REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 27, 2023


506. Q&AF： No Man's Land, Saying 'NO' To Friends & Competition At Work

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no man's land
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Andy Frisella
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In this episode of the Ask Andy For Selling podcast, Andy talks about the importance of sharing the show and why you should share the show if you want to learn skills, improve your life, and grow your business.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies 0.99
00:00:21.040 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we 0.82
00:00:25.720 have q and af that's where you submit the q's and we give you the afs you can submit your questions
00:00:31.720 one of a couple different ways the first way is guys you can email those questions into ask andy
00:00:38.400 at andy for seller.com and these questions can be about anything about business life entrepreneurship
00:00:43.420 how to kick ass what's going on in the world we'll take whatever you got if i were you i'd ask 0.91
00:00:50.100 questions about how to win because that's what i like to talk about best and i think that's where 0.97
00:00:54.080 we provide the most value but we'll uh we'll take whatever you got the second way is now we're on
00:00:58.980 youtube uh that's just something that's been recent for us if you go to the q and af episodes and you
00:01:04.500 drop your question in the comment section we'll pull some questions from there as well now if this
00:01:09.080 is your first time listening there's shows within the show today you're going to hear q and af uh but
00:01:14.460 other times you're going to hear cti that's cruise the internet that means uh we're going to put topics
00:01:18.780 up on the screen we're going to sift through them we're going to dissect and speculate on what we
00:01:23.860 think is true what might not be true and then how we can all work together to solve some of the
00:01:27.640 problems going on in the world other times real talk that's five to 20 minutes of me just giving
00:01:32.680 you guys some real talk usually based around personal development what's going on in the world 0.78
00:01:37.240 and uh solving some of these fucking problems and then other times we have full length full length is 0.94
00:01:41.900 just like what you guys see on most other podcasts it's uh we sit in here with some guests 0.98
00:01:47.080 we have a conversation so for all of that we have what's called the fee and when i say pay the fee
00:01:51.820 it's very simple uh tell someone about the show okay we don't run ads on the show i don't take
00:01:57.660 money from people and fill 30 minutes a day with bullshit ads uh this show i finance myself um and 0.66
00:02:04.660 i try to provide value so if you guys get something out of the show if you learn skills if it makes you
00:02:09.920 think if it makes you laugh it gives you new perspective if it's helped you in any way please
00:02:13.540 share the show a lot of you guys are very diligent about sharing the show i appreciate you guys very much
00:02:18.520 that's how we've been able to maintain a top-ranked podcast over the course of nearly a decade now
00:02:24.180 uh just off word of mouth however there's a lot of people that don't share the show and you don't
00:02:29.540 share the show for whatever reason you know your your cousin doesn't like my palette my politics or 0.99
00:02:35.060 doesn't like that i curse or whatever whatever bro you're the reason that this fucking country is 0.99
00:02:39.600 sinking just so you know you believe in the message you guys come to me and you say oh you should run 0.99
00:02:44.420 for office you won't even share the fucking message okay so if you want my voice my perspective 0.98
00:02:50.480 to be out there you got to share it so please pay the fee if we give real value please share it if we 0.97
00:02:56.400 don't give real value don't fucking share it but it's that simple man a lot of you guys do it i 0.92
00:03:00.740 appreciate you guys but a lot of you guys don't man and uh you know when you guys look at me and you 0.97
00:03:05.660 say man everybody should be listening to andy well yeah that's why i ask you to share the show
00:03:09.460 it's real simple so please share the show don't be a ho that's it i mean dude like i get tired of 0.99
00:03:15.520 that like i get tired of people saying man i wish everybody listened to this man you should run for
00:03:19.720 office man if everybody heard this it we could fix some things blah blah blah but they won't share the 0.95
00:03:24.460 show yeah it's like dude i'm fucking trying yeah like we don't have like a fucking multi-billion dollar 0.97
00:03:33.080 fucking machine behind us fucking helping with ads and pushing it like we don't have that it was 0.98
00:03:37.080 simply word of mouth value machine you got to share it we're not on a podcast network like dude 1.00
00:03:43.200 i'm totally independent like i don't go on one of these podcast networks that promotes our shit 0.81
00:03:47.440 like and it works because a lot of people do share the show but bro there's a whole lot of people that 0.52
00:03:52.360 listen that do not they don't share it and then those are the same people that message me saying 1.00
00:03:57.020 man i fucking love your shit bro you know i wish i could say the things that you say motherfucker 1.00
00:04:01.020 i'm saying them for you all you gotta do is share the shit you know we need our voice out there 1.00
00:04:05.480 i'm trying to be the voice i've been trying for three and a half fucking years and really honestly 0.97
00:04:09.440 for the better part of 10 years and it just gets old for me to have people say to me man everybody
00:04:14.680 should hear what you're saying that's why we have the fee dude that's why i ask you to share it like
00:04:19.600 at least have enough courage to share what you believe and if it sucks don't share it but i'm just
00:04:24.960 if you get it and it and it really helps you fucking share it man like bro we gotta we gotta get 0.99
00:04:32.120 our fucking we gotta find our fucking balls you know what i'm saying or beans yeah yeah anyway 0.99
00:04:38.020 i just get tired of hearing it dude oh you know fucking everybody should be like no shit 1.00
