Pearl - October 02, 2025


You Can't Stop Modern Women From Being 304s | Pearl Reacts


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Length

1 hour and 42 minutes

Words per Minute

174.9005

Word Count

17,915

Sentence Count

358

Misogynist Sentences

206

Hate Speech Sentences

143


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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 If I've learned one thing in life, if there's one thing I know, hoes are gonna hold.
00:00:19.000 If I've learned one thing in life, if there's one thing I know, hoes are gonna hold.
00:00:29.000 Hoes are gonna hoe, hoes are gonna hoe, the gluck gluck 9,000, the fuck fuck 9,000, hoes are gonna hoe.
00:00:46.500 Now you might think she's hoed to heart, yeah, she's done the whole nine yards, but, wait,
00:00:59.500 you might think she's hoed to heart, yeah, she's done the whole nine yards, but, see,
00:01:10.580 she's done the whole nine yards.
00:01:16.500 but there's always a retard. All right, guys, as you guys know,
00:01:27.460 please put a word in the chat and I will write a song. The Hoes Are Gonna Ho is inspired by
00:01:35.340 Bonnie Blue. A lot of people think, oh, Bonnie Blue, it was her parents. Oh, my kid will never
00:01:43.460 do it. My mother would never do it. My, you know, it's always the relatives that would never do it.
00:01:49.420 But you have to understand women were two faced bitch creatures. You have no idea what we would
00:01:54.580 do alone in Cancun. You don't know. You don't. And I think we got to get these cocky, you know,
00:02:00.860 it's the cockiest dads that always have whore daughters. I got to be honest here. It's the
00:02:05.960 dads that say that would never happen to me. You guys always end up with whore daughters.
00:02:11.120 it's the ones that are kind of like well it could happen these are the
00:02:16.120 consequences do what you're gonna do yeah oh someone put a lyric
00:02:21.120 hoes wait hoes are gonna ho they'll blow and go hoes are gonna ho they'll blow and go
00:02:40.120 Give me another. Give me another.
00:02:44.060 Give me another word. We'll keep going.
00:02:48.000 I had someone say to me that my Black Fatigue song was stuck in their head for like two days.
00:02:58.340 Should I release it? Should I? Would that be the end of my career?
00:03:01.960 On a one to ten, how old would my career be if I released a Black Fatigue song?
00:03:10.120 thank you for the two dollar super chat thank you any any um any song requests here not real
00:03:21.220 song you got to give me a word if not I'll move on to the show let's put on a show
00:03:29.020 and talk about the hoes cocktail generation gives in to temptation hoes are gonna
00:03:39.340 ho. They don't want to grow. Those are gonna ho. And now you want a simp song for after.
00:03:51.120 All right, we got, all right, because obviously somebody's got to marry them after, and that's
00:03:55.140 where you guys come in. We should do a thank you to the simp song. You know, there's a lot of,
00:04:01.980 it could go like this. You know, there's a lot of people that do thankless jobs in this country.
00:04:07.300 there's a lot of men that
00:04:10.660 they're doing the job that nobody wants to do
00:04:15.620 and you know when a hoe
00:04:18.880 makes a lot of bad decisions
00:04:20.780 somebody's got to be the clean up guy
00:04:24.360 and we want to thank all of you
00:04:28.540 shout out to the sims
00:04:33.260 Somebody's got to
00:04:37.600 Wait, wait, shout out to the simps
00:04:40.560 Somebody's got to clean up after the pimps
00:04:46.660 The simps
00:04:49.520 You can't get her at 20
00:04:53.120 But you'll get her at 32
00:04:57.540 After she's fucked you, you, and you
00:05:02.420 Thank you to the simps
00:05:07.840 Somebody's gotta do it
00:05:13.260 Thank you to the simps
00:05:16.780 For cleaning up after the pimps
00:05:19.400 We don't know what we'd do without you
00:05:23.460 Somebody's gotta be a stepdad
00:05:28.200 That kid ain't gonna raise itself
00:05:32.620 He needs a role model
00:05:37.320 And it's obviously not gonna be
00:05:40.100 Glock, Davius, Tyrone, and Chad
00:05:43.340 Thank you to the Sims
00:05:46.820 For doing the thankless jobs
00:05:50.280 In this country
00:05:53.680 For being the stepdads
00:05:57.400 it ain't all that bad shout out to the sims oh her ex is in jail you'll just overlook it
00:06:08.900 oh she was abused somebody's gotta cook it i know that somebody's gotta buy
00:06:18.300 All of these whores lies
00:06:22.740 I'm like, no, I didn't, fuck them
00:06:25.880 I didn't do that
00:06:27.980 They're just liars, haha
00:06:31.160 Deny, deny
00:06:36.100 Oh, you gotta keep up the lie
00:06:41.160 Honey, I found this sex tape
00:06:44.020 It really looks like you
00:06:45.980 Darling, I don't know what you're talking about
00:06:49.620 That's definitely not me
00:06:52.200 He says, I know your body
00:06:55.400 But she's gonna lie and he's gonna just believe it
00:07:00.680 Thank you to the simps
00:07:04.840 For cleaning up after the pimps
00:07:09.660 Thank you to the simps
00:07:13.920 deny, lie to simps.
00:07:20.920 Alright, now you guys want me to add in trauma.
00:07:22.920 She says she gots trauma.
00:07:24.920 She said she has trauma and she does.
00:07:28.920 That happens after you fuck a lot of thugs.
00:07:33.920 She said she's got trauma, yeah she do.
00:07:37.920 She didn't get a call back from you and you and you.
00:07:42.920 She says, what are we? And he says, nothing. Bitch, I just wanna keep fucking. But then a simp comes along, and he hears this song, and he does the thing that, and he gets it all wrong, but we can't tell him.
00:08:05.360 thank you to the simps somebody's gotta do it somebody's really gotta go through it
00:08:14.280 all right let's see all right someone
00:08:18.740 is there anyone else have you considered a record label oh yeah let me just call up the record
00:08:28.860 labels and say yeah i want to make a song about black fatigue and simp and let me let me see how
00:08:35.760 that goes when the majority of pop music is consumed by women yeah they're gonna say right
00:08:42.040 this way pearl yeah yeah daddy oh you want to talk about them not having dads now in the old
00:08:51.900 Days whores didn't have dads, but now the ones with fathers are just as bad.
00:08:59.720 And it's cause they saw their mothers get away with murder, so they know that they can
00:09:06.260 do it too.
00:09:08.440 So now we have Bonnie Blue, who's gonna fuck you and you and you.
00:09:21.900 Now you want me to do the wall.
00:09:25.840 Our mic's still good, right?
00:09:27.240 Thank you for the $20.
00:09:28.460 You're killing me.
00:09:29.980 All right.
00:09:32.520 Oh.
00:09:33.940 I gained 20 pounds.
00:09:37.360 I have $50,000 worth of debt.
00:09:42.140 Another dude cracked and hasn't called back yet.
00:09:48.760 Oh, and all the walls are closing in.
00:09:51.900 The consequences of a life of sin
00:09:57.920 I guess it's time to lower my standards
00:10:04.580 I guess it's time to go from pimps to simps
00:10:10.800 And I never wanted to do it
00:10:15.160 But I have to go through it
00:10:18.100 Cause I'm getting old and barren
00:10:21.420 I guess
00:10:22.820 The wall
00:10:29.000 The wall
00:10:31.880 When women start to get ugly and infertile
00:10:38.080 The wall
00:10:40.720 The wall
00:10:43.620 When the babies start being retarded, you know
00:10:51.420 You made a wife out of a hoe, and you'll never know.
00:10:57.580 Actually, these days they put on a show, and you can find it on Google.
00:11:05.520 Thank you, thank you.
00:11:07.380 You know, I really think that should have a standing ovation.
00:11:14.940 Not actually.
00:11:17.360 Yeah, you know, I need a drummer and a bass player.
00:11:20.520 someone needs to step up okay you know I always hear this you need this and this and this I'm
00:11:27.080 like guys are you gonna pay for it really are you gonna do you want like do you know how expensive
00:11:34.080 YouTube channels of this production quality like yeah let me just pay a band let me just add that
00:11:41.560 to my you know I'm learning I'm learning piano so I can be a one-man band I can play guitar too
00:11:47.320 so I was like it'll be like the tonight show except it'll just be me that's that's the vision
00:11:53.740 I have here but let me let me go do my show
00:11:56.480 all right so today we are um talking about bonnie blue and she's one of my fans actually
00:12:14.920 requested I react to this sit-down interview.
00:12:20.220 You know, as a society, we're just so fascinated with whores.
00:12:23.740 My fans, it's not like they don't request me to react to, like,
00:12:27.760 you know, an evolutionary psychologist or, like, I don't know, an academic.
00:12:32.840 They say, can you react to this whore?
00:12:37.120 Please, I am so fascinated by this super slut.
00:12:41.020 can you blame the super sluts for being super sluts i mean i think about all the men that like
00:12:48.200 accomplish things that don't get involved i see why rollo is such a bitter guy to be honest i
00:12:53.600 really do i mean i would probably be bitter too if i was in his position i mean can you imagine
00:13:00.480 you get looked over on all these platforms after doing this for 20 years and they just say here
00:13:06.480 you go super slut here here's the interview and their softball interviews I'm like nobody's this
00:13:15.100 fascinated by me and that annoying oh wait that's not the full one so you know there's this idea you
00:13:23.420 know a lot of people think they can control the universe and I'd like to say for my younger
00:13:27.360 listeners on there especially if you're women because women this is something we do not men
00:13:34.640 understand this a lot easier. We don't understand this. But there's a sort of freedom in accepting
00:13:39.800 everything's going to get worse. There really is. I actually think life begins on the other
00:13:45.160 side of it because there's nothing worse than selling people hope. And there's this idea that
00:13:50.980 if you have a daughter or a sister, you can stop them from being a whore. And I just want you to
00:13:56.080 know that if you have kids and they're girls, there's a good chance they'll be whores. There's
00:13:59.920 a good chance your sons will marry whores. There's a good chance you'll marry a whore and you won't
00:14:04.120 even know i mean how what are you gonna do like uh check the punani mileage good luck i mean there's
00:14:11.460 you know but there's a sort of freedom with that you know that comes with knowing that you just
00:14:17.180 can't control it they're gonna do what they're gonna you cannot control another human being
00:14:22.100 especially one that is drunk on power like most of us ladies are um here it is here it is so
00:14:32.360 we are going to react to Bonnie Blue. And I'd like to say, I've always said Bonnie Blue
00:14:38.240 understands men better than most conservative women. I have watched this woman on podcasts,
00:14:45.140 right? She is more likable. I don't know the woman she's being interviewed with. I don't know
00:14:49.780 her work. We'll see. But you'll notice that Bonnie Blue is always dressed in a way that's
00:14:54.300 appealing to men. Her makeup's done. She doesn't have tattoos. Her makeup's light,
00:15:01.440 but it's not super she has light work done nothing crazy um her body is kind of what men like
00:15:08.200 and in her social interactions what I've noticed is um she
00:15:15.540 while other women want to argue and get offended she just says I'm a whore
00:15:21.520 and she just sits there and anybody that gets mad or yells at her she doesn't bicker with them
00:15:26.020 she doesn't nag him she just sits there and you know what you wonder why I actually I have I was
00:15:33.820 speaking to someone the other day and they told me they lost their husband to a stripper and she
00:15:38.080 was like I was you know I was um I was married and I lost my husband left me for a stripper
00:15:46.040 and you know that's that's a big L in life sometimes you just got to eat that I mean that's
00:15:51.540 that's an L but you got to wonder what did you do to drive him to a stripper you know what I mean
00:15:55.620 And usually they got fat, right?
