288. American Revival Part 3 Ft. Eric Greitens
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2 hours and 5 minutes
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Summary
On this episode of The Real Reel, we have a full length interview with former Governor of Missouri, Eric Grits. We talk about his political career, how he got into politics, and why he decided to run for the US Senate.
Transcript
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What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the real, let's say goodbye
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to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking
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reality. Guys, today we have not CTI. Now I thought you, you probably thought we were going
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to do really cool intro like we always do and you're going to laugh and think about how
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awesome we are, but not today. Today we were going to do CTI, but one of my good buddies
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stopped in and I figured it's a good time to have a conversation. So we're going to do
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that. But before I introduce our special guest, DJ, tell them about what we got going on here.
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Guys, this is, this is our full length episode. Yeah. You got, it's been a minute too, by
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the way. Yeah, it has, it has been a minute, but this is our full length where we, we bring
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on fucking cool people and we talk about winning. We talk about fucking life. We talk about
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the world and just get an interesting perspective. And I think you'll definitely get that today.
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So, and then there's a fee, there is a fee, there is a fee. So if you did take something
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at me. Yeah. Cash at you. I see how that works. All right. So welcome to the show. My good
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buddy, Eric Gritens. What's happening, bro? What's going on, man? How are you? It's good
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to be here. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for having me. Yeah, you're welcome. You're
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swinging through the neighborhood today and I figured it'd be a good time to bring them
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in. You know, last time we were in, we got to talk about some issues, but we didn't really
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talk too much about, you know, your story and where you come from and why you want
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to do what you're, what you're going to do. Um, so I figured that'd be a good thing to
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talk about, but I mean, what, what's going on with the campaign trail, man? Everything
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good. Things are really strong, really, really strong right now. I mean, the 32nd update is
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that we continue to dominate the polls. We've got all the grassroots with us. People have seen
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through all of their lies and their nonsense, which was all disproven again. And if anything,
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you know, people have said, Hey, Eric has all the right friends. He's got all the grassroots,
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true Patriots, and we've got all the right enemies. Yeah. George Soros hates us. We got
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Karl Rove and Mitch McConnell coming after us. We've got the mainstream media attack, I guess.
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So, so, you know, Patriots in Missouri looking at this and they're like, yeah, Eric's, Eric's
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the guy. He's the threat. For those of you guys that are unfamiliar, Eric's a good buddy
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of mine has been a good buddy of mine for a long time. Um, I can read his, we'll get
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into a story here in a second, but he's the former governor of Missouri. He's currently
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running for a United States Senate, um, as a Patriot, you know, uh, I think one of the
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things that's important to remember, uh, here in America is, you know, we may not all agree
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on every single issue that there is, you know what I'm saying? But we need to be voting the
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best people in that are going to take on this corrupt government. And, and I think
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everybody at least from my observation over the last couple of years, it seems like people
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are starting to wake up to what the actual issue is. They're not seeing it as just Democrat
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A hundred percent. No. When we go out, we just did two rallies just the other day. Okay.
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At both of them. This is people's assessment. The left nuts. Okay. Crazy. Critical race theory,
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open borders, defunding the police. They see, they see, see the nuts and the right.
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Dismantling, attacking, and trying to destroy the country. Yeah.
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Then they look at the Republicans and they see corruption and cowardice.
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They see corruption and cowardice through the Republican party. So we are at a transformative
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moment in the United States of America where people are coming up to me at events. Obviously,
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I'm a Republican though, but they come up and they say, man, I don't know if I'm really a
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Republican. Like I'm a patriot. Yeah. I believe in freedom. I want to fight for this country,
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but they look at what the uniparty has done. They look at what the establishment has done to this
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country and they are disgusted by it. And the good news though, is it like people of real courage,
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real compassion, and a lot of clarity. People are seeing the truth now and they're not fooled
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anymore and they're stepping up and they're, they're, they're, we're going to take the country
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back. I think so too. Do you, do you, go ahead, DJ. I was going to say, I mean, I think it goes back
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to, to just like, and you talk about all the time, just being authentic. You know what I'm saying?
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So Eric, I met you in 2015 is when we first met, he came to the police academy and, and like,
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no, at that time I'd never really had like what side I was on and ever, right. Like I was still under
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that old school mentality. Dude, you're trying to figure it out. You're a young man. I was super young.
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You know what I'm saying? And so, but I remember when Eric came in and there was just this,
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this aura of just authentic, genuine human. You know what I'm saying? Like, and you could
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sense that immediately. And then, and then I learned this, he's pretty fucking fit guys. I
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know you guys, if you can't see him, he's pretty fucking fit. Cause he took us through a workout
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and shit. Um, he's fucking fit. Yeah. You know, but, but, um, you know, but, but I met this man
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and here's a guy, you know, you gotta think about it. 2015, this is post Mike Brown, right? Like we got
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the, the, the, the police environment was, was wild, you know? And so he comes in and
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talks to our class and then, you know, to, to hear somebody tell us like, Hey, I'm
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going to have your back. That was a big deal for us. Like it was a big deal for me. You
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know what I'm saying? So I didn't care if it was, you know, R or D I didn't care. I, I'm
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like, damn, we got support. This man's running for governor. Great. And then we actually, I
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came to your inauguration too with my class. It was pretty cool. You know, but like, I
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mean, I think that's really the important thing. And I think that's what a lot of people
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are realizing that that authentic, genuine, good human, that's who people are going to
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vote for. Do you feel like, do you, do you feel like you're seeing that like in
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your, in your family and friends and stuff? It's the same thing. Like, like the D and
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the R is, it means nothing anymore. Yeah. It really does it because like, there's so
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much, there's so many gray lines in this gray mush that kind of like, you know, like
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you said, you see it on both sides. So I think people, at least the ones that I talk to
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on a daily basis, they're done with that. They're done with that two party thing. Yeah. They
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just want real humans. Yeah. They want more real people, authentic people that are
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genuine and that, that act like you, and you know that like you, you can fake it.
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People try to fake it all the time. Right. But we know what they sound like. We
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know what they look like. People want real humans. Yeah. And I think like, I mean,
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Eric, you're, you're a great representative of that. Well, thanks brother. Yeah. You
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know, people can literally smell the fake. Yeah. Right. And, and you come in and you
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people see these career politicians. You literally look like mummies. Yeah. They're
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masked. There's no compassion. There's no heart. There's no soul. Their heart is
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closed. Right. And, and normal, like regular people, they have an open heart. They
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have curiosity. They're still willing to learn about the world. They care about
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people. They want to connect to people. And what I have always found, and when,
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yeah, we can talk more about my, my story later, but in any endeavor, if you have an
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open heart and you're curious, and if you really care about people, you'll find ways
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to work with other people. You can find ways to solve things. What people are
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disgusted by in Washington, DC is that it's very clear. All of those people are up
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there to serve themselves. It's all about serving themselves. And so, yes, you've got
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the left's craziness, and then you've got the Republican party's corruption and
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cowardice, and people are disgusted by it. They want authentic, real people.
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I mean, are you hearing that like face to face? 100%. Yeah. 100%. I think so
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too, man. You know, I, I think one of the best things has happened, this is going to
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sound sort of counterintuitive, but sometimes for things to be appreciated, you
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got to lose them. And I think one of the best things that happened to our
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country, um, because I'm starting to see what's starting to form is that Trump
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lost that election because dude shit has gotten really fucked up. And, and there's a
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lot of people who, who before that happened, um, I was not even able to really have a
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conversation because of my beliefs and their beliefs, right? People may be in my
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family, you know? Um, and, and dude, I find myself having real conversations with
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people that I generally have disagreed with who have now come to the, the
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understanding of holy shit. Our votes really matter. And we have to like really
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discern who we put in there. Um, regardless if we agree with every issue
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One hundred percent. So you were with me when we were, when DJ was too, and we were
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shooting with Donald Trump Jr. He said the same thing. He said, maybe this is what
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it took. Maybe this is what it took. Seeing Joe Biden and the Biden
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administration and this amazingly swift destruction of so many things that so
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Intentional, intentional destruction, intentional attack to destroy our country
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from our own government, from Joe Biden. And people have, have woken up now. And
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you know, and what, what's interesting is that everywhere you go, people are
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And, and look, even kids who are 16, 17, 18 years old, they had to live through all
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of this coronavirus nonsense. They had to live through all the COVID tyranny where
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they couldn't play football games. And, and all of that nonsense has made
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everybody say, you know what, man, we got it. We got a gang game.
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Yeah. I think it's like a near death experience almost.
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You know what I'm saying? Like, like, like you, you know exactly what the fuck
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Like people that go through near death experiences, if you talk to them, listen
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And so it turns the volume down on the shit that doesn't matter.
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Like you were able to, like one of the things that happened to me from, from both
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those situations that I've talked about on the show, um, was it gave me an
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ability to turn the volume down and rank the, the level of importance of shit
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that I actually cared about very quickly. Um, and there's no shame in that, you
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know, like I think, and it's frustrating, like right now it's, it's Roe V Wade in
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the news everywhere. Right. And everybody's talking about it and, and
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everybody's failing to understand that these are all narratives that they're
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pushing to the forefront to get us to argue. And we have to be able to discern,
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is this really the most important issue to what's going on? Because in my
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opinion, the most, nobody really cares about Roe V Wade when they can't afford
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You know what I'm saying? Or you have mass unrest or, or all of these things.
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And so, you know, when, when, when you come close to like checking out, bro, you
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develop an ability to say, okay, these are my priorities and I do care about
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this, but it's, it's here and it's not number one. And what I, what I see
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happening in America, man, which is really puzzling to me is that a lot of
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people, like whatever issue they're served up on the day becomes the number
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one issue, like immediately today. And it's weird because like, I think it's
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like, let me change my hat. Yeah. But if, yeah, right. Like it would be like if I
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was in the, in my office over there and you know, every single issue that was
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brought to my attention was now, you know, number one priority. You can't
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Well, and I think that's the key point is it goes to leadership.
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Right. When you have a strong sense of leadership, where are we taking the
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country? What are the threats? What are the opportunities? Where are we
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going? Are we going to try and become energy independent again? What's our
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relationship like with our allies? What does it mean to be strong overseas? What
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does it mean to build a strong functioning economy? What does it mean to have
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true freedom here at home? When you have strong leadership, then all of these
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other issues that come up, they can kind of fit into a larger framework. What's
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missing fundamentally right now is people don't see any leadership at all from
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Biden. And so anything that comes to the forefront is emergency. Oh, they're
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focused on this. They're focused on the Ukraine. They're focused on, and you kind
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of jump from headline to headline. And then of course you have the, uh, the
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media, which actually also wants to focus on skipping people's attention from
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this to this, to this, to this, to this, to all the, get the new clicks instead of
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having, and that's why people listen to your podcast. It's why podcasts are taken
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off. People want intelligent conversation. They want to be able to call it
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intelligence, but, but people do, they want to be able to have a real conversation. And
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obviously the media like is served by like skipping from issue to issue. I mean,
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you know, most journalists don't even read, like they literally don't even read.
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And so the fact that like people can, or people are going and searching for places
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where they can have conversation because they recognize this is a tough time. And if
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you're going to meet a tough time, you have to have depth, you have to have strength, you
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have to have wisdom, right? Not just knowledge, right? You actually have to have
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wisdom that's informed by experience. And clearly we're bereft of that.
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So dude, let's get into, you know, why you want to do this because like, this is you,
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I want you guys to understand like doing these jobs, like, and I'm not serving, I'm not,
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I'm not getting elected and going to work in public service. This shit is not fun. Like
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I would much rather come on here and talk about making money and cars and cool shit than
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come in here. And, and, and try to discern the truth from people who are completely lying
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to us. And Eric, I'm sure, you know, there's plenty of other things that you enjoy to do.
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Right. So I would like to dig into, you know, like, dude, your background and what,
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what got you to this point? You know, let's tell us it all started when you were six. That's
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what we want to hear. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. When I was six in first grade, but yeah, look, man,
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I mean, I, I, I grew up here in Missouri, right? My mom was a preschool teacher. She, she was an
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early childhood special education teacher. Um, and that I think helped me in terms of my love for,
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for kids and the work that I ended up doing in grad school, which I'll come to in a moment.
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Um, my dad was an accountant. He worked for the department of agriculture, but really like my dad's
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job was that he was a dad and he, and he was a great dad, you know, my, so both of my paternal
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grandparents fought in world war two, my dad's dad died when my dad was six. And so my dad would tell
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you like, you know, he always wanted to have a dad and he did a great job. He went, he went to work
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every single day and he came in, he went, got up very early and he'd catch the bus or the carpool
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or whatever. He'd go to, go to work and he'd come home and he was home early enough that we got home
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and he'd coach our teams. And he was just a fantastic dad. That was really his true, his true,
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his true job. And I was also fortunate. I got a fantastic education at Parkway North high school
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at a public school, really, really good teachers. Right. And I, I had great teachers from kindergarten
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all the way through, uh, all the way through high school. I had a great first boss, a guy named Roger
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Richardson hired me when I was in third grade. Um, and he had you do it. So he was just having me do work
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around his lawn. I actually remember. So, so Mrs. Richardson was my kindergarten teacher.
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Okay. And so then they, they lived actually around the block. So the very first day that I finished
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work, uh, Mr. Richardson had said to me, Hey, Eric, um, I'm leaving when you're done, go get your check
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from Mrs. Richardson. And I thought, okay, cool. Like this is, this is, this is, this is exciting.
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I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to get a, get a check. I'm going to get, I'm going to get
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money. Yeah. Right. So, and I'd been hired at $3 and 25 cents an hour. Yeah. So I walked up to
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Mrs. Richardson and I rang the doorbell and I told her I was all done. And that Mr. Richardson said to
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come up and get the check. And she wrote me a check and I'd worked for two hours and she wrote
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me a check for $7. I said, I said, Mrs. Richardson, I said, um, I only worked for two hours and Mr.
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Richardson told me he was going to pay me $3 and 25 cents an hour. So I should only be getting $6
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and 50 cents. And she says, Eric, I was your kindergarten teacher. I just gave you your first
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raise, right? Which is cool. But you know, like I, I, I was very, very fortunate, right? I had Mr.
