REAL AF with Andy Frisella - August 24, 2022


365. Q&AF： Overcoming Stagnation, Gaining Connections Vs. Developing Skills & Dealing With Shadow Bans

Topics
overcoming comfort comparison cultural degradation networking value skillset censorship
Hosted by
Andy Frisella
Mentioned
Andy Priscilla Ryan Phil Knight Alex Jones Donald Trump Dave Bratt Choco Tacos Jake Paul Headshot Cruise Bezos Arte
364. Mo Money, Better Problems 366. Andy & DJ CTI： Fauci Defends Disastrous Career, Ukrainian Parliament Give Themselves A Raise & Biden's $20,000 Student Loan Forgiveness

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In this episode of The Realest, I sit down with my good friend and business partner, Andy, to talk about a variety of topics. We talk about how to deal with being broke and how to overcome it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realest, say goodbye to 0.99
00:00:21.060 the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality. 0.75
00:00:24.940 Guys, today we have Q and AF, that's where you submit the Qs and I give you the AF. 0.97
00:00:30.000 Sometimes when you tune in, we'll have other formats such as CTI, which is Cruise the
00:00:36.000 Internet.
00:00:36.440 That's where we throw up headlines on the screen and we talk about them.
00:00:39.520 Other times it's real talk.
00:00:41.600 It's a short five to 20 minute piece of my mind, something I just think needs to be said.
00:00:46.900 Sometimes it's full length. 0.97
00:00:48.340 That's where I bring on my interesting guests, rich, successful, powerful, kicking ass, badass 0.99
00:00:53.940 motherfuckers who tell you how regular they are and how you could be the same as them 1.00
00:00:59.640 because it's the truth. 1.00
00:01:01.900 But yeah, today we got Q and AF and that's where you submit your questions and you can
00:01:06.520 submit those to email those in guys to ask Andy at Andy for seller.com.
00:01:11.320 Yeah.
00:01:11.500 And they can be about business.
00:01:12.500 They can be about mental toughness.
00:01:14.500 They could be about, you know, personal development.
00:01:17.460 It could be about what's going on in the world.
00:01:19.920 You know, I'm here to help you win.
00:01:21.740 So try to keep it along the lines of winning.
00:01:26.360 So, yeah.
00:01:27.660 And I'll answer.
00:01:29.640 Yeah.
00:01:30.500 Is that what's up?
00:01:32.640 What's going on?
00:01:33.480 Not much, man.
00:01:34.760 Got some.
00:01:36.600 That's a good one.
00:01:37.500 Got some good ones. 0.99
00:01:38.260 No, I was going to say it's fucking beautiful outside, man. 0.98
00:01:40.940 Yeah. 0.98
00:01:41.600 I wouldn't know.
00:01:42.780 Really good.
00:01:43.160 I wouldn't know.
00:01:43.620 I've been here all day. 0.98
00:01:44.700 You've been out all day fucking off. 0.97
00:01:46.660 Well, so I wouldn't know. 0.97
00:01:49.880 Hey, is it?
00:01:51.120 I actually listen. 0.99
00:01:52.080 It's fucking beautiful. 0.98
00:01:53.760 Is it? 0.99
00:01:54.300 But I will tell you this, man. 1.00
00:01:55.320 The back of a fucking tractor trailer. 1.00
00:01:57.360 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:57.760 Pretty steamy.
00:01:59.180 What? 0.99
00:01:59.780 It's fucking hot. 0.99
00:02:00.420 What are we doing in the back of a tractor trailer? 0.99
00:02:01.460 Well, hey.
00:02:02.620 Is it human trafficking?
00:02:05.260 No, man.
00:02:05.760 I had to. 0.99
00:02:07.140 You know the fucking rolls of the gym flooring? 0.99
00:02:09.660 Yeah. 0.99
00:02:10.060 So those came in today for a special project we're working on.
00:02:12.780 Oh, okay. 0.99
00:02:13.560 And those things are fucking heavy. 0.99
00:02:15.420 Yeah. 0.99
00:02:16.040 And one of the fucking pallets that they were sitting on had broke and it was blocking the 0.99
00:02:20.240 other pallets in. 0.99
00:02:21.460 Yeah.
00:02:21.800 So we had to like take all of those off.
00:02:23.820 Oh.
00:02:24.420 And yeah.
00:02:25.160 So I got to do some little workout in.
00:02:26.720 Yeah.
00:02:27.500 A little low back action, you know?
00:02:28.920 Yeah.
00:02:29.200 Lift it with my knees. 0.97
00:02:30.460 But dude, it's fucking hot. 0.98
00:02:31.380 It was hot back there. 0.97
00:02:32.100 I mean, glad you got some sort of workout in.
00:02:33.540 Yeah, I got something in.
00:02:34.380 I mean, you know, you got something in, man.
00:02:38.220 You're going to count that for your 75 hard to you?
00:02:40.980 No, because it wasn't 45 minutes.
00:02:42.380 I bet you I'm surprised you didn't.
00:02:43.060 It wasn't 45 minutes.
00:02:44.080 Yeah.
00:02:44.680 It was right there, though.
