Playing to Win - 022 - Aubrey Huff on Parenting

00:00:00.000 All right. Good morning, my brothers. We are up for a little bit of an earlier episode of

00:00:07.120 Playing to Win. I'm on with my good friend, Aubrey Huff, ex-Major League Baseball player,

00:00:12.000 San Francisco Giants, Tampa Bay. You've done a few things out there, and now you're becoming

00:00:16.580 famous for your opinions about the state of the world that we live in today. How are you doing,

00:00:22.080 brother? Rich, I'm doing great, brother. Yeah, my Twitter feed's blown up, I think.

00:00:30.400 Since the last time we spoke, it's been probably, what, a good eight or nine months we spoke last on

00:00:35.440 your show, and, you know, I don't even remember if the Giants was, that was a story yet when we

00:00:41.960 talked, when they invited me from the World Series, and that was when I just said, you know what?

00:00:47.660 I realized then that this First Amendment right, our right to literally say,

00:01:00.000 what we want is under attack, and that's when I said, you know what? If I'm going to get uninvited

00:01:05.600 to a 10-year reunion, it's time to start mouthing off and really start getting loud, so that's what

00:01:10.340 I've been doing. Cool. Your signal's a little weak. I don't know if you want to maybe just kill your

00:01:15.200 video and run audio, because your audio is breaking up, and we just kind of really need to hear you

00:01:20.380 more than see, even though you do have a pretty face.

00:01:26.780 Should be a little. Okay, yeah, let me, I'll stop the cam. Yeah, there you go. Yeah, that's a lot

00:01:31.220 better. Okay, cool. To kind of set the tone, let me just play this clip that, because, I mean,

00:01:36.300 I texted you after I retweeted this. I'm like, yo, man, we got to do a quick chat on this, so I'm

00:01:42.160 going to throw it in the stream here. It's like a quick two-minute clip. You guys should be able to

00:01:45.720 hear this, so let me just hit play and just listen up. I just got an email from my boys Friday night

00:01:49.920 flag football league saying that they have not been given the green light to start their season. No

00:01:54.300 doubt their season will most likely be canceled here pretty soon. They can't go to school already

00:02:00.700 in the fall. They can't see their buddies. There's no sports whatsoever. We are ruining our children's

00:02:08.400 futures. We're ruining our children's health, and more importantly, their mental health, and I blame you.

00:02:13.440 You mask Nazis out there, the people out there that are afraid, driving around in their cars with a mask

00:02:19.820 on, that can't think for themselves, and you're projecting your fears onto your children. I am no,

00:02:24.340 I'm no longer in this together with you guys. I never was. Ask yourself this. Are your kids in this

00:02:31.020 together with you? I would venture to say that they're not. I have had hundreds of direct messages

00:02:38.060 from parents saying that, you know, their high school juniors and seniors that have opportunities

00:02:44.800 to go to college on sports scholarships are now worried because they're not getting recruited right

00:02:50.440 now. They can't play sports. They don't, nothing's open. Travel ball leagues are shut down. Little

00:02:55.200 leagues are shut down. We are making our kids fat, sick, and dead. I just got back from a bike ride. I saw 0.98

00:03:03.020 multiple families riding these electric bikes, not even pedaling with masks on. I've got kids rolling

00:03:12.660 around with electric scooters. You know, as a father, I'm fighting for my kids' right to literally

00:03:22.580 breathe. If I didn't have kids, I would be in the mountains right now, in a van down by the river,

00:03:28.400 not giving two fucks watching the world burn. But because I have these two children, I'm fighting 0.85

00:03:35.640 for them and kids all across this country, all over the world, that are falling victimhood 0.99

00:03:44.600 to you mass Nazi fear-mongering pussies. And that's what you are. 1.00

00:03:51.240 All right. Well, fair to say, uh, you have an opinion about that. Yeah.

00:04:00.480 Yeah, man. All right. Is this working out? Okay. Yeah. The, you hear me call you back for my phone.

00:04:10.620 I'll take you, I'll call you back from my phone off wifi on a roaming and it's always better that

00:04:15.840 way. All right. Yeah. So if you just click that link that I dropped in your Twitter DM, it should

00:04:19.460 open up on your mobile device pretty easy too. So I'll just wait for you to do that.

00:04:25.120 You got it. All right. See you in a minute. All right. So while he's, um, doing that and getting

00:04:29.660 connected back, um, you should give him a quick follow on Twitter. Um, he's been blowing up, but

00:04:36.900 I think when I crossed his path, uh, I came across him about five, six, seven months ago, maybe around

00:04:42.980 the time Brollo first talked to me, he had 30,000 subs. He's close to 200,000. Um, really interesting

00:04:48.340 dude. He's outspoken of course, and some, on some opinions and unlike most public figured,

00:04:53.440 um, athletes who are doing things like bending the knee today, you know, he's standing up and

00:04:58.380 offering a view that's somewhat counterintuitive to what the mainstream media and the mainstream

00:05:04.180 narrative is trying to pull you into. So you can follow him there on, uh, Twitter. If you

00:05:08.280 like, it looks like he's just connecting right now and set him back to the stream. We'll remove

00:05:12.960 that. Let's see how the audio is there. All right. How's that working? Yeah, it's a lot

00:05:18.480 better. It sounds like there's no delay now, so you're good. Um, so let's just skip over

00:05:25.380 the whole San Francisco giants and how you got uninvited from attending cause your political

00:05:29.640 opinions and views. I kind of wanted to hover around parenting on this one and like the state

00:05:33.340 of things because stuff's changed a lot since we talked last with this, you know, so-called

00:05:37.540 pandemic that's been going on. And, um, I've seen the, the, like I've seen the general feminization

00:05:43.780 of the Western male going on for a while. In fact, I did a video. I pulled it up here.

