REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 11, 2023


455. Q&AF： Personal Issues In Personal Development, Entering New Career Out Of College & Transferring #75HARD Benefits Into Your Career


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In this episode of Q&A, the guys answer your questions and talk about what it's like to be a realist in the 21st century. They also talk about how they get their water refills.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Purcell and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to
00:00:20.800 the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality.
00:00:24.960 Guys, today we have Q and AF, that's where we do Q and A.
00:00:30.000 You can submit your questions to, guys email those questions in to askandy at andyfasella.com
00:00:37.440 and I know most of you guys listen on audio platforms but if you go on YouTube and you
00:00:42.920 watch the video, which more and more people are doing, that's pretty cool, you can drop
00:00:48.320 your questions in the comments on the Q and AF episodes and we'll dig some of the questions
00:00:52.600 out from there.
00:00:54.100 This is your first time joining, we have multiple formats of the show, that's how the show works.
00:00:58.100 So today you're going to hear Q and AF, next time you may hear something else and the
00:01:03.260 something else could be CTI, which is Cruise the Internet, that's sort of the news show
00:01:08.540 of what we do here.
00:01:09.400 We talk about what's going on in the world, the current events, we throw some headlines
00:01:12.320 up on the screen, we talk about what's going on and then we make fun of it.
00:01:17.820 And then we talk about how we could potentially be a solution to the problems going on in the
00:01:21.340 world.
00:01:22.180 Other times we have Real Talk, Real Talk, I'm going to get way more into this year, that's
00:01:26.940 one of my main priorities for this show is to do a Real Talk every week, that's something
00:01:31.940 I'm going to do for you guys.
00:01:34.000 That is just 5 to 20 minutes of some practical advice or some big picture concepts that I think
00:01:40.180 need to be heard.
00:01:41.400 And then we have Full Length, we're also going to do a lot more Full Length episodes.
00:01:44.820 Full Length episodes are Full Length with the girth.
00:01:49.700 Oh, yeah.
00:01:50.660 Yeah.
00:01:51.300 So, they're a lot to digest.
00:01:55.540 You know what I'm saying?
00:01:56.660 Yep.
00:01:57.360 Yeah.
00:01:57.940 You're supposed to laugh, I pay you, bro.
00:01:59.900 All right?
00:02:02.080 All right, see that?
00:02:03.720 There you go, buddy.
00:02:04.760 Drop security right there.
00:02:05.540 Yeah.
00:02:06.340 And you other fuckers too. 0.67
00:02:07.920 All right.
00:02:08.300 So, Full Length is just like what you're used to seeing on most podcasts, it's just a bunch
00:02:17.540 of people having a conversation.
00:02:18.580 So, we do have a fee for the show and when I say pay the fee, it doesn't mean send me
00:02:22.280 money.
00:02:22.640 Although, I do appreciate when you support certain businesses that I may or may not be involved
00:02:29.280 in at any given time.
00:02:31.440 So, I think that's cool.
00:02:32.460 I like that.
00:02:32.980 I appreciate that.
00:02:33.720 But mainly, guys, I just want you to share the show.
00:02:36.680 That's how the word gets out about the show.
00:02:38.800 So, if you think...
00:02:39.480 And by the way, if you didn't get any value out of the show, don't fucking share it. 0.87
00:02:43.040 All right?
00:02:43.400 Only if it's good.
00:02:44.680 If it made you think.
00:02:45.680 If it taught you something.
00:02:46.520 If it gave you a new perspective.
00:02:47.740 If it helped you.
00:02:50.280 If you thought it was not a waste of time, I ask that you pay the fee.
00:02:56.260 And that's what I mean by that is share the show.
00:02:58.320 So, yeah.
00:02:59.760 We've been able to maintain a very, very, very high-ranked podcast for nearly a decade
00:03:04.220 on word of mouth.
00:03:05.140 I like word of mouth.
00:03:06.100 I think it's fair.
00:03:07.540 And if I do good, just give us a little salad by helping us get it out there.
00:03:12.460 That's all.
00:03:14.020 So, what's up, man?
00:03:14.980 What's going on, brother?
00:03:15.940 Oh, not much, man.
00:03:18.760 Yeah.
00:03:19.200 Not much.
00:03:20.800 I mean, a lot.
00:03:22.000 Yeah.
00:03:22.460 But, you know, nothing new.
00:03:23.900 Just getting through the week.
00:03:25.120 Yeah.
00:03:25.500 That's real.
00:03:26.280 Somebody asked the other day about that right there in your hand.
00:03:30.140 What?
00:03:31.800 Fiji?
00:03:32.360 Yeah.
00:03:32.620 What about it?
00:03:33.320 Like, why do you drink the Fiji over the four bottles of the real AF water?
00:03:39.220 Well, I mean, let's be real, bro.
00:03:42.920 I mean, that's peasant water.
00:03:45.680 And this is royal water.
00:03:47.960 Camera pans and fucking...
00:03:49.200 Yeah.
00:03:51.780 I don't run ads on the show.
00:03:53.160 This is not an ad.
00:03:53.920 It's not an ad.
00:03:55.400 No, real talk, though.
00:03:56.620 What I do here is I go up to Chris's office.
00:03:59.760 Okay.
00:03:59.840 So, my business partner, you know, every Saturday or Sunday, he carries, like, three
00:04:04.520 of these cases up to his office, right?
00:04:06.460 Yeah.
00:04:07.160 And then, basically, over the course of the week, I drink them all.
00:04:11.000 The three cases.
00:04:11.840 Yeah.
00:04:12.140 And then he has to go back up and put them in.
00:04:14.820 So, dude...
00:04:16.460 Shout out to Chris.
00:04:17.200 Yeah.
00:04:17.680 Thanks, Chris.
00:04:19.340 That's really where I get them.
00:04:20.620 I don't stock these.
00:04:22.100 These aren't in my fridge.
00:04:22.980 I have these in my fridge.
00:04:24.160 And I have no problem drinking these.
00:04:26.780 But what I like about this is if I drink one of these during the show, I can know...
00:04:31.280 I know that I've knocked out a whole one...
00:04:33.380 Exactly the amount of water that I've gotten in during the show.
00:04:36.360 Yeah.
00:04:36.700 So, like, it's really just about that.
00:04:38.520 No, that's real.
00:04:39.080 Yeah.
00:04:39.580 So, just help tracking the water.
00:04:41.280 Yeah, for sure.
00:04:42.140 And it's kind of like my routine, you know?
00:04:43.900 So, like, you know, I definitely should probably stock the cooler for Chris once in a
00:04:48.980 while.