00:02:46.040 I could have. 1.00
00:02:46.620 Shit. 1.00
00:02:46.760 It was like fucking 40. 1.00
00:02:48.340 Shit. 1.00
00:02:48.920 I don't know if that count. 0.99
00:02:49.820 Now, would that count as outside or inside? 1.00
00:02:52.020 Man, shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:02:53.500 Shut the fuck up right now. 1.00
00:02:56.660 You might be training all that, bro. 1.00
00:02:58.340 I will fucking choke you. 1.00
00:03:01.020 You better have your shit on you with that shit. 1.00
00:03:03.140 You bring that shit in here. 1.00
00:03:06.520 I can't even take it. 1.00
00:03:08.220 I just want to retire. 0.99
00:03:10.460 Leave me the fuck alone with these questions, dude. 0.99
00:03:13.360 When it comes to 75 hard, if you got to ask, the answer is fucking no. 0.99
00:03:16.920 Right. 1.00
00:03:17.220 Holy shit. 1.00
00:03:18.840 Yeah. 0.99
00:03:19.260 But I got some good ones for you, though. 0.99
00:03:21.000 None of that shit, though. 0.98
00:03:22.000 That are not yes or no questions. 0.99
00:03:23.260 Yeah.
00:03:23.880 All right.
00:03:24.260 Cool.
00:03:25.760 So let's get into this, man.
00:03:26.980 Andy, question number one.
00:03:29.160 Andy, I recently received a promotion that doubled my income.
00:03:33.520 I've always been a person to strive for more.
00:03:35.700 But with this recent promotion, I found myself a bit stagnant and comfortable.
00:03:40.140 Have you ever experienced this?
00:03:41.680 And if so, how do you go about dealing with it?
00:03:43.780 Yeah.
00:03:45.160 Well, yeah, dude, for sure.
00:03:47.300 I mean, like, look, dude.
00:03:48.260 I think this is the biggest thing that people have people struggle with is that, you know,
00:03:53.500 they get to a place of comfort or they make an uncomfortable place comfortable and they
00:03:58.560 stop trying to move.
00:04:00.260 And, you know, there's tricks to this.
00:04:02.860 You know, one of them is what I talk about with you guys all the time, a zero options
00:04:07.100 mentality.
00:04:08.020 You know, when you're broke and you don't have any choice, it's real easy to get up and 0.98
00:04:11.460 fucking go to war every day. 0.87
00:04:13.000 But, you know, when you're living good, it's a different kind of thing, bro. 0.99
00:04:20.480 You know, so it's important to understand the mentality of having zero options and to
00:04:26.780 live with that mentality.
00:04:28.140 So that's what that's about.
00:04:29.040 When I say zero options mentality, there's there's old podcasts.
00:04:32.460 I talk about this.
00:04:33.260 But I mean, that's going to be a a theme in anybody's continuous progression, because
00:04:41.700 overcoming that comfort is is difficult when you're legitimately comfortable.
00:04:46.020 Yeah.
00:04:46.280 So, yeah, dude, everybody struggles with that.
00:04:49.480 You know, getting yourself in a place mentally where your back is against the wall, even though
00:04:57.660 it really isn't like people are surprised when I like when they like when they come here,
00:05:02.220 this is going to sound like I'm bragging, but I'm not.
00:05:05.500 You know, when people come in here and they're like, holy shit, bro, like, how do you stay 0.97
00:05:09.380 motivated? 0.97
00:05:10.480 And I'm like, bro, I haven't even started.
00:05:12.700 Yeah.
00:05:13.500 They think I'm being like falsely humble.
00:05:15.620 They think I'm being like.
00:05:16.860 But the truth is, is that mentality of zero options is so ingrained in me.
00:05:21.740 That is your perception.
00:05:23.120 It is.
00:05:23.740 And you know that for sure.
00:05:25.200 And these guys know that for sure.
00:05:26.660 And anybody who knows me like in real life and around me, they know that I really mean
00:05:31.960 that, you know, we were broke for so fucking long that I'm legitimately terrified. 0.79
00:05:39.300 I'm going to go back to that just because of me getting comfortable. 0.67
00:05:43.220 So while I am very comfortable in reality, I keep myself in a mental place of being uncomfortable
00:05:50.940 so that I can continue to push.
00:05:52.920 Yeah.
00:05:53.880 So that's the that's a skill that you've got to master.
00:05:56.460 Right.
00:05:58.120 But there's other things you can do as well.
00:06:00.140 You know, like sometimes when you when you get a little too much money coming in, you
00:06:06.060 know, in the beginning, how you can really get yourself in that mentality, that that mentality
00:06:12.000 is by spending a little bit of the money.
00:06:14.260 Like if you're like if some guys or they get too much cash and they start to think, well, 0.95
00:06:19.500 fuck, dude, I'm rich. 0.99
00:06:20.600 Right. 1.00
00:06:20.900 You know, and I'm not saying when I say spend, I mean, invest like when you're at this level,
00:06:25.980 you should be taking, you know, part of that money that you have extra and putting it into
00:06:31.920 something that's going to produce money. 0.68
00:06:33.640 Right. 0.99
00:06:34.320 And then you should take part of it and spend it on yourself so that you know what the fuck 0.99
00:06:39.260 you're working for still. 0.99
00:06:40.420 Right.
00:06:40.640 But the biggest thing, dude, is like to understand.
00:06:45.300 And this is why this this idea of people are like, oh, comparison is the thief of joy.