00:05:47.800 I'm going to just drop it in the chat for you guys to open up, um, later, but I did this

00:05:52.040 February 23rd, 2017. Um, so you can watch that just open up a new browser window later,

00:05:57.680 but, um, this is something that's been going on for a while guys. And is this something that

00:06:03.540 you've just noticed recently doing what you do on Twitter and running your podcast?

00:06:07.540 and talking to people, or is this something that you've been aware of for quite a few

00:06:10.720 years now? No. Yeah. When I, when I played baseball, I, you know, I never really realized

00:06:14.620 how weak the Western male has become. Um, you know, I was around 24 other alpha males

00:06:20.600 pretty much every day. You cannot be a beta male and play professional sports. And then

00:06:24.520 I got out and I moved to Southern California, um, living around the San Diego area. And my

00:06:30.200 brother, if you want to spot peak beta male, come to Southern California. Yeah. There

00:06:37.400 are everywhere. It's, uh, you know, it, and that's where I really opened up my eyes and

00:06:42.800 realized what's going on. And it's not just Southern California. It's, it's really gone

00:06:46.560 all over the state and pretty much nationwide. Now it's, it seems to be a trend. And I really

00:06:51.980 believe it's, it started happening when we, from society. Um, and I think more importantly

00:06:58.480 from even our, even our religion, our churches has feminized, uh, men. I mean, I don't even

00:07:04.560 like going to church anymore because it's, I've, I've realized I have a relationship with

00:07:09.340 God, but I don't go to church because even the music soft, it's, it's really effeminate.

00:07:13.300 And, you know, I feel like that's not what Jesus was. And I feel like a lot of society is

00:07:18.040 doing that to men. Um, men are being told that women like their men sensitive and soft and

00:07:25.220 caring. You can have those things, but there has to be an element of a man that's, that's

00:07:29.700 alpha. That's, that's provides protects. And, you know, in my bio, my Twitter feed, I say

00:07:34.760 that I'm protector of toxic masculinity. I say that as a joking way, but in a lot of ways

00:07:40.100 I'm serious too, because we need to have that masculinity back, not in the sense, toxic

00:07:46.600 masculinity. When you think about beating your wife and getting drunk every day, that's not

00:07:49.600 what I'm talking about. I'm talking about soldiers that go out there and fight for our right

00:07:53.880 to have our freedoms in America. They will go out there and grind their ass off to provide 0.63

00:07:58.340 for their family and be great dads. That's the kind of masculinity we want, that we need, 0.88

00:08:04.260 that women want. And the, uh, the beta male today, they're absolutely confused of what they've

00:08:10.220 been taught growing up.

00:08:11.500 One of the things I've, I've noticed I've been doing a lot lately, especially since school's

00:08:15.300 been out, because I mean, they basically canceled school here. I'm in Toronto for those of you

00:08:19.120 guys that don't know, but, um, they canceled school here just the week after March break,

00:08:23.640 which is around, I think the second or third week of March. And we don't know if things

00:08:28.580 are going to return to normal in September in the school system, or if they're going to

00:08:31.820 alternate days, or if they're going to do, you know, social distancing, desk spacers or

00:08:36.320 dividers or what the hell is going to happen, but we'll find out soon enough. But I found myself

00:08:41.180 doing a lot of correcting on social narratives just in day-to-day life, like standing on dots,

00:08:47.040 what's happening in grocery stores, masks, people's opinions of you, people driving in cars

00:08:51.400 by themselves with masks on. I noticed in that video, you know, you were talking about,

00:08:55.620 um, you know, people riding these electric bikes with masks on and not even pedaling.

00:08:59.340 And it's like, I see the same thing because I've been riding my bike. I mean, the gyms 0.99

00:09:02.740 are still closer. They're actually going to open on Friday here, thankfully, finally,

00:09:05.520 but I've been doing a lot of cardio just to try to keep the, you know, the conditioning

00:09:08.660 up. But you see these people on these bike paths and they're on these electric scooters

00:09:12.620 and bikes, and they're the ones that need to be pedaling. Like they need to move their

00:09:15.880 body more. It's like, this is like, this is a systematic weakening of the human male.

00:09:20.820 Like the Western male is becoming pussified because of things like this. And I find myself

00:09:25.360 constantly correcting the social narrative to my own child to let her know what the truth

00:09:29.980 and what the reality of the marketplace really is. You know, the world as it stands, you find

00:09:33.680 yourself doing that with your boys a lot. Oh, you know, it's, it's, it's kind of, I've done

00:09:38.820 everything I can to keep my boys away from any kind of social, uh, you know, conditioning

00:09:44.160 as far as TV goes. Um, I'm very, uh, mindful of what they watch. Um, you know, the school

00:09:50.560 system, the public school system, my kids are in public school. Unfortunately, they're

00:09:53.700 not going to be able to go back this year. And I've always, I've raised them up to say,

00:09:56.700 listen, guys, when your teacher talks, and let's be honest that I said 90 plus 90 plus

00:10:03.080 percent of all teachers are female. Um, and they're being indoctrinated by a lot of women 0.99

00:10:08.760 in the school system and a lot of their opinions. And I tell them all the time, the guys, you

00:10:12.100 guys go to school, listen to your teacher when it comes to subject matter, when it comes

00:10:15.340 to them teaching you math, um, historical facts, but when they start spewing their opinions,

00:10:20.600 what's a lot do nowadays, I want you to pretend like she is the teacher from Charlie Brown.

