REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 445. Q&AF： Building An Empire, Current Status Of The World & Discovering Your Why

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye the lies 0.98

00:00:21.040 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we

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00:01:41.080 get real talk real talk is just five to twenty minutes of me giving you what i think is some real 1.00

00:01:45.720 talk that i think needs to be said or heard and then other times we have full length the full length

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00:01:54.800 exist on the planet they do that kind of format uh we do that sometimes as well um and for all of this

00:02:00.600 we have a fee the fee is very simple if i'm going to come on here and share my 24 years of life

00:02:06.620 slash business experience which i've done okay all right um i all i expect from you i don't expect you 0.98

00:02:13.380 to buy my shit i don't expect you to fucking you know i don't take money for advertisements and have 0.99

00:02:18.640 people telling me what to fucking say this is an authentic show where i share authentically and all 1.00

00:02:23.060 i ask is that if you get value from the show man help us grow the show so when i say hey pay the feed 0.99

00:02:28.500 i mean share the show that's all i ask okay we've grown to a very very very massive podcast over the

00:02:34.880 course of the last eight years eight and a half years and uh we've done so all on word of mouth

00:02:40.680 and i love value exchange bro i love when i if i do good you tell people that's a fair deal that's

00:02:46.300 fair for everybody so when i say pay the fee that's what i'm talking about when i say share the show

00:02:51.920 don't be a hoe that's what we're talking about all right so what's going on nothing man you know 1.00

00:02:57.560 just running around here like fucking crazy today yeah getting ready for this weekend went ahead and 0.99

00:03:02.340 bought my raisins the raisins yeah the potato salad but i thought that was what white people do 0.99

00:03:08.200 yeah well you got white people coming out you don't discriminate over there yeah you know

00:03:13.880 accommodate that's nice that's nice of you it's so thoughtful so you were out in the uh negative

00:03:19.900 500 degree weather yeah it was cold the little just a little cold it was cold enough to freeze

00:03:26.900 like you i don't know if you saw this the beard you see it yeah that you were here when it happened

00:03:30.820 right so you left me yeah well i figured you were done you probably wouldn't want to go do it so i'm

00:03:36.320 like i tried to do it before you got here uh to get it in but you didn't want me to get oppressed i

00:03:41.440 get it that's it i appreciate it well dude i know like you know black people can't tolerate the cold

00:03:47.360 the same way that white people i didn't want you to die i mean i love you man i know snow in africa 0.99

00:03:51.580 bro yeah like i'm looking out for you you know so no bro it's uh it was cold as fuck it was minus 0.99

00:04:00.680 uh four with a minus minus 20 something wind chill 24 yeah is that what it was it was fucking crazy 0.91

00:04:08.280 it was minus 50 last night wind chill at my house yeah no i got it's never been that cold like like 0.96

00:04:14.440 it's cold here in missouri it does not get that cold no i know some of you fuckers up north 0.99

00:04:18.540 you're gonna fucking message me and be like oh you don't fucking know what cold is don't you know 0.99

00:04:24.400 yeah yeah yeah no shit you guys can fucking save it i don't live there for a fucking reason because 1.00

00:04:30.720 i don't want to know exactly right it's like these we talk about this all the time yeah it's hot oh 1.00

00:04:36.560 it's not hot like it is here oh bro shut the fuck up hot is hot cold it's cold it's fucking cold it's 0.98

00:04:41.760 cold for us yeah it's cold enough it's cold enough to freeze my fucking uh my like i had like the i 0.99

00:04:47.960 don't know what you call it but the antifa fucking thing on you know what i'm saying like i had that on 0.98

00:04:52.740 and it fucking froze to my beard bro yeah and i couldn't get it off like it took 10 minutes for 0.98

00:04:57.760 it to like i had to like rub it to thaw it out and i had to like rub it with my hands to get it to 0.99

00:05:01.920 break up like it was frozen to my beard i never had that happen before yeah fuck yeah and like i tried 0.90

00:05:06.340 to pull it but i was like it was gonna pull a chunk of my beard out yeah can't have that i was sitting 0.98

00:05:10.760 in our family room last night and i uh i heard this i heard two loud like back-to-back thuds right

00:05:17.140 like i mean it was like massively loud and you ever had that shit happen it's like you don't even want to go look 0.50

00:05:22.740 because it just sounds fucking expensive like i got no i'm not going yeah and now it's like no 0.98

00:05:27.500 you gotta go check at first i'm like fuck all right it's cars the fucking something's bad but 0.99

00:05:32.900 these uh i got two of these outdoor like patio heaters you know the ones that are at the bar 0.99

00:05:36.760 right and uh yeah yeah yeah the propane propane ones yeah yeah yeah they fucking flew across my 0.96

