313. Q&AF： Visualizing Long Term Goals, Voting Out Established Politicians & Leadership Through Inspiration
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On this episode of the Realist, DJ God and I have a special guest on the show. DJ God is a veteran DJ and co-host of the show and has been in the business for a long time. We talk about how he got into the business and what it's like to be a DJ and host a Realist podcast. We also talk about the importance of visualization and how it can help you achieve your goals.
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What is up guys, it's Andy Frisella and this is the show for the realist, say goodbye to
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the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality.
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Guys, today we have Q and AF. That's where you bring the Qs and I give you the AFs. I don't
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know what the fuck that means, but that's what it means. All right. Then sometimes we
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have CTI, which is cruise the internet. And the way these two episodes work together,
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these two formats of episodes work together is on CTI, we bring up topics that are going
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on in the world and we talk about what a shit show it is and what the core problem is. Then
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in Q and AF, we teach you how to overcome those problems by becoming amazing yourself
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because that's the solution. Then we have real talk and real talk is where I get on. I give
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you a hot dose of some truth. Sometimes you like it. Most of the time you don't, but it's
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always reality. Then we have full length, full length is where I bring on a guest. We talk
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about how they kicked ass and then they talk about how you can too. That is the show. Okay.
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And we believe in realism here. We tell the truth here. We deal with facts and data here,
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not feelings and emotions and weak ass shit. Now, with that being said, there is a fee for
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the show and the fee is very simple. Tell a motherfucker. That's it. Okay. I don't run
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ads for the show. I don't run ads on the show. And I do that to keep the message pure. I do
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it because I don't want to answer to anybody. I do it because I don't really give a fuck what
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anybody else thinks. I want this to be a real show from my brain, from my heart and not manipulated
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by someone's dollar figure. Okay. So I ask that you share the show. That's it. Now, today we have
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a special Q and AF because not only do I have my regular co-host, I also have my veteran co-host,
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DJ, DJ God. What's up, dude? You guys took it to another level the other day when you
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had Zeeshan. That was pretty awesome, wasn't it? Bro, I got to tell you, I heard that.
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I got really excited and I instantly started thinking of like crunk nicknames for Zeeshan.
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What'd you come up with? Well, I didn't come up with a nickname as much. Why me? I Zeeshan
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the Impaler, which is not very good, but I did come up with a phrase that I think is perfect.
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Zeeshan is the man who turns India into Windia. Oh!
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Oh! We got Zeeshan from Windia in the house. That's fucking right. Yeah. Yeah. Cue the
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fucking, yeah. Yeah. But I'm not going to lie. I probably spent way, way too much time
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in my car thinking through, freaking through nicknames for Zeeshan. I'm sure you used the
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whole entire notepad. We also have sexual chocolate in the house. What's up, dude? How are you?
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Chocolate salty balls, baby. You know what I'm saying? Isn't it? Oh, what's going on today?
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Hey, man. We got some good ones? Got some good things for you, brother. We got some good
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ones for you. What's the line? What's the line over there, Windia? Tell him. Got three good
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ones for you. All right, let's get started. Let's get started. Let's knock this out. Oh, guys,
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remember too, these are your questions. You email those in, submit those questions by emailing
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them to AskAndy at AndyForSeller.com. They could be about anything. And first question. All right,
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Andy. Andy, I'm currently on phase one of the Live Hard program, and it's my first time using
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the visualization technique. My question is, is it better to visualize your long-term goals,
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or should you focus on short-term goals that would eventually lead to your long-term goals?
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Long-term goals? 100%. If you only visualize about your short-term, you will only achieve
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your short-term. This is how I suggest that you think about visualizing. If I were to come
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to you today, and I said, hey, man, when you visualize, you are literally, and I mean literally,
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creating your future self and your future life in your brain before it actually exists in reality,
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how seriously would you take the visualization? Like, if you knew that however you visualized
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yourself was absolutely what you were going to become, that's how serious I would take visualizing.