00:10:27.740 Wah, wah, wah, wah, wah. I want to go in one ear out the other. And that's up to us as

00:10:34.100 parents to teach them the way of the world. For me, when they come home, we have, we have

00:10:39.820 life lessons. You know, we go out and we create in the garage, we build, we were making swords

00:10:45.560 and shields. They're making like apocalyptic type weapons. You know, when the riots were

00:10:48.900 going on, we went outside with one of my old wooden baseball bats, hammering nails in

00:10:52.920 it to have like a little weapon for them. I'm teaching them how to shoot guns. Um, you

00:10:58.060 know, I'm teaching them how to cook a barbecue. We're doing manly things. We just got back

00:11:02.820 from a trip in Utah, cliff jumping out and out in the lake. And so we do a lot of stuff

00:11:08.040 that guys do. Right. And I, I, we don't have enough of that in today's society. We, I have,

00:11:15.400 I'm lucky enough rich to have a gym in my garage. So the gym shutdowns aren't that big, a big,

00:11:21.360 a big deal to me. I make it a point when the kids aren't going to school right now that

00:11:25.660 they go in the gym with me, do a little light workout, pushups, sit-ups, body weight

00:11:30.700 squats. They're only 11 to nine. So we're not doing like heavy lifting or nothing, but

00:11:34.260 they're in there working. And I take two hours out of the day where we have to get out of

00:11:38.000 this house, go somewhere, whether it's on the beach at a baseball field, play catch, um,

00:11:45.560 go to the beach, throw the football around something. They have to be active a couple

00:11:48.860 hours a day. And then after dinner at six o'clock, they have their free time. They want to play

00:11:53.080 video games or what have you. But you, as a parent, we just can't let our kids sit around.

00:11:57.960 Um, because you're lazy and don't want to deal with them, giving them technology. And that's,

00:12:03.600 that's, I think that's, what's failed. A lot of the people that are up to out today,

00:12:08.660 these social justice warriors, they've been raised on all this technology. Now they're growing up

00:12:12.000 and we're seeing the whirlwind of that. So I believe technology is a big problem of what

00:12:16.860 we're seeing in today's Western male. Yeah. I'm seeing this. Um, it's almost like the mainstream

00:12:23.860 media and a combination of that and state involvement is looking to run our households

00:12:30.720 and our kids. Um, because during the normal school season, when like, it's been a blessing

00:12:36.140 and a curse for me, cause I work from home, you know, for the most part. Right. Um, I know that

00:12:40.100 you're retired from baseball, but you're working on your own projects, but when you've got parenting

00:12:44.320 time, cause we're both divorced, so we share custody sort of thing. But when you got parenting

00:12:47.860 time, you can't get much done because if you're not parenting the kid, they're going to sit

00:12:53.020 around a default to what the social narrative with the mainstream, you know, media narrative

00:12:57.040 is what, what, what social media gets kids to do, which is sit and stare at a screen and

00:13:02.180 they'll play screen games. They'll look at social media platforms like TikTok and nonsense like

00:13:06.520 that. And they're not being kids, right? Like it's amazing what happens when you take kids

00:13:12.000 out of that environment and you give them a stick and it's like, you know, they, they'll go

00:13:15.100 and dig a hole with a stick for like an hour and a half when you take them outside in the

00:13:18.440 sun in some field, but you bring them inside and they've got access to a screen. They'll

00:13:21.780 just sit around and they just become a zombie. You know what I'm saying?

00:13:25.460 Yeah. It's unbelievable. The minute, the minute, uh, they within an hour of getting off technology,

00:13:30.640 you see their brain start to fire. They'll start getting paper out and start drawing and painting

00:13:35.860 and creating. Um, it's, it's technology is nothing but a distraction. Now I have a rule and

00:13:42.040 a lot of people love this rule. So you have your iPads, right? I'm not an iPad Nazi. I

00:13:47.000 played video games as a kid growing up, but I would always go out and play first. And after

00:13:51.600 dinner, I, that would be from like seven o'clock at night until I went to bed. I'd play video

00:13:55.840 games, big deal, but I did my work all day long. I have a rule with the iPads, charge them

00:14:01.440 to a hundred percent every Sunday and give them access to say, listen, kids, you can use this

00:14:08.440 iPad right now, Sunday for four hours until it dies, or you can use it a little bit throughout

00:14:14.920 the week. And when that thing's dead, it's dead for the week. So they get about four, an

00:14:19.520 iPad's typically four hours, you know, to play on. So they get four hours for the week to

00:14:23.420 play on that iPad. So it teaches them to play on it in increments to manage their time. I've

00:14:30.380 found that's been very useful, very helpful because then they don't complain. They don't

00:14:34.060 bitch about, you know, you're, you don't let me play on the iPad. You have your iPad, 1.00

00:14:37.940 but you manage your time on it.

00:14:40.020 Yeah. That's a good way to go about it. I mean, there's a lot of these time management

00:14:43.400 apps and parenting apps that like kill off screen time after a certain period of time.

00:14:48.200 And that's what I use right now. But I think that that, that strategy of just taking away

00:14:51.560 the charger after Sunday and all right, you'll get the charger again on Sunday and you can

00:14:56.480 charge it back up then. So manage your time. So I like that too. That's a sweet way.

00:15:00.140 Um, how do you feel about like the, the public and the media criticizing the way that you

00:15:06.500 parent your kids? Like, I, like I never saw this growing up. Like I never saw my parents

00:15:10.560 getting, getting, like I got spanked if I was behaving like a prick. Right. And I probably 0.97

00:15:14.600 deserved it. I mean, if I'm being honest, I did deserve it. But you know, today it's like,

00:15:19.120 if you have an opinion, like, Hey, I'm going to teach my kids how to zero in a scope on their

00:15:23.120 22 and take them to the range. Oh, you're a terrible father. Cause you do it. It was like, 0.98

00:15:27.660 you know, it almost seems like they, they want to involve when I say they, like I'm just talking

00:15:35.080 about state involvement, meet, you know, mainstream media, they want to involve or, or, uh, impose

00:15:41.160 their opinions and views on you and your lives in your own household. Right. It makes it tough to be,

00:15:46.700 you know, head of your own household to be King of your castle. When all of these inputs keep coming

00:15:50.840 in from all these other opinions. What do you think about all that? You know, it's, it's funny.