00:04:49.220 So, but, you know, that's the story on the Fiji, man.
00:04:54.420 Chris is such a good dude, man.
00:04:55.800 He's the best dude.
00:04:56.500 I call it my, like, Tuesdays with Chris.
00:04:58.640 I'll go up there and just chill with him for, like, 15, 20 minutes.
00:05:01.920 And, like, I always leave, like, learning something that, like, I never even would have
00:05:06.360 thought of.
00:05:06.660 Bro, he's smart as fuck.
00:05:07.620 He's really fucking smart, man.
00:05:08.980 How did you guys become friends, though?
00:05:11.660 Actually, we didn't like each other at first.
00:05:13.740 No shit.
00:05:14.300 Yeah.
00:05:14.860 So, we both played high school football.
00:05:16.900 We were in the same class in high school.
00:05:19.220 Uh, over at Vianney.
00:05:21.260 And we both played football.
00:05:23.320 And, uh, we were both pretty good.
00:05:26.340 And we both played the same positions.
00:05:28.880 So, you know how that goes.
00:05:29.860 That's always tough.
00:05:30.580 Yeah, right.
00:05:31.400 So, like, we played the same positions on both sides of the ball.
00:05:34.460 So, like, we're always competing.
00:05:36.500 So, it was like, you know, when you're young, that's like, fuck this guy.
00:05:40.240 Yeah.
00:05:40.640 Right?
00:05:41.680 And then, as school went through, and we got to be buddies and shit, you know, it, I
00:05:47.020 mean, I spent all my time with the dude.
00:05:48.720 And so, we just came friends through, through that.
00:05:51.400 And, uh, we got done with school.
00:05:53.360 We're like, man, you know, this college shit fucking kind of sucks.
00:05:57.620 I want to, we want to be ballers, you know?
00:05:59.580 Right, right.
00:05:59.820 And, uh, that's how the business got going.
00:06:02.160 So, it was, um, that's kind of the story.
00:06:05.980 I mean, there's a lot to that story, I could tell.
00:06:07.640 Now, do you think that your relationship with him is, like, do you think that's an outlier?
00:06:14.000 Like, do you think many business friendship relationships like that can work or do work?
00:06:18.460 Or do you think, like, you and Chris are really just, like, fucking.
00:06:21.620 I think what makes Chris and I's partnership work the way it does, which is pretty smooth,
00:06:27.760 I would say less than 1% fucking friction rate, especially at this point in the game,
00:06:35.120 is the fact that I am really good and enjoy doing the things that he hates doing.
00:06:42.300 And he is really good and enjoys doing the things that, that I hate doing.
00:06:46.540 And I think that's the key.
00:06:48.160 Yeah.
00:06:48.400 And I think that's important for you guys out there who are, you know,
00:06:51.300 looking at starting a business or getting going.
00:06:53.700 You know, you hear a story like Chris and I's, and it makes, you know,
00:06:59.300 everybody wants to, like, get rich and successful with their friends, right?
00:07:02.820 And that's a noble thing.
00:07:04.020 Like, fuck, dude, I want all my friends to be successful.
00:07:07.020 I want all of you to be successful, all of you guys.
00:07:10.000 And, you know, when it comes to picking partners in the beginning of a business,
00:07:18.560 I think it's important to recognize, you need, you need, you can't have
00:07:23.120 two or three people that want the same role, right?
00:07:27.680 You know, like on a football team, bro, there's a starting quarterback, right?
00:07:31.020 There's only fucking one.
00:07:32.320 So if everybody wants to be quarterback, you're going to constantly have this shit.
00:07:36.140 All right.
00:07:37.480 And I think the important thing when it comes to choosing a partner is that they have to
00:07:43.600 actually bring something to the table that you do not have.
00:07:48.220 Meaning could be skills, could be like what I just said, where he is good at one thing.
00:07:54.360 I'm good at another thing.
00:07:55.720 Now, in the beginning, we didn't know because we were, none of us,
00:07:58.240 we, neither one of us were good at anything.
00:07:59.860 19.
00:08:00.100 Yeah.
00:08:00.520 Yeah.
00:08:01.260 In the beginning, it was just like most people, Hey, I want to start a business with my friend.
00:08:05.640 That's the, that's like, I didn't know that shit when we started it.
00:08:08.800 And that's just how it developed.
00:08:10.280 I figured out what I was good at and enjoy it.
00:08:12.540 And he figured out what he was good at and enjoy it.
00:08:14.360 And it was the things that we, both of us just so happened to do that.
00:08:19.060 And that's how it works.
00:08:19.860 So like, we did get a little bit lucky in that regard.
00:08:22.280 Um, and then we also had a lot of conversations where, you know, Hey, we need someone to be this role.
00:08:29.020 We need someone to be this role.
00:08:30.260 And we agreed to it.
00:08:31.340 And like, you know, understood that it was, there's no ego involved.
00:08:35.480 We have to have these things.
00:08:38.080 And, um, I think most people, you know, they just want to have their friend with them and they don't understand how to pick a true partner.
00:08:45.960 Like a true partner should bring something that you don't have.
00:08:50.080 They should bring a skillset that you don't have, or they should bring a resource that you don't have, which could be money.
00:08:56.960 Right.
00:08:57.600 Having a, a financial partner in a business is a very smart and normal thing to do if you don't have the money.
00:09:04.980 Right.
00:09:05.760 So, um, yeah, man.
00:09:08.700 And like over the course of high school, bro, like those jobs that I talk about, Peyton stripes on parking lots and shit, we did those together.
00:09:14.820 So like, we both, you know, we kind of, we knew how to work together.
00:09:19.640 It's almost like out of the competition, there was this genuine friendship.
00:09:23.780 Oh yeah, bro.
00:09:24.100 No, he's like a brother to me.
00:09:25.320 I mean, him and Sal and we're to, to me, like, we're all three brothers.
00:09:29.520 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:30.160 Like, that's, that's what people fail to understand.
00:09:33.700 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:34.820 It's real.
00:09:35.640 So, you know, there's a lesson in that for you guys starting a business, you know, instead of three, you'll get four today.
00:09:41.600 Yeah, a little extra sauce.
00:09:42.400 Yeah, there you go.
00:09:43.260 So, uh, you know, pick a partner that brings something to the table, not just because they're your friend, they're your friend.
00:09:48.460 Cause it sounds great with your friend, but usually what happens that I've seen with, uh, young partnerships is that, you know, everybody wants to like glorify the fucking face or the CEO role.
00:09:59.780 And bro, you don't want that role, bro.
