REAL AF with Andy Frisella - May 11, 2022


291. Q&AF： Going Door-To-Door, Acquiring A Company & Biggest Destroyer Of Self-Esteem

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In this episode of The Realists, DJ and Andy talk about how to get a little smarter, a little stronger, and a little healthier. The root of this entire problem that we re facing in the country starts with us. It s our standards, it s our accountability, and it s what kind of ripple we re leaving in our neighborhoods.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to 0.99
00:00:21.340 the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality. 0.97
00:00:26.060 Guys, today we have Q and AF. I know you thought I was going to say CTI because you motherfuckers 1.00
00:00:33.120 all love CTI, but as much as I love CTI and as much as Mr. DJ loves CTI, we do need to 0.97
00:00:40.920 put out some information that's going to make you a little smarter, a little better, a little
00:00:43.700 stronger, a little healthier because the root of this entire problem that we're facing in
00:00:49.160 the country starts with us. Okay. It's our standards. It's our accountability. It's what
00:00:54.400 kind of ripple we're leaving in our neighborhoods. And if I don't teach you guys how to get
00:00:59.080 better, all I'm doing is being a clown, spreading the same old shit they're spreading, my version 0.99
00:01:04.380 of it. And I'm not willing to do that. So today we're going to get fucking better. Aren't 1.00
00:01:08.740 we? Yeah. It's like, it's like CTI has to get you to wake up. Q and A is when you woke
00:01:12.560 up. That's right. Yeah. Well, dude, once people figure out, once people figure out that it
00:01:17.660 does not fucking matter if it's Trump or fucking whoever, okay. Or Biden, well, Biden is a different 0.99
00:01:24.980 story because it really is because he's intentionally destroying the country, but I'm talking in normal 1.00
00:01:30.960 times, it doesn't matter who the fucking leader is. It matters how you're leading and it matters how 0.99
00:01:37.220 you're running your house. And it matters what kind of a ripple effect you're leaving in your
00:01:42.760 neighborhood. And the only thing that could truly fix this country is us individually raising our
00:01:49.580 standards at, at, and this is by the way, the fastest way to improve the country. If you get
00:01:55.880 everybody to raise their standards and execute, which you can make tremendous, do you think about
00:02:01.500 how fast you could change your life, dude? There is people that come in, uh, in a year and change
00:02:07.840 their entire fucking lives. What if everybody in America did that? What if everybody in America 0.99
00:02:14.220 said, man, you know what? They've intentionally made us weak. They've intentionally made us victims.
00:02:19.940 They've told us that being a victim was cool. They've celebrated all these weak things. Um,
00:02:25.320 they've told us that we didn't need to be healthy. We didn't need to be strong. We didn't need to be
00:02:29.280 fit. And once you understand the narrative and the goal of the narrative to keep you small,
00:02:36.420 to keep you poor, to keep you sick, to keep you confused and unintelligent and living in their 1.00
00:02:44.060 network of, of, uh, delusion. Okay. When, once you realize that that is their goal and their goal is
00:02:56.760 not for your benefit, it should make you very angry. But the second thing that it should do is make you
00:03:02.560 understand that you fell for it. And the third thing that you should do is to fucking get after 0.99
00:03:07.620 fixing it. Okay. And if we as individuals in this country all took that obligation serious and we 0.98
00:03:15.000 all decided, Hey man, fuck these guys. They want us this, we're going to become that. And what they 1.00
00:03:20.580 really want is a smallest version of yourself. So what is the best way to fuck them? Become the biggest, 1.00
00:03:26.560 most powerful, most impactful, most successful, healthiest, strongest, fittest, most positive 0.98
00:03:33.020 influence that you fucking can within your control. And if you could do that and everybody decided to 0.80
00:03:39.560 get on that train, bro, we would turn this country around and fuck it 12 months for real. And we would 0.99
00:03:45.020 go back to being the land of the strong and the free and the proud and the land of opportunity. 1.00
00:03:49.900 We get rid of all these weak ass fucks that pretend to lead us for our benefit, which is really only for 1.00
00:03:55.860 their benefit. We can do this, but it starts with the individual. And that's why we do Q and AF. 1.00
00:04:02.200 So if you want me to help you with your Q and AS, you can submit the questions. Email those questions
00:04:08.160 in guys to ask Andy and Andy for seller.com. Yeah. Do that. Yeah. So, I mean, look, I could go on and
00:04:16.260 on and on and maybe that's for a whole nother show, but the point is if you want the country to get
00:04:20.280 better, you get better. That's it. That's it. I don't want to hear about this shit, bro. If you,
00:04:24.960 if you're not pursuing excellence in your own fucking life, I don't want to hear you bitch one 1.00
00:04:28.640 motherfucking thing about the fucking world because you're not contributing to the solution. You're 1.00