00:06:50.200 No comparison is actually a really good tool if you use it properly. 0.98
00:06:54.280 Good ass kicker. 0.98
00:06:55.080 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:55.680 You know, like if you're a pussy. 1.00
00:06:57.300 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:57.640 It can fucking hurt your feelings a little bit. 0.97
00:06:59.820 You'll need your safe space. 0.98
00:07:00.560 But it's a great tool because, you know, when I compare myself and what we've done in our
00:07:05.320 companies, you know, when I when I look at the companies I'm involved in, even even the
00:07:10.120 littler ones that people don't really know about yet. 0.96
00:07:12.720 You know, I compare us to the biggest fucking companies in the space that ever existed. 0.90
00:07:17.400 And like even with first form, which is, you know, among those companies in history, in 0.96
00:07:23.700 reality, now I compare myself to companies that are outside of our industry who have
00:07:28.600 had major impact on the way things are done.
00:07:32.160 So like when I really, truly compare like like in this sound, this might sound silly to you 0.98
00:07:37.740 guys, like like because it's obvious I'm not anywhere near these motherfuckers, but
00:07:42.480 like I legit compare myself to like the Bezos's or Elon's or these Phil Knight's or like like 0.97
00:07:51.440 I, you know, I have to remind myself, you know, that I got a long way to go because I
00:07:58.160 can get myself down when I do that.
00:07:59.960 Right.
00:08:00.520 But the truth of the matter is, is like when I start feeling like I'm really cool, like,
00:08:06.140 you know, because I think I'm pretty cool.
00:08:07.660 Like I feel fucking cool sometimes and that's OK.
00:08:10.400 But when I start feeling like I'm a little too cool, I start to remind myself, well, 1.00
00:08:14.820 dude, Phil Knight fucking made you look like an idiot. 1.00
00:08:17.280 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:08:18.760 And, you know, so we can all humble ourselves real quickly by our perspective we choose to
00:08:24.320 take.
00:08:24.900 I think it's an important thing for most people to never really believe the good things and
00:08:32.420 never really believe the bad things and just continue on the path.
00:08:35.740 You know what I mean?
00:08:36.440 I try not to give too much attention to either, but we can all get caught up in our
00:08:40.860 own our own wins when we get and that's what causes the comfort.
00:08:44.280 Yeah.
00:08:44.680 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:45.380 So and then another thing that you could do, too, which I think is very valuable, is giving
00:08:50.880 some of that money away to a cause that is, you know, not that is not necessarily like
00:08:57.720 you're, you know, like like like, for example, like we give a lot of money away to this deal
00:09:03.280 that we do at first form called 30 for the kids where everybody contributes.
00:09:07.300 It's a big fitness thing and we do it for 30 days a few times a year.
00:09:10.340 It generates a lot of money and then we match the money that was raised and we go build schools
00:09:15.240 and houses in Haiti.
00:09:17.320 And then we also do things for the city here in St.
00:09:19.940 Louis and, you know, part of what gets I know all of us here going, you know, when things
00:09:30.460 are really good, because things are really good and they're continuing to be good because
00:09:34.400 we have an amazing team and we, you know, I think we've got a really good thing, special
00:09:37.920 thing going here.
00:09:38.780 Um, but like when you see that you can have a real impact on other people that maybe is
00:09:46.340 just from you donating some of the money that you've earned, you know, that can be a major
00:09:50.320 driver for you to, to progress on income.
00:09:53.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:54.240 Yeah.
00:09:54.680 Like there's, so you could do more of that.
00:09:56.060 Yes, absolutely.
00:09:57.020 Like, dude, even if that's the whole thing, like, even if you, uh, even if you make a whole
00:10:04.380 bunch of more money, you say, I don't need the money. 0.85
00:10:05.820 Well then fucking do something good with it that matters to you. 0.99
00:10:09.020 Right. 0.99
00:10:09.680 You know what I'm saying?
00:10:10.480 Like this idea that we're here for just us, that's not, we cannot just, first of all,
00:10:17.260 most people aren't responsible for themselves, but being responsible for only yourself is not
00:10:22.680 enough.
00:10:23.880 There has to be an obligation to our community, uh, to the future generations that are coming 1.00
00:10:29.540 and also an obligation to honor the people who have laid the framework for us to even have
00:10:34.900 the opportunity in the first place.
00:10:36.600 So when you think about all of these things, you know, those are the things that, that,
00:10:42.560 that I think can really move you out of being comfortable.
00:10:46.120 Yeah.
00:10:46.620 That's real.
00:10:47.000 Let me, let me ask you this.
00:10:47.980 Cause there, there's a, a quote, I can't remember who said it, but it goes something to the effect 1.00
00:10:52.220 of if you shit, if you sit in shit long enough, it stops stinking. 1.00
00:10:56.120 Yeah, that's right. 1.00
00:10:56.860 That's what I said.
00:10:57.700 Yeah.
00:10:57.840 And you said, you said that like, you know, some people can be uncomfortable and then make it
00:11:01.060 comfortable.
00:11:01.300 That's right.
00:11:01.740 Right.
00:11:01.920 That's what's happening.
00:11:02.720 That's the whole goal of the, what's going on in the world right now.
00:11:06.720 Yeah.
00:11:06.940 What's happening in America right now is they are trying to acclimate you to these crazy
00:11:12.380 gas prices, which are going to get worse.
00:11:14.420 They're trying to acclimate you to not having, um, the selections of foods that you once had.
00:11:21.360 Yeah.
00:11:21.800 Okay.
00:11:22.080 They're trying to acclimate you.
00:11:23.900 Make you settle.
00:11:24.440 They're trying to acclimate you to a lower, uh, level of existence as the baseline existence
00:11:30.780 in America.