00:05:42.600 fucking patio from the wind yeah from the wind yeah and like they were fucking like hammered down 0.99

00:05:46.640 yeah and like they completely ripped them up like did you fuck them up yeah i did they fuck up the 0.99

00:05:50.940 shade on them uh-huh it's just cheap metal whatever but i think you can get those shades

00:05:54.900 like just like home depot home depot yeah yeah i was gonna ask dave i know he knows the connect on 0.79

00:05:59.600 those you're talking about the you know what i'm talking about i don't know what the fuck it's 0.93

00:06:02.180 called it's not a shade i'm sure somebody out there knows yeah and they're gonna fucking write me a 0.99

00:06:05.760 dissertation on the motherfucking definition of what the fuck it's actually called yeah i don't care 0.98

00:06:10.680 it looks like a fucking thermodynamic heat yeah it looks like a fucking walk that i stuck on the 1.00

00:06:15.500 top of the fucking heater all right so the heater writes in that bitch yeah i think i think lowe 1.00

00:06:20.660 sells heater walks okay all right i gotta go there good i need two of them so yeah i don't know man 0.99

00:06:25.880 uh oh i was about to ask what's going on in the world but this ain't that show yeah that's the next 0.98

00:06:29.980 episode yeah oh fuck dude man well i got some good ones for you good i know you always do let's knock 0.99

00:06:36.800 these out uh any question number one so you are building two new buildings right now 0.99

00:06:41.860 and that obviously takes time um you take something else too yeah all it takes is time 0.97

00:06:48.420 yeah just meditate bro yeah i fucking meditate my way from writing those fucking checks right 0.98

00:06:53.800 um but you clearly and you clearly have a plan to create thousands of jobs when that's done 0.98

00:06:58.820 how do you deal with the time uh in the oven quote unquote um as those plans may change and evolve

00:07:05.920 like what do you do during while that cake is baking right like you've already mixed the cake you

00:07:09.940 already put the ingredients together it's in the oven what do you do with it during that time oh

00:07:13.340 you know i just don't come to work yeah sit at home and you know play video games yeah you know

00:07:19.700 i'm just fucking chill because you know it's gonna it's just a sure thing that we're gonna make 0.96

00:07:25.460 it it's done you know it's a sure thing that we're gonna become the greatest fucking american 0.98

00:07:29.060 company ever built like it's it's already in the bag so i just don't do shit yeah 0.99

00:07:33.460 what the fuck you think i do bro i'm out in the fucking minus 27 degrees weather whatever the 0.99

00:07:40.220 fuck it is working my balls off okay and i do that for a reason all right there nothing is 0.99

00:07:45.800 guaranteed man like it doesn't matter that we're building those two buildings if i don't stay 0.99

00:07:50.320 aggressive every single day if i don't work every single day if i don't show up and press every 0.94

00:07:54.160 single day shit starts to fall apart and it starts to fall apart immediately because when people see 0.83

00:07:59.400 me stop pressing they stop pressing yeah okay so you have to understand that when you're leading 0.99

00:08:04.700 a company whether it be small or big or whether you're the only one you want to set the pace for

00:08:10.020 what everybody else is going to do okay and then i've been in business long enough to also know

00:08:14.720 that nothing is guaranteed bro things could change you know a war could break out another 0.57

00:08:20.800 fucking pandemic could start who knows right all right but i'm doing the best that i can to push 0.94

00:08:27.240 our company through what are you know unprecedented times knowing that every other time that i faced 0.98

00:08:34.760 in history which was 9 11 okay i owned a company i owned our companies and on september 11 2001 we

00:08:41.600 were a year and a half old yeah okay almost two years old uh we pressed through that okay this crash of

00:08:48.800 2008 we pressed through that okay uh what happened in 2020 we pressed through that and so when i see a

00:08:56.940 time of turbulence or time of uncertainty my experience and this has been validated through

00:09:03.900 my communication with many other successful people uh who have made it through those times is that we 0.97

00:09:10.260 stay offense we stay on the fucking gas yeah because when everybody else is pulling all their game off 0.96

00:09:15.580 the table right like they're pulling all their chess pieces into their little nice little warm safe space 0.98

00:09:20.520 we're going to be the only ones out on the field trying to take up ground all right so like when

00:09:26.240 everybody else stops moving that's your key to keep moving yeah because that's what eventually

00:09:30.660 sets the gap between you and them so what i'm what am i doing i'm i'm approaching it no different than 0.88

00:09:38.580 what i would be doing as if we like you were sitting in a meeting with me literally fucking 20 minutes ago 0.97

00:09:43.920 what did i fucking say in a meeting i said exactly this i said we need to forget about every single 0.98

00:09:50.360 thing that we've accomplished we need to forget about every single thing that we've done right 0.98

