137. Q&AF： Taking Advice, Need Vs Wants & Feeling Alone
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In this episode of The Reelist, Daniel Frisella and AAF discuss the recent Project Veritas expose of a California teacher who was caught on camera bragging about turning his students into communist rebels and communist activists.
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What's up guys, it's Daniel Frisella and this is the show for the realists, say goodbye
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to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking
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reality. Guys, today we've got a Q and AF. I think that's what we got. Is that what we're
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doing today? All right. Just a reminder before we get going, we do this show for free. All
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right. We don't run ads. I'm not going to try to sell you a whole bunch of shit during the
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time that we have together. I'm not going to flood your Instagram with ads for my show.
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So if we do good and you like the show and it made you laugh and answer some questions,
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if it gave you a new way to think, if you just had some respect for the way that I like to
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express myself, give us a share. Hey, it's a unique way, bro. Hey, I ain't mad at it. I
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ain't mad at it. It's what it is, what it is. All right. Man, you watch those videos of my
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story today? Holy shit. Dude, you know what's funny is I am totally anti-cancel culture. Like
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I had some people reach out. For you guys that haven't been following my Instagram, I post
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some Project Veritas videos of this teacher who was admitting, bragging at lunch about turning
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on hidden camera. He didn't know he's being filmed. About turning his students into little
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communist activists and crazy shit. Revolutionaries. Yeah. Like I have, that's what he said. I have
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180 days to turn them into revolutionaries. Yeah. Something like that. I might be misquoting.
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Quote and then quote. Okay. I think that's what he said. But anyhow, you know, we see more videos
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and more videos and more videos of these teachers being exposed, indoctrinating other people's kids
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into this crazy line of thinking, which most parents, and it is their fault, have become
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unaware of. Okay. Parents got to start paying attention. Well, I mean, dude, there's a reasonable
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expectation that you should send your child to school. I agree. And they'll teach that child
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that one plus one equals two. Not that two plus two is equals four is fucking racist and not,
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you know, like I agree. There's a reasonable expectation. I agree. But clearly reasonable expectations
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don't mean shit anymore because we do also have a reasonable expectation that what's on the news
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should be fucking factual. I agree. And not twist it into a narrative to get people to feel a certain
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way. Yeah. All right. The manufacturing division in this country is fucking out of control. And I
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think we can all agree with that. And I agree, reasonable expectations. But I think we are in a time
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where we cannot trust reasonable expectations anymore. And so I do have, and by the way,
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I'm talking about me too. Okay. When I say you parents, I'm talking about me. We all took our
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eyes off the ball. All right. We were out trying to do and execute within the beautiful system that is
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America. Okay. And we stopped caring about our civic duties to get involved and make sure that we
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preserve the freedom. Yeah. I could accept my part of responsibility for that, even though I've been
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vocal for the last 10 years on it. I'm not, look, we're all together. Right. Okay. So I'm not saying,
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hey, you, you people, I'm saying all of us. Okay. Now back to the fucking story. This guy is not,
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doesn't know that he's getting recorded saying all this crazy shit. Then somebody approaches him on the
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street later that day and his responses and his girlfriend's response were fucking gold. Yeah.
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I'm, you know, I'm not really comfortable with you. What the fuck are you guys talking about?
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You're comfortable enough to indoctrinate other people's kids so much so that this person brags in
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the video about how he makes them take a, uh, social positioning test at the beginning of their
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time. And they get extra credit points, the further left they move in their ideology. And if
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they go to, to, you know, far right, extreme, I'm sorry, I apologize. Uh, if they go to far left
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demonstrations, he gives them extra credit for class. Yeah. And that's insane. It is insane. Okay.
