Advice for Young Women Who Want to Live a Feminine Life
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Summary
In this episode, I interview Stel Bell, a 15-year-old YouTuber and alt-right advocate. She talks about how she got into the Alt-Right, how she came to the movement, and how she thinks about women in the alt-Right.
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Stel Bell, welcome to your first interview ever. Thanks for being here.
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So tell us a little bit about yourself and how you came to the alt-right.
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Well, about me, the first thing I want to say is that I'm 15. A lot of people kind of get shocked by that.
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I don't know if it's just because I look older or what, but I have pretty diverse interests.
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I do a little bit of everything, but how I got into the alt-right or whatever, it kind of happened with the 2016 election, and I think it happened that way for a lot of people.
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It was sort of like the whole big Trump hysteria and everything, and so you kind of just start to wonder, like, what about the border and what about this and that?
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And I started watching YouTubers like Stephen Molyneux and other people, and I kind of gradually got red-pilled on a lot of things.
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And it wasn't until maybe like a month or two months ago that I really like got red-pilled on alt-right issues.
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And then it kind of just continued to build from there.
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That's what happens. You find one video and you find the next.
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So I'm curious, how did you stumble upon Stephen Molyneux and then a lot of the alt-right content?
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Did it just come up related on YouTube, or how did you find it?
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I don't even really remember. I talked about this in one of my videos about how I got red-pilled.
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A lot of people say that. A lot of people say that.
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I don't know. Maybe it's just we don't really pay attention or something.
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But I think it started with me watching videos about analyzing body language of like Trump and Hillary and stuff,
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because I always just thought that was interesting.
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And then I just came upon more videos and more videos and things like that.
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And then you said, hey, I'm going to do some videos.
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I'm going to talk about the alt-rights and nationalism and all those things, right?
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Well, I started my YouTube channel probably around August, but I've since deleted.
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I did a lot of my videos from then because they were pretty bad and made and everything.
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I didn't know how to change thumbnails. I didn't know how to do much.
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So I deleted those, but I was just talking about random things.
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And I kind of started my YouTube channel because I didn't have anybody to talk to.
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If I can make people mad by making videos, then I'm just going to do it.
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Do you have other girlfriends who you can talk to about these things?
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Yeah, I've tried to red pill a lot of my friends, but it hasn't worked a single time.
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They're kind of just too stuck in their liberalism.
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But I think it'll come to them on their own if it does.
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I literally know no red pill people, really, except my grandma.
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Yeah, I thought it was kind of cool, too, because your early videos were on, you know,
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I was thinking that, you know, you could continue to do those videos and kind of slip in a few
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You know, some of these makeup channels and just they have millions of views and then
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you can slip in a couple good little statements here and there and plant seeds.
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So I figured that if I want to red pill like normies or whatever or women, since I think
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there's like not very many women in the alt-right for whatever reasons we can say.
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But I figured that maybe I could attract women by making videos like that.
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And then that's how they'll come on to my channel.
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And maybe they'll subscribe and then see these things and rethink whatever.
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Yeah, I think generally girls, especially young girls, they don't really care about politics.
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They just kind of do what all their friends do without even really thinking about it or
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I mean, chances are when you get together with your girlfriends, they're not sitting
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No, it's no, they don't even they're not into politics at all yet.
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They want to try to pretend like they know something or like they have opinions.
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That's like a lot of people when everything's happening with the election, they're like,
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They're like, well, all my friends don't like him, too.
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So I guess I have to kind of go along with that.
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Do you think girls are more susceptible to trends than guys?
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Or I mean, what is the state of high school these days?
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Well, it's girls are more likely to sort of follow what everyone else is doing.
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I saw a lot more girls trying to be like, oh, Trump sucks.
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And they didn't seem as concerned with trying to fit in or like virtue signal.
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Well, they say that, you know, guys are the tribe builders and then women just kind of
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So tell us about the current state of high school.
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Are you like, I thought that this was just stuff that existed on the Internet.
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I thought it was just a bunch of crazy feminists in California or something.
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And I don't remember if I ever used to call myself a feminist.
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I did used to have a Tumblr where I re-vlogged social justice stuff.
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And I haven't really connected with anyone that's conservative.
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And if I even heard of them, they're seniors or something.
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So maybe it's as you get older, you kind of fall out of just wanting social approval and
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But it's, there are, they're not, it's mainly white in my school.
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But the minorities that are there, they are very, very anti-white.
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They segregate themselves off in little like groups.
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And there's even this one girl who's Spanish or something.
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And she was like, you're the only white person I like.
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A lot of these young girls, I mean, they don't even know what feminism is.
