REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 20, 2026


1017. Q&AF： Passed Up For Promotion, Optimizing Business Output & Staying True To Your Word


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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies 0.99
00:00:21.620 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys 0.98
00:00:26.420 Today we have Q&A F 0.96
00:00:28.640 That's where you submit questions
00:00:29.920 And we give you the answers
00:00:31.840 You can submit your questions a few different ways
00:00:34.220 DJ, tell them how they can submit their questions
00:00:36.520 Guys, email your questions
00:00:38.480 And to askandy at andyfricella.com
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00:00:43.260 In the comment section of the Q&A F videos
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00:00:46.920 To submit them there for a chance to be answered
00:00:49.060 On the show
00:00:50.100 If this is your first time listening
00:00:52.300 We have shows within the show
00:00:53.600 Tonight you're going to see CTI
00:00:55.800 live that is live on x and youtube at 7 p.m central time this is where we uh cruise the
00:01:02.680 internet we talk about things that are going on in the world we speculate we have a couple laughs
00:01:07.680 we joke around we talk about how we the people have to solve these problems going on in the world
00:01:11.600 other times we have real talk real talk is just 5 20 minutes and be giving you some real talk
00:01:16.220 and then sometimes we have 75 hard verses that's where people who come on the show
00:01:21.120 who have completed 75 hard come on and they talk about how they were before how they are now and
00:01:25.900 how they use the 75 hard program to get their life in order if you're unfamiliar with 75 hard
00:01:30.420 it is the initial phase of the live hard program which is available in its entirety for free
00:01:35.640 at episode 208 on the audio feed again that's 208 on the audio feed uh it's on the audio feed only
00:01:43.880 it's not on youtube there's also a book the book on mental toughness it goes over the entire live
00:01:50.100 hard program and uh it is not free there's also a whole bunch of chapters on mental toughness why
00:01:55.220 it's important and how to cultivate in your life you get that at andyprisola.com and uh yeah that's
00:02:01.720 pretty much it one of the things we do here that's different than everybody else we're the biggest
00:02:04.860 show in the world doesn't run ads so we make a little deal with you guys it's very simple uh if
00:02:10.000 you get value out of the show if it makes you think it makes you laugh it gives you new perspective
00:02:15.700 is something you need to you know you think needs to be heard or something to help you out
00:02:20.560 do us a favor and share that show okay sharing the show one time a year does not count as sharing 0.88
00:02:27.360 the show all right real talk this cost me a couple million bucks to fucking do every year i don't 0.72
00:02:32.140 take a single dollar for it and i ask very simply that all you guys do is help us grow the show 0.95
00:02:37.500 all right so don't be a hoe share the show all right what's up good morning how are you good 0.98
00:02:44.220 good to see you yeah yeah dude we were trying we were fucking with the lights earlier felt 0.98
00:02:48.620 couldn't figure out where the setting was i don't remember it being dark dude i don't remember it 0.52
00:02:52.260 being this dark yeah we had two week uh a little hiatus man it was good though man how are you
00:02:56.580 doing good yeah good back in the saddle yeah man feeling good looking good looking good yeah you
00:03:02.780 are yeah that's right i'm excited to get back on cti yeah well it's gonna be fun some things i
00:03:09.280 wanted to say last couple weeks i didn't get to say i probably won't say them anyway because it's
00:03:13.920 old but we'll talk about that later yeah we get to it man we get to it this is this is uh this is
00:03:19.980 the episode where people get better that's right i mean they get better on cti also yeah but this
00:03:24.300 is the main thing this is getting better better yeah so let's do that i got three good ones for
00:03:27.880 you guys andy question number one andy i work for a trucking company i recently got passed up twice
00:03:35.680 for promotions in the last eight months for a management position for my shift that i currently
00:03:41.960 have been operating for eight years now i realize that time doesn't mean shit it's the impact you
00:03:47.580 make within that time uh the first promotion the person that got it was the favorite uh to get it
00:03:53.700 but never worked nighttime operations the problem is that she never started that position because
00:03:59.120 she just needed the manager title for another promotion the second time i got passed up
00:04:03.400 was a person that worked under her in a different department and she had a big influence on his
00:04:08.400 promotion everyone in management is realizing this is not based on work performance it's a lot
00:04:14.180 of favoritism how do i handle loss moving forward knowing that that position is handed to someone 0.87
00:04:20.320 else rather than earning it i guess how do you how do you are we fucking serious here 1.00
00:04:24.600 like are we fucking bro you suck you suck at your job if you were that great at your 1.00
00:04:31.100 fucking job you would have got the promotion okay let's be fucking real businesses don't 1.00
00:04:37.060 exist to fucking piss money away they don't exist to give cousins jobs they don't exist to fuck you 1.00
00:04:43.420 over they exist to fucking win all right so while you may think this and you may think oh man i'm 0.99
