REAL AF with Andy Frisella - March 10, 2021


101. Full Throttle Or No Champagne Bottle


Episode Stats

Length

17 minutes

Words per Minute

191.46169

Word Count

3,386

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

79


Summary

Today we have a real talk about the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and how to beat on the victim drum and beat on that drum for the rest of your life. Do you want a fulfilling good life or do you want to beat this fucking drum your whole life?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living down spoke it
00:00:05.580 till existence mo changed to 50 got mo cost than did i only weigh 180 but my watch cost 250
00:00:12.620 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realistic about the lies
00:00:17.840 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today
00:00:23.560 we have a real talk it's gonna be pretty short uh because the topic is very simple before i get
00:00:30.380 into that i'd like to remind you that we do not run ads on this show you will not have 20 minutes
00:00:35.080 of your ear of me telling you where to buy your shit um we also don't run ads for the show we we
00:00:42.180 rely 100 on value trading uh i'm gonna do a good job and you're gonna share it and that's how we
00:00:48.860 work here if i don't do a good job don't fucking share it if i do please do so that's the little
00:00:53.440 fee that we have and we always have for the show um guys look this this podcast is is i already
00:01:01.740 recorded this once okay and uh we all decided that i went way too fucking hard and it would probably
00:01:06.900 melt your fucking brains out so i'm gonna record it in a more civilized way so just remember if i go
00:01:12.740 too hard here it's much less harder than i went there um some of you people don't fucking get it
00:01:18.780 okay uh and i'm talking specifically to you young people and i want you to think about something
00:01:24.000 i want you to think about some of the greatest accomplishments that have ever happened in the
00:01:30.680 world okay um we're talking about the wright brothers inventing an airplane talking about you
00:01:36.420 know usain bolt running 100 meter dash setting a world record talking about four minute mile
00:01:42.360 okay talking about some of the greatest achievements in human history
00:01:48.780 do you think that any of these people any single one of them got where they want to go or accomplish
00:01:56.820 what it is they set out to accomplish by going half ass by going half throttle okay lewis hamilton
00:02:03.980 isn't the formula one champion because he goes around the motherfucking racetrack at half throttle
00:02:08.380 okay um the buccaneers aren't the super bowl champions because they play the super bowl half throttle
00:02:14.860 all right but everywhere i look around i see young people when i say young people i'm normally i mean
00:02:21.680 young and entrepreneurship but right now i mean fucking young i mean 16 to 25 okay if you guys don't
00:02:31.420 wake the fuck up and understand what the world's really about you're gonna lose and not only are you
00:02:37.580 gonna lose your kids are gonna lose and their kids are gonna lose and their kids kids are gonna lose
00:02:42.700 because you guys have been indoctrinated by the education system by your parents by your teachers
00:02:51.020 by uh social trends to believe that everything is just going to happen for you okay and what i see now
00:03:03.740 is a is a big group of our population who are young beating on this victim drum and trying to
00:03:10.140 identify what victim group they belong to and i'm going to tell you guys you guys can beat on that
00:03:16.860 drum as long and as loud as you want to you can do it your whole life and a lot of people do and you
00:03:24.460 will never win with that ever so you have a question to ask yourself do you actually want a fulfilling good
00:03:33.740 life or do you want to just beat this fucking drum your whole life because the people that you listen
00:03:41.100 to in your school your parents your fucking the people on tv and the media they're all telling you
00:03:47.900 the same shit oh take it easy on yourself oh you know it it's okay to get 17th place oh you know
00:03:56.540 everything matters and and you know you're special guys you're not special fucking 17th place doesn't
00:04:03.100 mean shit it ain't ever going to mean shit and if you think it means shit that's what you're going to
00:04:07.980 get you're going to get shit your whole fucking life okay and i'm so tired of seeing people who can't
00:04:16.220 recognize the obvious of that you have a choice you have a choice your choice is to either join this group
00:04:25.260 over here of nobodies and nothings and celebrate nothing with them every fucking weekend and
00:04:31.260 bitch and moan and cry about how everybody fucked you and society fucked you and your job fucked you
