REAL AF with Andy Frisella - September 02, 2021


137. Q&AF： Taking Advice, Need Vs Wants & Feeling Alone

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Project Veritas videos needs and wants
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Andy Frisella
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In this episode of The Reelist, Daniel Frisella and AAF discuss the recent Project Veritas expose of a California teacher who was caught on camera bragging about turning his students into communist rebels and communist activists.

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00:00:00.000 What's up guys, it's Daniel Frisella and this is the show for the realists, say goodbye 0.99
00:00:20.960 to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking 0.99
00:00:25.960 reality. Guys, today we've got a Q and AF. I think that's what we got. Is that what we're 0.98
00:00:33.120 doing today? All right. Just a reminder before we get going, we do this show for free. All
00:00:42.980 right. We don't run ads. I'm not going to try to sell you a whole bunch of shit during the
00:00:46.400 time that we have together. I'm not going to flood your Instagram with ads for my show. 0.99
00:00:52.180 So if we do good and you like the show and it made you laugh and answer some questions,
00:00:57.460 if it gave you a new way to think, if you just had some respect for the way that I like to
00:01:01.800 express myself, give us a share. Hey, it's a unique way, bro. Hey, I ain't mad at it. I
00:01:09.780 ain't mad at it. It's what it is, what it is. All right. Man, you watch those videos of my
00:01:15.260 story today? Holy shit. Dude, you know what's funny is I am totally anti-cancel culture. Like 1.00
00:01:21.680 I had some people reach out. For you guys that haven't been following my Instagram, I post
00:01:27.180 some Project Veritas videos of this teacher who was admitting, bragging at lunch about turning
00:01:36.420 on hidden camera. He didn't know he's being filmed. About turning his students into little
00:01:43.160 communist activists and crazy shit. Revolutionaries. Yeah. Like I have, that's what he said. I have 1.00
00:01:48.680 180 days to turn them into revolutionaries. Yeah. Something like that. I might be misquoting.
00:01:53.140 Quote and then quote. Okay. I think that's what he said. But anyhow, you know, we see more videos
00:01:58.080 and more videos and more videos of these teachers being exposed, indoctrinating other people's kids
00:02:06.200 into this crazy line of thinking, which most parents, and it is their fault, have become
00:02:13.240 unaware of. Okay. Parents got to start paying attention. Well, I mean, dude, there's a reasonable
00:02:17.300 expectation that you should send your child to school. I agree. And they'll teach that child
00:02:20.800 that one plus one equals two. Not that two plus two is equals four is fucking racist and not, 0.99
00:02:26.220 you know, like I agree. There's a reasonable expectation. I agree. But clearly reasonable expectations 0.98
00:02:32.560 don't mean shit anymore because we do also have a reasonable expectation that what's on the news 0.98
00:02:38.300 should be fucking factual. I agree. And not twist it into a narrative to get people to feel a certain 0.98
00:02:43.440 way. Yeah. All right. The manufacturing division in this country is fucking out of control. And I
00:02:50.280 think we can all agree with that. And I agree, reasonable expectations. But I think we are in a time
00:02:55.280 where we cannot trust reasonable expectations anymore. And so I do have, and by the way,
00:03:02.640 I'm talking about me too. Okay. When I say you parents, I'm talking about me. We all took our
00:03:07.360 eyes off the ball. All right. We were out trying to do and execute within the beautiful system that is
00:03:14.920 America. Okay. And we stopped caring about our civic duties to get involved and make sure that we
00:03:22.760 preserve the freedom. Yeah. I could accept my part of responsibility for that, even though I've been
00:03:28.580 vocal for the last 10 years on it. I'm not, look, we're all together. Right. Okay. So I'm not saying,
00:03:35.760 hey, you, you people, I'm saying all of us. Okay. Now back to the fucking story. This guy is not,
00:03:43.540 doesn't know that he's getting recorded saying all this crazy shit. Then somebody approaches him on the 0.99
00:03:50.960 street later that day and his responses and his girlfriend's response were fucking gold. Yeah. 0.99
00:03:58.280 I'm, you know, I'm not really comfortable with you. What the fuck are you guys talking about? 0.99
00:04:04.320 You're comfortable enough to indoctrinate other people's kids so much so that this person brags in 1.00
00:04:12.620 the video about how he makes them take a, uh, social positioning test at the beginning of their
00:04:20.380 time. And they get extra credit points, the further left they move in their ideology. And if
00:04:25.800 they go to, to, you know, far right, extreme, I'm sorry, I apologize. Uh, if they go to far left
00:04:32.200 demonstrations, he gives them extra credit for class. Yeah. And that's insane. It is insane. Okay.