00:09:54.580 we need to forget about every single win that we've had and we need to move forward from this

00:09:59.880 point in time as if we are a brand new company and we are hungry for one more customer is day one

00:10:06.200 that is it and that is the attitude and by the way that's not indicative of anything i say that every

00:10:12.520 day that's what i say every day every day is day one for me okay because first of all i've had some

00:10:19.820 near-death experiences real ones okay i've had some times in my life where i thought i was gonna die 0.97

00:10:24.480 i got stabbed in the fucking face okay i thought i was gonna die for sure when that happened i got 0.98

00:10:30.160 misdiagnosed where i have a what's called a pineal cyst and it was mixed misdiagnosed as a brain tumor 0.99

00:10:34.880 okay for two weeks i thought i was gonna fucking die when you have these experiences it doesn't take long 0.91

00:10:41.740 to understand that our time is limited so i'm very thankful for both of those experiences as hard as they 0.95

00:10:47.280 were because they taught me that i am mortal and i will fucking expire just like everybody else does 0.96

00:10:54.100 okay so i'm not here to fuck around right i take every day serious i what i'm trying to do what we're 0.96

00:11:01.880 trying to do with my companies and what i'm trying to do personally like and i know you got some of you 0.91

00:11:07.200 guys might laugh at this but i'm okay with being laughed at i'm trying to be the best that there ever

00:11:11.720 fucking was i'm trying to affect more change than any other company has ever done in the history of 0.96

00:11:19.500 the fucking earth i'm trying to do things better than anyone else has ever fucking done them that is 0.99

00:11:25.500 my standard so when you guys look at me and you think oh i got it made because i got some cars and 0.98

00:11:30.120 i live a crazy life and it's fucking all awesome you shouldn't think about the 24 years that went into 0.89

00:11:35.120 that you should think about what i mean when i say we got a long way to go and what i mean when i say 0.94

00:11:40.260 we got a long way to go is i actually feel like i'm way behind because i see the big picture right

00:11:45.800 and we're so far away from where i want to be that i can't help but show up and go hard and this is the

00:11:51.360 importance for you guys to set such massive goals that you don't have a choice but to show up and give 0.98

00:11:56.780 it your all because you know that it's going to take every single day until the end of your fucking 0.98

00:12:02.060 life to actually get where it is you're trying to go and that's okay because if you're conscious 0.98

00:12:07.000 about that and you accept that and then you accept like all of this as your life right like these are

00:12:12.680 my friends these are my family i love these people i love coming here if we talk about all these things

00:12:17.640 and we start to appreciate the process of that it no longer becomes this like grind right right it's

00:12:24.200 just a mission and we're all every day i know i have to execute to the maximum i was talking to gary

00:12:30.100 about this uh just a couple days ago and we were both agreeing about how skewed the man how easy it

00:12:38.940 is to win it's so fucking easy to win you guys do not understand it you just think about it the wrong

00:12:44.820 way all you have to do is win today that's all i ever focus on doing bro like i come in here with 0.51

00:12:52.240 urgency every day yes or no absolutely i come in here with intensity every day yes or no absolutely i

00:12:57.780 would say i'm probably more intense than anybody that any of you listening have ever been around 0.92

00:13:02.360 i'm a fucking wild animal bro okay but the reason i'm that way is because i know that if i approach 0.91

00:13:09.500 each day that way and i can get home like at five or six o'clock and i've i've accomplished all the 0.98

00:13:14.920 things i need bro i guess i get a breath i get to chill i get to see my dogs get to hang out i get to

00:13:20.340 fucking have a little free time yeah and i wake up the next day i go again and this process of 0.81

00:13:26.940 winning the day and if you want to hear about exactly how i think about it you can go listen to 0.98

00:13:30.760 episode 16 in this relay feed episode 16 go listen to that episode it will explain to you in

00:13:37.280 detail in detail what i talk about when i'm talking about winning the day but if you approach it that

00:13:41.340 way you don't have time for any other shit you don't say i saw this video from goggins the other 0.89

00:13:46.300 day too it was really good bro um and he was talking about like how when you when you're focused 0.99

00:13:53.260 on the day right and you're always on the fucking intense grind you don't have time for fucking 0.99

00:13:59.500 drama you don't have time for bullshit you don't have time for hate you don't have time for talking 1.00

00:14:05.240 shit about people and that reduces your anxiety because like dude i don't give a fuck like a lot 1.00

00:14:10.920 of you guys asked like how do you not care what these people say about you because you guys see some 1.00

00:14:15.600 of the shit people say i don't fucking give a shit bro i'm too worried about what the fuck i'm doing 0.99

00:14:20.540 right like i'm not going to get into it with some knuckle fuck from the fucking internet who 1.00