00:04:49.820 getting passed over and blah blah blah no you're getting passed over for a fucking reason that 0.99
00:04:54.220 you're unwilling to admit okay and it's probably that you got a bad attitude or you lack the 1.00
00:04:59.720 capacity to lead or you bitch a lot or you cry a lot or i don't know maybe you wrecked three trucks 0.96
00:05:05.400 i don't know i don't know what it is but something you're doing is not resonating with the leadership 0.99
00:05:10.760 of the company and while they hold your balls in their hand you should probably figure out how to 0.99
00:05:15.880 fucking make them like you yeah okay so how old did he say he was didn't say okay well you're old 0.99
00:05:21.640 enough to fucking know if you're old enough to drive a truck that the reason that you got passed 1.00
00:05:25.160 by is because you fucking suck so get better dude like real talk i'm sick of this shit you guys all 1.00
00:05:30.760 fucking whine about get passed over if it's even a question is someone even close to as good as you 1.00
00:05:38.700 it's too close that's the thing that you got to understand when we talk about being undeniable 0.99
00:05:44.240 we talk about truly possessing what it takes to win you have to be so much better than the person
00:05:54.320 next to you that if the conversation comes up who's better this or that it's laughable that's 0.93
00:06:01.260 the gap we're fucking talking about here we're not talking about splitting hairs oh well you know 0.95
00:06:06.880 they're i don't know you know there should not be a discussion you should be that much better 1.00
00:06:13.360 than everybody else and that is what the fuck undeniable means so get your bitch ass shit out 1.00
00:06:18.780 here with this, I got passed over. You got, okay. If you really got passed over because of these 1.00
00:06:24.460 reasons, find a new place to work. All right. But I'm going to bet that that same exact shit is
00:06:30.500 going to happen to you again. And I bet it's happened to you before. How many jobs have you 1.00
00:06:34.920 had before where you got passed over and it was everybody else and it wasn't you. I bet you have
00:06:41.700 this problem in your fucking relationship. I bet you have this problem with your friends. I bet you 1.00
00:06:47.020 have this problem in your career i bet nothing is your fault and i bet you will go to the grave
00:06:53.200 thinking nothing is your fault and that the whole world conspires against you whenever you would
00:06:58.140 just if you would just figure out very simply that what it takes to win is greatness it does
00:07:05.080 not take almost greatness it doesn't take kind of good it doesn't take i work hard working hard
00:07:12.140 is the price of admission you have to be skilled you have to be good you have to contribute
00:07:16.780 you have to earn the confidence of your leadership
00:07:19.260 if you're a leader you have to earn
00:07:21.060 the confidence of your team
00:07:22.280 this comes through undeniable
00:07:25.340 winning effort
00:07:27.060 and skill set and right now 0.99
00:07:29.240 you don't fucking have it 0.99
00:07:31.080 okay I don't know what 1.00
00:07:32.980 if I was your friend this is what the fuck I'd be telling you 0.99
00:07:35.360 you probably ruined a whole bunch 1.00
00:07:37.280 of your life being like this
00:07:38.380 you know favoritism
00:07:40.760 yeah right oh it's their favorite 1.00
00:07:42.920 well you know what you know who my fucking favorites are 0.99
00:07:45.080 you know who my favorites are 1.00
00:07:46.520 it was a fucking win fuck dude you want to know who i like the best the ones who do their fucking 1.00
00:07:52.060 job the best you know why because it makes my life easier and we win more and it's better for 1.00
00:07:56.860 everybody okay those are my fucking favorites shoot me okay oh he's got favorites you're 1.00
00:08:03.640 fucking right i got fucking favorites a hundred percent every fucking leader has favorites and 1.00
00:08:08.580 you know who the favorites are the ones who do their fucking job without having to be harassed 1.00
00:08:12.780 to do their fucking job and they do it great and they do it without fucking needing a whole bunch 1.00
00:08:16.460 of uh hand holding and coddling and ass patting which it sounds like you fucking need so grow the 0.99
00:08:23.440 fuck up that's my answer i fucking love it man i love dude it makes me think too it's like you 0.99
00:08:27.580 know like and i've heard you say this to to employees right like nobody knows your name 0.99
00:08:34.560 it's not their job to know your name it's your job to make your name known that's what i'm saying
00:08:40.440 why is that such a big lack like because everybody's got inflated egos bro yeah no
00:08:46.720 everybody's done nothing and they expect everything yeah everybody's uh you know 0.98
00:08:50.740 thinks that they've accomplished the greatest thing in the world by breathing the fucking air 0.99
00:08:56.060 and blessing them with their fucking presence i hate to tell you this dude but your parents were 1.00
00:09:01.700 wrong your teachers were wrong your aunts and uncles they were wrong fucking too everybody 1.00
00:09:06.700 that told you that you were special for breathing the fucking air and that that was going to 0.99
00:09:10.940 be enough for you to get respect and enough for you to be able to survive in this world 1.00
00:09:15.220 was wrong. 0.94
00:09:16.520 You need to wake the fuck up and understand what the truth is. 0.58
00:09:19.160 And the truth is simple. 0.81
00:09:20.620 If you want to win, you have to be undeniably great.
00:09:24.260 Undeniably great is not close to the next guy. 0.97
00:09:29.180 It's there's such a gap that it's not even a fucking question. 0.97
00:09:33.860 Okay. 0.98
00:09:34.240 It's like, okay.
