REAL AF with Andy Frisella - March 18, 2022


256. Q&AF： Transparency With Employees, Becoming A Man & Humility With Ambition


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In this episode of Q&A, I answer a question about how many urethras there are in the human body. Also, what level of transparency should a business owner have in order to make sure they are transparent with their employees?

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to 0.99
00:00:21.020 the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality. 0.93
00:00:25.520 Guys, today, out of our many episodes that we offer, our vast plethora of knowledge and 0.98
00:00:32.280 humor, we do have Q and AF.
00:00:37.260 This is where you bring the Qs and I bring the AFs.
00:00:41.360 Isn't that right?
00:00:42.380 Yeah, it kind of scared me a little bit.
00:00:43.800 Did it?
00:00:44.280 Yeah.
00:00:45.200 And I like the word choice of plethora.
00:00:47.080 I haven't heard that in a minute.
00:00:48.380 That means many.
00:00:49.200 Sounds like urethra.
00:00:50.460 Yeah.
00:00:51.260 But the urethra is only one.
00:00:53.240 Yeah.
00:00:54.220 Maybe.
00:00:54.620 Maybe.
00:00:56.520 I think so.
00:00:57.300 Hey guys.
00:00:58.940 Is there two?
00:01:00.080 There's two urethras?
00:01:02.280 Is there really?
00:01:04.460 Yeah.
00:01:04.980 Comes from two sides.
00:01:06.000 See? 0.96
00:01:06.780 Bro, urethra is a hole in your wiener. 1.00
00:01:08.940 There's a plethora of urethras. 0.99
00:01:09.640 I could be wrong.
00:01:10.540 You are wrong. 1.00
00:01:13.020 I'm the judge of this motherfucking show. 1.00
00:01:15.300 You're fucking wrong. 1.00
00:01:17.100 All right. 0.98
00:01:17.580 Now let's get to the real questions.
00:01:19.160 Yeah.
00:01:19.940 How many urethras are there?
00:01:21.900 Got some good ones for you, brother.
00:01:23.300 Yeah.
00:01:23.540 Hey, if this is your first time listening, we do a couple different things here.
00:01:28.060 We have Q&AF, which is mainly educational, entrepreneur, self-development, how to kick 0.99
00:01:32.700 ass and kick everybody else's asses, too. 0.99
00:01:35.460 That's what Q&AF is about. 1.00
00:01:37.200 Then we have CTI, which is the news.
00:01:40.040 And we make fun of it.
00:01:41.960 Then we have Real Talk, which is, I haven't done one in a while.
00:01:46.060 Yeah.
00:01:46.700 For a minute. 1.00
00:01:47.440 Maybe I'll crack a couple off for these fools. 1.00
00:01:49.860 Oh, man. 1.00
00:01:50.500 Yeah.
00:01:50.780 All right.
00:01:51.740 Get what you ordered.
00:01:52.480 Yeah, that's right.
00:01:53.000 You got to get what you ordered. 0.99
00:01:54.160 That's fucking fact. 0.99
00:01:55.300 But it ain't going to be made your way. 0.99
00:01:57.140 Right. 0.99
00:01:57.400 No shit. 0.99
00:01:57.840 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:01:58.320 And then we have the full-length podcast, which we have my friends and people I admire,
00:02:03.840 people who I think deserve a platform.
00:02:06.160 Good humans.
00:02:06.760 Yeah.
00:02:06.980 To come on and we talk and we talk about all kinds of stuff.
00:02:09.880 You never know what we might talk about on those.
00:02:12.200 So with that being said, this is Q&AF.
00:02:15.160 And there is a fee for this wonderful knowledge that I'm about to bestow upon you.
00:02:19.140 And the fee is very simple. 0.99
00:02:21.740 Tell a motherfucker about the show. 0.99
00:02:24.600 Yeah. 1.00
00:02:25.280 That's pretty much it.
00:02:25.620 Now, how can people have me answer their cues?
00:02:29.620 Easily.
00:02:30.460 It's very, very easy, guys.
00:02:31.720 Email your questions in to askandyandandieforsettler.com.
00:02:35.060 That sounds pretty easy.
00:02:36.800 No, it's very, very simple.
00:02:37.740 Yeah. 1.00
00:02:38.600 Now, ask me whatever you want as long as it's not stupid. 0.99
00:02:42.220 Yeah. 0.99
00:02:42.420 And I'll answer it.
00:02:43.480 That's the catch.
00:02:44.700 Yeah, that is the catch.
00:02:46.300 You have to be smart.
00:02:47.060 You never answer my question. 1.00
00:02:47.820 Yeah, that's because your question sucked. 0.99
00:02:50.420 All right. 0.97
00:02:51.340 Now, if you want more entrepreneur content, many of you know, many of you don't know that
00:02:56.100 I have a company, a group called the Arte Syndicate.
