Playing to Win - 022 - Game & Hypergamy in Major Cities w⧸Myron Gains.

00:00:00.000 and we're live episode number 22 with Myron Gaines what's up brother what's up man how you

00:00:08.940 doing rich doing good man it's a broadcast we've had in the making for a long time coming behind

00:00:14.320 the scenes Myron's a longtime friend and mentee from my community and uh he is a he's going to

00:00:21.320 be a big thing in this space as uh the years and months come up he's also the village bicycle he

00:00:27.260 he goes around a lot that's my job man I'm just like working my rounds and you know spreading the

00:00:33.340 message and basically yeah I'm being a garden tool right now you know what I'm talking about

00:00:37.500 so um we could we could go down a whole bunch of avenues and paths on this broadcast today we're

00:00:43.880 going to try to keep it under uh 90 minutes but um let me kind of introduce you as I know you um

00:00:50.240 you've been around this space it feels like almost about a year is when I first met you maybe about a

00:00:55.040 year year and a half ago um you know you're a solid guy that does well in life in general with

00:01:00.520 your day job but you've also got a lot of skills when it comes to self-care like you kind of leaned

00:01:05.680 into the space as look I want to help guys get better results in the gym um how old are you now

00:01:12.360 I'm 30 years old 30 so you're 30 you're natural uh you do a lot of evidence-based um advice when it

00:01:19.520 comes to training when it comes to nutrition um I've seen you link like everything like when you're in

00:01:24.700 the community and somebody's like hey I have a question like boom boom boom boom study study

00:01:27.720 study it's like dude's got it like if you follow him on instagram you'll see pretty much a lot of

00:01:31.860 the same stuff um and his handle's on the bottom there um but you also got involved with uh the

00:01:37.800 whole simp to pimp thing and that's kind of like one of your catch uh slogans is turning simps to pimps

00:01:43.580 and a big part of that is of course the self-care but it's the mindset issue when it comes to doing

00:01:48.140 better with women you live in Miami one of the things you wanted to hit on this broadcast was 0.99

00:01:52.660 dealing with like women in the most hypergamous city in North America is what you called it 1.00

00:01:57.880 um why do you call Miami the most hypergamous city yeah I mean the reality is Miami is a great

00:02:04.560 way to test your raw smv you know what I mean that's just the reality because here you're competing with

00:02:10.400 top tier guys that are in Lambos Ferraris whether they're rented or not but everyone's pushing a facade

00:02:15.400 here so if you're not firing on all cylinders as far as like being an attractive male high value

00:02:20.080 you're probably going to get left in the dust because the thing is is that we have the highest

00:02:24.160 concentration of attractive women here in South Florida and in the United States in my opinion 1.00

00:02:27.740 and I've been around and there we all know women are you know they they date up so for you to be 1.00

00:02:33.400 able to get these types of women these model type women that live here you got to be on on on point 0.90

00:02:37.840 with uh everything whether it's your fitness your game your money you have to have all these things

00:02:42.760 situated before you even begin to be able to get out here and game and actually be successful I mean

00:02:47.300 you could be broke and you know still go out and do things but you're not going to optimize your

00:02:52.040 results with the highest value women the best looking girls because they're 100 dating up because 0.96

00:02:56.360 so many high value guys have vacation houses here like in Miami Beach on Star Island whatever it may

00:03:01.780 be how long you lived in Miami for I've been here since uh 2018 so I've been here just over two years

00:03:07.960 and where'd you grow up I grew up in uh Connecticut New Britain Connecticut to be exact hard hit

00:03:13.060 most of the family too right yeah uh my yeah my parents uh we grew up I was born in New York City

00:03:18.360 and then I moved to Connecticut uh at around nine ten years old and then I when people ask me I always

00:03:23.940 say I'm from Connecticut I went to high school in New Brent High uh New Brent Connecticut which is like

00:03:27.820 right in the center right outside of Hartford and uh you know humble beginnings I didn't grow up rich

00:03:31.980 or anything like that my dad came to the United States in the 80s uh as an immigrant from Sudan

00:03:36.540 and he brought my mom over they didn't speak a lick of English and they just figured out my dad

00:03:40.760 drove a taxi in the New York City in Brooklyn at the worst time back in the 90s and it was most

00:03:45.640 dangerous and uh you know he was able to work his way up and buy a home and raise us and you know

00:03:50.800 growing up we we didn't have the most money but you know we had food and most importantly both parents

00:03:56.820 stayed together to this day and um even though we weren't the richest that stable family that stable

00:04:01.940 household made things like uh much better for me growing up and and I didn't value and now as an

00:04:06.800 adult I can look back and value that like wow this is why I've been able to you know be raised right

00:04:11.900 and you know be mentally sane and not have any real issues because I came from a stable household

00:04:16.560 regardless of income both parents were there and my mom always kept the house clean she always 1.00

00:04:20.120 uh cooked for us like I remember my mom would get anxiety if my dad went to went to work without

00:04:25.280 having a lunch pack you know that's how much my mom cared about serving him and my dad was a leader

00:04:29.740 too who's an alpha male so my mom respected him and stood by him and uh you know it worked out great

00:04:34.220 and I grew up Muslim as well too what was the um what was it like for you like when you kind of got

00:04:39.940 into the real world as a a man when you kind of graduate from boy to man you you know reach out in

00:04:44.100 the world real world you start to interact with women like were you a simp at one point or were you

00:04:49.220 always kind of like you know you had game so uh this is a great question um so growing up I always

00:04:54.780 kind of had some kind of awareness of of this you know of the the rp because uh because I was raised

00:05:01.640 in a muslim household with uh parents from north africa so obviously everyone knows islam is a

00:05:07.520 patriarchy men lead women follow and uh you know my mom always told me from a young age hey make sure 0.92

00:05:14.000 you go and marry a woman from the middle east you know an egyptian uh you know libyan whatever may

00:05:19.440 an egyptian girl a saudi arabian girl sudanese girl whatever may be but go back qatar wherever 0.96

00:05:24.100 go at dubai meet one of these girls and bring her back because you don't want to deal with an 1.00

00:05:28.480 american and I was like mom what are you talking about and then as I become an adult and I'm like

00:05:32.500 kind of seeing like how things have changed uh you know it's just it's tough to make a relationship

00:05:38.840 work nowadays with the way the laws are constructed the way with the north of all divorces etc so I see

00:05:44.460 what my mom meant now as an adult um so I always had this kind of awareness and then when I went to

00:05:50.360 college I kind of I was I was good with ladies in college but like I didn't know exactly why and then 1.00

00:05:54.280 uh you know I found roletz massey I read his book shout out to him uh and it connected a lot of dots

00:05:59.400 for me you know things that I had like experienced and seen but like I was like oh I can't really put

00:06:04.300 my finger on it and then I was like oh eureka like it literally like laid everything out so I recommend

00:06:09.140 every guy read that book that's it was it was great stuff but I would say I had the awareness but 0.89

00:06:13.880 I've definitely simped in the past I'm no I'm not immune to being an idiot and like simping and 0.78

00:06:18.140 making terrible mistakes with with women and learning the hard way was there like there's 1.00

00:06:23.620 usually for most guys some kind of trauma in their life that brings them to you know trp or to my

00:06:29.080 channel or to read rollo's book like was there heartbreak when I just like was there something

00:06:32.640 that brought you there you know I've never had a serious girlfriend that hurt me man and people

00:06:38.040 ask me they're amazed when I say that I've always been so focused on like um excelling at the gym

00:06:42.880 work whatever it may be that like I never uh dated a girl super seriously to the point that it could

00:06:47.980 affect my performance like I've been I've seen women before whatever it may be but I never let 0.69

00:06:52.820 them get in a position where like it would like be it would mess uh mess with my capacity to perform

00:06:57.680 so it wasn't it wasn't trauma it was just for me more like the interest of connecting the dots and

00:07:03.100 figuring this out because was that was that nature from like your upbringing like was that just kind of

00:07:08.880 like in your dna you just saw it in that sense because I mean one of the core tenets of trp is

00:07:13.900 um you know you never get into a long-term relationship especially in your 20s and women

00:07:18.320 will always push for it at some point like I'm sure like you've had some girls like you know Myron let's

00:07:23.060 have a talk you know because I'm thinking we'd be better as a couple and we want to be exclusive and

00:07:27.860 you know you get stuff like that yeah for sure like them trying to angle a relationship I would say

00:07:31.820 how'd you end up handling stuff like that when that would come up that's a great question rich and I've

00:07:35.520 never until you asked me that question now I I know why now it was because I knew deep down I

00:07:41.020 couldn't bring any of these girls to my mom or like my family they wouldn't approve that's why 1.00

00:07:45.060 because nowadays like my parents are begging me to get you know find it you know I want to have I

00:07:51.180 want to have grandchildren I don't care who you bring home whatever so now they don't care but

00:07:53.980 when I was younger when I was younger my mom was like hey make sure you you get the right girl make 0.57

00:07:59.620 sure she's Muslim make sure she speaks Arabic you need to pass the religion and and the language down blah 0.99

00:08:03.480 blah now as I get older she's like just bring anybody so I would say from from all those years 0.99

00:08:08.120 the formative years and the teens in the 20s I didn't take any girls serious because I knew I

00:08:11.900 wouldn't be able to bring them home to the family so that's I'm yeah that was a good question that's

00:08:16.300 interesting um so okay so you talked about doing some simping so what's the worst simping that you've

00:08:23.540 ever done like what's the worst blue pill beta thing that you're like embarrassed to even

00:08:27.200 mention I would say uh just and it's several like texting girls and like hitting them up and just

00:08:35.620 talking to them knowing that like they're just and well back then I didn't know but I thought like

00:08:40.560 just giving them more attention would work and like they'd like me like I hope like I basically ran what

00:08:45.280 I call like I hope she likes me game which is like never the way to go yeah you should be running it

00:08:50.160 like hey take it or leave it type game versus like I hope she likes me and that's what I was doing I was

00:08:54.060 like trying to build rapport and I was trying to build comfort and all this stuff before attraction

00:08:58.060 and for anybody that hasn't read the mystery method I think it's an excellent book to read

00:09:01.320 to learn basic uh intersexual dynamics between the two genders um you know you you got to build

00:09:06.900 attraction first before you build comfort you know so I I didn't even build attraction so I would say

00:09:11.060 that was like one of the biggest mistakes like just fundamentally like putting the cart before the

00:09:15.040 horse and now understanding that like your attention is your currency as a man and I made so many

00:09:20.440 mistakes looking back in college uh looking back in my teens uh even my in my 20s you know I didn't

00:09:25.920 really start figuring this stuff out until about I was about 28 29 but before that I had kind of known

00:09:30.720 but then I finally connected the dots when I got older so I would say definitely just giving free

00:09:34.320 attention was like the biggest mistake and like talking to girls that clearly like didn't see me in

00:09:38.660 a romantic light yeah I always you know always laugh at all these like thirsty beta kind of simps because

00:09:44.440 they have blood on their hands they don't even know it like they've like they've gotten

00:09:47.600 they've gotten the sexual marketplace to the point where like fours believe that they're tens with 0.65

00:09:52.820 three kids in tow from two different fathers because of all the free attention they get from

00:09:57.340 about 80 percent of the male population which in some sense makes our job harder but it also kind of 0.53

00:10:03.400 makes it easier because it's really easy to stand out from all the simping too absolutely and I talked

00:10:08.360 about this in a video uh like like how um because you know a lot of guys think like oh you guys over in

00:10:13.700 this fear you guys are just haters and it's like no bro over 56 percent of instagram users are women

00:10:18.440 and women get five times as many likes as men that's some hardcore stats for you right there for 0.97

00:10:22.480 the guys that think we're like you know we don't know what we're talking about yeah let me just hit

00:10:26.700 these uh super chats so Odin yeah I got yours bro thanks man uh the elite tag team is out and about

00:10:32.100 Manny says what's the verdict on cold approach it's an excellent question you got to do it man like that

00:10:37.680 for anybody that uh might not be familiar with me I came into the scene through uh my boy John

00:10:43.120 from Modern Life Dating and I've been out he's seen me out uh in a couple venues in in uh Phoenix and