00:10:03.720 If you don't have to take it, like it fucking sucks. 0.96
00:10:06.040 Like you get all the blame, you get all the fucking focus, you get all the spotlight for every single mistake.
00:10:11.980 Like anytime anything gets fucked up, it's on you. 0.94
00:10:15.180 And you know, it's a lot.
00:10:17.500 Chris is flying every week to fucking chiefs games and shit.
00:10:19.440 I'm just saying, I'm just saying like people are like, how come Chris isn't more visible?
00:10:23.900 Do you really think he wants to be right?
00:10:25.640 Like, right.
00:10:26.400 Come on, man.
00:10:27.300 Right.
00:10:27.540 But you know, that's part of my job and that's, that's not his job.
00:10:31.040 His job is his job.
00:10:32.300 So he does his job.
00:10:33.260 I do my job.
00:10:34.060 Yeah.
00:10:34.380 And, um, you know, that's, that's how it works.
00:10:38.580 So I love it.
00:10:40.860 Yeah.
00:10:41.060 Well, question number two.
00:10:41.980 No.
00:10:42.240 Yeah.
00:10:43.700 I think that's a good point for a lot of the younger listeners too, dude.
00:10:46.900 Like the guys who are, and when I say young, I mean like young in the game, you know, you're
00:10:50.460 just starting a new business.
00:10:51.520 Like people always want to pick a partner that they love because they want to be successful.
00:10:55.760 And I think that's a good thing.
00:10:57.600 I think it's a good thing to have a partner that you already are like bonded with.
00:11:01.300 Like I got a question the other day in my DM and the dude was like, uh, actually he
00:11:06.320 texts me.
00:11:06.860 I, this guy, this, this, this guy, uh, text me.
00:11:11.180 I don't know how he got my number, but he's like, Hey man, uh, Oh, actually I do.
00:11:17.020 He made, he, he did something for us a long time ago, uh, which was really fucking cool.
00:11:22.240 And I remember we connected then now that I'm thinking about it.
00:11:24.900 So he texts me and he's like, Hey man, uh, you know, he's like, what do you do when it
00:11:31.620 like you're working with your, with your family?
00:11:34.240 Cause he works with his brother and he's like, what do you do when you work with your brother?
00:11:37.760 And like, things get like very volatile and I wanted to tell him the answer, but I just
00:11:42.460 didn't want to, I, I, I don't do, you're not going to text me at home and we're not doing
00:11:46.640 this.
00:11:46.880 Um, so, but the answer is bro, if you're listening and here's how you work with them,
00:11:53.320 uh, you do the best you can.
00:11:56.180 You, you try, you try to listen, respect and learn and fucking work together.
00:12:00.120 And then about once every three years you beat the fuck out of each other.
00:12:03.540 Okay.
00:12:04.300 And then you remember that you shouldn't do that because you're both so fucking sore.
00:12:08.020 And then for the next three years, you remember how much that hurt.
00:12:11.560 So you work and you respect and you learn.
00:12:14.440 And then in another three years, you beat the shit out of each other.
00:12:17.360 And that's what, that's how you fucking do it with your brother.
00:12:22.180 Like that's how it goes.
00:12:23.960 So, you know, how do you know that?
00:12:25.680 Andy, how do you know that?
00:12:28.580 Yeah.
00:12:28.780 Fuck man.
00:12:29.920 Yeah.
00:12:30.400 Fucking DJ's first fucking assignment was to break up a fist fight between me and Sal
00:12:34.100 dude.
00:12:34.600 Like, and the crazy thing is like, you hear, you hear the stories.
00:12:37.800 And it's like, Oh yeah.
00:12:38.580 Like he was working with me for like three fucking months, bro.
00:12:42.060 Like three months.
00:12:43.020 And you hear these talks, man.
00:12:44.300 Cause like, it's about, you know, they said it was like every, every three years or so.
00:12:47.540 I'm like, nah, bro.
00:12:48.540 You thought we were fucking full of shit.
00:12:50.320 I thought you guys were complete.
00:12:51.320 I'm like, all right.
00:12:51.740 Yeah.
00:12:51.880 I mean, they're brothers.
00:12:52.900 Oh, you thought we were old dudes talking shit from the glory days.
00:12:56.500 Yeah.
00:12:56.820 That's what the fuck you thought.
00:12:58.300 Cause I, cause I would ask him, like, when was the last one?
00:13:00.100 Nobody could really do like, Oh, it's been, I'm like, all right.
00:13:01.760 Yeah.
00:13:01.980 They're not fucking sure.
00:13:03.480 Shit enough.
00:13:04.060 It's like fucking two grizzly bears in the wild fucking going at it.
00:13:08.860 I'm like, Holy shit.
00:13:10.200 Yeah.
00:13:10.880 Yeah.
00:13:11.540 Yeah.
00:13:11.760 It was a rough, tough spot.
00:13:13.380 DJ, DJ stayed over there not knowing what to do.
00:13:15.640 Cause we're brothers.
00:13:16.460 Yeah.
00:13:16.700 I'm like, well, fuck.
00:13:17.500 Like, okay.
00:13:17.940 That guy just fucking hired me to like, but that's his brother.
00:13:21.100 Like, I mean, it's a fucking tough spot.
00:13:23.620 Oh bro.
00:13:24.380 So anyway, that's how you, that's how you work with family.
00:13:28.200 We won't even look at the calendar.
00:13:29.420 Yeah.
00:13:30.380 Yeah.
00:13:31.680 I was sore for that one, bro.
00:13:33.340 Yeah.
00:13:33.520 Well, he had family pictures.
00:13:34.960 Yeah.
00:13:35.340 Oh, I remember.
00:13:37.640 I remember dude.
00:13:39.100 He was upset.
00:13:41.600 Love you style.
00:13:42.580 Yeah.
00:13:43.120 All right.
00:13:45.760 I was upset too, bro.
00:13:47.380 Cause we were in the midst of training real hard and that fucked me up. 0.93
00:13:50.580 I got injured and I couldn't fucking train for like six weeks.
00:13:53.500 Yeah.
00:13:53.700 Yeah.
00:13:54.380 Yeah.
00:13:55.480 It's brothers though.
00:13:56.860 Boys will be boys.
00:13:58.760 So let's get into these, man.
00:14:00.580 I got some good questions for you.
00:14:01.800 All right.
00:14:02.180 That's some good ones.
00:14:03.140 Let's do it.
00:14:03.800 Uh, any question number one, Andy, I have been absolutely killing it on my power list.
00:14:10.020 Crush it.
00:14:10.520 My task.
00:14:11.200 Fuck.
00:14:11.480 Yeah.