00:09:36.700 it's like is shohei otani should we have shohei otani play for us or should we have 0.94
00:09:45.760 this triple a guy that's never played a fucking game in his life yeah right like it's not a 0.99
00:09:50.760 discussion right you need to be otani bro and if you can't be otani what the fuck you do you ain't 0.99
00:09:56.460 gonna get paid like otani okay you understand yeah this is very very simple the problem is 0.99
00:10:01.640 all you motherfuckers try to look for the fucking cut around you try to find the cheat code you try 0.99
00:10:06.560 and you waste your whole life doing it you waste your whole life doing it you end up bitter frustrated 1.00
00:10:13.340 broke angry feeling like the world fucked you over when in reality dude you fucked you over 1.00
00:10:18.040 that's it so don't get the fuck out of here with you get passed over you got passed over 1.00
00:10:23.140 because you're not fucking good enough that's it fucking love it dude oh man i love it bro i'm 1.00
00:10:28.120 tired of it i love it i'm tired of it you guys are fucking delusional sometimes man not all of 1.00
00:10:34.020 you obviously but like the fuck out of here dude oh i you know what i'm in the nfl i got fucking 0.99
00:10:40.980 um you know the number one draft pick i think i'll go ahead and play this undrafted guy and 1.00
00:10:46.480 yeah you know who's better i'm sure to work out yeah dude fuck dude did you know what you know 0.96
00:10:50.920 the craziest thing about this too man is that like the true winners if they got passed up they 0.99
00:10:56.520 still will look internally for something they didn't do well enough you know what i'm saying 0.99
00:11:00.620 like like if they got passed up and well fuck i must not did this good enough no shit not it's 0.99
00:11:04.240 everybody else's fault no shit all his favorites like that's it's a mindset thing it's a victim 1.00
00:11:08.580 mindset bro bitch ass attitude that's infected people from the last 20 years of failed social 0.99
00:11:15.900 strategy in in the system it's propaganda okay if you want to win you got to be great if you want 0.99
00:11:21.460 to win the race you got to be the fastest if you want to lift the most you got to be the strongest 0.89
00:11:25.380 if you want to earn the most money you got to be willing to do shit that other people aren't willing
00:11:29.100 to do you got to be willing to do it longer and you got to be willing to do it better and you got 0.97
00:11:34.060 to be willing to do it when you're tired and when you're sick and when you don't feel good and when 0.99
00:11:37.420 fucking you'd rather do anything else uh even die than take another fucking step forward those are 1.00
00:11:42.500 the motherfuckers that win okay everybody else loses not not kind of loses everybody else loses 1.00
00:11:47.880 okay this is a show about winning if you want to win get good at what the fuck you do so good 1.00
00:11:53.560 that it's not even a discussion of who's second best it's really simple dude it's just hard 0.77
00:12:00.480 i fucking love it dude i love it guys andy question number two 0.67
00:12:05.020 andy there's so much noise in business right now try this marketing strategy do this for 0.95
00:12:12.960 social media put these systems in automate this it feels like you could spend all day doing things
00:12:18.980 that look productive but don't actually move the business forward how do you figure out
00:12:24.240 what really matters versus what's just busy work i mean 27 years and i'm sure you've tried 0.77
00:12:30.860 fucking everything right how'd you figure that out all right look first off you got to learn how 0.81
00:12:40.780 to all right i'm gonna answer this as if i don't know anything okay 0.98
00:12:45.960 sometimes i forget that there's people that don't know no okay the first thing you got to understand 0.97
00:12:53.800 is that most of these people on the internet are full of shit that is their brand that's their 0.99
00:13:00.540 product what they're saying is their product that they're trying to sell these people who claim to 1.00
00:13:06.320 be marketing geniuses on the internet what have they done what have they built if they were that 0.98
00:13:11.960 good at marketing wouldn't they have their own company that was just totally fucking whooping 0.97
00:13:15.340 ass on everybody else do your due diligence all right that's the first thing the second thing 1.00
00:13:20.220 you have to understand how to filter through the minutiae and the bullshit and figure out what the 0.94
00:13:31.800 critical things that are going to move you forward are on a daily basis. If you lack the ability to 0.96
00:13:38.860 define critical tasks or you lack the honesty because you're lazy and you say, oh, these are
00:13:46.860 critical tasks when they're not really, you won't get anywhere, bro. You won't get anywhere. You
00:13:50.540 have to be able to identify. And by the way, you have to be able to identify what that is.