00:04:43.760 we're over here fighting censorship and fucking shadow bans all of that just share the shit 0.99
00:04:50.960 please yeah yeah everything good what's going on well i mean like i'm just in the midst of whooping 1.00
00:04:59.820 everybody's ass in this transformation contest we got going on here whooping ass you're getting lucky 0.97
00:05:04.180 oh yeah just getting lucky every day bro i figured you're a little luckier every day it's weird how 0.99
00:05:08.560 that works for me like everything that i do i'm just lucky and yeah i just keep getting lucky yeah
00:05:13.380 it's weird it's amazing how you work the luckier you get no it's like it's not even you know like 0.96
00:05:17.660 the hard work is not related like that's just shit i like to do because you know i'm a psychopath 0.81
00:05:22.600 right like i just like to do it has nothing to do like i just keep getting lucky yeah you know 0.98
00:05:27.320 every business i start fucking works every fucking thing i set my mind to happens uh you know i just 0.97
00:05:33.600 go out and do this shit that everybody observes me doing every day for fun like i just do i just do 0.99
00:05:38.160 it for clout you know like i'm just out doing my fucking ruck every day and doing my you know live 1.00
00:05:43.220 hard program and you know watching what i eat train hard as fuck you know 40 43 years old it's getting 0.96
00:05:49.580 lucky dude yeah this okay serious serious question andy because like i feel like this is a problem 0.97
00:05:54.360 that we're gonna have to address um we are rucking every day it's hot in st louis what are you gonna
00:06:02.820 do about the tan line we still have not figured out a solution it's a real problem this is a serious
00:06:07.400 issue guys i know i cannot be having a go ruck tan line across my body like it's i don't know how i'm 0.84
00:06:13.560 gonna do it they got these little gas can weights right like oh fuck that yeah it might be that bro 0.67
00:06:19.540 no it might have to be that it might have to be or your forum it might have to be 0.98
00:06:24.900 a ruck in the morning and like a run in the afternoon no shirt yeah or just extra pool time
00:06:32.600 or extra pool time yeah i see you have a nice pool yeah it's okay i got lucky
00:06:38.520 i'm with it man well uh andy it is q a man and we got some good ones for you uh let's knock these
00:06:48.160 out oh andy question number one andy i've been following the show for a while and i've been
00:06:54.380 putting a lot of work into personal development but with all of that my social life has basically
00:07:00.080 completely disappeared and i have almost zero close friends you talk a lot about going through
00:07:06.160 no man's land when it comes to friends my question is how do i know if i'm actually in no man's land 0.82
00:07:12.400 or if i just need to get out of my comfort zone and go find some fucking friends what do you got on 0.96
00:07:17.040 this well it sounds to me like you are exactly in no man's land okay no man's land is the like the 1.00
00:07:24.240 saying right that everybody likes to say oh it's fucking lonely at the top motherfucker you don't know 0.99
00:07:29.000 shit about the top you ain't ever been to the top i ain't even been to the top and i'm much further 1.00
00:07:33.600 along than you okay so let's be real you don't know shit you're repeating some shit that your 1.00
00:07:38.520 fucking uncle joe says or your fucking cousin that hasn't done shit it's lonely at the top it ain't 1.00
00:07:44.340 fucking lonely at the top bro it's lonely in the middle all right and here's the thing when you first 1.00
00:07:50.280 start out with trying to achieve something that's not the norm of what everybody else is trying to 0.99
00:07:55.460 achieve they think you're fucking weird they think there's something wrong with you okay and then you 0.94
00:07:59.120 set out actually doing the work and you set out getting some results and what happens is steve 0.97
00:08:04.180 and tony and mary jane from your fucking old neighborhood they look at you and they say oh 0.97
00:08:08.320 this dude's weird what's wrong with him he's too good for us now you're fucking right i'm too good for 0.99
00:08:12.680 you because i'm not going to sit around and waste my fucking life okay and so as you progress out of 0.99
00:08:17.640 that friend zone which by the way those people are never your friends they're just people you hung out 0.99
00:08:21.800 with all right you get into this lonely place and that lonely place is called no man's land
00:08:26.660 and that's the time that you spend between your what you thought were your friends and then finding
00:08:32.320 a new group of people who are aligned with the actions that you're taking and the goals that you
00:08:36.100 have that are going to support push you down the road pick you up whenever you've stumbled and help
00:08:42.620 you become that version of yourself you're trying to become and most people never put in enough time
00:08:47.280 to actually get to that point they get into the no man's land zone where there's really nobody around 0.98
00:08:52.000 it's very lonely it's a real thing and they say fuck it's lonely and then they go back to their 0.71
00:08:57.920 old friends and they never venture outside of that okay that's a mistake because what ends up happening 0.97
00:09:03.460 if you continue to go is you find a group of people who are aligned with the goals that you have for 0.88
00:09:08.000 yourself these people instead of making fun of you instead of talking shit to you instead of making 0.86
00:09:13.140 you feel guilty for wanting more of yourself these people actually do all the opposite they support you 0.97
00:09:18.320 they encourage you they pick you up when you fall down they push you down the road to be better
00:09:22.660 and that journey will happen multiple times over the course of your life if you continue to go
00:09:29.080 so you'll meet your first group of friends and these people will probably be you know just like you they
00:09:34.420 lived in the regular world of the socially acceptable world for a long time and they've pushed
00:09:39.720 out and they've created something and they're working and and they're working towards all these better
00:09:43.420 things and these people will be comfortable there and you'll you'll if you continue to go you'll you'll