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Richardson as a boss. I had fantastic coaches. I had some really, really good teachers. And you know,
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when I was graduating from high school, I was looking at a lot of different options.
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Now, Eric won't, Eric will not brag. Okay. Eric's a road scholar.
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Toot, toot. We'll toot them. I'll toot all the horns. Okay. He's one of the smartest people I've
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ever met in my entire life. So when he's talking about his options, he had them a plethora of
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options. Oh, thanks brother. So, so, but I was very fortunate. I got, I got a scholarship to Duke
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university. So I ended up going there and again, got a great education in the classroom, but perhaps the
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most important parts of my education actually happened outside of the classroom. First I
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started boxing when I was at, when I was at Duke. Now my, my maternal grandfather had grown up in
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Chicago in the depression. So he always talked about boxing and baseball. Like people forget like a
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hundred years ago, those are the two sports. There was boxing and baseball. That, that, that was,
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that was it. And so he was always talking about boxing. I'd always been interested in boxing. So I
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ended up having this, this experience where, you know, I was studying, uh, philosophy, public policy
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studies, religion. And so I'd be studying Aristotle and I'd leave the classroom, get in my car, drive
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down into, uh, the, the city of Durham, North Carolina, roll into this boxing gym. And I trained
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there every night. I trained there every night. I was, I was the only white guy, only college
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student, um, in the gym. And I had a fantastic training partner, a guy named Derek Humphrey,
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who was a pro fighter and a construction worker and Earl Blair. Um, Earl Blair is passed on now,
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but he was so impactful in my, in my life. I mean, I spent more time with Earl and Derek than I did with
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anybody else kind of growing up in, in college down there in that, uh, in that boxing gym. And it was,
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it was really good, man. It was really good. I'd also, I'd never been outside of the country
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before. And Duke had this cool program where if you were a freshman and you'd never been out of
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the country before, you could apply for a grant to go study somewhere the summer after your freshman
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year. And I had an uncle who'd been to China and I literally like, I'm looking at the globe. I've
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never been, I've never been to Canada. I've never been to Mexico. I've never been anywhere. I'm
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looking at the globe. I'm figuring, well, if I'm going to go somewhere, like I want to go as far
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as I can. And China's literally on the other side of the world. I had an uncle who'd been there.
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So I put in an application to study in China and the summer after my freshman year, I ended up going
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to China. And now what I was studying at the time, this was 1993. So people, you know, forget this is
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the cold war is, was just been won just over Tiananmen square had happened. The giant massacre,
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um, had happened in Tiananmen square just four years before. And so I show up, uh, long story
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short, I ended up losing or kind of had all of my money stolen from me. And again, this is back in
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the day. You got to remind people, there's no cell phones, right? There's no ATMs. Like I was traveling
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with traveler's checks, right? Okay. And I, so I have no money and I come to Beijing and one of my uncle's
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friends, friends picks me up at the train station and they said, you know, how are you doing? What
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do you want to do? Et cetera. And I said, well, I mean, I hate to say like, I I'm here, I have no
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money. So they got me a job at a Chinese company, helping them to take documents that a Chinese person
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had translated into English, but still had errors. And they were having me kind of go through and do
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that. And they, and then they said to me, they said, would you be willing to teach an English
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class? I said, cool. So in return, they gave me a spot in the worker's dormitory and they gave me
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food. And then I was going to teach an English class. And again, I'm 19. So this was, this was a
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cool, cool adventure. I'm a baller again. Yeah. I got, I got food and a place to stay. So the first
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day what happens is, and I have no idea how to teach English by the way. I've got no, no clue. And all
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these people are walking into the class the first afternoon and some of them have fantastic English
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abilities. They're asking me the difference between like British and American pronunciations
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on stuff. Other people can barely say hello. So I figure, well, let's just have a free conversation
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and we'll see, we'll see what happens. So I, I opened the class up for, for conversation and questions.
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And the first question that people asked me was about freedom of speech. And then somebody asked
00:21:44.840
me about the constitution and they asked me about freedom of assembly. Well, it turned out
00:21:48.580
almost all of these young people, they were older than me at the time, but they were like
00:21:54.240
somewhere between 23 and 27 years old. They had been at Tiananmen square. And I was the first
00:22:01.780
foreigner who they had talked with about their experience where they'd seen, you know, their
00:22:07.220
friends shot, killed murder. They were probably wondering like what the story
00:22:09.840
was about it. What did people think? Yeah. Yeah. And they'd heard about the constitution
00:22:14.700
and freedom of speech and freedom of assembly. So they started asking all these questions.
00:22:18.680
And I thought this was great. This is cool. Everybody's engaged. So we're at work. We're
00:22:22.460
talking, I'm answering these questions, talking about the constitution. And this goes on for about
00:22:27.380
three days. And then it's, it's the first Friday night and we're at the workers dormitory.
00:22:33.160
It's like, I don't know, nine o'clock at night and we're playing darts in the workers dormitory.
00:22:38.280
And then two Chinese police officers knock on the door. And so my friends open the door
00:22:43.860
and they come in and they tell my friends who then translate to me, they're like, you need
00:22:48.300
to go to the police station to fill out some paperwork. And I said, listen, please tell the
00:22:54.960
officers. I appreciate the fact that they're here. I said, but it's Friday night. It's nine
00:22:59.840
o'clock. I'm not going to go anywhere with them. If they'd like for me to, I'll come in
00:23:04.620
the morning or I can come on Monday morning, but there's no need for me to go anywhere on
00:23:08.640
Friday night at nine o'clock to a police station. So they translate this around and then it gets
00:23:13.440
translated back. Game of telephone. Right, right, right. And my, and my friends look at me and they
00:23:19.000
said, Mr. Erica, you are going to the police station now.
00:23:23.520
So I get in the, in the police car and one of the friends who'd gotten me the job also
00:23:31.800
gets in the police car and they take both of us to the police station and we're waiting
00:23:35.920
there for, for about an hour. And then it's about 10 o'clock at night. They split us up
00:23:42.100
and take us into an interrogation room. And I'm 19 years old. I'm walking in and I knew I was
00:23:50.300
like, all right, I'm 19. I'm an American citizen. Like I'm not worth it to them. They're not going
00:23:55.060
to do anything to me. I wasn't really worried about myself, but I was very worried for my
00:23:59.620
friends. Like what's going to happen? What's going to happen to them? And I sit down, there's
00:24:04.000
one officer in uniform. There's one officer in plain clothes. They've literally got a light
00:24:08.940
bulb there and a cigarette laid out for me. I didn't smoke just like, and there's a cigarette
00:24:13.940
laid out for me. I didn't smoke. So I'm, I'm, but I sit down and they start asking me
00:24:19.720
these questions. Who got me the job? Who was asking about freedom of speech? Who was
00:24:23.980
asking about the constitution, right? How come you were talking about the constitution?
00:24:29.020
Who, and they asked me all of these questions. And I was like, look, I don't know. I can't
00:24:33.520
remember who was asking. I was just doing my best, et cetera. You're trying to make sure
00:24:37.860
nobody gets in trouble. Yeah. I don't want, I don't want anybody to get in trouble. I don't
00:24:41.100
want any of my friends to get in trouble. Did you know that that's why they had brought you
00:24:42.800
down there was probably because of the classroom stuff? I had no idea. Yeah. I had no idea.
00:24:47.360
That's it. Yeah. We're getting close to that here. We are. We are. We are. Well, this is the look
00:24:55.540
what I, what I used to tell people was like, it gave me a tremendous appreciation for our freedoms
00:25:01.400
that we have here in the United States of America, that people couldn't be arbitrarily arrested and
00:25:07.160
pulled in for saying what they think. But now here we are in the United States of America. You say
00:25:12.380
the wrong thing. You get canceled from social media. You say the wrong thing.
00:25:16.280
A freaking domestic terrorist list. A domestic terrorist list.
00:25:18.520
When we got a million people a month coming across the border.
00:25:21.260
It's absolute insanity. Yeah. Anyway. Sorry. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, no worries. But yeah. So long
00:25:26.300
story short, they, it gets to be about midnight. And I say to the guys, look, I've answered all of
00:25:33.460
your questions for two hours. Everything you've asked me, I've answered. I said, but there's really
00:25:37.940
nothing else I can tell you. So it's midnight. If you want me to talk to you anymore, you need to
00:25:43.580
call the American embassy because I'm not going to talk with you anymore. And this guy says to me,
00:25:49.940
he says, well, you see, we will only call the American embassy if to hit the Americans.
00:25:57.420
And I didn't know what he was saying, like to hit the Americans. Like, is he threatening me that
00:26:01.020
they're going to hit me? Like, what does he mean to hit the Americans? So I kept asking him some more
00:26:05.320
questions. And eventually it became clear that he was telling me, we'll only call the embassy
00:26:10.780
if an American's been injured. Otherwise you're here, you're in China, you're in our country under
00:26:16.680
our laws. You're going to stay here as long. The last thing you want is for us to call the embassy.
00:26:21.780
Right. Right. That you're going to say something bad happened to you. Exactly. So they, they ended up,
00:26:28.180
uh, they took my passport. They sent me back. I obviously lost my job. Um, and I came back the
00:26:35.940
next Monday or Tuesday and I had to pay a fine at the time. Uh, foreigners use what they called
00:26:42.320
foreign exchange certificates. You weren't allowed to use the normal Chinese money. So I paid a fine
00:26:46.900
of, I think it was 50 FEC, which at the time was like nine bucks or something. But I also had to sign
00:26:51.920
these papers written in Chinese that I was guilty of whatever they had said that I was, that I was
00:26:58.040
guilty of. And then, uh, that was it. So no more China? No, no more. I hung out, hung out with a
00:27:05.400
couple of friends and that was, that was it off. I, off I went, but that was the first foreign country
00:27:10.700
I ever went to. Yeah. And then, and then, you know, I, I, I was very fortunate when I was at school
00:27:17.100
the next summer, I actually went, you guys remember there was all the ethnic cleansing
00:27:22.220
that happened in Bosnia. I went the summer after my sophomore year, uh, to live and work in refugee
00:27:28.460
camps with Bosnian refugees. That's where he's from. So really where we're at. Okay. All right. Yeah.
00:27:36.060
So, so, so I went over there, there were two refugee camps. One, uh, was, was near Pula, uh, Croatia
00:27:42.500
and the other was near Osijek, uh, Croatia. And those are two, two refugee camps with Bosnian
00:27:47.300
refugees. And as people may know, we have the largest Bosnian community in the world outside
00:27:54.080
of Bosnia is here in, um, in, in, in, in, in Missouri and specifically in, specifically in St.
00:28:00.280
Louis. Um, and that was, that was an incredible experience. You know, I obviously had read all of
00:28:06.320
this stuff on the news about what was happening with ethnic cleansing. And part of what motivated me to go
00:28:12.340
was that I I'm Jewish. I'd grown up, uh, hearing about the Holocaust, right. And we'd add all these
00:28:18.840
Holocaust survivors who had always come in. And one of the things that they always said was you can't
00:28:25.760
ever let this happen again. You can't let ethnic cleansing happen in Europe. And then all of a sudden
00:28:30.480
there I am in college and we're seeing ethnic cleansing happening in Europe. So I wanted to go,
00:28:36.820
I was young. I was, you know, I thought compassionate, thoughtful. I wanted to lend a hand. So I went
00:28:42.300
over and I did this work in these two, uh, refugee camps. And that was some of the most eyeopening
00:28:49.440
work that I've ever done in my life. And the lessons from it, like, stay with me till today,
00:28:56.240
right. Helped me a lot when I helped, uh, wounded veterans later in my life. But like, you know,
00:29:01.620
one of the things that I saw that was interesting when you think about what it's like being in a refugee
00:29:05.920
camp. Yeah. You've, uh, a lot of these folks, they'd all lost their homes. Some of them have
00:29:11.280
been separated from other family members. They're here in a place where the future is completely
00:29:17.880
uncertain. There's no prospect of going back to your home in the next couple of weeks or months.
00:29:25.420
You're hoping maybe years later, but then what's life going to be like? There's tremendous uncertainty.
00:29:30.680
And one of the things that I observed was that it was really, really hard on everyone,
00:29:37.420
but the people who were doing the best in the refugee camps were parents and grandparents who
00:29:43.680
were in charge of really young kids because they woke up every single day and they had a purpose.
00:29:50.320
What was hurting everybody was the sense of purposelessness, right? Human beings can endure
00:29:56.520
a tremendous amount of pain. They can endure a tremendous amount of hardship. They can endure
00:30:01.220
a tremendous amount of chaos and uncertainty if you have a purpose. And so people have said like,
00:30:06.880
if you have the right, why you can make it through any how. And one of the things that I observed in
00:30:11.580
this situation was that like the people who had that sense of purpose, it's just, you're going to
00:30:16.200
keep our kids alive. We're going to take care of them. They were doing really well. Everybody else
00:30:21.380
was an incredibly, incredibly difficult situation, man. Yeah. That's crazy, dude. Yeah. I was,
00:30:27.780
it was wild. Most people here can't even imagine those kinds of things. That's really part of the
00:30:31.660
problem. Yeah. There's no real world experience. Yeah. It wasn't 20 year olds going over the,
00:30:36.340
it's been so good here for so long that it's an embarrassment of riches. Yeah. Like it's made people
00:30:41.780
like completely take for granted what we have in most times. Yeah. I mean, that's the thing though
00:30:49.360
that, I mean, that, that's the magic of near death experiences. You know what I'm saying? Like,
00:30:52.480
I don't believe we've lost our freedoms. We're close. We're extremely close. Right. Um, and I
00:30:56.760
won't say we, we, we've lost our freedoms until they rip up the fucking constitution, you know,
00:31:01.280
but I think that like I've said it many times that what we're going through right now as a country
00:31:05.440
is necessary. I believe that it's necessary. You know what I'm saying? Like,
00:31:09.260
cause that's the only way we're going to ever be able to get back on track to being grateful for
00:31:14.260
the privileges that we all fucking have, no matter how much money you got in your bank account,
00:31:18.560
we're all fucking privileged. Right. And I think this bullshit that we're going through, it's,
00:31:23.900
it's fucking necessary. It's needed. I think it's overdue. What's true for human beings.