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00:03:08.020 fake entrepreneurs flexing with someone else's shit on the internet. 0.99
00:03:11.540 We're talking about real people doing real shit in real life. 0.99
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00:03:21.000 We bring every single person in, the founders of the companies that you know and use every
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00:03:47.580 on Instagram.
00:03:49.180 Now, enough promoting.
00:03:52.240 Let's start the show.
00:03:53.140 Andy, question number one, okay?
00:03:57.260 When you're starting out as a young business owner, okay, young entrepreneur, you have a
00:04:02.860 couple of employees, five employees, let's say, okay?
00:04:05.360 What level of transparency should a small business owner have with their employees about
00:04:11.100 stuff going wrong or the numbers, et cetera, right?
00:04:14.100 What information do you shield from them to make sure that they aren't distracted or confused
00:04:19.080 or worried?
00:04:19.600 Obviously, that depends on the level of company, right?
00:04:26.040 First of all, you need to be as transparent as possible at every single phase of your company
00:04:30.900 because when there is no transparency or there's lack of transparency, that creates questions
00:04:38.600 and it can lead to mistrust just by simply not understanding what's actually going on.
00:04:44.880 So when people are confused, when people don't know what's going on, when you're not
00:04:49.580 letting them know what's going on, their natural reaction is to assume the worst.
00:04:54.040 That's where the rumors start.
00:04:55.100 Yeah, that's right.
00:04:55.760 And all kinds of negativity and cancer and all these things start.
00:04:58.760 A lot of the battles that you guys face with your employees start from lack of transparency.
00:05:04.940 Now, there was a good part of that question.
00:05:07.000 So like in the beginning, being transparent is extremely important because everybody knows 0.99
00:05:12.640 you don't got shit. 0.98
00:05:13.620 So you got nothing to hide, right? 0.99
00:05:15.400 And there's no reason to keep anything from anybody because we're trying to build this
00:05:22.100 together, right?
00:05:23.680 And a lot of owners hesitate to be transparent because they think that if the employees see
00:05:31.520 that they're making X or not making X, they won't believe in the company, right? 1.00
00:05:36.080 Like if you're making too much money, you're a greedy fuck. 1.00
00:05:38.880 If you're not making enough money, holy shit, I'm working for a failing company. 1.00
00:05:41.840 Fucking loser. 1.00
00:05:42.220 So there's a line to walk there that people think they need to walk. 1.00
00:05:47.100 But the truth is, if you're honest with people and say, hey, we ain't shit and we got to do 0.88
00:05:51.540 a whole bunch of work, you'll be surprised how many people want to get in the trenches 0.94
00:05:55.360 and work with you on that.
00:05:57.440 That's the best policy because it creates a true trustworthy bond.
00:06:03.180 Now, when you get bigger, there was a valid point in that question.
00:06:07.260 When you get bigger, you don't need to unload all the information onto everybody because
00:06:12.520 you have so many people that are doing critical jobs to make the machine work that if you unload
00:06:19.280 things onto them that they don't need to handle, you're actually lessening your chances of success
00:06:25.860 for not just them, but for the whole entire company, right?
00:06:29.420 So there's definitely levels to transparency and in my inner circle, we are transparent.
00:06:36.220 We talk about sales.
00:06:37.500 We talk about this.
00:06:38.340 We talk about that.
00:06:39.200 We talk about our problems.
00:06:40.260 We talk about our wins.
00:06:41.560 We talk about our ideas, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
00:06:44.320 Now, when I leave that room, I don't go around and tell everybody everything, but if they were
00:06:48.580 to come in and ask, we would talk about it, right?
00:06:51.320 So there's levels to it, but one of the things that makes the companies that I've been a part
00:06:57.460 of and that I have founded and run and all these things great, which all of them are, 0.67
00:07:02.920 is just a fucking fact, is the fact that we have trust.
00:07:06.500 And the reason we have trust is because we tell the truth and we share the challenges. 0.98
00:07:10.880 We don't shy away from bad news.
00:07:14.780 We address bad news and we come up with a plan to overcome it together.
00:07:18.580 And all of those things create buy-in for your team, right?
00:07:21.540 Like if you solve a problem by yourself as a CEO and people never know that you solved
00:07:26.800 it, what difference does it make?
00:07:28.000 But if you had five people that all put in to solve the problem, now you just took a problem
00:07:32.940 and not only did you solve the problem, you created a bonding experience for your team
00:07:36.560 that creates trust and good momentum, good faith moving forward.
00:07:41.580 It helps galvanize that team together.
00:07:44.100 So there's nuances there on that question, but that's how I see it in general.
00:07:48.580 Yeah.
00:07:48.860 Love it.
00:07:50.260 Love it.
00:07:51.620 Question.
00:07:52.200 Question number two, Andy.
00:07:53.900 Andy, what are some steps or things that young men, specifically ages 18 to 25, okay,
00:08:00.720 should be focused on to become men?
00:08:04.460 Okay.
00:08:05.180 And when did you first feel like, like I'm a man, right?
