REAL AF with Andy Frisella - March 13, 2022


253. Q&AF： Mortal Enemies, Contributing To America & Bouncing Back


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In this episode of the Realists podcast, the guys talk Girl Scout Cookies and why they don t like them. Also, how do you treat your enemies? How do you deal with them? What do you do with people who screw up your life?

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla, this is the show for the realists, say goodbye
00:00:20.760 to the lies, the fakes, and delusions of modern society, and welcome to motherfucking reality.
00:00:25.040 Guys, today we have Q and AF, this is where you bring the Qs and I bring the AF.
00:00:30.520 All right, there's a fee for the show, the fee is very simple.
00:00:34.500 Show the show.
00:00:37.760 Yeah, that's the fee.
00:00:39.740 Or you could send me money.
00:00:41.960 Yeah, cash out.
00:00:42.720 Yeah.
00:00:43.720 Anyway, where do they submit questions for these shows?
00:00:46.860 Guys, as always, you can email your questions in to askandy at andyfriscilla.com.
00:00:51.540 Yeah, and as always too, if you want straight entrepreneur content, you can always look
00:00:57.560 at RTA Syndicate, that's where we do that.
00:01:00.360 I do it with Ed Milet, one of the best entrepreneurs out there that I've ever met.
00:01:05.340 Yeah, and that's that.
00:01:06.740 So let's do a little Q and AF.
00:01:08.860 Let's knock it out.
00:01:09.540 Oh, shit, I had a sneeze coming.
00:01:12.340 Fuck.
00:01:13.000 All right, question number one.
00:01:15.300 I got a question.
00:01:16.240 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:16.600 What's, ooh.
00:01:17.520 Okay, we're getting spicy here.
00:01:18.800 How can you think that you're stealing all the good Girl Scout cookies and you didn't even
00:01:25.600 take a box of Samoas?
00:01:26.660 That is, that's the first question of the show.
00:01:31.220 That's the first question.
00:01:32.040 I, I, did you not see my story last night?
00:01:34.660 Oh, bro.
00:01:35.720 I, I fucking catch this dude packing his box.
00:01:38.500 Allegedly.
00:01:39.160 Allegedly.
00:01:39.500 No, not allegedly.
00:01:41.540 I catch this dude packing his, uh, his, his security bag.
00:01:45.840 It's got four, four full boxes of fucking cookies in it.
00:01:49.660 And then as I'm pulling the cookies out, the first thing was there was no fucking Samoas
00:01:55.280 at all.
00:01:56.280 It was like all the worst cookies with the exception of Thin Mints.
00:01:59.880 Cause Thin Mints are good.
00:02:01.040 Thin Mints are good.
00:02:02.080 And then it was like, you know, I don't even know what the other ones are called because
00:02:05.280 they're, they're such, they're such trash.
00:02:08.060 Samoas are iconic.
00:02:09.020 It's only Samoas and Thin Mints.
00:02:10.840 I got a rest or junk.
00:02:11.960 I have an explanation.
00:02:13.580 Hold on.
00:02:14.040 But then as I'm pulling the boxes out, he's saying, they're not for me.
00:02:19.480 They're for Ryan.
00:02:20.480 They're not for me.
00:02:21.320 They're for Ryan.
00:02:22.260 Hold on.
00:02:23.200 Hold on.
00:02:23.640 I get to the last box.
00:02:25.260 The motherfuckers half eaten. 0.93
00:02:29.040 And then he says he wants to talk to his lawyer.
00:02:33.420 Listen, listen, allegedly.
00:02:34.940 All right.
00:02:35.380 I got it.
00:02:35.760 I got it.
00:02:36.080 I don't know if I'm, I have an explanation here, bro.
00:02:39.200 Why I didn't get the Samoas.
00:02:40.700 It's fucking Russia's fault. 1.00
00:02:41.960 No, Ryan doesn't like Samoas.
00:02:44.040 No, Ryan doesn't like Samoas.
00:02:48.420 Bro, that is a damn lie.
00:02:53.440 Everybody knows that Samoas are the best Girl Scout.
00:02:56.420 See, I think that's debatable, man.
00:02:58.220 That's, that's, that's, no, that's iconic.
00:03:00.340 That's iconic.
00:03:00.980 I got to go on air for this.
00:03:02.160 Yes.
00:03:03.040 Damn, Joe.
00:03:03.740 DJ, there's no debate, bro.
00:03:05.020 No, man.
00:03:05.440 Either you're fat or you're fat.
00:03:06.720 No, that's why I think DJ's fake fat.
00:03:09.420 He ain't real fat, bro.
00:03:10.520 That's exactly right.
00:03:11.420 Me and you are real fat.
00:03:13.240 You're exactly right.
00:03:13.580 Because we know the fucking good shit to eat.
00:03:15.080 Yeah, bro.
00:03:15.560 Yeah.
00:03:15.960 There's only two good, there's only two good ones.
00:03:18.000 You're a fucking fat poser.
00:03:19.780 Hey.
00:03:21.980 Fucking poser.
00:03:23.060 Yeah.
00:03:23.360 You're a fucking poser.
00:03:25.140 Hey, man.
00:03:26.220 You're posing.
