Playing to Win - March 02, 2022


035 - Jon Fitch


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 24 minutes

Words per Minute

194.33194

Word Count

16,409

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

28

Hate Speech Sentences

24


Summary

John Fitch is a martial arts legend. He has been in the business for a long time and has been one of the most genuine people I've ever met in the martial arts world. In this episode, we dive deep into his story and how he fell in love with the sport of Muay Thai, how he got into the business, and what it's like being a pro wrestler in the 80's and 90's.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 all right we're live what's up brothers i'm on today with uh mma legend john fitch what's up
00:00:06.980 brother nothing much yeah thursday is my off day with the kids so i get a lot of stuff done around
00:00:13.340 the house nice yeah some work stuff done so yeah in the work mode so we got a we got a 60 to 90
00:00:21.740 minute session we're gonna dive into here with john i've um i don't know when's the last time
00:00:25.360 we did something one-on-one i think it was we did that video when we were on before the train wreck
00:00:29.400 yeah the single mothers there was that one clip that we got out of that that blew up on my channel
00:00:35.280 my editor turned it into a short and it got like two and a half million views in like a month it was
00:00:39.560 ridiculous she had yeah that's that's an extremely good example of like solipsism solipsism 101 right
00:00:47.560 can't see past your own nose even when you have a son yourself right she was arguing until she was
00:00:52.140 blue in the face until you turn around on her son situation and she's like oh well okay maybe there's
00:00:59.020 a different set of rules when i have to consider that yeah uh if you guys want to see that that's
00:01:03.100 on my channel just short just sort by popularity and it'll come right up at the top um before we
00:01:07.960 get started just a little housekeeping i always try to grab this youtube link and drop it so if you're
00:01:12.320 watching on like twitter or facebook or somewhere else just do me a solid and click that come over
00:01:17.060 to facebook hit the like button uh just helps out with the algorithms as you guys are piling in
00:01:22.000 getting your notifications so john i have to tell you the audiences are watching i have never been a
00:01:28.740 big fan of um ufc mma even boxing like i watched a few boxing rounds like i watched the uh i mean how
00:01:36.660 many boxing fights have i watched maybe the holy field uh tyson fight you know where he got his ear
00:01:41.380 bitten off sort of thing that that's probably the extent but i like to participate in it personally just
00:01:47.300 as a you know just from the approach of at least being competent and having the skills plus the
00:01:53.800 cardio drills are some of the hardest you know you can do in any profession i think anyway cardio that
00:01:59.540 comes along with fighting you know yeah um how did you get into fighting like how did you fall into
00:02:05.240 so i you know i'm 43 now so i grew up in the age uh of you know pro wrestling you know hulk hogan
00:02:13.400 junkyard dog and kyle volkov whatever you know i think those guys yeah because you were a wrestler
00:02:19.940 first right yeah yeah i started wrestling in the fourth grade but like i i started getting the
00:02:24.900 the you know pro wrestling thing earlier and then when i started to actually wrestle in the fourth
00:02:30.780 grade like i realized that it was fake and i stopped watching pro wrestling um but like i also
00:02:36.060 it was a time you know when there was still plenty of free boxing and ali and stuff like that on
00:02:41.640 on abc and wild world of sports things like that howard cosell so i watched a lot of boxing and stuff
00:02:49.020 when i was younger but my mom would never let me get involved in boxing i was able to get into
00:02:55.140 wrestling because i had uh some some relatives and friends who uh friends of the family who were
00:03:01.200 involved and where i was going and uh that kind of smoothed things over with that but yeah um i i was
00:03:10.220 like when you found out like the wwf was fake was that like finding out santa claus wasn't real
00:03:14.340 i had i cut the dicks off all my uh low rubber wrestlers i was so like this is fake the other
00:03:21.860 actors i was done with it like yeah it wasn't like kind of upset i was like i was betrayed it feels
00:03:28.260 like the weird thing is is that the highest paid i think hollywood actor is the rock and he got it
00:03:33.520 you know like he got there by being a wrestler you know an actor yeah and i don't have you know
00:03:38.380 i don't have any problem with it but as a child it was to me it was like devastating i really respected
00:03:44.280 these guys they were tough guys they were they were the best fighters out there and then it was
00:03:48.600 all fake and then i was kind of like you lied to me so i've been a very skeptical person about a lot
00:03:54.000 of stuff my whole life since then i think but yeah um but i always wanted to play professional
00:03:59.780 sports i thought football was my gonna be my thing and so you know wrestling was an outlet that i
00:04:05.760 really enjoyed uh that kept me in the weight room and kept me active in the off season for football
00:04:11.840 so it wasn't like my mindset to like continue wrestling you know down the road years later still
00:04:21.580 doing wrestling shit like what did you want to be when you're growing up did you want to be a
00:04:25.300 fighter or a wrestler football okay yeah i want to be a professional athlete that was the biggest
00:04:30.440 thing was professional athlete but football seemed like that was the easy way easy way in for some
00:04:35.640 reason uh but like my senior year i wasn't big enough wasn't fast enough wasn't having anybody call
00:04:41.380 uh you know for me to play at a d1 school so i decided i might as well go and wrestle because i
00:04:47.700 still love wrestling and i thought you know it was better to walk onto a wrestling program and
00:04:54.660 that was d1 and and uh you know be a letterman be a all-american uh you know be national champion
00:05:01.860 or i could walk onto the football team in a d1 school and maybe play kickoff my senior year
00:05:07.400 and the competitive the competitive side of me wanted to compete so i decided to go with wrestling
00:05:14.000 and then how'd you get into like competitive fights where you got paid for your time
00:05:19.840 that was uh the kind of accident as i went to purdue to wrestle my assistant one of my assistants was
00:05:29.320 tom erickson and he was currently fighting he was fighting over in japan tom was number like two on the
00:05:36.200 olympic ladder for freestyle wrestling at heavyweight for like 13 years under bruce bomb gardner
00:05:40.640 it's a huge man he's like 300 pounds 315 walking around you know in decent shape
00:05:46.340 and uh he just brought guys around me who were fighting like mark coleman and um uh man
00:05:56.600 ian freeman those guys uh gary goodrich those guys would come into town at purdue and then work
00:06:01.960 with tom a little bit so i would get some working with these guys and i think it was
00:06:05.560 a combination of work with those guys and listening to their stories about life and how they were
00:06:10.080 living and like they're going to you know stories about uh hookers and brazil and mafia people and
00:06:17.440 japan and just the stories were just uh seemed a lot of fun it seemed a lot more fun than if i was a
00:06:23.860 teacher in indiana you know in a wrestling class so that kind of got me interested in you know
00:06:30.580 listening to the money that they were making and that was the time they started putting more weight
00:06:34.040 classes into the sport and by the time i got to my senior year of wrestling and uh at school i was
00:06:41.420 you know doing student teaching and with the student teaching i was like this this isn't for me i don't
00:06:46.700 want to i don't want to teach these people's you know uh curriculums i don't want to be told what to
00:06:52.500 do so i decided you know i'll do the fight thing and uh along with the fight thing you know i can learn
00:07:00.400 jujitsu and stuff and i get enough owning my own gym and then i don't have to listen to somebody
00:07:04.160 else's curriculum or whatever so i followed the fight path with the idea that you know i can i can
00:07:09.860 get around teaching at schools and teach at my own school you know in that path and then 2005 is when
00:07:17.340 ultimate fighter came on on tv and and things just blew up yeah did you did you see that coming like
00:07:24.460 did you see what dana white built coming or was it just like a shock to everybody that was
00:07:28.140 working no i knew it was gonna be big i knew it was gonna be big because i mean like wrestling was
00:07:32.840 big boxing was big nobody really done anything like that with an octagon and like you know you kind
00:07:37.760 of do whatever you want like if you look back to history of prize fighting like mixed style fights
00:07:45.280 have always been around hundreds of years old they they were able to um corner a market and
00:07:53.300 monopolize the market and turn it into like oh we repackaged this brand new thing did a very good
00:07:57.880 job at that but the sport was already going on in brazil it was big in japan like there was
00:08:05.300 you know it's fighting it's fighting it's popular thing so i always knew it was going to be on somewhat
00:08:12.280 level big you know um but i had no idea that it was going to be eventually kind of monopolized the
00:08:19.720 way it has you know when ufc around 2010 they ended up buying up all the other promotions all
00:08:25.480 the top talent all the top belts they they end up sealing up 90 of the market in in revenue and in
00:08:32.460 uh depth as far as fighters in each weight class and um again guys like i'm new to ufc fighting it's
00:08:41.480 not something that i have watched much of i mean i've watched some of john's fights you know prior to
00:08:45.980 this cast to kind of like catch up on it all so i get a little bit of an idea but what are the
00:08:51.260 limitations when you're in like ufc or you know in the octagon type of arena like is there things
00:08:58.980 that you can't do uh is it wide open it's martial arts you um it's very limited rule set so you can
00:09:07.540 you can fight on the ground there's takedowns there's there's kicks there's elbows there's knees
00:09:12.640 once you're on the ground though there's no there's no knees to the head on the ground
00:09:16.520 um there's one other grounded opponent there's no there's no soccer kick so if a guy's down on the
00:09:22.260 ground you can't kick him in the head there is a organization one fc that was allowing that pride
00:09:27.280 used to allow soccer kicks i think i think they should bring soccer kicks and these the head back
00:09:31.280 it just changes the game a little bit more but um yeah most strikings are allowed no head
00:09:38.140 butts no groin strikes you're not allowed to poke people in the eyes or uh or small joint
00:09:42.840 manipulations aren't allowed so you're not gonna get finger locks hands are extremely gloved up you