00:04:36.620 and your your upbringing fucked you and your race fucked you and the government fucked you and you're
00:04:41.500 going to fucking go over there and you're going to be fucking miserable or you could come over here
00:04:47.580 and you can understand that the only thing noble about victimhood is overcoming it you can understand
00:04:54.300 that the only thing noble about your life is going to be what you show people is actually
00:05:01.580 possible okay we're all put here for a fucking reason and it's not to go over here and beat on this
00:05:08.620 drum about what should be and what's not fair the world will never be fair the world will never ever
00:05:16.700 be fucking fair someone will always have an easier path than you someone will always have a more
00:05:23.100 difficult path than you regardless of how difficult you think your path is there's lots of people out
00:05:28.300 there who have had that same path and actually won huge with that path you're just choosing not to
00:05:35.660 and guys if you can't understand that you have to make this decision you are going to be in deep
00:05:41.900 shit come your 30s and your 40s and your 50s and if you don't believe me go look at the people in the
00:05:47.500 30s 40s and 50s that you know and listen to what they say and i guarantee you you're going to hear
00:05:52.860 a whole bunch of shit about how the world's unfair how they got screwed how their job screwed them or
00:06:00.140 their wife or husband screwed them or they're going to have this long list of events that happened to
00:06:05.900 them that have created the scenario that they live in now and i i don't i don't buy that shit i don't buy
00:06:12.620 it it's not true because what really happened was they gave the fuck up they decided that instead
00:06:19.260 of investing their time in skills like discipline and grit and fortitude and the ability to overcome
00:06:27.980 and the ability to understand how to get shit done and the ability on how to understand how details
00:06:36.300 actually create the skill set in your life okay they don't they don't do that they just go over
00:06:43.500 here and cry so your choice is go over here and cry or put the work in now to invest in these skills
00:06:50.780 okay and what are these skills that you need well i'm going to tell you the biggest one the biggest
00:06:54.380 one that you're going to need is learn to see the fucking details and to learn that they all matter
00:06:59.260 because it doesn't matter if you're cooking fucking french fries or making decisions about billion
00:07:03.580 dollar deals okay how you do the job is what matters and you might be sitting there in mcdonald's
00:07:09.820 right now thinking well fuck nobody appreciates that i make these fries extra good every time
00:07:15.180 it doesn't matter if they appreciate it or not what matters is if you do it or not because the next
00:07:20.860 opportunity you have what you're doing is you're ingraining inside of yourself the ability to do a
00:07:27.740 great fucking job and when you do a great fucking job and you take pride in your job and the outcome
00:07:32.620 that it produces guess what happens you become more valuable so now you're doing the fries next
00:07:38.220 week you're doing the fucking tacos and the burgers okay and those are good too next thing after that
00:07:42.540 you're asked to manage a shift you do that you take the same attention detail you put it in there
00:07:47.180 all of a sudden you're you're on a track okay this is how it works but because you have surrounded
00:07:53.500 yourself with a bunch of fucking losers who bitch and moan and cry about fucking everything you can't see
00:07:58.460 that and so you don't do it and because you don't do it you don't develop the skills and because you
00:08:03.580 don't develop the skills the opportunities never present themselves and this my friends is the cycle
00:08:08.700 that most of you are in so you have a decision to make your decision is go beat on the fucking victim
00:08:16.060 drum or come over here and figure out what the fuck it takes to be successful because i'm going to tell
00:08:21.180 you right now there's not one motherfucker not one on this motherfucking planet not a single human
00:08:27.180 who beats that fucking drum that has fucking won not a single one now you might say oh well there's
00:08:34.620 so and so you know so and so is a victim and he's a fucking uh you know a millionaire yeah but i would
00:08:40.380 say that getting donations to go speak about a cause and then siphoning those donations for your personal
00:08:45.420 wealth isn't a very fucking great way to become successful i think that's weak as fuck okay what's
00:08:51.340 strong as fuck is acknowledging your hardships acknowledging your setbacks acknowledging your
00:08:56.620 difficulties acknowledging the things that you don't have in line and then fixing them and then
00:09:01.500 teaching other people how to do the same and you do that through your life i'm not talking about