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If you were to ask them, well, what do you mean you're a feminist?
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Like, do you ever kind of press some of these girls on it just for fun?
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I think I've talked with a few of them, but not very many because they just get really
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I find that a lot of the music that a lot of these white kids listen to is kind of this
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like indie rock that's basically like suicide music and social justice and like these wimpy,
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It's either hip hop or that kind of like nihilistic indie music that white kids listen
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You have like the traditional, like the stupid emo kids in the corner, to be quite honest.
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You have the emo kids in the corner that are like, oh, life sucks and life is meaningless
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and there's no point to anything because the world is so cool and everything.
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It's like, well, what are you going to do about it?
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If you think the world's so bad, you can't just sit over in your corner and whine about
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You know, when I was in school, you had the cheerleader chicks, the preppies, right?
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You had the rockers and the stoners and maybe, you know, some of the grunge kids and the goths.
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It's really changed nowadays, though, isn't it?
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You still have like small groups, but instead of like having these really segregated cliques,
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everyone's kind of just mixed together and they're all sort of molding into this like
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And it's it's really it's kind of sad because you look at the movies and it's like, well,
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at least they weren't out there doing so many degenerate things.
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The other thing I noticed, too, yeah, a lot of these high school girls, they really sleep
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Like when I was in high school, if we found out that some girl was, you know, sleeping
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around or got around with all these guys, I mean, she she would be shunned and people
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would call her a whore like it wouldn't be good for her reputation.
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But it seems very different now when it comes to sex in high school.
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I mean, some of these young kids have already basically had orgies and everything possible
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Yeah, it's it's sort of like the exact opposite.
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Now, if there's a girl out and she's going around and screwing a bunch of guys, it's like,
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And it's like cool if you slept with a certain amount of guys.
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And if you haven't, if you're a virgin and if you've never even kissed a guy, it's like,
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Your body is your temple and you should treat it that way.
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So, you know, you've done a lot of videos on traditionalism, being feminine.
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So what's some advice that you can give to a lot of the young girls that they should start
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start doing when they're young if they want to pursue more of a feminine, traditional
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Yeah, first I'd start with like the easy stuff, like don't say curse words and people get after
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But personally, I don't think that's a curse word.
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Don't say the F word, especially and the S word, the blah, blah, blah word, just anything.
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And people are like, well, that's just the word.
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But words have meaning and connotations that affect their usage.
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And that's seen as abrasive and kind of vulgar and in your face.
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And that's the opposite of what a feminine woman really is.
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So choosing not to curse a lot or even at all is a good thing.
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And if you're not a virgin and not going farther with it and not continuing to sleep around.
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But if you are a virgin, to realize that that's something that's really important that a lot
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And by that, I mean, don't wear short shorts that are up your butt.
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Learn how to carry yourself like a real woman and with grace and poise.
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And learn how to speak well and not just mumbling a bunch of stupid stuff.
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Don't get wasted and show everyone your boobs, okay?
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But sometimes, you know, when I see footage of those invaders in Europe, it just comes
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Yeah, but definitely don't share your body with everyone.
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You have to really wait and know who this person is.
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A lot of people, they just jump into bed right away.
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And then there's oftentimes women have regrets, right?
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I mean, you have to be patient and get to know somebody.
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That's why they used to do that in the old days, right?
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Why does he keep cheating on me with other girls?
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Well, if you were a woman that was worth his time, aka a woman who was feminine, who learned
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how to keep her mystique about herself, who learned how to not show everything right away,
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how to go slow, then maybe he would respect you and maybe he'd stick around.
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Yeah, and I would say the same applies, too, for guys that sleep around a lot.
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I mean, you hear some guys bragging about that.
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It's like, what woman's going to want a guy who's, you know, been with hundreds of girls?
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Yeah, it's disgusting because who knows what he's carrying with him.
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But also, how are you to trust him not to go cheat on you?
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How are you supposed to trust a man who's like that?
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Because obviously, he has some hedonistic tendencies that he doesn't have under control.
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And then on the flip side, you made a video about taking traditionalism a little too far.
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But actually, I think first we should maybe define traditionalism.
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So what does the term being traditional mean to you?
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To me, it's just like sticking sort of to the traditional gender role.
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It's not like it's not acting like exactly how they did in the 1800s.
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It's not always wearing dresses down to your ankles and everything.
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It's sticking to the traditional gender roles, mostly.
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It's kind of just anti-modern degeneracy, stuff like that.
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Don't look like a drag queen when you put it on, is what we're saying.
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Minerals, humans have been putting in, especially Europeans, have been using minerals on their face.