00:04:36.600 And I want to delineate here. Okay. That is not representative of all people who are identifying
00:04:44.520 as quote unquote Democrats. No. All right. This is the, this, I want to say a couple of things
00:04:49.460 about this because I got some people saying to me, well, you know, I didn't think you were for
00:04:54.680 cancel country. I'm not, but what I'm also not for is fucking weak ass hypocrite shit. If you're 1.00
00:05:01.880 going to get there and you're going to say, I'm ready to, I turn in these people into revolutionaries,
00:05:07.240 blah, blah, blah. And then you fucking get confronted and you're like, Oh, I'm not comfortable 0.98
00:05:12.060 with this, but you're comfortable enough to fuck with other people's kids and the way they think 1.00
00:05:16.700 when your responsibility is to actually just teach them skills so they can survive in life. 1.00
00:05:22.280 Fuck you, dude. Oh yeah. Period. And then he puts out a video playing the victim saying, 1.00
00:05:27.800 dude, look, none of this shit is right. Okay. So I'm not saying that people should go bury these 0.99
00:05:33.920 people or this or that, but what needs to happen is this shit needs to stop all together. And so we 0.99
00:05:41.480 have this guy and puts out a video today saying, Oh, they're coming after my job. And you know,
00:05:46.920 they're doing like starting to play the victim, bro. You fucking people have done this to everybody 0.99
00:05:54.080 and held everybody hostage to your fucking narrative for the last 10 fucking years. 1.00
00:06:01.200 Okay. This is what they, this is how they've operated. Let's group together. Let's attack 1.00
00:06:07.320 them. Let's get them fired. Let's get it. Let's ruin their lives. Blah, blah, blah. And now it turned 1.00
00:06:12.960 back because you aren't aware that the tide has turned now. Okay. Which it has. People have figured out
00:06:19.360 that fucking who the majority is and it ain't these crazy people. And even the Democrats, the true 1.00
00:06:26.160 Democrats who are Americans at heart know that that is so fucked up. Yeah. Okay. Cause I'm hearing 1.00
00:06:32.600 from them. Oh yeah. And they're sharing it everywhere. I'm seeing it. Yeah. And so look, man, we all have
00:06:38.540 to come together and say, Hey, okay, don't fucking do this shit no more than because I'm tired of the 1.00
00:06:46.240 hypocrisy, dude. These people, every time they attack someone, dude, I've been attacked a thousand 1.00
00:06:52.360 times in the last fucking four years. I mean, dude, so much so that I truly do not give a fuck. 1.00
00:06:59.800 Okay. But every time, like if I ever call them out, like, cause I don't like, I don't put people 0.96
00:07:05.600 on blast very often, but anytime I have, bro, they get destroyed. They have to delete their Instagram.
00:07:12.180 You know what I'm saying? And then they messaged me and they like, your people were death threatening
00:07:18.560 me and this and that. Like they start playing. I'm like, bro, show me the messages of the death
00:07:22.460 threats. I already blocked them and deleted them. Yeah. No, you just don't like a little heat that
00:07:27.420 you're welcome to dish out. Okay. So the fucking shit needs to stop both ways. Now these teachers
00:07:34.860 like this have no place in education. Now do their lives need to be ruined and we need to go get them?
00:07:40.500 That's not what I'm saying at all. But what I am saying is we need to get fucking involved 0.97
00:07:45.300 in removing this, this style of teaching from our schools. Otherwise we will lose our country 0.98
00:07:51.300 completely, completely. And I will say this too, as far as project Veritas goes, guys, like
00:07:56.380 when we talk about like, you know, these, how biased and all the propaganda going on in the
00:08:00.440 media, project Veritas is what media should look like, right? Like, like that's what it used
00:08:06.180 to look like. So you don't remember this. No, I'm, I'm young back in the day, bro.
00:08:09.820 Well, I don't know. In the early two thousands and before it was normal to see true investigative
00:08:17.920 reporting, real journal. Yeah. And like the stations were not biased like they are now.
