REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 22, 2021


108. The Convenience Of Success

Hosted by
Andy Frisella
107. The Winners Gauntlet 109. Business & Health

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

178.88

Word count

1,847

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Harmful content

Misogyny

3

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Toxicity

47

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Hate speech

23

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about one of the most common things that holds people back from achieving their full potential in life, and how to overcome it. I also talk about the one thing that holds most people back and how you can overcome it too!

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living 1.00
00:00:04.680 spoke it till existence mo changed to 50 got mo cost than did i only weigh 180 but my watch 0.98
00:00:11.720 cost 250 what's up guys it's david priscilla and this is the show for the realistic body of the 0.96
00:00:17.080 lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today
00:00:23.600 i'm going to give you a short real talk episode we have some great uh full-length episodes coming
00:00:29.120 down the pipe uh but today we're gonna keep it short i'm gonna keep it real simple and i'm gonna
00:00:33.540 talk about one of the things that um i feel holds people back almost more than anything to be
00:00:43.100 completely honest um and what i want to talk about here is is is fact okay it's not fiction it's not
00:00:50.100 up for debate and it's a real problem and it's this conditions for what you want to achieve
00:00:58.280 you wanted to you want to build a big life you want to build uh you know a big business you want
00:01:03.120 to become more physically fit you want to build better relationships that's why you listen to this
00:01:08.460 show that's why you're here you're here to learn how to be better and to be better you have to first
00:01:14.260 realize something that is paramount to long-term success in life and it's this conditions will never
00:01:22.100 be perfect ever okay and a lot of people me included for a long time sat around and waited for the stars
00:01:32.440 to align or the seed apart or for everything to be perfect for me to just go and if it wasn't perfect
00:01:40.160 i'd come up with a justification right i for example i'm using my fitness as an example for you guys
00:01:46.840 you know when i was 350 pounds and completely unhealthy not training not doing my workouts
00:01:53.740 i would uh you know tell myself i look outside and i'd see you know that it it wasn't you know 70
00:02:01.720 degrees and sunny and i would come up with this little story about how it's cold and i'll start
00:02:07.100 tomorrow or if it was raining you know uh dude you know what i'll just do some sit-ups and push-ups 0.96
00:02:12.340 knowing damn well that the sit-ups and push-ups isn't what the fuck i needed to do 0.99
00:02:16.160 i needed to get my fat ass out on the road and fucking move okay what i'm talking about here 0.99
00:02:21.760 is justifying our lack of action based upon the external circumstances and this is something that 0.99
00:02:29.900 every single one of you listening if you understand and if you accept and just say this is the way it is
00:02:37.580 your life will get exponentially easier for you to win all right so you have to understand that
00:02:44.640 when when you look outside or you look at whatever it is with your business or you look at whatever it
00:02:50.680 is with your relationship whatever these things are that you're trying to do there are going to be 1.00
00:02:56.520 wave after wave after wave after wave of inconvenient shit that hits you in the motherfucking face 0.99
00:03:04.020 all right that doesn't matter people who win win regardless of those waves it's not that they don't 1.00
00:03:12.720 have those waves it's that they say hey i can't control what the fuck is going on all i control is what 0.82
00:03:18.600 i decide in my mind and the actions i take some days are going to be harder than others some days are 0.99
00:03:25.020 going to be a little easier than others but i can promise you one fucking thing for sure there will 0.87
00:03:31.160 never ever ever be a day that goes exactly as you want it to go it doesn't exist so with that being said 0.71
00:03:41.340 if you're going to wait around for perfect circumstances how can you ever accomplish anything and that's
00:03:49.220 what i want you guys to think about i want you to think about all the times that you might be justifying
00:03:54.720 or talking yourself out of or coming up with a an easier alternative because the conditions aren't
00:04:01.660 what you want them to be you know maybe you don't want to do your work today because you had a fight
00:04:06.140 with your significant other maybe um you don't want to do your workouts because like i said the weather 0.98
00:04:12.440 sucks especially here in missouri dude yesterday was fucking snowing the day before that it was fucking 0.99
00:04:18.920 70 something degrees okay you think i wanted to go out in the snow and do that shit no but guess what 0.99
00:04:25.340 i did it because i understand that every time i do something that is inconvenient every time i do 0.98
00:04:33.320 something that is hard every time i do something that other people wouldn't do i'm building the strength
00:04:40.320 of my mental discipline to move forward regardless of the external circumstances in our lives and this is a
00:04:48.520 skill this is not a gift it is not something i was born with it's something that people learn how to do 0.97
00:04:54.160 over time and i can tell you right now every single motherfucker that you see doing whatever it is that 0.96