00:03:27.240 Samoas just ain't my thing, bro.
00:03:28.560 Like, they're not terrible.
00:03:30.120 Oh, now you switch your story, huh?
00:03:31.520 No, they're not terrible.
00:03:32.060 Peer pressure.
00:03:32.520 Is that how you work?
00:03:33.060 No, no.
00:03:33.680 You can't stand up on your own shit.
00:03:35.060 I stand on my shit.
00:03:35.940 Ryan doesn't like them.
00:03:36.800 I see how it works.
00:03:37.160 I stand on it.
00:03:37.540 Maybe those people that say you just agree with me to agree with me are telling the truth.
00:03:41.060 No, 1%.
00:03:41.860 1%.
00:03:43.220 All right.
00:03:46.660 On with the show.
00:03:47.400 Yeah, I got some good ones for you.
00:03:48.360 Okay, you do?
00:03:49.020 Yeah.
00:03:49.420 All right.
00:03:51.840 Let's hear them.
00:03:52.680 Andy, question number one.
00:03:55.060 Okay.
00:03:55.360 Okay.
00:03:55.480 How do you treat your mortal enemies?
00:04:01.120 I have guys that I just want to fucking nuke.
00:04:04.020 How do I do it?
00:04:05.720 By being better.
00:04:08.280 By being the best that you can.
00:04:10.300 Look, dude, this is where people really screw up.
00:04:12.420 Like, people really screw up when it comes to this.
00:04:14.680 Like, first of all, every bit of energy that you spend thinking about this enemy of yours
00:04:24.220 is a unit of energy that you're not spending on getting better.
00:04:27.800 Okay?
00:04:28.720 So, what I would recommend is instead of trying to emotionally expend energy on hating people
00:04:37.280 that are competing with you or whatever it is, because it always comes to competition.
00:04:42.780 I would adjust to this mindset as quickly as possible, because this is, I understand that.
00:04:48.900 Like, dude, I'm a competitive guy.
00:04:50.400 I want to squash motherfuckers. 1.00
00:04:52.360 I want to step on people's throats.
00:04:54.220 I want to be the best.
00:04:55.640 Okay?
00:04:56.040 Kill, kill, kill. 0.98
00:04:56.580 Yeah.
00:04:56.900 And I don't want any motherfuckers to, like, if I'm being real, I don't want them to have
00:05:01.460 fucking anything. 0.71
00:05:02.540 Right?
00:05:04.580 That's my competitive inner talk.
00:05:07.480 Right?
00:05:08.540 But it's not realistic.
00:05:10.120 Okay?
00:05:10.560 And it's not healthy to really focus on that all the time.
00:05:13.980 And so, what I've found as a competitive individual, the way to work with these feelings and this
00:05:19.800 competitive nature is to not turn it into hate for other people.
00:05:27.000 Because I think that, and I talk about this a lot, right?
00:05:30.580 That tells the universe that you don't like winning.
00:05:33.760 You know, when you see your competitors win and you see people doing big things, that tells
00:05:38.520 the universe that you don't like that shit. 0.91
00:05:40.220 And that makes it harder for you to get to that point, to have those things delivered to
00:05:44.720 you.
00:05:44.940 And there is an aspect of that.
00:05:46.360 I don't care what anybody says.
00:05:47.520 Now, how I have adjusted when I was younger, that's how I thought, right?
00:05:53.620 I would spend a lot of time analyzing everything that everybody else does.
00:05:57.260 And I still do that.
00:05:58.920 I still observe them, but I do it without emotion.
00:06:02.420 And I do it to see, okay, is this going to work?
00:06:06.480 Is that going to work?
00:06:07.800 Are they making the right moves?
00:06:09.420 Or do I think they're making the wrong moves?
00:06:11.460 Or how would I do it differently?
00:06:13.000 And so I try to use my competitors as a whiteboard of learning different paths, if that makes
00:06:24.980 sense.
00:06:25.540 So I put myself in their shoes.
00:06:28.240 I critique what they're doing as if it were my company.
00:06:32.280 And then I try to learn the lessons from them and put them into my tool belt.
00:06:37.020 It's free lessons.
00:06:37.840 Absolutely.
00:06:38.340 And so what I do now is when I see someone do something really smart or really good or
00:06:44.920 really productive, I just take note of that.
00:06:48.200 And I'm like, okay, that's fucking cool.
00:06:49.480 That's a good idea.
00:06:51.240 And even if it is my competition, it's great.
00:06:56.120 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:56.840 And I just learn from their shit too.
00:06:58.680 And when you could separate your emotion from looking at someone and hating them and switch
00:07:03.580 it over to learning from them and being happy for them, knowing that their little win just
00:07:08.420 showed you how to win a little bit better, you're in a much better place, right?
00:07:12.320 And so if you're one of these people who's super high strung like I am and super competitive
00:07:17.060 like I am, I'm to the point where I don't really compete in things unless I have no,
00:07:24.920 and this is going to sound terrible, but it's just the truth.
00:07:28.280 Like I hate losing so bad that I just choose not to compete in certain things because I
00:07:35.100 don't want to make a scene when I lose.
00:07:39.300 Like that's how bad of a loser I am.