00:14:11.900 Uh, about a week and a half ago, I had some personal problems come up and I started to
00:14:15.680 slip while I'm still dealing with these problems.
00:14:18.700 I feel like it has become an excuse and I'm trying to force myself back into
00:14:23.700 action.
00:14:24.080 My question is, how do you keep personal issues from interfering with your momentum?
00:14:28.920 And how can I catch myself when these issues come up?
00:14:32.740 Okay.
00:14:33.220 First off, it's great that you're doing that and it's great that you recognize that you're
00:14:38.440 off track because that awareness, I think we talked about a couple of shows ago.
00:14:42.480 Um, that awareness is very, very hard for a lot of people to develop.
00:14:47.080 So it's really good that you have the awareness that you've slipped off track and that's the
00:14:51.900 power of the tool, right?
00:14:53.540 Like you, you're used to seeing the wins and now all of a sudden you got six losses in a
00:14:57.500 row.
00:14:57.780 Yeah.
00:14:58.140 You're like, fuck.
00:14:58.840 It's just demoralizing.
00:14:59.380 You can see the slippage, right?
00:15:01.780 So that's, that's the first thing.
00:15:04.760 Uh, I, I commend you on that.
00:15:06.420 Cause that's a big deal that most people never really fucking get.
00:15:09.760 Uh, but really dude, the way to look at these kinds of things and how I look at them are
00:15:15.200 that when I'm going through a hard personal time and I have hard times to guys, like, you
00:15:20.760 know, my life is really fucking, you know, like people think, Oh, because I'm at a certain
00:15:25.760 point in life that shit must be easy.
00:15:28.680 It's not fucking easy.
00:15:30.040 It's, it's just as hard as it is for you in a different way.
00:15:34.720 Right?
00:15:35.120 Like what you're, you guys are out here trying to build something and you're trying to get
00:15:38.120 it going and maybe you're not like totally killing it yet.
00:15:41.420 Bro, you have to understand I'm in that same phase because now I'm trying to do something
00:15:47.520 that's like really most people would say it was impossible.
00:15:53.240 The scale is bigger.
00:15:53.860 Yeah.
00:15:54.180 It's just a bigger scale.
00:15:55.320 So it's, I'm fighting that same fight that you're fighting.
00:15:58.420 So understand it's hard.
00:16:00.080 And so when these things happen and things get hard and then personal things happen on
00:16:03.920 top of it, I actually look at my tasks getting done as part of the way to work through the
00:16:12.180 personal problem.
00:16:13.540 Okay.
00:16:13.960 So like when you're emotionally agitated and you're highly disturbed and you're frustrated
00:16:19.980 and you're angry, what can center you?
00:16:22.880 What brings you back?
00:16:23.980 What brings you back to a place of feeling less anxious, less frustrated, you know, less
00:16:30.620 angry is actually finding some sort of order in your day.
00:16:34.820 And if you can turn to the powerless tasks as a way, sort of therapy to work through the personal
00:16:42.860 problems or at least allow you to manage them, I find that the personal problems, the solutions
00:16:48.160 to them sort of reveal themselves through the process, if that makes sense.
00:16:53.100 So I think for me, uh, and I, I think this is common amongst most of the people I talk to who are very
00:17:00.800 successful, they use their, their tasks that they would know their normal routine or their, their, you
00:17:07.620 know, for me, it's called the power list.
00:17:09.140 Uh, for you guys, it likely is too.
00:17:11.340 And if you don't know what the power list is, you can go back to listen to episode 16 in the real AF feed
00:17:16.380 here.
00:17:16.920 That one's not on YouTube, but it is on all the audio platforms in the feed.
00:17:21.180 And so if you go back to episode 16 and you listen to it, it'll explain this method that
00:17:27.400 we're talking about.
00:17:28.220 And this method is so important because what it does is it brings order and visual reference
00:17:35.160 to how much momentum you actually have towards the life you're trying to build.
00:17:40.760 And if things are chaotic, right?
00:17:42.980 Like, and you know, sometimes when you get emotional, you start to like overthink and you start to
00:17:47.260 like start thinking that things are worse than they actually are.
00:17:49.700 And then I'm so frustrated and I'm, you know, I'm fucking at the sky is falling on me because
00:17:55.320 we all do this.
00:17:56.200 We all have this, this ability to spiral out of control when things happen, referring back
00:18:05.100 to your power list.
00:18:06.600 And this is also why I like an actual journal and not having it on digital, because if you
00:18:14.640 could go back to your power list, you could flip through the pages and be like, all right,
00:18:18.200 look, I'm winning here.
00:18:19.020 I'm winning here.
00:18:19.520 I've been, I've been winning.
00:18:20.340 I've been winning.
00:18:21.060 Okay.
00:18:21.220 I got six days in a row that I lost on.
00:18:24.020 All right.
00:18:24.720 Well, I'm going to start that streak back up right now.
00:18:27.360 And that helps you bring some peace to the whole idea of your world spinning out of control.
00:18:34.460 Right.
00:18:35.000 I've got this and I've got this in order.
00:18:37.400 Okay.
00:18:38.080 This is right.
00:18:38.780 And so that can kind of start the, the, the, the, the, the, like overcoming process of
00:18:45.020 what it is that you're dealing with.
00:18:47.120 And so that's, I look at it as an opportunity to calm the seas and keep executing.
00:18:54.720 And, and, and it's, and it seems to work very well for me.
00:18:57.400 I know it works well for me.
00:18:59.140 Um, so I think it's all how you look at it.
00:19:02.000 Yeah.
00:19:02.400 Let me ask you this.
00:19:03.140 Cause you know, you touch on the awareness part.
00:19:06.460 Do you really think it's the lack of awareness that most people have?
00:19:11.840 Or do you think it's, it's, it is the awareness, but just lack of action or, or will to do anything
00:19:18.760 about it.
00:19:19.420 Right.
00:19:19.960 Like, I mean, people know their lives are fucked up.
00:19:22.460 No, I think, I think most people are highly unaware of how much they could actually accomplish.
00:19:34.340 I think they know, like, like, okay, like, look, dude, when I was big, I was 350 pounds.
00:19:41.600 All right.
00:19:42.660 I knew I wasn't, I knew when I went and ate pizza or drank fucking bottle of whiskey and
00:19:48.560 shit.
00:19:48.760 Right.
00:19:49.260 I knew I always felt guilty afterwards.
00:19:50.980 Why'd I feel guilty?
00:19:52.060 Cause you know, cause I knew it was fucking wrong.
00:19:53.980 Right.
00:19:54.200 Okay.
