pretend you don't women if you feel like that you should

00:00:43.880 gaslight yourself um into not feeling like that we gaslight ourselves into thinking our body counts

00:00:48.840 too we can gaslight ourselves into liking our husbands let's go ladies and i'm questioning

00:00:53.320 every single thing about my life and the fact that i got married at 18 years old and have eight

00:00:59.000 children just because you know she doesn't have a high body count when you meet her doesn't mean

00:01:03.400 she'll always have a low body count that i'm taking care of is not a choice that i would make

00:01:09.000 now that i understand that god is translation um i was hotter than i bought so maybe back in the day 1.00

00:01:16.360 she was like a seven or an eight when she was 18 and i could either gotten the dick or maybe 1.00

00:01:22.120 commitment of higher status and value men than my husband. And now I look at my husband and I'm

00:01:27.640 kind of like, eh, why did I do that? I didn't know before. But now because of social media,

00:01:34.220 now I know and I'm seeing all these people living better lives and watching kids is kind of boring

00:01:40.120 and I wish I didn't do it. That's what she's saying. Not real and eternal happiness is not

00:01:45.080 on the table. How am I supposed to move forward and how am I supposed to feel peace with these

00:01:50.640 choices that i feel i would not have made if i was properly informed about life eat the l how do

00:01:57.200 you reconcile that please let me know if you have a little sore okay well maybe she married a play

00:02:02.920 yeah okay um your spouse does something that pisses you off it actually has more to like it

00:02:09.560 says more about you than it does them it means you're kind of you get irritated easily says you

00:02:15.820 off and you know they didn't do it on purpose yesterday my husband asked me for my purse

00:02:19.740 to move my car out of the driveway because he needed to do something with his construction,

00:02:24.640 whatever. That's fine. Takes the purse, apparently puts it back in the garage,

00:02:30.700 like amongst all of his construction crap. I have been walking around my house in circles

00:02:36.960 for probably 15, 20 minutes. I finally call him to say, where the hell did you put my purse?

00:02:43.480 and I call him once it goes to voicemail I call him again and he answers it to like kind of show

00:02:50.700 me like yeah I'm in a meeting with a client okay that's fine I understand you're working hard that's

00:02:56.120 great but I need my wallet and my damn car keys so that I can go about my day so I text him and 0.87

00:03:03.780 I'm like where the hell did you put me she's in the wrong she's interrupting him at work and she's

00:03:09.100 annoyed purse he can't answer he's in a client meeting so finally i decide you know what let

00:03:14.000 me just go look i looked outside in the yard because maybe he just left it there i looked

00:03:17.980 in my car i bet he misplaced it and blamed him i have a touchless key so maybe he left it in the

00:03:23.740 car and finally i go out in the garage and that is where it is and i'm like irrationally mad at him

00:03:31.200 even though i know it wasn't on purpose and even though i know he wasn't trying to piss me off so

00:03:36.540 i'm just i'm gonna adjust my crown of sunglasses and go about my day but i hate it when that

00:03:42.200 happens all right let's see what's next so again this is just something like imagine if a guy came

00:03:48.220 on and started embarrassing you and saying you know my wife she did x y and z like she

00:03:55.460 tried to gluck gluck last night and it was just trash and you know i got irrationally mad or um

00:04:02.240 you know she didn't pick up her makeup after herself she left she keep the towels she uses

00:04:08.940 like 10 towels i've heard that is annoying to men but they just eat it and move on you know 0.62

00:04:16.200 they don't embarrass us you probably think your husband is the dumbest person in the world 0.86

00:04:22.000 he's not and i'm gonna tell you how i know because mine's the biggest idiot in the world 0.89

00:04:26.820 bruh what he just called me he was getting gas on his phone left it pumping when he went in to pay 0.94

00:04:34.620 gets in the car to drive away takes the whole damn pump and the pipe with him 0.64

00:04:39.820 gets out of the car people are laughing taking pictures making tiktoks probably 0.50

00:04:46.460 goes in to tell him they said oh he said to me he said they they said oh don't worry about it

00:04:52.100 it happens all the time i said no it doesn't how many times have you seen it happen zero okay then

00:04:59.420 it doesn't happen and this is like okay everybody does stupid stuff and there are times in life

00:05:04.140 where you just think wow i am an idiot it's happened to me more times than i can count and 0.72

00:05:08.660 i think in life in order to learn things and go through lessons you got to feel and do idiotic

00:05:13.040 stuff um especially if you're not i mean look i could be smarter right i could be a more intelligent 0.86

00:05:18.500 person but i've always been a hard worker so it's not to make this about me as women do um like 0.79

00:05:25.740 everybody has stuff they do that's idiotic for the most part um my father never did other than him but 0.76

00:05:31.420 regardless regardless you don't have to put it in everyone's face and let the whole world know 0.64

00:05:36.500 like he already feels enough embarrassment himself sorry i relate that is the most annoying thing

00:05:41.760 but but regardless it's like okay the guy version of this would be using too many towels not wiping

00:05:47.700 off our makeup leaving our makeup and our like hair stuff everywhere i mean guys put in the 0.60