00:15:58.900 Another thing is strippers, men in a way want to be manipulated.
00:16:05.020 They really do.
00:16:06.660 The same way like when you go into a restaurant, you want the server to be nice to you,
00:16:11.880 even if the server secretly hates you.
00:16:14.380 You kind of want like a baseline level of like niceness and manipulation and to give
00:16:19.620 them extra tips, right?
00:16:20.780 You want to feel like good.
00:16:22.820 And men love that feel.
00:16:23.880 And strippers and a lot of sex workers, hookers, women like Bonnie Blue,
00:16:29.380 they've studied men in a way that conservative women of a tendency would have noticed.
00:16:33.860 They don't really pay attention as much, or at least the trad e-girls.
00:16:37.220 Like, compare Bonnie Blue to, like, Candace Owens.
00:16:42.000 Candace Owens is very masculine, right?
00:16:46.280 Her demeanor, the way she talks.
00:16:47.780 She doesn't dress like a whore.
00:16:49.100 She doesn't bang a thousand dudes on camera, right?
00:16:53.020 But a lot of guys would look at her and say, I'll take the woman that's nice to me, and I guess she's a super slut, but at least she's nice, right?
00:17:00.540 I think that sometimes the right-wing women, that's why they're kind of known for being stuck up, because generally speaking, the women with good personalities, they tend to either be apolitical or even liberal, right?
00:17:14.800 because they can be, they can get away with that.
00:17:20.200 Where usually the worse the personality,
00:17:23.280 the more likely, just in my experience,
00:17:25.360 to be right because they're making up for something.
00:17:27.960 So they got to say the words that, you know,
00:17:29.800 they can't do the actions men like,
00:17:31.600 like throw it back, luck, luck, 9,000.
00:17:34.220 So, so, twerking on that, you know what I mean?
00:17:38.040 So they got to go the route of selling purity.
00:17:41.980 Now, that might work if, you know,
00:17:44.800 right-wing conservative-leaning women had a reputation for being pure,
00:17:49.220 but I got to be honest, ladies, we suck.
00:17:52.020 Like, we just, you know what I mean?
00:17:54.620 Like, when the right-wing e-girls,
00:17:59.460 like, when we have phrases like Catholic schoolgirls,
00:18:04.220 and we know the connotation with that, right?
00:18:07.780 Preacher's daughter.
00:18:11.180 This, to me, these connotations, we all know what that means, right?
00:18:14.800 We all know super, like known for being super sluts.
00:18:18.560 And the more you tell women not to do something,
00:18:21.300 the more they want to do it behind your back.
00:18:23.220 That's like our psychology.
00:18:24.740 I'm dead to it.
00:18:25.880 The more like, the more you're indifferent,
00:18:28.380 like they can't hurt or phase you.
00:18:31.400 But once women know they can hurt you by doing said thing,
00:18:35.480 that's when women want to do it more
00:18:37.540 and it makes the sex way hotter.
00:18:39.560 Like what's better, like let's just be real here.
00:18:42.300 What's better sex for like a young woman?
00:18:44.800 uh the sex that is okay or the sex that's like oh we're not supposed to be doing you know we're
00:18:50.840 messed up you know and so anyways my point is this i don't think there's much control
00:18:59.360 that right wing left wing like parents can really have over their kids i think women are kind of
00:19:06.020 whores from a young age um and once you can't really stop a whore from whoring and trying to
00:19:11.940 stop or it's just going to make her want to do it more like I heard I heard Alex I think it was
00:19:16.500 Alex Clark she was bitching about um birth control I think she had this whole nagging rant about oh
00:19:24.120 I was put on birth control at 16 and I'm thinking well why your parents have your best interests at
00:19:30.820 heart I don't know if it was her or someone she was talking about why would a parent put a 16
00:19:35.540 year old on birth control can we can we think about it what were you doing that made the parents
00:19:43.440 say oh we better put her on birth control they always want to play so innocent like oh i was
00:19:48.820 just this innocent girl who had heavy periods and they put me on birth control bullshit bullshit
00:19:54.580 that's bullshit i mean just own it at least bonnie blue what i appreciate about bonnie blue is she
00:19:59.940 owns the whoring. She owns it. But you'll see. So we'll start this interview. We'll start it.
00:20:07.400 If you have something to say, put it in the chat also. I don't know how long I'll be on YouTube.
00:20:13.680 I do think if I get kicked off again, that'll be the end of my career because I can't go through
00:20:19.200 another demonetization. I can't. So unless we get enough signups on the website. So if you do like
00:20:25.780 the content it's 10 bucks a month if we get enough people on it then we can be youtube free
00:20:31.160 um but yeah i'm happy with this new regime get enough people on it i'm happy with this new
00:20:38.980 regime but we'll see okay you said follow her steps pearl really you want me to you want me
00:20:46.120 to bang a thousand dudes on really i mean it's it's like you said go for
00:20:52.180 i'm just gonna play the video i'm just gonna play the video
00:21:01.640 big data companies no body count better than the 304 can remember
00:21:08.300 do how many people do you have an audacity now not enough i'll tell you what
00:21:13.160 and i need to get more people on the website and then i can put more time into like developing it
00:21:20.140 but i used to do these weekly like um youtube sessions but nobody would show up no offense
00:21:25.380 to you guys but i would analyze your youtube channels if you want to do it again put it in
00:21:30.000 the comments but it just didn't get a lot of traction louise why were you interested in
00:21:36.540 sitting down with bonnie i find it really interesting i see we are just fascinated by
00:21:44.540 the whole world we are i think that a lot of just having talked to women about doing this conversation
00:21:51.060 the response from so many women is i think something like morbid curiosity yeah like
00:21:59.600 interested in you confused by you yeah and wondering i mean the main thing that i'm hoping
00:22:03.700 that to learn about you today because i know about your work is your psychology your personality
00:22:09.640 what it is about you that's led you to do this yeah because i get the impression from having
00:22:14.760 watched interviews with you and so on that actually i over the years i've interviewed
00:22:19.280 loads and loads of women or spoken to loads and loads of women who've been in the sex industry in
00:22:22.320 various ways whether that's porn or prostitution or brothels street walking whatever and every
00:22:28.120 single case they've talked about distress trauma or yeah that's bullshit okay so that's when women
00:22:36.200 say that it's distress and trauma of them doing their sex work that is the marketing to simps who
00:22:43.880 will believe it they will believe it they it's it's incredible what simps will believe they get
00:22:49.560 a woman as hot as body blue they it's like the hottest girl they've ever banged in their life
00:22:54.360 you can't speak reason like the horrible of banged like three of their friends and they're like oh
00:23:01.720 she's special you can't it's it's incredible once you've seen it that's why women that are
00:23:09.660 mid hate hot women so much because they can literally get away with murder
00:23:13.520 there's things like you know I'd consider myself a mid
00:23:17.340 there's things I've seen hot women do
00:23:22.000 I could never it just I would not have that kind of buy it's just I've seen
00:23:31.700 hot women get into relationships and marry or sorry four different men in the same friend group
00:23:38.260 and the fourth one married her isn't that incredible that like she blew one and was like
00:23:44.180 situationship he wanted to date her she said no i'm good then she moved on to guy number two
00:23:50.940 dated him for like a year and a half broke up then she moved on to guy number three he did dump her
00:23:57.760 but whatever and then she married guy number four like do you know how incredible that is
00:24:02.460 when you're an eight you could do it because the men they just have a way of rationalizing I don't
00:24:08.100 know I know redhead man you know yeah I know I know I mean I know you know
00:24:16.340 you kind of got to know where you are in the world it's not an insult most people are mid
00:24:22.280 I'll tell you what I knew I was mid I'll tell you the day I knew so I went to a week at the
00:24:32.260 weekend actually had my whole team go to the concert their concert so like they let us go
00:24:36.980 backstage it was really cool my producers got together it was so fun and there was women at
00:24:43.380 this concert that I met their whole job was just to be hot and go to these concerts and go to these
00:24:55.160 events and I knew because I had never been invited you know what I mean I guess I was through the
00:25:01.700 show I guess in this instant but they their whole existence was just paid for and I just I just
00:25:08.380 thought to myself well I've never had that offer you know that's never you know and I think as a
00:25:16.660 woman especially if you're a young woman you really got to know where you fall because men
00:25:22.460 do kind of view you as a price tag and the worst advice I've seen women dating advice I've seen
00:25:30.400 given for women is they tell old women to raise their price or like oh now you got to make a wait
00:25:37.220 three months. I'm like, yeah, 29, 32. That is the worst. 35, you want to wait till marriage now
00:25:44.460 when you're halfway through life, bitch. And I'm like, yeah, you're never going to get a buyer
00:25:51.100 because you're charging. If you were a nine, you could do that. Like Sierra and Russell Wilson,
00:25:56.260 she could re-wait till marriage because she's that hot. You know, when a girl's that hot,
00:26:00.840 you can just demand, like you're a sports car. You are a sports car. You can charge sports car
00:26:06.940 prices. But imagine if you're a Honda Civic and you come
00:26:10.940 in and you're just like, yeah, I want
00:26:14.760 sports car prices. There's just going to be no buyers. If I'm being
00:26:18.940 honest, I see a lot of, this is the problem at a lot of
00:26:21.740 I was in like a non-denominational
00:26:26.940 church for like a year and a half, two years, and it was all these midwomen.
00:26:31.100 Oh my God, all these midwomen waiting till marriage.
00:26:33.760 i've never seen so many single women they just marry the pastor it's such an interesting
00:26:39.180 i swear to god because they go like they talk to the pastor like he's their like the pastor has to
00:26:45.020 approve of the men i'm like what kind of so that so so i was thinking about this i'm like she really
00:26:51.000 submits to the pastor and not to the husband because the husband has to go through the pastor
00:26:57.100 to get the mid-ramp through women.
00:26:59.360 I was like, this is going to be, this is a terrible way to do this.
00:27:06.340 This is not going to work.
00:27:08.400 And I remember I was on this female retreat,
00:27:10.460 and I knew I had to leave this church.
00:27:12.200 I was kind of trying to figure out what religion I wanted to be
00:27:16.040 because I just got out of school, and I was looking at all,
00:27:19.280 because I grew up Catholic, and I was reevaluating.
00:27:21.920 And I just remember sitting there, and it was like all these 25 to 35-year-old women
00:27:28.880 re-waiting till marriage, and I just thought that is the worst idea I've ever heard in my life.
00:27:36.240 And there's like a single-woman church pipeline, because they get all the family and community
00:27:42.400 from the church, so it's like, why build one with a guy? And usually there's one or two chads in the
00:27:49.260 church and you either get the demon time chads there or the wholesome chads so the demon times
00:27:54.920 i mean they just run through the whole church i mean that's like the guy in the band or whatever
00:27:59.980 but usually the the young chad he'll just marry the pretty much the hottest purist girl
00:28:08.340 and that's that's kind of how it goes and then all the other women will just you know
00:28:16.860 hope he changes his mind anyways this is this is just what I saw you know I could you could tell
00:28:22.380 me if it's wrong but yeah I'm just like that is the worst because I'm thinking I'm like let me get
00:28:30.360 this straight a used car but you're charging new car good luck good luck I mean you I this is the
00:28:41.320 problem you get with that right the women have no respect for the guys they really don't because
00:28:46.640 imagine if you're a salesman, right? And you know, you gave a guy a bad deal. You just kind of are
00:28:52.900 going to view him as a sucker forever. And do you know what's even worse about these churches?
