1017. Q&AF： Passed Up For Promotion, Optimizing Business Output & Staying True To Your Word
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In this episode of the CTI Live podcast, DJ and Andy answer a bunch of your questions and talk about the importance of mental toughness. DJ talks about how important it is to develop your mental toughness and why it's important to cultivate it in your life. Andy talks about his experience with the 75 Hard program and how it's helped him develop his life in order. DJ also talks about what he's been up to the past few weeks and why he's excited to be back on the show.
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what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
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the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys
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You can submit your questions a few different ways
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DJ, tell them how they can submit their questions
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To submit them there for a chance to be answered
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live that is live on x and youtube at 7 p.m central time this is where we uh cruise the
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internet we talk about things that are going on in the world we speculate we have a couple laughs
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we joke around we talk about how we the people have to solve these problems going on in the world
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other times we have real talk real talk is just 5 20 minutes and be giving you some real talk
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and then sometimes we have 75 hard verses that's where people who come on the show
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who have completed 75 hard come on and they talk about how they were before how they are now and
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how they use the 75 hard program to get their life in order if you're unfamiliar with 75 hard
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it is the initial phase of the live hard program which is available in its entirety for free
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at episode 208 on the audio feed again that's 208 on the audio feed uh it's on the audio feed only
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it's not on youtube there's also a book the book on mental toughness it goes over the entire live
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hard program and uh it is not free there's also a whole bunch of chapters on mental toughness why
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it's important and how to cultivate in your life you get that at andyprisola.com and uh yeah that's
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pretty much it one of the things we do here that's different than everybody else we're the biggest
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show in the world doesn't run ads so we make a little deal with you guys it's very simple uh if
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you get value out of the show if it makes you think it makes you laugh it gives you new perspective
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is something you need to you know you think needs to be heard or something to help you out
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do us a favor and share that show okay sharing the show one time a year does not count as sharing
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the show all right real talk this cost me a couple million bucks to fucking do every year i don't
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take a single dollar for it and i ask very simply that all you guys do is help us grow the show
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all right so don't be a hoe share the show all right what's up good morning how are you good
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good to see you yeah yeah dude we were trying we were fucking with the lights earlier felt
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couldn't figure out where the setting was i don't remember it being dark dude i don't remember it
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being this dark yeah we had two week uh a little hiatus man it was good though man how are you
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doing good yeah good back in the saddle yeah man feeling good looking good looking good yeah you
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are yeah that's right i'm excited to get back on cti yeah well it's gonna be fun some things i
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wanted to say last couple weeks i didn't get to say i probably won't say them anyway because it's
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old but we'll talk about that later yeah we get to it man we get to it this is this is uh this is
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the episode where people get better that's right i mean they get better on cti also yeah but this
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is the main thing this is getting better better yeah so let's do that i got three good ones for
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you guys andy question number one andy i work for a trucking company i recently got passed up twice
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for promotions in the last eight months for a management position for my shift that i currently
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have been operating for eight years now i realize that time doesn't mean shit it's the impact you
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make within that time uh the first promotion the person that got it was the favorite uh to get it
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but never worked nighttime operations the problem is that she never started that position because
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she just needed the manager title for another promotion the second time i got passed up
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was a person that worked under her in a different department and she had a big influence on his
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promotion everyone in management is realizing this is not based on work performance it's a lot
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of favoritism how do i handle loss moving forward knowing that that position is handed to someone
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else rather than earning it i guess how do you how do you are we fucking serious here
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like are we fucking bro you suck you suck at your job if you were that great at your
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fucking job you would have got the promotion okay let's be fucking real businesses don't