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Okay? Most people don't do it at all because they don't know how, or they're, you know,
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like this person, they're a little confused. Like, do I do the short-term or the long-term?
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And a lot of people, when they visualize, they get caught up in the how. Like, they start thinking
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these big dreams, and then they start thinking, well, how am I going to do that? And then their thought
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process gets way off track over, you know, over, off into yonder somewhere, you know what I'm saying?
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To where it doesn't make any fucking sense. And you're, now you're not visualizing and building
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anymore. Now you're stressing over how you're going to do it. That's wrong too. This should be a time
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of creation. It should be a time of focus, and it should be taken very literally because I believe
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this to be true. I believe that what you visualize for your life will become reality. I believe in
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quantum realities. I believe that we are our own creator. I believe that we design our own lives.
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And I believe that the reason that society is the way it is, is to suppress our creativity and our own
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thought process about what we're capable of so that we actually don't create a much better society than
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what we actually have. And so I, and this, you know, you could think I'm crazy. I don't really care.
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Um, I truly believe that if the truth were to be told about what's known about the human mind,
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I believe it would be discovered that we are actually literally able to create our own reality
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through visualization, um, and, and law of attraction. And, uh, I believe that, that when I,
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when I'm visualizing, I believe that I'm actually creating something that will exist in real life.
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And so far I've, I'm a hundred for a hundred. Okay. So that's how I would do it. I would visualize
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my ultimate life. I would visualize every single thing that I want. Um, I, I would, I would try to
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see this in clear, uh, as clear of a detail as I possibly could. I would back that up by trying to
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experience these things in reality, uh, at least taste them in reality at some point so that you can
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have a better ability to visualize what it's actually like. Um, that means, you know, going
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window shopping on the online, look at houses you want, uh, think about the life you want,
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look at cars you might want to drive. Um, you know, look at office buildings that you, you, you think
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you want your company in, uh, you know, all, all of these things, like, you know, how, what you want
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to do with your family, where you want to go, what, what, you know, all of these things should be
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thought about. And I believe the reason that there's lack of achievement in reality is because most
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people don't think of these things at all. Yeah. But on the same side of that too, like,
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I mean, you say this all the time, visualization is just half of it. Right. So like, what's the
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importance? Like, I mean, cause you talk about like do the window shopping. Right. But I think
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there's a, there's a huge chunk there that people have to understand that there's still a lot of
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fucking hard work that goes along with that. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, that's, that's like part of the
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problem with the whole law of attraction mentality is that it's gotten to a point where we have all the
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guru people out there, you know, talking about how you can just fucking think of shit and it's
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going to materialize. And you know, while I don't think that's the truth, I think that there's two
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parts to it. I think there is a part of, of, of building it in your mind and there's a part of
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building it in reality. And you have to be taking steps aggressively towards that vision every single
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day. If you really, truly expect it to become reality, but the universe will help that become
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reality when you clearly define on what it is you want to do. Does that make sense?
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Yeah. I think the other thing is just by, by nature, the nature of short-term goals, they're,
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they're limiting, they're limiting. Yeah. Right. I mean, there's no way that I,
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the whole point is to have big, huge, larger than life, exceptional goals. So that's what you should
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be focusing on by, you know, you're not going to, you're not going to be able to accomplish a really
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huge goal. And I actually think it's far easier to accomplish massive goals than it is a smaller
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goals because there's less people that try. Yeah. There's way less people that try to be,
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to accomplish these massive goals. There's much more congestion and traffic at the smaller goal
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area. And, you know, like, I think it's harder, I think it's harder to compete with the people who
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are, you know, trying to make 200 to $600,000 a year than it is to compete with the people making
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$30 or $40 million a year. I, I, cause there's more people there. So like, you know, when,
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when you think of your dream and, and, and, you know, is this a dream that everybody else has?
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Because if that's a dream, everybody else has more competition. But if you go beyond that,
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there's, there's more space to accomplish. And that's what I found.