00:08:08.420 Like, like the person, he's 22 years old.
00:08:10.580 He's living at home.
00:08:11.440 He is financially independent since he was 18.
00:08:14.080 He's working on his goals.
00:08:15.360 He's doing the work, but he feels like something's missing.
00:08:18.620 What do you got on that?
00:08:21.340 Look, man, there's no shortage of people out there trying to tell people how to be men.
00:08:26.760 Right?
00:08:27.820 Bro the beard.
00:08:28.620 Yeah.
00:08:28.920 Like, dude, and they all got beards.
00:08:30.680 Eat raw liver.
00:08:31.320 Yeah.
00:08:31.540 Right. 1.00
00:08:31.920 Like, it's all crazy shit. 1.00
00:08:33.400 Like, kill the wild buffalo with your fucking bare hands and then skin it with your teeth. 1.00
00:08:38.100 Right. 1.00
00:08:38.480 It's all fucking crazy shit. 1.00
00:08:40.580 Like, dude, to me, what I think a young man should be worried about is putting in the 1.00
00:08:49.240 time right now, understanding that they're playing the long game.
00:08:53.040 See, this is something I did very right.
00:08:55.320 I partied.
00:08:56.580 I had good time. 0.98
00:08:57.480 I fucking hung out with friends. 0.99
00:08:58.720 I fucked around, but I always made myself do my work. 1.00
00:09:03.280 I always put good stuff into my brain. 0.99
00:09:06.060 I always read.
00:09:07.600 I always talked to successful people.
00:09:09.220 I was always a student of success.
00:09:12.480 And that was a big part of being successful in business.
00:09:16.120 But I don't think that's part of being a man.
00:09:18.260 I think that's just part of getting your life together.
00:09:20.780 Right.
00:09:21.320 You're a productive human.
00:09:22.360 Yeah.
00:09:22.460 Yeah.
00:09:22.700 Yeah.
00:09:22.840 Yeah.
00:09:22.980 So, so that would be the first thing I would recommend to anybody who's 20, whether it
00:09:27.960 be a man or a woman, you know, you, you need to really understand that your 20s are super 1.00
00:09:34.320 valuable, contradictory to what like other guru type dudes say, you know, oh, fuck your 1.00
00:09:40.340 20s. 1.00
00:09:40.840 Go have fun, bro.
00:09:42.320 That's how most people do it.
00:09:44.360 Yeah.
00:09:44.680 You know what I'm saying? 0.83
00:09:45.360 And then that's why they find themselves in the shitty position in their 30s, which you
00:09:50.420 could still recover from and build great. 0.97
00:09:52.020 But I'm just saying, why not get the fuck ahead? 0.84
00:09:54.540 Right. 0.98
00:09:54.820 Right.
00:09:55.100 That's how I look at it.
00:09:56.500 So to me, when we talk about how to be a man, I think a lot of, a lot of that has to
00:10:02.740 do separate from success.
00:10:05.400 Okay. 0.99
00:10:06.100 To be a man, you need to be fucking financially self-sustaining. 0.98
00:10:09.600 You need to provide for, be able to provide for your future family. 0.98
00:10:13.060 See, when I was 20 years old, 21 years old, 22, 25, 28, I didn't have a family and I had,
00:10:19.800 you know, I had relationships, but you know, these were just like three, four year relationships.
00:10:24.540 Sure.
00:10:24.820 You know what I mean?
00:10:25.300 And they were important to me, but I didn't have a family, but I was always working for
00:10:30.520 my future family.
00:10:31.780 Does that make sense?
00:10:32.680 Yeah.
00:10:32.860 So I had it in my head that like, okay, dude, like when I, when I eventually want to have
00:10:37.540 kids, I want to go, I want to go to their practices and I want to be the guy who can
00:10:43.060 do all the things with them.
00:10:44.520 And I started working for that when I was 20.
00:10:46.380 Now, as it turns out, I ended up having kids, which means I got a whole bunch of extra money 0.98
00:10:51.180 to do some fun shit with. 0.99
00:10:52.340 Okay. 0.99
00:10:52.800 And guess what?
00:10:53.960 That's what I do.
00:10:54.980 Right. 1.00
00:10:55.780 But, um, but fuck dude, I raise a lot of other people's kids. 0.99
00:11:00.140 So it's all good for me. 0.99
00:11:01.220 You got like 400.
00:11:02.280 I ain't missing nothing.
00:11:03.360 I love what I do.
00:11:04.260 I love the people I'm around.
00:11:05.460 I love all of it.
00:11:06.100 But when it comes to being a man, you know, I think it comes down to things like, uh, developing
00:11:11.980 the ability to be disciplined, uh, having integrity, standing by what you say you're going
00:11:16.540 to do, not lying, telling the truth.
00:11:19.460 Um, you know, meaning what you say, I think those things developing those abilities and
00:11:25.260 traits in yourself, uh, are far more important to becoming a man than making a dollar.