00:11:32.280 And, and they, they're going to put it in and they're going to let it ride until you
00:11:36.100 get used to it and stop wanting the old thing.
00:11:39.300 That's, that's what they're doing.
00:11:40.680 Yeah. 0.99
00:11:41.860 So, you know, we have to remember what the fuck it was like, uh, in December of 2000 fucking 0.97
00:11:50.100 19, uh, very clearly we were the best we'd ever been. 0.99
00:11:55.400 And you can say whatever the fuck you want about Donald Trump. 0.89
00:11:59.040 It's the, the truth of the matter is we need to get back there and then press way past that 0.98
00:12:04.920 point in that direction.
00:12:06.520 Yeah, that's real.
00:12:09.360 I'm talking about economically.
00:12:11.400 Yeah, yeah, for sure. 1.00
00:12:12.380 But I think even just in people's personal lives, like stop settling for fucking shit. 1.00
00:12:16.300 Listen, bro. 1.00
00:12:16.840 They remove excellence out of the agenda to control the population.
00:12:22.060 Yeah. 1.00
00:12:22.740 Motherfucker. 1.00
00:12:23.300 Like your biggest, the best motherfucking thing you could do for this country right now 1.00
00:12:27.560 is to be fucking great. 1.00
00:12:29.140 Yeah. 0.98
00:12:29.740 Yeah.
00:12:30.560 What did, uh, that, that, that means actually caring about your fitness, actually caring about
00:12:37.600 making money in your career, actually caring about your family, actually caring about being
00:12:43.400 better.
00:12:44.180 Okay.
00:12:44.700 There's not a, this cultural degradation that has been pressed upon society and the lowering
00:12:51.360 of moral standard has affected everybody at some level. 1.00
00:12:55.240 Every single one of you listening is guilty of some bullshit. 0.93
00:12:59.020 And what we need to do as a society is collectively raise the bar to improve and be better than what 0.99
00:13:04.600 we have been.
00:13:05.480 Yeah.
00:13:06.420 Yeah.
00:13:06.920 It's, I was thinking about what, uh, Dave Portnoy said.
00:13:10.020 You haven't, you haven't been to Nantucket? 0.87
00:13:11.980 It's fucking awesome. 0.98
00:13:13.040 You know what I'm saying? 0.97
00:13:13.740 Yeah.
00:13:14.500 Like, listen, dude, I think that's the thing too, though.
00:13:16.360 Cause I mean, we talk about it, right?
00:13:17.800 And I remember like when, when I first met you, we, we talked about the fact that like,
00:13:21.000 you know, sometimes it's just hard for people to, to, to see winning because they, or like
00:13:24.900 to achieve success because they never really seen it.
00:13:26.960 They never seen it or touched it.
00:13:28.200 But the thing is, it's like, I mean, with technology, I can turn this phone on and I can
00:13:32.020 see, I can, you know what I'm saying?
00:13:32.780 But I do, it is a difference.
00:13:34.480 That's still different, dude. 0.99
00:13:36.180 It's still different than knowing somebody personally, like dude, to a lot of motherfuckers, 0.98
00:13:41.820 I'm a fake internet character. 0.99
00:13:44.480 You see what I'm saying?
00:13:45.620 Like, dude, like, you know what I'm saying? 0.98
00:13:49.780 Like I'm a fucking, I'm a cartoon to like a lot of people that with a, like I have a 0.99
00:13:55.580 voice, I say shit, I live this lifestyle. 1.00
00:13:59.020 Like it's not real. 1.00
00:14:00.460 Yeah.
00:14:00.980 You understand what I'm saying?
00:14:01.920 It's not physically tangible.
00:14:02.720 Yes.
00:14:03.040 I get it. 0.98
00:14:03.660 That's why when people meet me and they're like, holy shit, dude, you're exactly the 0.99
00:14:07.120 same as you are. 0.98
00:14:08.200 I'm like, yeah, bro.
00:14:09.080 That's because I'm the same as you.
00:14:10.720 Right. 1.00
00:14:11.060 Like that's what I've been trying to tell you motherfuckers. 1.00
00:14:12.900 Right. 1.00
00:14:13.500 This is the whole reason I do this shit. 1.00
00:14:15.480 It's a whole fucking reason. 1.00
00:14:17.320 Like, bro, I know what the fuck it's like. 0.99
00:14:21.660 And that's why I care so much about America. 0.99
00:14:24.000 You guys are like, oh, why does he care so much? 0.99
00:14:26.380 Because I'm a fucking product of how amazing it is. 0.97
00:14:31.200 And where I could see from the experiences I've had, I could see it swirling around the 0.99
00:14:36.320 fucking drain and I'm urgent about it. 0.98
00:14:39.140 So excuse me that I want you to experience some of the amazing shit that I have by, by 0.99
00:14:44.580 just doing a few different things in your life. 0.99
00:14:46.660 Holy shit. 0.99
00:14:47.680 Yeah. 1.00
00:14:48.540 Fuck me. 1.00
00:14:49.300 Right. 1.00
00:14:50.120 Yeah. 1.00
00:14:50.800 Such a piece of shit. 1.00
00:14:51.780 Yeah. 1.00
00:14:52.040 Guys, moving on to question number two, Andy, there's a famous saying, it's not what you
00:14:58.760 know, it's who you know.
00:14:59.740 My question is, should you put more emphasis on gaining connections and building relationships
00:15:05.040 early on in your personal development journey or focus on building your skill sets and hope
00:15:09.580 that opportunities come along to further your life, career, et cetera?
