REAL AF with Andy Frisella - May 22, 2023


519. Q&AF： Fitness And Business Correlation, Disconnecting From Work & Fears When Starting A Business

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In this episode of For the Realist's Sake, we talk about the importance of having a solid relationship with your partner and how that ties into the creation of the show, Q&A, and how to be a successful entrepreneur.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realist's sake, goodbye 0.99
00:00:20.440 to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking 0.98
00:00:24.980 reality guys. 0.96
00:00:25.680 Today, we have Q and AF, that's where you get to submit questions and we answer them
00:00:30.500 here on the show.
00:00:31.800 There's a couple of ways you could submit questions.
00:00:33.800 You could submit them by guys.
00:00:35.680 You can email those questions in to askandyandandifusela.com or now that we're on YouTube, you go on YouTube,
00:00:43.720 you find the Q and AF episode, you go hit subscribe, you go down in the comments and
00:00:47.700 you leave us a question and then we'll pick some questions from there to answer on the
00:00:50.860 show as well.
00:00:51.740 This is not a Q and A show.
00:00:53.100 Now, this exact show is, but this is actually a bunch of shows within the show that we call
00:00:58.460 Real AF.
00:00:59.540 And today you're going to hear Q and AF and then you're going to hear CTI.
00:01:05.280 CTI is Cruise the Internet.
00:01:07.260 That's basically what we do whenever we want to talk about what's going on in the world.
00:01:10.820 We throw up headlines on the screen.
00:01:12.080 We talk about them, talk about what may be true, what may not be true.
00:01:15.440 We speculate on what it all means and then we talk about how we can all be solutions to
00:01:19.160 the problems going on in the world.
00:01:20.300 Then we have Real Talk.
00:01:22.020 Real Talk is five to 20 minutes of me just giving you some stuff that I think you need
00:01:25.220 to hear.
00:01:25.580 And then we have Full Length.
00:01:26.560 Full Length is what you're used to seeing and hearing on other people's shows where they
00:01:29.920 have a bunch of guests in the room or a guest and they have conversation.
00:01:34.200 And then sometimes we have 75 Hard Verses.
00:01:37.600 75 Hard Verses is where I bring in someone who's changed their life via 75 Hard, the Live Hard
00:01:42.880 program.
00:01:43.300 And we interview them and we learn from them and hear their story.
00:01:47.220 So those are the basic episodes of what we do within the scope of Real AF.
00:01:53.520 Yeah.
00:01:53.960 And we got a fee.
00:01:54.940 OK. 1.00
00:01:55.280 And the fee is this buy all my shit. 0.99
00:01:59.460 No, I'm just kidding. 1.00
00:02:00.240 You don't have to buy all my shit. 0.98
00:02:01.620 I do appreciate it, though. 0.99
00:02:03.340 But no, we don't have a fee.
00:02:04.600 We don't have a monetary fee for the show, nor do I run ads on the show.
00:02:08.200 I could make eight figures a year running ads on the show very easily.
00:02:11.640 I don't do it because I don't want to answer to people about what I say on the show.
00:02:15.700 I want you guys to know that I'm not saying things because I'm getting paid to say them.
00:02:19.000 And I want you to get the authentic Andy.
00:02:21.720 And in exchange for that and the value I provide, I just ask very simply that if you get value
00:02:26.180 out of the show, if it makes you laugh, it makes you think, gives you a new perspective,
00:02:29.420 it teaches you new skills, if it helps you out, please share the show and please share
00:02:33.440 that particular show.
00:02:34.520 Okay, like sharing one show out of every 100 that you listen to is really helpful for
00:02:39.120 us.
00:02:39.360 You know, we're trying to get this message out.
00:02:41.000 We're trying to make a change.
00:02:42.300 We're trying to help what's going on in the world.
00:02:44.280 And for that to happen, I need you guys to pay the fee.
00:02:47.300 So please pay the fee.
00:02:48.860 And if you don't like the show, don't feel obligated to pay the fee.
00:02:51.200 It's very simple.
00:02:52.180 So with that being said, what's up, dude?
00:02:55.240 What's going on, man?
00:02:56.260 I wanted to get your take on this because I know a lot of, especially on YouTube, like I
00:03:01.200 know the audience loves the CTIs, right?
00:03:04.080 It's weird, dude.
00:03:05.240 Super weird.
00:03:05.800 It's inverse.
00:03:06.640 Because like on audio, everybody loves the Q&A Fs.
00:03:09.840 Right.
00:03:10.160 And then on YouTube, everybody loves the CTIs.
00:03:12.540 Right. 0.98
00:03:13.120 It's fucking weird.
00:03:14.280 It's a huge, definitely an interesting. 0.98
00:03:16.740 YouTube is a whole new thing.
00:03:18.260 A different animal.
00:03:18.840 Yeah.
00:03:19.260 A different animal.
00:03:19.780 But we know that a lot of people like the CTIs just in general, right?
00:03:24.320 What can you, can we just quickly go into and kind of explain your vision about how these
00:03:29.500 Q&A episodes tie in to the CTI episodes and what the, what that relationship should look
00:03:35.760 like.
00:03:36.100 Well, yeah, it's very simple.
00:03:37.160 Look, you need practical skills.
00:03:40.620 You need practical knowledge.
00:03:41.720 You need to know how to operate and be successful.
00:03:44.360 We all know that.
00:03:45.360 That's what Q&A F hits on.
00:03:46.800 Um, I help you guys solve problems based on my perspective of being an entrepreneur for
00:03:52.100 24 years and being a, uh, very, very, very successful entrepreneur for 24 years.
00:03:57.420 Um, well, not for all 24 years, but at this point in time, um, and then, you know, a lot
00:04:05.040 of people who are interested in personal development, they're like, oh man, I wish you would just do
00:04:08.640 the personal development and leave the CTI. 1.00
00:04:10.960 Well, dude, you guys say that shit. 1.00
00:04:13.080 You're the reason we're in this fucking mess. 1.00
00:04:15.100 Okay. 1.00
00:04:15.460 Okay.
00:04:16.800 So just like a fish has to live in an aquarium, it requires clean water to live in its environment,
00:04:22.260 to be successful, to make a lot of money, to, to build a great life, to do all the things
00:04:27.640 that you guys want to do with the personal development content.
00:04:30.160 We have to have freedom in society.
00:04:32.420 And because entrepreneurs have been so focused over the last 10, 12 years of just making
00:04:38.380 money and being successful.
00:04:39.880 And a lot of us have done very well.
00:04:41.480 We've taken our eye off the ball of what's going on in culture and society. 0.99
00:04:45.880 And, uh, it's a shit show if you hadn't noticed. 0.98
00:04:48.340 And I know a lot of you guys would rather just look away and say, oh, it'll get better 0.99
00:04:51.920 and someone else will handle it.
00:04:53.040 But I got news for you. 0.99
00:04:54.260 No one's fucking coming to handle it except us. 0.98
00:04:57.260 Okay. 0.98
00:04:57.660 So it's very simply, you have to understand and preserve the environment, not the green
00:05:03.840 environment. 0.99
00:05:04.300 I'm not talking about the water and the fucking soil. 0.99
00:05:06.480 I'm talking about your environment that you want to use to plant the seeds that are going 1.00
00:05:10.620 to grow into your fruitful, fulfilling, rich ass motherfucking baller future that you're 0.99
00:05:15.700 trying to create. 0.99
00:05:16.660 Okay.
