581. Q&AF： Government's Control, Energy Protection & Rehiring Employees
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Summary
In this episode of the Ask Andy For Sells Podcast, I sit down with my good friends Q and A.F. to talk about their fitness journey and how they got to where they are now. We talk about how they are doing their best to get back on track with their fitness goals and what they are working on in order to achieve them.
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what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
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the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality how about that
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today we have yes right bro i'm tired of these people we're gonna rebel today let's be rebellious
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forever anyway today we have q and a f and you guys know what q and a f is about that is our
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uh you know q and a version of the show you get to submit questions and we answer them here on the
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and how you could fix your shit by utilizing this amazing free program that reprograms everything in
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hard that's the entire program 75 hard is just the first part of it but you'll find that out when
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you go listen uh go check it out it's on audio feed only episode 208 uh there is also a book um
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that is available on my website andy for seller.com it's not required but it will give you the ins and
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the outs if you're one of those people that needs to know the data it's a good book to read i actually
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have a brand new book that i'm getting ready to launch and we'll launch at the beginning of 2024
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don't share the show and just listen you're hoes and so we have this saying called don't be a hoe
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share the show all right hey no hoes on yeah no hoes on over here that's right i love that like on
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youtube all the people comment i got promise i'm not a hoe i'm not a hoe we're gonna have to check up
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and find out to make sure we're gonna we're gonna we're gonna have to start a hoe certification
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program bro we'll give them badges yeah that's right not a hoe i love it man what's going on
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with you though everything good yeah man just uh you know doing the thing getting swole i mean i'm
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trying to get a little less swole you know less swole yeah i mean not swole i'm just trying to get a
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little leaner still i'm still working my way back from this injury dude like i like i keep thinking
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i'm there and then i keep getting like a little bit better so like i'm i'm i'm doing as best i can
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you know um but i'm pretty close and uh i'm really looking to push my physical fitness and
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my physique you know to to to the the best it's ever been so it's it's uh i'm really focused on
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that right now focused on a lot of the growth that we have going on at first form um and then what we
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got you know those those those few top secret projects that we got coming up yeah got a really
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big one yeah you know people been asking about it for a whole long time asking about like
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what certain symbols mean where can they get one yeah like we're we're gonna get one of these
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that's a new drop right there isn't it this oh this old thing
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i'm surprised you noticed yeah right right right oh okay pulled it out the closet yeah you know i
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just dusted this off and wore it into work today it was definitely not intentional does the back
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say anything uh you know you'll have to wait and find out maybe yeah it might it definitely says
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don't be a hoe that's what it's yeah love it man well hey i got some good ones for you all right
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cool yeah let's knock these out man andy guys question number one andy words can't explain how
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much i really appreciate all that you do i've gained so much perspective uh from listening to you
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and i've been putting in the work through your show i have come to realize that i am a libertarian
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i'm a former liberal uh personal excellence is the ultimate rebellion my only hang up is
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i truly feel that if enough people came to that same conclusion we really wouldn't need the government
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at all or at least how it's pictured currently now i know your stance is a little different you
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believe that we should have some level of government um so can you explain that or further break down
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what the government should and would look like and their role in our lives after our cultural revolution
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well first of all that's an amazing uh statement and question and i appreciate that very much um you know
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when we first started talking about these things in 2019 after a number of years running in an
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entrepreneurship only podcast uh i got a lot of pushback from you guys that were quote unquote
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liberal right like you guys were a little surprised that i lean right instead of leaning to the garbage
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that you all believed in right and now you're starting to wake up that like hey this is this is
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actually more than what we thought it was right it's not it's not just live and let live there's an
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agenda at play that's literally taking things from us and destroying our culture and destroying our
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next generation and um and i'm i'm happy to see people waking up to that um i am also pretty
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libertarian and i do believe that there needs to be some sort of structure government you know my
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biggest gripe with the libertarians in general is that their actual policies and the things they
