REAL AF with Andy Frisella

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies

00:00:21.040 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we

00:00:25.720 have q and af that's where you submit the q's and we give you the afs you can submit your questions

00:00:31.720 one of a couple different ways the first way is guys you can email those questions into ask andy

00:00:38.400 at andy for seller.com and these questions can be about anything about business life entrepreneurship

00:00:43.420 how to kick ass what's going on in the world we'll take whatever you got if i were you i'd ask

00:00:50.100 questions about how to win because that's what i like to talk about best and i think that's where

00:00:54.080 we provide the most value but we'll uh we'll take whatever you got the second way is now we're on

00:00:58.980 youtube uh that's just something that's been recent for us if you go to the q and af episodes and you

00:01:04.500 drop your question in the comment section we'll pull some questions from there as well now if this

00:01:09.080 is your first time listening there's shows within the show today you're going to hear q and af uh but

00:01:14.460 other times you're going to hear cti that's cruise the internet that means uh we're going to put topics

00:01:18.780 up on the screen we're going to sift through them we're going to dissect and speculate on what we

00:01:23.860 think is true what might not be true and then how we can all work together to solve some of the

00:01:27.640 problems going on in the world other times real talk that's five to 20 minutes of me just giving

00:01:32.680 you guys some real talk usually based around personal development what's going on in the world

00:01:37.240 and uh solving some of these fucking problems and then other times we have full length full length is

00:01:41.900 just like what you guys see on most other podcasts it's uh we sit in here with some guests

00:01:47.080 we have a conversation so for all of that we have what's called the fee and when i say pay the fee

00:01:51.820 it's very simple uh tell someone about the show okay we don't run ads on the show i don't take

00:01:57.660 money from people and fill 30 minutes a day with bullshit ads uh this show i finance myself um and

00:02:04.660 i try to provide value so if you guys get something out of the show if you learn skills if it makes you

00:02:09.920 think if it makes you laugh it gives you new perspective if it's helped you in any way please

00:02:13.540 share the show a lot of you guys are very diligent about sharing the show i appreciate you guys very much

00:02:18.520 that's how we've been able to maintain a top-ranked podcast over the course of nearly a decade now

00:02:24.180 uh just off word of mouth however there's a lot of people that don't share the show and you don't

00:02:29.540 share the show for whatever reason you know your your cousin doesn't like my palette my politics or

00:02:35.060 doesn't like that i curse or whatever whatever bro you're the reason that this fucking country is

00:02:39.600 sinking just so you know you believe in the message you guys come to me and you say oh you should run

00:02:44.420 for office you won't even share the fucking message okay so if you want my voice my perspective

00:02:50.480 to be out there you got to share it so please pay the fee if we give real value please share it if we

00:02:56.400 don't give real value don't fucking share it but it's that simple man a lot of you guys do it i

00:03:00.740 appreciate you guys but a lot of you guys don't man and uh you know when you guys look at me and you

00:03:05.660 say man everybody should be listening to andy well yeah that's why i ask you to share the show

00:03:09.460 it's real simple so please share the show don't be a ho that's it i mean dude like i get tired of

00:03:15.520 that like i get tired of people saying man i wish everybody listened to this man you should run for

00:03:19.720 office man if everybody heard this it we could fix some things blah blah blah but they won't share the

00:03:24.460 show yeah it's like dude i'm fucking trying yeah like we don't have like a fucking multi-billion dollar

00:03:33.080 fucking machine behind us fucking helping with ads and pushing it like we don't have that it was

00:03:37.080 simply word of mouth value machine you got to share it we're not on a podcast network like dude

00:03:43.200 i'm totally independent like i don't go on one of these podcast networks that promotes our shit

00:03:47.440 like and it works because a lot of people do share the show but bro there's a whole lot of people that

00:03:52.360 listen that do not they don't share it and then those are the same people that message me saying

00:03:57.020 man i fucking love your shit bro you know i wish i could say the things that you say motherfucker

00:04:01.020 i'm saying them for you all you gotta do is share the shit you know we need our voice out there

00:04:05.480 i'm trying to be the voice i've been trying for three and a half fucking years and really honestly

00:04:09.440 for the better part of 10 years and it just gets old for me to have people say to me man everybody

00:04:14.680 should hear what you're saying that's why we have the fee dude that's why i ask you to share it like

00:04:19.600 at least have enough courage to share what you believe and if it sucks don't share it but i'm just

00:04:24.960 if you get it and it and it really helps you fucking share it man like bro we gotta we gotta get

00:04:32.120 our fucking we gotta find our fucking balls you know what i'm saying or beans yeah yeah anyway

00:04:38.020 i just get tired of hearing it dude oh you know fucking everybody should be like no shit

00:04:43.760 we're over here fighting censorship and fucking shadow bans all of that just share the shit

00:04:50.960 please yeah yeah everything good what's going on well i mean like i'm just in the midst of whooping

00:04:59.820 everybody's ass in this transformation contest we got going on here whooping ass you're getting lucky