00:13:55.460 How did I do that? I've been doing this for 20 fucking seven years, bro. It's trial and error, 0.97
00:14:00.460 but it it shouldn't be that hard for you to figure out what's going to get you further um
00:14:05.340 watching a video on uh listening a podcast on branding or actually uh you know making some
00:14:13.080 phone calls uh to actually build your brand out right and like doing some things with some real
00:14:18.260 people like what what watching a video on cold calling versus just phone call yeah like dude
00:14:24.380 as an entrepreneur you learn everything on the job and if you're for being real every job you
00:14:28.800 learn everything on the job there's no difference in that sense there's no job out there that you
00:14:33.080 don't learn like you can read the training manual at chick-fil-a you don't know how to make a
00:14:37.060 chicken sandwich yet no you're gonna know how to make it once you make a couple yeah right that's
00:14:41.300 right like that's that's what you got to do so critical tasks do they move your business forward 0.99
00:14:47.920 is this a a task that moves my business forward ancillary tasks this is the shit i got to do 0.95
00:14:57.200 today to live my life i gotta pick up the kids from school i gotta go to the grocery store 0.96
00:15:02.140 that's to-do list yeah critical list gets done first ancillary gets done second critical is the
00:15:10.520 things that are going to move you forward ancillary are the things that you have to do
00:15:13.800 and day-to-day it's really simple yeah critical tasks are things that you are actively doing
00:15:18.780 to move forward for me that would that looks mostly like making contact with people and having
00:15:25.940 conversations with people for you that might be you know today is uh is tax day right that might
00:15:32.460 be okay making sure that my taxes are filed today right or it might be something else but the point
00:15:39.600 is it doesn't move you forward is this something that has to be done in your business does it get
00:15:43.420 you uh down the pipe further right it's really simple dude yeah i think it also brings up a
00:15:50.920 topic of success zombies that you talk about all the time people think they if they're reading and
00:15:56.440 consuming content they're progressing but like you said if they don't take action towards their
00:16:00.800 businesses or whatever they they're not yeah that's a big problem it's a huge problem especially
00:16:05.740 with the inundation of all the experts right and then you got you get frozen because you know you
00:16:11.680 get paralysis by analysis because you're getting so much information from so many people most of
00:16:16.700 the people are not credible and you're getting confused and you get paralyzed and you don't take
00:16:21.140 action. Okay. You got to make a choice and you got to move forward. And if you're having trouble
00:16:25.640 moving forward and you're having trouble with the confusion, then tune out the confusion,
00:16:29.600 cut the noise out, do what you think you need to do to move the business forward. And you will learn
00:16:34.220 study people who have done what you've done, figure out what they did. Like to me, and maybe
00:16:41.040 I'm wrong, but this is basic shit. Like if I didn't know anything and this is what I did when 0.98
00:16:46.220 i didn't know anything i picked people who did what i did and i watched them and i figured out
00:16:50.880 what they did right and i thought about what they do wrong and sometimes because i didn't
00:16:55.820 have experience i thought what they did wrong was wrong but it was actually right and i just
00:17:00.300 become a student of the process and that's what you have to do and it's not it's not listening
00:17:06.300 to everybody it's paying attention to everybody it's a different thing observation bro there's 0.95
00:17:10.620 so much free shit out there like there's so much free information out there like 0.96
00:17:14.540 from credible people it's just like what what are you guys doing you know i'm saying but 0.99
00:17:23.560 i mean look here's the reality if you're not smart enough to be able to determine who's
00:17:30.300 credible and who's not and you're not smart enough to determine what your critical tasks are
00:17:34.620 you're not smart enough to win i don't know you should do something else like these are basic 0.94
00:17:41.040 things you should be able to fucking look into someone and figure out if they've actually done 0.99
00:17:46.980 the things that they say they do if you can't do that you're not very smart if you can't figure 0.98
00:17:52.180 out what tasks are going to move your business forward you're not very smart entrepreneurs you
00:17:59.280 got to be somewhat smart you don't be the smartest you got to be somewhat smart be smart enough to do
00:18:03.020 that yeah that's for me that's good yeah that's good i love it man i love it guys and let's get
00:18:08.240 to our third and final question. Question number three. I'm fairly new to you and you have me in
00:18:17.200 complete reprogram mode. I'm 22 years old from Idaho. Since listening to your content, I've
00:18:23.100 noticed something about myself that's kind of frustrating. If I tell someone else I'm going to
00:18:28.680 do something or show up or finish a task, be somewhere, I'll do it no matter what. But when
00:18:34.360 it comes to stuff i set for myself like going to the gym or chores around the house or working on
00:18:40.120 something i said i cared about i'll find a way out of it it's not like i don't know what to do i just
00:18:45.980 don't follow through the same way i do for other people after a while it starts to mess with your
00:18:51.860 confidence because you don't even fully trust yourself no more how do you fix that like how
00:18:56.540 do you get to the point where your word to yourself actually means something oh young buck
00:19:03.560 well i mean look this is why live hard and 75 hard has been created okay um the skill that
00:19:11.120 you're talking about is adherence and and discipline and when you don't have the ability
00:19:17.020 to adhere it doesn't matter how good the plan is all right so your job which at 22 years old i think
00:19:23.900 it's pretty interesting that you've already identified this because you have your job is
00:19:28.400 to cultivate that ability to adhere. And the way that you do that is by training yourself
00:19:34.480 in the skill set of mental toughness, which encompasses grit, fortitude, perseverance,
00:19:42.300 the ability to endure, confidence, self-esteem, mental toughness. It's a concept of many different
00:19:50.340 small skill sets. And when I say skill sets, I mean skill sets because they are not traits.
00:19:56.580 A lot of people look at these highly disciplined people and they think, oh man, he's got what
00:20:00.320 I don't, or he has something I don't know.
00:20:02.040 He doesn't have something you don't.
00:20:04.180 He has cultivated the ability to be disciplined in that one area that you think is magical
00:20:08.460 when in reality you haven't cultivated that same discipline.
00:20:11.240 So what you have to do is you have to become aware of where your weak points are, which
00:20:15.340 you are already aware of, and then you have to practice executing at those points.