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I think one thing that I think of too, it's like people tend to tell themselves, like when we first
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met me and Andy, uh, like that was one of the, the, the first things you, you really like hit
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home with me and like, made me think about things completely different. It's like, you know,
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whatever goals you have right now, scratch them and make big ones.
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You know what I'm saying? Like, like it was immediately.
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I got 100% man. And, and I think what people tend to get into, and maybe you can help us out
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with this a little bit is they, they, they, they begin that inner voice, right? And I don't,
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I don't, it's not necessarily the bitch voice, but it's an inner voice is just telling them that that's not real.
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Well, yeah, of course, you know what I'm saying? It's like, well, where does the realistic framework
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come from your ability to see it? No, in my opinion, it comes from what you're told you're
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able to achieve life. It's, it's what your parents told you. It's what your teachers told you. And
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it's really, it's really weird because you know, when you're really little, um, you know, people
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will say, Oh, you could be whatever you want. Dream big, blah, blah, blah. That's what they used to
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tell you. Right. Now they tell you if you're, if you're white, you're a racist and if you're black,
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you can't do shit. Um, and, and they think they're being, uh, they think they're being
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progressive or helpful by doing so. You're handicapping people for life. Um, but when I
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was growing up, I was told I could be anything I wanted. I was told I could be president. I was told
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I could be fucking anything, anything. Um, as I got older, uh, you know, teachers became more and
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more less like that and, and, and, and more and more restrictive, more limiting. Oh, you need to
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be Andy. You know, by the time I was in high school, I had fucking guidance counselor be like, Oh, Andy,
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you know, um, those schools are for cream of the crop and you're just not cream of the crop.
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Right. Like that's where they, so they start off with telling you this, but then if you,
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if you try to maintain those big visions, you face more and more resistance through the system.
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And what you're facing is people who weren't able to do things themselves. So they think that
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you're not capable. A lot of parents parent this way. A lot of parents have a really bad
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problem with believing that because they weren't able to do something that their kids can't do
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something. And they come home and vocalize that shit to their kids. Oh bro, I got my ass kicked
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today. You better get ready for the real world cause you kick your ass. No, the real world will kick
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your ass if you're not prepared for it. You know what I'm saying? Or you're a lazy piece of shit,
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or you're looking forward to fucking drinking a 12 pack every day at three 30. Yeah. Yeah. The
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world kick your ass. And it goes back to the visualization too, right? Like if that's what
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you're visualizing the fucking world of shit and all this shit, that's what you're going to get.
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That's what you'll get, man. They still tell kids that they can be whatever they want,
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but what they mean now is that if you want to be a duck-pilled platypus or a porpoise,
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you could be that. Exactly. Yeah. Oh shit. Oh fucking shit. That's real, man. Yeah. That's real.
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Moving on. Question number two, Andy. You said that we need to vote every established politician
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out of office. And this November is our chance to turn things around. How do we do that with all
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the corruption, the rigging of the voting machines? What are your recommendations for citizens? Can
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citizens do anything to ensure that this is going to be a fair election? Yeah, there's a few things you
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can do. One, make sure you go vote. That's number one. Okay. Voter turnouts fucking huge deal. Yeah.
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Secondly, you know, you can organize in your community, like a lot of states have filed laws
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and created laws now to eliminate drop boxes and mail in and ballot harvesting. But if you're in a
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state that doesn't, that still allows that, you can organize your community to, you know, monitor
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the drop boxes, make sure they're not doing, because what was happening was these people come
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to these drop boxes at the middle of the night with thousands and thousands and thousands of ballots.
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Nobody's around to catch them. And I think it's really important that people get engaged in the
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process. I think, you know, that the left will call this voter intimidation. It's not voter
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intimidation. In fact, I encourage people of both sides of the aisle to work together to monitor this
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because the truth of the matter is whether you are fundamentally a Democrat or fundamentally
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a Republican or whatever else in between or outside of, you know, having voter integrity
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and voter confidence is a very important issue to the country. And you would have to be a literal
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fucking moron to not understand at this point that they're systematically destroying our country.
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And, you know, you could be in denial all you want. You say, oh, Andy, you're just fucking sick.