00:09:50.060 outgrow them too and you'll go through another phase of no man's land and then you'll come to another group
00:09:54.380 of people who are actually doing things at a higher level and that process will repeat itself over and
00:09:59.320 over and over again until you find yourself with literally the highest performing humans on the
00:10:04.300 planet my my phone if you looked at my phone and you looked at the missed calls or the you know the 0.99
00:10:11.100 the call data i mean every one of those motherfuckers is worth nine ten figures every single 0.97
00:10:16.040 one of them right these are all people whose names you know these are people who are out there 0.99
00:10:20.460 kicking ass doing things living at a higher standard building incredible things there's billionaires
00:10:25.960 100 millionaires you know uh high performance people that like dude it's just it's it it's an 0.98
00:10:32.820 incredible group of people that all hold me accountable to being a higher level of me which allows me to do 0.99
00:10:38.520 what i do so like it's not lonely at the top that's just something losers fucking say to excuse 0.99
00:10:44.560 themselves from doing the work that is necessary to actually become who it is they want to become 0.98
00:10:49.220 because everybody has this little version of themselves in their heart that they know they're
00:10:55.040 supposed to become they know it they know what it's supposed to be they can feel it they can see it 0.99
00:11:00.160 they know they're supposed to be this bad motherfucker that exists inside of them but they do not have the 1.00
00:11:05.460 courage to even say this is what i want to become they don't even they don't even have the balls to 1.00
00:11:10.460 say this is what i want and if you don't have the fucking balls to say this is what i want you sure 0.99
00:11:15.880 as fuck don't have the the the inner grit fortitude uh tenacity to go out and create it so that's where 0.99
00:11:23.780 these friends come in and that's why it's important for you to fucking be around people who actually 0.99
00:11:28.260 support you because the reason i am who i am is because along the way i've met people who have 0.92
00:11:34.280 demanded me to rise up and become a better version of myself and i'm surrounded by those people every 0.99
00:11:39.400 day look at the motherfuckers in this building i get to come in bro i got fucking half a dozen dudes 0.99
00:11:43.860 in here ran 100 miles you know what i'm saying like i got people in here that fucking do incredible 1.00
00:11:47.880 things every fucking week like it's hard not to be on your shit because everybody is that's where you 0.99
00:11:52.980 want to be you want to be around people like that not your steve tony and mary from fucking the old 1.00
00:11:58.220 neighborhood who think you're a weirdo because you don't want to be broke and drunk and fat like they're 0.98
00:12:03.060 going to be their whole lives so you're not you're not fucking abnormal bro you're just outgrowing the 0.98
00:12:08.900 people who have been holding you back your entire life and you're in the middle you haven't found that
00:12:12.420 new group yet you need to keep going that is it let me ask you this any two two questions so one
00:12:18.260 when you got to that first no man's land how long did you spend there and then the second part is
00:12:24.580 who controls how long you spend and you you control it okay you control how long you're there because
00:12:30.740 and by the way there will be a time right like it's phases you're going to spend some time there
00:12:36.740 because once you get in that first group of friends you're going to be overwhelmed with you
00:12:43.120 know new energy and new ideas and new objectives and goals and dreams that you want for yourself
00:12:50.440 because these people who are around you are going to like basically you're going to catch what they
00:12:55.020 have okay and if you're really a like a killer like you're a hardcore driven i want to keep going 0.99
00:13:00.620 person you're going to apply that shit and you're going to naturally start to move on from that 0.98
00:13:04.740 some of those people will go with you by the way but some of them won't okay it's unlike the first 0.99
00:13:10.360 group the first group none of those people will go with you the second group a few of those people
00:13:15.060 will go with you and they'll make it to that third group or that fourth group with you right but
00:13:19.420 you'll repeat this multiple times over your life if you're an ambitious driven committed human
00:13:24.320 to pursuing your ultimate potential over the course of your life this will happen over and over and
00:13:30.620 over again you will go you will go through times of extreme loneliness and feel like you know you
00:13:35.960 don't have any friends but that's not reality dude you do have friends you're just busy focusing on
00:13:41.620 yourself you're busy taking care of business you're supposed to do that you're supposed to do that in
00:13:47.440 your life okay too too many of us are loyal to friendships right because people guilt us they
00:13:54.660 they say like oh andy you know he's getting too fucking big for his britches oh andy he's you know 0.99
00:14:00.640 he's not humble anymore that's what they like to say a lot of them like to say that shit you changed 1.00
00:14:05.060 no shit bitch that's i was supposed to change i was supposed to fucking change that's the that's 1.00
00:14:10.140 the whole point so thank you thank you for recognizing it like dude this is this is something that 0.99
00:14:16.200 really kills a lot of people's potential because they can't get through that first phase to learn
00:14:21.080 how much better it would be when they have people around them that actually pull them along support
00:14:26.100 them and contribute to what they truly want to be 100 and this it goes to like that metaphorical ladder
00:14:31.460 of success we talk about like these are those so you're talking about those groups those each phases
00:14:36.540 those are just rungs on that ladder right so so just going back to that first question uh i asked so
00:14:42.440 how long did you spend in that first that first phase of that no man's land on that first i don't