00:10:48.240 uh Orlando and and one of my things is night game like you know I'm pretty good with like cold approach

00:10:53.560 and especially within a night venue and I guess we've talked about that later but the point is

00:10:57.020 is you got to learn how to cold approach man because if you don't know how to cold approach you're not

00:11:00.500 going to be able to forge uh fundamental skills that you need to learn when you're interacting with

00:11:05.480 women and cold approach is one of the best and most organic ways to develop these skills these 0.97

00:11:10.180 social skills on the fly because when you're talking because when you when you cold approach

00:11:14.200 a girl number one it shows confidence right and if you do it correctly it says a lot about you as a

00:11:18.440 man and it shows a lot of uh social awareness because when she's giving you feedback you're

00:11:22.620 immediately replying in a witty funny way and then it shows social calibration which social showing

00:11:28.220 social calibration is very attractive because most guys don't have that so when you're able to show

00:11:32.420 that you're calibrated on a social sense she's gonna instantly find you as like an anomaly compared

00:11:37.380 to other guys because what do most other guys do they'll come in and ask boring questions they

00:11:41.420 won't raise a sexual tension they're not interesting whatever it may be so when you're able to like

00:11:45.740 ping her responses based on your experiences and come back with a funny answer it's like oh wow this

00:11:50.780 guy's cool you know and she'll want to like she'll want to know more so but cold approach is definitely

00:11:54.680 skill that needs to be learned yeah um a friend of mine and what i see most guys do actually

00:12:01.320 is what i call interrogation approach where they basically like get right in their face and like

00:12:06.380 so what do you do where do you live what kind of kind of drive oh yeah do you like that it's like

00:12:08.920 you know what kind of clubs you go to and it's like no no you got to chill the hell out i like your

00:12:13.320 um break in line what the hell was it it was something like uh hey i wanted to say say hi because

00:12:18.800 i haven't seen somebody as cute as i am or something yeah i uh yeah my pickup line guys like for

00:12:23.560 all the guys that wonder my opener every single time i go out was hey you're almost as cute as me

00:12:27.700 what's your name that's it then i'll just put my hand out and then you know and if she shakes my

00:12:31.720 hand uh what i'll do is i'll like hold on to it and if she lets me hold on to it well this is a way

00:12:36.080 of screening you know one of the techniques that i use because my thing is i don't run like i hope

00:12:40.740 she likes me game i run is she available game so you're screening out time wasters immediately

00:12:45.660 because the thing here about miami especially is that a lot of girls come down here to vacation to 1.00

00:12:50.200 take pictures to like get some clout you know what i mean so you need to filter those girls out 1.00

00:12:54.340 immediately when you're out so one of the ways that you could do it or get naturally without

00:12:58.000 being overt is like kind of subtly holding your hand when you introduce yourself and watching her

00:13:02.200 body language when you're talking to her which you know uh you know john does teach that court

00:13:06.860 whole course on that but uh but yeah definitely that's yeah that's my that's my line right there

00:13:11.540 um a lot of the guys that i've seen sulk about the results they get with women um you know they

00:13:18.620 always find you know like a problem for it it's uh too too short um you know too tall too fat too

00:13:26.180 skinny um one of the things i've heard often is well if you're not white you know you might as well 1.00

00:13:30.800 throw it in the bin um clearly you know you've done well so what's the secret i mean does skin color

00:13:36.780 really matter to women no it doesn't and as a matter of fact one of my buddies here in miami

00:13:41.620 we're working together on a project right now he's not the best looking guy he's darker skinned 1.00

00:13:45.880 and he's short he's not under six feet and he's not in good shape but he's like getting girls left

00:13:50.320 and right and the reason why is because he portrays himself in a good light you know for all the guys

00:13:53.560 out there that say oh you can't get a girl unless you're six feet tall or more or it's all about the 1.00

00:13:57.880 face or whatever actually it if you could pick one amplifier to as a man to get girls it would be 0.97

00:14:03.980 social status i would say clout and social status is number one as far as like attracting girls and if 1.00

00:14:08.500 you don't believe me look at a rapper like six nine you know what i'm saying so um and he's got all

00:14:13.420 these chicks in his videos and he's he's hung out with like hot models and all that stuff so

00:14:17.900 clout was everything so if if you if you're not the best looking guy the beauty about being a man

00:14:22.140 is that you're not only judged on the way you look i always say like girls have an attraction 0.96

00:14:27.100 floor so as long as you hit that attraction floor and you're able to like show her your other features

00:14:32.780 which are you know whether you make more money you make good money you're confident um you're in

00:14:37.360 good shape you you convey yourself in a certain way a masculine way that's that's attractive

00:14:41.860 you'll make you're more than more than make up for the fact that you're not the most attractive guy

00:14:45.660 but the thing is that a lot of guys want to just like say oh it's all looks it's all looks and it's

00:14:49.920 really not the looks just get you into the door but if you can't convey high value in other ways

00:14:54.000 you're going to take an l i know plenty of guys that are like in great shape and they're gym cells

00:14:58.100 they can't get girls because they're socially awkward they don't have any type of they might not 0.55

00:15:02.420 be financially stable whatever so i think you need the trifecta to truly be successful and looks is just

00:15:06.980 a part of it to get you in but you but the beauty of the man is you can uh show your other

00:15:11.360 features whereas like as a woman if you're not good looking oh man you're gonna have to you're 0.99

00:15:15.200 gonna have a hard life as a female you know because that's how guys judge women you know at the end of 1.00

00:15:18.480 the day unfortunately but women women fortunately for us judge us on a whole matrix of things yeah 1.00

00:15:23.940 there's always still a long lineup of men that would that would go out with a four though i mean

00:15:27.980 they're absolutely yeah yeah it's just off the chart kind of crazy yeah absolutely um what kind of

00:15:34.220 game do you usually run in miami like you'd use use cold approach or use dating apps like what's

00:15:38.260 your favorite or is it just a combination of it i i use all so uh okay so rank them for us so so tell

00:15:44.360 us what you like the best and why so personally um before covid my my favorite was night game now i

00:15:51.120 will warn the viewers that night game probably has one of the lowest returns on investment when you

00:15:55.680 compare time money effort everything like that but to me i enjoy the fact that like night game in miami

00:16:01.760 makes you razor sharp like you go to another city it's easy mode when i went to phoenix i was like

00:16:06.340 whoa what is this you know what i mean but like uh here it's very hard so especially if you're like

00:16:11.840 partying in miami versus like miami beach like miami beach is filled with tours you could probably

00:16:15.920 it it'll be easier in miami beach but if you're doing it in in miami with locals it's pretty tough

00:16:20.580 um and then after that obviously dating apps is probably the best roi because you're dealing with

00:16:26.340 like basically she's already getting screened out for you because like when you swipe right and she swipes

00:16:31.060 right on you it's like okay she's interested she's available and then you go from there but a lot of

00:16:35.200 girls use dating apps you know just to get free attention so you got to set up your profile in a 1.00

00:16:38.380 certain way and have these mechanisms to screen out time wasters which uh we taught that in pandemic

00:16:42.180 pick up me and john uh and then i would say after that is um then you can run day game like you know

00:16:48.840 i would i'd do day game last like if i see an attractive girl when i'm walking to the gym because 1.00

00:16:53.660 i live in like a brickle for so for anybody that's like familiar with miami that's in manhattan of miami

00:16:57.540 so there's a lot of good looking girls walking around with their dogs or whatever so like when i'm walking 1.00

00:17:01.420 to the gym or i'm going to get some food or whatever if i see a cute girl i'll introduce myself 1.00

00:17:04.800 but um i don't like overtly carve out four hours and go to the mall and walk around and try to talk

00:17:10.640 to girls like i don't i don't think that's a useful way to spend time but i don't knock guys that do 0.99

00:17:15.980 that because i know a lot of guys that get successful with that and then after that is a

00:17:19.460 social circle game which i'm going to start running that here fairly soon but with social circle that's

00:17:23.680 a little bit more of a long game because you you can't you can't afford to take an l with social

00:17:27.840 circle because you're going to see these people again i got a question here from one of our one

00:17:34.500 percenters i'm i'm just going to drop the youtube link so if you guys are watching this like on

00:17:38.940 twitter or facebook anywhere if that link shows up that i've just posted head over to youtube and

00:17:44.060 click that it helps me out a lot more with the algorithms uh alan said can you please explain

00:17:48.900 night game yeah that's a great question so so night game pretty much is any type of game

00:17:53.460 where you're going out to a venue uh where there's like liquor being alcohol being served and it's

00:17:59.960 like a social environment so like a nightclub a bar i mean some people might even constitute like a

00:18:05.320 daytime pool party as night game uh like a day club yeah like a day club which i mean i guess you can you

00:18:11.740 can you can lump it there but pretty much any social scene that's designed to have people meet where

00:18:17.440 there's liquor being served it's typically like a night game venue so um night game is is like i'll

00:18:23.940 use it in miami for example like if you're at a club or a bar or whatever it's you know the act of

00:18:28.340 approaching women and meeting girls through uh at the bar which for a lot of people is tough because

00:18:32.720 you have a lot of obstacles you got a lot of music you got you know bouncers that are that are haters

00:18:37.160 you know quite frankly you got to pay covers uh drinks cost more money uh you got to nowadays uh you got

00:18:43.820 to run table if you're not if you don't have a table you're gonna have to be even more sharp because

00:18:47.420 uh the guys that have a table are gonna have a little bit more preference with the ladies than 1.00

00:18:51.420 you um so there's a lot of different factors which is why a lot of guys stay away from night game

00:18:56.200 especially nowadays with like the emergence of social media and the whole i think rush talked

00:19:00.000 about this how like uh the the table the bottle service scene along with social media and phones

00:19:05.000 has made night game dead i don't think it's dead but it definitely is uh the hardest one of the

00:19:10.700 hardest ways to source girls but i like it because it's a challenge and it makes you gotta have 1.00

00:19:13.680 money though i mean like a table is gonna cost you a minimum three thousand dollars for the night

00:19:17.740 yeah in miami yeah at the top club even low season you're paying at least 12 to 1500 for like

00:19:23.560 uh the lowest level liquor at a top club here the good thing is if you set it up right and you know

00:19:29.220 some of the guys are like they'll actually bring the hottest girls to your table um a lot of them 0.79

00:19:33.640 will just go there just try to drink your shit so yeah yeah i mean there's a certain there's a certain 0.98

00:19:38.440 level of work that you got to do to like filter out the ones that are going to be the 0.99

00:19:41.640 manipulative time wasters yeah i could run over a table game real quick if you want me to because

00:19:45.700 i know how to yeah so uh so i talked about this on solos thing real quick but like yeah so the way

00:19:51.080 you run table game guys is like if you are going to get a table you got to do it with guys that know

00:19:54.880 what they're doing and what i mean by that is you don't want to go and get a table with simps because

00:19:58.620 if you get a table with simps they're not going to know how to act when you have girls at the table 1.00

00:20:01.860 so what you do is if let's say it's three to four guys right one guy stays back at the table and he

00:20:07.640 he controls the drinks your two most charismatic guys go out and source and what they do is they

00:20:12.340 approach girls and hey what's your name blah blah blah screen them out figure out what their what 0.94

00:20:17.280 their logistics are what they're doing you know you don't want to go and like meet up with girls 0.95

00:20:20.440 like oh i'm i have a boyfriend i'm just here for like no you're not fun you just yeah you just kick

00:20:25.520 them to the curb immediately like i said you're screening out time wasters right let me just let me

00:20:29.120 just stop you for a second anytime you go to a nightclub and there's some girl who spent two and a half 0.89

00:20:34.100 hours doing her hair her makeup her you know putting on the right push-up bra trying on 17 1.00

00:20:39.580 different outfits and she gives you the i have a boyfriend she doesn't okay she's available she's 1.00

00:20:45.600 there for a reason for sure for sure and i say like she probably just more work though yeah it's 0.88

00:20:50.680 just more work so like me i don't like with night game the beauty is that you've got a high

00:20:54.980 concentration of girls so like you can you can afford to like just kick girls to the curb that 1.00

