468. Q&AF： Tom Brady Retirement, Having Resentment Towards Others & Tasting Success
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Summary
In this episode of The Realists, the guys talk about the age limit for when you can get married at 93 and how old is too old for a woman to get married, and what is the acceptable age for a man to hit on his wife.
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what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
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too or you can just tell people all right are you paying attention oh yeah yeah you two fuckers look
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asleep over there i'm here man i got you fucking syed took some sleeping pills or something or you
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farted and fucking knocking the fuck out what's going on brother nothing i'm just wondering what's
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going on over there no i was i was i was finishing up on this uh now we we now we rearranged the room
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yeah i may notice that too now dj is usually sitting over here and madat is usually sitting
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over here but what we figured out because we're idiots um and it takes us a minute to figure things
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out is that you guys would enjoy me talking to you as opposed to me talking like this and you know
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as much as you my side profile is like it belongs on a fucking coin right um yeah it does and it will
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be one day probably even if i have to make it myself but now you get to see my face full frontal
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right it's like full frontal face it is definitely so it's definitely a different view for sure yeah
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it's weird anyway we're idiots we're figuring it out uh i'm so used to doing everything because dude
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most of our shit is on audio and it's been on audio for almost a decade i don't think in terms of
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video and you know that much so we'll figure it out we'll get it together got some good ideas
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you're gonna like them um what do you got yeah well i mean as always i got some good ones what's
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going on with you but dude i just pulled up some stuff did you see uh that buzz aldrin just got
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married at 93 years old really yeah how old is his wife 63 really yeah that's some robbing the cradle
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shit that's some interesting stuff i was right i mean leading to a whole different conversation
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it's a quick picture for you though i want to let's see you pull that up real quick
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what's the acceptable age limit i don't that's that's i would dude i don't know well i mean
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clearly bro look at this dude like like this dude is like he sees a 21 year old he hit the jackpot
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bro oh yeah he's happy as fuck she doesn't look bad for 63 either you know what he looks 93
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yeah he does okay he's good he's tired of telling that lie about being on the moon
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at least the whole another conversation which we can come to in a minute where's my tinfoil yeah but
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i mean i what i want a tinfoil fucking mohawk battle helmet like a spartan tinfoil battle helmet
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okay a tinfoil hat does not do me justice it fucking doesn't okay so i want a tinfoil
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fucking bat in fact you know what we could do bro we could go get that battle helmet out of my
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office and we could wrap it in tinfoil i'll wear it on the show or we could just make one out of
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tinfoil that might be more authentic that's more like kkk okay and i don't know if that's
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appropriate today i found it i found it i got it okay yeah why not appropriate today i'm just saying
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it's you know or any day but i'm just saying you had to bring up the kkk shit on black history day
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number one yeah what the fuck my dot yeah you didn't even catch it i caught it i'm out here
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looking out for you bro and this motherfucker's yeah thank you yeah standing up for me that's right
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that that's a virtue signal for that i gotta make a hashtag you gotta fend it for me i appreciate it
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that's awesome that's what i need that's not bad that's what i need to wear that's the king of all
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tinfoil conspiracies that's 120 that's not bad or i have a four installments of 30 dollars i have a
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massive fucking head so i don't know if my head will fit in there but if it does that is cool
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shit i wear it all the time i wear it to work out in oh wait there's a couple of different there's
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okay we gotta pick which one you want there's a warlord a duke or a baron okay which that's the
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warlord that's fucking cool let's see the duke i don't know if oh maybe i should just swipe through
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let's see that's the nah that's interesting that looks like a come on dude that looks like some
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fucking drag show shit that one is awesome that looks like a thimble with some fucking horns on
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the side of it that looks like something you see yeah that's some bdsm shit yeah bro this is a drag
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show helmet um don't buy me that one i won't fucking wear that was pretty badass i would wear that i'd wear
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that in public i'd wear that to all the antifa fucking shit bro like they could do think of a
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fucking tinfoil man showed up at an antifa rally they would they would have a hard time figuring out
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if you were on their side you know i just showed they all just our noodles they all start bowing down
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to you the fucking tinfoil lord oh shit yeah so moon landing is it real i mean bro come on man
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right are we being real legit question you really are we really gonna go there we never
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talked about yeah we never talked about come on man bro listen let's use our fucking critical
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thinking skills here okay okay um without getting into the direct evidence of what it shows or doesn't
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show and there is plenty of evidence that shows that it's not real why the fuck haven't we been
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back yeah that's what's their excuse for why we haven't been back it's too expensive no the
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technology has been lost there yeah right we had the technology but now we lost it and we can't do
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it only we're fucking 50 years later yeah the fuck out of here bro yeah this is some bullshit dude
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if we had been there other countries would have been there as well period okay they that was a
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fucking psyop to demoralize the fucking uh russians during the cold war and the and basically get them
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to bankrupt their military spending so they would try to go to the moon that's what the fuck it was
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and you know you guys could oh i'll never believe anything and he says because he believes this well
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fucking go prove me wrong bro so you're saying that the the initial moon landing was a psyop
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to bring down the country's morale essentially right and let them waste their military resources to try
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to accomplish this okay so interesting thing nasa has announced this is a december 11th of 2022
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they're going back oh really yeah yeah so i mean well it's about time to bankrupt some fucking russians