00:09:50.400 can't do wrist locks but you're never gonna get one because there's gloves and wraps all around the
00:09:54.540 wrist so it's usually elbows and shoulders if you don't want did you always feel like you were
00:10:00.460 playing to win when you were fighting i mean you know i was telling you before we launched that i
00:10:03.940 i watched the fight with you you with gsp and i mean if you could define eye of the tiger like you
00:10:10.540 know kind of like a plane to win sort of mindset i mean you had the look on your face you know during
00:10:15.060 that fight even after you got like you know the first round was not a good round for you like you
00:10:19.740 got your ass through a bad leg kick yeah i ate a big right hand and i think that that uh right hand
00:10:26.060 broke my orbital yeah what does that mean when you say like it broke your orbital your orbital is a
00:10:32.040 bone in your face oh okay so like i'm pretty sure i just broke a bone in my face okay okay so i mean
00:10:38.860 like you were feeling it the rest of the fight in it i was seeing double really i was probably because
00:10:43.400 of the orbital break because it throws things off and swelling what's the what's the worst thing
00:10:49.220 that's happened to you physically from fighting uh broken heart really i mean when uh man you know
00:10:59.360 losing to gsp was a one thing but when i when i drew with bj penn i kind of knew what that meant
00:11:05.180 and uh it was like because of the way that they worked where their system works like i had you know
00:11:11.420 i lost to gsp and i won five more fights and i was supposed to get a title shot but i wasn't playing
00:11:15.760 ball and i wasn't being a good boy i would say giving a title shot i took it away and they made me fight
00:11:20.540 bj and um yeah with with me getting that draw it was a chance for them to start pushing me aside and
00:11:28.540 and never give me another title shot again so that after that fight i think yeah i kind of my heart was
00:11:33.960 kind of broken what do you mean by not not being like a good little boy um well because they're not a
00:11:42.360 they're not a this this throws people off but mma i hear the fights are real but it's not a sport
00:11:49.500 does not function to operate as a sport there there are mechanics around a sport that happen um
00:11:57.240 where there's no restrictions around you know uh elevation of sport you know you win you get a
00:12:03.460 ranking you move up that's just the way it is like nobody's outside presence can can take that away
00:12:08.600 uh in in what ufc does it's a production it's like wwe they are the ones who give the rankings
00:12:16.020 they're the one who gives the belt they decide everything it doesn't matter what your merit is
00:12:21.340 within the sport of winning or losing they just get to cast who goes where so it's like a um i mean
00:12:28.960 it's about the money it's about getting eyeballs on the show and whatever they think is there's no
00:12:32.920 leverage for the fighter because there's nowhere else to go you're stuck in this never-ending
00:12:36.460 contract usually and you can't go to another promoter and the promoters don't even compete
00:12:41.140 with each other uh in boxing you would have the option of potentially you know going to a different
00:12:47.400 promoter and then you'd still have option to fight for it uh a sanctioned belt you know because they
00:12:53.240 have they have um sanctioned bodies that control belts in boxing it's like the promoter doesn't control
00:12:59.420 the belt it's kind of like the nfl the nfl is in charge of um rankings and uh matchups and the
00:13:08.460 and the title the trophy but like no one team is like the dallas cowboys they don't get they don't
00:13:14.320 control the belt they don't control the the nfl title they don't control whether or not oh you know
00:13:20.200 what we're gonna make more money with this team in the final so we're gonna let our cowboys play
00:13:25.020 um you said that you had a broken heart you know as a result of all that like is it a broken heart
00:13:31.480 in the same sort of way like a girl broke your heart or is it in a way kind of a worse because it
00:13:36.780 was uh um it was like you know you're playing to win you know you're like i have a tiger like you put
00:13:42.900 everything of your life into this this out outcome you know and that was the ufc title and you feel
00:13:50.080 them like nope you're just never gonna get that shot again we don't we just don't like you
00:13:54.120 you start to you know that that's a heartbreak like there's no way to get to where you want to be
00:14:01.160 i got the impression watching some of the videos that i came across on youtube that you kind of had
00:14:07.480 an acrimonious relationship with dana white and the ufc yeah i always knew that it was not right like
00:14:16.640 think about like when gsp got his title shot the matthews he he got on his knees and he begged
00:14:22.880 he begged the promoter to let him please have a title shot what what sport have you ever heard of
00:14:29.900 where the best player begs to to play for the title does tom brady get on his knees and ask the
00:14:38.780 nfl commissioner can you please allow me to participate in this game for the for the best team
00:14:44.720 no he earns it he earned it through winning and accomplishments but that's not that's not how
00:14:52.100 it works and you can see that over and over and over again uh even even with the you know the uh
00:14:58.940 the talks right now with john jones wanting more money for his fight uh to fight nagal at heavyweight
00:15:05.840 he has every right to ask for more but he's making the mistake of asking for a dollar sign instead of
00:15:11.160 percentage he needs to be asking for a cut of what the the revenue is not oh i want eight million
00:15:17.280 dollars he should be asking for a percent give me 55 percent of the revenue how much does a does a top
00:15:23.680 rank fighter make these days um well like the guy that has a title you know and then plus like any kind
00:15:31.120 of sponsorships or endorsements from if you win the belt and then you defend the belt okay so you have to
00:15:37.600 two times so if you find the belt you get pay-per-view points once you get pay-per-view
00:15:42.720 points then then you can you start making millions per fight just about um but these guys are making
00:15:49.440 anywhere from one million to i guess eight million is somewhere in the uh in the pay with all all money
00:15:56.240 disclosed non-disclosed bonus like on an annual basis or no i would be for one fight that's very oh for
00:16:02.980 one fight that's very minimal for those guys that do that shit you know you're talking less than 10
00:16:08.360 guys ever okay right where where the uh and and if you look at those numbers you think it's a lot but
00:16:16.120 the um the output that ufc is paying they're paying like 19 percent of the revenues out to the
00:16:23.140 fighters okay okay okay and that's just event revenues that's not even the other half of the
00:16:31.420 stuff they're doing with with uh merchandising and you fought up until your early 40s so is that
00:16:37.100 typical like for a lifespan for a fighter or is that a little bit longer than what you'd want to go
00:16:41.840 normally way longer i for ufc um it's actually like less than a year for uh average career
00:16:52.000 and how old were you when you started it i started fighting at 25 24 that's pretty long then i mean
00:16:58.620 that was that was over 15 years right i fought 18 years yeah and i've seen joe rogan talk about how
00:17:05.160 he didn't get into professional fighting because of you know watching a lot of guys with like damage to
00:17:10.960 their body and their brain and you know like permanent kind of shit like is it is it really
00:17:14.820 that that bad happens a lot it's one of the reasons why i've uh taken up a lot in fighting
00:17:21.320 you know trying to organize fighters and mixed martial arts fighter association like we have gone i've
00:17:27.080 gone paid out of pocket to um to the capital and uh and and uh gotten people to sign up for our bill
00:17:35.580 to get the alia expand expanded to uh all combat sport athletes not just not just uh boxers um you
00:17:43.720 know uh the the class action lawsuit we've got going with the ufc too like all that stuff's kind of all
00:17:50.260 motivated because i've seen guys you know give their heart and soul and then they're they're kind
00:17:54.460 of brain damaged and they can't they can't remember shit now and they got bad hips and they they've got
00:17:59.620 nothing and they can't even they can't even profit off of the fights they had a long time ago ufc still
00:18:06.780 has people pay for their their fight pass and you can still watch mark coleman fights
00:18:11.980 like they still make money off of those fights so but the fighter doesn't get any of that no
00:18:16.980 wow um let me grab a few of these super chats just so i don't lose them here so we got uh chris said
00:18:24.260 wonder if john could talk a bit about the reebok deal and how if all it screwed him and other fighters
00:18:28.740 out of sponsorship money what does that mean yeah man so fighters used to be able to pick up any
00:18:36.080 sponsor they wanted to for a fight kind of like a nascar okay so you'd have you know logos all over
00:18:42.320 you'd have a backdrop banner behind us that would have logos on it too so when they're being announced
00:18:46.980 you make a little side money uh you know the reebok deal was the cherry on top because it it started
00:18:55.020 long before they got to the reebok deal so back in 2008 2009 you know anybody could sponsor you for
00:19:03.660 a fight you'd have to get approved uh you know it was no like alcohol tobacco or gambling was allowed
00:19:09.880 but like most ever anything else so mom and mom and pop shop from your local t-shirt printing place or
00:19:16.400 hardware store whatever they could pay you three to five thousand dollars just to put a logo on
00:19:21.040 your short because that's that's a cool thing to do uh so there it was you know easy to make anywhere
00:19:27.460 from five to fifty grand on your shorts just your shorts especially if you were on a main of main car
00:19:33.760 to ufc because everybody saw that after a while ufc uh started taxing sponsors though so or to sponsor
00:19:43.200 a fighter you had to pay the ufc fifty to a hundred thousand dollars first so the sponsor would have to
00:19:49.960 pay the usc first to gain access to the fighters yes so if you're a mom and pop shop who only has
00:19:56.200 five to twenty five thousand dollar budget a year on advertising like you're not even capable of
00:20:02.880 sponsoring fighters anymore so that wiped out a ton of possible sponsors for a long time and then
00:20:11.080 once there was only about five to seven sponsors total that you could even call and get sponsorship
00:20:19.480 with um then they started pushing towards the reebok stuff and ufc started pushing towards and they're
00:20:28.060 like look at what a great job we're doing we're getting you more sponsorship opportunities with
00:20:32.020 this reebok deal but not not people and people who weren't around long enough didn't know that
00:20:37.700 they choked all the other sponsors off ahead of time like they got to the point where there was
00:20:42.740 barely any sponsors there's people like condom depot paying people five hundred bucks to to put a