00:15:12.620 Both.
00:15:13.440 A hundred percent in both directions.
00:15:15.200 Um, entrepreneurs are people who have to focus on different things that, you know, I
00:15:22.260 think the big error that people make is that they lean far too much on who, you know, like
00:15:29.560 the whole saying, it's, it's not what you know, it's who, you know that.
00:15:32.460 Yeah, that's true.
00:15:33.880 But that there's an assumption there that you offer some sort of like baseline value and offer
00:15:39.780 a great skill set, like that's assuming that you're great at what you do.
00:15:47.280 Being great is the prerequisite.
00:15:50.120 Like that's like, so that's the prerequisite of that whole saying.
00:15:53.960 Yeah. 0.98
00:15:55.340 So I could pull up any fucking person and give them a job of making $500,000 a year. 0.99
00:16:05.080 That doesn't mean they're going to be able to do the fucking job well. 1.00
00:16:08.120 And it's only going to be a matter of time before I'm like, Hey, fuck face, you're fucking 1.00
00:16:13.940 up my shit now. 1.00
00:16:14.860 Yeah. 1.00
00:16:15.620 Okay.
00:16:16.060 So yes, that's true. 0.95
00:16:20.020 You know how many amazing celebrity people I fucking know now, like, because I'm good 0.68
00:16:24.500 at this, right? 0.99
00:16:25.480 Like I'm good at talking on the fucking microphone and I wasn't always good. 0.99
00:16:29.560 If you don't believe me, go fucking listen. 0.99
00:16:31.280 And by the way, half y'all think I'm no good now. 0.99
00:16:33.500 But the point is, is like, I got good enough to where people started recognizing and that's
00:16:44.900 what it takes.
00:16:45.700 And then you start to know and meet and, and by the way, you know, there's tremendous
00:16:52.720 value in intentionally networking.
00:16:56.060 I'm just saying that I'm speaking to the people who think that the net, they can network their 0.99
00:17:02.320 way to the top with no fucking value or skill. 0.99
00:17:04.420 Right. 0.99
00:17:04.960 Cause that's not accurate.
00:17:07.260 Here's DJ.
00:17:08.180 All right.
00:17:08.660 DJ, what do you do?
00:17:09.480 Nothing.
00:17:10.060 I just, I just know.
00:17:11.000 Yeah.
00:17:11.240 Right.
00:17:11.560 But that's, that's, that's what people think it is.
00:17:14.780 And it's not that, Hey man, put me on, do this.
00:17:17.480 You know, look, bro, let me explain to you like this. 0.99
00:17:20.580 I could take one of your story posts and put it into my fucking Instagram story. 0.99
00:17:26.300 Okay. 0.99
00:17:27.100 But, and lots of people that you don't know are going to see you, but unless all the rest 0.98
00:17:31.080 of your shit captures their attention enough or you're great enough for them, it doesn't 0.99
00:17:35.780 matter. 1.00
00:17:36.380 Right.
00:17:37.020 So like, you've got to do your part and then it's who, you know, so you should be simultaneously
00:17:43.560 working to build your amazing skillset and meeting people who are also doing the same.
00:17:49.200 That's why groups like Arte are so fucking valuable because you have people who are on
00:17:55.140 the same path as you, who you can talk to, who have different ideas, who know different
00:18:01.440 skillsets, who have different connections and they're more valuable to you than what
00:18:07.060 I am to you because I've already been through what your, my connections aren't even as good
00:18:14.280 at that level because I've already surpassed it.
00:18:17.360 Right.
00:18:17.560 Right.
00:18:17.740 You see what I'm saying?
00:18:18.560 It's the latter. 0.99
00:18:18.900 And people think that they can like get one shout out from Jake Paul and become a fucking, 0.98
00:18:25.400 you know, like dude. 0.99
00:18:26.880 Yeah. 1.00
00:18:27.060 Maybe if your shits are been good for like the last fucking five years. 1.00
00:18:31.120 Right. 1.00
00:18:32.080 You see what I'm saying?
00:18:32.960 Right.
00:18:33.320 Right.
00:18:33.500 Right.
00:18:33.540 So, you know, you have to be great to start and then you also have to be networked as well.
00:18:40.060 And it takes both and you should intentionally be working on both.
00:18:43.580 That's real.
00:18:44.540 All right, guys.
00:18:45.040 Our third and final question for you.
00:18:47.140 Uh, this is a little lengthy.
00:18:48.860 I'm gonna try to make it quick though.
00:18:50.280 Okay.
00:18:51.300 Well, I'll take your time.
00:18:52.060 I got time.
00:18:52.860 Andy, question number three.
00:18:54.420 Okay.
00:18:54.740 It says, as a transgender guy, I have been trying to speak out on social media against
00:19:01.160 the insane madness that's been coming from the activists that claim to represent my demographic.
00:19:06.640 The problem is on accounts that I speak out on, I am shadow banned, if not outright banned
00:19:11.840 for speaking basic truths like trans men are not biological men or else we would not 1.00
00:19:16.800 have to use trans in the first place. 0.66
00:19:18.440 I'm starting to feel like there's no point in posting against the madness since no one is
00:19:23.240 able to even see it due to the company suppressing my voice.
00:19:26.600 I know you deal with being shadow banned quite often and having your voice suppressed as well.
00:19:31.080 Any advice on how to navigate it?