00:09:07.820 getting on stage and going to a seminar and you don't have to become a speaker or a fucking counselor or
00:09:12.940 this or that or guru like all these clowns on the internet you have to do none of that
00:09:16.860 shit all you got to do is live your life that way and the people around you will level up the
00:09:22.140 people around you will see what you're doing and they will begin to believe in themselves and when
00:09:26.060 they believe in themselves they fix themselves and when they fix themselves the other people around
00:09:30.060 them begin to fix and the ripple effect is fucking endless
00:09:36.220 but it takes you making that decision it takes you deciding that you're not going to go over
00:09:41.660 here just because it's popular you're not going to give an excuse because it's an acceptable
00:09:47.180 excuse i don't give a fuck how acceptable your excuse is it's still a fucking excuse and that's how
00:09:52.940 the world sees it too the world does not care about your hardships if it did the people who have
00:10:00.380 the most hardships would be the most successful and that's just not the case
00:10:03.820 all right nobody's become great nobody's and even if you don't become great like let's just say
00:10:12.220 you're listening to this you're like yeah andy i don't want to run a four-minute mile well you know
00:10:15.180 what i don't fucking want to run a four-minute mile either i have no desire to do so but i want to be
00:10:19.020 fucking good at what i do and i want the people around me to be great at what they do and i want
00:10:23.180 the people around them to be great and i know that starts with fucking me and i know that starts with me
00:10:28.060 honing in my personal skill set in every situation possible i had a scenario in my own gym today where
00:10:37.340 there was some dirt on the mirrors and i got a little upset with the crew because that's their job
00:10:41.580 that's what they're paid to do they're paid to keep the mirrors clean clearly they weren't seeing the the
00:10:47.100 little spots on the mirrors and i got upset about it and they looked at me and they said they i could
00:10:52.700 tell they didn't really understand why i'm so upset but why i'm so upset is very obvious if you think
00:10:58.620 about it because if you could train yourself to see the details and take care of them you're building
00:11:04.380 a skill okay and what i was upset about was not that the dirt was on the mirror was that my staff
00:11:11.180 was not taking the initiative to build the skill within themselves and that tells me something about
00:11:15.260 them now it could have been just a mistake or an oversight but it's still i still see it as that
00:11:20.940 because that's how i see the world all right so when you see if you're absorbed observe me and you
00:11:26.860 see me pick up trash or pick up a penny or pick up fucking somebody else's mess i'm not trying to
00:11:32.380 show you a fucking thing this ain't about me trying to show you shit and this is where a lot of you
00:11:36.220 guys get off you get off track with it it's not about what you think of me i don't give a fuck what
00:11:40.860 you think i care about what i think and what skills i build and the reason i'm picking up that trash
00:11:46.220 or picking up that penny or cleaning up someone else's mess is because i'm building the skills
00:11:50.620 within myself to win and see once you can flip that switch once you can understand that it's not
00:11:57.500 about what people see it's not about what people think it's not about you know somebody it's not
00:12:03.500 somebody else's responsibility and you start to understand all this and that it's really about
00:12:07.580 you investing in yourself to build your skills so that long term you could fucking win it changes
00:12:13.340 the fucking game dude and i'm telling you guys you young people who are listening to all this victim
00:12:18.620 shit the popularity of victimhood has never been like this in my entire life it's like people are
00:12:24.060 in competition for who the fuck the biggest victim is which is a competition for who the biggest
00:12:29.500 fucking loser is going to be and i've been a real victim i got stabbed in the fucking face
00:12:36.700 okay my face is permanently disfigured i got fucking my face is parallel like dude i've been i know what
00:12:42.940 what fucking victim is you motherfuckers don't know nothing about being a victim you just haven't
00:12:49.340 fucking tried and you don't understand what it's going to take and guys back to what i was saying
00:12:56.220 we're not when you know some of you guys saying oh i don't want to be i don't want to run a four
00:12:59.340 minute mile blah blah blah well let me tell you something for you to be functional for you to have a
00:13:04.540 decent career for you to have a decent house with a decent bank account and a decent car and a decent