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And I want to delineate here. Okay. That is not representative of all people who are identifying
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as quote unquote Democrats. No. All right. This is the, this, I want to say a couple of things
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about this because I got some people saying to me, well, you know, I didn't think you were for
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cancel country. I'm not, but what I'm also not for is fucking weak ass hypocrite shit. If you're
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going to get there and you're going to say, I'm ready to, I turn in these people into revolutionaries,
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blah, blah, blah. And then you fucking get confronted and you're like, Oh, I'm not comfortable
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with this, but you're comfortable enough to fuck with other people's kids and the way they think
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when your responsibility is to actually just teach them skills so they can survive in life.
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Fuck you, dude. Oh yeah. Period. And then he puts out a video playing the victim saying,
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dude, look, none of this shit is right. Okay. So I'm not saying that people should go bury these
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people or this or that, but what needs to happen is this shit needs to stop all together. And so we
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have this guy and puts out a video today saying, Oh, they're coming after my job. And you know,
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they're doing like starting to play the victim, bro. You fucking people have done this to everybody
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and held everybody hostage to your fucking narrative for the last 10 fucking years.
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Okay. This is what they, this is how they've operated. Let's group together. Let's attack
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them. Let's get them fired. Let's get it. Let's ruin their lives. Blah, blah, blah. And now it turned
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back because you aren't aware that the tide has turned now. Okay. Which it has. People have figured out
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that fucking who the majority is and it ain't these crazy people. And even the Democrats, the true
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Democrats who are Americans at heart know that that is so fucked up. Yeah. Okay. Cause I'm hearing
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from them. Oh yeah. And they're sharing it everywhere. I'm seeing it. Yeah. And so look, man, we all have
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to come together and say, Hey, okay, don't fucking do this shit no more than because I'm tired of the
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hypocrisy, dude. These people, every time they attack someone, dude, I've been attacked a thousand
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times in the last fucking four years. I mean, dude, so much so that I truly do not give a fuck.
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Okay. But every time, like if I ever call them out, like, cause I don't like, I don't put people
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on blast very often, but anytime I have, bro, they get destroyed. They have to delete their Instagram.
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You know what I'm saying? And then they messaged me and they like, your people were death threatening
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me and this and that. Like they start playing. I'm like, bro, show me the messages of the death
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threats. I already blocked them and deleted them. Yeah. No, you just don't like a little heat that
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you're welcome to dish out. Okay. So the fucking shit needs to stop both ways. Now these teachers
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like this have no place in education. Now do their lives need to be ruined and we need to go get them?
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That's not what I'm saying at all. But what I am saying is we need to get fucking involved
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in removing this, this style of teaching from our schools. Otherwise we will lose our country
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completely, completely. And I will say this too, as far as project Veritas goes, guys, like
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when we talk about like, you know, these, how biased and all the propaganda going on in the
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media, project Veritas is what media should look like, right? Like, like that's what it used
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to look like. So you don't remember this. No, I'm, I'm young back in the day, bro.
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Well, I don't know. In the early two thousands and before it was normal to see true investigative
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reporting, real journal. Yeah. And like the stations were not biased like they are now.
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It wasn't always this way. Project Veritas does it how it should be. That's how it should
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always be done. Yeah. Well, you know, and people argue that they only attack a certain
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side of the aisle, which is not true either. Because if you go back, like they've been around
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for a minute. So if you actually go back, they just tell the truth. Dude, people, people
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like to say anything, anything that's not on the narrative. Like, that's what I'm saying
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about this dude, bro. Yeah. And then we'll get into questions. But like this guy, like
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he's over there fucking crying and trying to get sympathy. Now I'm concerned about my
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safety. No shit, bro. You did that. You and your people have done this to people for
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the last 10 years in this country. Exactly. Okay. So if you don't like it, don't fucking do
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it to people. Right. Yeah. You know how hard, you know how far you have to push regular
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people to get them to fucking snap back like that. And that's what people are learning
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now. Like people are snapping back. That snapback's going to be real. Yeah, dude. And
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it's, listen, I'm for reasonable shit. You know what I'm saying? But, and I've been saying
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this for the last year and a half, like, Hey, you guys ain't going to like the fucking snapback
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that you're starting to build. Yeah. And I tried to warn people, you know what I'm saying?