00:14:47.060 know i mean there's no definitive time i don't know like it like i seem to go through about every
00:14:53.240 four years a new phase that's for the cycle it seems to be for me it's like every four years i level up
00:14:58.960 and i've got a whole new group of people around me and i'm still friends with those people from before
00:15:04.540 but i'm just not spending my my nights and my weekends and my dinners and shit with those people 0.95
00:15:09.440 honestly dude once you get old enough you don't really like it's not like when you're young man 0.88
00:15:14.260 like you kind of like just hang with your tight circle and that's it like i don't really hang with
00:15:19.440 people like i talk to people on the phone or i text them but like it's not like it used to be like
00:15:25.780 everybody's busy that's the other thing when you get to that level it's not like everybody's coming
00:15:30.400 around on sunday for the barbecue like you might not talk to people for six months that doesn't mean 0.90
00:15:35.260 they're not your friend like a lot of you guys need to grow the fuck up like you think like oh 0.99
00:15:39.160 andy didn't talk to me for six months so he must be mad at me motherfucker i didn't even think of 0.99
00:15:43.900 you for six months because i'm so busy worrying about my own shit and if you were about worried 0.99
00:15:47.520 about your own shit you wouldn't worry about that yeah so like dude it's um you know it's just 0.99
00:15:53.760 something that you it's hard to understand when you're going through it or at least haven't gotten 0.99
00:15:57.140 to that first phase because you don't have the perspective you think that you're going to go out
00:16:01.520 and be this like weird lonely person your whole life and that's just not the case bro all the great 0.96
00:16:05.400 shit's going to come from you just refusing to quit and pushing yourself through and if 0.91
00:16:09.140 this person would will continue to go for another you know however long six months a year whatever 1.00
00:16:14.560 it fucking takes you're going to find that group you're like fuck i'm glad i didn't quit because 0.99
00:16:18.380 that will supercharge your entire life i love it man i love it that was uh question number one let's 1.00
00:16:23.080 move on to question number two uh taking a different a different approach to this right um i mean i guess
00:16:28.140 it's almost like an overarching theme this is relationships right these circles these friends
00:16:31.880 uh question number uh two andy you've talked several times about cutting people out who don't
00:16:36.680 contribute to their mission maybe these are people in that first group right how do you say no to your
00:16:41.820 friends uh because you're busy working and doing personal development without hurting their feelings
00:16:46.980 do you feel like it's your obligation to spend time with certain people and what's a good way to do this
00:16:53.420 without being super abrupt and being perceived as incentive i don't care about their feelings that's not my 0.98
00:16:59.060 problem that's their problem that's a you problem that's not a me problem my fucking problem is how am i 0.99
00:17:04.920 getting from here to here and how am i going to do that that's what i'm worried about however you 0.99
00:17:09.880 perceive that whether you think i'm being a jerk or whatever you think i'm being aloof or whether 0.98
00:17:14.800 you think i'm too good or not humble or this or that i don't give a fuck okay i understand that i don't 0.99
00:17:19.720 give a single fuck how you perceive it the people you will stay in contact with will be gracious with 0.98
00:17:27.120 your progress these are the people who will say who will understand they will understand that it's not 0.99
00:17:31.980 personal that you're just doing your thing they will understand that it's not a personal attack
00:17:36.580 that you don't call them every fucking other day or text them for four or five six months there's a 0.94
00:17:41.660 saying amongst high level successful people busy people understand busy people okay and what that 0.98
00:17:48.460 means is we don't get our fucking panties in a bunch over the fact that you know our buddy didn't 0.98
00:17:53.520 text us back one time or it took him a week or it took him a fucking month we don't worry about 0.99
00:17:58.480 shit like that we're worried we're too worried about winning we're too worried about accomplishing 0.97
00:18:01.940 things so like i don't even literally give any fucking attention to that at all and that took a 0.98
00:18:09.060 long time that wasn't something that in the beginning i felt that way i must say did you did 0.91
00:18:13.460 you was there a point where you did yeah i know in the beginning i did feel guilty i fucking felt guilty 0.97
00:18:18.260 because people try to guilt you and then you're like fuck maybe i am maybe i am you know maybe i'm not 1.00
00:18:24.620 as good as i think i am or i can't do what i think bro those people are poison for your fucking life 0.99
00:18:28.840 okay and that's what you'll come to realize so like when they start guilting you and you actually feel 0.99
00:18:33.840 guilty you should fucking remember that your uncle andy over here told you to keep fucking going 0.99
00:18:38.500 and uh that shit don't worry about that shit those people these are people that are stuck in the 1.00
00:18:44.840 fucking matrix bro they they cannot understand how you want to be better they can't understand that it's 1.00
00:18:50.300 even possible to be better they have no comprehension of what you're trying to do or what your dreams are 0.99
00:18:55.420 what your goals are they don't get it and they're not going to fucking get it it's back like when we 0.98
00:19:00.320 were trying to explain all the covid shit to all the people they're not going to get it they're 0.99
00:19:05.220 fucking not going to get it bro i wasted three years of my life trying to convince people and now 1.00
00:19:09.780 i got the same people coming to me saying fuck bro why didn't i listen to you now i got this fucking 1.00
00:19:15.000 medicine it's fucking me up you see what i'm saying so it's like bro i spent three years trying to 1.00
00:19:19.580 tell you not touch the fucking stove you touched it anyway now you're fucking upset with me man 1.00