00:14:24.840 fucking can't even pay his fucking rent like what the fuck right like i would like dude if that 1.00

00:14:31.020 motherfucker i walked up to him to gas station and he said hey andy you're fucking whatever the 1.00

00:14:36.020 fuck he said on the fucking internet i laugh at his fucking face and go get my fucking ferrari and 1.00

00:14:40.520 drive the fuck home you know i'm saying absolutely i get home and i'd say hey emily you're never gonna 1.00

00:14:46.600 believe what this fucking fat little piece of shit said to me at the gas station right 1.00

00:14:50.200 you said he didn't i was this and this and this i laughed and i drove home you know i'm saying like 1.00

00:14:54.900 i don't have time for that shit right and a lot of you guys because you don't understand that it's 0.91

00:15:00.700 actually as simple as just winning each day and approaching each day day by day and then like 0.98

00:15:08.920 executing that plan over the course of your life you don't understand how much peace that's going to

00:15:13.780 bring you you won't get sucked into this drama you won't get distracted you won't have

00:15:18.260 a lot of the problems that you all have right now because you see it as i had this big dream

00:15:23.940 and eventually i think i'll probably get there but i'm here to tell you that won't happen without a

00:15:28.940 focused uh intentional effort on a day-by-day basis yeah so i focus on what i gotta do to win the day 0.92

00:15:36.380 and that's it man that's all i care about like i don't like right now today i am not fucking thinking 0.97

00:15:42.020 about tomorrow at fucking all i'm not thinking about monday i'm not thinking about next week i'm not 0.99

00:15:47.500 thinking about shit i'm thinking about i got a whole bunch of shit to do today still i still got 0.99

00:15:52.100 to train again i still got to read my my well i got i already read my 10 pages but i don't read just 10 0.99

00:15:57.060 pages i read more than that i gotta read more pages uh i got three more meetings like i'm worried about

00:16:02.660 today that's it and so like dude if you can effectively and this should this should be

00:16:08.320 this should be able to make sense in anybody's mind if you win today and you win tomorrow and

00:16:17.780 you win the next day and you win the day after that and you win the day after that and you continue 0.98

00:16:23.260 that path and you're going to get some losses you're going to have some days where shit gets 0.97

00:16:26.340 really fucked up and you don't you don't get your stuff done those are few and far between 0.99

00:16:30.720 absolutely and the more you live like this the less they become right so in the beginning where 1.00

00:16:35.540 over a 30 day span you might lose five days or six days out of the month if you're fucking like 0.96

00:16:41.560 just kind of getting started on that like for me bro i might lose five or six days out of the 0.97

00:16:46.880 fucking year right i probably less than that i probably lose less than five days a year okay i've 0.82

00:16:52.560 been with you three years that's accurate yeah so but that didn't that wasn't that way for me at 0.96

00:16:56.920 first at first it was five days a month you see what i'm saying so the longer you do this the

00:17:01.360 better you get at it and that creates so much momentum in the right direction that bro if you 0.98

00:17:06.500 win today you win tomorrow you win the next day and you're winning for fucking you know 30 days in 1.00

00:17:11.420 a fuck bro you winning just becomes who the fuck you are like it's no longer something that you're 1.00

00:17:16.540 trying to achieve it's just what you're doing it's who the fuck you are it's how you take it from this 1.00

00:17:22.480 abstract thing that is mysterious and people don't understand to something that just comes to you 0.99

00:17:30.160 and you can't really explain it other than this i don't know i worry about the day today yeah you

00:17:35.420 know and i was in my point about bringing gary up was you know gary and i were talking he was saying 0.93

00:17:40.040 the exact same shit bro that's how he approaches it too like that's what he does he tries to win 0.80

00:17:43.760 the day and i think if you win the fucking day and and you have that that's the episode 16 i'm 0.99

00:17:48.900 talking about it tells you my exact system on how i approach this it's free it's probably the most 0.67

00:17:54.020 valuable tool along with 75 hard that you ever fucking have ever so i want to i want to follow up on 0.92

00:18:00.040 point indy because it's like think about the ripple effect that that has on people 0.99

00:18:04.740 right like the ceo's coming here with so much fucking urgency and and he's getting the shit 0.97

00:18:10.440 like think about the ripple effect of the 500 other people in this building see that right like 0.99

00:18:14.060 i don't think people give that enough enough credit or attention man i think it's everything

00:18:17.880 it's everything it's not even a little bit it's not even like it's not kind of thing it's not like

00:18:22.840 oh there's a it's everything that's literally the whole fucking game yeah this is why people struggle 0.88

00:18:28.080 so much because once they get comfortable bro they can't they won't force themselves bro how many 0.95

00:18:34.160 people in my position were out doing cardio and minus 20 something degrees none no there wasn't