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claim that they want are actually unrealistic in real life and the reason i know they're unrealistic
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in real life is because i've spent my whole life actually managing human beings and building things
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and so a lot of these people who are the big voices in the libertarian party they have these great
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theories but i can identify very simply from my experience that those theories will not work
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and so this theory that we need no government it's a great theory right it's a great theory yeah it's a
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great theory and i agree with it like if everybody did live to a higher standard and everybody handled
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their own shit yeah ideally we wouldn't need that right but to get to that point we're talking about
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many generations of literal teaching and upbringing and sharing of value systems to get there right
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you have a lot of people right now who don't care about their own children you have a lot of people
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that don't care about anything but themselves we have a lot of people that don't care about being
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excellent at all they care about what they can take from everybody so that has to have that takes
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time to remove from society through uh cultural standard you know application so when we think
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about like what it would actually look like i actually believe that you know the government exists
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to protect our rights and to protect our sovereignty as citizens and also physically protect us from
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outside forces right other aggressive countries uh help us in natural disasters step in when we need
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them but have very little control over our day-to-day life and the very little control i'm talking
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about is not you know um no government it's it's leave us alone let us give you a little of our money
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for tax like 10 okay and we all pay it the guy who makes 20 grand a year pays it the guy who makes 200
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grand a year pays it the guy who makes 20 million a year pays it the company that makes a billion
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a year they pay it everybody pays it if everybody paid their 10 it would solve a major problem going
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on in this country because right now the biggest corporations despite what they try to make you
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believe don't really pay any tax and that's not my companies that's the big the biggest ones okay
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we're talking yeah yeah you guys they train you to hate people like me right and say that the problem
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is created by entrepreneurs and people like me when in reality it's the companies that are acquiring
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companies like my companies that are actually not paying their share okay so when we talk about
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everybody paying that that resolves a big issue where right now the tax burden is saddled mainly on
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the middle class people who have the least amount of room to actually carry that that tax burden
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all right so we're we're oppressed financially as a country and it's not because these guys are just
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tyrants it's because they understand something that we're not able to understand which is this
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if we are constantly worried and constantly in a state of stress about how we're going to survive
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and how we're going to pay our bills and how we're going to grow what we're trying to grow and they make
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it just hard enough right if if they make and they have it perfect bro they have it right in that
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perfect zone where it's like almost impossible to win but you can still win if you give everything
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in your life to it and that's not how it should be how it should be is we should be able to run our
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businesses have a family have a life pay way less tax have far less stress and the reason they do this
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is for a couple reasons one they want us to be financially stressed because if we become too
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financially powerful we threaten their power matrix all right and two if we're constantly stressed
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about our own personal finance situation then it's hard for us to follow what they're doing
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to fuck us all over all right so that's what we're dealing with here so when we think of like
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what government should have as a role i think the government i think that we should all pay 10 tax
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tax i think that the government should uh i think these people should not be allowed to lobby
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in any way shape or form i don't think they should be able to trade insider trade with any companies at
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all i think any law that they pass should also apply to them and members of congress equally as it does
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its citizens these are all things that are not happening we should have term limits we should have
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situations where you know um basically we return the country to a place where it's run by the citizens
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of this country not a group of people who are exempt from all the rules and all the laws if they had to
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follow the rules and the laws up there in washington dc the way that we had to uh they wouldn't pass some
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of this shit right yeah but but they're immune to it so they don't care it's they see see our biggest
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mistake is we're not seeing it for what it is it's us the people versus them the tyrants and they are
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very clear on that they know it's them versus us like in their little backdoor meetings they understand