00:04:32.200 contributing to the fucking problem. That's a fact, man. There's a fee too. Oh yeah. There's a fee. 1.00
00:04:39.680 Tell a motherfucker. That's a fee. Make other people bet. Yeah. Like dude, I don't run it like 1.00
00:04:46.200 unlike and look, dude, I'm not faulting anybody that run ads on their show because this shit's 0.99
00:04:51.040 expensive. I spend a couple million dollars just to fucking put the show on every year. 0.98
00:04:55.200 But the point is I do the shit for free because I consider it a fucking duty. All right. And I'm 1.00
00:05:02.380 fine making that investment myself into this to make that happen. I take pride in that. So I don't run
00:05:08.760 ads on the show. I don't run ads for the show. I work exclusively on value exchange, which is the
00:05:14.300 way it should. All right. So if we do good to help you help us share the show, that's all we ask.
00:05:19.720 That's the fee. When we say the fee, that's what we mean. Awesome. Well guys, let's lock this out.
00:05:25.260 We got some good ones for you. Uh, Andy question number one, I'm a college student, uh, who's going
00:05:30.880 to be doing a summer sales job. Okay. I'll be knocking on door to door for eight hours a day
00:05:35.160 for three months straight. Do you have any advice for me or would you mind sharing me your experiences
00:05:40.140 from doing that? Yeah. People are going to not like, you're not going to like it. It's not fun.
00:05:44.660 Okay. Um, now that's most of the time. All right. So 90% of the time people are not going to want you
00:05:52.120 there and you have to expect that going in. You're not going there. You're not going there for the
00:05:58.380 nine out of 10 to tell you that they're too busy, or maybe they're rude to you, or maybe they tell you
00:06:03.200 no thanks or whatever. You're there for the, the one person out of 10 that you're going to be able to
00:06:08.120 connect with. And if you keep that in mind and you can keep that mindset through it, that you're not
00:06:13.440 there to get them all. You're only there to get one. It makes things a lot easier. Okay. Back when
00:06:18.100 we used to do events for our company and nobody gave a fuck who we were and we went to these trade
00:06:22.320 shows and there's these much bigger companies than mine that had these elaborate booths and
00:06:28.060 they like, dude, we didn't have any money. I got the tablecloth. We didn't have shit. No,
00:06:31.280 we had a black tablecloth. It didn't even have our fucking logo on it. Yeah. Okay. And, and, 1.00
00:06:36.120 and I can remember our very first event, like our very first event. And I remember sitting down with
00:06:42.060 my guys, uh, the night before the event. And by the way, this is when I was working the events
00:06:47.020 personally too. Okay. Um, so I said, all right, well, we're going to go to the event guys. I,
00:06:53.100 I don't know what's going to happen. Like, I don't know if we're going to, if people are going to walk
00:06:56.920 by us, like, I don't know if we're going to, I don't know. I said, but here's the thing. If we can
00:07:02.820 convert one person, if we can get one person to become a new customer and we can become friends with that
00:07:10.520 person, that will pay off. It will be worth our time to do the event because that one person will
00:07:16.640 be our customer for life. Right. And we'll get their sales from now until the end of time. So
00:07:22.620 when you value the value of a lifetime customer properly, and you understand that you went to
00:07:28.720 event and stood there for eight hours and only got one, it actually is a pretty good proposition,
00:07:33.680 right? It pays off. So people just aren't willing to do that work. And what I would encourage anyone
00:07:40.020 who's going to go door to door, to door, to door, to door, like I had to do in the beginning of our
00:07:43.720 business, just understand that whatever happens, you're only every single day. If you get one
00:07:50.540 customer today, you won one. If you get another one tomorrow, you fucking won. Okay. That's the goal. 0.99
00:07:58.080 And then you build the relationships with these customers who then introduce you because you did
00:08:03.920 such an amazing job. You handled it in such a way that they feel not only comfortable, but
00:08:09.920 obligated to refer your business and you to their friends. That's it. That is the name of the
00:08:16.380 fucking game. Yeah. Okay. And people don't think they think I'm exaggerating. When I said we built 1.00
00:08:22.180 this company that way, that's still the mentality of that we have here. Every single fucking customer 0.99
00:08:28.580 matters a lot. And you should pretend as if it's because do the small businesses, the way they fuck up 1.00
00:08:35.420 and the reason they can never really get anywhere, is it because they don't have the skills or they 0.96
00:08:39.920 don't have the drive or they don't have any of this? They make a wrong assumption or a wrong
00:08:45.360 expectation that you need to let go of right now. And that expectation is this, that you can go out
00:08:50.680 and grab customers a hundred at a time, right? You can't, you're only getting them one at a time.