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Yeah, and also people say stuff like, oh, you can't wear shorts.
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If I want to wear some shorts, as long as I'm not showing anything, I think that that's okay.
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Yeah, it's okay to want to be sexy or dress sensual, of course.
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There's a difference between being sensual and dressing like a hooker.
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People think traditionalism just happens to mean, and no offense to Mormons, but, yeah, exactly.
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We're dressing like a Mormon, acting like a prude.
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You have to have, like, ten kids and go to church three times a week.
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Like, that's what they think traditionalism is.
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To me, it's more of a, I consider it more of a primordial, primordial traditionalism,
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where we're just accepting our biological realities.
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Embracing your natural state and really flowing with your man.
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It's not about behaving masculine or forceful or being a bossy nag or controlling.
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You know, none of those things are feminine either.
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And being feminine isn't just, or traditional, doesn't just mean you're baking cakes all day
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Some people really want to, like, see, it seems like they want a slave instead of a
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Yeah, like a Stepford wife or something, you know, Stepford wife.
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Yeah, you're not baking casseroles and pies all day.
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And actually, you would get fat if you ate that kind of stuff.
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I guess we're kind of like a caveman and cavewoman.
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And it's kind of funny because generally you see, too, the guys are grilling the meat.
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The women are doing the sides and the salads and stuff.
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And I feel like that's kind of an old tradition, right?
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Like from caveman days, women were picking the berries and making the baskets.
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So that's kind of an aspect I still have definitely in my household.
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And I know that there's some people, I know couples where the man is the chef.
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And he actually is better at cooking, you know, than the woman.
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And it's really, it depends on the couple and what works for them.
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It doesn't mean also that you can't like order in here and there.
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Or some people might be wealthy enough to have a maid.
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You know, there is no Bible here of like you have to live this specific way.
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And I think the woman's domain really is the house.
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Let her decorate it how she wants, take care of it how she wants.
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They're like, as long as it's decent, that's fine.
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But I think women have sort of like, they enjoy that kind of thing.
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It's something that we actually get enjoyment out of if we're really in touch with our feminine nature.
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Like with my mom and my stepdad, he cooks a lot.
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And I have a lot of siblings, so she's always taking care of my littlest sister, Nikki, and things like that.
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Yeah, and the other thing is, too, people think that, oh, you know, on the left, they think, oh, a traditional woman is just a simple doormat who's just being controlled by her husband all the time.
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And she can't read or educate herself or be aware of what's happening in the world.
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And I find alt-right women are completely the opposite.
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They may be taking care of kids, but they're also well-read.
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And to be a good mother, to teach your kids, you have to be aware about those things and be able to teach and equip your children about those things.
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You can't just be a reef blowing in the wind with absolutely no mind or no input to be able to teach your children, you know?
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They just have this idea that, oh, everyone on the right, all the women on the right are oppressed.
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If they have a husband, they're being held down.
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They've got this idea that we don't want to be wives.
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She must not want to be there just because that's how it is for them.
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They can't possibly, they just can't see that there may be a woman out there who actually does enjoy being a wife, and they're just so appalled by it.
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Yeah, I was looking at some movie from the 70s yesterday, and I was just like, oh, my God, the feminism in there.
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The woman was like, I know, I know this doesn't sound very modern, but I'm craving motherhood.
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Like, craving motherhood is like a dirty word, a bad thing to feminists.
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Maybe if they're duped by it, it's better that they don't have kids anyway.
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And then on the flip side, there's a lot of women who would love to be able to be home, but they're actually forced to go to work because the husband might not make enough.
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They need to make an extra income, so it's not that they want to go to work, but they have to.
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But we're finding some women are being creative.
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There's some YouTube channels that women do, and they're actually getting lots of views.
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I was looking at a video earlier, it was a woman just taking care of her kids, showing what her life is for one day, and had 300 million views.
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So she's like making a living just showing her household.
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The sugared up sweet cereals and the plastic bowls, to me, that's not very traditional at all.
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It doesn't mean that you can't have a YouTube channel either.
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It's not, that's not, some people say, oh, women don't belong in politics, which, yeah, I agree.
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But having a YouTube channel is not being in politics.
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They're actually bringing in income and helping out their family because, unfortunately, in this day and age, not every man can make enough money to provide for, you know, six children, right?
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I do agree that women don't belong in politics necessarily.
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I mean, all you have to do is look at before and after.
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And because women are a little bit too empathetic sometimes.
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But, yeah, I think that having a YouTube channel is important, especially if you're promoting traditionalism because other women, it's helpful for them to see that women can do this kind of thing.
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And there are women out there that are promoting it.
