REAL AF with Andy Frisella - February 24, 2022


241. Q&AF： Managing Finances, Reconstructing Culture & Bouncing Back From Bad Decisions

Topics
financial independence culture reconstruction personal excellence
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Andy Frisella
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240. Q&AF： Handling Decisions In Business, Managing Your Stress & Dealing With Disrespectful Customers 242. Andy & DJ CTI： Crypto Regulations, New Supreme Court Judge & Joy Behar's Vacation

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In this episode of The Realists, we talk about how to become financially independent, how to manage your money, and how to be a better human being. We also talk about the benefits of donating to charity and how you can help the less fortunate.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realists, say goodbye 0.99
00:00:20.480 to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking 0.99
00:00:24.080 reality. 0.98
00:00:24.440 Guys, today we have Q and AF, this is where you bring the Q's and I bring the AF's.
00:00:30.000 Yeah.
00:00:31.000 Yeah.
00:00:32.000 Yeah.
00:00:33.000 Pay the fee.
00:00:34.000 Let's do the show.
00:00:35.000 Email your questions in to ask Andy at Andy for seller.com.
00:00:38.000 Uh, with that being said, Andy, question number one, that's gotta be a record.
00:00:41.000 We're 26 seconds in.
00:00:42.000 Yeah. 0.99
00:00:43.000 That was the fastest fucking intro ever. 0.99
00:00:44.000 Yeah. 0.99
00:00:45.000 That's what she said.
00:00:47.000 Must be in there.
00:00:49.000 All right.
00:00:50.000 I'm used to those intros.
00:00:52.000 Andy, question number one for you.
00:00:55.000 Andy, how did you learn?
00:00:57.000 Yeah. 0.99
00:00:58.000 A lot of people, we get a lot of new people, every fucking show. 0.99
00:01:00.000 Yeah. 0.97
00:01:01.000 So like, if this is your first time, we do have a, we do have a, all right, I'm sorry. 1.00
00:01:08.000 We're idiots. 0.99
00:01:09.000 Oh, you're about to get some value. 1.00
00:01:13.000 All right.
00:01:14.000 Yeah.
00:01:15.000 We ask in return.
00:01:16.000 We call the fee.
00:01:17.000 The fee is tell somebody about the show, please.
00:01:19.000 All right.
00:01:20.000 Uh, we're going to give you a whole bunch of value.
00:01:23.000 It's going to be great. 1.00
00:01:24.000 You're going to dance around fucking circles and ring around the posy and shit after the 1.00
00:01:27.000 show. 1.00
00:01:28.000 Yeah.
00:01:29.000 Let's answer some questions.
00:01:30.000 Yeah.
00:01:31.000 Question number one.
00:01:32.000 Andy, how did you learn to, to seriously manage your finances?
00:01:36.000 Right.
00:01:37.000 Uh, this is a young person.
00:01:38.000 He's at school. 1.00
00:01:39.000 Did not teach me shit. 1.00
00:01:40.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:41.000 Here's why they want you to be broke.
00:01:43.000 Okay.
00:01:44.000 What's the rest of the question?
00:01:45.000 That's it.
00:01:46.000 How do you manage your finances?
00:01:47.000 Yeah.
00:01:48.000 They don't teach you those things in school intentionally.
00:01:49.000 The reason they don't teach you anything about credit or balancing an account or making 0.95
00:01:53.000 investments or this or this or this all shit that 14 year old kids are teaching themselves 0.97
00:01:57.000 nowadays. 1.00
00:01:58.000 Uh, the reason they don't teach you that shit is number one, the teachers teaching you don't 1.00
00:02:01.000 fucking know themselves. 0.99
00:02:02.000 And number two, uh, because by the way, they never did anything. 0.99
00:02:05.000 Number two, um, they want you to be broke.
00:02:08.000 They want you to be on the system as much as possible.
00:02:11.000 They want you to be in debt. 0.98
00:02:12.000 They want you to be financially fucking handicapped so that they can control you. 1.00
00:02:17.000 So understand financial independence is the actual key to real freedom. 0.97
00:02:21.000 That's the first thing. 1.00
00:02:22.000 Um, so that's why I say capitalism's bad and all these rich guys is fucking assholes. 1.00
00:02:28.000 And being rich is awesome. 1.00
00:02:30.000 It's fucking awesome. 0.87
00:02:31.000 You ever been in Nantucket? 0.93
00:02:32.000 Yeah.