00:20:47.860 logo on your ass like that was traditionally like five grand like if you're a main main card fight
00:20:56.160 and ufc and you you're selling that real estate that's five grand so this company comes around and people
00:21:01.740 are accepting it manager accepting it for five hundred it was uh yeah it made it made things
00:21:07.700 tough for a little while the reebok deal made it worse interesting because now the uh the champions
00:21:15.060 are only making i think 40 to 45 000 per fight with the deal i think that's another new venom deal
00:21:20.820 they have now instead of reebok they're using venom and i think that's i think i saw that yesterday
00:21:26.520 something like the champions are like 40 40 to 45 000 i'm like chuck liddell used to make that per
00:21:32.780 patch per logo now is that was more than 10 years ago do they have do they have the opportunity to earn
00:21:39.380 sponsorship revenue on on their social audience like if they promote a a shoe or some kind of
00:21:45.500 they can but if you look they're man they're uh most of these guys social media is is awful
00:21:53.220 shit like they don't really know how to promote themselves they don't know how to monetize it and
00:21:57.180 and i think that's on purpose the ufc doesn't help them it doesn't do it for them because they don't
00:22:00.840 want them to make money on their own like they want you to be dependent off off of their uh pay cycle
00:22:06.960 that way they can leverage you more easily like they know when you're starving they know when you need
00:22:11.460 to fight that's when they come with the shittier deals okay we'll give you this fight but you gotta sign
00:22:16.700 this uh this extension on your um on your contract first for like nine fights you'd think that that
00:22:24.760 there would be an advantage to them showing fighters how to promote themselves on social platforms
00:22:31.480 because when it brings more eyeballs to the fighters it's going to bring more eyeballs to
00:22:35.960 the actual event right if they like john fitch control yeah i know but if they like john fitch on
00:22:42.280 instagram you know for example and that and that audience is building and it's adding 25 30 you know
00:22:46.540 30 000 followers the account monthly brothers logan and jake paul are perfect perfect examples
00:22:51.460 that's that i started a company actually because this i see this opportunity and nobody's taking it
00:22:56.160 but the reason is because the promoters don't want to put the time and money energy into it they want
00:23:01.420 you to do it yourself but they don't really want you to be successful because if you're successful
00:23:06.120 doing that you could literally make more money if you had 100 000 uh followers on on your instagram
00:23:11.200 account you could you could you could make you know a couple thousand dollars a month you could
00:23:16.340 live off of that and yeah there's nobody's on instagram that are just taking pictures of
00:23:21.420 their butthole and they've got like a million followers you know some of these checks but
00:23:24.920 an mma fighter not even close to that 100 and then yeah like you'll have guys big guys like
00:23:32.560 fought 10 fights 10 wins in the ufc and they they have under 40 000 under 50 000 followers on a lot of
00:23:38.320 stuff and that's that's insane to me that they're leaving money on the table and i think it's on purpose i
00:23:43.520 i don't think that the the companies want them to have access to this revenue because if they're if
00:23:48.380 they can make enough money to live off of their social media like they can't push them around and
00:23:53.520 force them into fights they don't want they can't make them sign bad contracts like it's literally
00:23:58.440 it gives them an opportunity to have a few money yeah this sounds uh this sounds awfully familiar you
00:24:04.540 know this is not the first place that um you know uh the man has done this to kind of like run the show
00:24:10.680 and and and keep its um oh it's it's gravy train under its control when you look at back and like
00:24:19.100 what other sports went through and once you see the uh the 1950s like studio studios we're doing
00:24:27.460 yeah just this is all just a replay this has all happened before it's not not a new thing
00:24:32.620 it's frustrating once you see it and then other people get it's literally we joke around we say it's
00:24:39.020 we see dead bodies it's like the sixth sense we see dead bodies yeah we're trying to explain this
00:24:44.460 to people and they're looking at us like excuse me like i like i like the fights though i thought
00:24:50.340 the fights were real yeah and and for all of this i mean you're like you're really putting your own
00:24:55.220 health in extreme risk i mean like you're like you're really putting your life and your livelihood
00:25:02.080 at risk and they're and they're running the show that way uh well i hope that changes you know for
00:25:06.920 the fighters um soon like is it getting better for them uh well we got class certification last year
00:25:14.680 in our classification lock studio cfc and it's an antitrust case and they will be uh we're supposed
00:25:23.300 to get a a write-up or something here this year april april 6 i think that's a big day but then they'll
00:25:30.440 file uh their appeal and then once the appeal gets thrown out then we'll be ready for trial
00:25:36.200 got it okay so this is in the court's hands there's a super chat here from adriano uh he says john
00:25:42.240 why is catch wrestling not as popular as bjj what's catch rushing i've never heard of that
00:25:47.300 uh catches catch can it's just uncle uncle basically tap out uncle okay yeah it's just make make
00:25:55.260 say make him say uncle make him make him tap it's old celtic and old school uh catch wrestling like
00:26:01.720 um there's a lot of different styles of it they used to i learned about it indiana history there
00:26:07.420 the guys used to grow the thumbnails out and if you could pop the other guy's eye out you won
00:26:12.160 that was one really and then the other was like they do the fish hooking where they fish hook in your
00:26:16.620 mouth yeah and they can they can pull and rip your mouth or you can quit at that point that's one too
00:26:23.080 but it's just yeah it's kind of what it is basically just say uncle um and there's still
00:26:28.320 a lot of implementation of catch wrestling techniques i think i i use some probably not
00:26:34.340 even understanding that i use some like yeah if you can grab something twisted make it hurt like
00:26:39.360 it works uh super here from uh once is frisco native here from the mission district i don't know
00:26:47.100 what the mission district is that an area around you no it's uh uh it's 44-5 minutes away
00:26:52.660 mission district it's uh i think rough rough area i think anything in san francisco is kind of rough
00:26:58.740 uh john brother how do you look so young you're 43 right i'm in 43 yep yeah you do look pretty good
00:27:06.180 for 43 i mean i i mean you could probably pull off 30s for sure yeah i uh what do the ladies think
00:27:12.720 when they meet you like what do they think your age is yeah i get a lot of 36 yeah okay i don't
00:27:17.640 correct them of course not why would you good for you bro um i say almost 100 and they laugh
00:27:24.220 what would you um like what is it that you'd like guys to know about this this kind of competitive
00:27:32.080 fighting mma ufc whatever is it you know that you want to call it that they've got like a myth or
00:27:37.560 like an illusion around it that it's a league that the ufc is a league that's the biggest myth
00:27:44.020 illusion you you cannot have a league with one owner one entity it's like calling it's the dallas
00:27:50.640 cowboys are the dallas cowboys a league no they play in a league with other teams so every every
00:27:56.960 every um team every team owner that's that's a promoter in a league okay so that's a common
00:28:05.920 uh misconception but that that's purposeful they they've conned you into thinking it's a league
00:28:12.500 that's why it's okay for them to do the things they do and control the title and control oh it's
00:28:17.540 a league that's why they control the title no they're they're a promoter like they're not supposed
00:28:21.940 to control the title um you had a you had an incident that was public on uh peds where you got
00:28:30.400 uh dope tested and didn't pass um i watched an interview with that and you were talking about
00:28:36.080 how you really didn't know what the hell you were doing at the time you just didn't dose it right or
00:28:39.560 you just kind of like you know took a stab at it for yourself the interesting thing though is that
00:28:42.980 i've noticed with testosterone is it doesn't make that much of a difference you know as you get older
00:28:49.040 like when i was 25 i could i could easily bench press three plates like now it's like two plates
00:28:55.400 you know if i'm lucky and i'm on trt right so it's not like it makes a huge difference but
00:28:58.920 like how far over the limit did you test like was it just marginal like when it ended up happening
00:29:05.200 so i like i i wasn't successful with it because my strategy was what i heard every other people were
00:29:14.100 doing but i didn't have all the pieces as you would replace your normal testosterone levels with
00:29:20.220 synthetic testosterone so you do 100 to 150 milliliters per week um which is about half of
00:29:28.980 what a normal doctor's prescription is for it but the idea is that your levels are going to be the same
00:29:36.400 but the synthetic testosterone is better than the natural testosterone and i don't know if i believe
00:29:42.260 that yeah i mean i was stronger when i was in my 20s natural than what i am today yeah so i don't know
00:29:49.120 if that's true or not that was the that's just the line of thinking that's the theory though
00:29:52.460 yeah this was the theory behind it so if you keep it that the um the commissions when you're tested
00:29:58.480 they test it was it just straight t like cipionate or ethionate or was it like d-ball because d-ball
00:30:04.380 can make you strong no it's just straight testosterone okay um and it was uh yeah so um oh yeah so the
00:30:13.780 ratio so you can test three to one or four to one at the time in certain commissions for your
00:30:19.900 testosterone to estrogen ratios right which is your normal human is one to one usually anyway so
00:30:25.480 it gives you a pretty good range to be on that synthetic and as long as you're within that range
00:30:30.680 you pass and um you're fine but i didn't know what i was doing so you're supposed to come off of
00:30:37.520 the injections like three weeks prior and then you're supposed to use a topical i guess well i didn't
00:30:43.180 have a topical and i didn't know and i use injections until like a week out so i my ratios
00:30:47.660 came back nine to one so after they did that i was flagged and then they tested for synthetics
00:30:52.640 so they made extra money to see if it was synthetic and it was so i got like doubles double whammy
00:30:59.100 but that was me trying to play catch up because there was a time period where trt was legal
00:31:07.840 you could legally get uh therapeutic uh exemptions from doctors um and fight still in ufc and other