00:05:04.180 oh yeah just getting lucky every day bro i figured you're a little luckier every day it's weird how

00:05:08.560 that works for me like everything that i do i'm just lucky and yeah i just keep getting lucky yeah

00:05:13.380 it's weird it's amazing how you work the luckier you get no it's like it's not even you know like

00:05:17.660 the hard work is not related like that's just shit i like to do because you know i'm a psychopath

00:05:22.600 right like i just like to do it has nothing to do like i just keep getting lucky yeah you know

00:05:27.320 every business i start fucking works every fucking thing i set my mind to happens uh you know i just

00:05:33.600 go out and do this shit that everybody observes me doing every day for fun like i just do i just do

00:05:38.160 it for clout you know like i'm just out doing my fucking ruck every day and doing my you know live

00:05:43.220 hard program and you know watching what i eat train hard as fuck you know 40 43 years old it's getting

00:05:49.580 lucky dude yeah this okay serious serious question andy because like i feel like this is a problem

00:05:54.360 that we're gonna have to address um we are rucking every day it's hot in st louis what are you gonna

00:06:02.820 do about the tan line we still have not figured out a solution it's a real problem this is a serious

00:06:07.400 issue guys i know i cannot be having a go ruck tan line across my body like it's i don't know how i'm

00:06:13.560 gonna do it they got these little gas can weights right like oh fuck that yeah it might be that bro

00:06:19.540 no it might have to be that it might have to be or your forum it might have to be

00:06:24.900 a ruck in the morning and like a run in the afternoon no shirt yeah or just extra pool time

00:06:32.600 or extra pool time yeah i see you have a nice pool yeah it's okay i got lucky

00:06:38.520 i'm with it man well uh andy it is q a man and we got some good ones for you uh let's knock these

00:06:48.160 out oh andy question number one andy i've been following the show for a while and i've been

00:06:54.380 putting a lot of work into personal development but with all of that my social life has basically

00:07:00.080 completely disappeared and i have almost zero close friends you talk a lot about going through

00:07:06.160 no man's land when it comes to friends my question is how do i know if i'm actually in no man's land

00:07:12.400 or if i just need to get out of my comfort zone and go find some fucking friends what do you got on

00:07:17.040 this well it sounds to me like you are exactly in no man's land okay no man's land is the like the

00:07:24.240 saying right that everybody likes to say oh it's fucking lonely at the top motherfucker you don't know

00:07:29.000 shit about the top you ain't ever been to the top i ain't even been to the top and i'm much further

00:07:33.600 along than you okay so let's be real you don't know shit you're repeating some shit that your

00:07:38.520 fucking uncle joe says or your fucking cousin that hasn't done shit it's lonely at the top it ain't

00:07:44.340 fucking lonely at the top bro it's lonely in the middle all right and here's the thing when you first

00:07:50.280 start out with trying to achieve something that's not the norm of what everybody else is trying to

00:07:55.460 achieve they think you're fucking weird they think there's something wrong with you okay and then you

00:07:59.120 set out actually doing the work and you set out getting some results and what happens is steve

00:08:04.180 and tony and mary jane from your fucking old neighborhood they look at you and they say oh

00:08:08.320 this dude's weird what's wrong with him he's too good for us now you're fucking right i'm too good for

00:08:12.680 you because i'm not going to sit around and waste my fucking life okay and so as you progress out of

00:08:17.640 that friend zone which by the way those people are never your friends they're just people you hung out

00:08:21.800 with all right you get into this lonely place and that lonely place is called no man's land

00:08:26.660 and that's the time that you spend between your what you thought were your friends and then finding

00:08:32.320 a new group of people who are aligned with the actions that you're taking and the goals that you

00:08:36.100 have that are going to support push you down the road pick you up whenever you've stumbled and help

00:08:42.620 you become that version of yourself you're trying to become and most people never put in enough time

00:08:47.280 to actually get to that point they get into the no man's land zone where there's really nobody around

00:08:52.000 it's very lonely it's a real thing and they say fuck it's lonely and then they go back to their

00:08:57.920 old friends and they never venture outside of that okay that's a mistake because what ends up happening

00:09:03.460 if you continue to go is you find a group of people who are aligned with the goals that you have for

00:09:08.000 yourself these people instead of making fun of you instead of talking shit to you instead of making

00:09:13.140 you feel guilty for wanting more of yourself these people actually do all the opposite they support you

00:09:18.320 they encourage you they pick you up when you fall down they push you down the road to be better

00:09:22.660 and that journey will happen multiple times over the course of your life if you continue to go

00:09:29.080 so you'll meet your first group of friends and these people will probably be you know just like you they

00:09:34.420 lived in the regular world of the socially acceptable world for a long time and they've pushed

00:09:39.720 out and they've created something and they're working and and they're working towards all these better

00:09:43.420 things and these people will be comfortable there and you'll you'll if you continue to go you'll you'll

00:09:50.060 outgrow them too and you'll go through another phase of no man's land and then you'll come to another group

00:09:54.380 of people who are actually doing things at a higher level and that process will repeat itself over and