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No, dude, it's what I said was going to happen. It's happening. And here we are. And so how are we
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going to fix it? I really wish I could go back in time and force every single one of you motherfuckers
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listen. What I said, we wouldn't be here, but we are here. And so now I'm telling you the way to
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fucking do it is to make sure that you're voting for people who are unaffiliated with like,
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you know, being bought and paid for, make sure that you are voting people who are America first,
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make sure you're voting people that, that align with the constitution, make sure you're voting
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for people that believe in the interests of our country, not in the interests of themselves and
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have proven show. So, and then also make sure that you're monitoring these voting stations,
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you know, the, where the polling stations, and then also the drop boxes and all that shit,
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you should, you have to do that in your community, you know? So like you guys ask, well,
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what can we do? What can we do? What can we do? You should start organizing that now,
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you know, because no one's going to be able to come drop 30,000 fucking ballots off if there's
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10 people standing there. Right. Right. That's the thing. Cause we're all done at like two,
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three, four. Yeah. But bro, these, these boxes have to be monitored until the election is called
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and, and they can only fudge so much percentage of the election. So that's why I said voter turnout is
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such a huge thing because if, if, if we as Americans go out and vote the way that we all know,
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we feel they won't be able to cover that gap with fraud, right? It's only if the vote's close
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within three or four or 5%, can they do that? And only if we're not prepared for it. And I think
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after 2020, you know, even most of the left realizes that there was fraud and most of the left at this
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point in time really wishes that hadn't happened because it's affecting them just as much as it's
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affecting everybody else. So, so, uh, you know, we have to get smart. We have to get engaged.
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We have to organize in our communities to take care of the problem. And you have to do this.
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This is your duty. This is what you have to do. Yeah. And then if they cheat again, when everybody's
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done all this shit and all of a sudden shit gets shut, well, then they'll have to deal with the
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repercussions. Right. We'll say that for CTI. Yeah. I also think you have to do the long-term
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game, which is, I think more and more people literally need to be buying literally cartons
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full of copies of the United States constitution, handing them out, reading them, encouraging
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discussion about them, uh, encouraging books that actually, you know, yeah, like this needs to be
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like a whole cultural transformation. And so like more and more people need to actually know what's in
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the constitution, actually understand the basic principles. What's really amazing to most people
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when they actually take the time to do it. I think people have this, this thought in their mind that,
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oh man, the constitution must be this like really, really complex, overwhelming thing that I can't
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possibly understand on my own. No, go pick up a copy of the constitution. Sure. Buy a couple of books
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to help, help you understand it, but, but understand the basic principles, understand the bill of rights,
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understand the ideas that are intentionally not even taught. Dude, there's dude, if you ask a 20,
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two year old person, what what's in the constitution, they can't tell you. No. And
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they've intentionally fucking left that out. And then they've taught them that the constitution
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is racist because there were slaves back then, bro. We we've adjusted the, all of these things
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have happened through the course of America that we've overcome. And people want to talk about
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shit from 200 years ago, motherfucker. We're here now, right? Your life is now you're not going
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back 200 years ago. Okay. We have an opportunity now to live out what America should have always
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been. We have the opportunity to be the generation of people that is alive during the time where
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America is restored and honestly fulfilled to the, to the idea of what it always should have been.
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And instead we want to argue about fucking, you know, George Washington's what the fuck like
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motherfuckers. We only have one life. We're going to be dead. Wouldn't, wouldn't, wouldn't you guys
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rather fucking like get together and make this country into something that's how it's supposed
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to be? Cause that's what I would like to do. I'll jump on that too, man. Yeah, absolutely.