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exist to fucking piss money away they don't exist to give cousins jobs they don't exist to fuck you
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over they exist to fucking win all right so while you may think this and you may think oh man i'm
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getting passed over and blah blah blah no you're getting passed over for a fucking reason that
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you're unwilling to admit okay and it's probably that you got a bad attitude or you lack the
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capacity to lead or you bitch a lot or you cry a lot or i don't know maybe you wrecked three trucks
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i don't know i don't know what it is but something you're doing is not resonating with the leadership
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of the company and while they hold your balls in their hand you should probably figure out how to
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fucking make them like you yeah okay so how old did he say he was didn't say okay well you're old
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enough to fucking know if you're old enough to drive a truck that the reason that you got passed
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by is because you fucking suck so get better dude like real talk i'm sick of this shit you guys all
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fucking whine about get passed over if it's even a question is someone even close to as good as you
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it's too close that's the thing that you got to understand when we talk about being undeniable
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we talk about truly possessing what it takes to win you have to be so much better than the person
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next to you that if the conversation comes up who's better this or that it's laughable that's
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the gap we're fucking talking about here we're not talking about splitting hairs oh well you know
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they're i don't know you know there should not be a discussion you should be that much better
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than everybody else and that is what the fuck undeniable means so get your bitch ass shit out
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here with this, I got passed over. You got, okay. If you really got passed over because of these
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reasons, find a new place to work. All right. But I'm going to bet that that same exact shit is
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going to happen to you again. And I bet it's happened to you before. How many jobs have you
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had before where you got passed over and it was everybody else and it wasn't you. I bet you have
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this problem in your fucking relationship. I bet you have this problem with your friends. I bet you
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have this problem in your career i bet nothing is your fault and i bet you will go to the grave
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thinking nothing is your fault and that the whole world conspires against you whenever you would
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just if you would just figure out very simply that what it takes to win is greatness it does
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not take almost greatness it doesn't take kind of good it doesn't take i work hard working hard
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is the price of admission you have to be skilled you have to be good you have to contribute
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you have to earn the confidence of your leadership
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if I was your friend this is what the fuck I'd be telling you
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well you know what you know who my fucking favorites are
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it was a fucking win fuck dude you want to know who i like the best the ones who do their fucking
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job the best you know why because it makes my life easier and we win more and it's better for
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everybody okay those are my fucking favorites shoot me okay oh he's got favorites you're
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fucking right i got fucking favorites a hundred percent every fucking leader has favorites and
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you know who the favorites are the ones who do their fucking job without having to be harassed
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to do their fucking job and they do it great and they do it without fucking needing a whole bunch
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of uh hand holding and coddling and ass patting which it sounds like you fucking need so grow the
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fuck up that's my answer i fucking love it man i love dude it makes me think too it's like you
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know like and i've heard you say this to to employees right like nobody knows your name
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it's not their job to know your name it's your job to make your name known that's what i'm saying
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why is that such a big lack like because everybody's got inflated egos bro yeah no
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everybody's done nothing and they expect everything yeah everybody's uh you know
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thinks that they've accomplished the greatest thing in the world by breathing the fucking air
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and blessing them with their fucking presence i hate to tell you this dude but your parents were
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wrong your teachers were wrong your aunts and uncles they were wrong fucking too everybody
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that told you that you were special for breathing the fucking air and that that was going to
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be enough for you to get respect and enough for you to be able to survive in this world
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You need to wake the fuck up and understand what the truth is.
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If you want to win, you have to be undeniably great.
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Undeniably great is not close to the next guy.
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It's there's such a gap that it's not even a fucking question.