00:09:59.320 over and over again until you find yourself with literally the highest performing humans on the

00:10:04.300 planet my my phone if you looked at my phone and you looked at the missed calls or the you know the

00:10:11.100 the call data i mean every one of those motherfuckers is worth nine ten figures every single

00:10:16.040 one of them right these are all people whose names you know these are people who are out there

00:10:20.460 kicking ass doing things living at a higher standard building incredible things there's billionaires

00:10:25.960 100 millionaires you know uh high performance people that like dude it's just it's it it's an

00:10:32.820 incredible group of people that all hold me accountable to being a higher level of me which allows me to do

00:10:38.520 what i do so like it's not lonely at the top that's just something losers fucking say to excuse

00:10:44.560 themselves from doing the work that is necessary to actually become who it is they want to become

00:10:49.220 because everybody has this little version of themselves in their heart that they know they're

00:10:55.040 supposed to become they know it they know what it's supposed to be they can feel it they can see it

00:11:00.160 they know they're supposed to be this bad motherfucker that exists inside of them but they do not have the

00:11:05.460 courage to even say this is what i want to become they don't even they don't even have the balls to

00:11:10.460 say this is what i want and if you don't have the fucking balls to say this is what i want you sure

00:11:15.880 as fuck don't have the the the inner grit fortitude uh tenacity to go out and create it so that's where

00:11:23.780 these friends come in and that's why it's important for you to fucking be around people who actually

00:11:28.260 support you because the reason i am who i am is because along the way i've met people who have

00:11:34.280 demanded me to rise up and become a better version of myself and i'm surrounded by those people every

00:11:39.400 day look at the motherfuckers in this building i get to come in bro i got fucking half a dozen dudes

00:11:43.860 in here ran 100 miles you know what i'm saying like i got people in here that fucking do incredible

00:11:47.880 things every fucking week like it's hard not to be on your shit because everybody is that's where you

00:11:52.980 want to be you want to be around people like that not your steve tony and mary from fucking the old

00:11:58.220 neighborhood who think you're a weirdo because you don't want to be broke and drunk and fat like they're

00:12:03.060 going to be their whole lives so you're not you're not fucking abnormal bro you're just outgrowing the

00:12:08.900 people who have been holding you back your entire life and you're in the middle you haven't found that

00:12:12.420 new group yet you need to keep going that is it let me ask you this any two two questions so one

00:12:18.260 when you got to that first no man's land how long did you spend there and then the second part is

00:12:24.580 who controls how long you spend and you you control it okay you control how long you're there because

00:12:30.740 and by the way there will be a time right like it's phases you're going to spend some time there

00:12:36.740 because once you get in that first group of friends you're going to be overwhelmed with you

00:12:43.120 know new energy and new ideas and new objectives and goals and dreams that you want for yourself

00:12:50.440 because these people who are around you are going to like basically you're going to catch what they

00:12:55.020 have okay and if you're really a like a killer like you're a hardcore driven i want to keep going

00:13:00.620 person you're going to apply that shit and you're going to naturally start to move on from that

00:13:04.740 some of those people will go with you by the way but some of them won't okay it's unlike the first

00:13:10.360 group the first group none of those people will go with you the second group a few of those people

00:13:15.060 will go with you and they'll make it to that third group or that fourth group with you right but

00:13:19.420 you'll repeat this multiple times over your life if you're an ambitious driven committed human

00:13:24.320 to pursuing your ultimate potential over the course of your life this will happen over and over and

00:13:30.620 over again you will go you will go through times of extreme loneliness and feel like you know you

00:13:35.960 don't have any friends but that's not reality dude you do have friends you're just busy focusing on

00:13:41.620 yourself you're busy taking care of business you're supposed to do that you're supposed to do that in

00:13:47.440 your life okay too too many of us are loyal to friendships right because people guilt us they

00:13:54.660 they say like oh andy you know he's getting too fucking big for his britches oh andy he's you know

00:14:00.640 he's not humble anymore that's what they like to say a lot of them like to say that shit you changed

00:14:05.060 no shit bitch that's i was supposed to change i was supposed to fucking change that's the that's

00:14:10.140 the whole point so thank you thank you for recognizing it like dude this is this is something that

00:14:16.200 really kills a lot of people's potential because they can't get through that first phase to learn

00:14:21.080 how much better it would be when they have people around them that actually pull them along support

00:14:26.100 them and contribute to what they truly want to be 100 and this it goes to like that metaphorical ladder

00:14:31.460 of success we talk about like these are those so you're talking about those groups those each phases

00:14:36.540 those are just rungs on that ladder right so so just going back to that first question uh i asked so

00:14:42.440 how long did you spend in that first that first phase of that no man's land on that first i don't

00:14:47.060 know i mean there's no definitive time i don't know like it like i seem to go through about every

00:14:53.240 four years a new phase that's for the cycle it seems to be for me it's like every four years i level up

00:14:58.960 and i've got a whole new group of people around me and i'm still friends with those people from before

