00:14:51.140so they said they were turning to invasive irreversible medical procedures to ensure their
00:14:57.780reproductive freedoms remain untrodden upon look at this i mean she's pretty good looking i know
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00:15:10.020you guys are sad eden 25 of florida who creates content for the adult oriented
00:15:20.020site told the outlet for me the idea of getting pregnant is worse than death
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00:15:27.780wow and they say women are meant to be mothers right
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00:15:34.640okay so she said she was making plans to have a bilateral splintectomy a procedure in which her
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00:15:44.100fallopian tubes will be removed for me it was a call to action a need to get locked in so i don't
00:15:50.680live in fear that at any moment a random guy can destroy my life she said for me the idea of getting
00:15:56.420pregnant is worse than death. Uh, I'm doing what I can to protect my right to choose. I am choosing
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00:16:02.840me reached via Instagram. She told the post she was mewling the procedure before election day,
00:16:11.940but his winning just made me want to actually get it in my calendar. She wasn't the only woman
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00:16:17.720considering this procedure with politics in mind. If I am denied any rights for the next four years,
00:16:24.220i will not give them up without a fight says lydia 28 of texas
00:16:31.740she also plans to have her fallopian tubes removed an unidentified 39 year old said she
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00:16:38.300wished she had just gotten the procedure who said she had just gotten the procedure told
00:16:43.820the outlet she felt she had no choice after the election results you know nothing like a life
00:16:49.820I mean she was 39. I mean how much she didn't really have to do all that did she
00:16:56.640couldn't she have just waited five years at 39 years old like you can barely get pregnant anyways
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00:17:03.260you know what that's like that's like the the fat kid at the end of the bench on a basketball team
00:17:10.940saying I quit I quit I'm never coming back coach I'm never I refuse I'm leaving I'm
00:17:18.900that's the equivalent of a 39-year-old saying she's getting her tubes tied.
00:17:23.780I am not happy that I felt forced into this surgery. I did not want to alter my body. I
00:17:29.360felt like the election tied my hands and forced me to be sterilized. This is horrible. Another
00:17:34.620woman who said she and her husband both never wanted children described her decision using
00:17:39.580language straight out of a dystopian novel and TV series, The Handmaid's Tale, in which women are
00:17:46.280second-class citizens. I pay too much attention to the vitriol Trump repeatedly spit during his
00:17:52.480previous term and am keenly aware the people he keeps around him and in his ear who all seem to
00:18:02.800see women as incubators and possessions to subjugate, she told the outlet. She had preemptively
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00:18:11.920scheduled her appointment to be sterilized in october claiming she was fully planning to cancel
00:18:16.820the surgery the day after the election in describing her choice to newsweek the woman
00:18:22.340used language that suggested elective surgery was forced upon her with trump's victory we quickly
00:18:28.680learned that my choice to cancel the surgery had been taken from me i'm sure someone just put a gun
00:18:33.880to her head right this isn't a weird procedure but one of necessity due to the politics and
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00:18:40.200subjugation coming on our way on a post on the child free subreddit about the newsweek article
00:18:48.280women were launching their decision to get sterilized as young as 21 years old some
00:18:54.520throwing around extreme claims now rooted in reality when you pass laws that murder women
00:19:01.240on a regular basis what are you going to do one redditor wrote without elaboration i want to get
00:19:07.480sterilized so bad but i don't have the money and i want and i don't want this procedure to come
00:19:13.480up on my parents insurance other women are coping with trump's dominant election win with a good
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00:19:20.760old-fashioned sex strike it's been a month guys do you think they're still at it i'm proud of you
00:19:27.560you know what ladies i'm really proud of you we all need a plan of action and i'm really proud
00:19:32.600that you're going that that you're you're out there doing the thing across tick tock and x
00:19:38.440there's been a surge of videos of women aligning themselves with a south korean feminist protest
00:19:43.560known as 4b in which participants say the four nose having sex with men giving birth dating men
00:19:52.840or getting married to men others have even taken to shaving their heads in an attempt at signaling
00:19:59.320some sort of vague anti-patriarchal sentiment or encouraging their viewers to dump their trump