00:15:54.980 One of the biggest direct messages, I, I can't even keep up with them anymore, rich from all the

00:16:00.340 haters. But a lot of it is, you know, I feel sorry for your children. You're a father, you know,

00:16:06.360 and I'm like, what? Shaming. Yeah. You know, like when I'm around my kids, I see the love in their

00:16:10.900 eyes, how much they love their dad. We do amazingly fun things together. Um, you know, I, I went to one of

00:16:16.960 my big tweets was taking them to the gun range. This is about a year ago. And, and I had the grouping

00:16:22.720 shots of the target there, my boys at the range saying how proud I was taking them to the range

00:16:27.520 to shoot guns. I got crushed for that. Like I'm, I got people calling me as I'm raising school

00:16:32.460 shooters. I mean, what the fuck, really? I'm teaching them how to properly operate a weapon 1.00

00:16:37.120 at a responsible location at a gun range that is legal to go into. And I, and half the comments I

00:16:45.060 got on my Twitter feed in the comments was talking about how bad a father I was and how ridiculous my 0.99

00:16:50.620 kids are. Cause they're going to grow up to be school shooters. And I thought to myself, Oh my 1.00

00:16:54.720 gosh, that's the world we live in now. Holy shit. You know, and just recently, um, what last week, 1.00

00:17:01.140 my boys have gotten to the point where we just don't go to the gun range and they shoot their

00:17:05.100 own, you know, they don't rent a gun. Oh, I bought them one, each one of them. They're 11 and nine.

00:17:09.760 I got them each their own AR 15. And so, you know, to me, they're, they're responsible enough to

00:17:17.600 learn how to shoot. They've been renting one at the gun range and learning to fire that thing for

00:17:21.220 the last six months. And now they're, they're, they're probably better shooting that thing than

00:17:26.140 I am. So, you know, I went out and got them one and they can't wait to go to the gun range. That's

00:17:30.240 one of their favorite things to do besides go to the beach. But you know, I think it's, especially in

00:17:35.960 this world we live in rich, I don't know how you feel about this, but I feel like this world is never

00:17:40.520 going to be the same after all this COVID nonsense. And they've been trying to take away our guns for

00:17:45.420 years. You got riots and defunding the police. We're going to have to, as men, it's going to be

00:17:50.580 up to us to protect our own households. Cause I don't see, you know, this is going to, this is

00:17:54.800 going to get ugly before it gets better. Well, it, it wasn't that long ago. I mean, in Canada,

00:18:00.020 we never had this in the school system, but I'm, but I'm told in the U S it wasn't that long ago

00:18:04.920 that they actually instructed children in the elementary school system on how to use firearms

00:18:09.920 responsibly and safely. Yeah. Um, I've never had that. I, it was probably like your parents

00:18:16.920 generation then. Like, yeah, I grew up in Texas. So if you're going to get that, you would get

00:18:21.240 that. But what they are teaching our kids in school now is, you know, um, how they can identify

00:18:26.140 as the opposite sex. That's the important issues of it. Yeah. It's, it's unbelievable, man. So 1.00

00:18:31.240 bizarre to me. So I think the one big thing going on right now, the one thing I can say that's

00:18:36.120 actually a good thing for this COVID thing is public school systems have been shut down.

00:18:41.080 Yeah. You know, at least they're not getting indoctrinated by liberal politics. That's what

00:18:45.440 the public school system has become colleges, et cetera, you know, and, um, I have no problem,

00:18:52.460 you know, right now, as of today, Southern California, uh, San Diego unified will not have

00:18:57.420 fall schools for our kids. It's once again, online learning. Um, I'm not all that smart,

00:19:03.140 Rich. I'm, I got what you call common sense smart, but I am no teacher and I can't do that

00:19:08.000 again after last year. So what me and my ex have done, um, is we have split on having a tutor come

00:19:14.600 in twice a week from nine to two, uh, I'm sorry, 10 to two twice a week, just to have somebody here

00:19:23.420 that can teach them what we can't. Um, so, you know, you got to navigate right now. I know it's

00:19:29.040 expensive for people. A lot of people can't do it and they can't go to work because their kids are at

00:19:32.960 home. So it's, this is a system of control. It's, it's a scary time for people that can't afford

00:19:38.440 to keep their kids at home right now. Um, so you said that this, that this COVID thing is

00:19:46.680 obviously offering a pretty dramatic change and, you know, your opportunity to parent and kids to

00:19:51.260 learn. Um, I mean, I was asking my dad about this a couple of weeks ago. I'm like, have you ever seen

00:19:56.480 this in your lifetime? He's like, I've never seen them shut down the economy like this pandemic,

00:20:00.000 this and that. Um, you know, we've had lots of things that have made people sick, but

00:20:03.980 you know, you see, you know, there's a funny meme that I saw the other day. It's like a picture of

00:20:08.620 this, like, you know, a disabled person who's realistically just morbidly obese in a wheelchair, 0.68

00:20:14.020 you know, um, basically talking to a Chad saying you not wearing a mask is putting my health at risk,

00:20:20.240 but it's like, no, you sitting in a, like you consuming way too much food and being 600 pounds

00:20:24.940 is putting your health at risk. Like they just don't see past their own noses. It's almost like

00:20:29.320 solipsism is like spread across, across the Western world. And everybody wants this like

00:20:36.080 softy narrative. And I just, I just don't get it. Like there's a total lack of any kind of

00:20:42.840 masculinity and strong male role models. I did this broadcast of the day on my channel on the,

00:20:48.340 before the train wreck series. And it's like, if you turn on Netflix right now and you watch a show

00:20:52.360 like Charlie's angels, like you probably remember Charlie's angels as a kid, right? Yeah. Three hot

00:20:56.480 women Bosley, you never saw his face. You know, it was cool back then. But now if you look at the

00:21:02.200 most recent version of Charlie's angels, it's like three man hating women that are just like 1.00

00:21:06.540 out there to disparage and make men look like the, like the butt of every single joke.