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i mean that i mean fuck man we need that tinfoil hat asap yeah that's an answer i mean here's another
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one for you i mean is this q and a f or is this cti definitely q and a f i just saw you know that you
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know that like a lot of the people that listen to q and a f hate cti do they hate it i don't i don't
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fucking care if they do what about that one nah that's some real like that says missouri that's
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yeah it does yeah it does it's got a fucking it's got a fucking mullet hair that's like some sort of
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gorilla hair dreadlock and uh some antlers yeah but what are the antlers from yeah i don't know
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that's that's that's some shit that like you could see somebody actually wearing back in the
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day especially if you fucked with them in missouri it's a horse's tail and deer antlers yeah oh that's
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what it looks like that's fucking missouri if i've ever seen one yeah yeah so where's yours
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well that's a different side of missouri that i have yet to see so i'll let you know when we get
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there oh shit man well i mean it is it is q a it is and i do got some good ones for you okay
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so let's knock these out you know what's funny dude i'm getting all this feedback from these
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people listening to lewis house the lewis house show and they're like fuck dude that was really
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i'm like bro what the fuck do you guys think yeah maybe are you just some like cold no i don't know
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what the fuck they think but it's just funny yeah it's like it's like oh it was really cool to see
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your sense this bro i'm always that way you guys don't get it you think i'm angry you don't
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understand i fucking care yeah like that's my that's your misunderstanding not mine yeah that's
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passion yeah dude that's all it ever is you have to give a fuck at this point i mean like
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bro when i look at motherfuckers who are who are who are equipped exactly how i was in the beginning
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of my success journey meaning they're fucking green and they don't have any kind of skills and they
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don't really know much when i look at those people bro and those people who are willing to try and
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work i see myself okay and so my passion like when i start getting after people and telling them
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the truth with a with a with authority that comes from a place of me knowing what the fuck you are
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capable of that's not me angry that's me saying you are fucking selling yourself short and you are
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fucking your whole life up and you should get your fucking ass in gear so you could actually build
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something because you're perfectly capable that's where that comes from it comes from me understanding
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completely that most people are selling themselves short on their entire capabilities from top to
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bottom in every single area of life yeah and that's where it comes from because you know it can be done
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bro not only can it be done that's what we're here to do yeah that's what we're here to do you're not
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here to sit your fat ass on the fucking couch watch fucking netflix bro and order fucking dine and dash
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whatever fuck you guys use these i don't even know because i don't go to the store dash i think i don't know
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none of that shit i don't i don't i get it i don't know any of it i'm just saying that's not how
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you're supposed to live you're not supposed to live scrolling through this fucking phone for 17
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fucking hours a day we're reading everybody else's life getting involved in drama on everybody else's
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shit bro you know why i don't get involved in shit because i'm too busy doing shit you know like dude
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if you guys would just step the fuck up and actually do some shit you would realize how much less
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anxiety you'd have because you couldn't care about all the other shit you care about there's no room
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for it yeah anyway some people are going to get it some people aren't you know if you are one of
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these people who feels alone because it is a very lonely journey uh rt syndicate is an organization
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that i run with em by let one of the best entrepreneur minds that i've ever fucking heard
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of he's definitely the best speaker going on right now by a lot um we run this group it's filled with
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real entrepreneurs people who are not only driven to succeed not only driven to build great shit
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but they are committed to helping you get on the same path and these are real people these aren't
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like just people on the internet flexing their fake ass hurricane shit right these are actual people
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running businesses and we only open up enrollment a couple times a year it's open right now so if you
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guys are interested in rt syndicate go to rt syndicate.com fill out the application uh and we'll let
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you know because it's a super valuable group uh and people are winning in there and you know if you
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don't want to join it don't join it go be alone i don't it's fine can i actually question the rt uh
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syndicate real quick no real shit who is rt not for like be 100 who is it not for it's not it's not for
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people that want to get rich quick it's not for people who think they're going to start a business
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on day one and be fucking millionaires in 12 fucking days it's not it's not for people who
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are drama it's not for people who are you know trying to sell shit it's not for people who are
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going to try to milk the group it's for people who want to be surrounded by quality real entrepreneurs
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not internet entrepreneurs real entrepreneurs that run real shit that all share information
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about how to build something real okay e-commerce is just a tool that we use okay uh we build brands
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we build companies we make the world better we instill positive cultures into our society by
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instilling them through our business one of the biggest focuses of rt syndicate is how to create
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the proper culture inside your business and how important it is because one of the major initiatives
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of rt syndicate is that we make the world fucking better through entrepreneurship
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this is about ethical entrepreneurship and creating a system inside your company that not
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only makes you wealthy but makes your employees wealthy and then also contributes a tremendous
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amount of good to your local community right in front of your face and we have all kinds of people
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who are committed to that who work towards that who help each other do that and you know
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entrepreneurship's lonely as fuck and it's very hard to get around a group like this a lot of you guys
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ask the questions every day how do i meet people that are on the path this is how