00:07:41.060 And so what I do is instead of getting a, and that's, that's why I don't lose very much.
00:07:47.200 Um, but what I try to do is take that emotion that all high strung, high competitive individuals
00:07:55.020 have that naturally when you're undisciplined comes out as like hate and frustration and
00:08:00.520 anger, jealousy.
00:08:02.600 And when I start to feel those emotions, I immediately transition them into productive
00:08:08.320 action on my goals.
00:08:09.960 Right?
00:08:10.500 So like if I observe something and I start to feel a little the wrong way about it,
00:08:15.880 bitter, whatever.
00:08:16.660 Yeah.
00:08:16.840 Right.
00:08:17.120 That's, that's a sign for me to get up and attack one of the things on my list to do
00:08:23.280 and do it very well, because the best way to, to be the only way to beat people who are
00:08:29.000 competing with you is to be better and that's it.
00:08:31.560 And so if you could learn to adjust the feelings of negativity that naturally come with being
00:08:38.100 competitive into productive action, you have now gained a power that they will never have.
00:08:43.760 Right.
00:08:44.240 Cause most people will stew, most people will watch, most people will be distracted and
00:08:50.120 most people will lose because they spend too much time in that emotional state focused on
00:08:55.380 their quote unquote enemy, as opposed to spending those same energy units, uh, executing their
00:09:01.340 plan or, or, or improving their skillset.
00:09:03.640 100%.
00:09:04.080 Yeah.
00:09:04.340 I love it.
00:09:05.160 Now, now does, does that just a little bonus add on here?
00:09:08.200 Does that, does that mean like, is there a time and place to fucking drop some nukes on
00:09:12.620 people?
00:09:12.900 Like, yeah, when people, well, yeah, I mean, dude, look, you, you have to understand
00:09:18.000 that.
00:09:21.040 I feel like people will hear that answer.
00:09:22.460 I'm like, okay, all right, cool.
00:09:23.360 Andy.
00:09:23.580 Well, yeah.
00:09:23.920 Cause they do look, there's a difference between taking the high road on shit that doesn't
00:09:27.680 matter and being a pussy. 1.00
00:09:29.220 Okay.
00:09:29.620 And that's two different things.
00:09:31.120 Like you will not disrespect me, bro.
00:09:33.840 Um, and if you do, I'll make it really fucking hard on you.
00:09:37.200 Yeah.
00:09:37.440 Ask anybody who's tried and I'll never say a word to you.
00:09:41.060 You'll just end up having a much harder time.
00:09:43.940 Okay.
00:09:44.340 And I can, I can name a whole list of people who have fucked with me who don't even know
00:09:50.380 that the reason that their shit is way much harder is because I'm fucking with them back
00:09:54.400 without saying a fucking word.
00:09:55.880 Oh man.
00:09:56.440 I love it.
00:09:56.980 Yeah.
00:09:57.340 So, and dude, you know who some of these guys are, right?
00:10:00.680 They fuck with me.
00:10:01.860 They blatantly fuck with me.
00:10:03.700 And then all of a sudden their shit starts to go wrong.
00:10:08.280 Yeah.
00:10:08.800 Okay.
00:10:09.120 And so my advice there would be to stay in your fucking lane. 0.91
00:10:12.840 Don't fuck with, don't fuck with people who have resources to, to, that are, that have
00:10:17.340 relationships and resources and power and money in your same industry to make things extremely
00:10:24.120 hard for you.
00:10:25.120 You know, like most of the manufacturers that I know are really good friends of mine.
00:10:31.000 And if I make a phone call, you know, you go on my podcast and say some fucking fake review
00:10:36.800 shit about me and I figure out that it's you. 0.82
00:10:39.180 And then all of a sudden you lose your manufacturing capabilities.
00:10:43.100 That's not an accident.
00:10:44.240 Right.
00:10:45.040 And people don't realize that.
00:10:46.200 No, supply chain issues.
00:10:47.120 Yeah, that's right.
00:10:48.140 But here's, but my point is, is that that happens along, that happens along every industry.
00:10:54.120 When you fuck with people who are way up on the ladder with you, they're not going to
00:10:57.740 get into some verbal argument with you on Instagram.
00:11:00.280 Right.
00:11:00.440 They're just going to go straight into the shit that really hurts bad.
00:11:03.020 Right.
00:11:03.460 Right.
00:11:04.240 So, and I try not to do those things.
00:11:06.000 I stay in my lane, but when people get in my lane, they get run the fuck over.
00:11:09.760 Yeah.
00:11:10.200 And that, so there, so there's a time and place.
00:11:12.420 Yeah.
00:11:12.900 Um, and there's a way to do things.
00:11:14.480 Right.
00:11:15.760 So, uh, but like getting on the internet and arguing back and forth with people or making passive aggressive
00:11:22.360 videos or posts, that's weak ass pussy shit. 1.00
00:11:25.220 It's messy.
00:11:25.620 Yeah.
00:11:25.760 Right.
00:11:26.120 Yeah.
00:11:26.340 It's not even messy.
00:11:27.340 It makes everybody look stupid.
00:11:28.860 You know, like if you're going to fuck with me, expect it to be fucked with back.
00:11:32.920 Yeah.
00:11:33.140 And that's just how the fuck it works.