00:31:28.840
I believe when I'm, my reading of history is also true of nations. And that is that pain presents a
00:31:35.920
choice, right? And pain can either make you weak and make you crumble or pain is an opportunity,
00:31:44.280
right? A wound is an opening. And if you walk through it on the other side of that pain,
00:31:49.560
you can get wiser on the other side of suffering. You can get stronger. You deal with a tremendous
00:31:54.900
amount of fear and you deal with it in the right way. On the other side of that, you build courage.
00:31:59.820
And right now we have an opportunity. Every citizen in the country does. And America does
00:32:05.040
either. We're going to succumb to leftist tyranny because look, some people in the face of pain,
00:32:10.720
they curl up, right? Some people in the face of pain, they surrender. Some people in the face of
00:32:16.520
hardship and difficulty, they just kind of want it to stop. And they think that somehow if they close
00:32:22.700
in on themselves, it's going to end. Other people say, you know what? How can I learn from this?
00:32:27.440
How can I get stronger? How can I get better? And the fact is either we collapse or there's
00:32:33.960
going to be a tremendous revival, a tremendous revival of spirit because they're working through
00:32:40.300
fear, okay? This is what they're doing right now. They work through fear. And I'll talk in a minute,
00:32:46.260
like the following summer, I worked in Rwanda, right? And you see in all of these situations with
00:32:52.020
ethnic cleansing, with genocide, it's a small minority of people who work through fear.
00:32:58.060
And because of the fear that they try to infuse by telling people like, we're going to take away
00:33:03.820
your social media, we're going to take away your job. People think that if they just hunker down
00:33:08.220
somehow, they're going to be safe. But the fact is the more people hide, the more other people hide
00:33:15.860
because cowardice is contagious and courage is contagious. So given the tremendous fear that
00:33:24.100
the left has pushed, we have a tremendous opportunity to build a more courageous, more
00:33:29.620
wiser, a stronger, and also a more compassionate country. Like that opportunity is also in front of
00:33:36.540
us if we have people who are willing to lead that way.
00:33:43.480
So the next summer, I went to work in Rwanda. So you guys will remember, it was ethnic cleansing
00:33:48.840
in Rwanda and genocide between 800,000 to a million people were killed.
00:33:53.380
People don't understand how fucking brutal that was. Bro, there was like the main guy,
00:33:58.220
you probably know who the main, the criminal guy, the guy who masterminded the genocide.
00:34:04.020
Dude, he was buying like machetes by the ton and dropping them off.
00:34:08.620
It was, it was most of the kids. So 800,000 to a million people were killed. Most of the killing
00:34:14.960
was done with machetes. And most of it was done hand to hand. You know, when I, when I was there,
00:34:20.740
Uh, it isn't a very short amount of time that it's happened.
00:34:27.860
They were saying so many people were killed that the blood in the rivers actually was red.
00:34:34.380
Yeah. And, and you could still, when I was there, you could go and you could see
00:34:38.820
in the churches piles of skeletons, piles of skeletons in the churches. I, I worked,
00:34:45.920
so I did some work in Rwanda. I also worked in what was then Zaire and Goma Zaire in one of the
00:34:50.440
refugee camps there. And I remember seeing kids, right? Who'd been hacked, who had machete scars
00:34:55.220
on their heads. Some of them, you know, had machete scars, others who'd lost limbs because
00:34:59.660
they'd had a limb hacked off with the machete, but they, they had survived. And, you know,
00:35:05.160
one of the big lessons that I learned in Rwanda also was how important it is to, to not just care
00:35:11.560
and not just act, but also to be really wise and thoughtful about what you're doing. Because
00:35:17.680
what I saw in Rwanda, unfortunately, was a lot of very compassionate, well-intentioned people
00:35:23.080
were actually hurting other people by the way they had responded. And I'll, I'll, I'll, the story is
00:35:29.480
in Goma Zaire at the time, there were, there were literally hundreds of thousands of refugees
00:35:35.840
had poured over, over the border into Goma Zaire. And it's an incredibly chaotic situation. Goma
00:35:41.620
Zaire is this kind of big volcanic plain, and they've got these makeshift refugee camps are set up.
00:35:47.600
And there were all of these stories about unaccompanied children, children who'd been orphaned,
00:35:53.080
children who'd been separated from their parents. So the international aid community came in and what
00:35:58.780
they did was they set up centers for unaccompanied kids. So they set up these, these kind of like
00:36:05.480
miniature orphanages where kids could get food, they could get clothing, they could get shelter,
00:36:10.540
all this stuff. Well, you think about this, families are over there. They're desperate.
00:36:14.440
They're trying to feed themselves. They're trying to feed their kids. Maybe they have a nephew.
00:36:18.200
They've got a cousin. They've got, they've got their neighbor's kids. They're all trying to take
00:36:22.760
care of each other. Well, in this situation where the unaccompanied children's centers were very well
00:36:28.180
resourced, everybody starts sending their kids there. Okay. Now, historically, when you look at the
00:36:35.100
research from almost every emergency and war, truly unaccompanied kids, truly orphaned children are
00:36:42.660
extraordinarily rare. Because, you know, I know that if something happened to me, like my parents
00:36:48.100
would take care of my boys or my friends would take care of my boys, it's very rare for kids to
00:36:52.080
truly end up on their own. But the UNICEF was putting out statistics saying that there were between
00:36:59.020
300,000 and 400,000 unaccompanied children in Goma Zaire. Because what had happened was they set up
00:37:06.960
these situations where desperate people sent their kids. And instead of providing aid to the families
00:37:14.900
themselves, they set up these orphanages and then everyone starts sending their kids to the
00:37:21.580
orphanages. Because they thought it would be better. Better than what they could provide.
00:37:24.320
It was. It was better than what they could provide. But rather than actually supporting the families
00:37:28.280
themselves, they set this up. And then you've got this really negative cycle where the media comes
00:37:33.960
and they want to take pictures of orphaned children because it pulls on the heartstrings.
00:37:39.500
So they take pictures of this and then more money comes and it works for the aid organizations. You've
00:37:44.240
got volunteers who are coming, the media comes, and you get this cycle. Well, what actually happened was
00:37:50.000
because of that response, you had hundreds of thousands of kids who were then pulled away from
00:37:55.060
their parents. And in those situations, you have some incredibly compassionate people who are working
00:38:00.320
there. You also get pedophiles. You also get people who take advantage of kids. You also get people who
00:38:05.880
sell kids. And then because these kids were- So it attracts like anything, even here, and this is a
00:38:12.260
point I want to make because it's important because it's a big deal right now. But these predators,
00:38:16.880
they seek out these areas where there's a large amount of children. Yes. So you should always be
00:38:23.920
careful. Like when you look at teachers or when you look at coaches or when you look at where kids
00:38:28.880
gather because that's where the predators gather too. And that's what was, and that was what was
00:38:33.340
happening in Goma Zaire. So you ended up having this situation where the aid response, which is
00:38:38.160
well-intentioned, ended up creating a situation because they weren't really paying attention to
00:38:44.460
the dynamics on the ground where a lot of kids were abused, taken advantage of, separated from their
00:38:50.020
parents permanently because of the aid response instead of providing aid directly to the families who
00:38:55.460
were over there. And that was one of the things that I did when I was there was help the folks
00:39:02.200
who were doing this. All the credit goes to them, but was just to understand the actual dynamics
00:39:07.580
on the ground there. And man, it was, again, at that point, I'm 21 doing that work in Rwanda.
00:39:17.280
And after doing the work in Bosnia, doing the work in Rwanda, I knew that I wanted to find a way to
00:39:24.180
focus on kids in war zones. So I ended up, you know, I later, I worked with children of the street
00:39:30.340
in Bolivia. I worked in an orphanage in Albania and did some work in one of Mother Teresa's homes for
00:39:36.280
destitute and dying with kids in Varanasi, India. And in all of those situations, my focus was on trying
00:39:46.300
to understand how the international aid community can do better work. And that's what I ended up
00:39:50.780
writing my dissertation on was how I looked at the history of international humanitarian efforts
00:39:56.900
and trying to figure out what really worked if you wanted to help kids in some of the world's
00:40:01.920
most difficult circumstances. That's crazy. Yeah. That is a lot of life experience for someone
00:40:08.140
who's 21. 21 years old. Yeah. Yeah. It was, I was very, very fortunate because it exposed me very
00:40:16.380
early. Also, we were talking about this earlier to what matters. Yeah. And real problems. Real
00:40:22.520
problems. And it also gave me a very real sense. You know, you work with, I work with, you know,
00:40:27.680
kids in Cambodia who lost limbs to landmines. Right. And you're, you're in Albania in an orphanage
00:40:33.820
and it sounds simplistic or simple, but like the sense of gratitude. Very, very hard to get upset
00:40:43.500
with your life. You spend a lot of time working with kids who've lost limbs to landmines in Cambodia.
00:40:50.800
Yeah. Right. And you come back and it just gives you a very, very solid perspective. And all of that
00:40:58.460
ultimately was tremendously valuable to me when I later wanted to help my fellow veterans who were
00:41:04.420
dealing with alcoholism, suicide, who'd lost limbs, et cetera. And in that same situation of despair,
00:41:09.560
but what you realize is that all, you know, all of these human situations, though they're,
00:41:19.100
they're have different manifestations as ethnic cleansing in Bosnia, genocide in Rwanda,
00:41:23.660
orphans in Albania, et cetera. The, what human beings need fundamentally is almost all the same
00:41:31.620
in any of these situations. And if you can find ways to help people live with a sense of purpose
00:41:38.080
and you can do it with some real thoughtful, wise compassion, then you can make a real difference.
00:41:44.800
Well, it's needed, man. Yeah. You know, um, I think if more people had real experiences like that,
00:41:50.420
we'd probably have a pretty different landscape here at home. We'd have a totally different
00:41:54.060
landscape and we'd have to even think about knowledge differently. Like one of the things
00:41:58.240
that's interesting is like the Greeks had this word called phronesis, right? And phronesis basically
00:42:04.540
means our closest translation is practical wisdom, right? And where do you get practical wisdom from?
00:42:10.760
You don't get it from a book. You can, you can, you can read, you can read and that can inform
00:42:16.300
things, but there is certain wisdom that only comes from having had experience. And the Greeks
00:42:23.600
also talked about how you need to have the hardest experiences teach you the most, right? And that's
00:42:30.660
true in anything, right? If you want to be a great athlete, like you got to have some, you got to have
00:42:34.500
some intense experiences. You want to be a great entrepreneur? Like you got to take some knocks.
00:42:39.040
Like the intense experiences are actually a tremendous gift. And so, yeah, I was very fortunate because
00:42:45.760
in all of these situations I was working with and learning from people who are in some of the
00:42:52.520
world's most difficult circumstances. Dude, I would be okay with tax money going, like, I mean, we,
00:42:57.800
listen, maybe this might be a little socialism coming out of DJ. I don't know. Right. But I would
00:43:01.960
be okay with, with tax dollars going into these, these public colleges and universities that did the
00:43:06.440
same exact thing. Like, okay, Hey, you're, you're a freshman. You've never been outside the country
00:43:09.920
here. Like I would personally be okay funding that. You know what I'm saying? Like that is so fucking
00:43:14.760
necessary. Well, DJ, I mean, the truth of the matter is, as we covered last time when Eric was
00:43:18.640
on, is that if these people would spend our tax money properly and not steal it, we would be able
00:43:23.200
to do those things very effectively. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. And, and you think about like the
00:43:28.860
experiences that come for young people who, who joined the Peace Corps or who joined the U.S.
00:43:33.580
military, right? What's happening in both of those situations? They're getting a tough experience.
00:43:38.000
They're getting something hard. Right. And, or right. Somebody who goes even here inside the
00:43:44.660
United States of America and confronts a tough problem, like trying to, trying to help a homeless
00:43:50.300
veteran get out of homeless. That's a really tough problem. Trying to help a third grader who can't
00:43:55.540
read, learn how to read. That's a really tough problem. And one of the things that you find,
00:44:00.520
one of the reasons why politicians so often fail is that they don't understand what it takes to
00:44:06.160
change one life. So if you want to change thousands of lives, you want to change tens of thousands,
00:44:12.340
hundreds of thousands, millions of lives, prove to us that you can change one. Yeah. Because if you
00:44:18.200
can really change one life, you actually understand how complex it is. You understand how complicated it
00:44:24.380
is. You also understand that it's very possible if you put the right, the right structure in place,
00:44:30.160
but we have so few people in public life who've ever done anything like that. Right. Dude,
00:44:35.700
they don't even put themselves through hard shit. Look at them. They look like shit. Right. Okay.
00:44:40.240
They're unhealthy. They don't train. They don't know what it's like to exercise. They don't look.
00:44:46.040
They've never had to be selfless. Look, Eric's figured out clearly what he's telling us
00:44:49.740
is that at a very young age, he figured out that it's a good thing to put yourself through hard
00:44:54.340
circumstances because it produces skills. Okay. And we have an entire government of people who live the
00:45:01.300
easy life. I mean, we can, you can look, I don't care what anybody says. You can literally look at
00:45:07.500
them. Right. And tell that they're doing the easiest possible path for themselves. Okay. So
00:45:14.080
that's that, that tells you anything about how they, how they're able to actually navigate life,
00:45:21.380
you know, and people disagree and they say, Oh, well that's, that's against fat people. I used to be
00:45:26.840
that guy. I was the 350 pound guy. Like I know what it's like. I know what it's like to be a
00:45:31.860
wealthy 350 pound guy. It's very unfulfilling, you know? And to be completely honest, um, this guy
00:45:39.760
now who I am now could run circles around that guy. And, and dude, it just matters to understand
00:45:46.400
what you're talking about. Yeah. And you have to, this is the other thing. People take their cues
00:45:51.100
from these people, man. Yes. Society takes their cues. They idolize these people, bro. When you look back
00:45:56.380
on some of the greatest presidents of our, uh, the most loved presidents that we've ever had,
00:46:01.560
they demanded more of the individual. They asked for more from the individual. One of the most
00:46:07.540
famous quotes of all time is from John F. Kennedy. Yes. Ask not what the country can do for you,
00:46:14.180
but what you could do for your country. And that starts at home. It starts with your personal
00:46:18.140
discipline. It starts with the way you live your life. That's what he's talking about. He's talking
00:46:22.440
about the ripple effect of greatness in one's own life. And we used to have politicians that were
00:46:29.240
basically motivational speakers. They would get up there and they would explain to people, Hey,
00:46:34.200
America's only as great as you are individually. And that's the truth.