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it's like is shohei otani should we have shohei otani play for us or should we have
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this triple a guy that's never played a fucking game in his life yeah right like it's not a
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discussion right you need to be otani bro and if you can't be otani what the fuck you do you ain't
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gonna get paid like otani okay you understand yeah this is very very simple the problem is
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all you motherfuckers try to look for the fucking cut around you try to find the cheat code you try
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and you waste your whole life doing it you waste your whole life doing it you end up bitter frustrated
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broke angry feeling like the world fucked you over when in reality dude you fucked you over
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that's it so don't get the fuck out of here with you get passed over you got passed over
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because you're not fucking good enough that's it fucking love it dude oh man i love it bro i'm
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tired of it i love it i'm tired of it you guys are fucking delusional sometimes man not all of
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you obviously but like the fuck out of here dude oh i you know what i'm in the nfl i got fucking
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um you know the number one draft pick i think i'll go ahead and play this undrafted guy and
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yeah you know who's better i'm sure to work out yeah dude fuck dude did you know what you know
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the craziest thing about this too man is that like the true winners if they got passed up they
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still will look internally for something they didn't do well enough you know what i'm saying
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like like if they got passed up and well fuck i must not did this good enough no shit not it's
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everybody else's fault no shit all his favorites like that's it's a mindset thing it's a victim
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mindset bro bitch ass attitude that's infected people from the last 20 years of failed social
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strategy in in the system it's propaganda okay if you want to win you got to be great if you want
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to win the race you got to be the fastest if you want to lift the most you got to be the strongest
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if you want to earn the most money you got to be willing to do shit that other people aren't willing
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to do you got to be willing to do it longer and you got to be willing to do it better and you got
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to be willing to do it when you're tired and when you're sick and when you don't feel good and when
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fucking you'd rather do anything else uh even die than take another fucking step forward those are
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the motherfuckers that win okay everybody else loses not not kind of loses everybody else loses
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okay this is a show about winning if you want to win get good at what the fuck you do so good
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that it's not even a discussion of who's second best it's really simple dude it's just hard
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i fucking love it dude i love it guys andy question number two
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andy there's so much noise in business right now try this marketing strategy do this for
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social media put these systems in automate this it feels like you could spend all day doing things
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that look productive but don't actually move the business forward how do you figure out
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what really matters versus what's just busy work i mean 27 years and i'm sure you've tried
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fucking everything right how'd you figure that out all right look first off you got to learn how
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to all right i'm gonna answer this as if i don't know anything okay
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sometimes i forget that there's people that don't know no okay the first thing you got to understand
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is that most of these people on the internet are full of shit that is their brand that's their
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product what they're saying is their product that they're trying to sell these people who claim to
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be marketing geniuses on the internet what have they done what have they built if they were that
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good at marketing wouldn't they have their own company that was just totally fucking whooping
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ass on everybody else do your due diligence all right that's the first thing the second thing
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you have to understand how to filter through the minutiae and the bullshit and figure out what the
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critical things that are going to move you forward are on a daily basis. If you lack the ability to
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define critical tasks or you lack the honesty because you're lazy and you say, oh, these are
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critical tasks when they're not really, you won't get anywhere, bro. You won't get anywhere. You
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have to be able to identify. And by the way, you have to be able to identify what that is.
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How did I do that? I've been doing this for 20 fucking seven years, bro. It's trial and error,
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but it it shouldn't be that hard for you to figure out what's going to get you further um
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watching a video on uh listening a podcast on branding or actually uh you know making some
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phone calls uh to actually build your brand out right and like doing some things with some real
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people like what what watching a video on cold calling versus just phone call yeah like dude
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as an entrepreneur you learn everything on the job and if you're for being real every job you
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learn everything on the job there's no difference in that sense there's no job out there that you
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don't learn like you can read the training manual at chick-fil-a you don't know how to make a
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chicken sandwich yet no you're gonna know how to make it once you make a couple yeah right that's
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right like that's that's what you got to do so critical tasks do they move your business forward
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is this a a task that moves my business forward ancillary tasks this is the shit i got to do
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today to live my life i gotta pick up the kids from school i gotta go to the grocery store
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that's to-do list yeah critical list gets done first ancillary gets done second critical is the
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things that are going to move you forward ancillary are the things that you have to do
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and day-to-day it's really simple yeah critical tasks are things that you are actively doing
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to move forward for me that would that looks mostly like making contact with people and having
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conversations with people for you that might be you know today is uh is tax day right that might
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be okay making sure that my taxes are filed today right or it might be something else but the point
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is it doesn't move you forward is this something that has to be done in your business does it get
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you uh down the pipe further right it's really simple dude yeah i think it also brings up a
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topic of success zombies that you talk about all the time people think they if they're reading and
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consuming content they're progressing but like you said if they don't take action towards their
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businesses or whatever they they're not yeah that's a big problem it's a huge problem especially
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with the inundation of all the experts right and then you got you get frozen because you know you
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get paralysis by analysis because you're getting so much information from so many people most of