00:18:39.640 another single one ever not a single one now there might be other people out there who are hungry 0.70

00:18:44.020 who are fucking up coming up the ladder okay who are out there doing it and i've seen it all through 0.99

00:18:50.240 my instagram i see a whole bunch of motherfuckers today badass shit all over the country doing this 1.00

00:18:55.380 shit i fucking love it but how many people in my position financially in this point in their life 0.99

00:19:01.040 are doing none and the reason that those people are on the decline is because of that okay so you 0.99

00:19:07.860 have to understand that this process of you trying to win it never fucking stops and once you get 0.91

00:19:15.600 comfortable you have to get yourself in the mentality in the mindset of in of pretending that it's all

00:19:23.920 gonna go away if you don't do these things okay that's how you have a zero options mentality right

00:19:28.580 like i convince myself that i have zero other option like bro if i don't go out and do that 0.99

00:19:33.720 fucking shit i'm gonna fucking lose all of this that's right now right yes that's how i think of it 0.99

00:19:39.220 legitimately and literally and people when i tell people that they think it's insane right well 0.99

00:19:43.840 it works and it will work for you too but like bro the reason most people have some success and

00:19:50.680 lose it is because they don't ever figure out how to continue to have the zero option mentality

00:19:55.580 that they had in the beginning where they literally didn't have any other options when you don't have 0.99

00:19:59.800 any other options and you're hungry as fuck you have to do this shit yeah right i'm not talking about 0.99

00:20:04.260 being honest i'm talking about all the fucking nitty-gritty intense shit that you have to do but when you 0.99

00:20:08.920 start to make money and you've got a comfortable life and you've got all these things that's when it 0.98

00:20:13.220 stops so when the when when the ceo or the manager or the leader gets to that point in time

00:20:18.500 where they are no longer pressing that's where they start to run into these issues where they 0.99

00:20:24.200 look around their company you're like fuck everybody's just kind of like on cruise control 0.99

00:20:28.080 like what are we doing here and they don't have the wherewithal or the fucking awareness to look 1.00

00:20:32.800 themselves in the mirror and say oh shit i'm doing this because i'm coming in here with this attitude 0.99

00:20:38.200 so i personally think that what you said is everything i think it's everything maybe i'm wrong but i think 0.92

00:20:43.880 it is yeah that's awesome it's the only way i know well you haven't seen anything different well

00:20:48.580 i i don't know anything different i never did anything else that's all i've ever done i've done

00:20:51.760 this since i was fucking 19 years old i don't fucking know anything else here's what i do know 0.98

00:20:55.520 when i was 350 fucking pounds nobody wanted to fucking work hard do you think anybody in this 0.99

00:21:01.600 building doesn't work hard every motherfucker in this right now yeah everybody works hard here 0.99

00:21:06.760 when i was 350 pounds bro i had all kind you know what you know we know what's funny everybody 0.99

00:21:12.720 around me was fat too my dad was fucking 40 pounds heavier my mom was 100 pounds heavier my brother was 0.97

00:21:19.320 30 pounds heavier and fucking mike taylor and all these guys have been with me cody they were all 0.99

00:21:24.460 fucking fat too now look at them you see what i'm saying yeah when you change your life bro other 0.99

00:21:30.060 people follow any question number two andy i am an 18 year old living here in the united states my 0.99

00:21:39.300 question for you is has the world always been this way when i was a child everything seemed awesome

00:21:46.480 and everyone seemed happy now that i've grown up somewhat i have become aware that that is obviously

00:21:52.440 not the case um i guess i don't know if this has always been going on or if i'm just now becoming

00:21:58.080 aware of it as i grow into an adult um or has this corruption radical bad behavior always been

00:22:03.440 going on it confuses me uh because of how serious the situation is is he do you think he's talking

00:22:08.600 about like well there's two things he could be talking about or she could be talking about here

00:22:11.740 one like are they talking about the situation going on in the world or two are you just talking

00:22:16.940 about becoming an adult and like because i can remember becoming like i remember like

00:22:22.540 getting to be 16 17 18 and realizing like a lot of the people that i looked up to were actually 0.99

00:22:28.780 pieces of shit frauds right they were fucking losers um and it was a very difficult point in my 0.99

00:22:34.900 life because i had to like i could see people for what they were because there comes this time 1.00

00:22:39.280 in in your life when you when you start to become an adult where the other adults recognize you as an 1.00

00:22:44.840 adult they let their guard down and they start to show right like all the fucking fucked up shit that 1.00

00:22:50.000 they do learning the story yeah and you're like holy shit bro you're nothing what i thought you 1.00

00:22:54.660 actually were a piece of shit bro and you know we see this with with friends and family friends and 0.99

00:23:01.320 even members of the family and like you know unfortunately i think that's just part of how it 1.00