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we're the peasants and they're them all right so we're we're failing to get to the point of
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understanding of who we are in this equation which is causing a lot of problems but you know to wrap
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this up dude you know look if we had a smaller government the main thing their main responsibilities
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would be to you know take the 10 tax that we have not steal it not allow it to be funneled out into
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political donations to actually spend it on america first solving the problems here in this country
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um term limits equal laws that they pass protect us from china protect us from aggressors uh and
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basically mind their own fucking business that's what it should be so that's how i see the government
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as as uh a realistic solution right say abolish the government no government okay so we're gonna
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we're gonna run it like the wild wild west are you comfortable carrying a gun everywhere you go
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because i do i carry a gun every day i've carried a gun every single day since 2003 when i was stabbed
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in the face okay i'm very comfortable carrying a gun a lot of you guys aren't and i can tell by the
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way that you react when you see me carrying a gun you know like yeah so like are you guys ready for
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this wild wild west are you capable of defending yourself i am if that's what you want i'm cool
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with that but i don't think most people are cool with that most people want some sort of structure
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some sort of protection some sort of peace of mind so that they can live their life and they can
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prosper and move down the path you know that we've all been sold which is that you know the american
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dream well i think that's that's one thing that i think libertarians forget like the government
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you know the only how i look at it is you know those rules in place the restrictions if you will
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or the stripping of freedoms like that's not for the law-abiding citizens that is like there's going
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to be a percentage of the population that won't get with the program always and so you know there has
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to be some type of something in place for those people yeah 100 i want to ask you a question on this
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tax thing is it safe to say you know when you talk about the tax structure and how it's put up and
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how it's made the middle class uh how it's just enough right is it safe to say that like it's
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it's to the point where you know if you are a person that's willing to do unethical things and you're
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allowed to go up that ladder and everything anything's possible you join that group but the
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good-hearted people who still hold those moral values they get fucking squished and eventually down
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push down the ladder completely is that like is that a safe assessment because most i don't think most
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people really truly get how that looks like i don't think most people know how to balance their
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own checkbook or their own personal finances they don't teach that in school for a reason the reason
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they don't teach you practical household finance management in high school is because they want
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your finances to be a fucking mess because their debt our debt is their asset what what we owe they
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make all right and so when we talk about like all these things that they continue to do right like when
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things get bad like these stimulus programs right understand they're all that is is them putting
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us in more debt it's a loan it's giving them more power and more control over us and if we were truly
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a free country and we truly had competent leadership the stimulus what should actually be the stimulus is a
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massive tax cut to 10 for make everybody pay it no exemptions and then also there should be a debt
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wiping of people's personal debt and make these banks take the stimulus on their chin for once in a
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while okay like what would it we have this collapsing financial system right and we have all these people
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making hundreds of billions trillions of dollars off of the plight of the american person and the
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solution is let's send them an extra seven hundred dollars or let's send them an extra two grand when
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covid hits how about this how about you wipe a hundred thousand dollars of personal debt and business
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debt off the table for every single citizen in this country and then we kind of re-level the playing field
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that's an actual solution but when you say that you know nobody wants to do that because they're all on
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the take they're all plugged into it okay if they're gonna why would they give us stimulus if it's putting us in
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more debt and causing inflation when in reality if we really wanted to solve the problem we would just
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wipe the debt off their books and then lower taxes see that's what a business owner understands that a
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fucking hypothetical libertarian mouthpiece on the internet doesn't that's how it should be done
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it's just fucked up because of people and i like libertarians bro like they're my people but like some
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of you guys you can't get taken seriously because there's no practical application for the systems that are
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required to do what it is you're trying to do you're not going to take it to this extreme level