00:21:13.320 Oh yeah. It's, it's, it's absolutely crazy. And you know, it's funny about, uh, you know,

00:21:18.980 what watching with my boys, any kind of Hollywood movies or anything right now,

00:21:23.260 they just got done watching. And I, this is another comments I get all the time when I tell

00:21:28.160 people this too, like we just got done watching the original or the last Rambo last one. You know,

00:21:36.480 how gory that movie is. It's my boys are 11 to nine. They watched Rambo last one. And, and my,

00:21:43.120 even some of my closest friends, like, Oh my gosh, you let them watch that. Some of my friends,

00:21:47.920 wives are like, Oh yeah. I mean, to me that Rambo is going out in, and he is taking care of his own 1.00

00:21:56.200 business because the law won't, you know? And, you know, I feel like that's the world we're going

00:22:00.340 to be growing up in. And I want my boys to watch manly movies and not be indoctrinated by what they

00:22:07.120 see on TV. It's going to come from me. Right. I would rather them watch Rambo last blood than

00:22:12.840 anything. Disney's pumping out right now with all their sexual pedophilia bullshit they throw out there. 1.00

00:22:17.300 You know, and you're right. It's the men across this country that have no backbone to stand against 1.00

00:22:26.520 any of this stuff. I mean, just yesterday I'm walking my dog, um, down the street and I've never

00:22:34.160 had anybody really talk shit to me with the no mask thing or anything of that nature. And I wish they 0.78

00:22:39.500 would. Nobody ever steps to guys like us. They just don't do it. Rich. It's always, they'll talk shit.

00:22:44.060 Although look at you, but they often don't open their mouth. Yeah. They won't say nothing. But 1.00

00:22:47.460 yesterday I'm walking without my mask on and across the street with cars coming on. I'm literally

00:22:54.280 doing a podcast interview like this yesterday. I didn't have time to clean up my dog shit while 0.99

00:23:00.760 he took a dump. Right. I'm not going to take a cleanup dog shit while I'm doing a podcast, 1.00

00:23:05.100 walking my dog. This guy from across the street had his bandana on. Hey, hey, yelling at me. I'm like, 0.99

00:23:13.420 what? You're going to clean up your dog shit? I'm like, you can do it. He just walked away, 1.00

00:23:21.780 turned around like mumbling under his breath. He's going to yell from across the street from

00:23:25.420 oncoming traffic to worry about my dog shitting in a place he's not even close to. Like people are so

00:23:32.220 quick to jump into your business nowadays and record something. Or, you know, if you took away

00:23:37.720 all this technology we have right now, if you knocked out every cell phone tower in the country,

00:23:42.900 in the world where there's no more social media, I guarantee you, Rich, that moment,

00:23:48.460 this pandemic would be over. Yeah. A lot of that outrage is manufactured by cell phone cameras. 0.72

00:23:53.580 There's no doubt. There's just no doubt in my mind that if cell phones did not exist,

00:23:58.000 cell phone cameras and social media did not exist, there would be no, there would be no place for it.

00:24:02.220 It just wouldn't happen. No. I mean, let's just be honest. When we were kids,

00:24:06.080 the world was just as fucked up as it is now. Yeah, 100%. But we didn't have access to all the 0.99

00:24:12.020 negative bullshit going out there. If you have one negative story over in, you know, Washington, 0.98

00:24:16.240 D.C., it's national news now. When that would happen in 1980, nobody gave two fucks because it

00:24:21.840 wasn't local. I mean, when I was seven, eight years old, my kid's age, I would be on my bike and I

00:24:27.700 would ride all across my little town in Texas. I had a town of about 100,000 people. Yeah. And I

00:24:33.980 would be gone all day, basically five, six hours. My mom, my grandma, my grandpa, they had no clue

00:24:39.160 where I was. Yeah. I come home at sundown. Hey, what's up? Kids do that no more. Hey, what's up?

00:24:45.120 Feed me. Do you remember in school? Because I mean, you're about the same age as I am. I think

00:24:50.180 you're a bit younger. But in school, when I was growing up, there was a massive push, like a massive

00:24:54.500 social narrative that you were going to die from AIDS. Like it's everywhere. You know, if you touch

00:24:59.780 a doorknob, you're going to get it. If you hang around with gay people, you're going to get it. 1.00

00:25:03.700 It's like, you know, there's this whole narrative that you are going to die of AIDS. And this is a 0.99

00:25:08.080 pandemic and it is over for all of us. What happened to that, man? I didn't hear boo after a couple

00:25:13.940 years of that. Do you remember that? Oh, yeah. And once Magic Johnson got it and now he doesn't have it

00:25:20.440 no more, it's not even a big deal. Magic seems to be immune from the HIV virus. You know, it's funny,

00:25:27.080 like this whole this whole COVID thing, you know, if you just do your research and connect the dots

00:25:32.060 over the last six months, it's so obvious what's going on. And, you know, these masked Nazis out

00:25:35.860 there that are yelling down at you to wear your mask. Listen, if mask works so well and you're

00:25:41.560 wearing yours, then you shouldn't worry about me not wearing one, right? Because I think if your

00:25:46.680 masks supposedly keep COVID out of you, but then they tell you, well, if you wear yours,

00:25:51.880 it's doubly effective. It's such nonsense, man. These people are just idiots. They are the people

00:25:59.040 that to me, actually, this has been a very eye-opening thing, this COVID. It's separated

00:26:03.240 the idiots from the people that can reason for themselves. And so, yeah, when I go, listen, 1.00

00:26:09.560 the only time I wear a mask is when I'm mandated to, I have to here in Southern California to go

00:26:14.520 to a grocery store. They won't let you in a grocery store without one. So I'll go in there

00:26:18.540 and my favorite game to play is mask on. And whenever I get in there, just see how far down

00:26:23.980 I can get it to where I get people like backing up against the food aisles and sliding by me.

00:26:29.900 And I'm just dying, hoping somebody will say something to me. Nobody ever does. I guess,

00:26:36.160 you know, like I said earlier, if you're 6'4", 225, nobody's going to step to you.

00:26:40.080 Yeah. I don't know, man. It's so bizarre to me. Like they're strong and virtuous behind their

00:26:46.040 keyboard and behind their Twitter icon. But, you know, face-to-face, they don't say boo, man.