00:20:20.900 i as always would highly recommend 75 hard and the live hard program which is a repeatable
00:20:27.520 program it's a one-year program you're not on it the whole year um it accounts for like 40 percent 0.63
00:20:32.220 of your year but you want to win you want to fucking really put your life in overdrive 0.74
00:20:37.040 live the live hard lifestyle because it'll keep your mental toughness sharpened it'll keep your 0.87
00:20:43.140 ability to adhere sharpened it'll give you the confidence and the belief in yourself that you're
00:20:47.360 looking for uh because you are following through on the things that you've told yourself you're
00:20:52.660 going to do and this is the magic of the program all right the magic of the program is that it
00:20:58.220 takes something that most people think are traits and teaches them that their skills that they have
00:21:04.020 to understand are perishable and have to brush up and sharpen on a regular basis okay so like once
00:21:10.660 you learn these skill sets and once you get them sharp they can easily go away if you don't practice
00:21:15.880 them. All right. So first thing to understand is that these are skills that you could cultivate.
00:21:21.180 Second thing to understand is that they're perishable and you have to practice them over
00:21:23.840 and over again. And the third thing you have to understand is that once you have these skillsets
00:21:27.560 sharpened, if you keep them sharp, there's actually no limits to what you can do. Because
00:21:31.300 if you have the ability to adhere to a plan, it doesn't matter what plan is put in front of you,
00:21:35.580 you have the ability to adhere to it. Okay. So that solves the problem of success for like 99.99999%
00:21:43.720 of the people we don't lack information we don't lack plans we don't lack ideas we don't lack
00:21:49.500 successful uh business plans we lack the ability to do it that's where people lose okay and that's
00:21:57.360 why 75 hard is a program that's continued to grow for six years now yeah when everybody's like oh 0.96
00:22:02.380 it's a fucking fad it's not a fucking fad it's not a fucking weight loss program it's a success 0.96
00:22:07.460 program for your brain that allows you to achieve things that you otherwise couldn't, okay? And if 0.99
00:22:14.000 you keep that sharp, if you keep that ability to adhere sharp, you won't have a problem with the
00:22:18.840 things that you're talking about, nor will you have a problem doing anything else you want to do
00:22:21.920 because the reality is success in life is not that much different than success in baking or
00:22:27.000 cooking, okay? There's a set of directions and you got to fucking follow them. How hard is it to be a 0.99
00:22:31.440 really good cook? It's really not that hard. Is it hard to do off the top of your head? Sure, that
00:22:36.100 It takes years and years and years and years and years.
00:22:37.940 You're going to be Gordon Ramsay. 0.99
00:22:38.960 You're going to do it for 30 fucking years. 1.00
00:22:40.440 But I can make a fucking Michelin star meal in my house by following motherfucking directions. 1.00
00:22:45.480 Okay? 1.00
00:22:45.740 And so can you. 1.00
00:22:46.460 And so can everybody in this fucking room. 1.00
00:22:48.340 And success is no different. 0.99
00:22:49.860 So if I don't have the ability to follow directions, it doesn't matter what directions I have. 0.95
00:22:54.820 The cake's going to suck. 0.97
00:22:56.100 The food's going to suck. 1.00
00:22:57.600 Your life's going to suck. 0.99
00:22:58.900 All right? 0.98
00:22:59.240 So you've got to realize that the number one skill at 22 years old that you can give yourself,
00:23:04.080 the biggest gift you can give yourself is the understanding that mental toughness grit fortitude
00:23:10.020 perseverance self-confidence self-esteem the ability to endure all of these things are skills
00:23:15.200 that you have to keep sharp you have to practice and if you do that over the next 15 years bro
00:23:20.120 you're going to be so far ahead everybody else it's going to be ridiculous i got a couple of
00:23:24.460 things on this i want to ask you about uh the first thing being you know and i'm curious to
00:23:28.840 what you think or how you think about this but it's like i look at things like consistency for
00:23:35.020 example right and like you see people who are out of shape or something like that right it's like
00:23:40.420 oh man they don't they're not consistent they're not disciplined but it's like if they're going to
00:23:44.220 mcdonald's every single thursday and friday like that's that's consistency they're just consistently 0.71
00:23:49.360 being shit correct right and so like i mean what's your thoughts on that right like people have it
00:23:53.880 you mean like when people say things like all you got to do to be successful is be consistent 0.99
00:24:00.360 motherfucker you're already consistent that's right you're consistently bad that's right that's 0.97
00:24:04.440 right yeah right yeah consistency is not the key to success okay the right execution consistently 0.99
00:24:12.140 is the key to success right all right everybody's consistent everybody is you're consistent you
00:24:17.900 you you probably do the same if we recorded your life for the last 10 years i bet you do
00:24:24.200 almost everything exactly the same okay that's consistent yeah that's consistent and it's
00:24:31.560 consistently producing the same result that you have the one that you don't like yeah so if you
00:24:36.020 want to change you got to be consistent in other things and that that is that is very basic yeah