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that's unpalatable to people like people don't think like man i want to walk down the street with
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my ar like for real like some of you guys do they don't think that they want to be safe bro they want
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to they want to go to the park they want to be left alone they don't want to get drive-by shootings
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they want criminals in fucking jail they want pedophiles in the wood chipper bro like that's what people want
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and that's what we should give them yeah that's real shit man all right guys andy question number
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two mr frisella oh this is the new one mr frisella i'm somebody that naturally feeds off of other
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people's energy if i go to a gym where everybody's getting after it and there's a lot of intensity i
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feel an extra push to work hard and have a kick-ass day on the contrary if i find myself in a negative
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situation where people don't have positive attitudes uh where there isn't the kind of vibe
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that i'm looking for i find myself subconsciously feeding off of that as well i find myself being
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more negative until it wears off as i adopt the idea that whatever the circumstances are what i need
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to get done is going to get done how do you keep your energy protected uh when maybe you aren't talking
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to somebody with great ambitions and keep a bad 10 minutes or so from turning into a bad day
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oh man well there's a lot to this first off i understand that because my biggest pet peeve in
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my entire life and the thing that makes me the most miserable as a human being is being around people
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who are complacent who lack urgency who don't want to win i cannot fucking stand it it drives me insane
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okay like it makes me insane i get physically fucking angry about it real talk it's real okay i cannot be
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around it i'm a fucking high level human being if you're not if you're not a high level human being
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if you're not in the game if you're not fucking i what we're doing this and we're gonna go as hard
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as we fucking can and you're not playing to win the motherfucking super bowl i can't operate with you
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like i can't even be around you so i understand that um a couple things one you need to identify that
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you're living in a reactive state all right you're you're choosing to allow people to have power over you
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instead of being the person who supplies the power to everybody else and this is what the difference
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is between someone who has one of these charismatic magnetic ultra likable personalities and pretty
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much everybody else a lot of you guys ask about charisma and confidence and all these things that
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people appear to have but what you're really observing is someone actually being the source of
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energy as opposed to being the receiver of energy so right now you're the receiver of energy you are
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someone who is going to change according to what the environment is and you need to work to become
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someone who changes the environment when you walk into the room we've all heard this many times right
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how many times do we hear you say about somebody bro you know when that dude walks in the room
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you know when that lady walks in the room she's fucking here okay if you want to have that presence and
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you want to be that kind of person you have to be the kind of person that changes the energy and that
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means that you can no longer allow people to affect you when they have negative energy and you have to
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continue being you and that takes discipline that takes practical thought especially in the beginning
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and eventually it just becomes who you are and how you operate all right so there's that um but the main
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thing here is this uh you should always work to be around people who are aligned with what you're
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trying to do in the ambitions that you have you should i talked about this in an enneagram just a few
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days ago you have to cut out anything else this is a hard journey what you're doing is hard most people
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aren't doing it in fact 99 of people are not on the same path as you if you're listening to this show
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right now there's a good chance that you're on the hardest path possible for your life and that
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means that 99 99 out of 100 9 out of 10 people that you interact with on a daily basis are not going
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to get it they are not going to understand they are not going to approve they're going to be
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uncomfortable they're going to feel strange because they're surrounded by someone like you that is
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alien to them they can't figure out why they're not like that and they see you going out and doing all
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these things working to create the best possible version of you to build something special and
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they inherently understand that they aren't and they know what that's going to produce so yes
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they're going to hate you a little bit yes they're going to talk shit yes they're going to try to
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convince you to be like them and you know what you have to do you have to ignore it all and you have
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to keep moving and you have to remember that those people are those people for a fucking reason
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and you're you for a reason okay so think about it like that anything that doesn't contribute
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anything that doesn't push you forward anything that you feel like you're having to carry that