00:05:17.140 We have to have freedom has to, has to have, it has to be there without it.
00:05:22.440 You can't grow.
00:05:23.220 And the perspective that a lot of you guys don't understand is that, and I do understand
00:05:28.420 this, and this is why we do these things.
00:05:31.040 Um, what I experienced for the last 24 years is a lot different than what you're going to 0.98
00:05:37.000 experience for the next fucking 24 years. 0.98
00:05:39.060 If you don't change what the fuck is going on and you will not be able to do the things 0.99
00:05:43.260 that I've been able to do over the last 24 years. 0.99
00:05:45.640 So you guys who fucking cry to me and say, Oh, please stick to personal development. 1.00
00:05:50.720 You're an idiot. 1.00
00:05:51.900 You're not understanding that fucking without freedom, we will fucking not be able to do 1.00
00:05:56.740 the things we're trying to do. 1.00
00:05:57.980 And the fact that you're trying to stick your head in the sand and look the other fucking 0.98
00:06:01.120 way is the reason the rest of us have to try so fucking hard to fix it. 0.97
00:06:05.040 So we would just appreciate if you would just take a little bit of simple interest in what's
00:06:09.080 going on in your community, get engaged to preserve freedom so that we all can go out and
00:06:14.480 build the lives that we want to build. 0.98
00:06:15.820 It's very like in my mind, it's fucking peanut butter and jelly, but for some people, they 0.99
00:06:21.240 can't grasp the connection. 0.99
00:06:22.440 Yeah.
00:06:23.120 So can't have one without the other, bro.
00:06:26.240 That's it's that simple.
00:06:28.080 So CTI, we're, we're doing in-depth soil analysis and Q and A's. 0.99
00:06:33.060 We're teaching you about the fucking CTI. 1.00
00:06:34.280 Tell you how to plant the motherfuckers. 1.00
00:06:35.560 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:35.900 Right.
00:06:36.320 Yeah.
00:06:36.480 It's a great relationship.
00:06:37.300 I just thought that was important to bring up.
00:06:39.480 Well, bro, I just get, I do get tired of you guys like real talk, like some of you guys 0.99
00:06:44.060 to message me and say that shit, like it's very fucking aggravating because you're showing 0.99
00:06:49.300 a couple of things. 1.00
00:06:49.980 You're showing that you're ignorant to what it takes. 0.99
00:06:52.000 And then you're also showing that you're selfish. 0.99
00:06:54.620 You're showing that you don't give a fuck about anyone else, but your exact results. 0.99
00:07:00.240 Okay. 0.99
00:07:00.720 And here's where the catch 22 for you is going to be is that because you're selfish, you're
00:07:06.760 not going to be able to grow yourself because you're not paying attention to the environment
00:07:10.740 of freedom that we must preserve to be able to do what we're trying to do.
00:07:14.180 So your ignorance and your apathy and your willingness to look the other way will eventually 1.00
00:07:18.700 come to your doorstep and clip your fucking wings. 1.00
00:07:21.060 And that's what you have to understand. 1.00
00:07:22.840 That's why we do it.
00:07:24.080 That's why I'm so passionate about it.
00:07:25.740 That's why I'm willing to risk to do it. 0.97
00:07:27.260 That's why I fucking take the abuse to do it because it's fucking important because 0.99
00:07:31.460 if we don't have freedom, none of the other shit I talk about is even fucking relevant 0.99
00:07:34.560 at all. 0.99
00:07:35.340 Yeah.
00:07:35.820 Super important.
00:07:37.400 I love that.
00:07:37.920 But so it is Q&A.
00:07:40.160 So let's let's plant some seeds.
00:07:43.740 Yeah.
00:07:44.420 Question number one.
00:07:45.820 Andy, I followed you since the MFCEO days and I've seen you go.
00:07:50.580 Those are coming back.
00:07:52.240 And I've seen you go from being overweight to being an amazing, fantastic physical shape.
00:07:57.260 Oh, let's say some more.
00:07:58.600 Huh? 1.00
00:07:59.040 Jack Tan, juicy as fuck. 1.00
00:08:00.940 Thank you. 1.00
00:08:01.640 Keep going.
00:08:04.400 Andy, I follow you on Instagram.
00:08:06.260 I see you're doing 75 hard.
00:08:07.680 You're putting in the work.
00:08:08.440 My question is, what have you noticed has been the biggest change or improvement with
00:08:14.260 your business as a result of getting in better physical shape?
00:08:20.400 Man, you know, I couldn't name one specific thing because all of it's improved.
00:08:25.220 I mean, if I go back and like count, like if you were to go back four years and see where
00:08:31.300 we were four years ago to where we are now, it would speak for itself.
00:08:34.640 It should speak for itself. 0.97
00:08:36.280 You know, four years ago we had, I don't know, fucking 100 employees. 0.90
00:08:43.100 You know, we've got all close to 500 employees under roof here. 0.94
00:08:46.620 I've got 200,000 square feet in the building we're sitting in.
00:08:50.240 I've got 200,000 square feet going up across the street.
00:08:52.700 I've got another 180,000 square feet going up across the street.
00:08:57.280 Our company has grown multiple times over in those four years. 0.96
00:09:01.940 So, you know, I mean, everything has fucking gotten better. 0.92
00:09:07.900 But I would say if you made me, like you put a gun to my head and you said, okay, what's 0.97
00:09:14.260 the thing that you notice the most?
00:09:16.720 It makes it a lot easier to leave.
00:09:19.160 Okay. 0.99
00:09:19.420 When you're in great physical shape and people know you handle your shit and they see you 0.93
00:09:23.940 working and they see you doing all the work, people are not only inspired to do the same 0.95
00:09:30.380 and hold a high level, but they're also, they also listen to you when you talk.
00:09:34.900 You don't have to raise your voice.
00:09:36.140 You don't have to say things more than once.
00:09:37.780 You don't have to have like these powwows to convince people.
00:09:41.600 Like it's very simple.
00:09:42.760 It takes all the, it takes all the questioning and all the, all the skepticism.
00:09:47.180 Yeah. 1.00
00:09:47.460 All that shit. 1.00
00:09:48.060 It takes it and removes it because people can see very clearly that you are who you say 1.00
00:09:52.780 you are and that there's a mutual respect built there because they will then continue
00:09:58.140 to work.
00:09:58.660 And so you see them working and then it just makes the whole environment work that much
00:10:02.080 better.
00:10:02.660 Yeah.
00:10:02.800 So I think the ability to lead and get stuff done at a quicker rate with less resistance,
00:10:07.300 with less selling on why it's a good idea when you have a team is, is it's invaluable
00:10:14.600 benefit because it saves you so much time.
00:10:17.140 It saves you so much, you know, anxiety and stress and frustration.
00:10:23.040 You know, back before I took my stuff really seriously, it was you know, it was a lot harder.
00:10:29.020 You know what I mean?
00:10:29.680 Cause I would have people that were, you know, in much better shape to me living at a much
00:10:33.680 higher level than me.
00:10:34.600 And here I am thinking, because I'm the boss that they got to listen to me, which was true,
00:10:38.760 but I had to give some convincing and like, you know what I'm saying?