00:11:35.000 And that's, that's how it works with anybody.
00:11:36.900 Who's dude, every single high level operator.
00:11:40.500 I know fucking operates that way.
00:11:43.480 Sometimes you have to make strategic decisions to make things hard on people who are trying to
00:11:47.180 make things hard on you.
00:11:48.300 Yeah.
00:11:48.960 And that, that's just a part of business.
00:11:51.600 Yeah.
00:11:51.960 And people want to say, Oh, I'll just take the high road.
00:11:54.040 Oh, you know, I don't like that.
00:11:55.800 That's that's well, then don't be in fucking business.
00:11:58.520 Cause that's the kind of shit that happens in business.
00:12:00.560 Yeah.
00:12:01.100 And you just have to learn that it's part of the game.
00:12:02.920 And so if you're a young entrepreneur, no matter what industry you're in, no matter what,
00:12:07.360 uh, segment you're in, don't fuck with the people that are out there setting the
00:12:11.760 example that you want to be like, because usually what happens is, and this is a hundred
00:12:16.440 percent of the time, this is what happens.
00:12:18.860 The young bucks come in the game. 0.70
00:12:21.600 They, they admire these people who've been in the game for a minute and they're like,
00:12:25.320 fuck dude, I want to be the next, that right.
00:12:27.300 I want to be the next Andy.
00:12:28.700 I want to be the next first form.
00:12:29.960 I want to be the next fucking this or that.
00:12:31.980 Right.
00:12:32.680 And instead of like honoring that and like working to represent that, they automatically
00:12:38.380 go into like, let's tear it down.
00:12:41.080 Let's tear that guy down. 0.64
00:12:42.260 And bro, when you start tearing people down that have been in the game and have resources
00:12:45.900 in any industry, they have, you got to understand every industry is very small.
00:12:50.780 There's a Rolodex of people.
00:12:52.140 That's probably 10 people long that the people that tap all fucking half and they make a call. 0.99
00:12:57.380 We talked about this when I was on the show, when I was on the show, uh, at my level, the
00:13:01.460 episode over a year ago, he was on the show.
00:13:03.580 We talked about this when you're at, when you get, when you get in that game, all those
00:13:07.300 20 year guys, those people been in the game for 20 years, they all know each other.
00:13:10.920 They all work together.
00:13:11.980 And so when you're a young fucking punk and you come in and you start fucking stirring
00:13:16.180 up shit, thinking you're a, you got a big dick because you made a million bucks, you 0.99
00:13:21.080 won't make a million bucks next year.
00:13:22.780 You see what I'm saying?
00:13:24.360 And that's, that's how every industry works.
00:13:27.620 Yeah.
00:13:28.100 People call up and they say, Hey, don't work with this guy.
00:13:31.280 This guy's a fucking dick. 0.80
00:13:32.660 Oh, what do you do?
00:13:33.440 And then you show them.
00:13:34.900 And then they're like, fuck, I'm not working with that guy.
00:13:36.900 And that's how it works.
00:13:37.680 And it's done.
00:13:38.320 Yeah.
00:13:38.640 And that, and so like, dude, if you're a young entrepreneur and you're new in somebody's
00:13:42.460 industry, whether it be fucking cars, whether it be, um, you're writing books, no matter, 0.59
00:13:48.180 it doesn't matter what it is.
00:13:49.280 And you see someone that, uh, because there's, there's quite a physical aspect to that too.
00:13:54.460 When you start to tear down other people that you look up to, you're sending the universe
00:13:57.940 the wrong message, right?
00:13:59.120 You're again, sending the universe.
00:14:00.900 I don't want that, what that person has.
00:14:03.080 So I'm going to try to fuck it up, which only makes things harder for you from a, from 1.00
00:14:07.380 a quantum physical standpoint and a universe standpoint on top of that.
00:14:11.100 All right.
00:14:12.220 That's without them lifting their fucking finger to make a phone call and say, Hey, um, other
00:14:17.520 20 year guys who all control parts of the industry don't work with those guys.
00:14:22.440 Right.
00:14:23.040 Yeah.
00:14:23.580 Yeah.
00:14:24.520 That's awesome.
00:14:25.200 That's how it works.
00:14:26.460 I mean, like, dude, you guys listening to this, you, you don't have the perspective to
00:14:31.440 know that that's how it works because you're not in that room.
00:14:34.840 You're not out there yet.
00:14:35.580 You're not, you don't understand that.
00:14:36.900 And that's at every fucking industry.
00:14:38.540 It's construction.
00:14:39.580 It's fucking re it's real estate.
00:14:42.280 It's fucking everything.
00:14:43.920 It's every fucking industry.
00:14:45.260 There is a, there is people who are in that 20 year plus club.
00:14:48.700 They all know each other.
00:14:49.860 They all fucking, they might, they might not like each other, but they all work together
00:14:53.900 and they make calls and they say, Hey, and blah, blah, blah.
00:14:57.000 And that's, that's the quickest way to fucking get excommunicated from the network.
00:15:02.300 Yeah.
00:15:02.920 You know?
00:15:03.300 And, and dude, and then, and then, and then now you've got to sell NFTs and shit or whatever.