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the people are not credible and you're getting confused and you get paralyzed and you don't take
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action. Okay. You got to make a choice and you got to move forward. And if you're having trouble
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moving forward and you're having trouble with the confusion, then tune out the confusion,
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cut the noise out, do what you think you need to do to move the business forward. And you will learn
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study people who have done what you've done, figure out what they did. Like to me, and maybe
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I'm wrong, but this is basic shit. Like if I didn't know anything and this is what I did when
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i didn't know anything i picked people who did what i did and i watched them and i figured out
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what they did right and i thought about what they do wrong and sometimes because i didn't
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have experience i thought what they did wrong was wrong but it was actually right and i just
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become a student of the process and that's what you have to do and it's not it's not listening
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to everybody it's paying attention to everybody it's a different thing observation bro there's
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so much free shit out there like there's so much free information out there like
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from credible people it's just like what what are you guys doing you know i'm saying but
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i mean look here's the reality if you're not smart enough to be able to determine who's
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credible and who's not and you're not smart enough to determine what your critical tasks are
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you're not smart enough to win i don't know you should do something else like these are basic
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things you should be able to fucking look into someone and figure out if they've actually done
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the things that they say they do if you can't do that you're not very smart if you can't figure
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out what tasks are going to move your business forward you're not very smart entrepreneurs you
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got to be somewhat smart you don't be the smartest you got to be somewhat smart be smart enough to do
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that yeah that's for me that's good yeah that's good i love it man i love it guys and let's get
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to our third and final question. Question number three. I'm fairly new to you and you have me in
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complete reprogram mode. I'm 22 years old from Idaho. Since listening to your content, I've
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noticed something about myself that's kind of frustrating. If I tell someone else I'm going to
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do something or show up or finish a task, be somewhere, I'll do it no matter what. But when
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it comes to stuff i set for myself like going to the gym or chores around the house or working on
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something i said i cared about i'll find a way out of it it's not like i don't know what to do i just
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don't follow through the same way i do for other people after a while it starts to mess with your
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confidence because you don't even fully trust yourself no more how do you fix that like how
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do you get to the point where your word to yourself actually means something oh young buck
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well i mean look this is why live hard and 75 hard has been created okay um the skill that
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you're talking about is adherence and and discipline and when you don't have the ability
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to adhere it doesn't matter how good the plan is all right so your job which at 22 years old i think
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it's pretty interesting that you've already identified this because you have your job is
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to cultivate that ability to adhere. And the way that you do that is by training yourself
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in the skill set of mental toughness, which encompasses grit, fortitude, perseverance,
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the ability to endure, confidence, self-esteem, mental toughness. It's a concept of many different
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small skill sets. And when I say skill sets, I mean skill sets because they are not traits.
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A lot of people look at these highly disciplined people and they think, oh man, he's got what
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He has cultivated the ability to be disciplined in that one area that you think is magical
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when in reality you haven't cultivated that same discipline.
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So what you have to do is you have to become aware of where your weak points are, which
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you are already aware of, and then you have to practice executing at those points.
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i as always would highly recommend 75 hard and the live hard program which is a repeatable
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program it's a one-year program you're not on it the whole year um it accounts for like 40 percent
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of your year but you want to win you want to fucking really put your life in overdrive
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live the live hard lifestyle because it'll keep your mental toughness sharpened it'll keep your
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ability to adhere sharpened it'll give you the confidence and the belief in yourself that you're
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looking for uh because you are following through on the things that you've told yourself you're
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going to do and this is the magic of the program all right the magic of the program is that it
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takes something that most people think are traits and teaches them that their skills that they have
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to understand are perishable and have to brush up and sharpen on a regular basis okay so like once
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you learn these skill sets and once you get them sharp they can easily go away if you don't practice
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them. All right. So first thing to understand is that these are skills that you could cultivate.
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Second thing to understand is that they're perishable and you have to practice them over
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and over again. And the third thing you have to understand is that once you have these skillsets
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sharpened, if you keep them sharp, there's actually no limits to what you can do. Because
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if you have the ability to adhere to a plan, it doesn't matter what plan is put in front of you,
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you have the ability to adhere to it. Okay. So that solves the problem of success for like 99.99999%
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of the people we don't lack information we don't lack plans we don't lack ideas we don't lack
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successful uh business plans we lack the ability to do it that's where people lose okay and that's
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why 75 hard is a program that's continued to grow for six years now yeah when everybody's like oh
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it's a fucking fad it's not a fucking fad it's not a fucking weight loss program it's a success
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program for your brain that allows you to achieve things that you otherwise couldn't, okay? And if
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you keep that sharp, if you keep that ability to adhere sharp, you won't have a problem with the
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things that you're talking about, nor will you have a problem doing anything else you want to do
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because the reality is success in life is not that much different than success in baking or
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cooking, okay? There's a set of directions and you got to fucking follow them. How hard is it to be a
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really good cook? It's really not that hard. Is it hard to do off the top of your head? Sure, that
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It takes years and years and years and years and years.