00:10:41.740 Yeah. 0.99
00:10:42.040 Like, it's just a better place to lead for like, you lead from the fucking front. 0.99
00:10:45.360 You don't lead from the back. 0.99
00:10:46.660 You don't, you know, like I would say the leadership ability.
00:10:51.340 Yeah.
00:10:51.740 You know, it's just less, it's less difficult.
00:10:55.040 You're not pulling against the grain and it's easy to get people coordinated and moving
00:10:59.520 quick.
00:11:00.000 I mean, and obviously, I mean, there's countless of other benefits, right?
00:11:04.240 You're sleeping better.
00:11:05.300 You're living better.
00:11:05.980 You're feeling better.
00:11:06.760 You're going to be able to live longer.
00:11:08.280 Hopefully.
00:11:08.660 Well, dude, I mean, there's all these other benefits.
00:11:10.000 Dude, I think confidence is a big thing, man.
00:11:12.060 Yeah.
00:11:12.540 Like, you know, like, like, dude, when I look at myself, you know, and you know, everybody's
00:11:16.700 at a different level, right? 0.97
00:11:17.600 This has nothing to do with, I'm the fucking best physical specimen. 0.98
00:11:22.020 Like there's fucking 50 dudes in here that look better than me, right? 1.00
00:11:25.460 There's, there's fucking dudes out there, you know, that look like motherfucking C-bomb, 1.00
00:11:30.480 right? 1.00
00:11:30.880 Like, well, there's not many that look like him, but you get what I'm saying, right?
00:11:33.340 Like there's, it's not about the actual level of conditioning.
00:11:36.660 It's about how close you're living to your top level of conditioning on a day in and day
00:11:42.640 out basis.
00:11:43.960 And that's mental and physical.
00:11:46.100 And by living as close to your potential as you possibly can on a day in and day out 0.99
00:11:50.240 basis, that instills a level of confidence that cannot be fucked with. 0.99
00:11:54.160 Okay. 0.98
00:11:54.560 Because like when, when I look at me or I have doubts about me or my abilities, I'm very
00:12:00.060 simply asking myself a simple question. 0.98
00:12:03.040 Well, who else is doing what the fuck you're doing? 0.99
00:12:04.940 Who else is putting in the work you're putting in? 0.99
00:12:07.080 Who else is planting the seeds that you're planting?
00:12:09.640 Who else is doing all this stuff? 0.99
00:12:11.560 And the answer is fucking nobody. 0.99
00:12:13.880 Okay. 0.99
00:12:14.320 So it's very hard to feel doubtful or not confident when you can look around at all your
00:12:18.700 peers and everybody else that you compete with. 0.93
00:12:21.160 And you could say, I know they're working hard, but they ain't doing what I'm fucking 0.99
00:12:26.440 doing. 0.96
00:12:26.640 And like, that gives you a, and that's no disrespect, bro.
00:12:29.940 That's just me.
00:12:30.720 What I have to do to get to my level of optimization.
00:12:33.920 Like I'm not a particularly talented or overly skilled individual. 0.98
00:12:39.540 So for me to operate at that high level, I have to have my shit in order. 0.98
00:12:44.080 Like it's not about me walking around thinking I'm the toughest fucking dude or thinking I'm 0.99
00:12:49.100 ultra, you know, more disciplined than all of you guys or whatever, bro. 0.98
00:12:52.220 We all have our weaknesses. 0.98
00:12:53.200 We all have our strengths, but for me to operate on a high level, being just a normal fucking 0.95
00:12:58.500 guy that comes from the same place that most of you guys come from, I have to do that to 0.88
00:13:03.540 be competitive because at this level, everybody's good.
00:13:05.980 Yeah.
00:13:06.360 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:13:06.900 Like everybody I compete with on this level is fucking, they're fucking great at what they 0.99
00:13:11.740 do, whether it be in any of the areas I'm in in business, whether it be fucking, uh, my 0.99
00:13:18.300 personal development brand, whether it be my speaking ability.
00:13:21.280 Like I am constantly competing with some of the best people at what they do in the world
00:13:26.520 all the time. 1.00
00:13:27.680 And I have to be at a high level and all that shit or fucking my shit doesn't work. 1.00
00:13:31.220 Right. 1.00
00:13:31.600 Right.
00:13:31.880 So I have to do it.
00:13:33.020 It's non-negotiable.
00:13:34.220 And I, I, it's not, it's a requirement.
00:13:36.420 It's not like a nice thing.
00:13:37.560 You know what I mean?
00:13:38.060 Absolutely.
00:13:39.660 Andy, what, what do you say to the leaders out there or the CEOs out there that are in
00:13:45.720 business that have been in business for years?
00:13:47.660 They're not in the best physical shape.
00:13:50.440 Is there a valid argument to, to the, to the, I guess, is this a valid argument, right?
00:13:56.640 Like I've invested so much.
00:13:58.360 I've just been focused on the business that I forgot about myself.
00:14:01.060 For sure.
00:14:01.700 Right.
00:14:01.900 Like, how do you address that?
00:14:03.240 Like, for sure.
00:14:03.540 Talk to those guys.
00:14:04.480 Look, for sure.
00:14:05.060 That's a valid argument.
00:14:06.120 I live that life.
00:14:07.020 Yeah.
00:14:07.320 Like, bro, remember I was 15 years in the business.
00:14:10.280 Now I had, and by the way, I grew up an athlete.
00:14:13.520 I played all kinds of sports at a high level my whole life. 1.00
00:14:16.400 It's not like I was this big fat piece of shit for my whole life. 1.00
00:14:20.880 Right. 1.00
00:14:21.420 The business fucking started going. 0.99
00:14:23.440 I didn't know how to handle it. 1.00
00:14:24.900 I started coping with alcohol and fucking food. 0.99
00:14:27.940 Um, and you know, I got fat, real fat. 1.00
00:14:32.060 And, um, I could easily see how someone could find themselves in that position.
00:14:36.000 And, and, and at that time, you know, if I'm being honest, you know, I would, if you would
00:14:40.480 have asked me at that time, like, was it affecting me? 0.97
00:14:43.560 I would have been like, fuck, no, I'm, I'm winning, dude. 1.00
00:14:45.700 I'll fucking kick your ass, even though I'm fat. 1.00
00:14:47.400 Right. 1.00
00:14:47.720 And I would say shit like that. 0.99
00:14:49.080 But bro, the truth is, is that that wasn't true. 0.99
00:14:51.280 That was an insecurity.
00:14:52.320 I was projecting and I wasn't truly confident in myself.
00:14:56.420 And that was my defense mechanism.
00:14:58.200 And so there's a big difference between pretending and actually being. 0.98
00:15:01.460 And at that point in my life, I had to pretend because that's what it took to get the fucking 0.98
00:15:05.460 job done. 0.99
00:15:06.580 Um, when you get to the level of higher business, everybody's fucking great. 0.94
00:15:12.720 Like every, everybody, and they're all smart. 0.95
00:15:15.820 And guess what?
00:15:16.260 They all do. 0.99
00:15:16.940 They all take care of themselves physically and mentally fucking all of them. 0.99
00:15:20.160 Okay. 0.99
00:15:20.720 So I see it as a requirement.
00:15:22.440 And if I were to say something to one of you guys out there who maybe thinks like, 1.00
00:15:25.720 oh, that's bullshit. 0.99
00:15:26.740 I would say, bro, you're selling yourself way short because I thought I was that too. 1.00
00:15:30.740 I thought I was fuck. 0.99
00:15:31.640 I thought I could do it all. 1.00
00:15:32.740 I thought it didn't matter.
