REAL AF with Andy Frisella - March 01, 2020

10. Should You Eat Bambi or Bamboo, How to Avoid Loneliness, and Why the Happy and Successful Play Catch and Release

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Length

2 hours and 13 minutes

Words per Minute

197.11633

Word Count

26,390

Sentence Count

33

Misogynist Sentences

77

Hate Speech Sentences

83

Summary

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In this episode of the Motherfucking Reelist, DJ God and DJ God's co-host, Vaughn the Impaler, discuss Valentine's Day, how they celebrate the day, and why they don't wear tuxedos. They also have a very special guest on the show, Dr. Kacie Lion, who is a functional medicine doctor and board certified in family medicine. She specializes in muscle metabolism and body composition optimization which means she helps people get swole!

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00:00:00.000 I told my teacher, dumb bitch, I'm gonna get millions

00:00:03.140 Watch this

00:00:03.600 In a project living

00:00:04.700 Spoke it till existence

00:00:06.280 Moe changed to 50

00:00:07.860 Got more cars than didn't

00:00:09.460 I only weigh 180, but my watch costs 250

00:00:12.640 What's up guys, it's Andy Priscilla

00:00:14.460 And this is the show for the realists

00:00:17.080 Say goodbye to the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society

00:00:20.680 And welcome to motherfucking reality

00:00:23.080 As always, I am joined by my handsomest of co-hosts

00:00:29.840 DJ, DJ God

00:00:31.920 Otherwise known as Vaughn the Impaler

00:00:34.400 Dude, you have got a Valentine's glow in your face

00:00:37.940 Amen

00:00:38.380 It is the 15th of February

00:00:41.960 Valentine's Day was yesterday

00:00:44.220 And you're still walking around with hearts in your eyes and shit

00:00:46.200 I know, man

00:00:46.900 Hey, I got a fourth daughter coming in, what?

00:00:49.880 A couple

00:00:50.160 Six weeks, five weeks

00:00:52.160 Four girls

00:00:53.580 That didn't keep me from making my wife pregnant another time

00:00:57.860 A second time

00:00:59.020 I made her re-pregnant

00:01:00.540 You re-pregnant her after she was pregnant?

00:01:02.640 What the fuck?

00:01:03.300 Where are we going with this?

00:01:04.260 I don't know

00:01:04.740 Alright

00:01:05.060 I don't know

00:01:05.760 It didn't go the direction I wanted it to

00:01:07.360 Did you guys celebrate Valentine's?

00:01:08.940 Or what do you do?

00:01:09.620 Well, we're going to kind of do that today

00:01:11.260 Are you?

00:01:11.780 Yeah, just because of, you know

00:01:13.040 I think in the last

00:01:14.420 Well, certainly in the last three years

00:01:16.320 But probably in the last seven years

00:01:17.740 I can't tell you the last time we went to a black tie affair

00:01:20.260 So, the fact that we're going to the first form thing tonight

00:01:22.620 With all of you guys

00:01:23.360 She's really excited about that

00:01:24.600 Tonight's our first form awards banquet and ceremony that we do once a year

00:01:29.400 It's five, six hundred people

00:01:30.900 Everybody comes up and we reward our key people and performers

00:01:35.280 And it's a good time

00:01:36.200 It's all

00:01:36.480 You know what's cool?

00:01:37.520 You're going to notice this too

00:01:38.440 It's cool to see all the guys

00:01:39.920 Because a lot of these guys, dude

00:01:42.720 It's the first time they ever put on tux

00:01:44.200 Yeah

00:01:44.560 You know what I mean?

00:01:45.260 It's really, really cool

00:01:46.320 Yeah, well I had to go pretty standard classic tux

00:01:48.920 Living in a small town

00:01:50.060 Hey, bro

00:01:50.480 Potter blue

00:01:51.660 Ruffles

00:01:52.580 Yeah, okay

00:01:53.180 A little dumber, dumber action

00:01:54.940 Yeah, exactly

00:01:55.580 By the way, I warned my wife

00:01:56.660 That there'd be like tons of hot women there tonight

00:01:59.280 Who all wanted pictures with me

00:02:00.480 Well, and they probably all need books written too

00:02:02.300 Well, that's true

00:02:03.220 Yeah, yeah

00:02:04.160 It's good

00:02:04.640 Yeah, that's an inside joke

00:02:06.340 But lots of books

00:02:07.520 Yeah

00:02:08.060 So, we have a very special guest today

00:02:11.240 Why don't you introduce her?

00:02:13.520 Yeah, we are excited to have Dr. Cabrio Lion with us

00:02:16.900 And you know what?

00:02:18.520 I know you don't want me to brag on you

00:02:19.680 But I'm going to brag on you anyway

00:02:20.740 So, basically, Dr. Lion

00:02:23.960 You are a functional medicine doctor

00:02:26.020 You're board certified in family medicine, right?

00:02:29.040 And you went to Arizona College of Osteopathy

00:02:32.080 Which I'm a big believer in osteopathy

00:02:34.520 Because my wife is an osteopath

00:02:35.980 And you also went to Washington University in St. Louis

00:02:37.780 Which, if you guys don't know

00:02:39.380 That is like a cream of the crop type of school

00:02:43.040 In fact, I think, if I'm not mistaken

00:02:45.740 It's ranked number one medical school in the nation

00:02:48.000 That's definitely up there

00:02:49.240 It was at one point

00:02:50.080 You got like a nutritional science

00:02:51.560 Did your fellowship in nutritional science?

00:02:53.340 I did

00:02:53.700 And obesity medicine and geriatrics

00:02:55.580 That's awesome

00:02:56.260 Well, and then

00:02:58.140 If I'm getting this wrong

00:03:00.400 Forgive me

00:03:01.100 But you specialize in muscle metabolism

00:03:03.680 And body composition optimization

00:03:06.520 Which means you help people get swole

00:03:08.780 Yeah

00:03:09.440 Right?

00:03:09.880 Yes

00:03:10.760 I do

00:03:11.340 But in general

00:03:12.040 You are just a very, very, very intelligent woman

00:03:14.940 That's why we had you on here

00:03:16.020 That's what I wanted to hit on here

00:03:18.600 Okay?

00:03:19.200 What you guys don't understand

00:03:20.380 Is that she's one of the smartest people

00:03:23.300 That I personally know

00:03:24.760 And we want to bring smart people on the show

00:03:27.160 So, she's here

00:03:29.240 And one of the cool things that she does

00:03:31.140 Is help with the health

00:03:34.160 And the overall fitness

00:03:35.540 And conditioning

00:03:36.320 Of all branches of special forces

00:03:39.560 So, for the United States

00:03:40.940 So, that's something that's really cool

00:03:43.080 You guys should know too

00:03:43.960 But I'm happy to have her on

00:03:45.280 Really for the sake of conversation

00:03:47.200 Yeah

00:03:47.800 So, thanks for making the trip down here

00:03:49.700 Yeah, happy to be here

00:03:50.760 This is the second time

00:03:52.240 We flew with the baby

00:03:53.700 Yeah

00:03:54.540 How'd that go?

00:03:55.380 Good

00:03:55.700 Yeah?

00:03:56.420 Yeah, so we have a trick

00:03:57.560 We dress her really cute

00:03:59.020 You give her vodka?

00:04:00.760 We put her in a little sailor outfit

00:04:02.400 With a little hat

00:04:03.180 And she looks really cute

00:04:04.100 So, then when she's screaming and crying

00:04:05.560 Everyone's like

00:04:06.320 Oh, man, the baby is so cute

00:04:07.600 Do you know that not everyone's like

00:04:09.500 Oh, yeah, the baby

00:04:10.300 They're still like

00:04:10.960 Shut the fuck up, baby

00:04:11.660 Totally

00:04:11.960 Yeah

00:04:12.420 Let's be real

00:04:13.360 A hundred percent

00:04:14.300 So, with you being married to a Navy SEAL

00:04:16.660 I love the direction you went

00:04:18.100 With the name of your girl

00:04:19.520 So, you want to share with everybody

00:04:20.800 Yeah

00:04:21.080 So, her name is Aries Hunter

00:04:23.600 Aries Hunter

00:04:24.560 And who is Aries?

00:04:26.840 Aries is the god of war, actually

00:04:28.140 The god of war

00:04:28.960 We were trying to keep that a little under wraps

00:04:30.660 But, you know

00:04:31.540 Yeah

00:04:32.280 It's alright

00:04:32.720 Well, I'm super impressed by that

00:04:35.220 But, listen

00:04:35.860 So, speaking of husbands

00:04:38.520 And marriage and babies and all that

00:04:41.520 Obviously, last week was Valentine's Day

00:04:44.720 And so, while we're not going to stay, you know

00:04:47.860 Slavishly to the subject of love and relationships

00:04:51.520 I just thought I'd give everybody a little preview

00:04:53.320 Of what to expect in our conversation

00:04:55.420 I read a recent survey

00:04:57.720 That basically shared some pretty startling results

00:05:00.460 About what women think

00:05:01.720 In America

00:05:03.260 And it's super relevant to everybody

00:05:06.000 Who doesn't want to die alone

00:05:07.200 And be unhappy

00:05:07.900 So, we're going to talk about that today

00:05:10.380 A little bit

00:05:10.940 Given your expertise, too, Dr. Gabrielle

00:05:14.640 There is a war going on in America

00:05:17.320 It is an intense war

00:05:18.980 It is a war for the heart and soul of America

00:05:21.380 Well, actually, technically

00:05:22.680 I think it would be the mouth and the stomach of America

00:05:25.760 We're going to talk about that, too

00:05:26.840 And why it's relevant to everybody

00:05:27.940 Who actually continues to live by eating

00:05:30.820 Which is pretty much everybody

00:05:32.040 Everybody

00:05:32.160 Other than those who are fed intravenously

00:05:34.240 Which I think is probably a very small percentage

00:05:36.160 Of our country

00:05:37.420 So, we're going to talk about that

00:05:38.340 Are we going to talk about why the fuck everybody's so fat

00:05:40.240 We could talk about that

00:05:42.160 I'm happy to talk about that

00:05:42.880 Yeah, we could talk about that

00:05:44.180 And then the last thing

00:05:44.880 Can we also talk about why everybody now thinks that it's okay

00:05:51.600 Just to throw science out the window of every single diet

00:05:54.100 In the face of the earth

00:05:54.900 And just make up shit

00:05:56.220 I think we'll probably

00:05:57.120 Let's talk about that

00:05:57.440 There's a lot of pseudo-experts out there

00:05:59.500 Yeah

00:05:59.680 It's pretty outrageous

00:06:00.880 Yeah

00:06:01.300 So, after we talk about all that

00:06:02.740 The last thing I want to talk about is an epidemic

00:06:04.800 That's actually sweeping the country

00:06:06.360 And it's not the coronavirus

00:06:08.140 But this epidemic is in many ways just as dangerous

00:06:11.840 And affects people

00:06:12.900 It really strikes at the heart of what it means to be a human being

00:06:15.660 So, that is what we're going to cover

00:06:17.480 In a way that nobody else on the planet can cover

00:06:20.660 But before we start

00:06:21.780 I actually have one of two questions that I want you all to answer

00:06:27.300 The first question is

00:06:28.560 What is the most embarrassing date you've ever been on

00:06:32.600 Or horrible date you've ever been on

00:06:34.660 Or just anything involving a romantic situation that was super embarrassing

00:06:39.220 Or the other question

00:06:40.420 If you would like to opt for the other question

00:06:42.580 The other question is

00:06:43.440 Give us what you think is the greatest pimp move

00:06:47.460 You know, like just the greatest pimp move

00:06:49.800 Like how to make yourself attractive

00:06:51.300 You know, so you start, Dr. Gabriel

00:06:53.620 Okay, alright, in the hot seat

00:06:54.620 So, the worst date

00:06:55.940 And I think that this is universal

00:06:57.420 Those are the guys

00:06:58.900 That all they do is talk about themselves

00:07:00.160 Truly

00:07:01.080 As if they are the most interesting man in America

00:07:04.880 Right

00:07:05.220 Just brutal

00:07:06.020 So, just

00:07:06.620 Is that frequent?