00:24:40.960 but most people like i have trouble being consistent not really dude i see you go into 0.96
00:24:46.280 that gas station and get those taquitos and those chips and that pizza and that fucking big gulp and 0.96
00:24:51.020 all that shit you get every you do that consistently you know what i mean you just want to move your 1.00
00:24:55.000 fat ass down the road consistently that's right you know so dude that's so real man yeah i know 1.00
00:25:00.160 it is you don't have a problem with consistency bro it's application yeah yeah and then and then 0.92
00:25:06.340 the second thing i want to hit on too because i like because i was as i was like like reading
00:25:10.480 this question this dude sounds like he has a good heart right and i think this also messes up a lot
00:25:14.280 of people too where like okay you're saying you show up for everybody else you're just not showing
00:25:18.080 up for yourself is this the time for him to like maybe maybe just cut that off well i think you
00:25:23.340 need to understand so you gotta this is another thing as a young person it's easy you gotta
00:25:27.960 understand this up front you gotta be selfish before you could be selfless you can't really
00:25:35.160 serve other people the way that you could unless you have taken care of your own life and your own
00:25:42.120 business your own health and your own finances and all of your own then you can actually take
00:25:47.860 care of people but when you when you don't have any of those things and you're trying to give
00:25:54.580 give give give give and you don't have much to give not only do you not have much to give but
00:25:58.700 you lack it takes away from the ability to grow the thing that's going to allow you to give
00:26:04.720 what you want to give yeah so it's you know it sounds counterintuitive but you have to be 0.99
00:26:10.960 selfish dude you got to take care of yourself you got to take care of your own shit you got to make 0.97
00:26:15.080 sure all that shit's right and then that equips you to do more good for more people in a more 0.99
00:26:21.100 impactful way yeah dude absolutely yeah i think too like especially for being 22 it's like prime 0.99
00:26:27.680 time to fucking oh yeah if you're if you're going to be selfish in that sense yeah this is a great 0.97
00:26:31.540 time to fucking do it yeah dude look look you got two schools of thought you know you've got one 0.99
00:26:35.600 school of thought we're like oh you're in your 20s you should go you know fucking travel the 0.99
00:26:41.780 world and be in africa and fucking whatever right cool all right well that's 10 years you lost to 0.99
00:26:47.880 people that are fucking giving it and then at 30 you're gonna be like well fuck i'm way behind 0.99
00:26:52.000 well yeah you are behind you you are behind now people would like to say uh you know you're still 1.00
00:26:57.580 young true but you're behind the guy who started when he was 20 okay and i'm gonna tell you this
00:27:02.800 i started when i was 19. there's no regrets that i started when i was 19. in fact it's probably the
00:27:09.280 one thing that i'm most grateful for i'm most grateful that i started at 19 and i'm still a
00:27:14.800 fairly young man and i'm very successful because i started so young it gives me a totally different
00:27:20.800 quality of life when i dude by by i've been i've been living the quality of life i have
00:27:28.240 since i was 33 32 yeah okay so that's most people are getting started then that's what i'm saying
00:27:36.160 dude okay so what's the quality of my 30s versus the quality of the 30s of the guy starting when
00:27:40.800 he was 30. big difference okay and what did i really give up i didn't really give up that much
00:27:46.480 i just worked hard in my 20s i still went out with my friends i still around
00:27:50.400 yeah you know could i have went harder yeah but i mean i went hard enough to get me where i'm at
00:27:55.120 right you see what i'm saying so you guys who are young dude you need to ignore this 1.00
00:27:59.120 that like real talk i think some of the worst advice on the internet is you know just fuck 1.00
00:28:04.820 your 20s away i think your 20s are built for building and i think when you could commit 0.99
00:28:09.320 you'll never find someone who's committed to building in their 20s say they wish they hadn't
00:28:14.320 it just doesn't yeah you don't hear it that's real you don't hear it yeah okay you don't hear
00:28:19.340 people who like started when they're 20 years old say oh man i wish i had started at 30. 0.98
00:28:23.060 wasted my life that's not what the fuck they say they say the opposite and you should pay attention 0.97
00:28:27.940 to that because they have perspective they know what it's like to watch some of their friends 0.99
00:28:32.760 and wait till they're 35 or 40 and by the way if that's what you have to do that's what you have
00:28:37.100 to do and the good news is technology makes it a lot faster than it used to be so it's not like 0.51
00:28:41.500 it was in the old days like when i started where you had to put in fucking 12 years to even get 0.93
00:28:45.880 paid all right so i'm not trying to shit on people that are older i'm not trying to moralize you 0.95
00:28:51.560 but if you have the choice and you have the option i would start as young as possible
00:28:56.960 do i think the other final piece on this too i feel like another misconception with the young
00:29:02.320 crowd on this specific topic is that it's almost presented as like an all or nothing i'm glad you
00:29:07.700 said that like you still have you had you had fun you went out you know you had your things 0.98