00:19:34.060 Yeah.
00:19:34.520 Well, first off, welcome.
00:19:38.080 This is what happens when you don't swim with the river.
00:19:42.100 You know what I'm saying?
00:19:42.640 I commend you for standing up for what you believe to be right. 0.99
00:19:48.260 I also agree with you that that is 100% truth and so does fucking science. 0.96
00:19:52.620 And I'm thankful that, you know, somebody like you who is trans hasn't labeled me as 0.99
00:20:00.020 some sort of crazy shit like a lot of these other people have. 0.98
00:20:03.460 So thank you for, thank you. 0.98
00:20:06.980 Yeah.
00:20:07.460 I think the point of the question is the reason for why it's important for everybody to collectively
00:20:14.140 speak out and stand up because what they're doing is they're trying to silence the big voices in
00:20:21.100 such a way to make the smaller voices such as your own feel as if it's insignificant.
00:20:27.440 This is why no matter what you think of Alex Jones, what they did when they find him $49 million. 0.99
00:20:34.480 OK, and what he did was wrong, by the way, but it was also just shit he was saying. 0.99
00:20:39.600 Yeah. 0.99
00:20:40.020 OK, I think we can all agree. 0.95
00:20:41.660 I think anybody that fucking takes Alex Jones show as some sort of like reality, like. 0.99
00:20:48.900 It's a it's it's it's there's context to the fucking show. 0.99
00:20:53.260 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:20:54.280 Right.
00:20:55.200 But whatever.
00:20:56.300 OK.
00:20:57.960 But the point is, the reason they deplatform these people, the reason they pull them off the
00:21:03.020 internet is because they're leading other people to do the same.
00:21:07.980 And so when you feel the way that you felt.
00:21:13.180 What they want is for you to quit.
00:21:15.780 And if you quit, that plays into their strategy, which is the silence, the collective.
00:21:21.960 All right.
00:21:22.760 So.
00:21:24.040 This what you're experiencing is not exclusive to the trans community or the gay community
00:21:30.580 or any of these other communities, this is a true communist ideology to suppress.
00:21:38.420 Ideas that go against what they want, which is extremely dangerous to all of us.
00:21:43.520 So whatever it is that you believe in, whether it's what I believe in or not, it's very important
00:21:51.200 for you to speak truth.
00:21:53.780 And I would encourage you to speak truth after you truly considered what could be propaganda
00:22:01.860 and what isn't propaganda and what the true facts are.
00:22:06.160 Because if anything, we've learned over the last couple of years that our entire system
00:22:13.040 is colluding to push narratives.
00:22:16.720 And if they weren't, we wouldn't be in a society where people would be censored.
00:22:21.900 It wouldn't exist.
00:22:23.060 We're going against it.
00:22:23.680 OK. 0.97
00:22:24.320 And also, they wouldn't censor these people if it wasn't fucking somewhat true. 0.98
00:22:31.280 Right. 0.97
00:22:31.940 They just wouldn't. 1.00
00:22:33.700 It would be dismissed as bullshit. 0.99
00:22:35.580 See, when you let all ideas flow in, it's very easy to see who's the clowns, who's telling 1.00
00:22:42.720 the truth, who's telling mostly truth but a little full of shit, and who's completely 1.00
00:22:49.340 full of shit, and who's completely telling the truth. 0.99
00:22:51.900 Like, it's easy for the spectrum to be visible because the best ideas, the natural order of 1.00
00:22:59.180 things always works itself out.
00:23:01.620 This is why these policies that the communists and the socialists believe in will never actually
00:23:07.800 work, no matter what they do.
00:23:09.760 And it will resort in killing the people who resist it because they can't win in natural
00:23:17.080 order. 0.92
00:23:18.220 OK.
00:23:18.900 So that's why what these people are about always ends with things like genocide or things like
00:23:27.300 war, because their ideas can't win and they need to oppress people for them to get the
00:23:33.780 way that they want.
00:23:35.040 And the problem that's happening now in America is the 80 percent majority of people are being 0.98
00:23:41.000 suppressed.
00:23:41.480 And not only are they being suppressed, the other side's being amplified and celebrated.
00:23:48.620 And these people are unaware that there's 80 percent of the other people on the other side.
00:23:55.200 So it's creating a very dangerous dynamic.
00:23:58.020 And this is what happens with censorship.
00:23:59.900 So it's actually, do you understand what I'm saying?
00:24:03.860 It's actually strategically dangerous to manipulate reality the way they've done it, because now you
00:24:11.600 have a huge majority of people who are very angry and they're empowering this other very small
00:24:19.720 minority of people.
00:24:21.080 And it's going to create a potential dangerous situation if everyone can't wrap their head
00:24:27.120 around the idea that this has to be done peacefully.
00:24:30.340 Yeah. 1.00
00:24:30.740 OK, it only takes one or two fucking idiots to do some dumb shit. 1.00
00:24:34.640 You see what I'm saying? 1.00
00:24:35.700 Oh, yeah. 0.99
00:24:36.500 So so the short answer is you have to speak up if you believe in what the fuck you believe, 0.99
00:24:44.700 if you don't want to be labeled in with. 0.98
00:24:46.860 And by the way, you shouldn't be.
00:24:48.700 But if you don't want to be labeled in with the sexualization of children, you have to speak up.
00:24:54.860 I've been saying this for literal, I mean, the last couple of years.
00:24:59.760 Oh, yeah.