00:15:04.540 but i'm just not spending my my nights and my weekends and my dinners and shit with those people

00:15:09.440 honestly dude once you get old enough you don't really like it's not like when you're young man

00:15:14.260 like you kind of like just hang with your tight circle and that's it like i don't really hang with

00:15:19.440 people like i talk to people on the phone or i text them but like it's not like it used to be like

00:15:25.780 everybody's busy that's the other thing when you get to that level it's not like everybody's coming

00:15:30.400 around on sunday for the barbecue like you might not talk to people for six months that doesn't mean

00:15:35.260 they're not your friend like a lot of you guys need to grow the fuck up like you think like oh

00:15:39.160 andy didn't talk to me for six months so he must be mad at me motherfucker i didn't even think of

00:15:43.900 you for six months because i'm so busy worrying about my own shit and if you were about worried

00:15:47.520 about your own shit you wouldn't worry about that yeah so like dude it's um you know it's just

00:15:53.760 something that you it's hard to understand when you're going through it or at least haven't gotten

00:15:57.140 to that first phase because you don't have the perspective you think that you're going to go out

00:16:01.520 and be this like weird lonely person your whole life and that's just not the case bro all the great

00:16:05.400 shit's going to come from you just refusing to quit and pushing yourself through and if

00:16:09.140 this person would will continue to go for another you know however long six months a year whatever

00:16:14.560 it fucking takes you're going to find that group you're like fuck i'm glad i didn't quit because

00:16:18.380 that will supercharge your entire life i love it man i love it that was uh question number one let's

00:16:23.080 move on to question number two uh taking a different a different approach to this right um i mean i guess

00:16:28.140 it's almost like an overarching theme this is relationships right these circles these friends

00:16:31.880 uh question number uh two andy you've talked several times about cutting people out who don't

00:16:36.680 contribute to their mission maybe these are people in that first group right how do you say no to your

00:16:41.820 friends uh because you're busy working and doing personal development without hurting their feelings

00:16:46.980 do you feel like it's your obligation to spend time with certain people and what's a good way to do this

00:16:53.420 without being super abrupt and being perceived as incentive i don't care about their feelings that's not my

00:16:59.060 problem that's their problem that's a you problem that's not a me problem my fucking problem is how am i

00:17:04.920 getting from here to here and how am i going to do that that's what i'm worried about however you

00:17:09.880 perceive that whether you think i'm being a jerk or whatever you think i'm being aloof or whether

00:17:14.800 you think i'm too good or not humble or this or that i don't give a fuck okay i understand that i don't

00:17:19.720 give a single fuck how you perceive it the people you will stay in contact with will be gracious with

00:17:27.120 your progress these are the people who will say who will understand they will understand that it's not

00:17:31.980 personal that you're just doing your thing they will understand that it's not a personal attack

00:17:36.580 that you don't call them every fucking other day or text them for four or five six months there's a

00:17:41.660 saying amongst high level successful people busy people understand busy people okay and what that

00:17:48.460 means is we don't get our fucking panties in a bunch over the fact that you know our buddy didn't

00:17:53.520 text us back one time or it took him a week or it took him a fucking month we don't worry about

00:17:58.480 shit like that we're worried we're too worried about winning we're too worried about accomplishing

00:18:01.940 things so like i don't even literally give any fucking attention to that at all and that took a

00:18:09.060 long time that wasn't something that in the beginning i felt that way i must say did you did

00:18:13.460 you was there a point where you did yeah i know in the beginning i did feel guilty i fucking felt guilty

00:18:18.260 because people try to guilt you and then you're like fuck maybe i am maybe i am you know maybe i'm not

00:18:24.620 as good as i think i am or i can't do what i think bro those people are poison for your fucking life

00:18:28.840 okay and that's what you'll come to realize so like when they start guilting you and you actually feel

00:18:33.840 guilty you should fucking remember that your uncle andy over here told you to keep fucking going

00:18:38.500 and uh that shit don't worry about that shit those people these are people that are stuck in the

00:18:44.840 fucking matrix bro they they cannot understand how you want to be better they can't understand that it's

00:18:50.300 even possible to be better they have no comprehension of what you're trying to do or what your dreams are

00:18:55.420 what your goals are they don't get it and they're not going to fucking get it it's back like when we

00:19:00.320 were trying to explain all the covid shit to all the people they're not going to get it they're

00:19:05.220 fucking not going to get it bro i wasted three years of my life trying to convince people and now

00:19:09.780 i got the same people coming to me saying fuck bro why didn't i listen to you now i got this fucking

00:19:15.000 medicine it's fucking me up you see what i'm saying so it's like bro i spent three years trying to

00:19:19.580 tell you not touch the fucking stove you touched it anyway now you're fucking upset with me man

00:19:23.680 fuck off right so this is the same mentality you're dealing with with these people in the beginning

00:19:29.820 phase most of these people will only be happy for you when you become something that is so great

00:19:36.080 that like they can talk about it like i know that person i know that dude i know that girl or benefit