00:08:56.820 No matter what you think, how it works, it's one at a time. It's if you, if you could just say,
00:09:01.900 Hey, I'll never get a hundred at a time. You just say, I'm only worried about getting one at a time.
00:09:05.740 You will not only be far more successful, you'll have a lot more fun because you won't constantly
00:09:10.180 feel demoralized. Yeah. I'm going to say that gotta be, it's like a self-esteem thing, man. Like
00:09:13.900 you're going into it thinking you're supposed to get nine out of 10 of these people and you don't
00:09:17.100 get nine out of 10 of those people. Bro, listen, it's demoralized baseball. You fucking get the
00:09:22.580 hall of fame for hitting fucking three 50. You know what I'm saying? That's fucking three and a 1.00
00:09:26.360 half out of 10. If you, I can tell you this, if you get three and a half out of every 10 cold people 0.99
00:09:30.960 you talk to, you are going to make a fucking trillion dollars. That's the reality. Okay. 0.99
00:09:37.240 So just focus on the one, one at a time, one at a time, one at a time and show up every day with
00:09:42.600 that attitude. One at a time, one at a time and grain that attitude into your team and grain that
00:09:47.700 attitude into it. If it's just you ingrained into you, if you've got a team of a thousand
00:09:52.080 employees, start that now, because that is what we're going back to this idea of automated shit 0.99
00:09:59.940 and everything. And you know, people never talked to another human and this and that, and this people 0.98
00:10:04.440 are fucking getting real tired of it. And what, and the more important thing is they're recognizing 0.90
00:10:08.960 that every single company that automates their shit is one less job that they are providing. 0.98
00:10:14.840 And people are coming to that awareness. Okay. So the more human that you can become right now, 0.99
00:10:20.500 and by the way, all the other fucking gurus will tell you the opposite, but there's a reason I'm 0.99
00:10:25.780 me and they're fucking them. Okay. One at a time. That's all you need to worry about. Worry about 0.99
00:10:33.140 that. Be human, be real, make friends. If you make a friend, you'll make a fucking sale. That's it.
00:10:39.360 Awesome. Andy, question number two for you. Uh, so, uh, this person says, Andy, I am 22 years old.
00:10:48.380 I have owned a small business since I was 12. I recently got an opportunity to purchase an existing
00:10:55.440 big business in the mid six figures that is successful, but also has many ways to grow.
00:11:00.800 What is your advice on purchasing someone else's business?
00:11:05.280 Well, I've done this. So, um, I absorbed a company that was failing in 2006. Um,
00:11:12.640 and there was pluses and minuses to it. Okay. And I'll just run you down some of them. Uh,
00:11:17.920 this would be an all day conversation, but, um, when I was presented with the opportunity,
00:11:23.520 I was presented with the opportunity to go from two to six stores by absorbing this failing
00:11:28.860 company like instant. Yeah. Yeah. One day. Yeah. And, um, it turned out to be the right move
00:11:35.760 that I took this, this on. Okay. Uh, but it was extremely, and I mean, extremely,
00:11:42.640 exponentially more difficult than what I thought it was going to be. I thought it was going to be,
00:11:46.840 I was going to take this, these stores over and I would be able to make them run properly. But what
00:11:55.260 I learned was that because these stores were in physical locations and because they had been run
00:12:01.120 so poorly before I took them, that customers were actually hesitant to come into these stores
00:12:08.920 because of experiences that they had in the past. Um, regardless of new ownership. Okay. Yeah.