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okay so we open it up a couple times a year if you want to apply apply not everybody gets in
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and it is what it is yeah so i would apply and it doesn't matter if you're starting out in the
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beginning or if you're running a hundred plus million dollar company we have people from all
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different parts of the of the journey inside this group intentionally because when you're starting
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out you need the hundred million dollar guys to fucking talk to you and you need the ten million
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dollar guys to talk to you and girls and that's how it works everybody works together to bring
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everybody up so rising tide raises all ships it's a powerful group um it speaks for itself the results
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speak for itself and if you want to apply it's open now and i think it's open until uh february 7th
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yeah so that's that's the date deal sweet well i got some good ones for you good let's let's
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fucking talk about it knock these out all right uh andy question number one andy what's your
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take on tom brady retiring just announced that today uh did he stay too long or not long enough
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and how does that translate into just real world success i don't think it's my position as someone
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who hasn't become as great as he has at his skill set um he's the greatest of all time at what he does
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and i don't think someone who like me who is pretty good at what they do and not the greatest of all time
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has any right to decide or criticize what he decides to do and i think most people should feel
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that way i think most people on the internet fucking have an opinion about everything and they
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don't know what the fuck they're talking about if this man wants to play another year you play another
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year he's the greatest fucking football player to ever fucking play if he doesn't fucking go party
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bro you did a great job we all appreciate you be with your family do whatever you want i respect
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the dude's greatness i think the dude's greatness in my lifetime in sports you know because greatness
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is an is a quality that you admire across spectrum right like we don't admire greatness just and this
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is something about our taste syndicate that's really cool it's like we bring people in that have achieved
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in all areas and all across the spectrum um and we bring in the real people who built the stories
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that you've heard about to teach the fucking shit inside so uh but the point is i like respect
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greatness whether it be you're a great athlete whether you're a great musician whether you're a
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great entrepreneur whether you're just a great philanthropist or an organizer or just a great
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fucking set of parents right like i greatness is applicable to all different areas and so like
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when i see someone like tom brady who is legitimately the greatest at what he did of all time i don't
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feel like i'm in a place to judge whatever decision that motherfucker makes and i appreciate his story
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it's inspired me uh you know coming out of college he was nobody i remember watching the game i was
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watching the game live when drew blood so got hurt and he got put in the game and that started his
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career i was watching you know uh i was watching this i've watched his whole career you know he's a
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he's a year or two older than me i've watched him the whole time uh i hated the patriots with a passion
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but i always loved tom brady yeah you know what i'm saying and uh i just i love that kind of greatness
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i love that commitment to greatness and you know i think the cool thing about tom brady's story is
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that while he was a good athlete he wasn't a super gifted athlete that he is the product of the
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things that we talk about on this show which is perseverance and putting in the work when no one's
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watching and making sure that you do all the extra things and becoming a student of what it is that
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you do so that you can become great and i think the coolest thing about tom brady is is that he wasn't
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born that way he became that he worked and it's a true inspirational story because there are guys that
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play sports that are so fucking athletically gifted that they just dominate right um but he's just not
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one of them and that's no disrespect to him i think it's more respectful that i'm talking about
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how he built it so you know it's sad to see him retire i you know i think he could still play i think
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this year really fucked him up because you know there's a lot of other shit going on yeah you know
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the fucking media was blowing him up and people were fucking with him and he had personal shit going
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on and his team really didn't play that hard let's be real i watched a bunch of their games they
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didn't play for him the way that they have and if i were him i'd probably be fucking done too why the fuck
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would you want to be around that shit yeah i just gotta be real yeah like he ain't gonna say that
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because he's a classy dude but i'm much less classy right do you what do you recommend because i mean
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you talk about it right like like you know people that get in business and they think they're gonna
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make these big exits and they go you know live that retired life and two weeks later they're
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fucking miserable what do you what i mean those people never get to the big exit though bro
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that's the thing like those people never get to the big exit or the fucking so like when when all these
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people look man success is about it is literally about winning the day and getting better every
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single day it is not about an outcome a lot of people will say oh it's about an outcome it it is
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we can talk about that we can say okay i want to build a company that's worth a hundred billion
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dollars all right we could say some shit like that but the way to get to that is not to sit here and
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talk about a hundred billion dollars it's to get better every single day and make sure you're
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stacking those wins and so the people that that that think like okay man i'm gonna you know you're
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20 years old right now and i'm gonna start a company and by the way i thought this way too
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just so we're clear so i'm not dogging on anybody it's a it's a product of where you are in the journey
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i'm 20 years old i'm gonna work until i'm 40 and then i'm gonna spend the rest of my life on a
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fucking beach okay but what you don't understand at 20 years old is that you're gonna get to a point
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where you can do those things and still do your company and you're gonna get to a point where you