00:11:32.200 You know what I'm saying?
00:11:33.140 And what we're missing in this world really is true, true masculine leadership. 0.99
00:11:37.520 Um, you know, someone who will look you in the eye and say, Hey, I got this fucking handle 0.99
00:11:42.120 and go fucking handle it. 1.00
00:11:43.620 Right. 0.99
00:11:44.460 Um, people that are willing to stand up for things that are wrong.
00:11:47.540 I think that's what makes a man.
00:11:49.440 Um, and to be honest, dude, I think that might be the biggest one. 0.99
00:11:52.800 That might be the biggest fucking one. 1.00
00:11:54.940 Stay willing to stand up for motherfucking shit that, you know, is wrong. 1.00
00:11:59.140 Even if you're the only one standing up for it, that's, that's a man. 1.00
00:12:02.560 Yeah.
00:12:02.840 And there's very few of those people.
00:12:04.260 So it's a massive vacuum of that right now.
00:12:06.420 Yeah.
00:12:06.560 Yeah.
00:12:06.760 Yeah.
00:12:06.940 And so, you know, being able to do that in a lot of people, you know, they don't think
00:12:13.040 that being, uh, brave, like they don't understand that.
00:12:18.980 Like when you see people out there who are standing up to, to all the stuff that's wrong
00:12:24.760 in the world, they're scared too.
00:12:27.420 Like, it's not that they're not scared.
00:12:29.300 It's that they're scared and they're choosing to do it anyway. 1.00
00:12:31.880 That's what makes a fucking man like that kind of shit. 1.00
00:12:34.620 Right. 1.00
00:12:34.900 Um, you know, and dude, like when it comes to women and shit, uh, you guys, you guys 0.99
00:12:41.440 have been taught all the wrong shit, but you really have, you've been taught all the wrong 1.00
00:12:44.860 shit. 1.00
00:12:45.120 You've been taught to be a supplicating, uh, for lack of a better term, supplicating little 1.00
00:12:51.880 pussy. 1.00
00:12:52.660 That's what the fuck you become where you go around begging for a slice of a slice of sugar 1.00
00:12:57.420 wall. 1.00
00:12:57.940 Right.
00:12:58.800 Like, and you'll do anything for it.
00:13:00.740 You'll compromise all your values.
00:13:02.380 You'll never say no, blah, blah, blah.
00:13:04.340 And you ended up being in the friend zone because your mom taught you, uh, all this 0.99
00:13:09.160 shit that she wishes that she had that actually doesn't really work in the real world, you 0.98
00:13:13.720 know? 1.00
00:13:14.260 So, um, don't be afraid to hold out and be a fucking man and not go around begging for 0.99
00:13:21.120 the, for the P right. 1.00
00:13:23.500 Uh, like a little bitch because dude, first of all, the minute you stop that shit is the 1.00
00:13:28.000 minute that girls find you interesting because you have to understand that ever since those 1.00
00:13:32.580 girls were fucking 12 years old and they started to go through puberty, every single fucking 0.99
00:13:36.820 boy, every single dude, every single man they know has been trying to get in their pants. 0.99
00:13:41.960 You know, and you fucking begging for it is, is really honestly, it ain't, it's not getting 0.75
00:13:46.680 you closer. 0.98
00:13:47.280 It's getting you fucking a million miles further away. 1.00
00:13:49.860 Okay. 0.99
00:13:50.440 So there's all kinds of things. 0.99
00:13:51.840 We could give a whole conference on all this shit, but at the end of the day, um, women 1.00
00:13:59.300 love real men. 1.00
00:14:00.400 That's just the reality.
00:14:01.720 And it's not alpha men. 1.00
00:14:03.300 Like there's this alpha shit tossed around by a bunch of motherfuckers that ain't alpha 1.00
00:14:06.980 at anything. 1.00
00:14:07.500 Um, it's, um, it's what I said, you know, it's the qualities of a man, it's a protector,
00:14:16.100 it's a provider, it's a man of integrity, it's a man of values, it's a man with courage.
00:14:19.820 It's a man that'll stand up and say, Hey, you know what? 1.00
00:14:22.020 Fuck you. 1.00
00:14:22.700 Right. 1.00
00:14:23.020 You know?
00:14:23.420 And then also put out a helping hand when people need help.
00:14:26.780 I think those are the things, I think those are the things that make up a quality man.
00:14:30.820 Yeah.
00:14:31.060 You know what I'm saying?
00:14:32.260 Um, and that's not to say you're going to be a perfect man.
00:14:35.220 You, you, you were going to make mistakes. 1.00
00:14:36.960 You're going to fuck up. 1.00
00:14:37.860 You're going to do dumb shit. 1.00
00:14:39.320 Um, and, and, and a man owns those things and, and, and works to be better. 1.00
00:14:44.740 So, you know, I, I truly feel touching back on what boys are taught about girls. 0.97
00:14:51.980 I truly feel like they're totally misinformed and totally taught the wrong shit their whole 0.98
00:14:56.140 life. 0.99
00:14:56.460 Yeah.