00:26:50.180 They just look at you. They just look at you. You know, they're driving their cars with their

00:26:53.760 masks on all by themselves inside the car, protecting themselves from what? Just getting

00:26:57.660 stupid or breathing in their own carbon dioxide. 1.00

00:27:00.040 Dude, I literally just the other day I put up, I never been one for like bumper stickers on my 1.00

00:27:08.240 truck, but I got a bumper sticker from a friend of mine who's a police officer. And it says,

00:27:13.080 I support law enforcement. And it has the blue stripe on the American flag, whatever.

00:27:20.680 And this all happened in the same day. A cop drives by me at the stoplight. He looks at me

00:27:26.260 and he gives me the fist pump. Like, thank you, my friend. You know, within two hours later,

00:27:32.520 I get somebody pull up next to me and you can tell they were both probably high school kids.

00:27:35.940 They look at me and they gave me the bird. Right. And then all that I was rolling, literally

00:27:40.020 rolling my window down to talk shit to them. And the light turned green and they hauled ass 1.00

00:27:45.000 when they're like cheap ass hybrid Kia. Right. Right. And I'm like, this is the world we live in 0.99

00:27:51.800 where little high school bitches like, you know, they saw my bumper sticker and they're 1.00

00:27:56.940 against police officers. Yeah. Same idiots that no doubt if somebody broke in their house, 0.98

00:28:03.700 they're going to be asking, where's the cops? Right. The defunding the police thing for any 1.00

00:28:09.980 American out there that thinks that's a good idea. You need your ass kicked. I mean, it's 1.00

00:28:15.940 as simple as that. You're, you're a fucking moron and you really honestly need to get your, 1.00

00:28:22.020 if you support defunding the police, you should have no right to ever, you should have this little 1.00

00:28:28.460 mark on you that says you, you have no right to call the cops when anything bad happens.

00:28:33.940 Yeah. Yeah. It's, it's, um,

00:28:37.760 I don't even know where to go with that. You know, I did the show.

00:28:42.580 I mean, Rich, Gabe Kapler, you know, the manager for the, for the giants. Yeah. He knelt for the

00:28:47.720 national anthem the other day. He had this big social justice warrior speech to his team prior

00:28:52.800 to the game. You know, he was talking about how we got 60 games to do whatever we want. He was

00:28:57.040 worried more about social justice than winning baseball games. And that's why he's a failed

00:29:01.540 manager. And, and what's funny is what he said was he was dissatisfied with how our country has

00:29:09.800 handled police brutality. And I'm like, okay, if that's how you feel about police officers.

00:29:17.020 So whenever a normalcy comes back to major league baseball, you start getting fans in the stands.

00:29:22.060 How about we just can take out all security and police officers out of your stadium. Let's have

00:29:27.520 the Dodgers come to town on a big rivalry with 40,000 people in the stands, getting drunk, fighting

00:29:33.560 each other, and then just take away cops and security. Let's see how much you, uh, hate cops.

00:29:38.160 I mean, it's just ridiculous. All these people taking away, you know, cops, man, who wants to 0.96

00:29:45.020 be a cop right now, Rich? Yeah. I said that about a month ago, I did a broadcast and I had, uh, six

00:29:50.340 police officers come on with me and they all stayed anonymous because they were afraid to lose their

00:29:55.500 jobs or get fired. But I basically said the same thing about a month ago. I'm like, if you're thinking

00:30:00.400 about being a cop, don't find another career, be a firefighter. You get more girls anyway. 1.00

00:30:04.740 But, um, they all basically said the same thing. Like, you know, policing is really bad. Like if

00:30:10.920 you're, if you got 10 minutes of like excitement in your day, you've got like a couple hours of

00:30:15.520 paperwork to do because of that. Right. And, um, you know, they're always walking on eggshells and

00:30:20.620 I wouldn't like, I wouldn't do that job for a million dollars a year. There's no way you could

00:30:24.860 pay me enough money to be a police officer today. Forget it. Not a chance. Forget it. But, um,

00:30:30.520 you know, there's just so much hostility and there's so many of these young kids today that,

00:30:33.980 that are just following this like weak feminized social narrative of hate on anything, you know,

00:30:40.220 like what is that zone? And what is it? Portland where they have that chat zone or they tried to

00:30:44.740 like demilitarize. Yeah. It's so bizarre to me, man. Watching this stuff. It's just like,

00:30:52.420 are you freaking kidding me? Like you have, like, there are no high value men in any of these protests,

00:30:58.720 riots, like high value men are, are, are putting a dent in the universe, right? Like they have

00:31:04.320 women chasing them. They have things to do. They have kids to raise. They have money to make. They 0.99

00:31:07.880 have, they don't have time to go and throw a hissy fit in public and wear a mask. And like some of the

00:31:14.500 funnish imagery that I saw this week was a bunch of these young kids and they're using umbrellas as

00:31:19.660 shields from the police. Like they think an umbrella is going to stop a rubber bullet. And you know,

00:31:24.900 they're all lining up. Like they've been watching too much, uh, Vikings or too much game of thrones

00:31:29.560 where they try to stack the shields is like a staggered wall sort of thing. And it's like,

00:31:33.240 they're using umbrellas and it's like, man, if you have people laughing at you and it's just like,

00:31:39.100 I just, I just wish more men would open the rise to the reality of what they're doing and recognize

00:31:46.100 that it doesn't matter how much you bend the knee to, um, this mainstream social narrative of,

00:31:53.160 you know, uh, putting, putting women up on a pedestal and the white knighting is off the

00:31:57.800 chart, right? Like women don't, don't want anything to do with you, dude. Like as much as they hate 1.00

00:32:02.440 guys like you and sliding in your DMS and you're a terrible father and I feel sorry for your kids 0.68

00:32:07.200 and all that. They want you at the same time. They're the first ones that deserve the shot of