00:02:33.000 You ever been in Nantucket?
00:02:34.000 That's right.
00:02:35.000 A little shout out to Portnoy there.
00:02:36.000 Look, dude, um, it, it, listen, you won't be free unless you become financially, uh,
00:02:43.000 free.
00:02:44.000 That's it.
00:02:45.000 Okay.
00:02:46.000 The reason I'm allowed to say all these things on the show that I say, and, uh, all 0.99
00:02:50.000 the shit is because I don't answer to fucking anybody. 0.99
00:02:53.000 All right. 1.00
00:02:54.000 No, there's no sponsors calling me saying, Andy, you need to tone it down.
00:02:57.000 Right.
00:02:58.000 Right. 0.99
00:02:59.000 And I turned down seven figure deals for sponsorship on this show all the fucking time. 1.00
00:03:02.000 You know why I do, you know, I turn them down because fuck you. 1.00
00:03:05.000 That's why. 1.00
00:03:06.000 Right.
00:03:07.000 Okay.
00:03:08.000 So understand that when you make a whole bunch of money, um, you get to the point where 0.89
00:03:12.000 you can almost do anything you fucking want. 1.00
00:03:14.000 And that doesn't mean be an asshole. 1.00
00:03:16.000 You should help help motherfuckers with that. 1.00
00:03:18.000 Yeah. 0.99
00:03:19.000 Do good things.
00:03:20.000 Okay.
00:03:21.000 Like what, what, what's, what's, what, what helps more people you donating your time twice 0.98
00:03:26.000 a year, fucking, uh, Thanksgiving and Christmas to feed the homeless. 0.93
00:03:30.000 Are you being able to build 15 homeless shelters in your town? 0.99
00:03:33.000 All right. 1.00
00:03:34.000 So let's get real rich people help the fucking world more than fucking poor people. 1.00
00:03:38.000 And that's a fucking fact. 1.00
00:03:39.000 Okay. 1.00
00:03:40.000 And they get a bad name based upon what these fucking pussies who are teaching our kids shit 1.00
00:03:44.000 talk about. 1.00
00:03:45.000 Yeah.
00:03:46.000 All right.
00:03:47.000 So let's just be real about that.
00:03:49.000 Secondly, um, what was the question?
00:03:54.000 How do you manage your fun? 0.99
00:03:55.000 How did you learn to manage my, my mentality has always been make as much fucking money 0.99
00:03:59.000 as possible. 0.99
00:04:00.000 It's all, I am all offense, bro. 0.99
00:04:02.000 I'm all gas, no fucking brakes. 0.96
00:04:04.000 I have partnered with a person who is the exact opposite. 0.99
00:04:07.000 Okay.
00:04:08.000 My business partner, um, he, for the most part is the opposite of me.
00:04:12.000 Now that's why, that's why you need that yin and yang.
00:04:15.000 Okay.
00:04:16.000 So he thinks about other things like defense.
00:04:19.000 And I think about offense.
00:04:20.000 All right. 0.98
00:04:21.000 So my goal is to make as much fucking money as I fucking can ethically responsibly, uh, 0.98
00:04:26.000 while doing all these good things, creating jobs, et cetera, et cetera, because I understand 0.98
00:04:31.000 that to make money, it's going to cost money.
00:04:33.000 So it's, it's about building a machine.
00:04:35.000 It's not so much like I'm managing every dollar. 0.97
00:04:38.000 Now I'm in a different fucking scenario than 99.9% of humans. 0.96
00:04:43.000 If I was a regular human, um, when it comes to managing finance, I would still operate 0.97
00:04:49.000 on that same principle, uh, of trying to become as successful as possible so that you have
00:04:56.000 a little more margin for error inside your personal finances.
00:04:59.000 Because there's so many speculative things that are going on in the world right now.
00:05:04.000 Um, because of the changing the, the, the rapidly changing technology and, and all of these, uh,
00:05:12.000 weird ass things. 0.90
00:05:14.000 Okay. 0.95
00:05:15.000 The point is things are changing fast.
00:05:17.000 So managing your finances is always going to come down to, uh, really basic principles.
00:05:23.000 Um, saving a certain percentage of your money, investing a certain percentage of your money,
00:05:28.000 uh, not living beyond your means.
00:05:30.000 In fact, purposefully living below what you could actually afford, which takes a lot of
00:05:34.000 discipline.
00:05:35.000 All right.