00:08:22.920 It wasn't always this way. Project Veritas does it how it should be. That's how it should
00:08:27.160 always be done. Yeah. Well, you know, and people argue that they only attack a certain
00:08:31.460 side of the aisle, which is not true either. Because if you go back, like they've been around
00:08:35.400 for a minute. So if you actually go back, they just tell the truth. Dude, people, people
00:08:40.240 like to say anything, anything that's not on the narrative. Like, that's what I'm saying
00:08:45.000 about this dude, bro. Yeah. And then we'll get into questions. But like this guy, like
00:08:49.140 he's over there fucking crying and trying to get sympathy. Now I'm concerned about my 0.99
00:08:52.820 safety. No shit, bro. You did that. You and your people have done this to people for 1.00
00:08:57.040 the last 10 years in this country. Exactly. Okay. So if you don't like it, don't fucking do
00:09:02.000 it to people. Right. Yeah. You know how hard, you know how far you have to push regular 0.99
00:09:06.640 people to get them to fucking snap back like that. And that's what people are learning 0.98
00:09:10.440 now. Like people are snapping back. That snapback's going to be real. Yeah, dude. And
00:09:14.060 it's, listen, I'm for reasonable shit. You know what I'm saying? But, and I've been saying 0.99
00:09:20.160 this for the last year and a half, like, Hey, you guys ain't going to like the fucking snapback 0.98
00:09:24.140 that you're starting to build. Yeah. And I tried to warn people, you know what I'm saying? 0.98
00:09:30.100 But dude, the thing is, is like, um, this guy, you know, they're being exposed to the
00:09:37.620 same tactics that they've imposed on everybody else. And then they play like the victim, you
00:09:41.840 know, anything, anything that goes against their narrative is racist, misogynistic, narcissistic, 0.99
00:09:48.020 white supremacist. And like, dude, that's what they've done this whole time. And they try 0.96
00:09:53.660 to brand everybody that isn't with them. No. And they, they bully everybody into being
00:10:01.120 with them because they're afraid of the title they're going to get if they're not. Right.
00:10:05.820 Right. And, and, and dude, this guy's on TV crying, bro. Fuck off. Yeah. You know what
00:10:12.660 I'm saying? Like, that's the most hip, hip, hip, hypocritical shit I could possibly think 1.00
00:10:17.440 up. And dude, the people, you, you guys out there who are moderates and Democrats at heart, 0.99
00:10:22.780 you need to fucking call this shit out just as much as anybody else. It's call a spade 0.99
00:10:27.000 to spade. Right. Like, dude, I, we are 80% in the middle. Okay. I consider the reasonable
00:10:33.860 80%. We all agree. You guys might not agree with every fucking thing I say, but if we sit
00:10:39.580 down, we're going to agree on 90%. Right. And that's something we've lost as well. Like 0.99
00:10:44.840 I see everybody who, who, uh, you know, support Trump. Right. Like they're like, dude, look,
00:10:50.660 this is not a pro Trump statement. I'm just pointing out the fucking hypocrisy on the other 1.00
00:10:54.820 side too. You know, Trump says, uh, didn't say enough of, I guess about anti vaccine for 0.99
00:11:01.300 a lot of people. Well, fuck dude. He's 70 something years old. Right. He's a little bit 1.00
00:11:06.520 heavy. He's high risk for this shit. If any, maybe you think that he's a normal person and 1.00
00:11:12.240 his perspective, he might think that that's a good idea for him to take. Yeah. I mean,
00:11:16.580 bro. Well, she actually just came out the other day and said that like, I'm not, I know
00:11:19.900 mandating. I know. But before that, yeah, people were on, people were on him hard about that.
00:11:24.220 And it's like, dude, we have to get away on both sides from this all or nothing attitude.