00:31:17.060 promotions like the commissions allowed it so uh when i was released by the ufc it was kind of after
00:31:23.020 that heartbreak i talked about i i was like why am i why am i making less money than these guys and
00:31:29.240 they're cheating like what am i what am i really gaining by by not doing what everybody else is doing
00:31:33.620 so i i rationalized myself back into it but like i had the one fight i didn't feel any better i could
00:31:40.720 eat whatever i wanted to and look awesome that was nice but like my cardio wasn't better nothing was
00:31:45.840 better and the injection sites hurt so bad i couldn't i couldn't grapple at all i couldn't sit on
00:31:52.320 my ass like i would we're using a harpoon to shoot it in like a big i think i was using too big of a
00:31:57.100 need a ladder okay crazy um yes so is that common you know with fighters like do they use peds but
00:32:06.460 just at levels where it's like looks natural at the time i think that was uh i think that was
00:32:12.400 something they were doing a lot of because i'd heard it from a couple different places there was
00:32:16.560 that fighter war machine he made a video that went viral uh where he's talking about literally how
00:32:23.000 how you get a doctor to prescribe you test in the first place and then how you use it and things
00:32:29.680 like that and that's uh i think a lot of guys were using that approach for a little bit yeah i mean
00:32:36.220 it's not ideal like you like you mentioned in one of the conversations like it's not an ideal
00:32:40.180 substance for uh you know for sport where you have to make weight right because i mean you're gonna put
00:32:46.100 on water actually yeah i don't i couldn't understand that unless you're like putting on size to move up
00:32:51.820 weight classes it didn't make a lot of sense to me to to use something that's muscle building yeah
00:32:56.980 yeah i mean it's not all muscle building when you do put on put on some water weight too for sure
00:33:02.460 yeah i think some of the some of the ideology came from what was going on with
00:33:07.760 uh lance armstrong yeah stuff was coming out and there was like there's also the baseball stuff with uh
00:33:15.500 mark whatever his name was that red-headed guy that was knocking like every ball out of the park
00:33:20.020 so there was like there's different strategies and things people were talking about for use
00:33:24.940 so what about uh today like are you still on trt no so i haven't used since then and i recently
00:33:32.780 did that let's get checked thing online and i did a video on my channel official john fitch but
00:33:39.460 i'm at 567 now so i feel good i look good uh my hair is still here i don't want to i don't want to
00:33:48.420 fuck with my hair so i'm now you would have started to lose your hair by now if you had like the uh
00:33:53.020 predisposition to hair loss from androgens so i mean like even your natural body's teeth
00:33:58.040 production will make it fall out i'm just i don't i don't want to risk i could i could probably get
00:34:04.460 shredded if i was on it but uh you probably wouldn't get as shredded as what you are right
00:34:09.420 now like you're pretty ripped i've seen some of the pictures you've posted on instagram and you're
00:34:12.680 pretty lean because i mean as soon as you go on t like what ends up happening is you put on water
00:34:15.900 weight you know like immediately like like probably in about eight to ten weeks i probably put on about
00:34:22.180 10 pounds of weight and it wasn't all muscle for sure like i went from 198 to 208 like quickly
00:34:27.580 i've been uh yeah i've been eating and i'm trying to put on weight i'm trying to get bigger
00:34:33.380 yeah i might get 220 right now i don't want to get like fat though so i'm trying to lift and get
00:34:39.360 what's big for six foot tall if you're 220 man yeah it's a pretty it's a good size i just uh i want
00:34:46.100 to be a solid 220 and lose a little bit more of the i got i pack it on the side i like the camel
00:34:52.120 humps on the side love love handles yeah that's what that's where i put on the weight first
00:34:57.160 well i mean you got the core right you got to have the tight core to take all those hits
00:35:00.140 you're built that way now we got uh super here from beastly nerd says what promotions do you see
00:35:08.100 that could rival or even surpass the ufc one day so the fighters could possibly have more
00:35:12.840 leveraging power with contracts uh as long as the the there's no legal backstop for what promoters
00:35:19.960 do if the ufc loses power becomes second fiddle the next the person who beats them is is going to
00:35:26.540 be just as bad or worse it's not going to get better you have to have a fundamental change
00:35:33.220 in the way the sport is done and that's where the aliak would step in and would prevent uh you
00:35:39.640 know promoters from controlling the the titles who prevent them from controlling the um uh the rankings
00:35:48.020 uh when uh in in boxing you know when you win a title you become a free agent and that's that's when
00:35:54.200 the boxer is most most valuable that's when the fighter is most valuable that's when he should
00:35:58.640 be allowed to see where he can make the most money gotcha um you guys can keep throwing questions in
00:36:07.300 there about fighting i'm i'm again i'm not an expert and i don't watch much of the stuff so if you have
00:36:11.700 something that's relevant to uh the cast drop it in there but i wanted to ask you about some other
00:36:15.780 stuff because when i typed in john fitch um when i was putting the tags in the video you know how
00:36:21.160 google or youtube you know starts to recommend like other search items or other video topics it's
00:36:25.200 like you know it goes john fitch you know mma john fitch ufc then it goes red pill so like how did you
00:36:32.000 get into this red pill space the divorce so yeah 2000 and 2017 life's like you know uh i'm just not happy
00:36:45.320 i love you but i'm not in love with you sort of thing 100 what is love yeah bullshit and um yeah i just
00:36:53.960 went down that road and i'm very i'm an athlete i'm analytical so i look at things i look at successes
00:37:01.240 and failures and i break them down and i try to figure out what's going on and um i was already kind of
00:37:08.760 on the path of you know being a creator and taking my my knowledge of fighting and and technique and
00:37:17.400 fitness and stuff towards you know youtube and doing more stuff online that way uh which got me
00:37:23.720 interacting more with other creators and following more other creators and that it got me on a path of um
00:37:30.760 um being more positive because i felt i felt like my twitter timeline was very native and political
00:37:37.160 yeah i started following more positive people like ed latimore he was he was somebody who uh
00:37:43.480 had super positive man yeah super positive things to say and uh you know it's kind of like you know the
00:37:50.920 the the five people you surround yourself with it's kind of like where you're like the the things that
00:37:55.880 you're consuming also yeah if you can assume about a nonsense and and ugliness like then you're you're
00:38:02.840 just gonna have that with you all the time everywhere you're going so a lot of people complain though that
00:38:08.040 the red pill is um is very negative and misogynistic and you know blah blah blah like it's because they're
00:38:15.640 they're still married to their blue pill ideas they still want they still want the fairy tale to be real
00:38:21.080 yeah i think i think the vast majority of the population still buys a fairy tale it's hard like
00:38:26.520 they they you did at one point right a hundred percent a hundred percent like i have uh i've kept
00:38:34.840 journals for a long time and i i released one book as book one it's supposed to be the first uh a series
00:38:40.760 but like where i release uh those journal entries and i write reflections on them now i'm getting into
00:38:47.240 stuff like i have to take a break because it's like too personal and uh there's a lot of stuff
00:38:52.520 you know i'm looking back at and now i have that red pill lens and and uh some of the stuff you kind
00:38:59.080 of understood as a kid or growing up like behavior patterns you recognize them but you're constantly
00:39:05.480 like oh no it's supposed to be this way it's supposed to be this way and you think you're bad because
00:39:10.200 you're noticing how things are and you know reading through and through those little journals like
00:39:15.640 there's specs of it i can see there is a red pill underlying there but you you try to force yourself
00:39:22.520 into this this good good boy societal box i guess do you end up journaling daily like morning and night
00:39:28.920 or is it a weekly i did for a long time i was i was a part of my fighting obsession okay recording and
00:39:37.160 just documenting everything and um like yeah what i ate how how much i weighed like what my workout was
00:39:44.840 that day everything yeah yeah that's like a bit obsessive but um yeah so i think going through the uh
00:39:56.200 the divorce thing got me looking for knowledge so i'm following different people looking for different
00:40:01.640 uh outlooks more positive outlooks people were looking to grow and and and learn and make more
00:40:07.160 money and then i stumbled across i think uh the game is uh neil strauss strauss and yeah and i'm a uh
00:40:19.240 i'm a i'm a technician right as far as a fighter okay i wasn't the fastest strongest
00:40:25.640 guy out there but i could i'll thank you and i could use technique to lure you into my traps so
00:40:30.920 the idea of this pickup and the stuff they were doing it was all just technique to me
00:40:35.480 it made sense technique makes sense so look down that path even more uh more red pill stuff rational mail
00:40:44.440 and uh more and more stuff online jordan peterson books um yeah i think i got to a place where i was like
00:40:53.000 like this is a problem that not enough people are aware of what reality is and how much of this
00:41:03.080 kind of blue pill mindset steals from you and a lot of it is really
00:41:09.080 that's a theft of power i think from a lot of men are are most fighters pretty plugged into the blue
00:41:16.280 pill like are they mostly like blue-pilled alphas i think a lot yeah that's a good way to put it a lot
00:41:21.960 of blue-pilled alphas because you don't even see a lot of them who are like trump supporters or
00:41:26.600 you know bolson euro supporters in brazil or you know but they'll still they'll still stand for for
00:41:33.480 feminist stuff got it um oh here i got to throw these supers up um a buddy of mine from my community
00:41:40.040 is asking about your patreon link he's looking to i guess contribute where's the best way to
00:41:44.360 for somebody for you it's uh it's this smash society uh here let me look it up i'll grab it and drop it in
00:41:53.000 the chat uh patreon uh fitch smash society
00:41:59.800 it's creating live streams blogs is that it
00:42:09.400 yeah that's you here i'll grab the link and i'll drop it in the chat so if you guys want to
00:42:13.800 so what do people get from your patreon well i'm trying to build it right now i got five people
00:42:18.680 so i want to talk to you guys and um i'm doing everything for the everybody's doing the dollar