00:20:06.040supporting husbands and boyfriends i am sure the trump supporting husbands and boyfriends
00:20:11.640will just be devastated i'm sure they're in such a happy relationship that they will be devastated
00:20:22.680when they're when they're dumped by these feminist ladies you guys are really showing them
00:20:27.720do it again keep to keep going I think you you know what I think you ladies are actually not
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00:20:33.460going far enough you're really not you know why stop it getting your tubes tied you know what I
00:20:41.820mean I'm do a tubes tied and the sex strike do a double I I think you ladies just need to keep
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00:20:49.600going further I'm really proud of you for having a plan the movement that has been widely mocked
00:20:55.440online with with some including women who would mock such a thing uh who would i can't who would
00:21:04.720mock such an awesome movement questioning participants sincerity their sanity are
00:21:11.920calling their behavior attention seeking and cringe no no no no it's it's very reasonable
00:21:20.240behavior i i mean right guys go in in the chat you guys agree this is i mean they have a good
00:21:27.840reason for this the movement has been so widely mocked online oh wait let me keep going some
00:21:35.200sounds like they need oh perfect evolutionary dead ends cutting their own branches off one
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00:21:42.320x user snidely remarked sounds like they need lobotomies instead quite another nothing says
00:21:49.120defeat like eliminating yourself from the gene pool no no no no guys the men commenting that
00:21:57.280just shut up shut up we're we're encouraging this this is a good idea i don't know they have a plan
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00:22:05.920let them sh you guys gotta like be quiet trump has sent mixed signals about his support for
00:22:15.920abortion right. At times boasting about his role in getting Roe v. Wade overturned. But he's also
00:22:22.920repeatedly vowed that he would not support a federal abortion ban, even threatening to veto
00:22:28.840one should it come across his desk. Soon to be first lady Melania Trump also famously made her
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00:22:36.360staunch support of abortion rights known in a clip posted on social media to promote her memoir,
00:22:42.540Melania. Individual freedom is a fundamental principle that I safeguard, said Melania.
00:22:48.90054. Without a doubt, there is no room for compromise when it comes to the essential
00:22:53.020right that all women possess from birth, she continued. Meanwhile, the number of abortions
00:22:58.300since Roe versus Wade has actually ticked up slightly, which experts say thanks to a
00:23:04.060wider availability of abortion pills by mail. Well, I can't think of anything more effective
00:23:16.020at decreasing the number of abortions every year by these ladies getting their tubes tied.
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00:23:21.000I say go crazy, ladies. I mean, keep going. I'm proud of you. You might as well call me a feminist.
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00:23:29.580keep going that's a great movement just really good idea okay so the next story we're going to
00:23:38.860talk about today he's on right yeah okay okay so the next story we're going to talk about today
00:23:44.080is actually somebody that I saw come up on a he had made some videos talking about some of my
00:23:55.160points that he disagreed with and the one thing that i do appreciate about my critics and detractors
00:24:00.600it was when they're willing to come on and have a discussion with me on live um not everybody's
00:24:07.480willing to do that so i actually invited him on the show 90 of the time when i invite people that
00:24:13.800disagree with me on the show um they say no and so he has the hold on let me pull something up
00:24:25.880so i'm just gonna pull one thing up on the
00:24:33.160uh here we go okay so his name is zach costello he has a youtube channel with a hundred thousand
00:24:40.520subscribers and um he had a couple videos made about me one saying i shouldn't talk
00:24:45.800about marriage a couple defending nala ray and just commenting on why marriage is falling apart
00:24:52.200so i wanted to invite him on the show and yeah you can bring him up
00:25:02.200i can't see him i don't know if he's up on the screen um okay oh now i can see him hi zach how
00:25:09.400are you hey pearl good how are you good um where are you calling from i'm right outside of dc um
00:25:19.160northern virginia area okay so i kind of wanted to start with some of the points that you made
00:25:25.640in your video and i wanted to talk about where we disagree maybe to start sure okay so do you
00:25:33.640want to start with the nala ray situation let's start there so i want to know why you felt like
00:25:42.600i was wrong to point out that her conversion did not seem genuine
00:25:49.160Well, I guess my question to you would be is, are you questioning her conversion, or are you questioning her detriment, I would say, to Christianity, or do you feel as though she's trying to con Christians into believing that she's a convert for money?