00:28:57.760 Oh my gosh. The women give speeches about their whoredom. So not only, I swear to God, not only
00:29:05.760 does the guy have to like purchase this used car for new prices, but usually the women are a little
00:29:11.380 hotter than they could do in their normal life so they can get it not only does he have to do that
00:29:17.880 he also has to listen to her give speeches basically apologizing for being a whore
00:29:23.500 so she has to go in front of the church and give a speech how lost broken whatever she was
00:29:29.580 and then like that's like the new when you get initiated that's what the girls do they like come
00:29:34.720 in talk about how she used to be a whore and then um now i found this husband there are a few girls
00:29:42.720 that do wait till marriage um there are a few uh so that does happen and i mean allegedly who knows
00:29:48.760 but um but yeah i'm just being honest here with what i what i saw and i was just
00:29:58.140 i was just thinking you've just increased and you know what if she's really hot she can do that if
00:30:06.380 she's an eight the guy the guy's like do you know what i get to bang these big tits this huge
00:30:13.280 this small way i'll do whatever i'll humiliate myself i don't care but when you have a girl
00:30:19.820 that looks kind of like this this girl on the chat this is kind of what they look like actually
00:30:24.180 I would say this is, like, the average.
00:30:25.960 And she's not an unattractive woman, right?
00:30:28.160 But do you know what I mean?
00:30:29.580 That's just a lot to go through.
00:30:31.720 Like, it's kind of like this should be a discount.
00:30:36.460 This should be, like, a mega sale.
00:30:41.200 But instead, you've witnessed that as well.
00:30:48.560 I know.
00:30:49.160 It's madness.
00:30:50.600 That's why I say, to be honest,
00:30:52.720 women, like conservative dating advice works for women
00:30:55.900 if you're like below 25.
00:30:58.220 But look, if you're above 25,
00:31:00.340 that ship has sailed, you're cooked.
00:31:02.360 And I gotta be honest, you're cooked
00:31:03.600 because dude is gonna assume
00:31:05.480 you've at least blown somebody.
00:31:07.360 I mean, come on, like guys aren't dumb anymore.
00:31:09.260 Now that, now men used to be dumb.
00:31:11.440 Men used to be so, oh my God.
00:31:13.940 Like 10 years ago, women could say anything
00:31:17.700 because there was no evidence.
00:31:18.980 but the problem is now women got on tiktok and said yeah i did whore out and we have it on camera
00:31:26.020 so the women that would say that privately before now it's like recorded on podcasts or whatever
00:31:31.300 and the men are kind of wising up they're like this is the dumbest deal i have ever heard in my
00:31:37.460 life and this this is kind of what's happening there's like a there's kind of a shift he says
00:31:45.260 guilty yeah i know i know back in the day that's what i don't really believe these old women that
00:31:51.560 say um that say oh we weren't like that back in the day because i think i've seen this film before
00:32:01.560 like you know what i mean i've seen the right wing e-girls do it and this one right wing e-girl i
00:32:07.000 know i mean you know she was making fun of me that's always what they do they make fun of me
00:32:16.280 whatever and you know i'm not gonna say that i don't want people to figure out who it is but
00:32:23.220 i'll just say the dirt that i found out about her or allegedly was way and i'm like how are you
00:32:29.800 talking to me this way when you did that that's how i felt about it that's how i'm not gonna say
00:32:35.460 but we'll continue.
00:32:38.080 Back in the day, shame was real, Pearl.
00:32:39.980 No, I just, you know, again, we're going to go back to women.
00:32:43.500 The more shame you put on,
00:32:45.740 the more women just find different ways to bang guys.
00:32:48.920 Like, you don't understand the lengths.
00:32:52.600 I mean, women leave the Amish to go bang guys.
00:32:55.440 Do you know what I mean?
00:32:56.040 Like, I mean, I've seen, like,
00:32:58.180 leaving the Amish women that go to New York City, bang.
00:33:01.040 yeah we gotta you do not want to you did not want to bring shame back to the family
00:33:07.860 that's true so women did did it privately not publicly
00:33:12.780 i mean and you can look up historical accounts i mean the old feminists back in the day
00:33:19.940 you can even find divorce scandals in like the 20s you know
00:33:25.080 oh for god's sake i've lost all hope now no you shouldn't
00:33:30.880 whores are on sale you shouldn't look at because as a guy you can now you can now bang women
00:33:38.400 that kings only like if you become one of the top guys you can have access to women you never should
00:33:44.680 have had access to historically you only got one now you can like run through tinge i know it's
00:33:50.000 difficult and you probably are rolling your eyes you're like pearl you have no fucking idea
00:33:53.900 i know you know that's true that's true i'm just that's true but i have having a horrible sorry
00:33:59.460 i have seen guys pull like four women in a weekend i have seen i went to these like pua
00:34:05.540 boot camps where they just like teach guys how to get laid and oh my god at that that weekend i
00:34:13.320 realized we really are sharing that if you don't know pua is like a social skills essentially they
00:34:19.000 teach men how to like have sex with women um and they just go to like a city for a weekend they
00:34:26.560 They try to bang as many women as they can.
00:34:29.380 I'm just, yeah, that's kind of what it is.
00:34:31.120 And I'm nosy, so I got to tag along on one of these trips.
00:34:34.020 It was one of my first YouTube videos.
00:34:35.560 I was having a great time.
00:34:36.940 And it would be so fun.
00:34:38.240 I'd be like, get her.
00:34:41.560 I'd be like, go for that one.
00:34:47.320 And so anyways, and I saw this one of the instructors
00:34:55.920 four different girls.
00:34:58.560 And these were attractive women.
00:34:59.880 These are somebody's future wife.
00:35:03.300 I mean, this dude ran through like 100 girls a year.
00:35:06.320 Think about that, one dude, 100 girls a year.
00:35:10.420 Maybe he was exaggerating.
00:35:11.660 Let's cut it to 50.
00:35:13.060 I'd still believe it.
00:35:15.740 Think about how many women that is with one dude.
00:35:18.040 Do the math.
00:35:19.980 That's a lot of people's future wives.
00:35:24.080 STD catching is a challenge.
00:35:25.920 Do you know what?
00:35:28.600 I think most people that catch something, it's because they're not using condoms or they just took an L.
00:35:35.260 I mean, most of the, I mean, maybe they wouldn't tell me if they did catch something.
00:35:38.820 I don't know.
00:35:39.300 But I think the challenge is people just like, people like having sex raw.
00:35:45.480 You know, they just go for it.
00:35:46.520 They go right, they dive right in there.
00:35:48.840 Even if I'm a Chad and I'm lucky, I'll never end up in a good relationship.
00:35:53.640 It's insane.
00:35:55.920 No, that's not true. You could end up in a good relationship. She'll just probably have baggage. I mean, look, it just is what it is, you know, that's what's on the menu. 1% marriageable women. Good luck, fellas.
00:36:12.920 or time like to varying degrees yeah you don't talk about that and i think that you're telling
00:36:18.500 the truth i think actually you don't find this work causes you psychological harm yeah and i
00:36:27.400 guess i want to find out why i think that's a really interesting question yeah no i think it's
00:36:31.260 good because everyone always assumes and even when i say multiple times i'm not traumatized i've not
00:36:35.400 had a bad upbringing everyone thinks i'm lying and it's really not the case and it's terrible
00:36:40.160 for some people unfortunately about a bad that's true many whores have good upbringings and two
00:36:46.620 parents we got to stop with this notion it's a daddy issues do you know what i actually think
00:36:52.140 no father in some ways can be better than a weak father because a weak father is just teaching the
00:36:57.480 daughter how to treat men i mean at least if there's no dad you know the daughter knows if
00:37:02.560 you're bad enough he will leave you i think that's the challenge you get when women get
00:37:07.380 leverage we're just not great with it i'll bring in all terrible things have happened but for me
00:37:12.260 i've just chosen to do this how familiar are you with louise's work do you know what she writes
00:37:18.100 about are you familiar with any no i'm not okay how would you what's the 30 000 foot view to
00:37:24.260 explain to to bonnie sort of your philosophical underpinnings so i guess i'm coming at this as a
00:37:29.220 conservative yeah and i've uh i mean i wrote a book called the case against the sexual revolution
00:37:34.260 i'm generally critical of the sexual revolution okay remember they'll be critical of the sexual
00:37:39.060 revolution but the whole thing if she's married you just say did you and this was the you know
00:37:46.500 what is this clip still on twitter if it's still on twitter this was the funniest clip
00:37:51.220 i've ever had in my life uh pearl lauren shett
00:38:04.260 there was uh hold on hold on
00:38:11.240 oh here we go oh this was the funniest thing i've ever done
00:38:16.800 okay it all crumbles down like let's not play pretend about sex outside of marriage that sort
00:38:23.600 of thing but it looks like let's not play pretend three percent of people are waiting
00:38:27.640 till they're married that's not really common i mean was anyone here virgin on their wedding night
00:38:33.080 anyone no okay the silence was so loud so you know and that's always kind of what it comes down to
00:38:42.720 it's always like oh it was a mistake or oh i'm like really you didn't enjoy it at all
00:38:49.740 you just hated you hated the whole thing huh that's so convenient so convenient oh your simps
00:39:00.060 might buy that but i don't i don't it might not have worked out the way you wanted it to
00:39:06.740 but that's life you can't have anything in life without taking risks i mean
00:39:12.300 you think things don't work out for men sometimes it's just you know i mean men women will
00:39:20.960 bang one dude and then bang his best friend you know there are men that'll do it but not as much
00:39:27.520 you know yeah porn um i worked in a rape crisis center before i became a journalist which i guess
00:39:32.720 has informed my oh sounds very intelligent bless you and i my general view on the sex industry is
00:39:39.080 like very negative so we're going to come at this from different perspectives but i do like
00:39:44.980 i'm guessing that a lot of people listening are going to assume that i'm going to try and like
00:39:51.420 uncover trauma in you or i'm going to try and like break through the you'd waste your time
00:39:56.240 and i i think i actually think that's right and that's part of the reason i'm interested in i'm
00:40:00.520 more interested in talking to you than i would be to say lily phillips yeah because i think that lily
00:40:04.900 to me and to a lot of people i think it's clear that lily is actually suffering quite a lot and
00:40:09.220 is having a hard time she seems traumatized right which is in a way less the less interesting story
00:40:16.280 it's more obvious yeah and it is horrible like i'm very lucky and fortunate to be in the position
00:40:21.760 i'm in because i'm not traumatized i'm not upset i'm not distressed but i think for a lot of people
00:40:27.000 and again women after they have to say they were distressed oh and i just hated it somebody's got
00:40:33.720 to believe it it can be you guys it can be you guys why not somebody has to
00:40:40.700 and especially a lot of sex workers they're completely out of their comfort zone or they're
00:40:47.780 because here's oh i just thought of a whiteboard video okay i got what oh it's dead oh it's dead
00:40:55.900 okay well i'll just i'll just say it here so women women have a choice right so women can go for men
00:41:03.500 out of their league and take the risk of getting pumped and dumped and ghosted or go for men in
00:41:08.160 their league and but women want both right we want we want the security of not like we want to
00:41:17.060 eliminate all risk we're like we want what we want and we want to take no risk to get it like
00:41:22.960 men have to endure risk in order to get a woman they have to get rejected a million times they
00:41:27.440 have to i mean they have to learn social skills they have to learn how to talk to i mean for men
00:41:33.220 to even get laid it takes a lot something that women we will never understand ever um but women
00:41:42.440 you know we want to go for the top guys and not have to compete we want to go for the top guys
00:41:51.880 and have no risk of getting ghosts that's just never going to happen and then you say well why
00:41:57.020 don't you go for someone on your level and then we're like no we can't do that well can't have
00:42:02.640 both can't have both one or the other unfortunately you've had a bad upbringing which has led them to
00:42:10.600 be a sex work and it is terrible and it is horrible um and it's not always the nicest of
00:42:15.200 industries for most people would you advise lily to stop um yeah i think if you're going to keep
00:42:22.940 crying and upset and it's destroying your family there's some things which are a lot more valuable
00:42:27.180 than money and views um the biggest thing in life and it's so simple is to be happy and if you're
00:42:32.800 not happy why do something because yes you could be driving fancy cars and you know you could wear
00:42:38.840 flashy clothes but if you're not happy what is it all for like as long as each day I'm waking up
00:42:44.500 happy and I'm going to sleep happy I'll be proud of myself other people might be disgusted in me
00:42:48.760 and I accept that but for me as long as I'm happy then that's okay what bit of it makes you happy
00:42:57.700 of what you do it's a mixture there's not one thing it's not like oh it's the orgasm oh it's
00:43:02.600 money it's there it's the views um the main part of it is the life i live now both inside of work
00:43:10.120 and outside like i get to travel the world i go on trips i would have dreamed of and most women
00:43:16.840 if we're being honest at our core we would rather do this than be married you gotta think about what
00:43:23.080 options you're giving women okay we just gotta most rational people would pick this i think
00:43:28.280 think even men would pick it if you gave men the choice if you said men you get to have 10 kids
00:43:34.620 and have a five wife or you get to be a celebrity
00:43:40.780 men are good people so they might not but but it it would even be tempting for men if they were in
00:43:49.080 the position where they could have a harem of women that were way hotter than the five from
00:43:53.800 their high school and live like a celebrity, go to all the best events, travel. Most women would
00:44:00.780 rather do that. Again, we'd rather share a top guy than be faithful to an average guy. We do not
00:44:06.220 want average men. That is what women have really shown by our actions. Now, conservatives always,
00:44:13.260 they love to say women are just tricked by feminism. They don't know what they're doing.