00:20:58.800 aren't cooperating so um so you find the girls that are fun because you don't want to bring any

00:21:02.440 girls that are a buzzkill uh and what you do is you just bring pairs of twos and threes bring it 1.00

00:21:06.720 back to the table and then your buddy controls the liquor he doesn't let them touch the liquor he

00:21:10.180 pours the liquor for them so that they don't drink the alcohol and and and leave or because a lot of

00:21:14.900 girls they'll just want to sit at your table because they don't want to stand their heels all the time 1.00

00:21:17.580 the whole time that's another that's another little secret that guys don't know girls want to get on

00:21:21.060 table just to sit down so you and what you do is the biggest the biggest game changer is finding girls

00:21:25.920 that are different like that don't know each other so you get like a set two set here three set here

00:21:30.060 another three set here whatever it may be bring them all to the table and the reason why you do

00:21:33.140 that is to create that competition anxiety so when they see you there with other girls that they don't

00:21:37.540 know and especially like let's say one group of girls miss like they act like they act up or whatever 1.00

00:21:42.140 and they piss you off you kick them out and let the other girls see that so they know oh wow we better 1.00

00:21:45.840 act right or else these these guys don't care and then you just kick them out and then they're going

00:21:49.120 to get in line because like i've always said it that like girls get in line when they know you have 1.00

00:21:52.420 other girls in line and it creates that competition anxiety so they're going to be more apt to like 0.98

00:21:56.600 cooperate and then you know you just go from there and you game them and you see how it goes but

00:22:00.000 you know you should your guys if your two guys are smart they should have like done a lot of the

00:22:03.520 filtering for you before they even brought them to the table and then one guy controls the liquor

00:22:06.680 and he doesn't let him touch it he pours the drinks and then boom you just you know you wing it but you

00:22:10.740 you know john's in the chat right now he says you know this is expert level gain

00:22:14.720 dude's right man you know i did this um at your age when i used to go to vegas like every

00:22:20.600 60 days or so um you know we did table and bottle serves but we never had like a strategy that you laid

00:22:26.680 out like this yeah yeah it's it's it's tough to pull off because like a lot of guys don't have

00:22:31.320 dudes that don't know that know what they're doing but if you go with guys that know what they're doing

00:22:35.180 like a two or two or three other guys that like are aware and you do this it's like a killer because

00:22:40.000 then like you guys are basically working as a team to screen out time wasters because make no mistake

00:22:45.160 when you're doing night game a lot of girls are there just to get free attention take snapchats take 1.00

00:22:49.440 instagram pictures like look at my life it's so lit oh you know i'm saying so what you do is you know

00:22:53.960 you're trying to get rid of those girls immediately and i always tell guys for free they drink for 0.95

00:22:57.520 free yeah dude you know and the other thing too so i'll give you guys a little dirty secret about

00:23:02.000 miami a lot of these girls that get into like the top clubs live story whatever they get in for free 1.00

00:23:06.160 because what promoters do is they'll walk around ocean drive and they'll go to the beach and they'll

00:23:09.960 find big groups of girls i'll say hey listen you guys want to go to club live tonight for free

00:23:13.580 uh and they'll be like oh yeah sure i'm like all right we'll put you guys at the table or whatever and

00:23:17.580 what they'll do is they'll bring those girls in and they'll put them at a table with some like old 1.00

00:23:20.940 dorks that spent like forty thousand dollars on that table the girls will go there drink their 1.00

00:23:25.000 stuff and then they'll like leave the vi leave their area and then like go out and mingle and 0.65

00:23:28.500 then that's when you come in and you can bring them to your table and then you know work it that way if

00:23:32.960 you are going to run table game uh if you're not going to run table game it's going to be a little

00:23:35.480 bit harder but uh you know table game definitely you want to do it with guys that know what they're

00:23:39.660 doing because if you have a simp in the group he might mess it up for everybody he's giving out free

00:23:42.420 liquor like oh yeah i love you baby like simping so you know and the bottles aren't cheap so you know

00:23:48.000 you got to just be smart about it if you're going to do it i always say go with a squad you're

00:23:50.860 better off going alone than going out with like guys that don't know what they're doing in my

00:23:53.760 um we were talking before offline when we were doing a zoom hangout in the community about um

00:24:00.840 like the most attractive body parts that women look at and you're doing like training for certain 1.00

00:24:09.120 like traps arms like i think you did all the research on this what was the top five body parts

00:24:14.480 that that chicks typically dig when it comes to the male physique you know the masculine physique 0.98

00:24:19.440 yeah so um typically it was like what guys think you know chest and arms and stuff like that

00:24:23.660 but some ones that two body parts that were like really uh attractive to women that no one really 1.00

00:24:29.500 talks about are forearms and glutes surprisingly um and when you think about it from like a uh from

00:24:36.540 an evolutionary standpoint makes sense because having strong forearms assumes that like you know that

00:24:41.380 you're uh that you work that you that you're physically strong because you don't get

00:24:44.800 guys that have big forearms typically do some kind of manual labor or they or they work out or they do

00:24:49.940 something physical which makes them more attractive you know you know always have having calluses on

00:24:54.360 your hands also makes you attractive and then having nice glutes actually contrary to what guys think oh

00:24:58.720 it's only girls that need to have nice glutes like no guys do too so uh those are two body parts that 1.00

00:25:03.560 like guys don't even know are like attractive to women but like yeah chest and arms are typically 1.00

00:25:08.260 there but like gluten forms are also about the top five i have um i have a comment here i'm going to

00:25:14.980 put up on the screen um don't need to read it okay yeah but you know you can read it but what's your

00:25:21.520 thoughts on that well uh facebook user i'm going to have to respectfully uh disagree with you and the

00:25:26.980 reason why is because when you make uh what you're getting a professional and getting a transactional

00:25:32.660 interaction you're not going to get her best brother like that's just the reality that's why you don't pay

00:25:36.860 you don't pay to play because you're going to get some starfish like some you know some bs you're not

00:25:44.060 going to get the real thing so you you always want genuine desire and that genuine desire comes from

00:25:48.780 you being able to demonstrate higher value dhv and a table is a way to do that you know what i'm saying

00:25:53.520 because like i said women have a bunch of attraction triggers one of them unfortunately like i know a lot 1.00

00:25:58.520 of guys don't like hearing this but you know financial stability and when you have and social status so

00:26:02.660 when you have a table you're able to convey that without saying a word now am i saying run

00:26:06.800 table game to get girls no but what i am saying is for the guys that do want to run table game that's

00:26:11.040 the proper way to do it so that you don't get fleeced because i know a bunch of guys in here

00:26:14.200 are going to go to vegas or miami or la or new york city or whatever and they're going to run they're

00:26:20.100 going to want to get a table that's how you do it properly without getting fleeced which new york city

00:26:23.980 that's a whole nother game la that's another game i don't know if you want me to break down those

00:26:26.840 cities of like how to approach those places but um but yeah dude like you're not going to get

00:26:31.340 that because because it's like it's going to cost you either way depending on how it is you want to

00:26:37.260 approach a sexual marketplace and women there's always a cost to interact um the thing with that 1.00

00:26:42.800 comment is i find he's not doing either right yeah like this is somebody that isn't getting any

00:26:48.200 results whatsoever so it's points and sputter the garden tools uh that you're talking to in the

00:26:53.980 nightclub let's go get a professional but the reality is see there's validational intimacy

00:26:59.880 and there's transactional intimacy uh you'll never get her best like myron said when it comes to

00:27:05.640 transactional where you have to pay in exchange for the intimacy where it's validational she's she's

00:27:11.300 doing it because she's enthusiastic about being around you and it's it's totally it's way better

00:27:16.260 it's a million times better so that's the difference between the two i mean if you want to pay just get

00:27:22.880 a doll dude just do that yeah you're better off man you're just better off like you know rubbing one 0.91

00:27:28.720 you know than doing that like that you're whenever if you pay a woman for intimacy she she fundamentally

00:27:34.720 can't respect you so and if she can't respect you you're not going to get her best you know what i

00:27:38.520 mean like that's just the way it works so women don't respect guys like that yeah so for him to say

00:27:42.980 that you know facebook user you probably aren't that experienced with women no offense bro um what

00:27:49.260 else can we hit on here man we got a lot of stuff asked a good question he said break down some of

00:27:53.100 that west coast game i can talk about it briefly yeah okay go ahead talk about west coast game

00:27:56.560 so uh i have a couple girlfriends that are out of la and uh what i learned and i went out there

00:28:02.340 myself and what i figured out was that um los angeles is very dependent upon social circle game

00:28:07.660 so like um california the the whole state of california the bars close at two but by like 1 30

00:28:13.560 they turn the lights on they want you out because they need to have the place closed down by two

00:28:17.200 so what i learned in la when i was there was that it's not like vegas or miami where you can like

00:28:21.980 party all night you need to know people to get invited to a house to get invited to like a mansion

00:28:26.140 party or whatever like on the hollywood hills or whatever so the only people let's keep it real

00:28:29.480 that have access to that is either you have clout or you're a hot girl so social circle is very

00:28:35.180 important in la to uh get invited to like clubs and then the other thing too is that um to get into the

00:28:40.680 top clubs you you definitely got to know people because there's such a high concentration of

00:28:44.180 celebrities there that they're they don't need like the average person's business you know what i'm

00:28:50.960 saying so uh la that's one thing i didn't like about la is that like it was very social circle game

00:28:55.980 uh dominated so if you're not a somebody or you don't have connections you're it's just going to

00:29:00.640 be tough and another thing too is that um like a lot of girls like with these hollywood parties what 0.99

00:29:06.080 they'll do is like the manager of like a celebrity rapper whatever it may be and i learned this like

00:29:10.940 girls have told me this that live in la this is exactly how it goes down they get a invite like a 1.00

00:29:15.400 dm on instagram hey such and such celeb is having a party at this address at this time blah blah blah

00:29:20.960 not he doesn't give the address but like he's interested do you guys want to come bring your

00:29:23.800 friends and they're like yeah they're like okay cool he'll give them the address they'll show up

00:29:27.460 and it's only girls no guys can come and then they'll make them sign ndas all the girls have 1.00

00:29:31.740 to sign ndas and then when they get to the house uh they take all their phones so they can't post

00:29:35.740 anything on social media whatever it may be they bring them in the celeb is there with all his

00:29:39.440 friends whatever and then they just party and then like you know that's just how it is you know

00:29:43.500 i know dan blazerian does this with ndas and a bunch of other celebs so la is very

00:29:47.500 who you know uh new york city though is a little bit different like new york city is you got to pay

00:29:52.680 to play and what i mean by that is uh in new york city it's not like miami where you can go

00:29:56.860 anywhere and there's hot girls at a dive bar like new york city if you go to a dive bar you're going 1.00

00:30:00.660 to take it out it's going to be all dudes so the only way you're going to meet a track limit in

00:30:03.960 new york city is you're going to have to pay to get into the top clubs like mr purple one oak uh

00:30:08.740 you know bounce etc and if you're a guy as soon as you show up at the door and it's like two or

00:30:13.360 three of you they're going to try to they're either a going to force you to get a table and spend a

00:30:16.740 couple hundred or thousands of dollars or they're going to that's my ringtone that's a great ringtone

00:30:24.720 man uh so they're going to make you pay a bunch of money at the door or they're not going to let

00:30:30.320 you in and say you're not on the list so uh new york city is definitely like um you got to pay to

00:30:35.060 have fun in new york city whereas like the thing i like about miami is you can land not know anybody

00:30:39.220 and still go to any club or bar and still see attractive women versus like in la and new york you 0.89

00:30:44.920 either have to know people la or new york you also have to know people but you could pay your way in

00:30:48.860 new york city so those are the big differences i've noticed in night game in those major cities

00:30:52.420 cool dude you got some serious uh breakdance here um give give these guys some tips with

00:31:01.040 online game um you know talk about the importance of photography um you know some of the approach

00:31:07.320 mechanisms like i know that you've done like a full course on it with pandemic with john so it would

00:31:11.940 take literally like a few like several hours to go through it all but yeah give them some of the