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But dude, the thing is, is like, um, this guy, you know, they're being exposed to the
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same tactics that they've imposed on everybody else. And then they play like the victim, you
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know, anything, anything that goes against their narrative is racist, misogynistic, narcissistic,
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white supremacist. And like, dude, that's what they've done this whole time. And they try
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to brand everybody that isn't with them. No. And they, they bully everybody into being
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with them because they're afraid of the title they're going to get if they're not. Right.
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Right. And, and, and dude, this guy's on TV crying, bro. Fuck off. Yeah. You know what
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I'm saying? Like, that's the most hip, hip, hip, hypocritical shit I could possibly think
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up. And dude, the people, you, you guys out there who are moderates and Democrats at heart,
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you need to fucking call this shit out just as much as anybody else. It's call a spade
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to spade. Right. Like, dude, I, we are 80% in the middle. Okay. I consider the reasonable
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80%. We all agree. You guys might not agree with every fucking thing I say, but if we sit
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down, we're going to agree on 90%. Right. And that's something we've lost as well. Like
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I see everybody who, who, uh, you know, support Trump. Right. Like they're like, dude, look,
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this is not a pro Trump statement. I'm just pointing out the fucking hypocrisy on the other
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side too. You know, Trump says, uh, didn't say enough of, I guess about anti vaccine for
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a lot of people. Well, fuck dude. He's 70 something years old. Right. He's a little bit
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heavy. He's high risk for this shit. If any, maybe you think that he's a normal person and
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his perspective, he might think that that's a good idea for him to take. Yeah. I mean,
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bro. Well, she actually just came out the other day and said that like, I'm not, I know
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mandating. I know. But before that, yeah, people were on, people were on him hard about that.
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And it's like, dude, we have to get away on both sides from this all or nothing attitude.
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Yeah. Like, dude, I'm going to have views that you're not going to have. And DJ, you have
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views that I don't share. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like you're actually far more
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conservative than I am. Yeah. And like, yeah. And dude, you know, these, we, for us to function
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properly as a country, we have to get rid of this all or nothing attitude with the people
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we support. Right. Sometimes we just got to say, Hey, I, you know, I agree most of the
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time, but guess what? I don't agree with that. And that's, that's cool. You know what I'm
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saying? Keep it moving. Yeah. Just keep it moving forward, bro. So what now? What? Like,
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you know what I'm saying? Like, I just can't stand that hypocrisy, bro. Boils my blood.
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Like the, the, the, you know, you guys going to attack these poor people, you know, all
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these companies get all these people fired because they said they wanted to vote for
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Trump or they didn't agree with your shit. And now you're on the fucking internet playing
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victim, bro. Fuck off. And he's part of the, he aligns with the same group, has a flag in
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his classroom of Antifa and go, go watch some videos of Antifa and protests and stuff. They're
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macing people, pushing people down. Like they're violent extremists. Right. So it's like we,
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this guy's in control. So I just hope that, that, that school district makes the right decision
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and gets them out of there. Bro. Parents have to demand that people like that. Look, I don't mind.
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I really don't mind people that have different views, but when you start trying to put those
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views into other people's kids, that is not your job. It's not your responsibility. Your job is to
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teach them skills so that they can be equipped to go out in the world and do good. Whatever
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they decide after that is their decision. We have crossed a line in America. We have allowed
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a lot of people to have influence over our kids and we've allowed it to become okay.
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To put this shit in, bro, that is not okay. It's not okay. And we got to, we got to do something
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about it. You know, and doing something is what I've been saying. Getting involved. That's
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what we talk about. You know what I'm saying? Anyway, fuck. I could go on and on and on,
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but maybe I should. Yeah. But let's do some, uh, Q and A S get it in guys. So you guys know
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how this works. Uh, I got that guy. Yeah. Fuck. No. Fuck that. Jesus. Gabriel. Fucking Gabriel,
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bro. I just can't like, at least stand up and be like, like, cause dude, like when the guy
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asked him in the interview and he goes, well, what do you say to your kids that, uh, that,
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that say it makes him uncomfortable? He goes, well, it's supposed to make fascists uncomfortable.