00:19:41.340 from yeah or benefit from which you know you'll learn along the process that that's not you don't do

00:19:46.240 that you know what i mean i love it well guys andy our third and final question uh question number three

00:19:54.920 andy how can you incorporate healthy competition as an entrepreneur every time i try to do this i feel

00:20:03.560 like my co-workers don't take it the right way and they think that i'm just trying to make them look

00:20:08.240 bad is this a me problem or is this a them problem i want all of us to win and i'm having a hard time

00:20:14.360 getting the people around me in that same competitive mindset okay where you're making

00:20:18.400 a mistake here is that you're trying to coordinate the plan with these people like hey we're all gonna

00:20:25.580 win we're all gonna do this we're all gonna do that that's not how humans work okay if you want

00:20:32.220 competition you got to create competition help i don't give a fuck about healthy competition by the

00:20:37.820 way competition is competition i'm here to fucking win okay when you adopt that attitude the one i

00:20:44.760 just said i'm here to fucking win and you stop giving a fuck if it hurts their fucking feelings you

00:20:48.920 know what's going to happen they're actually going to get more competitive and they will rise to the

00:20:53.240 occasion you have to go first you have to give no fucks about how they interpret it oh you're making

00:20:58.740 me look bad good i'm glad you look bad that means i'm doing fucking great okay and what you what

00:21:05.160 will happen is those people will fucking start to run after you because they're like oh shit he's

00:21:09.900 going no matter what and they'll rate they'll rise up and what happens magically is instead of them

00:21:15.660 resenting you eventually when they start winning they start to respect you for going first okay so

00:21:21.240 you're trying to coordinate it all and and and do all like oh guys let's do this isn't this a good

00:21:26.820 idea and then when you try they're like fuck steve you're making us look bad man fuck them okay do not

00:21:32.760 worry about that at all don't even fucking talk to him about it until you're so far ahead when they're

00:21:38.380 like fuck steve's hitting his numbers or he's getting paid or he's getting a promotion be like

00:21:42.300 yeah i tried to get you guys to go but you're not going just come do these things and then you invite

00:21:46.960 them to go and they will fucking go but until you go they're not gonna go and this is a this is a

00:21:51.880 fundamental flaw with most people when it comes to leadership because they believe that there's a way

00:21:56.980 to somehow coordinate it all peacefully and package it real nice so nobody gets offended bro winning

00:22:02.440 offends people doing great shit offends people whether it's your fucking teammates whether it's

00:22:07.320 people on the outside whether it's the other team people don't like motherfuckers that are good at

00:22:11.660 what the fuck they do so get good at what you do if you want your team to win because they will follow

00:22:16.300 you out of spite at first and then respect you later for making them better okay so like you're

00:22:22.160 thinking about it the wrong way you have to go and they will follow i love that andy why why do you

00:22:27.580 think people get so why do you think people put so much fucking care and emphasis on other people's

00:22:33.640 feelings like how do we get here because that's what they're taught to to care about like if you

00:22:39.320 think about what we're taught to look at our whole society bro you can't even say the truth because it

00:22:44.780 offends people you can't point out statistical facts about society because it hurts people's fucking

00:22:50.080 feelings whether or not they're there or not yeah bro you're giving out trophies to kids now

00:22:54.540 based upon showing up so their feelings don't get hurt so you ask where it comes from it's a

00:23:00.020 cultural indoctrination of creating a scenario where people don't value achievement anymore they

00:23:06.240 value just being a part of and that's not the way natural order works natural order no matter what you

00:23:12.100 think about it no matter what your fucking opinions are no matter how much you bitch whine cry and spent

00:23:17.540 most people spend their whole lives complaining about it it's still going to apply and the winners are

00:23:23.280 going to fucking win and the losers are going to kick rocks the winners are going to have the

00:23:27.080 spoils losers are going to have the leftovers this is reality bro and there's no way to fucking talk

00:23:32.880 your way around it there's no way to protest your way around it there's no way to cause a scene around

00:23:37.460 it it's just the way it fucking is i didn't make the fucking rules bro but i understand the rules

00:23:42.540 and they're concrete and i play by them because that's where the reward is and you would do yourself a

00:23:48.480 service instead of thinking that you can bitch argue fight and like resist and kick and scream

00:23:54.180 and somehow you're going to get what you want and just accept the rules and be like bro if i want to

00:23:57.660 win i got to get fucking good and that's it and so like stop wasting your life stop being someone who

00:24:03.740 fucking thinks you're going you're you're bro there's eight billion people on this earth no one

00:24:07.740 gives a fuck how you feel about anything they don't and if you think that these people out there

00:24:12.440 telling you this shit see what's actually happening and if you were fucking an aware human being and you

00:24:17.360 will come to realize this is truth whether it's now or whether it's 50 years from now what's

00:24:22.220 actually happened to you and the reason that you care so much about feelings over the actual

00:24:27.980 performance or the facts of the matter is because you have been taught by a higher power than us

00:24:34.160 the peasants that's us okay by the elite the most elite people on the planet who have the most money

00:24:40.040 the most power the most resources they have everything the most freedom everything okay you have been

00:24:46.380 taught to not play the game don't play the game showing up is good enough does if you don't know

00:24:52.680 algebra you don't have to learn it dude you know what you don't have to have a great credit score to

00:24:57.600 get a mortgage anymore you get a lower uh lower credit score and you'll get a mortgage just fine

00:25:01.660 they're teaching people not to compete so that they can stay in fucking power okay and so are you

00:25:08.040 going to waste your whole life because some elite fuck taught you that the fake rules to the game

00:25:14.000 so that you get fat sick lazy inactive unhealthy dumb filled with alcohol unfit like bro that's

00:25:22.240 what they want from you because when you're that way you're not a threat to their to whatever they

00:25:26.440 have this is why i say personal excellence is ultimate rebellion because it fucking is that's what

00:25:32.080 they don't want they do not want you to be fit they do not want you to have money they do not want

00:25:36.980 you to fucking be smart they do not want you healthy okay if you're sick you buy their drugs

00:25:43.080 okay if you're stupid you fall for their shit if you're fat you sit down and consume all their data

00:25:48.440 you're you're a customer that they intentionally create and and do this mindset of everybody's

00:25:54.200 fucking feelings this this politically correct culture of not offending anybody all of that is

00:25:59.620 built around the idea of keeping us low and keeping them high and we as a society need to figure it the

00:26:08.000 fuck out because the rules of the game just like in nature are fucking survival of the fittest kill or be

00:26:15.020 killed this is a fundamental reality you either are or you fucking aren't there's no in between and no

00:26:21.840 one gives a fuck how you feel you could fucking protest you could fucking post on social you could

00:26:27.120 cancel people you could do whatever the fuck you want but the motherfuckers that keep moving and they

00:26:32.200 keep they keep working and they keep getting better they're going to have all the shit and you're not

00:26:35.420 going to have anything you're going to be stuck at home watching fucking streaming paying for it you're

00:26:40.540 going to be eating fucking uber eats okay getting fat as fuck that was going to make you sick which

00:26:46.040 makes you consume their fucking medical system okay uh you're going to be indoctrinated by their

00:26:51.020 information because that's what you're doing because you're lazy right you're going to believe

00:26:53.980 everything they said so now you become not only a non-player in the game but also an asset to their

00:26:59.800 fucking way of life and then keep voting for it because dude look man you need it look it's real

00:27:06.700 shit and it ain't ever changed and like these people out here they fucking try to make it be like

00:27:11.720 oh yeah you know uh winning's not cool anymore you know but bro don't listen to that shit bro i'm just

00:27:19.180 gonna live my life and you know float around and experience life bro find those people in 20 years

00:27:26.780 find them in 20 years okay because i'm old enough to know what that happens in 20 years a lot of you

00:27:32.940 guys aren't all right don't listen to it use the time right now to become great at what the fuck you

00:27:38.720 want to be great at to become educated to become fit to become you know wealthy all right so that you

00:27:45.660 could actually have some sort of freedom because those are the only things that are going to give

00:27:49.080 you real freedom they're not going to give it to you we're living in an age of technological and

00:27:54.160 intentional propaganda slavery all right look how they're promoting being overweight as healthy and

00:28:00.380 cool right look how they're promoting all this crazy shit the opposite of reality it's it's all it's all

00:28:08.900 to keep people down so that they can maintain power the only the only thing this is why they

00:28:13.680 villainize achievement this is why in culture there's a there's a there's a part of culture

00:28:18.040 right now that hates people that go out and build businesses oh i fucking capitalists yeah motherfucker i

00:28:25.000 fucking provide food for literally fucking thousands of people that's the way capitalism fucking works

00:28:30.860 yeah he's the one percent you're goddamn right i am cost took me 24 fucking years to get here

00:28:37.480 when you were fucking off i was working when you were fucking being a fucking lazy piece of shit i was

00:28:42.680 working now you want half my shit fuck you go get it yourself so like dude it's you ask where it

00:28:49.800 comes from that's where it comes from it's indoctrinated into people and it's a false reality

00:28:54.040 and it's it's it's a false reality to the point where it doesn't matter how much steam it gets it will

00:29:01.360 never be reality because this isn't the first time in the history of humankind that these principles

00:29:06.060 have caught steam even in the in let's say it became the norm and everybody agreed okay we're

00:29:12.480 going to just depend on the government we're going to bro the government kills people the government

00:29:18.060 starves people the government creates a life of misery ask anyone who lived in communist fucking russia

00:29:24.600 ask anyone who lives in communist cuba ask anyone who lives in com who lived in communist venezuela

00:29:31.200 ask them there's a reason motherfuckers come here and they're like fuck this is amazing

00:29:35.920 it ain't because that system's better than ours and some of you are so misled and willing to justify

00:29:41.940 your own unwillingness to actually put in any fucking effort in life that you are willing to ride that

00:29:48.800 fucking false reality into the grave as opposed to like just working and trying to be better