00:14:56.900 You know, and you're taught, uh, you know, if you align your chakras, what I, what I, what
00:15:04.140 I observe is that.
00:15:06.960 So mothers teach their boys, the things that they would like to have happen to them or
00:15:14.300 have had happen to them in their ideal functional relationship.
00:15:20.600 Right?
00:15:20.960 So you have a lot of single moms. 1.00
00:15:23.060 It's not their fault.
00:15:24.040 Maybe it is.
00:15:24.700 I don't know.
00:15:25.500 Could be, could be not, but you have a lot of, the way it happens to be is you have a
00:15:28.620 lot of single women who are raising boys. 0.99
00:15:31.080 And when they're telling them about how to attract women, they tell them all this shit, 1.00
00:15:36.420 you know, uh, sugar and spice, treat them nice, pull out their chair, do all this shit, 0.99
00:15:44.120 send them flowers, be a romantic and blah, blah, blah. 0.98
00:15:46.800 Listen to their feelings.
00:15:47.660 Yeah. 1.00
00:15:47.680 Motherfucker. 1.00
00:15:48.180 Let me tell you something. 1.00
00:15:49.300 All that's fine and good. 1.00
00:15:50.400 But if she thinks you're a weak little bitch, you ain't, you're never, she's not going to 1.00
00:15:54.740 be attracted to you physically at all. 1.00
00:15:57.280 Okay.
00:15:57.640 And that's a whole nother thing.
00:15:58.800 Like all these dudes out there are taught that if they're nice to girls, that all of
00:16:03.200 a sudden the girl's obligated to like, like them.
00:16:05.460 That's not how it works. 1.00
00:16:06.680 Motherfucker. 1.00
00:16:07.320 You got to become a person of value. 1.00
00:16:09.400 You know, if you're a fat slob, you're going to get fat slob. 0.99
00:16:12.660 You ain't going to get fucking what, you know, like if you, you're going to get what the 1.00
00:16:17.340 fuck you are. 1.00
00:16:18.260 That's really what it comes down to. 1.00
00:16:20.400 And, and, you know, I observe a lot of young men being taught the wrong things by moms
00:16:25.100 that lack in relationships. 1.00
00:16:27.020 And then the men go out in the world, get the fucking heads kicked in by women stomped 1.00
00:16:31.060 on, cheated on, treated like shit because they have, they're not equipped to properly 1.00
00:16:35.820 be a man. 1.00
00:16:36.660 Right.
00:16:37.520 You know?
00:16:37.880 And then do you hear from women? 1.00
00:16:39.880 Where's the men?
00:16:40.980 Where's the men?
00:16:41.960 Where's the men? 1.00
00:16:43.340 Well, you all fucking told them that they were toxic. 0.99
00:16:45.780 You told them that they were too aggressive. 1.00
00:16:47.820 You told them you didn't like that shit. 1.00
00:16:49.420 And they started using your fucking body wash. 1.00
00:16:51.740 And now they smell like you and they dress like you and they look like you. 1.00
00:16:54.480 And now you're pissed off. 0.54
00:16:56.120 The man buns. 1.00
00:16:57.040 Like, dude, it's fucking, it's ridiculous. 1.00
00:16:59.060 Yeah. 0.99
00:16:59.580 And, and so, you know, I feel like this is like a whole show we should do, but at the
00:17:07.940 end of the day, being a real man is all the things I mentioned.
00:17:12.540 And then also standing on those things when it's hard to, you know, um, I, I, it's very
00:17:22.200 hard for me to talk about the state of like interpersonal relations between men and women 1.00
00:17:27.200 right now, because these men are fucking clowns. 1.00
00:17:29.680 They're fucking clowns. 1.00
00:17:32.800 So. 1.00
00:17:34.180 I love it.
00:17:35.200 Yeah.
00:17:35.380 I mean, dude, they show up for abuse after abuse, after abuse, after abuse. 1.00
00:17:39.540 And they don't understand that the minute you say, fuck you, stop abusing me is when 1.00
00:17:43.520 their fucking vagina gets fucking juicy. 1.00
00:17:46.220 It's the fucking truth. 1.00
00:17:47.860 It's the fucking truth. 1.00
00:17:49.620 It's the fucking truth. 1.00
00:17:50.900 Yeah. 1.00
00:17:51.160 You got to have a fucking backbone. 1.00
00:17:52.860 If you don't have a fucking backbone, bro, good luck. 1.00
00:17:55.520 Cause you ain't getting it ever. 1.00
00:17:56.940 You better fall in love with Jill. 1.00
00:17:59.020 You know who Jill is, right?
00:18:00.900 His palm.
00:18:01.900 Yeah.
00:18:02.280 Yeah.
00:18:03.320 You know, that ain't bad sometimes too.
