REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 501. Q&AF： Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Being Too Nice To Customers & Making First Million

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies 0.98

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00:02:30.460 as always i'm joined by my handsome co-host over here dj hello children what's going on what's going 0.95

00:02:35.320 on brother oh not much just been running around today like a fucking animal yeah this whole week bro 0.98

00:02:40.640 at least you look good doing it hey it could be worse you know i'm saying that could be ugly 0.99

00:02:44.400 that's what i'm saying that's right uh so we talked about a little bit i wanted to to see if uh you want

00:02:50.800 to talk about on the air but you've been uh you've added something into your daily regimen dude i gotta

00:02:56.760 talk about it and i am i i know i've made all right look i i'll say when i'm wrong i feel like disclaimer

00:03:02.740 i've been trying to get you to do do these things no for at least a year bullshit you've been doing 0.88

00:03:08.120 them occasionally yeah but i've been trying to get you to do it all right look so because i will

00:03:14.800 admit when i'm wrong i have to say first of all that i'm sorry for making fun of the people that

00:03:19.660 that do cold plunges on the internet i'd like to apologize to you guys because i actually started

00:03:26.220 doing it every day all right so i bought a cold plunge the actual cold plunge brand right a really nice

00:03:31.980 product we have it here at hq um definitely you know it's not required but it's it's a nice

00:03:37.940 it's a nice product yeah uh had it back on the rack in the warehouse for almost a year

00:03:42.760 no actually fucking two years oh damn i didn't know that yeah because when we how long how long 0.92

00:03:47.440 we had it here at hq about two years however long we had at hq i had one in the back for me 0.97

00:03:51.640 that i didn't i didn't ever have set up and uh so i started talking to my buddy who does it every

00:03:57.980 day and ran a big fucking company and i asked him i said well why do you why do you do it every day 0.96

00:04:04.060 like tell me tell me about it bro because this guy's this guy's a fucking this guy's a winner 0.99

00:04:07.900 like you know and like when i see people that i respect that have done amazing things and they're 0.97

00:04:12.300 winning i want to know i want to know why because everything someone like that does they do for a

00:04:16.700 reason and so i asked him i said hey bro tell me about this so he goes on to tell me he's like well

00:04:22.120 dude look and he's this guy's about 10 years older than me okay all right so uh and then sold his

00:04:26.760 company you know i don't know a few years ago but anyway he was saying well dude look you know uh 0.84

00:04:34.060 after running that company for so many years my nervous system was totally fucking destroyed 0.67

00:04:38.200 he's like you know anxiety depression fucking uh you know and this is true and any of you guys who 0.94

00:04:44.640 are in entrepreneurship you understand that it never stops it never sleeps you know this isn't the this 0.67

00:04:51.380 isn't the 1980s where you know the ceo clocks out at 4 p.m or 5 p.m and nobody can find out where he 0.99

00:04:58.120 is because there's no cell phones there's no fucking technology this shit never stops and because it 0.99

00:05:03.160 never stops it really fucks up your life in a lot of ways and you pay a big price for it and the price 0.99

00:05:08.200 you pay after doing it for 24 years is that you have ridiculous anxiety that you cannot control 1.00

00:05:13.660 uh you have low fucking serotonin dopamine meaning you're a miserable fuck all right and um you're 1.00

00:05:20.100 frustrated all the time and you hate people all the time and that's pretty much where i was at 1.00

00:05:23.800 and he's he was telling me he was telling me this shit and i'm like well fuck i know what that's like 0.99

00:05:28.460 yeah and um and he's like but here's the thing he's like when you get into this cold plunge 0.99

00:05:33.740 that cold temperature uh starts to reprogram your nervous system we had to talk about it

00:05:39.580 and a lot of it has to do with your vagus nerve that's in the in your in your body when you put

00:05:44.820 cold you apply cold to it it actually helps increase uh you know all the good hormones the

00:05:50.440 dopamine levels 200 and all these different things that make you feel good so anyway so he's like bro

00:05:56.300 it fucking changed my whole life he's like if i had you know if i had done this before i you know 0.99

00:06:02.560 maybe i would have felt differently right not sold a company so um you know i'm like fuck it well i'll 0.99

00:06:10.800 fucking try it right the first day and i've done these before right but i haven't done them 0.87

00:06:14.420 committed like meaning every single day right and you know when i've done them before those i felt 0.97

00:06:20.060 fucking great the first time i ever did one i did one with uh dave sparks it was my 40th birthday 0.79

00:06:24.820 except they were all in town for my it was like a bunch of people it was dave uh rob bailey like 0.88

00:06:31.520 uh a bunch of my buddies just from you know just my actual buddies in real life were at my house for 0.90

00:06:37.100 my 40th and we ended up getting fucking shit face the night before the actual party okay right so like 0.93

00:06:43.060 i was super fucked up like i was super like not at the party the day before the day before the party we 0.99

00:06:48.400 had the fucking party pre-party yeah pre-game all right so the pre-party you know fuck i'm 40 now 1.00

00:06:53.760 right i fucking why me to fuck out so no spring chicken dude i swear to god i don't you're the 1.00

00:06:59.040 second person to say that to me today what spring chicken yes fuck you i'll tell you who the other 1.00

00:07:05.420 one is you laugh but i'm gonna say it on the air well i bet the other one definitely no spring chicken 0.99

00:07:09.340 uh no he's the same age as me every single person on listening to the show knows who he is 0.89

00:07:14.120 every single one so anyhow um he's like yeah it changed my life so i fucking i said all right well 0.97

00:07:21.300 look i've done i've done the therapy that was bullshit dude like it's hard to really get therapy 0.99

00:07:27.580 from someone who has no fucking idea what it is you're going through it has never experienced even 0.99

00:07:32.980 one day of it right so like that was bullshit i fucking stopped that i was like yeah okay yeah 1.00

00:07:37.300 you're you're shut the fuck up you know i get what this is going you're gonna keep seeing me 0.99

00:07:41.480 right i'm never going to get better and you just want to keep telling me how the fuck i feel right 1.00

00:07:45.000 exactly yeah it's a fucking 380 billion dollar industry of bullshit yeah all right um so i tried 1.00

00:07:50.980 at least for people like me okay so try that shit didn't work try fucking antidepressants totally 1.00