00:25:00.300 You have to speak up if you are a gay person and you are in the gay community and you notice
00:25:07.380 that kids are being sexualized because it will hurt the perception of of the whole community
00:25:14.560 with the masses, because, dude, the masses are starting to believe like that is the whole
00:25:20.960 community.
00:25:21.260 Yeah, dude. 0.99
00:25:21.960 And that's dangerous as fuck. 1.00
00:25:23.740 It's dangerous as fuck. 1.00
00:25:25.000 Yeah. 0.98
00:25:25.460 So that's why it's important to speak up, dude.
00:25:27.680 Yeah.
00:25:28.820 Because I don't care how you live your life. 0.99
00:25:30.760 Like, I don't I don't give a fuck. 1.00
00:25:32.780 Yeah. 0.99
00:25:33.200 Like, you know, like whatever you choose is what you choose. 1.00
00:25:36.860 But when you're fucking teaching five year old kids shit, that ain't good, man. 1.00
00:25:44.960 And there's a lot of pedophilia crowd that's hiding in the LGBTQ community right now. 1.00
00:25:49.520 They're hiding inside of it.
00:25:51.500 And like, dude, that the community has to be stronger about it.
00:25:56.320 It's just the truth.
00:25:57.940 I would say, too, because I've seen there's a new, like, I guess, movement going around.
00:26:02.800 It's called gag.
00:26:04.460 Have you seen that? 0.86
00:26:05.380 The gays against groomers?
00:26:06.700 Yeah.
00:26:07.240 You know what I'm saying?
00:26:07.720 Like, like align yourself.
00:26:09.740 Right.
00:26:10.060 Like start getting in those.
00:26:11.160 Those.
00:26:11.460 Yeah.
00:26:11.600 They're banning that.
00:26:12.560 They're starting to shadow ban that page because they're getting attention.
00:26:16.200 And this is not a right left issue. 0.93
00:26:18.800 No, this is not a this is this is an issue of fucking right versus wrong. 0.97
00:26:23.900 And regardless of how you feel about, you know, conservative people or whatever, like if you're in that LGBTQ community and you're not condemning the sexualization of children. 0.96
00:26:37.260 I think the pendulum is swinging back very fucking fast and hard on that. 0.86
00:26:43.820 Yeah. 0.82
00:26:43.940 And I don't know, man, like this idea, these people normalizing the trying to normalize pedophilia by calling it minor attractive persons and give these people like empathy and all that ain't going to fly.
00:26:58.040 It's not going to fly with anybody.
00:27:00.400 I think I think the simple fact that we have to try to call it the fact that they're calling it normalization.
00:27:06.420 Come on, dude.
00:27:07.080 It's not normal. 1.00
00:27:07.900 Look, dude, those people are going to get fucking killed. 1.00
00:27:10.280 Yeah, they're going to get killed. 1.00
00:27:11.600 So parents will kill people over that, like lots of parents, like most parents, probably. 1.00
00:27:19.740 So it's dangerous shit when you don't speak up. 1.00
00:27:22.880 This is why I've been encouraging everybody to speak up for fucking years. 1.00
00:27:27.960 Because your voice fucking matters. 0.99
00:27:29.680 It matters a hell of a lot more than my voice. 0.99
00:27:31.920 I'm one voice. 1.00
00:27:33.180 You guys are fucking, you know, innumerable amounts. 1.00
00:27:37.260 It's your voices that matter. 1.00
00:27:39.080 It's not my voice that matters.
00:27:40.920 Yes, you're learning things.
00:27:42.780 Yes, you're being inspired.
00:27:44.480 Yes, you're you're you're becoming someone different.
00:27:46.640 You're improving.
00:27:47.200 You're this.
00:27:47.520 You're that.
00:27:47.780 You're this. 1.00
00:27:48.380 But if you're not spreading the shit, it doesn't work. 0.99
00:27:51.960 So it's not enough just to listen to the show and say, oh, this is why I say tell people about it. 0.99
00:27:56.320 Yeah.
00:27:56.720 Pay the fee.
00:27:57.360 Yeah, bro. 1.00
00:27:58.220 It's it's because we need the fucking shit to spread. 1.00
00:28:00.580 And that that's conversations in real life with real people, dude. 1.00
00:28:06.800 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:28:07.580 That means you being bold on your social media and saying some shit that not all of your fucking friends are going to agree with. 0.99
00:28:13.640 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:28:14.640 Yeah.
00:28:14.820 I think just to add to that quickly, too, though, I think when you do that stuff to guys, you will realize that because so much time has passed, you won't have that many people to disagree. 0.99
00:28:26.540 No, dude, everybody's seeing the shit. 0.98
00:28:28.540 That's the thing. 1.00
00:28:29.080 Dude, everybody's seeing. 1.00
00:28:30.800 You'll be surprised who likes that shit. 1.00
00:28:32.240 No. 1.00
00:28:32.800 Tell them a story you were telling me about the party.
00:28:36.720 I went to went to this day party yesterday and it was like, I mean, it was a black thing.
00:28:41.540 You know what I'm saying?
00:28:42.040 Yeah, I didn't get an invite.
00:28:43.200 Yeah.
00:28:43.440 Well, you know, did you guys credit score was too high.
00:28:47.480 I think that's what it was.
00:28:50.940 I don't know, man.
00:28:51.900 I might have to write a letter to HR on this one.
00:28:54.640 And but no, so I went to this day party and it was cool.