00:07:08.440 Well, I mean, obviously I haven't been dating for a while

00:07:10.560 But, yeah

00:07:11.440 I don't think that's necessarily

00:07:13.100 Guys

00:07:16.200 I think that's people right now

00:07:17.900 Yeah

00:07:18.160 You know

00:07:18.760 What I've noticed from the social media

00:07:21.500 You know

00:07:22.160 I'm old enough to know what it was like

00:07:24.720 Before the social media craze hit

00:07:26.740 And a lot of the younger people

00:07:28.280 You know

00:07:28.660 They don't really remember

00:07:29.700 Because they weren't around

00:07:30.960 And

00:07:31.420 I think it's

00:07:34.360 Greatly accelerated the level of narcissism

00:07:37.600 In our society

00:07:39.620 Yeah

00:07:39.900 You know

00:07:40.080 It seems that

00:07:40.700 It's really hard to have a conversation

00:07:42.620 Where someone just doesn't want to like

00:07:45.340 Barf out all the good shit about themselves

00:07:48.240 Yeah

00:07:48.540 All the time

00:07:49.000 It's kind of weird

00:07:50.220 It is weird

00:07:50.900 You know, it's really interesting

00:07:51.820 And then they believe their own hype

00:07:53.460 Yeah

00:07:54.120 And that's what's even weirder

00:07:55.240 Yeah

00:07:55.940 You know

00:07:56.400 Yeah

00:07:56.660 Yeah

00:07:57.040 Do you think

00:07:57.760 You mean like these motherfuckers on Instagram

00:07:59.240 That have like 1.7 million followers

00:08:01.500 And they get 4,000 comments on their fucking posts

00:08:04.420 And no one knows who the fuck they are

00:08:07.580 Right

00:08:07.900 Like, and then all of a sudden

00:08:08.860 They walk around with their chest puffed out

00:08:10.580 Like there's some kind of

00:08:11.340 Like, dude

00:08:12.000 Just because you went and bought a bunch of fake shit

00:08:14.180 Right

00:08:14.700 And it makes it look like online

00:08:16.080 Everybody knows who you are

00:08:17.540 Doesn't mean that everybody knows who the fuck you are

00:08:19.340 Yeah

00:08:19.640 Or that you've done any of the work

00:08:21.100 That's right

00:08:21.480 That is required to get there

00:08:22.580 You ever wonder like

00:08:23.460 How is it possible

00:08:24.520 That you could actually pay for all those followers

00:08:26.600 And that

00:08:27.220 And that

00:08:27.780 You know deep down

00:08:28.940 That

00:08:29.460 98% of your followers are bots

00:08:31.760 But you still feel good about that

00:08:33.820 Bro

00:08:34.080 I don't think they feel good

00:08:35.320 You don't think they do

00:08:35.540 I don't think they do either

00:08:36.380 I bet you they live in fucking fear

00:08:37.920 And they're waiting for the shoe to drop

00:08:39.300 Where they're gonna get fucking caught

00:08:40.560 Yeah

00:08:40.880 I'm sure that's a terrible way to live

00:08:42.580 Because

00:08:43.020 Dude

00:08:43.980 I mean I can't imagine what that would feel like

00:08:48.040 To like literally be pretending to be

00:08:50.080 Something that you're completely not

00:08:51.900 And then charging money

00:08:53.160 To talk about those things

00:08:55.900 It's just weird man

00:08:57.600 And it's weird to me

00:08:58.480 That the government has to come in

00:08:59.860 And like

00:09:00.220 Just put some of these motherfuckers in jail

00:09:02.820 To make a point

00:09:03.500 Yeah

00:09:03.920 Like scant

00:09:04.820 Yeah

00:09:05.140 But I mean dude

00:09:06.120 Because it is fraud

00:09:07.080 It is totally fraud

00:09:08.280 But the

00:09:08.740 And we're getting off track with this

00:09:10.560 But I mean

00:09:11.080 I think it's what you said

00:09:13.640 I think people start to believe

00:09:15.180 Their own shit

00:09:15.920 Yeah

00:09:16.300 And then

00:09:16.920 All of a sudden

00:09:18.380 Like that doesn't

00:09:19.740 It's not gonna make it true man

00:09:21.360 Right

00:09:21.680 You know

00:09:22.140 And then you see these same guys

00:09:23.660 And girls

00:09:24.240 Like throwing events

00:09:25.820 And having parties

00:09:26.740 And doing these things

00:09:27.700 Like they're celebrities

00:09:28.580 Like you know

00:09:29.720 Oh

00:09:30.080 Saturday night's

00:09:31.880 My birthday party

00:09:33.060 And they make like a fucking flyer for it

00:09:34.960 It's like dude

00:09:35.360 What the fuck is going on

00:09:36.840 Like when I was growing up

00:09:38.100 You fucking

00:09:38.840 Saturday night

00:09:39.980 It was your birthday

00:09:40.680 And still

00:09:41.740 Like dude

00:09:42.320 I'm gonna call three of my boys

00:09:43.420 I'm gonna say

00:09:43.780 Hey let's go get fucked up

00:09:44.900 Like you know what I'm saying

00:09:46.440 Like oh we're not making a fucking

00:09:47.620 Well actually

00:09:48.780 Madot and I might make a flyer

00:09:50.260 But it'll be for us

00:09:51.440 To send back and forth

00:09:52.440 To each other

00:09:53.440 Right

00:09:53.920 You know

00:09:54.300 And then just convince ourselves

00:09:55.640 That we're cool

00:09:56.340 But we don't fucking

00:09:57.460 You know

00:09:58.080 It's just weird man

00:09:59.060 Like there's weird shit going on

00:10:00.360 Yeah

00:10:00.580 Yeah

00:10:00.920 There is weird

00:10:01.960 What is going on

00:10:02.920 Like people are

00:10:03.620 People are going to great lengths

00:10:05.880 To prove that there's somebody

00:10:07.140 That there's significance

00:10:08.440 Yeah but man

00:10:09.180 You know like

00:10:09.880 How much better would the world be

00:10:11.500 If people were just

00:10:12.380 Be somebody to the people

00:10:14.120 Right next to them

00:10:14.960 Yeah

00:10:15.160 You know what I'm saying

00:10:15.900 I think that's great

00:10:17.000 Yeah like that's

00:10:17.780 That's the most important

00:10:19.180 That's the point

00:10:19.940 Right

00:10:20.280 You want to be someone

00:10:21.820 Start with the people

00:10:23.160 Right here next to you

00:10:24.140 Yeah

00:10:24.360 Let's do something for them

00:10:26.280 You know

00:10:26.920 If you really know

00:10:27.580 All this shit you say you know

00:10:28.820 Why don't you help

00:10:29.420 The motherfuckers you know

00:10:30.360 In real life

00:10:30.980 Yep

00:10:31.400 You know

00:10:31.980 But people don't want

00:10:32.860 To do that work anymore

00:10:33.780 They don't want to grind out

00:10:35.440 For 10 years or 20 years

00:10:36.840 Or 17

00:10:37.500 Yeah dude

00:10:38.600 Yeah

00:10:38.900 I made a story yesterday

00:10:40.380 About you know

00:10:41.700 Chris and myself

00:10:42.660 When we were starting

00:10:43.400 Our business

00:10:43.980 You know

00:10:46.480 The first 10 years

00:10:47.880 Like people think

00:10:48.460 This is bullshit

00:10:49.200 Like we're making it up

00:10:50.520 And the first 10 years

00:10:52.420 In business man

00:10:53.200 We fucking made

00:10:53.840 58 grand each

00:10:54.860 I can fucking prove it

00:10:56.780 Year 1 through 3

00:10:58.960 Zero bucks

00:10:59.760 Okay

00:11:00.360 7

00:11:01.840 Or 3 through 10

00:11:03.540 695 dollars a month

00:11:05.600 That's truly how we did it

00:11:07.260 And then when I say that

00:11:08.500 People are like

00:11:09.020 Well how the fuck

00:11:10.140 Did you survive

00:11:10.840 Well motherfucker

00:11:11.580 I worked other jobs

00:11:13.160 To keep my business open

00:11:14.400 That doesn't make any sense

00:11:16.380 Yep

00:11:16.680 You know

00:11:17.580 But look where we are now

00:11:19.260 You know what I mean

00:11:20.200 People just aren't

00:11:20.900 Willing to do that

00:11:21.720 They have all this technology

00:11:23.040 Yeah

00:11:23.320 All these things

00:11:24.200 At their disposal

00:11:24.960 Where they can literally

00:11:26.200 Connect with different people

00:11:27.600 In a meaningful way

00:11:28.720 Hundreds of times a day

00:11:31.200 But they choose not to do it

00:11:32.820 And instead

00:11:33.440 They want to pretend

00:11:34.540 Like they're a fucking celebrity

00:11:35.960 And everybody owes them

00:11:37.120 The conversation

00:11:37.920 Or the interest

00:11:39.140 Or the you know

00:11:40.220 Whatever it is

00:11:41.120 The attention

00:11:42.000 The likes

00:11:42.760 The shares

00:11:43.300 Whatever

00:11:43.780 You know

00:11:45.040 People don't owe you

00:11:45.900 That shit

00:11:46.420 You know

00:11:47.880 Just because you have

00:11:48.820 A million followers

00:11:49.700 That you fucking bought

00:11:50.660 Doesn't mean people

00:11:51.320 Are going to listen to you

00:11:52.100 You know

00:11:52.820 So we have a situation

00:11:54.080 Right now going on

00:11:55.340 Where

00:11:55.620 I think people

00:11:57.620 Are just fucking lost man

00:11:58.860 I think people

00:11:59.840 Are really lost

00:12:00.680 They've lost the ability

00:12:02.120 To communicate

00:12:02.980 And care about the people

00:12:04.180 Right next to them

00:12:05.040 And instead prefer

00:12:06.780 To put out this image

00:12:08.460 That they think

00:12:09.320 Is going to

00:12:09.680 Improve their existence

00:12:11.540 When in reality

00:12:12.700 All it does

00:12:13.240 Is take away

00:12:13.800 From their existence

00:12:14.540 Because it's taken away

00:12:15.580 From their soul

00:12:16.240 Yeah

00:12:16.880 You know what I mean

00:12:17.480 Like dude

00:12:17.880 If you're making up

00:12:19.060 All this shit

00:12:19.840 And you're trying

00:12:21.020 To be something

00:12:21.700 That you're not

00:12:22.420 That's going to

00:12:23.180 Wear you down man

00:12:24.260 On the inside

00:12:25.100 Because you know

00:12:25.780 You're fucking lying

00:12:26.640 And that's going to

00:12:27.620 Kill your confidence

00:12:28.380 It's going to kill

00:12:29.100 Your self esteem

00:12:30.000 It's going to make you

00:12:31.000 Uber paranoid

00:12:32.240 All these different things

00:12:33.880 And like dude

00:12:34.380 If people would just

00:12:35.120 Start here

00:12:35.800 And here

00:12:36.540 And here

00:12:37.320 And learn how

00:12:39.840 To be good at it

00:12:40.480 You know

00:12:40.820 People would probably

00:12:41.700 Listen

00:12:42.100 And it would start

00:12:42.920 To grow

00:12:43.480 You know what I mean

00:12:44.400 Fuck dude

00:12:45.280 I was writing shit

00:12:46.120 On Facebook

00:12:46.620 In 2009

00:12:48.000 And it was getting

00:12:49.540 Three fucking likes

00:12:50.580 You know what I'm saying

00:12:51.700 Like nobody gave a shit

00:12:53.380 But here we are

00:12:54.880 Ten plus years later

00:12:56.200 And it's different

00:12:57.020 And people just

00:12:57.800 Aren't willing to accept

00:12:59.200 That that's how it works

00:13:01.040 It just does

00:13:02.120 I don't know anybody

00:13:03.300 In life

00:13:03.820 Who's literally

00:13:04.900 Made something

00:13:06.240 Of themselves

00:13:06.900 And it hasn't

00:13:08.860 Taken them a decade

00:13:09.880 A hundred percent

00:13:10.580 And that goes back

00:13:11.320 To this epidemic

00:13:12.140 Of bullshit

00:13:13.180 That we're hearing

00:13:13.880 In society

00:13:14.620 About nutrition

00:13:15.780 And health

00:13:16.500 And wellness

00:13:17.080 Those people

00:13:17.740 Haven't done the work

00:13:18.540 Right

00:13:18.960 They haven't done

00:13:20.700 Ten, twenty, thirty

00:13:22.700 Years of the work

00:13:23.560 Right

00:13:23.920 But their opinion

00:13:25.920 Is relevant

00:13:26.460 That's right

00:13:26.960 Your opinion

00:13:27.380 Is not relevant

00:13:28.100 That's right

00:13:28.760 It's not relevant

00:13:29.360 They want instant gratification

00:13:30.320 They want instant satisfaction

00:13:31.640 What you're saying

00:13:32.240 I think

00:13:32.600 It's irrelevant information

00:13:33.900 And so for example

00:13:35.520 I'll give you an example

00:13:36.300 So you know

00:13:37.300 On my Instagram

00:13:38.040 I feel very passionately

00:13:39.600 About just health

00:13:41.260 And wellness

00:13:41.560 Because I care about people

00:13:42.460 So you know me

00:13:43.160 I fucking care

00:13:44.380 About their life

00:13:45.520 I do

00:13:46.320 Dude that's one of

00:13:47.100 My favorite things

00:13:48.120 About you

00:13:48.680 I told you this

00:13:49.680 The other day

00:13:50.060 Yes

00:13:50.400 And I care deeply

00:13:51.700 I mean I have invested

00:13:52.800 People invest in

00:13:53.760 Peripheral things

00:13:54.480 I've invested in myself

00:13:55.800 Hundreds and thousands

00:13:57.280 Of dollars in debt

00:13:59.840 To invest in my education

00:14:01.400 So I can serve

00:14:02.660 Other people truly

00:14:03.740 And so I post these things

00:14:05.680 That I are

00:14:06.540 That I know

00:14:07.880 Are very well vetted

00:14:09.320 And validated

00:14:10.220 It's science

00:14:11.060 It's the laws of science

00:14:12.540 And you know

00:14:13.440 I've spent time

00:14:14.260 Learning this

00:14:15.300 And studying this

00:14:15.900 From the best

00:14:16.440 And I get tons

00:14:18.340 Of comments

00:14:19.020 From 17 year old girls

00:14:20.380 Or guys

00:14:21.380 About how

00:14:22.260 I'm lying

00:14:23.380 I'm funded by the industry

00:14:24.960 All this bullshit

00:14:25.860 Right

00:14:26.280 Yeah

00:14:26.520 As if their opinion

00:14:27.840 Is relevant

00:14:28.340 Right

00:14:28.600 Right

00:14:28.860 It's not relevant

00:14:29.540 Right

00:14:29.800 Even if

00:14:30.480 Even if they have

00:14:31.400 A couple hundred thousand followers

00:14:32.680 Well that's what they think

00:14:33.700 Makes them relevant

00:14:34.400 But they're not

00:14:35.260 I know

00:14:35.780 But that's

00:14:36.740 But this is the problem

00:14:37.740 That we have in society

00:14:38.740 It's so interesting

00:14:38.820 Everybody's so quick

00:14:40.600 To just want to like

00:14:42.320 Have the answer

00:14:43.200 And be right

00:14:44.180 Versus actually taking

00:14:45.820 The time to listen

00:14:46.740 Yeah

00:14:47.620 Oh and putting in

00:14:48.820 You've been in business

00:14:49.680 For how long have you been

00:14:50.560 21

00:14:50.880 Okay

00:14:51.800 21 years

00:14:52.420 So you're telling me

00:14:53.100 You've put in the time

00:14:53.940 Yeah

00:14:54.500 You've earned it

00:14:55.400 You've earned the right

00:14:56.500 To have a platform

00:14:57.660 And to have an opinion

00:14:58.540 That people listen to

00:14:59.300 I kind of chuckle

00:14:59.940 When I hear you say

00:15:00.640 That their criticism

00:15:01.340 Is that oh you're just

00:15:02.200 Paid by the industry

00:15:02.940 Well I'm pretty sure

00:15:04.100 That there are tons of people

00:15:05.120 In the industry

00:15:05.640 That hate you

00:15:06.220 You know what I'm saying

00:15:07.780 Oh yeah yeah yeah

00:15:08.460 Like you're not

00:15:09.060 You're not out there

00:15:09.800 Promoting the establishment

00:15:11.160 You know

00:15:11.680 That comes from people

00:15:13.660 Wanting to be an expert

00:15:15.520 Before they've done

00:15:16.440 The fucking work

00:15:17.360 Right

00:15:17.640 You know

00:15:18.360 They want to

00:15:19.200 And dude

00:15:19.920 A lot of these things

00:15:20.900 Like you know

00:15:21.540 I understand

00:15:22.380 Like okay

00:15:23.240 Let's just talk about

00:15:24.160 Vegans for just one second

00:15:25.520 Alright

00:15:26.140 I understand

00:15:27.640 Why you want

00:15:29.100 Why you believe in that

00:15:31.000 I truly get it

00:15:32.320 I truly get why you believe

00:15:35.020 And why you live that lifestyle

00:15:37.220 I understand dude

00:15:38.400 I fucking care about animals too

00:15:40.160 And I get it

00:15:40.860 I get it

00:15:41.260 I get it

00:15:41.620 I get it

00:15:42.080 Totally get the emotional investment

00:15:44.340 That people have in it

00:15:45.360 Yeah

00:15:45.960 But when you stand up

00:15:47.100 And you start saying

00:15:48.240 Things that just aren't true

00:15:50.380 It discredits the movement

00:15:52.520 Yeah

00:15:53.000 So like for example

00:15:54.700 Like you know

00:15:55.880 Dude I've been attacked

00:15:56.880 By vegan people

00:15:57.840 By posting pictures of my dog

00:15:59.600 And then they come on my page

00:16:01.100 And say you don't love your dog

00:16:02.000 You eat fucking meat

00:16:02.800 And I'm like

00:16:03.660 Well that's some

00:16:05.380 Really fucking weird logic

00:16:07.100 But you know

00:16:08.300 I do eat meat

00:16:09.360 And I do love my dog

00:16:10.440 And I can do both

00:16:11.200 Alright

00:16:11.720 Now I'm not barbecuing

00:16:12.860 My fucking dog

00:16:14.120 Right

00:16:14.480 Like you know

00:16:15.140 But like

00:16:15.660 They

00:16:16.480 The

00:16:17.500 The

00:16:17.880 There's no logic

00:16:18.880 In any of the arguments

00:16:19.780 And they're the most

00:16:20.680 I have to say

00:16:21.640 They're the most abusive

00:16:22.660 And aggressive group

00:16:23.600 For sure

00:16:24.000 They truly wanted

00:16:25.220 Their message to be heard

00:16:26.260 Now

00:16:26.520 It's

00:16:27.140 That's not the way to do it

00:16:28.260 Now I agree

00:16:29.000 And it's a culture problem

00:16:30.340 In their movement

00:16:31.240 I totally agree with that

00:16:33.380 They

00:16:35.040 There is

00:16:36.580 Now

00:16:37.080 With that being said

00:16:38.100 There is a lot of vegans

00:16:39.380 I'm friends with

00:16:40.000 That actually

00:16:40.520 Totally

00:16:40.580 Me too

00:16:41.120 That actually

00:16:41.360 Totally get it

00:16:42.600 Yeah

00:16:42.900 And they look at the science

00:16:44.100 And they say

00:16:45.080 Okay

00:16:45.360 I know the science is this

00:16:47.040 But I still choose to do this

00:16:48.640 Because I feel it's the right thing to do

00:16:50.480 Right

00:16:50.820 That is a

00:16:51.380 That is okay

00:16:52.260 But what's not okay

00:16:53.760 Is when you force shit out

00:16:55.660 That's not true

00:16:56.600 Right

00:16:56.920 People make decisions

00:16:58.040 Based upon that information

00:16:59.440 And they end up less healthy

00:17:01.040 Because of it

00:17:01.780 And that's the problem they have

00:17:03.380 Plus

00:17:04.220 When you

00:17:05.040 Attack

00:17:05.760 Attack

00:17:06.080 Attack

00:17:06.400 Attack

00:17:06.700 Attack

00:17:07.080 What's the natural

00:17:08.400 Reaction of someone

00:17:09.800 When you attack them

00:17:10.960 To resist

00:17:11.840 Right

00:17:12.340 So

00:17:12.920 If you really care about

00:17:14.600 The vegan movement

00:17:15.560 You vegans out there listening

00:17:17.800 Listen

00:17:18.600 I get it dude

00:17:19.540 I make a lot of vegan products

00:17:21.100 I try to create the best vegan products

00:17:22.920 On the face of the earth

00:17:24.280 For you guys

00:17:24.860 I totally support what you're doing

00:17:26.700 But

00:17:27.660 Understand

00:17:29.100 That when you attack

00:17:30.240 Attack

00:17:30.520 Attack

00:17:30.840 Attack

00:17:31.120 You're hurting

00:17:32.060 The moral cause

00:17:33.560 That you're trying to promote

00:17:34.660 Totally

00:17:35.440 So if they could reorganize

00:17:36.980 Their methods

00:17:37.680 They'd be a lot more effective

00:17:39.040 And happier

00:17:40.080 Yeah

00:17:40.700 So while we're on that topic

00:17:41.940 Because let's just roll with this

00:17:43.360 Because this is something

00:17:44.120 That we had

00:17:44.700 We had planned

00:17:45.380 As a topic to discuss

00:17:46.940 So a recent

00:17:49.440 Valentine's survey

00:17:50.460 Said that

00:17:51.400 In spite of the fact

00:17:52.260 That everybody

00:17:53.320 Dogs on the whole idea

00:17:54.560 Of dinner and a movie

00:17:55.420 As sort of

00:17:56.540 Uninspiring

00:17:57.560 And boring

00:17:58.020 And cliche

00:17:58.460 The reality is

00:17:59.180 Is the vast majority

00:18:00.020 Of Americans

00:18:00.580 Actually say

00:18:01.460 Yeah just having dinner together

00:18:02.700 And chilling

00:18:03.080 Is a really really great thing

00:18:04.440 So you guys are talking

00:18:05.740 About vegans

00:18:06.440 I mentioned earlier

00:18:08.120 There's a war

00:18:09.040 Going on in America

00:18:10.120 It's a war

00:18:11.300 For America's mouth

00:18:13.760 And stomach

00:18:14.320 And it has to do with

00:18:14.900 Because it's a war

00:18:15.420 For dollars

00:18:15.860 Right

00:18:16.160 And it's a war

00:18:17.760 About meat

00:18:19.000 So I think this really ties in

00:18:21.540 To what you guys

00:18:22.520 Are talking about already

00:18:23.280 So let's just go with it

00:18:24.160 I was going to wait

00:18:24.820 Until later

00:18:25.180 To talk about that

00:18:25.960 But let's talk about it

00:18:26.920 What's this war

00:18:27.820 Going on right now

00:18:28.720 About meat

00:18:29.280 Yeah

00:18:29.460 So it's

00:18:30.200 Like Andy was saying

00:18:31.220 There's

00:18:31.760 This ethical dilemma

00:18:33.700 Where people have

00:18:34.820 This issue with eating meat

00:18:35.900 But it's

00:18:37.400 It's not about meat

00:18:38.800 Right

00:18:39.080 It's about misinformation

00:18:40.040 And pushing an agenda

00:18:41.020 So you've got

00:18:41.580 Two very separate groups

00:18:42.880 You have the people

00:18:44.220 That are really into

00:18:44.940 Eating meat

00:18:45.480 And protein

00:18:46.060 And health

00:18:46.640 And then you've got

00:18:47.320 This vegan vegetarian group

00:18:49.100 And it's really divided

00:18:51.300 And so what's happened

00:18:52.980 Is we're hearing

00:18:53.940 A lot of false information

00:18:55.500 That's literally

00:18:57.400 Poisoning our country

00:18:58.460 So what's basically

00:19:00.060 The position

00:19:00.740 Of the vegan people

00:19:01.980 Is it

00:19:02.740 Is it

00:19:03.060 It's both

00:19:03.880 Animals

00:19:04.480 And animal products

00:19:05.300 Will kill you

00:19:05.780 Animals and animal products

00:19:07.080 Will kill you

00:19:07.700 And it's bad for the environment

00:19:08.820 And it's bad for the environment

00:19:09.920 And it's cruel to animals

00:19:11.040 Right

00:19:11.460 That's what

00:19:11.860 I mean cruelty

00:19:12.940 You're

00:19:13.920 I mean if you take that

00:19:15.380 Off the

00:19:16.260 The table

00:19:17.220 Right

00:19:17.500 Animals

00:19:18.000 You do have to kill them

00:19:19.600 To

00:19:20.060 Right

00:19:20.580 Eat them

00:19:21.100 That would be really weird

00:19:21.880 To do it while they're alive

00:19:22.780 Yeah right

00:19:23.440 But then the other aspects

00:19:25.440 Of that

00:19:25.900 Is if it's bad for the environment

00:19:27.220 Or bad for your health

00:19:28.140 Are total lies

00:19:28.840 Right

00:19:29.040 Let's talk about

00:19:29.600 The cruelty piece later

00:19:30.460 But let's

00:19:30.860 Let's talk a little bit

00:19:31.780 About that

00:19:32.160 So their contention

00:19:33.320 Is that

00:19:33.860 Beef is actually

00:19:35.320 I've actually heard vegans

00:19:36.620 Say it's a carcinogen

00:19:37.560 Right

00:19:37.820 You know that's something

00:19:38.780 I hear left and right

00:19:39.700 So let's talk about that

00:19:40.820 Is beef bad for you

00:19:42.320 So no

00:19:42.900 And there's never

00:19:43.980 I mean there's never been

00:19:45.120 Any kind of

00:19:46.320 Randomized control trials

00:19:47.460 Or high quality evidence

00:19:48.620 To support that

00:19:49.360 That's it

00:19:50.800 It's simple

00:19:51.320 You talk about cancer risk

00:19:53.140 Smoking and cancer

00:19:54.360 When you think about

00:19:55.020 What that is

00:19:55.620 There's a 2,000

00:19:57.200 A 3,000 increase

00:19:58.640 In the risk of cancer

00:20:00.260 If you smoke

00:20:00.860 All the data

00:20:02.800 Out in

00:20:03.460 You know

00:20:03.980 In the atmosphere

00:20:04.920 If you eat

00:20:05.820 Animals

00:20:06.960 And the risk of cancer

00:20:08.920 Is

00:20:09.280 Considered not

00:20:11.580 Statistically significant

00:20:13.160 So what's motivating them

00:20:14.700 To tell people

00:20:15.240 That it's

00:20:15.720 It's industry

00:20:16.320 It's an

00:20:16.940 It's industry

00:20:17.740 It's an

00:20:18.240 It's an angle

00:20:19.380 Of fear

00:20:21.260 That they can push

00:20:22.720 Into people's brains

00:20:24.180 That convinces them

00:20:26.140 To go along

00:20:26.640 With their moral agenda

00:20:27.720 Yes

00:20:28.120 It is a moral agenda

00:20:29.220 So it's manipulating science

00:20:31.200 To promote a moral agenda

00:20:34.020 So and they're thinking

00:20:35.120 The thinking behind

00:20:36.120 Because I've talked to many people

00:20:37.380 Yeah

00:20:37.960 That are like very

00:20:40.360 Responsible vegans

00:20:42.420 And they agree

00:20:43.140 There's a big problem

00:20:43.940 With the vegan culture

00:20:44.740 And yes

00:20:45.440 Same with the patients

00:20:46.380 And people that I take care of

00:20:47.500 Right

00:20:47.720 Yeah

00:20:48.040 And they will tell you

00:20:49.140 That they are encouraged

00:20:50.740 Vegan

00:20:51.140 There's a lot of vegan leaders

00:20:52.460 Out there I guess

00:20:53.340 Or influencers

00:20:53.940 That encourage people

00:20:55.680 To push these things out

00:20:57.540 Because they're

00:20:59.240 In their mind

00:21:00.040 It doesn't matter

00:21:01.180 How the quote unquote

00:21:03.060 Murders stop

00:21:04.640 Whatever it takes

00:21:05.840 To stop the murders

00:21:06.660 We're gonna stop them

00:21:07.440 Stand in front of a truck

00:21:08.960 Fucking burn places down

00:21:11.180 Whatever the fuck it takes

00:21:12.460 Right

00:21:13.000 Okay

00:21:13.280 So when that's the mentality

00:21:16.260 It's okay then

00:21:17.440 To just make shit up

00:21:18.640 Right

00:21:18.840 To polarize people

00:21:20.620 And scare them

00:21:21.440 And fear them

00:21:21.940 And shame them

00:21:22.600 Into a decision

00:21:23.300 But I'm sorry

00:21:24.360 That's not fucking America

00:21:25.380 And most people

00:21:26.160 Don't care about eating beef

00:21:27.120 They're gonna eat a steak

00:21:27.960 And be okay with it

00:21:28.700 That's right

00:21:29.180 So the other tactics

00:21:30.120 Are gonna say

00:21:30.760 It's bad for the environment

00:21:31.600 And bad for your health

00:21:32.380 Right

00:21:32.620 And you know

00:21:33.320 There's scientists right now

00:21:34.520 And it's really interesting

00:21:35.340 You know I was trained

00:21:36.660 By scientists

00:21:37.280 That have a lot

00:21:37.880 Of integrity

00:21:38.860 Dr. Donald Lehman

00:21:39.980 He's one of the OGs

00:21:41.140 Of protein metabolism

00:21:43.160 And he doesn't care

00:21:44.220 What the answer is

00:21:44.920 He cares about the truth of it

00:21:46.040 You've got other guys

00:21:47.740 Like David Katz

00:21:49.020 And this health initiative

00:21:50.160 Where they try to change

00:21:51.520 The biological value

00:21:52.940 Of protein

00:21:53.500 Literally

00:21:54.360 The biological value

00:21:55.680 And say

00:21:56.040 Wheat protein

00:21:56.840 Is the same as animal protein

00:21:58.080 But it's not

00:21:58.660 But they

00:21:59.380 They have enough funding

00:22:00.660 And enough money behind them

00:22:01.940 That they do studies

00:22:02.800 That literally

00:22:03.740 Are so false

00:22:05.160 Well that's what

00:22:05.920 They work to change

00:22:07.220 The biological value

00:22:07.680 What are the

00:22:08.280 Sorry go ahead

00:22:09.120 That's something that

00:22:10.180 That people need to understand

00:22:11.780 About studies

00:22:12.440 Yeah

00:22:13.020 Is when you fund a study

00:22:14.400 You can get any fucking answer

00:22:15.780 You want

00:22:16.320 Yeah

00:22:17.060 People don't realize that

00:22:18.260 There's a million companies

00:22:19.800 Out there

00:22:20.220 That will

00:22:20.700 That will study

00:22:21.760 Do a study for you

00:22:23.600 Privately

00:22:24.920 And basically come out

00:22:26.360 With the answer

00:22:26.900 That you're looking for

00:22:27.840 It's not talked about

00:22:29.200 It's not spoken about

00:22:30.480 It's not in writing

00:22:31.700 But it's an unspoken thing

00:22:33.480 Like hey

00:22:33.920 We're funding you

00:22:34.880 We kind of need this answer

00:22:37.000 To come out

00:22:37.540 And then it comes out

00:22:38.860 You know what

00:22:39.380 You know what I think of

00:22:40.120 When you say that Andy

00:22:40.900 Is that

00:22:41.360 Correct me if I'm wrong doc

00:22:42.840 But wasn't it

00:22:44.020 A couple years ago

00:22:44.740 Or maybe even just

00:22:45.540 Within the last year

00:22:46.260 That the American Heart Association

00:22:47.700 Came out with a thing

00:22:48.580 That basically said

00:22:49.260 That coconut oil

00:22:50.760 Was bad for you

00:22:51.840 And that corn oil

00:22:53.180 Was preferable

00:22:54.000 And most doctors

00:22:55.740 Like especially functional doctors

00:22:57.400 Were going

00:22:57.800 Are you insane

00:22:59.100 Right

00:22:59.380 Like this was so blatant

00:23:00.900 Propaganda

00:23:01.860 Yeah

00:23:02.040 So talk about that

00:23:03.500 It's just rampant

00:23:04.480 So the American Heart Association

00:23:06.060 Gets money from

00:23:07.000 Processed foods like oatmeal

00:23:08.720 Where on the other end

00:23:11.200 Of the spectrum

00:23:11.740 Is commodities

00:23:13.240 Like beef

00:23:14.060 And egg

00:23:14.580 They can't

00:23:15.640 The money doesn't go

00:23:17.200 To sources like

00:23:18.100 The American Heart Association

00:23:19.060 And they're very

00:23:19.800 Because they're

00:23:20.480 Under the umbrella

00:23:21.480 Of the USDA

00:23:22.040 They're very limited

00:23:23.240 In what they can say

00:23:24.080 So all

00:23:24.960 Say beef could say

00:23:26.020 Is that it's part

00:23:26.640 Of a healthy diet

00:23:27.340 Whereas they can

00:23:29.000 Whereas

00:23:29.500 Processed foods

00:23:31.120 Can then

00:23:31.660 Give money

00:23:32.660 To the American Heart Association

00:23:34.080 Gives

00:23:34.840 You know

00:23:35.720 Millions

00:23:36.580 And then

00:23:38.200 American Heart Association

00:23:39.240 Will say

00:23:39.860 Eat oatmeal

00:23:40.900 That is

00:23:41.520 That's scary

00:23:42.420 Or eat corn oil

00:23:43.540 You know

00:23:44.120 And it's really interesting

00:23:45.040 The more integrity

00:23:46.880 The science has

00:23:48.480 For example

00:23:49.760 It's very hard

00:23:50.840 For industry science

00:23:51.940 To come out

00:23:52.560 Wow

00:23:53.480 Industry science

00:23:54.340 Would be egg

00:23:55.200 And beef

00:23:55.720 And those kinds of things

00:23:57.280 It's very difficult

00:23:58.160 To get poor studies published

00:23:59.760 Because they're under

00:24:01.340 So much scrutiny

00:24:02.100 Oh

00:24:02.620 So you're saying

00:24:03.660 That's a good thing

00:24:04.280 Yeah

00:24:04.660 Yeah

00:24:05.000 As opposed to

00:24:06.400 I follow you

00:24:06.960 Yeah

00:24:07.260 Other aspects

00:24:08.540 Like Andy was talking about

00:24:09.760 So

00:24:10.740 I think the average consumer

00:24:13.080 I think this creates a problem

00:24:14.400 Which is that

00:24:14.880 We want to trust

00:24:15.800 The people in authority

00:24:16.760 We want to

00:24:17.600 And so it's scary

00:24:18.900 When we find out

00:24:19.840 That there's all this

00:24:20.400 So I have a question

00:24:21.160 Because you know

00:24:22.160 Sometimes in

00:24:23.140 In our economy

00:24:24.920 Go ahead

00:24:25.680 Is that

00:24:26.300 We

00:24:27.080 The world that we live in

00:24:29.820 Has always been lied to

00:24:32.520 What's happening now

00:24:34.020 Is that

00:24:34.500 The transparency

00:24:35.300 Is so fucking easy now

00:24:37.240 And it's so easy

00:24:38.320 To look beyond

00:24:39.160 What people are saying

00:24:40.180 Or their marketing message

00:24:41.180 Or their this

00:24:41.860 That

00:24:42.620 We're starting to figure out

00:24:44.360 That we're

00:24:44.740 We've been manipulated

00:24:46.340 For a long time

00:24:47.360 Yeah

00:24:47.640 And that's really

00:24:48.600 What's going on

00:24:49.520 So like

00:24:50.040 This isn't new

00:24:51.180 It's just new

00:24:52.020 That we know about it

00:24:52.980 Does that make sense?

00:24:53.620 Yeah

00:24:53.760 It makes total sense

00:24:54.480 So

00:24:54.780 This show is about

00:24:56.940 Telling the truth

00:24:57.560 And we are

00:24:58.360 We do our best

00:24:59.580 Not to be biased

00:25:00.440 Either way

00:25:00.860 Politically

00:25:01.380 You know

00:25:01.820 Democrat

00:25:02.440 Republican

00:25:02.960 Conservative

00:25:03.400 Liberal

00:25:03.720 I feel like

00:25:05.340 In America

00:25:05.760 In the history of America

00:25:07.220 Sometimes there are

00:25:08.240 Certain parties

00:25:08.900 That are more responsible

00:25:10.200 For something bad

00:25:11.260 In America

00:25:11.700 Than the other party

00:25:12.440 But in this case

00:25:13.600 With the issue

00:25:15.280 Of the way

00:25:16.220 That this is working

00:25:16.920 Where you have

00:25:17.340 These big companies

00:25:19.580 Controlling

00:25:20.220 The outcome

00:25:21.300 Yeah

00:25:21.620 I feel like

00:25:23.480 Both parties

00:25:24.180 Are responsible

00:25:24.760 For letting this happen

00:25:25.720 Is that true?