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understand that your company is not just about you and about you retiring and kicking your feet up like
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you're on a corona commercial that's not what this is about and as your perspective changes over the
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course of time it becomes less about you and more about the mission of your company and providing
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for the dreams of the people that helped you get to the point where you could go to the beach
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okay so it's when we start here in the beginning and we say i'm trying to get to that's okay you
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might want to get there and i'm not going to dog you for that but the truth of the matter is the
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people who truly never go through that transition they never get to the point where they have the
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big exit because it's always about them it's always about what they can take it's always about
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how much money they're making and the reality is people don't want to fucking work for that if people
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don't want to work for that how can you expect a whole conglomerate and massive amount of people
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to work together towards a focused goal you can't yeah okay so most of those people who think that
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way bro they don't really ever get to that point in their life the people who actually get to that
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point in their life are the people who understand that this is a day by day by day thing it's groundhog
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day every motherfucking day bro there's nothing there's nothing glorious about it there's nothing
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that does have fun about it now you will have some fun along the way because you're going to be
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working with people that you like right that's the reality but you know i've talked to many people
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who have exited their businesses uh and a lot of my friends man and they yeah they got a lot of money
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but the problem was they lost their purpose and they have a hard time readjusting so my advice is
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you know besides all the shit i just said if you are if you do get to a position where you're
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available to exit i've been offered to exit fucking i mean dude it it's i don't even know a couple
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hundred times i've had people come to us and try to buy her shit what am i going to do
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what am i going to do i'm just going to sell the company sell all my friends away
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fucking be irrelevant go home and do what the same shit i do at home now right you see what i'm saying
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so you have to have if you are going to exit and you do get to that point where you want to exit
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it's important to think about what you're actually gaining by getting the extra money because if your
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life isn't changing that much and it's not even really improving that much really all you're doing
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by exiting is fucking making your life less not more right yeah okay because like dude that kind
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of money wouldn't really change my life at this point in time i have everything i want i can do
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anything i want i do anything i want i do it exactly how i want so if i were to do that
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what am i what am i gaining i'm not really gaining anything i'm actually losing
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okay and i think it's important for people to understand especially if you're a driven person
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like i'm a very driven person if i don't have a project i'll self-destruct okay so it's important
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for you guys out there to realize that this is a reality when you get to the point where people want
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to start purchasing your company or you know uh there's a potential exit you have to really consider
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like what is this about for you and be honest with yourself because if you make the wrong decision
00:23:46.480
and you sell out all your purpose it doesn't matter how much money you're going to have you're going
00:23:51.880
to be fucking miserable i've seen that happen over and over bro yeah man you know you want to have a
00:23:58.320
clear path to find and this goes for athletes too there's a lot of pro athletes to fucking listen to
00:24:04.000
the show you guys all want to have a clear path defined post career right like i i i i haven't done
00:24:13.840
that for myself i don't know what my path is but if i ever do define a clear path past that point
00:24:19.320
you know then i could consider maybe exiting but the point of it is is that we're you know it's not
00:24:25.220
just a hey let me sell my shit and live on the beach like bro that shit would be boring after three days
00:24:30.600
you know that's real and that's not a reason to like it's not a strong enough reason to pull you
00:24:39.240
through the amount of bullshit that getting to that point actually fucking takes yeah what it
00:24:44.760
actually requires yeah so like when you talk to people like when i talk to young people and they're
00:24:48.520
like man i just want to retire by the time i'm 35 i know for sure that that person is likely to quit
00:24:54.540
because it's not enough real motivation to pull you through the bullshit it's just not would you say
00:25:01.300
likely to quit or just hasn't reached that level of business maturity yet to understand i got lucky that
00:25:06.400
i didn't quit yeah okay i got lucky that i didn't quit i i fought like that yeah and i got lucky
00:25:14.240
i tried to quit remember i tried to go fucking sell clean carpets there was other things i was looking at
00:25:20.580
the thing that saved me is the thing i tell you guys all the time which is i had zero options
00:25:26.120
i had fucking no option i had to fucking do it okay so you having limited resources you having no
00:25:33.400
other options is actually something that contributes to the progress of your overall growth if you see
00:25:39.560
it the proper way because there was tons of times where i wanted to fucking quit or i wanted to give
00:25:44.400
up or i wanted to pivot but i just couldn't because of i was tied into this and i didn't have any other
00:25:49.660
things i could do so i got real lucky that none of those other things i looked at took me off the path
00:25:55.240
when they were very close to taking me off the path okay and had i went through with the carpet
00:26:00.960
cleaning story right um for those of you that don't know 10 years into the business i was still
00:26:06.300
making only 695 a month we were frustrated chris and i started looking at closing the business we
00:26:11.780
talked about it i actually was going to go open a sears carpet cleaning franchise and i was about one
00:26:18.300
inch away from becoming andy the carpet cleaning guy right we actually went to the hotel room of the
00:26:26.640
executive who came to saint louis to have me sign the papers i went there after i had already signed
00:26:33.720
them and i went in and i said hey um say hey can i see those papers that we signed and he's like yeah
00:26:40.620
sure and he took them i fucking ripped them up and that's how i got out of the deal i ripped him up
00:26:45.180
right in front of his face he got super pissed bro he fucking motherfucked me but here i am and i'm not
00:26:50.060
there yeah so that's how close you see what i'm saying so i know that people like to think like
00:26:57.040
that they end up quitting it's that perspective switch that gets you reengaged in the business
00:27:01.200
and gets you moving the right path what is the purpose who are you obligated to take care of
00:27:05.580
what is the mission that you're trying to accomplish and when you think of it in terms of that you don't
00:27:09.200
run into these situations where you want to just quit any question number two andy i absolutely love
00:27:16.120
your show and i have used your knowledge to genuinely build a better life for myself and my
00:27:20.580
family i listened to the episode where you talked about taking the negative energy from others and
00:27:26.520
using it as fuel to prove them wrong after some reflection i realized that i am one of those people
00:27:33.320
who give the negative energy i don't necessarily talk shit about people directly but i found that i do
00:27:39.460
harbor resentment or envy even and i want to be done with it i'm now aware of this but how do i
00:27:45.900
