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00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on

00:00:21.820 the audacity network if you want to support the show go to the audacitynetwork.com and get our

00:00:26.780 monthly or yearly memberships. I'm going to take breaks in the show to read your comments,

00:00:30.780 but only in the live chat on the website. Okay, let's get started. So our first story today

00:00:36.200 was an interesting one. So oftentimes we hear women talk about how we love men's personalities.

00:00:43.160 We want a funny guy, a charming man, and we don't really care about looks,

00:00:47.720 but we care about the personality. But unfortunately, sometimes I'm disappointed

00:00:53.120 it in my own gender because we say things but we just don't mean them. So a account is going viral

00:01:00.840 on Twitter talking about a science experiment of men putting together a dating profile with a very

00:01:14.680 attractive model-esque type of guy as you see here and this is his bio. So now remember women 0.78

00:01:21.020 say that we don't care about looks at all. We just want a guy with a good personality that treats us

00:01:28.480 right. He says, aspiring model, watch out for me in GQ in a couple of years. You should know that

00:01:36.100 I've had trouble with the law my whole life. Convicted three times for rape of a child and

00:01:44.220 once for sexual activity with a child but to be fair she turned 16 like a week later so it was 0.99

00:01:51.100 super unfair but whatever i'm on tinder because maybe if i f some of you sluts i'll stop wanting 1.00

00:01:58.300 to be with kids it's unlikely they're way tighter than your beef curtain cunts um i hope you can 0.98

00:02:06.060 therefore forgive me for my past crimes now obviously this is a terrible thing um and you 0.64

00:02:13.660 would think that because women we only care about a man's personality personality and character that 1.00

00:02:23.020 there would be the man would get no messages right well unfortunately that was just not the

00:02:29.420 case so we have julia right here she said hey handsome how is your week going another woman 0.97

00:02:36.780 named amber she says i can absolve you of your sins tonight maria says hey are you living in

00:02:45.720 london angus says why hello there gorgeous how are you we keep going molly says hey when i was

00:02:55.240 seven i stole a gumball from my corner store and felt guilty about it for years i guess that makes

00:03:01.340 us equally evil. He said, I'm surprised you're still out roaming the streets after streets after

00:03:07.220 such a heinous crime. We should both be locked up. I don't think I'd mind as long as we're locked up

00:03:13.280 together. And then it just keeps on going. I'm surprised you're still out roaming the streets

00:03:20.420 after such a, oh wait, what a, oh, and she responds. She says, what a coincidence. I'm only here for a

00:03:26.680 couple of days. What are you doing tomorrow night? I'm in the area. And she sends her address. Wow.

00:03:36.460 Another woman says, what are you doing tonight? Come, he said, you. She said, good answer. Come 0.99

00:03:43.260 on over. Where are you based? And this woman sent her address. Now, obviously, maybe it was just

00:03:51.800 this you know maybe it was just this guy right luck of the draw i mean there can't be a pattern

00:03:58.960 for this sort of thing right guys this can't be a normal thing for us to be interested in so chad

00:04:06.880 29 says sup i'm chad you don't like you don't like me to bad things to you you should know this

00:04:14.720 about me because you'll see the ankle monitor i'm a convicted child rapist and molester it is in

00:04:21.780 my past. Made some mistakes but working each day to fix them. Looking for fun. Longer stuff is cool

00:04:28.420 but can't be around in a month because I have to go back to jail for a stupid thing between me and 0.95

00:04:34.480 my ex. She is overreacting about a few slaps I gave her a year ago. Hit me up. Ain't that bad 0.98

00:04:41.700 seriously. Now will this man get to find love? What do you guys think in the chat? One if he finds

00:04:48.700 love too if he does not so we have this woman that says hi and she says i read it is that a joke or

00:04:57.840 what he said it's real it was only one kid he was eight and my mind felt it was consensual

00:05:03.140 consensual but it's over now and i'm trying to move on wow not really sure what to say i guess

00:05:08.580 it's cool that you're being honest about it so what are you doing right now anything cool

00:05:14.840 just bored and look and on tinder looking for fun and stuff are you from and then they continue the

00:05:22.140 conversation now this woman 28 years old says hey we matched if you didn't read my profile already 0.74

00:05:29.200 check it out explains why i wear an ankle model monitor which you'll probably see when my clothes

00:05:35.040 are off ew wtf is that serious he said lol yeah it's serious but it's in the past take it or leave

00:05:42.760 it I'm speechless how old was the kid two and a half that's super effed up but I would just

00:05:49.740 rather we stop talking about it is that okay I didn't say I was done talking to you about other

00:05:55.780 stuff I have no words this woman was willing 1.00

00:06:05.360 to date a man who had done stuff with a two and a half year old

00:06:12.760 because he was good looking. He said, I don't grape anymore. It's cool. And this is a normal

00:06:19.300 looking 28 year old woman, you know, because the one complaint I always get is it's the type of 1.00

00:06:24.640 women, certain types of women are like that. You go and find special women to put on your show. 1.00

00:06:32.060 Okay. So this other woman is 23. She says, Hey, there doesn't even matter what I say. Does it? 0.98

00:06:38.660 she said huh just read my profile see what i did and then brush it aside and we can go ahead and

00:06:44.020 smash already okay so your plan is to boss me around and expect me to do everything you say 0.90

00:06:50.020 because why forget it you give up easily don't you know no whatever calm down silly i did read 0.93

00:07:00.580 your profile can we move on now and there it is what forget it

00:07:08.660 Oh, why are we like this? Oh my goodness. Okay. Your photos just made my day. Okay.

00:07:18.660 So you don't like compliments now, do we? Good. Just make sure you read my profile though.

00:07:24.720 Seriously. Yeah, I read it and I'm okay with it. As long as you are a different person,

00:07:28.540 we all make mistakes. Now this is a woman. What would you guys put her? Six, seven, eight. 1.00

00:07:36.100 I mean, she looks nine. My producer is putting it. I don't know. Good looking, good looking lady 0.99

00:07:46.040 is okay with the child. That's disgusting. Well, it seems like you've been through a lot and 0.98

00:07:55.160 learned your lesson. I'm cooking dinner and you, he says he's horny AF. You're kind of blunt, 0.64

00:08:02.000 aren't you so you live close to blank or what i'm about a couple miles away they do not care

00:08:14.320 they do not care at all

00:08:19.360 they're trying to do the same um experiment but with serial killers it's actually insane okay so

00:08:27.440 So they're saying seven, she's got a six pack.

00:08:31.400 Yeah, in America, she's an eight, right? 1.00

00:08:33.400 Eight or nine.

00:08:34.220 Maybe you guys are from Europe.

00:08:35.880 I hear the women are a little better looking there. 1.00

00:08:39.160 Okay, so our next story was, as you guys know, there has been a rise in single mother households.

00:08:44.560 And one of the challenges you get when there's no father in the home is a lack of discipline.

00:08:48.760 So it's no wonder that we're seeing more and more videos of children acting out.

00:08:54.120 and there is one that is currently going viral on twitter so there is a um a child that was

00:09:03.520 freaking out in walmart look at this oh no this is my bad so there was a child that was no

00:09:14.040 i forgot to do it where is it oh here there was a child that was freaking out so there was a child

00:09:21.400 that was freaking out in Walmart, just throwing everything around and being an absolute menace

00:09:27.140 to society. Let me pull this.

00:09:51.400 oh my gosh

00:09:59.480 did you hear she said don't do that to a little girl when they're trying to get her to stop 0.95

00:10:12.340 holy hell oh my goodness this is the next generation of women raised by strong and 0.99

00:10:21.460 independent single mothers because the government pays for them to raise them yeah and this is what 1.00

00:10:26.020 happens when you have some of the problems in the family court system right um by the way guys if

00:10:31.940 you want i am doing a documentary feel free to donate we're at ten thousand dollars because you

00:10:36.280 guys are awesome. And we're trying to fund this divorce documentary because we are currently

00:10:42.500 demonetized. You know, that's why I got to, you know, whatever. But that is what we're getting

00:10:49.260 with leftist policies, right? They're funding single motherhood. And then we're, we are taking 0.83

00:10:55.700 out discipline from the home. And you have these kids that are going absurd because they are just

00:11:01.940 simply not they don't have a father to be afraid of you know and as most of you know i have been

00:11:12.580 fighting on the front lines of this simp epidemic for years and i need to tell you about a quiet

00:11:18.020 weapon being ratcheted up against men that is rarely talked about it's not just the relentless

00:11:23.380 anti-masculinity propaganda and only fans hoes causing the societal issues we discuss on the show 1.00

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00:11:47.340 that the average male's testosterone is half of what it was 50 years ago. Estrogen levels are on

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00:12:58.660 Okay, so thank you guys. So next on the agenda is women, I guess, are very upset by Donald Trump's

00:13:07.960 election. And they're really, you know, the one thing, sometimes when I complain

00:13:14.960 about feminists you know I just I maybe label them as incompetent or lazy and I just want you 1.00

00:13:23.900 to know that I am actually very very proud of them because right now they have a plan and not

00:13:32.280 making a plan is difficult not everyone has an action plan and I am really proud of these

00:13:37.880 these ladies for doing something to really show the patriarchy and show this country that they're 0.95

00:13:45.000 upset. These women, including OnlyFans models, are getting sterilized and blaming Trump for 0.68

00:13:52.920 their decision. Election tied my hands. You can't say they did not take action. I'm proud of the

00:14:02.820 women for taking action. So these women are getting elective surgical procedures to render 1.00

00:14:08.300 themselves infertile, all because Donald Trump won the election. The women who are speaking 0.94

00:14:14.380 proudly about their decision say it's because they fear a reproductive rights crackdown

00:14:20.420 under a second Trump administration. Newsweek recently spoke to multiple women, including an

00:14:27.020 OnlyFans model. I know you guys were really looking for an OnlyFans model to be the mother 0.95

00:14:32.260 of your children unfortunately she's getting her tubes tied i'm sorry i'm sorry fellas stop crying

00:14:38.660 in the chat okay you got to get over you know stop it guys i know you're sad i know i know i know

00:14:46.820 but they're taking a stand so don't

00:14:51.140 so they said they were turning to invasive irreversible medical procedures to ensure their