00:25:26.460 You know

00:25:26.720 I don't know

00:25:27.240 I feel

00:25:27.760 I don't know

00:25:28.460 I feel like

00:25:28.840 There's a lot of

00:25:29.360 Industry and

00:25:30.020 Pharmaceutical funding

00:25:30.880 That make things

00:25:31.940 Very confusing

00:25:33.640 And then

00:25:34.380 You have

00:25:34.880 The

00:25:35.220 You know

00:25:36.320 Americans

00:25:36.700 Not doing their part

00:25:37.500 Yeah

00:25:37.980 Really not taking

00:25:38.840 Responsibility for themselves

00:25:39.980 You've got

00:25:40.520 You know

00:25:40.800 Like Andy was saying

00:25:41.420 About the

00:25:41.840 The million follower

00:25:43.060 17 year old girl

00:25:44.480 Just spewing

00:25:45.860 Because she read it

00:25:46.920 I don't know

00:25:48.200 She read a reddit post

00:25:49.400 Yeah

00:25:49.880 But now all of a sudden

00:25:51.300 She's an expert

00:25:52.000 Or her favorite pop star

00:25:52.760 Right

00:25:53.120 Actually said

00:25:54.000 Oh this is horrible

00:25:54.880 Dude you know what

00:25:55.620 If you want to do something

00:25:56.860 Because your favorite person

00:25:58.240 Does something

00:25:59.020 Fucking do it

00:26:00.360 That's not what we're saying

00:26:01.860 We're not saying this at all

00:26:03.120 But know the facts

00:26:04.820 Like dude

00:26:05.500 If you're going to do something

00:26:06.600 Know that

00:26:07.960 Like

00:26:08.840 Like here's where the problem

00:26:10.100 Comes in

00:26:10.700 In my opinion

00:26:11.520 Let's say you have someone

00:26:13.500 Who really wants to be healthy

00:26:15.120 They want to be healthy

00:26:16.560 They're sick

00:26:17.380 They want to be healthy

00:26:18.620 Right

00:26:19.240 And then they read

00:26:19.960 Some of this shit

00:26:20.840 Okay

00:26:21.680 That's put out

00:26:22.540 That isn't true

00:26:23.240 And they say

00:26:24.440 Fuck alright

00:26:25.100 Well that sounds pretty good

00:26:26.180 Because they're ignorant

00:26:27.020 To what's going on

00:26:28.140 Right

00:26:28.520 And then the person

00:26:29.980 Follows that

00:26:30.860 And actually gets less

00:26:31.680 Healthy

00:26:32.000 When their goal

00:26:32.880 Is to be more healthy

00:26:33.680 And then they get sick

00:26:34.980 And die

00:26:35.400 That's not being considered

00:26:37.280 By anybody

00:26:38.120 And it's not being

00:26:38.780 Talked about by anybody

00:26:39.980 And there's a social

00:26:41.300 Responsibility

00:26:42.180 I agree

00:26:42.900 With exactly what you said

00:26:44.900 Of American people

00:26:46.220 To put a stop

00:26:47.520 To this stuff

00:26:48.160 Because it's not right

00:26:49.620 People are getting sicker

00:26:51.160 They're not getting healthier

00:26:52.160 Alright

00:26:52.940 You

00:26:54.060 You cannot just

00:26:57.800 Make up shit

00:26:59.060 Because you feel

00:27:00.560 A certain way

00:27:01.380 And because of the way

00:27:02.980 That the internet

00:27:03.740 Has become this thing

00:27:05.980 Now

00:27:06.340 There's no checks

00:27:07.960 And balances

00:27:08.520 Against

00:27:09.540 You know

00:27:10.300 What's the worst thing

00:27:11.280 That can happen to you

00:27:12.260 Someone posts you

00:27:14.400 On another page

00:27:15.020 Says you're full of shit

00:27:15.880 Yeah

00:27:16.320 There's no fucking

00:27:17.140 People policing this shit

00:27:18.540 And we have a big problem now

00:27:20.660 Because now it's getting into

00:27:22.240 Like certain groups of people

00:27:24.520 Have figured out

00:27:25.440 That if they stomp

00:27:26.740 And scream

00:27:27.340 And shame

00:27:27.960 And yell

00:27:28.480 And fucking

00:27:29.140 Make embarrassments

00:27:30.940 And actually just become

00:27:32.020 A pain in the ass

00:27:33.000 Yeah

00:27:33.280 The other people

00:27:34.320 Will just shut the fuck up

00:27:35.460 Yep

00:27:35.680 And that's a problem

00:27:36.980 That's a big problem

00:27:38.740 So we have a scenario now

00:27:40.520 Where you know

00:27:41.760 People are willing

00:27:42.460 To shout people down

00:27:43.680 That actually know the truth

00:27:44.780 And eventually

00:27:45.320 The smart people

00:27:46.320 Just shut the fuck up

00:27:47.480 They're just gonna say

00:27:48.220 You know what

00:27:48.620 You guys fucking deal with this

00:27:49.600 You do your own thing bro

00:27:50.680 You guys deal with it

00:27:51.920 Dude you're totally right

00:27:52.800 In fact

00:27:53.220 And this is

00:27:54.020 This has become

00:27:54.720 More and more

00:27:55.500 A strategy

00:27:56.200 Of people who

00:27:57.140 Are out there

00:27:57.820 Promoting falsehood

00:27:58.860 That instead of

00:27:59.600 I'm guessing

00:28:00.500 I'm gonna guess about you

00:28:01.740 Doc

00:28:02.280 That if somebody

00:28:03.460 Came onto your page

00:28:04.680 And said

00:28:05.040 Listen

00:28:05.340 I respect your position

00:28:07.860 I disagree with it

00:28:09.820 Here's why I disagree

00:28:11.020 You would totally

00:28:11.860 Respect that person

00:28:12.640 But I'm guessing

00:28:13.280 That that's not

00:28:13.880 What you get

00:28:14.340 Nine times out of ten

00:28:15.380 You probably get

00:28:16.080 You hate animals

00:28:17.680 You're an animal hater

00:28:19.320 Or

00:28:19.720 You're cruel

00:28:20.240 Or

00:28:20.660 Like it's

00:28:21.100 There's not an engagement

00:28:23.200 With the facts

00:28:23.860 There's name calling

00:28:24.740 Or people that think

00:28:25.820 They know what they're

00:28:26.280 Talking about

00:28:26.900 Writing a whole bunch

00:28:27.920 Of stuff that's just

00:28:28.580 Not true

00:28:29.280 And then it's

00:28:29.660 Confusing everybody else

00:28:30.520 Right

00:28:30.760 And because that person

00:28:32.880 Has some semblance

00:28:34.000 Of they sound intelligent

00:28:35.280 Right

00:28:35.780 But I don't have time

00:28:36.880 Because I actually do

00:28:37.880 The real work

00:28:38.400 And see patients

00:28:39.280 Yeah

00:28:39.560 I don't have time

00:28:40.520 To sit

00:28:40.840 With all these

00:28:41.400 Nonsense

00:28:41.880 Become a social warrior

00:28:42.560 Yeah

00:28:43.160 I don't have time

00:28:44.060 So that's the problem

00:28:45.860 Right

00:28:46.140 We have a problem

00:28:47.220 Where a lot of

00:28:48.640 Motherfuckers

00:28:49.160 Who aren't doing shit

00:28:49.960 Become the social voices

00:28:51.300 For all these

00:28:52.500 Different movements

00:28:53.320 Yeah

00:28:53.580 And the real experts

00:28:54.700 The people who know

00:28:55.600 They're actually busy

00:28:56.580 Doing real work

00:28:57.380 Right

00:28:57.620 Doing real work

00:28:58.660 So now we have

00:28:59.660 A scenario where

00:29:00.620 There's so much

00:29:02.000 Misinformation being

00:29:03.000 Thrown out there

00:29:03.580 Because you have

00:29:04.080 Another group that's

00:29:05.000 Like dude

00:29:05.820 I'm not gonna sit there

00:29:07.180 And argue with someone

00:29:08.280 On the internet

00:29:08.780 Like I had a guy

00:29:09.640 Come at me the other day

00:29:10.780 On something I said

00:29:12.620 About supporting Trump

00:29:14.060 Okay

00:29:14.700 Like

00:29:15.600 And he came at me

00:29:16.840 With all

00:29:17.100 Oh dude

00:29:18.220 You know

00:29:18.560 I love you

00:29:19.300 But you're fucking insane

00:29:21.540 You know

00:29:22.100 And then he came in with

00:29:23.040 You put kids in cages

00:29:25.060 And this and that

00:29:25.860 And this

00:29:26.260 And I'm like

00:29:26.920 What

00:29:27.320 I'm like

00:29:28.360 Okay

00:29:29.380 Well

00:29:30.380 Be specific

00:29:31.600 On what you're saying

00:29:32.400 Because if he did that

00:29:33.380 I don't know about it

00:29:34.140 Right

00:29:34.380 And then

00:29:35.180 So he came in

00:29:36.160 And he came in

00:29:36.700 With some more stuff

00:29:37.540 And I said

00:29:38.280 Okay

00:29:38.500 Well what does that mean

00:29:39.600 Like why do you think that

00:29:41.660 I'm literally trying to figure out

00:29:43.880 Right

00:29:44.060 Like is there some shit

00:29:45.140 I don't know

00:29:45.660 Where this motherfucker

00:29:46.360 Puts some motherfuckers

00:29:47.180 In a cage

00:29:47.720 Like you know what I mean

00:29:48.860 Yeah

00:29:49.080 No it wasn't that at all

00:29:50.320 I thought the same thing

00:29:50.940 It was just

00:29:51.500 It was just nonsense

00:29:52.520 And I finally said

00:29:53.980 He finally came back

00:29:55.300 After I asked him

00:29:55.880 A couple questions

00:29:56.580 And he said

00:29:57.540 Dude you're just

00:29:58.420 Toying with me

00:29:59.180 No I'm not

00:30:00.260 Toying with you

00:30:00.900 Right

00:30:01.040 I'm trying to

00:30:01.640 I'm trying to make you

00:30:02.640 Understand that what you're saying

00:30:04.060 Is complete bullshit

00:30:05.420 Right

00:30:06.100 And that's the problem

00:30:07.280 People don't want to accept

00:30:08.420 That they're full of shit

00:30:09.320 Yeah

00:30:09.580 And it's

00:30:10.400 I've never seen it before

00:30:11.420 It's like this confirmation bias

00:30:13.040 Right

00:30:13.580 Where you could literally say

00:30:14.660 The sky is blue

00:30:15.800 And someone said

00:30:17.080 No it's not

00:30:17.460 Yeah

00:30:17.780 Right

00:30:18.060 No it's really not

00:30:19.800 You say it is

00:30:21.360 The fucking world's flat

00:30:22.720 Yeah

00:30:23.040 I mean dude

00:30:23.660 Come on

00:30:24.520 People don't want to deal

00:30:25.820 With reality

00:30:26.380 Yeah

00:30:26.620 I had this recent experience

00:30:27.980 I was on national television

00:30:29.440 On the show called

00:30:30.620 The Doctors

00:30:31.080 And you know

00:30:32.440 A lot of the listeners

00:30:33.000 Probably don't know about it

00:30:34.300 Because maybe it's

00:30:35.440 I saw it

00:30:35.940 I looked it up

00:30:36.880 Alright okay

00:30:37.280 So they invited me out there

00:30:39.860 And I knew what I was getting into

00:30:41.340 It was five liberal doctors

00:30:44.900 And me

00:30:45.660 And when I say liberal

00:30:47.140 They had an agenda

00:30:48.300 And they were very plant based

00:30:50.560 Which is totally fine

00:30:51.600 And I would literally say

00:30:54.720 And this is a super simple concept

00:30:56.780 Animal protein is different

00:30:58.280 Than plant protein

00:30:59.180 I mean it's not

00:31:00.440 It's fucking fat

00:31:01.880 It's not

00:31:02.360 It's correct

00:31:03.040 It's not mind blowing

00:31:04.640 And the guy

00:31:07.220 Was just shaking his head

00:31:08.040 How can you argue

00:31:08.520 No it's not

00:31:09.440 How the fuck

00:31:10.080 This guy was a doctor

00:31:11.380 Yeah

00:31:12.000 Yeah yeah

00:31:12.820 I mean he's

00:31:13.920 Yes he is

00:31:14.900 But he is so deep

00:31:17.300 In his agenda

00:31:19.380 Yeah

00:31:21.020 You know

00:31:21.400 His ideology

00:31:22.560 Is driving his

00:31:24.360 His rationality

00:31:26.140 So he has to literally know

00:31:29.340 What he's saying is not true

00:31:30.740 I'm sure he does

00:31:31.460 And saying it anyway

00:31:32.080 I'm sure he does

00:31:32.920 Dude see that's fucked up

00:31:34.260 I understand

00:31:34.920 Those people should be in jail

00:31:35.580 So now

00:31:36.760 I'm on a show

00:31:39.060 With these five other physicians

00:31:40.380 Who are all plant based

00:31:41.860 And I'm giving them facts

00:31:43.740 And I'm saying

00:31:44.360 You know

00:31:44.800 This is the issue

00:31:46.360 We're not over consuming protein

00:31:47.880 It's not bad for us

00:31:48.980 We've never had any studies

00:31:51.140 Any randomized control trials

00:31:52.880 To determine that it is

00:31:53.920 And he said

00:31:54.240 Well we don't need

00:31:55.400 Randomized control trials

00:31:56.640 To determine that

00:31:57.560 Running with scissors

00:31:58.660 Is bad for our kids

00:32:00.320 That's the logic

00:32:01.060 Yes

00:32:01.640 And I said

00:32:02.220 But we have

00:32:02.700 Randomized control trials

00:32:03.700 That support these things

00:32:04.760 Are healthy

00:32:05.260 So

00:32:06.580 That is so crazy

00:32:07.700 But everybody listening

00:32:08.840 And then the way

00:32:09.560 They edit it

00:32:10.320 So then

00:32:11.020 You know

00:32:11.660 Here I am

00:32:12.020 Trying to speak up

00:32:12.900 To protect people

00:32:13.780 Everybody listening

00:32:15.080 Including the doctors

00:32:16.320 Just shut it down

00:32:17.480 And that is the problem

00:32:18.940 Because

00:32:19.300 From the top down

00:32:21.000 It's wrong

00:32:21.640 It's lies

00:32:22.200 Well we live in

00:32:22.900 Dude right now

00:32:24.280 Look man

00:32:25.480 People don't even have

00:32:26.660 A chance

00:32:27.500 No they don't

00:32:28.220 Because people

00:32:29.020 Are so fucking

00:32:30.320 Narcissistic

00:32:31.060 And fool of themselves

00:32:31.800 They don't even have a chance

00:32:32.620 They're not willing

00:32:33.360 They're not willing to say

00:32:34.340 You know what

00:32:34.880 I don't really know

00:32:36.280 Anything about that

00:32:37.120 Yeah

00:32:37.500 You know what I'm saying

00:32:38.720 No you're right

00:32:39.400 Like dude

00:32:39.900 To say I don't

00:32:40.780 That's not my bailiwick

00:32:41.960 Let me tell you too

00:32:42.160 I'm gonna tell you too

00:32:43.220 Dude motherfucker

00:32:44.440 If you

00:32:45.700 Think

00:32:47.100 That

00:32:47.920 You're going to

00:32:50.000 Bullshit your way

00:32:50.960 Through life

00:32:51.560 And somehow

00:32:52.080 Come out

00:32:52.620 The other end

00:32:53.380 Being successful

00:32:54.220 You are fucking

00:32:55.000 Sorrowly mistaken

00:32:55.780 Because you will get

00:32:57.020 To a level

00:32:57.600 Where the people

00:32:58.720 That are

00:32:59.240 Further down the road

00:33:00.660 Than you

00:33:00.920 Are gonna recognize

00:33:01.720 You're full of shit

00:33:02.540 And they're gonna

00:33:03.280 Kick you off the ladder

00:33:04.300 Like climbing

00:33:05.460 The success ladder

00:33:06.520 In any area

00:33:07.800 Whether you be

00:33:08.780 Building a movement

00:33:09.740 For better

00:33:10.400 Whatever

00:33:11.600 Okay you have

00:33:12.760 A moral agenda

00:33:13.700 That you want to push

00:33:14.740 And you start

00:33:15.820 To make up science

00:33:17.000 About shit

00:33:18.060 That isn't true

00:33:18.800 The smart people

00:33:20.460 Are gonna fucking

00:33:21.580 Look at you

00:33:22.160 And say you're full of shit

00:33:23.380 Yeah

00:33:23.700 Which actually hurts

00:33:25.000 The cause

00:33:25.680 Because you want

00:33:27.200 The smart people

00:33:28.160 To actually say

00:33:29.380 Hey I'm gonna

00:33:30.400 Adopt this

00:33:31.180 And if they would

00:33:32.200 Just fucking tell

00:33:33.060 The truth

00:33:33.620 And say dude

00:33:34.240 I just believe

00:33:34.980 This is the way

00:33:35.580 To do it

00:33:35.940 I don't believe

00:33:36.380 In killing animals

00:33:37.140 Some smart people

00:33:38.840 Would actually say

00:33:39.840 You know what

00:33:40.480 I actually agree

00:33:41.940 With that

00:33:42.400 But because

00:33:43.080 They lie

00:33:43.880 And because

00:33:44.640 They push this shit

00:33:46.000 It's impossible

00:33:47.260 To get people

00:33:48.140 That are actually

00:33:49.000 Intelligent

00:33:49.740 To buy into it

00:33:51.060 Okay

00:33:51.720 And at the scale

00:33:52.820 That you need

00:33:53.620 For it to actually

00:33:54.700 Spread

00:33:55.200 So these motherfuckers

00:33:56.720 Whoever's running

00:33:57.540 The vegan movement

00:33:58.480 You motherfuckers

00:33:59.220 Should hire me

00:33:59.880 To show you

00:34:00.340 How to do this

00:34:00.980 Because you're

00:34:02.020 Fucking it up

00:34:02.440 Please don't do that

00:34:03.400 Well I'm just saying

00:34:04.340 Like it's

00:34:05.180 It's

00:34:06.460 If they would just

00:34:07.540 Tell the truth

00:34:08.180 And say dude

00:34:08.880 And just say hey

00:34:09.400 We just don't believe in it

00:34:10.280 I don't believe in it

00:34:11.220 But not you know

00:34:12.120 That's a good enough answer

00:34:13.000 I agree

00:34:14.000 Yeah

00:34:14.340 I agree

00:34:15.020 I don't disagree with you

00:34:16.020 At all Andy

00:34:16.840 But I do think

00:34:18.040 That the other layer

00:34:18.920 Of this is that

00:34:19.720 It's not just about

00:34:20.760 People who are smart

00:34:21.620 It's about people

00:34:22.560 Who are smart

00:34:23.620 And are willing

00:34:24.220 To tell the truth

00:34:24.920 Because clearly

00:34:25.540 Those doctors

00:34:26.480 That were talking to you

00:34:27.540 They're smart people

00:34:28.560 They're just not willing

00:34:29.660 To tell the truth

00:34:30.320 No I think

00:34:31.060 I think that they're

00:34:31.620 Brainwashed

00:34:32.200 They're brainwashed

00:34:32.920 They're 100% brainwashed

00:34:35.180 Dude

00:34:35.740 Because they have a belief

00:34:36.800 And they're not willing

00:34:37.900 To say you know

00:34:38.440 So I think part of being

00:34:39.460 A good business person

00:34:41.160 Being a good physician

00:34:42.160 Being a good person

00:34:43.160 Is willing to get information

00:34:45.860 And go you know what

00:34:46.700 Maybe I need to re-evaluate that

00:34:47.900 Maybe I'm wrong

00:34:48.980 Maybe I'm wrong

00:34:49.800 Maybe I've been wrong

00:34:50.680 This whole fucking time

00:34:51.980 And by the way

00:34:52.600 That's one of the

00:34:53.560 Number one reasons

00:34:54.180 That as a person of faith

00:34:55.720 I regularly read things

00:34:57.280 That atheists write

00:34:58.700 I regularly read books

00:35:00.200 By atheists

00:35:00.860 I regularly read things

00:35:01.900 Bro I do the same thing

00:35:02.720 In business

00:35:03.140 Because I want

00:35:04.220 I want to be challenged

00:35:05.340 In what I believe

00:35:06.340 So I read things

00:35:07.760 From people

00:35:08.300 That I don't necessarily

00:35:09.480 Fucking think I agree with

00:35:11.320 Or believe

00:35:11.820 And what I usually find out

00:35:13.640 Is once I find out

00:35:15.120 Where they're coming from

00:35:16.020 I start to understand

00:35:17.320 What their message is about

00:35:19.080 And the problem is

00:35:20.460 Is that dude

00:35:21.160 Society as a whole

00:35:24.120 Is so fucking arrogant

00:35:25.560 Like you look at people

00:35:27.000 Who have cars

00:35:27.860 And how

00:35:28.120 Like I get called

00:35:28.920 Fucking all that shit

00:35:30.520 Cocky

00:35:31.120 Arrogant

00:35:31.600 Blah blah blah blah blah

00:35:32.400 Motherfucker

00:35:33.100 If you knew

00:35:34.260 Where the fuck

00:35:34.960 I came from

00:35:35.700 You'd understand

00:35:36.340 Why I'm the way I'm at

00:35:37.500 You know what I'm saying

00:35:38.440 I fucking sweated

00:35:40.160 And bled

00:35:40.840 And fucking grinded

00:35:42.280 To get here

00:35:43.000 And guess what

00:35:43.640 I'm fucking proud of it

00:35:45.160 And that's okay

00:35:46.260 Alright

00:35:47.220 But what people

00:35:48.320 Don't understand is

00:35:49.500 They want to

00:35:52.260 Jump ahead of the line

00:35:54.220 And get to the fucking end

00:35:55.940 And be right about everything

00:35:57.600 And what they don't get

00:35:58.560 Is that dude

00:35:59.160 That's not how you get there

00:36:00.320 You don't get to the fucking end

00:36:02.260 By guessing your way

00:36:04.240 Or bullshitting your way through

00:36:05.460 You have to

00:36:06.360 Consider the fact

00:36:08.040 That you fucking

00:36:09.380 Don't know shit

00:36:10.240 Because I don't know shit

00:36:12.080 And I'm doing pretty

00:36:12.920 Fucking awesome in life

00:36:14.080 You know a lot about

00:36:15.720 Your thing

00:36:16.260 But in every other area

00:36:17.580 You're willing to learn

00:36:18.620 That's what makes you smart

00:36:19.720 I need to learn

00:36:19.860 I need to learn

00:36:20.760 You know

00:36:21.680 I mean

00:36:22.260 But I listen to these

00:36:23.440 Other dudes stuff

00:36:24.300 That I don't agree with

00:36:25.260 And I'm like

00:36:25.660 I look into it

00:36:26.420 And I see

00:36:26.720 And I get it

00:36:27.220 And I'm like

00:36:27.580 Fuck okay

00:36:28.160 Alright I kind of see that

00:36:29.720 But then I

00:36:30.660 And then I have a basis

00:36:31.860 To like evaluate against

00:36:33.420 Alright well

00:36:34.140 His experience

00:36:35.380 He came from here

00:36:36.240 This is what he learned

00:36:37.100 This is probably why

00:36:37.860 He thinks that

00:36:38.600 When I did this

00:36:40.360 Back in there

00:36:41.500 This is how this worked

00:36:42.880 And I start to come

00:36:43.960 To an understanding

00:36:44.760 And I can evaluate

00:36:45.780 If this guy

00:36:47.440 Is actually intelligent

00:36:48.460 Or not

00:36:48.840 By the way

00:36:49.240 He presents his

00:36:49.840 Fucking information

00:36:50.660 That's what people

00:36:52.020 Don't understand

00:36:52.660 When you're

00:36:53.560 When you're

00:36:54.320 Just spewing shit out

00:36:55.880 Just because you have

00:36:57.800 All the people

00:36:58.380 That feel the same

00:36:59.340 As you

00:36:59.760 Supporting you

00:37:00.540 Doesn't mean

00:37:01.080 That there's far more

00:37:02.420 People that think

00:37:03.120 You're full of

00:37:03.680 Fucking shit

00:37:04.420 You know what I mean

00:37:05.680 And that's gonna keep you

00:37:07.080 From getting where

00:37:07.560 You wanna go

00:37:08.200 So you're getting

00:37:08.900 I call it

00:37:09.760 Feedback mirage

00:37:10.740 You're getting

00:37:11.520 You're getting

00:37:12.240 A fake feedback

00:37:13.880 Based upon

00:37:14.880 The information

00:37:15.980 You're offering

00:37:16.780 In a like minded group

00:37:18.100 When in reality

00:37:19.160 You should be

00:37:20.220 Offering the information

00:37:21.340 In an unbiased group

00:37:23.980 And see what the fuck

00:37:25.400 They say

00:37:26.020 Yeah

00:37:26.380 By the way

00:37:27.020 That's my

00:37:27.720 That's my internal

00:37:28.740 Struggle when people

00:37:29.540 Say well this has

00:37:30.500 Been peer reviewed

00:37:31.360 Yeah but

00:37:32.180 By who

00:37:32.680 What happens if

00:37:33.600 All the peers

00:37:34.240 Had the same bias

00:37:35.160 That's the problem

00:37:36.280 Like and I

00:37:36.880 I don't know

00:37:38.300 Everything about

00:37:39.020 The academic study

00:37:40.020 That's actually

00:37:40.900 What we're seeing

00:37:41.440 The quality of evidence

00:37:42.420 We've seen

00:37:43.100 Mass global health

00:37:45.060 Recommendations

00:37:45.860 Made based on

00:37:47.540 Poor quality evidence

00:37:48.800 Yeah but that's

00:37:49.380 That's social pressure

00:37:50.740 What that is

00:37:51.860 Is that's motherfuckers

00:37:53.280 Getting

00:37:54.060 They're getting

00:37:54.840 Entangled in a little

00:37:56.440 In a certain culture

00:37:57.500 A little bit

00:37:58.680 And then they feel

00:37:59.960 Pressured to

00:38:00.780 To conform

00:38:01.780 With that culture's

00:38:02.840 Message

00:38:03.140 And so we end up

00:38:04.620 With a situation

00:38:05.360 Where we don't get

00:38:06.580 The real information

00:38:07.400 Because people are

00:38:08.360 Afraid to buck the system

00:38:09.620 Yeah

00:38:10.180 It is true

00:38:10.760 So I you know

00:38:11.460 I'm on a lot of

00:38:13.100 Email lists to physicians

00:38:14.300 And the information

00:38:15.480 That they're getting fed

00:38:16.600 Is totally wrong

00:38:17.420 Oh yeah

00:38:17.860 And then they're

00:38:18.580 The ones

00:38:18.880 That are dissimulating

00:38:19.720 It is scary

00:38:21.020 That's scary

00:38:22.380 It literally will kill people

00:38:23.880 Yes

00:38:24.200 It as the trajectory

00:38:25.600 Of aging

00:38:26.160 You know spending

00:38:26.680 Two years at Wash U

00:38:27.600 I was at the bedside

00:38:29.000 Of these guys dying

00:38:29.800 Yeah

00:38:30.180 Hundreds of people

00:38:32.180 None of these people

00:38:33.980 Talking about this

00:38:35.040 Yeah

00:38:35.380 Have been

00:38:36.200 Yeah

00:38:37.460 Even the physicians

00:38:38.460 That are family medicine

00:38:40.180 You know you're not

00:38:41.640 At the bedside

00:38:42.300 Seeing what this

00:38:42.980 Bad information is

00:38:44.020 Well and then we're not

00:38:45.380 Taking it into consideration

00:38:46.720 On top of

00:38:47.560 I mean dude

00:38:48.000 On top of all this shit

00:38:49.960 That we've just

00:38:50.560 Gone over

00:38:51.240 We're not even

00:38:52.460 Considering the fact

00:38:54.140 Of the pressure

00:38:55.340 To sell certain things

00:38:57.360 A.K.A.

00:38:58.620 Pharmaceutical drugs

00:39:00.180 To people

00:39:01.340 Right

00:39:01.840 So we're not

00:39:03.900 Like dude

00:39:04.580 Like people have

00:39:06.300 The misconception

00:39:07.580 Of what the medical

00:39:08.620 Fucking world

00:39:09.280 Really is

00:39:10.000 They think that

00:39:11.240 When they go to the doctor

00:39:12.260 That that doctor

00:39:13.780 Has their best interests

00:39:15.020 In mind

00:39:15.500 I think that's

00:39:16.280 A reasonable thought

00:39:17.000 Don't you think

00:39:18.060 People should have

00:39:18.620 That thought

00:39:19.060 Well I do

00:39:19.940 But I think that

00:39:21.060 The way medicine is

00:39:22.300 Is it's very cookie cutter

00:39:23.360 So they don't

00:39:24.840 Know

00:39:25.320 I really believe

00:39:27.100 That the physician

00:39:27.880 Doesn't necessarily know

00:39:30.180 They are not taught

00:39:31.360 To think

00:39:31.900 Yeah

00:39:32.280 They're taught

00:39:32.860 To recognize patterns

00:39:33.960 Which

00:39:34.240 Yeah

00:39:34.400 Does make a good physician

00:39:36.360 But they're not

00:39:37.560 Thought to think

00:39:38.540 Outside the box

00:39:39.220 But we have

00:39:39.840 We have really been

00:39:40.800 Brainwashed because

00:39:42.000 I mean this is

00:39:43.520 Anecdotal

00:39:44.060 But this is

00:39:44.560 I know this is

00:39:45.460 True across the board

00:39:46.180 In America

00:39:46.600 Whether it's

00:39:48.080 My wife serving

00:39:48.920 In metropolitan

00:39:50.020 St. Louis

00:39:50.640 Or small rural

00:39:51.680 Manhattan, Kansas

00:39:52.740 Nine times out of ten

00:39:54.760 Somebody comes in

00:39:55.620 She's trying to

00:39:56.240 Diagnose them

00:39:56.880 And they're like

00:39:57.280 Just give me a pill

00:39:57.860 Just give me a pill

00:39:58.760 And they get mad at her

00:40:00.940 But if she starts

00:40:02.580 Asking them

00:40:03.260 Questions about

00:40:04.140 Lifestyle

00:40:04.780 They get mad

00:40:05.780 That's the

00:40:06.380 Indoctrinated culture

00:40:07.440 Of this whole thing

00:40:08.500 That's

00:40:09.060 Dude did you know

00:40:11.160 That fucking

00:40:11.800 Pharmaceutical

00:40:13.920 In most countries

00:40:15.020 Pharmaceutical companies

00:40:16.280 Cannot advertise

00:40:17.200 Directly to the consumer

00:40:18.320 Did you know that?

00:40:20.480 Hmm

00:40:20.700 Why the fuck

00:40:21.560 Should a pharmaceutical company

00:40:22.840 Be able to advertise

00:40:23.620 To fucking you?

00:40:24.740 That's a good question

00:40:25.560 You don't know shit

00:40:27.160 So why should they

00:40:28.840 Advertise to you?

00:40:30.780 That should tell

00:40:31.840 Everybody in the world

00:40:32.780 Right now

00:40:33.420 What the fucking

00:40:34.600 Agenda is

00:40:35.440 The agenda is

00:40:36.860 Guess what?