00:15:34.100 The truth is it mattered a whole lot. 0.99
00:15:35.840 And when I fucking got my shit together, the company went fucking bananas. 0.99
00:15:39.240 And so not just this company, but all the ones I'm involved with and everything I do, 0.99
00:15:42.680 speaking personal development brand podcast, fucking my, my actual companies, like my life, 0.99
00:15:49.380 like fucking everything. 1.00
00:15:50.500 It's just, it's like pouring gas on a fucking fire, bro. 1.00
00:15:53.540 You have to create an inferno. 0.99
00:15:55.040 And you can't sit there and say, well, my little fire works just the same as that big
00:15:59.080 inferno.
00:15:59.420 No, it doesn't, dude.
00:16:00.880 I could cook marshmallows on my, yeah.
00:16:02.360 Okay, bro.
00:16:03.320 Like.
00:16:04.060 It's squirted over.
00:16:04.660 Yeah, right. 1.00
00:16:05.240 Like we're talking about a fucking nuclear weapon versus your little fucking campfire. 1.00
00:16:10.060 Like it's a totally different thing. 0.99
00:16:11.920 And people do have a hard time seeing that because when they're in it, when you're, when 0.99
00:16:17.820 you, when that's like, bro, when I was 350 pounds, bro, like, like none, by the way, fuck 0.99
00:16:23.400 all you people that didn't tell me, you know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:16:26.320 Like you fucking people, like, I didn't know you too. 1.00
00:16:28.780 Like you, you fucking people, all my fucking people close to me, you guys all fucking dealt 1.00
00:16:32.720 with it. 1.00
00:16:33.100 None of you said shit. 1.00
00:16:34.180 I didn't realize I look like that. 1.00
00:16:36.200 Now I look at the shit and I'm so fucking embarrassed. 1.00
00:16:38.380 I can't even believe that I fucking even like went out of the house. 1.00
00:16:41.360 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:16:42.560 So fuck you guys. 1.00
00:16:43.520 That's why I tell everybody that you asked me the other day, do I tell people? 1.00
00:16:47.060 Yeah. 0.99
00:16:47.300 Fucking tell them. 1.00
00:16:47.960 You know why? 1.00
00:16:48.420 Cause I know what it's like to not be told.
00:16:50.540 So, you know, if that's you, um, you're leaving a lot on the table, bro.
00:16:55.200 And, and I want the best for you and I, I, you deserve the best, but you got to develop
00:16:59.400 yourself first.
00:17:00.400 That's what I said on my story the other day.
00:17:02.060 We were talking, talking about, um, build yourself first, you know, like on the last Q and
00:17:07.380 AF that we did, you know, I, I made a statement about, uh, these young guys making these podcast
00:17:12.700 mics and like trying to put the content out before they actually build anything, put in
00:17:15.880 the cart before the horse.
00:17:16.700 And some, some might, you know, some of these young guys, they got a little offended, right?
00:17:21.180 But guys, I'm saying that from a place of love. 0.99
00:17:23.200 I'm saying that from a place of like, Hey, motherfucker, like I'm telling you, so you 1.00
00:17:26.560 don't waste the next fucking 10 years of your life wondering why nobody's listening 1.00
00:17:30.240 to you. 1.00
00:17:30.600 Nobody's listening to you, bro. 1.00
00:17:31.720 Cause you don't represent the shit you're fucking saying. 1.00
00:17:33.540 You haven't built the shit you're saying. 1.00
00:17:35.040 You haven't even built yourself. 1.00
00:17:36.280 So if you haven't built a business and you haven't built anything, bro, build yourself
00:17:41.360 because that doesn't take very long.
00:17:42.660 You can talk a lot about that.
00:17:43.700 And a lot of people need that and it's valuable.
00:17:45.560 So like, start there and start moving and the rest of the stuff will come.
00:17:49.880 And that's all I was trying to say.
00:17:51.040 Like you guys that got upset with me, I mean, I get it, bro, but I still love you. 0.87
00:17:54.540 I'm fucking trying to help you out. 0.93
00:17:56.200 I don't want you to waste the next five years wondering why nobody's fucking clicking on 1.00
00:17:59.040 your shit. 1.00
00:17:59.860 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:18:00.680 I love it, man.
00:18:01.340 Uh, Andy, question number two, I've been using the power list and built consistency,
00:18:08.460 which has dramatically improved my personal and professional results.
00:18:12.480 I have a vacation coming up and I do not want to lose any momentum, nor do I want my family's
00:18:17.760 vacation to be negatively impacted.
00:18:19.840 The question is, Andy, do you continue to utilize the power list 365 days per year, or are there
00:18:28.580 periods of time like vacations that you truly allow yourself to disconnect?
00:18:34.300 I'm not good at disconnecting.
00:18:36.720 Um, I discovered a long time ago and this, some people don't understand this.
00:18:41.700 I don't expect them to understand this, but I am only happy when I am on offense.
00:18:46.260 If I'm only happy when I'm creating, I'm only happy when I'm building, I'm only happy when 0.96
00:18:50.580 I'm making deposits into something like I have to be moving forward or I'm fucking miserable. 0.94
00:18:56.480 And it, I guess maybe it comes from 24 years of just being conditioned to have to do that 0.97
00:19:02.660 for survival.
00:19:03.540 And a lot of you guys are going to say, well, that's unhealthy.
00:19:05.700 Well, yeah, it is.
00:19:06.820 But you know, there's benefits to come with it. 0.73
00:19:09.380 Like I get to do whatever the fuck I want, whenever I want with whoever I want, wherever I 0.99
00:19:13.700 want at any fucking time. 0.99
00:19:15.100 I choose to actually do what I do. 0.99
00:19:16.880 I like what I do.
00:19:17.880 So there's benefits.
00:19:20.340 Um, I'm not going to sit here and say it's for everybody because it ain't for everybody.
00:19:23.500 And I'm not one of these entrepreneurs that's going to sit here and tell you that, you know,
00:19:27.500 everybody's supposed to go out and become an entrepreneur.
00:19:30.220 That's not true.
00:19:31.240 It's statistically untrue.
00:19:32.920 Okay. 0.97
00:19:33.320 It's seven to 8% of the population and only 1% of that fucking 8% is actually successful. 0.95
00:19:38.900 So it's a very competitive game. 0.71
00:19:40.780 Most people are going to be great entrepreneurs.
00:19:42.880 They're going to be part of an organization.
00:19:44.240 They're going to contribute.
00:19:45.100 They're going to make a lot of money.
00:19:46.360 Those that's just as important as entrepreneurs, bro.
00:19:48.620 And you can do very well with way less stress in that role.
00:19:51.800 Um, so I'm not good at disconnecting.
00:19:54.620 And I know some of you guys be like, Oh, that's not healthy.
00:19:56.760 That doesn't sound good.
00:19:57.600 Well, you're not built like me.
00:19:59.100 Like, I'm sorry. 0.98
00:20:00.000 Like, and you can fucking throw rocks and you can say that's not healthy. 1.00
00:20:03.440 And you can say all this shit. 0.99
00:20:04.440 I don't fucking care because what makes me happy is moving forward. 1.00
00:20:08.600 I like that. 1.00
00:20:09.280 Well, eventually you're going to die. 1.00
00:20:10.580 No shit. 1.00
00:20:11.300 I'm trying to cover as much ground as I can. 0.99
00:20:13.280 Like, that's the point.