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doesn't belong you have to cut it out because guys here's what people miss the journey is so hard
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and so competitive and there's so many people out here trying to do what it is that you do
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that if you don't cut that weight you legitimately cannot compete at the highest level because
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everybody else at the higher level is fucking great too okay so are you going to go play a super bowl
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game with your mom on your back or your dad can you go play a football game right now against the best
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football players in the world with your mom on your back saying hey i don't believe in your football
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dreams you can't do it it's impossible and that counts for emotional energy too so like dude we
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have to thin the herd we can't allow access like that there's a reason why high performing people
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don't have lots and lots and lots of people around them okay you guys think it's because and this is
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what the losers always say they saying well you know they just got too big they forgot where they
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came from no i know exactly where i came from and i'm trying to get the fuck away from it okay that's
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the reason like it's not this this people like to throw this shade on people who are trying to like
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just free themselves to be effective at what they do as if it's some sort of you know morally wrong
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thing to do well i don't know is it morally wrong because i don't know i've created quite a few
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fucking careers in my day you know what i'm saying none of those people that were fucking telling me to
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get realistic and get a real job and calm down and you know be more like them and take it easy
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how many jobs did they create oh that's right fucking none okay so like you cannot compete
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at the highest level or even a high level carrying all this shit that comes from your old life it's
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impossible bro no drama no gossip no fucking losers no low ambition no non-urgent people you know we have
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this movement in the world about not everything's urgent yeah you're right if you're not going to
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win not everything's urgent but if you're going to win it's going to take urgency it's going to take
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urgent action that's reality you can't afford to be selectively urgent when you're trying to win
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at the highest level yeah well one thing we've talked about too before it's like you know you you've
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described it as like this energy bank like a battery cell like there's only so much of it you have
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so if you're going to waste even 10 20 on right dealing with negative bullshit it's how can you
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win you can't okay so so let's talk about this this is an important point people like to call driven
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people arrogant all right well how arrogant are you that you believe that you could compete at the
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highest level with all this other bullshit on their back all this drama all this gossip all these
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non-believers all these hanger-ons from the old days all this negativity that your social life
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provides right the girls the fucking bullshit all the bullshit how do you think you're going to compete
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against someone like me who has cut all of that shit out now you want to talk about arrogance so
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you're that good so you're that good so you're so good that you could carry all of this shit
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and you can go out and and and play the game and you could beat someone like me not me there's
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there's millions of me okay with carrying all that it's impossible can't do it all right and if you
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think you can it shows your arrogance can't do it okay so the answer to the question is all of those
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things i love it man yeah i fucking love it guys andy our third and final question andy question number
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three uh andy curious what you think about um i have a key employee that left without warning
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she wouldn't take more money to stay just said she needed to change she left for six months
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and now she wants to come back a part of me wants to give her grace and she was you know she was
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important to our team the other part says she didn't believe in the dream and left us hanging
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in a way and we're doing great without her what's your take on this i wouldn't hire her back
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no hire back no there's too much of a risk to be a cultural impact in a negative way
00:26:12.060
you know it's it i've hired people back who have left but it was always under the circumstances there
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was good circumstances when they left right it wasn't there was no burn bridges no not at all
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and by the way when people leave i hope they win i hope they kick ass i want them to do well
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because what better testament to what they learned while they were here than for them to go out and do
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well right so like we want these people to win but in certain circumstances when culture has been
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negatively affected under the circumstances of how someone left it's probably not a good idea to
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bring them back now there is a flip side for that there is a flip side for that the flip side is
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sometimes people leave they go out and they realize oh shit i really fucked up and in those situations
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uh sometimes it does work out i have a number of people here who have left and come back who are some