00:40:37.720 To sell shit

00:40:38.660 Yeah

00:40:39.660 And so we have

00:40:41.300 A big problem

00:40:42.060 With the whole system

00:40:43.820 Because we have this

00:40:45.340 We as Americans

00:40:47.880 Okay

00:40:48.700 And I know there's

00:40:49.380 International listeners

00:40:50.240 But we're Americans

00:40:51.300 So I'm gonna fucking

00:40:52.060 Use that frame of reference

00:40:53.120 We as Americans

00:40:55.180 I believe

00:40:56.380 Have a reasonable right

00:40:57.860 To think

00:40:58.720 That when we go

00:40:59.540 To the doctor

00:41:00.140 That that woman

00:41:01.720 Or man

00:41:02.200 Knows what the fuck

00:41:03.100 They are talking about

00:41:04.040 And they don't

00:41:05.220 And so what they do

00:41:06.780 Is they get educated

00:41:07.740 By the pharmaceutical companies

00:41:09.360 About these things

00:41:10.420 Then the pharmaceutical companies

00:41:11.940 Runs ads to the consumer

00:41:13.280 So they're hitting it

00:41:14.420 From two fronts

00:41:15.220 They're teaching the coach

00:41:16.640 And the player

00:41:17.700 What fucking equipment

00:41:19.040 They should use

00:41:19.800 That's not okay dude

00:41:21.620 And we have a government

00:41:23.140 That's corrupt

00:41:24.020 Because they take

00:41:25.340 All these fucking

00:41:26.160 Bribes

00:41:26.920 And junkets

00:41:28.800 And all this shit

00:41:29.640 From the pharmaceutical industry

00:41:31.000 Because no one else

00:41:32.500 Has the money

00:41:33.360 To fucking fund the shit

00:41:34.880 When you have a pill

00:41:36.660 See this is another thing

00:41:38.340 People

00:41:38.880 I'm in the supplement business

00:41:40.080 People don't understand this

00:41:41.180 The pill

00:41:42.340 That we make

00:41:43.880 Costs the same

00:41:44.980 As that $900

00:41:45.900 Fucking pill

00:41:47.220 That they are selling you

00:41:48.900 I'm not saying

00:41:50.100 It's the same shit

00:41:50.900 Because it's not

00:41:51.540 What I'm telling you is

00:41:52.980 The raw ingredients

00:41:53.920 Cost the fucking same

00:41:55.120 Right

00:41:55.520 So how the fuck

00:41:57.180 Could you not have

00:41:58.660 Money to pay off

00:41:59.820 Everybody you want

00:42:00.660 When you're charging

00:42:01.700 $900

00:42:02.960 For a single

00:42:04.480 Fucking serving

00:42:05.360 Of a

00:42:05.660 Basically

00:42:06.580 What is a

00:42:07.520 Different kind of supplement

00:42:08.680 That's what we're talking about

00:42:09.960 And on top of that

00:42:11.440 When we have a scenario

00:42:13.440 Where shit doesn't work

00:42:15.480 Or shit isn't

00:42:16.380 Perfect

00:42:16.920 Or shit isn't

00:42:17.840 Like super healthy

00:42:19.060 They're still selling it

00:42:20.580 Because the margin's there

00:42:21.720 It's crazy

00:42:22.680 It's fucked up dude

00:42:23.460 It's crazy

00:42:23.960 And people

00:42:24.440 So people

00:42:25.480 Who blindly think

00:42:27.440 That when they go

00:42:28.560 To their doctor

00:42:29.340 They're getting served

00:42:30.320 The right way

00:42:31.020 Dude you better do

00:42:32.160 Your fucking homework

00:42:33.000 Yes

00:42:33.440 And it's scary

00:42:34.320 Yes

00:42:34.620 Do your homework

00:42:35.420 Yeah

00:42:35.780 Absolutely

00:42:36.300 So before we shift gears

00:42:38.360 Yeah yeah

00:42:38.800 Transition to a little

00:42:39.380 Different direction

00:42:40.100 I want to hold your feet

00:42:40.820 To the fire just for a second

00:42:41.720 In very simple

00:42:43.200 Layman terms

00:42:44.180 Like let's

00:42:45.200 You know the average American

00:42:46.420 Does love animals

00:42:47.420 Yeah

00:42:47.740 So what if somebody said

00:42:50.860 Listen doc

00:42:52.220 Yeah

00:42:52.720 I'm

00:42:53.800 All other things being equal

00:42:55.660 I'd rather

00:42:57.360 Bambi not have to die

00:42:59.560 So that I can eat

00:43:01.040 You know venison

00:43:02.060 Right

00:43:02.540 You would probably

00:43:03.080 Not be my patient

00:43:03.860 Well

00:43:05.500 But so

00:43:06.540 Yeah yeah yeah

00:43:07.300 Playing devil's advocate

00:43:08.100 Why can't I eat

00:43:09.600 The impossible burger

00:43:10.460 Why can't I eat

00:43:11.300 Plant based protein

00:43:12.220 Why can't I just pop

00:43:13.300 Some edamame

00:43:13.940 Or whatever

00:43:14.480 I mean you can

00:43:14.960 Is this an ethical

00:43:16.320 An ethical question

00:43:17.720 You can

00:43:18.200 You know

00:43:18.900 But I mean in terms of

00:43:20.020 Is meat

00:43:21.480 Animal protein

00:43:22.760 Like why

00:43:23.680 Tell me why

00:43:24.420 It's so much better

00:43:25.160 And why I can't

00:43:25.960 Just subsist

00:43:26.580 On a plant based diet

00:43:27.800 So you can

00:43:28.700 But you're going to

00:43:29.700 Need to supplement

00:43:30.280 Okay

00:43:30.860 Animal protein

00:43:32.680 Feeds the necessary

00:43:34.040 Building blocks

00:43:34.740 For animals

00:43:35.420 We're animals

00:43:36.760 Oh that makes

00:43:37.740 Total sense

00:43:38.260 Right

00:43:38.500 So you said

00:43:39.200 Make it simple

00:43:39.720 We're not plants

00:43:40.400 Yeah

00:43:40.640 No

00:43:40.960 Plant feeds plant

00:43:42.760 If you want to

00:43:44.800 Do a plant based diet

00:43:45.840 You can do it

00:43:46.800 But it's going to

00:43:48.280 Take a ton of

00:43:48.800 Supplementation

00:43:49.600 You're going to

00:43:50.160 Have to monitor

00:43:50.680 Your calories

00:43:51.380 You're going to

00:43:52.140 Have a much lower

00:43:53.000 Density food source

00:43:54.240 Can be done

00:43:55.280 But the question is

00:43:56.460 Do you want to

00:43:57.260 Be optimized

00:43:57.720 Or do you just

00:43:58.420 Want to

00:43:58.820 Subsist

00:44:00.060 Yeah

00:44:00.440 Okay so the way

00:44:01.820 I would understand

00:44:02.480 Animal based products

00:44:03.420 Are nutrient dense

00:44:03.980 I'm not a science

00:44:04.660 Guy

00:44:04.900 We've been eating it

00:44:05.640 For 2.5 million years

00:44:07.400 At least

00:44:07.880 It's what evolved

00:44:08.720 Our brains

00:44:09.120 So I'm not a science

00:44:10.100 Guy but the way

00:44:10.600 I would understand

00:44:11.160 What you just said

00:44:11.800 Is not only are

00:44:13.080 Not only are

00:44:14.220 We are what we eat

00:44:15.620 But we need to

00:44:16.480 Eat what we are

00:44:17.200 Vaughn

00:44:17.900 In amino acids

00:44:18.920 Yeah

00:44:19.400 Okay

00:44:19.680 You

00:44:20.940 When you don't

00:44:22.320 Get a complete

00:44:22.940 Amino acid profile

00:44:24.000 You have to take

00:44:24.740 Other amino acids

00:44:25.480 To supplement

00:44:25.940 Okay

00:44:26.660 And the amino acid

00:44:27.620 Profile of a plant

00:44:28.640 And an animal

00:44:29.420 Are completely

00:44:29.880 Fucking different

00:44:30.440 Yep

00:44:30.680 Alright

00:44:31.420 And so what those do

00:44:32.620 Is those

00:44:33.560 Initiate muscle protein

00:44:35.480 Synthesis in a different way

00:44:36.920 Which means

00:44:37.960 The plant and the animal

00:44:39.200 Are going to have

00:44:39.540 Different reactions

00:44:40.220 Inside your body

00:44:40.900 Can you explain

00:44:41.880 Just for the science people

00:44:43.140 Yeah yeah

00:44:43.520 Because there is a bunch

00:44:43.960 The difference between

00:44:45.460 The two different kinds

00:44:46.200 Of aminos

00:44:46.680 Yeah

00:44:47.260 Of a plant and an animal

00:44:48.340 Because I know people

00:44:48.980 Are going to say

00:44:49.420 Well she just said

00:44:51.060 Plant feeds plant

00:44:51.840 That's fucking stupid

00:44:52.780 Okay

00:44:53.340 Well dude

00:44:54.140 We're trying to make it

00:44:54.920 So regular people

00:44:56.400 Can understand it

00:44:57.260 The

00:44:57.620 When you think

00:44:58.480 About a protein

00:44:59.180 The differentiating factor

00:45:01.120 When you think

00:45:01.580 About its biological value

00:45:02.800 Is its amino acid profile

00:45:04.820 The branch chain amino acids

00:45:07.720 Are essential amino acids

00:45:09.540 Which means we don't make it

00:45:10.720 And we need those

00:45:11.820 At certain doses

00:45:12.860 To trigger

00:45:13.920 What Andy was saying

00:45:15.160 Is muscle protein synthesis

00:45:16.260 And you're like

00:45:16.660 Well why do I care about that

00:45:17.940 Because you care about muscle

00:45:19.280 Muscle is the organ

00:45:20.760 Of longevity

00:45:21.300 It's actually

00:45:22.400 A legitimate organ

00:45:23.720 Muscle is not just

00:45:25.420 It's not like going to the beach

00:45:26.520 No it's not

00:45:27.780 It's so much more advanced

00:45:28.900 Than that

00:45:29.300 Your heart's a muscle

00:45:29.500 And so is muscle

00:45:31.180 It's actually an endocrine organ

00:45:32.520 That when you secrete it

00:45:33.640 It secretes things

00:45:34.520 Called myokines

00:45:35.360 It's pretty cool

00:45:36.640 Right

00:45:36.920 And that actually

00:45:38.040 Is the key

00:45:38.940 It's the organ of longevity

00:45:40.300 So plants

00:45:42.460 Make the amino acid profile

00:45:44.780 In the correct doses

00:45:46.740 For example

00:45:47.340 Those branch chains

00:45:48.340 To stimulate

00:45:49.560 Muscle protein synthesis

00:45:50.860 Whereas plants

00:45:52.460 While they do have

00:45:53.700 The same amino acids

00:45:55.500 They're in vastly

00:45:56.500 Different amounts

00:45:57.400 So to simplify

00:45:59.100 You said plants

00:45:59.960 Have the amino acids

00:46:01.240 To stimulate muscle protein synthesis

00:46:02.680 You meant meat

00:46:03.940 Yes

00:46:04.780 So plants

00:46:05.680 It would require

00:46:07.240 Right

00:46:07.760 Four cups of quinoa

00:46:09.480 Four to six cups of quinoa

00:46:11.000 To get the amino acids

00:46:12.500 Enough to stimulate

00:46:14.380 Muscle protein synthesis

00:46:15.760 So you need four to six cups

00:46:17.280 Of quinoa

00:46:17.780 To equal one small chicken breast

00:46:19.620 Wow

00:46:21.100 That's crazy

00:46:22.180 Simply put

00:46:22.940 Yeah

00:46:23.400 That the

00:46:24.440 Amino acids necessary

00:46:26.720 Like those branch chain amino acids

00:46:28.200 Those found in animal sources

00:46:30.440 Stimulate muscle

00:46:31.480 Muscle does all kinds of things

00:46:34.480 Besides making you look cool

00:46:35.840 At the beach

00:46:36.180 That's right

00:46:36.460 Okay

00:46:37.080 It's responsible

00:46:37.880 Yeah

00:46:38.480 For literally all kinds

00:46:40.100 Of different things

00:46:40.800 Yes

00:46:41.120 Okay

00:46:41.640 Like

00:46:42.140 Everything about aging

00:46:43.540 Is related to muscle

00:46:44.620 Yeah

00:46:44.880 Glucose metabolism

00:46:46.300 It helps keep

00:46:47.500 Yep

00:46:47.760 Everything

00:46:48.180 It helps keep obesity in check

00:46:49.720 Yes

00:46:49.920 I mean it has to do with

00:46:51.200 Your metabolic rate

00:46:52.620 Yep

00:46:52.820 Like basically fucking everything

00:46:54.460 That keeps you like

00:46:55.440 Alive

00:46:56.600 Yeah

00:46:56.880 Comes from this

00:46:57.900 Comes from that

00:46:58.580 Right

00:46:59.340 So when we get this advice

00:47:00.640 That you should just eat plants

00:47:02.000 And animal protein

00:47:04.220 Is dangerous

00:47:05.300 And cause cancer

00:47:06.020 You literally destroy this tissue

00:47:07.600 Unless you are eating

00:47:09.680 A certain amount of volume

00:47:10.920 Or supplementing

00:47:11.960 You can supplement

00:47:12.600 With you know

00:47:13.320 Vegan protein powder

00:47:14.040 That totally works

00:47:14.920 But it's much more difficult

00:47:17.540 To live a life like that

00:47:18.940 Yeah

00:47:19.060 And to be optimized

00:47:19.860 Let's talk about something productive

00:47:21.620 Just for

00:47:22.240 What dietary recommendations

00:47:24.360 Would you make

00:47:25.240 To a vegan person

00:47:26.320 Listening right now

00:47:27.040 Cause there's a lot of them

00:47:27.820 To help them be more healthy

00:47:30.620 And let's say

00:47:31.540 They're

00:47:31.760 Let's just talk about this

00:47:33.100 Like logical adults

00:47:34.020 Yeah yeah

00:47:34.520 They're going to continue

00:47:36.080 To be vegan

00:47:36.700 Because

00:47:37.180 They

00:47:38.300 They believe in the moral standard

00:47:40.300 Of what vegans represent

00:47:41.780 What would be

00:47:43.060 Some good things

00:47:43.860 For them to do

00:47:44.400 To be

00:47:44.880 To live that way

00:47:45.700 And be healthy

00:47:46.180 So they

00:47:46.720 Number one

00:47:47.520 Need to manage their calories

00:47:48.700 Right

00:47:49.060 Excess calories

00:47:49.840 Excess carbohydrates

00:47:50.740 The majority of a vegan diet

00:47:52.060 Is almost all

00:47:52.960 Carbohydrates

00:47:54.020 That is

00:47:54.680 Devastating

00:47:55.740 For people

00:47:56.600 Unless you do

00:47:57.880 A kind of

00:47:58.580 Keto style vegan

00:47:59.560 Which is a high fat

00:48:00.700 Vegan diet

00:48:02.220 With almost no protein

00:48:03.220 So protein

00:48:03.840 Is really the black sheep

00:48:04.880 Of the macronutrient family

00:48:05.940 And the most valuable

00:48:07.420 So these people

00:48:08.700 Need to do shakes

00:48:09.700 That's it

00:48:10.360 It's the best way to do it

00:48:11.660 Vegan protein shakes

00:48:13.000 That's what I recommend

00:48:14.100 For my patients

00:48:14.860 Or they can add in

00:48:16.140 Branched chain amino acids

00:48:17.340 A scoop to say tofu

00:48:18.720 And then you need

00:48:20.300 B12

00:48:20.860 Zinc

00:48:21.280 Folate

00:48:21.720 Selenium

00:48:22.340 And you need to test

00:48:24.060 You need to test

00:48:24.580 Their blood markers

00:48:25.200 That's something people

00:48:26.860 Just definitely

00:48:27.580 Don't do enough of

00:48:28.420 Including me

00:48:29.040 Okay so

00:48:29.820 I actually

00:48:30.420 You're on my list

00:48:31.820 I have a strategy

00:48:32.740 I know you're giving me

00:48:32.780 The fucking evil eye

00:48:33.840 Oh yeah

00:48:34.400 No no

00:48:34.920 So

00:48:35.300 How many times

00:48:36.440 Do you have to ask

00:48:36.900 For my blood work

00:48:37.260 Oh no no

00:48:37.560 I've got an alternative

00:48:38.540 Strategy now

00:48:39.280 This time

00:48:39.680 I had an agenda

00:48:40.440 For what I'm

00:48:41.280 Oh yes

00:48:41.720 You're just going to

00:48:42.380 Like stab me

00:48:42.960 And take it

00:48:43.400 No

00:48:43.740 No I have an agenda

00:48:44.940 For some testing

00:48:46.580 That I wanted

00:48:47.180 I've been working

00:48:48.020 This is like the running joke

00:48:49.160 For two years

00:48:50.280 Or something

00:48:50.720 Just trying to

00:48:51.480 So I've come up

00:48:52.600 I will never give blood

00:48:53.380 When she asks

00:48:53.940 I have come up

00:48:54.520 With a different strategy

00:48:55.440 Okay

00:48:55.860 Okay so let's go deeper

00:48:58.500 On this issue

00:48:59.060 Because

00:48:59.480 You know

00:49:00.560 When Andy and I met

00:49:02.640 For the first time ever

00:49:04.380 We spent like 30

00:49:05.400 Before we ever got into business

00:49:06.760 We talked about 30 minutes

00:49:07.840 About how we both loved our dogs

00:49:09.540 Okay so we're

00:49:10.500 Big animal lovers

00:49:11.840 Yeah yeah

00:49:11.960 I get it

00:49:12.520 The other day I came across

00:49:13.640 By accident

00:49:16.120 Came across a video

00:49:17.140 Where guys were

00:49:19.600 Feeding rabbits

00:49:21.460 You know

00:49:22.380 Like a boa constrictor

00:49:23.340 And I

00:49:23.700 I mean sorry

00:49:24.580 Feeding rabbits

00:49:25.320 To a boa constrictor

00:49:26.380 And you know

00:49:26.760 You'll see people

00:49:27.840 They'll take videos

00:49:29.140 Of like feeding

00:49:29.920 Goldfish

00:49:31.020 To piranhas

00:49:32.020 To be honest with you

00:49:33.260 I struggle with that

00:49:35.180 Because I'm like

00:49:35.640 I don't

00:49:36.240 I don't

00:49:37.560 I would never take joy

00:49:39.220 In some animal

00:49:40.160 Like I don't

00:49:41.560 I can't wrap my head

00:49:42.420 Around people

00:49:43.060 Who take joy

00:49:44.380 In watching animals

00:49:45.280 Being fed to other animals

00:49:46.360 I just don't get it

00:49:46.980 Even though I do think

00:49:47.660 It is natural

00:49:48.260 It's part of the

00:49:48.980 Natural ecosystem

00:49:50.100 So that being said

00:49:52.020 Do you think this

00:49:52.800 Really comes down to

00:49:54.380 In people's desire

00:49:56.660 To be compassionate

00:49:57.380 To animals

00:49:57.980 Have we lost

00:49:59.360 Some rationality

00:50:00.460 In terms of

00:50:01.300 Guys

00:50:01.700 Animals are important

00:50:02.820 But they are not

00:50:03.760 Human beings

00:50:04.320 Totally

00:50:04.720 It's outrageous

00:50:05.680 Talk about that a little bit

00:50:06.260 I mean it's just outrageous

00:50:07.140 Because they're

00:50:08.180 Missing the boat

00:50:09.080 Yeah

00:50:09.640 You mean to tell me

00:50:10.880 You're going to trade

00:50:11.520 Your life for a chicken

00:50:12.540 It's a

00:50:14.500 Look

00:50:14.700 It's a harsh reality

00:50:16.400 Right

00:50:16.760 Like the people don't like

00:50:17.900 I mean look at

00:50:18.980 Fucking nature man

00:50:19.900 Like

00:50:20.740 Animals kill other animals

00:50:22.780 And they fucking eat them

00:50:23.920 Right

00:50:24.380 Alright

00:50:24.680 And people don't like that

00:50:26.700 They don't still like it

00:50:27.880 Like

00:50:28.140 But because we don't

00:50:29.580 Like something

00:50:30.220 Doesn't mean

00:50:30.800 It's not true

00:50:31.780 Or the way it is

00:50:32.560 Right

00:50:32.760 That's the problem

00:50:33.720 That's the fundamental problem

00:50:34.860 That we have

00:50:35.500 In this

00:50:36.260 It's not just

00:50:38.120 This particular issue

00:50:39.860 It's really all the issues

00:50:41.300 That we have going on

00:50:42.260 We have the bottom 2%

00:50:44.360 Of the fucking internet

00:50:45.380 Basically making the rules

00:50:46.880 For their other 98%

00:50:48.160 Because they're the loudest

00:50:49.360 And the least educated

00:50:50.380 And they don't mind

00:50:51.540 Bashing the fuck out of people

00:50:52.900 To get them to do what they want

00:50:53.980 Right

00:50:54.340 That's wrong

00:50:55.180 Okay

00:50:55.660 We have a situation

00:50:58.140 Where

00:50:58.600 People

00:51:00.040 Are not okay

00:51:01.820 With looking at the facts

00:51:03.960 And accepting reality

00:51:05.380 Right

00:51:05.700 In reality

00:51:06.540 What's the

00:51:07.500 What's the

00:51:08.120 How does nature work

00:51:09.400 It's a fucking cycle

00:51:11.280 It's an ecosystem

00:51:12.300 Guess who's at the top

00:51:13.460 Of that motherfucking chain

00:51:14.720 We

00:51:15.560 Are

00:51:16.120 Okay

00:51:16.880 So

00:51:17.280 People don't like that

00:51:19.200 They don't like that

00:51:20.400 Right

00:51:20.880 We have dogs

00:51:22.080 I love my dogs

00:51:22.920 I love my dogs

00:51:24.200 Dude

00:51:24.460 I love them as much

00:51:25.340 As I love more

00:51:26.160 Than I love anybody

00:51:26.780 In this room

00:51:27.340 But I'm still eating

00:51:28.700 Some fucking steak tonight

00:51:29.700 Right

00:51:30.120 You know what I'm saying

00:51:30.820 Right

00:51:31.120 Because I know it's what

00:51:32.580 It's what the fuck

00:51:34.080 I need to eat

00:51:34.820 Right

00:51:35.400 Okay

00:51:35.920 To stay alive

00:51:36.380 To do what I'm doing

00:51:37.300 Now

00:51:38.200 I could

00:51:39.840 I can compartmentalize

00:51:41.540 And understand

00:51:42.180 That there is a dichotomy

00:51:43.860 Of these things

00:51:44.860 The problem is

00:51:46.300 Is that most people

00:51:47.080 Don't understand

00:51:47.640 What a dichotomy is

00:51:48.860 And there's two sides

00:51:49.920 And a nuance

00:51:50.420 To every single thing

00:51:52.180 People want to plant

00:51:53.540 Their flag

00:51:54.180 On one side of it

00:51:55.040 And act like it's a

00:51:55.720 Fucking fact

00:51:56.440 When in reality

00:51:57.100 It just isn't

00:51:58.300 It's just not a fact

00:51:59.180 And this goes

00:52:00.500 For all kinds of things

00:52:01.400 You know

00:52:01.720 People making up shit

00:52:02.820 About

00:52:03.540 You know

00:52:04.620 Fucking politics

00:52:07.220 Or

00:52:07.980 Veganism

00:52:09.160 Or

00:52:09.700 Whatever

00:52:11.140 I mean

00:52:11.540 Fuck dude

00:52:12.200 Me too movement

00:52:12.960 Anything

00:52:13.360 Like we can make up

00:52:14.220 We can make up

00:52:15.000 Fucking

00:52:15.540 Plant flags

00:52:17.060 On things that we like

00:52:18.000 But the truth is guys

00:52:19.140 Is there's exceptions

00:52:19.960 To everything

00:52:20.580 And

00:52:21.560 We as a culture

00:52:22.800 Have a problem

00:52:23.400 Understanding that

00:52:24.320 Because we don't like

00:52:25.700 To see

00:52:26.500 Like what you're saying

00:52:27.440 Where a rabbit

00:52:28.580 Gets swallowed up

00:52:29.420 By a snake

00:52:29.900 I mean

00:52:30.240 Some people like it

00:52:31.120 I don't like it either

00:52:32.480 I think it's fucking

00:52:33.260 I don't like it

00:52:33.920 I don't hunt

00:52:34.520 You know

00:52:35.180 I don't kill shit

00:52:36.020 But

00:52:37.400 I just don't get

00:52:38.160 The entertainment value

00:52:39.140 Like why would somebody

00:52:40.060 Entertain themselves

00:52:40.700 Now I totally understand

00:52:42.040 Hunters

00:52:42.860 Like just because

00:52:44.440 I don't hunt

00:52:45.580 Doesn't mean

00:52:46.240 I don't fucking

00:52:47.000 Respect hunters

00:52:47.940 And that's the problem

00:52:49.560 It's like

00:52:50.720 You're either on my team

00:52:51.720 Or you're fucking

00:52:52.360 Against me

00:52:52.920 Right

00:52:53.260 And that's an attitude

00:52:54.140 That's been going on

00:52:55.140 In America

00:52:55.640 For a number of years now

00:52:57.080 Because people have

00:52:58.560 Figured out

00:52:59.200 That if they yell

00:53:00.280 And scream

00:53:00.740 And pout

00:53:01.160 And shame

00:53:01.620 People enough

00:53:02.480 That they'll just

00:53:03.420 Go do whatever else

00:53:04.440 And what

00:53:04.960 What they don't

00:53:05.580 Understand is

00:53:06.240 Those people

00:53:07.320 That you're silencing

00:53:08.120 Are not changing

00:53:08.920 They're continuing

00:53:10.140 To live their life

00:53:10.940 The same way

00:53:11.740 And you're actually

00:53:13.020 Not getting any traction

00:53:14.100 By doing what you're doing

00:53:15.200 You would get

00:53:16.220 Far more success

00:53:17.520 By having

00:53:18.120 Real conversations

00:53:19.380 And this also

00:53:20.820 Comes from people

00:53:21.620 Not thinking

00:53:22.180 That their logic

00:53:22.960 Or their reasoning

00:53:23.780 Or their cause

00:53:25.020 Is actually valid

00:53:26.280 They don't think

00:53:27.080 It's valid

00:53:27.580 Right

00:53:28.020 Like if they don't

00:53:28.980 Think it's valid

00:53:29.660 And you don't think

00:53:30.680 You have enough

00:53:31.280 Ammunition

00:53:31.840 To get people

00:53:32.680 To understand

00:53:33.420 Why the fuck

00:53:35.880 Are you screaming

00:53:36.380 About it

00:53:36.880 Right

00:53:37.240 You get what I'm saying

00:53:38.580 Yeah dude

00:53:39.160 It's even more

00:53:39.740 Than people aren't

00:53:40.360 Changing when you

00:53:41.080 Yell at them

00:53:41.640 I say they get

00:53:42.780 More entrenched

00:53:43.480 But what about

00:53:44.000 Just contributing

00:53:44.620 You're like

00:53:45.480 Screw you

00:53:46.280 Yeah

00:53:46.580 I'm gonna

00:53:46.980 I'm gonna double down

00:53:48.140 And get even more

00:53:49.040 Entrenched in my position

00:53:49.860 You know and the issues

00:53:50.580 Are why not contribute

00:53:51.700 Yeah

00:53:52.160 I look at some

00:53:52.920 Of these comments

00:53:53.460 And I look to see

00:53:54.500 I look and see

00:53:55.240 What people are doing

00:53:55.860 And I just think

00:53:56.420 You know you are

00:53:57.100 Not contributing

00:53:58.080 You are not

00:53:59.060 Contributing to make

00:53:59.900 The world a better place

00:54:00.700 Well and there's

00:54:01.360 A drastic change

00:54:02.440 There's a drastic

00:54:03.620 Discrepancy between

00:54:06.820 How people behave

00:54:08.220 In real life

00:54:08.840 And how they behave

00:54:09.620 Online

00:54:09.880 I have a story

00:54:11.080 About that

00:54:11.500 Okay

00:54:11.700 I was on a

00:54:13.060 Panel recently

00:54:13.940 And it was

00:54:15.460 You know whatever

00:54:16.320 Some people in the

00:54:17.600 Public eye

00:54:18.100 And one of the guys

00:54:19.140 On the panel

00:54:19.760 He didn't know

00:54:20.760 It had sent me

00:54:21.320 A whole bunch

00:54:21.820 Of hate mail

00:54:22.340 Had messaged me

00:54:23.340 On Instagram

00:54:23.880 Saying about

00:54:25.000 How I was

00:54:25.420 Killing animals

00:54:26.180 And he was

00:54:27.120 He was new

00:54:27.760 But he didn't realize

00:54:29.040 That that was you

00:54:29.640 And then

00:54:30.120 Correct

00:54:31.180 He was like

00:54:31.580 I would love to come

00:54:32.300 Get some blood work

00:54:33.480 That's hilarious

00:54:34.900 I would love

00:54:35.460 It's so nice

00:54:36.660 To meet you

00:54:37.260 Yeah

00:54:38.040 And he had no idea

00:54:39.240 And of course

00:54:39.840 I remembered him

00:54:40.480 Because I was like

00:54:40.900 Who is this asshole

00:54:41.960 Right

00:54:42.480 Yeah

00:54:42.780 On my Instagram

00:54:44.040 Telling me that I

00:54:44.880 Should take down

00:54:45.460 This post immediately

00:54:46.200 Because the impossible

00:54:47.640 Burger is different

00:54:49.040 Than just beef

00:54:49.800 And there's so much

00:54:50.420 More in beef

00:54:51.000 By the way

00:54:51.500 There's not

00:54:52.120 No

00:54:52.540 There's not

00:54:53.340 It's regulated

00:54:53.960 It doesn't

00:54:54.540 It can't have

00:54:55.820 Those things in it

00:54:56.640 Right

00:54:56.860 How about that

00:54:58.420 It's ridiculous

00:54:59.400 Like dude

00:55:00.560 Whatever happened

00:55:01.460 Why can't we just

00:55:03.080 Have conversations

00:55:04.800 Hey

00:55:05.680 I don't really agree

00:55:07.480 With your position

00:55:08.260 I like you

00:55:09.640 But like dude

00:55:10.600 Tell me why you

00:55:11.500 Believe what you believe

00:55:12.720 Yeah

00:55:13.000 Why can we not do that

00:55:14.380 What is so hard

00:55:16.080 About that

00:55:16.580 I

00:55:16.980 I have no idea

00:55:18.860 Somebody's profiting

00:55:19.840 Off of us being angry

00:55:21.060 At each other

00:55:21.520 That's all I'm saying

00:55:22.240 Oh fuck

00:55:22.940 Somebody's profiting

00:55:23.880 Off of us yelling

00:55:25.060 At each other

00:55:25.540 Lots of motherfuckers

00:55:26.560 Profiting

00:55:26.820 So just kind of

00:55:28.560 Getting back to this

00:55:29.160 Whole issue of the

00:55:29.780 Value and dignity

00:55:30.580 Of animals

00:55:31.060 So I'll just be free

00:55:32.420 With my bias

00:55:33.180 So I am coming

00:55:34.680 From a position of faith

00:55:35.660 I believe God created

00:55:36.760 I believe God loves

00:55:38.060 Animals and created them

00:55:39.700 I believe that human beings

00:55:41.020 Are different from animals

00:55:41.860 Because we have souls

00:55:42.580 And we're made in the image

00:55:43.300 Of God

00:55:43.640 But I was talking to somebody

00:55:45.440 Like on a practical level

00:55:46.800 Like completely aside

00:55:47.760 From all the spiritual

00:55:48.540 And everything

00:55:48.960 On a practical level

00:55:50.160 I was talking to

00:55:50.720 One of these like

00:55:51.580 Really intense

00:55:52.220 You know

00:55:52.520 Vegan types

00:55:53.140 Who was against

00:55:54.360 All cruelty to the animals

00:55:55.340 And I was like

00:55:55.860 Well

00:55:56.100 So I have a question

00:55:57.620 Like are all animals

00:55:58.900 As valuable as human beings

00:56:00.340 Oh yeah

00:56:00.900 So like

00:56:01.660 You know

00:56:02.440 It's not just that

00:56:03.120 A tiger and a lion

00:56:04.700 Is valuable

00:56:05.240 But like a frog

00:56:06.380 And a cat

00:56:07.580 That's

00:56:07.880 They're all as valuable

00:56:09.000 As human beings

00:56:09.560 I think it's a

00:56:10.260 I think it's a respect

00:56:11.220 For life

00:56:12.040 Yeah

00:56:12.460 Issue

00:56:12.880 Yes

00:56:13.460 But what

00:56:14.180 One of the things

00:56:15.020 By the way

00:56:15.400 I relate to

00:56:16.180 Because like

00:56:16.780 No I get it too

00:56:17.620 I fucking hate snakes

00:56:19.360 Dude

00:56:19.660 Yeah I hate them

00:56:20.480 I fucking hate them

00:56:21.500 I still

00:56:22.660 I still don't run them over

00:56:23.940 Yeah

00:56:24.520 You know what I'm saying

00:56:25.200 Yeah

00:56:25.480 Like if I see one in the road

00:56:26.560 And there ain't nobody around us

00:56:28.260 We live in a rural-ish area

00:56:29.620 I'll stop

00:56:30.680 And I'll fucking scoot it off the road

00:56:32.420 That

00:56:33.020 I do that

00:56:34.060 If there's a turtle in the road

00:56:35.740 I don't run the motherfucker over

00:56:37.540 I fucking stop

00:56:38.400 And I move him to the side of the road

00:56:39.700 I love animals

00:56:40.860 Yeah

00:56:41.220 I'm the same way

00:56:42.280 But I

00:56:42.660 Like I was talking to this guy

00:56:43.640 And I said

00:56:43.980 Listen though

00:56:44.440 I want to really truly understand your position

00:56:46.500 And I don't want to misrepresent vegans

00:56:48.760 But I think this is their position

00:56:50.100 I said

00:56:50.440 Are you literally saying

00:56:51.540 That animals are worth just as much as human beings

00:56:53.800 Yes

00:56:54.120 I said

00:56:54.640 So

00:56:55.000 If I accidentally hit

00:56:57.060 A rabbit

00:56:58.200 On the road

00:56:59.300 That should be prosecuted

00:57:01.320 With the same legal force

00:57:03.020 That you know

00:57:03.840 Killing a person

00:57:04.740 You know

00:57:05.400 Vehicular homicide

00:57:06.860 Or manslaughter

00:57:07.640 Yes

00:57:08.180 Shut the fuck up

00:57:09.940 Dude

00:57:10.440 I have talked to a ton of people like that

00:57:12.700 Like that is their mentality

00:57:14.960 And again

00:57:15.620 If you're a vegan

00:57:16.380 DM me

00:57:17.200 Tell me you feel otherwise

00:57:18.500 But that is

00:57:19.360 That is the mentality

00:57:20.460 That they want it part of the legal code

00:57:22.700 Yeah well that's fucking insane

00:57:23.960 That part of the legal process

00:57:25.140 That this kind of like

00:57:27.000 You can't do

00:57:27.720 Listen

00:57:28.000 I am

00:57:28.620 I

00:57:29.000 If somebody attacks

00:57:30.580 So are we gonna release

00:57:31.300 I think they need to go to jail

00:57:33.100 Absolutely

00:57:33.760 Oh yeah

00:57:34.280 Okay

00:57:34.440 No animal cruelty

00:57:35.160 I think they need to go to jail

00:57:35.820 Absolutely

00:57:36.340 Dude you should

00:57:37.120 Those people

00:57:37.800 People who abuse fucking animals

00:57:39.920 For fun

00:57:40.600 But I don't think they should be executed

00:57:40.980 Oh bullshit

00:57:42.260 I do

00:57:42.700 Well I don't

00:57:43.400 But I

00:57:43.640 People fucking abuse animals and shit

00:57:45.060 I think they should be thrown in jail

00:57:46.200 But I hear you

00:57:47.440 Fuck them

00:57:47.780 But I get

00:57:48.420 I get what you're saying

00:57:49.240 But the

00:57:49.960 But regardless

00:57:51.160 I mean

00:57:51.620 I often ask people

00:57:53.480 Like walk through the practical implications

00:57:55.780 But again

00:57:57.100 What qualifies an animal

00:57:58.260 As an animal

00:57:58.860 Should we not have pesticides

00:58:00.240 Or should we not have any sort of pest control

00:58:03.100 I mean

00:58:03.560 Are cockroaches animals

00:58:04.840 Do they have the same values as human beings

00:58:06.720 Bro

00:58:06.840 We're going into an era of society

00:58:09.200 If it doesn't fucking change soon

00:58:10.980 Where we will not be able to say fucking anything

00:58:13.680 We won't be able to do anything

00:58:15.500 Yeah

00:58:15.860 It's like

00:58:16.560 It's like fucking communist Russia

00:58:18.340 Back in the fucking 70s and 80s

00:58:20.680 Okay

00:58:21.380 Yep

00:58:21.920 And people don't fucking get it

00:58:23.140 They think it's a fucking joke

00:58:24.660 They think it's cute

00:58:25.880 They think it's funny

00:58:27.120 They laugh about it

00:58:28.580 They say Andy why do you get so upset about it

00:58:30.520 Well cause I fucking know where we're going

00:58:32.480 And you ain't gonna like it

00:58:34.100 Right

00:58:34.480 Okay

00:58:35.000 We can't even joke with each other anymore

00:58:37.140 We can't even tell a fucking joke

00:58:39.140 Because it might fucking offend people

00:58:41.280 The best cop

00:58:43.040 The best comedian of

00:58:44.140 In my opinion

00:58:45.020 In our era

00:58:46.480 Is fucking Dave Chappelle

00:58:47.780 Dave Chappelle

00:58:48.720 Won't come out and do comedy shows

00:58:50.700 Because every motherfucking time he tells a joke

00:58:53.540 Your motherfuckers freak the fuck out

00:58:55.860 And act like bitches

00:58:57.100 That's sad

00:58:58.960 Dude

00:59:00.100 Dave Chappelle's the best thing

00:59:02.000 For fucking racism

00:59:03.380 And all these other things

00:59:04.860 Because he fucking laughs about it

00:59:06.960 And if we can't laugh at each other

00:59:08.900 We can't even fucking connect

00:59:10.820 You know what I'm saying

00:59:12.080 So dude

00:59:12.900 People's fucking

00:59:13.960 Vaginas

00:59:15.160 And fucking

00:59:15.900 Little bitty tiny dicks

00:59:17.660 So I'll throw that in there

00:59:18.880 To be fucking fair

00:59:19.800 Are fucking

00:59:21.260 Fucking everybody else

00:59:23.380 Like I

00:59:24.020 I wanna go see Dave Chappelle

00:59:25.420 I wanna fucking laugh

00:59:27.480 I wanna be able to tell funny jokes

00:59:29.540 To my friends

00:59:30.200 That are fucking black

00:59:31.260 And have a good time

00:59:32.640 Without us fucking

00:59:33.800 Hating each other

00:59:34.680 I wanna fucking do that

00:59:36.240 But why can't we?

00:59:38.900 Because people get their

00:59:40.000 Fucking feelings hurt

00:59:41.140 For no fucking reason

00:59:42.300 It's not right dude

00:59:43.960 This ain't America anymore

00:59:45.160 It's become something else

00:59:46.440 And dude

00:59:47.180 All of you guys

00:59:48.340 That support us

00:59:49.460 And me

00:59:49.900 And all this shit

00:59:50.720 This ain't fucking

00:59:52.000 Super ultra right wing

00:59:54.080 Trump fucking shit

00:59:55.280 I'm talking about

00:59:56.400 Mother fucking America

00:59:57.360 I'm talking about everybody

00:59:58.400 You know what I'm saying?

01:00:00.140 So why can't we just

01:00:01.320 Fucking get along?

01:00:02.960 It's not that fucking hard

01:00:04.440 And the truth of the matter is

01:00:06.260 Is that if you go out

01:00:07.560 In the real world

01:00:08.380 People do get along

01:00:09.700 Yep

01:00:10.560 It's only online

01:00:11.700 Where they don't

01:00:13.100 Like dude

01:00:13.540 I don't walk into fucking

01:00:14.740 My gym

01:00:15.840 Or these places

01:00:16.560 I go on a daily basis

01:00:17.680 And get

01:00:18.080 People saying to me

01:00:19.820 Hey Andy

01:00:20.340 Fuck you

01:00:21.040 Like it doesn't

01:00:22.200 Fucking happen

01:00:22.920 Like there's a

01:00:24.700 You know what I'm saying?

01:00:25.620 Like

01:00:25.760 I don't know

01:00:27.840 Dude for me

01:00:28.900 I just grew up

01:00:29.780 In an era where like

01:00:30.620 Dude

01:00:30.860 There was always

01:00:32.380 Consequences of the shit

01:00:33.560 You said

01:00:33.880 You know what I'm saying?

01:00:35.100 Like dude

01:00:35.440 You don't fucking say

01:00:36.300 And now we have

01:00:37.220 A whole generation

01:00:37.940 Of people

01:00:38.240 There's no consequence

01:00:39.020 That don't think

01:00:39.680 That there's consequences

01:00:40.540 For what they say

01:00:41.340 Which causes

01:00:41.880 A whole nother problem

01:00:42.980 Yes

01:00:45.720 You're free to say

01:00:46.960 Whatever the fuck you want

01:00:48.260 This is America

01:00:49.680 But

01:00:50.960 There are consequences

01:00:52.880 To everything you say

01:00:54.340 Whether you understand

01:00:55.860 The consequences

01:00:56.680 Or not

01:00:57.480 That's something

01:00:59.560 People have a really

01:01:00.340 Hard time with

01:01:01.220 If I don't agree

01:01:03.340 With what you're saying

01:01:04.420 Now there's a problem

01:01:05.780 Now we have a personal

01:01:06.880 Can we not

01:01:08.320 Like can I not just say

01:01:09.560 Hey Vaughn

01:01:10.400 I don't really know

01:01:12.080 Why the fuck

01:01:12.680 You'd want to live in Kansas

01:01:13.600 Bro

01:01:13.960 Can't we just say that?

01:01:16.120 You can say that

01:01:16.800 I'm not offended by that

01:01:18.080 And you can say to me

01:01:18.680 Hey bro

01:01:19.200 You know what

01:01:20.120 I don't know

01:01:21.120 Why the fuck

01:01:21.640 You like what you like

01:01:22.600 Right

01:01:23.100 But does that mean

01:01:23.760 We can't be fucking friends?

01:01:25.040 No

01:01:25.240 We're still great friends

01:01:26.960 Absolutely

01:01:27.340 And we disagree

01:01:27.960 On all kinds of shit

01:01:29.100 Okay

01:01:30.080 But people don't have the capacity

01:01:32.100 To do this anymore

01:01:33.020 Because their pride

01:01:34.440 And their narcissistic behavior

01:01:36.700 Has now attached them

01:01:38.440 To an outcome

01:01:39.420 That they've decided

01:01:40.880 Is right

01:01:42.040 When in fact

01:01:42.940 The information that's out there

01:01:44.620 Says it isn't right

01:01:45.680 And they don't

01:01:46.720 Their egos

01:01:48.000 And their pride

01:01:49.780 And their image of themselves

01:01:51.140 Is so fucking fragile

01:01:53.060 That they aren't willing to say

01:01:55.000 Hey

01:01:55.980 Maybe

01:01:57.640 Maybe

01:01:59.000 I'm thinking about this

01:02:00.920 The wrong way

01:02:01.560 And I'm going to tell you right now

01:02:02.760 A lot of you guys

01:02:03.760 Are into entrepreneurship

01:02:04.560 Listening to this shit

01:02:05.440 You will never be successful

01:02:07.020 Financially

01:02:07.620 If that's your attitude

01:02:08.740 Towards everything

01:02:09.740 Or anything

01:02:10.620 100%

01:02:11.280 You'll fucking lose

01:02:12.300 I like that you brought up

01:02:13.860 This issue

01:02:14.240 Because it relates

01:02:14.980 To the other topic

01:02:16.440 That I was going to raise

01:02:17.280 Which is that

01:02:18.380 And I texted you

01:02:19.940 About this the other day dude

01:02:20.880 And there's a new survey out

01:02:23.700 And there's been several surveys

01:02:25.660 That bear out this same result

01:02:27.720 And it's

01:02:28.940 I read about this

01:02:29.940 In NPR magazine

01:02:30.860 But basically

01:02:32.580 There's an epidemic

01:02:34.100 Sweeping the United States

01:02:35.040 Wait wait wait

01:02:35.540 Hold on dude

01:02:36.420 NPR magazine

01:02:38.780 I meant NPR

01:02:39.960 Something online

01:02:41.420 Wait wait wait

01:02:42.080 NPR is National Public Radio

01:02:43.420 Right

01:02:43.640 I'm very aware

01:02:44.580 Of what the fuck it is

01:02:45.740 So

01:02:46.500 Hello

01:02:49.960 You're listening to NPR

01:02:51.540 This is what you listen to bro

01:02:53.060 No dude

01:02:53.820 This is what I saw online

01:02:54.800 Because this explains a lot

01:02:55.900 No no

01:02:56.600 This is what I saw online

01:02:57.640 Like do you dance to that shit

01:02:59.080 Oh man

01:02:59.840 NPR

01:03:00.660 I mean is this where you learn

01:03:01.700 All your skills

01:03:02.460 No but NPR is kind of

01:03:03.700 It's kind of good

01:03:04.620 You know I sometimes

01:03:05.160 I struggle with

01:03:05.900 Going to sleep

01:03:07.180 So you listen to those guys

01:03:08.820 Yeah

01:03:09.160 Hello you're listening to

01:03:10.520 All Things Considered

01:03:11.680 With NPR radio

01:03:12.940 I have a

01:03:13.620 I have

01:03:14.220 So like AM radio

01:03:15.800 Type vibe

01:03:16.460 Yeah yeah yeah

01:03:16.600 I cannot listen to that shit

01:03:18.320 Yeah

01:03:18.640 Like that shit makes my head hurt

01:03:20.440 Like it makes me feel sick

01:03:21.800 I think one time

01:03:22.860 When I was a kid

01:03:23.640 I got car sick in the car

01:03:25.380 Because my dad used to listen to that shit

01:03:26.820 And I think it like

01:03:28.300 Conditioned me

01:03:29.620 So now when I hear that talk

01:03:31.400 I automatically get this nauseating

01:03:33.120 I'm being serious dude

01:03:34.500 Yeah yeah

01:03:34.620 I'm not being a smart ass

01:03:35.360 I get a nauseating feeling

01:03:37.140 When I hear people talk like that

01:03:38.420 Like it makes me feel

01:03:39.540 Talk like what?

01:03:40.320 Like what you were just talking about

01:03:41.060 Oh like what I just did?

01:03:41.920 Yeah

01:03:42.020 Oh man that's a bummer

01:03:43.000 Because I was going to go off on a tangent

01:03:44.420 Because for most of my life

01:03:45.980 I have actually

01:03:46.900 Not really liked my voice

01:03:48.340 But lately

01:03:49.180 I've been getting these

01:03:50.320 This feedback

01:03:51.100 No you have a great voice bro

01:03:52.180 Thanks man

01:03:52.800 That's not what I'm saying

01:03:53.180 I'm just saying

01:03:53.580 No no no no

01:03:54.120 I know that's not what you're saying

01:03:55.240 But lately I've been giving this feedback

01:03:56.520 That people actually like my voice

01:03:58.060 So I was actually going to like

01:03:59.320 Ask you if I could do like a long monologue

01:04:01.500 And say

01:04:01.860 Lord have mercy

01:04:02.960 Two hours of commercial free

01:04:04.800 Andy Frisella

01:04:05.620 Dude you know where our podcast would be

01:04:09.080 If we fucking did that?

01:04:10.520 It would be in the trash

01:04:11.880 Yeah it would be

01:04:12.940 But anyway

01:04:13.620 What I was going to say

01:04:14.400 Is so there's this epidemic

01:04:15.500 Sweeping the country

01:04:16.720 This actually kind of boggles my mind

01:04:19.600 Alright

01:04:20.200 I mean I understand why it's true

01:04:22.260 But it still boggles my mind

01:04:23.840 The research concludes that

01:04:26.960 Three out of five Americans

01:04:29.340 Now

01:04:29.780 Dr. Gabrielle

01:04:32.360 You're very smart

01:04:33.240 I don't know what the percentage is

01:04:34.420 But three out of five

01:04:35.120 That's a lot

01:04:35.600 Three out of five Americans

01:04:38.680 Actually admits to being

01:04:41.220 Very

01:04:41.920 60%

01:04:42.640 60%

01:04:43.300 Okay that's a lot

01:04:44.260 Let me tell you how to figure that out

01:04:45.260 That's a lot

01:04:45.620 Okay tell me how to figure that out

01:04:46.240 So you take the five

01:04:47.160 Yeah

01:04:47.420 And multiply it by two

01:04:48.580 Okay

01:04:49.040 That's ten right

01:04:49.880 You're smart dude

01:04:50.520 I can't

01:04:51.020 And what's three times two

01:04:51.940 Three times two is six

01:04:53.760 Okay

01:04:54.120 Okay

01:04:54.620 Get it?