fix it it's a process okay and here's the good news first of all congratulations on recognizing
00:27:51.960
that you're a fucking hater no i'm being real i'm being real dude because that fucking intention
00:27:57.600
that you have for other people will keep you from ever building anything relevant for yourself
00:28:02.020
the universe god however you want to see it i see it as god and the universe being the same i think
00:28:08.020
it's all the same thing that they reward intent it rewards intent so when you look at
00:28:15.800
someone else and you fucking hate on them even in your mind and heart okay what you're telling
00:28:22.540
the external universe is that you do not value what they are doing and in return what you will get
00:28:32.340
back is not that okay so if you see steve winning and steve is really someone you really don't give a
00:28:39.260
fuck about maybe you know he fucked your chick back in the day i don't fucking know you just don't like
00:28:43.240
him and steve's winning and you look at steve and you're like fuck that guy the universe only hears
00:28:49.240
they don't andy doesn't like what steve is doing so i'm not going to deliver what steve is doing so
00:28:54.760
you have to be very careful to weed this shit out of you and it's not just what you say verbally
00:28:59.960
it's what you think and it's what you feel so first off congratulations on recognizing it
00:29:05.560
i think most of us start off at that point and we evolve from there i know i did as well now
00:29:11.940
the second part how do you fucking fix it well you catch yourself see awareness is a valuable tool
00:29:20.220
when you are aware that this is something that you have the propensity to do and you get jealous
00:29:25.500
that's a normal human feeling that is the point where you stop and you say fuck you know what i'm
00:29:32.740
actually happy for steve and you correct the thought okay and you push it out how can you be
00:29:37.680
happy for someone who did you wrong that's irrelevant you have to be willing to forgive you have to be
00:29:42.940
willing to look at what they're producing acknowledge it for its greatness and then be happy that they're
00:29:49.140
doing it because then more of that shit comes to you this is how it actually works but most people
00:29:54.540
can't get over the first part which is their own jealousy their own ego and their own insecurity
00:29:59.740
about what someone else is doing versus what they're doing and so when we talk about how to fix it it's
00:30:06.560
very simple you're aware now now you're already aware that's the that's the first step to fixing it
00:30:12.940
the second step is to tune your voice just like whenever we talk about 75 hard live hard having a bitch
00:30:20.000
voice and a boss voice that hater shit comes from the bitch voice okay so you're fucking your goal
00:30:27.600
is that when you hear that bitch voice tell it shut the fuck up and replace it with the boss voice
00:30:32.100
okay and most people are not aware of their internal dialogue believe it or not most people walk around
00:30:38.160
we call them non-playable characters okay they're npcs these are people who do not have an internal
00:30:44.000
dialogue they're going through life you know they're going the wrong way down the fucking aisle in the
00:30:50.740
grocery store to drive like shit they don't give a fuck because they don't they aren't aware of
00:30:54.480
anything okay that's most people you have to understand that you now have graduated from npc
00:31:02.840
to an aware person especially in success okay that's a huge fucking deal that most people never do
00:31:09.040
so be proud of yourself for recognizing that it's a problem and now get to work on correcting it as it
00:31:16.840
goes and what will happen over time is that you will be cut this will become such an internal habit for
00:31:22.860
you that eventually you won't even have to have this internal dialogue like for me now i don't have
00:31:29.720
to have it like those thoughts of jealousy of other people's success they don't even happen to me anymore
00:31:34.700
now i just look at it and i'm like that's fucking cool man yeah and that's how i feel it's very organic
00:31:40.620
and and that's just a process and it takes time it could take you you know it could take you a year
00:31:45.740
could take you 10 years it's part of maturing all right so uh but it's a very practical thing
00:31:51.480
because the energy that you put out is the energy that you receive whether you verbalize it or not
00:31:56.480
so it's important that you're aware of it uh i think it's a huge deal bro i think you should be
00:32:01.280
very proud of yourself for admitting to yourself that hey man this is i'm putting out the wrong shit
00:32:05.000
because most people never do that most people nowadays it's popular for people just to clout chase
00:32:10.620
by hating on motherfuckers and then they can't figure out why nothing really ever happens or why
00:32:14.540
their life looks like yes they can't figure out why they can't monetize or why they can't do this
00:32:19.240
why they can't do that well the reason why is because you're putting out the wrong fucking energy
00:32:22.540
bozo yeah okay you got to fix it so i want to clarify the best way is you're saying to just
00:32:30.140
separate the person whoever you have that that that you know feeling towards and just focus on the
00:32:36.260
fucking what actually was accomplished yeah but people will say this about competitors right like i
00:32:40.560
fucking hate these competitors they're always doing this and this and this and this and this
00:32:43.940
okay you can be competitive and still wish the best for the other person and this is the trick to that
00:32:50.640
you start to see it as what's possible for you so like when i see someone that outdid me
00:32:56.900
which is very fucking infrequent okay just being real uh but when i see someone who's doing better
00:33:05.680
than me for real real talk yeah when i see someone who outdid a better job at something than me which
00:33:10.760
happens every day bro like i'm not the best in the world at what i do i learn every fucking day
00:33:15.460
okay so but when i see someone that's doing better than me or that has done better than me
00:33:19.940
and they're a competitor i say okay fuck yeah bro that's awesome because dude look if they can do
00:33:25.420
that i can do that too and and that's the way to look at your competitors right yeah and then
00:33:30.040
and then keep in mind that about the energy thing that you put out you gotta be genuine about yeah
00:33:35.360
it's gotta be real and that that's a process to create it just takes time but this but the first
00:33:40.460
step of just realizing that you're a fucking hate that's the step that most people won't fucking do
00:33:45.360
ever they won't ever do it they'll justify why they hate those they'll be like yeah you know what
00:33:50.840
you're right i am a hater but fuck that guy anyway and blah blah blah while they're sitting on a
00:33:55.000
fucking bar stool and fucking wednesday afternoon at two o'clock uh you know crying about
00:33:59.920
how they don't have no money and their fucking wife hates them and their fucking life sucks
00:34:03.100
it's your intent bro it's the fucking truth and it will change your life but people don't think it
00:34:07.860
is they don't believe in it you know you have all these rich motherfuckers all over the fucking earth
00:34:11.820
telling you this shit's real like you have you have entire communities of people talking about how
00:34:18.320
intent law of attraction some of the most successful people in fact most of the most successful people
00:34:24.420
in the world talk about this shit but then people still think it's bullshit i you know
00:34:29.820
i could talk about it all day bro baffles me yeah i mean but if i see all 10 people of the people
00:34:36.060
that i respect most talking about the same shit guess what i'm gonna fucking do it yep yeah that's
00:34:41.340
real shit man it's it's super real bro i i think i think if you're putting a percentage on it
00:34:48.980
i think it's 60 percent maybe 55 your actions and 45 that that's how much of it i think it is
00:34:59.520
it might even be 50 50 that's a lot yeah i don't know i think it takes both though because every
00:35:04.500
single person that i look up to in business or that i respect in business they believe that it is
00:35:11.400
it's very evenly distributed you got to have the work and then you got to have the metaphysical
00:35:16.560
quantum physical aspect of power of intent law of attraction visualization however it is that you
00:35:21.580
call it prayer right yeah andy our third and final question i like this this is a good one here
00:35:30.400
andy i'm 20 years old no no no no joke yeah this is a good joke no but i like i mean this kid's
00:35:35.940
trying to do it man all right uh andy i'm 20 years old and i work in construction my dream
00:35:42.000
is to build a construction empire of my own one day and hopefully have you as a client
00:35:46.720
to keep myself motivated and working towards this goal i've been going to a really fancy
00:35:52.940
restaurant once a month and ordering whatever i want without thinking about it to me it's my way
00:35:58.780
to taste success because it's something i know i can regularly enjoy one day when i've built a
00:36:05.020
successful business i feel great when i do this but i'd be lying if i say i wasn't scared of the bill
00:36:09.520
every now and then is this a healthy way to approach tasting success or are there better
00:36:15.860
ways to accomplish this without spending the money well first of all i hope you achieve all of that