00:46:43.280
And that's a big, big difference. The number one rule of leadership. I'm not going to ask you to do
00:46:47.280
anything that I'm not willing to do. And I often, you know, I point out to people,
00:46:52.040
you know, and I'll, I'll say, do you know where the foremost hated men in America are?
00:46:57.340
Well, maybe right here, maybe right here, maybe right here, but the foremost hated men in America
00:47:04.700
are on Mount Rushmore. That's where they're at. That's where that, and if you really think about
00:47:10.260
it, like, and this is why like good biographies are so, so valuable. Like you really read about George
00:47:15.720
Washington. Okay. And we have this story, like, you know, the kid who chopped down the cherry tree,
00:47:21.440
et cetera. He was an officer in the British military. And then he leads a rebellion and
00:47:28.200
a revolution that was not popular here in the United States of America among, among a vast,
00:47:36.480
you know, numbers of the population. He's got a price on his head from the largest military
00:47:42.360
superpower in the history of the world. He was one of the most hated figures in the history of the
00:47:48.240
United States of America. And he was George Washington. Now he was second, of course, to
00:47:52.520
Abraham Lincoln, right? But you think about the fact is they were willing to risk. They were willing
00:47:59.060
to sacrifice. They were willing to endure, right? Teddy Roosevelt, Teddy Roosevelt was also, people
00:48:05.060
forget, you know, this is a kid who grew up, um, who, you know, was short-sighted, decided to box,
00:48:12.160
decided to test himself, had some tragedy early in his life when his mom and his, his young wife both
00:48:18.500
died. And then he goes out West, right? And he hardens himself. He hardens himself out West. And
00:48:24.280
then he comes back and he takes on the political establishment. They took on Tammany Hall. He took on
00:48:29.940
all of the corruption. They hated him so much in New York that they kicked him out of Albany and
00:48:36.380
sent him up to be vice president, right? That's how much they hated him. And obviously the whole
00:48:40.720
country changed, right? When he, when he became president. But my point is, is that they were
00:48:45.720
willing to ask other people to do hard things and they never stopped doing those hard things
00:48:53.420
themselves. That's right. They never stopped. It's real leadership. It's real leadership. Yeah.
00:48:57.240
It's real leadership. Can I ask you this? So, so you've served other people, you've been around
00:49:01.320
the world, right? You served our country, right? Abroad, right? When did the, when did the idea
00:49:07.120
come like, Hey, I, I, there are some issues that I see in our government structure. I want to go make
00:49:11.800
these changes here. Now it's time to serve this. When did, like, what did that conversation look like?
00:49:16.180
Like the shift into like public elected? Yeah. So, so the short story there is, you know, so after,
00:49:23.360
so I finished at Oxford, I finished my PhD and then I went to.
00:49:26.640
How'd you end up at Oxford? I must say, you can't just blow past that.
00:49:29.940
So that's where, so I went as, as a Rhodes scholar. So, so I, I did, I did Duke. And then,
00:49:35.200
and then when I graduated from there, I went to Oxford and I spent four years there. Great years.
00:49:40.000
I was on the boxing team, had a ton of fun there and continued to do this, this international
00:49:45.600
humanitarian work, wrote my dissertation. And then when I finished, I was 26 and then I joined the Navy.
00:49:54.580
So can I ask you something? Like, did you, so it sounds like you had that realization of
00:49:59.320
challenging yourself pretty early, like 20, 21, 22 from these world experiences.
00:50:05.780
Is that, is that why you pursued the Oxford and the Navy SEAL thing?
00:50:09.920
I think, you know, I mean, look, part of the Navy SEAL thing was that I was 26 years old.
00:50:14.480
And the, you know, part of the philosophy was, I also realized in all of these situations in Bosnia
00:50:20.980
and Rwanda, you look at the Holocaust, right? If you really wanted to save people, it wasn't enough
00:50:25.500
to have compassion, right? What put an end to ethnic cleansing and genocide in the Holocaust was
00:50:29.760
people with guns. People who were willing to put it to an end. That's what actually put it to an end.
00:50:34.660
So that was philosophically part of what, what moved me to military service, but also like,
00:50:39.080
I'd watched Top Gun and I'd watched Rambo and I was 26 and I wanted to blow stuff up. Right. And my,
00:50:45.760
and my grandfather had served in the Navy. And so it, and you know what the attraction of the SEAL
00:50:50.520
teams was, was it, you know, buds hell week was the hardest military training in the world. Yeah.
00:50:55.060
And I figure, all right, if I'm going to do it, like I'm going to go and do the hardest thing.
00:50:59.880
And so I left, uh, I was, you know, 26 and you show up and after officer candidate school, I show
00:51:07.700
up out at buds and like at 26, you're with lots of like 18 and 19 year olds, right? You're like an
00:51:13.600
old dude, right? Compared, compared to a lot of these guys, there was one guy, there was one guy who's
00:51:20.200
who'd been a Marine and he came over, he was trying to be a, be a SEAL. He was 30 years old. Okay.
00:51:25.240
And he seemed ancient and everybody called him old man, Johnston. That's crazy. Right. Cause he
00:51:29.820
was, he was 30 years old. I look at 30. I'm like, these kids are young. Right. Right. Okay. So he
00:51:35.260
was old man, Johnston. He was 30 years old, but that was, you know, that was, that was an incredible,
00:51:40.700
uh, transition, you know? So I came back and, you know, in some ways, so I had spent four years at
00:51:46.220
Oxford and I'd done all this international humanitarian work. When I came back into the military,
00:51:50.680
it was also like a reintroduction to America. And it was, it was at the time the best possible
00:51:56.780
reintroduction to America. Right. And I challenge anyone still to this day, you go to the deck of
00:52:02.600
an aircraft carrier, you go to Marine Corps bootcamp and you see 18, 19, 20 year olds from
00:52:08.880
all over the country, from every conceivable background, all coming together, all willing
00:52:14.680
to die for our country, all willing to put the flag on and go out and serve. And it is,
00:52:20.120
and was an incredibly inspiring thing. That's awesome. And, and it was, it was, it was a ton
00:52:24.780
of fun, man. So yeah, we went through, we went through hell week. Um, we went through all the,
00:52:29.720
the training. Um, we, you know, one, one story I often share with people was I learned a lot
00:52:35.700
about mental strength as well, going through the training. So I'd seen, you know, physical strength,
00:52:43.420
like I'd been a boxer, I'd done, done, done a lot of that stuff. You obviously saw a lot of
00:52:47.940
emotional and spiritual strength in a lot of these places and refugee camps.
00:52:52.280
I didn't realize going in how much mental strength went into getting through hell week.
00:52:58.080
Right. And get one in through, through the training. So, you know, in our class, for example,
00:53:02.800
we started with over 220 people in the original class. By the time we graduated, we're down to 21.
00:53:10.680
They're all stud. Yeah. Everybody who shows up is a stud.
00:53:13.320
Everybody who shows up is a, is a, is a, is a stud. And I remember, uh, people, a lot of people
00:53:19.200
know if you're going to quit during the training, you go and you ring a bell. Okay. And I remember
00:53:25.040
the hardest week of the hardest military training in the world is buds. Right. And I remember the
00:53:31.680
hardest moment of the hardest week and the hardest moment of the hardest week came during the second
00:53:36.760
night. So what happens is like, they come in and they wake you up at the beginning of the first night
00:53:41.320
and they've got, you know, smoke grenades going off and artillery simulators and they're firing in
00:53:46.320
the air and you're doing a bunch of pushups and sit-ups and they got hoses in your face and it's
00:53:50.760
kind of a party. Yeah. Right. Like you're having a good time. It's cool. You're a couple hours in.
00:53:56.020
You're like, man, here we are. Like we're in hell week. You got your boat crew together and
00:54:00.060
everybody's tough. Right. So you're a couple hours, like couple hours in. And then you go all the way
00:54:04.620
through the first night. Man, that was tough, but we made it. We made it to the first night. Okay. Good to go.
00:54:09.560
And then it's the first morning. The sun comes up. All right, cool. This is our next first day. It's
00:54:14.340
our full day. And you go all the way through the full day, but now you're exhausted, right? Now
00:54:18.000
you've been crushing it for over 24 hours. And what they did at the beginning of the second night
00:54:23.180
is that they lined us up all on the sand berm to watch as the sun is going down. And it's the
00:54:32.440
beginning of the second night. And so the end of hell week isn't close, right? You're exhausted.
00:54:37.540
You've been up for 24 hours and you're not just up. Like you're doing four mile timed runs and soft
00:54:43.200
sand. You're running the obstacle course. Everywhere you go, you're running around with a boat on your
00:54:48.180
head. You're doing physical training with logs. You are completely spent and you haven't even started.
00:54:55.040
So then they line everybody up on the beach to watch as the sun is going down and the instructors
00:55:00.280
came out and they knew exactly what they're doing. They've got their bullhorns out. And they said,
00:55:04.780
say goodnight to the sun, gentlemen. And we're watching the sun go down. Like tonight is going to be a
00:55:11.400
very, very, very long night. And we're watching the sun go down. And they're like, you are only at the
00:55:19.800
very beginning of hell week. And people are watching the sun go down and the stuff is getting in their
00:55:27.400
head and thinking, man, this is, this is tough. And, and keep in mind up to this point, they've done
00:55:33.620
crazy stuff to us. They've tied our feet together and our hands behind our back. They've thrown us in
00:55:38.180
the pool, right? You have to go down 50 feet, tie a knot and come back up. This, all these guys who
00:55:43.640
were there, they've already accomplished incredible things to be at this second night. And we're watching
00:55:47.700
the sun go down and then they just keep on it. And they're like, Hey, if you guys want to quit right
00:55:53.300
now, the bell is right here. This is the only, the beginning of the second night. So everybody's
00:55:58.780
watching this go down. And then you hear like one ding, somebody quits and then somebody else runs
00:56:05.280
and they quit. And then another person runs and they quit. It's contagious. More people quit our
00:56:10.020
class at that moment than quit at any other time in all of the SEAL team training. Now here's what was
00:56:15.980
amazing about that. You know, they'd have to do all these incredible things, right? Two mile ocean swims
00:56:22.000
every week, four mile runs and soft sand obstacle course, tie your hands behind your back, your feet
00:56:26.060
behind you, all this. Who would have thought that the hardest moment of the hardest week of the hardest
00:56:32.120
military training in the world would come when all they had actually asked us to do was to stand on the
00:56:37.720
beach and watch the sunset. But that's all we had to do at that moment. All we had to do was stand on
00:56:44.340
the beach and watch the sunset. But it was people's minds that got to them. And what you saw and
00:56:51.920
learned was that a lot of times, certainly to make it through the training and a lot of times to make
00:56:57.780
it through life, like all you got to do is just stay in the game. You just put one foot in front
00:57:04.660
of the other. And when it looks so bleak, when it looks so hard, you just got to stay in the game.
00:57:13.480
And, you know, later I would work with a lot of returning veterans, some of whom were contemplating
00:57:20.080
suicide or had dealt with folks who, who, who, who thought, thought about suicide. And they're at
00:57:26.080
places of incredible, scratching, deep, awful pain in their lives. And it won't stop. And they wake up
00:57:34.020
every day and it's hard and it's harsh and there's no prospects in front of them. And there's no hope.
00:57:40.020
They're not seeing any light. And it's been that way, not for just days or weeks, but for months,
00:57:45.380
some of them for years. And they're trying to think about like, how do I get out of this? How do I end
00:57:49.700
this? And what, you know, I would often say, we would all say is like, you just got to stay in
00:57:53.880
the game. You just got to stay in the game. You just got to put one foot in front of the other.
00:57:58.560
And it doesn't have to be pretty, right? You can be limping, you can be cut, it can be difficult,
00:58:04.800
it can be hard, but you got to stay in the game. And that was one of the big lessons from the SEAL
00:58:11.720
team training was, yeah, you need to have your, your emotional strength and your spiritual strength.
00:58:17.200
You need to have your physical strength, but also really learning how to control and use the mind
00:58:24.140
in very difficult circumstances was, was probably even more pronounced than any physical thing that
00:58:30.920
we learned. Dude, I think that that's the ultimate secret to life. Like in general, like duty, it's hard.
00:58:38.120
Yes. Like people think, you know, it's weird, man. People think it's just a story we tell ourselves
00:58:44.200
when we're down, right? Like we tell ourselves, oh man, they got it so much easier. Bro, every single
00:58:48.980
person that you, that you talk to on a daily basis, from the clerk at the gas station, to the people at
00:58:54.600
your job, to the, to the CEO of your company, to your wife or your husband or any, bro, everybody's
00:59:00.940
got it hard. Everybody has a heart. You just don't understand their perspective. Cause you're living in a
00:59:07.440
different set of shoes. And it's one of the reasons why you should always, when you can lead with
00:59:14.580
compassion. Yeah. Everybody's struggling. Everybody is struggling. And one of the, again, you know, for
00:59:21.300
me, when I was doing this work with veterans or I was talking with other audiences about like pain and
00:59:26.220
hardship and difficulty, you know, I'd finish speeches and everybody comes up and they've got a
00:59:30.980
son who's addicted to drugs, or they just found out that one of their kids was diagnosed with an
00:59:35.880
illness where they just lost their husband. Like everybody struggles. Everybody, it is hard. And
00:59:41.760
part of, you know, the, the great failure of not only the political class, but also of the kind of
00:59:48.980
consumer culture is the idea that you can sell somebody an easy life that if you just go and buy
00:59:56.920
a few things that somehow everything's going to be right. And it just doesn't work that way. Life is
01:00:03.400
going to be hard. And especially, especially if you try to live a meaningful life, especially if you
01:00:08.800
try to live a purposeful life, especially if you try to achieve things, it's going to bring hardship
01:00:14.280
and it's actually in, it's in that pursuit that you find joy. Absolutely, dude. Absolutely. I,
01:00:21.920
I have a, I have a thing that I talk about on the show, uh, discipline plus gratitude equals happiness.