00:05:36.000 And I do that by the way, like people don't understand that.
00:05:38.000 Like I've always done that.
00:05:39.000 Like what you see in my life, that's within my, my budget for what I spent on myself.
00:05:46.000 Right?
00:05:47.000 So that's the goal. 0.95
00:05:48.000 The goal is to get so fucking big that even that small budget that you give yourself to 0.97
00:05:53.000 live on seems. 0.97
00:05:54.000 Yes.
00:05:55.000 Yeah, that's it.
00:05:56.000 And that's the goal.
00:05:57.000 And that's what you should be working towards.
00:05:59.000 You should be working towards that until you get there.
00:06:01.000 And that's going to mean that you're going to have to start off probably cooking French
00:06:04.000 fries. 1.00
00:06:05.000 Like most motherfuckers did. 1.00
00:06:06.000 I didn't cook French fries. 1.00
00:06:07.000 I fucking painted stripes on parking lots. 0.99
00:06:10.000 I did asphalt work. 1.00
00:06:11.000 I did fucking foundation work. 1.00
00:06:12.000 Then I started my little company and everybody laughed at me for fucking 15 years. 0.99
00:06:16.000 Now I'm here. 0.99
00:06:17.000 All right. 0.96
00:06:18.000 I posted yesterday, like somebody, I was in the fucking LaFerrari and the dude, dude's 0.97
00:06:22.000 like, Oh yeah, nice flexion. 1.00
00:06:23.000 LaFerrari motherfucker. 1.00
00:06:24.000 You don't even know, bro. 1.00
00:06:25.000 I could flex your fucking dick right off. 1.00
00:06:27.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:06:28.000 Like, bro, that's just my life.
00:06:30.000 Everywhere. 0.99
00:06:31.000 I point this motherfucking cameras and fucking flex and that's not bragging, but that's just 1.00
00:06:35.000 what happens after fucking two decades of working your balls off. 1.00
00:06:38.000 Right? 1.00
00:06:39.000 So that should be the goal.
00:06:40.000 Give it two decades, man. 1.00
00:06:41.000 Work your fucking ass off. 1.00
00:06:42.000 You're 20 years old. 1.00
00:06:43.000 By the time you're 40, you're going to be killing it.
00:06:45.000 And you're still going to be young. 1.00
00:06:46.000 And not only are you going to be young, you're going to be a silver fox like me, motherfucker. 1.00
00:06:49.000 That's what I'm saying. 0.99
00:06:51.000 So like, dude, like stop thinking you got to have it in a day and start thinking about
00:06:55.000 what it's going to be in 10 years. 0.99
00:06:57.000 Point is this, go on the fucking offense, man, and be on the offense so fucking hard. 0.99
00:07:01.000 Live below your means. 1.00
00:07:03.000 Be poor.
00:07:04.000 Let all your friends make fun of you. 1.00
00:07:06.000 Let all your friends talk shit. 1.00
00:07:07.000 Let all your old girlfriends call you a loser. 1.00
00:07:10.000 Cause that's what I did. 1.00
00:07:11.000 And guess what?
00:07:12.000 I'm winning and my life is nice and I have freedom and I can do what I want for now until 0.99
00:07:16.000 we lose our freedom, unless you motherfuckers join me fighting for it. 1.00
00:07:19.000 So, um, so yeah, dude, you know, uh, what's, what's that book? 0.99
00:07:25.000 The automatic millionaire.
00:07:26.000 That's a great book.
00:07:27.000 That's a great book for personal finances.
00:07:28.000 Um, you know, a lot of people have their opinions on what you should do percentage wise,
00:07:33.000 this, that, the other, blah, blah, blah.
00:07:35.000 None of them really matter.
00:07:36.000 You got to find a system that works for you that you can discipline, uh, and stick to for
00:07:40.000 a long period of time and live within that system and, and, and keep going on the 0.92
00:07:44.000 offense to make your pie so big that even a fucking small crumb of your pie feeds a whole 0.98
00:07:49.000 bunch of people. 0.99
00:07:50.000 You see what I'm saying? 0.99
00:07:52.000 That's fucking awesome. 0.98
00:07:53.000 Yeah. 0.97
00:07:54.000 That's just how I look at it. 0.99
00:07:55.000 You know, I don't think, uh, like I know a lot of people listen to Ramsey for this shit 0.99
00:07:59.000 and he's like, Oh, you must have a million, be a millionaire before you buy a nice car and 0.99
00:08:04.000 all this shit. 0.97
00:08:05.000 I listen, I'm sure the guy's really smart. 0.99
00:08:09.000 I've never listened to any of a shit, but I don't operate on those principles and I like my 0.98
00:08:12.000 life a whole lot. 0.98
00:08:14.000 So that's real.