00:14:57.780 reproductive freedoms remain untrodden upon look at this i mean she's pretty good looking i know 0.97

00:15:10.020 you guys are sad eden 25 of florida who creates content for the adult oriented

00:15:20.020 site told the outlet for me the idea of getting pregnant is worse than death 0.78

00:15:27.780 wow and they say women are meant to be mothers right 1.00

00:15:34.640 okay so she said she was making plans to have a bilateral splintectomy a procedure in which her 1.00

00:15:44.100 fallopian tubes will be removed for me it was a call to action a need to get locked in so i don't

00:15:50.680 live in fear that at any moment a random guy can destroy my life she said for me the idea of getting

00:15:56.420 pregnant is worse than death. Uh, I'm doing what I can to protect my right to choose. I am choosing 1.00

00:16:02.840 me reached via Instagram. She told the post she was mewling the procedure before election day,

00:16:11.940 but his winning just made me want to actually get it in my calendar. She wasn't the only woman 0.94

00:16:17.720 considering this procedure with politics in mind. If I am denied any rights for the next four years,

00:16:24.220 i will not give them up without a fight says lydia 28 of texas

00:16:31.740 she also plans to have her fallopian tubes removed an unidentified 39 year old said she 0.96

00:16:38.300 wished she had just gotten the procedure who said she had just gotten the procedure told

00:16:43.820 the outlet she felt she had no choice after the election results you know nothing like a life

00:16:49.820 I mean she was 39. I mean how much she didn't really have to do all that did she

00:16:56.640 couldn't she have just waited five years at 39 years old like you can barely get pregnant anyways 1.00

00:17:03.260 you know what that's like that's like the the fat kid at the end of the bench on a basketball team

00:17:10.940 saying I quit I quit I'm never coming back coach I'm never I refuse I'm leaving I'm

00:17:18.900 that's the equivalent of a 39-year-old saying she's getting her tubes tied.

00:17:23.780 I am not happy that I felt forced into this surgery. I did not want to alter my body. I

00:17:29.360 felt like the election tied my hands and forced me to be sterilized. This is horrible. Another

00:17:34.620 woman who said she and her husband both never wanted children described her decision using

00:17:39.580 language straight out of a dystopian novel and TV series, The Handmaid's Tale, in which women are

00:17:46.280 second-class citizens. I pay too much attention to the vitriol Trump repeatedly spit during his

00:17:52.480 previous term and am keenly aware the people he keeps around him and in his ear who all seem to

00:18:02.800 see women as incubators and possessions to subjugate, she told the outlet. She had preemptively 1.00

00:18:11.920 scheduled her appointment to be sterilized in october claiming she was fully planning to cancel

00:18:16.820 the surgery the day after the election in describing her choice to newsweek the woman

00:18:22.340 used language that suggested elective surgery was forced upon her with trump's victory we quickly

00:18:28.680 learned that my choice to cancel the surgery had been taken from me i'm sure someone just put a gun

00:18:33.880 to her head right this isn't a weird procedure but one of necessity due to the politics and 0.92

00:18:40.200 subjugation coming on our way on a post on the child free subreddit about the newsweek article

00:18:48.280 women were launching their decision to get sterilized as young as 21 years old some

00:18:54.520 throwing around extreme claims now rooted in reality when you pass laws that murder women

00:19:01.240 on a regular basis what are you going to do one redditor wrote without elaboration i want to get

00:19:07.480 sterilized so bad but i don't have the money and i want and i don't want this procedure to come

00:19:13.480 up on my parents insurance other women are coping with trump's dominant election win with a good 1.00

00:19:20.760 old-fashioned sex strike it's been a month guys do you think they're still at it i'm proud of you

00:19:27.560 you know what ladies i'm really proud of you we all need a plan of action and i'm really proud

00:19:32.600 that you're going that that you're you're out there doing the thing across tick tock and x

00:19:38.440 there's been a surge of videos of women aligning themselves with a south korean feminist protest 0.54

00:19:43.560 known as 4b in which participants say the four nose having sex with men giving birth dating men

00:19:52.840 or getting married to men others have even taken to shaving their heads in an attempt at signaling

00:19:59.320 some sort of vague anti-patriarchal sentiment or encouraging their viewers to dump their trump

00:20:06.040 supporting husbands and boyfriends i am sure the trump supporting husbands and boyfriends

00:20:11.640 will just be devastated i'm sure they're in such a happy relationship that they will be devastated

00:20:22.680 when they're when they're dumped by these feminist ladies you guys are really showing them

00:20:27.720 do it again keep to keep going I think you you know what I think you ladies are actually not 1.00

00:20:33.460 going far enough you're really not you know why stop it getting your tubes tied you know what I 0.98

00:20:41.820 mean I'm do a tubes tied and the sex strike do a double I I think you ladies just need to keep 1.00

00:20:49.600 going further I'm really proud of you for having a plan the movement that has been widely mocked

00:20:55.440 online with with some including women who would mock such a thing uh who would i can't who would

00:21:04.720 mock such an awesome movement questioning participants sincerity their sanity are

00:21:11.920 calling their behavior attention seeking and cringe no no no no it's it's very reasonable

00:21:20.240 behavior i i mean right guys go in in the chat you guys agree this is i mean they have a good

00:21:27.840 reason for this the movement has been so widely mocked online oh wait let me keep going some

00:21:35.200 sounds like they need oh perfect evolutionary dead ends cutting their own branches off one 0.81

00:21:42.320 x user snidely remarked sounds like they need lobotomies instead quite another nothing says

00:21:49.120 defeat like eliminating yourself from the gene pool no no no no guys the men commenting that

00:21:57.280 just shut up shut up we're we're encouraging this this is a good idea i don't know they have a plan 0.89

00:22:05.920 let them sh you guys gotta like be quiet trump has sent mixed signals about his support for 0.99

00:22:15.920 abortion right. At times boasting about his role in getting Roe v. Wade overturned. But he's also

00:22:22.920 repeatedly vowed that he would not support a federal abortion ban, even threatening to veto

00:22:28.840 one should it come across his desk. Soon to be first lady Melania Trump also famously made her 1.00

00:22:36.360 staunch support of abortion rights known in a clip posted on social media to promote her memoir,

00:22:42.540 Melania. Individual freedom is a fundamental principle that I safeguard, said Melania.

00:22:48.900 54. Without a doubt, there is no room for compromise when it comes to the essential

00:22:53.020 right that all women possess from birth, she continued. Meanwhile, the number of abortions

00:22:58.300 since Roe versus Wade has actually ticked up slightly, which experts say thanks to a

00:23:04.060 wider availability of abortion pills by mail. Well, I can't think of anything more effective

00:23:16.020 at decreasing the number of abortions every year by these ladies getting their tubes tied. 1.00

00:23:21.000 I say go crazy, ladies. I mean, keep going. I'm proud of you. You might as well call me a feminist. 1.00

00:23:29.580 keep going that's a great movement just really good idea okay so the next story we're going to

00:23:38.860 talk about today he's on right yeah okay okay so the next story we're going to talk about today

00:23:44.080 is actually somebody that I saw come up on a he had made some videos talking about some of my

00:23:55.160 points that he disagreed with and the one thing that i do appreciate about my critics and detractors

00:24:00.600 it was when they're willing to come on and have a discussion with me on live um not everybody's

00:24:07.480 willing to do that so i actually invited him on the show 90 of the time when i invite people that

00:24:13.800 disagree with me on the show um they say no and so he has the hold on let me pull something up

00:24:25.880 so i'm just gonna pull one thing up on the

00:24:33.160 uh here we go okay so his name is zach costello he has a youtube channel with a hundred thousand

00:24:40.520 subscribers and um he had a couple videos made about me one saying i shouldn't talk

00:24:45.800 about marriage a couple defending nala ray and just commenting on why marriage is falling apart

00:24:52.200 so i wanted to invite him on the show and yeah you can bring him up

00:25:02.200 i can't see him i don't know if he's up on the screen um okay oh now i can see him hi zach how

00:25:09.400 are you hey pearl good how are you good um where are you calling from i'm right outside of dc um

00:25:19.160 northern virginia area okay so i kind of wanted to start with some of the points that you made

00:25:25.640 in your video and i wanted to talk about where we disagree maybe to start sure okay so do you

00:25:33.640 want to start with the nala ray situation let's start there so i want to know why you felt like

00:25:42.600 i was wrong to point out that her conversion did not seem genuine

00:25:49.160 Well, I guess my question to you would be is, are you questioning her conversion, or are you questioning her detriment, I would say, to Christianity, or do you feel as though she's trying to con Christians into believing that she's a convert for money?

00:26:07.880 Because it seems like that was more so your take.

00:26:10.480 Yeah, yes, I think she is a con. 1.00

00:26:13.560 And the reason I think she... 1.00

00:26:15.320 totally con so you don't believe that this girl stopped doing only fans because she found christ

00:26:22.120 and how she found christ i mean i know you just talked to andrew wilson last week i have some

00:26:27.720 disagreements with her if we want to talk uh philosophically and theologically about the

00:26:35.080 christianity that she that she spouts i guess you can say okay but in my opinion and this is

00:26:43.080 where i disagreed with you is i and i said you have a hopeless message with regard to nala ray

00:26:49.400 and that's basically what i'm defending here in that i believe that if somebody wants to turn

00:26:57.640 their life around and turn away from sin i guess you can say if we're going to speak in religious

00:27:01.800 language that is a good thing now how she went about doing it doing it publicly now turning into 0.83

00:27:10.600 you know what you would call a protestant pastor that is where i would say okay like you know don't

00:27:16.760 agree with everything that she's saying there but like i said and i think a tweet that i responded

00:27:21.560 to of yours like i think we can all agree that nala not being an only fans model i'll use 0.97

00:27:30.680 appropriate language here a hooker and being a confused christian like a hooker is better for 1.00

00:27:36.200 her right it's better for her it's better for society i think we can all agree i think we can 0.85

00:27:40.520 all agree with that yeah but the problem is i've seen this film before and i don't think it's

00:27:45.480 necessarily a good thing when we have an only fans model to preacher pipeline and i'm not allowed to

00:27:51.880 call out inconsistencies in her stories so one thing that she claimed was that she was baptized

00:27:58.360 and she had a change of heart in december she had five months to delete her only fans

00:28:03.880 five not one not two not three not four but five she doesn't delete it until the day before the

00:28:10.260 michael knowles interview in that time period her her prices were raised she has active chats

00:28:17.040 going on where she's communicating with men and still sending nudes so you know she can say one 1.00

00:28:23.180 thing but if i look at her actions i think if you're claiming i had a change of heart in december

00:28:28.900 and this isn't about money, then you wouldn't make it about money. You wouldn't start a Jesus 0.98

00:28:34.200 Christ brand, right? You wouldn't start selling Jesus sweatshirts. And I think that's the

00:28:39.560 challenge where I just think that people blindly believing her without verifying anything are just 0.99

00:28:45.200 foolish. And then they come at me when I'm right. Okay, Pearl. And I know that you said that, 0.96

00:28:53.280 and I know you've recently come out and said that I was right and I'll take apologies for that.