00:32:12.420 the title, rich. That's true. They, they, they love guys like us. Right. Um, at the end of the day,

00:32:18.440 they're going to talk down to us and they're going to try and control us, but women want a man who's 1.00

00:32:22.340 masculine. That's willing to stand up to him. It's almost like I had this rule and I didn't know

00:32:26.220 this as a young man. It was almost like it was opposite when I was younger, but now I've seen

00:32:30.960 the truth. The hotter she is, the more you ignore her and kind of treat her like shit in a way, 1.00

00:32:35.980 the more she wants you. It's, it's really weird how that's happened that I've seen that over my, 1.00

00:32:41.340 you know, last three years, especially since I've been divorced. Um, it's been an eyeopening

00:32:46.320 experience and you've touched on a great point. It's like all these guys out there that are in the

00:32:51.940 Chaz area or tearing down statues or, or, or, or, you know, any of these social justice warriors

00:32:59.440 guys, if you look at them, every single one of them is 130 pounds soaking wet, no muscle tone,

00:33:07.340 tight jeans, always in a man bun. They have nothing masculine about them. And on the other,

00:33:13.880 on the other side of the token, if you look at the women, it's usually the fat obese hag that has 1.00

00:33:19.920 never seen a weight room in her life. It's got blue and orange hair, you know? So, um, these are 0.98

00:33:26.080 the people that America is afraid to step up against and speak out against. I'm not fuck you. 0.99

00:33:31.740 You never see, ever see guys like me and you going down, um, to a statue tear down party or 0.99

00:33:39.080 protesting. Right. Why? Because we're busy making ourselves better. We're in the gym. We're working,

00:33:44.380 we're grinding, we're making money, we're making moves. And that's hot. That's hot to other women, 1.00

00:33:48.900 to real, real feminine, gorgeous women. They love that shit. I think you, you and, uh, Rolo say 1.00

00:33:54.820 this all the time, right? Uh, the, the women sit at the finish line and wait to fuck the winners, 1.00

00:33:59.560 right? Yeah. They wait at the finish line and they pick the winner. Yeah. It's like, uh, I try to 1.00

00:34:07.020 picture myself here thinking, you know, I have nothing better to do with my time that I would want to

00:34:12.880 manufacture indignation and drama and go down to a statue or a monument of somebody from a hundred,

00:34:19.760 200, 300 years ago that did something significant and take it down because at that time, you know,

00:34:25.640 something was common that might be offensive today. It's like you have, you have some,

00:34:30.660 you have some growing up to do, man. Like, like you have some serious thinking to do about your

00:34:34.400 position in the world and your life, but I don't see that changing too much, man. Like I see more and

00:34:38.820 more of that happening. I see more and more guys transitioning into that sphere, like into that

00:34:43.800 space. And it's real, real tough to watch. Um, I'm more of the kind of like sit back and let it burn

00:34:49.980 sort of mentality at this point. I know you mentioned that video that if you didn't have kids,

00:34:53.320 you would be up in the mountain doing that right now, but I just, I just take care of my inner circle

00:34:57.380 and I just say, all right, look, you know, here's, here's the facts as I see them, you know,

00:35:03.500 hear, hear the opinion of the mainstream media, hear the opinion of the school system,

00:35:07.120 hear the opinion of teachers and your peers, but don't be sheep. Don't be sheep.

00:35:12.680 You know, Richard's it's, um, I kind of did a, uh, a little rant, I guess on a video kind of half

00:35:20.560 joking, just pissed off at Gavin Newsom for what he's been doing in California. And I kind of teased

00:35:26.480 about running for governor in that video. I mean, I got so much support and I was like, wow,

00:35:32.980 you know, it was almost, I always started thinking like, I remember a, a, uh, interview

00:35:36.780 by Donald Trump on Oprah years ago, a couple, a few decades ago. And she had asked me if he'd

00:35:42.200 ever run for president. He said, you know what? I really love what I do. Probably never would

00:35:46.820 ever run for president, but if the country got that bad, then not maybe consider it. And I

00:35:50.220 remember that interview. And then I started thinking to myself, you know, I would never want

00:35:54.500 to be in politics. I'm not politically well-versed. Um, but seeing the people that are running

00:36:00.180 these countries, uh, to these States and cities, I'm like, shit, any idiot can do it, obviously. 1.00

00:36:05.900 And then I just kind of made that video about running for governor, California. People were 1.00

00:36:09.460 like, please Aubrey run, please Aubrey run. And I'm like, holy shit. I'm about 90% sure 0.99

00:36:14.380 that I want to run in 2022 against this guy. I mean, we need more men, real men. It's not

00:36:21.320 these beta males haven't just infiltrated our streets and tear down our statues. They're in 0.96

00:36:25.980 our government. Oh yeah. They don't, they have no backbone. They have no balls. They

00:36:30.340 have no conviction. They're being told what to do by the powers that be the behind the

00:36:33.880 curtain. And they're just puppets and we need more men. And they're like Donald Trump, who

00:36:37.920 doesn't give a shit, has his own money on the politician who will actually, what he's 0.99

00:36:42.020 trying to do is clean, is drain the swamp. And that's why we have all these cry babies right 1.00

00:36:45.380 now. He's onto everybody. And these leftist behind the scenes goons and elitists, they're

00:36:52.660 fighting back and they're using their, this dumbed down social justice warriors that have 0.95

00:36:58.160 been growing up in the participation trophy generation to do their dirty work.

00:37:01.760 Yeah. I, you know, I wonder though, you know, cause I look at, I mean, your president right

00:37:06.340 now is Donald Trump and he's about as alpha as they come and he can't even get much done.

00:37:09.840 You know, he's, he's, he's constantly stolen while he's constantly fighting to, um, you know,

00:37:14.680 to pass legislation law and get things, you know, moving in the right direction. But, uh, I mean,

00:37:21.060 I did some lobbying a couple of years ago around 20, 2013 to 2015 here in Ontario with Queens 0.94

00:37:26.900 Park with the provincial government. And I, I found I got nothing done and I had the right

00:37:31.060 approach, the right agenda. I had the right argument to, to prove that the legislation

00:37:35.980 that the big banks were trying to pass was going to be harmful to the Canadian consumer.