00:19:23.680 fuck off right so this is the same mentality you're dealing with with these people in the beginning 1.00
00:19:29.820 phase most of these people will only be happy for you when you become something that is so great 1.00
00:19:36.080 that like they can talk about it like i know that person i know that dude i know that girl or benefit
00:19:41.340 from yeah or benefit from which you know you'll learn along the process that that's not you don't do
00:19:46.240 that you know what i mean i love it well guys andy our third and final question uh question number three
00:19:54.920 andy how can you incorporate healthy competition as an entrepreneur every time i try to do this i feel
00:20:03.560 like my co-workers don't take it the right way and they think that i'm just trying to make them look
00:20:08.240 bad is this a me problem or is this a them problem i want all of us to win and i'm having a hard time
00:20:14.360 getting the people around me in that same competitive mindset okay where you're making
00:20:18.400 a mistake here is that you're trying to coordinate the plan with these people like hey we're all gonna
00:20:25.580 win we're all gonna do this we're all gonna do that that's not how humans work okay if you want
00:20:32.220 competition you got to create competition help i don't give a fuck about healthy competition by the 0.95
00:20:37.820 way competition is competition i'm here to fucking win okay when you adopt that attitude the one i 1.00
00:20:44.760 just said i'm here to fucking win and you stop giving a fuck if it hurts their fucking feelings you 0.99
00:20:48.920 know what's going to happen they're actually going to get more competitive and they will rise to the 1.00
00:20:53.240 occasion you have to go first you have to give no fucks about how they interpret it oh you're making 0.94
00:20:58.740 me look bad good i'm glad you look bad that means i'm doing fucking great okay and what you what 0.99
00:21:05.160 will happen is those people will fucking start to run after you because they're like oh shit he's 0.99
00:21:09.900 going no matter what and they'll rate they'll rise up and what happens magically is instead of them 0.99
00:21:15.660 resenting you eventually when they start winning they start to respect you for going first okay so
00:21:21.240 you're trying to coordinate it all and and and do all like oh guys let's do this isn't this a good 1.00
00:21:26.820 idea and then when you try they're like fuck steve you're making us look bad man fuck them okay do not 0.99
00:21:32.760 worry about that at all don't even fucking talk to him about it until you're so far ahead when they're 1.00
00:21:38.380 like fuck steve's hitting his numbers or he's getting paid or he's getting a promotion be like 0.99
00:21:42.300 yeah i tried to get you guys to go but you're not going just come do these things and then you invite 1.00
00:21:46.960 them to go and they will fucking go but until you go they're not gonna go and this is a this is a 0.98
00:21:51.880 fundamental flaw with most people when it comes to leadership because they believe that there's a way 0.98
00:21:56.980 to somehow coordinate it all peacefully and package it real nice so nobody gets offended bro winning 0.99
00:22:02.440 offends people doing great shit offends people whether it's your fucking teammates whether it's 0.99
00:22:07.320 people on the outside whether it's the other team people don't like motherfuckers that are good at 1.00
00:22:11.660 what the fuck they do so get good at what you do if you want your team to win because they will follow 0.99
00:22:16.300 you out of spite at first and then respect you later for making them better okay so like you're 1.00
00:22:22.160 thinking about it the wrong way you have to go and they will follow i love that andy why why do you
00:22:27.580 think people get so why do you think people put so much fucking care and emphasis on other people's 0.83
00:22:33.640 feelings like how do we get here because that's what they're taught to to care about like if you 0.92
00:22:39.320 think about what we're taught to look at our whole society bro you can't even say the truth because it 0.98
00:22:44.780 offends people you can't point out statistical facts about society because it hurts people's fucking 0.98
00:22:50.080 feelings whether or not they're there or not yeah bro you're giving out trophies to kids now 0.93
00:22:54.540 based upon showing up so their feelings don't get hurt so you ask where it comes from it's a
00:23:00.020 cultural indoctrination of creating a scenario where people don't value achievement anymore they
00:23:06.240 value just being a part of and that's not the way natural order works natural order no matter what you 1.00
00:23:12.100 think about it no matter what your fucking opinions are no matter how much you bitch whine cry and spent 1.00
00:23:17.540 most people spend their whole lives complaining about it it's still going to apply and the winners are 1.00
00:23:23.280 going to fucking win and the losers are going to kick rocks the winners are going to have the 0.99
00:23:27.080 spoils losers are going to have the leftovers this is reality bro and there's no way to fucking talk 0.99
00:23:32.880 your way around it there's no way to protest your way around it there's no way to cause a scene around 0.99
00:23:37.460 it it's just the way it fucking is i didn't make the fucking rules bro but i understand the rules 0.99
00:23:42.540 and they're concrete and i play by them because that's where the reward is and you would do yourself a 0.99
00:23:48.480 service instead of thinking that you can bitch argue fight and like resist and kick and scream 1.00
00:23:54.180 and somehow you're going to get what you want and just accept the rules and be like bro if i want to 0.99
00:23:57.660 win i got to get fucking good and that's it and so like stop wasting your life stop being someone who 0.99
00:24:03.740 fucking thinks you're going you're you're bro there's eight billion people on this earth no one 0.99
00:24:07.740 gives a fuck how you feel about anything they don't and if you think that these people out there 1.00
00:24:12.440 telling you this shit see what's actually happening and if you were fucking an aware human being and you 1.00
00:24:17.360 will come to realize this is truth whether it's now or whether it's 50 years from now what's 1.00