00:29:10.760 but i did some wild shit that's right you know what i'm saying like i had a fucking great time 0.93
00:29:16.460 yeah but it's just like i feel like it's presented now as it's like it's just all or nothing you 0.99
00:29:21.060 either got to be this fucking recluse that's fucking working 48 hours out of the 24 that's 0.97
00:29:25.920 the fucking powerless system that i use is so perfect dude okay it's the only guaranteed system 1.00
00:29:31.960 for success all right if you follow it the way that i designed it you cannot fucking lose it's 0.99
00:29:39.120 impossible it's impossible it's literally impossible to fucking lose if you do it the 0.88
00:29:44.800 way that it's lined out yeah now if you do it the way that you want to do it by putting in you know 0.98
00:29:49.720 weak ass tasks and you know to-do lists and yeah uh you're gonna lose yeah okay but if you do it
00:29:56.460 the way it's designed you can't lose okay and the greatest part about it is that it's five critical 0.96
00:30:03.260 tasks per day and once those five critical tasks are done you have the rest of the day
00:30:07.320 to do anything you want anything what do you want to do you want to go to the park you want to cut 0.97
00:30:14.080 the grass you want to hang out with your kids you want to fucking smoke a bowl i don't know 1.00
00:30:18.720 whatever you want to do fucking you got it to do but you got your shit done yeah your shit gets 1.00
00:30:22.760 done and you get a life yeah okay so this idea there's a also dude there is a point of diminishing 1.00
00:30:31.240 returns in a single work day yeah all right so like once you go past five all right and you get 0.73
00:30:38.680 the five critical tasks and let's say oh i'm gonna be i'm gonna fucking do 10 or i'm gonna do 15 0.68
00:30:43.220 you can't keep that up okay and the reason that it's hurtful is because that means you're going 0.89
00:30:49.980 to learn that you're failing the days over and over you're going to say oh you know yeah i got
00:30:55.520 seven done but there's four that didn't get done and that's going to compound into that feeling
00:30:59.760 of not being effective so it's going to take away from your confidence it's going to take away from
00:31:04.740 your belief so it's very important that you stick to the way that it's designed you do the five tasks 0.97
00:31:10.960 and then you get to live your life and dude i'm telling you as someone who's built shit with this 0.98
00:31:15.320 system it works and you don't have to work 40 hours a fucking day yeah right you know like 0.97
00:31:22.740 it's not sustainable by the way do you ever hear like real real talk i mean there's people say that 0.87
00:31:29.720 oh man i'm fucking working blah blah blah blah blah none of the people saying that have the 0.98
00:31:35.360 life to show for it oh man where is it at where is it yeah where is it yeah i'm working my balls 0.99
00:31:43.180 are you yeah renting a fucking listen dude here's the guru play 1.00
00:31:47.300 talking head reels over someone else's shit get enough people to pay you to buy a fucking exotic 1.00
00:31:56.520 car stand in front of the exotic car talk about how much you know and hustle it that's the play 1.00
00:32:03.340 yeah and it's it's beyond me that people can't look past that and understand like bro if you 0.98
00:32:09.260 were that good at what you say you're good at then why the fuck aren't you doing it and by the way 0.59
00:32:14.140 if your coach isn't in business currently with an actual business how do they keep up on what's 0.96
00:32:21.460 actually going on in real business and not just the theory of what they think is going on 0.99
00:32:25.660 dude shit changes every day that's right fuck that's right yeah that's why rt syndicate is 0.99
00:32:30.740 such a valuable thing that ed and i do because we're both in the fucking game like for real in 1.00
00:32:36.760 the game still in the game yeah like not you know oh yeah this is what everybody's doing that's 0.89
00:32:41.220 winning look at this brand and look at that brand and look at this guy's and look at that guy that's 0.99
00:32:44.840 not what the fuck they're doing hey we just tried this shit i just tried that's right yesterday 0.99
00:32:48.160 yeah totally different thing yeah bro totally different thing it's real easy to break down 1.00
00:32:52.660 everybody's shit on the internet and say they're doing shit right and wrong uh except for you know 0.68
00:32:57.780 they're winning and you're not so oh man you know what i'm saying dude that's so real 1.00
00:33:04.420 it's so real like you see how many fucking people breaking down brands that just kick 0.99
00:33:08.880 ass yeah talking about all their marketing's bad or this is bad okay 0.98
00:33:13.080 all right i just don't listen man it's predatory at this point and you have to discern and you
00:33:22.640 have to understand and you have to do due diligence are there people that can help you
00:33:26.720 for sure they are there it's it's two percent of the people that say they can if they're not in
00:33:33.080 the game or they haven't been in the game the exact game that you want you shouldn't listen to
00:33:36.920 them shouldn't they don't it's theory it's not it's not reality there are lots of things
00:33:42.920 that people talk about in theory that don't work in reality but they don't know that because they 0.75
00:33:48.420 don't fucking run a company okay i run a whole bunch of companies all right i know what the 0.88
00:33:53.640 working and what's not working that's right all right like i know no i don't kind of know i 0.99
00:33:57.740 fucking know you know and like it's funny because sometimes you know you're getting like i'll you 0.69