00:44:17.360 It's propaganda. No, it's pretty rational when you think about it. Because when women are in
00:44:23.080 marriage, you have to give up a sense of freedom. Women want the ability to have sex with the hot
00:44:28.760 guys and give up no freedom. That's why women worship women like Taylor Swift and Kim Kardashian
00:44:34.760 because they both look good, even at an older age, and they still have the ability to get
00:44:41.360 quote-unquote alpha's top guys, even in an older age. That's the female dream. That's the dream.
00:44:49.820 I don't say this as
00:44:52.260 this is a good thing or it should be this way
00:44:54.260 but when you think about it
00:44:56.420 it makes perfectly like rational
00:44:58.340 sense they're saying in the chat
00:45:00.240 I would do it yeah
00:45:01.200 yeah I mean she could
00:45:03.780 you know she could go
00:45:06.240 marry the guy from her high school
00:45:08.260 or she could be on a celebrity
00:45:10.420 go on all these podcasts
00:45:12.180 and she already likes whoring
00:45:14.540 anyway so I mean what's a
00:45:16.480 little more you know
00:45:17.740 and i don't feel disgusting when i'm at work or when i'm filming i'm surrounded with men
00:45:26.340 which are giving me compliments and it gives me a massive confidence boost so
00:45:30.360 there's no set answer of what makes me happy it's there's no part of my job i don't really
00:45:36.780 enjoy like yes it can become tiring it can be hard work at times but no one becomes successful
00:45:42.580 or lives a really happy life without facing some challenges would you i mean something i've often
00:45:47.780 wondered about with anyone on only fans yeah is you could presumably have landed a rich husband
00:45:55.940 like if you had set that remember you got the female point of view that would require giving
00:46:00.900 up freedom the way she is now she can live where she wants she can do what she wants
00:46:06.340 getting a rich husband would require giving up what she wants to do and being controlled by
00:46:13.820 someone do most people want to give up control or do what they want it's like very rational when
00:46:20.520 you think about it like that's why i never bought this whole women are like tricked i'm like tricked
00:46:27.140 i mean okay at 18 we're given the choice do you want to go party at college for four years
00:46:34.660 or do you want to marry your high school sweetheart?
00:46:38.400 And we're like, eh.
00:46:40.280 Then they said, okay, you get out of college,
00:46:42.140 and they say, well, did you land the chat at college?
00:46:45.120 And some women will bow out then.
00:46:46.720 They'll get the chat at college, and they'll say, okay, good enough.
00:46:50.640 Or do you want to go to the city and party there
00:46:54.040 and get, like, an easy job and just have fun in the city,
00:46:57.200 rack up debt that someone else can pay for later?
00:47:00.220 And the women are like, ooh, I want option two.
00:47:04.660 It's very rational, and we've got to, to some extent, it's easy to moralize, but I try to, to some extent, humanize women.
00:47:14.000 You wouldn't think me, right, of all people.
00:47:18.300 You know, on some extent, you know, we've got to humanize women.
00:47:21.180 Crowdsource beta bucks allows for the alpha fucks to last forever.
00:47:26.340 Yeah, it's interesting because, yeah, because you get the beta bucks, you get the attention from the Internet.
00:47:33.920 And usually women get beta bucks from just all different areas of their life,
00:47:40.240 like the dad will fix their problems, the brothers will fix their problems.
00:47:45.280 So the only thing they need in a husband is fuck to fuck or a boyfriend, you know,
00:47:51.680 or the government will fix their problem.
00:47:53.880 There's always like a bailout until they get too much debt.
00:47:57.220 That's usually the wall.
00:48:01.100 It's not going.
00:48:02.040 your goal to be like the most successful gold digger in the world and you would have achieved
00:48:08.640 all of that the travel the living somewhere lovely all of this without the sexy side i see
00:48:14.760 them as more of a sex worker than me because they're using their sex appeal they're using
00:48:20.040 sex to pleasure their partner their partner is then going to fund their lifestyle their partner
00:48:24.340 is then going to pay for holidays fancy clothes they're using sex just like i am however i'm not
00:48:31.140 afraid to admit i use sex to get what i want whereas those people become very snobby very
00:48:36.400 uptight they look down on most people yeah they're still using their holes to pay their bills
00:48:41.620 it's just someone else is doing it but i'm independent so you're like the more more honest
00:48:46.560 i actually think she's wrong about that because women don't their husbands
00:48:50.120 so i actually i actually think she's wrong about that because if that were true then women would
00:48:57.280 have to have sex with the husbands and women do not it's called the bait and switch authentic
00:49:05.040 version for sure like there's nothing i lie about there's nothing i you know people call me sluts
00:49:10.840 slag whatever and i accept that people call me a sex worker because i am whereas if i was to say
00:49:15.440 look you've married your husband purely for his money in return you give him sex they'd be like
00:49:20.280 no i'm not a sex worker if they stopped giving him sex he's gonna leave and go elsewhere but they
00:49:25.320 can't they need they need his money so is it also the vulnerability like you i mean i think at this
00:49:31.780 point you've earned so much money yeah you're set up for life i would guess whereas i suppose
00:49:37.080 a woman with a rich husband at any moment he could just pull the rug they're on contract
00:49:41.140 yeah they've got a longer shift than i have well so the rich husband i i disagree with the leave
00:49:53.040 because obviously we can just steal his wealth,
00:49:55.900 child support, alimony, all that.
00:49:58.460 But again, it's the giving up the freedom.
00:50:01.680 That's why you hear women say,
00:50:03.380 I'm trying to not moralize this,
00:50:05.820 but when women say I lost myself in marriage,
00:50:09.040 it's I had to be somebody that I'm not
00:50:11.780 in order to get the resources
00:50:14.020 and the attention from these guys.
00:50:16.400 That's why I say men that understand women,
00:50:19.120 usually the alpha fucks,
00:50:20.460 women have a tendency to be able to be themselves more because the beta books guys have a tendency
00:50:26.180 to have these expectations like they expect the woman to be pure they expect the woman you know
00:50:31.740 and i'm not saying these expectations are wrong i'm just saying in 2025
00:50:35.840 um it's more and more rare and even if the woman is pure at the time
00:50:44.420 usually if you if you really dig they're only pure for a period of time until they crack
00:50:51.080 forever is a long time you know what i like i try to humanize it in some way forever is a long time
00:50:57.740 especially in this country where you have leverage on your husband
00:51:03.480 um let me read the supers hold on let me pull them up on my computer
00:51:10.480 you're gonna do the sound it's playing the video i used to have the most structured life i knew
00:51:22.560 exactly what i'd be doing on a tuesday midday where'd we get lunch from and now i don't have
00:51:27.840 a plan because sometimes when you have a plan you become so fixated on the future what one year
00:51:32.380 looks like what two years five years down the line looks like and then you dismiss everyday
00:51:36.560 happiness you become so fixated on what the future looks like you forget to live your life and live
00:51:41.440 in this moment in time so i can't say oh it's gonna be five years or ten years because it might
00:51:46.940 be in one year i no longer enjoy it so i'll stop um so there's there's no set set plan and that's
00:51:54.260 okay i much prefer my life now even though i don't know what or where i'm gonna be tomorrow let alone
00:51:59.520 five years and you can't always say like when you was young you'd enjoy going to the park
00:52:05.120 and then when you're a bit older you might I actually think I hate that I'm agreeing with
00:52:10.660 Bonnie Blue she it's weird that's like that's the annoying thing about her is she's such a
00:52:14.460 super slut but sometimes she says things in podcasts that kind of make sense I hate that
00:52:21.180 um that's a more realistic approach everybody thinks they know how the future is going to go
00:52:28.700 and nobody really does um deleted deck I'm yo pearl champ been watching your streams for a
00:52:34.540 I respect the grind not a lot of women out there that stay logical and grounded like you solid takes and the piano work is on point W
00:52:41.540 My piano work is not really on point if I'm being honest. Um
00:52:45.780 But I appreciate it. I'm getting better. I think
00:52:49.560 Williamson brought her on he has no shame. I do declare I could judge him for it, but I'm reacting to it
00:52:55.400 So aren't I part of the problem, too? I'm dying here. You got to stop. You're killing me
00:53:01.480 uh two dollars super chat okay we'll keep going
00:53:05.920 and get close to bird watches like it always varies so i can't say what's going to make me
00:53:12.760 happy now is going to make me happy in 10 years do you think it would be difficult for you to
00:53:17.940 stop given that you've attached so much of your notoriety and sense of identity to this thing that
00:53:24.620 if you've made a big song and dance about, this is what I want to do, that if you no longer want
00:53:32.040 to do it, there is going to be this social consistency bias, this sort of momentum that's
00:53:36.860 behind you where you go, fuck, like every person that said, she's not built for it, or this isn't
00:53:42.160 going to be right. I'm going to have to now do this U-turn, whether it is self-generated or
00:53:46.280 externally imposed. Does that make sense? That you have this sense of obligation to what you
00:53:51.840 promised in the past about what you wanted right now yeah um i imagine that even you would struggle
00:53:58.800 there's going to be a sense of fuck like i've got this i've got this uh weird obligation identity
00:54:04.380 obligation that i used to have um i completely understand where you're coming from but no because
00:54:09.360 i don't care i don't really get peer pressured into doing anything if i think something i'll do
00:54:13.660 it and if i don't want to do something i'm very stubborn and i won't do it so and i've always said
00:54:18.440 I might not be doing it in 10 years I might be doing it in 10 years it depends if it makes me
00:54:22.360 happy or not um and even if I sat here today and said I'm definitely doing this in 10 years
00:54:26.920 and then if in five years I change my mind that's fine because I'm in control and the
00:54:30.980 big difference between me and other sex work that's more honest because that's really how
00:54:36.840 women think you know the women that are dishonest that's I think that's why people kind of respect
00:54:42.120 bonnie no respect is a strong word but why people are fascinated because she's actually being honest
00:54:50.160 where women that get married i mean they don't know if they're gonna say
00:54:54.600 they leave half the time they definitely don't know so i mean that that mentality is actually
00:55:02.220 more realistic than a lot of what people say is i understand my limits i understand my body
00:55:08.880 and what i can take what i can't take so i'm never left distressed i'm never left thinking
00:55:14.160 that was too much for me to handle because you know i sort of know what i can and can't do well
00:55:18.840 have you ever hit your limit not yet right i've been very close to okay tell me about that i did
00:55:24.940 a really big scene in america so i'd always done obviously i did the thousand in january
00:55:30.160 and then i did one in the u.s in like march or april um with 50 porn stars and their penises
00:55:37.640 are a lot bigger than the average person the way they have sex the way it's incredibly rough at
00:55:43.180 times and that was hard and I went into it quite naive I was thinking well I've done a thousand