00:12:16.640 So you could put this new sign up. It was a stigmatized location. Like, like dude, people,
00:12:20.760 and here's what happened. Um, I ended up closing all the stores and moving them physically.
00:12:26.380 Like even, even one of the stores, I moved two bays down and me moving it two bays down made a
00:12:31.340 world difference. Now all this, yeah, because they had been treated so poorly and people. So that was a
00:12:36.860 big experience for me. The other experience, um, and, and, and maybe you're acquiring a company
00:12:42.240 that treats our customers. Right. But I didn't, I, I acquired a company that they were fucking
00:12:46.500 just trapped. No care given whatsoever. And you knew that going into it. No, I didn't. I thought, 0.97
00:12:51.500 I thought it was, I thought, I actually thought they were great. I just hadn't been around these.
00:12:56.760 I had, I didn't do my homework. I'm being real. Um, but I was also inexperienced. I didn't
00:13:02.140 fucking know any better. I feel like that's like the, you know, you buy the house and the guy, 0.98
00:13:05.080 the, the homeowner tells you, Oh, everything's fine. It's perfect. You know, it's like everything
00:13:08.580 buff it up a little bit. It's like everything you learn from doing shit and you learn from 0.98
00:13:11.860 fucking it up. And, and while that was, it turned out to be a success. There was a very hard process 0.99
00:13:17.740 because none of their employees ended up making it with us. Um, only two, which was Jason and Cody.
00:13:25.220 And, uh, and it wasn't because of any other reason that like these people were not managed
00:13:32.500 properly. They didn't have a culture. They didn't have any leadership. It was just a job.
00:13:37.100 And so there was a lot of obstacles to overcome, to get those stores to come back online because of
00:13:43.640 the way that they had been managed previously. And so I don't know the exact scenario of this
00:13:48.780 young person's, uh, company, but I would look deeper than surface level or deeper than just
00:13:55.180 numbers and, and, and look deep into their culture, look into like what kind of, how they've been
00:14:00.360 running, what do they do? How do they care about their customers? What are the customer reviews of
00:14:05.200 them? Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. Because by, by looking a little bit deeper below the surface,
00:14:10.240 besides just numbers, you'll find out what obstacles that you're going to have to overcome and they can
00:14:16.060 all be overcome, but I'm just trying to stop this person from being blindsided. Like I was,
00:14:20.720 um, it turns out like for me, it was the best thing I ever did because I was able to fucking 0.91
00:14:26.040 learn so much during that time. But, um, if I knew what I knew now, like, like, let's just say,
00:14:32.740 I'd go back in time and make the same decision again, knowing what I know now, I would have just 0.94
00:14:37.340 opened my own stores and fucking went from my own way. Stuck out a little bit longer. Yeah, for sure. 0.96
00:14:41.160 I would, but, but dude, I needed that to happen. So I learned the lessons and that, that situation
00:14:46.620 taught me more about business and how, how to do things and how not to do things than I think any
00:14:53.260 other period of time. It was a period of time between 2006 and 2013 or 14. That's when it was
00:15:01.100 just, for me, it was zero rest, zero sleep, zero fucking anything other than work. And it wasn't 0.96
00:15:09.840 fun. It was fucking brutally stressful, but that was the time where I fucking learned all my shit. 1.00
00:15:15.940 You know what I'm saying? So, you know, that's just, I, I don't have the fucking, 0.99
00:15:20.680 the deal to look at proposals. Yeah. Right. But, you know, I would dig beneath the surface, 0.97
00:15:27.060 look past just the top line, make sure that culturally, you know, what you're getting into,
00:15:32.300 make sure, you know, what the customers expect, make sure, you know, their weak points and their
00:15:36.780 strong points. Um, and then make your decision based off of that. But ultimately I would say
00:15:41.200 because you're 22 years old, you really can't fuck this up. So even if you take it, it ends up
00:15:45.780 being a shit show. You're going to fucking learn so much that it'll end up being worth it for you, 0.99
00:15:50.180 especially at 22. Yeah. Yeah. That's fucking awesome. Andy question number three for you. 0.99
00:15:57.660 What would you say is the biggest destroyer of self-esteem? Um, is it lying to yourself? Is it the
00:16:04.180 same for everybody? Yes. Yeah. A hundred percent. It's making promises to yourself that you don't
00:16:09.680 keep. It's saying, I'm going to do this and not doing it because then what happens after that is
00:16:14.780 the self-talk, the self-talk that you create by not upholding the obligations that you make to