00:42:24.680 one right now anybody who's contributing right now is getting everything so i'm trying to
00:42:30.120 set up some times where we can do some some uh zoom chats and stuff together and i'd like to get
00:42:35.240 some local local stuff where we can hang out shoot some arrows drink some beers smoke some cigars type
00:42:42.200 stuff um yeah you post a lot about archery is that a new thing for you have you always done that
00:42:49.240 uh when i was a kid you know bb guns and shooting arrows in the back you know we had like seven acres
00:42:54.920 growing up and we had a bunch of woods so i was always in the woods playing i noticed that you use
00:42:59.560 a conventional longbow not a compound bow why do you use that one it was a gift okay like a couple
00:43:05.480 years ago um my friend had one laying around that he didn't use he has his own compound so
00:43:11.960 i got that and then i got the kids their own little little compound bow so that we could just
00:43:18.040 spend time together outside there's a nice little like local park thing it's a it's a free state
00:43:24.040 park and you can shoot arrows there and there's a little walkway that has a uh um kind of like a
00:43:32.200 target course you can walk that's pretty cool and you know it's just a good time to go and uh
00:43:38.600 take the kids and be outside and you know it's it's fun just to kind of meditate and shoot stuff
00:43:43.640 weapons training yeah i want to talk about your um about that stuff in a bit um i've got a super
00:43:50.600 here from zuber and he says books autobiography writing for the public interest or like yourself
00:43:57.320 would i read i think he's asking what books you would recommend to read uh what should make me think
00:44:02.520 people are interested what i say what i'm not sure what he's trying to say there is he trying to say
00:44:08.520 that he wants to write a book and what and what should he write it on that people should read
00:44:13.560 okay let's handle it this way what what books do you recommend like what are your top five reads
00:44:22.120 um man i'll say this while you're thinking about that that if you want to write a book it's best to
00:44:28.040 have an audience first don't go and you know write a book because you'll upload it to amazon and it'll
00:44:33.080 be crickets you'll sell like five copies yeah um man top five so like one of my big books that i
00:44:42.120 read they got me like on my path out out west and everything was uh zen and the art of motorcycle
00:44:47.320 maintenance that's a good book yeah and the there's the whole the ideas and uh questions around quality
00:44:54.440 and what is quality and uh there was a lot to that book i thought it was it was really great it spoke to
00:45:01.240 me you know he's talking about um you know paying attention and enjoying the journey and the path
00:45:07.640 not worry about getting to the top of the mountain right away that that was uh do you ride bikes are
00:45:13.880 you a motorcyclist no it's something i've always wanted to do but i kind of put off because i was
00:45:18.760 fighting and uh i was kind of going to last summer but then covet happened and then yeah i just haven't
00:45:25.480 re revisited doing that again awesome i i put a chapter in my book i i said every guy should
00:45:34.280 own a motorcycle at some point in their life i think anyway yeah because that's what i wanted to
00:45:37.880 do with uh you know the weekends i didn't have the kids i wanted to like i could take trips down
00:45:44.920 run and just especially in california because you got the best weather for it right i mean if you're
00:45:49.400 going to pay the heavy taxes and live amongst some of the heavily left-leaning people on the planet
00:45:55.000 you might as well enjoy the you know the sun sets in the mountains and the beautiful scenery right
00:45:59.320 yeah but yeah so that's it's man that's one of the things on the list is motorcycle um what's your
00:46:07.240 what's your relationship like with cannabis i noticed on a lot of the casts that we're on you
00:46:10.840 know you've always got something sparked up or a vape or something like that like talk about that a
00:46:14.360 little bit yeah so man i didn't smoke weed until i was 19 years old it was bad um he's an athlete
00:46:23.720 and you know it made people dumb but then i got to college and i met a bunch of people who were super
00:46:32.760 smart way smarter than me and i met a bunch of athletes who were better athletes than me and had
00:46:38.360 better cardio than me and they all smoked a lot of weed and i just kind of tore that idea down for me
00:46:44.840 i think there was some heavy mushroom and acid trips in college too that kind of opened my eyes around
00:46:51.720 that stuff and just this the idea of addiction in general it's just like you know it's something
00:46:58.920 having power over you i don't know i don't know if that's why i don't have that addictive type
00:47:03.720 of personality or i can just have one of anything and walk away from stuff those maybe those trips
00:47:09.800 back in college but um yeah i've never been in that position where i couldn't just have one of
00:47:16.520 something and walk away from it does it does it ever have a negative um like impact on your life as far as
00:47:23.240 any i haven't let performance i haven't had i haven't let drugs or alcohol or anything ever have a
00:47:29.960 negative impact on me i think i've i've been able to
00:47:37.080 understand when i'm having a good time and and when it's past that time i guess not that i haven't
00:47:42.440 had some bad moments in my 20s but um yeah but no with the weed thing like i got really into it because
00:47:48.680 i was having a lot of neck problems at the beginning of 2010 and i was growing my own because i just bought
00:47:57.000 a new house around well it was 2011 i guess when the neck problem started happening and i moved to
00:48:02.600 the new house and i was growing stuff outside at indoor grow so um having a medical license and
00:48:09.000 everything so everything was you know legal and um when i was growing my own like i could consume mass
00:48:17.720 amounts all day long and it didn't get in the way of training or my home life or getting things done so
00:48:27.080 it was kind of my own little experimentation and like getting done it didn't it didn't you know i could
00:48:33.160 be lazy if i wanted to whether i had the chemical or not what about psychedelics you're talking about
00:48:40.040 mushrooms and acid you still you still play around with that a little bit i haven't had a trip in
00:48:45.560 forever but i do microdose from time to time and then what sort of benefits to get out of the microdosing
00:48:53.080 microdosing from uh psilocybin um man it's like it's like a adderall without without the crack
00:49:03.480 it's it's amazing like um i was talking to my friend about it before it's one of those things that you
00:49:08.200 can't you can't overdo and there's times when you're just like you know i don't want to do this
00:49:13.960 for a few days because it's just i don't know it's like the perfect drug what do you usually dose when
00:49:21.000 it comes to psilocybin um it'll be 150 to 250 milligrams so 15 to 25 percent okay got it yeah yeah
00:49:30.200 actual dose yeah okay okay but yeah so it's it's i'll mix it with uh lion's mane yeah uh have them
00:49:39.720 together and it's it's you get a lot done i get a lot done but it's not somewhere i'm like i have to
00:49:45.000 have it every morning it's not even like a coffee where like i feel like i where's my coffee i don't
00:49:49.960 feel right because i don't have a coffee yet yeah i look at it i'm like i don't i don't want it
00:49:55.320 no not today yeah some of the most uh like productive and um competent entrepreneurs
00:50:02.840 athletes a lot of biohackers use it a lot too um i mean he did a big investment in a company that's um
00:50:10.440 leaning very heavily into psilocybin um and that's been going really well so i mean i'm looking forward
00:50:14.920 to it i mean hopefully it it helps a lot of people out one of the things that uh that they're starting
00:50:19.400 to notice as they're doing the research on this is that it like it can help somebody that that would
00:50:24.120 basically need like 10 years of therapy uh get through it within like six months or something
00:50:29.560 like that maybe like you know a handful of treatments it's like not effective i'm not a
00:50:34.280 doctor i'm not recommending anybody but i've had uh three different friends cure themselves of like
00:50:43.720 drug dependency oh it's great for ptsd too using it like they've had friends who uh were having issues
00:50:50.360 with cocaine and friends that were having issues with marijuana and every time they had a craving
00:50:55.480 they would take one of the pills and then you know months later psilocybin does reset those uh receptors
00:51:02.600 right um because that's because that's one of the problems that they had like they're using it to treat
00:51:08.120 like certain addictions like alcoholism i'm not sure if it's effective you know for other compounds as
00:51:13.960 well but i know they're like like they're having a lot of success with it for stuff like that
00:51:17.640 yeah it's a pretty cool thing so i mean hopefully it it it gets a little more um acceptance in the
00:51:24.040 community and it helps a lot more guys out after you do it a couple times like you realize like okay
00:51:29.800 this is why it's illegal it's like they don't want people they don't want to plant because you can't
00:51:34.280 people can grow this on their own they can set up their house and
00:51:39.800 like that was a whole argument with cannabis you know years ago is yeah you know they like it's got
00:51:44.760 you know medicinal properties when you extract certain compounds out of it you get rid of the
00:51:49.320 you know the ones that are more harmful but like all the all the pharmaceutical companies couldn't
00:51:53.800 do anything about it because you can't like patent a freaking plant right so they want to sell you their
00:51:58.760 drugs they don't want you to use your drugs try it they'll bio uh engineer it somehow and then they'll
00:52:04.600 they'll figure it out yeah um let's see here what else do i want to talk to you but i want to talk
00:52:10.680 a little bit more about the red pill stuff in the manuscript like what comes to mind when you when
00:52:14.440 you hear the term manuscript it's such a i don't even like the term you know manosphere can we just say
00:52:24.440 it's just uh i don't know a bunch of dudes who want better can we just this is a guy space where we
00:52:31.800 want to do better that's that's good enough i don't know about manosphere um but no it's it's heavily
00:52:37.960 needed and it's weird how negatively it's kind of uh like anything any go groups guys group guys
00:52:47.720 getting together huh like you need fun of like oh guys talking about guy stuff huh sounds good or like
00:52:54.760 whatever like you always it's so i don't know what the word is for it like look down on or like you're
00:53:00.840 shamed for being a group of guys in a guys club or group talking about guy stuff it's uh it's weird
00:53:09.320 it's really weird was it the was it the actual like like the wife giving you the i love you but i don't