01:00:28.060
Yes. You know what I'm saying? Yes. You know, if you're exercising your, your, if you're putting
01:00:32.380
yourself through hard things and making the right choices, you're investing in the confidence and
01:00:36.560
the belief, um, and, and everything that we think about ourselves. And then also taking a moment and
01:00:42.600
saying, man, I am, I'm blessed to be able to go through this. So blessed because it is, it's still
01:00:48.840
way, way, way easier than what a lot of people have. A hundred percent. And if you can always think
01:00:54.520
about those two things together, um, and then you tie it with purpose. Yes. Okay. And you tie
01:00:59.240
discipline and gratitude and purpose together. Yes. Now you have fulfillment and happiness. And it's
01:01:05.360
weird because people tie laziness and, and basically inactivity and easy with being happy, you know,
01:01:13.980
and we're, we're, we're, we have that, that image of happiness marketed to us. A hundred percent.
01:01:21.120
Think of a Corona commercial, man. Like, Oh, I'm hanging on the beach with Snoop
01:01:25.120
dog. Like this is happy. Yeah. That's cool for a day. It might be cool for a week, but
01:01:30.540
what about that next week? And definitely that third or fourth week, you're going to
01:01:33.940
be really hating life, you know? And, uh, I think it's such an important thing for
01:01:40.480
people to, to grasp because what Eric just did was laid out that entire formula
01:01:44.920
through his life story. You know, he's talking about discipline. He's talking about
01:01:48.860
pushing himself to do hard things. He's talking about gratitude, you know, observing
01:01:53.440
through his own eyes, uh, or the world's most horrific scenes. Um, and then having
01:02:00.880
a purpose, which is what you're working on now, which is cool, man, for sure. And
01:02:04.820
you know, one of the things that's really interesting about American life is that we
01:02:08.240
have a real poverty of language, even around purpose, right? So the Greeks had a
01:02:13.840
word called eudaimonia, right? Which basically the closest English equivalent
01:02:18.720
is flourishing. And what it really meant was that that's the life you wanted to
01:02:24.080
live. We have this word happiness, which, as you said, people often associate with
01:02:29.300
like watching the game on Sunday. Like that can be fun, but like, would you want to
01:02:33.900
do that? Like every single day, like is a firework show cool? Yeah. It's cool for,
01:02:38.040
you know, 30 minutes, like once a year, but like, that's not, that's not life.
01:02:43.420
And there's this great book called the Greek way is written by Edith Hamilton.
01:02:47.120
And she really gets at the Greek understanding of the tragic nature of
01:02:52.680
life. And we can talk about like what that means, a tragic nature of life.
01:02:55.620
But she talks about how the Greeks understood that flourishing was the
01:03:00.180
exercise of vital powers along lines of excellence in a life affording them
01:03:07.280
scope. Right. And what that meant, what that, what that meant was it like, all
01:03:11.940
right, I'm exercising my vital powers. I'm doing things that feel to me like I am
01:03:18.420
growing. Right. Cause again, like happiness is growth. When people are growing and
01:03:22.700
they're learning, they feel happy. They, they feel, feel engaged. And then along
01:03:27.120
lines of excellence, like you're not just doing stuff, you're doing it well. Yeah.
01:03:31.020
You're getting better at things. You're acquiring skills. You're becoming more
01:03:34.260
masterful. And whether you are, you know, writing poetry, building a business, working as an
01:03:40.360
architect, learning how to teach, like you're doing things better. And then she
01:03:44.220
talks about how in a life affording them scope, mean that like you have the space
01:03:48.620
to do these things. And they, what the Greeks also understood was that you, there
01:03:54.060
are certain material conditions, which are essential to be able to exercise those
01:03:59.800
vital powers. It's hard for somebody to exercise vital powers along lines of
01:04:04.100
excellence when they're starving. Right. So they also understood that part of the
01:04:08.540
idea of having a, a public community was that you made sure that everyone could
01:04:15.040
contribute. Um, and, and that, that meant that there had to be, you had to have a
01:04:19.400
life that afforded them scope. But the big picture point is that like, they had a
01:04:24.100
very, a concept of flourishing that we don't even have, like, we don't even have the
01:04:29.600
language around this. Right. So that, so that we, we come up with our formulation,
01:04:34.380
formulations like gratitude and discipline and, and, and, and, but, but, but, but
01:04:38.800
it's, it, what's striking is that as a culture, America, Americans don't have that
01:04:45.160
kind of common understanding. Dude, I, my opinion of that, you know, and I, you and
01:04:50.180
I have talked about this up and down on sideways for years, but, but my opinion of
01:04:54.880
that is they, they push that kind of anti-fulfillment lifestyle, anti-happiness
01:05:04.020
lifestyle to quell the resistance that they may face to whatever they decide they
01:05:10.980
want to do. Right. If you have a less fit, unhealthy, um, sick, poor, uh, struggling to
01:05:20.540
survive and, and struggling to be happy because let's be real, dude, we have a
01:05:25.840
mental health epidemic. It's not made up. It's definitely glorified and pushed
01:05:30.500
through victim culture. I think there's a lot of people that think that they have
01:05:34.680
mental illness when in reality, they're just not living their life in any
01:05:38.800
structured sort of way with any purpose. Um, but look, man, we're not meant to live
01:05:44.980
like that. Correct. We're meant, we're meant to achieve. We're meant to, to, to build.
01:05:49.760
We're meant to go through experiences and develop skillsets and look back and
01:05:54.000
say, fuck, dude, I'm proud of myself for going through that. Yes. And like, dude,
01:05:57.460
we live in this culture where like, even for me with the live hard program and
01:06:01.220
75 hard, which has a billion hashtags on Tik TOK over a billion. Um, I get
01:06:06.000
criticized because I'm trying to make people better. So why is the mainstream
01:06:09.720
media criticizing me for giving out a free program to help people get better in
01:06:14.880
exact things we're talking about? What does that tell you guys? You should be
01:06:18.700
able to draw that conclusion. They want you to be weak as possible.
01:06:23.740
And there has, there's always been, you know, I think we talked about last time,
01:06:27.020
like Teddy Roosevelt, right? It's not the critic who counts, not the one who
01:06:30.100
points out how the strong man's doubled or how the doer of deeds might've done
01:06:33.340
them better. We have in the United States and it's most embodied in the
01:06:37.680
culture of journalism, right? You have people who are constant critics, right? And
01:06:43.220
who, who, who, who lives their life? Like, can you imagine waking up every day
01:06:47.600
thinking I'm at my job today is to write something nasty about somebody else?
01:06:51.880
Right. But that, that, that's who they are. And that, and that, and that, and
01:06:55.620
that's what they've done. Yeah. But dude, that's the thing though. It's a culture and
01:07:00.360
what we're talking about, what America really needs and, and it, it, we need it now
01:07:05.380
is a cultural revival and reform. Yes. People think that they're going to elect a
01:07:12.740
politician and look, dude, there's a lot of great people running. Eric's my favorite
01:07:17.540
by a lot. And Ian Smith, those two guys I'm behind. Okay. Um, you know, but the
01:07:24.920
point is there's a lot of people out there that are, that are good leaders, but even
01:07:29.960
they cannot come and put their hands on you and fix your whole entire existence.
01:07:34.540
And, and we, and I think we have this thing going on in the side of it. Yes. In the
01:07:39.500
country where a lot of people think that their happiness and their success and their, their
01:07:44.060
ultimate fulfillment in life is going to be dictated by some person that they do or do
01:07:49.600
not vote for. Listen, America's only great if we're great. Yes. America's only great if
01:07:55.960
the individual is great. And the problem that America has right now is that we don't have
01:07:59.960
enough individuals chasing to be great. That's my opinion.
01:08:05.340
100%. And, and that's why like this culture, which is dominated by the critics, it's dominated
01:08:12.120
by the leftists. One of the things that's obvious about, about all critics is that like
01:08:16.440
they don't love themselves. So they can't love things in other people. Right. And so that's
01:08:21.100
why you see all these folks, like they hate the country. Yeah. They also, most of them don't
01:08:25.360
like themselves. No. Okay. Very, very, very unhappy people. We should be led by people who
01:08:33.900
have found a way to joy. Right. And what does that mean? That doesn't mean ease. It doesn't
01:08:40.280
mean that things are handed to you. It means that you find ways to do hard and good and
01:08:45.980
purposeful things. And man, it works. I'm telling you, we work with so many veterans and so many
01:08:52.100
tough situations. Okay. And these are folks who, who, who'd proudly serve the country,
01:08:56.980
right. And they come back, maybe they've lost a limb. They're dealing with PTSD. They've,
01:09:01.180
they're, they've lost some of their hearing, some of their eyesight and some of them, you
01:09:06.080
know, end up in places where they'd pass a month without talking to another human being.
01:09:09.980
Yeah. Right. They end up homeless, dealing with, dealing with drug issues, all this stuff.
01:09:14.300
Usually that comes from their own, their own, they, they, they don't want to be a burden.
01:09:19.060
They don't want, they don't want, they don't want to be a burden, but here's what also happens
01:09:22.740
is the culture says to them, okay, now you're a charity case. Yeah. So, so think about this.
01:09:27.840
So it's, it almost per self perpetuates the cycle and you're getting all this, you get
01:09:32.480
all this feedback. So here's, so, so we can talk about like what happens to veterans, but
01:09:37.080
then, you know, and I'll, I'll use that as a large, as a segue into the larger point about
01:09:41.320
what we have to do culturally. So, cause here's, here's what happens to veterans. But the truth
01:09:46.000
is this is a human story. It happens to a lot of people. Something hard happened. All right. So
01:09:50.820
dude's a E5, United States Marine. Okay. He's over there. He's in Afghanistan. He's leading,
01:09:57.300
he's hard charging. He's got, got the flag on his shoulder. He's a, he's a Marine. He's a leader
01:10:02.220
of Marines. And then all of a sudden he's injured. He comes back home. And what happens is that other
01:10:07.100
people come to him and they say, Hey, do you want a free gift basket? Do you want a blanket?
01:10:11.680
Do you want a free fishing trip? Do you want this? They start treating him like a charity case
01:10:16.260
his whole life. He's been pushing. He's been driving. He was serving other people. And now
01:10:21.680
other people are looking at him like he's a charity case. And he starts that. Well, I'm not,
01:10:25.820
I'm not. And then, so that's happening culturally. Then you get a government system where the government
01:10:32.520
says, Hey, here's a VA disability check. I was a United States Marine. I wasn't making a lot of money
01:10:38.580
and I might've been using it on some things that shouldn't have used it on, but I was,
01:10:43.160
I was living, I was living, I was living a real life. Right. And then, and then what happens is
01:10:49.020
they think to themselves, okay, well, you know what? There's still a hard charger. All I'm going to do,
01:10:53.620
I'm going to take this disability check for a while while I get my stuff together. Right. And then
01:10:59.860
they're on disability. And then a buddy comes up to him and says, Hey man, you know,
01:11:03.960
you can also get food stamps while you're doing this. And they think food stamps, like I'm not
01:11:09.920
going to be on food stamps, but welfare case. Yeah. Right. But, but they think, okay, but maybe,
01:11:14.480
maybe for a little while while I'm trying, no harm in it while I dig out. And especially if they have
01:11:19.520
kids or they got somebody else who's depending on them, okay, well I'll take this. And then somebody
01:11:23.420
comes and says, well, you know, like you can also get some welfare payment and you can also get
01:11:27.740
some, like some housing vouchers, et cetera. So then all of a sudden they're in this situation
01:11:32.380
where they add up their disability pay and they add up the food stamps and you add up the housing
01:11:36.460
vouchers. And they're looking at them, I'm making 50, 60 grand a year and they're not working.
01:11:40.580
Yeah. And it's more than what they were making before.
01:11:43.340
And, and, and so then what happens and they're still not mentally, they're still not thinking
01:11:48.000
to themselves. I'm, I'm a welfare recipient. They're still not thinking to themselves. Like I'm,
01:11:52.520
I'm, they're still thinking I'm going to get out, but then they get offered a job and they do the
01:11:58.380
math and like, you know what? Like if I take this job and I lose all these other benefits,
01:12:02.960
I'm only going to make a couple thousand more and I got to work full time and I don't love the
01:12:07.460
prospect of the job. So I'm going to wait. And then they've waited two or three years
01:12:11.860
and then it becomes even harder to hire somebody. Yeah. And so what ends up happening in, in life
01:12:17.580
is that once in, in, in the U S government kind of system is that all of these things, again,
01:12:26.140
well-intentioned, some of them, right? Well-intentioned actually trap people in a situation
01:12:31.880
where they're no longer having to achieve. They're no longer having to drive. And for us,
01:12:37.340
we'd work with some of these men and women. And you know what? The best thing is for them mentally,
01:12:42.140
emotionally for, and I'll tell you this to anybody right now who is feeling depressed, exercise.