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of my best absolute best people but i have learned that that works out far less in that direction than
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it does the other direction where people come back they they get comfortable right away and they go
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back to their old habits right um i don't know it's it's it's a toss-up dude i mean there's there's
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nuance to everything there's exceptions to everything um but you know generally it's it's just not a good
00:27:30.560
idea to bring someone back like that how much how much responsibility do you think a business owner
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should take in trying to figure out like why this person left like it seems like to me he was just
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trying to throw money at the at the problem and it's like you know like how much look i think there's
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situations where you can learn a lot there's situations where people just want to leave and
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they want to go do something different and that's okay then there's situations where uh they don't
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believe i don't know that this sounds like she doesn't believe it sounds like maybe she was going
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through something else maybe she just wanted to do something else maybe she wanted to try something
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else i'm not against that either it's just highly risky to bring someone back it sends a wrong message
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when they leave right and if you're doing well without the person it doesn't really make sense
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you don't want to fuck up something that's already working so what is that with the young kids man like
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this whole like let me go find my life and well it's the internet you know the internet culture right
00:28:23.480
now for young people is highly misaligned with reality right um your 20s and your 30s are your
00:28:31.300
chance to build something with your life they are not the chance for you to go live your life and we
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have these people out here saying go live your life when you're in your 20s and 30s cool all right
00:28:42.080
that's fine but you can't be mad when you're 40 and you have to work at fucking wendy's serving
00:28:47.620
fucking fries because you didn't do anything for 20 fucking years all right and the problem is is
00:28:53.520
that we have a lot of people who believe that somehow their life is going to just materialize
00:28:58.260
later on into something that works with them wasting all this time and that's not that's not
00:29:03.120
how it works it does not work that way okay if you want success and that's what this message is for
00:29:08.400
this message is not for the new age uh hippie culture of i'm going to be a nomad and roam the world and
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look that's not what my message is not for those people like you shouldn't listen to me if that's
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what you want to do but i'm just telling you if that's what you want to do there's going to come
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a time where that price is paid and so the way it works is this it's very simple you can pray pay the
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price now or you can pay the price later and the price now is going to look like hard work uh missing
00:29:36.920
opportunities to hang out with your friends maybe missing a few of these experiences and by the way
00:29:42.040
you can have amazing experiences and still be working really hard towards your goals
00:29:46.200
all right i know that's a novel thought but you could still do that okay and then if you don't
00:29:51.360
pay that price now the price you're going to pay later is working at wendy's or working as a server
00:29:57.040
or doing something your whole life that you hate doing because you have to do it to pay your rent
00:30:01.540
and that that is absolute reality and a lot of these younger kids nowadays do not understand that
00:30:07.320
because they see all of these gurus and all of these people online talking all this shit about
00:30:12.500
how much their money they're making and you know these fake people standing in front of rented cars
00:30:18.140
and you know renting private jets for photo shoots and like just fucking fake shit that is misleading
00:30:24.620
an entire generation of people into literal lifetime slavery and so that's why i get so passionate about
00:30:30.960
it because i know what it takes i know what's required and when these people come on there every day
00:30:36.360
and they tell you you don't need to do this you know you just need to do this and you'll fund
00:30:40.820
you'll make all this money and bro it's bullshit it's just bullshit it's total bullshit i love it and
00:30:47.500
it's ruining people's entire lives dude this is something nobody talks about all right do you know
00:30:55.320
what the percentage of people is that get to be 40 years old and regret their last 20 years because
00:31:00.980
they didn't actually fucking invest in themselves it's it's most people it's not it's not it's not
00:31:07.280
like 80 it's like 90 fucking 8 okay most people get to an age where they're like fuck i should have
00:31:16.360
been doing this and now i'm too fucking old and by the way you're not too old if that's you
00:31:20.700
there's plenty of time there's plenty of time but that regret hits people at their late 30s early 40s
00:31:28.520
and it fucking smashes people most people never recover most people just accept it they become an
00:31:33.780
alcoholic or a drunk or just a a fucking plebe of a human being and they kind of give up on their
00:31:39.440
lives and they live a little miserable tiny sad existence because they bought into all the shit
00:31:43.940
right like they bought into the messaging of you know live your life enjoy your life you're only
00:31:50.400
gonna live once you know why you work so hard take a break you know you don't need to do that they
00:31:55.540
bought it at some point in time and it ends up costing them it's so weird because like 20 years
00:32:00.640
doesn't sound like a long time like people say that's not a long time but like that is a long
00:32:04.720
time like that's a lot of time if you're using it for the right shit that you don't even need to put
00:32:08.740
20 years in anymore you know that's just we're talking i'm talking about me bro like i like this is
00:32:13.840
i'm beyond most people's goals for their own success in life right like that's just real shit
00:32:19.420
most people do not have the ambition to build a nike level company like that's what i'm working
00:32:25.820
on that's my project most people just want to make some money and and have a cool life and that's cool
00:32:32.600
you could do that with fucking a couple years three or four years now like you know it's not 20 years
00:32:37.660
so don't let that scare you my point is is that when your friends say hey let's go to the fucking lake
00:32:43.060
this weekend every weekend or they go out and drink four nights a week and you just keep saying