00:26:07.880Because it seems like that was more so your take.
00:31:38.440But I agree with Andrew Wilson in that what Nala has turned into is a, you know, he calls it buffet Christianity, where she can pick and choose the things that she likes.
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00:31:48.480And that is not the case for a number of denominations, like even good Protestant, obviously good Protestant ones, Catholic, Orthodox, et cetera.
00:31:58.700like we believe christianity to be objective we are subject to the interpretation that we've been
00:32:06.540given by the authority of the church for example right but we don't get to go in and interpret our
00:32:12.620own scripture so i think this is the problem when it comes to christian only fans models basically
00:32:18.220justifying what they're doing jesus agrees with what i'm doing like that does that's not the way
00:32:23.100that it works but you're but you're part but you become part of the problem when you're white
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00:32:27.100igniting for her and like you make okay you make videos condemning me for saying what I said which
00:32:32.280was true and you don't make any video condemning her now like where's the where's the video now
00:32:38.420where you say hey you shouldn't be preaching hey that's incorrect maybe maybe I missed it I'm not
00:32:44.200saying I saw it all but you know it's like that's what I get from Christians they're mad at me for
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00:32:49.820my tone and me for pointing it out but they're not mad at her for being disrespectful to Andrew and
00:32:55.060you know, spreading things that are not true. Yeah, I'll grant to you that her current behavior,
00:33:03.920her current theology, I do not agree with. I haven't gotten into it online. Now, that being
00:33:11.060said, when it comes down to me and you, and the reason that I did that video is because I truly
00:33:18.620believe and i stand by this that if somebody is saying that they are going to change their life
00:33:26.700then i'm as a christian i am of course we can be skeptical of course it doesn't mean don't
00:33:33.180be skeptical which i think obviously is important and i would say that's where i value
00:33:37.660i value your message right because i think that level of skepticism is important but again like
00:33:44.700Like you, you cited the prodigal son when you were going after her and the prodigal son is a,
00:33:50.640is a great story and it's a great example. And it refers to all of us, like every single one of us,
00:33:55.820like we've all made mistakes. We're all sinners. Like it's hopeless to say that none of us can
00:34:01.140turn our lives around. Like we all have to turn our lives around from something. Okay. Um, you
00:34:05.820know, it may not be as extreme as something like Nala did. Like I've never done OnlyFans, like,
00:34:10.280you know but i'm not going to sit here and say that i've never sinned before and there aren't
00:34:14.720things that i've had to get over and turn my life around from so what's what's more important
00:34:20.480actions or words well i mean yes actions are more important okay so other than deleting the only
00:34:31.400fans after she got christianity clout so i'm not i'm not even going to give that as a bonus because
01:18:39.420On average, if you lose your job, you get cancer, you get injured, it's going to take you five appearances before the judge, before they'll even entertain lowering your child support.
01:18:50.880And that could take anywhere from five months to a year and a half, sometimes two years.
01:18:56.320A lot of money can get racked up in two years.