00:37:40.880 They didn't want to hear it, man. They just wanted to go with what would preserve, uh,

00:37:45.140 their seat in parliament and their job. They don't really care about, you know, the public

00:37:49.820 in general, all they care about is themselves and preserving their seat in that job as long

00:37:55.700 as possible in their retirement. Everything else comes along with that. So, I mean, I mean,

00:38:00.380 it's a virtuous fight to push.

00:38:02.220 We got to get term limits. That's, that's the bottom line. And we've had people like Nancy, 1.00

00:38:06.780 Nancy Perlozzi and Chuck Schumer, all these guys here that have been in, in, uh, in government

00:38:12.020 for decades now. It's crazy. It's just, how do you, how can you justify that? And these

00:38:17.280 people come into politics and they come out multi, multi, and I'm talking multi millionaires.

00:38:22.900 Yeah. How does that happen on your salary? Right? Nobody puts this together. Like Obama's 0.63

00:38:28.020 came in, right? Obama was, I think he was worth maybe a million bucks, you know, him and his

00:38:33.060 play. If indeed Michelle is his woman, but, but, uh, yeah, let's call her a woman. Yeah. Yeah. And

00:38:42.300 then they come out of this thing, out of his presidency, like net worth of over $40 million,

00:38:48.080 you know, brand new house. And then I think it happens or something. I'm like, how does that

00:38:52.180 happen on a, uh, presidential salary? I know you have your speaking gigs, you know, but you don't

00:38:56.980 make $40 million on public speaking. So, you know, you gotta, you gotta ask yourself, where's

00:39:01.900 all this money coming from for these elitists? Right. And yeah, I don't know, man, it's, it's,

00:39:07.400 it's just so corrupt. And that's why we're seeing such pushback right now. It's no, it's

00:39:13.400 no coincidence that all this started happening in 2016. You know, when Donald Trump was elected

00:39:18.880 president, it's connect the dots, you know, everything's quiet with the status quo with

00:39:26.160 Obama and, you know, you know, Clinton back in the day and everything's okay. Nobody sees

00:39:32.160 the shade that's going on behind closed doors. It's a real evil, but when the evil gets confronted

00:39:36.220 and then somebody comes in, that's not a career politician that has seen this from the outside.

00:39:39.460 You know, I get this all the time. Like Donald Trump knew Jeffrey Epstein. Yeah, he did when

00:39:45.960 he was younger and lived basically three doors down in West Palm back in the day. And yeah, he's

00:39:51.560 been to his house. He's got pictures with him. But once I think Donald Trump knew what he was into,

00:39:55.600 he was gone. Basically told him, you're not welcome here anymore. He outed Epstein. So Donald

00:40:02.640 Trump has seen all this corruption over his lifetime, being the billionaire he's been. And

00:40:06.940 now he's over it. He's sick of seeing what has happened to America and he's fighting back

00:40:11.420 against all these guys. And that's why we're seeing the hissy fit. Yeah. I just want to be

00:40:17.320 respectful of your time because I know you got to run in a couple of minutes. So, you know,

00:40:20.800 speaking on the topic of parenting and, you know, what you're up to today, just just kind

00:40:26.020 of sign off and let these guys know, you know, what your best advice is on, you know, being

00:40:30.360 a parent in today's crazy ass world and what you think people should be doing to get some

00:40:34.340 better results with their kids. Yeah, we kind of went off topic there, didn't we, Rich? 0.59

00:40:37.920 Yeah. It happens. It happens. Yeah, man. For me, it's, you know, my boys are 11 and 9 and

00:40:46.020 they're at an age right now, I think, where, you know, when they're younger, they're more

00:40:49.120 nurturing. They need to be nurtured more with their moms and that nature. And, you know, I'm

00:40:52.520 starting to do more manly things with them. But for kids, man, you know, as a father for men out

00:40:58.560 there, just be involved, right? It's not so much how much time you spend with them, it's the time

00:41:04.160 you do. It's got to be quality time, right? And for me, the big thing is, especially this day and

00:41:10.440 age with this whole coronavirus thing and all the fear mongering the media, really be mindful of what

00:41:15.040 you're feeding them. Because there's a lot of kids out there, I think, that are afraid.

00:41:19.940 And because their parents are afraid, you know, they're pushing their fears onto their kids.

00:41:25.360 And mental health right now, you know, I've gone through my mental health issues. And

00:41:28.880 because I used to worry about everything, you know, what people thought of me, you know, fans,

00:41:36.040 ownership, you know, everybody except for just being who I was and speaking out and being fearless,

00:41:41.960 right? And the world is teaching kids today to be fearful about everything, worry about

00:41:47.760 everything. So for me, it's really mind the outside influences in today's society. You think

00:41:55.640 Disney is harmless? They're probably the worst ones out there. So really mind what you're feeding

00:42:02.920 your kids on the day and the day.

00:42:04.520 All right, brother. Well, you can be followed over on Twitter at Aubrey underscore Huff.

00:42:11.160 Uh, so check them out. You're also got your podcast rolling too. That's, that's on iTunes

00:42:16.220 and all that stuff.

00:42:17.700 It's called off the cuff with Aubrey Huff. And that's, uh, I post that on my Instagram

00:42:21.240 at HuffDaddy76 and my Twitter, but it's also on any listening platform, Apple podcasts, Spotify,

00:42:27.600 et cetera. Yeah.

00:42:28.540 Cool. All right, brother. Thanks for hopping on and joining me guys. Make sure you hit the

00:42:32.180 like button, leave me a comment below, and we'll see you guys all in the next broadcast. Peace out.

00:42:36.740 Peace out.

Playing to Win - March 02, 2022

022 - Aubrey Huff on Parenting

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