00:23:06.620 is you know when you're a kid you're sheltered from a lot of reality you know people aren't you

00:23:11.400 know you're treated as a kid we start to get treated as an adult you get to the curtain kind of comes up

00:23:14.960 and you start to see things for what they are and i know that can be like for me that was like a

00:23:20.320 little weird you know what i mean like you know what i'm talking about absolutely like it was weird 0.86

00:23:24.400 absolutely like i you know i'm like fuck dude like this isn't what i thought it was okay now that's 0.97

00:23:30.660 that's hard in the real world that's yes and that's that i think that's i think that's normal 0.96

00:23:34.940 for most people i think most people go through that um and pay attention because what you're seeing

00:23:40.180 is real all right but i think the other thing that's kind of making it really hard for people 0.94

00:23:45.480 of this age group is the actual crazy shit that's going on in the world on top of this amplify right 0.90

00:23:51.800 yeah and i will say um that while yes it has always been there has always been lots of corruption 0.98

00:23:59.660 it has never been like this it's never in my lifetime been like this never in my lifetime have

00:24:05.880 things been this fucked up in terms of geopolitical global politics uh especially what's going on here 0.89

00:24:11.740 in the united states i've it's not nothing is even close to it it's so far past what even the most 1.00

00:24:20.000 fucked up shit like bro when i was a kid bill clinton got in trouble because he got his dick sucked 1.00

00:24:24.460 underneath fucking okay yeah that was like the whole thing right right now we're talking about 1.00

00:24:29.300 corruption at a level of literal treason where there's elite people in this quote-unquote elite 0.99

00:24:37.440 when i say elite i don't mean elite i mean that's just what they're called because they're called 0.96

00:24:40.780 themselves shit yeah but they are conspiring against all of humanity and they're doing so in unison and 0.90

00:24:49.260 i think that would make it much i think growing up right now and transitioning from a kid to an adult 0.99

00:24:58.220 it has to be one of the hardest times that there ever was to do that because there's so much crazy

00:25:03.640 shit going on that it's like super confusing and here's what i'll tell you um natural order is never 0.71

00:25:11.980 going to change if you work hard if you get smart if you keep yourself healthy if you do those things 0.98

00:25:17.720 you're going to do okay you're going to do good in life that right now we're dealing with a massive

00:25:23.300 propaganda campaign as i covered on uh yesterday's show a little bit where we are being manipulated at

00:25:31.400 a maximum level to try and get us to become mediocre loser type people on all fronts right um and i think

00:25:41.200 it's important that if you're a young person right now you focus on yourself you focus on becoming

00:25:48.720 intelligent you focus on working hard and building wealth for you long term however that looks for 0.99

00:25:54.720 you you know i'm not saying like a lot of people like to say oh just fucking you know enjoy your 0.99

00:25:59.400 youth no dude i didn't enjoy my youth motherfucker i work that's why i'm here where the fuck i am right 0.99

00:26:03.380 now okay so if you're listening to the show i assume you want somewhat of a resemblance for yourself 0.99

00:26:08.560 as well start now okay start thinking now start reading now start putting good things in your brain now

00:26:14.300 try to network with the right people try to be surrounded by the right people don't hang around

00:26:18.900 people that aren't focused on success that's going to make it a little bit lonely because there's not 0.89

00:26:22.440 a lot of people in that age right now that want to build shit but here's the reality there's never 0.83

00:26:27.160 been a bigger opportunity for people that are in this age range because most of the people around 0.99

00:26:31.240 them have bought into the propaganda of mediocrity that's being shoved down our throats every day 0.99

00:26:35.440 this looks like us being pushed to follow our passion when our passion is to sit on a fucking 0.99

00:26:42.280 screen all fucking day whatever that may mean or to be 400 fucking pounds and call yourself healthy 0.97

00:26:48.640 or to um you know look at exercise as some sort of like bad thing right like dude they're they're 0.99

00:26:57.560 they're you know or to see wealth as a bad thing you have to understand that we're told all of these

00:27:04.240 things for a specific reason that specific reason has nothing to do with any of our interests including

00:27:09.860 yours so i would say on one hand yeah it's normal like it's normal to look around at people like in 0.98

00:27:15.380 your family or people that you know and start to see the truth about them and be like fuck dude these 0.95

00:27:19.700 people are fucked up but you're also dealing with this other thing that's abnormal we are at we in 1.00

00:27:24.800 my opinion we are at the end stage of a subversion of global communism that is failing and falling 1.00

00:27:31.620 apart right now but the problem is these people are pushing harder and harder and harder because

00:27:35.700 they're on the tiger there's a saying like dude when you ride the tiger you can't get off like if 0.99

00:27:40.700 you try to ride a tiger and you get off of what happens you fucking eat and kill you okay that's 0.99