00:20:14.580 Um, nobody's going to remember that.
00:20:17.560 Doesn't matter.
00:20:18.560 You know who will remember it.
00:20:20.020 I will remember it. 1.00
00:20:21.100 Fucking two minutes before I die. 1.00
00:20:22.560 I'll be like, motherfucker. 1.00
00:20:23.100 I gave it everything I got. 1.00
00:20:24.600 Let's see what's next.
00:20:25.620 Yeah.
00:20:25.920 You know what I'm saying?
00:20:26.620 So like, um, so personally, dude, like I, I try to keep what I, the practical answer
00:20:32.240 to this question is like when I went to Mexico, uh, was for my first vacations since our honeymoon
00:20:39.560 back in February, I enjoyed myself.
00:20:43.060 I drank some beers.
00:20:44.200 I ate some of their food. 0.99
00:20:45.240 I fucking loved it. 0.98
00:20:46.060 I had a good time, but I also did do my power list every day. 0.95
00:20:49.320 It was just not the same power list that I would do, uh, if I were here.
00:20:54.340 Yeah.
00:20:54.720 Right.
00:20:55.060 So I still got my workouts in.
00:20:56.700 I still did these basic things, you know, except for like, instead of me rucking, it was, 0.98
00:21:01.180 it was a fucking hour walk in the sand. 0.98
00:21:03.340 Right. 0.99
00:21:03.700 Like, like it was a little tough.
00:21:05.160 That could be difficult to know.
00:21:06.300 It definitely was, bro.
00:21:07.340 It was.
00:21:07.980 But my point is, is you, you dial it back a little bit and the way you dial it back just
00:21:13.160 a little bit, um, it's just by accommodating yourself while you're there. 0.91
00:21:17.800 And then you, you, if you check the shit off, you're keeping the momentum and you're 0.84
00:21:21.860 continuing to win those days, knowing that the standards are just a little bit different 0.97
00:21:25.260 for those days.
00:21:26.160 So I'm not going to sit here and tell you, bro, you go on vacation. 0.99
00:21:29.800 Fucking crush it, dude. 0.99
00:21:31.180 Right. 1.00
00:21:31.540 I get it.
00:21:32.120 Like we have to have a normal life.
00:21:34.320 Um, and so what I would do in that situation and what I, what I actually do do, I said do 0.98
00:21:39.880 do, um, I, I, uh, that's one of your fucking jokes over there, brother. 0.98
00:21:45.120 Get him a trophy. 0.99
00:21:46.280 Yeah, that's right. 0.99
00:21:48.000 Go with two dicks. 1.00
00:21:50.200 So, so, so just, you know, make it for the day and, and, and try to win that day. 0.99
00:21:56.540 You know what I'm saying?
00:21:57.360 And, uh, and keep the momentum flowing.
00:21:59.340 Yeah.
00:21:59.520 And it's interesting to do because, you know, I, I travel with you when, when you go around,
00:22:03.820 um, we've traveled quite a bit.
00:22:05.940 Right.
00:22:06.180 And like, even on those travel days, you still like those days are still when, but like when
00:22:11.200 most people would think of a travel day, like, Oh, it's going to say day off.
00:22:13.840 No, like, like you, you were still able to accomplish every single thing that we get up.
00:22:18.440 I get up early that day.
00:22:19.780 Yeah.
00:22:19.960 You make those, I get a workout in before I leave the house.
00:22:22.380 Yep.
00:22:22.880 Okay.
00:22:23.480 Uh, we catch a plane.
00:22:26.220 First thing we do when we get wherever we're going is we usually do the outdoor cardio.
00:22:29.980 Yep.
00:22:30.400 I mean, that's the routine for us when we travel. 0.99
00:22:32.240 Like we go put our shit in the room and fucking do outdoor cardio and then whatever else. 0.99
00:22:36.760 And I stay on my diet and you know, it's, it's pretty easy. 1.00
00:22:40.580 Like it's just takes a little planning, bro.
00:22:42.240 And, and some commitment and losing the idea that we have to have these like excuses.
00:22:48.020 Like I used to, dude, I used to be so weak that I, I, I was like that.
00:22:53.620 Like I would say, Oh, well this travel day.
00:22:55.100 So it doesn't count. 0.99
00:22:55.800 Can't do shit. 0.99
00:22:56.420 Yeah. 1.00
00:22:56.760 Can't do shit. 1.00
00:22:57.540 I throw the whole day away because I was fucking flying for two hours. 1.00
00:23:00.480 Didn't even make sense real shit. 1.00
00:23:02.920 Yeah. 0.98
00:23:03.120 But like, bro, I was also the guy that would go to a restaurant and not be able to control
00:23:08.720 what I ordered off the menu.
00:23:09.880 And, and while the menu sitting in front of me, I already know what I should order.
00:23:15.340 I'm in my head while the stuff's going on, you know, there's this like crucial moment that's
00:23:21.380 coming and it's when the waitress comes to your table or the waiter comes to your table
00:23:24.760 and ask you what you want.
00:23:26.060 And that whole time, this is how it used to go for me.
00:23:28.660 And I'd sit at the table and the whole time, it's usually with Emily, right?
00:23:35.260 The whole time I'm sitting there thinking about what I'm going to say to justify what
00:23:40.640 I'm about to order, which I know isn't good for me to her to like, make it sound like I'm 0.94
00:23:45.960 really not breaking my shit, but like, this is what that one little exception and we'll 0.91
00:23:49.580 start it back tomorrow. 0.97
00:23:50.760 Right. 0.98
00:23:51.220 And that's how I got so big because I told myself that every fucking day, every day I was 0.98
00:23:55.620 like, all right, well, look, dude, I'm starting tomorrow, so I got to fucking get it in today, 0.99
00:23:59.820 bro. 0.90
00:24:00.020 I'm going to order pizza.
00:24:00.940 I'm going to order this.
00:24:01.620 I'm going to get my Chinese food. 0.99
00:24:02.720 I'm gonna get all the shit in. 1.00
00:24:03.900 And I did that for like a fucking year, bro. 0.99
00:24:06.380 Right. 0.99
00:24:06.680 I was going to start the next day and the next day and the next day and the next day
00:24:09.960 before you knew it. 0.99
00:24:11.260 I got on that scale and I was 350 and I was like, holy shit. 0.88
00:24:15.000 And I remember when I got on the scale at 350, dude, because the last time I had been on 0.57
00:24:19.280 the scale before that, I was 318.
00:24:21.140 So I thought it's a big difference.
00:24:22.560 I know.
00:24:23.060 I thought I was like, I thought I knew I had put a look because you dude, you know this
00:24:27.000 because you've been big before.
00:24:28.240 Like when you get big, it's hard to tell how big you're actually getting because the clothes
00:24:33.520 you're wearing a lot of times are like stretchy and like they don't, you know, it's, you're
00:24:38.060 not like a, it's different.
00:24:39.800 And bro.
00:24:40.960 So I thought I was like, I'm like, ah, I might be like 320.
00:24:44.080 Like I might be like 322.
00:24:46.280 Bro.