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You're going to do it for 30 fucking years.
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But I can make a fucking Michelin star meal in my house by following motherfucking directions.
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And so can everybody in this fucking room.
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So if I don't have the ability to follow directions, it doesn't matter what directions I have.
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So you've got to realize that the number one skill at 22 years old that you can give yourself,
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the biggest gift you can give yourself is the understanding that mental toughness grit fortitude
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perseverance self-confidence self-esteem the ability to endure all of these things are skills
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that you have to keep sharp you have to practice and if you do that over the next 15 years bro
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you're going to be so far ahead everybody else it's going to be ridiculous i got a couple of
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things on this i want to ask you about uh the first thing being you know and i'm curious to
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what you think or how you think about this but it's like i look at things like consistency for
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example right and like you see people who are out of shape or something like that right it's like
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oh man they don't they're not consistent they're not disciplined but it's like if they're going to
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mcdonald's every single thursday and friday like that's that's consistency they're just consistently
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being shit correct right and so like i mean what's your thoughts on that right like people have it
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you mean like when people say things like all you got to do to be successful is be consistent
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motherfucker you're already consistent that's right you're consistently bad that's right that's
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right yeah right yeah consistency is not the key to success okay the right execution consistently
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is the key to success right all right everybody's consistent everybody is you're consistent you
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you you probably do the same if we recorded your life for the last 10 years i bet you do
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almost everything exactly the same okay that's consistent yeah that's consistent and it's
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consistently producing the same result that you have the one that you don't like yeah so if you
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want to change you got to be consistent in other things and that that is that is very basic yeah
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but most people like i have trouble being consistent not really dude i see you go into
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that gas station and get those taquitos and those chips and that pizza and that fucking big gulp and
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all that shit you get every you do that consistently you know what i mean you just want to move your
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fat ass down the road consistently that's right you know so dude that's so real man yeah i know
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it is you don't have a problem with consistency bro it's application yeah yeah and then and then
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the second thing i want to hit on too because i like because i was as i was like like reading
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this question this dude sounds like he has a good heart right and i think this also messes up a lot
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of people too where like okay you're saying you show up for everybody else you're just not showing
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up for yourself is this the time for him to like maybe maybe just cut that off well i think you
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need to understand so you gotta this is another thing as a young person it's easy you gotta
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understand this up front you gotta be selfish before you could be selfless you can't really
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serve other people the way that you could unless you have taken care of your own life and your own
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business your own health and your own finances and all of your own then you can actually take
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care of people but when you when you don't have any of those things and you're trying to give
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give give give give and you don't have much to give not only do you not have much to give but
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you lack it takes away from the ability to grow the thing that's going to allow you to give
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what you want to give yeah so it's you know it sounds counterintuitive but you have to be
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selfish dude you got to take care of yourself you got to take care of your own shit you got to make
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sure all that shit's right and then that equips you to do more good for more people in a more
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impactful way yeah dude absolutely yeah i think too like especially for being 22 it's like prime
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time to fucking oh yeah if you're if you're going to be selfish in that sense yeah this is a great
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time to fucking do it yeah dude look look you got two schools of thought you know you've got one
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school of thought we're like oh you're in your 20s you should go you know fucking travel the
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world and be in africa and fucking whatever right cool all right well that's 10 years you lost to
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people that are fucking giving it and then at 30 you're gonna be like well fuck i'm way behind
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well yeah you are behind you you are behind now people would like to say uh you know you're still
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young true but you're behind the guy who started when he was 20 okay and i'm gonna tell you this
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i started when i was 19. there's no regrets that i started when i was 19. in fact it's probably the
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one thing that i'm most grateful for i'm most grateful that i started at 19 and i'm still a
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fairly young man and i'm very successful because i started so young it gives me a totally different
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quality of life when i dude by by i've been i've been living the quality of life i have
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since i was 33 32 yeah okay so that's most people are getting started then that's what i'm saying
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dude okay so what's the quality of my 30s versus the quality of the 30s of the guy starting when
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he was 30. big difference okay and what did i really give up i didn't really give up that much
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i just worked hard in my 20s i still went out with my friends i still around
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yeah you know could i have went harder yeah but i mean i went hard enough to get me where i'm at
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right you see what i'm saying so you guys who are young dude you need to ignore this
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that like real talk i think some of the worst advice on the internet is you know just fuck
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your 20s away i think your 20s are built for building and i think when you could commit
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you'll never find someone who's committed to building in their 20s say they wish they hadn't
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it just doesn't yeah you don't hear it that's real you don't hear it yeah okay you don't hear
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people who like started when they're 20 years old say oh man i wish i had started at 30.