00:27:45.060 where these people are these people are on the fucking tiger and the tiger is bucking and it's 1.00

00:27:49.080 going crazy they don't have a choice but to hang on because if they let go they're all going to jail 0.98

00:27:53.580 or worse so we're gonna have to deal with these people continuously to uh continuing to press

00:27:59.520 on us until we make a unified stand against them that says no more and i'm not sure when that's

00:28:06.960 going to happen or how that's going to happen but it will happen yeah love it all right guys andy our

00:28:13.820 third and final question uh any question number three when trying to discover my why right and striving

00:28:21.860 for success is it quote-unquote safe or okay uh to use other people or other things as my reasons to

00:28:29.100 strive for success or should i keep it solely uh on me and use myself as the reason i'm striving for

00:28:35.040 success uh did you find that this changes should it change um and what what is your success tied to

00:28:40.580 right now this is a great question um first of all i think in the beginning for everybody it's always

00:28:48.100 about us right like when you don't have anything it's about you internally yes like you want to

00:28:53.280 fucking get successful you want to change your situation you want to own nice cars like for me 0.92

00:28:59.000 it was cars okay i grew up obsessing over cars i saw my first lamborghini when i was fucking eight 0.99

00:29:06.400 years old it was a white lamborghini countosh ever since i saw that i was fucking obsessed i had hot 0.94

00:29:11.580 wheels i had micro machines i had model cars i had remote control cars i was fucking obsessed with the 0.93

00:29:17.980 ultimate obsession to have those kind of cars in real life okay which i do have and i have one of the 0.74

00:29:24.020 greatest car collections on the fucking planet uh and wait until you see it real life hot wheels yeah 0.95

00:29:28.540 because i haven't shown it for a number of years and people don't even know what the fuck i got in 0.99

00:29:32.380 there now however that was a great motivator and a lot of people will shit on motivators like cars 0.95

00:29:39.780 or material possessions or being selfish because they don't understand what actually happens and how it

00:29:46.540 actually happens is for the first 10 years 12 years i was and by the way there's a big lesson here

00:29:53.440 to to understand i'm going to get to in a second for the first 10 or 12 years i was completely focused

00:29:59.120 on myself now the first 10 years i struggled there was a lot to learn i didn't know shit i made all the 0.83

00:30:05.420 mistakes okay but once i figured some things out that next two years i became a millionaire in cash flow

00:30:11.340 meaning i was making seven figures a year okay now then i was and then i started getting cars and

00:30:16.740 shit the thing there was an important thing that changed for me during that time okay because the 0.68

00:30:23.980 reason that it took me 10 years to get to 58 000 was because i was so focused on myself okay so there

00:30:32.400 was a situation that happened about 10 years into our business where we weren't really making money we

00:30:37.640 weren't doing well and chris and i my business partner we both decided that it was going to be

00:30:43.080 probably a good idea to not pursue the business because we weren't making money bro like we wanted

00:30:47.260 to be rich right we wanted to be ballers and it wasn't fucking happening and so we were 10 years in 1.00

00:30:53.360 and we're looking around and like these motherfucking idiots that we know that went to school they're 1.00

00:30:57.940 making 100 grand a year and we're like fuck we're not making shit i made 58 grand my whole fucking first 10 1.00

00:31:03.920 years so like we started questioning ourselves and doubting ourselves and we looked around 0.98

00:31:08.020 chris was going to go to officer candidate school uh which is to be a pilot i was going to start a

00:31:15.080 carpet cleaning business with a sears carpet cleaning franchise so much so that i went to the training 0.90

00:31:22.460 which was in columbus ohio and i threw my back out all right my back was fucked up for like 30 days 0.99

00:31:28.960 and i was laying on the couch at my dad's house and chris and i were talking about how to dissolve 0.96

00:31:35.420 the business and we got on this track where it's like fuck like i told him i'm like bro i don't i 0.94

00:31:40.920 don't want to go clean carpets i'm not fucking doing that and and and i and any it's like how we 0.98

00:31:46.320 thought about it was if i'm going to work if i have to work if i'm only going to make 70 grand a year 0.93

00:31:53.280 cleaning carpets which is like what it was what i could make i'd rather work at the store the way we had

00:31:58.880 it and make less money and still have what what would eventually happen by accident not because

00:32:05.900 we were smart but over the course of that 10 years there was a number of people who would come in and

00:32:11.400 they would hang out with us and and we would talk to them we would talk to them about you know how to

00:32:15.460 change their diets how to improve their lives and and there was a handful of these people over that 0.98

00:32:20.360 first 10 years that would come in bro and you wouldn't recognize them like you wouldn't fucking 0.96

00:32:24.980 recognize them they'd be crying and they thank you and like i told chris i remember i was talking 0.78