00:28:58.420 can you clarify what you're claiming to be right about so if i would say that i am right that she

00:29:06.200 did not have a change of heart because she doesn't know what she's talking about

00:29:09.780 so i think it was it was very i would say that she has had a change of heart

00:29:15.940 with regard to not doing only fans not being a hoe anymore well i never but i never did 0.96

00:29:22.780 confused christian but so i never i never i never did only fans where's my interview

00:29:29.100 where's my bonus points where's my real christianness i never did it and the thing is

00:29:34.380 the problem when we're when we're clapping for like she's doing the bare minimum and it's not

00:29:39.420 even the bare minimum because she goes on a podcast with um with um on whatever and she's

00:29:48.220 being completely disrespectful she doesn't know anything about the word so it's it's very clear 0.99

00:29:54.220 you know it's very clear that she hasn't been reading her bible that she doesn't know what

00:29:58.540 she's talking about like what actions other than the bare minimum has she done anything

00:30:07.100 okay fair enough my question to you would be what is there to gain for you in claiming that

00:30:13.740 you are right so what what is there what is there to gain for you for her failing to change her life

00:30:20.540 and turn her life around well i think that the truth is important regardless of how it makes

00:30:25.340 people feel so you might feel icky i mean it's a really great story right that's a really great

00:30:30.460 movie porn star becomes a pastor really changes her life we all want that to be true but if the

00:30:36.460 facts don't line up with with what she's saying and you know magically when she's getting the

00:30:42.140 christian clout that's when she's magically deciding to delete it you know if we look at

00:30:46.860 the incentives you know i'm not going to stop saying it just because it makes people it ruins

00:30:51.900 people's story true and i think i think we should stand for the truth i totally agree with that

00:30:58.220 now here's my thing that you know and the when it comes down to it like i don't think that

00:31:04.620 nala should necessarily be a christian influence or even though it seems like she's trying to be

00:31:11.100 I certainly don't think that she gets to be a pastor, but that's where, you know, when

00:31:15.680 it comes to my faith, which is I'm a Catholic versus a Protestant faith, like you don't 0.95

00:31:22.140 just get to become a pastor in my tradition, for example.

00:31:26.400 And same with, you know, Andrew Wilson, who's Orthodox.

00:31:30.540 Yeah, but you become a lay person.

00:31:32.580 You become a Catholic.

00:31:34.000 And then in order to even enter into the Catholic Church, you have to go through an initiation

00:31:37.820 period.

00:31:38.440 But I agree with Andrew Wilson in that what Nala has turned into is a, you know, he calls it buffet Christianity, where she can pick and choose the things that she likes. 0.75

00:31:48.480 And that is not the case for a number of denominations, like even good Protestant, obviously good Protestant ones, Catholic, Orthodox, et cetera.

00:31:58.700 like we believe christianity to be objective we are subject to the interpretation that we've been

00:32:06.540 given by the authority of the church for example right but we don't get to go in and interpret our

00:32:12.620 own scripture so i think this is the problem when it comes to christian only fans models basically

00:32:18.220 justifying what they're doing jesus agrees with what i'm doing like that does that's not the way 0.93

00:32:23.100 that it works but you're but you're part but you become part of the problem when you're white 0.67

00:32:27.100 igniting for her and like you make okay you make videos condemning me for saying what I said which

00:32:32.280 was true and you don't make any video condemning her now like where's the where's the video now

00:32:38.420 where you say hey you shouldn't be preaching hey that's incorrect maybe maybe I missed it I'm not

00:32:44.200 saying I saw it all but you know it's like that's what I get from Christians they're mad at me for 1.00

00:32:49.820 my tone and me for pointing it out but they're not mad at her for being disrespectful to Andrew and

00:32:55.060 you know, spreading things that are not true. Yeah, I'll grant to you that her current behavior,

00:33:03.920 her current theology, I do not agree with. I haven't gotten into it online. Now, that being

00:33:11.060 said, when it comes down to me and you, and the reason that I did that video is because I truly

00:33:18.620 believe and i stand by this that if somebody is saying that they are going to change their life

00:33:26.700 then i'm as a christian i am of course we can be skeptical of course it doesn't mean don't

00:33:33.180 be skeptical which i think obviously is important and i would say that's where i value

00:33:37.660 i value your message right because i think that level of skepticism is important but again like

00:33:44.700 Like you, you cited the prodigal son when you were going after her and the prodigal son is a,

00:33:50.640 is a great story and it's a great example. And it refers to all of us, like every single one of us,

00:33:55.820 like we've all made mistakes. We're all sinners. Like it's hopeless to say that none of us can

00:34:01.140 turn our lives around. Like we all have to turn our lives around from something. Okay. Um, you

00:34:05.820 know, it may not be as extreme as something like Nala did. Like I've never done OnlyFans, like,

00:34:10.280 you know but i'm not going to sit here and say that i've never sinned before and there aren't

00:34:14.720 things that i've had to get over and turn my life around from so what's what's more important

00:34:20.480 actions or words well i mean yes actions are more important okay so other than deleting the only

00:34:31.400 fans after she got christianity clout so i'm not i'm not even going to give that as a bonus because

00:34:37.500 So she just traded it.

00:34:38.940 We all know if you look at the demographics, white Christian men are OnlyFans customers. 0.99

00:34:44.940 That's the number one.

00:34:45.940 You could talk to any OnlyFans model, married Christian men, that's who's buying OnlyFans. 0.98

00:34:50.820 So all she did was substitute in her old fans for her for new Christian fans that are just 0.99

00:34:56.620 going to follow her.

00:34:58.120 And if she ever goes back into it, it's still a backup, right?

00:35:01.960 So other other than the deleting the OnlyFans, what did she do?

00:35:07.500 like what actions well my question to you would be there so you were community noted for fudging

00:35:14.160 the timelines on on her deleting her only fans account from what i understand there's a delay

00:35:20.040 in how only fans allows you to delete account etc so no they were they were they were incorrect

00:35:27.960 because what they did was they flagged me because it's a sympademic and it's it's defend women at 0.95

00:35:34.060 all costs it was december she got baptized she had five months to delete it if she if she deleted

00:35:41.740 the day before the baptism you still would have had three months to clear your contact or five

00:35:46.980 months to clear your contact make sure all your chats aren't active anymore and take actual action

00:35:53.940 to clear it that's five months well you you said actions but we both agreed that actions are more

00:36:03.380 important so i mean is she doing only fans currently no but she's an influencer so she's

00:36:09.700 a chris she just traded in the one clout for the other that's it i mean like if she was sitting in 0.98

00:36:16.980 the back of the church quiet reading her bible no one would have any problem

00:36:22.980 but it's that it's becoming a only fans to christian pipeline

00:36:27.060 do you think that there's any value in uh previous women who are in women who were

00:36:34.500 previously doing only fans coming out and talking about how terrible the lifestyle is and turning

00:36:39.080 their lives around do you think there's any any value to that not really i'd rather hear from the

00:36:43.500 women that didn't do it and lived virtuous lives i think that when you have ex-hoes going around 1.00

00:36:49.760 saying hey you can do whatever you want and still get married after you're basically telling younger

00:36:55.660 women you can literally do only fans and a man will marry you after 1.00

00:37:02.300 yeah so you think they're incentivizing that behavior and then they have basically an off-ramp

00:37:06.940 later on yeah then i didn't know i was coerced whatever i was so broken and and the thing is

00:37:14.380 because i've actually interviewed you've seen my show so i've interviewed these women and when

00:37:19.260 they're doing it it's not because they're coerced it's not because they don't know what they're

00:37:22.380 doing they love being naked on camera and a lot of these women have a huge addiction to attention 1.00

00:37:28.460 so do i believe overnight that a woman with such an addiction to attention that she got

00:37:34.060 tag teamed on camera by two men at the same time that in five months she's magically better and

00:37:41.260 now can be preaching the gospel no i don't believe it and i think you're right well and i think that

00:37:49.180 that we, I mean, again, I don't think our, our points of difference are, are too far apart there.

00:37:54.640 I mean, again, in my tradition, you know, when I speak for my own experience, like this is not

00:37:59.540 something that I necessarily have to deal with other than seeing this online. Because again,

00:38:04.120 when you become Catholic, you have to go through a fairly long initiation process in order to even

00:38:10.080 do so. And then once you become Catholic, you sit in the pew, just like all the rest of the lay 0.99

00:38:14.480 people and you listen to um you know you listen to the priest every sunday that there's no

00:38:21.280 there's no me becoming a pastor there's no me coming up with my own interpretation

00:38:26.080 of scripture so this the first time i saw this the first time i saw this was in the catholic church

00:38:32.880 the first um the first like it's the same thing christiana and jason ebert it was the wife got

00:38:37.760 ran through in high school said oops sorry and then she got a husband after it's like the same story

00:38:42.960 what did you see what do you mean you saw that within the catholic church so i meant they have

00:38:49.020 the same thing but with chastity speakers it's like the same thing i mean i mean the last

00:38:54.620 generation didn't have only fans but it's like they were hos like you know i'm talking about 1.00

00:39:00.380 christiana jason everett they're catholic speakers no you don't know i i don't know him no i don't

00:39:05.960 know him because we would have a different one every year and it would be the same story it'd

00:39:10.640 like the the guy who like cleaned up her mess the girl who did whatever she wants says sorry

00:39:18.320 yeah i mean you know again like when it comes to catholic marriage prep and and a lot of the

00:39:22.880 catholic education i mean i'll say this and i've been outspoken about this on my channel i mean a

00:39:28.000 lot of it is feminist influence um i think like 90 or so of catholic education and pre-education

00:39:35.200 comes from from women i mean there's a there's certainly a male leadership problem within the 1.00

00:39:41.200 catholic church um i mean you've used terms like sympathy i think it's sympathetic is what you've

00:39:48.640 said i mean yeah i'm not going to sit here and deny that the catholic church um has not been

00:39:53.840 influenced by by feminism i mean i think that that i think you see that um i think that's obvious but

00:39:59.760 But, um, so if even, so if even you're agreeing that the Catholic church has been influenced

00:40:05.280 by feminism, how can you still push Catholic marriage and say that feminism won't influence 0.68

00:40:10.380 it?