00:31:16.520 nuggets like yeah some of the stuff at 30 000 feet yeah so the biggest thing so i i know everybody likes

00:31:21.900 to say oh online dating is is bs it doesn't work or whatever you know look at the tinder study from

00:31:27.120 2015 where women found 80 of guys unattractive look at the tinder study yeah you're wasting your time

00:31:32.120 exactly exactly like people come in and tell me i can't i can't tell you how many people call me and

00:31:36.640 john scammers and then you know i mean and we're like okay so i in my youtube video i broke this

00:31:41.820 down like the reason why girls find so many guys unattractive on dating sites isn't necessarily 1.00

00:31:46.120 because the guys are ugly but the way they convey themselves is ugly and what i mean by that is that

00:31:50.820 guys take bad pictures their profiles are low value etc so some top tips i can give right now are 0.89

00:31:56.080 go against the grain so what i mean by that the average joe has average pictures with his friends

00:32:01.760 drinking a beer at a bar and it's like oh okay man you're just another like frat guy what you need to do

00:32:06.540 is demonstrate higher value and take good pictures in cool areas professional photography

00:32:11.720 that shows you in a good light you know i mean it's amazing how a few professional photos will

00:32:17.460 dramatically increase your results with with online dating because you need to convey yourself in a way

00:32:22.160 that's high value but you don't have to necessarily be the best looking guy just like i said there's

00:32:26.160 always a traction floor so as long as i think every man is capable of getting himself to at least a

00:32:30.700 seven you know if you take care of yourself in the gym sorry if you take care of yourself like your skin

00:32:34.600 your teeth uh get in the gym and work out you're going to become attractive like you know you know

00:32:39.500 if guys walk around with dirty teeth for example are like one of the easiest ways to demonstrate like

00:32:44.520 to increase your smb by two or three points because if you have white teeth that are straight

00:32:48.740 that is a huge like signifier of value because having nice teeth is a luxury you know what i mean

00:32:54.580 so it you don't have to say a word and it's already implied that you have expendable income

00:32:58.780 you know what i mean when you have a nice smile uh and it says a lot about your cleanliness as well

00:33:02.440 so like these little things these little covert dhvs uh are excellent to to increase your value so

00:33:07.660 i would say take care of yourself get professional photography if you're overweight get in the gym

00:33:12.980 you can't be fat yet you're going to take an online dating if you're fat and you're in and you're

00:33:17.160 taking pictures like you're just going to have to uh make yourself look better and then uh you

00:33:21.880 definitely want to have at least one photo in a suit another photo in like some street wear

00:33:25.380 and uh and do it in cool locations you know so if you live in new york city try to take it like

00:33:30.520 under a bridge underpass or something like that where with the skyline in the back like these are

00:33:34.060 you know get with a photographer and shoot a thousand pictures in cool locations in your city

00:33:37.880 or city near you and that will dramatically increase your results just off that one of the things that

00:33:42.960 you guys can do um is go to airbnb experiences or go to facebook marketplace and just find a student

00:33:50.300 photographer that will do like a three-hour shoot for 100 bucks like a little cost it'll literally cost

00:33:56.040 you a hundred dollars to get professional quality photographs you just bring a couple of different

00:34:00.360 outfits you do you know like a wardrobe change kind of like you know once or twice throughout the

00:34:04.300 whole shoot they usually know where to shoot and what time of day to shoot right and you just get

00:34:09.700 that and i've seen like i've seen guys go from like a six to a nine just just with way better

00:34:16.660 photography better lighting you know proper fitting clothing a nice haircut if they have a beard they get it

00:34:21.720 cleaned up so they don't look like a hobo um like there's work that you have to do to attract women 1.00

00:34:26.280 the problem is that there's a lot of guys out there today that feel like they should just be like for

00:34:30.820 who they are and that's just a function of a lot of single mother households a lot of guys that have

00:34:35.180 been force-fed a lot of you know bs kool-aid their entire life you know trying to convince them to

00:34:40.460 believe that women should just love them for who they are and it just doesn't work that way like 1.00

00:34:44.500 there's work that has to be done and um it is what it is man like it like it's always dressed in

00:34:50.360 overalls and it looks like work and most people don't want to do it and here's the thing too i

00:34:54.120 think a lot of guys are fundamentally unaware at like the gravity of options that women have

00:34:58.760 like the thing is is that you have to be you you have to be high value as a man in 2020 because

00:35:04.240 girls have more options than before and i'll tell this story so last year i was at a at a club in

00:35:08.460 miami and i met this this uh really hot blonde girl white uh she was a blonde girl caucasian blonde 1.00

00:35:16.380 hair blue eyes five foot nine five foot ten like typically what i what i date right uh really

00:35:21.200 attractive and i'm i get her number i get her eyes i was like hey let's you know meet up tomorrow hang

00:35:26.300 out whatever because it was like saturday night or something she's like yeah yeah cool whatever

00:35:29.060 and um we i get her number and we're texting and then i notice that the texting starts to stop right

00:35:34.520 starts to get flaky and i'm like oh here we go she's gonna play and then i looked at her instagram

00:35:38.980 story and i noticed that she had like was dming little wayne she put screenshots of herself 1.00

00:35:43.780 talking with little wayne on instagram and basically at the by the end he's like was like

00:35:48.220 yeah uh lock me in let's meet up whatever so i was like oh well that's why i lost it right there

00:35:52.580 and and the the reason why i tell that story is a lot of guys internalize rejection and get mad at

00:35:57.040 the girl and what guys need to understand is that like in between a time the time a girl meets you and

00:36:01.980 and you want you set the date she might meet someone that's higher value than you and just go with

00:36:06.620 him that is why the flake rate is so astronomical so you can't uh you can't get mad at the girl and you

00:36:11.820 can't get mad and you can't internalize the l you just got to move on and just like accept that this

00:36:15.900 is the reality that grows they up and if someone higher value comes along that you might lose her

00:36:20.400 now with that said you can take steps to mitigate that how do you do that why by becoming higher

00:36:25.440 value yourself so that your flake rate comes down and you're able to exert your boundaries because a

00:36:30.080 lot of guys think oh why am i doing all this to get a girl no no no no wrong you're doing all this

00:36:34.720 for you and then a byproduct of doing this for you is that you can now exert your boundaries

00:36:40.140 and your authority on a woman and she'll actually respect you because girls date up so if you're not

00:36:46.280 above her in some manner she's not going to respect you and defer to your authority that's why you

00:36:50.480 become high value you know and and the women are a byproduct of the high value i think a lot of guys 1.00

00:36:54.620 have the mistake thinking like oh why should i make this money and become successful for women no no no

00:36:58.740 man it's always for you and then if you choose so women could be a byproduct of that i'm glad there's 0.99

00:37:03.500 somebody else saying this because i feel like i've been beating on this drum for years but nobody

00:37:06.780 fucking listens yeah yeah no i mean guys it's it's it's it's a fact man i mean i mean if you if 0.71

00:37:13.540 you do because here's the reality right if you go to the gym and train and this is why myron gets 0.96

00:37:19.640 results out of life this is why he's done well in business and training and helping guys move from

00:37:25.380 simp to pimp because he's willing to see it for what it is and do the work right most guys look at

00:37:31.080 and be like ah it's too much forget it yeah man it's just like sorry i'm going to cut you off there 0.93

00:37:36.080 no no no it's all good i was just going to add to that is like because here's the here's the reason

00:37:39.720 why you guys have to do this for yourself and not for women when you're in the gym at 6 a.m

00:37:44.060 squying 20 reps and 225 on your back and you're about to puke or whatever 315 whatever it may be

00:37:48.640 girls is not enough of a motivation to continue to pursue that endeavor of fitness okay when you're 1.00

00:37:55.360 grinding at home working trying to make this this big money girls is not enough of a motivation to 1.00

00:38:01.240 continue to do that it's got to be for you because you'll never find the proper amount of motivation

00:38:07.060 if you're using women as the only uh motivation to uh to become successful it's just not going to work

00:38:13.760 because the reality is women are flaky they're fickle you know their emotions change all the time 1.00

00:38:17.900 so if you base your validation if you base your self-worth on a woman's validation you're going to

00:38:22.220 take an l every single time so you got to do it for you because you know that you're you know who

00:38:26.040 you are day to day every day so that's why it's got to be done for you and then a woman the women 1.00

00:38:30.200 can be a byproduct if you choose i've started started to be you know uh develop a little bit

00:38:36.560 of fame around my instagram stories because normally after i'm done my workout it's a quick boomerang with

00:38:41.120 the finger right and a lot of people you know will dm me and it's like i'm not doing that for chicks 0.90

00:38:46.220 like that is literally me telling my inner bitch that i got a good workout in let's do it again 1.00

00:38:51.820 because it feels good you know absolutely when you're a byproduct of that it's it's not the 0.97

00:38:57.540 focus of it and that's where almost every guy gets it wrong yeah right uh let me grab the super

00:39:03.040 chat here from afi kingdom brother myron gains unplugged fit uh sliding through showing support

00:39:09.840 blessing to the chat thanks man appreciate it thank you afi um right there man there was a super

00:39:16.780 chat here from manny what's your philosophy on life purpose um i'll let you hit on that first

00:39:22.360 yeah life purpose man i mean your happiness comes first you know what i mean like you the thing is

00:39:29.520 is that you have to be selfish in your endeavors everything's got to be for you and then if it

00:39:34.160 benefits someone else and you want to bring them into your world then you can do that but the thing

00:39:38.900 is is that women love guys that don't need them and i think a lot of guys don't understand that

00:39:44.300 that like you you need to become the prize you need to build a castle and then she has no problem 1.00

00:39:48.700 being in your castle you know what i'm saying but like when you're relying on her to like you know

00:39:53.260 to get by and everything like that it's just inherently unattractive because women are attracted 1.00

00:39:57.640 to guys that have their stuff together and they can just like they just they just want to be a part of

00:40:02.740 that you know i mean but i think a lot of guys make the mistake and you know let a woman lead the

00:40:06.680 interaction and depend on her for a bunch of things and women don't want to be put in that position man 1.00

00:40:10.620 they want to be able to defer to your authority and relax and know that you got it you know

00:40:13.960 so your life purpose has got to be whatever makes you happy that you want to do and then everything

00:40:19.680 else comes after that my opinion yeah it's like i've got the same view if you know for me it's

00:40:24.460 just mental point of origin it really just boils down to does this serve me you know this is does

00:40:29.500 this support my mission if she's involved in it is she supporting my mission or is she getting in

00:40:34.220 the way of it um you know those are the questions that i often ask myself when it comes to purpose in

00:40:38.880 life and um it was far too many guys that'll just bend the knee and become less so she can become more

00:40:43.700 and eventually they end up getting you know crushed or destroyed and or run through the

00:40:47.940 divorce machine like even worse because they've done it the wrong way your purpose should always

00:40:52.600 come first your life should be the focus of the unit if it's something that you want to do if you 0.56

00:40:58.180 want to get married or do something stupid like that but your life should be the focus of it and 0.96

00:41:01.900 she should be complimenting that fully along the way yeah and you're doing a disservice to the woman 0.99

00:41:06.180 when you when you let her lead when you let her lead or you defer to her authority you're doing

00:41:11.600 her a disservice because it's not natural for her to lead the man she's going to feel out of place and

00:41:16.820 awkward about it so that's where this like like guys always talk about oh my wife doesn't you know 1.00

00:41:21.160 she doesn't want to make love to me anymore she's always mad she's always rude whatever it's because 1.00

00:41:24.960 you're putting her in a stressful position where she's becoming the decision maker now she has to

00:41:28.720 become masculine women don't want that you know there's a there's a really good video that what's not a 1.00

00:41:33.740 really good figure but a really good example of this exact scenario on grant cardone's channel

00:41:38.780 i watched it last night for like 12 minutes or so and i wanted to vomit my mouth but but the title

00:41:44.080 of the video was something like um you know it's the g and e podcast which is grant and elena cardone

00:41:49.920 and they were talking about how to make life decisions together as a couple or how to make

00:41:54.360 choices together as a couple like all right let's click on this because this is going to be some happy