00:08:15.000 Yeah.
00:08:16.000 That's real.
00:08:17.000 Andy question.
00:08:18.000 What does he say?
00:08:19.000 Doesn't he say, don't you listen to him?
00:08:21.000 Yeah.
00:08:22.000 I've listened to him when I was, uh, trying to overcome my debt.
00:08:25.000 Uh, he says, unless you have $1 million in net worth, you should not buy any new car.
00:08:31.000 Okay.
00:08:32.000 Not even like a Honda civic.
00:08:33.000 Okay.
00:08:34.000 So you talked about it.
00:08:35.000 You, when you were saying you said a nice car, he said any new car.
00:08:38.000 Okay.
00:08:39.000 And I, I feel like he's trying to deal with majority of the Americans trying to overcome
00:08:44.000 debt.
00:08:45.000 But then those people never make anything out of average.
00:08:48.000 Yeah.
00:08:49.000 Look, dude, to get out of that, it's just like you, bro, getting out of your debt.
00:08:52.000 You didn't say, Hey, I want to get out of my debt. 0.95
00:08:54.000 You said, Hey, I want to fucking become wealthy. 0.97
00:08:56.000 Yes. 0.98
00:08:57.000 And then the debt took care of itself.
00:08:58.000 Correct.
00:08:59.000 And so it's kind of like that saying, you know, uh, shoot for the moon and you land among
00:09:02.000 the stars.
00:09:03.000 That's my philosophy goal, heavy offense.
00:09:06.000 And he, maybe you may not get to exactly where you want, but the score, the points are 0.99
00:09:10.000 going to be on the fucking board. 0.99
00:09:11.000 Right. 1.00
00:09:12.000 And that's what matters.
00:09:13.000 And a lot of stuff that you said coincide, obviously, because he's wealthy as well.
00:09:17.000 And you were wealthy as well.
00:09:18.000 And it's been longterm.
00:09:19.000 So a lot of stuff that you say, he says the same thing.
00:09:22.000 I can't, I, I, you know, me, dude, I don't have time to listen to anybody else.
00:09:25.000 Correct. 0.99
00:09:26.000 So I know this, I know he hacks the fucking iTunes algorithm every fucking day and he fucking steals 1.00
00:09:30.000 that number one spot. 1.00
00:09:31.000 One spot motherfucker. 1.00
00:09:32.000 Dave Ramsey. 1.00
00:09:33.000 I'm coming for you, bro.
00:09:34.000 We'll be there tomorrow.
00:09:35.000 Yeah.
00:09:36.000 You'll be there Wednesday.
00:09:37.000 Dude.
00:09:38.000 I look, he takes his three hour show and puts three different podcasts and that's a hack
00:09:41.000 on the outer day.
00:09:42.000 Every day.
00:09:43.000 It's impossible now to get to number one because of that.
00:09:46.000 So we'll razzle dazzle, whatever.
00:09:48.000 Kudos to him.
00:09:49.000 Yeah.
00:09:50.000 Winning is winning.
00:09:51.000 It is what it is.
00:09:52.000 I'm still going to beat you.
00:09:53.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:09:54.000 No shit. 0.97
00:09:55.000 Andy, question number two for you. 0.99
00:09:56.000 I didn't see his house in Nashville that went for sale, man. 0.97
00:09:58.000 I fucking think it was pretty pimp. 0.97
00:10:01.000 So just to add up, he, he lives a great life though. 0.99
00:10:04.000 Does he?
00:10:05.000 He lives a great life, but he says the exact same thing that you said. 1.00
00:10:08.000 He says fuck a whole lot. 1.00
00:10:10.000 No, no. 1.00
00:10:11.000 His pie is so big that his small section is so big that it looks like he's living pimping
00:10:18.000 around.
00:10:19.000 His share of the pie is so big.
00:10:20.000 Yeah.
00:10:21.000 It's because the whole.
00:10:22.000 That's it.