00:40:11.120 Cause that's like the next point we're going to go through.

00:40:13.740 Yeah.

00:40:14.280 Well, I mean, I think we can get into marriage.

00:40:15.820 I mean, when it comes to, well, because I believe that the Catholic, the Catholic vision

00:40:20.960 of marriage is ideal.

00:40:23.660 I think it's ideal for men and women.

00:40:25.980 And I think it's ideal, especially for men.

00:40:28.040 now um is the messaging is the is the marketing is the approach um is what we're teaching men on

00:40:37.720 how to be leaders is that all is that all where it needs to be probably not not necessarily but

00:40:44.260 when it comes down to it you know and this is a hill i'm willing to die on i believe that the

00:40:48.340 catholic vision of marriage is ideal for men and women so i don't like to stick with ideals because

00:40:53.400 it just becomes a wish list of what we wish would be true right so there's examples of

00:40:59.640 act of people actually executing this in reality right so again i'm talking about the women today 0.99

00:41:09.800 that men have to pick from as wives are not generally practicing catholics

00:41:15.080 well i mean a prerequisite i mean it helps i mean there are there are plenty of statistics on

00:41:27.200 and i know you know this on men and women who attend church weekly every sunday men and women

00:41:35.380 who pray together and i know we can we can get on that i know you've pushed back on that many many

00:41:39.620 times, those individuals are less likely to cohabitate before marriage. They're more likely

00:41:50.200 to have low body counts, I guess you can say. And the stats say that those individuals are

00:41:57.060 more likely to have marriage success. But I wouldn't say that that is limited necessarily to

00:42:03.060 just catholic um i think you can look at other religious denominations and um you know as long

00:42:09.860 as those those habits are being um executed then you're likely to have more more marriage success

00:42:17.820 so again do i care about words or actions well you've said that you care about actions okay so

00:42:25.640 what action would a young woman take that says she's catholic what would be an action she would

00:42:32.320 take a choice she would make she participates in the sacraments as prescribed by the catholic

00:42:38.680 church okay and what other choice what what would she avoid well she would avoid sin right so what

00:42:47.560 percent of women are virgins on their wedding nights you tell me it's less than one percent 1.00

00:42:54.100 so based on the actions women aren't choosing this right so we know that obviously women who are 0.99

00:43:04.580 men and women who are virgins that get married i mean again this is if we're talking about the

00:43:10.080 ideal then obviously this is the ideal this is what the church teaches is that men and women

00:43:15.520 who wait until marriage i mean it from the what the statistics say they have the highest rates

00:43:19.800 of marriage success now we live in an imperfect world and as and as we as the stats say and as we

00:43:27.160 can agree most people are not virgins when they get married right but who has more choice in terms

00:43:32.460 of a 21 year old male and a 21 year old female who has more choice in dating well the 21 year

00:43:38.040 old female okay so if the women aren't waiting till marriage whose choice is that if we're not 1.00

00:43:44.200 waiting till marriage whose choice is it more women or more men more women would be choosing 1.00

00:43:53.540 to to not to wait right because they have more choice no i'm saying to not wait because we know

00:43:59.180 one in three yeah because we know one in three men under 30 are virgins or haven't had sex in

00:44:03.280 the past year right okay and we're not really seeing the same trends when it comes to women

00:44:09.120 like we're seeing the rise in sexless men go up and we're seeing std rates and women go up

00:44:17.280 body counts go up i mean we know this right so like how can men force like they can't they can't

00:44:23.120 they can't put it like i'm saying they can't they can't put a generacy that is certainly impacting

00:44:27.920 right success but i'm in the west i'm saying about it yeah but i'm i'm saying it's not like the men

00:44:32.960 can hold a gun to the women's head and say be catholic wait till marriage so what are what 1.00

00:44:38.240 are they supposed to do ladies please wait please please wait don't have sex with the 1.00

00:44:44.640 the quarterback on the football team please wait wait for me and then they say no we're gonna we're 0.77

00:44:50.080 gonna not do that and then it goes back to the praying every day okay you get married you say

00:44:55.840 pray every day she says no what are you gonna do yeah i mean that's that's a good question um

00:45:03.280 Um, you know, I think that those, those types of, I mean, that type of evaluation needs

00:45:08.960 to be done though, when you're, when you're discerning the person that you're going to

00:45:12.340 marry.

00:45:12.620 I mean, you know, there are, there are values that you can identify prior to getting married

00:45:18.440 that are going to allow you to see whether or not that, that person is going to be a

00:45:23.900 good fit for you.

00:45:24.980 Like what?

00:45:25.380 Um, and I'm not saying that those, I'm not saying that those things are permanent.

00:45:28.680 I mean, of course, there's always the risk that somebody changes.

00:45:33.160 We do change over time.

00:45:35.700 But, well, I mean, like what?

00:45:37.640 You asked, I mean, what are your values?

00:45:41.080 I mean, are you practicing your religious faith?

00:45:44.640 What are your political beliefs and values?

00:45:48.840 You know, my wife and I talk about this all the time.

00:45:51.480 It would be very difficult to be married to somebody that didn't agree with us politically.

00:45:55.500 um i mean i voted for donald trump if i had a wife that you know loved kamala harris i think

00:46:03.020 i'd be in trouble right now um but so okay when on your wedding day she's practicing 10 years later

00:46:09.360 she says no i'm okay i'm good i don't want to do it anymore that happens you know people change

00:46:17.120 so basically you're saying like if i if i'm catholic i married a catholic when we get married

00:46:21.100 in the church and then she decides that she is no longer because the problem is the problem is with

00:46:26.300 those stats where it says if you prayed every day and you go to church every day you can't make

00:46:32.940 somebody do that so if the woman tomorrow and that does happen i have accounts of men that's happened

00:46:38.540 to where she's religious on their wedding day she's religious five years in 10 years in 15 years

00:46:43.500 and something changes what what is he supposed to do don't leave me i want to that i mean that's a

00:46:50.460 that's a good question and of course that puts the husband and wife in a very difficult situation

00:46:54.780 and and it also puts if they do have kids that puts them in a very difficult situation and

00:46:59.900 again we don't maybe we will get into some of the divorce laws no fault divorce which 1.00

00:47:05.020 which i if for example if a female changes her mind and basically says i'm i'm no longer catholic

00:47:13.740 now there are there are ways you can go about it within the church to get that marriage annulled

00:47:19.420 if you run into certain issues like infidelity and, you know, there are other things that come

00:47:24.980 into play. So, I mean, there are, there are ways that, you know, you can, there are ways where you

00:47:31.020 can, I guess you can say legally separate even, even within the church. Um, now I'm saying today

00:47:37.780 advocating for divorce. No, I'm not. But, but when it comes down to it, like that's the situation

00:47:45.060 like that's that's a worst case scenario right like that it's common it happened it happened

00:47:49.540 no it happened in michael knowles for the it happened it happened it happened it happened

00:47:54.740 in michael knowles church in his church from california i interviewed a guy and he went to

00:48:01.060 his exact church latin mass on her wedding day she was a latin practicing catholic five years later

00:48:08.660 she stole his kid and went to europe his kid doesn't speak his language interviewed another 0.97

00:48:14.100 guy christian guy didn't want to get divorced doesn't believe in divorce he's from texas

00:48:18.660 and um on their wedding day they're practicing christians fast forward five years later she

00:48:24.980 takes his children and she's actually she just won a court case in texas where she can legally

00:48:30.420 transition his kids he did everything he could he spent hundreds of thousands both of these men

00:48:35.700 spent three hundred thousand dollars plus trying to get their kids back now neither of their kids

00:48:41.780 know who they are or really or have positive images of them this is not uncommon so you're

00:48:48.220 going to be able to find examples within these communities where divorce and where terrible

00:48:53.360 things happen i mean again like that's it's not just because they're just because that there's a

00:48:58.120 traditional latin mass community that has lower divorce rates compared to the rest of the

00:49:03.680 population does not mean like again like when it comes down to the percentages there are a

00:49:08.760 percentage of those individuals that still do get divorced so of course but it's not just so it's

00:49:14.060 not within those communities but it's when it comes down to it like that you have to acknowledge

00:49:18.020 that the the percentages are significantly lower compared to the rest of the population like and

00:49:23.820 if you take the rest of the secular population i'm sure it happens significantly more well than it 0.82

00:49:29.580 does but conservative again you're ignoring what i'm saying though because the problem with the

00:49:34.900 stats you're talking about is they're only taking the people that are still practicing.