00:55:47.660 what's 50 but that 50 was really it was really hard how so just very intense um it was rough
00:55:55.560 there was times where I could not see at all like my eyes were completely filled with fluids
00:56:00.020 um and yet there's some positions which I was like no I need to switch this up it's actually
00:56:04.720 feeling you know a bit painful um but that was fine as long as i'm able to say hey i need to
00:56:10.000 switch this position up like you could be having sex with one person sometimes and you think okay
00:56:13.860 no my legs are flinching i need to switch this um but you have to speak up you can't sort of sit
00:56:19.620 there and go through something painful and then blame everyone else for you being in pain because
00:56:24.320 if you don't tell someone it hurts then how are they gonna know you say a bit painful i mean i
00:56:28.700 think most women are like bowled over the thought of how painful it would be yeah do you like
00:56:34.400 do you think that you're unusual like not wanting to get into anatomy yeah although it feels funny
00:56:40.700 saying like body blue um do you have like more physical endurance do you like do you know how
00:56:46.000 ironic it is she says oh like i could never do that but yet she's so interested in it you know
00:56:54.520 what i mean like imagine you're like oh i could never do bitcoin but like what but you're asking
00:57:02.520 like 20 million questions about bitcoin you're like are you sure you don't want to do bitcoin
00:57:08.760 you know it's just that's that's kind of the women look all women
00:57:15.080 have the urge to be a super slut some women think about the consequences
00:57:21.800 some women have too much to lose
00:57:27.320 but all women have that urge it's just it's in us unfortunately
00:57:32.520 no i mean i've always said i've been very athletic i've always been quite fit and healthy um but no
00:57:39.940 like when i first started i didn't really understand what turned me on and what i enjoyed
00:57:44.180 a lot more like when i'm enjoying it i find i'm able to have sex a lot rougher so now if i need
00:57:49.600 to take more breaks i will i don't feel panicked to sort of know what i'm i don't ever think oh i
00:57:55.720 need to know what i'm doing right now if i think you know what actually could i have someone to
00:57:59.280 lick me up five minutes before we go again i'll happily speak up and say that so but i do think
00:58:04.560 i have um a good level of endurance how about emotional endurance because another thing that
00:58:11.520 a lot of women will think is like frankly a lot of these guys are gross like i've seen
00:58:18.080 i've seen videos of your cues and of the guys who show up to the events and they they can be old
00:58:23.120 they can be fat like probably some of them smell i'm guessing like honestly everyone says this but
00:58:27.840 but in terms of the smell like yeah some of them are skinny some are fat like some are spotty some
00:58:32.020 aren't but that's normal like um in terms of smell genuinely they never smell and i think it's because
00:58:37.540 they're so nervous they know they're coming to me 100 yeah they know they're coming to me purely
00:58:42.720 for sex so they have showered just before i came they freshen up just before they come in so in
00:58:46.620 terms of smell no but even in terms of body shapes i used to say oh fat people are lazy like they
00:58:53.060 actually irritate me but then i when i became a sex worker and i started to speak to these men a
00:58:58.000 lot more yeah some of them are fat and i'd speak to them and realize they're not necessarily fat
00:59:02.500 all the time because they're lazy their life is so busy they've got children now they're trying
00:59:06.960 to pay bills they're trying to keep on top of things and they can no longer prioritize
00:59:10.820 you know clean eating all the time in the gym so i don't even judge the fat ones anymore
00:59:15.740 i used to but you don't get any sense of like physically recoiling like i don't fancy this man
00:59:26.560 you never get that one most of them have a blue ski mask on so in terms of face wise no yeah i
00:59:32.260 think if i really found someone unattractive the part i struggle with most is the kissing
00:59:35.600 um because to me that's very i've heard women say that before actually
00:59:43.300 like having sex with the guys i've heard that before i don't you connect a lot when you kiss
00:59:51.640 someone but no like i don't always even see their face and i know this is going to repulse a lot of
00:59:57.620 people but i love the fact there's like always a rotation i don't even always know i've had sex
01:00:01.240 with someone. I don't always know who's inside of me. Um, but no, I don't get repulsed. I sort
01:00:07.940 of see everyone as they're there for a reason. I don't know what's happening behind their closed
01:00:12.440 doors and I'm there purely to give them a good experience. And that's all I sort of focus on.
01:00:17.440 Some of them are obviously more attractive than others. Again, that mentality, imagine if wives
01:00:21.360 had the mentality of, Oh, I'm just here to give him a good experience. How much better the experience
01:00:25.940 would be for men. That's why, that's why a lot of men go the prostitution route. And that's why a
01:00:31.080 lot of sex workers get married this is an uncomfortable reality people don't like this
01:00:36.080 but a lot of the women that engage in soft prostitution as long as there's no big digital
01:00:43.780 footprint a lot get married a lot do even the ones with digital footprints you know we all have this
01:00:52.520 idea that women will have consequences for their actions um not really not really never pretty much
01:01:00.500 ever so the ones i'm like oh i wouldn't date you but even if you walk past someone attractive in
01:01:08.320 the street that's not what's going to make you come it's the way they are their technique and
01:01:12.640 i can remember when i was a full service worker one of my clients he was a bit bigger i didn't
01:01:17.820 find him attractive and if anything he repulsed me a little bit i know they're saying she's more
01:01:21.800 understanding than normal women how understanding are normal women i'm telling you you gotta look
01:01:29.060 at the way um a lot of these sex workers act the top ones because there's a reason that men are
01:01:34.600 subscribing to them even sophie richie the only fans girl if you look at how she poses the stuff
01:01:40.200 she does it's all catered to men i don't know if it's their personality or if they they're taught
01:01:44.860 by some sort of pimp or whatever but look there's something you can learn um she has demon eyes
01:01:52.460 um i don't really think so i think she just said botox
01:01:57.020 he made me orgasm and i was like oh god should i be disgusted in myself that this guy that i
01:02:04.100 don't find attractive has just made me come and then i realized it's not to do with their looks
01:02:09.300 it's their technique and how they treat me in the bedroom that you're going to sleep with someone
01:02:13.440 really attractive and they're terrible in bed so you do have a threshold like sometimes you will
01:02:18.500 find men slightly repulsive at least but it's not so high a threshold that basically everyone
01:02:24.900 obviously i look at different people and think you're more attractive than the other person i
01:02:28.240 prefer your body shapes the other one like everyone's got preferences and i know i have
01:02:31.740 but i never look at someone think i don't want you near me interesting i remember rachel moran
01:02:38.200 who is a she was um a prostituted as a teenager in in dublin yeah um she something that she says
01:02:46.640 to women to try and like help them to understand what it's like to be um in prostitution is imagine
01:02:52.300 being on a bus or in a cafe or something and look around every single man in that room and think i
01:02:56.180 have to have sex with every single one of these men like old young fat whatever um and she she
01:03:01.580 uses that as the thought experiment for women because overwhelmingly they respond like oh
01:03:05.640 and what's unusual about you is you don't respond or yeah you actually think it was smelly and like
01:03:11.340 stuff like that that really get me like smell i just think stick some deodorant on or have a
01:03:14.400 shower like uh-huh but because they don't smell like that was that's my biggest thing I think
01:03:19.340 especially because they're going to be in my mouth and I'm licking them yeah but in terms of looks
01:03:23.820 I really don't judge and I probably used to um but have you trained yourself out of it a bit
01:03:29.760 not trained myself I've spoke to them for years now and hours on end like if someone's got bad
01:03:35.460 skin it's not her fault all the time sometimes it's because they've got a terrible diet and
01:03:38.740 they're lazy and they're not washing the face and everything else but some people just have bad skin
01:03:42.660 some people are super skinny some people are fat and i'm always very open-minded and i think that's
01:03:49.920 allowed me to drop the judgment and drop the you repulse me because i might see someone really fat
01:03:55.360 and some of them come in with genuinely not even an inch and they're massive and i can barely find
01:04:01.120 it but i think you know what you've come to the event like this might really boost your confidence
01:04:06.320 i don't know you might be really stressing outside of this you might be having a bad life and like
01:04:10.160 how many women put themselves in their husband's shoes has a woman ever done that one in the chat
01:04:18.660 if a woman's ever done that two if that's never happened you've never heard a woman think outside
01:04:25.400 of herself it's just not it's kind of crazy how she dresses more classy than a lot of women
01:04:35.080 isn't of why you're so fat but i just want to give you a good you know very philanthropic in
01:04:40.520 that way what do you think sex is for do you do you think of it as something is it sacred
01:04:48.840 relational recreational nothing is it the same as as walking it's a hobby it's fun um and there's
01:04:58.240 not really much to it before like else i think about it before i used to have a really low body
01:05:03.760 count prior to being a sex worker i couldn't imagine having sex with someone unless i was
01:05:07.940 dating him or unless i imagined you know i wasn't having sex on a first date now it's within seconds
01:05:13.060 but to me now sex is just a it doesn't have to mean something i can still enjoy it it's a
01:05:18.980 it's an orgasm and it's as simple as that before how old were you when you became a sex worker
01:05:27.260 uh 24 i mean two years so 20 and that was straight into only fans yeah well i did
01:05:33.760 cam in for a couple of weeks okay maybe for like two to four weeks i did cam in and that really
01:05:38.520 boosted my confidence um and then i set up only fans so before then and that's common women
01:05:46.000 i mean ask the men that have sex tapes whose idea was it i'm serious it's not the you know women are
01:05:54.460 like teehee i would never do that in the bedroom they're like whip out your phone you know look i
01:06:01.120 i and there's there's like tick tock and instagram reels that go viral about this
01:06:06.720 stuff because men are told one thing and then they start banging women and it's just
01:06:11.040 whoredom you said he had a low body count you wouldn't do like gang bangs off camera and yeah
01:06:17.440 this is the other thing there's no guarantee your mother your wife your sister whatever
01:06:22.640 is gonna stay not a just because she's not a now remember there's a lot of forces
01:06:28.640 is really pushing the sisters, the wives, the mothers, the daughters, to be hoarse.
01:06:37.180 There's a lot of stuff.
01:06:38.600 The friends are going to be pushing it.
01:06:40.700 The institutions are going to be pushing it.
01:06:42.620 I mean, when I went to college, oh, my God, I got to tell you guys,
01:06:46.120 I forgot this happened.
01:06:47.780 Oh, I forgot this happened.
01:06:49.500 I went to school.
01:06:53.820 Oh, okay, have you seen the movie Hitch, anybody?
01:06:56.980 If you're younger, you might not have.