00:53:17.080 love you talk that that started red pillier or was it like going through the divorce machine after it
00:53:21.640 like what what was divorce like for you in california because i mean that's a pretty hostile state you
00:53:27.000 know towards fathers right yeah oh she i mean she was i she used lube okay let's just say that she
00:53:34.440 used lube in the divorce rate okay well at least that was kind of her right yeah so i'll give her
00:53:42.920 that she used it could be worse you know cussing the kids so i'm not getting hit up for or uh um
00:53:51.080 child support um the uh no alimony because at the time like i was thinking about retiring so like it
00:53:59.640 was she was just started working so it was possible she she could have had to pay me alimony so she was
00:54:04.920 okay with signing off on saying no alimony so that that went in my favor um stay at home mom or she was
00:54:13.640 stay at home body stay at home wife but not a mom there she was at home but she wasn't like doing
00:54:20.280 them she like she wasn't doing the mom stuff yeah like i was double dutying a lot of things did you
00:54:25.400 guys have a nanny too or no really so like you were you were playing parent plus you know the income
00:54:31.960 earner i was training for a world title and i would have to stop in the middle of sparring around and
00:54:38.840 change the diaper really and then jump back in and finish the round and she didn't do that for
00:54:44.120 you she wasn't like john you go chase excellence i got this nope she was at home checking out instagram
00:54:48.920 or whatever and then i would come home from that and i wouldn't need to i'd have to make my own lunch
00:54:55.640 so i'd have to uh rest and then she would take off and leave and run errands or get her hair done or
00:55:01.640 whatever did did um you not like taking a title have any impact you think on you know the marriage
00:55:10.600 and her wanting to bounce um me getting dropped from the ufc yes okay so it was around the same time
00:55:17.080 as that i think her attitude changed a lot well i mean like me she was not on favor not a fan of me
00:55:24.840 pushing back against ufc she wanted me to shut up and be a good boy and just sucked in his dick just do
00:55:30.680 what he wants like that she's like she took their side yeah that's that's not good yeah she took she
00:55:37.320 took their side in the situation and that was kind of like some of the first like oh really that's
00:55:43.720 it was more important for her to like get the money and be in the scene than it was for like
00:55:49.720 her family to like not be robbed yeah so we've got playing to win and we've got playing not to lose
00:55:55.320 and women typically play not to lose right so that was that was that's what she wanted you to do
00:56:00.680 don't rock the boat john yes you know so then yeah so a lot of that was you know then money
00:56:06.600 changed my job status changed uh my social circle changed um a lot because i'm not i'm not gonna hang
00:56:13.240 out with people in this you know that are going to that thing and doing those things um yeah so that
00:56:19.080 was that was a big part of it and you know part of me too like i have to go through my journals and
00:56:24.120 see like when the when that happened but there was a point where i was like what am i doing like
00:56:27.960 why am i putting so much effort into this so i like i stopped doing shit for her and i focused on
00:56:33.400 me and the kids at a certain point and uh yeah i think it'd be interesting to go back and see when
00:56:41.320 that was that it could have been around the time when i was like we were hurting for money we had
00:56:45.160 got a new place and uh i was gonna sell my truck i love my truck i wasn't gonna get much money for it
00:56:52.680 and i came home one day and i was i found somebody to buy it and it was well under what i was hoping
00:56:58.520 to give for it and i came back and and i walked in the house and she'd like dropped like 500 bucks
00:57:06.120 on nails and hair and shit that day and i was like what the hell am i why am i giving up my truck
00:57:14.840 like why am i giving up something i love she's not giving anything up and like we're struggling for
00:57:19.400 this money so like whatever i was like nope i start putting premium gas in the truck
00:57:25.800 well it sounds like you're better off today than what you were when you were married man
00:57:29.800 i am but yeah it still stings like especially like i was in a bitcoin early and
00:57:38.600 me being bullied and harassed by her because it's not a real thing and you're wasting time and you
00:57:44.120 should have a real job and blah blah blah like i stopped trading and stopped buying bitcoin
00:57:49.160 it was hundreds of dollars at that time if i if i would have focused on me and money and muscles
00:57:56.120 i would have i would have been a billionaire right now yeah well there you go right i mean
00:58:03.800 so what's life like now i mean like you're doing a lot of dating i've heard you on the rule zeros you
00:58:07.560 know a few times saying that you're dating a lot of women in their 20s and things are good and
00:58:11.800 like is this like the best time of your life now or it's uh it's weird because of the lockdowns
00:58:20.840 uh but it's still pretty damn good like i'm still figuring i'm figuring a lot of stuff out but
00:58:25.800 i'm having fun like i can't complain a lot i've got a little bit of cushion with with uh bitcoin doing
00:58:31.640 really good right now um you know i made a little bit of money last year for my fight and uh
00:58:40.520 i'm good for a little bit like a big focus for me right now is spending quality time with the kids
00:58:46.280 and uh it's nine and seven yeah like i mean my daughter's gonna be a teenager pretty soon man um
00:58:56.600 and they're just gonna be out all the time they don't want anything to do with you you know by
00:59:01.000 the time they get to that it's like you know you're cool when they're seven yeah not so much when
00:59:05.240 they're you know moving into the teen years so you might as well enjoy that part um yeah so i'm just
00:59:10.600 much time with them so yeah i got like two three years before they start doing more stuff with their
00:59:14.760 friends and you know uh so what does a typical week look like for you now that you're retired like
00:59:20.360 what do you do mostly with your time man it's like a lot you know 50 it's with the kids so i'm
00:59:26.200 taking care of them and doing uh fun stuff with them wrestling around with them teaching them
00:59:31.240 wrestling and how to shoot a bow and arrow and then this weekend we'll go fishing i think we'll
00:59:37.000 go to the beach probably too on another day but yeah so like just having adventures when we can
00:59:43.160 um but then my time is i do podcasts um i need to make myself write more but i've been putting up
00:59:51.080 you know courses uh on gumroad i need to make some more uh i've been traveling and doing seminars
00:59:57.960 and teaching um and i'm starting uh another company a branding company so i have providers or
01:00:06.920 fighters and instagram models babes and beast branding babes and beast branding i dig it yeah so
01:00:14.040 yeah it's a good way to you know stock up the pipeline for the bay part of it all instead of
01:00:18.440 doing john fitch smash dudes in the ring it's john fitz smash boone right yeah but yeah and then i
01:00:25.080 figure it's a great way to use a network effect you know with the girls and the guys together if i get
01:00:31.240 enough of them and then um i'm gonna do fun stuff and travel and do fun stuff creating content for
01:00:37.640 people but i feel like it's money these people have money left on the table like the fighters who don't
01:00:43.640 know how to use social media they don't know how to do basic simple collection and campaigns and stuff
01:00:50.280 and then the girls who are hot but don't know how to use technology or how to market at all it's the
01:00:56.840 same it's kind of like the idea of uh you know the starving artists a lot of harvests are starving
01:01:02.040 because they don't know how to sell themselves yeah there's a lot of guys out there that have
01:01:07.400 um a lot of skills and they don't know how to properly monetize it and commanding an audience
01:01:13.800 is something that is not talked about enough i mean i learned this concept 2011 or 12 when i was
01:01:20.680 uh listening to guys like um alex icon who built like a very impressive uh hair extension business and
01:01:29.640 even um what's the bulletproof coffee guy's name dave asper he was talking at a conference you know
01:01:35.240 i was sitting at a round table and he was talking about his uh podcast and at the time like he had
01:01:39.480 one of the biggest podcasts um you know on itunes and a lot of these guys are all just like yeah like
01:01:44.280 if if you have an audience then you have a business yeah and um a lot of people don't understand the value
01:01:51.240 in that so yeah that's uh beast and babe things i think you'll do quite well with it if you've um
01:01:56.440 um if you've got it running right it'll be a learning process yeah but it's one of those yeah
01:02:05.960 i'm interested in it and what's the next big uh thing for you like what are you leaning into like
01:02:11.720 what are you looking forward to the most these days um well i mean like that company actually kind
01:02:16.040 of have a lot of hopes for it's it's something i think it's gonna be a lot of fun one of my problems
01:02:21.560 is i get bored easily so like i i've had problems with growth myself because i haven't really niched
01:02:29.320 myself into any one like market i haven't gone i haven't gone full 100 into one in one niche
01:02:36.200 because i'm i'm interested in too many things
01:02:41.560 yeah so you're a generalist um that's okay i mean look at joe rogan like he's he's one of the
01:02:49.000 biggest generalists out there like he'll talk with fighters comedians evo psych guys like he'll
01:02:53.320 talk to all different kinds of people yeah 100 it's kind of i don't just want to be doing podcasting
01:02:59.640 stuff but like it's the same ideas i still want to i want to do what i want yeah that's the one thing
01:03:05.720 i have to be forced into into something yeah that's the best you know that's the best part about this
01:03:10.360 time of life is if you have that flexibility and you know you've got a nest egg set up and you can
01:03:14.680 pretty much do whatever you want i mean even if it doesn't pay that much if you really like what
01:03:18.520 you're doing you know with your time and you get something out of it and you know i always tell
01:03:22.840 guys when they ask me the question well how do i know i'm doing the right thing or like how do you
01:03:26.600 know what your purpose is and all that it's like well one of the answers to that is you'll lose track
01:03:30.360 of time when you're doing it right like five hours will go by and you won't even notice the time
01:03:36.120 because you know you're so engrossed with the whole thing like you're right down the rabbit hole sort of
01:03:40.920 stuff and i've i've come to learn too now that life is a lot less expensive um when you don't have
01:03:50.680 somebody who's trying to live the the sex in the city lifestyle yeah when you don't have to pay for