00:11:29.920 Yeah. Like, dude, I'm going to have views that you're not going to have. And DJ, you have
00:11:35.060 views that I don't share. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like you're actually far more
00:11:39.120 conservative than I am. Yeah. And like, yeah. And dude, you know, these, we, for us to function
00:11:45.900 properly as a country, we have to get rid of this all or nothing attitude with the people
00:11:50.720 we support. Right. Sometimes we just got to say, Hey, I, you know, I agree most of the
00:11:55.840 time, but guess what? I don't agree with that. And that's, that's cool. You know what I'm
00:12:00.460 saying? Keep it moving. Yeah. Just keep it moving forward, bro. So what now? What? Like,
00:12:05.220 you know what I'm saying? Like, I just can't stand that hypocrisy, bro. Boils my blood. 0.98
00:12:09.480 Like the, the, the, you know, you guys going to attack these poor people, you know, all 0.96
00:12:14.800 these companies get all these people fired because they said they wanted to vote for 1.00
00:12:18.460 Trump or they didn't agree with your shit. And now you're on the fucking internet playing 1.00
00:12:23.620 victim, bro. Fuck off. And he's part of the, he aligns with the same group, has a flag in 1.00
00:12:28.740 his classroom of Antifa and go, go watch some videos of Antifa and protests and stuff. They're
00:12:34.640 macing people, pushing people down. Like they're violent extremists. Right. So it's like we,
00:12:39.080 this guy's in control. So I just hope that, that, that school district makes the right decision
00:12:44.640 and gets them out of there. Bro. Parents have to demand that people like that. Look, I don't mind.
00:12:50.880 I really don't mind people that have different views, but when you start trying to put those
00:12:56.860 views into other people's kids, that is not your job. It's not your responsibility. Your job is to
00:13:02.180 teach them skills so that they can be equipped to go out in the world and do good. Whatever
00:13:08.600 they decide after that is their decision. We have crossed a line in America. We have allowed
00:13:15.900 a lot of people to have influence over our kids and we've allowed it to become okay.
00:13:20.620 And unchecked.
00:13:21.440 And unchecked.
00:13:22.240 Yeah. 1.00
00:13:22.540 To put this shit in, bro, that is not okay. It's not okay. And we got to, we got to do something 1.00
00:13:29.240 about it. You know, and doing something is what I've been saying. Getting involved. That's
00:13:32.400 what we talk about. You know what I'm saying? Anyway, fuck. I could go on and on and on,
00:13:36.460 but maybe I should. Yeah. But let's do some, uh, Q and A S get it in guys. So you guys know 0.88
00:13:41.800 how this works. Uh, I got that guy. Yeah. Fuck. No. Fuck that. Jesus. Gabriel. Fucking Gabriel,
00:13:47.580 bro. I just can't like, at least stand up and be like, like, cause dude, like when the guy 0.99
00:13:51.740 asked him in the interview and he goes, well, what do you say to your kids that, uh, that,
00:13:56.600 that say it makes him uncomfortable? He goes, well, it's supposed to make fascists uncomfortable.
00:14:01.080 So I don't know what to tell you. Yeah. And then he's on the video the fucking same day.
00:14:05.820 I'm uncomfortable. I'm uncomfortable with this bro. As he's wearing a fucking hammer and 0.99
00:14:10.200 sickle Soviet union shirt in America. Like, have we not realized, dude, like, do you, do 0.99
00:14:15.280 you guys understand that that is the enemy of what this country fucking stands for? But 0.97
00:14:20.940 the communist symbol is not cool. Yeah. It's not fucking stylish. It's nothing to be proud
00:14:25.980 of millions and millions and millions and millions and millions of innocent people have died because
00:14:32.900 of those policies all over the world through genocide, through starvation. It's killed more
00:14:39.760 people than any ideology that's ever existed. And it is not good. And they only try to make
00:14:46.440 it, they try to make it pop culture, mainstream, cool to support it. And they put all this propaganda
00:14:52.040 out because that's what they need to get people to buy into it. Cause it's so fucking stupid 1.00
00:14:56.900 and dangerous. And dude, like we were talking on the show before, like, uh, these guys were kind 1.00
00:15:03.480 of talking in the background while I'm looking at my phone and they were talking about propaganda.
00:15:07.960 And I'm like, bro, we don't, we shouldn't have to have propaganda. Like it should just be facts
00:15:12.740 and we should see what the truth is. And we should be able to operate within that truth. And America
00:15:16.620 would be a really good place then. But the fact that we were even allowing propaganda at all,
00:15:22.360 that's not, that's not, that's not okay. Yeah. It's not okay. But I got a lot more to say.
00:15:28.480 And maybe I'll say it on this tour, but, but yeah, but, uh, let's really do the show now.
00:15:34.400 Sorry to interrupt you. All right, guys, questions, three questions. So you guys know how this works.