00:13:10.540 fucking life where you could travel and have some sort of fucking freedom you are going to have to
00:13:15.820 learn what i'm talking about this is not just about being great this is about being effective
00:13:22.380 and functional in today's society the competition is high bro it's high so if you want that half a
00:13:30.060 million dollar house and that fucking range rover and the shit that you guys want maybe that's what you
00:13:34.540 want that's not what i want i want to own range rover to fucking company okay but we all got
00:13:40.060 different fucking goals you you guys think because just that that your goal is smaller you can half
00:13:45.900 throttle it and you can't you can't okay so get this idea out of your head and make the decision now
00:13:53.340 when you're young don't go over here and beat this victim drum and be like every other fucking clown
00:13:58.540 those people will be in the same fucking spot 10 years from now 20 years from now 30 years from now
00:14:03.980 as they are now and if you don't believe me go fucking look at the people you know that are those
00:14:08.380 ages and listen to them real carefully are they empowered are they confident are they proud are
00:14:15.500 they fulfilled or are they bitter do they have regrets are they hiding those regrets with heavy
00:14:21.980 alcohol use and fucking abusing their bodies and all this other shit and then pretending it's normal
00:14:28.380 the answer is fucking obvious guys and my whole point of this whole entire little rant is for you to
00:14:35.580 understand it now before it's too late okay i want you guys to win this isn't about hating the
00:14:42.700 narrative which i fucking do with a passion because it's lies but it's not about that it's not about me
00:14:48.780 taking a position this is about me making you no matter who the fuck you are whether you're white black
00:14:55.580 gay straight fucking yellow red brown i don't give a fuck no matter who you are and where the
00:15:01.980 fuck you're from this is about me getting you to go over here and start investing in yourself as opposed
00:15:08.300 to joining the rest of the fucking clown parade and being nothing forever okay so you can get mad at
00:15:14.300 me all you want you can say i'm a jerk and you can say all this shit but dude i'm gonna tell you right now
00:15:18.220 i've been down this fucking path i've done this shit my first 10 years in business i made 58 000
00:15:25.500 total i made 695 a month the first three years i made zero dollars three years okay the next seven
00:15:33.980 years i made 695 a month for a total of about 58 000 my first 10 years in business all right i've
00:15:40.300 struggled i know what the fucking struggle is i've been stabbed in the fucking face i've had i've had
00:15:45.260 i've had a gazillion things that i can't even fucking talk about to you because i'm not going
00:15:49.580 to tell you my family business okay but trust me when i tell you i know a thing or two about overcoming
00:15:55.660 shit and i promise no matter who you are no matter where you come from no matter what your race is no
00:16:02.780 matter who your fucking parents are no matter what city you live in no matter what if you can understand
00:16:09.660 to put the work in and develop the skills at the little things that you are doing now and
00:16:14.940 understand that those skills are going to create skills within you that you will then carry on
00:16:20.140 from here to there to there to your ultimate path you will win you will fucking win as long as you
00:16:27.740 don't quit as long as you don't let all the fucking nobodies and the net the negative nancies and the
00:16:33.020 fucking you know oh they would have put me in the game in 1987 i would have won state championships
00:16:38.540 you know all those people we fucking know you put those out of your brain you'll fucking win
00:16:42.460 all right i love you guys i care about you guys i don't do this shit for fucking any other reason
00:16:50.300 than i prayed to god when i was broke i told god every night i said hey help me out dude you help me
00:16:59.180 i'll help other people so i'm fulfilling an obligation that i made a promise to a long time
00:17:03.740 ago i don't fucking get paid to do this show i don't charge money to do this show i do this show
00:17:08.300 out of an obligation to you so fucking listen to what i'm saying and go do it otherwise don't
00:17:15.660 listen to the show this show is not for victims it's not for weak people it's not for people that
00:17:19.580 are going to fucking settle this is for people that are going to fucking win and listen remember you
00:17:24.780 heard this shit first it's full throttle or no champagne bottle motherfuckers all right that's the
00:17:31.260 show love you guys appreciate you guys and i'll see you next time
00:17:35.180 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living down spoke it
00:17:40.380 till existed