01:04:55.140 Oh okay

01:04:55.640 60%

01:04:56.160 That makes sense

01:04:56.780 I'll be honest with you

01:04:57.520 I waited four years for my college

01:04:59.720 To offer a math class

01:05:01.800 That I thought I could pass

01:05:02.620 Listen bro

01:05:03.060 It's okay

01:05:04.100 Because I am no fucking mathematician

01:05:05.620 All I want is count my Benjamins

01:05:07.340 That's right

01:05:08.380 That's all my math

01:05:09.940 I care about

01:05:10.580 That's right

01:05:11.500 I'm actually shocked I knew that

01:05:13.020 So anyway

01:05:14.600 Three out of five Americans

01:05:16.760 Admit to being

01:05:18.180 Pretty significantly lonely

01:05:20.180 So the two demographics

01:05:22.000 Within the

01:05:22.960 You know

01:05:23.420 American people

01:05:24.140 That are most affected

01:05:25.720 By the loneliness

01:05:26.340 The first one won't surprise you

01:05:27.900 It's geriatric

01:05:28.840 It's older people

01:05:29.700 Obviously

01:05:30.160 You get older

01:05:30.900 A lot of your friends die

01:05:31.880 You know

01:05:32.640 America has this sort of bad

01:05:33.980 Bad habit

01:05:35.320 Of sending off the people

01:05:36.620 Who helped build this country

01:05:37.680 Into nursing homes

01:05:38.500 And then neglecting them

01:05:39.500 That's a bad thing

01:05:40.260 But that's a topic

01:05:41.320 For another day

01:05:41.880 But the other demographic

01:05:43.320 Was like the millennials

01:05:44.800 And Generation Z

01:05:46.140 And all these

01:05:47.100 So my question is

01:05:48.260 How much of this loneliness epidemic

01:05:50.500 Is connected to what

01:05:51.480 We've already been talking about

01:05:52.620 For the last couple

01:05:53.360 I mean

01:05:53.740 What do you think

01:05:54.260 Is that a stretch

01:05:55.120 Because you were talking about

01:05:56.520 Like people wanting to be right

01:05:57.660 You were talking about

01:05:58.640 How we're not even allowed

01:05:59.640 To say anything anymore

01:06:00.640 I think people spend way too much time

01:06:02.820 Bro

01:06:03.060 On the fucking internet

01:06:04.220 Yeah

01:06:04.560 In general

01:06:05.220 And like when you do

01:06:06.580 Especially

01:06:07.180 Because like

01:06:07.780 Dude

01:06:08.580 People are building companies

01:06:09.820 And creating jobs

01:06:10.920 And doing all these wonderful things

01:06:12.280 With the technology that we have

01:06:14.160 But man

01:06:14.800 That also requires us to spend

01:06:17.660 You know

01:06:18.220 A lot of people

01:06:19.040 Three, four, fucking

01:06:20.320 Sometimes eight hours a day

01:06:21.540 Online

01:06:22.040 And you know

01:06:24.700 When you do that

01:06:25.400 You're limiting human interaction

01:06:28.480 Dude

01:06:29.120 I can tell you for sure

01:06:30.080 Like

01:06:30.340 Because I struggle with depression

01:06:31.560 You guys all know that

01:06:32.400 I talk about it openly

01:06:33.380 Because I don't want people

01:06:34.880 To think they're alone

01:06:35.780 But I can tell you for sure

01:06:38.040 Like one of the things

01:06:38.960 That triggers me

01:06:39.860 To get in

01:06:40.400 To go down the dark path

01:06:42.400 Is to spend too much time

01:06:44.420 Well

01:06:45.940 Not enough time

01:06:47.020 With real people

01:06:47.660 Yeah

01:06:48.040 It's not

01:06:48.640 I don't think it's too much time

01:06:50.540 I think there's a way

01:06:51.440 To balance it

01:06:52.140 Like when I spend

01:06:53.380 A lot of time online

01:06:54.260 Which I do

01:06:55.000 And I also balance it

01:06:56.940 With like human interactions

01:06:57.940 And jokes

01:06:58.580 And hanging out

01:06:59.120 With my buddies

01:06:59.660 I'm not saying

01:07:00.520 I'm not going to the bar

01:07:01.240 I'm saying like

01:07:01.720 Even just here

01:07:02.420 Right

01:07:02.860 Like sitting down

01:07:03.520 Having a conversation

01:07:04.500 Where we sit around

01:07:05.260 And bullshit or whatever

01:07:06.200 You know

01:07:06.900 Where we'll fuck around

01:07:07.720 Like that makes me feel better

01:07:08.920 Like you know what I'm saying

01:07:10.060 Because I'm like

01:07:10.620 Oh fuck

01:07:11.140 Okay

01:07:11.440 Like

01:07:12.280 Because dude

01:07:13.160 We have this thing

01:07:13.940 As humans

01:07:14.400 Where we automatically

01:07:15.960 Assume the worst

01:07:16.980 You know

01:07:17.720 And so

01:07:18.180 Building a brand online

01:07:19.840 Is very difficult

01:07:21.420 Okay

01:07:22.000 So when you first start out

01:07:23.640 And you start putting out

01:07:24.620 All these things

01:07:25.500 That are important to you

01:07:27.020 And no one cares

01:07:27.800 It's a very fucking

01:07:29.360 Harsh reality for people

01:07:30.740 They're like

01:07:31.100 Fuck

01:07:31.520 You know what I'm saying

01:07:33.300 I got like four people

01:07:34.180 To give a shit

01:07:34.780 Like that sucks

01:07:36.200 But that's not true though

01:07:37.700 Because those people

01:07:39.680 May not have seen your post

01:07:41.340 Those people

01:07:42.340 Might be doing other things

01:07:43.700 Maybe they're not even

01:07:44.580 On the internet right now

01:07:45.760 And so we created this reality

01:07:47.580 That isn't real

01:07:48.560 It's a false reality

01:07:49.820 Is there real aspects of it

01:07:52.020 Fuck yeah there is

01:07:53.040 Absolutely

01:07:53.560 There's real opportunity

01:07:55.140 There's real connections made

01:07:57.140 For sure

01:07:57.880 But

01:07:58.780 People are putting so much

01:08:00.680 Attention

01:08:01.860 And attachment

01:08:03.400 To the likes

01:08:05.380 And the shares

01:08:06.080 And the comments

01:08:06.920 And it's driving people

01:08:09.080 Literally fucking insane

01:08:10.620 And the truth is

01:08:11.980 Is like dude

01:08:12.520 No one gives a fuck

01:08:13.380 How many likes or comments

01:08:14.440 You get in real life

01:08:15.440 Like I don't walk into

01:08:16.600 Fucking work

01:08:17.740 And say hey

01:08:18.360 Hey motherfucker

01:08:19.600 Do you know

01:08:20.140 That fucking a million

01:08:21.020 Five motherfuckers

01:08:21.940 Follow me

01:08:22.520 You know what I'm saying

01:08:23.480 Like

01:08:23.800 How's your day today

01:08:25.280 Oh dude

01:08:25.800 I got 700 likes

01:08:27.260 On my recent post

01:08:28.260 Bro

01:08:28.360 But that's real shit

01:08:30.220 That happens though

01:08:30.880 In the younger generation

01:08:31.860 I know

01:08:32.280 That's the shit

01:08:33.160 They're talking about

01:08:33.780 I admit

01:08:34.180 I can't wrap my head

01:08:34.960 Around that

01:08:35.220 Dude no

01:08:35.760 But look man

01:08:37.000 It's

01:08:37.420 I'm not talking shit

01:08:39.220 It's a problem

01:08:40.060 Because

01:08:41.080 Because it's all

01:08:41.960 They've ever known

01:08:42.540 Yes

01:08:43.060 And so dude

01:08:43.980 We have this problem

01:08:45.140 Where these younger people

01:08:46.820 Or people who are just

01:08:48.940 New to the internet

01:08:49.740 They get a false sense

01:08:50.880 Of loneliness

01:08:51.540 Because

01:08:52.100 Dude

01:08:53.000 It's a comparison game

01:08:54.140 Correct

01:08:54.720 It's all

01:08:55.360 It is a comparison

01:08:56.120 And we're designed

01:08:57.060 For real human interaction

01:08:58.820 You know

01:08:59.160 The eyes

01:08:59.760 When you connect

01:09:00.680 With each other

01:09:01.300 Or a baby

01:09:02.400 That's a nervous system

01:09:03.700 Yeah

01:09:04.080 The eyes are part

01:09:04.940 Of your nervous system

01:09:05.720 Well that's why

01:09:06.300 When you look someone

01:09:07.320 Literally

01:09:08.000 Like

01:09:08.440 Dude next time

01:09:09.820 You're talking to someone

01:09:10.620 Take a fucking fraction

01:09:11.900 Of a second

01:09:12.400 And look at them

01:09:13.200 In the fucking eye

01:09:14.040 Yep

01:09:14.420 Not their middle

01:09:15.380 Of their nose

01:09:16.240 Not their eyelid

01:09:17.840 Not their

01:09:18.540 Yeah

01:09:19.300 Not their boobies

01:09:20.440 What are you referring to

01:09:21.180 Yeah

01:09:21.500 None of that shit

01:09:23.320 Their fucking eye

01:09:24.620 And like look at

01:09:25.520 Their eye

01:09:26.100 And look into it

01:09:27.180 And it's very uncomfortable

01:09:28.480 When you start to do that

01:09:29.480 Because it's hard

01:09:30.720 Because you're not used to it

01:09:32.040 But dude

01:09:32.860 I'm telling you

01:09:33.960 If you just look people

01:09:35.040 In the fucking eye

01:09:35.780 Your life will change

01:09:36.740 Yep

01:09:37.140 It will change

01:09:38.000 Because you're gonna

01:09:38.600 Make better friends

01:09:39.440 And you're

01:09:39.920 I'm gonna tell you

01:09:40.820 Another thing

01:09:41.360 If you're lonely

01:09:42.660 Like as a dude

01:09:44.420 Or a chick

01:09:45.000 That's lonely

01:09:45.700 I mean

01:09:46.140 You're not getting

01:09:46.760 Fucking laid

01:09:47.460 You can fix it

01:09:49.040 Pretty easy

01:09:49.480 By looking motherfuckers

01:09:50.360 In the eye

01:09:50.820 Okay

01:09:51.700 That's the truth

01:09:52.640 That is true

01:09:53.440 You have very

01:09:54.240 If you're trying to flirt

01:09:55.840 With a person

01:09:56.540 Of the opposite sex

01:09:57.400 Or the same sex

01:09:58.020 Whatever you're into

01:09:58.680 And you look at

01:09:59.620 Their fucking eyeball

01:10:00.520 Like right into it

01:10:01.680 Like you're looking

01:10:02.460 Into their fucking soul

01:10:03.460 People like that shit

01:10:04.860 Yeah

01:10:05.120 It makes you feel connected

01:10:06.320 That's not just like

01:10:07.340 Common sense

01:10:07.860 The reality is

01:10:08.640 Is that there's been

01:10:09.440 All sorts of psychological studies

01:10:10.700 Where they literally took two

01:10:11.980 They described them as

01:10:13.760 Average attractiveness

01:10:15.900 Strangers

01:10:16.660 Total strangers

01:10:17.440 And the researchers

01:10:18.600 Would put two people in a room

01:10:20.060 And usually

01:10:20.420 It wasn't like

01:10:21.500 Same sex couples

01:10:22.340 It was like

01:10:22.880 Opposite sex

01:10:23.600 And they said

01:10:24.480 Stare at

01:10:25.320 Like gaze at each other

01:10:26.680 For two to five minutes

01:10:28.160 And they did that

01:10:29.160 We're talking like

01:10:30.080 Total strangers

01:10:31.060 And up to

01:10:31.960 89% of the people

01:10:34.100 That did that

01:10:34.740 Not only registered

01:10:35.840 A deep feeling

01:10:36.600 Of connection

01:10:37.060 With the person

01:10:37.640 But even registered

01:10:39.100 Romantic feelings

01:10:39.820 Just by looking at people

01:10:41.100 That's why Dracula

01:10:41.780 Looked at women in the eye

01:10:42.880 You know

01:10:43.100 That he like

01:10:43.620 Looked at them

01:10:44.120 Really close

01:10:44.660 And then he

01:10:45.100 Man he started

01:10:46.060 Looking like Dracula

01:10:46.880 There for a second

01:10:47.600 That's some weird shit

01:10:48.740 But no dude

01:10:50.880 So

01:10:51.600 No you're right

01:10:53.000 I mean

01:10:53.280 I think we've lost

01:10:54.360 I think the internet

01:10:55.520 Has really really

01:10:56.540 Hurt

01:10:57.380 Interpersonal connection

01:10:58.780 Yeah

01:10:59.140 And what about

01:11:00.220 What do you think

01:11:00.920 I mean I totally agree

01:11:02.020 We're meant to

01:11:03.060 We're humans

01:11:03.720 We're meant for human connection

01:11:04.840 Not meant for

01:11:06.540 Cyborg connection

01:11:07.800 Right

01:11:08.140 Right

01:11:09.220 Plus this is

01:11:09.920 Kind of going back

01:11:10.700 I don't know man

01:11:11.040 You see some of these

01:11:11.660 Fucking sex dolls

01:11:12.420 Are making now

01:11:12.940 They fucking look real dude

01:11:15.180 Like real real

01:11:16.600 Like dude

01:11:17.500 There's this thing now

01:11:18.380 No I'm being serious

01:11:19.300 There's this thing now

01:11:20.440 Where these companies

01:11:21.200 Are going out

01:11:21.880 And trying to find

01:11:22.620 These internet influencers

01:11:23.660 To make real life

01:11:25.040 Sex dolls of them

01:11:26.160 For them to sell

01:11:27.120 That's crazy

01:11:28.120 That's happening right now

01:11:29.020 I have not seen that

01:11:29.800 I just think that's crazy

01:11:31.000 Yeah

01:11:31.420 Dude the first

01:11:32.360 I saw an ad pop up

01:11:33.460 For one or some shit

01:11:34.340 Dude I thought

01:11:34.980 It was a real person

01:11:35.780 Yeah

01:11:36.420 Like for real

01:11:37.380 I bought three of them

01:11:38.200 I did

01:11:38.520 I did

01:11:38.920 I did read an article

01:11:42.300 To me this is sad

01:11:43.480 Like this is just

01:11:44.380 I don't know

01:11:45.040 I read an article

01:11:45.740 That men are less

01:11:48.380 Interested in relationships

01:11:49.440 With women these days

01:11:50.500 Because they're just

01:11:51.600 Jacking off the porn

01:11:52.720 Like literally

01:11:53.740 That's all they're doing

01:11:54.540 They're like

01:11:55.320 I don't need

01:11:55.740 I don't need to have

01:11:56.480 A relationship

01:11:56.860 I don't need to have

01:11:57.420 I don't need to get married

01:11:58.780 I don't need to date anybody

01:11:59.760 Because I just stay home

01:12:00.760 And play

01:12:01.160 Well fuck man

01:12:02.200 Like that's crazy

01:12:03.120 Dude

01:12:03.560 That's crazy

01:12:05.340 It's weird

01:12:06.380 Like look dude

01:12:07.460 It's weird

01:12:08.140 Like

01:12:08.740 Dude

01:12:10.880 The social media

01:12:13.780 Is going to become that

01:12:14.620 I know

01:12:15.060 That's what it's going to become

01:12:16.020 Like dude

01:12:16.820 It's already becoming it

01:12:18.160 We see it happening

01:12:18.980 We have these like

01:12:20.380 Off site websites now

01:12:23.140 Where all these people

01:12:24.260 Are doing all this shit

01:12:25.240 You can go pay to watch it

01:12:26.240 Yeah

01:12:26.580 Dude it's fucking

01:12:27.680 Like

01:12:28.040 Look man

01:12:29.240 I'm all for

01:12:30.880 Do whatever the fuck

01:12:31.740 Makes you happy

01:12:32.380 Like whatever you're into

01:12:33.420 Fucking

01:12:33.880 Unless it's like

01:12:35.400 Little kids

01:12:35.980 Be into it

01:12:36.900 Alright

01:12:37.300 That's whatever

01:12:37.980 But

01:12:38.720 Nobody

01:12:40.660 You don't have to like

01:12:42.160 Show that shit

01:12:42.880 For people to approve of you

01:12:44.140 Like and that's what

01:12:45.200 We fall into

01:12:45.860 Right

01:12:46.200 Like it's like

01:12:46.880 Dude

01:12:47.440 We see this with

01:12:48.560 With the

01:12:49.700 With the internet culture

01:12:51.420 Like it's

01:12:51.880 It's gone from like

01:12:52.820 I show like

01:12:54.440 The side of my ass cheek

01:12:55.740 You know what I'm saying

01:12:56.800 To like

01:12:57.680 Now it's like

01:12:59.260 People are bent over

01:13:01.020 With a thong

01:13:02.320 With a fucking ass

01:13:03.380 Right in your face

01:13:04.040 And you can like

01:13:04.580 See their butthole

01:13:05.840 Where the thong

01:13:06.860 Cuts it in half

01:13:07.680 You know

01:13:08.380 Which is where the term

01:13:09.380 Turd cutter comes from

01:13:10.440 Just so you know

01:13:11.140 I've never heard that term

01:13:12.080 Turd cutter

01:13:12.520 No

01:13:13.140 Oh yeah

01:13:13.680 That's what

01:13:14.100 I

01:13:14.540 I

01:13:14.900 I just learned

01:13:15.540 That's an old school

01:13:16.960 Fucking midwestern term

01:13:18.260 For thong underwear

01:13:19.060 Turd cutters

01:13:21.440 That is funny

01:13:22.320 Anyway

01:13:22.460 Yeah

01:13:24.100 So

01:13:24.640 That's what we called it

01:13:25.680 So

01:13:26.220 You think that's funny DJ

01:13:27.800 Have you heard of that

01:13:30.160 I got

01:13:31.060 I got one

01:13:31.620 One of our security guys

01:13:32.980 One of my security guys

01:13:34.120 My personal security

01:13:35.020 Sitting here

01:13:35.540 And he's just having

01:13:36.340 A good old time

01:13:36.920 Laughing at us

01:13:37.640 That's great

01:13:38.480 So I mean

01:13:39.760 While we're even talking

01:13:40.660 About the dynamics

01:13:41.340 Of men and women

01:13:42.480 I'll kind of raise

01:13:43.460 The issue that I was

01:13:44.040 Going to actually raise

01:13:44.720 At the beginning

01:13:45.200 But the way this

01:13:46.820 Unfolded

01:13:47.520 Was a little different

01:13:48.780 From what I planned

01:13:49.760 But basically

01:13:50.420 Another

01:13:51.120 You know

01:13:51.480 I'm Mr. Survey today

01:13:52.560 But there's also

01:13:53.420 A survey out now

01:13:54.860 That says that

01:13:56.020 One of the reasons

01:13:56.500 That people are not

01:13:57.240 Getting married as much

01:13:58.160 Is that women

01:13:59.080 Are complaining

01:14:00.800 That there is a lack

01:14:02.200 Of good options

01:14:03.840 Among men

01:14:04.360 There's a lack

01:14:04.920 Of exceptional

01:14:05.560 Or desirable men

01:14:07.020 To get married to

01:14:07.780 Yeah

01:14:08.040 Because they're all

01:14:08.660 Full of shit

01:14:09.420 That goes back

01:14:10.700 To what the fuck

01:14:11.340 I was talking about

01:14:12.180 Like

01:14:12.480 Dude

01:14:13.200 How are you going

01:14:13.820 To fucking want

01:14:14.340 To marry someone

01:14:15.020 That's literally

01:14:15.800 Made up this

01:14:16.580 Fake ass life

01:14:17.360 Is that

01:14:18.400 I mean

01:14:18.960 Would you guys say

01:14:19.560 Is that

01:14:19.900 Is that just a woman

01:14:20.780 Problem

01:14:21.080 That there's lack

01:14:21.740 Of exceptional men

01:14:22.540 Exceptional humans

01:14:24.140 I agree

01:14:24.620 It's not

01:14:25.520 You know

01:14:25.940 There is something

01:14:27.560 To be said

01:14:28.040 For having integrity

01:14:28.920 And being a good human

01:14:29.960 And caring

01:14:30.780 And wanting

01:14:31.920 To become a better person

01:14:33.160 Yeah

01:14:33.560 The good news is

01:14:34.920 Is that it's never

01:14:36.500 Been easier to meet someone

01:14:37.560 Because

01:14:38.020 That is true

01:14:38.880 To stand out

01:14:40.460 Because

01:14:41.020 If you actually

01:14:42.440 Reflect things

01:14:43.940 That are desirable

01:14:44.880 It's going to stand out

01:14:46.420 Because most people

01:14:47.240 Just aren't reflecting

01:14:48.000 Those things

01:14:48.540 So it's a good opportunity

01:14:49.740 You mean you're going

01:14:50.160 To distinguish yourself

01:14:51.100 Absolutely

01:14:51.600 By just being

01:14:52.200 A normal human being

01:14:53.100 Yeah

01:14:53.440 Like

01:14:53.940 You know how many

01:14:54.800 Girls I talk to

01:14:55.660 Like

01:14:56.060 That say

01:14:56.980 Dude I just want

01:14:57.780 A normal dude

01:14:58.480 Like I just want

01:14:59.220 A normal motherfucking dude

01:15:00.320 Like I don't

01:15:01.000 I don't need a dude

01:15:01.920 Wearing

01:15:02.620 Fucking

01:15:03.640 Super cool suits

01:15:05.100 And you know

01:15:06.100 Pretending he's

01:15:07.060 In the cool kids club

01:15:08.520 And all this shit

01:15:09.400 Like they don't want

01:15:10.460 That shit

01:15:10.940 They're just like

01:15:11.900 I just want

01:15:12.900 A normal fucking dude

01:15:13.800 A guy that goes

01:15:14.340 To the fucking job

01:15:15.240 Takes care of himself

01:15:16.340 He's a good dude

01:15:17.260 This

01:15:17.720 But that's not

01:15:19.160 That's not what's happening

01:15:20.720 Right

01:15:20.920 It's not cool to be that

01:15:21.760 Right now

01:15:22.140 You know

01:15:22.920 Everybody's got to be somebody

01:15:24.200 Yeah

01:15:24.460 You got to be a social media

01:15:25.540 Influencer

01:15:26.000 Yeah dude

01:15:26.680 Why can't we just be like

01:15:27.780 Yeah that guy's a good dude

01:15:29.340 Yeah

01:15:29.620 But I would say

01:15:31.020 I would

01:15:31.440 I mean dude look

01:15:32.580 This is

01:15:33.140 I love women

01:15:33.740 This is not an attack

01:15:34.520 On women

01:15:34.960 But I

01:15:36.720 If I were a single man

01:15:37.860 Like dude

01:15:38.260 I can tell you this

01:15:39.020 I look at Emily

01:15:40.540 And I look at all the shit

01:15:41.740 That's out there

01:15:42.320 And I'm like

01:15:42.820 Fuck dude

01:15:44.680 I picked good

01:15:45.800 You know

01:15:46.820 I feel the same way

01:15:48.020 About my wife

01:15:48.620 I mean

01:15:48.960 Women are crazy

01:15:49.800 A lot of women

01:15:50.580 Not all women

01:15:51.240 But they're crazy

01:15:52.260 But I'm just saying

01:15:53.100 Like dude

01:15:53.600 It's a relative

01:15:54.700 It's a relative standard

01:15:56.940 Like there's

01:15:57.540 I think there's

01:15:58.480 A lot of

01:16:00.260 I think women

01:16:00.920 If that's the poll on women

01:16:02.280 I think if you polled men

01:16:03.440 They would say the same shit

01:16:04.200 About women

01:16:04.620 I think they would

01:16:06.120 Probably

01:16:06.500 Because dude

01:16:06.860 No man

01:16:07.380 Look dude

01:16:08.280 There's a difference

01:16:08.980 Between a girl

01:16:09.540 That you want to fuck

01:16:10.380 And a girl

01:16:10.940 You want to marry

01:16:11.660 It's the same for girls

01:16:13.240 Girls look at guys

01:16:14.300 And they say

01:16:14.760 This guy's hot

01:16:16.000 I'd probably

01:16:16.800 Have sex with him

01:16:18.180 But I wouldn't marry him

01:16:19.820 We all look at people

01:16:20.840 Like that

01:16:21.380 So

01:16:22.040 I would say

01:16:25.980 What you said

01:16:27.280 Is correct

01:16:27.840 It's human beings

01:16:29.240 They're

01:16:29.980 They're putting out

01:16:31.100 Things that

01:16:31.820 Aren't desirable

01:16:32.840 So what would you say

01:16:34.580 Is the

01:16:34.900 The number one quality

01:16:36.260 That's lacking

01:16:36.920 In the average person

01:16:38.620 Today

01:16:38.920 That might have been

01:16:40.640 More prevalent

01:16:42.360 In previous generations

01:16:43.580 Confidence

01:16:44.440 Confidence

01:16:45.200 I'd say honesty

01:16:46.360 Honesty

01:16:46.960 I mean real confidence

01:16:49.160 Like I'm not talking about

01:16:50.400 Fake bravado

01:16:51.860 Internet bullshit

01:16:52.920 Swag

01:16:53.360 I'm talking about

01:16:54.140 Social media swag

01:16:54.720 I'm talking about

01:16:55.340 Someone who's actually

01:16:56.120 Sure of themselves

01:16:57.020 Yeah

01:16:57.500 Because the insecurity

01:16:58.800 Of the internet

01:16:59.780 Creates so much insecurity

01:17:01.020 With people

01:17:01.620 That it's like

01:17:02.680 Dude

01:17:03.040 I think most people

01:17:05.100 Right now

01:17:05.420 Are walking around

01:17:06.240 Feeling like frauds

01:17:07.460 Completely

01:17:07.760 They just feel like

01:17:08.720 A fucking fraud

01:17:09.360 Because they know

01:17:11.100 That they're pretending

01:17:11.860 To be some shit online

01:17:12.860 That they're not

01:17:13.480 And it fucking destroys

01:17:15.900 Who they are

01:17:16.460 On the inside

01:17:17.060 And then when they go

01:17:18.240 To be in a relationship

01:17:18.940 They're fucking paranoid

01:17:19.860 They're jealous

01:17:20.560 They're getting upset

01:17:22.200 About certain things

01:17:23.280 You know

01:17:24.060 They're projecting things

01:17:25.400 You know

01:17:26.100 Like

01:17:26.380 You know

01:17:27.340 These dudes who go out

01:17:28.340 And they fucking

01:17:28.780 Like every hot chick's picture

01:17:30.160 And then

01:17:30.640 And then they get a girlfriend

01:17:31.580 And you know

01:17:32.740 They're commenting

01:17:33.300 They're in the DMs

01:17:34.220 Of all the girls

01:17:34.840 And shit like that

01:17:35.460 And then they get a girlfriend

01:17:36.160 And they think

01:17:36.760 That they assume

01:17:37.440 That she's doing the same thing

01:17:38.460 Because that's what they did

01:17:39.360 And then all of a sudden

01:17:40.220 They've got this tension

01:17:41.000 I know you're fucking

01:17:42.760 Doing this with so and so

01:17:43.800 And this and that

01:17:44.380 And this

01:17:44.600 Dude

01:17:45.120 It's

01:17:46.240 It's a

01:17:46.700 It's like

01:17:47.360 What came first

01:17:48.860 The chicken or the egg

01:17:49.740 Right

01:17:49.940 And so you have this

01:17:50.620 Revolving cycle of events

01:17:52.400 That just makes people feel

01:17:54.560 Like there's nobody out there

01:17:56.480 When in reality

01:17:57.140 If you just broke away

01:17:58.480 From that same cycle

01:17:59.440 For a minute

01:17:59.900 Like hey

01:18:00.580 How about this

01:18:01.180 How about just take

01:18:01.900 Three or four months

01:18:02.760 And say I'm not fucking

01:18:03.560 Dating anybody

01:18:04.240 And like

01:18:05.220 I'm gonna take a break

01:18:06.420 From the internet

01:18:06.880 And see what the fuck is

01:18:07.900 What you're really doing

01:18:09.520 You'll get some distance

01:18:10.640 Between you and that

01:18:11.440 Repetitive cycle

01:18:12.260 And it'll start to become

01:18:13.260 Obvious to you

01:18:14.380 What's going on

01:18:15.020 Less distraction

01:18:15.660 So would you say

01:18:16.300 That confidence is rooted

01:18:17.600 In a clear conscience

01:18:18.480 And a clear conscience

01:18:19.280 Is rooted in having character

01:18:20.540 Like just being a good person

01:18:22.020 And doing the right thing

01:18:22.920 And that's

01:18:23.420 That's how you can feel

01:18:24.620 Good about yourself

01:18:25.280 And have confidence

01:18:25.980 I think that

01:18:26.600 You could start there

01:18:27.340 Yeah

01:18:27.720 I think that confidence

01:18:29.240 Is something that you need

01:18:30.260 To build upon

01:18:31.100 Yeah

01:18:31.480 But I think that will

01:18:32.260 Give you a base level

01:18:33.280 Of dude I can feel good

01:18:34.840 About the way I live

01:18:35.640 Yeah

01:18:35.980 So what attracted you

01:18:37.420 To your husband

01:18:37.880 I mean he's a SEAL

01:18:39.720 So when I met him

01:18:41.520 I'm like I would never

01:18:42.280 Date this guy

01:18:43.060 You know because they

01:18:44.520 Just have this

01:18:45.100 Really bad reputation

01:18:46.140 I mean he's an

01:18:47.540 Incredible human being

01:18:48.540 He's really humble

01:18:49.760 Yeah

01:18:50.360 Extraordinarily capable

01:18:51.760 But incredibly humble

01:18:53.360 He's a lot like you

01:18:54.340 I think

01:18:54.720 In terms of

01:18:56.060 Like he's a very good listener

01:18:57.740 Yeah

01:18:58.260 That's one of the things

01:18:58.900 I love about Shane

01:18:59.760 Yes

01:19:00.160 Is like when you talk to him

01:19:01.460 He's actually listening to you

01:19:03.800 And this goes

01:19:04.720 He's not just waiting to talk

01:19:05.900 That's right

01:19:06.300 When you're done

01:19:06.440 No dude

01:19:06.960 You'll meet him

01:19:07.980 He's very

01:19:08.620 In fact Vaughn

01:19:10.120 Like he waits

01:19:11.400 It's really weird dude

01:19:13.240 And this is what I meant

01:19:14.060 A minute ago

01:19:14.820 About just being a normal human

01:19:16.600 Making you stand out

01:19:17.580 I can remember the first time

01:19:18.940 I met Shane

01:19:19.600 And I meet fucking

01:19:20.980 Thousands of people

01:19:22.480 Yeah

01:19:22.800 And I remember the exact

01:19:23.800 Conversation I had with him

01:19:25.160 Because

01:19:25.940 And it was at PBR

01:19:27.200 Downtown

01:19:27.900 When we had a

01:19:29.240 An event here for First Form

01:19:30.620 We didn't cover that

01:19:32.020 She consults

01:19:33.760 And is one of our

01:19:34.300 Scientific advisors

01:19:35.100 For First Form as well

01:19:36.140 But

01:19:36.780 It's almost bizarre

01:19:40.160 How well he lives

01:19:41.400 Because when you finish talking

01:19:43.100 And the time between

01:19:44.940 When you finish

01:19:45.540 And he starts

01:19:46.200 Yeah

01:19:46.520 Is abnormally long

01:19:47.780 Yeah

01:19:48.020 So you're like

01:19:48.820 Like when I first met him

01:19:50.260 I'm like

01:19:50.600 This fucking dude's weird

01:19:52.320 But what reality is

01:19:54.040 He's actually living

01:19:54.840 Like a fucking human

01:19:55.740 Yeah

01:19:56.100 He's taking information

01:19:57.260 He's processing a thought

01:19:58.940 And he wants to think about it

01:20:00.520 Before he says it back to you

01:20:01.640 That's exactly right

01:20:02.420 Yeah

01:20:02.620 And I love that about him

01:20:03.800 Yeah

01:20:04.020 It's one of my favorite things about him

01:20:05.240 Because dude it's so rare

01:20:06.240 It's so rare

01:20:07.540 Yeah

01:20:07.980 That's crazy

01:20:08.380 That's awesome

01:20:09.220 Does he do that with everybody?

01:20:10.960 He does

01:20:11.880 Yeah

01:20:12.180 He really cares about people

01:20:13.400 Yeah

01:20:13.660 Well that makes sense

01:20:14.640 That you guys are together then

01:20:15.500 He really

01:20:15.940 Yeah

01:20:16.280 It matters to him

01:20:17.760 I mean

01:20:18.300 You have to understand

01:20:19.080 This is a guy who went to war

01:20:20.220 To protect people

01:20:21.380 Yep

01:20:21.680 And he truly is that sheepdog

01:20:23.480 He feels

01:20:24.120 He's

01:20:24.460 An obligation to protect

01:20:25.760 He does

01:20:26.220 And he's very gracious

01:20:27.680 To everybody

01:20:28.380 Mm-hmm

01:20:28.920 Mm-hmm

01:20:29.600 I mean

01:20:30.240 I truly have never seen anything like it

01:20:31.800 He's calm and collected

01:20:33.020 And gracious

01:20:33.640 Well when you go out

01:20:35.200 And see some fucked up shit

01:20:36.300 Yeah

01:20:36.520 You realize that there's not a lot of shit

01:20:38.420 That we get to see

01:20:39.180 To get you too riled up

01:20:40.520 Yeah

01:20:40.880 It's very calm

01:20:42.020 Very respectful

01:20:42.640 That's something you can see

01:20:43.160 About all the foot stompers

01:20:44.920 And fucking ralliers

01:20:46.700 And all this shit

01:20:47.540 You know

01:20:49.160 You know they've never seen anything real

01:20:50.900 Because if they did

01:20:52.340 They wouldn't be so upset about this

01:20:53.800 Right

01:20:54.100 You know

01:20:54.580 Right

01:20:55.200 So

01:20:55.560 But I mean dude

01:20:57.200 He's a stud

01:20:57.900 Yeah

01:20:58.220 Period

01:20:58.500 Yeah

01:20:59.100 But dude if more people were like that

01:21:01.080 I think we'd have a better America

01:21:03.220 We would

01:21:03.860 Like hey

01:21:04.540 Let me hear what the fuck you think

01:21:08.160 And then let me think about it

01:21:09.360 And let me think what I think

01:21:10.800 Instead of me

01:21:11.680 And dude you know what I think this came from

01:21:13.520 Honestly

01:21:13.880 Like this whole problem

01:21:14.920 I've been thinking about this for a long time

01:21:16.800 If you think about how

01:21:18.720 Communication has evolved

01:21:20.760 You know

01:21:21.520 A hundred years ago

01:21:22.840 Dude

01:21:23.620 Not a hundred

01:21:24.700 But a hundred and thirty years ago

01:21:26.360 You had to have a face-to-face conversation with someone

01:21:29.880 Or you had to write them a handwritten letter

01:21:32.160 That was just how the fuck it went

01:21:33.420 All right

01:21:34.160 Well maybe you could type it

01:21:35.400 I don't know when the typewriter came about

01:21:36.640 But anyway

01:21:37.380 I think that came about way hundreds of years ago

01:21:39.460 Yeah

01:21:40.160 I have no idea

01:21:41.000 Did it

01:21:41.260 I don't know

01:21:41.940 I don't know either

01:21:42.520 Anyway

01:21:42.840 Yeah

01:21:43.200 Like at least a hundred

01:21:43.900 But that's gonna fact check it

01:21:44.800 Yeah

01:21:45.000 But anyway

01:21:45.560 It's written or fucking voice in your face

01:21:48.300 Yeah

01:21:48.680 Pretty much right

01:21:49.240 Then the telephone comes along

01:21:50.900 Right

01:21:51.700 Mm-hmm

01:21:52.260 Then

01:21:52.660 The telephone is the way of communication with letter writing

01:21:56.380 And what was it

01:21:57.360 1867

01:21:58.740 Okay

01:21:59.180 Wow

01:21:59.720 Thanks brother

01:22:00.360 Yeah

01:22:00.840 So that's still recent technology

01:22:03.660 And that's not even when it came into popular use

01:22:05.920 Okay

01:22:06.220 Well that's recent technology

01:22:07.960 Yeah

01:22:08.220 Okay

01:22:08.580 So now we moved into a scenario where

01:22:11.940 You know

01:22:12.980 We went from human interaction to

01:22:15.440 A little bit of technology right

01:22:17.460 A phone call

01:22:18.500 A letter

01:22:19.560 Right

01:22:20.160 A typewriter

01:22:20.900 Then we moved into newer forms of communication

01:22:24.380 The fax machine

01:22:25.700 That didn't come around until like the fucking late 70s early 80s

01:22:29.220 So dude

01:22:30.280 We went this long ass time as humans

01:22:32.360 With really no other communication besides real fucking interactions

01:22:37.660 Mm-hmm

01:22:38.180 Then

01:22:38.920 A little bit longer came along

01:22:41.420 We got the cell phone

01:22:42.460 Right

01:22:43.080 Now it made

01:22:43.900 Now we could take calls anywhere we were in the world

01:22:46.160 That's a great thing

01:22:47.040 Totally cool

01:22:47.900 Then cell phones went to text messaging

01:22:50.440 Now we're writing short little versions of the things that we want to do