00:36:21.820
uh i think there's going to be a massive need for blue collar uh construction work because there's so
00:36:27.940
few people doing it so if you're a young person and you're considering a construction career there's
00:36:34.240
more opportunity in my opinion right now it's almost like we're starting over there like all the
00:36:39.060
old dogs are retiring there's nobody in the middle and if you're a young person that wants to get into
00:36:43.800
the the actual construction trade and build a company that's i don't think there's ever been an
00:36:48.720
a better opportunity for that um so that's first thing second thing in regards to uh tasting success
00:36:56.520
look this is another reality that people don't want to acknowledge or they hear the wrong way a lot
00:37:02.960
of people will hear what i'm about to say is fake it till you make it which is not the fuck i'm saying
00:37:07.060
you have to stretch bro you have to stretch yourself and you have to experience things i talked about
00:37:13.880
this recently on an episode i can't remember which one where we had a situation where people
00:37:20.080
most people set small limits and small goals because they've never experienced anything outside of
00:37:26.000
that okay how can you imagine a bigger life than what you have if you've never experienced or
00:37:36.880
in your whole entire life like how do you know it's possible yeah okay so it's very important to
00:37:45.000
stretch and i'm not talking about stretching every way i'm not talking about financially get a bigger
00:37:50.920
house and a car you can't afford and go that's how people ruin themselves okay bankruptcy yes yeah but
00:37:57.740
people also you know they say they think if they can do that that they'll that people will eventually
00:38:02.940
come to them and like want to work with them and the reality is dude anybody you want to work with
00:38:07.400
recognize what the fuck you're doing okay so they know that shit is bullshit but i think stretching in
00:38:14.120
that way is a healthy way i think i think stretching in ways like that where it's a it's a reward and also
00:38:20.380
you're acknowledging like hey i'm expanding what my limitations are once in a while i think that's super
00:38:26.080
important yeah i think it's super important i think it's super important for people who are on the
00:38:31.220
entrepreneurial path to take advantage of the opportunities that they have to taste a bigger
00:38:37.600
life especially from other entrepreneurs this is one of the powers of rt as well you have a lot of
00:38:43.140
people from on all the spectrum right you have day one people who are just getting it going and then
00:38:48.160
you have people who are you know worth hundreds of millions of dollars and above okay and in this group
00:38:55.060
you get to experience and touch and see and taste what real success actually looks like not this
00:39:00.920
internet bullshit okay and that's a that's a powerful thing however you do it uh don't be
00:39:07.320
responsible with it you know what i'm saying don't go way beyond your means where you're risking your
00:39:12.200
company or your dreams or risking going broke but i think it's important for people to do that
00:39:17.560
some of the ways i used to do this whenever i didn't have much what and honestly there's a funny
00:39:23.120
story because i went out to uh i went out to our local exotic car dealership here um and i would go
00:39:31.720
in there and i would walk around like brian no business being in there i couldn't buy one fucking
00:39:35.900
vehicle in there nothing okay and and uh there was a guy there who's not there anymore who reminded me
00:39:40.360
of that uh and then later on down the road i became their best customer and so yeah but that's a story
00:39:46.180
for another day so i would go in i would walk around i would i would be respectful i wasn't
00:39:55.220
sitting on cars or fucking taking pictures for my gram or like some of you motherfuckers do that now
00:40:01.060
it's ridiculous i would just look around and i would drive by big homes that i want to live at in fact i've
00:40:09.780
told the story a number of times about how the fuck i ended up at the house i'm in now okay the
00:40:15.120
house i'm in now was me tasting it along the way like bro when they were building that house okay
00:40:20.840
the original house that was there was a log cabin that got struck by lightning then they built a replica
00:40:27.780
of a historic mansion called oak alley okay on the property uh where ulysses grant's cabin was
00:40:35.800
okay and his original horse stables and the tree in the front yard where there's a photograph of him
00:40:41.240
sitting next to all these things they're all all the properties original i didn't even know that until
00:40:46.720
i fucking moved in there so while they're building this house i'm sitting outside watching them build
00:40:51.580
it because you in the winter time you could see the house it's up on the top of this hill it's it's
00:40:56.200
fucking massive and uh i'd pull in the construction workers would come down and they shoo me off
00:41:01.720
and dude during all those times that i was suffering and all those times i was uh broke and not be able
00:41:09.400
to forge shit and never thought i had a future like when i visualized a house that i was going to live
00:41:15.680
in i actually visualized that specific house that house the one i live in now the one i fucking take
00:41:22.920
shits in and fucking eat my dinner and the one i walk around naked in i fucking live in the house
00:41:27.740
that i visualized 20 fucking years ago as i was going through the process of entrepreneurship i live
00:41:34.040
in it it's crazy exact house not only that the house before that the house i lived in before that
00:41:40.860
you've seen it it was also very nice and uh you know how i you know what i used to do i used to drive
00:41:49.360
up and down that street as they were building that street when i was fucking broke okay so this shit is
00:41:54.480
real it's real shit it really happens and you have to figure out ways to window shop that's what i
00:42:00.220
call it so i call it window shopping i would drive through neighborhoods i would go to car dealers i
00:42:06.520
would uh do exactly what what what this person did where i would go to a nice dinner i used to do that
00:42:11.320
exact same thing even though i couldn't afford it um another thing i would do is i would look on
00:42:17.780
dupont registry dupont registry is a car car home property site of luxury luxury items i look through
00:42:23.500
there there's another one called james edition yeah you gotta be hooked i look through that one's
00:42:27.000
awesome yeah it's international so but i still do that i probably spend still guys like real talk
00:42:33.200
probably at least an hour or two a day window shopping when i window shop right now today for
00:42:40.460
probably an hour or two a day that's how i own wine at home when i go home and i get done here i go
00:42:45.560
home i fucking go in my uh my lounge in my cigar bar yeah okay my cigar bar right wow and uh and i
00:42:52.500
fucking you know may or may not partake in some festivities and then i uh scroll through the
00:42:57.320
internet and look at shit that i want to fucking grow up and have one day like right now i look at
00:43:01.920
fucking ranches that are 100 000 fucking acres or i look like at castles in fucking italy and i look
00:43:07.640
at like airplanes that are you know i look at boats i look at this i look at that i look at all this
00:43:12.000
shit it's not even that i want all that shit but i know that if i'm a if i'm looking and i'm tasting
00:43:16.600
it the rest of my life will progress to the point where that would be a real option it is a real
00:43:21.680
option for me at this point it's almost like like before you even see that your brain doesn't even
00:43:26.820
know it it just doesn't know that shit exists bro it's how how the fuck can you know what exists if
00:43:32.560
you've never been around it yeah like dude like so important man yeah it's huge dude think of all
00:43:39.080
the people that grow up uh in the suburbs or in the urban areas that never see like luxury ever yeah
00:43:45.960
they never see a successful person they've never seen someone drive up in a rolls royce they've never
00:43:50.800
seen someone they don't know anybody that's built a real company then this is all just bullshit
00:43:56.020
to them it's magic bullshit that doesn't exist in reality and the only way to expose yourself to
00:44:03.460
these things is to intentionally expose yourself to these things and that's a big huge part of going
00:44:09.080
from where you are to where you want to be i actually think this is a great way to do it it's a
00:44:14.440
way that i used to do it as well and it was roughly about once a month you know what i mean
00:44:19.160
once a month i'd scrounge up a few hundred bucks i'd go out and fucking do something cool and that
00:44:23.640
shit kept me going it kept me it kept me on the path it made me real and then you know that got
00:44:28.580
more frequently you know what i'm saying and then it got that's how i got to be 350 you know don't do
00:44:33.260
that yeah but go ahead what do you say to people who say that isn't healthy like well let's look at
00:44:40.900
my life and let's look at theirs we'll have a little fucking dick measuring contest
00:44:44.060
to do people can be so weird about the materialistic shit those people are also broke
00:44:49.460
yeah yeah it's true i mean i'm sorry to deliver the fucking unflavorable truth like that's the