01:12:47.460
Yeah. Exercise. Right now. Right now. Like go out, like, like stop, hit pause, hit pause,
01:12:53.280
go out right now and crush it and go do a 60 minute brisk walk, dude. Sweat. You don't even
01:12:58.640
have to run or anything and then come back and listen to the show. And I bet you any amount of
01:13:04.900
money you feel better. A hundred percent. And there's all of this scientific evidence that the
01:13:09.840
long-term effects of exercise stay with people in terms of their mental, their improvements in
01:13:15.240
mental health as compared to medicine, which can have a short-term effect, but, but doesn't
01:13:20.300
actually help people in the long-term. So you go out and you exercise. And what we did at the
01:13:24.840
mission continues. So, you know, the short story there is I came back after my team was hit by a
01:13:29.280
suicide truck bomb. All right. I was very fortunate. My wounds were minor. A bunch of other dudes hurt
01:13:33.380
far worse than I was. And what I saw of this at Bethesda, not Naval Hospital, all these capable people
01:13:38.820
who were suddenly being offered charity. And I, and based on what I'd seen in Bosnia and Rwanda and
01:13:44.920
Cambodia and Albania, I was like, this is not going to work. So what we did at the mission
01:13:49.760
continues was I put in my combat pay, two friends put in money from their disability checks. And we
01:13:54.460
use that to start an organization where we gave fellowships to returning wounded veterans so that
01:14:00.060
they could serve again. And we put them to work at Habitat for Humanity, at Big Brothers, Big
01:14:04.340
Sisters, at a boys and girls club. And you know what? They start exercising and then they show up and
01:14:10.200
they thought they didn't have a purpose. And then the next day they've got a bunch of seventh and
01:14:14.800
eighth graders who are waiting on coach to show up. They need to get out of bed. They need to be
01:14:19.580
there on time. They've got volunteers coming into Habitat for Humanity because they're going to build
01:14:23.640
a home for a homeless veteran and they're working overtime and they're making it happen. And then
01:14:28.700
what happens is that as you build that sense of purpose, right? And again, for anybody who's
01:14:33.700
struggling right now, I just say to you, just take one step. Yeah. Just got to show up.
01:14:38.280
Don't quit today, man. Volunteer. Go help somebody else. There's somebody else who's in a tougher
01:14:43.200
situation than you are right now. So you go out and you help them. And then what happens is that
01:14:48.820
as they would help other people, they'd rebuild their own sense of purpose and then think, you
01:14:53.940
know what? I need to start my own business. I always had that dream. But now I know what I
01:14:58.300
want to go back to school for. I'm going to go back to school. And is the act of actually serving
01:15:03.300
other people help them to rekindle that sense of purpose? And this is part of what we need to do
01:15:13.740
to get to your point. Culturally, all of that was a challenge. The original kind of tagline at the
01:15:20.660
mission continues was, it's not a charity. It's a challenge. We're not offering you charity. We're
01:15:26.840
offering you a challenge because what you'll find is if people don't care about you, they will offer
01:15:32.840
you an excuse. If people love you, they will offer you a challenge. That's right, dude. Kindness is
01:15:40.740
true. You know, people talk about kindness. You talk about kindness a lot and everybody's
01:15:45.820
talking. And by the way, Eric's one of the most kind individuals. One of the things I like about
01:15:49.700
you the best, bro, and I've never told you this before, but it's the truth is I've seen Eric with
01:15:53.900
literally hundreds of strangers over the course of my knowing him, maybe thousands. Okay. And every
01:16:01.720
single person that he comes up with that talks to him, he's present. It's real. It's not,
01:16:07.080
it's what you said. It's what you said at the beginning of the show. It's one of the things I
01:16:10.280
appreciate the most about you, bro, because you've lived an incredible life so far. And it's very
01:16:15.920
evident that you care that other people do as well in their own way. Yes. And I think that's,
01:16:21.360
I mean, dude, we have to have that in our leadership. Yes. You know, we have to have
01:16:26.160
people that are encouraging people to fulfill their own potential. Yes. Because dude, in America, man,
01:16:32.360
you know, what's made America great guys for so long and everybody can agree, right? We have our black
01:16:39.640
guys. We have our things that we've had to overcome, right? Where we started from and where
01:16:43.200
we are is incredible. When you think about the time that we've been here. Yeah. Okay. It's amazing.
01:16:48.460
We're, you know, you talk, people talk about progressive. We're the only society that's ever
01:16:53.100
existed in the history of humanity where different cultures come, adopt a new culture that everybody
01:16:59.880
is tolerant of everybody else and works together to win that, that does not happen in other,
01:17:05.040
it's never happened. It is a miracle. Yeah. It is a miracle and it has to be preserved. Yes.
01:17:12.980
It's weird, man. I think if people had a little more perspective of, of history, you know, and they
01:17:17.520
don't let us know history anymore. They're not teaching these kids the right history. They're
01:17:21.340
teaching them their history. Yeah. Dude, whatever they want. Yeah. Whatever they write and then they'll
01:17:25.980
sell it to you. But we could get on that, on, we go down that rabbit hole all day, but I mean.
01:17:30.180
But you know, again, it's true. It's a, it's a, it's an important point though, because in the same
01:17:34.500
way, it's important, the story that you tell yourself. So the human mind is narrative. Okay.
01:17:40.700
We think in terms of stories, right? If we right now, you know, if I said to, to you or DJ, you guys
01:17:48.960
said to me like three or four facts, I might forget them by tomorrow. Right. But DJ tells me a cool story.
01:17:54.200
Right. I'm going to remember that for 30 years. Yeah. Right. Okay. The human mind's narrative,
01:17:58.240
our stories guide us. And one of the things that's important, what we did with veterans,
01:18:03.240
what we have to do as a country, you got to think about your own story. Okay. So is the story,
01:18:08.220
I was hit by an RPG, I lost my arm. And after that, I'm a charity case and I'm worthless. Or
01:18:14.440
I was hit by an RPG, I lost my arm. It was tragic. I mourned. I suffered. I went through hell. And you
01:18:22.480
know what? On the other side of that, I found these tremendous gifts that other people were suffering
01:18:27.560
also. And when they saw me and they saw me working, they said to themselves like, oh man,
01:18:33.120
like I have a lot to be grateful for. When they saw what I had done, when I decided after my PTSD,
01:18:38.800
whatever, I'm going to own my own, build my own business. I inspired other people. And this thing
01:18:43.800
that looked so painful actually turned into a great gift. Not only the great gift, it becomes the
01:18:48.320
greatest gift of your life. The greatest gift of your life. Dude, I know this. Okay. Like you guys,
01:18:52.420
a lot of you guys don't listen to the show regularly. 2003, I was stabbed in the face. I
01:18:57.120
almost died. Okay. For two years after that, I was a massive, like everyday suicidal depression.
01:19:04.380
Like every day, not only did I think about killing myself, I thought about how I would do it and how
01:19:09.540
I could do it to where it would be the least burdened on everybody else for fucking two years,
01:19:13.600
bro. So I know what that's like. All right. And then as you guys know, I met this woman in the
01:19:19.480
grocery store who had been burned beyond belief. Okay. She was missing a leg. She had been in a
01:19:25.900
small airplane crash. Her whole family is killed. And when you have a facial disfigurement, one of
01:19:31.920
two things is what happens. Okay. Either people look at you and it used to be a lot worse. It's 20
01:19:36.980
years ago. You know, my face on this, on the left side of my face was swollen up the side of a grapefruit
01:19:41.840
for about 18 months, a year to 18 months. And so I was very disfigured for a while and people will do
01:19:49.140
one of two things. They either look at you and they say, fuck dude, what happened to your face?
01:19:53.020
Or they don't look at you at all. They look at the ground or they look over here to the left or to
01:19:57.040
the right or over your head. They just will not look at you because they don't want to feel like
01:20:02.020
they're staring. But what it does is it dehumanizes you because you're like, fuck dude, nobody will even
01:20:07.600
look at me. And so when I met this lady in the grocery store, we were going down the aisle and I
01:20:14.800
bumped carts with her and I looked over at her and like, I couldn't tell if it was a man or a woman
01:20:20.280
and it was a woman. And she goes, dude, the fuck happened to your face? Yeah. But her face is gone,
01:20:28.260
dude. Like her face was gone. And, uh, and we both laughed. We had this big laugh and like, dude,
01:20:34.180
it was 15 minutes. Like I still, part of me thinks that was God. And that was like, not even a real
01:20:39.420
thing because it totally changed my life. That one conversation I walked out of that store,
01:20:45.380
um, with a completely different perspective. And now, you know, when I, when I left that store
01:20:51.860
and I started looking at, okay, what are the good things that have happened to me because of this?
01:20:56.880
And what, what had been happening, but I hadn't noticed it was that in my business life, people
01:21:01.760
were starting to remember us. All right. We didn't, we weren't successful. Nobody knew who we were.
01:21:06.380
We didn't have money. Um, we weren't special, but people remember this as silly as this sounds.
01:21:12.460
The one thing I could be grateful for in that moment was that in business, people remembered me.
01:21:17.500
Right. So I thought about, I'm like, okay, well, that's a huge advantage. And I started thinking
01:21:21.300
about all these different advantages I had because of what happened. All right. And those advantages
01:21:26.260
carry to this day. And now 20 years, whatever it is, it was 2003. So almost 20 years later,
01:21:32.080
um, I looked back at it and not only do I say, man, I'm glad that actually happened. I say it's
01:21:37.620
the best fucking thing that ever happened to me in my life. And I could have very easily went down
01:21:42.040
the other path. Right. You know what I mean? I was very, very lucky. Like I don't talk about luck
01:21:46.300
very often, but I was very, very fortunate and lucky to run into that woman on that day.
01:21:51.560
Yes. Yes. And that's, and that's also, you know, a couple of different threads here, right?
01:21:56.440
The core of resilience, right? So when people think about resilience, they often have a, have a,
01:22:02.400
uh, I think an improper concept of resilience. We think of resilience as elasticity. It's like
01:22:08.440
a physics definition. Like you think of a ball and you squeeze it. And, and the measure of,
01:22:12.960
of resilience is how quickly it returns to its prior state. Human resilience doesn't work that way
01:22:18.560
because you're always changing in time. Right? So, so when, when you get hit by hardship,
01:22:24.140
it hits a moving object, like you're moving and hardship hits you and you are never the 23 year
01:22:31.400
old Marine who got hit by an RPG is never going to be the same kid as he was the day before he was
01:22:38.340
hit by an RPG. That is gone. And this is the truth. We're never going to be the people we were
01:22:43.460
yesterday. No matter what happens today, you cannot be the person who you were yesterday.
01:22:47.800
Well, and as a country, bro, we talk about this all the time. We're not going back to 2019.
01:22:51.620
It's not going to happen. It's like a lot of people are waiting. They're waiting and waiting
01:22:55.580
and waiting. And they think, and this goes back to your analogy of the country as a human and human
01:23:00.400
as a country. Guys, we ain't going back. No, correct. When they said new normal, they meant
01:23:05.860
that shit. Yeah. So if we want the way I see it and the way you and I've talked about it,
01:23:12.460
you know, we have the opportunity to recreate a better, a better place. We are. And that's the
01:23:18.780
thing is like, people see this as like, man, I want 2019. That was 2019. That fucking great.
01:23:24.440
Like to be completely honest, it was great compared to what we have, but we had a lot
01:23:28.160
of problems. We had a lot of division. We had a lot of apathy. We have a lot of laziness.
01:23:32.140
We have a lot of entitlement. We have a lot of issues in the country that need to be actually
01:23:35.580
addressed. And we have the opportunity because of the destruction and the crimes against humanity
01:23:41.520
that have been put down upon our society. And to be honest, the entire world over the last couple
01:23:47.280
of years to actually remove these people who created this from our leadership and build an
01:23:52.980
entirely new, actually free society. Yes. Yes. And we're not going back because it can't happen.
01:24:00.960
Yeah. It's just part of, it's part of the, and again, this is the kind of Greek view, the tragic
01:24:04.820
nature of human life. Like you're moving forward and you're going to be hit by hardship. So you have
01:24:09.080
to decide which direction you're going to go. And I agree. I think that there's so, this has
01:24:15.460
made people come alive. It's made people wake up and realize not just what we lost, but also what
01:24:24.380
we are facing. And everybody recognizes we need to step forward if we're going to, if we're going to
01:24:29.120
make it through. All right. So we have, but what here, but here's the key, whether it's a human being
01:24:34.260
or an Asian, like we have a choice. We have a choice about how we're going to deal with this. And I'm
01:24:38.640
here for the revival, right? Not just, not just at a personal level, but, but as, as a country.
01:24:43.220
And that's why, why everybody's listening to this. And your point, I think is the essential one is
01:24:48.380
that yes, I I'll win this race and I'll, and I'll be elected, but here's the key. Like me as one U S
01:24:55.800
Senator, like, or, or, or anybody, even as the president of the United States, you can't revive
01:25:02.000
a culture on your own. Leadership is essential, but everyone who's listening right now has a role to
01:25:07.860
play. That's right. You want to make the country stronger, make yourself strong. That's right.
01:25:11.160
You want to make the country stronger, make your business stronger. You want to make the country
01:25:14.540
stronger, make your community stronger, right? That we all have a role to play. And that's part
01:25:19.660
of the tremendous revival that's possible. And what we did also at the mission continues was
01:25:24.680
you got a lot of veterans who'd been through hardship together and they'd all do their individual
01:25:29.580
fellowships. But then we'd bring hundreds of people out, veterans and people who weren't veterans.
01:25:34.680
And we do, uh, you know, places where we'd go to a park, for example, and build baseball fields,
01:25:41.000
or we'd go into a school and everybody, hundreds of people would work in one day to transform the
01:25:46.040
school. And what you got then was it individual people who are all on their own journey of revival.
01:25:51.360
Like then they start to see there are all of these people who are doing positive things
01:25:55.880
together. And that is the, the incredible magic, right? When you take what's happening in one
01:26:02.560
person's life and you add it to two people and then three people, and then all of a sudden there's
01:26:06.640
a community. Yes. It's like throwing a stone in a pond. Yes. You know what I mean? The ripple,
01:26:12.000
no matter how little the stone is of, of improvement that you're making, people see it. And, and dude,
01:26:17.840
this, this nation, how, how we become great, isn't just telling people, Hey, you need to be better.
01:26:24.080
No, it's by, it's like what Vince Lombardi says. It's leading by example. It's not, it's not the
01:26:29.760
best way to lead. It's the only way to lead. So if you're a, if you're living like DJ in your
01:26:33.880
neighborhood, I can tell you this from a fact. All right. Because when I was 350 pounds, I had
01:26:40.200
neighbors and I had to get my fat ass out on the street and do the cardio and do all the work.
01:26:44.320
And guess what happened? Guess what started happening? I started seeing neighbors on the
01:26:48.580
street. I started seeing people. What happens around here in our office park? What do we see?