00:07:56.520 fucked me up i was on them for 11 years fucked up everything in my fucking life made me not feel 1.00

00:08:01.060 any happiness made me fucking uh you know i didn't i wasn't as depressed just numb i just numbed 1.00

00:08:05.700 everything which actually may have served me over the last decade and what i did with business okay 0.95

00:08:10.400 um because you kind of have to be that way to do it uh you know i've made a lot of progress

00:08:18.100 with my mental health the last four or five years with the live hard program that's worked very well

00:08:23.360 but the the anxiety part and the dopamine part like i still wasn't ever feeling normal i felt like i was

00:08:29.680 just not feeling um like a normal human being it's just hard to explain unless you're in this spot

00:08:36.420 and and what i think happened was i've been dealing with so much stress for so fucking long 0.93

00:08:41.020 that my nervous system completely it was just not working at all and so i i started reading about some 0.99

00:08:46.900 of the stuff he was telling me about with the cold therapy and shit and i'm like fuck it i'll fucking try 0.98

00:08:50.460 it all right so i tried it uh today was my sixth day okay all right sixth day in a row i cannot 0.99

00:08:59.560 overstate how much better i feel mentally meaning yes i feel good physically yes it's helped me

00:09:10.040 recover yeah like it's mental toughness shit right like yeah i'm like when i get out of the 0.99

00:09:14.820 motherfucker i'm like yeah these fucking guys ain't doing that shit okay i get it there's an aspect 0.99

00:09:19.400 yeah i love it and i do it first thing in the morning right out of bed um but the 1.00

00:09:26.380 whatever's happening with that vagus nerve inside my body has made me for the last took about three

00:09:34.940 days to really feel anything like it but now i almost feel like fucking normal like i didn't go 0.94

00:09:39.660 through any of that stress for the last fucking 24 years like i almost feel like i felt before i got 0.94

00:09:45.280 into business and that's gonna make me really fucking dangerous in business yeah you know i'm saying 0.97

00:09:50.280 because like now i'm i'm going to run everybody the fuck over yeah um and i feel good right uh 0.83

00:09:57.340 so anyway the point in bringing this up or you know in saying this is like dude i think that for 0.94

00:10:06.780 people that suffer from anxiety and depression before you go try any of this other shit start doing 0.92

00:10:13.540 cold immersion therapy for fucking three minutes a day first thing in the morning try it for you know 0.97

00:10:19.380 and i i was told and i don't know this because i'm only on day six but i was told that it takes 0.95

00:10:23.300 about three weeks for you to really feel the benefits of it in this regard but i can tell you

00:10:28.700 after six days i fucking already get it so if i continue to get better over the next three weeks 0.97

00:10:32.420 fuck that's that's gravy for me because i feel fucking great right now yeah so if you're suffering 0.98

00:10:38.380 from this this stuff if this is something that you consistently deal with like i dealt with this 1.00

00:10:42.960 for a long long long time okay it doesn't matter what it's from it could be ptsd it could be you

00:10:50.180 know overload of long-term you know chronic stress etc etc etc if you're suffering with these things 0.97

00:10:56.080 try this try this out that's all i'm saying like try try getting in a fucking cold plunge every single 0.96

00:11:03.500 day first thing in the morning however you got to do it if your gym has one or you know somebody who 0.99

00:11:07.800 has one or if you even got to just go get a bucket must i've seen people take the fucking beer and 0.98

00:11:11.940 that's fine whiskey barrels yeah the barrel that there's that company that makes those barrels 0.88

00:11:16.380 there's cold plunge company there's a number of different options i will say that i use the cold 0.86

00:11:20.960 plunge company one i think it's a fucking it's an amazing product it looks good huh not mad yeah it's 0.99

00:11:26.760 not no this is really not it's real shit yeah like the i i well the dude those are big boy big 0.99

00:11:32.980 boy approved too man because yeah you feel like i'm yeah i'm i'm a big motherfucker yeah i think 0.99

00:11:38.100 they might make extra different sizes of those i'm not sure but they're like five grand you know 0.90

00:11:43.980 and it's a big investment so like but i'm telling you dude like that five grand is probably the best

00:11:50.200 five grand i ever fucking spent my whole life after just six days so there's a free plug for for cold 0.92

00:11:56.120 plunge i know i said no ads but like here's the deal and they're not paying me this is just real 0.99

00:12:00.260 shit right um they give me a free tank they didn't you know there was no fuck it was none of that 0.98

00:12:04.960 and however you decide to do it like i got guys here that use uh like those big plastic containers 0.99

00:12:10.920 and they fill it with ice same thing however you got to do it yeah you got to make sure that you get 0.95

00:12:15.020 in all the way to your fucking to where the back of your neck is in the water for and what i'm doing 0.99

00:12:19.260 for three minutes and i'd be curious to hear from you guys after trying it you guys who are really 0.98

00:12:25.840 like and this is not i'm not saying it'll fucking cure you i'm not saying it's the i'm not saying 0.99

00:12:30.920 stop doing whatever else you're doing i'm just explaining to you that out of all the things i've 0.91

00:12:35.740 tried and done there's been not even a nothing comparable to the amount of benefit that i get 0.73

00:12:41.820 for such a small commitment of time and i i'm sold on it i'll probably never fucking ever like i probably 0.94

00:12:49.600 never go a day in my life without doing it i'll ever ask you that that's gonna be the tough part how 0.99

00:12:53.580 the hell do we do that when we go travel well motherfucker we're gonna be filling that bathtub 1.00

00:12:56.940 with ice i'll never not do it because of how good i fucking feel and another thing is i'm sleeping 0.99

00:13:02.260 now yeah like i haven't slept in 20 years dude people think i'm full of shit like i sleep i sleep 0.98

00:13:06.960 one two hours a day for the last 20 years so you're saying by doing it in the morning and then you go 0.94

00:13:11.360 your whole day i know your normal work schedule you're sleeping better at night even just from those

00:13:15.260 three minutes in the morning yeah absolutely wow and then also another thing that's because like

00:13:19.380 after i do it i get in the shower so i don't get in the shower hot either i go take a cold shower and

00:13:24.860 i turn the water fully on cold but dude because the water in the plunge is so cold and actually you

00:13:30.640 can't tell that the water in the shower is cold so you're actually getting a little bit more cold