00:15:40.400 So I got three questions. First of all, thank you guys for emailing those in again, email your
00:15:44.740 questions in to ask Andy at Andy for seller.com. Um, I get three questions to ask Andy and, uh,
00:15:50.740 as always, they're going to be fucking fire. All right. Question number one. 0.98
00:15:58.180 Motherfucker. Uh, whose advice do you listen to now versus 20 years ago or even five years ago? Like 1.00
00:16:04.620 how do you determine whose input is important?
00:16:07.440 That's an interesting question because 10 years ago,
00:16:14.320 20, all right. 20 years ago, like when I, when I was very new in business,
00:16:19.540 I would have listened to anybody who I thought was successful.
00:16:26.880 Okay. Because it's like, if you had a nice car and you were flashy and shit, 0.99
00:16:30.820 I would have been like, I was enamored by that. Okay. So I would have asked those guys. Um, 0.98
00:16:38.880 and then what I would have done is try to model their shit. Okay. Because I would be like, well, 1.00
00:16:45.940 fuck if that's working, it's got to work for me and I'll try to do that. So that's how I would 0.99
00:16:49.900 have thought about it. 10 years ago, I would have said, I'm only interested in hearing from people
00:16:59.580 who have done what it is I want to do. Okay. Um, and I really wouldn't have wanted to talk to
00:17:08.180 anybody else. Now today I want to talk to everybody because I want to learn not only from the people
00:17:16.720 who have done what I want to do, but I want to learn from the homeless guy on the street.
00:17:21.320 I want to talk to him. I want to, I want to hear what happened to him or why he chose and learn about
00:17:25.980 his path. And I know that I can pick up one or two lessons there that, that will help me, uh,
00:17:31.900 either appreciate what the path I'm on or learn about maybe some things not to do things like that.
00:17:37.080 You see what I'm saying? So I think as I've gotten more experience, I definitely look at things much
00:17:43.080 differently. Um, but yeah, depending on where you are, I can tell you, you can learn a lot from
00:17:49.900 people. If you, if you think about not only what they're saying, but also if you can like learn the
00:17:58.320 mistake, learn, dude, learning from the mistakes of other people is one of the biggest things that
00:18:03.700 you can do as an entrepreneur or somebody pursuing success that will save you years. Right. That's why
00:18:09.460 a group like Arte is Arte syndicate is so popular, uh, invaluable because dude, you're learning from 0.99
00:18:15.640 real business people, the, all the fucked up shit they've messed up and it's saving you literal years. 0.96
00:18:21.700 So I would encourage people to try to get to that point where, you know, the, the 20 year point that 0.99
00:18:27.200 I said, where I'm trying to learn a little something from everybody. Uh, because honestly,
00:18:33.020 that's where I've gotten the most growth from. So that's powerful. Yeah. Fire. Yeah. Guess what?
00:18:43.700 Still fuck that guy. Yeah. Fuck you. Gabriel. Question number two, how do you identify your needs 1.00
00:18:54.820 versus your wants? Like, how do you identify, like, how do you determine that? Like what's a need versus
00:18:58.960 what's a want for you right now? Uh, you know, I think you have to examine the bare minimum that
00:19:05.180 you'd be willing to survive, right? Like the bare minimum life. I mean, bro, look that again, like
00:19:10.200 that last answer, that question is, depends on where you're at. You know what I'm saying? Like when I
00:19:14.660 started in the beginning, it was like, fuck dude, I got to eat. Right. You know what I'm saying? Right. 0.99
00:19:22.360 And, and by the way, that was probably the most valuable time in my life because I learned how to be 1.00
00:19:27.080 resourceful and I learned how to fuck, dude, I learned a ton of shit during that time. Um, but I 0.99
00:19:32.980 think, you know, understanding what it would take for you to be happy, even if you were struggling,
00:19:42.720 um, is still the minimum, you know, the minimum level of how, you know what I'm saying? Like where
00:19:47.720 you would want to live at. And I would consider that a need. Okay. And that, and by the way,
00:19:53.680 uh, that's not a literal thing. Like some people say, Hey, I like for me, my backup plan is go live
00:20:01.480 in my farm, dude. Right. Okay. I got this farm. It's beautiful. The house is tiny. It's, it's
00:20:07.600 fucking simple. It's America. It's America. And guess what? I, anything above that, I don't really 0.98
00:20:14.360 care. Yeah. It's all gravy, dude. You know, the, the house I have now and the cars and the crazy life
00:20:20.080 shit and all that shit. I mean, if that all went away, the company went away that, that I go live 0.99
00:20:25.920 on the farm. Yeah. I grow my own shit, do my own thing. And I'd be cool with that too. So like, that's
00:20:30.880 my need. Right. Um, and that's changed over the years. Yeah. Um, now, but I think it's important
00:20:39.260 you, you figure that out. Like where, where would you, where do you have to be above? You know what I