00:05:52.460 comments what the annoying things women do we do annoying shit too so it's like we don't you know 0.79

00:05:57.640 it says more about you if you're constantly complaining let's see if it's true if you laugh 1.00

00:06:04.120 then you think it's true that my voice is annoying are you kidding that was the first one

00:06:08.980 are you freaking okay off to a great start laugh if it's true if you think that you wish i was a

00:06:17.400 few inches taller yeah it's just a few just a few cool laugh if you think it's true that i don't

00:06:24.680 have a butt i just have a long back do you know what these are tests like a lot of times 1.00

00:06:30.600 women do things to see if you'll do them i would not this is gonna be hell on earth if you always 1.00

00:06:36.280 do these don't you dare why don't you just go right to yours okay left if you think that i 0.96

00:06:42.600 need to lose a couple pounds like you said the other night i never said that you're a liar you

00:06:48.760 are a liar gaslight i mean that's what we do best gaslight pretend we didn't and because what happens

00:06:55.080 is she'll do that when the camera's off when the camera's on she'll just become a different person

00:06:58.840 that's not a terrorist if you think it's true that you don't like my cooking you that's the

00:07:06.200 thing cooking it's almost um yeah men hate our cooking they can always do it better are you

00:07:11.880 kidding me right now i wouldn't call it cooking i would call it burning uh destroying i wouldn't

00:07:18.120 call it cooking i would think it's anything but laugh if you think it's true laugh if you think

00:07:23.000 you settled for me yeah no no the prize is right here look at this this is the prize

00:07:30.360 settled i got the grand prize i already did it grand prize that's a fat joke you made a

00:07:36.440 okay let's see what's next oh my god these guys gotta stop i don't know why they keep allowing

00:07:47.480 this imagine if guys could never do the equivalent

00:07:58.840 so i mean more men are gonna have to sacrifice their privacy and have to become what do they

00:08:03.160 what did gen z call it jesters in order to get relationships it's unfortunate all right um

00:08:09.720 having a husband is embarrassing boyfriend's embarrassing i'm gonna add on to that having 0.63

00:08:12.600 a husband's embarrassing in the brown community because like i'll go to family friends parties 0.98

00:08:16.200 the women do all the cooking all the cleaning dolled up getting ready what do they do men never 0.99

00:08:21.720 do this equivalent with like fixing stuff organizing the house making a plan right they 1.00

00:08:27.800 They just sit all on the sofa.

00:08:29.520 They sit all on the sofa.

00:08:31.020 Take up the entire sofa. 1.00

00:08:32.160 If you want to sit down, a girl, you got to sit on the floor. 1.00

00:08:35.060 You got to sit. 1.00

00:08:35.380 Actually, you don't even sit because you have to serve the food.

00:08:38.100 They'll watch this and be like, you guys have no life.

00:08:40.360 They'll all drink and stuff. 0.99

00:08:41.540 So then the wives can drive them home at night. 1.00

00:08:44.020 That's kind of base. 1.00

00:08:45.380 What?

00:08:46.360 I was trying to get food. 0.93

00:08:47.500 They're all hogging. 1.00

00:08:47.920 Gen Z women are out drinking their male counterparts. 1.00

00:08:50.680 Incredible. 1.00

00:08:51.400 In the food line, they're all just taking shots.

00:08:53.640 They're all just going to get super drunk. 1.00

00:08:55.120 And then the wives are going to drive them home. 0.56

00:08:56.340 and i just was like my husband ever did any of this crap i married a simp that's she's saying 0.54

00:09:01.840 how embarrassing is that to the husband slap him i'm gonna brat i don't know what i'll do i get 0.59

00:09:05.740 really mad i don't even think i would my husband not be in that situation why are you doing that 0.79

00:09:10.360 so embarrassing having a boyfriend i don't know why these husbands are allowing this see what

00:09:14.840 real weaponized incompetence i mean when you have a wife like wives don't make you better it's a 0.98

00:09:20.840 responsibility. And it could make your life more fulfilling, could, but it's like you're going to

00:09:27.820 be responsible for correcting an adult woman's behavior. It's like me and my mom haven't been 0.97

00:09:33.020 home for three days. I haven't been home for longer, but he was left to his own for three

00:09:38.260 whole days and that's it. This is the state of our kitchen and dining room. This is the most

00:09:43.640 tame of it. It's his computer just left open. Again, like imagine, I don't know, like after a

00:09:48.720 period the like sometimes that gets messy like imagine if they put that everywhere it's just 0.98

00:09:53.760 this is his mess specifically all there then we get over and they get the internet to nag their 0.85

00:09:59.200 husbands of course you can't take out the recycling this has been there for days this is just something 0.99

00:10:04.600 that needs recycled men would take a messier house without a nagging woman in it they don't care all 0.97

00:10:09.960 is beer and stuff more beer left out ranch so or blue cheese great that's really ruined that's been 0.99

00:10:16.980 out for at least overnight this is left open that is because he refuses to do the dishes

00:10:21.700 so he has run out of silverware let me show you this is like big stuff but yeah out of silverware