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wasted my life that's not what the fuck they say they say the opposite and you should pay attention
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to that because they have perspective they know what it's like to watch some of their friends
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and wait till they're 35 or 40 and by the way if that's what you have to do that's what you have
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to do and the good news is technology makes it a lot faster than it used to be so it's not like
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it was in the old days like when i started where you had to put in fucking 12 years to even get
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paid all right so i'm not trying to shit on people that are older i'm not trying to moralize you
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but if you have the choice and you have the option i would start as young as possible
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do i think the other final piece on this too i feel like another misconception with the young
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crowd on this specific topic is that it's almost presented as like an all or nothing i'm glad you
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said that like you still have you had you had fun you went out you know you had your things
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but i did some wild shit that's right you know what i'm saying like i had a fucking great time
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yeah but it's just like i feel like it's presented now as it's like it's just all or nothing you
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either got to be this fucking recluse that's fucking working 48 hours out of the 24 that's
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the fucking powerless system that i use is so perfect dude okay it's the only guaranteed system
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for success all right if you follow it the way that i designed it you cannot fucking lose it's
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impossible it's impossible it's literally impossible to fucking lose if you do it the
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way that it's lined out yeah now if you do it the way that you want to do it by putting in you know
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weak ass tasks and you know to-do lists and yeah uh you're gonna lose yeah okay but if you do it
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the way it's designed you can't lose okay and the greatest part about it is that it's five critical
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tasks per day and once those five critical tasks are done you have the rest of the day
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to do anything you want anything what do you want to do you want to go to the park you want to cut
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the grass you want to hang out with your kids you want to fucking smoke a bowl i don't know
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whatever you want to do fucking you got it to do but you got your shit done yeah your shit gets
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done and you get a life yeah okay so this idea there's a also dude there is a point of diminishing
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returns in a single work day yeah all right so like once you go past five all right and you get
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the five critical tasks and let's say oh i'm gonna be i'm gonna fucking do 10 or i'm gonna do 15
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you can't keep that up okay and the reason that it's hurtful is because that means you're going
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to learn that you're failing the days over and over you're going to say oh you know yeah i got
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seven done but there's four that didn't get done and that's going to compound into that feeling
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of not being effective so it's going to take away from your confidence it's going to take away from
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your belief so it's very important that you stick to the way that it's designed you do the five tasks
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and then you get to live your life and dude i'm telling you as someone who's built shit with this
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system it works and you don't have to work 40 hours a fucking day yeah right you know like
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it's not sustainable by the way do you ever hear like real real talk i mean there's people say that
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oh man i'm fucking working blah blah blah blah blah none of the people saying that have the
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life to show for it oh man where is it at where is it yeah where is it yeah i'm working my balls
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are you yeah renting a fucking listen dude here's the guru play
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talking head reels over someone else's shit get enough people to pay you to buy a fucking exotic
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car stand in front of the exotic car talk about how much you know and hustle it that's the play
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yeah and it's it's beyond me that people can't look past that and understand like bro if you
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were that good at what you say you're good at then why the fuck aren't you doing it and by the way
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if your coach isn't in business currently with an actual business how do they keep up on what's
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actually going on in real business and not just the theory of what they think is going on
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dude shit changes every day that's right fuck that's right yeah that's why rt syndicate is
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such a valuable thing that ed and i do because we're both in the fucking game like for real in
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the game still in the game yeah like not you know oh yeah this is what everybody's doing that's
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winning look at this brand and look at that brand and look at this guy's and look at that guy that's
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not what the fuck they're doing hey we just tried this shit i just tried that's right yesterday
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yeah totally different thing yeah bro totally different thing it's real easy to break down
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everybody's shit on the internet and say they're doing shit right and wrong uh except for you know
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they're winning and you're not so oh man you know what i'm saying dude that's so real
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it's so real like you see how many fucking people breaking down brands that just kick