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And it's like, oh, well, if she's doing it, I can do it.
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But it's not as scary now because it's not just a bunch of men telling me to, it's some women doing it.
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I've had a few women tell me that I've inspired them to be more traditional and stuff, which is kind of funny, but I like it.
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I think just like guys need their guy time and their guy clubs, women need that too.
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So I think it's great that there's women YouTubers like that.
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They're creating networks of like-minded women where they can talk about girly things.
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And they need that, especially like you said, you don't have a lot of friends like that.
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And I started finding a lot of friends like that after doing the show and going in this direction.
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It's a good way to bring them together exactly and to show this is what it's like or this is what it sounds like.
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To be an example, you know, to be a role model.
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You're only 15 and you're talking about these things.
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Sometimes I get worried though because I'm like, well, I'm 15 and I'm talking to women that may be like mid-20s.
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Am I going to come across like I'm like condescending like, oh, I'm 15.
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I already know what I'm doing and you're 25 and you haven't a clue.
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I'm really hoping that I come across like that.
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You're going to change a whole lot, you know, not only in your teens but in your 20s from your 30s.
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But what's important now about the things that you're saying is these are a lot of basic fundamentals that are really important to have a good relationship, a good life, good future.
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You're thinking about these things now, which is awesome.
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I wish somebody told me some of these things at 15 years old.
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I don't even – it was mainly just the internet and I always get told by my stepdad as a joke, Stella, you're on the internet too much.
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But, yeah, my mom, she's pretty traditional in a lot of senses.
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But she's really – she's given me a lot of room.
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As long as I'm not hurting myself, she's given me a lot of room to just become whoever I'm going to become.
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And she wasn't like, Stella, I don't like that you're doing this.
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And I think that's a really good parenting strategy.
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As long as your kids aren't doing anything that's harming them or harming other people, just let them sort of explore things.
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Because if you get too strict, then they just rebel and it's a mess.
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We're seeing that with a lot of parents that were liberal or very liberal, too liberal, that didn't instruct their kids at all or tell them what's important or, you know, what's going to make a woman truly happy.
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Having a career and having all this money but having no one to share it with is – you're going to be depressed.
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No one actually comes out and tells that to these women.
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But I'm finding that there's a lot of kids, you know, your age and teenagers who are rebelling against their liberal parents.
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And now they're saying, no, I want to get married young.
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I care about folk and family and all those things.
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Are you seeing any more of that happening amongst young girls, kind of rebelling against their liberal parents?
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So, it's really sad because everyone's saying, Gen Z is so red-pilled.
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And I just can't understand where they're getting this from because everywhere I look – and maybe I'm a bit pessimistic – but everywhere I look, everyone is degenerate.
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Everyone's like, oh, I never want to have kids.
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And if I try to talk to any of my friends about it, they're like, oh, come on, you're being a fun hater.
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I'm like, you can be strong and independent and still want to have a family.
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You can – your life isn't over when you get married and have kids.
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It's a whole other chapter of your life and all this other kind of fun and fulfillment and completion involved.
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I mean, you're going to get tired of the party circuit and clubbing and hooking up with different guys all the time.
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And then you're going to be, you know, 40 and no guy's going to want you and it's going to be too late.
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So, I mean, we just have to talk about the harsh reality here, you know, and someone's got to say it.
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You should, you know, tell your girlfriend some of these things and be harsh about it.
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That's what we all should be doing and especially parents.
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It's all about how you raise your kids and how you direct them and lead them and plant these seeds.
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There's a lot of things that I, you know, kind of ignored that my dad said when I was younger.
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And my grandma actually has really, she's sort of like my only friend when it comes to traditionalism.
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It's funny how you relate more to your grandma, different generation.
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More oftentimes people do relate to their grandparents.
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So, well, the sad thing is once the grandparents are gone, that's kind of that generation that was still holding on to that traditionalism is gone because a lot of boomers, not all boomers.
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But they were, you know, in the hippie movement, you know, their free love and drugs and all that stuff.
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You know, there really was a number done on them, I think, too, thinking in terms of programming and mind control, if you will.
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Well, what aspect of the alt, right, I wanted to ask you, really jumped out at you, really spoke to you?
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What is it that you heard and you're like, oh, okay, that's right.
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And so I think I was like, oh, this is offensive.
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And it was kind of like, white people are so demonized.
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And I get really sick and tired of it because even when I was really liberal, I loved being super pale.
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And people always be like, you need to get a tan.
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And, yeah, there's a lot of people that even they're just like, white people are all bad.
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Just like that one girl who was like, you're the only white person I like.
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They just have this idea in their head that they're so oppressed.