00:10:23.000 And that's why we have millionaires that I have employees that live million dollar houses 1.00
00:10:27.000 and shit. 0.99
00:10:28.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:10:29.000 So like, and that's only getting bigger and bigger and bigger. 0.99
00:10:32.000 By the way, million dollar house here in Missouri is a $10 million house for fucking 0.99
00:10:35.000 California for you. 1.00
00:10:36.000 The motherfuckers don't know. 1.00
00:10:37.000 Okay. 1.00
00:10:38.000 Yeah.
00:10:39.000 Yeah.
00:10:40.000 That's the answer.
00:10:41.000 Andy, question number two for you.
00:10:43.000 Okay.
00:10:44.000 As an intrapreneur, how would you go about reconstructing culture in your company and the company that
00:10:51.000 you work at?
00:10:52.000 Um, dude, all, all culture starts from the example and, and what people don't really understand
00:10:59.000 about setting an example is that it's not, it's so simple, dude.
00:11:05.000 It's not what you say.
00:11:06.000 It's what you do.
00:11:07.000 You know, it's not monkey see, uh, or monkey monkey say monkey do it's monkey see monkey
00:11:12.000 do.
00:11:13.000 And there's a big difference there.
00:11:14.000 Right?
00:11:15.000 So if you want your culture to improve with, as an intrapreneur, all right, on a team inside
00:11:21.000 of a company, you have to live that standard of what you expect it to be. 1.00
00:11:26.000 And you can't spend your time pointing at everybody and saying, Oh, you fucking suck. 0.99
00:11:31.000 And you're not living the standard or you're not living the standard and no, neither are 1.00
00:11:34.000 you and blah, blah.
00:11:35.000 That's not how it works.
00:11:36.000 You have to become so undeniably good at living that standard that other people want
00:11:39.000 to be like you on their own.
00:11:41.000 Right?
00:11:42.000 And they have to make that decision on their own.
00:11:44.000 So what makes someone make a decision to follow someone?
00:11:47.000 You have to be undeniably something that they want.
00:11:50.000 Right?
00:11:51.000 Like, so the reason my voice matters and the reason people tolerate my cursing and my attitude, 0.95
00:11:57.000 besides the fact that it's funny as fuck, is that, um, I literally have proven myself 0.89
00:12:04.000 over and over and over again in literally every way. 0.92
00:12:07.000 So people are willing to understand that.
00:12:10.000 Right?
00:12:11.000 I have credibility.
00:12:12.000 So what's your credibility?
00:12:13.000 You have to have credibility to change the culture.
00:12:16.000 The credibility as an entrepreneur starts with how you act, how you perform, how you treat
00:12:21.000 others, what standard you live to every single day.
00:12:24.000 And then when you do screw up, you got to call yourself out, not call the other people
00:12:28.000 out.
00:12:29.000 All right.
00:12:30.000 The first thing people can do to improve their culture at work is by living the example.
00:12:34.000 It's the same reason why what's going on is going on.
00:12:37.000 Like I look at all these people on the internet wanting to change what's going on in the country.
00:12:41.000 Right?
00:12:42.000 How many of them are actually, actually providing solutions?
00:12:46.000 How many of them are actually sitting down with people who may come from a different point
00:12:49.000 of view, like we are to have conversations about solving actual problems, or are they 0.92
00:12:55.000 just posting memes or are they just saying, uh, agitating shit to get likes and shares and 0.97
00:13:01.000 go viral for their own self-interest. 0.99
00:13:03.000 Right?
00:13:04.000 So that's what we have going on right now.
00:13:07.000 And that's why none of these, that's why nobody's stepping up to solve any of the problems
00:13:11.000 because nobody's actually living it.
00:13:13.000 No one's actually putting their balls on the line. 0.99
00:13:15.000 No one's actually fucking standing up. 1.00
00:13:17.000 It's real easy to post a bunch of shit and say, people should do this and that and this, 0.99
00:13:20.000 this, this, this, this, but you're not risking anything. 0.99
00:13:23.000 You see what I'm saying?
00:13:25.000 Right.
00:13:26.000 What are you doing?
00:13:27.000 Yeah.
00:13:28.000 So that people are like, they're waiting for someone to come along when in reality, dude,
00:13:33.000 this is a, this is an American movement.
00:13:35.000 Like you yourself have to start living what you want this country to be.
00:13:40.000 It doesn't come from one guy at the top.
00:13:43.000 It comes from everybody at the bottom.
00:13:45.000 You see what I'm saying?