01:23:07.800they could be false charges because they have that they can't deal with the shame factor
01:23:16.400of their of the sisterhood of the church ladies versus if you had a woman that wasn't even a
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01:23:23.060Christian it might not even be as bad um so yeah I got I lost custody of my kids and
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01:23:29.300you see your kids develop but you have no real say on what's going on in their life
01:23:36.340you see the lack of structure you see the lack of discipline you feel the pain when you drop
01:23:43.780them off that their lives are probably screwed and that's not a damn thing you can do about it
01:23:49.100so basically nick you were issued the wound that never heals yes yes i too have had the same thing
01:23:58.460happen to me so the reason i brought you on terrence was i was hoping you could go through
01:24:06.220because i think there's this idea that you guys um aren't it's not common right that it's like a
01:24:13.660one percent chance like that it won't happen to you and um i just that's what i was kind of because
01:24:20.860you were like an expert with the different stats so i was wondering if you could kind of go i'll
01:24:25.020run you through it the punch out years 7 13 21 24 if you get beyond 24 years your chances of getting
01:24:31.900divorced go way down um granted i probably have to revisit that because i did not take gray divorces
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01:24:39.740into account which are growing in number uh 80 percent of the divorces filed by women and that
01:24:45.900even goes up to 90 if you add in college educated women and furthermore if a woman is working and
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01:24:52.860she makes close to what you make her your chances of getting divorced go up quite a bit okay now
01:25:01.900of the 85 15 85 of the time these women get will get custody of the children no matter what
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01:25:09.740I've seen women get custody of their convicted felons, you know, in drug rehab, working, you know, as sex workers.
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01:25:18.740Okay, of the 15% where the man actually gets the custody of those kids, 5% to 7% of the time, the mother didn't show up in court and he won by default.
01:25:31.220So the true number is somewhere between 93% and 97% of the time, or 95% of the time, the children are going to the mother.
01:25:44.440And if you look at the stats of, you know, the end result of children of fatherless homes, 85% of the felons in court or in prison are there because they came from a single mother home.
01:26:01.600you know the rapists overwhelmingly come from single mother homes drug addicts in any of the
01:26:09.020any of your mental instability all of those go up through the roof when they come from a single
01:26:16.080mother home and while you're going through your divorce the entire court will look you in the
01:26:20.360face and say we're doing this for the best interest of the child and in reality it's all
01:26:28.100financially motivated if you haven't heard of title 4d money that is basically where the federal
01:26:37.040government reimburses the counties for collecting child support from these fathers and they're
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01:26:45.040reimbursed from the social security fund anywhere between 35 and i believe a dollar 50 per dollar
01:26:54.420collected at 35 cents to a dollar 50 per dollar collected depending upon the the different uh
01:27:02.740uh aspects of the of the situation so when we run out of social security money
01:27:09.060all of that could be blamed solely on the feet of the single mother
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01:27:14.180is is that good enough there yeah i was just curious um but okay but my question to you guys
01:27:25.020would be this because you like you you just you just explain the detrimental stats of single
01:27:32.340parenting and nick i mean you're i'm sorry to hear about your situation that sounds terrible
01:27:37.920but you also just said that you also advocate for traditional marriage so again it seems like
01:27:45.060your guys's vision for men is to enter into traditional marriages you you do you believe
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01:27:51.280that that's the answer yet at the same time you're telling men that they shouldn't get married what
01:27:57.460because of the because of the current legal system because traditional marriage doesn't exist
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01:28:02.200currently in the united states you can call it what you want you can have you know you can go
01:28:07.460before the church that's fine but the second one person wants to leave you realize there is no
01:28:13.920traditional marriage yep and if you look at the stats for single father homes the outcomes of
01:28:23.220the children are very close to the outcomes of a child having both the mother and father present
01:28:30.080if the court was really about best interest of the child those kids would be given to the father
01:28:37.320who statistically makes a lion's share of the income but that doesn't happen because everyone
01:28:44.320wants to get paid it is corrupt from the top down bottom up and every screwed up stage in between
01:28:51.520and so my question for conservatives is why do they spend so much time on like trans issues
01:28:57.920why do they spend so much time complaining about the red pill guys but they don't complain about
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01:29:04.600the marriage laws they might do a one-off they might do a one-off like ben shapiro i'm not i