00:28:59.400 It was a really, really good event.
00:29:00.980 You know, it wasn't I was comfortable being there.
00:29:04.080 Right. 1.00
00:29:04.280 Because I usually like anyway, long story short, you're about to say some racist shit. 0.99
00:29:09.500 Well, I mean, I was going to say some honest shit, you know, but another time, another place. 0.99
00:29:15.560 No, but I'm sitting there and one of my, I guess, friends, he came up to me and he had no idea that I was on the podcast. 0.98
00:29:23.620 And he was like, like, dude, one of my guys just forwarded me this show the other day called Relay F, man.
00:29:29.980 I didn't know you was on it.
00:29:31.260 And like, I just put two and two together. 0.99
00:29:32.720 I'm like, oh, shit, that's what's up. 0.95
00:29:33.700 Where is he at? 0.99
00:29:34.300 You know what I'm saying?
00:29:34.700 And I'm just thinking I automatically my racist inherent self.
00:29:38.180 It was a white guy that shared it to him.
00:29:39.780 Right.
00:29:40.620 And I'm like, you know what?
00:29:41.380 What's the guy's name?
00:29:42.080 He's like, his name is Ryan.
00:29:43.320 He's here.
00:29:43.960 I'm like, Ryan.
00:29:44.580 OK, Ryan.
00:29:45.520 OK, definitely a white guy.
00:29:46.760 Right.
00:29:47.240 He's over there drinking cream soda.
00:29:50.060 You're right.
00:29:52.580 Raising casserole.
00:29:53.440 You know what I'm saying?
00:29:54.860 The corner by himself.
00:29:56.240 And here walks over this dude. 1.00
00:29:57.480 I'm like, oh, shit. 1.00
00:29:58.500 Like, Ryan's not white. 1.00
00:30:00.820 Ryan's black.
00:30:01.580 I'm like, all right, cool.
00:30:02.580 You know what I'm saying?
00:30:03.140 And then he, like, three more other guys come over and they're all listening to the show.
00:30:07.580 And I was sitting there and one guy goes, he's like, hey, and tell Andy, I actually like cream soda. 0.99
00:30:12.260 I fucking told you. 0.99
00:30:13.460 I told you, bro. 1.00
00:30:15.220 Hey.
00:30:15.760 Hey, that's just one.
00:30:16.480 We call those outliers.
00:30:17.520 Nah, bro. 1.00
00:30:18.420 Cream soda's some good shit. 1.00
00:30:20.240 You're willing to give it a try. 1.00
00:30:21.440 Hey.
00:30:22.020 Gets cream soda and choco tacos.
00:30:24.440 Yeah.
00:30:24.860 Hey.
00:30:25.620 You know, but it was refreshing.
00:30:26.760 So shout out to those guys. 0.72
00:30:27.660 Send me some checks. 1.00
00:30:30.700 About to see your fucking vest stocks go insane right now. 1.00
00:30:34.140 Yeah. 0.99
00:30:34.360 I hope the people over a vest appreciated my shout out.
00:30:38.460 Yeah.
00:30:39.040 Yeah.
00:30:39.280 So shout out to those guys. 0.72
00:30:40.320 Yeah.
00:30:40.840 Yeah.
00:30:41.120 And shout out to Ryan, bro.
00:30:42.960 That's what's up.
00:30:43.580 Yeah.
00:30:43.840 Hey, what's up, Ryan?
00:30:44.640 But dude, it just shows you like people look, man. 0.95
00:30:49.800 Everybody's ready to get the fuck along. 0.90
00:30:51.640 Yeah. 0.98
00:30:52.120 Okay. 1.00
00:30:52.400 We're all tired of the bullshit. 1.00
00:30:54.240 We're all tired of the fucking fake division. 1.00
00:30:56.660 We're all tired of the oppression by these fucking fucks who come here every three or four years 1.00
00:31:02.880 and tell us they're going to fix all our shit and fuck us in the ass with it. 1.00
00:31:06.740 Like, we're all tired of it. 1.00
00:31:08.600 Excuse my fucking French. 0.99
00:31:10.040 Yeah. 1.00
00:31:10.600 You know what I'm saying?
00:31:11.440 It's real. 0.99
00:31:12.180 Like, let's start by fixing that and then we can work on all the other shit. 0.98
00:31:18.780 I mean, that's what I'm about. 0.99
00:31:20.880 Fucking freedom. 0.99
00:31:21.780 Low taxes. 1.00
00:31:22.640 That's it.
00:31:23.320 That's right.
00:31:23.580 Choco Tacos. 1.00
00:31:24.480 Choco fucking tacos. 1.00
00:31:26.440 Guys, Andy, that is three. 1.00
00:31:28.240 So go pay the fee.
00:31:29.140 All right, guys.
00:31:29.620 I love you guys.
00:31:30.240 Appreciate you guys.
00:31:31.080 Talk to you next time.
00:31:31.820 Yeah.
00:31:33.340 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:31:35.000 Now my jewelry box froze. 1.00
00:31:36.720 Fuck a pole. 1.00
00:31:37.500 Fuck a stole. 1.00
00:31:38.340 Counted millions in the cold. 1.00
00:31:40.040 Bad bitch. 1.00
00:31:40.880 Booty swole. 1.00
00:31:41.700 Got her on bankroll.
00:31:43.340 Can't fold.
00:31:44.220 Doesn't know.
00:31:45.020 Headshot.
00:31:45.860 Case closed.