00:13:34.640 immersion that you would so it's like a bonus and like dude if you take like 30 minutes showers 0.98

00:13:39.320 probably don't want to do that but i'm like real low maintenance bro i get the fucking i get the 0.99

00:13:43.320 critical parts i get the fuck out you know so i'm in there i'm in there for three or four 0.99

00:13:47.240 minutes with small crevices yeah right right like i'm doing my butt you know i'm fucking doing my 0.99

00:13:51.800 underarms with the loofah get my wiener you know i'm getting the fuck out you know so like uh you 1.00

00:13:57.580 know i might i might you know put some shampoo in my hair or whatever but like i'm fucking it's quick 0.99

00:14:01.920 um but i'm telling you dude like real talk and i i can't you guys have been listening to me for 0.90

00:14:07.200 almost a decade all right we've been on audio platforms for almost a decade killing it you've never

00:14:11.920 heard me fucking plug something like that before ever never done it well i'm excited to see yeah 0.91

00:14:18.600 well almost one week down so we'll see what we're at in two weeks yeah it doesn't matter like if you 0.98

00:14:23.760 don't have the five grain so that's expensive i will tell you if you do have the five grand i will 0.94

00:14:27.360 say i truly that product is a great fucking product it looks good it doesn't like you know 0.98

00:14:32.600 i don't want shit that looks bad i don't want to look weird it looks nice you know i'm saying 0.98

00:14:36.620 itself it's like right it's easy yeah so yeah dude i'm um well that's good man yeah and i think 0.97

00:14:43.200 that if you can't do the cold plunge i would highly encourage you to use ice therapy on the back of

00:14:48.220 your neck for like at least three minutes every single morning when you wake up first thing try

00:14:53.020 that because dude i'm telling you there's something to that vegas nerve um i know huberman's talked 0.99

00:14:58.420 about it a few times i haven't really you know i can't really watch anybody else's shit because i'm too 0.77

00:15:02.180 busy running my business and then making this uh but a lot of my friends and dr gabriel 0.95

00:15:06.600 told me uh about you know the benefits of this shit but like bro i don't think they recommend 0.95

00:15:11.880 it not saying they don't recommend like they human and dr gabriel do but i'm saying i think this is a 0.98

00:15:17.480 known thing that they don't talk about or tell people about because it's so cheap and easy that

00:15:22.060 they can't make money about it i think it's another one of those things because i'm telling you dude it 0.94

00:15:25.900 made every other thing i ever fucking tried a joke yeah including weed including fucking like any drug 0.98

00:15:33.700 including anything it's not comparable and i think everybody in this building this week would 0.99

00:15:38.400 say man what the fuck is going on with andy well i don't know i'm getting some fucking dope mean for 0.99

00:15:42.140 the first time in 20 fucking years you know my my fucking brain i don't want to fucking blow my 1.00

00:15:46.640 brains out every single second of the fucking day i mean even thinking about like this i mean 0.99

00:15:50.900 i think i was a lot worse bro i think my body was in a lot worse shape than i actually realized it was 0.93

00:15:56.920 after feeling how i feel now i had forgotten i had forgotten that people feel this way 0.97

00:16:03.780 that's how good i feel like i i fuck i'm like fuck dude i forgot what this feels like 0.99

00:16:08.380 that's how long it's been it's deep yeah it's deep yeah i mean just adding on to the part of like you 0.99

00:16:15.740 know why they wouldn't want people like this is not advertised because could you imagine you know

00:16:21.740 half the american population walking around with no anxiety and happy and full of you know i'm saying

00:16:26.420 could you imagine how much more productive are you gonna be that's why i said dude like when i say run 0.99

00:16:30.100 you over i don't mean you i'm just saying whatever comes my way yeah like i'm gonna fucking dude 0.99

00:16:35.340 whatever i'm doing a week ago is now getting done by fucking 10 o'clock a.m and i'm killing it 1.00

00:16:41.960 it's a superpower bro i'm just telling you dude yeah if you're a fucking if you're a fucking military guy 1.00

00:16:48.160 who has the ptsd who maybe you went through an injury or you witnessed some shit or whatever 0.99

00:16:52.660 dude at least give it a try try for three weeks try for i'm committing to a minimum of three weeks i 0.97

00:16:58.880 don't think even after what i've seen for six days i don't think there's a single fucking day i could 0.95

00:17:03.800 miss that's how important it's become to me already damn man well like i said well we'll check in with 0.96

00:17:09.480 you in about two weeks yeah i'm excited for you i'm just listen i'm just telling the truth like 0.99

00:17:13.680 yeah you know that's real shit i hope i hope those cold plunge guys make a whole bunch of money 0.75

00:17:18.300 off of this because it will help a lot of people yeah that's real yeah that's real well we we can 0.98

00:17:23.560 help some people today yeah we're gonna that's what we do here q a man and i got some good ones for

00:17:28.980 you so let's uh let's dive into these um andy question number one uh andy i struggle with imposter

00:17:35.920 syndrome uh in the past 12 months of my business everything is on the upswing on the outside everyone

00:17:42.280 views me as uh quote becoming successful and the numbers support that but i internally uh but

00:17:50.260 internally i struggle with the feelings of whether i'm doing the things right uh whether i'm doing

00:17:56.000 enough and i question everything that i'm filled uh and i'm filled with anxiety and doubt when you

00:18:01.960 were building your businesses did you struggle with this and uh and if you did how'd you overcome it

00:18:06.700 i still struggle with it yeah i still struggle with it every single day every single you know this

00:18:11.980 i come in here every day i'm like why do these people listen to me why why do people care what

00:18:16.400 i have to say and like bro it should be obvious like when i sit back and i like look at it logically 0.50

00:18:20.700 just like this person i'm like oh well yeah that makes sense like i've done some real shit and at a 0.71

00:18:26.740 large scale and a whole bunch of different things i built multiple companies i created maybe the most 0.52

00:18:30.740 popular fitness program that's ever fucking existed mental mental toughness program it's ever first 0.89

00:18:35.480 you know like i've done a lot of things like and so like then when i look at it logically i'm like oh 0.65

00:18:40.340 okay this makes sense um but you know i still on the inside i'm just a normal person and i think

00:18:48.620 that's where it is that's the truth like like whoever it is that you look at from the outside

00:18:53.880 you have to remember they're still a normal person on the inside and this is why i hate internet culture

00:18:58.880 so much and how brutal it is to some people because dude like a lot of those people that you guys think

00:19:02.980 it's okay just to tear down because they're a big name and they should be able to handle it those

00:19:07.300 are just normal people just like you dude like what if the whole world was coming down on you

00:19:11.080 you know what i'm saying like we didn't have more grace for each other in that regard but i think you

00:19:15.680 know uh the imposter syndrome is something that like if most people are being honest they struggle

00:19:19.960 with a little bit from time to time at a bare minimum um but i know in those times like what i do

00:19:26.160 is i i actually remove myself from me and pretend like i'm observing me and would i find myself credible 0.97

00:19:32.800 if i were observing me from the outside and the answer is always fuck yeah you know what i'm saying 0.63

00:19:37.100 and in fact like and i'm just being real i don't know a whole lot of people that i would listen to 0.99

00:19:41.020 more than that yeah because of the the you know the fucking results produced the pudding baby yeah 0.90

00:19:45.620 that's it and like that's why i stress for you guys to follow people who have actually produced real 0.96

00:19:49.680 results because a lot of people are now think about the imposter syndrome of the people who are

00:19:53.620 pretending to have produced shit that haven't right like those people are the most insecure which is why 0.98

00:19:58.080 you see them lose their motherfucking minds on social media all the time yeah right so um there's 0.99

00:20:04.240 a book i read a long time ago that i thought was good uh on this topic it's called you are a badass by 0.96

00:20:10.040 a woman named jen sincero uh i thought that was a really good book um on this exact topic and it's much

00:20:16.500 more in depth than what i can answer here but i thought that was helpful for me at the time i probably

00:20:20.160 read that book 10 years ago um but you know i think this is a natural progression dude and i don't think

00:20:26.860 you're abnormal for for for feeling that way and i also think that it it's okay to feel that way too

00:20:33.200 because those feelings actually keep us humble right would you want to be someone who just believed 0.99

00:20:37.620 all your own fucking positive press clippings and think you're the fucking you'd become the biggest 0.99

00:20:41.740 egotistical fuckhead on the world so a lot of that imposter syndrome if we use it properly serves us 0.99

00:20:47.320 very well because it keeps us humble and keeps us hungry because when we're humble and we're hungry 0.98

00:20:52.500 uh you know we can progress but like a lot of people again they they mistake humility they think

00:20:58.380 humility is not say anything not do anything not be anything and just shut up and go live a small

00:21:03.060 life and you know be happy with what you have be happy with your porridge peasant like right that's

00:21:08.620 what they think humility is and humility isn't that dude humility is recognizing that i am no better

00:21:14.340 than uh the person who has to you know take out the trash uh and i am no less than the person who

00:21:23.040 is worth a hundred billion dollars and we start to recognize that we are all still human beings

00:21:28.960 and we have capabilities and uh it's not that you know we think less of other people it's that we

00:21:35.340 actually think more of the people behind us and so we find a good baseline of humility there you know

00:21:40.580 what i'm saying yeah absolutely man absolutely so like that when you're humble like that and you

00:21:44.980 understand that okay you're not as good as you as you are at the best you've ever been but you're also 0.96

00:21:51.680 not shit when people tell you you're shit that gives you a good baseline for self-confidence and 0.91

00:21:56.060 self-esteem right so like these all things all these things intertwine man and it's uh it's interesting 0.99

00:22:02.220 how people see it but i think the imposter syndrome thing is a normal a normal i think of most

00:22:07.520 entrepreneurs who have any sort of success or following or or financial financial growth or

00:22:14.180 they own anything i think if you ask them dude like and you got them to be real they're all going

00:22:18.440 to struggle with that i haven't really met anybody that doesn't yeah so is it safe to say like even

00:22:24.600 going off of the intro conversation things like anxiety uh things like imposter syndrome right while

00:22:30.100 most people will look at these things as signs that okay it's time to quit this isn't for me

00:22:34.460 those are actually the common denominators of what it takes to become successful he's just looking at

00:22:40.000 it the wrong way and maybe not dealing with it appropriately yeah i think the way to leverage it

00:22:44.240 for yourself is to say okay i'm feeling low about myself right now um things seem to be good but i do

00:22:50.880 have work to do and then go do that work and just do it yeah yeah i want to touch back on what i said

00:22:55.320 about humility you know like people misunderstand humility they think a lot of people think that it's

00:23:00.400 you know you have to think of less of yourself but you can also be humble and think more of others

00:23:06.320 you see what i'm saying yeah people try to remove themselves from the spotlight does that make sense 0.97

00:23:11.420 because like bro when i look at other motherfuckers the whole my whole thing is is i look at people 0.96

00:23:15.820 and i'm like bro you're capable of so much more and that's not that's not me thinking i'm better than 0.99

00:23:20.600 you that's i'm saying you're underliving your potential there's nothing egotistical or arrogant

00:23:25.420 about that that's how that's humility because what i'm saying is i see the same things i have

00:23:31.540 in you and you're just not capitalizing on them and i'm trying to raise you up you see what i'm

00:23:35.780 saying absolutely so a lot of times people will judge people as not humble because they're you know

00:23:40.920 they love themselves real talk like i'm proud of who the fuck i am i'm proud of what i am i'm proud 0.74

00:23:45.800 of what i've done at the same time i think any of you listening are capable of doing what i've done 0.95

00:23:49.920 you see what i'm saying there's nothing not humble about that yeah absolutely man humble is a funny

00:23:57.020 thing bro yeah most people use it as an excuse to attack other people you know yeah because of

00:24:02.800 their own inability that's right yeah well and like bro there's people that you know there's people on

00:24:06.980 the internet talk about humility all the time bro and then you go to their page and every single 0.99

00:24:10.700 fucking post of theirs is you know them with no shirt on or that or all their material shit or 0.98

00:24:15.980 whatever and it's like look man like you're not fooling nobody you know i'm saying like being 0.99

00:24:21.840 humble is really it's really a a value of service and a perspective that you see other people as as

00:24:29.320 as the same as you and and how could i how could i honestly dedicate my entire life to helping other

00:24:38.440 people win if i wasn't humble enough to realize that the people i'm trying to help win have the same 0.97