00:13:46.000 Like if everybody lived better, if everybody set a better example, if everybody tried to
00:13:51.000 be nicer and more kind and better and earn more money and become a more contributing
00:13:56.000 part and a healthier, healthier, personal excellence.
00:13:59.000 Okay.
00:14:00.000 Personal excellence in every area.
00:14:03.000 If you live that, your neighbors are more likely to live it.
00:14:06.000 The people at your church are more likely to live it.
00:14:08.000 Your friends are more likely to live it.
00:14:10.000 Okay.
00:14:11.000 That's how things change.
00:14:12.000 And that's the problem we have in this country right now. 0.99
00:14:15.000 We have a lot of people that could change a whole lot of shit by just changing themselves. 0.99
00:14:20.000 But instead they want somebody to ride in on, you know, the white, white horse and save 0.99
00:14:25.000 everybody.
00:14:26.000 And that's just not going to happen.
00:14:27.000 This is, we need a cultural revolution of personal excellence in this country.
00:14:32.000 Okay.
00:14:33.000 Right.
00:14:34.000 And the same, that's the same way to change the culture inside your company.
00:14:39.000 Same way.
00:14:40.000 So it comes down to you.
00:14:42.000 What are you living?
00:14:43.000 What kind of shape are you in?
00:14:45.000 What kind of money do you make? 1.00
00:14:46.000 What kind of fucking, what kind of life do you live? 1.00
00:14:48.000 How do you treat people? 1.00
00:14:49.000 What do you, what do you put in your brain?
00:14:51.000 What do you eat?
00:14:52.000 What do you drink?
00:14:53.000 Dude, Tupac said this, bro. 0.99
00:14:55.000 Tupac said this back fucking 96. 0.99
00:14:58.000 Got to change the way you eat. 1.00
00:15:00.000 You got to change the way you live.
00:15:01.000 You live like, bro, this, that's why he's saying these things.
00:15:04.000 That man understood.
00:15:05.000 We have a cultural problem across the country.
00:15:08.000 Now he was, I think he was talking mostly about black Americans, but that is exclude. 0.73
00:15:13.000 That is not exclusive to black Americans.
00:15:15.000 It's exclusive to all Americans. 0.93
00:15:18.000 If we all get better, the place gets better.
00:15:22.000 That's real.
00:15:23.000 Yeah, dude.
00:15:24.000 And your culture and your company is no different than that.
00:15:28.000 Andy, our third and final question for you today.
00:15:31.000 Andy, how, how do you handle or how did you handle?
00:15:35.000 You don't make terrible decisions now, I'm sure, but I make a few.
00:15:38.000 How do you handle bouncing back from terrible decisions?
00:15:42.000 Very easy, dude.
00:15:44.000 I give myself a little bit of grace.
00:15:46.000 I tell myself the truth. 1.00
00:15:47.000 I say, do you fucked up? 0.99
00:15:49.000 This is my internal hour. 1.00
00:15:50.000 Hey, do you fuck that up? 0.96
00:15:51.000 Okay. 0.75
00:15:52.000 What, what made you fuck that up?
00:15:54.000 Oh, I thought this and this. 0.83
00:15:55.000 Okay.
00:15:56.000 Those were wrong.
00:15:57.000 Um, and I'm just honest with myself. 0.98
00:16:00.000 And then I look at it and I'm like, all right, dude, you don't fuck up very much, but you're 0.92
00:16:04.000 human too. 0.99
00:16:05.000 And you fucked up and now you got to make it right. 0.99
00:16:07.000 And then the second part is not to just make it right, but also to not repeat the same behavior. 0.99
00:16:12.000 It's very simple.
00:16:13.000 Yeah.
00:16:14.000 And then move on. 1.00
00:16:15.000 Like, I don't hang on to shit that I fuck up. 1.00
00:16:18.000 Like if I fucked up yesterday, I ain't thinking about it today. 1.00
00:16:22.000 Being able to forget those things and move forward. 0.96
00:16:25.000 Um, with, with, with, uh, that lesson in your pocket, that just means you're a more powerful person moving forward.
00:16:33.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:16:34.000 A lot of people try to just forget it and fucking, I fucked up yesterday and keep moving. 1.00
00:16:36.000 They didn't process. 1.00
00:16:37.000 Yeah.
00:16:38.000 That's the whole problem with this country.