01:03:56.440 500 hair and nails yeah and like and eating out four or five times a week yeah i don't know but that's
01:04:05.000 like that's like the modern woman you know today they were yeah they were sold sex in the city they
01:04:09.960 were sold like you know you don't have to do anything like you you know like there's this big
01:04:15.880 long list of things that they want you to bring to the table john you got to be tall you got to be
01:04:19.400 good looking you got to be alpha you got to be funny you got to be you know uh you got to have
01:04:23.640 combat skills you got to be a good father you got to be nurturing you got to be a shoulder to
01:04:28.200 cry and it's like it's like well what do you bring to the table well me because i'm pretty
01:04:32.200 crazy that's wild so like yeah being able to say no to like oh yeah we're going to brunch
01:04:38.840 whatever blah blah it's like okay cool like uh hit me up when you're done
01:04:44.440 i was like i don't need i don't need that i got i got eggs in the fridge i'm cool yeah you want to
01:04:50.520 come over and make me breakfast yeah you want to come over i got eggs here yeah um do you treat women
01:04:57.240 a lot differently you know today now that you're dating you know that you've kind of like awakened and
01:05:00.680 you've unplugged from from a lot of the i got to pay for hair and nails and makeup and you know
01:05:06.200 i just don't put up with whatever i don't put up with the yeah you like this is what i'm looking
01:05:12.040 for you either meet my standards or we're just friends and have you have you come across some
01:05:17.880 outrageous stuff like you're like wow i just said that no um man
01:05:25.000 no i haven't had anything major like girls will mention like oh i'm a feminist and blah blah blah
01:05:32.200 they talk about their uh their their whatever their time they're donating and
01:05:40.920 i'm just they're trying to get her i don't know if they're trying to get a reaction or like oh my god
01:05:45.240 i can't believe oh wow you're such a whatever i just like i just go on to the next thing or just no
01:05:50.120 reaction i i'm not uh i don't care about your your sjw stuff how does uh being an ex-fighter tie into
01:05:59.720 you know dating now for you as a single dad i used to it is easier kind of but then yeah one of my
01:06:07.400 buddies was like dude you're stupid just put your just put your instagram thing on there like you're
01:06:12.760 dumb like why are you not using your blue check and whatever and i was like all right fine because
01:06:18.920 it's it's that it's part of that blue pill thing too it's like oh well the good girls they're not
01:06:22.920 looking for whatever the good girl like whatever there's no good girls what about those um like
01:06:29.800 weekly shots you do like the hump day hottie sort of thing like do you get a lot of heat from women on
01:06:33.480 that no um i have like 10 of my followers on instagram are female so uh i get like zero pushback
01:06:45.080 from those uh i have i did get a girl i think i saw the tweet but uh not sweet but um i did have
01:06:52.920 a girl match me and uh was giving me about she had matched me on tinder and then was giving me about
01:07:01.160 my hump day hotties or whatever trying to be funny but um yeah that was that was a soft next
01:07:08.360 yeah i guess she didn't she didn't meet the expectations i don't want to look through my
01:07:12.120 phone right now and find it for you but maybe i'll find another time but i kept a bunch of stuff that
01:07:17.640 crazy girls have sent me and um yeah the big thing uh that i've noticed is the girls are having a hard
01:07:25.240 time with is not when i don't put up with flakiness the home iron gains like punish them for
01:07:33.080 flakies is 100 correct and um some of them have a hard time with that yeah they want to be held
01:07:40.520 accountable that's for sure yeah like what are you serious and it's like yeah i'll playfully say you
01:07:45.880 know i'm you know i don't really like flaky people if you want to if you want to reschedule you're
01:07:50.040 gonna have to you're gonna have to buy the drink you got to buy drinks whatever steak yeah or you're
01:07:55.480 gonna have to pay for dinner i like steak yeah there's a post that you would showed us yeah
01:08:01.240 even give them the wink yeah just wow really oh my god john good luck good luck
01:08:11.880 good luck what do you mean like i have three other girls to call yeah don't worry sweetheart
01:08:16.520 luck luck is very good over here uh my big yeah the big thing i have is uh because i have such
01:08:25.000 limited time to go on dates yeah um yeah man i don't have time for the flakes like that really
01:08:32.680 is like an investment for me to like work up to get to the girl to go out on wednesday or thursday
01:08:37.480 night and then she flakes it's like i got i got a week and a half before the next round of nights i
01:08:43.480 might be able to date again yeah so like am i gonna really risk another one with you so
01:08:53.000 what is this question um how has how has everything with the red pill change your perspective with
01:08:57.960 parenting like do you teach your boys things that your dad never taught you or you know do they hear
01:09:03.640 a lot of sound bites you know now as they're getting older uh there's stuff on the background i'm sure all
01:09:09.160 the time but i i just watch movies with them i watch shows with them and i'll pop it i'll stop the
01:09:15.320 movie and be like guys this is a really great uh movie this is a really fun story but this is a story
01:09:22.520 this is not physically possible these are these things are not capable this would never really
01:09:27.240 happen okay and then we'll start the movie again but like because there is there's a lot of
01:09:33.160 especially nowadays there's a lot of
01:09:36.680 girl power it's all the girls doing everything and all the guys are are usually bumbling idiots
01:09:45.800 yeah you know it's like oh my god thank god for all the girls because the guys are such
01:09:50.440 losers and they're so stupid well it just makes it easier to stand out in the crowd of all that i mean
01:09:55.160 there's a lot of i mean i really feel for like men today and boys today because there's a lot of crap that
01:10:01.240 they've that you know there's a lot of stuff that they've been fed that doesn't work and there's a lot of stuff that
01:10:08.120 you know that we'll talk about that they'll be like vehemently opposed to right like they'll
01:10:12.920 want to fight it it's like i find it's it's it's it's funny sometimes when some guys will like
01:10:18.760 you know they'll send you a message on uh like an instagram q a you know i did one the other day
01:10:23.000 when i was doing a workout and then i go on the the sauna and i answer you know the questions it's like
01:10:27.160 and then you answer the question like some guy will ask you a question about like nofap right it's like
01:10:31.400 okay here we go like what's your opinion on nofap let's let's start with that because i know this is
01:10:38.120 a popular topic for a lot of guys i mean like is it really is it if it's that big of a thing in your
01:10:45.080 life that you have to be asking people about it yeah maybe you should probably take a break yeah like
01:10:51.240 my approach is like i don't know any guys with an abundant access to women that even talk about
01:10:57.480 it it's not even a thought that crosses their mind it doesn't come up it's not part of my dialogue no
01:11:02.600 i don't think about it it's like and then i say those things they're like oh you don't understand
01:11:06.200 that they get in a big argument with you and they start sending you like dms and stuff i'm not gonna
01:11:10.360 yeah and it's not like i was like oh you're i don't care man if that's what you want to do do it
01:11:14.280 like i don't care i just don't care it doesn't it shouldn't be that all-encompassing of the thing it
01:11:19.240 shouldn't be obsession yeah daily thing you shouldn't be obsessed with it yeah i don't know
01:11:25.960 well i mean there's the old saying that you know when somebody says that you're obsessed with something
01:11:29.800 it's like um you know it's like a way to define somebody that's you know determined or you know
01:11:35.640 focused on it's like i guess i guess that's a way to kind of define the obsession with nofap like
01:11:42.280 i don't know what it is man it's just bizarre to me just yeah i mean there should be other things
01:11:47.080 that you should be focusing on you should have to just be thinking about that one thing and maybe
01:11:51.240 it's a a part of like porn addiction too though maybe that's really really good yeah it's you
01:11:57.400 know like porn addiction is a legitimate problem too um so i get that component but i mean if you want
01:12:02.440 to stop fapping just have girls i mean yeah if i find a girl it feels way better would you ever get
01:12:11.320 married again uh i mean i don't why i get the government involved in a relationship right for
01:12:21.560 one i'm i'm more older i get more realized i'm more anarchist yeah leave me alone stay anarchist or
01:12:28.760 libertarian uh well libertarians are just anarchists with money okay
01:12:38.200 can't argue with that yeah yeah i mean like i mean i i mean it's extreme but really yeah i
01:12:43.480 guess libertarian because yeah just the government should protect the borders interstate commerce
01:12:48.520 enforce the laws and leave me there alone yeah just take care of the fire department and that's
01:12:53.320 it just you know don't bother me um what about your sons would you would you encourage them to get
01:12:58.440 married i want them to be as uh do you want to be a grandfather i want to be a grandfather
01:13:06.680 right okay so i may just you know i may set things up to where i just have them impregnate a bunch of
01:13:13.640 girls and i'll raise the kids on my farm in the woods i was sold well i mean you you talked at one
01:13:20.440 point ago about wanting to have some more children and to like run a hair i'm like is that still a
01:13:24.600 little strategy for you um i thought a lot more about it but it would it would be really difficult
01:13:29.320 because you'd have to find you still have to find the women like who are capable of that so unless
01:13:35.320 there's you know i can make enough money to have surrogates or i do find you know quality women but
01:13:41.880 it's it's possible it's not impossible no it's certainly possible i mean men have done it throughout
01:13:47.480 history i mean yeah there's a really good book i mean if you haven't read it alpha god by
01:13:51.640 hector garcia it's in my queue it's great like yeah just even listen to it if you can get the audible
01:13:57.080 that's what i did but i mean it's it's it's pretty common throughout history and there's guys today that
01:14:02.360 that that still try to do it i mean like sterling's got a buddy down in australia that
01:14:06.360 we were talking about um you know briefly that basically set up his own harem and it kind of fell
01:14:11.880 apart on him did you ever see that link that he posted i did i read i read through that a little
01:14:16.120 bit yeah like it like it seems like a good idea but then in today's world especially you know with
01:14:22.600 like the me too and the feminists there's a little crap there's always angles and yeah risk just seems