00:20:45.840 mean? For it to start being wants. And like, for me too, another key moment, uh, financially was
00:20:51.900 when I could go to dinner and not have to worry about what the bill was going to be. Okay. So like
00:20:58.420 I used to be one of those people who would go to dinner and, you know, read the menu and see what 0.98
00:21:05.540 shit costs and like try to do the math in my head. And, um, and I hated that. And I also hated when I 0.99
00:21:12.240 went to dinner with a group. Like my biggest pet peeve is like people fighting over the
00:21:16.540 fucking bill or like making it awkward. Like I just can't 10 extra minutes, got to split 0.99
00:21:22.160 it. Like, dude, I can't do it. So everywhere I go to eat, I pay all the time. I always pay
00:21:27.260 for the whole entire group because unless somebody sneaks it in on me, which my friends are good
00:21:31.840 people. So they do happens. But, uh, because I want to avoid the awkwardness. So like when
00:21:37.120 I got to that level of success, I felt like I had, I felt like, I don't know. I felt like
00:21:44.540 that was cool. And then everything after that, dude, like all the, the, the cars and like,
00:21:51.600 you know, like all the crazy shit that I do now, that's cool, but it wasn't as cool as
00:21:56.160 that. So it's kind of like diminishing returns, if that makes sense. Um, but it's still awesome 0.91
00:22:01.960 stuff, but I'm just saying like, those are my levels of needs. Like my levels, like I
00:22:07.040 got to at least be able to do that with the dinner thing. Right. And then, uh, and I guess
00:22:11.580 that's why I'm not afraid to take risks too. You know, like I'm not afraid of going back
00:22:19.060 to where I came from. You know what I'm saying? Like I'm proud of who I am and where I came
00:22:24.400 from. And you know, like, I'm not afraid of that and I'm willing to do it again if that's
00:22:30.580 what it took. So I guess that's a freeing thing as well by identifying what your minimum
00:22:35.740 need is in terms of lifestyle and how you need to live and survive. Uh, and then, you
00:22:40.580 know, being so far above that, uh, it's just gravy, dude. You know what I'm saying? Like
00:22:46.220 I don't, I don't think it's good when people start to attach themselves to their, uh, the
00:22:52.340 more mentality, you know what I'm saying? Like, I think it's always good to look at it and
00:22:55.760 say, man, I'm really, really blessed, dude. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? And that
00:23:00.380 way, if something does happen and you got to detach from it, it's not as big of a
00:23:03.440 deal. Right. You know? Right. So I don't know. That's how I live. No, I think that's
00:23:07.180 beautiful, man. All right. Cool. Two for two. Last question. How do you handle feeling
00:23:15.120 alone when no one else around you seems to want more for their lives? Right. So like
00:23:20.160 it's, it's this guy, uh, he feels like, you know, he's, he has an overachiever mentality,
00:23:24.840 but he doesn't really feel like he's surrounded by people that, that are, are with him or
00:23:29.060 like-minded. Right. And he feels alone. He says, you know, he's been feeling even a
00:23:32.800 little disheartened. Um, he just needs a little bit more direction. Right. So
00:23:35.920 like, did you ever go through that? Like, you know, in, in the 23 years of, of, of
00:23:40.200 becoming successful, become getting to where you are now, where you felt like you
00:23:43.820 were alone. Like, how did you handle it? Yeah. A few times. So, um, you know, that saying
00:23:49.820 it's lonely at the top. Yeah. People like to say that shit, especially when, uh, they're
00:23:55.320 going through one of these times, but what the truth is, is that you're, it's lonely 1.00
00:23:59.280 in the middle, not at the top. And let me explain this. So in the beginning, you got
00:24:04.800 your friends, right. And your friends, because I don't know, you went to school together,
00:24:09.140 you played on a team together, you know, sure. Yeah, whatever, who knows, whatever your little
00:24:14.300 group of friends is. Uh, and you know, as you get older, those, those people all choose
00:24:21.280 different paths. And you know, when you choose a path of high achievement, um, and you're
00:24:26.840 serious about it, that's going to be a path that probably none of your friends are going
00:24:32.160 to really commit to. That's just the way it is by law of statistics. Sure. Um, so what
00:24:37.380 happens is you move from this part, this little friend group out here, right. And there's nobody
00:24:43.320 else out there and you're in the middle. Okay. I call that no man's lane. Like that's, that's 0.92
00:24:49.900 what I call that period of time. What happens is as you stay on this path, you will slowly
00:24:56.320 begin to build relationships with new people and people who are ambitious, people who want
00:25:01.840 more people who are driven. And what will happen is you will find yourself in a group of friends,
00:25:07.120 uh, that support you and push you to be better and push you to be more. And that's a crucial
00:25:15.020 place to be because you need that to really become successful. But here's what happens.