00:44:57.680
fucking truth these people are fucking broke the people who tell you this shit are broke the people
00:45:02.940
who tell you this shit have not built anything the people who tell you this shit are fucking
00:45:06.820
experts at advice and fucking terrible uh you know actual builders of reality and there's a lot
00:45:16.840
of those people too especially on instagram that's why it's important to get the fuck off of it and get
00:45:20.580
out in the real game and fucking play it so you know to those people who say that that i'm wrong in
00:45:26.620
that you know i don't really give a fuck what they say stay broke it's real man you know i don't know
00:45:32.740
what to say to that yeah no i mean i mean i look at it like this bro i mean like bro at this point
00:45:36.380
in my life dj like why the fuck would i give a fuck when any like anybody disagrees with what i say
00:45:42.580
bro whatever the fuck i'm doing works pretty well now am i perfect fuck no bro that's how i know you
00:45:48.060
don't have to be perfect okay i'm a fucking idiot i fuck up everything all right i made a million
00:45:52.940
fucking mistakes but you know what i do when i make a mistake i acknowledge it and i say andy you're a
00:45:57.540
fucking idiot for doing that and uh fix it and then i move on doing better and that's how it works
00:46:01.880
you know what i'm saying this isn't me preaching from my pulpit or my ivory tower saying oh i'm the
00:46:06.780
best what i'm telling you is is that you don't have to be the best okay you've just got to understand
00:46:11.920
certain principles and tasting success expanding boundaries stretching your mental capacity
00:46:17.680
is a huge part of it and anybody who disagrees and says oh that's irresponsible well have fun
00:46:24.820
balancing your 400 a week fucking paycheck for the rest of your life bro because that's all you're
00:46:30.220
ever going to get you're going to get a fucking very very bare minimum life it's just not a good
00:46:34.980
way to be if you've never experienced anything if you never brought anything into your mental reality
00:46:39.420
into your quantum reality you can't produce it in real life so you know if people disagree they
00:46:46.540
disagree they're it's free country sort of you know that's the next episode yeah talk about that on
00:46:53.480
cti no man and i'm not trying to be disrespectful either dude like but it's the truth if you think about
00:46:59.180
the people who tell you to simmer down get realistic get a real job when are you going to get serious
00:47:07.160
when are you going to quit dreaming when are you going to do this it's never from someone who's done
00:47:12.020
the shit that you want to do it's never that way ever ever ever it's never fucking that way it's always
00:47:18.060
the same kind of people it's the people who you've known for a long time who you think are your friends
00:47:24.680
who now they're looking out for you in your best interest and really that the reality is they just
00:47:30.160
don't want to see you go down this path and then have to acknowledge that they had the same opportunity
00:47:33.820
and you took advantage of it and they didn't and that's what the fucking truth is that's the truth
00:47:38.960
that's the fucking truth there's no these people are not comfortable with who they are and misery
00:47:45.060
loves company it's a real shit it's a real thing i did a whole episode on this about crabs in a bucket i
00:47:49.420
don't know what episode that is but look that up and let me know i'll say it but dude most people
00:47:54.240
want to pull you back in because they think they're doing you a fucking favor 59 episode 59 go listen to
00:48:00.840
it explain this whole concept these people think they're doing you a favor by protecting you from
00:48:05.980
what could happen which is actually their fear of what could happen to them okay they're not thinking
00:48:12.720
if i don't do this i'm going to stay the same like a successful person thinks like a successful
00:48:18.480
person does not think man if i do this i might fall on my face that's not how they think they think
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fuck if i don't do this i'm definitely going to fall on my face eventually that's how they think so
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when you run into those people and we're going to run into those people because that's the majority of
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people you have to be disciplined enough and you have to be logical enough and clear thinking
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enough to understand that when you get upset about their opinions about what you're trying to
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do that would be the same as you going to um you know a doctor's office with a problem with your
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fucking car and then the doctor coming out and telling you some shit about your car and you being
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pissed off about it like they don't know they don't know right there's no there's no connecting of the
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fucking dots in their brains about what they're talking about because we live in this society where
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everybody has to have an opinion on fucking everything at all times a lot of people are quick to voice
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their opinion about your life when they literally know nothing about life doesn't even compare they
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haven't built anything they haven't done anything they're not even fucking taking care of their own
00:49:20.600
shit but they'll be happy to tell you what the fuck you're doing wrong that's a major problem in
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society and if you don't have the discipline and the logical mind and the critical thinking to
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understand my homie steve here doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about if you can't at least
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understand that you're gonna get sucked back into them it's just it's just reality not only does your
00:49:44.380
homie steve fucking not know what he's talking about your homie steve is trying to hold you the fuck
00:49:51.280
back from the life that you actually want so that actually makes him not your homie steve which means
00:49:56.420
you should fucking leave him behind and just go on your fucking journey like i explained in the
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previous podcast a couple days ago i think it aired on monday um you're gonna go through phases on
00:50:06.140
this okay you're gonna have to leave your little comfort of the nest and all your siblings and all
00:50:11.180
your friends and all the people who live like you who aren't willing to expand and you're gonna have
00:50:15.120
to go on this journey and in the middle of this journey you're gonna feel alone and you're gonna say
00:50:19.000
fuck they were right it's lonely at the top when you're making a hundred grand a year you're not at
00:50:24.280
the fucking top bro you're not at the top you're not even at the fucking base of the mountain you're a
00:50:29.160
base camp motherfucker and when we go from the to that first area where we find okay now now we're
00:50:36.020
at 250 grand we're starting to hang out with a bunch of people to make 250 grand oh all these
00:50:40.320
people actually are interested in the same shit as me wow this is much more rewarding these people
00:50:45.140
are hating on me they're hating on me a little bit but as you go further down the pipe and you get into
00:50:50.980
the higher and higher and higher levels of success what you're going to realize is that those
00:50:56.140
relationships are far more beneficial and far more valuable to you than what your previous
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relationships would have been from the old days back in the old neighborhood okay so you have to
00:51:08.020
move through the process it's part of it you're gonna feel alone you're gonna feel fucking angry
00:51:12.660
you're gonna feel frustrated you're gonna feel like nobody understands you that is the life you're
00:51:16.720
choosing that is the life you're choosing okay it's just part of it so remember if you get far enough
00:51:23.980
down the road you'll get to a point where other people are on the same alignment as you and they
00:51:29.160
will help you push forward those motherfuckers are your fucking homies the people who actually
00:51:34.760
help you the people who actually push you forward the people who actually give a fuck what it is that
00:51:39.900
you're doing or not doing not the people who say oh man meet me at fucking happy hour on wednesday bro
00:51:45.420
tony's has two dollar fucking beers it's sweet you know for your whole life till you're 75 years old
00:51:51.680
fuck that bro they don't have life and those ain't your homies
00:51:55.440
guys yeah you have a small follow-up yeah about the visual visualization stuff that you were talking
00:52:04.640
about a few days ago on your instagram story you showed some pictures from 2010 where you were
00:52:11.460
visualizing about your cars and your garage the question that i have that video i made the video
00:52:16.680
that was super popular that is a reason that is a reason why i'm asking this question because i feel
00:52:22.140