00:24:43.720 qualities i have right you see what i'm saying right so it doesn't matter how many fucks i use 0.98

00:24:48.300 or how my tone is or how many fucking nice ass cars i have i still know that i'm no better than 0.99

00:24:53.800 anybody listening and i know that every motherfucker listening to this show right now you right now have 0.99

00:24:58.380 every bit of capability that i had the exact same you just got to fucking execute me andy question 0.99

00:25:04.820 number two andy uh andy i'm a big time listener from switzerland my boss thinks i'm too good 0.94

00:25:12.840 natured towards customers i often hear at work or in private life that i'm very nice and helpful

00:25:19.020 and almost too well behaved i think that there are enough dickheads in the world why should i become 0.98

00:25:25.040 one too but on the other hand i see how guys that are assholes overtake me occupy high positions 0.98

00:25:31.300 and seem to get what they want in life my wife says i shouldn't change but i'm starting to doubt 0.97

00:25:36.400 my niceness what would you advise me to do um i would advise you to look at the situation as a

00:25:43.200 realist what you're doing is you're confusing two different things as one thing you are looking at

00:25:48.700 people who have achieved more than you and you are saying the reason they have achieved more than you 0.98

00:25:52.300 is because they're an asshole that is not why they have achieved more than you the reason they have 0.97

00:25:56.020 achieved more than you is because they are probably higher skilled but they also have something that 1.00

00:26:00.020 you don't have which you need to develop which is the ability to stand up for yourself when the time

00:26:04.360 comes okay you can be the nicest person in the world you can give people the shirt off your back

00:26:09.320 you can help people as much as possible and when you become that nice person you also become a target

00:26:15.480 for high level manipulative people who will walk all over you and if you don't have a strong boundary 0.99

00:26:20.600 that you are willing to say hey listen i'm a nice guy but don't fuck with me okay if you don't 0.98

00:26:26.260 have that ability in you you're going to get walked all over so you have to develop a little bit 0.99

00:26:31.720 of an edge there bro you have to learn where your boundary is of people um not walking all over 0.99

00:26:37.700 you and you also have to identify that the difference between you and the quote-unquote asshole 0.99

00:26:42.340 probably isn't that they're an asshole it's probably that they have a boundary that you think 0.99

00:26:46.840 is being mean when in reality it's a necessary skill that you must have to occupy the position and continue 0.99

00:26:53.440 to move up the scale so you have to look at setting a boundary as a skill set and and keep the

00:26:59.320 niceness don't lose the good nature ship bro the world needs more of that than than it's ever needed

00:27:03.880 before ever both can exist yeah and both can exist and they are not they are not uh you know two 0.63

00:27:09.740 different things they can be the same fucking thing but you're seeing it the wrong way that's why you 0.53

00:27:14.760 think it's the you can't have this you people think like binary right i can only be if i'm nice i can 0.99

00:27:20.600 never be mean right that's not true right i'm nice as fuck bro but i'm gonna tell you if you step on 0.95

00:27:25.620 my toes i'm gonna stomp on yours every single time every single time and that's that's what's 0.96

00:27:30.820 allowed me to continue to progress because while i am nice generous and will help you people start

00:27:37.120 to respect me because they know okay let's not take advantage of that because we know bad things

00:27:42.080 won't occur right right i heard that one time they got you know step on his toes yeah right exactly 0.96

00:27:47.040 you make an example of a few of those people they stop fucking with you okay jordan peterson talks about 0.99

00:27:51.320 this when he talks about everybody should become a fucking monster and then learn to control it 1.00

00:27:56.500 all right so that's what that is like i will tear your motherfucking head off dude and everybody 1.00

00:28:02.580 fucking knows it but here's the thing i don't go there i don't go i have the capacity to go there 0.99

00:28:08.060 but i don't fucking go there i will i will let in fact i will let people have as much grace as possible 0.99

00:28:14.720 because i know once that line is crossed it it's it's not good it's a monster that's right and so like 0.91

00:28:20.180 dude what you need to work on and what all of you need to work on who are nice good people

00:28:23.820 is developing that ability to just say no and that's that's the boundary it's the boundary of

00:28:30.540 saying no when you mean no right no is a powerful statement and it's also a complete sentence and it 0.92

00:28:36.020 requires no explanation i do not need to explain to you why the answer is fucking no the answer is 0.99

00:28:42.100 fucking no no oh well why not because i said so well why not because i feel like it why not i don't 0.96

00:28:48.560 because it doesn't matter it's no and we all have the right to be that way and in society bro we've 0.98

00:28:54.340 lost that skill set of saying no because it's been deemed impolite or or or mean it's not mean it's

00:29:02.260 simple communication like and change your perspective from it being a mean thing setting

00:29:07.660 a boundary and just understand it's simple communication it's very simple like no i'm not 0.98

00:29:13.200 doing that or no i'm not or hey uh that was bullshit like start to fucking tell people whenever 0.97

00:29:20.080 they cross over that line and people will start to learn where the line is if you don't let them 0.99

00:29:24.460 know if people don't know where the line is bro then then they will they will walk as far until that

00:29:30.520 line exists and if that line doesn't exist i'll walk right over you or even worse you just keep

00:29:34.400 redrawing the line after it gets crossed yeah you know i'm saying that's a downward spiral yeah and

00:29:39.580 it's you know it's um it's a it's a weird thing like dude i don't think i don't think that there's

00:29:46.120 anything wrong with being kind or nice or any of those things and i think a lot of times people

00:29:50.800 like even for me i think people misperceive me and misunderstand me a lot of times like they hear

00:29:56.400 me get fired up or passionate about something i care about or that because i use profanity in the

00:30:02.220 most artistic way possible okay and got a gold fucking medal for how good i use it yeah all right 0.91

00:30:07.740 um they think i'm a mean person right i'm not a mean person or ask anybody here if i'm a mean guy 0.95

00:30:13.920 or ask anybody spending time with me if i'm mean no i'm the probably one of the best fucking people 0.96

00:30:18.100 when it comes to helping people lifting people up doing good things in the world that fucking exist 0.97

00:30:22.140 the difference is is that if you step on my toes there's a fucking line there that i that i hold 0.93

00:30:27.300 very firmly and so like if you could develop that i think that's a great balance i think that's a 0.95

00:30:32.360 great way to be because that line gets crossed so so infrequently that in reality and then you know

00:30:38.120 once people know it's there they stop crossing it and then you can live a nice peaceful life and

00:30:42.500 everybody's happy everybody gets treated with respect you get to help people they get to they get to

00:30:47.220 receive your help it's that's how the world goes around we as a culture and humanity have just lost

00:30:53.920 the ability to be a uh confrontational in any sort of way um up it up to and including just saying no

00:31:03.440 yeah that's because it's all online now yeah but like 100 years ago i mean do you ever notice do you

00:31:09.600 ever notice like this is something that i see online a lot that i wish people would realize like do you

00:31:14.520 ever notice how many people over explain themselves like do you ever notice how people will like whatever

00:31:21.640 they're posting or whatever they're saying online they have to like explain it sort of like you know

00:31:26.440 like they'll post a picture of their other car right and they're like i usually don't post this picture

00:31:31.300 of cars but blah blah blah blah blah or um they'll post a picture of the physique they built and they're 0.97

00:31:36.880 like well you know i usually don't post these selfies bro just fucking do it like stop explaining 0.95

00:31:44.000 yourself the the explanation that you're like preemptively trying to put in is is is diluting the 0.99

00:31:50.400 respect that people would have for you if you just owned who the fuck you were right and you just 1.00

00:31:54.500 say hey man fuck my fucking car is cool i think it's cool i hope you like it yeah right right like 1.00

00:31:59.460 just own who the fuck you know it's okay i'm proud of who the fuck i am i'm proud of my physique 1.00

00:32:05.000 you don't have to say shit post your shit and fucking you know like dude stop over explaining like 1.00

00:32:11.200 stop stop all this shit bro like you don't need you don't owe people an explanation you really don't 1.00

00:32:17.040 like and and dude when you over explain it lowers your value in people's eyes because people inherently 0.99

00:32:22.700 feel that on the inside they're like this doesn't feel right like it doesn't there's it doesn't pass

00:32:27.720 the smell test you know what i mean of confidence so like a lot like dude you know own who you are 0.98

00:32:34.580 man you're a fucking nice dude but don't fuck with me you know i'm saying i'll do anything for you but 1.00

00:32:39.660 don't fuck with me i'll i'll fucking i'll fucking come to your house i'll wash your car i'll fucking 1.00

00:32:44.520 mow your lawn don't fuck with me there's nothing wrong with that that's that's how we have to be 1.00

00:32:50.100 bro otherwise people will walk all over your whole life you know and and and you and and if you set 1.00

00:32:55.700 that standard and once you teach people how to behave and operate with you right now you have you 0.90

00:33:02.440 can go live your whole life being happy and peaceful and fun and jolly and all the shit that 0.98

00:33:06.060 you like to be and still be fucking successful and productive and win because you cannot win 0.99

00:33:10.860 without the ability to say no you can't fucking win that way can't do it can't do it bro i would 0.99

00:33:16.760 never promote someone in my company to a leadership position that didn't have how could i fucking put 0.99

00:33:22.320 someone in a leadership position think about this that couldn't fucking tell people no can't hold a 1.00

00:33:27.780 line yeah it's a fundamental reality skill that you have to have to be successful so like that shit 1.00

00:33:33.540 that you're perceiving as guys being asshole is just their boundary most likely and they're probably 0.99

00:33:37.740 skilled you know maybe they're not as nice as you but the world doesn't work on the fucking nice 0.98

00:33:43.060 rating bro the world works on the effectiveness rating what kind of results do you produce did the 0.99

00:33:47.660 job get done the reality is that it works so much that way that you have to be a total fucking 1.00

00:33:55.580 cocksucker to fuck it up if you're a high producing individual that's real it's real talk like you have 1.00

00:34:01.860 to be a terrible human to fuck it up if you're a high producing individual you have to the world 1.00

00:34:06.520 your guys's perception the world's perception of how it really works has been distorted and been 0.97

00:34:13.120 built to think that it's around your feelings and it's right it's still not that way it'll never be

00:34:18.040 that way it's still a meritocracy and so many people are playing by this other set of rules on 0.57

00:34:23.540 fucking feelings now that they're getting a rude awakening this is what i talked about on the mfceo 0.93

00:34:28.520 project for so long i talked about how these kids would come through life never being told no 0.99

00:34:34.320 getting participation trophies being told it was going to be easy being told they're entitled to 0.98

00:34:39.840 other people's wealth being told that socialism's a great thing being told all this shit right and 0.99

00:34:45.600 they believed it they're like fuck yeah okay well by the time i'm 25 dude i'll be i'll be getting 0.99

00:34:49.980 everybody's shit so i'll be good and now here they are they're unemployable they're throwing public 1.00

00:34:55.080 temper tantrums they're they fucking broke they're fucking miserable and then instead of saying man i 1.00

00:35:00.800 fucking made a mistake they're saying uh i'm choosing to be broken miserable that's my life 1.00

00:35:06.240 choice i'm humble i'm humble i'm simple i'm living a minimal minimalist life minimalist life you see i'm 0.99

00:35:13.420 saying like dude we're we're hold on let me take a sip of my ipa here yeah right like bro like like so 0.87

00:35:21.400 like i can very clearly see that you guys are not fucking happy and and i wish you guys would just 0.97

00:35:26.340 come to terms with you were sold a bag of shit for for the truth and the truth is skills pay the 0.99

00:35:31.600 fucking bills and it's going to be that way today it's going to be that way tomorrow it was this way 1.00

00:35:36.680 10 years ago it was this way 40 years ago it was this way a thousand years ago and it's going to be 0.99

00:35:41.100 that way a thousand years from now so the quicker that you can start to realize that this idealistic 0.99

00:35:46.320 fucking nonsense that they have pumped into people's brains that things operate on people's 0.99

00:35:50.960 feelings and start to operate with the understanding that it operates on results produced and skill sets 1.00

00:35:57.000 obtained and executed uh and leveraged to build and winning you'll start to win but you cannot

00:36:04.300 that's like playing that's like me and you sitting down for a game of chess and me starting to play

00:36:09.400 checkers on the board yeah right ain't gonna work i hate the game and like dude it's that simple like 0.92

00:36:14.200 it just isn't the game feelings aren't the game results produced are the game that is fucking it and 0.98