01:22:53.960 Okay

01:22:54.580 Then

01:22:55.220 After text messaging came along

01:22:57.180 Then email comes along

01:22:58.440 So now we don't have to wait for the letters anymore

01:23:00.420 It's instant

01:23:01.060 Okay

01:23:01.740 Then

01:23:02.460 Social media comes along

01:23:04.260 And we can actually communicate with each other instantly

01:23:06.840 By saying

01:23:07.900 Hey

01:23:08.460 This is what we feel

01:23:10.040 And other people come in and comment on it

01:23:12.100 Right

01:23:12.340 And this is where we fucked up

01:23:14.140 This

01:23:14.720 Right here

01:23:15.400 What I'm about to say is where we fucked up

01:23:16.980 When it

01:23:18.240 When fucking Facebook

01:23:19.180 Because Facebook is a fucking social influencer of culture

01:23:23.140 Just the nature of it

01:23:24.840 It's so widely adopted

01:23:26.420 That what it does

01:23:28.520 Changes the culture of how people communicate

01:23:30.800 When they took people's comments

01:23:33.500 And put a fucking like underneath it

01:23:36.300 They fucked everybody up

01:23:38.140 And here's why

01:23:39.080 Because now we don't have to express our viewpoints

01:23:42.340 We can just say things

01:23:44.740 And get people to like it

01:23:46.340 So instead of communicating

01:23:47.800 This was 10-12 years ago by the way

01:23:50.060 Instead of saying things

01:23:52.080 That we actually believe

01:23:54.700 And communicating like people

01:23:56.480 We had started to adopt a

01:23:58.600 An idea that we would just vent thoughts

01:24:02.280 And people would like them

01:24:05.060 And so instead of us putting out information

01:24:07.420 That we thought was valuable

01:24:08.660 We're now putting out information

01:24:10.400 Or making comments

01:24:11.760 Just to get the fucking reward

01:24:14.140 It's no different than a

01:24:15.340 Than a dog getting a fucking biscuit

01:24:17.440 Okay

01:24:18.100 Then we even took it further than that

01:24:22.200 And we went into a scenario

01:24:24.020 Where the fucking heart button in your DMs

01:24:26.960 You don't even have to fucking reply to people anymore

01:24:30.620 You could just fucking heart it

01:24:32.260 Or send them an emoji

01:24:33.720 If you think about how this broke down

01:24:36.580 Human interaction and connection

01:24:38.120 Over the last 130 years

01:24:40.400 It kind of makes sense

01:24:41.980 Why things are the way they are

01:24:44.300 Because now we have a scenario

01:24:46.480 Where instead of people

01:24:47.680 Contributing valuable information

01:24:49.780 In society

01:24:50.580 We have a scenario

01:24:52.040 Where people are just saying shit

01:24:53.540 To get people to fucking agree with it

01:24:55.520 And champion their comment

01:24:57.300 Yep

01:24:57.540 Doesn't mean it has to be true

01:24:59.480 Right

01:25:00.060 Because the likes

01:25:01.140 Are more important

01:25:02.580 Than the truth

01:25:03.560 To a whole fucking generation of people

01:25:05.580 So why

01:25:07.080 Why would they

01:25:08.500 Try to have real conversation

01:25:10.480 When their entire image

01:25:12.240 Is tied to

01:25:13.140 The amount of attention

01:25:14.360 They get for what the fuck they say

01:25:15.940 Dude

01:25:17.400 I mean

01:25:17.940 It's brilliant

01:25:18.880 No you're right

01:25:19.800 Mic drop

01:25:21.600 I don't know what else to say

01:25:23.140 Well I'm just saying

01:25:23.680 Dude we look around

01:25:24.920 And we're like

01:25:25.520 Why is it this way

01:25:27.000 Well fuck

01:25:27.940 That's why

01:25:28.640 Yeah

01:25:29.200 Because now instead of us saying

01:25:30.580 Hey man

01:25:31.200 Vaughn

01:25:32.140 That's a really cool opinion

01:25:33.400 Here's what I think

01:25:34.420 What do you think about that

01:25:35.400 And us having a conversation

01:25:36.640 It's just a mob mentality

01:25:38.960 Vaughn

01:25:39.760 You're a fucking dumb fuck

01:25:41.240 Like like like like

01:25:42.600 Like on the comment

01:25:43.400 And then

01:25:44.640 And then

01:25:45.060 Because the more fucking abrasive

01:25:46.780 And negative

01:25:47.220 The fucking comment

01:25:48.100 The more

01:25:48.440 More attention it gets

01:25:49.540 Yeah

01:25:49.800 So everybody now

01:25:51.420 Is is like conditioned

01:25:53.420 To polarize

01:25:54.360 I say the sky is blue

01:25:56.280 This motherfucker's gonna say

01:25:58.240 You're a dumb fuck

01:25:59.380 Just so he can get attention

01:26:01.360 From people

01:26:01.980 Now we have people

01:26:03.820 Who say ignorant shit

01:26:05.900 On my posts

01:26:06.940 Every day

01:26:07.820 Yeah

01:26:08.120 And then when I comment back

01:26:09.480 You know what they say

01:26:10.280 Hey

01:26:10.800 I was just trying to get your attention

01:26:12.620 Right

01:26:13.040 Right

01:26:14.080 That's where we're at

01:26:15.460 Because they take that

01:26:16.680 As the equivalent of

01:26:17.780 You know how they say

01:26:19.000 There's no such thing as bad press

01:26:21.160 They would say people

01:26:22.440 Coming and attacking them

01:26:23.540 Hey

01:26:23.800 At least they're getting attention

01:26:25.020 The

01:26:26.020 The issue

01:26:27.260 Of people

01:26:28.480 Is that dude

01:26:29.160 We lack

01:26:29.940 Real communication skills

01:26:31.960 Because of the technology

01:26:33.640 That we use to communicate

01:26:34.840 Dude

01:26:36.580 We're fucked

01:26:37.280 It's

01:26:37.560 It's kind of irony

01:26:38.940 You know

01:26:39.360 These platforms that are meant

01:26:40.740 To bring us together

01:26:41.840 And obviously they do

01:26:43.120 On some level

01:26:44.200 But there's a real dark side to them

01:26:46.000 Yeah

01:26:46.220 They're real

01:26:46.860 It's a real dark side

01:26:47.820 So

01:26:48.140 Look man

01:26:48.600 I mean dude

01:26:49.200 It's sad

01:26:50.420 It's sad

01:26:51.660 Yeah

01:26:52.220 So this goes into the topic

01:26:53.560 That we're talking about

01:26:54.400 Loneliness

01:26:54.940 Okay

01:26:55.940 How the fuck do you meet someone

01:26:57.820 Or connect with them

01:26:58.540 If you don't know how to communicate

01:26:59.500 Right

01:27:00.140 Like you gotta remember

01:27:02.400 We're a little bit older

01:27:03.420 Than most of these people

01:27:04.520 All three of us

01:27:05.380 Okay

01:27:06.020 These people who are 20

01:27:07.960 And 25

01:27:08.940 18 to 24

01:27:10.380 Where the fuck

01:27:12.420 Are they gonna learn

01:27:12.880 How to talk to people

01:27:13.700 And connect with them

01:27:14.600 And make

01:27:15.800 Like dude

01:27:16.300 When I was 22

01:27:17.760 If you wanted to meet a girl

01:27:19.080 Okay

01:27:20.460 Because I was into girls

01:27:21.440 I'm just

01:27:22.640 Making that fucking clear

01:27:23.860 Like people

01:27:24.340 We're in such a society now

01:27:26.160 Where it's like

01:27:26.640 Not even cool

01:27:27.400 To be into fucking

01:27:28.660 The opposite sex anymore

01:27:29.720 You've got

01:27:30.180 You know

01:27:30.860 You have to be able to do

01:27:32.200 You have to do something weird

01:27:33.320 To even be accepted

01:27:34.580 Like I'm not saying weird

01:27:36.360 But I'm saying like

01:27:37.080 If a standard relationship

01:27:38.740 Man woman

01:27:40.460 Isn't even like

01:27:41.860 You're somehow boring

01:27:42.760 If you're normal

01:27:43.260 It's even boring

01:27:44.340 It's like you're biased

01:27:46.700 Like if I wanna fuck a woman

01:27:48.920 Then I'm

01:27:50.000 I hate gay people

01:27:51.240 Like that's the logic

01:27:52.760 That's being used now

01:27:54.160 Dude look

01:27:55.700 I got tons of gay friends

01:27:57.040 They're cool as fuck

01:27:58.060 Male and female

01:27:59.260 And they're all cool

01:28:00.720 Like coolest

01:28:01.520 Coolest

01:28:01.960 Coolest

01:28:02.360 Motherfuckers

01:28:02.920 You ever know

01:28:03.420 But there's a

01:28:05.240 There's a segment

01:28:06.260 Of their culture

01:28:07.000 That is offended

01:28:08.380 By a commercial

01:28:09.600 That shows a man

01:28:10.520 And a woman

01:28:10.940 Right

01:28:11.300 You know what I'm saying

01:28:12.780 Right

01:28:13.060 Like dude

01:28:13.620 Or like the people

01:28:15.220 That got upset

01:28:15.740 About the Peloton commercial

01:28:16.840 No because dude

01:28:18.060 The problem that we run into

01:28:19.380 Is that instead of

01:28:20.700 Just live and let live

01:28:22.120 It's not that anymore

01:28:23.460 It's fucking

01:28:24.500 Accept my way

01:28:25.820 As the way

01:28:26.880 And if you don't

01:28:28.400 You hate

01:28:28.960 You're a fucking bigot

01:28:30.160 You're a hater

01:28:30.940 No you're a fucking bigot

01:28:32.900 You're a racist

01:28:33.900 You're a misogynist

01:28:35.100 You're all the shit

01:28:36.160 They say about Trump

01:28:37.120 That's the truth

01:28:38.660 So if you don't

01:28:40.020 Fucking push the agenda

01:28:41.320 Of whatever it is

01:28:42.740 And I mean

01:28:43.300 Not just say

01:28:44.340 Hey

01:28:44.600 It's cool

01:28:45.600 If you're gay

01:28:46.540 We could still be

01:28:47.720 Fucking friends

01:28:48.560 I support your decisions

01:28:50.960 If you say that shit

01:28:53.020 And somehow

01:28:54.380 You know

01:28:54.940 You're like a bigot

01:28:56.720 If you fucking

01:28:57.940 Say how much

01:28:58.760 You love fucking women

01:28:59.820 You know what I'm saying

01:29:00.760 Like I'm exaggerating

01:29:02.120 Okay

01:29:02.340 So don't fucking

01:29:03.120 Come at me

01:29:03.660 Bro

01:29:04.520 Alright with that shit

01:29:05.880 But I'm making a point

01:29:07.780 You know

01:29:08.260 Maybe this is the wrong example

01:29:09.680 Okay

01:29:10.040 It could be

01:29:10.500 But my point is

01:29:11.580 That's the mentality

01:29:14.100 Amongst these causes

01:29:15.380 If we don't adopt them

01:29:16.740 As our life

01:29:18.000 We're somehow

01:29:18.940 A fucking bigot

01:29:19.980 Well who the fuck

01:29:21.420 Is the bigot now

01:29:22.260 Exactly

01:29:24.120 Exactly

01:29:25.380 If you disagree with me

01:29:27.160 You hate me

01:29:27.920 Well

01:29:28.320 How arrogant

01:29:29.400 And I hate you

01:29:29.960 Yeah

01:29:30.180 And I hate you

01:29:31.020 Yeah

01:29:31.320 No dude

01:29:32.040 You're holding me back

01:29:33.300 You're

01:29:33.780 You're

01:29:34.160 You're

01:29:34.440 Oppressing me

01:29:35.320 Motherfucker

01:29:36.160 You don't know

01:29:36.600 Nothing about oppression

01:29:37.560 That's the truth

01:29:38.840 You go to every other

01:29:40.060 Motherfucking country

01:29:40.920 In the Middle East

01:29:41.920 And fuck

01:29:42.720 All these places

01:29:43.460 All over the world

01:29:44.080 And you fucking say

01:29:45.360 One thing

01:29:45.740 They don't like

01:29:46.120 To cut your fucking head off

01:29:47.180 Right

01:29:47.400 People in this country

01:29:48.560 They're fucking weak dude

01:29:50.020 They're weak

01:29:51.120 They don't have

01:29:51.880 A fucking sense of reality

01:29:53.260 They don't understand

01:29:54.660 How grateful

01:29:55.380 Talking to one of my friends

01:29:56.840 A black female by the way

01:29:58.620 Fucking right before

01:30:00.220 I came in here

01:30:00.880 She's traveling the fucking world

01:30:02.400 All over the place

01:30:03.180 And she goes

01:30:04.400 I learned a lot

01:30:05.160 By doing this

01:30:06.100 And I'm like

01:30:06.760 What was the biggest thing

01:30:07.500 You learned

01:30:07.860 And it was

01:30:09.020 You know

01:30:09.800 I just realized

01:30:11.500 How grateful people are

01:30:12.740 In other places in the world

01:30:13.760 To even have the ability

01:30:15.260 To work

01:30:16.740 And to even have the opportunity

01:30:18.820 To do work

01:30:19.340 They're so happy

01:30:20.120 They're so appreciative

01:30:20.940 They're so grateful

01:30:21.760 To even have the ability

01:30:23.720 To fucking work

01:30:24.940 We don't have that here anymore

01:30:26.720 Nope

01:30:27.360 It's sad man

01:30:28.320 It is sad

01:30:29.020 It's sad

01:30:29.460 Everybody here

01:30:30.360 You gotta be a fucking entrepreneur

01:30:32.220 You gotta be a millionaire

01:30:33.900 It's not even a millionaire anymore

01:30:35.840 Now it's

01:30:36.400 I fucking sold

01:30:37.760 Seven billion dollars

01:30:39.100 Here

01:30:39.580 I did this here

01:30:40.680 I did that

01:30:41.300 Like everybody

01:30:42.060 Like I own

01:30:42.760 Fucking six companies

01:30:44.100 Like dude

01:30:44.760 I almost feel guilty

01:30:45.600 For fucking starting the shit

01:30:47.200 Because I actually do own

01:30:49.060 A lot of companies

01:30:49.980 And people feel like

01:30:51.320 Oh well

01:30:51.880 I wanna be a successful entrepreneur too

01:30:54.520 So I gotta fucking sell

01:30:55.540 No you don't

01:30:57.160 Like you don't

01:30:57.740 And can I say something

01:30:58.580 Yeah

01:30:59.020 You started by being a good person

01:31:01.180 I don't fucking

01:31:02.240 I try to be

01:31:03.060 You are

01:31:04.140 Dude look

01:31:05.140 I think that you think a lot about

01:31:07.200 The welfare of other people

01:31:09.000 The people that are in your business

01:31:11.040 I mean

01:31:11.680 It's just something that

01:31:12.960 It struck me

01:31:13.740 That I noticed

01:31:14.520 Yeah

01:31:14.800 Very true

01:31:15.640 I mean it's

01:31:16.180 He cares about

01:31:16.980 Yeah

01:31:17.320 Well why wouldn't I

01:31:18.540 But you do

01:31:19.740 Yeah but why wouldn't I

01:31:20.720 That's why I don't understand

01:31:21.560 There are bosses who don't

01:31:23.660 I mean my dad had a boss

01:31:24.880 For five years

01:31:26.140 Who couldn't care less about him

01:31:28.020 Well that's pretty fucking stupid

01:31:29.360 From a business standpoint

01:31:30.300 Because

01:31:30.880 Well that's why he lost him

01:31:31.980 As an employee

01:31:33.280 My dad found a better deal

01:31:34.600 You gotta be smart enough

01:31:36.460 As a business owner

01:31:37.280 To understand that

01:31:38.020 The people that are helping

01:31:38.900 Your business

01:31:39.420 Have to be taken care of

01:31:40.960 Yeah

01:31:41.180 Like what the fuck

01:31:42.020 Like are you that

01:31:43.160 Are you that fucking stupid

01:31:44.800 People are very self absorbed

01:31:46.080 Yeah but like

01:31:47.000 They are

01:31:47.180 They don't realize

01:31:48.100 That it's in their own best interest

01:31:49.280 To care about people

01:31:50.200 That's terrible business

01:31:51.920 It is terrible business

01:31:52.960 Like it's terrible business

01:31:54.100 To not care about the people

01:31:55.300 That fucking work for you

01:31:56.160 You're right

01:31:56.520 It is

01:31:57.000 What

01:31:57.360 How

01:31:58.480 But people are still

01:32:00.300 In that sort of

01:32:01.600 Pre-social media

01:32:02.500 Pre-modern mentality

01:32:03.680 Where it was true

01:32:05.160 Years ago

01:32:05.800 That you probably could

01:32:06.600 Screw people over

01:32:08.200 And still somehow

01:32:09.780 Make a good living

01:32:11.500 You know

01:32:12.040 And build an empire

01:32:12.840 Well dude that's what we see

01:32:13.680 On fucking internet right now

01:32:14.840 Right

01:32:15.040 We see a lot of people

01:32:15.760 Who are just trying to

01:32:16.440 Screw people over

01:32:17.260 Yeah

01:32:17.780 And they don't understand

01:32:18.700 That they're burying their name

01:32:20.240 Yeah

01:32:20.660 They're burying it

01:32:21.860 I don't know how hard

01:32:23.340 This is to understand

01:32:24.380 Cause like

01:32:24.940 If you're a shitty person

01:32:26.120 The internet's gonna accelerate it

01:32:27.940 Yeah

01:32:28.320 And people are gonna know

01:32:29.120 So like

01:32:30.260 It's good

01:32:30.940 It's a good idea

01:32:31.840 To be a good person

01:32:33.420 Yeah

01:32:34.100 It's practical

01:32:34.720 It is

01:32:35.440 Makes good sense

01:32:36.260 And you know what

01:32:36.760 Sometimes you're gonna fuck it up

01:32:38.060 Guess what you do

01:32:39.580 When you fuck it up

01:32:40.280 You apologize

01:32:41.600 You apologize

01:32:42.900 And you fix the issue

01:32:44.120 And you make it right

01:32:44.680 Yeah

01:32:45.120 Well Dr. Lyon

01:32:47.760 Yes sir

01:32:48.780 We're big on nicknames here

01:32:50.820 So maybe I should start

01:32:52.080 Calling you the Lyoness

01:32:53.220 As long as it's not a swear word

01:32:55.300 We're good

01:32:55.640 No it's not a swear word

01:32:56.460 But so where can people

01:32:58.380 Find you

01:32:59.000 Connect with you

01:32:59.780 Yeah

01:33:00.020 All that good stuff

01:33:00.680 Well they can connect with me

01:33:01.740 On Instagram

01:33:02.280 I'm most active there

01:33:03.620 Dr. Gabrielle Lyon

01:33:05.020 L-Y-O-N

01:33:06.160 L-Y-O-N

01:33:06.960 Yep

01:33:07.240 And then

01:33:08.100 Is Gabrielle

01:33:09.000 G-A-B-R-I-E

01:33:12.100 L-L-E

01:33:13.180 Yep

01:33:13.520 Okay

01:33:14.040 And you're active on Instagram

01:33:15.720 Yep the most

01:33:16.340 Do you have a Twitter

01:33:16.800 I do

01:33:17.500 Okay

01:33:17.820 Twitter and Facebook

01:33:18.960 Facebook okay

01:33:19.880 And a website

01:33:20.720 And a website

01:33:21.020 Just your name

01:33:21.760 Is it Dr. Gabrielle Lyon

01:33:23.060 It is

01:33:23.460 Or is it just Gabrielle Lyon

01:33:24.380 Dr. Gabrielle Lyon

01:33:26.040 Okay well

01:33:26.860 Before I ask for Andy's

01:33:28.920 Final comments

01:33:29.900 And final word

01:33:30.760 No like dude

01:33:31.780 I would like to hear more

01:33:32.780 About what you think

01:33:33.860 About this loneliness shit

01:33:35.120 Because like you've been

01:33:35.940 Kind of sitting there absorbing

01:33:37.000 Yeah

01:33:37.560 So I want to give you

01:33:38.160 An opportunity to like

01:33:39.180 What do you think it is

01:33:40.300 I think that people

01:33:42.460 Have lost the respect

01:33:44.420 And ability to communicate

01:33:45.860 With other people

01:33:46.460 Because when you don't

01:33:47.620 Respect people

01:33:48.300 And have a dynamic

01:33:49.120 You become lonely

01:33:50.460 It's this self-fulfilling prophecy

01:33:52.720 You're comparing yourself

01:33:54.180 You're doing things

01:33:55.040 That are not

01:33:55.660 Relevant

01:33:56.600 Or engaging

01:33:57.440 Or developing

01:33:58.440 True human connection

01:33:59.900 Because that's

01:34:01.640 What it's all about

01:34:02.700 Is true human connection

01:34:04.120 We were designed for that

01:34:05.360 Yeah for sure

01:34:06.040 So the loneliness

01:34:06.880 Is what perpetuates

01:34:08.300 It's this

01:34:08.860 It's self-fulfilling

01:34:10.200 And we have no way

01:34:12.320 To regulate behaviors

01:34:13.320 It's dangerous

01:34:15.540 Yeah

01:34:16.140 That is true

01:34:17.640 Yeah I mean dude

01:34:18.740 I think of

01:34:19.220 I know some

01:34:20.020 I know some

01:34:20.680 We have some mutual friends

01:34:22.160 That have

01:34:23.140 Very passionate

01:34:25.760 Ways of delivering

01:34:27.620 What it is that they love

01:34:28.840 Yeah

01:34:29.180 Okay

01:34:29.520 And I've talked to

01:34:31.080 I talked to some of these guys

01:34:32.500 And they struggle a lot

01:34:34.460 Even

01:34:34.780 Because like dude

01:34:35.440 Even on the back side

01:34:36.440 They struggle mentally

01:34:37.540 With like

01:34:38.800 Feeling depressed

01:34:40.840 Yes

01:34:41.300 Because

01:34:41.880 They feel like

01:34:44.060 They're fighting a battle

01:34:45.700 And then

01:34:47.500 They have to

01:34:48.200 Like dude

01:34:49.000 We've gotten to the point

01:34:49.660 In society

01:34:50.100 Where like when you tell the truth

01:34:51.280 Yes

01:34:51.620 You're automatically a bad person

01:34:53.220 Yes

01:34:53.580 You know like

01:34:54.400 You're hating

01:34:55.600 Yep

01:34:55.980 And so I've talked to

01:34:57.140 Some of these people

01:34:57.900 Who are very

01:34:58.440 You know

01:34:58.760 They're committed

01:35:00.300 To telling the truth

01:35:01.280 Yes

01:35:01.840 But then they struggle mentally

01:35:03.580 On the back side

01:35:05.100 Because they feel like a dick

01:35:06.160 All the time

01:35:06.700 Yep

01:35:07.080 So I fucking get that a lot

01:35:08.600 Like I feel an obligation

01:35:09.980 Because I relate to that

01:35:11.440 I feel an obligation

01:35:12.960 To tell the truth

01:35:13.820 And then when I tell the truth

01:35:15.500 And I deliver it

01:35:16.260 Because I'm a passionate person

01:35:17.840 And I just tell the truth

01:35:19.360 I'm like fuck

01:35:20.320 You're a dick

01:35:21.420 In my head

01:35:22.000 I'm like you're fucking

01:35:22.740 Being an asshole

01:35:23.400 But I'm not being an asshole

01:35:24.420 Right

01:35:24.680 Because I'm actually helping people

01:35:26.500 By having them see the truth

01:35:27.860 Yes

01:35:28.700 So

01:35:28.720 Let's talk about that for a minute

01:35:31.120 Yeah

01:35:31.340 Because I think that's a real problem

01:35:32.680 We have a lot of people out there

01:35:34.100 Who are fighting

01:35:34.900 To tell what the truth is

01:35:37.160 But they

01:35:37.980 On the back side

01:35:38.920 They feel like

01:35:39.540 They're constantly

01:35:40.200 Attacking people

01:35:41.280 Which makes them feel

01:35:42.340 Bad about themselves

01:35:43.460 Well I think that

01:35:45.060 When those people

01:35:45.800 And I know exactly

01:35:46.600 Who you're talking about

01:35:47.560 It's that

01:35:49.420 That the

01:35:50.800 It's really stepping up

01:35:52.320 For humankind

01:35:52.800 He's a great dude

01:35:53.600 He's a great dude

01:35:54.740 I've known him for over a decade

01:35:55.720 Yeah

01:35:56.000 Over a decade

01:35:57.060 Yep

01:35:57.460 And we talk about this

01:35:58.500 Consistently

01:35:59.400 Like it's a

01:36:00.100 Yes

01:36:00.360 Because I struggle

01:36:00.960 With the same thing

01:36:01.600 Yes

01:36:02.060 And I think that it's

01:36:03.920 It's really about

01:36:05.080 Protecting the rest of society

01:36:06.640 And that's where it

01:36:07.680 It comes to

01:36:09.060 And

01:36:09.360 You know

01:36:10.540 It is

01:36:11.180 It's a fine line

01:36:12.220 Because

01:36:12.760 When you say things politely

01:36:14.280 Which is what I did

01:36:15.300 For so long

01:36:15.940 I'm like

01:36:16.740 Oh well

01:36:17.280 You know

01:36:17.520 I really don't think

01:36:18.400 We should be doing this

01:36:19.100 And the impact

01:36:21.100 It wasn't

01:36:21.700 It wasn't

01:36:22.660 Truthful

01:36:23.380 Or not truthful

01:36:24.240 It's not the right word

01:36:24.860 It wasn't exposed enough

01:36:25.940 Right

01:36:26.220 And then you go away

01:36:27.740 Feeling like you didn't

01:36:28.960 Fulfill your responsibility

01:36:29.940 Of what the fuck you know

01:36:31.500 That's right

01:36:32.160 So like that's how I feel

01:36:33.040 And there's a personal

01:36:33.720 Responsibility to actually

01:36:35.380 If you have the knowledge

01:36:36.280 Or you have the capacity

01:36:37.240 Yeah

01:36:37.900 You have an obligation

01:36:38.680 Yeah

01:36:39.060 To do the right thing

01:36:39.860 Yeah

01:36:40.180 Yeah

01:36:40.740 And that's the point

01:36:42.000 It's an obligation

01:36:42.940 To tell the truth

01:36:43.720 It's an obligation

01:36:44.500 And it's very isolating

01:36:45.740 Yeah

01:36:46.140 It is

01:36:46.700 Dude you know

01:36:47.680 This is what I say about

01:36:49.200 And this is the information

01:36:50.600 That I try to tell people

01:36:51.680 Because it's not just

01:36:52.460 One or two guys

01:36:53.520 This is a lot of people

01:36:54.300 I connect with

01:36:54.880 They share the same concerns

01:36:56.200 Look man

01:36:57.360 Being the leader

01:36:58.160 I have a

01:36:59.160 I have a little meme

01:37:00.120 That we made

01:37:01.360 It's not easy

01:37:01.720 Fuck no dude

01:37:02.520 It's the tip of the spear

01:37:03.740 Yep

01:37:03.980 You're gonna be bloody

01:37:04.840 You're gonna be damaged

01:37:05.760 Yep

01:37:05.980 You're gonna be fucked up

01:37:06.900 And that spear is gonna be

01:37:08.580 When you're the tip of the spear bro

01:37:10.120 It is fucking lonely

01:37:11.860 Like that's just reality

01:37:13.600 Mm-hmm

01:37:14.000 You know what I mean

01:37:14.740 Like it is

01:37:15.300 It is far easier

01:37:17.100 To stay quiet

01:37:18.160 Yep

01:37:18.560 And just go with the flow

01:37:20.140 Than it is to say

01:37:21.440 Hey

01:37:21.780 This isn't the way

01:37:23.280 It's supposed to be

01:37:24.280 Right

01:37:24.640 Like dude

01:37:25.040 Even just doing this podcast

01:37:26.260 You don't even

01:37:26.880 You guys

01:37:27.340 Like the amount of

01:37:28.360 Bullshit that I get back

01:37:29.940 From even doing it

01:37:31.020 Mm-hmm

01:37:31.420 Makes me say

01:37:32.440 And Vaughn

01:37:33.720 You know this

01:37:34.200 And sometimes I say

01:37:35.080 You know what

01:37:35.620 Fuck this shit

01:37:37.080 Yep

01:37:37.400 Because I don't need to do it

01:37:38.480 Right

01:37:38.720 Because the truth is

01:37:39.780 I'm fucking rich

01:37:42.160 My companies are kicking ass

01:37:44.060 People get mad to even say that

01:37:45.740 But it's a matter of fact

01:37:46.820 Yeah

01:37:47.160 And my companies are gonna

01:37:48.200 Keep kicking ass

01:37:49.040 Because my people believe

01:37:50.340 In the cause

01:37:51.020 And we fucking work together

01:37:52.580 In real life

01:37:53.400 You know

01:37:54.100 But my point is

01:37:55.780 Is like I feel this obligation too

01:37:58.620 And then when I don't do it

01:37:59.880 I feel bad

01:38:00.920 Right

01:38:01.240 But then when I do it

01:38:02.620 I feel bad too

01:38:04.440 But you're just gonna

01:38:05.660 But that's what

01:38:06.320 Part of being a good leader

01:38:07.180 As you still do it

01:38:08.000 Yeah

01:38:08.220 And you keep doing it

01:38:09.100 You just literally described

01:38:10.640 The way the prophets

01:38:12.240 In the Old Testament

01:38:13.180 Described their experience

01:38:14.760 Like when God gave them

01:38:15.720 Something to say

01:38:16.460 They're like burn inside

01:38:18.400 It hurt for them to say it

01:38:20.260 But they had to say it

01:38:21.200 Yeah

01:38:21.360 Like that's literally

01:38:22.140 The way that it's described

01:38:23.500 Really

01:38:23.980 Yeah

01:38:24.420 Mm-hmm

01:38:25.620 Well dude it's true

01:38:26.620 I mean it is true

01:38:27.960 Yeah

01:38:28.300 Dude if I were you guys

01:38:30.200 You guys who are listening

01:38:31.160 And you follow people

01:38:32.080 That tell the truth

01:38:33.020 That work hard

01:38:34.120 To tell you the truth

01:38:34.840 Yeah

01:38:34.980 Appreciate those people

01:38:36.160 Because those people

01:38:37.480 They're usually fighting

01:38:39.220 Some really bad shit

01:38:40.800 On the backside

01:38:41.400 Totally

01:38:41.940 With themselves

01:38:42.780 About their obligation

01:38:44.580 To serve this truth

01:38:46.020 And they feel lonely

01:38:48.140 Because of it

01:38:48.920 Yep

01:38:48.980 Because it's alienating

01:38:50.440 Yeah

01:38:50.760 So if you guys believe

01:38:52.140 Like you listen to people

01:38:53.360 And you believe

01:38:53.960 In what they're saying

01:38:54.740 Fucking let them know man

01:38:56.360 Yes

01:38:56.740 Because dude

01:38:57.460 I struggle with this

01:38:59.340 You know

01:38:59.840 Vaughn knows this

01:39:01.420 Because we talk about it

01:39:02.160 All the time

01:39:02.560 You and I have talked

01:39:03.160 About it before too

01:39:03.880 You know

01:39:05.120 It's not fun

01:39:06.680 To tell people shit

01:39:07.520 They don't want to hear

01:39:08.220 Right

01:39:08.520 Like I don't like that

01:39:09.500 I don't

01:39:10.180 I don't like

01:39:11.480 Make

01:39:12.220 Like people think

01:39:13.120 I'm like mean

01:39:14.080 I'm not mean

01:39:14.840 I'm telling you

01:39:16.220 The fucking truth

01:39:17.160 So you can

01:39:17.540 Make a decision

01:39:18.540 Yeah

01:39:18.880 You know

01:39:19.540 And people take it as mean

01:39:20.780 Just because you don't

01:39:22.140 Like to hear something

01:39:23.060 Doesn't mean it's mean

01:39:24.040 Right

01:39:24.620 In fact

01:39:25.320 I would argue

01:39:26.060 That when people tell you

01:39:27.080 The shit you don't like to hear

01:39:28.160 They're actually being

01:39:29.020 More loving of you

01:39:30.140 Than all the other motherfuckers

01:39:31.200 In your life

01:39:31.660 Absolutely

01:39:32.140 So when you have people

01:39:34.040 That are

01:39:34.640 That you're vibing with

01:39:37.480 And you don't assume

01:39:38.580 That they're just like

01:39:39.460 Feeling great about

01:39:41.140 Going out and leading this charge

01:39:42.500 Because dude

01:39:43.240 That shit can be lonely as fuck

01:39:46.080 Our society would be

01:39:47.500 A whole lot better

01:39:48.160 A whole lot quicker

01:39:49.260 If everybody

01:39:50.140 After hearing something

01:39:51.400 Didn't say

01:39:52.280 I don't like that

01:39:54.360 Or if they did say

01:39:55.180 I don't like that

01:39:55.860 They immediately followed it up with

01:39:57.760 But is it true

01:39:58.640 Yeah

01:39:59.100 Yeah

01:39:59.540 Is it true

01:40:00.140 Yeah

01:40:00.460 I want to add

01:40:01.740 Another quick layer

01:40:03.140 To this conversation

01:40:04.120 Which is that

01:40:04.900 You know

01:40:05.140 When we talk about loneliness

01:40:06.100 This is a truth

01:40:08.220 That people don't want to admit

01:40:09.300 But I remember

01:40:10.160 Literally like

01:40:11.340 My kindergarten teacher

01:40:12.300 Telling me this

01:40:12.980 And that it was

01:40:13.980 If you want to have friends

01:40:15.440 You got to be friendly

01:40:16.080 You know

01:40:17.000 And the reality

01:40:17.920 And the reality is

01:40:18.120 Is that there's a lot of people

01:40:19.180 Out in our culture

01:40:19.980 Who are lonely

01:40:20.860 Who are isolated

01:40:21.960 But the reality is

01:40:23.020 It's because they've kind of

01:40:25.320 Withdrawn to themselves

01:40:26.700 They've kind of isolated themselves

01:40:28.880 They've celebrated

01:40:31.000 You know

01:40:31.740 Their own pity party

01:40:32.900 And reality is

01:40:34.560 Is that maybe

01:40:35.160 They could be less lonely

01:40:36.100 If they got the emphasis

01:40:37.060 Off of themselves

01:40:37.880 And they said

01:40:38.360 Okay

01:40:38.620 I feel alone

01:40:40.160 I feel disconnected

01:40:41.080 I feel alienated

01:40:42.240 Maybe I need to step out

01:40:44.700 And talk to somebody else

01:40:47.140 Maybe I need to go out

01:40:48.620 And see if there's somebody else

01:40:49.620 Who feels the same way

01:40:50.600 And see if they want

01:40:51.520 To have a conversation

01:40:52.240 If they want to have coffee

01:40:53.180 If they want to get together

01:40:54.080 For dinner

01:40:54.500 You know what I'm saying

01:40:55.900 I mean

01:40:56.200 Sometimes we're lonely

01:40:57.060 Because it's a self-imposed isolation

01:40:59.440 Yeah

01:40:59.840 We've just

01:41:00.400 We've just become

01:41:01.140 So self-absorbed

01:41:02.200 With our own world

01:41:04.180 And our own concerns

01:41:05.200 That we don't reach out

01:41:06.340 To other people

01:41:06.860 We don't put other people first

01:41:08.020 So I think

01:41:08.480 A real anecdote

01:41:09.600 To loneliness

01:41:11.760 Is just like

01:41:12.680 Intentionally

01:41:13.440 Figuring out

01:41:14.440 How you can serve

01:41:15.120 Somebody else

01:41:15.800 And connect with somebody else

01:41:17.040 Does that make sense?