like if i'm thinking like this partly a lot of people would be thinking like that when you are at
00:52:26.800
that stage in your words you were struggling financially and you're constantly thinking about
00:52:32.400
paying your bills and quote unquote you're in a mindset of lack and you're still trying to visualize
00:52:38.960
that abundant life and you're still worrying about paying your bills how do you how do you balance that
00:52:45.180
by doing the work every single day to get better so like dude this is why i'm so big on the power
00:52:50.700
list and why i'm so big on 75 hard and live hard lifestyle because if you did everything that you
00:52:56.240
could do today and you did everything that you could do let's say tomorrow and you did that for
00:53:00.900
enough days in a row you're gonna have the inner peace to understand look i'm doing what i can do i
00:53:07.200
couldn't be doing anymore all right and that frees you up from the anxiety of having what you your
00:53:12.200
financial situation now to allow you to see ahead because now you're allowed to give yourself the
00:53:17.600
credit that says okay i'm doing everything that i can this is a great fucking question bro because a
00:53:23.360
lot of people get hung up on this internal feeling that you're talking about and they make it makes
00:53:28.100
them feel like it's impossible yes the way to fucking move past that feeling of lack that you're
00:53:32.900
talking about is to make sure that you're executing uh on a win the day basis at a very high level for
00:53:39.980
enough time that where you know and you can say to yourself honestly with no bullshit no lies no
00:53:45.240
justification hey i couldn't be fucking doing anymore you know this is why this is very important
00:53:50.760
yeah very important because we try to fall on either extremes either we are like constantly stressed the
00:53:57.220
hell out of our mind about our bills yeah or either we are like two in the daydreaming world we are
00:54:02.560
thinking too much and we know in our heart like you said you can't say to your heart that it's really
00:54:07.300
possible well this is why the work comes before to believe that's right you see what i'm saying
00:54:11.340
that's right so you have to be doing the work to free your inner dialogue to actually believe that
00:54:17.680
you are moving this way so like if you're not doing the work right and you're sitting around and
00:54:22.060
you're being a lazy fuck like a lot of people do right a lot of people read the book the secret
00:54:26.280
and they're like oh fuck all i gotta do is visualize this shit and the fucking it's gonna happen
00:54:29.960
cool i don't have to do shit and they take it the wrong way and what you have to realize is that
00:54:37.300
you cannot just visualize being a lazy person because visualization only works when you have
00:54:43.640
belief that's why you said 50 50 yes so visualize it's important what i'm saying here visualization
00:54:48.780
you're dreaming only works when you have belief and the only way that you can have belief is that you
00:54:55.400
if you've been doing the work and you can tell yourself in an honest way yes i'm struggling now but
00:55:00.440
i'm doing every single fucking thing that i can to get better and that allows you to have the true
00:55:05.800
actual belief that things are going to improve and get better and that this is a real possibility
00:55:11.540
for you and that's where the magic is that's an important super important question that you just
00:55:17.120
brought up bro super important because i personally struggle with this a lot yeah a lot of things that
00:55:22.380
i think about especially after coming into this area and this atmosphere of abundance i thought that
00:55:28.440
was never possible yeah but then you inch forward inch forward inch forward and like you said have this
00:55:32.820
belief yeah incrementally built up well i saw you cruising around that expensive tesla bro you're
00:55:38.100
doing all right well i'm driving an electric car i know your opinion on those that's okay hey you look
00:55:44.000
good in it i'm just saying i'll make it work yeah that's right so like bro i'm just saying you know
00:55:49.140
you gotta you gotta give yourself credit for the work that you are doing you're building right now
00:55:53.140
yeah you know what i'm saying and people the reason people disconnect this point is because they think
00:55:59.040
like i said that they can just imagine shit and that it's going to come true and that's not how
00:56:03.640
the fuck it works you have to actually believe the visualization you have to see it you have to smell
00:56:08.460
it you have to taste it like this person was doing and you have to make it real and the only way that
00:56:13.640
you can get yourself to a point of belief is that if you've been executing long enough to understand
00:56:18.240
that i'm doing everything i can on a day-by-day basis okay this is why i was so fucking frustrated when
00:56:23.780
i got sick with 75 hard this last time because bro i had put so much so much intent into every step of
00:56:33.260
every task of every fucking day up until day 52 when i got fucked up okay i gave it everything i had
00:56:41.140
more than i could more than i've given to any other time i went through 75 hard and the results were
00:56:47.020
showing it the reason i got i got more transformation physically in 51 days than i got in 75 days any of the
00:56:53.540
other times because i was just that much more intent uh intentful about what i was doing okay and so
00:57:02.100
that gives you the confidence when you execute day by day by day by day by day to get to a point where
00:57:08.660
you can believe what's possible that's that's a huge magical thing and i'm glad you asked the question
00:57:14.180
man because uh because that's a that's a big hangout for people people will try to visualize but in the
00:57:20.220
same in the same breath in their mind right their mind voice they're saying well that'll never happen
00:57:25.860
for you and the reason you say it's never going to happen for you is one of two reasons one you've
00:57:30.380
never been around it you've never tasted it you never touched it you never felt it two probably three
00:57:35.200
reasons two you've been surrounded by a bunch of mediocre motherfuckers your whole life have been
00:57:38.880
telling you shit that ain't true about you or three you haven't been executing all you can do and so
00:57:45.580
you you know deep down inside that if you're not executing at the highest fucking level uh that you
00:57:51.620
can't produce these results and you know that intuitively we all do we all know that you really
00:57:56.640
just can't visualize shit and magically appear but because some motherfuckers wrote a book and only told
00:58:01.660
half the story right um which was a valuable book because it opened up people's eyes to the whole law
00:58:07.720
of attraction visual visualization but it only if you watch the video or you read the book which is where a lot
00:58:13.380
of people stop you know you have to understand that the secret is like a coloring book for law of
00:58:17.360
attraction like it's very very very very fucking primitive and it's designed to get you to understand
00:58:22.420
that there's an entire world out there and if you dig deeper and dig deeper you'll understand that
00:58:27.220
there's actual quantum physical evidence to show that this is actual truth this actually works this
00:58:31.920
is scientifically proven to be true now that's a journey you need to go on on yourself but the point of
00:58:38.300
it is is that when we really understand the whole story it's not just visualization it's visualization
00:58:44.700
coupled with your execution and when you're executing for a long enough time the visualization
00:58:50.660
becomes easy to believe and that's where you got to get to that's what i'm saying absolutely that's
00:58:56.100
why it's important to fucking track your progress like the win the day method the power list that i give
00:59:00.620
the reason it's so important and this is why i like to do it in an actual physical book okay is because
00:59:08.100
you can then flip through you you can flip through the pages and actually see i won this day i won that
00:59:16.020
day i won this day i won six out of seven days this week i won seven out of seven this week i won five
00:59:22.360
out of seven this week i won seven out of seven this week and you can actually see the progress you're
00:59:28.180
making and that gives you belief which allows you to believe what it is you're trying to do it's a
00:59:32.380
huge huge dude and if i'm not wrong you use the same notebook and you just replace the pages yeah
00:59:38.280
i do years yeah we have a journal that we sell but like i don't actually use that journal it's
00:59:42.380
wonderful a lot of people sell the fuck out of it but uh i actually am a little superstitious so like
00:59:48.340
i actually use the same notebook i've always used uh which is like a little it's like this little
00:59:52.820
leather planner thing that has a zipper on it and it's kind of dorky looking but uh it works yeah i
00:59:58.120
use it because like it's worked so well so i don't i don't want to like abandon it that's
01:00:02.220
like a whole friend you know well guys maybe that was that was three yeah i'll pay the fee it was more
01:00:08.720
than three there was a little aliens and moon there was some sauce in there yeah that was some sauce
01:00:13.540
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01:00:20.140
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rule can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed