Pearl - “You Need to Interview Happily Married People”

00:00:00.000 Okay, so I just posted my last coffee thought, and I see a girl named Sarah commented, Pearl, start interviewing people who have been married for over 20 years and are still married.

00:00:11.600 We can help understand, we can help people understand what marriage is really about.

00:00:17.060 People are truly lost in what it means to be married.

00:00:20.040 I'm still married for 40 years, and we need to teach people what marriage is really about, and we need to stop labeling people.

00:00:25.860 No one is perfect. Well, Sarah, I'm going to answer your question.

00:00:30.500 I do appreciate the comment. Whenever there's a female supporter, I do appreciate it.

00:00:35.180 But I got to be honest. The people that have been married 40 years made us not believe in marriage.

00:00:46.060 Because we look in your husband's eyes, and they don't look happy.

00:00:50.240 They look like hen-packed and just nagged for a lifetime.

00:00:54.360 And I just want you to understand that married people make us not believe in marriage, that really see it for what it is.

00:01:04.960 Again, if marriage was so great, why doesn't it have a better reputation?

00:01:09.300 If you guys were such great wives, even the women that have been married 20, 30 years, and guys knew they had a 50-50 shot at a great wife,

00:01:17.540 don't you think people would sign up?

00:01:20.420 And the crazy thing is, I feel like the more people market marriage, the worse their marriage is.

00:01:27.720 It's just something I've noticed, especially with men.

00:01:30.300 The more they say young men go up and buck up and get married,

00:01:34.380 the more I look at them and I see these simpy men that can never tell their wife no.

00:01:40.360 They can never do it.

00:01:41.420 And it's not, you know, I'm not a perfect person.

00:01:45.260 I'm sure I'll be a bitch too.

00:01:47.320 It just seems like the woman life cycle.

00:01:50.900 But again, if married women were such amazing, awesome wives, shouldn't I just see it?

00:01:58.560 Shouldn't I just not have to convince you?

00:02:00.860 And it gets even worse.

00:02:02.080 You know, I don't ever stop working.

00:02:03.700 I'm always out talking to people, asking people.

00:02:06.320 And it's not to say that I don't see happily married people,

00:02:09.400 but I don't see married men that don't have a wife that drives them insane.

00:02:14.300 I don't.

00:02:16.760 I don't see a married man that has wives that are just like great feminine.

00:02:21.160 You know, I met this one woman that seemed so sweet a while ago, like a year or two ago.

00:02:25.920 And I was asking her about her husband and how they met because they were married a long time.

00:02:35.440 And this is, I don't want to give out way too many details, but it was kind of in the middle of nowhere.

00:02:40.540 And she said she met him in high school and she was kind of mad she met him because she was such a great guy.

00:02:46.360 And she had to settle down and she wanted to date some other guys.

00:02:51.960 Like women are women.

00:02:53.580 And I think the older women are mad because the jig is up.

00:02:57.760 You guys were whores too.

00:02:59.820 You guys were whores in high school.

00:03:01.700 You lived through the 80s.

00:03:03.060 You lived through the 70s.

00:03:05.180 Nobody's buying this shit anymore because who raised these whores?

00:03:09.600 You guys did.

00:03:12.700 You guys did.

00:03:15.860 So before you start coming out and saying,

00:03:19.400 oh, we were so much better and different.

00:03:21.780 And you just need to interview people.

00:03:24.000 Do you not think, it's just like the audacity sometimes of you guys.

00:03:28.240 Do you not think I've interviewed married people?

00:03:31.900 Do you really not think I've interviewed married people?

00:03:36.400 Truly.

00:03:38.340 Ma'am.

00:03:38.900 I've interviewed so many married people.

00:03:43.980 I grew up around married people.

00:03:45.800 Most of the people I knew growing up were married and they were all terrible wives.

00:03:49.580 I can count on one hand.

00:03:50.700 There's one woman I know.

00:03:52.800 Who?

00:03:53.880 She, um,

00:03:54.740 She was the only one whose husband ever told her no.

00:04:00.240 She's a delight.

00:04:01.520 I love her.

00:04:02.000 I love her to this day.

00:04:03.040 But it's just,

00:04:04.960 and it's not that the men couldn't tell the women no,

00:04:07.400 but it's like living with a terrorist.

00:04:09.900 I think most women,

00:04:10.960 it's basically living with a terrorist.

00:04:12.720 Because,

00:04:13.720 you know,

00:04:14.000 you can tell her no,

00:04:15.020 but now you have hell to pay for the next like month.

00:04:18.520 And most of the men,

00:04:19.760 they just want silence and peace and whatever.

00:04:23.300 And women like you gaslight for eternity.

00:04:26.780 You guys do.

00:04:27.520 You gaslight.

00:04:28.500 You say,

00:04:29.240 oh,

00:04:29.420 it's just the people you're interviewing.

00:04:31.000 And I'm like,

00:04:31.340 I don't know.

00:04:31.880 I grew up around a lot of married people,

00:04:33.620 older married people,

00:04:34.440 and they pretty much all seem miserable.

00:04:36.600 There's a few exceptions,

00:04:38.020 a few notable exceptions.

00:04:39.380 But in general,

00:04:40.480 I'd say out of 10 couples,

00:04:43.020 half divorce,

00:04:43.780 out of five married couples,

00:04:46.200 maybe one is miserable,

00:04:48.160 or sorry,

00:04:48.920 one is happy and knows how to tell the wife no,

00:04:51.500 and regularly has sex.

00:04:53.220 I regularly ask married people,

00:04:57.020 how many married people they know that have sex on a regular basis?

00:05:02.060 And the answer is no.

00:05:02.700 And so what I realized is a lot of men took a shitty deal,

00:05:06.660 and society benefits from it.

00:05:09.240 Society needs these beta men.

00:05:11.740 They need them.

00:05:12.360 We couldn't function without it.

00:05:14.480 And men love being used.

00:05:16.280 I don't know what it is,

00:05:17.260 but men will like beg to be taken advantage of.

00:05:19.820 They really will.

00:05:21.080 And so I just realized,

00:05:23.540 I realized,

00:05:24.380 a lot of people are miserable.

00:05:30.240 Misery loves company.

00:05:32.160 And that is why married men want other men to get married.

00:05:36.720 They're like,

00:05:37.040 I'm miserable.

00:05:37.840 You're going to be miserable here with me.

00:05:39.340 And no,

00:05:39.960 you're not going to enjoy that 22-year-old poonanny.

00:05:42.860 And the women,

00:05:43.760 they're kind of the same way.

00:05:44.700 They hate their beta husbands,

00:05:45.800 and they're like,

00:05:46.620 I had to settle with this guy I don't even like.

00:05:49.660 You women will settle with me.

00:05:52.260 And it's very obvious,

00:05:53.500 because the more you market your marriage as amazing,

00:05:56.640 the less I believe it's amazing.

00:05:58.940 Because if it was so amazing,

00:06:00.580 shouldn't I just see it?

00:06:02.360 Shouldn't you just look happy together,

00:06:04.080 and just be like,

00:06:04.880 whee,

00:06:05.480 you know.

00:06:06.920 But what I've noticed is that the people that say they're the happiest,

00:06:10.880 they're just not the most happy.

00:06:15.300 Now,

00:06:15.860 I think this comment expresses a more true,

00:06:19.400 a more true,

00:06:21.260 interact,

00:06:22.300 or depiction.

00:06:23.760 I've heard for years that single men were outlived by their married counterparts,

00:06:30.120 but as I experienced life,

00:06:32.620 I found myself watching some of the fellows who bit the dust because of their bad marriages,

00:06:37.620 in a pretty obvious dance of cause and effect.

00:06:40.820 I even found myself wondering who is the woman that other women admire most.

00:06:47.800 Betty Brodlick seemed like a more likely candidate than Florence Nightingale.

00:06:53.760 Look,

00:06:56.900 ladies,

00:06:57.740 we got some evil in us.

00:07:00.240 We gotta stop acting like we bring joy to people's lives.

00:07:05.880 We really don't.

00:07:08.540 And I hate to say,

00:07:09.840 I hate to say this as a woman.

00:07:11.980 I really do.

00:07:12.700 I'm not trying to act like I'm different or special.

00:07:15.380 But we just have an internal chaos that just ruins everything.

00:07:18.860 We're pretty,

00:07:19.480 so we can like smile,

00:07:20.680 put the tits out.

00:07:21.620 But really,

00:07:23.640 I mean,

00:07:23.940 you see older women and there's just no value add there.

00:07:30.480 Even if the women like cooking clean,

00:07:34.640 the,

00:07:35.100 have you ever like been in a house with an annoying mother or a terrible sister?

00:07:41.160 It doesn't matter how helpful they are.

00:07:44.560 The terrible personality proceeds.

00:07:47.920 It's like the awfulness of the personality is just way above any benefit of cooking and cleaning.

00:07:53.440 So anyways,

00:08:01.220 yeah,

00:08:03.600 I mean,

00:08:04.120 so my response to this comment is,

00:08:06.460 I appreciate the comment.

00:08:07.960 I have interviewed married people.

00:08:10.080 And if your interviews were better,

00:08:12.300 I'd maybe have a different opinion on marriage.

00:08:14.220 If you women were better wives,

00:08:16.100 I'd maybe have a different opinion.

00:08:18.060 Sorry.

00:08:18.920 But the reason women are whores today is because their whore mothers raised them and their whore great grandmothers raised them.

00:08:25.480 And maybe we didn't have as much opportunity back then.

00:08:29.600 But if they did,

00:08:30.320 they would have did the same thing.

00:08:31.420 And it's not propaganda.

00:08:32.760 Nobody's tricked.

00:08:33.800 Women are whores.

00:08:34.680 Thank you.

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Pearl - November 07, 2025

“You Need to Interview Happily Married People”

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