01:06:58.300 But it was like a movie about a dating coach, a guy who was a male dating coach.
01:07:03.720 And he helped this, like, fat guy get this woman out of his league pretty much.
01:07:07.840 And the guy that that movie was based on came to our college.
01:07:13.500 And it was so weird.
01:07:14.600 They separated us from our parents.
01:07:18.200 And I can't remember exactly what this guy talked about because this was 10 years ago.
01:07:23.260 all i remember was him talking about what are erotic zones for women like what parts of our
01:07:30.460 body turn like he was saying like neck i'm not gonna get too into it but and i remember sitting
01:07:36.960 there like why are we aren't i and this was a conservative like christian um school this was
01:07:44.820 like um this small town in ohio and it was like and i and so you know you might drop your kid off
01:07:52.940 at a conservative Christian school.
01:07:54.520 You know, my parents were conservative and Christian,
01:07:57.240 and I had a sister who was a diehard feminist for a while.
01:08:01.000 I fixed her.
01:08:01.880 Don't worry.
01:08:02.440 I tell my dad I'll take the credit.
01:08:05.900 But when she was like a diehard feminist,
01:08:08.720 do you know who gave her those ideas?
01:08:11.280 It was like a horse trainer.
01:08:14.060 It was a trainer for horse.
01:08:15.340 So we hired a horse.
01:08:16.100 Like, you don't know who's in your kid's ear
01:08:18.360 or what accounts they're going to start watching.
01:08:23.820 No, I wasn't getting rizzed up in this presentation.
01:08:26.860 It was like this, I don't know.
01:08:31.920 This dude was weird.
01:08:32.940 I got to be honest.
01:08:33.600 This is weird.
01:08:34.280 I wonder if there's like YouTube videos of these presentations, but they did separate
01:08:41.800 us from our parents for it.
01:08:43.920 And he told all the guys and the girls to dump their high school boyfriends and girlfriends
01:08:48.100 because it wasn't going to work out, which is true.
01:08:50.920 they would call it the thanksgiving breakup everyone goes home for thanksgiving and dumps
01:08:56.020 whoever the hell they came with because they've been cheating for a month and a half or or they
01:09:01.220 have their set eyes set on who they're going to cheat with yeah if your girl goes to college
01:09:06.440 you're cooked cooked that's what you know yeah so prior to that i was married and in a long-term
01:09:12.320 relationship yeah and so like where's this come from where's this this massive change in your
01:09:18.160 sexual preferences um to start with money yeah i didn't want to go back to work i used to work in
01:09:23.160 recruitment long hours restricted annual leave and i lived the same life as everybody else and
01:09:27.440 then they sit and complain about it i heard that you worked at poundland when you were yes i did
01:09:31.500 that was quite bad to be honest i can remember someone pissed in a potty and gave it to me
01:09:35.100 and i think well both the fact that it's called poundland and they pissed in a potty that was
01:09:38.640 quite prescient i guess for the rest of your life yeah to be honest i should use that but
01:09:45.180 But yeah, I used to be a waitress, I was a dance teacher, worked at Poundland.
01:09:48.900 I just did anything for a bit of money.
01:09:51.240 And I never really cared what job I did.
01:09:53.560 Like I worked at Pound Stretcher because that job paid more than all the other shops at
01:09:56.500 the retail park.
01:09:57.500 Other people wanted a job at McDonald's, but my job paid nearly two pound extra an hour.
01:10:02.960 So I've always been more bothered about what life I can create outside of work as opposed
01:10:08.520 to being bothered that I had to wear a Pound Stretcher outfit.
01:10:10.960 um but yeah when i first started it was money and i wanted flexibility in my life because i knew
01:10:17.080 going back into recruitment when rush hour traffic sitting there for 40 hours a week if not longer
01:10:22.600 i'd only have on saturday and sunday to myself and then sundays tends to be food shop cooking
01:10:27.780 for the week and your whole day's taken up before you know it so money and freedom was why i started
01:10:33.460 so you hadn't previously been sexually adventurous no like sex three times a week
01:10:39.340 um with your husband yeah how how old she was married young she did not have this reputation
01:10:47.360 in high school there's people that said she they knew her you just can't know who's gonna be a
01:10:52.060 whole this whole idea that and i don't say this to be cynical i don't but i just have to be honest
01:10:59.800 that there is it is a luck of the draw you get to roll the dice somebody gets a terrorist
01:11:07.280 somebody gets an okay wife somebody gets a lazy what like it's luck of the draw and that's me
01:11:14.020 being truly honest of what you're gonna get because i've seen men that really tried they
01:11:19.320 tried the religious woman they tried like i have seen guys come up with every which way strategy
01:11:24.600 to not get fucked and there is just no way to 100 prevent it and that's life you know you can't have
01:11:31.040 anything in life without risk so if you want kids in this country there's just going to be some risk
01:11:34.780 if you want a girlfriend or what.
01:11:36.180 There's always risk.
01:11:37.400 There's mitigation tactics.
01:11:39.780 But the same way, you know, if I was telling a girl,
01:11:44.260 I've always said that women,
01:11:47.940 that there are certain plastic surgeries
01:11:50.580 that I would actually recommend for women.
01:11:52.740 I really would.
01:11:53.900 There's some that will change certain women's lives.
01:11:56.500 I saw this one girl with this honk or this beak of a nose.
01:11:59.700 and she she did divorce her husband and get a nose job she did I wouldn't recommend the divorce but
01:12:06.980 we cannot pretend she's not going to have more options after shaving that honker down
01:12:12.100 we can't put the poor kids right but we I'm not going to pretend but if I was going to recommend
01:12:19.940 something I would say hey um which women if you're really dying for my advice of what to do uh feel
01:12:27.980 You can book a session with me on theaudacitynetwork.com.
01:12:32.180 I'll rate you.
01:12:34.220 It'll be a lot of fun.
01:12:36.820 I'll tell you if you should get something or your face is enough.
01:12:42.080 But you would give a disclaimer and say, here's the pros, here's the cons.
01:12:46.680 You could die from this surgery, so maybe not.
01:12:49.560 You could look, like, really weird after it.
01:12:53.600 Or you could look good and it could change your life.
01:12:55.940 that's marriage too you know in the same way it could go really well or it could it could ruin
01:13:04.000 your life that is quite young young but i've always been very grown up for my age so if i
01:13:11.960 saw a 13 year old now some of them i'm like oh my god i can't believe i even had sex at that age but
01:13:16.460 i was very mature when i was 13. in terms of the the group sex events that you're known for now
01:13:22.660 yeah why did you start doing that was it because it turns you on or was it because there was like
01:13:27.740 a niche in the market it happened by accident to be honest the first one well I don't just trip
01:13:33.200 into you know and end up in a gangbang but I started off doing things like freshers and spring
01:13:39.140 break and I was at spring break in March last year and loads of them would have been saying
01:13:46.200 at that like at the hotel I was at like oh I haven't had a chance to sleep with you yet you've
01:13:49.480 not reply to my message and I was leaving the following day so I just shared my hotel room
01:13:53.760 number I was like look I'm gonna be here I leave at 10am tomorrow just queue up bring your friends
01:13:58.000 like the door's gonna be open and that just naturally ended up in a gangbang it got to like
01:14:04.200 3 4am I was really tired I was like look whoever's left in the queue look just come all at once
01:14:08.140 because like I don't want to leave you waiting and that was the first time I did a gangbang and
01:14:15.300 i realized it wasn't what i thought it wasn't dirty it wasn't disgusting these guys were having
01:14:20.080 a laugh they was high-fiving each other it was quite it was more funny than it was sexy to be
01:14:24.880 honest some of them couldn't get hard some of them was finishing straight away and i realized
01:14:29.560 i loved the environment it created it wasn't dirty and i know people imagine it that way
01:14:36.320 but it was really just a fun experience for me and those involved if you haven't been feeling
01:14:42.640 as sharp or energized as you'd like getting your blood work done is the best place i guess doing
01:14:48.300 the big events and like shocking people and one of the things that you do in terms of your social
01:14:52.320 media strategy is you you troll everyone right like and particularly i hate it when people say
01:14:58.600 that you troll just because i have an opinion you don't like it doesn't mean i'm trolling
01:15:04.460 like i i get that all the time and i just think do you guys have no humor nothing nothing's funny
01:15:12.320 anymore it's you'll say something sarcastically they'll say you're trolling and you're like i
01:15:20.560 mean i i'm telling it that's part of okay yeah you're often addressing women and like the wives
01:15:26.320 and girlfriends of these men and really focused like trying to get a rise out of people trying
01:15:30.320 to be controversial yeah and one of the things again that i find sort of as a woman i find
01:15:34.960 surprising and having spoken to other women they also find it surprising is that you don't seem to
01:15:39.920 mind women hating you no it doesn't upset you you don't feel that need to be liked that most women
01:15:45.420 do feel it's another way in which like you've got the physical endurance you've got the low
01:15:50.140 threshold for disgust you've got and you've got this appetite for not notoriety yeah i don't hate
01:15:56.220 women at all i know it can come across like i hate women and that's honestly not the case at all um
01:16:02.000 but i say many times like women very easy to wind up at times and they're the ones that spend more
01:16:07.560 time on TikTok than their husbands. So if I'm using a platform like TikTok, I'm going to sometimes
01:16:14.000 make my TikToks for women because I know they're going to complain about it. They're going to sit
01:16:18.120 and watch it and their husband is then going to hear it. So my videos, when I do the TikToks,
01:16:23.320 even though it's aimed at women, it's aimed because I know the husband's going to hear about
01:16:26.240 this one way or another. And the things I say, it can come across very harsh. I do believe
01:16:31.420 everything i say but i will word it in a like imagine imagine you're like can you believe this
01:16:38.580 girl she's just offering sex to anybody and the husband's like offering sex to any that's terrible
01:16:44.260 yeah i mean the women that aren't sleeping with their husbands we always want to mess around and
01:16:52.060 find out very i guess rude way at times because tiktok you've got about 10 seconds before someone
01:16:59.100 scrolls off that if not shorter so i'm gonna say it in the most brutal way possible to get them