00:15:09.420 I mean, I'm just giving you the reality of business.
00:15:11.580 The, the, the, the best possible thing you can do is to be inspired by people who set the
00:15:16.720 pace for you work to be as good or better than them and do it with respect and don't fuck 0.97
00:15:24.100 with them and they won't fuck with you and earn it the right way. 0.93
00:15:27.100 Right.
00:15:28.240 Take the negative jealousy energy that you, that you feel because, and which is ridiculous
00:15:32.920 too, right?
00:15:33.520 Because the guys in the 20 year room, they fucking earned that place.
00:15:37.560 Right.
00:15:37.940 You're in the two or three or five of your room.
00:15:40.740 You didn't earn it yet.
00:15:41.960 So why the fuck are you jealous of these guys?
00:15:44.660 You see what I'm saying?
00:15:45.640 Right.
00:15:45.940 Right.
00:15:46.280 But nonetheless, those feelings of jealousy, those feelings of inadequacy, those feelings of insecurity,
00:15:51.660 the frustration, the, the, the, the, the anger, I want to nuke this motherfucker, all killer 0.83
00:15:57.720 instinct attitude.
00:15:58.780 That's natural with competitive people.
00:16:00.760 What you have to do is you have to, you have to mold that back in.
00:16:04.780 And instead of going out and trying to attack them, you pour into your skillset, read another
00:16:10.040 book, uh, make it five more calls, uh, do something that'll move you forward with that
00:16:16.180 energy at that point in time in a productive way for you.
00:16:20.660 And, uh, and, and, and by the way, that sends the right message to the universe, right?
00:16:24.720 It says, well, um, I want to be like that guy.
00:16:28.040 So I'm going to work to, to, to get that good.
00:16:30.520 And then the universe brings you those results.
00:16:33.140 I fucking love it.
00:16:34.020 So it's dude, business is hard.
00:16:37.380 It's competitive as fuck.
00:16:38.560 And you know, that, that's my best advice on the topic, man.
00:16:41.960 I spent a long time hating a lot of my competitors and, uh, and being that young guy who fucking
00:16:46.800 stirred the pot and, you know, and honestly, dude, if I didn't, if I hadn't done that, I
00:16:51.040 would have got where I was probably 10 years fucking faster. 0.84
00:16:54.460 So you can listen to it or you don't listen to it.
00:16:57.560 I don't care.
00:16:58.780 But when you're, when you're, uh, when you're young and you're new and you're, you're alone
00:17:04.700 and you have minimal relationships and, and then you have people who have much more horsepower,
00:17:09.940 it's probably a good idea not to fucking get on those people's. 0.75
00:17:11.960 Path or even, yeah, you probably don't even want to be in their fucking radar.
00:17:16.620 You know what I'm saying?
00:17:17.460 Yeah.
00:17:18.300 Yeah.
00:17:18.660 Fuck around to find out.
00:17:19.700 Well, it happens to everybody.
00:17:22.880 I think it's a big thing that holds a lot of people back that they never realize.
00:17:26.140 A lot of these people don't realize that, you know, the people at the top, they might
00:17:30.120 not, you might not think they know who the fuck you are, but they fucking know.
00:17:34.140 That's why they got where they are.
00:17:35.740 Yeah.
00:17:36.440 It's like that old saying, like the teacher would know your name for two, one or two reasons.
00:17:39.560 You know what I'm saying?
00:17:40.040 You did something good or you did something bad.
00:17:42.100 They're going to find out.
00:17:42.920 Yeah.
00:17:43.300 So it's a, it's a situation that, you know, people should really think about how they're
00:17:47.140 behaving in all industries because those guys that set that pace, they have empathy
00:17:52.840 for where you're at.
00:17:53.880 They look and say, okay, they say, fuck dude.
00:17:56.560 All right.
00:17:57.560 I know where that dude is.
00:17:58.560 It's really fucking hard for him right now.
00:18:00.220 You know, and, and those people can end up being your biggest fucking, uh, your, your
00:18:04.620 biggest supporters and helpers to bring you along.
00:18:08.060 And what you find is those people that are in that 20 year plus room, they're the most
00:18:12.580 helpful group because they do have empathy for the journey that it takes to get there.
00:18:16.620 But when you fuck with them, they'll step on your fucking dicks. 0.97
00:18:19.060 You know what I'm saying?
00:18:20.000 Yeah.
00:18:20.520 So I love it.
00:18:22.860 I love it.
00:18:23.580 Andy, question number two for you.
00:18:25.660 Um, a lot of shit going on right now in the world, right?
00:18:29.080 Um, we've talked about the younger crowd kind of being quiet and shutting up older crowd
00:18:33.300 kind of, you know, right.
00:18:34.360 You've done your thing.
00:18:35.640 What can the older generation provide and contribute to the country right now with all the shit 1.00
00:18:40.580 going on in the world?
00:18:41.480 Like where, what's their role?
00:18:43.020 Where do you see their role being right now?
00:18:44.600 Well, I think they should recognize and verbalize to the people in their networks, however they
00:18:52.920 can, that what's going on is not correct.
00:18:56.460 I mean, it's very simple.
00:18:58.180 Um, there's no difference between what the older people should be doing or what the younger
00:19:02.560 people should be doing.