01:14:28.680 too high yeah there's there's a lot of risk but so like yeah i don't i don't yeah it the idea of it
01:14:36.520 sounds cool i like kids you know but like i would never have kids i couldn't afford i don't want to
01:14:42.360 i don't want to do that type of life and i wouldn't want to have be subjected to some crazy mother or just
01:14:50.600 just unstable that would yeah which you don't i mean you don't have a crystal ball that can mean
01:14:56.920 5 10 15 years in the future tell you what it's going to look like i mean because one of the things i
01:15:01.400 always tell guys is women always reserve the right to change their mind at any given time and i'm sure that
01:15:05.480 i'm sure the girl that that guy in australia you know brought into his harem at one point he thought
01:15:10.040 she was solid and you know she was part of the family and uh you know she'd be there for as long
01:15:16.280 as um you know he was happy to have her there sort of thing but it all fell apart for him and it caused
01:15:21.800 a tremendous amount of issues well we see that man like implanted memories are a thing i please
01:15:29.560 people you can you can take a person and convince them that their childhood was awful
01:15:33.880 right you know even though it wasn't um well that's one of the most important things i always
01:15:41.720 tell guys to vet for is make sure you stay away from anybody with feminist ideologue it's like
01:15:48.040 because the inherent underlying notion is you have to be a victim in order to qualify as a feminist
01:15:54.440 there has to be a patriarchy which oppresses you and if you have an oppressor then you're a victim so
01:15:59.000 by default you have to operate you know with a victim mindset which is a loser's mindset so why
01:16:03.560 would you invite a woman in your life that's got a loser's mindset right yeah 100 so that's the
01:16:09.480 biggest thing that i'd save that for but i mean you know if you can pull it off man i hope you pull
01:16:12.840 it off i mean you know let me know how it unfolds i mean just being able to find one consistent
01:16:18.760 girl is hard enough are you finding it like that difficult just to have
01:16:23.960 you know like a set of plates kind of spinning you know in your rotation or is it like they kind
01:16:29.160 of come and go i think i feel that a lot of them want a lot more of my attention that i'm willing to
01:16:35.800 give especially quickly so i think that a lot of them uh what do they bring to the table i mean like
01:16:43.640 are there any of them that that want all this attention and want like that level of commitment
01:16:48.280 or ownership of you in your time that that brings something special to the table that you're willing to
01:16:51.960 say okay fine like yeah like like no not really i'm not looking for whatever you know like
01:17:00.840 i'm not looking for that like i've had girls who were like you know they want to book the next date
01:17:05.080 as soon as we finish the date they're like they're you can feel they're ready to jump into a relationship
01:17:10.120 i don't have what like on day two they're like so john where do we stand yeah well not that they're
01:17:15.000 just like like man like if you're not out of my door and you're planning the next date that's
01:17:19.160 to me that's push that's pushy it's pushy yeah i'll let me give you a couple days if i even want
01:17:24.280 to go out with you again and they're like they're pushing for the next day oh so what's your next
01:17:28.680 saturday like or when's wednesday or i'll be over at this time and i was just like it's like relax i
01:17:34.200 don't know um yeah it's it's it's weird you know so like i'll have some girls who are really cool and the
01:17:42.760 the sex is really good but they're far away you know i was dating a girl for a few months who was
01:17:47.960 in san diego and she we would have rendezvous rendezvous and meet up places um but yeah it's
01:17:55.000 just i think i think that part of the underlying reason why they're cool is because the distance
01:17:59.960 exists that i think that helps too that helps too like honestly like you know the girl i've seen uh
01:18:06.200 the one i've seen a little bit here she's she's in la she comes up to see me uh but i like i don't
01:18:12.600 have a lot of time like i don't see her more or less than i would somebody who lived down the street
01:18:19.000 you know because like i'm not having these people come around my kids like i don't know you well enough
01:18:23.880 to do that if i date you for like nine months a year maybe i'll let you meet my kids
01:18:29.240 so so at the nine month mark you know when you feel you know there's something worth you know
01:18:35.160 having a conversation over that's when you look at it huh yeah or uh you know a lot of people move
01:18:40.920 super fast on that yeah well it depends on it depends on i don't bring it up don't they bring it up you
01:18:46.920 know when they start when they start pushing or whatever yeah i think that's the right way to do it
01:18:50.440 is let them bring up that talk when they bring it up uh then we'll talk about it but you know
01:18:55.560 the talk i i haven't had brought up for a while was the you know you know i don't want to i don't
01:19:03.640 want you to date other people talk type thing so um when it does happen again and i'll be the same
01:19:10.360 i had last time it's like okay yeah it's cool that you can be my girlfriend but i'm going to date
01:19:15.000 other people also and we'll see how that goes well you know by the way quick pro tip because i've
01:19:21.720 talked to a few guys about this you know she brings up that um you know hey john it's been
01:19:26.440 10 months and you know i'd really like to meet your kids maybe we can hang go to chuck e cheese or
01:19:29.960 something like that still still give it another nine months of watching her behavior to make sure
01:19:35.320 that it's not like a dog and pony show and stuff and it's just an act um i mean see if she really digs
01:19:40.840 her vibe you know see if she likes being around them and you know uh she's never going to be the mom
01:19:45.720 obviously but just make sure that um you know she's got a genuine interest in it
01:19:51.080 uh we've got a super here from andrew he's asking about the term sigma male how would you gentlemen
01:19:56.120 define this what do you think of the term sigma male i don't even know most of these terms you know
01:20:03.000 here i'm going to google it because um i get i get tired of people making up all this new
01:20:09.400 shit and you have to do what you want to do a sigma male is a man with a with the socio-sexual
01:20:16.360 hierarchy who chooses to live his life outside of the normal social dominance hierarchy structures
01:20:20.840 of society that sounds like an alpha male to me yeah it's just that's what he wants to do
01:20:27.080 yes i mean you can label it with with whatever you want yeah yeah he does what he wants and women
01:20:33.080 still want to add bone him sigma personality they are self-sufficient seemingly strong and capable
01:20:39.080 of taking care of themselves being independent is key sigma males are independent without even trying
01:20:43.640 they have a close friend or two but these friendships often likely offer companionship
01:20:47.400 and not a necessity sounds a lot like my life but whatever i mean you know call it just call it
01:20:53.080 whatever you want man male lone wolf it seems like uh it seems like a definition but it is what it is so
01:21:01.720 just roll with it um don't don't hold on to labels too tightly like one of the things that i see guys do is
01:21:07.400 they is they identify with a label like i'm a sigma male or i'm a mctow or it's like
01:21:13.000 just that's that's man you're not fully developed that's a part of it's a part of your like development
01:21:19.640 into manhood it's like when you're a little child you see the power ranger oh the red power ranger i'm
01:21:24.840 the red power ranger i'm the blue power ranger like you you are that person and then you get a little
01:21:28.840 bit older you're a teenager and you start to be like oh i i want to do the flying axe kick like the blue
01:21:34.360 power ranger but i like spinning kick of the yellow power ranger i want to do both those things
01:21:39.000 you start peeling off different parts of that identity to create your own and then by the time
01:21:43.480 you're an adult you should be like this is me this is what i do this is how i am but like most people
01:21:50.520 never get to that final stage they're still trying to be the yellow power ranger yeah don't attach
01:21:56.360 yourself to labels and definitions because as a man you're going to evolve over time or you should be
01:22:00.920 evolving you know um you know adapting and doing more things that you enjoy and less things that you
01:22:07.240 don't enjoy if you want to call that an alpha or sigma or whatever the hell you want to call it
01:22:12.440 an alpha sigma doesn't matter just do you man just do you bro free man or a slave free man free
01:22:19.320 man all the way your day doing things for other people because you have to do these things i feel
01:22:24.760 like most people that i know that have had like mental breakdowns or have anger issues
01:22:32.040 are all people who live lives for other people like they're all like they're doing this for
01:22:37.080 they attach the labels for their mother they're doing this for whatever oh i have to these people
01:22:41.160 need this it's like what do you want bro where's your life exactly raymond's got a good point here
01:22:46.520 right people create labels so they have something to gab about you know get attention on
01:22:49.880 that's a good point um we're coming up on the 90 minute mark let's um let's wind it down man it was
01:22:56.920 a fun talk let people know uh what it is you're working on or where they want you to find you on
01:23:01.960 what it is that you're working on um yeah john fish.net john fish.net is uh the place where everything
01:23:09.640 is you can find um i need to work on my writing more but uh the uh podcast john fish knows nothing it's
01:23:18.120 sundays at 7 p.m on the left coast um talk about everything on that show have guests on a lot of
01:23:26.200 also um yeah i got two books on amazon failing upward death by ego and the way cut bible and check those
01:23:34.280 out too cool let me get this one last super before we wrap up he says when you're a child you seek
01:23:39.720 approval when you are mature you are sought for approval this is very true and travis says john is like
01:23:46.360 a fine wine i'd have to agree with that all right thanks for watching guys smash the like button
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01:23:58.120 there uh if it's somebody that i like or have a genuine interest in talking to maybe i'll reach out
01:24:02.280 to them um there's a few there's a few other guys that i got lined up over the next couple months
01:24:06.760 that i really want to have a conversation with i i like having these talks so john thanks for joining
01:24:10.360 me um check out his stuff you guys know where to find him he's uh you know he's a regular uh
01:24:15.320 contributor on the rule zero panel so i think uh ryan's up this saturday if i'm not mistaken but
01:24:20.600 keep an eye open you know he'll be around thanks guys see you out peace