00:29:54.960 it's dangerous dude simple fix lots of people are ruined bro look that's for them i don't really

00:30:02.340 give a fuck about them i'm here for the winners i'm here for the people that want to win i'm here

00:30:06.540 for the people that that are gonna win that's what the fuck we're here for i'm not here for any of

00:30:10.860 that shit they can all fucking eat shit i don't give a fuck now if you want to come join the team

00:30:15.400 you're welcome but it's really hard you got to work that's my i've dedicated my whole life to this

00:30:20.400 shit so i love that man it's like i'm thinking i can care about your feelings or i can care about

00:30:25.800 your winning i can't do both not at the same time i don't listen bro the way you care about other

00:30:30.960 people's winning is by winning yourself that's what people don't get you got to be selfish to be

00:30:36.600 selfless when it comes to that if you you can't sit there like that's where the problem is with all

00:30:40.880 these internet fucking coaches right how many internet coaches are there online i haven't done a

00:30:44.880 fucking thing but they're a coach right right makes sense i love it man what dude that was a

00:30:52.980 little quick hitter man i loved it yeah if you got any more i'll fucking take it oh you want some

00:30:55.980 extra sauce yeah all right i got one andy 24 years in business this extra sauce question 24 years in

00:31:02.680 damn near a quarter of a century uh you speak a lot on the business side about reinvesting

00:31:08.720 right what would you say in the last 24 years was your best investment reinvestment that you've made

00:31:14.140 in any any one of your company myself taking my fitness and my health my mental fucking toughness

00:31:21.400 and my grit my fortitude my ability to persevere my ability to endure building myself into someone

00:31:27.540 who's built for fucking winter for the hard times that was the best investment i've ever made zero

00:31:32.440 question so not millions of dollars in automation that fucking investment made me hundreds of millions

00:31:37.820 of dollars okay that's not a no not millions of dollars in an investment not new marketing not

00:31:45.640 this not that like i could list all that shit out but see here's the thing when you take care of

00:31:50.180 yourself and you build yourself into a literal fucking weapon that's built for this game everything

00:31:54.960 becomes an advantage everything every investment becomes 10x because you have figured out a way to

00:32:01.700 leverage your own personal abilities into your company everybody follows suit like i've talked about

00:32:06.540 this on the show when i started getting in shape for real shape in 2016 where our whole company was

00:32:13.460 a bunch of fat fucks you know what i'm saying and we were already a nine-figure company then now now

00:32:18.800 fuck you walk through here and everybody looks like fucking zeus yeah you know what i'm saying like

00:32:23.980 and dude you don't think those people are performing at a higher level you don't think these people who

00:32:28.340 are taking care of themselves are performing a higher level than maybe people that work at companies that

00:32:32.020 try to compete with us so what kind of investment can i like how what kind of money could i spend to

00:32:37.120 get that to happen you can't do it that's why it goes back to that question of the no man's land

00:32:42.760 question you have to go and people will follow and that's the reality so the best investment i ever

00:32:48.300 made was committing myself to myself and making sure that i'm a fucking hard motherfucker that can

00:32:54.140 handle what's going on because dude it takes that yeah i love it yeah i love that and dude if you

00:32:59.300 want to learn how to do it go out listen to episode 208 it'll give you the whole blueprint it's the

00:33:04.200 exact same blueprint i follow that's the exact blueprint i follow for personal development and

00:33:08.700 keeping myself tuned up um and then if you want the process for what i do day to day in terms of

00:33:14.140 being effective as opposed to busy go listen to episode 16 so if you listen to episode 208 and then

00:33:20.020 episode 16 you will literally understand my entire fucking life and how i run it because those two

00:33:24.740 episodes that's exactly how i run my life like you won't ever have to ask a question again

00:33:29.140 because that's exactly what i do do i not do those things every day that's what i do every day so

00:33:34.220 it's exactly what i do there's nothing withheld there's no secret sauce that i do there's no it's

00:33:39.700 all right there bro and it's free i give it to you for free you know why i give it to you for free

00:33:43.640 because i want you to fucking win because we need fucking winners we need winners out there setting

00:33:48.020 the pace for everybody else to fucking know what it looks like to win there's not enough people

00:33:51.760 winning there's not enough people doing great shit for everybody to actually touch it and see it and feel

00:33:56.480 it which keeps people uninspired believing that they cannot achieve great shit see this is contagious

00:34:01.720 this is a ripple effect if you win other people win if they win other people win if those other

00:34:07.580 people win some other motherfuckers win and this is the this is the fucking cultural rebellion that we

00:34:12.440 must have it has to be a rebellion of personal excellence and winning so that we can all rise and when we

00:34:18.500 all become people who are fit intelligent uh wealthy at least to the you know not poor right um and aware

00:34:27.020 of what's going on now they can't control us and right now they can because they've created a whole

00:34:33.600 fucking culture full of zombie fuckers that don't even know what the fuck is going on they think they

00:34:39.280 think in mainstream media is like actual news still like it was 30 years that's getting a little