00:04:59.740 you want to do whether it be in business whether it be in sports whether it be in music whether it be in 0.98
00:05:04.600 fitness whether it be having a great relationship these people all of them will wake up and do the
00:05:12.360 work regardless of what's going on in their life period okay so how do we get to this point how do
00:05:20.520 we get to a point where we will move forward regardless of what's going on in life because
00:05:26.640 this is something most people won't do you know it too not only it's not just you it's most people
00:05:32.800 so if you can get you to do it how much of an advantage does that give you over the rest of people
00:05:37.500 a fucking huge one so what i would like you to consider is how can you improve this part of your 0.89
00:05:45.900 life well it's real simple guys and i learned this lesson from a guitar teacher i had 10 years ago 0.97
00:05:52.700 all right and he said to me he said hey andy um you don't have any fucking patience and i'm like well 0.96
00:05:59.240 no shit matthew i have fucking zero patience he's like you know how you get patience and i said how and 0.99
00:06:04.920 he says by doing things that require patience and that's what i want you to remember if you need 0.99
00:06:11.400 to understand and you need to develop how to operate regardless of what's going on in external
00:06:17.020 circumstances when things are inconvenient how do you get better at that well you get better at that
00:06:21.960 by doing things that are inconvenient intentionally okay looking for opportunities to move forward when
00:06:29.940 the circumstances are not ideal all right looking for opportunities to make things harder on yourself
00:06:36.840 looking for opportunities to develop the mental aspect of discipline and fortitude that are going
00:06:45.540 to move you forward guys this is a major major major key to winning long term in life all right i'm not 0.98
00:06:53.840 talking about motherfuckers that win once i'm not talking about that's not my people that's not you 0.97
00:06:58.300 okay i'm talking about making a life where you are a perpetual winner in any direction you decide to go 1.00
00:07:07.680 all right and this is a skill you're going to have to develop so number one realize hey do you have
00:07:15.720 this or do you not take inventory of how many times you're talking yourself out of everything take
00:07:21.880 inventory how many times you justify your lack of action based upon what's going on with your mood
00:07:27.440 or your world or your relationship or your job how many times are you talking yourself out of doing
00:07:33.280 what you know you need to do my guess is probably a lot more than you should be all right so guys
00:07:39.000 first realize that that you have to build a skill and secondly start looking to actively build that 1.00
00:07:44.960 now a lot of people you know all the fucking weak ass motherfuckers in the world will fucking 1.00
00:07:49.160 comment why would i work to make things harder on myself this is fucking stupid who the fuck is this 1.00
00:07:54.160 guy well this is a motherfucker that built a whole lot of shit from fucking nothing telling you how 1.00
00:07:58.240 to fucking win okay that's what it is and i'm telling you that if you want to develop the superhuman 1.00
00:08:04.280 skill of kicking ass every single time no matter what the fuck is going on in your life no matter 1.00
00:08:09.920 what's going on in your world no matter what's going on with the weather no matter what's going on 1.00
00:08:13.640 in our crazy ass society if you want to learn how to kick ass regardless of all those things you will 0.99
00:08:19.060 actively seek out opportunities to to to strengthen this muscle that is doing shit when it's not 0.99
00:08:29.680 convenient okay that's called discipline now discipline guys is the key to everything this is
00:08:36.520 why i talk about it so much if you could be in control of your decisions and your actions a hundred
00:08:43.160 percent of the time what could you not accomplish and how could you be held back and how could you
00:08:50.360 not get where you want to go because if we're being honest with ourselves the reason you're not where
00:08:55.980 you want to be can only be one of two things it could be one you're working the wrong plan and in that
00:09:01.800 case there's lots of people out there including me that will help you figure out how to get on the
00:09:05.800 right plan secondly if you are on the right plan it's that you're not doing it long enough you haven't
00:09:10.940 been doing it long enough okay and the reason that you probably haven't been doing it long enough 0.98
00:09:15.280 is because you fucking talk yourself out of it every time the shit inconvenient success and winning is 0.99
00:09:20.540 not convenient success and winning is not comfortable success and winning in fucking life is going to be 1.00
00:09:26.100 a daily fucking task for you okay but the the one thing that can make it exponentially easier is 0.99
00:09:34.040 understanding that the waves of inconvenience are going to crash on your fucking face regardless of 1.00
00:09:42.140 who you are regardless of what race you are regardless of where you come from regardless of what country 1.00
00:09:47.320 you're from it's just the nature of being a fucking human in society or any society shit just doesn't go 0.97
00:09:54.380 as planned all right so work on this be conscious of this and look for opportunities to strengthen your 0.99
00:10:01.220 mindset so that you can be one of the very very very very few people that actually moves forward 0.93
00:10:08.520 when shit isn't going their way 1.00
00:10:10.600 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living down spoke it till 1.00
00:10:16.640 existed while i i'm from where you can't trust so welcome 0.99