00:19:54.780 So, so I knew that was wrong, but what I was unaware of is how great I actually
00:20:04.080 could be.
00:20:04.880 If I moved away from that shit, you see what I'm saying?
00:20:08.200 And so when I say unawareness, I don't mean like ignorance there, they know something's
00:20:15.020 wrong, but they're not aware enough to know how great things could be if they were to work
00:20:19.400 through it.
00:20:19.860 Right.
00:20:20.080 And in this case, when we're talking about unawareness, this person wouldn't, if you
00:20:26.280 hadn't trained yourself through the tool of the power list, you wouldn't have been aware
00:20:30.480 that you're actually slipping as much as you are with the power list tool.
00:20:34.180 You can go back, you flip through and you could be like, fuck, I got six losses in a
00:20:38.200 row.
00:20:38.800 That's bad.
00:20:40.020 That brings awareness right to your brain of exact where that's six days for someone who
00:20:46.120 doesn't have that level of awareness could be six fucking years. 0.91
00:20:50.260 Oh yeah.
00:20:51.140 You see what I'm saying?
00:20:51.940 Yeah.
00:20:52.840 So like, dude, it's a, it's a very, very valuable tool.
00:20:56.200 I give it away for free.
00:20:57.500 All right.
00:20:58.120 And the reason I give my shit away for free guys, because it actually fucking helps you.
00:21:02.520 So go listen to episode 16, make yourself a power list journal.
00:21:07.220 I sell one on the site.
00:21:08.660 It's super high quality.
00:21:10.060 It's fucking amazing.
00:21:11.520 Lots of people buy it, but you don't have to buy it.
00:21:14.340 Okay.
00:21:14.840 I actually, you could use a fucking regular notebook.
00:21:18.000 You go get it fucking Walgreens or wherever it is you shop.
00:21:20.920 You know what I'm saying?
00:21:22.040 Like it's, you could, I did it myself and I actually, I personally still use my original
00:21:28.300 notebook.
00:21:28.860 I refill the pages.
00:21:30.680 It's cause it means something to me.
00:21:32.160 Yeah.
00:21:32.520 Yeah.
00:21:32.720 Okay.
00:21:33.280 So if you want the journal, the journals on the website, extremely popular.
00:21:38.120 We sell a shit ton of them and people love them.
00:21:40.660 People buy them over and over and over again.
00:21:42.700 So, but don't let that be your fucking excuse.
00:21:44.800 No.
00:21:45.040 Yeah.
00:21:45.180 You don't need it.
00:21:45.780 You could use a fucking napkin.
00:21:47.360 All right.
00:21:47.980 I love it, man.
00:21:48.440 So I love it.
00:21:49.640 Uh, Andy, question number two, Andy, I just graduated college.
00:21:54.220 I'm 21 years old and I'm about to enter my new career as a financial advisor.
00:21:58.940 This career requires the ultimate trust between my clients and I, what advice do you have for
00:22:04.460 me, uh, to get the older generation to take a shot on me versus a person who's been in the
00:22:09.880 game for 20 plus years?
00:22:12.100 Well, you're going to have to start with the appropriate clientele.
00:22:14.920 You know what I'm saying?
00:22:16.200 Like, look, dude, that's, that's a hard thing to get started in very, very, very high turnover
00:22:22.420 and financial advisement when you're young.
00:22:24.740 Um, this is probably a good question for Ed Milet because that's the business that he's
00:22:29.100 in.
00:22:29.400 I don't know what he would actually say to this, but my advice would be, um, to not
00:22:34.840 bullshit about what it is you think, you know, or don't know. 0.87
00:22:38.820 As you know, you have regulations that you can't violate, you know, and lying about the
00:22:44.200 shit that you fucking know is probably one of them.
00:22:46.480 Yeah.
00:22:46.980 Um, especially when it becomes to financial advice.
00:22:50.400 But I think the main thing for you to do is to learn as much as you can, uh, be around
00:22:56.100 the guys in the office and the girls in the office who are really producing, learn as
00:22:59.560 much as you can become as smart as you can and forget about your fucking age. 0.92
00:23:04.180 Forget about your fucking age.
00:23:05.560 No, no one comes in and says, Hey, I'm 21 years old.
00:23:08.760 I'm here.
00:23:09.480 They're going to know you're fucking young, bro.
00:23:11.540 But if you're smart and you know the shit and you can explain to them why they need it,
00:23:16.460 the age is going to be irrelevant.
00:23:18.220 A lot of people use their age as an excuse, whether they're too old or they're too young.
00:23:23.900 And the truth of the matter is there's never a right age for fucking anything.
00:23:27.540 Do you know what actually makes it work?
00:23:29.380 Your depth of knowledge, your ability to help them.
00:23:32.320 And if you can display those things, uh, and then also probably because you probably
00:23:37.480 look young, say, Hey, here's my partner, my, at my, at work, who's, you know, 30 years
00:23:44.600 in this, she walks, she makes sure that I do everything right.
00:23:48.020 Right.
00:23:48.440 Like you, and you start ways to go around.
00:23:50.400 Yeah.
00:23:50.600 Because dude, people will take shots on you because they're like, man, this young dude,
00:23:53.980 sharp, this young dude, sharp.
00:23:55.780 You know what I'm saying?
00:23:56.780 So like you have, you have to think of it like this because of your age and because of
00:24:02.180 the industry you're in, you have to be fucking twice as good as everybody else.
00:24:06.480 And so figure out what you got to do to learn the people in the office, learn from the people
00:24:10.460 in the office, what skills you need, practice those skills, work on those skills, know this
00:24:15.980 shit better than anybody and then forget about, and then forget about your age and worry about 0.85
00:24:21.280 fucking actually helping the customers.
00:24:23.360 Because here's the thing, dude, that's a big word of mouth referral business.
00:24:27.140 So you can't go in there thinking, Oh, I'm here to sell them some financial products.
00:24:31.620 You need to be going in there thinking, how am I genuinely going to help this family?
00:24:37.420 They're in their future.
00:24:38.940 Okay.
00:24:39.680 And if you do that genuinely and you actually help them, those people will tell other people
00:24:45.000 and then you'll start to build a book of business where people really fuck this up is that they
00:24:50.400 go in, they try to bullshit. 0.75
00:24:52.300 Okay.
00:24:52.700 They don't try to help.
00:24:54.120 They try to sell and then they never build a residual book of business.
00:24:57.700 So, you know, a referred book of business, right?
00:25:01.740 And that's how I would do it.
00:25:03.160 I would work it.
00:25:03.760 I would work at one case at a time, one family at a time, one person at a time.