00:34:44.480 tinfoil there i'm just saying well it is what it is but i'm just saying they think that's real shit

00:34:49.280 yeah they don't understand there's a whole narrative being propagated out to get people to behave in a

00:34:55.100 certain way but they can't grasp that you gotta break the matrix no dude the only way to break the

00:35:00.160 matrix is through personal excellence it's raising of standards it's setting the example for other

00:35:04.480 people to see because dude just like we were talking yesterday you and i were talking yesterday about

00:35:09.100 cars at the end of the day do you remember what we were talking about we were talking about

00:35:12.340 how when i drive my chevelle to the gas station every motherfucker loves it everybody loves it

00:35:18.680 everybody loves it doesn't matter nobody hates on it everybody loves it 90 year old women seven year

00:35:24.780 old kids to say i drive my fucking la ferrari to the gas station and nobody fucking says shit except

00:35:30.000 the little kids okay and the reason is is because these people can see the chevelle as obtainable to

00:35:37.620 them right so it's like cool and i'm a dick when i drive the la ferrari right because

00:35:42.320 that's like i'm just showing off well you don't know i have a passion for cars what you also don't

00:35:46.280 know is what that passion for cars has created it's created fucking thousands of fucking jobs

00:35:50.700 okay so because they can see the chevelle as obtainable they cheer for that but what they're

00:35:59.240 really cheering for is their own limitations mediocrity well do you see what i'm saying

00:36:02.960 man so like you're okay with cheering for something that's you you feel comfortable with

00:36:07.240 but like when you see something that's outside that box it upsets you well the reason it upsets

00:36:12.220 you is because you're not understanding that you have the capacity to move outside that box

00:36:16.120 it's just nobody ever told you that before so we got a lot of work to do a lot of people that i feel

00:36:21.520 like like a lot of people in society just need that smack of permission well hold on now if that same

00:36:27.940 person okay let's just say the same person who was hating if they had grown up in a family

00:36:33.560 where one of their uncles or some one of their cousins or somebody was a wealthy person and they

00:36:38.180 had some cool shit they wouldn't hate on it because they would say oh fuck i actually know a person

00:36:42.560 who did that and they would probably come up and they do and say hey my cousins does this and that

00:36:47.200 and this what do you do and they get interested right and they learn and they get a little better

00:36:51.120 so it's a it's all about them being able to witness the win all right and what we have right now

00:36:58.160 is a pandemic an epidemic of fucking loserdom and mediocrity that was intentionally created

00:37:03.760 by our own fucking systems to keep people suppressed instead of being winners all right and so now your

00:37:11.660 whole family they have never witnessed anybody who's actually became top level physical physical

00:37:17.820 fitness top level uh successful they don't witness that shit or even any level of success so how can

00:37:24.140 they go to achieve something how can we raise our standards if they never witness it or know it's

00:37:29.220 possible they don't know it's possible they think it's for other people they think it's for people

00:37:32.980 who you know were born over here on third base or people who got lucky or people who fucking sold

00:37:39.460 their soul to the devil and shit right bro the only thing that sells your soul to the devil is you

00:37:44.060 becoming less than what you're meant to become on this fucking earth let's be real about it

00:37:49.060 because that's a fucking slap in the face of the higher power thanks yeah some deep shit man yeah

00:37:54.960 well you know that's why that's why personal excellence is the cultural rebellion that we must

00:37:59.680 have it is it that's that's what's going to change shit it's going to be you and i'm talking to you and

00:38:06.100 a lot of you guys think i'm talking to someone else i'm not talking to dj i'm talking to the

00:38:09.480 motherfucker who's got this shit going right in their ears right now it's going to come from you

00:38:13.500 raising your fucking standards reach down and grab your fucking jelly belly right now that ain't

00:38:18.240 setting an example bro go look at your bank account that ain't setting an example okay go look at what

00:38:24.300 you believe to be true and who you get your news from that's probably not setting an example or maybe

00:38:29.260 you do know everything's fucked up but you don't know what to do well i'm telling you right now it's

00:38:32.560 starting here with yourself because those are the things that are going to inspire others to be better

00:38:36.400 which creates our ability as a collective to break out of the mental restrictions that they have

00:38:42.500 intentionally placed upon us i love it man i love it guys make sure you subscribe yeah that was smooth

00:38:51.000 yeah so joe just hold up a sign in here it said subscribe i'll see it on youtube yeah and dj

00:38:56.060 fucking got it so yeah subscribe to youtube well i don't know if it was for me or him you need it

00:39:01.720 yeah that was for me but yeah but you got it so we're good yeah fucking joe fucking joe

00:39:09.300 joe did the right thing good job joe that's a dj show of hands whose fault is that dj's it was in

00:39:19.560 black writing so i thought that's right it's your fault all right well that's all i got all right

00:39:25.260 all right guys pay the fee went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a bowl

00:39:32.360 fuck a stove counted millions in the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold

00:39:39.040 doesn't know headshot case closed

506. Q&AF： No Man's Land, Saying 'NO' To Friends & Competition At Work

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