00:24:46.600 I got on and saw that 350. 0.99
00:24:48.060 I, I fucking, I, it like fucked me up. 1.00
00:24:50.620 Like it was like a fucking, like, I was like, fuck, this is not my life. 1.00
00:24:55.020 I'm not doing this. 1.00
00:24:55.860 I left the gym because I weighed myself at the gym.
00:24:58.240 I saw the 350. 0.99
00:24:59.060 I fucking left. 0.99
00:25:00.420 I went, sat in my car and I didn't cry, but I was just like fucking on that verge for 0.99
00:25:06.200 like an hour straight. 0.91
00:25:07.780 I gathered myself. 0.99
00:25:08.880 I went back in the gym and I started fucking training and I never looked back. 0.99
00:25:12.040 And that was, that's, that's, that was it. 0.98
00:25:14.480 You know, I just feel like most people, you know, I just feel like most people,
00:25:16.600 like a lot of people, and I don't know if it's a fault to their own or not, but like
00:25:20.080 we just so quickly try to jump to the excuse to pull us out from doing the shit we know 0.84
00:25:25.860 nobody could tell us these excuses better than us. 0.99
00:25:28.220 Yeah. 1.00
00:25:28.540 Who's going to sell you on the shit better than you? 1.00
00:25:30.780 Yeah. 1.00
00:25:31.560 Who, who, who could sell you better than you?
00:25:33.440 Nobody.
00:25:34.180 That's why it's such a hard thing to get control of.
00:25:36.540 That's why it's so important to get in control of. 0.97
00:25:39.500 That's why I fucking made the program, the live hard program completely fucking free, 0.97
00:25:43.860 dude, because you fucking need it because you can't be free. 0.99
00:25:47.200 If you're not even free from your own thought process, if you can't even control your own 0.99
00:25:51.220 urges and your own thoughts and your own internal dialogue, you're not free no matter what the 0.96
00:25:55.520 fuck is going on in the world. 0.94
00:25:57.100 So, you know, that's why I push it. 1.00
00:26:00.040 That's why I give it you guys for free.
00:26:01.560 That's why I live that lifestyle.
00:26:03.020 I live that bro. 1.00
00:26:03.940 So I don't have to live this shit anymore. 1.00
00:26:06.320 I'm already, I'm programmed. 1.00
00:26:08.120 You know what I'm saying?
00:26:08.840 So like I live it so people will see it and be like, what's that? 0.99
00:26:12.880 Cause I know it's going to benefit the shit, you know? 0.97
00:26:15.400 So if you're interested in that, you go listen to episode 208. 0.99
00:26:18.300 It covers the whole program for free. 0.99
00:26:20.380 It'll change your fucking life in a very short amount of time. 0.99
00:26:23.240 And that's why I say build yourself first, because if you build yourself first, that takes 0.99
00:26:27.300 the least amount of time to do.
00:26:28.840 Everything else takes more time. 1.00
00:26:30.100 So build yourself into a fucking weapon. 0.99
00:26:31.820 And then you'll be that much more productive, which saves time off the journey that you're 1.00
00:26:35.160 trying to go on.
00:26:36.060 Love that, man.
00:26:37.740 Guys, Andy, our third and final question, Andy, question number three.
00:26:44.080 Andy, what were some of your fears that you had when you were first starting out in business?
00:26:49.560 We're going back 24 years.
00:26:51.520 And more importantly, how did you overcome them?
00:26:54.700 I just filed my LLC and started my business banking account and I'm scared shitless.
00:27:01.000 Good. 0.99
00:27:02.420 You should be fucking scared. 0.99
00:27:04.020 You should be anxious. 1.00
00:27:05.480 You should be worried.
00:27:06.840 You should be concerned.
00:27:08.160 You know what that means? 0.98
00:27:09.480 That means you actually give a fuck about what you're trying to do. 0.99
00:27:12.400 OK, everybody tries to preach this. 0.97
00:27:14.720 No anxiety, no stress, low, low drag, happy all the time. 1.00
00:27:19.240 Shit, bro. 1.00
00:27:20.180 When you really care about something, you really want something to work. 1.00
00:27:22.560 You're going to feel stress about it.
00:27:23.880 You're going to feel anxiety about it.
00:27:25.280 You know what? 1.00
00:27:25.700 It means that you fucking give a shit. 1.00
00:27:27.620 OK, so first thing first, I say that's normal and I say that's great. 1.00
00:27:30.540 All right.
00:27:31.420 You should feel that way.
00:27:32.700 Now, how do you deal with it?
00:27:34.360 Here's how you deal with it. 0.99
00:27:35.560 You go out every single day and you do everything you fucking can. 0.99
00:27:38.860 That way, when shit's not materializing, you can look yourself in the mirror and be like, 0.99
00:27:42.720 I planted the seeds today, bro. 0.99
00:27:45.320 I planted the seeds yesterday.
00:27:46.920 I planted the seeds before that.
00:27:48.620 In fact, what did I say to you about three or four days ago getting out of my car at the end of the day?
00:27:53.480 You said something to affect most people look at their days as if like, what did they get out? 0.98
00:27:57.560 When you should be looking at your days is what the fuck did you put in? 0.96
00:27:59.980 And then what I say after that? 1.00
00:28:02.020 I said, there ain't a motherfucker on this fucking planet. 1.00
00:28:04.720 That's planting more seeds. 1.00
00:28:05.400 That's planting more seeds than me in the last fucking four months. 0.99
00:28:07.580 Yeah. 0.98
00:28:08.460 Okay.
00:28:08.740 Because I've been planting and I've been planting the seeds deep and plentiful.
00:28:15.540 All right.
00:28:16.480 And if you live like that as an entrepreneur, you have nothing to fear because eventually those seeds are going to sprout. 0.99
00:28:23.060 Eventually those seeds are going to fucking produce fruit. 0.90
00:28:25.480 And so you should not judge the entrepreneurship journey based off of how much sales you make, 0.95
00:28:31.240 based off of how many customers you got, based off of the internet likes you today or they don't like you today.
00:28:36.380 You should be judging yourself and saying, all right, did I do all I can? 0.59
00:28:42.160 Did I fucking plant all the seeds I could today? 0.57
00:28:44.520 And if the answer is yes, that actually reduces your anxiety. 0.98
00:28:47.720 That reduces your stress. 0.89
00:28:49.160 That reduces this frustration because you can look at yourself and honestly say, I'm doing everything I can fucking do. 0.75
00:28:56.260 And bro, you can't do any more than you can do. 0.89
00:28:58.840 You see what I'm saying?
00:28:59.780 Absolutely, man.
00:29:00.320 So like, bro, by doing everything that you can possibly do to move forward, which I give you all the systems on how to do it.
00:29:08.680 You can't possibly have that much anxiety because like, what else could you do?
00:29:13.640 Right?
00:29:14.040 Like I was just out in the gym training, dude.
00:29:15.880 And Daryl was out there.
00:29:17.540 And we were talking. 0.99
00:29:19.040 Daryl's one of the best dudes in our fucking company. 0.99
00:29:20.980 No question. 0.99
00:29:21.720 Works harder than I've probably been 99.99.
00:29:25.720 Probably the hardest working dude here outside of a couple.
00:29:28.120 There's three or four of them.
00:29:29.140 He's one of them.
00:29:31.900 We were talking about this little transformation contest that we have going on inside the company and then also outside.