00:18:05.340 I'm just saying like, but I'm being real dude. 1.00
00:18:09.100 No, it's real shit. 1.00
00:18:09.680 Like there's too much weakness in men and it's so weak that women can't even find proper 1.00
00:18:14.320 men to fucking date. 1.00
00:18:15.420 Yeah. 1.00
00:18:16.360 That's real.
00:18:16.980 So maybe if some of you women would start telling men what they actually should be and 0.92
00:18:21.140 and talk to them about what you would find attractive as opposed to making them supplicating 0.97
00:18:26.360 little bitches, uh, maybe you'd have some more men. 1.00
00:18:30.020 Probably. 0.99
00:18:30.300 I think there's gonna be a lot of guys that are be intimidated at, you know what I'm saying?
00:18:33.300 Like there's gonna be a quite a few of them that will be intimidated once they tell them
00:18:36.040 what they really want.
00:18:36.820 Once the women tell the men what they really, really want, a lot of them still miss out. 0.83
00:18:41.040 Listen, this ain't a message.
00:18:42.400 This is, I was wrong about what I said just there.
00:18:44.800 It's ain't a message for men.
00:18:46.780 This ain't a message for women to tell men. 0.92
00:18:48.640 It's a message for men to tell men. 0.76
00:18:49.960 You know what I'm saying? 0.98
00:18:52.100 Like it's not women's job to fucking fix the broken cycle of raising broken little 1.00
00:18:59.240 boys. 0.99
00:18:59.900 Yeah.
00:19:00.620 It's ours once we realize it's a problem.
00:19:02.440 I love it. 0.99
00:19:03.460 So the truth of it is, is, uh, you, you boys out there listening, you don't have a fucking 0.99
00:19:07.120 clue. 1.00
00:19:07.860 Um, get your fat ass in shape, get a fucking job that pays, stand up for your fucking word, 1.00
00:19:13.980 be who you say you are, be authentic, have integrity, stand on your values, stand alone. 1.00
00:19:19.140 If you have to have courage and you won't have a problem with the P that's a fucking 0.99
00:19:23.340 fact. 0.99
00:19:23.780 Yeah.
00:19:24.200 Sugar walls will be there, baby. 0.81
00:19:25.140 Yeah.
00:19:25.340 And get yourself a nice beard.
00:19:26.460 It helps. 1.00
00:19:29.240 And then you go kill the wildebeest. 0.83
00:19:34.080 Dude, I'm just saying, man, it's like, I feel for these dudes, you know, cause I was
00:19:39.020 that dude too.
00:19:39.660 I was that dude who thought like, Oh, let me do all these sweet things and show.
00:19:45.420 And then, you know what? 0.99
00:19:46.040 They don't end up liking you worth a fuck. 1.00
00:19:47.700 In fact, they abused the shit out of you. 1.00
00:19:49.560 Mm hmm. 0.99
00:19:50.220 Cause there's no backbone.
00:19:51.180 Yeah.
00:19:51.740 Yeah. 0.96
00:19:52.840 That's fucking awesome. 0.97
00:19:54.560 Guys. 0.99
00:19:54.980 I 30. 0.99
00:19:55.300 Oh, and by the way, all that shit I said about holding doors and that and that and that, 0.98
00:19:59.520 that's the right way to do it. 0.98
00:20:00.660 Yeah.
00:20:00.860 You still do that.
00:20:01.380 That's after everything's established.
00:20:02.980 Yeah. 0.99
00:20:03.140 No shit. 1.00
00:20:03.480 Because it's a different, there's a big difference between a pussy little boy holding doors, hoping 1.00
00:20:09.800 to get an exchange, some P versus a man that tell you to fuck off, but still decides 1.00
00:20:15.040 to open the door for you. 1.00
00:20:16.400 And no shit. 0.99
00:20:17.500 It's a big difference. 0.98
00:20:21.060 Guys, our third and final question for you.
00:20:25.420 Andy, I've heard you say a few times that there was a time and a place where you thought 0.98
00:20:30.660 you were the shit, but you had to switch that mindset to almost like a humility standpoint 0.99
00:20:35.840 and you had to realize that you still had work to do. 1.00
00:20:38.260 What was that situation?
00:20:40.360 That quote, like, you know, come to Jesus moment that you had.
00:20:44.060 Oh, dude, I think you have them.
00:20:45.780 I think between every phase of life, when you're leveling up, if you're an ambitious human,
00:20:51.040 you're going to come to those moments.
00:20:52.540 Right.
00:20:54.080 So it wasn't just like one, I'll be all.
00:20:55.960 Yeah, no, it's like, okay.
00:20:57.580 When you set your first goal of life and you're trying to escalate and elevate to that
00:21:02.080 level, right? 1.00
00:21:02.680 You get to that level and you start feeling like, yeah, fuck it. 1.00
00:21:05.380 I got it. 1.00
00:21:06.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:21:06.220 Like when you bought your fucking house, you probably thought you were pretty awesome. 1.00
00:21:09.440 Doing pretty good. 1.00
00:21:10.040 Yeah.