00:49:39.440 And the challenge you get is some people start off practicing together. The wife says, I'm going to

00:49:44.560 leave. He can't do anything. And so now he's not taken into that statistic because like now they're

00:49:52.540 not praying every day and going to church, even though they started that way. So it's like very

00:49:57.680 convenient. So it's very, it's like conveniently taking the winners. So it's not a good sample

00:50:02.200 size. But if you take the number of divorces, and I don't know this off the, I can't remember it off

00:50:07.920 the top of my head, but Catholic, it's similar. It's because the problem is they have to convince

00:50:13.480 men to get married. They have to. And the reason they have to is because men, if they don't keep 0.99

00:50:20.640 convincing men to sign up, the government doesn't know what they're going to do with all of these 0.90

00:50:24.880 single women. So that's why they're pushing it. Because they don't want to see homeless single 1.00

00:50:30.380 women they want men to do the hard jobs they want men to keep paying alimony keep paying child 0.99

00:50:34.680 support because um part of child support is in social security i'm kind of butchering it but

00:50:41.140 that's the reason why so a lot of times with these places that are like pushing marriage

00:50:46.340 it's they're just conveniently taking the winners

00:50:48.640 yeah i mean again it's not without its problems especially in the society that we live in but i

00:50:55.660 would ask you this pearl like do you agree that do you agree that marriage is important for a

00:51:04.300 functioning society um sure when you practice it biblically sure but in today's i heard but today's

00:51:17.780 we're talking about traditional women but today's society they're paid to leave so you can't have a 1.00

00:51:23.440 traditional marriage when women are paid to leave you can't because women will always have the upper 1.00

00:51:29.140 hand I've heard you mention that you're not traditional I mean I don't think that you're

00:51:36.820 modern I guess we can say if we're talking about definitions no I'll be modern it's fine I don't

00:51:41.420 care are you are you planning to get married are you going to get married do you you want to do

00:51:48.520 want I mean I'm planning on it but I don't a lot of words I'm wondering about actions like

00:51:54.420 is a part of your life plan to get married um I would never get married with the state because

00:52:01.200 I would never want to put someone I love in that position personally I think I really think more

00:52:07.820 women should opt out of doing that because I would never want to put a guy in that position 1.00

00:52:13.720 after the things i've learned and i don't and when i mean i mean since we're going

00:52:19.760 since we're going personal when did you get married so i'm guessing you got married young

00:52:23.400 my wife and i were 24 when we both got married okay and you've been married what 10 years

00:52:30.620 um because you look like 35 roughly 30 35 good guess i'm 35 yeah yeah uh 10 10 11 years yeah

00:52:41.540 we've got we've got five kids but my wife and i we met in high school and how old how old's your

00:52:48.180 how old's your youngest uh he's two he's about so the thing is when women tend to divorce when 1.00

00:52:55.540 the youngest kid hits five so i wouldn't even say you're necessarily in the clear yet like i don't

00:53:00.740 know and that's the thing because you guys always talk very confidently as if you've won and we

00:53:05.460 don't know because it i i don't know what your wife is going to be like in 10 years but pearl 1.00

00:53:11.620 that's the case with anything in life like you have a you have a successful media career and

00:53:17.380 you have a great youtube channel five years from now it could be nothing right you could you again

00:53:22.180 like there's of course there's risk going into the future of course the future is unpredictable

00:53:27.700 but but i don't understand how you guys so confidently push it as if it's the right

00:53:32.740 decision when you don't know the outcome i'm not saying it's good or bad i'm saying decide for

00:53:36.820 yourself uh well of course i mean each of us have our own individual vocation i mean when

00:53:43.540 it comes down to it for me again i can only speak from my own experience um you know i've

00:53:50.260 not to get too too too deep into my background but again i was i was an athlete i played college

00:53:56.180 baseball again i met my wife when i was 15 um you know we've we've been together um since since we

00:54:04.180 were 15 other than some brief breakups while we were in college and you know i'm sure you'll

00:54:10.180 i'm sure you'll start to question that a little bit but um you know for the most part we were

00:54:14.420 together for the entire time and when it comes down to it for me like i was an entrepreneur i

00:54:20.420 I started my first business right after I got done with school and I wasn't necessarily

00:54:26.480 put together financially, physically, you know, as a, as a leader or even spiritually,

00:54:34.820 um, when my wife and I first got married, like that's, you know, we've both matured and we've

00:54:39.380 both developed, um, over time. But what I can say is that something legitimately changed in me once

00:54:47.660 when i got married but then when we started having kids it's almost like something in me switched to

00:54:54.160 become like a man and a leader and to get out into the marketplace and produce and build something

00:55:03.660 that could provide for my wife and kids like that aspect of accountability is something that you

00:55:09.760 know has kind of powered me and it's something that doesn't go away you don't have that you don't

00:55:13.340 have that like in yourself like what i don't get it so does your wife hold you accountable you don't

00:55:19.020 have that like inward so like if she like if she left if she left tomorrow you wouldn't still have

00:55:24.920 that well i mean i'm sure there's there's certainly some that's ingrained but when it's about more

00:55:31.640 than myself and when it's for my family when it's for other people i mean i think that takes you to

00:55:36.120 to another level i think when you're doing something for other people it enhances what

00:55:41.900 you do now do i think that i could have a successful business um you know in a and a media

00:55:47.820 a media presence without being being married i mean i'm sure that i could i understand how to

00:55:53.940 be competent but at the same time it's like but when there's some when there's when there's other

00:55:58.800 people that i can do it for it enhances my life it enhances all of it it makes it all better and

00:56:03.460 i'm not i'm not disagreeing but that's desirable for a man to pursue even though there are

00:56:11.880 are risks involved with with doing it yeah i'm not i'm not disagreeing with you but i don't think

00:56:18.520 you're in the clear yet because again most men get divorced when the youngest kid hits preschool

00:56:24.760 so we can't even know if you have a good outcome yet

00:56:29.640 so we really years we'll get back together and we'll figure out where i'm at as far as

00:56:34.840 my marriage go and if you're well well great gray divorce is the greatest increase too

00:56:39.720 and that's what that's what i'm saying nobody really knows what is that great divorce great

00:56:45.720 divorce i think is 60s that's like the big one of the biggest increases right now is gray divorce

00:56:51.320 so people getting older individuals divorcing yeah i mean um we're never so the other i think

00:56:58.840 that it's important to say though you're never in the clear when it comes to risk of divorce and

00:57:02.920 that's why just like i'm never in the clear for my business always being successful i would just like

00:57:08.440 you're never in the clear with i went i wouldn't equate it daily activity daily inputs that you

00:57:13.560 have to execute in order to maintain something like of course if i take my hands completely off

00:57:19.240 the wheel and i you know and i just like screw all my responsibilities of course my marriage

00:57:26.840 could fail like i agree with that but this is a daily pursuit and i have daily responsibilities

00:57:32.680 that i have to execute to to remain but you can't you can't control even if you do her

00:57:39.480 you do your responsibilities she could still leave like why did you guys break up in college

00:57:46.200 like what was the only reason i'm bringing it up is because people use their relationship as

00:57:52.040 an example if you don't bring it up i don't ask but if you're going to use your relationship as

00:57:57.000 an example of what we should be then it's like i i have questions right yeah it's interesting that

00:58:02.760 you asked that question i mean so i would say that um the influence of older people telling us

00:58:09.720 that we that we needed to break up in order because just being with one person for your

00:58:15.320 entire life and this is actually funny because we grew up in religious households you know going to

00:58:20.840 church every sunday but we were actually given advice that you know you needed to see what else

00:58:28.200 was out there now that being said i will say that my wife and i waited until marriage okay well

00:58:38.520 because my what i would think is if somebody influenced you guys back then

00:58:43.160 we don't know if that won't happen again

00:58:44.840 right like if it happened before it's possible it could happen again right i mean there are

00:58:53.780 unknowns when it comes when it comes down to it like that's that's the that's that's life but

00:58:58.400 here's what i can say i mean and i don't wish it i hope it works out right but the challenge is

00:59:05.000 i've just seen this film before right so i've seen people that like i'll give you an example

00:59:11.000 stephen crowder he went around for years saying how great his marriage was a lot of the same

00:59:15.880 talking points you're saying he said like five years ago now everyone called him an abuser he's

00:59:22.920 divorced um so and all of that was going on behind the scenes right so i have no idea what's going on

00:59:31.240 behind the scenes with you guys i'm not saying it is or it isn't you're a stranger to me i just don't

00:59:36.840 know and so i just wonder how people can so confidently like push something when there's

00:59:44.280 no guarantee and you don't know for sure it'll work out and the other thing is too when i'm

00:59:50.600 showing you these risks of these guys like getting their kids stolen um getting their kid transitioned

00:59:56.120 all of these you know being like if a guy is between 50 and a hundred thousand dollars a year

01:00:01.800 they take more than 50 percent of his income for 18 years that's slavery that's like there

01:00:06.920 are absolutely men that are in worse places today and some even suicidal because they got married

01:00:14.200 so do you think that if you push a guy to do it and he ends up in that position

01:00:18.520 that you are at all responsible i mean that's impossible to answer i mean that's impossible

01:00:26.840 to answer i mean i would say like i mean so if if a guy gets married if if a man and woman get

01:00:33.080 married and maybe you're talking about i mean obviously these are real these these really do

01:00:37.320 happen i'm not denying that but again these are these are worst case scenario type of situations

01:00:44.120 they're not impossible but they are worst case scenario type of situations of course you have

01:00:47.400 to take that of course i there's the risk that i could go to sleep tonight and my wife takes a knife 1.00

01:00:54.840 and stabs me in the heart right like that's possible because that's happened before but

01:01:00.920 you know we have to make you know you make prudent decisions as you go through life and when it comes

01:01:05.480 down to it like if you do want to pursue as a man getting married having a wife that you can provide 0.63

01:01:13.080 for and who respects you and loves you very rewarding thing to have in this life and children

01:01:20.040 which again provides a lot of meaning and stability for a man also for a family for the

01:01:28.120 wife and for the kids and also for society at large it's you know it's there are and you know

01:01:34.200 all the talking points they're they're the the importance of the nuclear family unit heterosexual

01:01:40.760 man and woman remain married in the household with the kids i mean i would even go a little further

01:01:47.800 and say the patriarchal structure of a marriage

01:01:51.660 with the man actually providing for the family

01:01:55.480 and the wife in the home as long as she has kids. 0.83

01:02:01.400 I mean, of course, if there's no kids involved,

01:02:03.000 then there's more flexibility there.

01:02:05.160 But that model is, I mean, the word is ideal.