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True, man. Guys, our third and final question, Andy, I've been given a new leadership position and I have
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some issues. Um, I'm not one to micromanage every single detail. However, sometimes the guys and
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girls I lead seem to take advantage of this and slack off with their responsibilities. I make sure
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that I lead by example and get all my work done, but it doesn't seem to be translating to them the
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way I want it. You have any advice on how I can get them to execute without controlling every detail
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of their task? Well, the main thing is dude, leadership is not done by dictation. It's done by
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inspiration. If you do it right, like you should be teaching that person, not only the importance of
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and the skills of how to lead, uh, but you, you know, the people on your team should be leading
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themselves. You get what I'm saying? Like you should be inspiring them to perform for the,
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for the cause that's greater than themselves, which is the fucking company. Cause if the company
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row, if you're selfless enough to pour yourself into the company and the company grows, you grow,
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right. You get what I'm saying? Like, dude, this, and then as the, as the manager or the leader,
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you know, you have to back that up. But I mean, at the end of the day, dude, you know,
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it's not about micromanaging or anything. Like, in fact, I don't think anybody wants to micromanage,
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but I think at the end of the day, people get caught up in micromanaging because they aren't good
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enough at inspiring people to do the job on their own. Right. You know what I'm saying? Like,
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yeah. The other side of that though, bro, I wonder what you would say. Sometimes I'm,
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sometimes I feel like people say, well, I don't, I don't want to be a micromanager. I'm more of a
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macro stand back, but that could be an excuse for not just not wanting to do the hard work.
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Yeah. Or not wanting to build relationships or not wanting to get involved or not wanting to,
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you know, get their hands dirty or they're afraid that the person's going to know more than them.
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So they don't want to expose that. Like there's all kinds of reasons, but at the end of the day,
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it takes micro and macro. And, and like, you can't just let people loose and do whatever they
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want. But I've found that the best way is to coach them, make sure they understand the fundamentals.
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Then make sure they understand the purpose, make sure they tie together that the purpose
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grows, they grow, and then kind of let them go and see what they do. Because dude, all the,
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everybody wants to contribute on their own. They don't want to just be a robot where you say,
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Hey, put the X, uh, in this column and put the Y in this column and do that all day. Like that's
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not, that's not fulfilling. So you have to give them a little bit of freedom so that they can create
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their little piece of whatever it is you're building, because that's what creates the fulfillment
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and, and the overall, uh, ownership that they feel in whatever project or company you're working
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with. Um, but there's always going to be some times where you step in and fucking make a correction.
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That's not micromanaging bro. Like a lot of people have on your right about that. Like a lot of people
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just don't want to lead and they don't want to accept the role that they're a leader. Um, so they
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say, well, I'm not a micromanager. Well, you're, you're copying the fuck out, bro. You're here to
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help these people win. If you're not helping them win, if you see somebody doing something wrong and
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you don't step in and say, Hey, this is how it should be done. You're failing them. And not only are you
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failing them, you're failing yourself because they're not going to do as good. And then you're going to
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suffer too. So it really is a team effort. It always is. Well, you know, you, you look around
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first form and obviously there's all these people who do, they are self-directed on, on a certain
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level and they, they do take initiative, but you would be the first person to say, yeah, but you
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got to implement the system first. Yeah. You got in a way they're not self-directed. They're system
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directed. That's right. You know, just walk in here. That's right. Right. Yeah. That's right. And
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that's, that's the value of building a strong culture that is built around, you know, a guided
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framework for people to behave. You know, like when you have core values for your company, that's not,
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that's not just some shit that's on the wall. Those are the things that people look to when
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they're not sure what to do. You know, when I don't know what to do or I'm unsure about a situation,
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I'll look at the core values and I'll think, okay, well, here's a solution. One, here's solution to
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here's solution three. How do these fit into this? What will be the right thing to do?
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And that's never really led me wrong. Right. A couple of times it has a couple of times. It's,
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it's, I've given more grace than what people deserved. Um, and that's come back to bite me
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a couple of times, but at the, at the end of the day, I would say way more good comes of that than
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bad. You know what I'm saying? Absolutely. Yep. Well guys, Andy, that's all I got, man. That's three.
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We're sleeping on the floor. Now my jury box froze. Fuck a bowl. Fuck a stove.
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Counted millions in the cold. Bad bitch. Booty's woke. Got her on bankroll. Can't fold.