01:29:09.700don't know your channel too close i gotta step out for me you're fine um you're totally fine
01:29:13.800you can it can but um because my question is why is it a one-off video about the marriage laws
01:29:22.260but they'll do like trans sports forever you know it's like the one thing that could give us back
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01:29:28.580traditionalism would be changing the marriage laws but i never hear anybody rallying for that
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01:29:36.340i guess i'm having trouble understanding why you can't practice a traditional marriage and abide by
01:29:41.780for example what the church teaches and treat marriage as a sacrament and structure marriage
01:29:48.100can you control traditional marriage despite what the current marriage laws are can you can you can
01:29:54.180can you control another person of course not but even if the laws were totally in favor of
01:30:00.740traditional marriage i still couldn't control another person okay so if your wife tomorrow
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01:30:05.380said i want to leave what leverage do you have to make her not how could you stop her
01:30:11.120i have no leverage to make anybody do something that i i have no leverage to control anybody in
01:30:18.860that regard i mean you so you no other human being has the ability to do that well that's why you
01:30:24.860don't have a traditional marriage because if tomorrow she says i want to leave and steal your
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01:30:29.040children she can so she automatically has the leverage and if she goes to court there is an
01:30:34.680eight 90 chance she gets primary custody meaning you'll never make another primary decision she
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01:30:40.880gets to pick where they go to school she gets to pick who's around your kids she gets you get
01:30:45.440every other weekend if you're lucky medical procedures um so you can't have a traditional
01:30:51.240marriage because she has the leverage so in a so what so what you're saying is that in a traditional
01:30:57.080marriage the husband has complete control over the over what the wife can do i'd say in a
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01:31:05.580traditional marriage they stay together in an islamic country for example where you know i mean
01:31:12.220divorce would be i would say at the i would say but i'm sure severely i would say at the
01:31:18.280bare minimum it wouldn't be rewarded i would say the bare minimum is one person isn't paid to leave
01:31:26.580and if we're going patriarchal that would mean the men get the children
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01:31:30.640so you're saying that the traditional model should be invoked into into law would be what
01:31:38.380your guys's solution um if i well i'm i'm not saying one way or the other i'm saying that it
01:31:44.900is not traditional i'm saying in 2024 you can't have a traditional marriage how we fix the legal
01:31:50.560system um there's i mean i would say get rid of child support alimony 50 50 custody off the bat
01:31:58.280that's exactly what i would say as well stephen bascaril says um i pretty much agree with him
01:32:05.780default father custody would fix everything because this by default patriarchal and hence
01:32:12.220that's what's worked forever yep there's a reason why when you remove the father crap goes crazy
01:32:20.480absolute correct i agree i mean i agree and the stats would also the stats say that if there is
01:32:28.480a single parent household that statistically the children would be better off if if the father was
01:32:33.660single parent i i would be fine with that but it's it goes back to it's not make a wish right we
01:32:39.660can't that's not happening tomorrow so i can't blame men if in the meantime they choose to walk
01:32:45.580away and i don't think that makes them less moral i don't think you're more moral because you chose
01:32:51.420to take the risk or less moral all right hey uh i gotta jump off here you're fine thanks for coming
01:32:58.860no problem and uh hey nick if you want to send me an email to send it to redonculus12gmail.com
01:33:06.940and i'll be more than happy to uh go over some uh scenarios with you
01:33:13.100redoncula you said redonculus12 at gmail.com yeah yeah also i don't know if you have any other if i
01:33:20.620don't know if you have any other thoughts but i was gonna go back to me and zach nick unless you
01:33:24.700have any other thoughts you wanted to add okay thank you guys thanks for having me on hey nick
01:33:30.860i'm up to 553 guys saved from suicide in the past 15 years using logic reason and comedy it would be
01:33:38.700more if i could uh get youtube's uh you know boot off my neck but it is what it is
01:33:49.980okay yeah you can drop them thanks guys
01:33:54.700oh he has to go too okay no problem um zach do you have any other points you want to make
01:34:04.260at all this was fun did you have fun i did pearl yeah thanks for having me on yeah we'll definitely
01:34:11.360have you back if you want to come back yeah absolutely and like i said the invitation's
01:34:17.880out out to you as well to to come on and maybe do something long form on my channel as well
01:34:22.780i expect a nala video i'm waiting i'm waiting for my nala doesn't know what she's talking about
01:34:29.960am i gonna get one maybe i'll do a nala as a confused christian type of video but again
01:34:34.920do i get heretic could i get heretic a confused christian than than an only fans model i wouldn't
01:34:40.860i would rather i would rather have i would rather her and her soul like seriously as a person i
01:34:49.840I don't believe her. I would rather have someone that's not a fraud in church.