00:19:03.580 I don't understand the question.
00:19:05.420 Well, I mean, cause we've said multiple times, uh, guys, you know, we said multiple times
00:19:09.220 that, you know, the younger crowd needs to just go in the corner, shut the fuck up and 0.93
00:19:12.860 go to the crowd, let's put their time in, needs to go in their corner and go shut the
00:19:15.460 fuck up.
00:19:16.320 And so I think this guy's just asking, like, I mean, what, what more can we do?
00:19:20.060 You know what I'm saying?
00:19:20.420 Being older, a lot of the younger people don't want to listen to them.
00:19:23.260 And we feel like right now there's like the, the age range, I would say from 30 to 50 maybe
00:19:28.120 can really makes the most impact, right?
00:19:30.520 Those are the business owners.
00:19:31.680 Those are the guys that run the shit.
00:19:32.660 So what can the older generation provide?
00:19:34.180 What's old?
00:19:35.160 60 plus.
00:19:35.940 I mean, he didn't really put his age down, but I'm just like 60 plus.
00:19:37.480 Well, I don't know.
00:19:38.080 I mean, it's the same as what everybody else can do.
00:19:40.380 Don't comply with the bullshit.
00:19:41.660 Shit, stand up for yourself, have the difficult conversations.
00:19:46.600 You, if you're that old, then you know, for you, you should have the best perspective of
00:19:51.080 what has actually happened over the last 30 years, because you've been an adult for at
00:19:55.080 least 30 years.
00:19:55.880 Right.
00:19:56.380 Right.
00:19:57.020 Like a lot of these younger kids who are 20 years old, they don't have the perspective
00:20:01.140 to understand what has even been diluted in this country over the last 20 years.
00:20:06.000 Because when they were fucking 20 years ago, they were in a fucking ball sack somewhere.
00:20:11.660 Right.
00:20:12.320 So, uh, these people have a perspective and they should share that perspective.
00:20:18.540 Like, dude, you got to remember this, these 20 year olds right now, they have no fucking
00:20:22.820 idea what it was like before all this shit started getting corrupt.
00:20:26.380 They don't remember what it was like when the media actually told the news or when, um, you
00:20:33.560 know, we didn't have constant fucking conflict and constant crisis and constant fear. 0.91
00:20:42.040 They don't really understand that.
00:20:44.060 Right.
00:20:44.580 Cause it's been that way for so long.
00:20:46.240 They don't understand really what traditional American values look like.
00:20:52.180 Yeah.
00:20:52.800 So be that, you know what I mean?
00:20:55.280 Like be that example.
00:20:56.680 The whole reason that we are where we are is because people weren't setting the example.
00:21:00.760 A lot of people talk about a lot of shit.
00:21:03.780 A lot of people will complain about what's going on in the country, but how many people
00:21:08.940 are the living example of how it should be?
00:21:12.600 Yeah.
00:21:13.220 I mean, out of every 10 people complain, how many of them have you seen?
00:21:16.100 How many of them would you look at and say, okay, that dude's living or that, that woman's 0.83
00:21:20.860 living an example of what it should look like?
00:21:23.900 Yeah.
00:21:24.260 I mean, maybe, maybe two or three.
00:21:25.660 Yeah.
00:21:25.960 I mean, it's low 10, 20%.
00:21:27.700 Yeah.
00:21:28.100 Right.
00:21:28.420 The rest are just complaining.
00:21:30.120 So, so if you're one of these people that recognizes it's wrong and you're just one of
00:21:33.900 these people complaining, start being a part of the solution, you know, start taking care
00:21:39.200 of yourself, start living to a higher standard, start talking to people about why you do some
00:21:43.700 of the things that you do.
00:21:44.940 You know what I mean?
00:21:45.720 Like, dude, this whole, this whole situation that's, that's happened in this country is the
00:21:51.760 result of individuals, individuals, not collectively individuals, buying into the idea of mediocrity
00:21:59.400 and buying into the idea that they don't matter and buying into the idea that it's everybody
00:22:04.720 else's problem to solve or buying into the idea that they're insignificant and, you know,
00:22:11.160 they're old and nobody's going to listen to them.
00:22:13.080 And in reality, dude, people listen to motherfuckers that, that, that walk the talk that they talk 1.00
00:22:19.320 no matter what the age is.
00:22:21.960 So I would take an inventory of what you believe America should look like and what it should
00:22:27.060 be like and how it should appear to be and what it should sound like.
00:22:30.480 And I would fucking live that just like everybody else.
00:22:33.940 This has nothing to do with age.
00:22:38.300 Andy, our third and final question for you, uh, with a little backstory, Andy question is,
00:22:44.780 can you walk us through the process of pivoting?
00:22:48.580 How exactly do I go about bouncing back from a negative situation?
00:22:52.420 I got divorced.
00:22:53.500 The company I work for most likely be laying us off all within a few months of each other.
00:22:58.300 How do you stop the shit from piling up?
00:23:01.420 Well, first of all, I did a podcast on this called stop the slide.
00:23:04.300 It's what's the episode on that while we're looking.
00:23:07.060 Uh, secondly, um, there's a whole bunch more that you control than what you think.