00:16:19.440 yourself is ultimately the most destructive thing that you could ever do to yourself. Because what
00:16:23.940 happens is just like, as if you had a friend who said, Hey bro, I'm going to be there at 8am. And the
00:16:29.460 guy doesn't show up for three days in a row. Then you're like, man, fuck that guy. He's a piece of 1.00
00:16:33.220 shit. Only you're calling yourself a piece of shit. And you're saying, man, fuck that guy. 1.00
00:16:37.760 You know, Andy, you're weak. You're a pussy. You're dumb. You're stupid. You're this, you're that. 1.00
00:16:43.480 And that all comes from us just not upholding the deals that we make to ourselves. And whether that
00:16:48.840 deal be something that you write on paper or something that you think or something that you
00:16:53.120 just know you should do, it all counts the same. So when you start thinking, Hey, I should do this,
00:16:57.940 go fucking do it. Okay. Because the self-talk that naturally rebounds from not doing those things 1.00
00:17:04.920 that you tell yourself you're going to fucking do is what literally destroys your self-esteem 0.76
00:17:10.140 and your self-confidence, which is why most people have none. It's also why most people think 0.89
00:17:15.080 that self-esteem and self-confidence are things that people are born with, not things that people
00:17:19.900 create. This is not a trait. It's a fucking skill. If you invest into it, you will get a withdrawal
00:17:27.520 out of it. Okay. If you invest into keeping those promises to yourself without any compromise,
00:17:33.340 zero fucking compromise, this is getting done. No matter what, what comes back is, you know, 0.87
00:17:37.880 that you're a person of integrity that you can trust and that gives you confidence. So you walk
00:17:42.300 in a room and you're like, none of these motherfuckers to do what I fucking do. And all of a sudden now 1.00
00:17:47.280 you're figuring out, Holy shit, you're actually pretty fucking powerful. And that snowballs from 1.00
00:17:51.880 there, but it all starts with the lies you tell to yourself. If you're overweight, you'll, you'll,
00:17:56.560 you'll understand. I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going to start
00:18:00.220 on Monday. I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going to start on Monday. Oh, next Monday. I'm
00:18:03.720 going to start. I'm going to start after the wedding. I'm going to start after the, after
00:18:06.760 this trip, after summer, after this next holiday, after, after the holidays, I'm going to start
00:18:11.900 sound familiar. Yeah. That's why you feel like shit because you know that you didn't do none
00:18:16.840 of that shit that you told yourself you should have done. That's it. So start keeping the 1.00
00:18:20.880 promises to yourself. The live hard program is a great program. Uh, you can list to it on episode 80,
00:18:26.340 this program is designed to get you on that track that's it that's all it's designed to do it's to 0.86
00:18:32.620 get you to understand how fucking powerful you are and understand that these things that you 0.96
00:18:38.300 admire and other people are not fucking traits that they are born with they are skills that 0.99
00:18:43.880 they have made investments into and they make withdrawals out of in their day-to-day quality 0.92
00:18:48.980 of life and let's dive into this a little bit so you know lying to yourself right so like how
00:18:54.600 realistic are you with those promises that you tell yourself you're going to do with those things
00:18:59.020 like i mean how look at someone's life people who make unrealistic promises to themselves and keep
00:19:06.660 them live unrealistic lives people who make realistic promises to themselves and keep them live very 0.89
00:19:14.020 average lives so if i had the choice and i was 20 years old or 25 or 30 or fucking 40 0.99
00:19:23.500 okay i would choose the biggest motherfucking possible thing i could fucking think of 0.99
00:19:28.440 and i would go after it with everything i fucking had that's what i do every single day that's why 0.98
00:19:33.900 when people say oh you're so successful i'm like no i'm not i'm just getting started and by the time 0.94
00:19:39.480 i exit this planet you'll all know that i fucking meant that okay so set a big goal because you gave 0.97
00:19:46.600 me fucking goosebumps it's true yeah set a big goal you're capable of fucking anything you have unlimited 0.99
00:19:52.540 opportunity we have technology that cuts the curve down from 10 years of knocking on motherfucking 0.99
00:19:59.460 doors to two years okay there's no excuse for you to be weak there's no excuse for you to be uninformed 0.99
00:20:06.620 there's no excuse for you to be fat and fucking sick there's zero excuse zero there's no excuse for 0.99