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So I don't know what to tell you. Yeah. And then he's on the video the fucking same day.
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I'm uncomfortable. I'm uncomfortable with this bro. As he's wearing a fucking hammer and
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sickle Soviet union shirt in America. Like, have we not realized, dude, like, do you, do
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you guys understand that that is the enemy of what this country fucking stands for? But
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the communist symbol is not cool. Yeah. It's not fucking stylish. It's nothing to be proud
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of millions and millions and millions and millions and millions of innocent people have died because
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of those policies all over the world through genocide, through starvation. It's killed more
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people than any ideology that's ever existed. And it is not good. And they only try to make
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it, they try to make it pop culture, mainstream, cool to support it. And they put all this propaganda
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out because that's what they need to get people to buy into it. Cause it's so fucking stupid
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and dangerous. And dude, like we were talking on the show before, like, uh, these guys were kind
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of talking in the background while I'm looking at my phone and they were talking about propaganda.
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And I'm like, bro, we don't, we shouldn't have to have propaganda. Like it should just be facts
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and we should see what the truth is. And we should be able to operate within that truth. And America
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would be a really good place then. But the fact that we were even allowing propaganda at all,
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that's not, that's not, that's not okay. Yeah. It's not okay. But I got a lot more to say.
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And maybe I'll say it on this tour, but, but yeah, but, uh, let's really do the show now.
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Sorry to interrupt you. All right, guys, questions, three questions. So you guys know how this works.
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So I got three questions. First of all, thank you guys for emailing those in again, email your
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questions in to ask Andy at Andy for seller.com. Um, I get three questions to ask Andy and, uh,
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as always, they're going to be fucking fire. All right. Question number one.
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Motherfucker. Uh, whose advice do you listen to now versus 20 years ago or even five years ago? Like
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That's an interesting question because 10 years ago,
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20, all right. 20 years ago, like when I, when I was very new in business,
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I would have listened to anybody who I thought was successful.
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Okay. Because it's like, if you had a nice car and you were flashy and shit,
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I would have been like, I was enamored by that. Okay. So I would have asked those guys. Um,
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and then what I would have done is try to model their shit. Okay. Because I would be like, well,
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fuck if that's working, it's got to work for me and I'll try to do that. So that's how I would
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have thought about it. 10 years ago, I would have said, I'm only interested in hearing from people
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who have done what it is I want to do. Okay. Um, and I really wouldn't have wanted to talk to
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anybody else. Now today I want to talk to everybody because I want to learn not only from the people
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who have done what I want to do, but I want to learn from the homeless guy on the street.
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I want to talk to him. I want to, I want to hear what happened to him or why he chose and learn about
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his path. And I know that I can pick up one or two lessons there that, that will help me, uh,
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either appreciate what the path I'm on or learn about maybe some things not to do things like that.
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You see what I'm saying? So I think as I've gotten more experience, I definitely look at things much
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differently. Um, but yeah, depending on where you are, I can tell you, you can learn a lot from
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people. If you, if you think about not only what they're saying, but also if you can like learn the
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mistake, learn, dude, learning from the mistakes of other people is one of the biggest things that
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you can do as an entrepreneur or somebody pursuing success that will save you years. Right. That's why
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a group like Arte is Arte syndicate is so popular, uh, invaluable because dude, you're learning from
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real business people, the, all the fucked up shit they've messed up and it's saving you literal years.
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So I would encourage people to try to get to that point where, you know, the, the 20 year point that
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I said, where I'm trying to learn a little something from everybody. Uh, because honestly,
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that's where I've gotten the most growth from. So that's powerful. Yeah. Fire. Yeah. Guess what?