00:21:10.180 You think you're still awesome now?
00:21:11.340 No.
00:21:11.700 Right.
00:21:11.940 I got a long way to go.
00:21:13.140 Right.
00:21:13.280 That's right.
00:21:14.040 So you get to the thing.
00:21:15.640 It's cool.
00:21:16.480 I love it.
00:21:17.200 I'm doing good.
00:21:18.740 Yeah. 1.00
00:21:19.700 Fuck. 1.00
00:21:20.080 I'm doing real good, man. 1.00
00:21:21.100 Fucking nobody's as good as me at this age. 0.98
00:21:23.180 Yeah. 1.00
00:21:24.000 Oh shit. 0.99
00:21:24.500 I got a lot to live. 1.00
00:21:27.080 I got a whole long way to go.
00:21:28.780 I better, I better up my next goal.
00:21:30.360 Right.
00:21:30.720 Right. 0.96
00:21:31.040 And so then I go up to the goal and I fucking say, this is, this is me talking now. 0.97
00:21:35.440 Right. 0.94
00:21:36.180 Oh dude, I've got my nice house.
00:21:38.440 I've got a Lamborghini.
00:21:39.860 I'm making money. 1.00
00:21:41.980 Uh, oh shit. 0.99
00:21:45.880 My team needs to make money too. 1.00
00:21:48.920 Oh fuck dude. 1.00
00:21:50.560 All right. 1.00
00:21:51.080 Well fuck dude. 1.00
00:21:51.700 All right. 0.99
00:21:51.920 I got to set this new goal so that I can get everybody to make money.
00:21:55.420 Right.
00:21:56.020 Then I go, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:21:57.300 Yeah.
00:21:57.700 And I get to that next level and I'm like, all right, now everybody's making money except,
00:22:02.140 you know, these guys or that guys or this or that, or, you know, there's this problem
00:22:07.440 to solve or there's that problem to solve.
00:22:08.820 And every single time you, you expand your vision to be something greater than what it 0.99
00:22:14.300 was, uh, comes a time of being real with yourself that you ain't that fucking good. 0.97
00:22:19.780 Right. 0.92
00:22:20.400 And so what I try to do, man, and like, this is not recommended for anybody else.
00:22:24.980 Um, I compare myself to the best in the world.
00:22:27.700 I compare myself to Michael Jordan.
00:22:29.580 I compare myself to Jeff Bezos.
00:22:31.380 I compare myself to these enormous personalities, successes.
00:22:36.800 Um, I compare myself to Donald Trump.
00:22:40.840 I compare myself to these people legitimately in my brain.
00:22:43.540 And people think that's because I think highly of myself. 0.96
00:22:46.540 You're goddamn right. 0.96
00:22:47.460 I do. 0.98
00:22:47.840 Yeah.
00:22:48.400 I do think, you know, it's not about luck.
00:22:50.060 Huh?
00:22:50.380 And you know that it's not about luck. 0.99
00:22:51.860 It's just fucking work. 0.99
00:22:52.640 No, no, no. 1.00
00:22:53.700 I think highly of myself.
00:22:55.180 I think highly of myself so much so that I know I can achieve those things.
00:22:58.120 Yeah. 0.99
00:22:58.360 So, so, but I also in the same right know that like those motherfuckers, Bezos could buy 1.00
00:23:05.480 my whole entire life. 1.00
00:23:06.540 We're not sweating a drop of ball, not a drop of sweat off his nuts.
00:23:09.840 Yeah. 0.99
00:23:10.340 So I know I ain't shit. 0.97
00:23:11.740 You see what I'm saying? 0.97
00:23:12.700 So there, there's a, there's a process and you're going to come to a road many, many times
00:23:17.340 where you have these situations where you need to, uh, expand your vision.
00:23:23.120 And in order to expand your vision and create a new path or the next level up that requires
00:23:29.000 humility.
00:23:29.500 Like there's a part of that conversation that happens. 0.94
00:23:31.820 It says, Hey Andy, you really ain't done shit, bro. 0.90
00:23:35.200 You know what I'm saying? 0.98
00:23:36.040 And that's kind of a heart.
00:23:37.480 That conversation gets harder and harder to harder to have the, the, the more success
00:23:42.200 you have. 1.00
00:23:42.840 Cause you're like, well, fuck dude. 1.00
00:23:44.180 Nobody like nobody. 1.00
00:23:45.380 I know that my age doing this shit, that's gotta be fucking tough. 0.99
00:23:49.000 Well, I'm just saying like, no, I'm being literal. 0.99
00:23:51.180 Yeah.
00:23:51.420 I don't know another human that's my age.
00:23:53.480 That's doing what I'm doing on my level.
00:23:55.800 I don't, not a single one.
00:23:57.840 So, so I, what do I got to compare it to?
00:24:01.380 I got to compare to guys where I'm going to be in 20 years, where I'm going to be in 30
00:24:05.160 years or where these guys are.