01:02:10.900 I mean, that model is ideal for the individual

01:02:12.880 and for society, but it also provides

01:02:15.060 a tremendous amount of meaning for the individual people that are involved in it and it also protects

01:02:21.140 children and allows them to grow up in an environment where they're stronger individuals

01:02:27.740 so that when they do encounter all of these things that are tempting them causing them to sin or

01:02:34.200 trying to you know pull them into degeneracy they're in a spot where they can they have a firm

01:02:40.040 foundation that they can navigate through the world with and it allows them to it gives them

01:02:46.300 a better chance and when i say gives them a better chance of course there's no guarantee like i'm

01:02:50.100 doing all of this and well it gives but it gives you my kids may be at risk for participating

01:02:56.960 they're going to encounter sin like i i acknowledge that but again like i'm i can only do my best and

01:03:03.140 i can only strive along this path toward toward the ideal and a lot of meaning does come from that

01:03:08.440 so i think the challenge is the challenge is but the challenge is it gives you a worse chance if

01:03:14.760 you're the one um providing in terms of divorce court so you're punished if you pro like if you

01:03:21.720 do the patriarchal thing and pay all the bills you're actually punished for it in court and your

01:03:26.120 child support payment like i just interviewed um a guy in i think was idaho and he supported his

01:03:33.320 wife had five kids for 20 years um and she divorced him and he now has to delay his retirement by 12

01:03:41.640 years he's in his 50s 60s around there so i i think i calculated it out he'd be 69 when he

01:03:47.560 could actually retire was that worth it she alienated the kids from him now his kids don't 0.98

01:03:52.680 like him this isn't um so i actually wanted to see are you interested in learning more about

01:03:58.440 this or is this more like to preach is that i'm just wondering because the next guest i have

01:04:05.880 coming on he like works with a lot of these guys and i think it'd be interesting for you

01:04:10.280 to talk to him would you be interested in doing that sure i mean you know i came on your show

01:04:16.600 not to necessarily you know butt heads with you but uh i mean again i i said to you that there

01:04:21.640 are aspects of your message that i that i don't disagree with um and you know but there are

01:04:27.960 certainly aspects of it that i that i do and um i'd be interested in learning more from from that

01:04:33.720 individual but again like i want to go back to you know i want to go back to that question that i

01:04:38.120 asked you that i asked you about you getting married because that kind of puts your money

01:04:42.520 where your mouth is with regard to all of this and your answer was well i would never get married in 0.96

01:04:46.040 the state and i think that's interesting because like i don't give a crap what the state has to say

01:04:51.880 about about my marriage um so you know i understand that the i mean i understand what the laws are i'm

01:05:00.680 for laws that incentivize that incentivize families that disincentivize divorce but you stated that

01:05:08.360 you would put so what that alludes to is that you would you would potentially get married but the

01:05:13.080 state wouldn't be involved which fine so does that mean that i mean again i don't know you're

01:05:18.440 i don't know what you're practicing as far as your religion goes but like married in the church like

01:05:23.640 because i consider that like the marriage as a sacrament to be significantly more binding than

01:05:29.960 what the state has to say about my marriage

01:05:35.160 i'll let him pick i'll do what he wants i don't care

01:05:41.000 so can you hear me yeah i mean i'll do what he wants so if he wants to get married in the church

01:05:45.640 we can i'll do what he wants you said your your boyfriend yeah i mean whatever he wants to do

01:05:50.920 i'll do we can call it whatever that sounds fairly submissive earl yeah um so i have so

01:06:01.080 you talk a lot about like red pill guys um so this is terrence pop in the corner and terrence

01:06:09.880 works with um men that have like committed like he he saves men from committing suicide because

01:06:17.000 they were married um and then down on the bottom we have nick nick is a former pastor who also

01:06:23.160 went through divorce where shall i begin where shall i begin so are you guys married am i married

01:06:39.880 yeah i'm just trying to understand kind of the context of who i'm talking to here

01:06:44.900 yeah i'm divorced okay i'm divorced yep okay let me tell you something here all right i hear what

01:06:54.500 you're saying about the the whole uh christianity choose the perfect woman what have you but uh

01:07:02.080 unfortunately the world we live in marriage is managed by the state not by the religious

01:07:08.820 institutions so it doesn't really matter what you have to say zach um the reality on the ground is

01:07:15.660 simply this 80 of divorces are filed by women 85 of the time no matter what the mother is going to

01:07:22.980 get custody of those children a lion's share of all alimony and child support is paid by men

01:07:28.480 if men don't pay such uh child support and it gets over a certain dollar amount you can get 0.97

01:07:33.640 charged with a felony and put in big boy pound you in the ass jail even if you do pay your child 0.91

01:07:40.140 support you still have to work either a second job or overtime just to make those financial 0.79

01:07:45.720 obligations which means you don't have really that kind of time to spend with your child so

01:07:51.060 you're watching them grow up and fast forward which i'm telling you through experience is

01:07:57.260 literally every time i drop my kids off to their mothers it was like processing a death

01:08:03.160 it's psychologically destroying and i i have been dealing with the aftermath of these individuals

01:08:13.460 like you're up there you're in church you're doing your own thing i got it i'm at the bottom

01:08:18.380 of the pyramid catching these broken dudes and doing the best i can to slap them back together

01:08:24.180 and get them back out into the fight using logic reason in comedy all right now i was raised as a

01:08:31.460 Christian. My denomination is Catholic Light, which is Episcopalian. It's virtually the same 0.97

01:08:39.680 thing other than the fact that my grandfather had a wife and he wasn't a priest. But it happens

01:08:46.820 in the Western world in all denominations, all religions, Buddhists, Muslims, Jewish of all

01:08:57.600 different sex they all go through this divorce thing and what pearl said is absolutely true 0.99

01:09:05.000 women are rewarded for breaking the marriage contract hand over fist all right now i'm not 1.00

01:09:16.820 attacking at all zach i respect what you do i got it and uh you know i wish i wish we lived in a

01:09:23.740 different world where people could get married and stay married well there are studies out there

01:09:29.000 that once a woman goes over five sexual partners her chances of staying in a long-term committed

01:09:34.880 relationship drop into the 20 percentile it is just an ugly situation all the way around

01:09:43.220 i understand that and i'm not denying that there aren't that there aren't risks when it comes to

01:09:50.900 to marriage and i also am not naive to the fact that there are individuals that have certainly

01:09:58.500 suffered at the hands of failed marriages and you know and i and i acknowledge that

01:10:04.420 there are laws in place that significantly favor women over men um and i think reform

01:10:11.380 is needed in that regard but i mean again what it comes down to is this and this is

01:10:16.020 the question that i would pose to you guys like what then is the solution from a societal and

01:10:23.780 individual standpoint so i understand that you help these men that have been divorced what so

01:10:31.220 what then is your advice to young men who are trying to build themselves build a life for

01:10:36.740 themselves and why would you and and i again i understand the risk but when it comes to

01:10:42.980 this is being getting married is a is a biological it's rooted within our biology right like this is

01:10:52.280 like we are we are creatures that cohabitate with another with a with with a spouse that's the word

01:10:59.560 that i'll use and this this allows us to raise children in a stable environment which contributes

01:11:08.380 to building successful, stable societies.

01:11:13.360 So my question would be to you guys then,

01:11:15.680 what is your solution?

01:11:17.300 All right.

01:11:18.060 My solution, I can...

01:11:19.820 Yeah, go ahead, Nick.

01:11:20.720 Go ahead.

01:11:21.080 Yeah.

01:11:21.660 My solution is there's something called,

01:11:25.920 I think Stephen Baskerville was on a week or so ago.

01:11:30.440 It's called the Modern Marriage Strike. 0.91

01:11:34.960 Don't get involved in modern marriage.

01:11:36.800 You say, well, I'm for traditional marriage.

01:11:38.580 No, you are in a modern marriage, whether you like it or not.

01:11:43.060 The state will ruin your life if they come after you.

01:11:48.380 You're asking men to play Russian roulette with their posterity.

01:11:54.920 I was an Orthodox Presbyterian pastor, and I got totally wrecked and zeroed out.

01:12:00.640 I fought for the patriarchy.

01:12:02.080 I believe in traditional marriage.

01:12:03.520 but traditional marriage does not currently exist in the united states

01:12:09.560 because the state controls it absolutely correct all right i here's my uh my retort here you're

01:12:19.520 talking about the where men are hardwired to get married and reproduce you're absolutely correct 1.00

01:12:25.560 but you also have to take into account just how far the modern women has fallen in value

01:12:33.360 where men don't want to do that anymore they're not dating they're not pursuing women you know

01:12:40.440 in large quantities we've got nightclubs bars going out of business we have the wedding industry

01:12:47.500 has gone bankrupt to what two or three times now I've been tracking that my mother used to make

01:12:51.920 wedding dresses so you know I have an end to that entire world all right now men build maintain and

01:13:00.620 protect the civilization. And what we have going on here is our civilization has broken the

01:13:07.460 contract between men and women. So men no longer have an incentive to participate. And I encourage 0.54

01:13:15.820 every one of the men I talk to, to ask a simple question, what is in it for me? And if that

01:13:24.340 question is not answered do not participate because we have a civilization where millions of

01:13:33.380 i would say billions of people before us going back you know a millennia where men have sacrificed

01:13:40.000 their health their well-being their very lives and i would even dare say they're immortal souls 0.75

01:13:46.500 for the vicious shit you got to do in war all right and they went into this willingly knowing

01:13:52.740 that there's a contract like hey i can have the wife the kid you know the white picket fence what 0.99

01:13:59.620 have you that's gone now so this is what's going to happen we are going to see in some form or

01:14:07.080 fashion a collapse of the western world and it's going to turn historically when you look at that

01:14:13.580 it's going to be incredibly vicious bloody vile i don't want to see it happen but if you know i'm

01:14:21.820 realist and i look at the examples of history and that is exactly where we're going

01:14:28.780 fair enough and i'm an optimist and that's why i am currently out here

01:14:33.820 fighting for traditional marriages which will prevent us from collapsing as a society and as

01:14:41.580 a civilization like listen god bless you man you got a heart of gold i'll give you that man i really

01:14:48.140 do so it's a it's a hill that i'm willing to die on because again like yeah it because i think it's

01:14:57.740 because i think it's it's the most important thing and and you guys you know if you were

01:15:01.260 listening before you heard me say that i understand that there are risks um i understand you know