00:25:07.120 And funny enough, one of the biggest lessons I talk about in my meetings here in my companies
00:25:12.220 is, Hey, this is a, this is one person at a time.
00:25:15.460 There is no other way.
00:25:16.680 And so if you can learn that game and you can learn how to execute on one person at a
00:25:20.500 time and you can really genuinely solve their problems with a high level of competency and
00:25:24.840 intelligence, your age really isn't going to be a factor.
00:25:28.940 Yeah.
00:25:29.620 Well, what's your, so, I mean, cause I don't know if you were alluding to this when you
00:25:32.620 first started, but like, I mean, cause I'm, I'm just like thinking here if he's 21, do you,
00:25:37.380 like, would you recommend him maybe to target other 21 year olds, uh, in, in the, in the
00:25:42.540 space that are trying to build wealth or, I mean, like, I mean, what's your take on these
00:25:45.820 young guys that are young and young in business trying to graft at these big sharks?
00:25:50.340 You, you want to, you know, you want the older people who have millions in their bank account,
00:25:53.820 right?
00:25:54.160 Like you're, that's a, that's a fit.
00:25:56.400 Look, financial planning and I'm not a financial planner.
00:25:59.900 So, but some of my friends are, uh, Ed is, that's what he did.
00:26:04.300 That's what his business was the whole, the whole time.
00:26:07.800 Here's the thing.
00:26:10.840 The idea that you, a 21 year old kid does no fucking shit is going to come in and fucking
00:26:15.940 tell me what the fuck I'm going to do with my money when you ain't ever had no fucking 0.99
00:26:20.120 money ever is fucking laughable.
00:26:25.020 So you have to understand that the financial planning business is a long-term play.
00:26:30.620 You are going to work with this family that you just sold as a 21 year old man until you
00:26:36.700 are 50, 60 years old and they're going to grow with you.
00:26:40.340 Their finances are going to grow with you.
00:26:42.860 Okay.
00:26:43.320 And that's how you need to be thinking about it.
00:26:45.580 This idea that you're going to, um, you listen, there ain't a 21 year old motherfucker
00:26:52.300 out there to fucking sell me. 0.95
00:26:53.500 Not a single one.
00:26:56.540 Yeah.
00:26:57.180 Okay.
00:26:58.980 And every single, every single person I know over 40 years old that you think is going
00:27:04.140 to come in and fucking just make you rich in one take is going to laugh in your fucking 0.96
00:27:08.760 face.
00:27:09.640 Okay.
00:27:10.080 Cause they, I want someone managing my money who's fucking 60 years old, who's seen fucking
00:27:16.280 everything and is still sharp enough to understand what the fuck is going on now. 0.66
00:27:20.720 Right.
00:27:21.300 Yeah.
00:27:21.820 And who has the connections at the right investments to get me where I need to be.
00:27:26.460 That Nancy Pelosi shit.
00:27:27.560 Okay.
00:27:27.920 Yeah.
00:27:28.560 Let's just be real.
00:27:30.700 There's, there's levels.
00:27:31.980 Yeah.
00:27:32.340 All right.
00:27:33.100 So you're at the beginning level and there's nothing wrong with that.
00:27:36.920 But if you think that you're going to go land sharks and shit, you're not going to be doing
00:27:41.740 that very long.
00:27:43.220 So you need to concentrate.
00:27:44.720 I'm going to build my book of business.
00:27:46.860 I'm going to grow with my families.
00:27:49.080 I'm going to help them.
00:27:50.960 I'm going to help them be financially successful.
00:27:53.040 I'm going to look after them.
00:27:53.980 I'm going to look after their best interests.
00:27:55.200 And if you do that and you keep doing that and you keep doing that in 10, 15 years, bro,
00:28:00.860 you're not going to have to worry about fucking money ever again. 0.86
00:28:04.360 Yeah.
00:28:05.160 Love it.
00:28:05.540 Now, those of you that might be flat financial planners, you might have another way of doing
00:28:10.880 it, but I'm going to tell you what, what I just told you will fucking work and it'll
00:28:15.140 work on a fucking mass scale.
00:28:17.140 So forget about the sharks and the fucking whales and all the shit you think this ain't
00:28:23.120 fucking, uh, uh, what's that? 0.71
00:28:25.380 What's that movie?
00:28:26.140 Uh, where they're all stockbrokers.
00:28:29.820 Ocean's 11.
00:28:30.980 No, not wall street.
00:28:31.980 Wall Street.
00:28:32.580 Yeah.
00:28:33.200 Boiler room.
00:28:33.940 This ain't fucking boiler room.
00:28:36.760 You don't know it.
00:28:37.700 Nope.
00:28:38.100 Well, you should.
00:28:40.460 That's right.
00:28:40.960 You're laughing.
00:28:41.360 My jokes.
00:28:44.000 Full circle.
00:28:44.780 All right.
00:28:45.120 There's a fucking scene in boiler room where they're all fucking talking about how they're
00:28:48.600 going to sell all this shit.
00:28:49.780 And like, they're all assholes.
00:28:51.320 It's very famous scene.
00:28:53.220 I think it's Ben Affleck.
00:28:54.360 Like, but the point is this ain't that, this is fucking actually giving a shit.
00:28:59.000 Like if you want to be actually fucking financially well to fuck off, you will give a fuck about
00:29:03.860 your fucking families. 0.96
00:29:05.620 No.
00:29:06.280 And that concept is relevant to any business, by the way.
00:29:09.780 Like you can apply that whole concept to any, anything to any business.
00:29:14.640 You just got to pay your dues.
00:29:15.600 Bro.
00:29:15.940 People listen, here's where people fuck it up.
00:29:17.800 They fuck it up whenever they start, they start thinking how rich they're going to get.
00:29:22.660 It ain't about you, dude.
00:29:24.500 If you take care of them, you, you will get where you want to go.
00:29:28.240 And people think that like, they're going to just snap their fingers or they're going
00:29:32.420 to have one, they're going to, you know, have one customer or one deal that like makes
00:29:36.680 their, that's not the game.
00:29:38.540 The game is not grand slams, bro.
00:29:40.480 The game is fucking bunts and stealing bases.
00:29:44.180 That's the fucking game of business.
00:29:45.900 The game is bunts and stealing bases and doing it for fucking, when everybody goes 0.88
00:29:50.760 home at nine innings, you're there the next day, still doing the shit. 0.76
00:29:53.900 Like that's what the game is.
00:29:55.480 The game is about fucking that.
00:29:57.120 And everybody thinks it's about home runs and big giant deals and all this shit.