00:34:03.680 know you'll see some of these videos that people post and i want to like comment on them be like 0.99
00:34:08.060 bro you sound like the biggest fucking one i've ever heard in my life that does not work yes but 0.97
00:34:13.660 i can't but i'm not going to do that because i don't want to be a dickhead that's right you know 0.99
00:34:16.620 but i think it every time or that would have worked three years ago the other thing i fucking 0.99
00:34:20.860 can't get that i get tired of is this fucking hocus pocus fucking frou-frou shit you know like 1.00
00:34:26.520 oh you gotta be in a place to receive the gifts if you're gonna shut the fuck up okay success is 1.00
00:34:32.880 real simple it's inputs and outputs did you do the fucking work and did you do it at the right 0.99
00:34:38.180 level and what was the result it's that simple you don't have to be in a place to fucking receive it 1.00
00:34:43.560 you don't have to fucking kumbaya you don't gotta rub together sage stick it up your butthole you 1.00
00:34:48.960 don't have to fucking do any of that shit you got to do you got to work you got to execute your 1.00
00:34:53.160 execute has to be effective and it produces a result and that's fucking it there's nothing else 1.00
00:34:58.740 to it okay so get the fuck out of here with your oh we got a kumbaya shut the fuck up dude shut up 1.00
00:35:05.860 yeah it's all bullshit it makes people think they can be successful by rubbing their fucking 1.00
00:35:10.520 thumbs together and humming in the corner of their fucking bedroom i think i'll get it yeah 1.00
00:35:14.240 it doesn't dude no anything to anything to avoid doing the shit that it actually takes it's like 0.99
00:35:20.380 i haven't tried the same and then you have and then you have these coaches like promoting this 0.98
00:35:25.240 shit and you know why they promote it because that's an easy sell to people it's an easy sell 0.99
00:35:31.640 to people they know that most people aren't going to do it so what do they tell them they tell them 1.00
00:35:37.460 all this shit that seems real easy instead of the shit they need to hear which is bro you suck 1.00
00:35:43.320 you got to get good or you're not working hard enough you got to put in more time or both and 1.00
00:35:49.980 that's dude it's it's inputs and outputs it's fucking math it's one plus one equals motherfucking 1.00
00:35:56.380 two that's what the fuck it is and anybody who tells you any different is full of shit 1.00
00:36:01.000 amen amen now if you want to do all that shit and you want to hum in the corner and get some 1.00
00:36:06.540 little cymbals and fucking rub some bowls and whatever the fuck you want to do cool yeah 0.99
00:36:10.920 ain't gonna make you money now if you get your five critical tasks done yeah and then you want 1.00
00:36:16.420 to go you want to go rub mud all over your body and fucking sun your butthole or whatever it is 0.99
00:36:21.260 the fuck you guys do like do it yeah crew but that ain't gonna make it ain't gonna fix your 1.00
00:36:25.760 bank account bro ain't gonna fix your business okay oh man i love it dude it's the truth i love 1.00
00:36:31.420 it bro how much retarded shit do we hear on the end i see it's so it's that's it's so much out 0.99
00:36:36.600 like that was the thing that i can't stand when people act like watch your fucking morning routine 1.00
00:36:41.140 what difference does it make what difference does it make what difference does it make my 0.99
00:36:45.880 morning routine probably wouldn't work for you difference doesn't make all that matters is did 1.00
00:36:50.000 you do your shit and did you do it well and did you do it in a way that's undeniably better than 1.00
00:36:53.880 anybody else and did you do it long enough and if you do those things you're going to fucking win 1.00
00:36:58.100 yeah if you don't you can hum in the corner and rub the bowls and put the mud all over you and 0.99
00:37:03.280 fucking sit in the ice bath with 15 other dudes 1.00
00:37:05.520 and cry. You can do all this shit and you're still 1.00
00:37:07.380 going to fucking lose. 1.00
00:37:09.500 I don't know what to tell you. Oh, man. 0.99
00:37:12.100 This is great. This is good.
00:37:13.720 I like this, man. Guys,
00:37:15.920 that's a hell of a Monday, man. That's right.
00:37:17.700 That's right, dude.
00:37:19.240 We know what time it is. We know what time it is, man.
00:37:21.800 You got CTI tonight. Listen, man, this ain't
00:37:23.520 a show for bitches. Yeah. Okay? 1.00
00:37:25.440 This is for people that want to fucking win. 0.99
00:37:27.460 Really want to win. That really want to win. 1.00
00:37:29.200 I'm not going to fluff you. I'm not going to tell you
00:37:31.300 all this stupid shit. 1.00
00:37:33.280 I don't care what you do in the morning. 1.00
00:37:35.400 I don't care what you do at night. 1.00
00:37:36.760 I don't fucking care. 0.99
00:37:38.040 But I'm telling you what it takes to win, 0.98
00:37:39.540 and that's what it takes to win.
00:37:40.980 Real talk.
00:37:42.620 And that's it.
00:37:43.440 That's it, man.
00:37:44.440 I love it, dude.
00:37:45.960 You got CTI tonight, man.
00:37:47.040 That's right.
00:37:47.500 7 p.m. Central.
00:37:48.440 Yep.
00:37:49.260 On the tube and X.
00:37:50.360 I'm feeling chippy.
00:37:51.240 Yeah, hell yeah.
00:37:53.320 See you guys in a minute, man.
00:37:54.640 Guys.
00:37:55.140 Andy, that was three.
00:37:56.060 All right, guys. 1.00
00:37:56.600 Don't be a hoe. 1.00
00:37:57.120 Share the show. 1.00
00:38:03.280 Fucker stole, counted millions in the code 1.00
00:38:05.960 Bad bitch, booted slow, got her on bankroll 1.00
00:38:09.260 Can't fold, just a no, headshot, case closed 1.00