Pearl - November 20, 2025WOW! A Woman Who Recognizes She Was To Blame For Her Failed Marriage
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In this episode, we are reacting to what I would say is an extinct creature, a creature that doesn t exist in normal life, but occasionally you do see them. They are called zebras, and they are a female version of a zebra.
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Divorced women, talking about having faith is just kind of funny to me.
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Usually what that means is there's some pastor saying that, you know, pumping up the ego,
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making her think she's more important than she is.
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Today we are reacting to what I would say is a extinct creature, a creature that doesn't
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really exist in normal life, but occasionally you do see one, kind of like zebras, I think.
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We have a woman talking about why her marriage failed.
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This is why my marriage failed and what I learned.
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And so this is for the wives, not the girlfriends, but I was married for 13 years and I did everything
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But when I do get remarried, I'm going to do so many things different because the core issue
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I was at church today and the message was spot on.
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I don't know why, but I find it ironic when, um,
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women have boob jobs, but claim to be religious.
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The keys that will help you win at your marriage.
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And number one is to let him lead encourages leadership.
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So I was hoping I had so much hope when I started this video, let him lead that men naturally
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Um, again, that's putting the onus of responsibility on him.
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I have to allow him to lead, not to be a better listener and follow.
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In the dating phase, it's really easy for women to want their man to lead.
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But when they get married, all of a sudden it's like, they want to take over and have
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And you're probably saying, Oh, he sucks at leading.
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Well, maybe because you walked all over him and you deflated his ego.
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It's like, you know, when you have an employee that works for you and there's the one that
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waits for orders and the other that takes initiative.
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You could be a woman that takes initiative or a woman that waits to be, um, you know,
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everyone always likes somebody that makes themselves useful without having to ask.
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So take a step back and try letting him lead again, because he's supposed to lead.
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If he's not leading, you're, you're not going to win at this marriage.
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When we try so hard, not that hard, but we, it's like, we try.
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We just, you know, we're not that good at stuff.
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There's a catcher and a pitcher and they have to be in sync.
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And so you've got to be able to strategize with them.
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Like it's so important to even say captain, that would be better.
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Hierarchy strategize to have a grown ass conversation and say, what can I do to help?
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If you both don't, they don't like women that are trying to compete at the same thing, but
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They, they, and they don't, they don't mind being helped as long as it won't be used against
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You have to be able to strategize and cheer each other on and play to win together.
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Men really need a reset time so they can come back more aligned and grounded and loving.
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I think men are even, they've been gaslit into thinking they like women at all.
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I don't have any, but like imagine, you know, they like the, they like it when we throw it
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back on them, but the actual, like, what do they get out of conversation with a woman?
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You have to know what lights him up and refreshes his soul and makes him feel alive.
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And I'm not saying men go play golf three times this week, but I'm just saying if you really
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need time away from women, that is how they reset.
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Because again, women need time away from women.
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So let's say we're this annoying daily, but it builds up.
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It's like, oh, she was annoying, annoying, annoying, annoying, annoying.
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And there's very few women that aren't annoying, right?
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They're like, I need to go hang out with the boys.
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Then they can come back like a new, a new person.
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So share this with somebody who needs to hear it.
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And if you're married and you need to hear this, then leave me a comment.
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I knew she was going to be a relationship coach.
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Oh, so you're not even going to put the pricing.
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So I got a few questions asking how they can attract someone like me.
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You know, let's react, let's react to the rest of this.
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So I got a few questions asking how they can attract someone like me.
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And I know I have to stop dating what I like in order to get what I want, which is retirement and kids.
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And so for me, if I see red flag behaviors, which might be something small to somebody, but to me, that's the tip of the iceberg.
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Like, what's all the other shit that lies beneath?
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So again, when women are constantly talking about red flags, they're the red flag generally.
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That's how they're treating me in the first 30 minutes of our date.
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How is he going to treat me three months from now?
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That's what I'm talking about them so much because I love them.
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It's like, doesn't open the door for me, um, walks in front of me and doesn't pull out the chair and obviously doesn't pay for the meal.
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And in the past, I would have tolerated them for sure, because I felt really shitty about myself.
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And I didn't know that there were really good men out there that existed.
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I didn't know, but now I do know because you are the average of the five people you hang out with the most.
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And so if you hang out with bench warmers, you're like, that's all you're ever going to know.
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Or she says, um, so when women talk like this, it's evidence that her friends suck.
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Um, and she thinks she's better than them, but usually she's not draft picks or at least this double A triple A.
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And it's because I know what I want and there's nothing wrong with that.
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What I also look for is a man who leads with integrity and confidence.
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And he leads with his worth, his gifts, who he is, not what he is, not his assets, not his resume.
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And by the way, following women's advice always gets you not laid.
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And I'm also looking for a man who doesn't play games.
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And I know you all think that when we play games, but I've had a couple of guys who, you
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know, invited me on a date and then didn't do a very good job of planning it.
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Kind of expected me to bend over backwards because they were trying to play it cool.
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And another guy who thought that it was, um, not good to walk up to a girl in the bar because
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then it would look to her that he was, um, desperate.
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Like if you like a girl, if you want to talk to her, if she seems, so again, this is showing
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she has no idea what the male experience is and to be a good in a relationship, you have
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Like if you're selling something, you got to know what they want.
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You're going to risk rejection, but you miss every shot you don't take.
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I also, you're going to attract me if you're into personal growth, that means you're intentional
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every day about improving your life in all of the areas, spiritually, physically, mentally,
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And I'm interested in somebody who had, who can keep up with me energetically, who is works
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out, who takes his health very seriously, who eats well, most of the time, who is not
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Women have a hard time when they have to start dating fat guys.
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Because over a certain age, you're, you're kind of, even if you're thin, you're kind
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So, um, fat women are sorry, fit women have a really hard time with this because they're
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either going to have to go down in money or, um, looks.
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And when they, a lot of women, when they get older, compromise in looks and they, they
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Not excessive with alcohol, who doesn't do drugs, who will listen to audio books and podcasts
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about personal growth and motivation and encourage me with the same, right?
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This is the type of person that I was not decades ago.
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And now these are the type of people that I hang out with all the time.
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People tell me, oh yeah, I don't watch TV either, but you know, I did see this show,
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I'm busy building my dreams and working out and getting wind in my hair and being
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I'm not going to sit on my ass and watch other people live their lives on TV.
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And so if you want to track somebody like me, you are, we're going to be aligned in, in all
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of the ways, and we're going to be able to work out together and get wind in our hair together
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experiences and be adventurous and spontaneous and work on ourselves and encourage each other.
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both of us cheer each other on and encourage each other.
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That's how you're going to track somebody like me.
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If you have bench warmer traits, like you spend your downtime watching TV, or you party and
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drink on the weekends, or you are not investing in yourself mentally, emotionally, if you have
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Oh, so again, divorced women, talking about having faith is just kind of funny to me.
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Usually what that means is there's some pastor saying that, you know, pumping up the ego,
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making her think she's more important than she is.
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Um, so now she's going to use you not going to church as a disqualifier.
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You are, you're not going to track somebody like me.
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We're going to, does she think she's a starter?
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All right, guys, let me know what you think of the comments.
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Um, I had hope for that video and she squandled.
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You go on dates and you're like, oh, I have hope for this woman.
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And then she keeps talking and she's like, you're like, nevermind.
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Anyways, guys, like the video, subscribe to the channel, bring that notification bell.