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ass yeah talking about all their marketing's bad or this is bad okay
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all right i just don't listen man it's predatory at this point and you have to discern and you
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have to understand and you have to do due diligence are there people that can help you
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for sure they are there it's it's two percent of the people that say they can if they're not in
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the game or they haven't been in the game the exact game that you want you shouldn't listen to
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them shouldn't they don't it's theory it's not it's not reality there are lots of things
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that people talk about in theory that don't work in reality but they don't know that because they
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don't fucking run a company okay i run a whole bunch of companies all right i know what the
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working and what's not working that's right all right like i know no i don't kind of know i
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fucking know you know and like it's funny because sometimes you know you're getting like i'll you
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know you'll see some of these videos that people post and i want to like comment on them be like
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bro you sound like the biggest fucking one i've ever heard in my life that does not work yes but
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i can't but i'm not going to do that because i don't want to be a dickhead that's right you know
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but i think it every time or that would have worked three years ago the other thing i fucking
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can't get that i get tired of is this fucking hocus pocus fucking frou-frou shit you know like
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oh you gotta be in a place to receive the gifts if you're gonna shut the fuck up okay success is
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real simple it's inputs and outputs did you do the fucking work and did you do it at the right
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level and what was the result it's that simple you don't have to be in a place to fucking receive it
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you don't have to fucking kumbaya you don't gotta rub together sage stick it up your butthole you
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don't have to fucking do any of that shit you got to do you got to work you got to execute your
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execute has to be effective and it produces a result and that's fucking it there's nothing else
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to it okay so get the fuck out of here with your oh we got a kumbaya shut the fuck up dude shut up
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yeah it's all bullshit it makes people think they can be successful by rubbing their fucking
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thumbs together and humming in the corner of their fucking bedroom i think i'll get it yeah
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it doesn't dude no anything to anything to avoid doing the shit that it actually takes it's like
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i haven't tried the same and then you have and then you have these coaches like promoting this
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shit and you know why they promote it because that's an easy sell to people it's an easy sell
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to people they know that most people aren't going to do it so what do they tell them they tell them
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all this shit that seems real easy instead of the shit they need to hear which is bro you suck
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you got to get good or you're not working hard enough you got to put in more time or both and
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that's dude it's it's inputs and outputs it's fucking math it's one plus one equals motherfucking
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two that's what the fuck it is and anybody who tells you any different is full of shit
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amen amen now if you want to do all that shit and you want to hum in the corner and get some
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little cymbals and fucking rub some bowls and whatever the fuck you want to do cool yeah
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ain't gonna make you money now if you get your five critical tasks done yeah and then you want
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to go you want to go rub mud all over your body and fucking sun your butthole or whatever it is
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the fuck you guys do like do it yeah crew but that ain't gonna make it ain't gonna fix your
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bank account bro ain't gonna fix your business okay oh man i love it dude it's the truth i love
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it bro how much retarded shit do we hear on the end i see it's so it's that's it's so much out
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like that was the thing that i can't stand when people act like watch your fucking morning routine
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what difference does it make what difference does it make what difference does it make my
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morning routine probably wouldn't work for you difference doesn't make all that matters is did
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you do your shit and did you do it well and did you do it in a way that's undeniably better than
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anybody else and did you do it long enough and if you do those things you're going to fucking win
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yeah if you don't you can hum in the corner and rub the bowls and put the mud all over you and
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fucking sit in the ice bath with 15 other dudes
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and cry. You can do all this shit and you're still
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We know what time it is. We know what time it is, man.
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This is for people that want to fucking win.
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Really want to win. That really want to win.
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I'm not going to fluff you. I'm not going to tell you
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Fucker stole, counted millions in the code
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Bad bitch, booted slow, got her on bankroll
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Can't fold, just a no, headshot, case closed
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