00:25:20.820 Most people venture out of their group a little bit and they figure out that like, Hey man, I'm, 0.96
00:25:26.020 I don't have anybody around and they fucking go back to the group. And this is why most people fail. 0.66
00:25:32.260 Okay. So you have to understand that bridging the gap between your old friends and your new
00:25:40.400 established group, uh, is going to take some time. Yeah. Okay. And you can accelerate that by joining
00:25:48.720 groups, uh, that are, you know, networking groups, things like that, or, you know, peer groups, you
00:25:56.080 know, um, to meet people who are more aligned. Sure. You know what I'm saying? Trying not to plug my
00:26:03.480 own shit so much. You know what I'm saying? Like I fucking hate being like that, but you know, 1.00
00:26:08.040 I do have a group like that. Um, Arte syndicate, but now are you still friends with like, or do you 0.89
00:26:14.500 still have those connections that you left? I was going to get to that. So, so, and what you guys
00:26:19.960 have to realize is these people that you, that you chose a different path. It's not that they
00:26:24.920 aren't your friends. It's not that they don't like you. You know, they probably got jealous sometimes,
00:26:29.400 but dude, we all get jealous of each other. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like there's
00:26:33.320 things that your friends now have that you get a little jealous about and you probably should check
00:26:38.180 yourself on that and instead be happy, but we all jealous. He's a nature of the human. So, you
00:26:44.620 know, you can't be mad at someone for a little bouts of that. You know, I'm jealous of some of my old
00:26:52.520 friends, bro. They got big families and shit. You know what I'm saying? Like they've done, 0.99
00:26:55.800 they've done life differently and I can see the value in the way they did it. And I don't judge
00:27:01.160 them negatively because they chose a different path. Right. You know? And I think that's a way
00:27:06.060 to really sort of, that's how I observe the whole process working. And then here's the third thing
00:27:11.540 that can happen too. It's like when you get in this middle level, right? You, you keep going,
00:27:16.540 the same thing will repeat itself again. Okay. So you'll move the same thing repeats itself over and
00:27:22.320 over again, no matter how far you want to go until you go all the way to the top where you're
00:27:25.520 sitting in rooms with dudes that are worth billions of dollars. Right. Okay. And I know
00:27:30.420 this cause I do that. Yeah. All right. So it's just a matter of, and I think when you, when you,
00:27:36.720 when you commit to that path, you just have to say it's my path and that's their path and that's okay.
00:27:41.200 And that's how I look at it. You know, I love my old friends as much as I did back when I knew them.
00:27:47.020 And some of them I haven't seen for 20 years, dude. You know what I'm saying? But like,
00:27:51.820 I fucking hope they're doing great. And I think, you know, like, I don't know, like, 0.91
00:27:56.720 I think the problems that could become, um, when that lonely feeling sets in is really a lot of like
00:28:02.720 self, um, unawareness, you know what I'm saying? Like, like you're making up. Cause like a lot of
00:28:11.180 times, dude, what people do most of the time is they're not, it's not that they're really attacked
00:28:16.820 or hated on. It's that they tell their self a story in their head. All right. Like, I wonder
00:28:22.620 what, you know, Tommy and, and Susie and, uh, Joey are saying about me. You know what I'm saying?