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Still fuck that guy. Yeah. Fuck you. Gabriel. Question number two, how do you identify your needs
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versus your wants? Like, how do you identify, like, how do you determine that? Like what's a need versus
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what's a want for you right now? Uh, you know, I think you have to examine the bare minimum that
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you'd be willing to survive, right? Like the bare minimum life. I mean, bro, look that again, like
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that last answer, that question is, depends on where you're at. You know what I'm saying? Like when I
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started in the beginning, it was like, fuck dude, I got to eat. Right. You know what I'm saying? Right.
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And, and by the way, that was probably the most valuable time in my life because I learned how to be
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resourceful and I learned how to fuck, dude, I learned a ton of shit during that time. Um, but I
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think, you know, understanding what it would take for you to be happy, even if you were struggling,
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um, is still the minimum, you know, the minimum level of how, you know what I'm saying? Like where
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you would want to live at. And I would consider that a need. Okay. And that, and by the way,
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uh, that's not a literal thing. Like some people say, Hey, I like for me, my backup plan is go live
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in my farm, dude. Right. Okay. I got this farm. It's beautiful. The house is tiny. It's, it's
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fucking simple. It's America. It's America. And guess what? I, anything above that, I don't really
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care. Yeah. It's all gravy, dude. You know, the, the house I have now and the cars and the crazy life
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shit and all that shit. I mean, if that all went away, the company went away that, that I go live
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on the farm. Yeah. I grow my own shit, do my own thing. And I'd be cool with that too. So like, that's
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my need. Right. Um, and that's changed over the years. Yeah. Um, now, but I think it's important
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you, you figure that out. Like where, where would you, where do you have to be above? You know what I
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mean? For it to start being wants. And like, for me too, another key moment, uh, financially was
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when I could go to dinner and not have to worry about what the bill was going to be. Okay. So like
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I used to be one of those people who would go to dinner and, you know, read the menu and see what
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shit costs and like try to do the math in my head. And, um, and I hated that. And I also hated when I
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went to dinner with a group. Like my biggest pet peeve is like people fighting over the
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fucking bill or like making it awkward. Like I just can't 10 extra minutes, got to split
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it. Like, dude, I can't do it. So everywhere I go to eat, I pay all the time. I always pay
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for the whole entire group because unless somebody sneaks it in on me, which my friends are good
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people. So they do happens. But, uh, because I want to avoid the awkwardness. So like when
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I got to that level of success, I felt like I had, I felt like, I don't know. I felt like
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that was cool. And then everything after that, dude, like all the, the, the cars and like,
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you know, like all the crazy shit that I do now, that's cool, but it wasn't as cool as
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that. So it's kind of like diminishing returns, if that makes sense. Um, but it's still awesome
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stuff, but I'm just saying like, those are my levels of needs. Like my levels, like I
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got to at least be able to do that with the dinner thing. Right. And then, uh, and I guess
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that's why I'm not afraid to take risks too. You know, like I'm not afraid of going back
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to where I came from. You know what I'm saying? Like I'm proud of who I am and where I came
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from. And you know, like, I'm not afraid of that and I'm willing to do it again if that's
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what it took. So I guess that's a freeing thing as well by identifying what your minimum
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need is in terms of lifestyle and how you need to live and survive. Uh, and then, you
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know, being so far above that, uh, it's just gravy, dude. You know what I'm saying? Like
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I don't, I don't think it's good when people start to attach themselves to their, uh, the
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more mentality, you know what I'm saying? Like, I think it's always good to look at it and
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say, man, I'm really, really blessed, dude. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? And that
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way, if something does happen and you got to detach from it, it's not as big of a
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deal. Right. You know? Right. So I don't know. That's how I live. No, I think that's
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beautiful, man. All right. Cool. Two for two. Last question. How do you handle feeling
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alone when no one else around you seems to want more for their lives? Right. So like
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it's, it's this guy, uh, he feels like, you know, he's, he has an overachiever mentality,
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but he doesn't really feel like he's surrounded by people that, that are, are with him or
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like-minded. Right. And he feels alone. He says, you know, he's been feeling even a
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little disheartened. Um, he just needs a little bit more direction. Right. So