00:20:13.860 you to fucking not have your career shit in line i don't this whole victim culture this i hope you 1.00
00:20:21.180 guys can understand this is a intentional social construct that they have put onto you you know 1.00
00:20:29.300 when we see people complain on instagram and talk about how hard their lives are and every single 0.98
00:20:33.900 person writes oh it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay or like when a woman who's 400 fucking pounds 1.00
00:20:42.100 uh who's unhealthy who will probably die you know from being that fucking overweight uh and her friends 1.00
00:20:49.440 are saying oh you're beautiful the way you are those same friends are talking shit about how fat 1.00
00:20:53.680 you are behind your back just know that it's the fucking truth there's a reality to reality okay and 1.00
00:21:00.120 the reality of people is they're fucking liars they all know you ain't fucking attractive they all know 1.00
00:21:05.220 you ain't healthy you're believing their shit and you're the one that's going to suffer for it not them 1.00
00:21:09.760 so wake the fuck up realize that these people will tell you anything they fucking can because the culture 1.00
00:21:15.080 that we live in it's socially acceptable to pacify people with lies um rather than tell them the 1.00
00:21:21.660 actual truth with which may save their life trust me i know because i get the shit from people every day 0.99
00:21:27.080 all right the truth is the motherfucking truth is the motherfucking truth and you better start living 1.00
00:21:32.680 in it or you're gonna waste your fucking life good gosh some fucking fire today man geez uh well 0.99
00:21:39.620 andy i got i got something for you so uh uh madat actually thought there was this idea so if it 0.99
00:21:45.920 sucks oh you didn't steal his idea listen i don't want to take the credit for it if it sucks so 0.90
00:21:50.700 if it sucks madat did it okay but if it's fucking awesome white lining got you baby all right all right 0.99
00:21:56.560 uh no but uh so we got those three guys remember these questions about anything right they're they're 0.99
00:22:01.040 fucking you know personal development life business right just getting better um but i thought 0.87
00:22:05.240 uh but i thought it would be funny to to get to know andy on the inside a little bit more that's 0.97
00:22:10.540 fine but i want to add something to what i just said so i'm sitting here thinking about it you know 0.95
00:22:14.600 if you're one of these people that lets these other people that don't live your fucking life pacify you 0.99
00:22:19.180 into feeling good for being less than what you could be you need to wake the fuck up because they 1.00
00:22:24.020 don't have to live that life like nobody was having to live the life i lived at 350 fucking pounds 0.99
00:22:29.000 nobody loved that life i had to fucking live it i fucking hated it and i didn't care when people said 1.00
00:22:34.440 oh you don't look that bad bro you look strong bro you're fucking you look you carry a whale yeah 1.00
00:22:40.060 i could have walked around and believe that shit too but you know what it was fucking bullshit yeah 1.00
00:22:44.580 so you got to know your own bullshit and i was full of shit i was 350 fucking pounds walking around 1.00
00:22:51.600 talking about being successful that's fucking bullshit because they're not successful i was making money 1.00
00:22:58.060 that doesn't mean i'm successful right okay if you're living below your true potential 0.99
00:23:04.200 okay if you're if you're purposefully living in a place that's less than what you could be because 1.00
00:23:11.560 you think it's going to be hard you are the motherfucking problem in this country you are 1.00
00:23:16.480 the fucking problem because you are allowing your fucking influence to be wasted your influence you 1.00
00:23:23.080 could be you could be getting yourself in shape you could be getting your finances together you could 1.00
00:23:28.040 be showing every single person in your neighborhood what it looks like to work hard by getting out there 0.95
00:23:32.700 and fucking doing cardio you you could be showing all the kids what it means to change your life 0.97
00:23:37.360 you do these ripples that we all make are so underestimated they want us to feel powerless they 0.99
00:23:43.860 want us to feel weak they want us to feel that it doesn't matter how we live our lives and all that
00:23:49.120 matters is the decisions they make and that's not the fucking truth because if the whole entire world 1.00
00:23:54.160 knew how fucking powerful they were by just taking care of their own shit those fucking crusty 1.00
00:23:59.760 motherfuckers that are making the rules for us wouldn't have a fucking leg to stand on 1.00
00:24:03.040 so think about that you're either part of the solution or you're part of the motherfucking 1.00