01:41:17.920 Absolutely

01:41:18.280 So what I started saying earlier

01:41:20.200 So you shared

01:41:21.720 Your social media contacts

01:41:24.620 Yes

01:41:24.940 You know

01:41:25.180 Instagram

01:41:25.580 Facebook

01:41:26.220 And you have

01:41:26.860 Dr. Gabrielle Lyons

01:41:28.400 Lyon

01:41:29.160 I know

01:41:29.300 Yep

01:41:29.560 And I have a book

01:41:31.600 You have a book?

01:41:32.320 What's your book?

01:41:32.680 It's coming out

01:41:33.000 Well it's not done yet

01:41:34.400 It'll probably be out

01:41:35.020 In another year

01:41:35.520 Okay

01:41:35.880 So I'm working on that

01:41:36.700 That's awesome

01:41:37.320 Can you give us

01:41:38.540 Like a little bit

01:41:39.180 Of a preview

01:41:39.640 About what that's going to be?

01:41:40.740 The Lion Protocol

01:41:41.880 Nice

01:41:42.540 Optimizing

01:41:43.940 I like it

01:41:44.460 Organ of longevity

01:41:45.060 Yeah

01:41:45.520 And can we start a movement

01:41:48.100 Where if people follow you

01:41:49.400 They're called

01:41:49.820 And they're women

01:41:50.440 They're called lionesses

01:41:51.560 Yeah I love it

01:41:52.260 Yeah

01:41:52.420 But you're not a lion lion

01:41:53.980 Right

01:41:54.300 You're not somebody who lies

01:41:56.180 Right

01:41:56.760 I'm just enjoying

01:41:57.700 These puns too much

01:41:58.920 But

01:41:59.280 So I had warned you

01:42:01.400 Prior to starting this

01:42:02.620 That I was going to ask you

01:42:03.780 To give

01:42:04.200 Just

01:42:04.920 A simple

01:42:06.120 Closing

01:42:06.880 Sort of

01:42:07.280 Life hack

01:42:08.020 Or health hack

01:42:08.980 And you said

01:42:09.700 You knew exactly

01:42:10.280 What you were going to do

01:42:10.900 Yeah so

01:42:11.020 Most of us

01:42:12.380 Have the same

01:42:13.000 98,000 thoughts

01:42:15.180 Every day

01:42:16.200 Same thoughts

01:42:17.160 Majority of those

01:42:18.440 Are negative

01:42:18.860 If you could do

01:42:20.200 One thing

01:42:20.800 And really

01:42:21.960 That's

01:42:22.460 Understand your own

01:42:23.840 Narrative

01:42:24.220 And change that

01:42:25.220 You literally

01:42:26.260 Will change the trajectory

01:42:27.400 Of not only your health

01:42:28.380 But your life

01:42:29.480 Dude

01:42:30.540 I just had this

01:42:31.820 Conversation with you

01:42:32.800 Yesterday

01:42:33.360 I'm pointing to DJ

01:42:34.760 DJ went on my walk

01:42:37.560 With me yesterday

01:42:38.080 For 75 hard

01:42:39.000 And we were talking

01:42:39.600 And one of the things

01:42:41.180 I used to do

01:42:41.960 Like dude

01:42:42.720 For years

01:42:43.600 This is just

01:42:45.420 How I'm wired

01:42:46.120 Okay

01:42:46.420 Like I would wake up

01:42:48.040 In the morning

01:42:48.480 And I would look

01:42:50.480 At my phone

01:42:51.000 And I would say

01:42:51.980 Because there's always

01:42:53.120 Like dozens

01:42:54.220 And dozens of texts

01:42:55.240 Okay

01:42:55.620 They're ready to go

01:42:56.720 It's like waking up

01:42:59.840 With a whole line

01:43:00.460 Of people waiting

01:43:01.020 To talk to you

01:43:01.620 You know what I mean

01:43:02.300 It's kind of

01:43:03.120 Fucking stressful

01:43:03.740 So

01:43:04.640 I

01:43:06.040 I used to wake up

01:43:07.780 My first thought

01:43:08.740 For fucking years

01:43:10.080 For years

01:43:11.780 Was

01:43:12.580 Fuck

01:43:13.720 I got

01:43:14.560 What fuck

01:43:15.200 Whose ass

01:43:15.740 Do I get to wipe today

01:43:16.660 That's what I started thinking

01:43:17.960 And it didn't occur to me

01:43:20.200 Until recently

01:43:20.960 In the last

01:43:22.040 Year and a half

01:43:22.860 Year or so

01:43:23.620 That

01:43:24.780 People actually need me

01:43:27.840 That's why they're doing that

01:43:29.800 And so

01:43:30.940 Instead of me thinking

01:43:32.440 Well who

01:43:33.260 Whose shit do I gotta fix

01:43:34.700 Now I wake up

01:43:36.260 And I say

01:43:36.660 Dude

01:43:36.940 Another day

01:43:37.760 I get to be a fucking boss

01:43:38.960 Yeah

01:43:39.620 Like for real

01:43:40.260 That's my narrative

01:43:41.000 When I wake up

01:43:41.620 First thing I think

01:43:42.500 I put my feet on the fucking ground

01:43:44.160 I said dude

01:43:44.740 Most people would trade

01:43:46.600 A fucking ton

01:43:47.980 To have one day

01:43:48.940 Of being the fucking

01:43:49.680 Being the dude

01:43:50.560 I get to go be it every day

01:43:52.140 And I thought

01:43:53.060 And dude

01:43:53.600 You know what

01:43:54.140 That's fucking changed

01:43:55.340 My whole mentality

01:43:56.260 Like in terms of my mood

01:43:58.020 Like my

01:43:59.000 Like dude

01:43:59.600 I still have a

01:44:00.180 I still have the

01:44:01.060 I still

01:44:02.720 I'm working on

01:44:04.640 Controlling my emotional

01:44:06.180 Like frustrations

01:44:07.400 But

01:44:07.940 Just thinking that

01:44:10.000 Has made a massive improvement

01:44:11.280 On fucking everything

01:44:12.460 Yeah

01:44:12.760 And I bet

01:44:13.560 I bet

01:44:15.500 If I would have

01:44:16.600 Do my blood work

01:44:17.620 On a regular basis

01:44:18.320 You would see that

01:44:19.360 In the blood work

01:44:19.940 Yes

01:44:20.420 I bet you would

01:44:21.100 Yep

01:44:21.340 Yes

01:44:22.500 Negative thoughts

01:44:23.500 Is

01:44:23.980 It's very inflammatory

01:44:24.960 For the body

01:44:26.020 It's stressful

01:44:27.360 It releases stress hormones

01:44:28.580 But that's just one thought

01:44:30.120 Yeah

01:44:30.720 Out of my whole day

01:44:31.720 Yeah

01:44:32.160 Like that one little thought

01:44:33.460 That you repeated

01:44:34.200 Every day for years

01:44:35.120 Yeah

01:44:35.380 But it's not

01:44:36.100 It's not even true

01:44:36.860 The truth is

01:44:37.480 I am a fucking boss

01:44:38.400 Yeah

01:44:38.880 For real

01:44:39.460 Like in every sense

01:44:40.340 Of the fucking word

01:44:41.180 So

01:44:41.920 Who the fuck

01:44:44.140 Wouldn't be excited

01:44:44.720 About that

01:44:45.180 That's how I started

01:44:46.340 Thinking about it

01:44:47.000 And when I started

01:44:47.460 Thinking about it

01:44:47.920 Like that

01:44:48.400 I'm like

01:44:49.320 Damn dude

01:44:49.840 This is pretty awesome

01:44:51.700 Yep

01:44:51.980 You know what I'm saying

01:44:52.660 Yeah

01:44:53.060 Now I actually

01:44:53.980 Like you know

01:44:55.820 Because dude

01:44:57.600 We all get caught up

01:44:58.400 In our own narrative

01:44:59.080 You know

01:45:00.040 I see it all the time

01:45:01.020 I mean

01:45:01.300 Yeah

01:45:01.760 I take care of people

01:45:03.140 On the daily

01:45:03.940 And it's

01:45:04.720 The same narrative

01:45:06.000 It's a different flavor

01:45:07.140 Of narrative

01:45:07.680 But it's the same narrative

01:45:08.900 Same four things

01:45:10.360 Yep

01:45:10.840 Everybody

01:45:11.440 Dude

01:45:12.200 Dr. Nicole LaPera

01:45:13.720 She's

01:45:14.440 We've had her on

01:45:15.260 The MSCO project

01:45:16.200 And I'm gonna have her

01:45:16.860 On this show as well

01:45:17.620 Regularly

01:45:18.200 Just like you

01:45:18.940 But she really

01:45:21.660 Helped me with that

01:45:22.280 Not directly

01:45:22.920 Like saying

01:45:23.480 Hey

01:45:23.740 Fix this shit

01:45:24.800 But like

01:45:25.520 By asking me questions

01:45:26.720 That helped me

01:45:27.360 Come to my own conclusion

01:45:28.480 Just as friends

01:45:29.300 Like texting back and forth

01:45:30.960 And I would say

01:45:32.060 Hey I'm really struggling

01:45:32.860 With this thought

01:45:33.640 And she would say

01:45:35.140 Well do you actually

01:45:36.560 Believe that that's the truth

01:45:37.860 And I'm like

01:45:38.940 Well no

01:45:39.560 And like

01:45:40.600 When you start to

01:45:41.360 It's so rational

01:45:42.240 I know

01:45:42.800 But when you start

01:45:43.660 To logically unpack

01:45:44.980 Why the fuck

01:45:45.580 You think certain things

01:45:46.700 Most of the shit

01:45:47.740 You think is

01:45:48.300 Actual bullshit

01:45:49.260 Totally

01:45:49.660 That you've been conditioned

01:45:50.920 To fucking believe

01:45:52.060 Based upon inputs

01:45:53.980 That you put in

01:45:54.780 That probably just

01:45:55.520 Weren't the right inputs

01:45:56.420 You know what I'm saying

01:45:57.700 And I can be

01:45:58.640 Look man

01:45:59.800 I'll attest to what you said

01:46:02.600 It's life changing

01:46:03.740 Just one

01:46:04.500 One fucking sentence

01:46:05.940 Yep

01:46:06.260 Instead of

01:46:07.060 Like dude

01:46:07.360 I literally wake up

01:46:08.340 And I've conditioned myself

01:46:09.440 To wake up

01:46:10.160 My feet hit the ground

01:46:11.500 I'm like dude

01:46:12.100 It's gonna be a great day

01:46:13.720 Being a fucking boss

01:46:14.720 You know

01:46:15.380 Or being a boss

01:46:16.380 Yep

01:46:16.640 You know what I'm saying

01:46:17.280 Because I don't really

01:46:17.960 Call myself the fucking boss

01:46:19.560 Right

01:46:20.040 But like there's a

01:46:20.920 Being a boss

01:46:23.160 Doesn't mean you have to

01:46:24.200 Actually be the boss

01:46:25.720 Right

01:46:26.500 That everybody knows that

01:46:27.860 Everybody can be the

01:46:28.820 MFCEO of their life

01:46:29.980 That's right man

01:46:30.780 So like dude

01:46:31.660 I fucking wake up

01:46:32.580 And I think that shit

01:46:33.420 And I go look in the mirror

01:46:34.380 And I'm like

01:46:34.860 We got some work to do

01:46:36.320 Motherfucker

01:46:36.840 You know

01:46:37.520 And then we go do it

01:46:38.400 Yeah

01:46:38.980 And it's great

01:46:39.900 But like man

01:46:41.600 Like now I'm working on

01:46:43.840 Identifying all the other

01:46:44.860 Bullshit that I've got

01:46:45.700 Going on up there

01:46:46.360 In my head

01:46:46.820 Yep

01:46:47.100 That I'm trying to

01:46:47.820 Fucking change around

01:46:48.660 But by identifying it

01:46:50.340 That's the ultimate

01:46:51.640 Yeah

01:46:52.020 Name it

01:46:52.380 It pulls the curtains back

01:46:54.140 Because you can't change

01:46:54.980 What you don't identify

01:46:55.760 Yeah

01:46:56.060 Just like with your blood work

01:46:57.120 Yeah

01:46:57.500 You can't change the data

01:46:58.420 You don't know

01:46:58.940 Yeah

01:46:59.220 I tell people that all the time

01:47:00.580 Because they'll ask me questions

01:47:01.600 About like entrepreneurship

01:47:03.020 And they'll say

01:47:04.320 Well dude

01:47:04.780 How do I

01:47:05.380 How do I make sure

01:47:07.020 I don't lose it all

01:47:08.100 Or like get complacent

01:47:09.260 And I'm like

01:47:09.720 Well dude

01:47:10.020 The fact that you're aware of this

01:47:11.580 And you're fearful of it

01:47:12.640 Is going to keep you

01:47:13.460 From doing that

01:47:14.160 Because you're consciously

01:47:15.940 Taking things to resist that

01:47:17.600 It's the people who aren't aware

01:47:19.460 Yeah

01:47:19.960 Of that

01:47:20.620 That actually end up

01:47:21.680 That have that happen to them

01:47:22.860 You know what I mean

01:47:23.720 And another thing too

01:47:25.120 This is a thought

01:47:26.420 That was on my mind

01:47:27.240 About entrepreneurs

01:47:28.700 Because like a lot of entrepreneurs

01:47:32.020 Really struggle with

01:47:33.080 And I think people

01:47:34.480 Not just entrepreneurs

01:47:35.320 Because everybody's

01:47:37.240 An intrapreneur

01:47:37.920 An entrepreneur

01:47:38.420 There's only two kinds of people

01:47:39.540 You're fucking one or the other

01:47:41.020 You either own an organization

01:47:42.300 Or you work inside of an organization

01:47:44.480 So

01:47:45.380 Either of these groups

01:47:48.120 I think a lot of people feel like

01:47:49.840 One day they're going to wake up

01:47:51.720 And it's all going to be gone

01:47:52.480 So they live in fear

01:47:53.300 But remember how long it took you

01:47:55.720 To build this shit

01:47:56.560 It takes the same amount of time

01:47:58.940 To fucking break it the fuck down

01:48:00.260 I mean it might be a faster scale

01:48:01.900 That's the wrong way to say it

01:48:03.020 It's not the same amount of time

01:48:04.000 It takes a lot of effort

01:48:06.860 To make something come crashing down

01:48:10.680 So like dude

01:48:11.520 That's a thought that I struggled with

01:48:13.240 For a long time

01:48:14.080 Where I thought like

01:48:15.120 Fuck dude

01:48:15.700 One day

01:48:16.480 The shoe's going to drop

01:48:18.000 And I'm just going to be

01:48:18.780 Fucking destitute

01:48:19.700 And that thought has driven me

01:48:22.000 To push

01:48:23.100 Right

01:48:23.420 But what I

01:48:25.360 But when I logically

01:48:27.040 Like worked through it

01:48:28.560 I'm like

01:48:29.280 That's not really even possible

01:48:31.000 Because

01:48:31.540 There's all kinds of solutions

01:48:33.460 To every problem

01:48:34.720 If I'm willing to learn

01:48:35.740 And get better

01:48:36.320 And take accountability

01:48:37.280 For what the fuck went wrong

01:48:38.840 So the fact

01:48:40.180 The fact of the matter is

01:48:41.280 It's almost literally impossible

01:48:43.160 For it to just

01:48:44.720 You know

01:48:45.780 For anybody's life

01:48:46.900 Just to come fucking crashing down

01:48:48.640 The way that it comes crashing down

01:48:50.500 Is by you ignoring

01:48:51.440 The little things for so long

01:48:53.140 That they become

01:48:54.300 Fucking huge things

01:48:55.320 And so

01:48:56.400 Like dude

01:48:56.940 When you start to think about it

01:48:58.000 Like that

01:48:58.500 And you think of it

01:48:59.120 In terms of

01:48:59.780 Like it's just like

01:49:01.380 Losing weight or gaining weight

01:49:02.360 You've lost 100 pounds

01:49:03.540 And you're terrified

01:49:04.260 Of being fat again

01:49:05.300 One fucking pizza

01:49:06.820 Is not going to make you fat

01:49:07.920 That's right

01:49:08.580 But

01:49:09.120 If you make a habit out of that

01:49:11.060 And you let it go

01:49:11.840 Without paying attention

01:49:12.820 You know what I'm saying

01:49:14.040 Yeah

01:49:14.240 That's where it gets out of control

01:49:15.420 So

01:49:15.880 I think for a lot of the people out there

01:49:17.880 Who are living in that fear

01:49:19.040 Because dude

01:49:19.540 That's like a

01:49:20.140 Just like we hear in society

01:49:22.240 About the get rich quick shit

01:49:25.900 Like we hear the stories

01:49:27.220 They're glorified

01:49:28.120 Like the

01:49:28.700 The story of the lottery winner

01:49:30.560 Or the story of the business owner

01:49:32.460 Or the guy who opened a business

01:49:33.840 And now he's a billionaire

01:49:34.900 In two years

01:49:37.120 Shit like that

01:49:37.900 Those are the glorified stories

01:49:39.700 Well

01:49:40.580 We also hear the glorified stories

01:49:42.500 Of the back end too

01:49:43.540 Which is like

01:49:44.180 The guy who had it all

01:49:45.260 And fucking

01:49:45.780 Everything came crumbling down

01:49:47.200 The American greed stories

01:49:48.620 You know

01:49:48.960 The shit

01:49:49.380 And it terrifies motherfuckers

01:49:51.320 Like there's a lot of people out there

01:49:52.920 That are living in complete

01:49:54.540 Fucking

01:49:55.220 Fear

01:49:56.320 That is completely illogical

01:49:57.920 Totally

01:49:58.320 Completely illogical

01:50:00.160 There's no reason to live like that

01:50:01.600 You know what I mean

01:50:02.660 Yeah

01:50:02.880 And I live

01:50:03.440 I know this because I lived like that

01:50:05.020 For a long time

01:50:05.740 And it fucking sucked

01:50:06.900 It's why my hair is fucking gray

01:50:08.680 For real

01:50:09.480 You know what I'm saying

01:50:10.460 So for you guys out there

01:50:12.960 Struggling with these thoughts

01:50:14.160 Realize that

01:50:15.040 It takes time to build shit

01:50:16.800 And it takes time to break shit down

01:50:18.340 And whatever your goal is

01:50:20.080 Or whatever life

01:50:20.900 You're leading

01:50:21.920 You know

01:50:23.620 If you're aware of it

01:50:24.660 If you're aware of what you're not

01:50:26.500 You're trying to not get

01:50:27.740 Not focusing on it

01:50:29.460 Not obsessing over it

01:50:31.060 But just aware

01:50:32.140 That's almost good enough

01:50:33.820 To keep it in check

01:50:35.900 Yes

01:50:36.540 You know

01:50:37.080 Yes

01:50:37.640 That's what I tell my patients

01:50:39.140 Is

01:50:39.420 To report on their internal dialogue

01:50:41.880 Have that be their new favorite sport

01:50:43.480 Because I'm telling you

01:50:44.960 The list is the same five fucking things

01:50:47.360 Yeah

01:50:47.640 What do you mean

01:50:48.560 I'm going to lose it all

01:50:49.260 So

01:50:49.540 Like tell me about this

01:50:50.540 Catch and release

01:50:51.320 So all the patients that I see

01:50:53.200 Right

01:50:53.660 One of the things

01:50:54.560 You know

01:50:55.100 I mean okay

01:50:55.560 With the SEALs

01:50:56.260 Not so much

01:50:56.900 They don't

01:50:57.720 They don't quite

01:50:58.500 Need any advice from me

01:51:01.380 Yeah

01:51:01.660 In terms of that

01:51:02.600 I mean you know these guys

01:51:03.760 Right

01:51:04.200 But you know for

01:51:05.580 Everybody else

01:51:07.080 Literally everybody else

01:51:08.820 There's a narrative

01:51:10.860 It's a mental narrative

01:51:12.520 And we all have

01:51:13.960 Whatever that is

01:51:15.300 And we repeat the same

01:51:16.600 98,000 thoughts

01:51:18.120 When you really start to identify

01:51:20.080 Anyone that has depression

01:51:21.500 Weight issues

01:51:22.440 Whatever it is

01:51:23.340 They have the same thoughts

01:51:24.540 Whether it's

01:51:25.480 I'm never going to be good enough

01:51:26.540 I'm never going to make enough money

01:51:28.160 I'm going to get sick

01:51:29.440 I'm never going to find

01:51:30.540 The right person

01:51:31.440 Or I'm going to lose it all

01:51:32.360 Whatever those four thoughts

01:51:34.680 Whatever your four thoughts are

01:51:35.960 You've got four

01:51:36.820 Vaughn has four

01:51:37.860 I have four

01:51:38.580 It's the same rhetoric

01:51:39.860 Over and over and over again

01:51:41.800 The same lies that we buy

01:51:43.020 All the time

01:51:43.500 Yes

01:51:43.800 Same thing

01:51:44.280 To ourselves though

01:51:45.300 And then the problem is

01:51:46.520 This is why I always tell people

01:51:47.760 You don't have fucking haters

01:51:49.000 You got a voice in your head

01:51:50.180 That fucking hates on you

01:51:51.100 But if you can identify that

01:51:52.740 And you know actually

01:51:53.680 What I did in the beginning

01:51:54.980 Is I would just write it down

01:51:56.420 And then you start to laugh at it

01:51:57.820 Just like what you're saying

01:51:59.040 It's ridiculous

01:51:59.420 It's ridiculous

01:52:00.680 Yeah

01:52:00.980 You would just write it down

01:52:02.340 Yeah

01:52:03.220 And then you start seeing

01:52:04.420 The most ridiculous thing

01:52:05.760 And it's almost comical

01:52:06.840 If you were to say it out loud

01:52:07.840 Dude

01:52:08.240 Listen to this shit

01:52:09.360 So last night

01:52:10.120 I was high as fuck

01:52:11.020 Alright

01:52:11.840 And I'm laying on my couch

01:52:13.320 And I'm fucking texting

01:52:14.940 One of my

01:52:17.280 Our accountant

01:52:19.080 Okay

01:52:19.480 And I'm like

01:52:20.180 Mike

01:52:20.700 Yeah I can't get a hold of him

01:52:22.480 Alright

01:52:23.240 And I'm like fuck

01:52:24.960 Like I

01:52:25.980 Cause I'm fucking

01:52:26.640 You know

01:52:27.000 I'm high

01:52:27.640 So like I'm not thinking

01:52:28.520 Fucking logically

01:52:29.260 Right

01:52:29.720 And

01:52:30.160 Which I come up with

01:52:31.420 Some really good ideas

01:52:32.260 Okay

01:52:32.540 Let's be real

01:52:33.280 But

01:52:33.800 Adam what the fuck

01:52:35.940 You laughing at bro

01:52:36.740 Drug test Monday

01:52:39.900 Motherfucker

01:52:40.480 So

01:52:42.000 Anyway dude

01:52:43.260 The thing is

01:52:44.800 Is like

01:52:45.200 I'm sitting here thinking

01:52:46.720 And I text

01:52:47.700 Dude it's like

01:52:48.300 Eight o'clock at night

01:52:49.000 Yesterday was fucking

01:52:50.320 Valentine's Day

01:52:50.900 Right

01:52:51.240 Alright

01:52:51.720 I had completely forgot

01:52:53.160 It was Valentine's Day

01:52:54.020 So did Shane

01:52:54.580 So

01:52:55.040 Oh yeah

01:52:55.800 So I text him

01:52:57.160 And

01:52:58.080 I'm like

01:52:59.540 Hey bro

01:53:00.780 I didn't get this report today

01:53:02.080 I don't get a reply back

01:53:03.500 Fucking like 30 minutes goes by

01:53:05.780 And I'm like

01:53:06.880 Fuck

01:53:07.640 I haven't heard from Mike

01:53:08.560 Cause usually he hits me right back

01:53:10.100 Yeah

01:53:10.520 So I fucking text him again

01:53:12.280 I'm like bro

01:53:12.820 Is everything okay

01:53:13.580 And in my head I'm like

01:53:14.720 Fuck dude

01:53:15.760 What if something happened to him man

01:53:17.320 And like

01:53:18.060 Tomorrow

01:53:18.800 I'm gonna find out

01:53:20.020 That it fucking

01:53:20.560 Oh

01:53:20.960 And I like start building this fucking

01:53:22.260 And then I'm like dude

01:53:23.540 I caught myself

01:53:24.420 And I'm like

01:53:24.980 Are you fucking stupid

01:53:27.120 Like what the fuck are you saying

01:53:29.100 Like

01:53:29.860 But dude

01:53:30.800 That's me

01:53:31.560 That's me

01:53:32.740 Doing that

01:53:33.460 Yeah

01:53:33.740 You know what I'm saying

01:53:34.580 Like

01:53:34.900 And I'm

01:53:36.240 I feel like I'm a high operating

01:53:37.700 Individual

01:53:38.780 Yes

01:53:39.500 In fact I know I am

01:53:40.540 Because I got medically

01:53:41.520 Called that

01:53:42.620 By one of my doctors

01:53:43.640 Yeah

01:53:45.160 So it's a real thing

01:53:46.420 Isn't that a real thing

01:53:47.300 She's kind of a quack though

01:53:48.480 High operating individual

01:53:50.080 I don't know

01:53:51.240 Yeah

01:53:51.440 Just say yes

01:53:52.180 Yes

01:53:52.460 Ohio

01:53:54.160 See

01:53:54.620 This is fucking science

01:53:56.220 Motherfuckers

01:53:56.980 You said yes

01:53:58.840 It's fucking true

01:53:59.920 That's true

01:54:00.340 Because you're a doctor

01:54:01.500 You know what I'm saying

01:54:02.780 Like dude

01:54:03.220 This is the whole problem

01:54:04.520 We're laughing about

01:54:05.320 But I don't know man

01:54:07.000 Like we all have that ability

01:54:08.220 To fuck ourselves up mentally

01:54:09.680 And

01:54:09.960 You know

01:54:10.960 It's why everybody's so obsessed

01:54:14.000 With haters dude

01:54:14.840 This is why

01:54:15.800 When you make a post about haters

01:54:17.040 Everybody fucking loves it

01:54:18.240 Because

01:54:18.940 Dude

01:54:19.200 Everybody's like

01:54:20.080 Why do you always talk about haters

01:54:21.180 I'm like well

01:54:21.840 Because it's a real thing

01:54:23.220 That we struggle with

01:54:23.920 It's just not actually

01:54:24.940 Other people

01:54:25.680 It's us

01:54:26.240 But it's easier to blame

01:54:27.520 Other people

01:54:27.980 Than point at ourselves

01:54:29.000 And say we're actually

01:54:29.980 The source of our problem

01:54:31.040 Dude look man

01:54:32.060 Here's the conversation

01:54:33.160 What is the conversation like

01:54:34.440 Let's be real

01:54:35.120 What's the conversation

01:54:36.100 About haters

01:54:36.580 It's never

01:54:37.540 It's very rarely

01:54:39.120 This person said this

01:54:41.160 Or did this to me

01:54:42.340 It's almost always

01:54:44.280 Man I said this

01:54:46.040 And I bet there's people out there

01:54:47.720 That took it this way

01:54:48.640 Right

01:54:48.960 And I bet those motherfuckers

01:54:50.480 Fucking hate me

01:54:51.300 And then

01:54:52.360 You start

01:54:53.100 Well there's gotta be

01:54:53.920 Millions of those people

01:54:54.900 But dude

01:54:55.980 That's an arrogant thought

01:54:57.180 Because that is like

01:54:58.340 Inflating your own importance

01:55:00.040 Falsely

01:55:01.580 Like really

01:55:02.780 Dude the truth is

01:55:03.760 Nobody really gives a fuck

01:55:04.740 No

01:55:04.980 They don't give a fuck about me

01:55:06.020 They don't give a fuck about

01:55:07.120 Like dude

01:55:07.820 Too busy living their lives

01:55:09.060 To worry about you

01:55:09.420 Yeah that's right dude

01:55:10.020 We're busy doing our own shit

01:55:11.480 No one gives a fuck about

01:55:12.820 Like dude

01:55:13.860 Do we care?

01:55:14.760 Yes

01:55:15.120 Is it everything?

01:55:16.740 No

01:55:17.140 So like

01:55:17.920 We sit here

01:55:19.520 And make up this like

01:55:20.360 God dude

01:55:20.800 There's gotta be a fucking army

01:55:21.980 Of motherfuckers

01:55:22.640 There's probably a club

01:55:23.760 There's probably a fucking

01:55:25.360 They probably fucking get together

01:55:26.740 And have fucking parties and shit

01:55:28.240 Talk about how much they hate me

01:55:29.440 You know what I'm saying

01:55:30.480 Like dude

01:55:31.380 It's not fucking reality

01:55:32.840 But we all do that shit

01:55:34.540 All of us

01:55:35.620 Yep

01:55:36.020 We have that mental fucking thing

01:55:37.860 Where we think

01:55:38.600 And dude

01:55:39.640 So you caught yourself

01:55:41.280 It's the best sport

01:55:43.400 Is catch and release

01:55:44.280 Yeah

01:55:44.600 Okay so that's what you mean

01:55:45.920 Catch and release

01:55:46.780 Caught the thought

01:55:48.300 Yeah

01:55:48.660 And then you released it

01:55:49.540 You were like

01:55:49.840 Oh my god

01:55:50.360 It's Valentine's Day

01:55:51.240 What am I doing

01:55:52.000 Text him back

01:55:52.540 That's it

01:55:53.640 That shit right there

01:55:54.660 Is the most important thing

01:55:55.800 That was said on the show

01:55:56.680 And that is what

01:55:57.980 Helps everybody

01:56:00.060 Yeah

01:56:00.640 That's good stuff

01:56:01.920 Catch and release

01:56:02.400 Make it your new favorite sport

01:56:03.500 Dude

01:56:04.100 That is

01:56:05.240 I think that's the

01:56:06.380 That is

01:56:06.880 If you listen to nothing else

01:56:08.160 And you take nothing else from this

01:56:09.500 If you take that

01:56:10.140 It will improve your life

01:56:11.160 Fucking exponentially

01:56:12.620 Definitely

01:56:13.600 Guys if you want to hear

01:56:14.720 That kind of good truth

01:56:16.520 On a regular basis

01:56:17.300 You can subscribe to Andy's blog

01:56:19.680 It's called the Andy Graham

01:56:20.700 You go to

01:56:21.160 AndyFrissella.com

01:56:22.400 And hit subscribe

01:56:23.580 Not only that

01:56:24.540 Go follow Dr. Gabrielle

01:56:26.240 Yeah

01:56:26.460 Because she's spitting this

01:56:27.440 Fucking good shit man

01:56:28.520 Follow Dr. Gabrielle

01:56:29.920 And before Andy wraps us up

01:56:32.680 The only other thing

01:56:33.300 I was going to say

01:56:33.880 Is I just wanted to share

01:56:34.920 A book recommendation

01:56:35.840 Because I want to

01:56:36.620 Contribute to this

01:56:37.900 Because I think we would all agree

01:56:40.180 That not only

01:56:40.860 Taking control of your mental conversation

01:56:42.620 But filling your head

01:56:43.480 With good stuff

01:56:44.200 Is important to success

01:56:46.500 I have a very unusual

01:56:48.240 Book recommendation

01:56:49.200 For everybody

01:56:49.980 Beer's good stuff

01:56:50.140 What's that?