00:30:02.160 The reality is the richest, most wealthy dudes that I know personally, they understand what
00:30:07.700 I just said.
00:30:08.320 It's, it's fucking bunts and stealing bases.
00:30:10.400 It's bunts and stealing bases and is doing it for a long time.
00:30:13.860 And if you can grasp that concept, nobody likes to hear that because it fucking, they
00:30:19.440 hear it a long time.
00:30:20.500 But that during that time, bro, life is happening.
00:30:23.500 You're, you're, you're, you know, you're dating, you're going to college, you're, you're having
00:30:28.900 good time.
00:30:29.560 There's shit like this is, it's not just like you're sitting there and you know, you have
00:30:34.340 to enjoy this period of your life, dude.
00:30:36.500 Like the period of life that I had where I had nothing was the fucking most fun period
00:30:42.360 I've ever had.
00:30:43.660 It was the most exciting too.
00:30:45.700 And for those of you guys try to like, you know, hack your way around what is actually
00:30:50.920 the, the time that you're going to learn the most, you're going to develop the most skills.
00:30:55.660 You're going to develop the most character.
00:30:57.540 You're going to have a great fucking time.
00:30:59.740 And you know, you just want to go to the fucking party at the end of the, at the end of the
00:31:04.840 road, bro.
00:31:05.440 And if you go to the party at the end of the road, out the gate, you show up, you don't
00:31:10.860 have any skills, you don't have any lessons, you don't have any stories, you don't have
00:31:13.580 any life, you don't have shit. 0.96
00:31:15.020 You're just some dude with some fucking money, bro.
00:31:17.000 And that's not, there's nothing cool about that.
00:31:19.420 It's cool for like a fucking day.
00:31:21.460 What's really cool is the journey that you're on and the people that you do it with.
00:31:26.140 So instead of trying to hit the home run over and over and over again and falling on your
00:31:29.740 fucking face, play the long game, right?
00:31:33.980 Yeah.
00:31:35.300 Singles, bunts, stealing bases.
00:31:37.720 That's the fucking game.
00:31:39.300 Guys, Andy, our third and final question, Andy, question number three, Andy, I just completed
00:31:45.240 75 hard today and I will complete the live heart program this year.
00:31:50.380 I know, and I can feel the momentum that I've built from 75 hard.
00:31:54.400 My mindset is totally different from the, uh, from where it was in the beginning.
00:31:58.040 My question is.
00:31:59.740 Do you have any recommendations on how to transfer that into my career?
00:32:03.720 If I'm not happy with the results I'm getting, and it just seems like every place I go, I'm
00:32:08.080 the only one who wants more than just nine to five.
00:32:10.800 I am a mechanic by the way, but how, like, how can I transfer that momentum into the career
00:32:15.680 space?
00:32:16.240 Any recommendations on that?
00:32:17.860 Well, yeah, it's completely transferable because it changes who you are at the core.
00:32:22.280 It makes you a highly disciplined, highly productive version.
00:32:25.220 So if you take the attention to detail that you have, uh, during 75 hard and the perseverance
00:32:31.960 that you have to show and the grit that you have to have, and you apply that to your career,
00:32:36.680 okay, now you're, you're moving your career needle.
00:32:40.760 Okay.
00:32:41.200 All of this is designed to do that.
00:32:43.200 In fact, most people will tell you that when they complete 75 hard, one of the, like a lot
00:32:49.960 of the things they talk about is how much better their career is, how much better their relationship
00:32:54.540 is and all these things, because the actual skills that you learn during that time that
00:33:00.480 get, that you, they get finely tuned and they're at the highest level they've been for you
00:33:04.340 ever, by the way, you still have a lot higher to go.
00:33:06.900 You'll get there.
00:33:07.600 You just got to keep going.
00:33:08.980 But the point is, is that they will organically flow into all areas of your life.
00:33:13.640 So what you're, what you're probably, you're probably overthinking a little bit here, homie. 1.00
00:33:18.860 Uh, you're thinking, you know, you're just finished it, which is fucking awesome.
00:33:22.060 Congratulations.
00:33:22.900 But you're thinking like, how can I aggressively get better?
00:33:26.040 Right.
00:33:26.200 And that's fucking great to think that way, but I think you're going to notice that that's
00:33:30.900 going to happen just because you are, you now, and you're not the, you that you were
00:33:35.300 75 days ago.
00:33:36.940 Does that make sense?
00:33:37.940 Absolutely.
00:33:38.300 So, and by the way, this is another person, this, this guy here could benefit from, uh,
00:33:43.620 episode 16, win the day, because that episode will give you the exact play by play steps to
00:33:50.780 progress your career forward that are better, that are, they're not abstract.
00:33:57.660 You will see them in front of your face day by day, by day, by day.
00:34:01.480 And you will learn confidence from this because you will see you checking off these critical
00:34:07.420 tasks that move your life and career forward every single day.
00:34:12.120 So it's not only a great way to get shit done, but it also like 75 hard is a great way to build
00:34:17.520 fucking confidence in yourself.
00:34:18.880 I think when you say too, it's also important to remember like, bro, that 75 days compared
00:34:24.200 to however long you've been living as that previous person, you're going to take it a
00:34:28.600 couple of more rounds.
00:34:29.540 You know, you're going to, it's like, this is a program.
00:34:31.160 Well, that's why live hard is live hard, dude.
00:34:32.920 It's not, you know, like, you know, one of the, one of the best, worst things that happen
00:34:38.120 when it comes to 75 hard is that it got branded as a challenge.
00:34:42.320 Right.
00:34:42.680 And people only talk about the 75 days.
00:34:46.380 And so that's where you get a lot of the critiques, right?
00:34:48.960 You get a lot of the critiques of like, oh, uh, it's not sustainable.
00:34:54.060 Bro, you, you're, you're not understanding the program because you're fucking, you think
00:34:57.700 it's a challenge.
00:34:58.400 It's a program.
00:34:59.640 It's a program.
00:35:00.780 It's a year long program to the day.
00:35:04.200 Okay.
00:35:06.380 Once you understand that and you understand that program is a way of life that you're
00:35:11.020 designed to repeat over and over again.
00:35:13.140 And each time you do yours, this is why I said your discipline for this person still has
00:35:18.100 higher to go.
00:35:19.080 You, all of the skills that you created this first 75 days, which right now you're, you're
00:35:24.560 like, you know, you're like a new baby, bro.
00:35:27.760 Seeing the fucking light for the first time.
00:35:29.360 Right.
00:35:29.640 Like you're at, you're like, holy shit, dude, it's a whole new world.
00:35:33.280 But now you have to recognize that you can actually take that up another level and another
00:35:39.360 level and another level and another level.