00:36:19.940 it'll always be that way and and you can be you have to be you can be as nice as fucking humanly 0.74

00:36:26.980 possible bro and if you don't understand the skills and you have no skills you can't win cannot 0.65

00:36:31.740 fucking win nice is not like a skill set in that regard you have to be able to produce now it's always 0.82

00:36:37.560 better if you're a fucking producer and a nice person that brings other people with you that's a 0.99

00:36:41.960 great way to be i think that's the way the world should be but this confusion that people generally 0.98

00:36:47.880 have about feelings and niceness and these things paying the bills is not accurate it's not true

00:36:55.020 it's not a real thing it's it's like okay you know this is like this is like the nice this is like the 0.99

00:37:01.760 nice guy uh with girls right like girls always talk about this shit they're like you know the fucking 1.00

00:37:08.380 guy friend with girls who's nice as shit brings them flowers this that the other and she doesn't want 1.00

00:37:14.220 to date him but he'll still fucking treat her like all this shit and then he ends up getting fucking 1.00

00:37:18.280 furious that she won't fuck him well here's the deal bro um you you feel entitled to her doing that 1.00

00:37:26.820 because you're doing this and this is no different than people who are nice in business oh i'm the 0.99

00:37:31.840 nicest guy ever i deserve to be rewarded that's your that's not even really genuinely nice that's

00:37:36.600 manipulation you you think that because you're nice you're you're here to produce you're gonna you're 1.00

00:37:41.940 entitled to some sort of success or result and that's not reality reality is you produce fucking 0.99

00:37:47.660 results with the skills you have and your personality is a plus or a minus to that like 0.95

00:37:53.040 the the whole game is misunderstood by an entire generation of people and that gives the people

00:37:58.300 who understand that a massive advantage over everybody else it is skills it is execution and it

00:38:04.920 is results and that is it i love it if you have a great personality which you should you'll do better

00:38:11.060 with skills execution and results it's a it's a it's a plus there's lots of people who do not have

00:38:17.220 the the personality that still have the skills execution results that do that make a fuck ton 1.00

00:38:23.180 of money and that's what i'm saying like you have to be a pretty terrible human being to really fuck 0.94

00:38:28.460 that up because that's so much how it works that way it's not even a little bit the other way 0.98

00:38:33.600 you follow me absolutely like dude you guys are playing the wrong game you're you're trying to play 0.97

00:38:38.780 checkers on a fucking chess board and then you're pissed off that you're not producing the results 0.98

00:38:43.080 well you've been told that the rules of chess are actually checkers your whole life and and that's 1.00

00:38:48.000 not my fault and it's nature and it's not the asshole's fault no it's not the asshole's fault it's 0.99

00:38:52.700 your fucking parents fault it's your teacher's fault and it's the people you trust his fault and it's also 1.00

00:38:56.840 your fault for not looking into other opinions besides theirs and so you believe the shit that they sold 1.00

00:39:02.240 you and now you're pissed and you're pissed at the people who are doing shit because they didn't buy the 1.00

00:39:06.660 lesson that you bought so just change your perspective and realize you got fucking lied to 0.99

00:39:10.460 and change your life and you'll be right there with them guys andy our third and final question 0.65

00:39:15.560 uh andy question number three andy i'm quickly approaching making my first million dollars in

00:39:21.740 my business that i've ran for the last five years can you walk us through your headspace when you made

00:39:27.540 your first million dollars did you have any new realizations did it change how you operate it

00:39:31.860 and what are what are some of the things that i should be mindful of uh when i get closer to this

00:39:37.040 milestone is he talking like personally make a million personally making a million dollars

00:39:42.360 i never thought anything of it because i wanted to make a billion so i never like like that was

00:39:48.520 expected for me the first time i made a million dollars i didn't celebrate i didn't think it was i

00:39:54.280 didn't think anything of it i was just like oh no made a million dollars that's how i thought about it

00:40:00.260 you know and uh not even for a second you were like damn okay that's a million right there no 0.99

00:40:04.960 not really and my shit just got nicer my house has got nicer my fucking cars got nicer business got 0.99

00:40:11.320 bigger and it was all the same yeah it's all the same dude i'm telling you what i tell you guys about 0.99

00:40:17.280 like it being there's a point of of your life where you're going to get enough money to where all the

00:40:24.220 money after that is going to feel very small to you it's not going to make an impact and and i don't i

00:40:29.980 didn't need to make a million dollars to be happy see what i'm saying so like when i could go to

00:40:35.160 dinner and i could pay for dinner and i have to look at the menu and not care and that doesn't

00:40:39.840 take a million dollars that takes less than a million dollars right so i didn't really think

00:40:44.260 anything of it i just didn't and i also think you need to be careful about how hard you value that

00:40:49.420 quote unquote specific number on your income because if that's what you value and that's what you see

00:40:54.700 that's the value that you set on yourself and it's most likely that because most people will fall

00:40:59.700 slightly short of their actual dream goal um because goals are not really truly achieved the

00:41:06.340 way that people think they're achieved most people will set a goal like say eight a million bucks

00:41:10.880 and they will get to eight hundred thousand dollars and then they will say okay well i'm close to a

00:41:15.420 million and they kind of just hang out at eight hundred thousand and tell themselves they're making a

00:41:18.840 million i'm a millionaire now right and they're not and that's how most people achieve goals so they

00:41:24.000 actually never achieve the goal but the champion the people who continue to grow and they never slow

00:41:28.560 now and never stop when those people get to eight hundred thousand they automatically take that goal

00:41:32.880 from a million to ten million and they just keep moving and they don't think about it when they

00:41:36.900 cross over that first goal even though because they've already raised the bar before they hit the

00:41:41.020 first goal so it's a different way of thinking uh that i think separates people who are are moderately

00:41:47.300 successful from people who continuously progress and grow and win more and more and more over the

00:41:52.480 course of their life so like i would be careful how much you put on a specific number because then

00:42:01.380 it makes it almost really impossible to reach you know shoot for it but then before you get to it

00:42:06.760 raise it up and continue to go and um that's that's my advice on that and as far as like i mean what

00:42:14.580 do you ask about uh you said and uh the final part of that question was what are some things that he

00:42:18.760 should be mindful of when you start making money and people start to realize that you're making

00:42:23.240 money a lot of people start to go into manipulation mode they start seeing you as a solution to their