00:32:31.360 about i'm like bro even if we don't make a lot of money like right like let's let's create that

00:32:36.800 let's just do that let's keep the business open and let's just focus on replicating that 0.85

00:32:41.700 and the next two years like i just told you i became a fucking millionaire the reason i became 0.96

00:32:46.920 a millionaire is because i shifted the focus from just me to what could i do for them okay now that 0.96

00:32:53.840 was the first that was the first click for me that where i started to figure it out and bro this this 0.99

00:32:59.440 lesson right here will save you fucking years of your life so you better pay pay fucking attention to 0.99

00:33:03.980 it from 2014 or 15 i can't remember what year it was but i got the fuck i got pneumonia all right 0.99

00:33:12.480 and by this time i had make i'd be making over a million dollars a year for a few years in a row 0.75

00:33:17.220 so i thought i was fucking rich right and i got pneumonia i couldn't go to work for like three 0.97

00:33:23.920 days or for like it was like 17 days not three days and um after like three days i was bored as fuck 0.99

00:33:31.140 and i'm sitting there looking at my phone and i'm seeing my money go up right um and i'm like fuck dude 0.98

00:33:38.020 i'm fucking miserable i'm watching pacific rim you know over and over and over again on tv 0.99

00:33:42.460 i remember i watched that a whole bunch of times and uh i remember it dawning on me i'm like fuck 1.00

00:33:48.520 dude this is why rich people fuck kill themselves i'm like this fucking sucks and and so i started 0.99

00:33:54.620 thinking and you know i was out of work for 17 days i had this little revelation on in the first three 1.00

00:34:00.120 or four days after i got bored and i started thinking about like all the people that i worked with

00:34:07.220 and i started thinking about like how hard they had worked for us to get to this point and then i

00:34:14.600 started thinking well i owe them to build the company into a place where they can also build

00:34:21.780 their dreams right because they've already put into this i'm winning but they're not winning the way 0.98

00:34:26.260 that they want to win and so that was the second click and the second click over for me was holy shit 0.98

00:34:32.240 dude i have an obligation to do this for the people that fucking believe in me okay so that took 0.96

00:34:38.520 the focus even more off of me and more into other people all right so the dynamic i'm trying to and by 0.93

00:34:45.720 the way that was 2014 eight years later i mean the results speak for itself right so my my perspective

00:34:55.020 change started which is me and that got me to a point where i was able to like make some money but

00:35:00.360 had i instead understood the concept that if i do good by them if i take care of them if i care about

00:35:11.020 them then i will get what i want as well i could have i could have been at where we are uh now at 20

00:35:19.100 this would be 24 years uh in january i could have probably done that in 12 right but i wasted those 0.85

00:35:26.220 first 10 fucking years you see what i'm saying so now now my perspective always is like i don't even 0.92

00:35:33.780 i don't have any i don't have any more of that what's in it for me in me anymore but i continue to 0.97

00:35:40.400 grow and get more because i just give more and i focus more and i work on building more for them

00:35:45.580 meaning our employees providing better benefits uh results to our customers whether that be

00:35:50.680 in first form or s2 or fucking whatever else i'm in you know involved in like i try to just make the 0.96

00:35:58.220 whatever we do whatever we sell whatever product i try to serve that need the best that i fucking can 0.96

00:36:04.180 and the more that i've poured into that the more money i've made and it's been like i haven't had

00:36:08.340 to agonize over it because it's just come yeah so my advice to you would be for you to get to a

00:36:15.020 place where you understand yes i have my own motivations yes i want to dig out of this hole

00:36:20.360 yes i want to become wealthy yes i want to fucking be a baller yes yes yes yes yes and that will all 0.89

00:36:26.060 happen if i make other people my priority and that's how you need to think about it's purpose 0.92

00:36:31.880 and intention if you give if you give if you make your purpose other people with the right intent

00:36:39.180 there will never be a shortage of money coming it fucking won't happen in fact you'll make a hundred 0.87

00:36:44.240 times more money than you ever fucking thought you would and i that lesson right there for you guys 1.00

00:36:48.980 like if you if you don't listen to that and take that to heart you're a fucking idiot because i wasted 1.00

00:36:53.240 a whole decade of my life not understanding real talk yeah fuck man guys sandy that was three yeah 1.00

00:37:01.860 go play the feet yeah don't be a hoe share the show 1.00

00:37:04.600 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in the 1.00

00:37:11.680 cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - December 26, 2022

445. Q&AF： Building An Empire, Current Status Of The World & Discovering Your Why

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - December 26, 2022

445. Q&#x26;AF： Building An Empire, Current Status Of The World &#x26; Discovering Your Why

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445. Q&AF： Building An Empire, Current Status Of The World & Discovering Your Why