01:15:06.860 big risks big risks um to get something that's most meaningful

01:15:14.920 most willing to die for something that you will cherish in your life it of course it's

01:15:24.860 going to come with the most amount of risk i mean you know i i used the business example before

01:15:32.420 when i was criticizing pearl um about marriage but you know we we start businesses and you know

01:15:41.440 i i started in the real estate industry it's like 50 of first year agents are out yeah but you're

01:15:46.820 not in three years 70 are out you're not enslaved to your business for 18 years though like my

01:15:52.780 parents had a business and if it failed like they failed well you can certainly you can certainly

01:15:56.760 go bankrupt you can certainly get into severe financial debt from business decisions you you

01:16:01.720 absolutely can people yeah but not not people commit suicide because of because their business

01:16:07.500 fails like all of those are examples but that would never be a reason to not pursue it um i

01:16:15.500 would say that it would certainly be a reason to not pursue it if your business partner was

01:16:21.160 incentivized to rip you off that would be the equivalent of going into business when your

01:16:27.060 partner is paid to rip you off no one would do it yeah and also like our entire civilization

01:16:33.980 the laws and the traditions are skewed to favor the woman in virtually every respect

01:16:42.100 for instance you're living with a woman she dials 9-1-1 makes a claim you did some crazy stuff

01:16:49.980 you're going to jail and it's going to cost you between 5 and 20k to get out of that depending

01:16:55.900 upon if you take a plea or fight it in court we've seen the me too where people's careers have

01:17:01.420 been absolutely destroyed by

01:17:03.440 women who made accusations

01:17:05.460 that are decades old.

01:17:08.520 Alright?

01:17:09.160 I myself, in the military,

01:17:11.360 if I did not have a nanny cam

01:17:13.260 in my office recording a

01:17:15.240 specific interaction I

01:17:17.300 had with a female officer,

01:17:19.440 I would have been kicked out of the

01:17:21.220 military and probably living in the street

01:17:23.340 now.

01:17:26.220 And

01:17:26.860 you're talking about risks.

01:17:29.140 I got you. But

01:17:31.420 There's a big difference between a business risk and a marriage risk.

01:17:35.700 You can lose your business and do a bankruptcy.

01:17:38.840 They're not going to throw you in prison.

01:17:41.600 Maybe they'll give you a payment plan.

01:17:44.140 Got it.

01:17:45.440 You know, and maybe that'll take longer.

01:17:47.360 But in the real, real world where women are favored by the laws in criminal court, civil court, and divorce court, 1.00

01:17:56.320 and you can literally wind up in prison under false accusations.

01:18:05.080 I've had judges, you know, I've talked to guys who've had judges

01:18:08.480 impose incredibly high child support numbers

01:18:12.220 based on the degree that the individual held,

01:18:16.480 meaning he didn't even have that job.

01:18:18.640 He had the education for said job,

01:18:20.900 so they randomly just picked a number and said this is what he had to pay.

01:18:26.320 And he wound up doing, what, 18 months in the Michigan Correctional Facility for felony child support evasion.

01:18:36.360 And he wasn't evading.

01:18:37.480 He just couldn't pay it.

01:18:39.420 On average, if you lose your job, you get cancer, you get injured, it's going to take you five appearances before the judge, before they'll even entertain lowering your child support.

01:18:50.880 And that could take anywhere from five months to a year and a half, sometimes two years.

01:18:56.320 A lot of money can get racked up in two years.

01:18:59.700 Most states, $5,000.

01:19:02.820 Anything over that is felony child support evasion.

01:19:07.120 So you're trying to get your numbers corrected, but the court took forever to do it or didn't listen to you the first four times.

01:19:14.260 And then all of a sudden you're standing in front of the judge.

01:19:17.080 You owe more than $5,000.

01:19:19.360 And, you know, he could quite literally just pound the gavel and you're going to prison.

01:19:23.580 and that's not even talking about the whole suicide numbers i would estimate from my uh

01:19:31.440 research and my studies and talking to all these individuals that uh 70 60 60 to 70 percent of the

01:19:40.800 time the suicides that i've heard about or had to deal with or heard through secondhand had either

01:19:48.000 a divorce or a contact with family court within five years of their suicide date all right and 0.63

01:19:55.960 there's a reason why 65 to 70 percent of the men out there are homeless a lot of those guys will

01:20:03.100 never get out of the street because they owe a huge amount of child support and in most states

01:20:08.800 the interest rate on unpaid child support is sitting between nine and fifteen percent

01:20:14.660 that's usury the state's getting away with it and if these men decide hey i want to fix my life and

01:20:22.460 get a job the first paycheck they get it's going to be docked almost 85 90 percent and a lot of

01:20:29.900 these guys are like screw it i'm just going to live on the street turn myself in for child support 0.90

01:20:34.980 evasion you know in the fall spend the entire winter in jail get out in the spring or whenever

01:20:40.940 and they just live in this pool of helplessness and it is evil beyond compare. And I understand

01:20:50.100 you want to save everything, but, you know, sacrificing men in your church to save the

01:20:58.260 civilization is not the answer. There's a reason why most of the congregations out there are mostly

01:21:06.520 women because the the minute a man shows up there they want to pawn off these swamp donkeys 1.00

01:21:12.840 which are these women with multiple kids or multiple divorces on these guys coming in 1.00

01:21:18.500 and they're and it's it's a bunch of bullshit i'm sorry for swearing you're a man of god i got it 0.94

01:21:25.360 i wanted to see i invited um nick so nick you were a pastor right yeah i was a pastor and i'm 0.96

01:21:34.060 curious did you have did you what was like your experience i know you ended up getting divorced

01:21:40.860 after you had seven kids right yeah i had to do dna tests on the younger three the younger

01:21:47.260 some of the younger three so i wasn't sure if they're even mine um wow yeah so

01:21:54.700 yeah she had been uh constructing a the narrative where i was you know quote unquote abusive um

01:22:04.060 verbal emotional sexual physical you name it even like my facial hair apparently was abusive

01:22:12.780 i literally have that text message

01:22:17.020 so yeah i took her phone and she tried to beat me and i ran ran to the church like i usually did 0.99

01:22:24.220 she had a history of beating me called police had lasers on my chest threw my ass in jail 1.00

01:22:31.100 couldn't see my kids for eight months lost custody of my kids because of my religious beliefs 0.99

01:22:37.800 because of my patriarchal religious beliefs i fought for that in the church i still do

01:22:43.220 and i believe it yeah so these religious women especially if they're traditional they have all 1.00

01:22:52.700 the more incentive to try to screw you over excuse my language or f you whatever you want to call it

01:22:59.140 to morally justify their shameful behavior so they will increase the charges to justify

01:23:06.040 leaving you

01:23:07.800 they could be false charges because they have that they can't deal with the shame factor

01:23:16.400 of their of the sisterhood of the church ladies versus if you had a woman that wasn't even a 0.95

01:23:23.060 Christian it might not even be as bad um so yeah I got I lost custody of my kids and 0.92

01:23:29.300 you see your kids develop but you have no real say on what's going on in their life

01:23:36.340 you see the lack of structure you see the lack of discipline you feel the pain when you drop 0.85

01:23:43.780 them off that their lives are probably screwed and that's not a damn thing you can do about it

01:23:49.100 so basically nick you were issued the wound that never heals yes yes i too have had the same thing

01:23:58.460 happen to me so the reason i brought you on terrence was i was hoping you could go through

01:24:06.220 because i think there's this idea that you guys um aren't it's not common right that it's like a

01:24:13.660 one percent chance like that it won't happen to you and um i just that's what i was kind of because

01:24:20.860 you were like an expert with the different stats so i was wondering if you could kind of go i'll

01:24:25.020 run you through it the punch out years 7 13 21 24 if you get beyond 24 years your chances of getting

01:24:31.900 divorced go way down um granted i probably have to revisit that because i did not take gray divorces 0.98

01:24:39.740 into account which are growing in number uh 80 percent of the divorces filed by women and that

01:24:45.900 even goes up to 90 if you add in college educated women and furthermore if a woman is working and 0.99

01:24:52.860 she makes close to what you make her your chances of getting divorced go up quite a bit okay now

01:25:01.900 of the 85 15 85 of the time these women get will get custody of the children no matter what 1.00

01:25:09.740 I've seen women get custody of their convicted felons, you know, in drug rehab, working, you know, as sex workers. 0.98

01:25:18.740 Okay, of the 15% where the man actually gets the custody of those kids, 5% to 7% of the time, the mother didn't show up in court and he won by default.

01:25:31.220 So the true number is somewhere between 93% and 97% of the time, or 95% of the time, the children are going to the mother.

01:25:44.440 And if you look at the stats of, you know, the end result of children of fatherless homes, 85% of the felons in court or in prison are there because they came from a single mother home.