00:32:48.120
oh dude i'll pick it up tomorrow i'll pick it up tomorrow i'll pick it up tomorrow or i only live
00:32:52.500
once or you know any of this other shit you're slowly but surely selling yourself into slavery
00:32:59.540
later on in life and that is very real shit and a lot of young people don't like that right like
00:33:04.580
like i see my videos going around the internet and people are like oh yeah this guy seems real angry
00:33:09.860
and this is what hustle culture is about no bro i go home to my fucking ridiculous house like
00:33:16.840
legitimately one of the nicest houses in the fucking world okay i have a great fucking life and you guys
00:33:22.660
are going to see it because i'm going to start dropping content and maybe you'll start to understand
00:33:26.640
that i'm not just some fucking like grind person like i have a great time like it's fun like this is
00:33:33.320
amazing thing like and i and by the way i've done all of you a disservice by not sharing that part of
00:33:39.520
my life and alex hermosi and layla hermosi pointed this out to me here at summer smash we were sitting
00:33:44.520
in the locker room and layla said bro the problem that that i always had because she was a listener of
00:33:52.460
ms ceo the problem that i always had with ms ceo was i felt like i had to always be on and because of
00:34:00.380
that i would i would end up getting burnt out and so they convinced me to literally show this other
00:34:05.760
aspect of my life so like you guys will see it's fun as fuck like there's a whole bunch of shit that's
00:34:11.240
super fun that you're not considering right it's not like i'm just sacrificing myself to do this
00:34:17.440
you get what i'm saying and a lot of these young kids because they hear this shit over and over and
00:34:22.360
over again they hear one of two messages they hear hustle and only exist for the hustle or they hear
00:34:28.800
live in a van and travel the world and live your life because none of it matters anyway
00:34:34.020
and bro if you could zoom from this person who's living in the van right now 10 years ahead or 15
00:34:40.780
years ahead you're going to end up finding one of the most miserable people in the world because
00:34:44.860
they're having to they're having to do things to survive that they do not want to do like
00:34:51.260
wealth and success and a foundation for your life is built when you're young
00:34:56.160
regardless of what anybody says so it's a it's a big problem with culture bro and you know
00:35:01.780
um it's challenging because you know a lot of these kids they weren't raised like i was raised
00:35:08.460
you know when i was raised dude like my dad gave me a fucking toy for scoring goals in soccer games
00:35:14.640
you know what i'm saying like like if i scored a goal we went to target and i got like a toy right
00:35:19.280
like if if i fucking smashed another kid or made an awesome play we went to i got rewarded ice cream
00:35:26.040
okay yeah like dude like i was rewarded to win a lot of these kids grew up in the exact opposite
00:35:31.900
environment these kids that are 20 to 25 years old right now they grew up in this fucking real
00:35:36.820
friendly you know participation trophy era which is not reflective of reality and now they're out here
00:35:43.500
in the world getting their fucking ass beat because they think that if they just show up
00:35:47.380
that eventually you know the money and the success and all the shit is going to be there and that's
00:35:52.100
not how it works being a good person being a person of character that's a great thing but if you don't
00:35:57.760
have the skills and the execution to move the needle bro you're not going anywhere and that's reality
00:36:02.800
and young people need to understand this this is a real competition in real fucking life there is
00:36:08.140
scarcity in terms of who gets to fucking enjoy the riches and the spoils there's only one super
00:36:13.380
bowl champion every year and you know if you take that one super bowl champion what there's you know
00:36:18.760
a couple thousand people in the organization right like there's only a few winners winning is scarce
00:36:24.360
it's not guaranteed and it's not guaranteed for just showing up so you guys who are young like really
00:36:32.000
listen to what i'm saying because the reason that you're struggling is because you were fed bad
00:36:36.400
information that isn't in line with reality this is natural order bro the best people win
00:36:42.520
the people who produce results win the people who execute and get better and better and better
00:36:48.140
win and everybody else does not win that is fucking reality and that's most people that is most people
00:36:55.200
and i don't give a shit what the spiritual guides on the internet tell you bro what have they built
00:37:00.680
what have they won what have they accomplished you can only buy into the philosophy that you want for
00:37:06.100
yourself and this is why it's important for you guys to not listen to people who do not have the life
00:37:11.560
that you are actually trying to create like it looks real good on the internet to wear a whole
00:37:16.300
bunch of beads bro and and run around my shirt off and fucking you know do all this adventure shit
00:37:22.300
right like that looks real good until you look at the problems that those people have until you look
00:37:27.720
at the struggles those people have until you look at the the lack of options that they actually have
00:37:32.500
it's a big fucking deal dude and a lot of kids are buying into it bro and it's very very very bad
00:37:38.240
and this is why we talk about personal excellence being the ultimate rebellion those of you out here
00:37:42.860
uh with kids those of you out here who are you know in your 30s you have a responsibility to step
00:37:49.600
into the power of reality and to go win so that other people can recognize it because they've been
00:37:55.300
clearly trying to remove this from society and we have to ask ourselves why are they trying to remove
00:38:00.060
competition from society why are they trying to remove ambition and winning and success from society
00:38:07.340
it's not because they it's not because they don't like it they like it for them they just don't like
00:38:13.760
it for us they know it's scary correct they know that if you win enough and if we the people win
00:38:18.360
enough we threaten their power base this is about control dude this is about control these ideological
00:38:24.540
subversions that have happened over the last 20 years these are not an accident this is
00:38:29.320
intentional this is they've tricked a whole generation of kids to believe that you get
00:38:33.240
to win in life by showing the fuck up why did they do that well they did that so that because
00:38:37.780
they know those people will lose they know those people will become indebted and they know those
00:38:41.780
people will eventually become their slaves and that's why they do it and people are still sleeping
00:38:46.200
on this so you can either listen to me or you can't but i'm gonna follow my advice and i'm gonna
00:38:51.760
continue to go down that path because it's awesome and by the way subscribe to youtube and you
00:38:56.200
get to see how awesome it is that's really all right love it man well guys andy that was three
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man all right go pay the fee went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole
00:39:09.180
fuck a stove counted millions in the code bad bitch booted slow got her own bankroll can't fold