00:24:08.000 problem that's the truth all right so back to the fun yeah i'm sorry i'm just i'm just getting 0.97
00:24:13.520 look dude i'm just getting i'm getting heated about it because like people are all arguing about all 0.70
00:24:19.560 these issues and i'm just like what the fuck are you guys doing in your home to make make your bet better 0.99
00:24:23.700 yeah you know being a victim is not contributing to the fucking next generation bro we could cry all 1.00
00:24:30.660 day we want about fucking whatever the fuck you want like bro dave stewart who fucking owns the 1.00
00:24:36.580 biggest motherfucking company here in st louis is a black man yeah he could have cried all day about 1.00
00:24:40.820 fucking racism when there was actually real heavy racism in his era he's 70 something years old 1.00
00:24:47.320 yeah it's what he do instead he fucking built an empire he said fuck that racism right he said you 1.00
00:24:52.960 know what i'm gonna go out and build a company called worldwide technology that's going to be 0.99
00:24:56.760 worth 15 fucking billion dollars i'm gonna be the richest man in fucking st louis he came from 0.98
00:25:02.600 ferguson he's the second richest black man in america bro but it's not just racism it's every 1.00
00:25:08.360 it's it's all type of fucking yes i got bad genetics my parents sucked i was abused i got picked on 1.00
00:25:16.300 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah all that shit is fucking fuel all of it is 1.00
00:25:22.860 fuel if you know how to use it so you have two options you can look at this shit that you think 1.00
00:25:28.600 is fucked up and you could cry about it and you could be fucking nothing or you could take the 1.00
00:25:33.440 shit that pisses you off put it into productive action and shove it down every motherfucker's throat 1.00
00:25:37.960 that ever fucking loved that ever talked shit yeah i'm just telling you what i'm picking i can listen i 1.00
00:25:43.660 dude i don't even tell people all the shit that i've been through because it's fucking doesn't 0.99
00:25:48.700 matter it doesn't matter what matters is how you respond what matters is the story you create by 0.99
00:25:54.820 overcoming it that's what fucking matters and that's why we're lacking here in this country 0.99
00:25:59.360 because not enough people are having the fucking 0.99
00:26:02.620 the the the american dream mentality and executing on it like bro how the fuck are all these kids 1.00
00:26:12.920 crying about all this shit when for generations and two generations ahead of them the same motherfucking 1.00
00:26:19.700 people have created fucking success everything yeah bro fuck off with that shit victim culture is done 1.00
00:26:25.340 here in america it's fucking done it's not cool it's not healthy it's not helpful and we're going to get 1.00
00:26:31.480 to a place soon where it's not going to be socially acceptable everybody's going to look at you people 1.00
00:26:36.840 who are crying online about every motherfucking thing and say hey you know what fuck you we're 1.00
00:26:41.940 fucking done with your shit and then you know what they're going to do they're going to put their 1.00
00:26:45.200 fucking phone in their pocket and they're going to go do their shit that makes them better and you're 1.00
00:26:49.080 going to be wallowing over there by yourself crying like a little fucking baby yeah we get less and 1.00
00:26:53.900 less likes less and less comments it's happening it's already happening yeah like bro i could tell you 0.99
00:26:58.320 my tolerance for self-victimization is at zero where i like five years ago i'd be like oh man that really 1.00
00:27:05.600 sucks that really sucks you had to go through that now i'm like you know what you're a fucking bitch 1.00
00:27:10.980 you're a bitch so what that happened to you now what no matter what it is and you want to go fucking 1.00
00:27:19.760 tit for tat with me motherfucker grab a seat okay because the shit is a it's a long motherfucking list 1.00
00:27:28.320 i love it anyway what was the fun thing no i love it so that ruin your guys's fun no no no we're 1.00
00:27:34.420 still good baby we're still good uh so basically it's gonna be it's a question you can you can give 0.97
00:27:38.460 some explanation or just give your fucking answer that the people fucking what are we going to call 0.98
00:27:42.080 this part of the show you guys this is like a new thing you guys want to add yeah we haven't thought 0.99
00:27:45.820 what's what's it going to be called a couple episodes dj is going to say whatever it is you told
00:27:50.660 him and he's gonna claim it no you didn't really say anything they call it something uh let's call 0.99
00:27:57.240 it this is a question andy's extra sauce andy's gooey butter you you motherfuckers don't want either of 0.98
00:28:05.940 those so hold on so is this something that you guys are going to ask me or something that people 0.95