00:29:38.400 And he's like, what do you think?
00:29:39.700 And I'm like, I don't.
00:29:42.180 He's like, what do you mean? 0.94
00:29:42.940 I'm like, well, I've given it everything I could fucking give it, dude. 0.99
00:29:45.740 If someone beats me, it means they fucking, they really fucking worked. 0.98
00:29:49.820 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:29:50.440 Like, I can't be mad about that.
00:29:52.540 And you, it's the same way in business.
00:29:54.400 Like, if you do everything that you could do and someone still beats you.
00:29:59.140 You could probably learn some skills from them.
00:30:00.900 You could probably learn a little bit of technical skill.
00:30:03.180 But you can't really feel bad because you did all you know and you did all you're capable of.
00:30:06.960 So, like, a great way to reduce stress and anxiety and frustration in business is just to do everything on a day-by-day basis that you could potentially do and then track it.
00:30:18.120 This is why the power list is such an important tool because you can actually flip back through your notebook and literally see the wins day-by-day-by-day-by-day, right? 0.99
00:30:27.760 So, like, in those moments of doubt where you're like, oh, man, I don't know the fuck, dude. 0.65
00:30:31.760 I don't know if this is working. 0.95
00:30:32.940 I don't know if this is, I don't know if I'm going to get paid.
00:30:35.140 I don't know if this is ever going to work. 1.00
00:30:36.380 I don't, fuck, people don't like my shit. 1.00
00:30:38.220 I got three likes on my video. 1.00
00:30:39.640 Like, all that shit that comes to you and you're trying to build a brand, you could go to that notebook and you could flip back the last, you know, however long. 1.00
00:30:50.160 And you could say, well, fuck, man, I won all these days. 1.00
00:30:53.400 Like, I just got to keep going. 1.00
00:30:55.520 And that's the game.
00:30:56.540 You know, most people just quit too early.
00:30:58.640 Most people don't plant seeds on a regular day-by-day, disciplined basis.
00:31:02.740 And, you know, that's the whole game.
00:31:05.560 Just do those things.
00:31:06.300 It sounds like, like, correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like a lot of people just have this bad understanding of time, right?
00:31:16.560 Like, I'm hearing this and I'm thinking about the story of, like, bamboo, right?
00:31:19.700 Like, it takes, like, 10 years or something crazy like that.
00:31:22.040 No, no, no, it takes five years.
00:31:24.920 Okay, so the Chinese bamboo tree is a great example for success because when you plant it, it has to be watered and nurtured
00:31:34.560 and taken care of for five years before it ever grows, all right?
00:31:39.100 So think about that. 1.00
00:31:40.840 You put this shit in the fucking ground and you have to go out there and you have to make sure it has water, 1.00
00:31:46.480 make sure no one digs it up, make sure it doesn't get fucked up. 1.00
00:31:49.780 And if you were to go out there and in six months, you're like, fuck, nothing's happening, all right? 0.99
00:31:55.080 And you dig the seed up, it ain't ever going to grow, all right? 0.90
00:31:58.460 And what happens, miraculously, after five years of nurturing this seed, this thing starts to grow
00:32:06.300 and it grows to 80 feet in, like, eight weeks, bro, okay?
00:32:10.240 So that's business.
00:32:11.720 Business is the same way.
00:32:13.480 There's this, you plant the seeds, plant the seeds, water the soil, water the soil,
00:32:17.080 and eventually the harvest comes.
00:32:19.160 It's no different than a farmer, bro.
00:32:20.880 If a farmer went out and planted his corn in the field and went out there the next day
00:32:26.540 and he looks at it and he's like, well, that didn't work and walked away, what would happen? 0.96
00:32:32.280 The whole planet would fucking starve, okay?
00:32:34.920 So understanding that things take time and sometimes they take a lot of time to actually start going 0.97
00:32:40.380 and when they start to go, they go real fast.
00:32:42.880 That's a key understanding that you have to have and it's a hard perspective to grasp
00:32:46.720 and you've never witnessed it.
00:32:48.080 But I can tell you, I've seen this process happen over and over and over and over again.
00:32:53.380 And by the way, you've seen it happen too.
00:32:55.440 You just haven't recognized that it's happening.
00:32:57.780 You guys see some of these guys who come out of nowhere on social media, 0.98
00:33:01.620 but you didn't see them for the fucking five or six years before that. 0.91
00:33:05.400 You didn't see them doing their work five or six years, bro. 1.00
00:33:08.820 Andrew Tate became the most popular motherfucker on the fucking planet 0.99
00:33:12.040 and he was doing content for fucking years before that. 1.00
00:33:15.940 No one ever said shit about him when he was doing that. 0.99
00:33:17.820 You see what I'm saying? 0.94
00:33:18.520 Right.
00:33:18.960 And that's just one example.
00:33:20.760 You guys have all witnessed this.
00:33:22.120 You're seeing the results. 0.99
00:33:22.980 Bro, Gary Vee, fucking legend in the business and entrepreneur world. 0.99
00:33:29.880 Bro, Gary was at the game for fucking a decade before you ever heard of him. 1.00
00:33:34.780 Same for me, 15 fucking years before you ever heard my fucking name. 1.00
00:33:39.100 You see what I'm saying? 0.99
00:33:39.800 Yeah. 0.99
00:33:39.960 It just takes fucking time, dude. 0.99
00:33:42.080 And when you get to a point where you adjust course too quickly, 0.99
00:33:51.180 you're sabotaging your own success over and over.
00:33:54.920 And this is what we see with a lot of young entrepreneurs.
00:33:57.240 They try something.
00:33:58.780 They get impatient.
00:34:00.060 It didn't make them a million dollars in six weeks, okay?
00:34:02.820 Like the gurus promise them and they, you know, they, they then change the thing, right?
00:34:07.580 They go from that thing to the next thing that's happening right now.
00:34:10.860 And then to the next thing, three months from now to the next thing, three months from now
00:34:14.120 again, and they repeat that process.
00:34:16.260 Well, dude, if you repeat that process over and over and over again, nothing's ever going
00:34:20.080 to produce for you because it takes longer than that.
00:34:22.560 And it takes more expertise than that.
00:34:24.400 And it takes more patience and it takes more skill. 0.99
00:34:26.400 It takes more fucking everything, especially time. 0.98
00:34:29.480 And so when you could grasp this and this takes, this is difficult to grasp if you've 0.99
00:34:35.180 never seen it, but you have seen it.
00:34:38.020 All right.
00:34:38.720 So just think about it.
00:34:40.360 If that's, this is how it works.
00:34:41.780 Listen to the people, bro.
00:34:43.180 You don't hear, you don't hear genuinely successful people who have built things ever tell you they
00:34:50.440 never, you never hear them say this.
00:34:52.080 They never tell you it's going to be easy.
00:34:54.000 They never tell you it's going to be fast. 0.98
00:34:55.780 They never tell you it's going to be fucking, you know, this fun ride. 1.00
00:34:59.840 They never tell you this shit. 1.00
00:35:01.600 You know why? 1.00
00:35:02.480 Because it ain't. 0.99
00:35:03.840 You only hear people who haven't built shit say those things. 0.99
00:35:07.180 And the reason you hear them say those things is because they're trying to sell you something. 0.99
00:35:10.960 This is their ticket to prey on your impatience to get you to give your money to them.
00:35:16.900 That's their business.