00:35:42.360 And that process actually never stops.
00:35:44.920 It never stops.
00:35:46.040 And you'll get to a certain level, you know, where like the things that you used to like,
00:35:52.780 you know, that used to hinder you or pull you off course, alcohol, overeating, uh, toxic
00:35:59.000 people, bad, just bad habits, shit that you used to not be able to say no to are, are 0.98
00:36:05.940 now things that you actually despise.
00:36:08.140 Cause that's where you're going to take this.
00:36:10.400 Yeah.
00:36:10.900 You know, if you continue to awareness as well.
00:36:12.780 Yeah.
00:36:13.000 Because, because dude, you're, this is where, this is where, you know, people get upset
00:36:17.420 with me when I talk about how, how they don't celebrate, uh, you know, how celebrating with
00:36:22.980 like a cake or whatever after 75 hard, you know, like says they didn't do the program.
00:36:28.160 I say that, you know, a little too intensely.
00:36:31.840 Okay.
00:36:32.200 The truth is the first time you do 75 hard, if you did it, even if you did it right, there's
00:36:39.260 still a chance you might go back to those things.
00:36:41.300 But what you'll learn over time is you'll learn that you don't want those things that
00:36:45.300 made you that person at all.
00:36:46.800 You'll start to fucking hate those things.
00:36:48.640 And so, you know, while I said on the other show the other day, you know, uh, might've
00:36:54.000 been a little bit of an exaggeration.
00:36:55.420 Okay.
00:36:56.160 I make hard statements because there's so many people that fucking don't get it.
00:37:00.300 You know, Oh, I'm in my garage with the windows open.
00:37:03.700 Is that outdoor cardio?
00:37:04.720 Like, bro, shut the fuck up.
00:37:07.040 Right.
00:37:07.300 You know what I'm saying?
00:37:07.980 Like, Holy shit.
00:37:09.240 Like some of you guys ask questions that are so fucking dumb that it drives me insane, which
00:37:15.560 forces me to say hardline shit because I get so fucking tired of it.
00:37:20.520 Oh, those audio books, bro.
00:37:22.600 It says book.
00:37:23.820 Right.
00:37:24.760 What do you, what about book?
00:37:26.340 Do you not understand?
00:37:28.180 Book B O O K book.
00:37:34.160 You know what I'm saying?
00:37:35.280 Like, fuck.
00:37:36.400 Like I try to be cool and I try to fucking like, I try to be understanding and I try to
00:37:41.220 talk to everybody.
00:37:41.880 This is why I quit participating in the conversations regarding 75 hard because they got so fucking 0.97
00:37:48.280 ridiculous that I can't, it's like, bro, I can't be any more clear.
00:37:55.380 These things are all there for a fucking reason.
00:37:58.860 You see what I'm saying?
00:38:00.000 Absolutely.
00:38:00.520 And dude, it's just so, so what ends up happening is like, just like now I start getting fucking
00:38:05.020 irritated.
00:38:05.980 Right.
00:38:06.460 And I'm like, you know, when the celebration thing, what the point I'm trying to make here
00:38:14.040 is that I'm much further down the road.
00:38:17.040 And for me, I'm to the point where I don't fucking celebrate that shit because I don't
00:38:20.900 want to fucking be anything like what I was. 0.76
00:38:23.000 Okay.
00:38:23.400 I don't want to go back to that.
00:38:24.800 In fact, I look at the habits that I used to have and I'm like, that's what a fucking
00:38:29.240 peasant would do. 0.99
00:38:30.380 That's what a fucking clown would do.
00:38:32.260 Like, I'm not, I'm certainly not going to celebrate all my hard work by being a fucking
00:38:37.100 clown again.
00:38:38.000 Right.
00:38:38.280 You know what I'm saying?
00:38:38.920 Like, that's where my mentality is.
00:38:41.340 But like, when you, you know, when you're first going through the program, you know,
00:38:45.900 that's something that you have to learn.
00:38:47.380 And sometimes I forget that because I've done it for so, such a long time now.
00:38:51.200 Does that make sense?
00:38:51.800 It's been a while since it was the first.
00:38:52.960 Yeah, bro.
00:38:53.520 So like, you know.
00:38:55.240 No, that's real.
00:38:55.780 And here's the other thing about 75 hard, dude.
00:38:58.400 You know, some of you guys are fucking dicks about it.
00:39:00.900 Like you really are.
00:39:01.980 Like, stop being fucking dicks.
00:39:04.020 Like, be cool.
00:39:05.260 Like any community that I'm represented in, whether it be first form community or, you
00:39:10.600 know, fucking 75 hard or fucking RTA or whatever, bro, I don't like it when you guys are mean
00:39:16.780 to each other.
00:39:17.380 We got enough of that shit in the fucking world.
00:39:19.180 Like being a fucking asshole ain't part of anything I want to be a part of.
00:39:24.700 So fucking treat each other, respect, be cool, help each other, pick each other up.
00:39:28.840 The shit we talk about on the show all the time.
00:39:31.440 Okay.
00:39:32.300 Because like, dude, I see, I see, I see people being fucking assholes to each other when
00:39:39.820 there's just no need for it.
00:39:41.200 There's no reason.
00:39:41.860 Yeah.
00:39:41.960 Yeah.
00:39:42.280 That's real.
00:39:42.720 And if we want that shit to fucking stop, guess who has to stop it?
00:39:46.020 Now, I'm not saying when someone's a fuck that we don't bury the motherfucker.
00:39:50.500 I ain't saying that.
00:39:51.500 When someone's out of line and they're being a fucking asshole, then we can all get together
00:39:56.260 and instead of tearing each other out, we can bury that motherfucker. 0.90
00:39:59.400 I ain't against that.
00:40:00.940 But when it comes to like bickering over this or that or this or that, bro, you can disagree
00:40:06.100 all you want, but be respectful, dude.
00:40:07.920 Yeah, that's real.
00:40:08.620 You know?
00:40:09.300 That's real, man.
00:40:11.280 Well, guys, Andy, that was, that was four.
00:40:13.880 That was four.
00:40:14.700 Share the show if you want some more.
00:40:17.000 Ah, yeah.
00:40:19.160 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:40:21.160 Now my jewelry box froze.
00:40:22.880 Fuck a pole, fuck a stove. 1.00
00:40:24.520 Counted millions in the code.
00:40:26.200 Bad bitch, booted swole. 1.00
00:40:27.880 Got her on bankroll.
00:40:29.500 Can't fold.
00:40:30.400 Doesn't know.
00:40:31.200 Headshot, case closed.