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like, did you ever go through that? Like, you know, in, in the 23 years of, of, of
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becoming successful, become getting to where you are now, where you felt like you
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were alone. Like, how did you handle it? Yeah. A few times. So, um, you know, that saying
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it's lonely at the top. Yeah. People like to say that shit, especially when, uh, they're
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going through one of these times, but what the truth is, is that you're, it's lonely
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in the middle, not at the top. And let me explain this. So in the beginning, you got
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your friends, right. And your friends, because I don't know, you went to school together,
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you played on a team together, you know, sure. Yeah, whatever, who knows, whatever your little
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group of friends is. Uh, and you know, as you get older, those, those people all choose
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different paths. And you know, when you choose a path of high achievement, um, and you're
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serious about it, that's going to be a path that probably none of your friends are going
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to really commit to. That's just the way it is by law of statistics. Sure. Um, so what
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happens is you move from this part, this little friend group out here, right. And there's nobody
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else out there and you're in the middle. Okay. I call that no man's lane. Like that's, that's
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what I call that period of time. What happens is as you stay on this path, you will slowly
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begin to build relationships with new people and people who are ambitious, people who want
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more people who are driven. And what will happen is you will find yourself in a group of friends,
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uh, that support you and push you to be better and push you to be more. And that's a crucial
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place to be because you need that to really become successful. But here's what happens.
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Most people venture out of their group a little bit and they figure out that like, Hey man, I'm,
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I don't have anybody around and they fucking go back to the group. And this is why most people fail.
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Okay. So you have to understand that bridging the gap between your old friends and your new
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established group, uh, is going to take some time. Yeah. Okay. And you can accelerate that by joining
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groups, uh, that are, you know, networking groups, things like that, or, you know, peer groups, you
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know, um, to meet people who are more aligned. Sure. You know what I'm saying? Trying not to plug my
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own shit so much. You know what I'm saying? Like I fucking hate being like that, but you know,
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I do have a group like that. Um, Arte syndicate, but now are you still friends with like, or do you
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still have those connections that you left? I was going to get to that. So, so, and what you guys
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have to realize is these people that you, that you chose a different path. It's not that they
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aren't your friends. It's not that they don't like you. You know, they probably got jealous sometimes,
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but dude, we all get jealous of each other. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like there's
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things that your friends now have that you get a little jealous about and you probably should check
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yourself on that and instead be happy, but we all jealous. He's a nature of the human. So, you
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know, you can't be mad at someone for a little bouts of that. You know, I'm jealous of some of my old
00:26:52.520
friends, bro. They got big families and shit. You know what I'm saying? Like they've done,
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they've done life differently and I can see the value in the way they did it. And I don't judge
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them negatively because they chose a different path. Right. You know? And I think that's a way
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to really sort of, that's how I observe the whole process working. And then here's the third thing
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that can happen too. It's like when you get in this middle level, right? You, you keep going,
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the same thing will repeat itself again. Okay. So you'll move the same thing repeats itself over and
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over again, no matter how far you want to go until you go all the way to the top where you're
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sitting in rooms with dudes that are worth billions of dollars. Right. Okay. And I know
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this cause I do that. Yeah. All right. So it's just a matter of, and I think when you, when you,
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when you commit to that path, you just have to say it's my path and that's their path and that's okay.
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And that's how I look at it. You know, I love my old friends as much as I did back when I knew them.
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And some of them I haven't seen for 20 years, dude. You know what I'm saying? But like,
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I fucking hope they're doing great. And I think, you know, like, I don't know, like,
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I think the problems that could become, um, when that lonely feeling sets in is really a lot of like
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self, um, unawareness, you know what I'm saying? Like, like you're making up. Cause like a lot of
00:28:11.180
times, dude, what people do most of the time is they're not, it's not that they're really attacked
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or hated on. It's that they tell their self a story in their head. All right. Like, I wonder
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what, you know, Tommy and, and Susie and, uh, Joey are saying about me. You know what I'm saying?
