REAL AF with Andy Frisella - December 14, 2022


437. Conquering Criticism

Topics
criticism and success
Hosted by
Andy Frisella
Mentioned
Mickey Mouse
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Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

170.72

Word count

2,020

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

sentences flagged

Toxicity

78

sentences flagged

Hate speech

39

sentences flagged


Summary

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If you want to become great, stop listening to the people around you who tell you that you re crazy or that your dreams are unrealistic or that you need to be born into success to actually become great. Stop listening to people who have never been around winning, have never experienced winning, and have no idea what it is you re actually trying to become.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the life of 0.98
00:00:21.080 fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today 0.93
00:00:25.020 we have a real talk i haven't given you one of these in a while because i haven't
00:00:29.160 had anything on my heart and mind but i do have something on my heart and mind today so i'm
00:00:33.200 going to skip all the rest of the intro you guys know the deal you listen to the show most of the
00:00:37.020 time today's message is for those of you who are young those of you who are just trying to figure
00:00:44.380 out what it is you want to do with your life i want you to understand something very clear from the
00:00:51.260 get-go if you're ambitious if you want to become successful if you have big dreams big goals big
00:00:58.320 aspirations and you want to live a big life you are going to have to become very comfortable with 0.97
00:01:05.380 the people around you criticizing you okay these people who make fun of you who talk shit about you 0.90
00:01:12.420 who make snide remarks these people when you have gone on and accomplished what it is you're going to 0.81
00:01:20.400 accomplish these people will still be exactly where they are today i know this because i've gone through
00:01:26.760 this process and i see so many young people i see so many ambitious people i see so many people that 1.00
00:01:33.560 want to become great stop working to become great because some fucking idiot who doesn't know his elbow 1.00
00:01:41.580 from his fucking asshole is telling you that you're crazy or that you're morally misaligned or that 1.00
00:01:48.820 your dreams are unrealistic or who do you think you are guys all of this shit all the shit that you hear 1.00
00:01:57.500 every single successful person that you have ever come in contact with ever seen on the internet ever seen 0.99
00:02:06.020 on fucking tv there's people that you want to be like the lives that you want to live they have all heard 0.91
00:02:12.060 those same things i heard those same things it isn't until it becomes absolutely crystal clear that 0.99
00:02:20.300 you are going to win that those people start to support you and it's going to be very weird for you
00:02:26.600 because all of a sudden these friends from back in the old days who used to criticize you which most
00:02:33.660 of you are hearing that right now are going to come around and they're going to say man dude i always
00:02:39.340 believed in you man i'm i'm really proud of you and they may be proud of you but they certainly
00:02:44.040 didn't fucking always believe in you and you'll always know that and this serves a really good 0.99
00:02:48.680 lesson for everybody and that's this most motherfuckers don't know shit okay you guys listen to these 0.99
00:02:56.460 people who have never been around winning have never won themselves have never touched winning have 0.99
00:03:01.980 never smelled winning have never experienced winning and you listen to them about what's possible 1.00
00:03:07.440 and let them discourage you from where it is you're trying to go guys that is the dumbest fucking 0.99
00:03:13.520 thing you could ever do and more people waste their lives because of this than any other thing more 0.99
00:03:20.880 people ruin their dreams and end up living a life that they are super unhappy with super pissed about
00:03:27.320 super frustrated with because they listened to the wrong people you cannot expect people
00:03:35.440 who have been told their entire lives that success is not for them you cannot listen to people who
00:03:43.800 have been told their entire lives that rich people are evil you cannot listen to people who've been told
00:03:50.860 their entire lives that you have to be born into success to actually have success you cannot listen to 0.99
00:03:58.360 these people these people do not know what the fuck they're talking about and if you listen to them 0.98
00:04:03.720 and you value what it is they say because you like them or they're your friend or they're your cousin 0.99
00:04:08.920 or maybe they're your parents i don't know but if you listen to them and actually stop working that's
00:04:15.100 what kills your dream that's what will cost you everything that's what's going to keep you from
00:04:20.400 becoming whatever it is you're trying to become so you guys have to understand this is part of the 0.93
00:04:26.220 process when i first started out guys i was 19 years old bro the first three years i made fucking zero 0.97
00:04:33.260 dollars the first day we sold seven dollars the next day we sold zero and the third day we sold 0.97
00:04:39.820 23 fucking dollars worth of product all right i've heard it all i've heard all the criticisms i've heard 1.00
00:04:46.760 all the shit talk i've heard all the bullshit and guess what every single one of those motherfuckers 1.00
00:04:53.120 that told me that shit is doing the same shit they were doing on the day that they fucking told me that 1.00
00:04:58.380 and if you want that for your life that's fine if you want to be mediocre like everybody else 1.00
00:05:03.220 that's fine but don't bitch about it later because becoming successful that dream that you have 0.92
00:05:08.620 is going to require all of your effort it's going to require all of your energy it's going to require
00:05:14.780 total obsession because the reality of what we are doing in this life is competition okay you may not
00:05:24.100 see it that way and other people may tell you well that's not the way to look at life but that's
00:05:28.600 reality that is the way it is whether you're working a job you're trying to build a company you're trying
00:05:34.580 to become an excellent athlete you're trying to become an amazing musician it doesn't matter the best 0.98
00:05:40.660 win and losers kick rocks this is the way it fucking works okay so do not listen to people do not 0.97
00:05:48.300 value their input if they've never done it do not take what they say to heart or if you do take it 1.00
00:05:55.060 to heart take the shit that they say and put it up there on your shoulder and start forming a chip 0.99
00:06:01.040 get a big motherfucking chip on your shoulder so that every time someone says something negative 1.00
00:06:06.720 or says you can't or says you won't or says you're not capable you take their words and you put it right 1.00
00:06:12.700 there on your fucking shoulder and you and you spend the rest of your motherfucking time trying 1.00
00:06:17.920 to become successful no matter what the fuck it takes so you get the opportunity to shove those 1.00
00:06:24.480 words down their motherfucking throat this is the attitude that you must take because dude the 0.99
00:06:29.840 resistance is always going to be there you guys who are young you have the biggest opportunity ever 0.99
00:06:36.480 to become successful at a faster rate than anybody that's ever lived before you technology exists
00:06:43.440 today with the internet and social media that allows us to do what took me 12 fucking years to do you can 0.89
00:06:51.580 do that in three years i never had that opportunity and you do but a lot of you are too busy because 0.99
00:06:57.840 you're listening to motherfuckers who are determined to lose they are going to spend their entire lives 0.98
00:07:04.880 pointing the finger looking at talking about all the people who are doing more than them and they're 1.00
00:07:11.820 going to sit there and pretend like they're somehow morally superior for it let me ask you a question
00:07:18.460 how much morally superior can you actually be by not exercising the potential that you have as a human
00:07:27.560 being do you really think there's anything moral or good about letting yourself drift down 1.00
00:07:34.840 into loserville into mediocrity into being less than what you could be because your fucking loser 1.00
00:07:42.380 friends tell you that you need to be like them or they tell you that you're too good for them now or 1.00
00:07:48.220 they guilt you into going out on nights where you should be pouring into your dream because let me tell 0.99
00:07:53.740 you something bro there is no nobility in being a fucking loser there's nothing cool about it there's 0.99
00:08:02.320 nothing funny about it i see these videos of people walking around in the streets asking people basic 0.99
00:08:08.080 questions like who the president united states is or how many states there are and people are saying oh 0.98
00:08:13.040 well there's 62 states mickey mouse is the president and you got thousands of comments laughing their ass
00:08:19.500 off bro it's not funny it's not funny because they're intentionally indoctrinating the youth you guys 0.99
00:08:26.380 into being mediocre into being fucking less than into living a life that you're going to regret 0.98
00:08:33.760 because they're making it cool to be a loser this was no different than what it was when i was in 0.99
00:08:39.560 school bro like when i was in school you sat at the back of the school bus if you were the cool kid 1.00
00:08:44.760 all the motherfuckers that sat at the back of the school bus they're all fucking losing now 0.99
00:08:49.320 every if they're even still alive being real okay you guys have to understand that pursuing excellence 1.00
00:08:58.640 has never been easier than it is right now because of the opportunity that we have through technology 0.99
00:09:04.900 and getting to where you want to go is going to require you to put fucking fingers in your ears 1.00
00:09:12.320 and ignore the advice from motherfuckers that don't know okay your friends that you have right now 1.00
00:09:19.980 as a young man or a young woman those people maybe out of the 30 friends you think you have you might 1.00
00:09:26.300 still have one of them in 10 years and that's if you're fucking lucky so don't take your life for 0.89
00:09:32.480 granted don't take their words to heart and if you do take them to heart put them up on your shoulder 0.75
00:09:38.140 and spend the rest of your time using as fuel because the reality is you have an opportunity
00:09:43.900 and that opportunity is only going to happen once and that opportunity is you can either work your 0.96
00:09:49.220 fucking ass off you can become great you can set an example for everybody around you to know what it 0.94
00:09:54.620 looks like feels like smells like to win okay and you can live an amazing life and by the way that's 0.99
00:09:59.920 going to be very fucking hard or you can not try you can be like everybody else you can reside 1.00
00:10:08.000 yourself to being mediocre you can believe the shit that you were told by your fucking lazy ass 1.00
00:10:12.560 teachers and you can lose and that's very hard too the reality is no matter what path you take 1.00
00:10:20.180 you're going to have a hard path to go on i don't know about you but i would choose the hard that's going
00:10:28.240 to give me a payoff over the hard that's going to leave me depressed frustrated angry bitter unfulfilled 0.87
00:10:36.000 my entire fucking life and the thing that you need to realize right now is that that's how most people 0.98
00:10:42.580 choose to live your life so of course they're going to fucking hate you when you start to win 1.00
00:10:48.140 you're the shining example on the hill of what the fuck they could be of course they're going to hate 1.00
00:10:55.120 you it comes with the territory and motherfuckers are hating on you it means you're fucking winning 1.00
00:10:59.740 that's the society that we're in so stop boo-hooing about how many people are talking shit and start 1.00
00:11:06.420 seeing it as a badge of honor that you are actually doing something and they fucking aren't 1.00
00:11:11.280 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a bowl fuck a stove counted millions in 1.00
00:11:17.400 the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00
00:11:24.640 in the cold bad bitch slow i think cool 1.00
00:11:26.700 in the cold bad bitch crazy crazy slow 1.00
00:11:42.700 in the cold bad bitch cool 1.00
00:11:43.320 in the cold you know headshot case closed 1.00
00:11:44.520 in the cold and cold be calm
00:11:45.600 in the cold cold
00:11:46.100 in cold cold cold
00:11:47.100 in cold cold cold cold cold