00:41:57.760 horseshit yeah so i'm sitting there watching it for about 12 minutes and it's like the whole thing is

00:42:01.840 he's he's he's basically supplicating her the entire time yeah and i mean if you watch their

00:42:08.160 dynamic closely there's an interview with her on london real with brian rose and she's basically

00:42:13.000 telling brian i didn't want anything to do with him he was too short he wasn't my type he basically

00:42:18.040 chased me for a year and a half he was a simp but i was like all right fine he rented out the gun range

00:42:21.920 so i'm going to go shoot skeet with him sort of thing so the only reason why he's in that environment

00:42:26.600 and he's got hers because he's very very successful and wealthy and she's like a washed up 1.00

00:42:31.480 d level actress that didn't go anywhere um but women don't want to make decisions with you they 1.00

00:42:37.220 want you to decide and they toe the line that's really what it boils down to but a lot of people 0.98

00:42:42.380 are going to watch that shit be like yeah let's be like grant and elena because that's going to work 0.98

00:42:45.980 and it doesn't work for you it really doesn't work it's like the worst thing that you guys can do 0.99

00:42:49.360 the two biggest mistakes man that men make with dealing with women or their long-term counterparts

00:42:54.620 are these two things thinking that men and women are equal yep and then also thinking that a

00:43:00.320 relationship can be run on a 50 50 basis which which it never works that way you look at any

00:43:05.480 successful business there's a ceo you president there's one president united states there's always

00:43:10.840 you can't lead by a committee there's got to be one decision maker you know i'm not saying that

00:43:14.600 your wife can't have an input in the decision but at the end of the day you have to be the decision 1.00

00:43:18.640 maker this 50 50 thing doesn't work because women are not designed to lead and i always say it women 1.00

00:43:23.780 are fundamentally incapable of leading a man within the confinements of a romantic relationship they're

00:43:28.640 just not built for it so when you put in that position you're setting yourself self up for an l

00:43:32.760 and that comes from the false premise that guys think that when men and women are equal and we're not

00:43:37.380 and i've you know i used to date a lawyer she's getting mad at me like we are equal what are you

00:43:41.840 talking about i was like okay cool you know what next time we're in bed uh when i hear like a at the door

00:43:46.240 you know i'm saying you can go deal with the the robber you know i'm saying since we're equal 0.63

00:43:49.680 you got it this time it's like oh you're being a smarty smart ass but like i was like you know but 0.79

00:43:54.340 like it's true like men and women aren't equal like we're completely different and that's okay i think

00:43:58.460 there's a problem like people don't like admitting that men and women are different and we're not equal

00:44:03.300 and we're better in different things like for example we're physically superior to women but on the 0.82

00:44:07.400 other end women are superior superior to us like from a social calibration standpoint you know 1.00

00:44:11.480 they're better communicators so i you know we're better together than we are apart and we complement

00:44:15.960 each other and i think guys like trying to sit here and say oh no we're equal and all this other

00:44:19.280 stuff like that's just you you go into if you have that mindset when you go into a relationship with

00:44:23.080 your girl you're gonna you're gonna lose because because you guys aren't equal you know yeah 100

00:44:27.340 100 i think that's why the divorce rate is so high in the states and western countries is because

00:44:32.340 they believe that false premise that you can do a 50 50 relationship and that you're equal when it

00:44:36.000 doesn't work that way she loses respect when she has to lead absolutely the problem is is that that's

00:44:41.180 like that's a big part of the function of globalism and liberalism is it's trying to convince and

00:44:47.660 brainwash society to believe that men and women are the same and they're not i mean like like you

00:44:53.900 just mentioned like rollo constantly states when men and women are complementary if you size it up

00:44:59.500 right but men are the leaders men need to lead and and women love men that lead like one of the

00:45:06.560 things that you'll see a lot of and i'm sure you've seen this too as well as guys will send you

00:45:09.840 like screenshots of their interactions with chicks and it's like where did i go wrong you know how did

00:45:15.020 i screw this up and it's like well from the get-go when you ask her out there's there's dialogue back

00:45:20.360 and forth and it's like you can't even be decisive about where you're going to meet her and at what

00:45:24.280 time and what you're going to do because you're asking her like well what would you like to do

00:45:28.000 where would you like to go what would you like to drink it's like when you go out with a woman and 0.90

00:45:32.780 your messaging it's like eight o'clock coffee wear that black dress in that picture that i saw

00:45:37.760 and i'll tell you this man so so check this out i got a funny story you want to talk about

00:45:41.860 cognitive dissonance uh i had a match with a girl on bumble like a month ago and uh she was like a 0.99

00:45:47.060 feminist right uh i didn't know this until after i met with her but like uh i told her okay meet me 1.00

00:45:51.800 at this place at this time and wear these clothes and she was like she messaged me back she said oh my

00:45:55.980 god that's so hot thank you like and i was like what and she was like yeah like you're telling like

00:46:00.280 you're making a plan i was like and then that's when i kind of hit me like oh yeah this is bumble

00:46:06.000 where like this is like a feminist dating app like all the guys on here typically are soy boys 0.90

00:46:09.820 and you know they can't make a decision so when i met with the girl she was like amazed that like i

00:46:14.660 told her like i told her what to do and this girl's like a which i found out later she's a feminist so 1.00

00:46:19.200 like even girls that like subscribe to that narrative of feminism still i always say attraction isn't a 1.00

00:46:24.600 choice so like when you show these masculine traits they're hardwired to positively respond to them

00:46:30.220 and it's just like you know when these guys think oh no we're just gonna like use these

00:46:33.580 social you know the politically correct uh connotations to do things and it's like it

00:46:38.820 just doesn't work man so do you do you see a lot of women on dating apps that that look feminine but 1.00

00:46:44.500 end up being feminist because i've seen this more and more over the years where they still have 1.00

00:46:48.600 traditional feminine cues right like nice hair they've done their makeup you know they put on nice 0.98

00:46:53.380 clothes they wear a great bra or maybe they even had their boobs done like typically feminists would 1.00

00:46:57.660 not do stuff like that but you find out later on that they are in fact feminist yeah so fortunately here 1.00

00:47:03.300 in miami miami has a very strong latin culture so like it's not as visible here like as like a new

00:47:10.060 york city of washington dc uh etc so here like uh since we have such a strong latin culture here uh

00:47:16.780 in latin culture you know obviously like you know it's traditional men are men are masculine women are 0.83

00:47:21.140 feminine the girls here dress up they leave their hair down they wear heels they wear makeup they 1.00

00:47:25.160 they take care of themselves so it's not as much here but definitely in other cities yeah like i've seen

00:47:30.340 like you know you'll meet girls like that but it's funny though because like i'll go on dates with

00:47:34.080 these girls right and they'll be like yeah i'm a feminist whatever and i'll tell them all right 0.97

00:47:36.700 cool but you know you know you're not going to make any decisions on this date and they're like

00:47:39.980 yeah i know and they'll be okay with it you know what i'm saying uh so it's like yeah they could be a

00:47:44.960 boss in their workplace but they still want to be able to go yeah their boss boss yeah hashtag boss

00:47:50.820 girl you know they they want to be a boss in their thing but they still want to be able to go to a guy 1.00

00:47:54.580 that they can submit to that they can feel comfortable deferring to is the problem is that

00:47:58.040 the more successful girl gets the harder it is the smaller her pool of candidates that she can 1.00

00:48:03.240 submit to so that's why so many girls end up perpetually single because they basically they 1.00

00:48:08.080 they out market themselves to some to some extent you know so question do you find that they defer to

00:48:14.260 you because of who you are um you know within the statement within the alpha credit or is it because

00:48:19.600 you use like the muslim card for that uh or is it both i i think first it's it's the way i convey

00:48:25.160 myself so they immediately like what it's the way i convey myself because i tell girls sometimes like

00:48:29.540 yeah i don't i don't listen to women when it comes to dates or you're not going to pick what we're going 1.00

00:48:33.280 to do sorry i don't follow i tell them straight up on the first day i don't follow women's lead ever 0.96

00:48:37.080 and they're like oh well that's interesting and then that'll you know get them intrigued and then

00:48:41.880 they'll ask and i'll be like yeah well this is why you know my parents stood together and it's

00:48:46.240 and it's worked out because my dad led and didn't really like listen to my mom like my mom still had

00:48:50.160 input and decisions that were made in the house for sure but at the end of the day my dad my dad

00:48:54.700 made the final decisions when he wanted to move to connecticut she followed him etc and now they're

00:48:58.320 still together to this day so um yeah it's always intriguing but like yeah typically it's the way i

00:49:04.700 act and then that prompts the question like how are you raised like what's up with this and then when

00:49:08.600 i tell them my background they're like oh okay i i get it so how how important to you today as a 30

00:49:14.160 year old guy is chasing excellence versus women chasing women so yeah man you got to chase excellence

00:49:20.900 and for the guys that don't know in here man i got to give rich some props rich is my coach guys

00:49:26.040 right so when i started my business uh like and i was really getting into it like i i paid the time

00:49:32.160 i got rid you know you got to pay for this stuff guys when you want to get elite coaching uh one of

00:49:36.900 the best like one one thousand dollars i've spent and i sat down with rich and we talked and he

00:49:42.080 basically told me hey man you got to get on youtube you got to start uh building an audience

00:49:46.020 all this stuff and he gave me like some game changer tips and uh you know i still talk with

00:49:49.840 him now and he and he and he mentored me and the reality is you have to become successful you have

00:49:56.380 to become the you have to become the prize and then you can start to uh exert your boundaries on

00:50:01.120 women because if you don't become successful yourself you can't push your you can't have you can't 0.99

00:50:06.240 have boundaries if you're not high value you know what i'm saying so like a lot of guys are

00:50:09.820 putting the cart before the horse like oh well you know my girl can't have social media she can't do 1.00

00:50:14.100 this and they're all alpha and stuff but like you know they don't got a thousand dollars in the bank

00:50:17.200 it's like you have to become the prize first then women will defer to your authority you know what i 1.00

00:50:21.940 mean so i i say get a mentor that's huge like just from like working with rich john from auto life

00:50:28.380 dating donovan sharp all these guys taught me so many things that i was able to cut my learning time

00:50:33.200 and literally like a quarter you know thanks to rich and all the other guys i was able to get my youtube

00:50:37.960 up to 1300 subs within like six weeks you know what i'm saying so that's what happens when you when

00:50:43.700 you pay for coaching when you invest in coaching and guys that know what they're doing and get

00:50:47.800 mentorship from people that you can learn from and become better because i always say this poor people

00:50:52.980 spend time to save money rich people spend money to save time that's the biggest difference yeah people

00:51:00.460 don't understand like the the limitation um on time and your health that you have you know as a man

00:51:08.020 like it like it runs out you know it's like a you know it's like an hourglass with sand in it it's

00:51:13.020 it's gonna run out and as time passes like the older you get the harder it is to accomplish things

00:51:18.800 like it's harder for a guy that's 50 to do what you've done from scratch than a guy that's 30

00:51:24.640 right i mean you got a lot more runway so i always tell guys i mean if you're gonna do this do it

00:51:28.580 you know like obviously chase excellence i mean do it if you're 50 and you haven't done it yet but

00:51:33.240 the sooner you get that done and you've established yourself as a man the better you're gonna do in

00:51:38.780 every area of your life and the less likely you are that you're gonna have a problem in areas of

00:51:43.720 your life because money like money and success solves a lot of stuff right you know success leaves

00:51:49.400 clues and it also builds a great network like your network is often you know what becomes your net

00:51:55.200 worth and a lot of people don't understand that surrounding yourself with excellence matters

00:51:59.280 and you're not going to surround yourself with excellence if you're sitting in the corner of the

00:52:02.640 internet sulking with a bunch of losers that get nothing done that are hiding behind you know an

00:52:07.040 avatar on their screen you have to you know participate with people that are doing the work 0.93

00:52:11.420 right and here's another thing too that i want to say like one thing i learned as i've gotten into

00:52:15.040 this space and i've like dramatically increased my income and become uh moving up in the totem pole

00:52:19.780 is one thing i'm learning about successful people is they spend a lot of money on mentoring and being