00:24:06.460 Right.
00:24:06.720 So we always have to step, do not do that by the way, cause you will be miserable.
00:24:11.280 You will be. 0.99
00:24:11.980 If you're at the beginning and you compare yourself to Bezos, you're going to be fucking 1.00
00:24:15.340 miserable. 1.00
00:24:16.080 Right.
00:24:16.260 Right.
00:24:16.880 It's going to feel hopeless.
00:24:18.540 Um, it's not a realistic goal.
00:24:20.360 No. 1.00
00:24:20.540 Well, at that point, like, is that what you have to be a wild ass fucking motherfucker 1.00
00:24:25.520 to actually think like I think, like, it's just probably not healthy for most people to 1.00
00:24:29.200 think that way.
00:24:30.200 Um, but what I am saying is that, yeah, you're going to have those conversations over and
00:24:34.500 over and over and over and over and over and over again, as you go through the progression.
00:24:38.820 And when you stop having those conversations and those come to Jesus moments is when you 0.99
00:24:43.200 are where the fuck you're going to be and you're not going anywhere past that. 0.99
00:24:47.260 Okay. 0.99
00:24:47.620 And so that's the important thing to notice. 1.00
00:24:49.520 Like when you stop saying, fuck dude, I got a long way to go. 0.99
00:24:54.440 Like I got, I got this and this and this to do. 1.00
00:24:56.340 And you stop like dreaming bigger and you stop this or that.
00:24:59.660 That's it for you.
00:25:00.840 That's it.
00:25:01.540 That's all you're going to be.
00:25:02.520 And a lot of people really screw themselves with this concept because what they do is
00:25:07.920 they set out to become successful.
00:25:10.800 They set out to, uh, build an amazing life and they get there, but they get there way earlier
00:25:17.060 than what they thought they were going to get there.
00:25:18.700 All right.
00:25:19.260 So like, let's just say you're 20 years old and you say, I want to be a multimillionaire.
00:25:23.160 I want to have this house.
00:25:24.100 I want to have this life. 1.00
00:25:24.920 I want to have this shit. 1.00
00:25:26.160 Uh, first of all, you better fucking stand up for freedom or you'll never fucking have 1.00
00:25:29.100 it. 0.99
00:25:29.400 Okay.
00:25:29.580 I'm just going to throw that in there.
00:25:31.060 Secondly, um, let's just say you work for the next decade.
00:25:34.580 Let's say our freedom stays intact and you work for the next decade and you get to a
00:25:38.140 point where you, you have a nice house, nice car, nice life, nice bank account.
00:25:41.600 Oh, you're a fit, you're healthy, you're just blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:25:44.380 Now, if you say, Oh dude, I made it right there. 0.97
00:25:47.480 By the time you're 40, you'll be fucking broke because you're either moving forward. 0.98
00:25:51.760 You're either getting better or you're fucking going in reverse because the world, the world's 0.99
00:25:56.220 momentum and everybody else's momentum is naturally escalating towards achievement. 0.99
00:26:00.400 It just is. 0.98
00:26:01.040 Now they're trying, they being the media and these elite fucking communists across the globe 0.99
00:26:07.920 are trying to make it. 0.94
00:26:09.280 So it's not popular anymore to pursue success, but the nature of human beings is to improve
00:26:15.280 nature of human beings is to progress.
00:26:17.060 The nature of human beings is to collectively work towards a goal that we can accomplish.
00:26:21.280 And if you look back over the societies of history, this is, this is behavior that's
00:26:26.000 consistent amongst humans since the beginning of time.
00:26:28.820 We want to build this cathedral.
00:26:30.540 We want to build this pyramid.
00:26:31.640 We want to build this, this, this, this, this, this, this, that takes teamwork.
00:26:34.620 It takes achievement driven people.
00:26:36.180 It takes ambition.
00:26:37.380 You can't culturally remove that with propaganda from people.
00:26:41.160 It's always going to be the natural way.
00:26:42.980 So, so if we get to, if you get to that point when you're 30 and you're where you think you
00:26:49.740 want to be and you're not setting a bigger goal, you're, it's over for you.
00:26:54.200 You know what I'm saying?
00:26:55.080 It might, it might take three or four years.
00:26:56.700 It might take seven years, but it's over for you.
00:26:59.240 You just don't know it yet.
00:27:01.760 Love it.
00:27:02.360 Andy, guys, that is three.
00:27:04.880 That's three.
00:27:06.180 I'll go pay the fee.
00:27:07.980 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:27:09.620 Now my jewelry box froze. 1.00
00:27:11.340 Fuck a pole, fuck a stove. 1.00
00:27:13.000 Counted millions in the cold. 1.00
00:27:14.680 Bad bitch, booted swole. 1.00
00:27:16.340 Got her on bankroll. 1.00
00:27:17.980 Can't fold.
00:27:18.860 That's a no.
00:27:19.640 Headshot case closed.