01:56:51.100 Beer's good stuff

01:56:51.800 Beer is good stuff

01:56:53.020 I can't have it

01:56:54.020 Because of gluten

01:56:54.440 But that's another

01:56:55.120 That's another

01:56:56.880 Topic

01:56:58.080 I'm getting the death stare

01:56:59.580 If you motherfuckers

01:57:00.420 Listening right now

01:57:01.140 I'm getting the death stare

01:57:01.740 Make an emoji out of my face

01:57:03.100 It'd be that fucking round one

01:57:04.500 With the fucking straight eyes

01:57:06.780 And a straight mouth

01:57:07.560 You are so full of shit bro

01:57:10.600 I can't man

01:57:11.980 I can't

01:57:12.980 Besides

01:57:13.380 It's generally healthy

01:57:14.920 To stay away from

01:57:15.780 Beer

01:57:16.540 You ruined my joke anyway

01:57:17.800 I know

01:57:18.180 I was going to say

01:57:18.960 Beer goes in your head

01:57:20.280 It's pretty good shit

01:57:21.040 Okay I got it

01:57:23.200 That was a bad joke

01:57:23.920 That was a bad joke

01:57:24.840 It was only bad

01:57:25.680 Because you fucked it up

01:57:26.440 Oh by the way

01:57:27.140 If you want us to address

01:57:28.700 Any particular topic

01:57:30.460 Or you have a question

01:57:31.520 Send it

01:57:32.940 Are we still doing

01:57:33.580 The confused AF

01:57:34.560 At andyfricella.com

01:57:36.560 Or you can just DM me

01:57:37.660 And yes

01:57:38.560 I'm going to make

01:57:39.440 A shameless promotion

01:57:40.300 For my Instagram

01:57:41.280 At Vaughn Kohler

01:57:42.260 They should follow you

01:57:43.300 And it's not V-O-N

01:57:44.740 By the way

01:57:45.580 Yeah guys

01:57:46.420 Jeez

01:57:46.680 V-A-U-G-H-N

01:57:48.720 K-O-H-L-E-R

01:57:49.600 Just like the toilet

01:57:50.360 They think it's like

01:57:51.360 Vaughn Kohler

01:57:52.000 Like Vaughn Dutch

01:57:52.760 Yeah

01:57:53.220 Maybe you can make

01:57:53.980 A hat out of it dude

01:57:54.860 And just sell the shit

01:57:55.600 That's funny

01:57:55.800 By the way

01:57:57.120 I have reserved

01:57:58.160 The Vaughn the Impaler

01:57:59.360 Instagram

01:58:00.400 I never use it

01:58:01.360 Is that going to be

01:58:01.880 Your new foresight

01:58:02.080 It doesn't exist

01:58:02.840 But just so

01:58:03.720 Will we all escalate

01:58:04.300 To being naked

01:58:04.900 On the internet

01:58:05.480 Or is that going to be

01:58:06.340 Your home base

01:58:06.940 No

01:58:07.440 No

01:58:07.740 Just

01:58:08.460 I just didn't want

01:58:09.920 Anybody taking it

01:58:10.700 So it's kind of parked

01:58:11.700 You know

01:58:12.240 I also bought

01:58:13.360 Vaughntheimpaler.com

01:58:14.600 But

01:58:15.220 That could become

01:58:16.660 Kind of an

01:58:17.340 Interesting website

01:58:17.800 I have a funny story

01:58:20.120 About a funny website

01:58:20.940 Yeah you go ahead

01:58:21.700 I would like you all

01:58:26.200 To go to

01:58:26.740 www.

01:58:28.300 Why don't you go to

01:58:29.180 This website here

01:58:29.980 Madat

01:58:30.480 Real quick

01:58:31.280 Tell me what you find

01:58:32.280 www.ownpussy.com

01:58:37.080 Oh my

01:58:37.940 What comes up

01:58:39.720 Madat

01:58:40.500 Is it

01:58:42.860 O-W-N

01:58:43.460 Oh what

01:58:46.100 Oh that's you

01:58:46.900 That's Pip

01:58:50.080 Vaughn

01:58:50.840 Put that on your computer

01:58:51.980 I can't dude

01:58:52.940 I got one of those

01:58:53.820 You know

01:58:54.320 Oh that's funny

01:58:56.020 That's hilarious

01:58:57.460 There's a picture

01:58:58.240 Of Andy looking like

01:58:59.380 What's that dude

01:59:00.060 From the 70's

01:59:00.780 Frank

01:59:01.340 Frank Lucas

01:59:02.760 Frank Lucas

01:59:03.460 Wearing the

01:59:04.040 You want to see

01:59:04.900 A funny picture of me

01:59:06.000 White

01:59:06.460 For our ownpussy.com

01:59:08.220 That's funny

01:59:09.080 Like 15 years ago

01:59:10.480 Alright

01:59:11.240 Fucking

01:59:12.400 We were having

01:59:13.320 A meeting

01:59:13.760 Has that been around

01:59:14.540 For 15 years

01:59:15.240 Oh yeah

01:59:15.440 Oh that's funny

01:59:16.140 That's an old picture

01:59:17.160 From Marty

01:59:17.560 That's hilarious

01:59:17.980 So

01:59:18.780 We had

01:59:20.200 We had

01:59:22.260 An employee meeting

01:59:24.600 And we all got

01:59:25.460 Fucking wasted

01:59:26.200 And

01:59:27.840 We were all

01:59:29.300 Talking shit

01:59:29.980 And one of the guys

01:59:32.240 Jason Kane

01:59:33.500 Decides to make

01:59:35.320 A website

01:59:35.740 About some of the

01:59:37.060 Shit that we were

01:59:37.620 Talking

01:59:37.920 And puts this picture

01:59:39.740 And now it lives

01:59:40.440 On the internet

01:59:40.940 That's funny

01:59:41.540 Yeah

01:59:41.940 And now it's

01:59:42.940 SEO score

01:59:43.940 Is going to skyrocket

01:59:45.040 Because everybody's

01:59:45.700 Going to go

01:59:46.000 You know what man

01:59:46.640 I don't fuck with it

01:59:48.100 Because like I'm

01:59:48.820 I'm willing to take

01:59:49.720 A razzing

01:59:50.220 Just like everybody else

01:59:51.300 But

01:59:51.540 It's

01:59:52.980 Yeah that's awesome

01:59:53.860 It's been awkward a few times

01:59:54.480 Because I've had that DM to me

01:59:55.760 They're like bro

01:59:56.540 Look I found this picture of you

01:59:57.820 That's funny

01:59:58.540 Like oh really

01:59:59.480 But in all seriousness

02:00:00.320 We love feedback

02:00:01.200 On topics to cover

02:00:02.740 Questions to cover

02:00:03.440 So email

02:00:04.380 Or shoot me a DM

02:00:05.520 What was your book

02:00:06.300 What's that

02:00:07.380 Oh yeah

02:00:07.820 Thank you

02:00:08.300 Yeah so the book

02:00:09.300 Is actually a book

02:00:10.460 That's been around for a while

02:00:11.320 But it's called

02:00:11.860 The 50s

02:00:12.960 By David Halberstam

02:00:14.540 And it's a history book

02:00:15.420 But it's man

02:00:16.000 It's written so well

02:00:16.940 And what most people

02:00:18.200 Don't know is like

02:00:19.000 The 50s were an amazing

02:00:20.720 Decade for entrepreneurship

02:00:23.180 Like you're talking

02:00:24.420 Ray Kroc

02:00:25.280 Kemmons Wilson

02:00:26.440 Who started Holiday Inn

02:00:27.840 There was a guy

02:00:29.020 That started a whole

02:00:30.020 Like he started

02:00:30.940 Mass producing homes

02:00:32.060 And he

02:00:32.940 Established Levittown

02:00:34.900 Pennsylvania

02:00:35.400 Like it's a really amazing

02:00:37.600 Just reminder

02:00:38.940 That

02:00:39.920 There's been a lot

02:00:41.140 Of different people

02:00:41.640 Who have contributed

02:00:42.300 To our country

02:00:43.020 And its success

02:00:43.760 But man

02:00:44.320 Business people

02:00:46.100 And entrepreneurs

02:00:46.920 Have contributed

02:00:48.020 To American success

02:00:48.960 In a way that

02:00:49.520 In many ways

02:00:50.320 Nobody else has

02:00:51.240 And so that's covered

02:00:52.440 In this

02:00:52.800 But it's also covered

02:00:53.660 It's also a decade

02:00:54.500 Where the rise in technology

02:00:55.720 Like you know

02:00:56.780 You went from radio

02:00:57.660 To television

02:00:58.320 There are lessons

02:00:59.700 About media

02:01:00.840 And the

02:01:01.680 The strengths of media

02:01:02.800 And the

02:01:03.740 The pitfalls of media

02:01:05.080 That are

02:01:05.700 100% applicable today

02:01:07.540 And it's just

02:01:08.640 Like it's just

02:01:09.200 A really really

02:01:09.940 Well written book

02:01:11.200 And there's a lot

02:01:12.020 Of life lessons

02:01:12.720 And so I would

02:01:13.780 Recommend either

02:01:14.420 Buying it

02:01:14.920 Or listening to it

02:01:16.340 On audible

02:01:16.780 It's just like

02:01:17.440 The production

02:01:18.120 On audible.com

02:01:18.960 Is really good too

02:01:19.580 But you know

02:01:20.520 You're 75 hard

02:01:21.760 Andy's program

02:01:22.640 For creating mental

02:01:23.600 Toughness

02:01:24.000 One of the requirements

02:01:24.880 Is reading 10

02:01:26.000 Pages of a book

02:01:27.500 A day

02:01:27.880 This would be

02:01:28.680 A great book

02:01:29.540 To read

02:01:30.000 Even though

02:01:30.420 Technically

02:01:31.000 It's not self-help

02:01:32.180 You can pull

02:01:33.340 Life lessons

02:01:33.920 From it

02:01:34.300 That are

02:01:34.660 That are

02:01:35.060 Just killer

02:01:35.500 And I would

02:01:36.160 Also add

02:01:36.800 For those of you

02:01:37.540 Who are committed

02:01:38.120 To self-help

02:01:38.780 Don't just read

02:01:39.680 Self-help books

02:01:40.500 Read widely

02:01:41.500 Read deeply

02:01:42.280 History

02:01:42.780 Biography

02:01:43.560 Even science

02:01:45.040 Like Dr.

02:01:46.000 We have this amazing

02:01:46.800 Capacity as humans

02:01:48.620 To learn shit

02:01:49.480 Yeah

02:01:49.800 And if you don't

02:01:50.920 Use it

02:01:51.340 You really are

02:01:52.100 You are failing

02:01:53.340 You are wasting

02:01:54.200 Your life

02:01:54.740 If you're not

02:01:55.260 Cultivating your mind

02:01:56.060 On a day to day

02:01:57.000 Basis

02:01:57.400 But Andy

02:01:58.280 Final word

02:01:59.040 Final thought

02:02:00.200 What are you reading

02:02:01.600 I am reading

02:02:03.220 Atomic Habits

02:02:04.040 Which is a great book

02:02:05.180 And then the other book

02:02:06.180 Is Make Your Bed

02:02:07.760 Oh yeah

02:02:08.700 I try to find

02:02:09.520 So we're actually

02:02:10.320 So this is

02:02:10.820 Admiral McRaven

02:02:12.040 Yeah

02:02:12.460 And he gave a really

02:02:13.660 Great speech

02:02:14.640 I think it was at

02:02:15.400 Texas

02:02:15.940 U-Tech

02:02:17.300 Or

02:02:17.640 Anyway

02:02:19.260 It was really amazing

02:02:20.200 And the

02:02:21.920 Seal Museum

02:02:22.920 The Seal Museum

02:02:24.040 For Michael Murphy

02:02:25.080 Is having

02:02:26.640 An opening

02:02:27.440 And we're gonna go

02:02:28.580 See him

02:02:28.960 He's gonna be there

02:02:29.660 And talk

02:02:30.000 Oh that's cool

02:02:30.420 Is he speaking

02:02:30.900 He is

02:02:31.620 Oh that's cool

02:02:32.220 And

02:02:32.660 I think a lot of

02:02:33.900 Most people

02:02:34.560 Listening to this show

02:02:35.600 Has probably heard

02:02:36.100 That speech

02:02:36.640 Yeah

02:02:37.700 And so we

02:02:38.560 You know

02:02:38.880 Shane and I

02:02:39.340 Like to read together

02:02:40.140 And this was something

02:02:41.240 That's easy and simple

02:02:42.520 Because we don't

02:02:43.360 Have a lot of time

02:02:44.220 With a new baby

02:02:44.800 But we always make sure

02:02:45.700 That the house

02:02:46.700 Foundation is good

02:02:47.700 So

02:02:48.000 Wait wait wait

02:02:48.820 When you read together

02:02:49.800 You mean read the same

02:02:50.680 Book together

02:02:51.160 No at night

02:02:51.880 Yeah together

02:02:52.460 Or read different books

02:02:53.280 At the same time

02:02:54.000 No we read the same

02:02:54.880 Book together

02:02:55.400 Yeah that's cool

02:02:56.260 Yeah

02:02:56.660 Like read it out loud

02:02:57.840 Yeah

02:02:58.540 Yeah that's what we do

02:02:59.300 Yeah it's about

02:02:59.780 You read it out loud

02:03:00.320 Really

02:03:01.320 So this is new to me

02:03:03.260 So like

02:03:03.700 School

02:03:04.480 I read a lot more

02:03:06.500 Than just that

02:03:07.120 But I mean

02:03:07.560 We usually pick a book

02:03:08.880 That we read together

02:03:09.300 I usually make Shane

02:03:10.100 Read it

02:03:10.680 But we sit

02:03:11.380 Yeah

02:03:11.780 Sit and read together

02:03:13.460 Dude how do you think

02:03:14.160 I got four kids

02:03:15.240 Hey man

02:03:16.960 We pick a book

02:03:17.760 And Vaughn starts narrating it

02:03:19.960 And my wife's like

02:03:22.380 Honey put the book down

02:03:22.800 You know what man

02:03:23.480 That could really do

02:03:24.500 A lot of people some good

02:03:25.600 Yeah

02:03:25.820 Like just to read out loud

02:03:27.320 Yeah man

02:03:27.640 Like it would help a ton

02:03:28.880 With their like ability to speak

02:03:30.000 People always used to read out loud

02:03:31.540 That was the only way

02:03:32.300 That people ever ever read

02:03:33.520 And also

02:03:33.980 Reading silently

02:03:34.800 Is a relatively new thing

02:03:36.000 In America

02:03:36.300 No way

02:03:36.820 Or in the history of the world

02:03:38.360 Yeah

02:03:38.640 Explain that to me

02:03:39.740 Because reading books used to be so rare

02:03:42.460 That whenever

02:03:44.420 They want to share them with everybody

02:03:45.240 And literacy used to be so rare

02:03:47.180 That when you could read a book

02:03:49.320 You read it out loud

02:03:50.220 Arguably still is probably

02:03:50.860 So that other people could benefit from it

02:03:53.660 But in addition

02:03:54.340 There is some evidence that

02:03:56.640 Reading out loud

02:03:57.500 Like if you stand at a podium

02:03:58.560 And you read it out loud

02:03:59.520 You know you involve more senses

02:04:01.340 And you're going to retain more of it

02:04:02.980 Really?

02:04:03.440 Yeah

02:04:03.660 Yeah

02:04:05.080 Absolutely

02:04:06.500 That's super interesting

02:04:07.660 And it's weird that both of you guys

02:04:09.120 Do that to me

02:04:09.780 Yeah

02:04:10.300 Like not weird

02:04:11.200 I think in a good way

02:04:12.120 Yeah

02:04:12.360 Yeah

02:04:12.540 I mean we read it all the time

02:04:14.440 I didn't realize people actually did that

02:04:16.240 Like they have like a

02:04:17.980 Probably not super common

02:04:19.320 The best book that I've ever read out loud

02:04:20.900 With my wife

02:04:21.420 Well it makes sense

02:04:21.700 Because both of you people

02:04:22.760 Are smart as fuck

02:04:23.640 Well she's smarter

02:04:24.680 I actually think that's a pretty good

02:04:26.100 That's some pretty good advice

02:04:27.560 I might start doing it

02:04:29.120 It's good

02:04:30.240 And it's interesting

02:04:30.900 It's good for a relationship too

02:04:31.840 It is because

02:04:32.300 Who wants to come listen to me

02:04:33.420 Read some shit

02:04:34.180 Dude

02:04:34.580 Hey listen

02:04:35.360 That reminds me of an idea that I had

02:04:37.140 That I'm not going to share on the air

02:04:38.620 But you and I need to talk about

02:04:40.160 But the best book I ever read out loud

02:04:42.000 With my wife

02:04:42.480 And it was a killer book

02:04:43.580 It was the book Unbroken

02:04:44.820 By Laura Hillenbrand

02:04:46.440 Yes

02:04:46.680 We have that book

02:04:47.420 Yes

02:04:47.860 Like have you ever read that book?

02:04:48.820 You know my mom wrote a book

02:04:50.260 Yeah

02:04:50.520 Yeah

02:04:50.960 I knew your mom was an author

02:04:52.420 That's awesome

02:04:52.960 People don't realize that

02:04:54.240 Yeah

02:04:54.520 But that was

02:04:55.480 She wrote in like novels right?

02:04:56.900 Yeah

02:04:57.080 Her last book she wrote

02:04:59.340 Is called Hickory Hill

02:05:00.320 That's awesome

02:05:00.920 And her name is Sherry Hill

02:05:02.180 Sherry Hill

02:05:02.920 If you want to pick that one up

02:05:04.380 S-H-E-R-R-Y

02:05:06.080 I-E

02:05:06.560 I-E

02:05:07.100 Okay

02:05:07.600 That's awesome

02:05:08.860 Is it on Amazon?

02:05:09.740 Yeah

02:05:09.900 That's cool

02:05:10.540 Yeah no

02:05:11.580 Unbroken if anybody's not read that

02:05:13.520 That's the story of Louis Zamperini

02:05:15.560 Who was at sea

02:05:17.760 During World War II

02:05:19.980 For like two months

02:05:21.360 And then after that

02:05:22.620 Spent

02:05:23.080 I don't know how long

02:05:25.040 Like a year

02:05:25.580 At a Japanese concentration camp

02:05:27.540 It was

02:05:28.060 It's insane

02:05:28.860 It's an insane story

02:05:29.880 By the way

02:05:30.340 The book

02:05:30.680 The movie sucks

02:05:31.680 But the book is incredible

02:05:33.200 And Laura Hillenbrand

02:05:34.420 Right

02:05:35.180 The way she writes

02:05:36.200 It's like you're reading a movie

02:05:37.760 It's so descriptive and awesome

02:05:39.520 Yeah

02:05:39.920 So anyway

02:05:40.500 Go ahead

02:05:40.840 You were saying

02:05:41.260 So one of the things

02:05:42.180 That's so interesting

02:05:42.880 When I read with Shane

02:05:43.840 Is the perspective

02:05:45.200 That you both are reading

02:05:46.400 The same thing

02:05:47.140 And you're reading it together

02:05:48.260 At the same time

02:05:49.340 But what you each hear

02:05:51.680 Is different

02:05:52.360 Yeah

02:05:52.700 And the perspective is different

02:05:54.040 So you actually get to know

02:05:55.360 Your partner

02:05:55.900 Better

02:05:56.720 Yeah

02:05:57.260 That makes sense

02:05:59.140 Yeah

02:05:59.480 Dude it never occurred to me

02:06:01.700 That that was like

02:06:02.300 Something people did

02:06:03.120 Yeah

02:06:03.460 Yeah

02:06:03.900 I mean

02:06:04.640 I don't think it's

02:06:06.220 Like now I'm having this thing

02:06:07.220 I'm wondering like

02:06:07.820 If everybody does it

02:06:08.600 And I'm just the guy that does it

02:06:09.560 No

02:06:09.860 I think it's only

02:06:10.780 Except for people like me

02:06:11.940 And Dr. Gabriel

02:06:12.800 Yeah

02:06:13.140 I mean because in my relationship

02:06:15.340 We think about things

02:06:16.200 That would make us a better team

02:06:17.280 Yeah

02:06:17.620 Yeah

02:06:18.600 And there's just

02:06:19.440 Certain things within the domain

02:06:20.940 Of the family that we do

02:06:22.000 But I mean completely aside

02:06:22.980 From like doing that together

02:06:23.960 Like I'll go downstairs

02:06:24.920 Into our basement

02:06:25.580 And literally take a music podium

02:06:27.380 Open a book

02:06:27.980 And read it out loud to myself

02:06:29.080 I definitely won't do that

02:06:30.540 Yeah but dude

02:06:31.040 That's a skill

02:06:31.720 That you have to possess

02:06:32.620 Yeah

02:06:33.240 You have to possess that skill

02:06:34.720 For what you do

02:06:35.560 Yeah

02:06:35.900 Because not only do you

02:06:37.080 Do the podcast

02:06:37.880 But you also speak

02:06:39.120 Like to Arte

02:06:40.220 And some of the

02:06:41.200 Like you guys don't really realize

02:06:43.240 Like by the way

02:06:44.280 I just want to say this

02:06:45.080 You should be following Vaughn

02:06:46.420 If you're not

02:06:47.020 Thanks dude

02:06:47.480 A lot of you guys come to me

02:06:48.620 And follow me

02:06:49.380 And like I realize

02:06:52.300 Like

02:06:52.700 Why

02:06:54.620 Because I'm awesome

02:06:55.280 But

02:06:55.880 I mean let's be real

02:06:58.140 How else do I fucking say it

02:06:59.800 I'm amazing

02:06:59.980 Alright

02:07:00.420 But dude

02:07:02.220 You guys want some real

02:07:03.280 Spiritual

02:07:03.840 Like common sense

02:07:05.140 Good guidance

02:07:06.000 About being a great person

02:07:07.260 If you're not following Vaughn

02:07:08.480 You're really fucking yourself

02:07:09.540 That's the truth

02:07:10.480 Because I put him in front of

02:07:12.020 You know with our Arte syndicate

02:07:13.540 With Ed Milet

02:07:14.140 We're dealing with people

02:07:15.200 Who are high operating

02:07:16.160 Highly successful individuals

02:07:17.600 And I put Vaughn in front of them

02:07:19.400 And they fucking

02:07:20.160 They all come away

02:07:22.000 With tons of valuable shit

02:07:23.540 So like

02:07:24.460 Don't sleep on that

02:07:25.620 Make sure you're following him

02:07:26.640 And paying attention

02:07:27.860 To what he's doing

02:07:28.400 Because it's amazing

02:07:29.040 Thanks man

02:07:29.500 And that goes for Gabrielle too

02:07:30.900 You know

02:07:31.660 Nobody will come on this show

02:07:33.680 That's not going to bring you

02:07:34.560 High amounts of value

02:07:35.580 I promise you that

02:07:36.520 That's very true

02:07:37.720 So I just want to plug you man

02:07:39.380 Because I feel like

02:07:39.860 A lot of people follow me

02:07:40.840 They don't follow you

02:07:41.560 Well to be honest with you

02:07:42.940 And I'm literally going to write this

02:07:44.960 Like I struggle a lot

02:07:46.320 With self-criticism

02:07:47.240 You know that

02:07:47.840 Well yeah

02:07:48.220 So why

02:07:48.740 Like I struggle a lot with that

02:07:50.040 But you know

02:07:51.640 Going back to that narrative

02:07:52.720 Right

02:07:53.040 That's what makes you good

02:07:54.340 At what you do bro

02:07:55.080 Well right

02:07:55.600 But I mean like

02:07:56.320 I can't tell you how many times

02:07:58.040 I've written a post

02:07:59.100 And destroyed it

02:08:00.040 Yeah

02:08:00.240 Like instead of posting

02:08:01.020 Because it's not good enough

02:08:01.860 Right

02:08:02.100 And so my desire

02:08:04.080 Like starting literally today

02:08:05.560 I was even going to post

02:08:06.300 About this today

02:08:06.880 Was I was literally going to

02:08:07.900 Call some friends of mine

02:08:08.900 And say listen

02:08:09.420 I have got to start posting more

02:08:12.220 And because I am writing this stuff

02:08:14.940 And I'm not posting it

02:08:16.020 I'm not creating it

02:08:16.800 Because I'm buying the lie

02:08:18.040 That it has to be perfect

02:08:19.400 To help people

02:08:20.140 It's just baloney

02:08:21.140 Can I just reframe that for you?

02:08:22.600 Absolutely

02:08:23.080 So when you do that

02:08:24.820 If it's

02:08:26.100 What if it wasn't about you

02:08:27.540 And then you take away

02:08:28.980 What everyone else could learn from it

02:08:30.460 Yeah

02:08:30.760 And that's actually much more valuable

02:08:32.600 Like just make it about serving people

02:08:34.260 Yeah

02:08:34.840 Is that what you mean?

02:08:35.480 Yes

02:08:35.840 Yeah

02:08:36.080 No I've even had a post about that

02:08:38.360 But I gotta believe my own press

02:08:40.020 Because it's not whether yours is perfect or not

02:08:41.340 But because the message is so valuable

02:08:43.120 Well I think we all tell ourselves too

02:08:45.600 Like dude

02:08:46.200 Like nobody wants to hear this

02:08:47.540 Right

02:08:48.040 We tell ourselves that

02:08:48.860 And then the other thing we tell ourselves is

02:08:50.520 I don't want to post this

02:08:52.100 Because it's going to seem like I'm full of myself

02:08:53.520 Right

02:08:53.760 And dude that's a hard thing

02:08:55.900 I think for a lot of people

02:08:56.900 I think a lot of people struggle with that

02:08:58.360 You're right

02:08:58.480 And if you look at it like

02:08:59.440 Like what she just said

02:09:01.440 Now you're in a scenario

02:09:03.140 Where you feel an obligation to serve

02:09:04.500 Yeah

02:09:04.860 Because you know some shit

02:09:05.680 Other people don't

02:09:06.380 So tell me this

02:09:07.140 Why is it that the people

02:09:08.720 Who don't have anything to say

02:09:10.300 And are full of crap

02:09:11.360 Because

02:09:11.660 Are the ones who are out there posting

02:09:13.060 Because they have no idea

02:09:14.160 No

02:09:14.520 Actually say

02:09:15.500 No

02:09:15.760 I don't want to make the world a worse place

02:09:17.400 Most people are not aware enough

02:09:18.700 To even have the conversation with themselves

02:09:20.760 To say

02:09:22.020 Man am I posting this shit

02:09:23.860 Just to be an egomaniac

02:09:25.100 They don't give a

02:09:25.680 They're not even

02:09:26.460 It's not even a fucking figment

02:09:28.640 Of a fucking beginning

02:09:29.940 Of the seed

02:09:30.900 Of a fucking tiniest little thought

02:09:33.200 In their brain

02:09:33.680 It doesn't exist

02:09:34.380 So

02:09:35.200 Aware

02:09:37.020 The reason there's an information

02:09:38.860 Fucking

02:09:39.420 Vacuum

02:09:40.760 Of

02:09:41.120 Tons of

02:09:42.260 Dumbass shit

02:09:43.500 And very little good shit

02:09:44.860 Is because of what the fuck you're doing

02:09:46.780 All the other people that are smart

02:09:49.400 And there's a lot of them

02:09:50.380 Are doing the same shit

02:09:51.380 They're saying

02:09:52.400 Fuck dude

02:09:53.080 You know

02:09:54.300 If I say this

02:09:55.060 It's gonna

02:09:55.380 It's kind of

02:09:56.100 Cause dude

02:09:56.640 The fuck

02:09:57.200 Social media is very selfish

02:09:59.020 Yeah

02:09:59.540 It's very much attention

02:10:01.160 Bias

02:10:02.400 Technology

02:10:04.300 If you wanna say

02:10:05.400 Whatever you wanna call it

02:10:06.980 It takes a certain amount of

02:10:09.220 Not caring

02:10:11.500 To actually even talk about things

02:10:14.060 That you know

02:10:14.740 You know what I'm saying

02:10:16.140 Yeah dude

02:10:16.720 Cause a humble person

02:10:17.880 That's got humility

02:10:19.060 Right

02:10:19.460 They're gonna feel like

02:10:20.140 You're bragging

02:10:20.700 Like dude

02:10:21.080 I always feel like

02:10:21.860 I'm bragging

02:10:22.460 When I show my life

02:10:23.540 Cause dude

02:10:24.480 I know it's a lot different

02:10:25.380 Than most people's life

02:10:26.380 So I feel like I'm bragging

02:10:28.060 So then I don't show it

02:10:28.960 But then

02:10:29.260 Then people come to me

02:10:30.540 And they're like

02:10:30.920 Bro

02:10:31.100 Like I'll have these conversations

02:10:32.360 Dude

02:10:33.440 Cause we've been doing

02:10:34.240 This long enough now

02:10:35.140 Where we have people

02:10:36.100 Who literally

02:10:37.200 Have built new lives

02:10:39.560 Because of certain things

02:10:41.080 That they saw

02:10:41.660 And they'll be like

02:10:42.680 Dude I remember

02:10:43.340 When I saw you

02:10:43.940 Get your first Lamborghini

02:10:45.020 In 2012

02:10:45.660 That inspired me

02:10:47.780 Now my business

02:10:48.460 Is doing 60 million dollars

02:10:50.000 So there's real impact

02:10:51.720 Because we've been

02:10:52.280 Doing it long enough

02:10:52.960 So then I have to think

02:10:54.000 Like fuck

02:10:54.620 I kinda need to be

02:10:57.080 A little bit of a douche bag

02:10:58.120 Because there's certain

02:10:58.820 People out there

02:10:59.400 That go out

02:10:59.860 And fucking love it

02:11:01.200 Right

02:11:01.440 You know

02:11:01.960 And then you struggle

02:11:02.820 With the internal thought

02:11:03.820 Because you like

02:11:04.880 The attention a little bit

02:11:05.980 No dude

02:11:06.420 I

02:11:06.620 Yeah

02:11:07.560 I

02:11:08.060 What you're saying

02:11:09.540 Resonates with me so much

02:11:10.980 Like the people

02:11:11.580 Who really do have

02:11:12.400 Things to say

02:11:13.020 That aren't saying it

02:11:13.800 I've often thought

02:11:15.000 That we need to have

02:11:15.860 Some sort of like

02:11:16.560 Conference

02:11:16.900 Where we teach people

02:11:17.800 How to communicate

02:11:18.440 How to put their message

02:11:19.460 Out there

02:11:19.900 Because the right people

02:11:21.660 Because the right people

02:11:21.680 The good people

02:11:22.480 The people that are

02:11:23.500 Really truly committed

02:11:24.660 To the right things

02:11:25.880 They're the people

02:11:26.720 That need to be

02:11:27.200 The most aggressive

02:11:27.800 About public speaking

02:11:29.340 It's one of the best

02:11:30.040 Things you said

02:11:30.760 At the last RTA Live

02:11:32.240 You said

02:11:32.900 Every single one of you

02:11:34.020 Should be out there

02:11:34.680 Speaking as often

02:11:35.680 As you can

02:11:36.300 Because it's true

02:11:37.140 It's the loud people

02:11:38.440 It's the people

02:11:38.940 That are hurting the society

02:11:40.140 That are speaking the most

02:11:42.000 And it's the people

02:11:42.560 The good people

02:11:43.140 That need to communicate

02:11:43.840 Do you understand

02:11:44.500 What I mean

02:11:44.920 About lack of awareness though

02:11:46.020 Yeah

02:11:46.420 They're not even questioning

02:11:48.100 Whether what they're saying

02:11:49.180 Or putting out in the world

02:11:50.160 Is worth anything

02:11:51.020 So by default

02:11:51.980 Because of the way

02:11:52.920 That we're built

02:11:53.580 And the way the system is built

02:11:54.980 We hear a lot more

02:11:56.500 From people who are

02:11:57.380 Just less intelligent

02:11:58.440 And less knowledgeable

02:11:59.520 About things

02:12:00.320 Because they don't have

02:12:02.080 That internal capacity

02:12:03.300 To stop themselves

02:12:04.340 And say fuck

02:12:05.260 Yeah

02:12:06.660 Am I being arrogant

02:12:08.220 Am I being egotistical

02:12:09.480 They're not self-evaluating

02:12:10.640 In any way

02:12:11.200 Right

02:12:11.760 So that's why

02:12:14.100 Yeah

02:12:14.440 No that's absolutely true

02:12:15.400 You're right

02:12:16.620 I think that's cool as shit

02:12:17.660 That you guys do

02:12:18.240 That reading thing

02:12:18.900 Yeah

02:12:19.220 That's cool

02:12:19.800 Cool

02:12:20.300 Yeah

02:12:20.800 Sometimes I add a

02:12:21.700 English accent

02:12:23.100 You know

02:12:23.640 Oh let's hear it

02:12:24.980 Irish accent

02:12:25.480 You open your mouth now

02:12:26.280 Oh my god

02:12:27.260 Yeah

02:12:27.620 Because I think

02:12:28.200 You're full of shit

02:12:28.840 Man I try to sound

02:12:30.880 Like Sean Connery

02:12:31.620 Which I'm not sounding

02:12:32.480 Like him right now

02:12:33.100 But you know

02:12:33.540 I won't even try

02:12:34.240 My Sean Connery

02:12:35.080 Hey

02:12:35.340 I used to do a good

02:12:36.180 Rain Man

02:12:36.640 Remember Rain Man

02:12:37.320 Let me give you

02:12:37.600 A little piece of advice

02:12:38.360 Vaughn

02:12:38.860 Definitely

02:12:39.220 When we're doing

02:12:39.900 An audio show

02:12:40.840 Don't brag about accents

02:12:42.840 You don't fucking have

02:12:43.800 Because I am for sure

02:12:46.000 Going to say

02:12:46.740 Let's hear it

02:12:48.460 That's true

02:12:49.200 Alright

02:12:49.960 I'll keep that in mind

02:12:51.400 For the future

02:12:51.940 Alright guys

02:12:53.140 Well

02:12:53.640 Hey look

02:12:54.420 That's the show

02:12:55.500 Thank you so much

02:12:56.420 For coming down

02:12:57.020 And doing this show

02:12:57.700 Thank you

02:12:58.160 It really

02:12:58.520 It really means a lot to me

02:13:00.320 I'm happy to have you

02:13:01.400 On the show

02:13:01.800 And I want to have you

02:13:02.420 On the show regularly

02:13:03.320 So

02:13:03.780 Anytime you come down

02:13:05.900 For work

02:13:06.980 Let's

02:13:07.520 Let's get this going

02:13:08.620 Yeah

02:13:09.040 Thank you so much

02:13:09.980 For having me

02:13:10.520 Yeah

02:13:10.740 Thank you

02:13:11.400 And guys

02:13:12.600 Thanks so much

02:13:13.260 For listening

02:13:13.780 If you love the show

02:13:14.900 If you got something

02:13:15.660 Out of it

02:13:16.200 We don't advertise

02:13:17.760 This show

02:13:18.280 I would just appreciate

02:13:19.160 If you left us

02:13:19.900 A review

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02:13:22.080 And then also

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02:13:24.220 That's all we ask

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02:13:34.880 So

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02:13:43.840 Hey

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02:13:45.240 Don't bitch

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