01:26:01.600 you know the rapists overwhelmingly come from single mother homes drug addicts in any of the

01:26:09.020 any of your mental instability all of those go up through the roof when they come from a single

01:26:16.080 mother home and while you're going through your divorce the entire court will look you in the

01:26:20.360 face and say we're doing this for the best interest of the child and in reality it's all

01:26:28.100 financially motivated if you haven't heard of title 4d money that is basically where the federal

01:26:37.040 government reimburses the counties for collecting child support from these fathers and they're 0.58

01:26:45.040 reimbursed from the social security fund anywhere between 35 and i believe a dollar 50 per dollar

01:26:54.420 collected at 35 cents to a dollar 50 per dollar collected depending upon the the different uh

01:27:02.740 uh aspects of the of the situation so when we run out of social security money

01:27:09.060 all of that could be blamed solely on the feet of the single mother 1.00

01:27:14.180 is is that good enough there yeah i was just curious um but okay but my question to you guys

01:27:25.020 would be this because you like you you just you just explain the detrimental stats of single

01:27:32.340 parenting and nick i mean you're i'm sorry to hear about your situation that sounds terrible

01:27:37.920 but you also just said that you also advocate for traditional marriage so again it seems like

01:27:45.060 your guys's vision for men is to enter into traditional marriages you you do you believe 0.81

01:27:51.280 that that's the answer yet at the same time you're telling men that they shouldn't get married what

01:27:57.460 because of the because of the current legal system because traditional marriage doesn't exist 0.98

01:28:02.200 currently in the united states you can call it what you want you can have you know you can go

01:28:07.460 before the church that's fine but the second one person wants to leave you realize there is no

01:28:13.920 traditional marriage yep and if you look at the stats for single father homes the outcomes of

01:28:23.220 the children are very close to the outcomes of a child having both the mother and father present

01:28:30.080 if the court was really about best interest of the child those kids would be given to the father

01:28:37.320 who statistically makes a lion's share of the income but that doesn't happen because everyone

01:28:44.320 wants to get paid it is corrupt from the top down bottom up and every screwed up stage in between

01:28:51.520 and so my question for conservatives is why do they spend so much time on like trans issues

01:28:57.920 why do they spend so much time complaining about the red pill guys but they don't complain about 1.00

01:29:04.600 the marriage laws they might do a one-off they might do a one-off like ben shapiro i'm not i

01:29:09.700 don't know your channel too close i gotta step out for me you're fine um you're totally fine

01:29:13.800 you can it can but um because my question is why is it a one-off video about the marriage laws

01:29:22.260 but they'll do like trans sports forever you know it's like the one thing that could give us back 0.91

01:29:28.580 traditionalism would be changing the marriage laws but i never hear anybody rallying for that 0.85

01:29:36.340 i guess i'm having trouble understanding why you can't practice a traditional marriage and abide by

01:29:41.780 for example what the church teaches and treat marriage as a sacrament and structure marriage

01:29:48.100 can you control traditional marriage despite what the current marriage laws are can you can you can

01:29:54.180 can you control another person of course not but even if the laws were totally in favor of

01:30:00.740 traditional marriage i still couldn't control another person okay so if your wife tomorrow 0.82

01:30:05.380 said i want to leave what leverage do you have to make her not how could you stop her

01:30:11.120 i have no leverage to make anybody do something that i i have no leverage to control anybody in

01:30:18.860 that regard i mean you so you no other human being has the ability to do that well that's why you

01:30:24.860 don't have a traditional marriage because if tomorrow she says i want to leave and steal your 1.00

01:30:29.040 children she can so she automatically has the leverage and if she goes to court there is an

01:30:34.680 eight 90 chance she gets primary custody meaning you'll never make another primary decision she 1.00

01:30:40.880 gets to pick where they go to school she gets to pick who's around your kids she gets you get

01:30:45.440 every other weekend if you're lucky medical procedures um so you can't have a traditional

01:30:51.240 marriage because she has the leverage so in a so what so what you're saying is that in a traditional

01:30:57.080 marriage the husband has complete control over the over what the wife can do i'd say in a 0.85

01:31:05.580 traditional marriage they stay together in an islamic country for example where you know i mean

01:31:12.220 divorce would be i would say at the i would say but i'm sure severely i would say at the

01:31:18.280 bare minimum it wouldn't be rewarded i would say the bare minimum is one person isn't paid to leave

01:31:26.580 and if we're going patriarchal that would mean the men get the children 0.97

01:31:30.640 so you're saying that the traditional model should be invoked into into law would be what

01:31:38.380 your guys's solution um if i well i'm i'm not saying one way or the other i'm saying that it

01:31:44.900 is not traditional i'm saying in 2024 you can't have a traditional marriage how we fix the legal

01:31:50.560 system um there's i mean i would say get rid of child support alimony 50 50 custody off the bat

01:31:58.280 that's exactly what i would say as well stephen bascaril says um i pretty much agree with him

01:32:05.780 default father custody would fix everything because this by default patriarchal and hence 0.90

01:32:12.220 that's what's worked forever yep there's a reason why when you remove the father crap goes crazy

01:32:20.480 absolute correct i agree i mean i agree and the stats would also the stats say that if there is

01:32:28.480 a single parent household that statistically the children would be better off if if the father was

01:32:33.660 single parent i i would be fine with that but it's it goes back to it's not make a wish right we

01:32:39.660 can't that's not happening tomorrow so i can't blame men if in the meantime they choose to walk

01:32:45.580 away and i don't think that makes them less moral i don't think you're more moral because you chose

01:32:51.420 to take the risk or less moral all right hey uh i gotta jump off here you're fine thanks for coming

01:32:58.860 no problem and uh hey nick if you want to send me an email to send it to redonculus12gmail.com

01:33:06.940 and i'll be more than happy to uh go over some uh scenarios with you

01:33:13.100 redoncula you said redonculus12 at gmail.com yeah yeah also i don't know if you have any other if i

01:33:20.620 don't know if you have any other thoughts but i was gonna go back to me and zach nick unless you

01:33:24.700 have any other thoughts you wanted to add okay thank you guys thanks for having me on hey nick

01:33:30.860 i'm up to 553 guys saved from suicide in the past 15 years using logic reason and comedy it would be

01:33:38.700 more if i could uh get youtube's uh you know boot off my neck but it is what it is

01:33:49.980 okay yeah you can drop them thanks guys

01:33:54.700 oh he has to go too okay no problem um zach do you have any other points you want to make

01:34:04.260 at all this was fun did you have fun i did pearl yeah thanks for having me on yeah we'll definitely

01:34:11.360 have you back if you want to come back yeah absolutely and like i said the invitation's

01:34:17.880 out out to you as well to to come on and maybe do something long form on my channel as well

01:34:22.780 i expect a nala video i'm waiting i'm waiting for my nala doesn't know what she's talking about

01:34:29.960 am i gonna get one maybe i'll do a nala as a confused christian type of video but again

01:34:34.920 do i get heretic could i get heretic a confused christian than than an only fans model i wouldn't

01:34:40.860 i would rather i would rather have i would rather her and her soul like seriously as a person i

01:34:49.840 I don't believe her. I would rather have someone that's not a fraud in church.

01:34:53.820 I don't believe it. Like, and I'm not, why am I immoral? Because I don't believe her.

01:34:59.880 I never said that you were immoral. I would just, I mean, again, like I appreciate the

01:35:04.340 skepticism. And I think, again, that's, that's important for all of us to be aware of. But when

01:35:08.580 it comes down to it again, I don't think we should necessarily at any time, hope that somebody can't

01:35:15.820 turn their life around I mean it's it's just to me that would go against everything everything

01:35:22.200 that I believe in that I stand for right like we want every we want people to turn their lives around

01:35:26.980 and get their lives on track and and turn back toward God is is my argument and that's the

01:35:33.720 argument that I made for you I mean that's the argument that I made against you in that Nala 1.00

01:35:37.160 video miracles happen but I don't play the lottery and that's what I would say the chance of her being 1.00

01:35:43.260 really converted i would say yeah you could win the lottery but you probably won't 10 years from

01:35:48.940 now 20 years from now will she be quiet in the back of the church i doubt it i would put money

01:35:56.220 she's gonna have to get a real job it's gonna be too tough she'll be back 1.00

01:36:00.220 you think so yeah yeah if this influencer thing doesn't work out she'll either be a female pastor 1.00

01:36:06.860 or an only fans model it's one or the other well i hope that that's not the case i hope that she

01:36:12.220 stays away from it again i'd rather have a confused christian than than you know somebody who's who's

01:36:19.020 doing whatever she's doing online on only fans so okay well thank you very much for coming on

01:36:24.940 we'll definitely have you back all right pearl thanks talk soon talk soon okay guys so i think

01:36:33.580 that's all i got for you today do you guys like having the people that make the hit pieces on me

01:36:39.340 me if you guys like this I can do it sometimes I'm just like do I need this but it was kind of

01:36:46.940 fun he was respectful we liked him so anyways um guys make sure you like the video on your way out

01:36:54.040 and subscribe you know if we get more signups on the website I can do more edgy stuff I really want

01:37:00.460 to there's I really want to bring some people back on but it would have to be on the website

01:37:05.560 so I got to get enough signups let me oh let me read the website today I am sorry guys I got

01:37:10.900 distracted okay so before we go uh I hope you're right but I'm unsure um Yavak says this means

01:37:20.000 they're only removing um their sellable what the value when it's on the decline Chris Watts says

01:37:27.300 that he has two found Christ and he has a daily devotional available at least he stopped killing

01:37:32.040 people before talking about his conversion i should have said that's funny i was in church

01:37:41.080 i was a church going nice guy for decades this guy is a simp demonstrate your commitment for a

01:37:45.560 decade or so then we'll praise you i respect this guy for coming a lot on and defending his position

01:37:51.080 i do too i do too i don't if he wants to come back you can come back on um pearl's critics get

01:37:57.080 more upset about her being community noted than about what nala did only fans uh why smear do 1.00

01:38:05.480 catholic women need to spread to get their annulled three times before 40. i hope that men and women

01:38:11.880 keep trying to build faithful marriages um pearl that's too damn negative one needs to keep trying 1.00

01:38:19.000 to stay together her point is that society is skewed to giving women all the power that can't 1.00

01:38:23.560 work long term it's the liberal society that created these scenarios for laws you have to

01:38:28.840 look at the system and the stats it's not a reasonable or financial educational decision

01:38:34.520 without a bulletproof prenup the stats don't support men and there's too much cultural pressure

01:38:42.440 for women to divorce for many reasons there's a huge incentive unfortunately he's confusing

01:38:46.760 potential benefits from a non-rigged marriage versus the reality of today hopefully people see

01:38:53.240 the bs happening in society there is no traditional marriage in the u.s the system won't allow it 0.82

01:38:59.640 what men allowed these laws rights and policies to keep happening all the democrat women that 1.00

01:39:05.160 are willing to stand up in front of the world stating the most important voting issue for them

01:39:08.920 was the ability to kill their unborn child uh okay best chance of a lifelong marriage only the laws 0.58

01:39:17.160 of moses if he divorced then a letter and then a letter and send her away no payments no children

01:39:22.520 and if she's caught in alimony okay okay guys um anyways the more signups i'm sorry next show

01:39:28.400 i will be better i will do a break mid i got um carried away um make sure you guys sign up on the

01:39:35.020 website if you can like the video on your way out and subscribe and i'll see you guys tomorrow bye

Pearl - December 03, 2024

You Know NOTHING about Marriage! The TRADITION Family Will Save Us ｜ Pearl Daily

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