00:23:14.600 And if I were in your situation, um, and I had just got divorced and I was in danger
00:23:20.040 of losing my job, I would look myself in the mirror and ask myself what the fuck I did
00:23:23.980 to create all this.
00:23:25.020 That would be the first fucking step that I would do.
00:23:27.220 What episode?
00:23:27.940 71.
00:23:28.300 Episode number 71, a real AF.
00:23:30.900 Okay.
00:23:31.120 Go, go listen to that episode.
00:23:32.620 Stop the slide. 0.95
00:23:33.640 All right.
00:23:34.320 Um, but at the end of the day, bro, um, we create the own, the realities that we live in.
00:23:41.480 And like the person in this situation, they might hear me say that and be like, how could
00:23:46.480 I control my job laying me off?
00:23:48.160 Well, uh, you know, let's trace this back.
00:23:50.960 Let's go back in time and let's trace it back to how you even got that job in the first
00:23:55.940 place.
00:23:56.300 And is it your dream job or is it just a job that you have?
00:23:59.660 Or what did you do, um, 20 years ago that got you in a position that you are now?
00:24:05.740 And if you track back far enough, you'll see where the fuck you went wrong.
00:24:10.260 But people don't like to do that because it's painful and it's frustrating, but it's also
00:24:14.460 necessary because when you do that and you can recognize, first of all, that it's my fault.
00:24:19.580 I fucking did this.
00:24:20.800 Okay.
00:24:21.060 I'm the one that chose to be in this relationship.
00:24:23.360 I'm the one that chose this career path.
00:24:25.380 I'm the one that contributed to this relationship, not working out.
00:24:29.100 I'm the one that made it.
00:24:30.680 So I was someone who was on the chopping block when decisions were made, right?
00:24:36.040 Those are all things that you did and you have to identify what you did and you have
00:24:41.700 to do some work to correct those fucking behaviors. 0.94
00:24:43.680 And that's the, that's really it.
00:24:45.480 You know, we can sit here and say, oh, it's the company's fault or it's the economy's fault
00:24:49.800 or it's my, my mean ex-wife's fault or it's Putin's fault or it's fucking Biden's fault. 0.53
00:24:55.900 Supply chain issue.
00:24:56.720 It's Trump's fault.
00:24:57.700 Right.
00:24:57.920 It's fucking this fault.
00:24:58.900 It's that fault.
00:24:59.460 It's this fault.
00:24:59.940 Motherfucker, it's your fault.
00:25:01.440 That's it.
00:25:02.620 Okay.
00:25:03.060 So what decisions did you make to create this scenario?
00:25:06.180 What do you need to adjust moving forward?
00:25:08.080 I'll make those adjustments and move the fuck forward.
00:25:10.160 And that's it.
00:25:10.960 It's really simple.
00:25:12.280 That's how you pivot.
00:25:13.520 Okay.
00:25:13.920 Take all that anger, take all that frustration, take all that jealousy, take all those, uh,
00:25:19.300 you know, thoughts you're going to have about whatever it is your ex-wife is doing that 0.99
00:25:22.580 makes you jealous and mad and maybe get your fucking fat ass in shape. 0.99
00:25:26.700 You know what I'm saying?
00:25:27.500 Maybe become, maybe become a better option for her than what it was, uh, than other options
00:25:33.200 she might have, because I'm probably sure you have the potential to do so.
00:25:37.220 You just haven't done it because you've been complacent.
00:25:39.540 You've been lazy.
00:25:40.140 You've allowed yourself to tell yourself that everything's good enough.
00:25:43.320 And clearly the world is telling you something different, sir.
00:25:47.260 The world's telling you that you were not undeniable at your job.
00:25:50.480 The world's telling you that your wife probably has better options than you. 0.89
00:25:54.900 Those are fucking harsh realities.
00:25:56.940 And the reason people end up in those scenarios is because they're not willing to address those
00:26:00.800 harsh realities before they become harsh realities.
00:26:04.320 And that comes down to a concept I call selective urgency.
00:26:08.560 Okay.
00:26:09.940 People never worry about shit until it's already to the point where it's totally fucked.
00:26:15.320 Right.
00:26:16.540 We, we, we observed this over and over again.
00:26:19.000 People coast, they coast, they coast, they coast.
00:26:21.740 Oh, I get laid off my job.
00:26:23.340 My wife's leaving me. 1.00
00:26:24.340 The fucking house on fire.
00:26:25.540 My life's a wreck.
00:26:26.660 Holy shit.
00:26:27.760 Somebody help.
00:26:29.080 Well, the reason you got to that point is because you weren't urgent about anything
00:26:32.660 up until that point.
00:26:33.940 You live with zero urgency.
00:26:35.660 You live without any kind of passion or fire or desire to be undeniable in every motherfucking
00:26:41.440 area of your life.
00:26:42.860 That's why you are where the fuck you are.
00:26:45.280 So if you want to avoid that, you have to live every day with urgency.
00:26:48.560 You have to live every day with fucking aggressive, uh, you know, an aggressive attitude towards
00:26:53.240 accomplishing and improving your life.
00:26:55.540 You don't get to fucking win for being a fucking mediocre motherfucker.
00:26:58.680 There's lots of those people.