00:35:18.560 All right. 1.00
00:35:19.160 So you never hear the real shit from fake people. 1.00
00:35:23.060 You only hear the real shit from motherfuckers like me or other people who have built undeniably 1.00
00:35:28.200 successful things. 1.00
00:35:30.220 Tell you the truth about they tell you the truth.
00:35:32.900 They say, hey, it's going to be hard.
00:35:34.540 It's going to take a long time.
00:35:36.240 You're going to wish that you could quit a bunch of times. 0.99
00:35:38.440 You're going to fucking lose friends. 1.00
00:35:39.680 You're going to lose family. 1.00
00:35:40.560 You're going to lose fucking relationships. 1.00
00:35:42.000 And it's going to be the hardest thing you ever fucking did. 1.00
00:35:48.380 That's just the reality. 0.99
00:35:49.220 Bro, yeah.
00:35:49.820 And anybody who's built something real will tell you that. 1.00
00:35:52.700 And it's only the fucking clowns that tell you anything different. 0.97
00:35:54.900 So just to wrap this question up, Andy, so how do you, is there a tool that you use? 0.99
00:36:01.180 Is there a skill that you develop?
00:36:02.360 How do you operate with that fear?
00:36:05.840 Like, how do you operate and still go plant those seeds with those fears that you have? 0.98
00:36:10.840 I mean, dude, you were 19 when you fucking started this journey. 0.97
00:36:13.600 Bro, you don't have a choice. 0.99
00:36:15.860 You don't have a choice.
00:36:17.960 What are you going to do?
00:36:18.760 Sit there and be scared?
00:36:20.320 What are you going to do?
00:36:21.000 Sit there and cry?
00:36:22.400 You're going to sit there and whine and wish it was easier?
00:36:24.300 If you want to get from here to there, where you are now to where you're trying to go, 0.99
00:36:30.400 you have to understand that you don't have a fucking choice. 0.99
00:36:35.300 You have to get up every single day and you have to plant the motherfucking seeds. 0.99
00:36:39.140 And planting the seeds has to happen every day. 0.98
00:36:41.720 And it happens to happen every day for years on end before it really produces fruit.
00:36:46.560 And a lot of you young guys will be like, that's the old way. 1.00
00:36:49.160 No, motherfucker. 1.00
00:36:50.200 That's the sure way. 1.00
00:36:52.360 Okay?
00:36:52.700 You don't get it yet. 0.98
00:36:53.580 You're inundated with the fucking chat GPT and this hack and that hack and this hack. 0.99
00:37:00.260 And you know more than me at fucking 20 years old than I do at 43 years old with a proven 1.00
00:37:05.200 fucking track record. 1.00
00:37:06.440 Well, let me know how that fucking works out for you, bro. 1.00
00:37:08.660 Give me a call in fucking five years and tell me who was right. 1.00
00:37:11.360 Because I'll be fucking happy to tell you, guess what, bitch? 1.00
00:37:14.040 I told you so. 1.00
00:37:15.560 I'm giving you the real blueprint here.
00:37:17.520 It ain't easy.
00:37:18.480 It ain't always fun.
00:37:19.360 It is a lot of fun sometimes, but it ain't always fun.
00:37:22.460 It's stressful.
00:37:23.340 It's hard.
00:37:24.220 It's anxiety.
00:37:25.060 It's scared.
00:37:26.000 And you have to use all those emotions to push yourself forward.
00:37:29.520 You have to say, bro, if I don't do this, it ain't going to happen.
00:37:32.000 If I don't do this, it ain't going to happen.
00:37:33.840 Bro, when I wake up in the morning, I think of people that are trying to compete with me. 0.99
00:37:40.700 And I'm like, well, if I don't fucking do this, bro, that motherfucker's going to catch me. 1.00
00:37:44.600 And that's what I fucking go. 1.00
00:37:46.680 I don't have a choice. 0.99
00:37:47.980 Right?
00:37:48.540 So, like, you just have to make it not a choice.
00:37:50.480 This is what I talk about, zero options mentality.
00:37:52.800 We have a whole episode on zero options mentality.
00:37:55.500 I'll get that for you in just a second.
00:37:57.300 But the basic premise is very simple.
00:38:00.200 In the beginning, you do not have a real choice.
00:38:03.260 Okay?
00:38:03.760 Like, you're broke. 1.00
00:38:05.540 You got all your shit wrapped up in this. 0.99
00:38:07.380 It's something that you want to do, that you're scared to do, and you start. 1.00
00:38:11.200 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:38:12.620 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:38:13.500 It's right. 1.00
00:38:14.660 Okay?
00:38:14.980 And then you got to go.
00:38:15.920 You don't have a choice.
00:38:17.080 In the beginning, it's real easy to operate on a zero options mentality because it's a literal
00:38:21.860 truth.
00:38:22.800 Where it gets tricky is whenever you start to make money, you start to get more comfortable,
00:38:27.060 you start to have a nicer house and some cars and some expendable income.
00:38:30.940 And then you start to think you don't have to get out of bed and do these things.
00:38:34.360 You don't have to.
00:38:35.300 And this is where you get caught.
00:38:36.360 This is where you lose.
00:38:37.740 Okay?
00:38:38.080 So cultivating a zero options mentality and keeping it over the long haul is a massive
00:38:42.880 thing.
00:38:43.280 You do not have a choice but to go.
00:38:45.520 And if you do not go, you will lose.
00:38:47.660 That's the choice. 1.00
00:38:49.180 It's either stay in bed and fucking lose or get the fuck up and plant the seeds and not 0.99
00:38:54.220 see anything for it and do that again the next day and then the next day and then the 1.00
00:38:58.040 next day for a few years at a minimum until you've learned some shit and those seeds start 0.98
00:39:02.820 to sprout and then it gets a little more fun. 0.93
00:39:04.480 So what episode?
00:39:07.340 It's MFCEO episode 89.
00:39:09.540 For those of you that don't know, my original podcast is right there in the audio feed of
00:39:15.020 Real AF.
00:39:15.640 If you scroll all the way down to the bottom, you can get the complete MFCEO project library.
00:39:20.260 It's 330 episodes of pure entrepreneur gold.
00:39:23.780 And I don't think there's a better comprehensive library for a beginning entrepreneur than that
00:39:28.360 podcast.
00:39:29.040 It's complete.
00:39:29.980 That's why I stopped it.
00:39:31.220 Okay?
00:39:31.740 Now I am bringing it back.
00:39:33.200 It's going to be a little bit different this time.
00:39:35.600 But I'll have announcements about that later.
00:39:37.780 But the point is, go listen to those episodes, bro.
00:39:40.780 It'll teach you everything you need to know.
00:39:42.120 I love that, man.
00:39:43.560 I love that.
00:39:44.400 Well, guys, Andy, that was three.
00:39:46.860 I paid a fee.
00:39:47.380 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:39:50.620 Now my jewelry box froze. 1.00
00:39:52.340 Fuck a pole. 1.00
00:39:53.140 Fuck a stove. 1.00
00:39:53.980 Counted millions in the code. 1.00
00:39:55.680 Bad bitch. 1.00
00:39:56.500 Booty swole. 1.00
00:39:57.340 Got her on bankroll.
00:39:58.980 Can't fold.
00:39:59.860 That's a no.
00:40:00.640 Headshot.
00:40:01.500 Case closed.