01:26:53.760
Yeah. Now we've got other companies. Everybody here is doing outside cardio. And when it's 10 degrees
01:26:59.400
outside and what do we see? Oh, the neighbors across over here who don't have anything to
01:27:04.460
do with fitness or health or anything are inspired to go out and do things that are difficult to
01:27:09.620
better themselves. And so you guys cannot underestimate the media, the political power
01:27:16.500
machine, the Hollywood, all of these things collude to make us feel like that we are little
01:27:22.680
characters in a play that doesn't really concern us. We're here to observe and we're not,
01:27:27.600
we're the fucking main actors of this play. Yeah. And unless we're getting out there
01:27:32.260
and doing our work and living our lives, other people are not getting out there doing the same
01:27:38.400
thing, which is what creates the complacency and the apathy that we have. A good thing is I believe
01:27:43.820
that it is changing. It is. It is. I believe people have like that narrative that I'm talking about
01:27:48.840
of suppressing the human spirit. I think people are starting to really understand how hard that's been
01:27:55.440
pressed upon us. We are very oppressed people here in America. Like people do not understand
01:27:59.940
suppressed. Yeah. Suppressed. Not we are free. Yes. Quote unquote free, but we, we are, we are
01:28:10.380
marketed to on a daily basis by, by trillions of dollars of power and outlets to be less than what
01:28:17.880
we were meant to be for a reason. And, and they benefit from that. That's right. I mean,
01:28:22.160
and look, think about this. You pay them to do it. Right. A lot of times. Yeah. Right. I mean,
01:28:27.080
think about this. It, you know, you go back, think about the, it's, it, it almost feels because
01:28:33.180
people are free of it now that the masks, think about that, putting masks that don't work on kids
01:28:40.700
who aren't susceptible to a virus. Like think about this, the government suppression,
01:28:44.960
like the government was going to order people to stay in their houses. The government ordered
01:28:48.920
people. You can't go to church. Government ordered people. Like this is a disgusting level of tyranny.
01:28:55.640
And, and the fact is with all of that, we either decide again, do we accept that? Or does everybody
01:29:02.900
say never again, never again, never, never, ever, ever again. Yeah. Dude, the, the whole,
01:29:08.960
the whole concept, like, here's what really boils me to, this is what boils me up when I, when I,
01:29:17.200
cause like, dude, I run a company. We have, we have a lot of employees. We have a close to 400
01:29:21.740
in-house and thousands and thousands remote. Um, so I understand how the backdoor conversations affect
01:29:31.860
the front facing operation, right? Right. Right. Like very well. Yes. And like, and most people
01:29:37.520
don't because they don't run a company of that size. Right. Right. So here's what fucking burns
01:29:41.880
my ass, bro. What are the conversations happening in private about, about us? Right. They are,
01:29:49.500
dude, if you guys could eat, if you guys could backtrack and really understand how that flow of
01:29:54.940
communication works to get the front facing result, I promise you, they are talking about us as if we
01:30:02.300
are insignificant little peasants that they rule over every single day. That is exactly what they
01:30:08.800
think. Yeah. They think that they are smarter than we are. They think that they are better than we are.
01:30:14.560
And they think that they have the right to rule over us. That's very clear. That is exactly what's
01:30:20.420
happening and they can't help themselves. It seeps out of every poor, their disdain for us. And it's
01:30:28.760
all rooted. This is part of the leftist ideology, right? And it's important to like, you go back
01:30:34.200
to think about like, what are the core beliefs that undergird this, you know, terrible, tyrannical
01:30:43.240
worldview. And one of them is that they believe that there are perfect solutions, right? One of the
01:30:49.760
things that people who live real lives know is that like life is, again, it's tragic in the sense that
01:30:54.760
there aren't perfect decisions. Sometimes in most of life, if you make this decision, it's good,
01:31:02.560
but it also has bad consequences. Like there's life isn't perfect. There's give and take in life.
01:31:08.080
Sometimes life is so beautiful that you cry, right? That's the nature of a real life. What leftists
01:31:14.340
believe is that they can perfectly dictate life's decisions to other people. And they think that
01:31:22.120
because they believe they are smarter than us, they should be able to dictate to us. And that's
01:31:28.980
where the entire leftist ideology comes from. That's why they believe in censorship because they truly
01:31:35.800
believe that there's a perfect answer, right? If you believe as our founding fathers did, if you believe
01:31:40.840
that life is fundamentally, you know, there's the whole idea of like Adam and Eve, right? It started
01:31:45.240
with the mistake, right? And then they, and then, and then the whole, the whole process, the whole
01:31:49.860
process begins. So if you have that worldview, then, and you understand that life isn't perfect,
01:31:57.780
then what it means is that you need to have practical wisdom. It means that you need to have
01:32:01.960
compassion. It means that you need to have courage. It means that you have to work in a world where
01:32:06.340
there aren't perfect choices. Leftists believe that they can tell you perfectly what to do,
01:32:12.060
which is why they want to censor you. And it's interesting to me too, because none of them
01:32:16.180
have ever done a fucking thing. Nothing, nothing, nothing. Like dude, it was some point you look
01:32:21.840
around your life and you think, man, I, do I really have it figured out or do I not know that much?
01:32:27.280
You know what I'm saying? Of course. Like that would be a reasonable thought,
01:32:30.200
but they seem to miss that point. It's actually, it's a really experts on everything. Yeah. But,
01:32:34.480
but epidemiology from the fucking strategy. Yeah. From the basement of their middle-aged mom,
01:32:42.700
like I need another hot pocket. Look, dude, here's the thing. You know, we, we have to get to a point
01:32:50.960
where people understand what to do, because I think one of the biggest things that's going on at this
01:32:57.060
point, from my point of view, pretty wide range audience here. You know, I've got a lot of people
01:33:02.520
that really agree with everything. I say, I have a lot of people that don't, but still listen
01:33:05.680
because they, they, they're, they want to hear it. Bring in something. Yeah. Yeah. And, uh,
01:33:10.740
what I observe at this point in time is that everybody understands there's some really bad
01:33:14.920
problems, um, but they're not sure exactly what to do. And we cover the main thing that they need
01:33:19.980
to do, which is your own personal responsibility inside your own home. If you're not taking care of
01:33:25.700
yourself, start there. Okay. And that will ripple out. But the second thing that I wanted to touch on
01:33:30.480
while you're here, brother, is because a lot of people don't know who to vote for. Yeah. A lot
01:33:34.840
of people are like, shit, man, I've always went in and I've just checked the R's or I've checked the
01:33:39.120
D's and I vote to be honest with you. That's how I've always voted. I've always been someone who's
01:33:44.940
voted on the side with my thinking being, all right, well, I don't agree with the rights they say,
01:33:50.380
and I don't necessarily agree with what these guys say are full, but I feel like this is the better
01:33:54.400
option. But the problem is we can no longer vote like that because both sides are compromised.
01:34:01.600
So like, how do I know the, cause I get this question a lot, Andy, how do I know who to vote
01:34:07.240
for, man? I feel like everybody is lying. Yeah. So how do we, what could people do listening?
01:34:13.140
You know, maybe they're in, maybe they're in a Connecticut or maybe they're in Nevada or
01:34:17.620
wherever, but how do we, what should we be looking for? Well, first, first of all, I mean,
01:34:22.860
I think just again, always be honest and realistic with people. Like you may be in a situation where
01:34:29.660
there aren't good choices, right? And if you believe that most of the politicians are lying
01:34:33.920
to you, you're probably right. Okay. I would tell people trust their instincts. Okay. Trust your
01:34:39.920
instincts. When you, when you listen to, to most politicians who are talking, like you can tell,
01:34:45.160
like they either don't know what they're talking about. They don't really care about it. They
01:34:49.340
haven't done any real research on it and they're not fully invested. Now, of course, this isn't
01:34:54.180
everyone, right? But I think that what I would say to people is think of yourself as more than a voter.
01:35:02.560
Okay. If you think of your, of your civic engagement, right, as only voting, if you think of politics
01:35:08.120
as only voting, then, then we're playing into their game. Okay. So you go back, right? So, so
01:35:16.200
politics, right? What Aristotle talked about politics, it's the art and science of creating
01:35:20.920
and sustaining human communities, right? It comes from the polis, the Greek city state, right? So
01:35:25.440
how do you sustain your community? Well, politics is making sure that the kids in your local school
01:35:32.260
can read, right? Politics is making sure that you're taking care of your lawn, right? Politics
01:35:38.160
is making sure that you are an engaged citizen on your school board. And so if you think about
01:35:44.700
politics, just as voting, it will be, and often can be very disenchanting because you look up and
01:35:52.540
you're like, Hey, they, these aren't great choices, but I'll tell you this, you get involved
01:35:56.960
and figure out some way to get deeply involved. I'd say it's far, far better for the cultural
01:36:03.680
revival of this country. If people who are listening right now decide, you know what? I am going to
01:36:08.160
figure out who the best candidate for my school board is. And then not only am I going to try to
01:36:14.400
figure out who the 20 people are, who I need to vote for, I'm going to go all in for that candidate.
01:36:19.260
I'm going to try to teach people about this. I'm going to try to teach people about this.
01:36:22.980
I'm going to learn how politics works. I'm going to learn what it takes to order yard signs.
01:36:26.800
I'm going to learn what it means to knock on doors. And then, wow, then you're a threat
01:36:30.800
because then you found out what it means to actually learn and get behind one person. And
01:36:36.200
you know what? If you can do that with one person, then you can do it in the next cycle
01:36:39.960
with two. And then you can teach other people. Then you are a real threat to the uniparty.
01:36:44.460
Then you're a real threat to the establishment. So what I would say is, because oftentimes people
01:36:49.760
think, all right, well, you know, I got to vote in these 20 different elections, right? Okay. And yes,
01:36:54.020
you do, and you should do your research and talk to people and come up, you know,
01:36:57.360
vote for the most authentic people you can, right? But really, if you're going to get involved,
01:37:04.580
if you decide, I want to get involved, find one place and then go deeper, right? And it can be a
01:37:10.340
candidate for a statewide office. It can be a candidate for anything. And it doesn't also just
01:37:15.020
have to be in elected politics. You could decide there's a specific policy that I want to have
01:37:21.760
changed. Figure out how do you make your intersection safer? Now, this is a very small
01:37:28.480
thing, but if you actually figure out, you know what? I don't feel like this intersection is safe
01:37:33.160
enough for my kids. And then you go down and you figure out how the budget actually works and what
01:37:38.100
it actually takes to get the street department to come out and to put up an extra stop sign or to
01:37:43.060
change a stop sign to a red light. Then you're really engaged. And once you figured out how to do
01:37:49.320
one thing like that, it's going to be much easier to do two and to do three. And that,
01:37:54.940
if you're listening right now and you want to become a real threat to the political establishment,
01:38:00.680
figure out what it actually takes to help somebody make a transition from homelessness.
01:38:05.620
Figure out what it actually takes to help third graders who don't know how to read,
01:38:08.700
learn how to read. Figure out what it actually takes to make an intersection safer.
01:38:12.100
What you're doing here, dude, is Eric's uncovering the massive secret about politics is that if you
01:38:16.940
know shit and how to do it, you'll find out real quick who doesn't know.
01:38:21.560
I was going to say this, man, like when it comes to like figuring out who's real.
01:38:25.900
And again, this goes back to 2015, man. It started with a fucking handshake.
01:38:30.700
You know what I'm saying? Like you're on the campaign trail right now, right?
01:38:33.600
You're in a different city every fucking day, right?
01:38:36.340
Right. Right. We were just just in Kansas City, the two rallies.
01:38:39.660
You know what I'm saying? So you're moving around. So and I think the overarching message here
01:38:43.240
is guys, if you're listening, whether you're in Missouri, whether you're wherever, you got
01:38:58.360
Because a lot I've always been a firm believer that you can tell a whole lot about a person
01:39:05.460
Right. Like, are they just moving and grooving? Are they just trying to get some photo ops?
01:39:09.060
Like, go. You got to take some initiative because that's really where it starts it.
01:39:16.740
At this point where we are as a kid, that's not enough.
01:39:21.400
Go there. Go there. Go to those sound halls, man.
01:39:23.160
Take initiative. I've been to two of yours so far.
01:39:25.520
And I would like, I mean, this is like a fucking Eric, you know, we're just tooting all of
01:39:36.060
And you can tell that, you know, you genuinely care.
01:39:39.880
And I know, I know, I mean, I just know, I know because we live in Missouri.
01:39:45.820
But guys, you can find these candidates everywhere.
01:39:47.780
There are real people more and more every single day that are stepping up to these plates that
01:39:53.520
I'll go fight this battle. I'll go lead this war.
01:40:00.920
And I was actually going to say this earlier, too, man, because it made me think about with
01:40:06.320
Roe v. Wade stuff and Justice Alito, you know, one of his comments was that, you know, it's
01:40:12.080
time to heed the Constitution and return it back to the people's elected representatives
01:40:18.000
And so there's this mass growth of responsibility, I guess, or obligation that people are starting
01:40:31.160
I think to your point, I think it's a really important one.
01:40:50.560
A lot of people go and they meet three people and they say, you know what?
01:41:04.240
But really, but if you're listening to this right now, the country is going to be far,
01:41:21.460
And then you can figure out not just who you're going to vote for, because voting is like,
01:41:35.100
But the uniparty in the establishment wants you to think that's all you have to do.
01:41:42.440
If you're really engaged, if we have truly engaged citizens who know how stuff works
01:41:47.520
and are willing to get it done, that is how you really revive the country.
01:41:51.780
You know, it used to be, oh, well, I don't like nobody, so I'm just not going to vote.
01:42:02.480
I'm saying, like, whether you think you're voting or not, you're voting.
01:42:35.100
You want to look for who's real, look at who everybody hates.
01:42:38.940
Like, what's that been like to be a target where people are literally, because it's proven
01:42:44.020
now that both of these scenarios that you've been attacked for are false.
01:42:53.800
It's no different than what Hillary did with coming up with the Russia collusion on Trump.
01:43:11.360
It's different now than it was then, because I've changed.