00:16:39.000 They don't take the time to assess themselves and be honest with themselves. 1.00
00:16:42.000 Most people don't, most people don't, aren't even willing to admit that they fucked up. 0.96
00:16:48.000 Most people won't even have an honest conversation with themselves though. 1.00
00:16:51.000 Instead of having an honest conversation with themselves, they give themselves the bullshit conversation. 1.00
00:16:56.000 Right. 0.99
00:16:57.000 Which is a bro.
00:16:58.000 It's all right, man. 1.00
00:16:59.000 Fuck them. 1.00
00:17:00.000 Everybody does it. 1.00
00:17:01.000 Yeah.
00:17:02.000 That ain't, that ain't, that's not, that's not how men or, or adults act.
00:17:06.000 Yeah.
00:17:07.000 That's how leaders act.
00:17:09.000 You have to be honest with yourself.
00:17:10.000 And honestly, like if you heard my own dialogue, it's way more critical than I give to anybody
00:17:14.000 else.
00:17:15.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:17:16.000 And that's why my standard is high.
00:17:18.000 So, you know, it's very simple.
00:17:21.000 If you make up, make, make a mistake, identify what caused you to make the mistake.
00:17:25.000 Uh, identify what situations would that miss, would that present itself again, change the 0.96
00:17:32.000 behavior to, to create a situation where you don't fuck up again like that. 0.99
00:17:36.000 And then move the fuck on. 0.99
00:17:37.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:17:38.000 It's very simple, dude.
00:17:39.000 Yeah.
00:17:40.000 Like so many people, like I talked to so many people who were like 40 ish years old and
00:17:45.000 like, man, when I was 20, I did this and this and this.
00:17:47.000 Yeah.
00:17:48.000 Okay.
00:17:49.000 Well, that was 20 years.
00:17:50.000 What'd you learn?
00:17:51.000 Right. 1.00
00:17:52.000 And you're still punishing yourself for some shit you did 20 years ago. 1.00
00:17:55.000 That's the culture we've created, dude, with all this, all of this shit with social media, 1.00
00:18:01.000 dude. 1.00
00:18:02.000 Like we, we, we should not be judged for what we did fucking 10 years ago on the fucking 1.00
00:18:07.000 internet in front of fucking everybody. 1.00
00:18:09.000 It's a bunch of hypocritical shit. 1.00
00:18:11.000 The whole reason that everybody jumps on people is because they're guilty themselves 1.00
00:18:15.000 and they want to, they want to jump on these people so that other people don't look at
00:18:19.000 them.
00:18:20.000 And, and, and basically what they're saying is when they jump on and try to cancel all these
00:18:23.000 people and judge them harshly is, well, I'm not like that.
00:18:26.000 Right.
00:18:27.000 What, what you're, what you're really doing is tell it on yourself.
00:18:30.000 You ain't fooling smart people.
00:18:32.000 You're only fooling yourself. 1.00
00:18:34.000 That's why it's garbage, dude. 1.00
00:18:35.000 Like I don't, people are meant to fuck up and learn and move forward. 1.00
00:18:41.000 That's the nature of being a human. 0.99
00:18:43.000 So why, why, why are we allowing these fucking people on the internet to have so much power over 0.99
00:18:49.000 everybody caused them anxiety, caused them stress, caused them frustration. 0.99
00:18:53.000 Answer to them. 0.99
00:18:54.000 Who the fuck are we answering to? 1.00
00:18:56.000 Who the fuck are you? 1.00
00:18:57.000 I can promise you this, bro. 1.00
00:18:59.000 If those people who fucking attack you like that, or standing in front of you, you would 0.99
00:19:03.000 laugh. 0.99
00:19:04.000 You would laugh that you were explaining yourself to them. 1.00
00:19:07.000 Stop explaining your shit. 1.00
00:19:09.000 Learn a lesson to move forward. 1.00
00:19:11.000 Well guys, Andy.
00:19:12.000 Was that three? 0.99
00:19:13.000 That is fucking three. 0.99
00:19:14.000 All right. 0.99
00:19:15.000 Yeah.
00:19:16.000 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:19:18.000 Now my jewelry box froze. 1.00
00:19:19.000 Fuck a pole. 1.00
00:19:20.000 Fuck a stove. 1.00
00:19:21.000 Counted millions in the cold. 1.00
00:19:23.000 Bad bitch. 1.00
00:19:24.000 Booty swole. 1.00
00:19:25.000 Got her on bankroll.
00:19:26.000 Can't fold.
00:19:27.000 That's a no.
00:19:28.000 Headshot.
00:19:29.000 Case closed.