00:10:27.640 that's our silverware there's spoons only then this paper towel roll he won't replace my mom

00:10:32.700 says to just leave it so he has to clean it all up because i have a theory he left this ginormous 0.98

00:10:38.500 mess to punish us for but imagine if she just shut up and cleaned it up like by the time she

00:10:45.200 made this whole video that like how much cleaning is that really it'll take you an hour being home

00:10:50.560 with him for days so i think he did this intentionally to try to make us have to clean

00:10:54.800 up after that's the other thing women always pathologize and think you're doing things on

00:10:58.420 purpose we will not be doing that um this is crazy work this is the only thing that was my mom's

00:11:04.000 the rest of it is all it's it starts with the water bottles and the beer cans but this is what

00:11:10.140 happens when you leave them alone in the house to their own device let's see yeah she's got a bunch 0.75

00:11:16.900 all right how to respond with weaponized incompetence how do you get the paper towels 1.00

00:11:24.020 on the wall i've never noticed the dang thing doesn't know it's not crazy women are the ones 1.00

00:11:28.180 that have weaponized incompetence where we say oh no i can't do it and the men do it it's not 0.99

00:11:32.240 the other way around it's like stuck it won't go how do you how do you get it on i need to talk to

00:11:37.040 you without the starting a fight i'm feeling extremely triggered okay what i feel like you

00:11:43.600 are oh my god this is going to be hell on earth why do men allow this you're allowing yourself

00:11:47.620 into a dynamic where the house is ruled by her oh no constantly relying on me and asking me to

00:11:53.640 do things that you could figure out yourself i mean what if men said that about like our car

00:11:58.340 trouble there's so much stuff men help us with this is the brat okay because he asked you for

00:12:04.300 help with the paper towels like this says more about her because why doesn't she just help him

00:12:10.280 and it is it's just really frustrating triggering and it's like creating so much resentment in me

00:12:15.720 i totally understand look i get it you this is kind of your domain i don't usually help

00:12:20.160 yeah i feel like and that's part of the problem i agree i understand i don't know how this okay

00:12:24.420 so i'm gonna show you i'm gonna show you once and then i expect you to handle this yourself okay 0.52

00:12:29.680 board you just unscrew it gosh damn it okay anything else about our kitchen or our house 0.58

00:12:36.560 i get it i need to just figure this out by myself instead of asking you and putting more on your 0.98

00:12:41.520 mental load get lazy and i'm asking oh my gosh that's the gayest i ever heard 0.88

00:12:49.600 this is the dynamic when you put a woman in oh no you because i know you know the answer great 0.93

00:12:56.720 it's core weaponized incompetence is not it's like he's like a dancing monk about capability 0.64

00:13:01.840 it's actually a better i'm just am i getting to the point where i hate simps as much as women

00:13:08.480 am i getting to that point sir you're a man you can't believe this is the right way about avoiding

00:13:14.960 responsibility when your partner keeps asking for help with things that they could figure out

00:13:18.960 they're outsourcing the mental load whether they realize it or not while they are accidentally

00:13:22.960 putting more on your plate the problem is accusing them attacking them never works when you accuse

00:13:27.760 them of being incompetent or lazy all that's going to do is make them defensive and feel shame or

00:13:32.720 judged and guilty that does not lead to accountability it leads to you fighting you're

00:13:37.440 on the other end of this dynamic you feel frustrated why do i have to be the one who

00:13:41.920 has so much grace in the way that i address him for his incompetence how she's talking

00:13:47.440 he's incompetent i'm what a narcissist i'm the one who's been carrying the mental load for so 0.72

00:13:52.240 this is a terrible woman so many years when we're on the other end of this he's gonna torture you 0.89

00:13:57.740 for a lifetime my guy it can be so frustrating to be told that we need to be the ones who address

00:14:03.940 this gracefully in order to not put our partner on defense but here is the thing are we looking

00:14:10.000 for actual change are we looking to be right because we are definitely justified in frustration

00:14:15.600 However, that justification doesn't mean that getting reactive and defensive toward them is going to create the change that we want. So what is justified isn't necessarily effective. If we want to have the change in our relationship, then we need to think about how we can approach this in a way that doesn't put our partner on defense, but helps them to be receptive to what we're bringing to their attention.

00:14:41.440 we need to care more about connection than we care about being right i just okay again this is

00:14:47.680 why women can't coach women on relationships only men it has to be oversaw by a man um you literally

00:14:54.300 do not care if you cared about me if you cared about this relationship then i wouldn't have to

00:14:58.700 keep having this conversation with you come on of course i care i just forgot if you cared you 1.00

00:15:03.500 literally wouldn't be this is a problem this is how women take over homes because we're offended 1.00

00:15:08.540 by everything men are offended by like nothing and they just want to fix the problem so then you 0.86

00:15:13.800 become everybody becomes a slave to the mom's emotions so anyways all right guys and let me

00:15:19.420 know what you think in the comments and how have you seen women embarrassing their husbands on

00:15:23.020 social media put it in the comments like the video i'll see you next time 0.99

Pearl - April 10, 2026

Women Who Embarrass Their Husbands Online

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