01:43:15.540
So when it first, when it first happened, when the George Soros attack came, like, and
01:43:21.680
It was charged with seven felonies for perjury and evidence tampering.
01:43:24.700
We've uncovered now, like, why they attacked me because, you know, we supported our police
01:43:29.460
We defeated Black Lives Matter and Antifa, all that stuff.
01:43:32.180
Like, that's all been out there, even though the George Soros-funded prosecutor admitted
01:43:38.800
But in the beginning, the truth is, I was scared.
01:43:44.600
Like, you had a George Soros-funded prosecutor come after you, saying the vilest, nasty things
01:43:50.780
about you, and they print them all over the world.
01:43:54.920
But what's that like, like, knowing, like, that it's false, right?
01:44:06.020
Like, doesn't there need to be some reform to some sort?
01:44:11.240
So, side note, yes, there needs to be massive reform.
01:44:15.200
The journalists can no longer lie, and that's all they do.
01:44:21.460
They literally lie about people and get away with it because they're, quote, public figures.
01:44:27.100
They're allowed to say anything that they want about a, you know, supposed public figure.
01:44:33.140
100% that has to be changed, and they need to be held accountable for it.
01:44:37.700
But in terms of, you know, what it's like, in the beginning, it was scary in part because,
01:44:44.500
again, I always look, if there's ever a challenge, I always look at myself first.
01:44:52.620
And one of the things, one of the places where I failed is that I believed that the truth
01:45:04.200
And I believe that, you know, the newspaper could write a headline, Soros-funded prosecutor
01:45:12.740
Like, that would have been an accurate headline, right?
01:45:22.940
And I said to them, and I'm on the phone with somebody who had, and I was on the phone
01:45:30.640
They had broadcast lies literally around the world.
01:45:34.000
And I said to them, will you write a true story?
01:45:37.560
Like, well, we wanted to talk with you about the politics of it.
01:45:49.680
Like, we already blew away all of this nonsense, right?
01:46:02.100
I said, well, I mean, that's above my pay grade.
01:46:08.600
So one of the mistakes that I made early on was I thought that that mattered.
01:46:13.440
And again, I went back and I read, I find a lot of comfort reading history.
01:46:18.840
So I went back and I look at Winston Churchill, who went through a very similar thing, like
01:46:23.340
when he was about my age, he was falsely blamed for Gallipoli, right?
01:46:28.380
He was falsely blamed for tens of thousands of people losing their lives.
01:46:33.880
And all those lies actually haunted him all the way up until the beginning of World War
01:46:43.780
And yes, there was later a commission that did a full look into Gallipoli, completely exonerated
01:46:57.660
He actually went back to the trenches of World War I.
01:47:00.240
And so for me, part of what I had to recognize was that these lies that they, they put out
01:47:09.440
lies against people who are threats and this is what they do and they're going to do it
01:47:15.300
So now I actually said to somebody, I find it somewhat comforting because it means that I'm
01:47:21.160
I said, I hope that every single week until the week that I pass from this earth, they
01:47:27.500
write some nasty lie about me because that means that I'm still making a difference.
01:47:32.820
If they start ignoring me and they're not lying about me, it means that I'm not making a difference.
01:47:41.580
I think the media has to be completely rebuilt.
01:47:48.600
I've had hit pieces done on me and fucking good morning America.
01:47:52.000
Like, dude, you know what happened when that happened?
01:48:00.300
So, like, that should tell you that people are realizing, like, if you haven't caught
01:48:05.160
on yet, I'm just telling you, like, whatever they say, oh, that guy bad, that's the good
01:48:16.480
Whatever they're peddling is probably 70% wrong, if not 100% wrong.
01:48:25.740
When it comes to, I mean, because again, when it comes to, you know, how do we know who's
01:48:31.040
Well, when you look at politics, right, being a rhino, right, being somebody who's just up
01:48:36.420
at Capitol Hill or at a state capitol, it's a nice life.
01:48:45.200
They get all these people who, you know, come and ask for their opinion.
01:48:52.580
And they are, and the mainstream media is always writing nice stuff about them.
01:48:58.780
But it's the people who are a real threat they go after.
01:49:02.480
And the bigger threat you are, the more viciously they will attack you.
01:49:12.580
Like, dude, the first time it happened to me, like for two days, I'm like, holy shit,
01:49:37.240
The next day, I'm like, all right, what happened today?
01:49:44.820
Because I didn't want to make it like, I was like, okay, I would try to keep it small.
01:49:48.780
And they're like, dude, we're getting these emails in from people saying they saw you on
01:50:00.300
So, like, dude, the more they attack, it's weird, too, because then you have these other
01:50:06.340
politicians who are, like, piling on the attacks.
01:50:12.820
Well, now I know who you are and what you're about.
01:50:17.100
Just wait, because there's a lot of Trojan horses.
01:50:20.060
I'm like, hey, look, guys, I did something bad, too, for real.
01:50:24.740
So, dude, we're closing in on two hours, man, and that's, like, the max listener time.
01:50:33.540
And, like, I would like you to come by again soon.
01:50:42.700
Because, like, I think today, you know, I felt like when we had you first on the show,
01:50:48.380
But people didn't realize where your desire and want to solve these problems comes from.
01:50:56.600
I wanted them to understand, like, this isn't some person who is tied in with all these people
01:51:02.720
who's going to go there and go along with the status quo.
01:51:08.660
This is a man who is going to stand up for what he believes is right and wrong, regardless
01:51:14.100
And this is, you guys that like Trump, this is a guy that has that grit, that has that
01:51:19.580
ability to stand up and say, hey, you know what?
01:51:24.860
You know, one of the things that I thought was, I'll tell this story, and I don't know
01:51:29.840
if it's appropriate or not, but I don't really give a shit.
01:51:33.880
Well, I got a sign in my garage that says Mary Jane.
01:51:39.220
And guess what people in the cannabis business do?
01:51:43.160
And so we're having this big event at my house for Eric.
01:51:46.780
And I'm like, hey, man, like, I don't want any of your people to get like rubbed the
01:51:56.420
And if they don't like a tough shit, we're not going to hide from anybody.
01:51:59.520
We're going to fight for whatever it is we are.
01:52:03.680
So we should collaborate with people who are different thinkers.
01:52:07.000
And if we go and censor ourselves from who we are, people don't realize that we have differences.
01:52:13.140
And, dude, that was when I knew, like, for sure, I'm like, this is my fucking guy right
01:52:20.720
Because I was like, man, you know, like, there's a lot of important people coming.
01:52:26.080
But, but, but yeah, guys, it's, you know, I just, I'm excited.
01:52:31.920
I feel hope for America way more than I have the last couple of years because people are
01:52:39.440
Like, I'm having conversations with people who typically I wouldn't, who are like, man,
01:52:45.300
you know, I don't like, dude, I'm talking about extremely liberal people who understand
01:52:55.780
And, you know, I had, I've been comfortable for too long.
01:52:58.640
I had one of my most liberal, one of the most liberal people I know, a female who, you
01:53:05.080
know, we, we, we don't talk that much because we clearly knew it was funny because a couple
01:53:10.640
of years ago, she DM me and this, she's in my family and she DM me and I just DMed her
01:53:20.800
And she's like, actually, I don't want to argue.
01:53:24.960
And, and, and I just was curious as your perspective.
01:53:27.300
And from that conversation, now we've developed a whole entire new relationship based upon
01:53:35.620
And we may not agree with every single thing or every single issue, but I respect the fact
01:53:40.200
that she understands where she stands and is willing to, to go get involved in those,
01:53:45.040
in those causes, even if they're not the causes that I'm about.
01:53:52.960
And, and I think what's really important here is that if we are going to take the country
01:53:57.520
back, one of the things that we have to do, okay.
01:54:05.620
They already have all of their judgments about all of us.
01:54:10.800
We have to recognize that people are capable of change.
01:54:13.900
We have to recognize that if you have a tough, cool life experience, you might come out the
01:54:19.760
We have to recognize, we have to stay curious ourselves so that we continue to learn and we
01:54:27.960
Like that's the way that the country is going to grow is that we have to recognize, yeah,
01:54:33.180
there might be some people who we disagreed with last week and you know what?
01:54:36.860
They might teach us something and, and we might be able to find ways, ways to work together.
01:54:43.520
The, the establishment works if everybody's frozen.
01:54:49.380
If we're frozen and just fighting each other, there's no way out.
01:54:53.960
Well, a lot of people don't realize, bro, that that's what they did with COVID.
01:54:56.760
They, they brought that division down to inside the household.
01:55:04.060
Look, it's what they're doing with critical race theory in the U S military.
01:55:09.300
The U S military is the most well-integrated institution in the history of planet earth.
01:55:16.020
So one of the things that we have to do, the leftists, again, they hate the country.
01:55:23.560
At the end of the day, right, when you talk about courage, not just political courage,
01:55:27.980
moral courage, emotional courage, what is courage?
01:55:36.620
You're willing to face fear because you love something.
01:55:39.800
And we have to have the courage to keep our hearts open.
01:55:43.520
Even though after all of the nastiness and the attacks, it might be easy to close that
01:55:48.280
You got to keep your heart open to the possibility that life's going to teach you things.
01:55:53.000
And that other people that who you may have just disagreed with or actually, you know,
01:55:59.300
been, been at, at odds with can actually be forgiven.
01:56:03.640
And we got to ask grace on an individual level.
01:56:07.160
We need accountability for the people who masterminded this stuff.
01:56:12.080
Like, look, I will not die from this planet without that happening.
01:56:17.880
Because like, dude, to me, that's the number one issue.
01:56:20.000
The crimes against humanity, the lies, the unnecessary deaths, like the bent statistics,
01:56:35.160
And this, listen, I know a lot of young people listening to the show.
01:56:38.540
You guys think that this was just like a hard time.
01:56:48.360
And people, and I've said, people need to be held accountable.
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But on a family level, on a family level, and by the way, that's why I'm donating seven
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Because I want motherfuckers that are going to go in and hold these people accountable.
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But dude, we, and by the way, just so you got, because I know a lot of people listen
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to the show, you guys who are asking, you could donate on Eric's site.
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Yeah, you can go to ericgreitens.com, sign up to volunteer, sign up to donate, be honored
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So you can give a max of $2,900 per individual to the primary campaign.
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And there are other organizations who I know you're your support.
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Well, I was going to mention the one I'm giving to.
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So I did some research, and there's a lot of different, like a lot of you guys that
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You could only donate a certain amount to the candidate directly.
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But then what you do is you find a political action committee that is willing to donate.
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And I found one that is only for Eric Greitens.
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So if you're wondering how do you donate, Missouri First Action is the pack.
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And I can't just step away from my company and go running.
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But guys, I would ask, you know, like, support this man as if you were supporting me.
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Like, if I was running and you were running to give me some shit, give it to this guy.
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These guys who are real people, who I know very, very well, and I trust that they are
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And bro, I'm just, this last couple of years has been so fucking hard for everybody.
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And I'm just glad that you decided to come back and give this a run after all the shit
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Like, you guys who are out there struggling and you're miserable and things are tough,
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understand that these people have made it intentionally hard for you.
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This is not how we should be treating each other.
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And to my point of grace, while we do need to hold the people who did this accountable,
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We need to have grace with our people in our community.
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The people who, maybe on Facebook or Instagram, said some shit like, you know, like Andy
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Frisella belongs in a fucking camp because he won't get it.
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Look, I understand this is a huge psychological operation that was put down and I hold no
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ill will towards those people, but you guys have to wake up and we got to have grace on
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And we have to, we have to, as leaders, we have to, as community members, like, we got
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We want to have a country where this, this is, this was a country founded on people who
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were fleeing their old lives, came to this country to build a new life.
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It's been a, been a country where everybody got not just a chance, but second and third
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That's part of the promise of America is that you can rebuild yourself.
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You can go through some really hard times and you can come out and you can build a new
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It's the only place in the world where that's, that's, that's possible.
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And yes, we're going to hold them all accountable.
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And at the community level with our neighbors for ourselves, we have to be able to forgive.
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Because dude, if we held everybody accountable, there'd be problems.
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But like, dude, this is the thing, dude, this is the thing that I try to say on the show.
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Cause like, dude, we do have some aggressive minded people on the show, which I appreciate
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But you guys have to understand that these people who have been out championing these
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causes for these people at the top, they are taking, they're being taken advantage of.
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They are being threatened and fear mongered into believing certain things that just happen
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And if you want to really talk about what they are, they're victims of a trillion dollar
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And we cannot expect that our neighbor, Steve, to understand that what the news is saying
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Like we, I'm not, look, I'm not going to get into, I've talked for two years about this.
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Y'all know where I stand, but I just want to get this shit back on track.
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Well, the key, the key distinction I'd offer is there's some real evil people who did evil
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And when I use that word evil, I use it intentionally, not metaphorically.
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Letting murderers loose onto the streets, right?
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That's what these Soros funder prosecutors done.
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Making kids who have disabilities, forcing them to stay out of school when this thing posed
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That is evil and they knew it closing the entire middle-class business, shutting it
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all down and sending them to the big box retailers and online their buddies.
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And let's also recognize like they own almost all of Hollywood.
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They own almost all of, of higher education, right?
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So there are a lot of good people who got misled by their lies, right?
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We need to have some grace for all of them because it's an extraordinarily powerful force,
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Like a lot of people here on the show that listen, you know, we have millions of listeners
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on this show, guys, you cannot expect people to join your cause when you ridicule them constantly
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At some point, you're going to have to say, Hey, I forgive you, bro.
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And, and you have to, you have to make sure that your purpose is larger than being right.
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That, that your purpose is larger than also some slight.
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A lot of people say to me like, well, what about, you know, the people who attack, attack,
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Like, obviously like God's going to do justice to them and I want and need them to be held
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And my purpose is much larger than getting back at people who falsely attacked me.
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And we're going to create a past, a prosperous, free, best America that's ever existed.
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So that people can never have the opportunity to clean it out.
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This is a tremendous opportunity so that people can look back a hundred years from now and say,
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It was handed a tremendous amount of hardship and look how they responded.
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If you didn't get value out of that show, it's the best we got.
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So on behalf of DJ and Eric and the team here, love you guys.