00:28:11.760 are going to ask no uh so i mean they can ask if they want to submit them but i got i got some uh
00:28:16.580 some stuff written it's basically the funny questions we get on the funny questions all right
00:28:20.940 you know some yeah all right so here's a question you ready it better be fucking funny now you built 0.99
00:28:26.100 it up well we'll see i mean i think the answer might be what's funny you decide you know this shit like 1.00
00:28:30.880 motherfucker that tells hey i got the funniest joke ever it's so fucking good and then he tell it 1.00
00:28:35.760 that's you bro that's you yeah bro wait till you see this shit it's the funniest shit and then he 1.00
00:28:42.440 showed i'm like yeah i've seen it i've seen it all right fry fries or peanut butter which one would 0.99
00:28:47.900 you rather have and what's your favorite of each type well okay first of all i'd rather have fries
00:28:53.260 and i'll tell you why if we have this discussion often in our family like between my dad and my
00:29:00.200 brother and i and it's if you could only eat one food forever forever ever ever you could only have 0.93
00:29:05.120 one fucking food what would it be my food is always a potato yeah okay because you can arrange the 0.96
00:29:11.020 potato in so many different fucking ways versatile and they're all good yeah right so you can eat a 0.99
00:29:15.820 different kind of potato 365 days a year you could eat different and every meal that's how that's how 0.90
00:29:22.500 versatile it is all right so i'm gonna go with french fries because of that reason yeah now uh the
00:29:29.680 who makes the best fries that that is up for debate because i am a connoisseur and there are many
00:29:34.980 different levels to quality french fries there are some that are the right kind of crispy there are some
00:29:40.600 of the right shape there are some of the right shape and crispy there are some that are the right
00:29:44.660 shape crispy and the right spice like dude there's like lots of elements that come into a great french
00:29:49.400 fry um so i i could appreciate them all um you know who has the best french fries oh man i can't even
00:29:56.820 say that i would be wrong i would be i couldn't i couldn't do that to people couldn't do it um but i will
00:30:03.820 say that switching to peanut butter um you know i do i do love peanut butter
00:30:10.880 yeah you would pick peanut butter over fries or potato really you would eat peanut butter all day
00:30:21.160 every day for the rest of your life over over different kinds of potatoes you can only really
00:30:25.280 do peanut butter a couple ways no it's fries or potato peanut butter so you can't make it a potato
00:30:29.740 it's fries no because fries came from potato yeah but you're eating fries or peanut butter not
00:30:36.700 potato well i would still take the fries that's what take fries because you do garlic parmesan you
00:30:42.060 know what i would do i would take the fries and then i'd take your peanut butter
00:30:44.740 okay
00:30:49.100 i mean i'd share
00:30:52.300 uh no dude i you know i like i like uh creamy peanut butter you don't like the the crunchy
00:31:00.740 i like it crunchy too i like them both but i i like i would like if i got two in front of me 0.84
00:31:05.660 which one i mean creamy and obviously it's the first form brand of of butter because that shit is 0.94
00:31:11.780 fucking fired oh hold on so late at night which one would you take peanut butter no no late at 0.99
00:31:17.700 night that's different peanut butter all your butter all day yeah you talk about middle of the 1.00
00:31:21.840 night like zombie eating shit yeah like you're like you're still kind of high you went to bed no 0.99
00:31:26.260 you're like totally high yeah and you're still hot yeah peanut butter for sure 100 peanut butter for 0.99
00:31:32.300 sure yeah it hits different when you're yeah and you got to do with a fork i don't use a spoon i do a 1.00
00:31:37.260 fucking fork i use my hands really you just stick your fucking face in there bro i use something 1.00
00:31:42.440 else don't eat the peanut butter dj's 1.00
00:31:45.680 all right man is that is that it yeah that's it man that's all we got we gotta come up with a name
00:31:51.480 for that for this for the little segment yeah but we can bring that in next time yeah it might be a
00:31:55.780 little surprise you never know you know andy surprise andy surprise you don't want that one either
00:32:01.120 all right guys that's all i got that's the show if you like the show if it taught you something
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00:32:15.120 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions 1.00
00:32:22.040 in the code bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case close 1.00
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