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You guys get to have black pride or whatever pride, gay pride, blah, blah, blah.
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But it's like as soon as we do it, and people always bring this up, it's the biggest double standard ever.
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And it's like, oh, well, you're the oppressors.
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And one of the other things, too, is, and I would think a lot of young white girls would hate this, but you're not diverse enough.
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You're alabaster skin or you're blonde hair or blue eyes.
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I would think young girls would be offended by that.
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Yeah, but instead they just start throwing their race under the bus.
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They're like, oh, I'm such a white girl, like, in a negative way.
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Yeah, and they're getting it from somewhere, aren't they?
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They're getting it from programming in every aspect.
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You have music videos that they're listening to.
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So are there teachers that you've encountered in your school who are just blatantly say anti-white things?
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I think I've had all of my teachers have been white, but that doesn't stop them from saying anti-white things.
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I don't really know because I didn't have a history class this year or last year.
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I didn't have a history class, and that's normally where you would hear that kind of thing.
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And last year, the year before that, I wasn't red-pilled, so I wouldn't even have remembered.
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It's so good that the internet is there, and you can go onto YouTube and find all these related videos.
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And I think that's why they're clamping down because there's so many young kids like you that we hear from that are like,
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I just kind of found one video and then another video, and now here I am.
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And that's what freaks the hell out of a lot of people that want to stop us, basically.
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Well, as a young and super cute girl, you said that you don't have friends who think like you,
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but how do you win them over from your point of view?
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What can the alt-right do to win over some of these younger crowds?
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We have to make sure we don't seem like crazy people, even if we are crazy people.
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I'm kidding, but we can't seem like, with all this white Sharia stuff, that might be a little controversial to say
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because as soon as you say something like, oh, white Sharia is dumb, then everybody gets upset.
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But even if it's a joke, it's not a good joke because then we give the left fuel to hate on us.
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And so if we just say something like, being white is great.
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Why would you hate on people that love being white?
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Then they can say that we said that, but that's not a bad thing.
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But if we say, if we openly go out and be like, oh, I hate all gay people, we should kill them all.
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Then if they say that we said that, then that's painting us badly, but it's true.
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So if they try to misconstrue something positive, like, oh, I love being white, then they look stupid.
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But if we go out and say something stupid, then...
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So I think we need to make sure that we don't come across too crazy
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and that we don't go too far with our internet trolling and paint ourselves badly
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to where people are turned off from the movement.
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I think that something I'm trying to do is stick to a more positive message.
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Instead of coming from the negative, I try to come from the positive.
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Like, here's why I love being white instead of anything else crazy.
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And I think you said something that I hear a lot of girls say.
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They don't want to hear from guys who are just down and bitter.
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So I think that that's really good advice for a lot of the male alternate guys out there
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That's going to be a huge way that we win people over through, especially women.
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And guys throughout history, they know how to pull the heartstrings of women.
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Look at the architecture, the music, the clothes, the art, all the beautiful things that men
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I think there's been a lot of guys that are quite bitter about feminism as well and maybe
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have been burned a few times, but that's not all women.
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And the majority of women, when you really talk to them, they aren't really feminists.
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What woman doesn't want to be taken care of and cherished and have a beautiful home?
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I mean, I know that I would like to have a family, obviously, in the future and things
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like that, but if I were to do some type of work, I really just don't even know what it
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I've always sort of had a dream of becoming an author or something, and I even once started
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a book, but my mind's a little bit too messy for that.
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I've got like 45 different things going on in my head at once and so many distractions
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around me that I don't really know if I can do that.
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So I have no clue, honestly, but I don't think it's that big of a deal because I'm only
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When I was 15, I had all these ideas of where I was going to be and how life was going to
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go, and it generally goes completely different than you think it's going to go.
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You can have these fantasies and these dreams, but it doesn't always, maybe kind of, sort
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of, you know what your interests and your passions are, so you can be in the general
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vicinity, but usually how that's going to happen or how you're going to meet your husband
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or what you guys are going to do to make money or what your family is going to look
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like is going to be completely different than you think.
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You've got a lot of growing and evolving and you're still young, so don't sweat it.
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I also think once you meet the right man, everything changes because that's what happened
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Well, Stelbell, thank you so much for coming on today.
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So it's kind of fun getting insight into the mind of a 15-year-old girl in the current
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So tell everyone how they can see your YouTube videos too.
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Well, all you got to do really is just look up Stelbell and then my channel comes up.
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It's going to tell you, are you sure you didn't mean Stelbell?
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Well, thanks so much and keep up the good work.
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Maybe we'll have you on again in the future and get an update.