00:28:29.240
I bet they're saying this and this and this. They're talking so much shit. Yeah. And you start
00:28:32.780
telling yourself this shit in your head and you start resenting them for something that you don't
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even know that they actually did. They probably didn't do. And so what it is, is it's you talking
00:28:43.740
shit on yourself, right? You know what I'm saying? So, and this is why I tell people you're always
00:28:48.060
your own biggest hater. Yeah. You know, um, cause think about it, dude, like you're walking down the
00:28:54.440
street, right? Like I want you to really think about this. You're walking down the street and
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some dude you never seen before ever. Like you've never seen him before ever, ever, ever. He looks at
00:29:05.260
you and says, Hey, fuck you piece of shit. Okay. And just keeps walking. Right. And you, what are you
00:29:12.100
going to do? I'm going to laugh my ass. I'm going to be like, damn dude, I guess he's having a bad
00:29:15.960
fucking day. Right. But here's what happens. These people who don't understand, like they don't think
00:29:22.160
like this, they hear that one comment from the random dude on internet, you know, and they shut
00:29:28.160
down and they go back to their little friend group that's safe. And guys like, you know, it's,
00:29:34.940
it's not something that can really hurt you. You just got to realize, like, think, I think of it
00:29:38.860
like that. When somebody says some nasty shit to me and people say plenty of nasty shit. Yeah.
00:29:43.460
Uh, I'm just like, man, dude must be having a bad day. Like I'll be like, Hey, what's your name?
00:29:51.360
Shit, dude. It's weird on that point. For me, like it was weird. Cause I had to look at it. Cause I
00:29:57.160
have some of those friends, right? They're like, I left behind, but I think I had to go to a point
00:30:01.620
where I like, I had to accept that. Did you leave them behind or they just not come with you?
00:30:05.020
Well, yeah. Like, like it was that maybe that's just where they want to be. You know, like
00:30:08.800
everybody has the same goal. Hold on. Did you leave them behind or did they decide not to come
00:30:14.320
with you? Right. See what I'm saying? Yeah. Think about that. Yeah. Yeah. Why is it your duty to
00:30:21.500
drag anyone along with you? Yeah. That's real. In my opinion, it's their duty to keep up if that's
00:30:25.840
what they want. Yeah. That's what I think I've just accepted that that's just not what they want.
00:30:29.740
Yeah. That's it. And that's cool. Is that three? That's yeah. That's three, man. That's three and three.
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Knock him out the park. Three and three and fuck that guy.
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Man, I just want some common sense back in this place, dude. That's it. I want some unity. I want
00:30:44.820
some real love. I want some real fucking togetherness, not this bullshit. I'm tired of
00:30:50.140
this identity shit. I'm tired of this fucking left, right race shit. I'm tired of fucking
00:30:55.000
everything, dude. Divided. We fall, man, bro. There's a reason that that is like one of the
00:31:00.080
most famous sayings ever. And we have to get our shit together. Remember that, bro,
00:31:04.480
we have to get our shit together. Remember who the fuck we are. Right. You know what I'm
00:31:07.820
saying? Like we've done some fucking amazing shit here in America. Yeah. And we don't
00:31:13.320
tolerate fucking little weasels like that fucking with our kids. You know what I'm
00:31:17.800
saying? We need to get those people have to be removed from the public service. They
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can go do some other shit. I don't care. I'm not saying, you know, we got I'm not
00:31:26.960
calling for violence or anything like that. Yeah. But those fucking people don't belong
00:31:31.160
and fucking teaching kids. They belong doing other shit. Yeah. Of which I don't
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know. But not that. All right. So anyway, guys, I love you guys. I appreciate you guys.
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