01:17:05.480 watching the rest of that video do you have many female friends yes i do okay um i know that can
01:17:10.820 seem shocking or people say what would you sleep with their husband or what do your friends think
01:17:14.680 about what you say um but they hear like the long-winded explanation of why i've said something
01:17:19.520 or like one of the big ones is you know about husband's cheating and it was never your husband
01:17:27.780 is cheating on you it was just if you're not having sex with him he is probably going elsewhere
01:17:32.080 and i will happily sleep with him but it's never to say look i'm going to turn up at your house
01:17:36.760 and drag your husband out out of your home would you feel a particular way if you'd found out that
01:17:40.300 one of the people in the ski mask had been the husband of one of your friends um yeah i would
01:17:46.140 obviously feel bad because i'd feel bad that their relationship had broke down a lot sooner
01:17:50.500 before than what they would have realized for him to have been at one of my events it clearly
01:17:55.500 doesn't have a good communication with his wife you see relationship in crisis rather than you
01:18:00.680 causing crisis you will have some idiots and some men that will just cheat because they've cheated
01:18:05.380 and they've got two brain cells if that a lot of the time though someone cheats there's a reason
01:18:10.100 there's a lack of communication a lack of connection with that partner it's i'm not the one to blame
01:18:15.260 i've never forced them to be there all i've done is put the message out and said hey would you like
01:18:20.560 to have sex with me no one is forced no one is you know bribed to be there no one's even paid
01:18:25.440 um if a wife has ever been affected because i've slept with her husband it sounds rude but it's
01:18:31.920 they need to look in the mirror they need to look at the communication they're having with
01:18:35.160 their partner and i'm sorry they're in a relationship that's not happy but i'm not
01:18:39.040 the one that's ruined that marriage that's true but we would you would be able to say uh a person
01:18:44.020 who's a recovering alcoholic or a person who just has a tendency toward addiction it is smarter for
01:18:49.240 that person to not be around alcohol all the time and if there was some imposition by the government
01:18:55.020 that put alcohol on every street corner this person would find it more difficult to avoid
01:19:00.060 that it's far easier to avoid temptation than it is to i'd like to keep yourself away from it than
01:19:05.440 it is to stop feeling it altogether makes it very easy and the increased prevalence of this
01:19:10.040 the increased advertising of this may cause people to think oh well what's wrong with that like it's
01:19:15.920 more it's more easily available i can put the ski mask on no one's going to find out for sure
01:19:19.340 it definitely is easy um i'll actually share the location you just turn up it'd honestly be easier
01:19:24.940 for them to cheat on a night owl cheat when they're at work because they know when they turn
01:19:28.720 up yes they have a blue ski mask on but they've got to bring their id they've got to sign a consent
01:19:32.520 form they've got to take their mask off to fill in the consent form and fill in the form so it's
01:19:37.160 it'd be much easier for them to cheat elsewhere and i think it's a lot more hurt i'm not sure if
01:19:41.460 it would be easier for them to cheat elsewhere i think uh what's referred to in the industry as a
01:19:45.940 clean kill which is one that has no digital footprint when cheating on your partner um is
01:19:51.360 hard to be give me a phone number we'll meet up at the end of the night or there's the room key
01:19:55.500 to the hotel that you've used so i can't believe she talks about this like she's proud i feel
01:20:01.300 terrible for my past that's from tiffany in the chat do you really tiffany or do you have to feel
01:20:08.880 terrible now who did you bang let's talk about it who did you bang who let me let me see what
01:20:16.780 he looked like and we can talk about if you really regret it and let me see your current
01:20:20.160 like we just women always regret things when it's very convenient to regret you know i saw this
01:20:28.100 woman who said oh i just had to accept that i gained 20 pounds when i'm pregnant i'm like
01:20:32.340 how convenient how convenient that's super convenient concerns about cctv i i get the
01:20:42.140 sense that a lot of guys would i mean i have three baby daddies what the
01:20:47.300 you don't regret shit bitch okay let me get this straight so one guy got you pregnant
01:20:55.100 and that wasn't enough to stop the poor choices and just close the legs you did it again now you
01:21:02.060 got two i got two baby daddies and that still wasn't enough to stop and you could have just
01:21:08.360 had sex you know what like it's really not hard to not get pregnant
01:21:14.280 it's not that hard
01:21:17.400 you don't even really have to be on birth control it's not that hard to not get pregnant
01:21:23.780 it's really not that if you really look up tracking your cycle when you're and you figure
01:21:29.540 out when you're ovulating so you not only let the men hit raw so you not only said no no condom
01:21:35.800 you also said no no birth control and you also said finishing me day you know it's like
01:21:41.320 how did you think that was gonna go oh my god yeah it's not I was irresponsible but come on
01:21:50.000 do you really regret it now you're saying you regret the kids you're not supposed to say that
01:21:53.740 out loud you could think it you could think it yeah you better get some really good blowjob
01:22:02.360 skills because I don't know who's gonna take you after that you got you better gluck gluck instead
01:22:07.740 to 9 000 it better be like 50 000 like the glut you gotta make the you gotta suck out his soul
01:22:15.480 because at this point no like who's gonna take after that um suck out and so i guess learn to
01:22:23.900 cook but you'd also have to cook for three kids so you probably do know how to cook
01:22:29.000 out of necessity at this point yeah see ski mask on briefly take it off fill the thing and put it
01:22:38.840 back on and get to do this as repercussion a repercussion free way to be able to cheat on
01:22:46.100 their partner yeah and i do get that she says you'd be surprised i'm not surprised
01:22:51.080 i'm not surprised at all there's always somebody
01:22:54.460 always but for them to have been there there's a reason if someone was really
01:23:03.900 happy men still want me either way and at this point i don't date around tiffany
01:23:09.920 what does want you is there is it them hitting on you men will hit on anything
01:23:15.900 men will hit on is it fucking i mean men will bang anything
01:23:20.800 what did they propose are they like you got to give me like what is one
01:23:29.520 no i know you were married to the two of them but now you have three baby daddies now you have three
01:23:35.500 do you want me to keep roasting you do you want more is that why you're giving me more details in
01:23:42.780 the chat. I mean, such as men still want to get to know me, but I don't waste their time
01:23:51.520 and I let them know what's up. Of course they want to get to know you. You're like a super
01:23:56.840 used, you're like a 1995 Honda Civic with 500,000 miles on it. They're like, this girl
01:24:07.620 is free they're like this girl is um this is free it's the wife's fault for letting the husband go
01:24:18.140 out and nuzz full i don't really think it's the wife's fault um i mean it depends if if she was
01:24:24.620 sleeping with him or not but men they find a way to cheat they will find a way if they want to
01:24:29.420 they they want they won't have turned up but i'm gonna sort of contradict myself a little bit
01:24:36.800 because I think sometimes people cheat
01:24:38.600 and it's not because they don't love their wife
01:24:39.680 or their kids,
01:24:40.840 but their wife no longer has a high sex drive
01:24:43.200 or they've had children
01:24:43.980 and they feel a bit body conscious
01:24:45.160 and no longer want to have sex
01:24:46.480 and that's okay,
01:24:47.320 but your husband probably doesn't feel the same.
01:24:49.720 Your husband's probably still wanting.
01:24:51.260 Someone did marry Riley Reid.
01:24:53.420 Someone will marry Bonnie Blue.
01:24:56.720 Do you know what?
01:24:57.340 Because I really, from what I've seen,
01:24:59.580 men will take a porn star over three baby daddies.
01:25:03.100 I think gun to their head,
01:25:04.360 they have to pick.
01:25:05.400 at least the porn star like at least she's hot and she knows how to give gluck gluck 10,000 you
01:25:12.400 know it's on camera her skills so you can kind of see how good she is you can kind of see like
01:25:19.660 you can you can test drive it you can see you can see her previous owner's history you can see what
01:25:26.420 her history you know it's literally on the internet and sex and he doesn't want to sometimes hurt you
01:25:31.720 by saying he no longer feels like he's being pleasured so he goes elsewhere to have sex
01:25:36.340 meaningful sex he's just having it he's not cheating he's just well he is but it's not an
01:25:41.360 affair it there's no text and there's no emotional connection literally coming to someone who's
01:25:45.640 offering herself up and then going back to you um i think there is time people cheat and it's
01:25:51.520 done not to hurt the wife but if anything the opposite just to protect them and want to
01:25:56.680 keep them happy in their own little bubble and not ever sort of pressure them and saying look
01:26:01.280 okay, I want sex from you,
01:26:02.500 else I'm going to go elsewhere.
01:26:04.220 Bonnie, I've heard you say
01:26:05.120 that you can't condemn porn stars with your right hand
01:26:07.980 while masturbating with your left hand.
01:26:10.140 What do you mean?
01:26:11.160 That if someone was to tweet and say,
01:26:13.600 this is horrendous, how dare she do that,
01:26:15.540 whilst also being a user of porn,
01:26:17.540 that seems like a little bit of hypocrisy.
01:26:20.400 Is that a fair criticism
01:26:21.660 to try and square that circle in a way?
01:26:24.600 I think what you do, Bonnie,
01:26:27.300 not just in terms of the porn,
01:26:28.620 but also in your attitude towards money and towards independence and like you and actually
01:26:34.620 egalitarianism I mean when you talk about like I'll take any man I don't judge whatever there's
01:26:39.260 something very um progressive about that politically right like be super super egalitarian
01:26:44.320 what you do is you actually take a lot of these um ideas that are present in the culture to their
01:26:50.060 logical conclusion yeah you say well okay you tell me the culture says that it's fine to be
01:26:55.200 sexually liberated and to, um, prioritize being an entrepreneur.
01:26:59.280 Notice her language.
01:27:00.420 The culture told me to be, the culture told me to be a whore.
01:27:06.660 How convenient, how convenient.
01:27:10.500 And to, um, not worry about all this traditional hangups and you basically
01:27:14.340 take that to its own conclusion.
01:27:15.780 Take it to the extreme.
01:27:16.560 You do.