00:24:22.220 actually happened to you and the reason that you care so much about feelings over the actual
00:24:27.980 performance or the facts of the matter is because you have been taught by a higher power than us
00:24:34.160 the peasants that's us okay by the elite the most elite people on the planet who have the most money
00:24:40.040 the most power the most resources they have everything the most freedom everything okay you have been
00:24:46.380 taught to not play the game don't play the game showing up is good enough does if you don't know
00:24:52.680 algebra you don't have to learn it dude you know what you don't have to have a great credit score to
00:24:57.600 get a mortgage anymore you get a lower uh lower credit score and you'll get a mortgage just fine 0.95
00:25:01.660 they're teaching people not to compete so that they can stay in fucking power okay and so are you 0.99
00:25:08.040 going to waste your whole life because some elite fuck taught you that the fake rules to the game 1.00
00:25:14.000 so that you get fat sick lazy inactive unhealthy dumb filled with alcohol unfit like bro that's 1.00
00:25:22.240 what they want from you because when you're that way you're not a threat to their to whatever they 1.00
00:25:26.440 have this is why i say personal excellence is ultimate rebellion because it fucking is that's what 0.98
00:25:32.080 they don't want they do not want you to be fit they do not want you to have money they do not want 0.99
00:25:36.980 you to fucking be smart they do not want you healthy okay if you're sick you buy their drugs 1.00
00:25:43.080 okay if you're stupid you fall for their shit if you're fat you sit down and consume all their data 1.00
00:25:48.440 you're you're a customer that they intentionally create and and do this mindset of everybody's 1.00
00:25:54.200 fucking feelings this this politically correct culture of not offending anybody all of that is 0.91
00:25:59.620 built around the idea of keeping us low and keeping them high and we as a society need to figure it the 0.99
00:26:08.000 fuck out because the rules of the game just like in nature are fucking survival of the fittest kill or be 0.99
00:26:15.020 killed this is a fundamental reality you either are or you fucking aren't there's no in between and no 1.00
00:26:21.840 one gives a fuck how you feel you could fucking protest you could fucking post on social you could 1.00
00:26:27.120 cancel people you could do whatever the fuck you want but the motherfuckers that keep moving and they 1.00
00:26:32.200 keep they keep working and they keep getting better they're going to have all the shit and you're not 1.00
00:26:35.420 going to have anything you're going to be stuck at home watching fucking streaming paying for it you're 1.00
00:26:40.540 going to be eating fucking uber eats okay getting fat as fuck that was going to make you sick which 1.00
00:26:46.040 makes you consume their fucking medical system okay uh you're going to be indoctrinated by their 1.00
00:26:51.020 information because that's what you're doing because you're lazy right you're going to believe 0.99
00:26:53.980 everything they said so now you become not only a non-player in the game but also an asset to their 0.96
00:26:59.800 fucking way of life and then keep voting for it because dude look man you need it look it's real 0.99
00:27:06.700 shit and it ain't ever changed and like these people out here they fucking try to make it be like 1.00
00:27:11.720 oh yeah you know uh winning's not cool anymore you know but bro don't listen to that shit bro i'm just 1.00
00:27:19.180 gonna live my life and you know float around and experience life bro find those people in 20 years 0.99
00:27:26.780 find them in 20 years okay because i'm old enough to know what that happens in 20 years a lot of you 0.99
00:27:32.940 guys aren't all right don't listen to it use the time right now to become great at what the fuck you 0.93
00:27:38.720 want to be great at to become educated to become fit to become you know wealthy all right so that you 0.96
00:27:45.660 could actually have some sort of freedom because those are the only things that are going to give
00:27:49.080 you real freedom they're not going to give it to you we're living in an age of technological and
00:27:54.160 intentional propaganda slavery all right look how they're promoting being overweight as healthy and 0.97
00:28:00.380 cool right look how they're promoting all this crazy shit the opposite of reality it's it's all it's all 0.97
00:28:08.900 to keep people down so that they can maintain power the only the only thing this is why they 0.98
00:28:13.680 villainize achievement this is why in culture there's a there's a there's a part of culture 1.00
00:28:18.040 right now that hates people that go out and build businesses oh i fucking capitalists yeah motherfucker i 1.00
00:28:25.000 fucking provide food for literally fucking thousands of people that's the way capitalism fucking works 1.00
00:28:30.860 yeah he's the one percent you're goddamn right i am cost took me 24 fucking years to get here 1.00
00:28:37.480 when you were fucking off i was working when you were fucking being a fucking lazy piece of shit i was 1.00
00:28:42.680 working now you want half my shit fuck you go get it yourself so like dude it's you ask where it 1.00
00:28:49.800 comes from that's where it comes from it's indoctrinated into people and it's a false reality 1.00
00:28:54.040 and it's it's it's a false reality to the point where it doesn't matter how much steam it gets it will
00:29:01.360 never be reality because this isn't the first time in the history of humankind that these principles
00:29:06.060 have caught steam even in the in let's say it became the norm and everybody agreed okay we're
00:29:12.480 going to just depend on the government we're going to bro the government kills people the government 0.97
00:29:18.060 starves people the government creates a life of misery ask anyone who lived in communist fucking russia 0.97
00:29:24.600 ask anyone who lives in communist cuba ask anyone who lives in com who lived in communist venezuela 1.00
00:29:31.200 ask them there's a reason motherfuckers come here and they're like fuck this is amazing 1.00
00:29:35.920 it ain't because that system's better than ours and some of you are so misled and willing to justify 1.00