01:34:53.820I don't believe it. Like, and I'm not, why am I immoral? Because I don't believe her.
01:34:59.880I never said that you were immoral. I would just, I mean, again, like I appreciate the
01:35:04.340skepticism. And I think, again, that's, that's important for all of us to be aware of. But when
01:35:08.580it comes down to it again, I don't think we should necessarily at any time, hope that somebody can't
01:35:15.820turn their life around I mean it's it's just to me that would go against everything everything
01:35:22.200that I believe in that I stand for right like we want every we want people to turn their lives around
01:35:26.980and get their lives on track and and turn back toward God is is my argument and that's the
01:35:33.720argument that I made for you I mean that's the argument that I made against you in that Nala
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01:35:37.160video miracles happen but I don't play the lottery and that's what I would say the chance of her being
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01:35:43.260really converted i would say yeah you could win the lottery but you probably won't 10 years from
01:35:48.940now 20 years from now will she be quiet in the back of the church i doubt it i would put money
01:35:56.220she's gonna have to get a real job it's gonna be too tough she'll be back
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01:36:00.220you think so yeah yeah if this influencer thing doesn't work out she'll either be a female pastor
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01:36:06.860or an only fans model it's one or the other well i hope that that's not the case i hope that she
01:36:12.220stays away from it again i'd rather have a confused christian than than you know somebody who's who's
01:36:19.020doing whatever she's doing online on only fans so okay well thank you very much for coming on
01:36:24.940we'll definitely have you back all right pearl thanks talk soon talk soon okay guys so i think
01:36:33.580that's all i got for you today do you guys like having the people that make the hit pieces on me
01:36:39.340me if you guys like this I can do it sometimes I'm just like do I need this but it was kind of
01:36:46.940fun he was respectful we liked him so anyways um guys make sure you like the video on your way out
01:36:54.040and subscribe you know if we get more signups on the website I can do more edgy stuff I really want
01:37:00.460to there's I really want to bring some people back on but it would have to be on the website
01:37:05.560so I got to get enough signups let me oh let me read the website today I am sorry guys I got
01:37:10.900distracted okay so before we go uh I hope you're right but I'm unsure um Yavak says this means
01:37:20.000they're only removing um their sellable what the value when it's on the decline Chris Watts says
01:37:27.300that he has two found Christ and he has a daily devotional available at least he stopped killing
01:37:32.040people before talking about his conversion i should have said that's funny i was in church
01:37:41.080i was a church going nice guy for decades this guy is a simp demonstrate your commitment for a
01:37:45.560decade or so then we'll praise you i respect this guy for coming a lot on and defending his position
01:37:51.080i do too i do too i don't if he wants to come back you can come back on um pearl's critics get
01:37:57.080more upset about her being community noted than about what nala did only fans uh why smear do
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01:38:05.480catholic women need to spread to get their annulled three times before 40. i hope that men and women
01:38:11.880keep trying to build faithful marriages um pearl that's too damn negative one needs to keep trying
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01:38:19.000to stay together her point is that society is skewed to giving women all the power that can't
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01:38:23.560work long term it's the liberal society that created these scenarios for laws you have to
01:38:28.840look at the system and the stats it's not a reasonable or financial educational decision
01:38:34.520without a bulletproof prenup the stats don't support men and there's too much cultural pressure
01:38:42.440for women to divorce for many reasons there's a huge incentive unfortunately he's confusing
01:38:46.760potential benefits from a non-rigged marriage versus the reality of today hopefully people see
01:38:53.240the bs happening in society there is no traditional marriage in the u.s the system won't allow it
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01:38:59.640what men allowed these laws rights and policies to keep happening all the democrat women that
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01:39:05.160are willing to stand up in front of the world stating the most important voting issue for them
01:39:08.920was the ability to kill their unborn child uh okay best chance of a lifelong marriage only the laws
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