01:27:16.960 And I think what, I think what happens a lot, one of the reasons I think you
01:27:20.080 sort of rile people up is a lot of people who have a vague sense that that stuff
01:27:23.400 is all good and fine and like they're kind of okay with sexual freedom and they're kind of okay with
01:27:27.320 capitalism and egalitarianism they see that taken to this extreme and they go oh hang on i don't
01:27:33.880 like that so you're saying that yeah bonnie is like the reductio ad absurdum of the sexual
01:27:38.680 revolution yeah you hold up a mirror to the culture is it fair to say that bonnie is just
01:27:43.820 the natural end result of modern feminism yeah as well as other things too but yeah definitely
01:27:49.360 i mean definitely the idea of prioritizing sexual liberation above all else and not seeing i mean
01:27:54.340 what you said about sex being a hobby i think that is an important idea that comes the only
01:27:58.520 reason we think that now is because we have um reliable contraception obviously before that
01:28:03.540 you couldn't think of sex in that way because it well especially women like exactly yeah it's
01:28:08.180 because the risks are so high for them um but since the sexual revolution we've come to think
01:28:12.900 i mean in a slightly schizophrenic way i think that people actually often
01:28:16.380 think contradictory things but yeah they often say oh yeah whatever sex like as long as everyone's
01:28:22.180 consenting that's fine and then they see you you doing exactly that everyone in the queue in your
01:28:27.480 queues is consenting you're consenting and they don't like it and one of the reasons i think that
01:28:31.820 you're such a notorious figure is because you you actually invite people to look at those ideas
01:28:38.640 and think oh wait maybe actually that if i don't like what bonnie blue is doing do i actually
01:28:44.440 support sexual freedom yeah well they sort of say one thing and then contradict themselves within
01:28:49.800 two seconds yeah and i always say not everyone should do what i do and not everyone will enjoy
01:28:53.560 it and that's why i just think especially as women if you want to do something do it as long
01:28:58.440 as it's before and legal and everyone's consenting do it don't care about what people are going to
01:29:02.920 say don't care about the backlash like care about the backlash if you're going to struggle dealing
01:29:06.680 with it i actually agree with what she's saying but not when it comes to sleeping with a thousand
01:29:13.800 bad i think maybe think that one over it's like funny because i think that's why she's so weird
01:29:21.080 as a person because you've never heard a hooker make sense you know they're usually these like
01:29:27.240 cracked out women and she's out here giving life advice you're like what okay something makes you
01:29:37.000 happy especially as a woman like we're not restricted anymore we can be independent
01:29:40.840 well a lot of people bonnie blue i think she blocked me i don't know why
01:29:44.800 i actually i of course i'd bring her on what do you be like is it because i think she's
01:29:51.680 would be the best guest ever if i'm being honest not really i'm sorry guys no
01:29:57.100 i just think it would be entertaining and i you know i would do what all these other guys are
01:30:04.520 do I hate to say it um I'd have to think it probably would make my channel lose a little
01:30:11.700 bit of credibility bringing out a hooker an interview and her like that I don't know I'd
01:30:16.580 have to think it's it's not happening so it does you know I'd have to think about it yeah then they
01:30:23.560 would try and stop you for sure everyone says I'm a you know I groom them to have sex with me um
01:30:29.020 and then there's a massive argument because I don't pay the students I have sex with and they
01:30:32.820 said that's completely wrong but then if i'd have paid him they're suddenly a sex worker and then
01:30:37.620 these bribery involved so it's i honestly can't win and i think that's why i just don't care so
01:30:42.260 much as well because if i do one thing it's wrong and if i do the other it's also wrong and one of
01:30:47.640 the main hate comments i get is oh if this was a guy they'd be arrested if this was a guy they'd
01:30:53.660 be in prison for the barely legal stuff have for sure but teen category has always been the most
01:30:58.660 search category in adult content yeah but the only difference is it's always been the males that have
01:31:04.020 been older so all i've done is switch it and now suddenly these women that don't care about these
01:31:09.860 men saying they hate me because they're so concerned that women hate sex workers because
01:31:16.440 it takes away our power okay so imagine you're dating a guy and you're like i want you to give
01:31:24.320 me your time, your resources, and your attention. And I want to give you nothing for a month,
01:31:29.740 and then we can bang. And then Bonnie, or a woman like Bonnie, says, I'm here to fuck
01:31:34.180 on the first date. Who is he going to pick? Now, you might say, like, imagine she hasn't
01:31:42.440 slept with a thousand men, but, you know, she's kind of slutty. That's how women steal
01:31:47.100 husband you think i'm kidding you think i'm asking a divorced lawyer slutty women they've studied
01:31:54.880 men they got the experience to do it so that's why women hate sluts because it makes the prudes
01:32:01.860 have to lower their price it prices the prudes out of the market look and
01:32:07.740 because at the end of the day um why are the guys you know because why are the guys gonna
01:32:16.820 buy the cow if they get the milk for free that is that is a true statement it's a true sentiment
01:32:21.020 um and the idea i think would be to encourage women to wait but if you're the only one waiting
01:32:26.540 and nobody else is waiting you can pull it off if you're hot or you were raised to be a wife or
01:32:31.880 you're really feminine or the guy is you know isn't really banging women um but then you get
01:32:40.740 the same the same problem where women always want the guy that's banging all the girls you know what
01:32:44.520 it's like a cycle this is the cycle okay women want the guys that's banging all the girls and
01:32:50.840 those guys the guys we like they usually are not going to wait for sex then it pisses us off so
01:32:56.820 we're like and then we hate on the whores because the whores are giving it out for free which lower
01:33:02.860 and makes everybody lower the prices like imagine if you're selling a product like you're selling
01:33:07.000 cars and your competitor is giving out free test drives and now you might think well they have to
01:33:13.720 buy a car eventually well not if they get enough free free test drives why would you ever buy the
01:33:18.920 car why if this rental just keeps going they're like oh it's gonna keep yeah why for what
01:33:25.940 why did you say pearl would have bonnie blue on and scissor her what is wrong with you why would
01:33:34.300 you what you comment that again you're getting banned from my chat that's your warning what is
01:33:41.060 yeah bonnie gave a thousand uh free drivers i know and the men really should thank whores more
01:33:50.920 if i'm being honest they lower the price of the market for you they really do um i'm not saying
01:33:59.760 you got to marry them but they're providing a service it's a much needed service i would say
01:34:03.780 whores save marriages they do because what is the guy going to do that loves his kids loves his wife
01:34:10.060 but she just will not sleep with him.
01:34:12.400 What is the guy going to do?
01:34:15.540 And what they'll try to say is they'll say,
01:34:17.960 oh, he should just suppress his sex drive forever.
01:34:22.680 You know, they used to treat sex as a need,
01:34:25.540 and that's kind of my problem.
01:34:28.040 They really don't treat sex as a need,
01:34:30.400 even though if you look at porn stats,
01:34:32.780 it really shows it is because you just substitute
01:34:34.820 one thing for another thing.
01:34:37.620 It's like the workaround.
01:34:38.560 and we should thank porn stars to some extent because who knows maybe they'd be out raping
01:34:43.120 or they got it they got to do it somehow i don't i don't actually think they would please don't
01:34:48.460 don't don't take that to heart but these women do provide a service to some extent
01:34:55.460 and that's why prudes uh more prudish women hate them they hate them this was a guy they'd be
01:35:01.440 arrested and they think things should be equal is it just look in the mirror google go online
01:35:06.240 you'll notice it's always school girls dressed up even when i was young for halloween we dressed
01:35:10.720 up as sexy school girls like school girl has always been a thing and i'm not saying it's
01:35:14.500 right or wrong but don't cry about it being a school boy if you've never had an issue with
01:35:19.540 the school girl you do of course do stuff with school girls as well yeah which is quite i don't
01:35:24.820 have an issue with it i never said i have um and people had a massive uproar when i did the school
01:35:29.440 girl as well yeah before it was an issue because it was the school boy so it's like you know what
01:35:34.080 I'll take both.
01:35:36.960 That's a good way to ensure that equality is reached across the sex.
01:35:40.960 Chris Williamson is thinking the things I do to make money.
01:35:46.880 He's thinking like the shit I have to listen to.
01:35:49.820 Look at his face.
01:35:52.400 Is it empowering that Bonnie can do this?
01:35:55.300 The right to say it's empowering?
01:35:56.800 I mean, I think that the whole, I don't like the word empowering.
01:36:02.040 I think the whole idea of it.
01:36:04.080 I mean, I think, I think actually you demonstrate the problems with that, with that whole idea that you, you clearly are being empowered, certainly financially and in terms of independence and all the stuff we've talked about.
01:36:18.360 But, and I, and I believe you when you say that this is good for you and that you're happy and, you know, and the men in the queue are happy and whatever.
01:36:27.040 I mean, they're clearly, there is collateral damage in terms of the wives and girlfriends.
01:36:31.600 For sure.
01:36:31.940 I was going to ask, have there been people, you know, who say lost jobs or got in trouble in some way from having come to one of your events?
01:36:38.940 Because often they're not wearing masks.
01:36:40.260 For sure.
01:36:41.180 No.
01:36:42.000 And a lot of people say when these are, you know, they're 18 or they don't know what they're doing or they're going to make a mistake or they're going to regret it when they apply for a job.
01:36:48.060 I've never known in a job interview, they say, hey, is this your penis?
01:36:51.540 Is this, you know, was you entering Bonnie Blue on this day?
01:36:54.580 Like, they're not going to see that.
01:36:56.560 Maybe if you put your face next to mine and went for a job interview, it might come up in question.
01:37:00.220 but a lot of these people are filming pov especially the students um most of them don't
01:37:05.060 show their face and even the ones are like oh i am happy to show my face if anything i'll ask them
01:37:10.860 not to because i want them to feel really confident i want them to feel really comfortable in the
01:37:14.560 situation um but yeah no one's going to give you a job interview get up the sex tape and then go
01:37:20.500 that's your penis and the other benefit of it is i sleep with so many people even if they know you
01:37:26.220 slept with me they're not going to be able to pinpoint your sex tape or they're never going
01:37:29.500 be able to prove it's you because i always make sure unless they really really want their face
01:37:34.080 out there i keep everything really confidential so it's plausible that the amount of direct
01:37:40.800 collateral damage that you're doing is quite low i mean there presumably will be some relationships
01:37:45.200 that have failed and so on but you but you would say that that's because they had already failed
01:37:49.380 and this was just the catalytic yeah it's not necessarily failed um some relationships just
01:37:53.640 don't work because as you grow older you become different people you have different interests or
01:37:58.300 different hobbies like it's not because a relationship has failed just sometimes you're
01:38:02.540 no longer meant to be with that person sure so but the direct harm that you're causing to yourself to
01:38:08.100 other people is is probably not that high so then which which means that anyone who um
01:38:14.940 wants to condemn you on the basis of you harming people struggles a little bit it's actually quite
01:38:22.860 hard to point to someone who like bonnie blue has hurt what do you think the damage is what where
01:38:27.840 where is the damage coming into contact with the world in your opinion so i think the damage is
01:38:31.680 cultural and social i think it's i think the damage is were you a virgin on your wedding day
01:38:36.880 then shut up i mean that's just how i feel about you know
01:38:43.440 women like bonnie blue um i mean obviously she's a super slut but
01:38:50.080 she's more honest than most women
01:38:51.920 and i i just can't the playing innocent i just can we just can we just cut the bullshit please
01:39:00.800 you don't like her because she lowers now you have to sleep with your husband that that's what
01:39:07.740 you're really mad about can we just can we just be honest now bigger and kind of harder to pin
01:39:13.000 down it's not like you can just point to this person if the only thing you think that is
01:39:16.420 important is consent then you can't really point to a single person and say yeah you know
01:39:21.380 but that's not my view of it my view of it is that there's like a um you're contributing to
01:39:28.900 a culture that regards sex as a meaningless hobby and i think that that's bad most women
01:39:34.100 are hoes honesty is important yeah in a broader way i think you can have both though because i
01:39:40.060 feel like i have very meaningful sex and then i can have some sex on camera off camera i've had
01:39:45.360 some meaningful sex on camera as well more when it's a boy girl scene because you're able to
01:39:50.360 focus a lot more it's a lot more intimate and you have a great connection with them but each one of
01:39:55.100 my either sex tapes or sex events are very different there's a different meaning and a
01:39:59.160 different purpose of it but yeah with the damage i sort of cause it's always from women speaking
01:40:05.960 saying how hurt they are even though i've never touched them i've never done anything yet the
01:40:11.280 people that come to my events are nothing but grateful polite and say they've had a good
01:40:14.940 experience and a lot of these women that say you know i'm damaging you skip two videos back and
01:40:22.480 they're giving me death threats they're saying i want to turn up to one of bonnie blue's events
01:40:25.520 and leave her black and blue i want to make sure she leaves in a coffin and i'm like you're the
01:40:29.440 one in the wrong i've never hurt anybody and i've never given anyone a death threat or said i'm
01:40:33.440 going to beat you up or leave you black and blue i think from what louise is saying it is very
01:40:38.040 difficult to pinpoint okay if we work very hard on consent and assume that everyone is allowed to
01:40:42.900 take radical responsibility including you yeah for what's going on yeah everybody is consenting
01:40:47.860 unless there is some situation where a person is not fully of their mind or whatever the term would
01:40:52.960 yeah all right i've listened to this whore enough that's enough bonnie for me today um
01:41:00.720 shout out to the fan that requested this i do take requests from fans so if you do want to
01:41:06.320 request something send it to me on twitter i would like to thank you from you please i say
01:41:12.120 your name, but I don't remember what it was. Pearl, but according to Pearl, unless you've
01:41:20.140 been perfect your whole life, you can't say a bad thing is bad. It's a ridiculous take.
01:41:24.480 Well, okay, let me, let me, I'll lay it out for you. I'm not saying you can't say a bad
01:41:31.240 thing is bad, but if you have that energy for Bonnie, we should have the same energy
01:41:38.440 for women not having sex with their husbands.
01:41:42.520 And until the women start sleeping with their husbands,
01:41:46.040 Bonnie, women like Bonnie, are a solution.
01:41:48.660 I'm being pragmatic here.
01:41:50.020 Now, I know what they say.
01:41:51.420 They say, but Pearl, if guys just controlled themselves
01:41:55.740 and kept it in their pants, and I'm thinking,
01:41:57.360 do you guys know men at all?
01:41:59.100 I mean, look, it's either they're going to do that
01:42:01.200 or they're going to watch something.
01:42:03.140 And then they've got to make it anyway.
01:42:04.820 so it you know guys have that drive but they're gonna do it the part of their
01:42:11.180 brain that lights up with food also lights up with sex so it just is what it
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