00:29:41.940 your own unwillingness to actually put in any fucking effort in life that you are willing to ride that 0.96
00:29:48.800 fucking false reality into the grave as opposed to like just working and trying to be better 0.99
00:29:54.960 it's dangerous dude simple fix lots of people are ruined bro look that's for them i don't really 0.99
00:30:02.340 give a fuck about them i'm here for the winners i'm here for the people that want to win i'm here 0.96
00:30:06.540 for the people that that are gonna win that's what the fuck we're here for i'm not here for any of 1.00
00:30:10.860 that shit they can all fucking eat shit i don't give a fuck now if you want to come join the team 1.00
00:30:15.400 you're welcome but it's really hard you got to work that's my i've dedicated my whole life to this 1.00
00:30:20.400 shit so i love that man it's like i'm thinking i can care about your feelings or i can care about 0.90
00:30:25.800 your winning i can't do both not at the same time i don't listen bro the way you care about other 0.99
00:30:30.960 people's winning is by winning yourself that's what people don't get you got to be selfish to be
00:30:36.600 selfless when it comes to that if you you can't sit there like that's where the problem is with all 0.89
00:30:40.880 these internet fucking coaches right how many internet coaches are there online i haven't done a 0.98
00:30:44.880 fucking thing but they're a coach right right makes sense i love it man what dude that was a 0.99
00:30:52.980 little quick hitter man i loved it yeah if you got any more i'll fucking take it oh you want some 0.99
00:30:55.980 extra sauce yeah all right i got one andy 24 years in business this extra sauce question 24 years in 0.88
00:31:02.680 damn near a quarter of a century uh you speak a lot on the business side about reinvesting
00:31:08.720 right what would you say in the last 24 years was your best investment reinvestment that you've made 0.99
00:31:14.140 in any any one of your company myself taking my fitness and my health my mental fucking toughness 0.99
00:31:21.400 and my grit my fortitude my ability to persevere my ability to endure building myself into someone 0.91
00:31:27.540 who's built for fucking winter for the hard times that was the best investment i've ever made zero 0.97
00:31:32.440 question so not millions of dollars in automation that fucking investment made me hundreds of millions 0.98
00:31:37.820 of dollars okay that's not a no not millions of dollars in an investment not new marketing not 0.98
00:31:45.640 this not that like i could list all that shit out but see here's the thing when you take care of 0.98
00:31:50.180 yourself and you build yourself into a literal fucking weapon that's built for this game everything 0.98
00:31:54.960 becomes an advantage everything every investment becomes 10x because you have figured out a way to 0.97
00:32:01.700 leverage your own personal abilities into your company everybody follows suit like i've talked about
00:32:06.540 this on the show when i started getting in shape for real shape in 2016 where our whole company was 0.98
00:32:13.460 a bunch of fat fucks you know what i'm saying and we were already a nine-figure company then now now 0.99
00:32:18.800 fuck you walk through here and everybody looks like fucking zeus yeah you know what i'm saying like 1.00
00:32:23.980 and dude you don't think those people are performing at a higher level you don't think these people who 1.00
00:32:28.340 are taking care of themselves are performing a higher level than maybe people that work at companies that
00:32:32.020 try to compete with us so what kind of investment can i like how what kind of money could i spend to
00:32:37.120 get that to happen you can't do it that's why it goes back to that question of the no man's land
00:32:42.760 question you have to go and people will follow and that's the reality so the best investment i ever 0.99
00:32:48.300 made was committing myself to myself and making sure that i'm a fucking hard motherfucker that can 0.98
00:32:54.140 handle what's going on because dude it takes that yeah i love it yeah i love that and dude if you 0.99
00:32:59.300 want to learn how to do it go out listen to episode 208 it'll give you the whole blueprint it's the
00:33:04.200 exact same blueprint i follow that's the exact blueprint i follow for personal development and
00:33:08.700 keeping myself tuned up um and then if you want the process for what i do day to day in terms of
00:33:14.140 being effective as opposed to busy go listen to episode 16 so if you listen to episode 208 and then
00:33:20.020 episode 16 you will literally understand my entire fucking life and how i run it because those two 0.95
00:33:24.740 episodes that's exactly how i run my life like you won't ever have to ask a question again 0.85
00:33:29.140 because that's exactly what i do do i not do those things every day that's what i do every day so
00:33:34.220 it's exactly what i do there's nothing withheld there's no secret sauce that i do there's no it's
00:33:39.700 all right there bro and it's free i give it to you for free you know why i give it to you for free 0.96
00:33:43.640 because i want you to fucking win because we need fucking winners we need winners out there setting 0.98
00:33:48.020 the pace for everybody else to fucking know what it looks like to win there's not enough people 0.99
00:33:51.760 winning there's not enough people doing great shit for everybody to actually touch it and see it and feel 0.99
00:33:56.480 it which keeps people uninspired believing that they cannot achieve great shit see this is contagious 0.98
00:34:01.720 this is a ripple effect if you win other people win if they win other people win if those other 0.99
00:34:07.580 people win some other motherfuckers win and this is the this is the fucking cultural rebellion that we 0.98
00:34:12.440 must have it has to be a rebellion of personal excellence and winning so that we can all rise and when we 0.99
00:34:18.500 all become people who are fit intelligent uh wealthy at least to the you know not poor right um and aware
00:34:27.020 of what's going on now they can't control us and right now they can because they've created a whole 1.00
00:34:33.600 fucking culture full of zombie fuckers that don't even know what the fuck is going on they think they 1.00