00:42:30.340 problems instead of a friend uh they start seeing you as someone with no feelings and you have all the

00:42:35.920 money in the world and what difference does it make if you give me a hundred thousand because it's

00:42:40.300 not going to hurt you and they start feeling entitled to your your wealth and and the things and 0.91

00:42:46.540 and bro and when you don't give it to them a lot of those people will fucking hate you and so that's 0.93

00:42:50.480 that's a real thing so like um if you're going to make a lot of money you're going to have to get 0.92

00:42:55.260 used to people like hating you because it's it's just the culture in america right now when i grew

00:43:00.960 up the culture in america was we celebrated successful people because they were living the

00:43:05.460 american dream they were they were now you have all this communist propaganda that's infected 0.90

00:43:09.800 people's minds and it's not celebrated the same way and in fact we have such a useless 0.96

00:43:16.020 group of people a certain segment of society in our country is so useless that all they do is look 0.98

00:43:22.500 for ways to get other people shit and so like dude you become a target you get people who are 0.98

00:43:27.600 not ethical you know pretending to be your best friend uh and you'll get fooled a bunch of times 0.95

00:43:32.580 and you know especially if you're a nice guy like the guy in the last question you know um so you

00:43:39.100 got to be careful of that but i mean the reality is as much as i warn you you're not going to

00:43:43.120 believe it because the people that come at you are going to make you feel like you're the smartest

00:43:46.340 best fucking coolest thing ever and and you know you're going to believe it because you want to 0.71

00:43:51.980 believe that you're the smartest best and coolest thing ever so like people will play into your ego 0.99

00:43:56.240 they will pump you full of fucking shit that isn't even true uh they will make you feel you're so much 0.99

00:44:00.700 better than you are and this is why like this is why for me personally you guys will hear me downplay 1.00

00:44:06.380 my actual success most of the time you know what i'm saying like i like you say oh man congrats all the

00:44:11.760 success my answer is always well dude look i got a long way to go and i mean that you know what i'm

00:44:16.800 saying that because that that that helps defend me from people like coming at my ego you know i don't

00:44:22.880 like that shit and i can see when someone's doing it now i'm old enough and experienced them to see 0.99

00:44:27.220 it so a lot of you young motherfuckers that think you're smooching me you're actually just riding 1.00

00:44:31.320 yourself right off right off out of my life immediately oh you know what i'm saying absolutely it's so easy 0.99

00:44:36.760 to see once you've been through it a little bit but when you when you have to go through it when you

00:44:40.780 first start making money it's a um it's a more difficult thing to navigate yeah i love that man

00:44:47.320 so so you're saying just don't put too much pressure on that finite uh number and become more aware of

00:44:54.740 actually what's possible and know you're doing it right just elevate the number i i'm saying

00:44:59.700 realize that your goal is very fucking small and you need to set a new goal if you're if you're 0.93

00:45:07.440 that close to a million dollars stop talking about the million dollars start talking about 0.88

00:45:10.960 10 million dollars and keep fucking moving million dollars ain't what it used to be and i know a lot 0.93

00:45:16.700 of people are hearing this and they're saying oh yeah it's easy for someone with millions of dollars 0.97

00:45:20.520 yeah it is except i have many responsibilities and if i only had a million dollars i couldn't

00:45:25.360 fucking take care of them okay so like as you grow a company you're going to have more people 0.71

00:45:29.820 that that means more responsibility you are responsible for those people yeah like you you those 1.00

00:45:34.660 people's kids eat because of what the fuck you do and decisions you make yeah and if you if you 0.99

00:45:40.080 short circuit your fucking own goal setting because you think a million dollars a lot of money right now 1.00

00:45:45.440 you're actually not hurting you you're hurting them see what i'm saying so we have to fucking keep 0.99

00:45:50.620 ourselves moving because of the obligations that we have to other people that have helped us get there

00:45:55.280 so it's a it's a you know and that's a responsibility a lot of people don't think about

00:45:59.140 yeah yeah man you you get you get enough employees bro and they start you start getting to the age

00:46:04.060 where they're having families and kids and you see it on the internet and you you see them with

00:46:07.720 their kids and like bro it's a different thing it's a different thing it's not about you anymore 0.99

00:46:12.460 it's about holy shit like those little kids are not going to eat if i don't get the fuck up and do 1.00

00:46:16.860 my shit you know what i mean like that's a fucking that's i take that serious you know you guys 1.00

00:46:22.320 wonder why i fucking put in all this effort and do all these things and i'm out fucking killing myself 1.00

00:46:26.860 and shit it's not so like more people will do 75 hard or bro i have to do those things i'm not 0.99

00:46:33.920 a superhero i have to do those things just like you have to do those things to pull the best out of me 0.99

00:46:39.820 so that i can fulfill my responsibilities to the people that fucking have trusted me with their 0.99

00:46:44.180 livelihood it's a big fucking responsibility man you know so like if you're a fucking leader of a 1.00

00:46:50.040 company and you're just a fat sloppy fuck you're actually fucking all the people that work for you bro 1.00

00:46:54.380 because you're not pulling one fucking ounce of your abilities into what it is you're capable of 1.00

00:46:59.300 doing and i think that's a fucking terrible tragedy for people and and dude if you're working for 0.99

00:47:04.360 someone who ain't living the fucking life and who isn't fucking like taking it that serious maybe you 0.98

00:47:10.100 should consider relocating working for someone who fucking does take it that serious because dude 0.99

00:47:14.700 and those people are very rare but those kind of people will pull you fucking to the highest highs 0.96

00:47:20.460 you've never fucking been to and i think that's that's a big deal yeah we only get one life bro we 0.94

00:47:25.640 only have so much time you know what i mean that's fucking real man i love it well guys andy that was 1.00

00:47:32.080 three man go pay the fee yeah went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole 1.00

00:47:39.620 fuck a stove counted millions in the cold bad bitch booted swoke got her on bankroll can't fold 1.00

00:47:46.300 doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00

00:47:48.880 you

REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 17, 2023

501. Q&AF： Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Being Too Nice To Customers & Making First Million

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 17, 2023

501. Q&#x26;AF： Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Being Too Nice To Customers &#x26; Making First Million

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501. Q&AF： Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Being Too Nice To Customers & Making First Million