00:52:25.420 around other successful people so they can pick their brain and also just having a network of guys

00:52:30.440 that are like-minded that want to become better because the reality is and i kind of had to learn

00:52:34.600 this the hard way i had to like cut off some close friends of mine from home that you're the average of

00:52:38.720 the five people you spend the most time with so if you're hanging out with a bunch of guys that

00:52:41.660 aren't ambitious or aren't successful well you're probably going to end up that way too and if you are

00:52:46.140 successful you're not going to have the drive to become better if you're in a room and you're the 0.94

00:52:49.300 smartest guy you're messing up you're actually the dumbest so um so i think that's like another 0.97

00:52:54.440 thing another thing too that you were mentioning about like you know how money solves a lot of 0.99

00:52:57.040 problems i'll say this when it comes to dating when you have your body on point and you have

00:53:01.320 your money on point you're not going to sit there and tolerate bs from girls that you're just not

00:53:06.060 going to do it like i can't explain it it's like you have to you have to get to this point but you

00:53:10.540 will not tolerate like some 19 year old bimbo mouthing off to you at a club you're going to be like 1.00

00:53:14.340 what you're just going to like walk away from her and go talk to someone else like you're not

00:53:17.540 you're not going to take her serious and you're not going to internalize rejection because you're

00:53:20.920 going to have that abundance mindset because you know you're high value and you'll be able to move

00:53:23.920 on to next girl i can't tell you how many times i've been at a bar i'll talk to a girl she'll curve 1.00

00:53:27.840 me straight up like turn her back on me whatever all right cool i'll go talk to another girl she'll 1.00

00:53:32.080 see me talking to the other girl and then she'll re-approach me later and say oh so what was your

00:53:35.100 name i'll be like nah you'll get out of here so it's like you know you give it back to them and it's

00:53:40.760 just but but that's that's the power of of uh having your stuff together as a man you will not

00:53:45.980 you'll move differently and when you move like this like i said women are very socially calibrated so 1.00

00:53:50.920 when you have that abundance mindset she could feel it that you're outcome independent and she's

00:53:55.060 gonna she's gonna work a little bit more to retain your attention because most guys let's face it they 1.00

00:53:59.360 go up oh i hope you like me let me qualify myself to you and i always say when you qualify yourself to

00:54:03.860 a girl you're already taking an l you know what i mean she should be calling herself qualifying herself 1.00

00:54:07.380 to you never deny a woman the the benefit the pleasure of qualifying herself to you as a high

00:54:12.940 value guy because then she's going to value that interaction more and women date up they need to 1.00

00:54:17.040 qualify themselves to you to feel that it's a good thing like like when you get your head around it

00:54:21.340 and you go and do the work for it it's actually a good thing for you oh yeah take advantage of it

00:54:25.860 hypergamy is great because here's the thing guys if if hypergamy didn't exist if women didn't date up we 1.00

00:54:30.520 wouldn't be the you know the advanced society that we are now i'm talking to you guys through a sony

00:54:34.980 camera we're streaming live you know rich is in canada i'm in miami and we're doing this this is

00:54:39.500 all because of hypergamy this is because dorks didn't get to procreate and only the best procreated 0.56

00:54:44.140 and now they were able to invent all these great things and we're here today talking on youtube about

00:54:49.100 about it you know what i'm saying so hypergamy is a good thing a lot of guys get mad like oh

00:54:53.140 it's like bro no survival of the fittest man this is the way it is like dorks don't procreate and it's

00:54:59.300 probably better that way for us as a society you know what i mean um you've you've basically doubled

00:55:04.160 your income in the last couple years like since i've gotten to know you with what you're doing

00:55:07.320 and you're already paid well before you know you got into personal training and helping you know

00:55:11.800 simps become pimps and all that how how is that what's that and working with you yeah of course i

00:55:17.100 mean but we've already covered that we don't need to spend too much time but i mean like how has that

00:55:20.960 changed all the haters bro they always say oh rich is robbing people like he's he's charging

00:55:24.860 a thousand dollars an hour it's just like all right guys well you know results whatever there's

00:55:30.920 there's always going to be that corner of the internet of a bunch of sulkers fine do it okay

00:55:35.080 cool but i mean for you like while you've seen your your your annual income practically double in the

00:55:41.280 last you know like year and a half how has that changed you as a man when it comes to your life

00:55:46.520 because i mean this this playlist that we're broadcasting on is called playing to win and

00:55:50.300 there's a difference between playing to win and playing not to lose and i think you'd probably agree

00:55:54.260 before you know you hopped into space before you got coaching from guys like me and and others

00:55:59.340 um you were you're pretty much in the playing not to lose fear but now i see you as a man that's

00:56:04.920 playing to win how has that changed your life like holistically like i'm not just talking about

00:56:09.700 women like everything it just it just creates an air of confidence that can't be replicated man like 1.00

00:56:15.040 um you speak with a certain tonality and confidence that you can't be faked you know when you

00:56:22.060 like people it's like what i would say it's magnetic because like when you say something people want to

00:56:27.460 listen you know i mean and for you to be able to command that authority uh it's got to come from

00:56:31.620 some kind of natural uh ambience that you're presenting and and that's what like people always

00:56:36.800 say oh money isn't everything you're right money isn't everything but it's a good down payment you

00:56:41.300 know i'm saying and it's going to help you in other endeavors your life and it's going to help

00:56:44.020 you move differently and have the confidence to uh take risks you know what i mean like when you

00:56:48.880 have a little bit of expendable income and if you succeed you win because like as men we're taught

00:56:53.020 from from a young age you know who dares wins right so you gotta you gotta get out of your comfort zone

00:56:58.180 and uh you know being successful allows you to get out of your comfort zone so that you can like take

00:57:02.760 these risks and make more money or whatever it may be but yeah i mean it's just like i would say

00:57:07.560 the biggest thing is it creates this air of confidence that it's it's it can't be faked whenever

00:57:12.300 somebody says you know money can't buy buy happiness you look like i always respond with yeah but you never

00:57:19.220 see anybody crying in an exotic car facts right never happens i've never seen anybody crying a

00:57:24.720 lamborghini so don't give me that crap you know like the guy yeah i mean it's true like yeah like 0.90

00:57:30.560 you know money isn't everything there's a lot of people out there it's not but it buys options yeah 0.79

00:57:34.340 that are like you know that are they have dough and they're like you know and i'm not like rich by any

00:57:38.040 means but like you know i'm doing okay uh for a 30 year old guy no no kids no family but um you know

00:57:42.980 the thing is is that it gives it gives you options and it makes life uh much easier for you to do things you

00:57:48.380 don't have to like check your bank statement or whatever you can just do what you want which is

00:57:51.840 like incredible freedom you know what i mean so that you can't really put a price on that another

00:57:56.300 thing too is because guys always want to link it back to women and stuff like that i always tell 1.00

00:58:00.820 guys men and women look at money completely differently and like men look at money from

00:58:05.260 like a society uh from a hierarchy standpoint like if a millionaire walks in a room all the guys are

00:58:10.140 instantly going to have some level of respect for that guy because they're gonna be like okay he's a

00:58:13.500 millionaire he probably had to because men understand the burden of performance right and we know that

00:58:17.480 this guy's probably put in some kind of work unless assuming he didn't inherit it to get that

00:58:21.180 level of money you know you might pick his brain hey how'd you make it whatever it may be you know

00:58:24.860 so that's typically how men look at money women however look at money as like a means to an end 1.00

00:58:29.160 so like i always tell guys like don't sit there and lead with your wallet until i made five thousand

00:58:32.420 dollars in the stock market today baby it's like no bro she doesn't care about that but if you tell 0.96

00:58:36.320 her hey baby pack your bags we're gonna go to you know mexico for three weeks uh she's gonna she's 1.00

00:58:41.180 gonna respond favorably to that but how did that happen from you being able to earn more money like

00:58:45.040 women don't care about money when they tell you oh i don't care about money they're not lying they 1.00

00:58:49.420 don't care how it's made they just like the benefits that come that come from it and the

00:58:53.200 spontaneity and the freedom so that's why i think like a lot of guys make the mistake thinking like

00:58:57.080 oh let me overtly tell her about how i made ten thousand dollars in the stock market it's like no

00:59:00.340 bro like no you demonstrate about that but like when women say that they don't care about money you also

00:59:04.960 have to watch their actions because they will choose a high value guy that's got his money sorted

00:59:09.920 over a younger alpha that doesn't have his money sorted yeah um but i'm not like as they don't

00:59:16.320 care like how it's made is what yeah yeah yeah yeah they don't care how it's made they like what

00:59:20.540 it provides they like they like what it does like i think they look at money as like a means to an end

00:59:24.600 yeah well it's a security component for them right because women yeah women usually well not women 1.00

00:59:30.060 usually but throughout history women have always relied upon high value men that could provide that's why we 1.00

00:59:35.940 have this alpha seed beta need dichotomy today where you see women that will go get knocked up by 1.00

00:59:41.000 the alpha chad tyrone and then get you know billy bob to take care of the kids for yeah um you mentioned

00:59:47.940 earlier um you know single guy with no kids right now do you want to get married and have kids is that

00:59:53.300 something that you're looking at in the future like where's your headspace out you know for that with

00:59:56.740 a 30 year old that's a dangerous proposition nowadays man it is but i want to hear what your view on it is

01:00:01.300 yeah um the only way i mean down the road maybe 10 years i want to have a kid but the the thing is is

01:00:07.600 that i would have to have like some serious safety nets in place to to do that you know the way the

01:00:12.800 problem is that the divorce the marriage laws have not caught up to the fact that like women are 0.99

01:00:17.240 earning men in a lot of cities you know they like it hasn't basically the laws haven't caught up to

01:00:22.560 like how how we progress as a society so like as a guy especially if you make substantially more than

01:00:26.940 your wife you're in a bad position if you get married so if i were to do it it would be solely

01:00:32.440 to have kids definitely to have kids and then i'd probably have to marry a girl that like made as 1.00

01:00:37.100 much money as me that also that that way i know that she could she can't take me well it was she 1.00

01:00:42.460 wouldn't be able to take me to the cleaners as bad financially you know i would try to mitigate as

01:00:46.260 much damage but like man it's just a dangerous proposition nowadays so i'd have to really go in with

01:00:50.380 my eyes wide open probably do a coaching session with you rich how do i do this correctly

01:00:54.460 you know book your time for that so yeah it's just guys just got to go in with their eyes open man

01:00:58.960 it's a dangerous time to get married as a man especially if you make substantially more than

01:01:01.960 your than your wife it's an unfortunate reality yeah i always get guys that ask that question it's

01:01:05.920 just like man it's a that's that's such a slippery slope to the climb and i get why you want to do it

01:01:11.620 but um yeah i don't know like i've been talking to a couple guys in my community about putting a

01:01:16.160 like a full course together on um you know vetting for ltr slash marriage that'd be good for like

01:01:22.480 you know for raising kids because there's a whole bunch of steps that you got to take so if that's

01:01:26.580 something that's of interest to you guys you know leave me a comment below let me know maybe i'll

01:01:29.460 put something together that's a great idea right there man i mean because at the end of the day

01:01:32.400 like if you're not trying to have kids there's no point to get married in my opinion forget it really

01:01:36.200 there's nothing in it for you as a man i wouldn't even even if you wanted to have kids i still wouldn't

01:01:42.000 get married because all that does is solidifies the state involvement in your household 0.94

01:01:46.560 right i mean you can do it like have a kid but not get married there's still ways to do it yeah

01:01:52.000 that's a far longer talk um what else should we be covering on this broadcast that we haven't

01:01:57.160 talked about yet uh i mean i don't know if anybody has any questions about fitness i know there were

01:02:02.840 some guys asking questions about game i'm looking okay so let's talk about fitness for a bit because

01:02:06.460 this is kind of like you know how you got started in this this is like a early segue so um

01:02:11.860 what do guys what do most guys make the mistake on when it comes to self-care over and over and

01:02:19.240 over again that you're constantly having to correct to make them aware of so i would say from because

01:02:24.020 i've worked with a lot of clients now a couple like hundreds and what i'll say is that uh the biggest

01:02:28.820 mistakes that guys make with their fitness is they don't have the rudimentary basics down and what i

01:02:33.120 mean by that is that they're looking at you know they're looking at all the like minor little things like

01:02:37.840 the accentuated things versus the fundamental so like for example they'll ask me questions like

01:02:42.900 hey man what supplements should i buy hey man like how many reps should i do like stuff like that when

01:02:47.420 in reality they're not eating they're eating like crap they're not sleeping they're not drinking water

01:02:51.880 you know they're they're not going to the gym frequently enough like they don't even have

01:02:55.580 even have the staples down and i would say the fun here's a here's the reality with with the with

01:03:00.620 the fitness industry guys i can't make money telling you the basics that are going to be

01:03:05.220 responsible for about 90 your results you know eating correctly sleeping enough training three

01:03:10.120 to four times per week getting enough frequency and in volume uh all these types of things these

01:03:14.680 are all free you know i mean but what i can make money is selling you bogus supplements selling you 0.98

01:03:19.760 uh stupid plans um selling you uh you know some fat loss quick scheme i always say the fitness 0.99

01:03:26.000 industry doesn't make money on getting people fit they make money on selling you dreams some kind of 1.00

01:03:30.760 quick turn quick fix you know whether it's herbal life or skinny fit tea or whatever it may be like

01:03:35.880 none of that stuff works you know i mean it's all bs but they play on human emotions to get a short

01:03:41.780 term solution a quick solution to a long-term problem short-term solution a long-term problem so

01:03:45.680 i would say a lot of guys just don't get the fundamentals down and that are responsible for

01:03:49.800 most of their results is it is it because of the instant gratification culture that we live in or is it

01:03:55.060 oh yeah yeah like yeah rich like man i would say like so we live in like that's that's amazing like

01:04:01.340 i always i call it the fast food society we live in a society now of like where you can you know use

01:04:05.960 your phone and get a random guy to pick you up in a black vehicle and take you to a destination and

01:04:10.720 you can have someone randomly bring food to you like you know and all this other stuff you know we

01:04:14.960 live in a fast food society so like drive-through society so people are used to getting things

01:04:18.860 instantly you can look up anything on the phone on google and get an answer within

01:04:21.920 a millisecond so the the thing is is that fitness doesn't adhere to that fast food society so a lot

01:04:27.380 of people aren't used to that and they don't understand that like with fitness it's literally

01:04:31.100 the equation for success i always say this it's consistency plus time equals results every single

01:04:36.320 time but uh people don't aren't patient and they don't want to see it through um and you know even

01:04:42.060 worse they might go and like take drugs to try to make the process go faster when in reality if you

01:04:46.440 know even if you take drugs and you're you don't know what you're doing in the gym it's you're still not

01:04:50.800 going to get results like people think oh you're only making gains because you're on steroids like

01:04:53.820 no a lot of times these these bodybuilders are on steroids they know what they're doing 0.99

01:04:57.140 and they're taking the drugs because they have the foundation down packed so well that now that

01:05:03.080 they've gotten to a point where they've maxed out their natural potential so i know i know a lot of guys

01:05:07.240 that are on testosterone replacement therapy and they're fat like they just don't get any kind of

01:05:12.080 results this is a picture here off your instagram of you before when you were fat to to fit um what did

01:05:18.340 you have to like how much did you weigh here so the picture on the left that was me at about 240

01:05:23.800 pounds i was taken in january of 2016 i did an experiment where i got like super fat uh were

01:05:28.800 you trying to get fat or was that just a result of lifestyle no i did it on purpose so at the end

01:05:33.440 of 2014 i had just finished a cut or excuse me i had like just finished um like basically like a

01:05:39.140 cutting phase of getting leaner and then i was like all right i'm gonna do a dirty book which for the

01:05:41.940 guys that don't know a dirty book is like when you basically go on like a crazy calorie surplus period

01:05:45.560 in an effort to try to build muscle which i will never do again but anyway i got up all the way

01:05:49.540 up to 250 pounds and then january 1st 2016 i started to cut uh it took me about seven months to lose the

01:05:54.960 weight and i was able to get down from around 250 to about uh 205 and the picture on the left there

01:06:00.540 i was around 240 to 245 so i was like right in the beginning of the cut um and then the photo on the

01:06:06.540 right was taken like a few months ago you're about six foot three right i'm six three yeah so um that's

01:06:11.700 what i look like now but it's just like you know being fat definitely taught me a lot that it i'll

01:06:17.660 never do it again i will never do it again it was the worst but it was a good learning experience and

01:06:22.480 like i was able to apply my same methodologies that i teach my clients how to lose weight and it comes

01:06:27.180 down guys to a calorie deficit sustained over time you know there's some like trick tips and tricks

01:06:31.360 here to like you know make it uh more efficient but at the end of the day it's a consistent calorie

01:06:35.660 deficit that loses the weight i think that's another thing that guys don't understand is that

01:06:38.280 energy balance like is very important for dictating body composition changes uh i've got a super chat

01:06:44.000 here let's throw this up for us michael hendrick says i'm a 36 year old army vet single father i

01:06:48.840 found this community about two months ago just ordered no more mr nice guy thank you for helping

01:06:52.440 clueless guys like me get our lives together you're welcome dude that's a good starting point um

01:06:57.540 it's good you know it's probably good to go through once or twice but the real meat and potatoes

01:07:02.640 and stuff like um the rational mail book series especially books one and two um and a lot of

01:07:08.380 this stuff in my red pill playlist will deal with the intricacies of a lot of the things that myron's

01:07:13.340 been talking about like there was a point there where you were like going off in a tangent like

01:07:16.740 all right i'm just going to take out my earphones and walk away and get a drink and just let him deal

01:07:19.740 with this for the next 50 minutes because you're basically saying everything that i've been saying

01:07:22.860 but it it takes a long time for it to set into guy's head like they just don't want to

01:07:28.800 they don't want to do the work and they don't want to realize that these that these uncomfortable

01:07:36.380 truths that are crushing the comforting lies that they've been subscribing to their entire life

01:07:40.720 actually work right they actually work it's it's like get that work done man it's so it's so important 0.93

01:07:47.260 you can't be an rp masturbator guys you got it you got to actually like do the work like you can

01:07:50.960 consume you know you can read the rational mail bachelor pad economics riches book when it comes out 0.98

01:07:55.480 but if you don't apply the principles and you just sit there and read it and like oh wow this is

01:07:59.480 like great theory but you don't apply it you're going to take a l in the marketplace like this

01:08:03.960 information is and here's the other thing too because like a lot of guys like are on some stuff

01:08:07.980 where they hate women or whatever guys you read these books not to hate women you learn to you read

01:08:12.360 these books so that you can avoid hating women for what they'll never be to you because like a lot of

01:08:15.920 guys have this notion that like and a role says all the time shout out to him uh and i is so true

01:08:20.220 because you know a lot of guys have this notion that like women should love them unconditionally

01:08:23.960 and unfortunately guys everything in life is conditional this you know your job your your

01:08:29.280 life is conditional you know people your friendships you know that's conditional upon you bringing them

01:08:33.860 value and them giving you giving them value in exchange everything in life is conditional no one

01:08:37.720 loves you unconditionally so that that fairy tale you got to beat that out of your brain chris chris rock

01:08:42.980 said in his tambourine stand up only women children and dogs are loved unconditionally men are only loved

01:08:49.260 under the condition that they provide something absolutely man and a lot of guys don't like

01:08:53.660 accepting that harsh reality but that's the whole hard truth men have always been expendable you know

01:08:57.700 there's a reason why they say women and children off first you know what i'm saying like you got to

01:09:02.020 accept that reality that the burning performance is on you and that you're an expendable commodity as

01:09:05.580 a man so you got to put yourself first because no one else is 100 man uh i got a super chat here i'm

01:09:13.080 just waiting for it to populate on the screen from uh manny but he says had a good question here too

01:09:19.460 about sorry which one uh dolom and sport he asked you talk a lot about hypertension oh there you go

01:09:24.940 training uh what about trying to combine stamina with strength i'll answer this nice and succinctly

01:09:30.020 the problem is that the the methodologies of training for strength versus the methodologies

01:09:34.840 of training for for stamina are completely different so you're gonna you're gonna have

01:09:39.660 problems with like the two methodologies of training interfering with each other so like when

01:09:43.860 you're training for strength you're typically taking longer rest periods you're working at a higher

01:09:48.120 percentage of your one rep max uh etc right because you're you're working on strength it's

01:09:52.700 strength is specific but when you're doing stamina well you're doing more volume you're working on

01:09:57.200 your endurance and that is kind of that's pretty much counterproductive to you like getting stronger

01:10:01.940 so and it's going to interfere because when you're training for strength you got to be pretty much

01:10:05.780 firing on all cylinders so i would say pick one and just stick to that man because when you try to

01:10:10.420 chase two rabbits a lot of the time you'll end up with none so that's what i would say for that

01:10:13.700 yeah if you want to do better with women then then then focus on strength and mass um you know 1.00

01:10:20.360 like stamina like runners um you know like long distance cyclists runners triathlons typically they

01:10:25.860 don't have the aesthetics that women like you know the golden ratio the 1.62 broad shoulders narrow 1.00

01:10:30.620 waist you know thick dense muscle uh mass i'm not talking bodybuilder size but i'm talking like

01:10:36.160 you know like like the nice yeah like it dominant sport if your goal is to look good naked you should you

01:10:42.500 should train like a bodybuilder and just like focus on hypertrophy you like you don't need a lot of guys

01:10:46.880 think like you you have to be like you don't have to power lift to build muscle guys there was a study

01:10:50.600 done in 2014 2015 i did a video on this called how many reps you can build muscle from like anywhere

01:10:55.760 from six to 35 reps if volume is equated so you can you that gives you a lot of leverage to like be

01:11:01.220 creative with your training and and use different variables because the beauty with hypertrophy is you can

01:11:05.640 build muscle with a wide range of rep ranges and i actually encourage that because you don't want to lift

01:11:10.120 too heavy because you increase your likelihood of injury when you're the closer you get to your

01:11:14.060 one rep max that you're working with so uh many super chat he says uh what do you guys predict the

01:11:19.260 culture will be like socially and in dating within 10 to 15 years because of the growth of the

01:11:23.840 manosphere yeah so i this is a great question i personally think within the next 10 years more guys

01:11:29.140 are going to be aware and i would say i would say easily 10 of the male population will be aware of this

01:11:35.620 stuff and they'll they'll start like exiting the marketplace i'll like because this stuff is

01:11:39.840 exploding like more and more guys are finding this kind of content every day so um you know from

01:11:44.460 their frustrations like you know if you look at like what guys commonly google it's like how do i

01:11:48.680 get girls and stuff like that and then boom they start finding this type of content so um yeah it's

01:11:53.180 just a matter of time i think in the next 10 years as the internet gets bigger the world becomes more

01:11:56.380 globalized more and more guys are going to start uh seeing this type of content i mean even the young

01:12:01.080 boys now you look at them on twitch they're like even saying like simp and all this stuff they're aware

01:12:04.400 yeah they're they're starting to put up with a lot less um bad behavior with women which is you know

01:12:10.240 which is a good thing but um there's always going to be simps there's always going to be like the vast

01:12:15.020 majority of the male population will be betatized um men will always defer back to the feminine you know 0.54

01:12:21.720 for the most part like there's always even like even guys like us i'm sure that you would totally agree

01:12:26.860 but there's even times where i'm like you know thinking about doing something and i have to catch myself 0.98

01:12:31.140 because that would be beta you know sort of sort of thing like don't be a little bitch you know 1.00

01:12:35.960 sort of thing but um yeah it's just work man it's you know it's just constant work you know hopefully 0.72

01:12:40.880 the reach gets out there it's real difficult because on most platforms they don't want you to

01:12:44.980 talk about stuff like this they don't want men to become better they don't want i mean it's so weird

01:12:50.420 to me because women are dramatically more attracted to high value men that have consumed content like this

01:12:58.260 and are going out there and doing the work and increasing their income making more money making

01:13:01.740 more muscles you know learning game to deal with women in a more successful way but at the same time 0.98

01:13:07.600 they want to throttle it back and they want to hide it from views and they don't want guys to know this

01:13:11.420 information they it was a part of the part of society that that wants men weak plugged in and feminized

01:13:17.420 too right absolutely anything that like exposes any type of content that like demystifies

01:13:23.900 like female nature and like you know shows unflattering realities like is instantly like 1.00

01:13:30.020 censored you know what i mean like they're like oh you're you're talking about how you know the h

01:13:33.880 word oh never mind you know we're gonna we're gonna start we're gonna start blocking your stuff

01:13:38.060 and it's like and it's sad too because here's the thing what guys don't understand is that

01:13:41.860 there's a lot of men that find this content and pull the gun from out of their mouth you know

01:13:46.120 what i'm saying like uh rich i mean a guy a guy i remember a guy you were telling a story

01:13:51.140 about how a guy had a a horse tranquilizer gun in his mouth and he was going to kill himself i think

01:13:55.260 like in mexico or something like that yeah he was a mexican veterinarian there's actually a video with

01:13:59.660 a q a on before the train wreck he called in and told the full story i've been meaning to to cut that

01:14:04.620 out of the video so i can put it on instagram but it's you know it's pretty fucking sad like the dude 0.86

01:14:08.580 dude was about to end his life with a horse tranquilizer and um you know he he saw a computer

01:14:13.940 screen with something about hypergamy and he started watching he dove down the rabbit hole and he's like

01:14:17.680 dude's dude's alive he's doing amazing he's very successful he's you know he's still here he's

01:14:23.280 still walking this earth because he chose not to take a permanent solution to a temporary problem in

01:14:28.640 his life absolutely and i think that the thing what people don't understand and i understand why it's

01:14:34.240 like this like people don't know that like men we're designed to suffer in silence like guys it's

01:14:40.220 very frowned upon for men to like go with their problems to like someone and talk about it you know

01:14:45.160 what i mean and a lot of guys are suffering in silence whether they're thinking contemplating

01:14:49.040 suicide from a bad divorce they lost access to their children they lost all their money from a

01:14:53.040 divorce men are far more likely to kill themselves post-divorce so you know you give a guy a copy of

01:14:57.780 the rational mail and it saves his life well you know what maybe it's worth it to get banned off

01:15:01.320 youtube to save a guy's life so that you can let him know that hey man uh you know this is probably

01:15:06.360 why she broke up with you these are the mistakes because guys have like a innate like need to know

01:15:10.920 things that's why we've developed society the way it is now like men always want to figure out

01:15:14.860 like we're problem solvers right so like when a girl randomly break like the women are like the 1.00

01:15:19.600 one thing that most guys can't figure out no matter how smart they are because women don't operate 1.00

01:15:22.780 logically so so a lot of guys since they can't figure it out they're like oh i'm just going to

01:15:26.840 take my life and and fortunately there's content out there like this that lets guys know hey listen

01:15:31.060 you don't have to do that you can that you can improve yourself you can get back out there you can

01:15:35.420 meet another girl but you know it's just that this type of content is censored and it's sad because

01:15:41.100 there's guys that need this it's just that people don't know because at the end of the day let's keep it

01:15:44.240 real no one cares about men i can't tell you how many guys uh you know me and john have worked with

01:15:48.860 behind the scenes that need this kind of help but they didn't know where to turn you know but and

01:15:52.760 they were able to come to us and we're able to help get their confidence up their money up their

01:15:55.480 their fitness up and they're new men they within a year they get the 180 change you know but like

01:16:00.800 this stuff is important man it's it's life-changing like that's not some bs yeah it's um it's sad man

01:16:06.480 it's um you know we live in a soy society we live in an estrogenic society it is what it is you

01:16:11.220 gotta avoid all that nonsense and the negative uh inputs absolutely you succumb to it you become

01:16:16.740 it it is what it is right uh what do we got here about another 10 minutes left what else should we

01:16:21.040 should we cover before we go uh i can i don't know if guys have any questions about game uh fitness

01:16:29.260 whatever it may be throw the questions in the chat guys i'll uh i'll answer whatever you guys want

01:16:35.620 let's see if i got all the super chats here i think i did they usually pop pretty easy on my

01:16:40.220 screen philosophy yeah we got all these um where can people find you let's let's talk about that

01:16:46.880 because you're on instagram and youtube you got a youtube channel so tell them so tell them what

01:16:50.680 you're doing on youtube and what you're up to there so on youtube guys i've been pushing out a lot of

01:16:54.560 content um i'm putting out like you know at least three videos a week and then i'm i'm gonna start

01:16:59.800 running like a like a podcast where i'm gonna interview people on there i'm gonna bring rich on

01:17:03.940 we'll talk about that behind the scenes on like mondays where like i'll interview them ask some

01:17:08.100 questions about you know what it's like to run night game in their city i did an episode with

01:17:12.400 donovan on monday actually this past monday where we talked about uh running game in miami versus

01:17:17.120 vegas and like donovan gave a bunch of gems on how to do things correctly in las vegas and i talked

01:17:21.080 about miami you know how to set yourself up and then uh i'll bring other guests on and talk about maybe

01:17:25.720 we could talk about toronto where rich is at how things are there and then entrepreneurship that type of

01:17:31.120 thing uh but yeah the youtube channel is unplugged fitness uh my instagram my twitter and my facebook

01:17:35.740 is the same hand is the handle at the bottom unplugged fit i use that for all my main social

01:17:40.240 media and then the youtube channel is unplugged fitness and on my youtube channel i give uh dating

01:17:45.020 stuff and i give fitness stuff and then just like what i do with fitness where i use studies and i put

01:17:48.660 link all my studies there because i always believe like if you're going to make a claim as to why

01:17:52.300 something is more optimal in in physique training you need to be able to cite resources you know what i mean

01:17:56.820 like there's just you there's it's 2020 you got to have an evidence-based lens if you're not then

01:18:01.560 you're you're not credible in my eyes and then uh with the with dating stuff i also cite studies i

01:18:06.480 apply the same lens there like you know i put a bunch of studies as to like you know why the dating

01:18:10.720 marketplace is the way it is and i pretty much give an objective factual look at it like this is why

01:18:15.620 it's like this guys it's why girls flake like i literally broke it down in one of my videos this is 1.00

01:18:19.600 why they flake and then this is how you you know overcome that with you know because we're not about

01:18:24.200 crying over here we're about solutions and helping guys figure out this problem versus like complaining

01:18:28.920 like some of these black belt channels like oh i program you know i mean crying and making eight

01:18:33.740 hour streams about guys like me and rich and john and everybody else you know who you know who you

01:18:38.840 are but i'm not going to give that guy clout right now but yeah man it's just but that's where you

01:18:43.320 can find me on my stuff yeah i got a question here in the chat from marty in sales he says can i gain

01:18:48.140 muscle while eating once a day um like an omad you can't you can man but you got to understand that

01:18:55.100 you're limiting yourself so here's the thing because i always get questions about fasting and

01:18:58.900 john bulldog mindset's big on omad right like he stopped it oh did he yeah he doesn't do it anymore

01:19:05.260 okay so the the thing here's the thing what one meal a day and they've done a couple studies on this

01:19:10.040 i think it was a 2015 study by brad schoenfeld basically you're most anabolic when you get about

01:19:15.180 four meals per day with protein evenly spaced out you know somewhere between three to four four

01:19:20.920 seem to be like the optimal but anywhere from three to five you'll be okay if you get protein

01:19:24.500 throughout the day that's the most anabolic now can you build muscle eating only one meal a day yeah

01:19:29.360 i'm sure you can but again there's many ways to skin a cat and it's all about skinning the cat in

01:19:34.000 the most optimal way so if you're going to set yourself up to win you want to do things the most

01:19:38.620 optimal way and to be honest with you omad is not the most optimal you're probably better off eating 1.00

01:19:42.580 if your goal is hypertrophy building muscle mass we know that muscles typically grow on calories so

01:19:48.040 you want to keep that um you want to be giving yourself um protein feedings you know sustainably

01:19:54.300 throughout the day especially if you're younger too especially if you're younger yeah so can you do

01:19:59.900 it yes you know there's always ways to do things but like is it optimal no according to literature

01:20:04.560 that's not the optimal way to do it so i would i would refrain from that if your goal is hypertrophy

01:20:07.880 uh adriano says marty no pressure from your parents to settle down i guess he's talking to you maybe

01:20:15.780 yeah he probably meets me yeah no yeah every time i talk to my mom man she's like so uh you know when 1.00

01:20:21.980 you're gonna do this and i'm like yo mom or she'll like or she'll show me pictures siblings you have

01:20:26.060 any brothers or sisters yeah i got a sister she's in med school and i got kids no no you should tell her

01:20:31.280 to hurry up and have some kids so you can get yeah yeah she gets a pass because she's in med school but 1.00

01:20:35.980 like i got a brother he's 18 and it's always funny because like my mom will send me pictures of like

01:20:40.760 chicks from like egypt or sudan or like morocco like you want to marry her she's hot you want to 1.00

01:20:45.980 marry her she's hot like she'll just like send me pictures of random girls and i'm like no man like

01:20:51.040 no thanks but like she's always like offering me girls from like the middle east that like her 0.99

01:20:55.680 family's good you want to marry her and i'm just like nah man so if you do that are you gonna run

01:20:59.740 i hear him like abu or yeah i would i would me and abu have talked talked about this uh like yeah

01:21:05.800 i would have multiple wives uh there's no way i would only have have one the thing though with

01:21:09.600 in islam guys is a lot of guys think like oh yeah you can have multiple wives this is awesome no the

01:21:13.380 the checks and balances is you have to treat each wife the same financially so if you buy a house for 0.77

01:21:18.040 one you need to buy a house for the other one like you don't you can't make them live together if

01:21:21.680 they don't want to so that's how you kind of like check and balance the polygamy so um you know you

01:21:26.460 got to be able you got to have your your t's crossed and your i's dotted if you're going to

01:21:30.640 do that but yeah i would definitely probably have multiple wives because like i just yeah i'm not 0.63

01:21:35.240 you got to pull him on at some point to talk about his lifestyle and you know how he runs it because

01:21:39.520 i think it's way different than what people think it is yeah yeah abu like he he's got that thing

01:21:44.400 figured out man like he's you mean him talk about it offline like he's a good dude he knows exactly

01:21:48.580 what he's doing with it all right guys so um let's begin to wind this down real quick uh just

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01:22:16.520 uh from tactical so where do we go here double screen uh you guys know where you can find myron

01:22:23.920 at and um he's good guys yeah he's gonna be an up and comer you know keep an eye out for him he's

01:22:31.100 you know he's always putting out good stuff and the quality of his video production is like top

01:22:35.580 shelves so he knows what he's talking about i totally co-sign you know where he's going here

01:22:39.600 and if you're interested in um you know getting coaching or anything direct for me uh you know shout

01:22:45.700 out to myron for you know supporting and providing a testimonial you guys know where to find me always

01:22:51.040 pinned in the top comments that's where i'm at if you want to have a one-on-one or get into my

01:22:55.500 business coaching class um what's going on coaching too with fitness coaching you guys hit me on the

01:23:01.280 side and you know we'll do a consultation and figure out if you're a good fit for my fitness coaching

01:23:04.900 um i think we got rule zero saturday on ryan stone's channel if i'm not mistaken so keep an eye

01:23:11.580 out for that and i'll also have another video released tomorrow around noon i got a bunch uh

01:23:16.660 in the hopper i gotta pump out so dude uh thanks for hopping on with me man and just uh chopping it

01:23:21.880 up and shooting the breeze yeah it was yeah it was good to catch up and do this because normally we

01:23:26.400 you know we normally talk offline on zoom and it's like a locker room especially when we get paul in

01:23:31.140 there yeah we kept it clean for you guys yeah you guys are missing out on the good stuff i'm being

01:23:35.720 honest with you because when we get together you know behind the scenes in the zoom meetings and we

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Playing to Win - March 02, 2022

022 - Game & Hypergamy in Major Cities w⧸Myron Gains.

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