00:27:00.000 Yeah.
00:27:00.760 All right.
00:27:01.340 And I, and you know, whoever asks this, I'm sure they're a really nice person, but it
00:27:05.280 don't come down to being nice.
00:27:07.040 It comes down to fucking pursuing your own true potential, taking ownership for the shit
00:27:11.760 that you've done and the shit you created in a life that you have created. 0.92
00:27:15.880 Not oppression has created, not fucking your race has created, not Biden has created, not
00:27:24.080 your fucking teacher from high school or your old girlfriend that called you a loser or 0.95
00:27:28.460 all your friends that don't believe in you.
00:27:30.180 Dude, we, we live in this victimhood fucking bullshit life.
00:27:34.100 Yeah.
00:27:34.620 You know?
00:27:35.000 And it's the reason it's pushed that way is because if we don't have to take accountability
00:27:39.440 and everything is everybody's fault, that means there's nothing we can do about it.
00:27:42.760 So we don't have to do anything.
00:27:44.020 Right.
00:27:44.600 We get to continue to coast and be lazy and fucking eat like shit, look like shit.
00:27:49.200 You know, most of the dudes my age, they look fucking 15 years older than me.
00:27:53.220 You know why?
00:27:54.840 Because they don't live like I live.
00:27:56.480 And if they live like I live, they would fucking be like me, but they're not.
00:27:59.880 And they choose to do other things.
00:28:02.760 It's really simple, bro.
00:28:04.480 It's really simple.
00:28:05.420 So if you want to pivot, take all that fucking shit you're unsatisfied with, harness all 0.69
00:28:09.860 that emotional energy and start moving in the right direction.
00:28:13.340 Get off the fucking couch and go for a walk.
00:28:16.380 Put some good shit in your brain.
00:28:18.660 Start drinking fucking water.
00:28:20.180 Stop drinking beer with your loser fucking friends that you've had for the last fucking
00:28:23.520 however many years.
00:28:24.320 They ain't doing fucking shit.
00:28:26.680 Fuck, dude.
00:28:28.560 How about that?
00:28:29.980 That's pretty easy shit.
00:28:31.460 I love it.
00:28:32.600 It's very simple.
00:28:33.960 It's very simple.
00:28:35.000 People just don't want to do it.
00:28:37.660 It's uncomfortable, man.
00:28:38.960 It's very uncomfortable, but it's reality.
00:28:41.440 It's very, very uncomfortable, but it's always reality.
00:28:45.340 You built and create all the good shit and all the fucking bullshit in your life.
00:28:52.060 And so when you got more bullshit than good shit, guess whose fucking fault that is?
00:28:57.580 It ain't mine.
00:28:59.260 You see what I'm saying?
00:29:00.420 Right, right.
00:29:01.820 So I love it.
00:29:03.280 Look in the mirror, dude.
00:29:04.220 What is it?
00:29:05.500 Break yourself down from an honest standpoint.
00:29:08.040 Don't be overly harsh.
00:29:09.500 You're not a piece of shit.
00:29:10.660 Right.
00:29:11.400 You have tons of potential, bro.
00:29:13.280 Whoever this guy is.
00:29:14.440 You have fucking millions of miles of potential that you've never fucking tapped.
00:29:17.620 You should be excited about that.
00:29:18.960 You know what I mean?
00:29:20.840 Think about that, bro.
00:29:21.660 You got a fresh start.
00:29:22.680 You got a fresh start now to do fucking anything you want, to live your life a totally different
00:29:26.460 way, to fucking find a totally different partner, to find a totally different career, 0.69
00:29:30.500 and to actually do the work to become successful in that, in all those areas.
00:29:35.560 The shit just doesn't just happen, bro.
00:29:37.640 Yeah.
00:29:38.180 Yeah.
00:29:39.280 The shit just doesn't.
00:29:40.440 It doesn't just happen.
00:29:42.020 That's a loser mentality.
00:29:43.560 That's what they want you to think.
00:29:44.900 Because if you think the shit just happens, and people like me are just lucky people, then
00:29:50.020 you don't try.
00:29:51.800 And if you don't try, then you don't have to do any work.
00:29:54.620 Yeah.
00:29:55.000 And it'll never happen.
00:29:55.780 And then it's always someone else's fault.
00:29:58.600 So it gets people off the hook, right?
00:30:01.380 They let themselves off the hook by not admitting that it's them who has caused all of these things
00:30:06.900 that are happening.
00:30:08.520 I fucking love it.
00:30:10.360 Guys, Andy, that's three.
00:30:12.820 Go pay the fee.
00:30:13.660 Yep.
00:30:14.320 Appreciate you guys.
00:30:15.380 Love you guys.
00:30:15.840 Talk to you next time.
00:30:17.280 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:30:19.300 Now my jewelry box froze.
00:30:21.020 Fuck a pole.
00:30:21.800 Fuck a stove. 0.96
00:30:22.660 Counted millions in the cold.
00:30:24.320 Bad bitch. 1.00
00:30:25.020 Booted swole.
00:30:26.000 Got her on bankroll.
00:30:27.640 Can't fold.
00:30:28.520 Doesn't know.
00:30:29.320 Headshot.
00:30:30.160 Case closed.