00:28:29.240 I bet they're saying this and this and this. They're talking so much shit. Yeah. And you start 1.00
00:28:32.780 telling yourself this shit in your head and you start resenting them for something that you don't 0.99
00:28:37.920 even know that they actually did. They probably didn't do. And so what it is, is it's you talking 1.00
00:28:43.740 shit on yourself, right? You know what I'm saying? So, and this is why I tell people you're always 1.00
00:28:48.060 your own biggest hater. Yeah. You know, um, cause think about it, dude, like you're walking down the
00:28:54.440 street, right? Like I want you to really think about this. You're walking down the street and
00:28:59.620 some dude you never seen before ever. Like you've never seen him before ever, ever, ever. He looks at
00:29:05.260 you and says, Hey, fuck you piece of shit. Okay. And just keeps walking. Right. And you, what are you 1.00
00:29:12.100 going to do? I'm going to laugh my ass. I'm going to be like, damn dude, I guess he's having a bad 1.00
00:29:15.960 fucking day. Right. But here's what happens. These people who don't understand, like they don't think 1.00
00:29:22.160 like this, they hear that one comment from the random dude on internet, you know, and they shut
00:29:28.160 down and they go back to their little friend group that's safe. And guys like, you know, it's,
00:29:34.940 it's not something that can really hurt you. You just got to realize, like, think, I think of it
00:29:38.860 like that. When somebody says some nasty shit to me and people say plenty of nasty shit. Yeah. 1.00
00:29:43.460 Uh, I'm just like, man, dude must be having a bad day. Like I'll be like, Hey, what's your name?
00:29:51.360 Shit, dude. It's weird on that point. For me, like it was weird. Cause I had to look at it. Cause I 0.99
00:29:57.160 have some of those friends, right? They're like, I left behind, but I think I had to go to a point
00:30:01.620 where I like, I had to accept that. Did you leave them behind or they just not come with you?
00:30:05.020 Well, yeah. Like, like it was that maybe that's just where they want to be. You know, like
00:30:08.800 everybody has the same goal. Hold on. Did you leave them behind or did they decide not to come
00:30:14.320 with you? Right. See what I'm saying? Yeah. Think about that. Yeah. Yeah. Why is it your duty to
00:30:21.500 drag anyone along with you? Yeah. That's real. In my opinion, it's their duty to keep up if that's
00:30:25.840 what they want. Yeah. That's what I think I've just accepted that that's just not what they want.
00:30:29.740 Yeah. That's it. And that's cool. Is that three? That's yeah. That's three, man. That's three and three.
00:30:34.480 Knock him out the park. Three and three and fuck that guy. 1.00
00:30:39.820 Man, I just want some common sense back in this place, dude. That's it. I want some unity. I want 1.00
00:30:44.820 some real love. I want some real fucking togetherness, not this bullshit. I'm tired of 1.00
00:30:50.140 this identity shit. I'm tired of this fucking left, right race shit. I'm tired of fucking 1.00
00:30:55.000 everything, dude. Divided. We fall, man, bro. There's a reason that that is like one of the 1.00
00:31:00.080 most famous sayings ever. And we have to get our shit together. Remember that, bro, 0.99
00:31:04.480 we have to get our shit together. Remember who the fuck we are. Right. You know what I'm 1.00
00:31:07.820 saying? Like we've done some fucking amazing shit here in America. Yeah. And we don't 1.00
00:31:13.320 tolerate fucking little weasels like that fucking with our kids. You know what I'm 1.00
00:31:17.800 saying? We need to get those people have to be removed from the public service. They 0.99
00:31:23.200 can go do some other shit. I don't care. I'm not saying, you know, we got I'm not 1.00
00:31:26.960 calling for violence or anything like that. Yeah. But those fucking people don't belong
00:31:31.160 and fucking teaching kids. They belong doing other shit. Yeah. Of which I don't 1.00
00:31:35.280 know. But not that. All right. So anyway, guys, I love you guys. I appreciate you guys.
00:31:42.160 Uh, and I'll talk to you soon.
00:31:44.160 Went from sleeping on the floor. Now my jewelry box froze. Fuck a pole. Fuck a 1.00
00:31:48.900 stove. Counted millions in the cold. Bad bitch. Booty swole. Got her on bankroll. Can't fold. 1.00
00:31:55.280 Doesn't know. Headshot. Case closed.