00:34:39.280 think in mainstream media is like actual news still like it was 30 years that's getting a little 1.00
00:34:44.480 tinfoil there i'm just saying well it is what it is but i'm just saying they think that's real shit 0.95
00:34:49.280 yeah they don't understand there's a whole narrative being propagated out to get people to behave in a 0.93
00:34:55.100 certain way but they can't grasp that you gotta break the matrix no dude the only way to break the
00:35:00.160 matrix is through personal excellence it's raising of standards it's setting the example for other
00:35:04.480 people to see because dude just like we were talking yesterday you and i were talking yesterday about
00:35:09.100 cars at the end of the day do you remember what we were talking about we were talking about 0.98
00:35:12.340 how when i drive my chevelle to the gas station every motherfucker loves it everybody loves it 0.98
00:35:18.680 everybody loves it doesn't matter nobody hates on it everybody loves it 90 year old women seven year 1.00
00:35:24.780 old kids to say i drive my fucking la ferrari to the gas station and nobody fucking says shit except 0.99
00:35:30.000 the little kids okay and the reason is is because these people can see the chevelle as obtainable to 0.99
00:35:37.620 them right so it's like cool and i'm a dick when i drive the la ferrari right because 0.70
00:35:42.320 that's like i'm just showing off well you don't know i have a passion for cars what you also don't 0.99
00:35:46.280 know is what that passion for cars has created it's created fucking thousands of fucking jobs 0.95
00:35:50.700 okay so because they can see the chevelle as obtainable they cheer for that but what they're 0.98
00:35:59.240 really cheering for is their own limitations mediocrity well do you see what i'm saying
00:36:02.960 man so like you're okay with cheering for something that's you you feel comfortable with
00:36:07.240 but like when you see something that's outside that box it upsets you well the reason it upsets
00:36:12.220 you is because you're not understanding that you have the capacity to move outside that box
00:36:16.120 it's just nobody ever told you that before so we got a lot of work to do a lot of people that i feel
00:36:21.520 like like a lot of people in society just need that smack of permission well hold on now if that same
00:36:27.940 person okay let's just say the same person who was hating if they had grown up in a family
00:36:33.560 where one of their uncles or some one of their cousins or somebody was a wealthy person and they 0.99
00:36:38.180 had some cool shit they wouldn't hate on it because they would say oh fuck i actually know a person 0.99
00:36:42.560 who did that and they would probably come up and they do and say hey my cousins does this and that 0.99
00:36:47.200 and this what do you do and they get interested right and they learn and they get a little better
00:36:51.120 so it's a it's all about them being able to witness the win all right and what we have right now 0.99
00:36:58.160 is a pandemic an epidemic of fucking loserdom and mediocrity that was intentionally created 0.99
00:37:03.760 by our own fucking systems to keep people suppressed instead of being winners all right and so now your 1.00
00:37:11.660 whole family they have never witnessed anybody who's actually became top level physical physical 1.00
00:37:17.820 fitness top level uh successful they don't witness that shit or even any level of success so how can 0.99
00:37:24.140 they go to achieve something how can we raise our standards if they never witness it or know it's 0.98
00:37:29.220 possible they don't know it's possible they think it's for other people they think it's for people 0.97
00:37:32.980 who you know were born over here on third base or people who got lucky or people who fucking sold 1.00
00:37:39.460 their soul to the devil and shit right bro the only thing that sells your soul to the devil is you 0.99
00:37:44.060 becoming less than what you're meant to become on this fucking earth let's be real about it 1.00
00:37:49.060 because that's a fucking slap in the face of the higher power thanks yeah some deep shit man yeah 0.99
00:37:54.960 well you know that's why that's why personal excellence is the cultural rebellion that we must 1.00
00:37:59.680 have it is it that's that's what's going to change shit it's going to be you and i'm talking to you and 0.90
00:38:06.100 a lot of you guys think i'm talking to someone else i'm not talking to dj i'm talking to the 1.00
00:38:09.480 motherfucker who's got this shit going right in their ears right now it's going to come from you 1.00
00:38:13.500 raising your fucking standards reach down and grab your fucking jelly belly right now that ain't 1.00
00:38:18.240 setting an example bro go look at your bank account that ain't setting an example okay go look at what 1.00
00:38:24.300 you believe to be true and who you get your news from that's probably not setting an example or maybe 0.91
00:38:29.260 you do know everything's fucked up but you don't know what to do well i'm telling you right now it's 0.98
00:38:32.560 starting here with yourself because those are the things that are going to inspire others to be better 0.97
00:38:36.400 which creates our ability as a collective to break out of the mental restrictions that they have
00:38:42.500 intentionally placed upon us i love it man i love it guys make sure you subscribe yeah that was smooth
00:38:51.000 yeah so joe just hold up a sign in here it said subscribe i'll see it on youtube yeah and dj
00:38:56.060 fucking got it so yeah subscribe to youtube well i don't know if it was for me or him you need it 0.98
00:39:01.720 yeah that was for me but yeah but you got it so we're good yeah fucking joe fucking joe 0.99
00:39:09.300 joe did the right thing good job joe that's a dj show of hands whose fault is that dj's it was in 0.99
00:39:19.560 black writing so i thought that's right it's your fault all right well that's all i got all right 0.97
00:39:25.260 all right guys pay the fee went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a bowl 1.00
00:39:32.360 fuck a stove counted millions in the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold 1.00
00:39:39.040 doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00