REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 595. Q&AF： Deep Government Corruption, 2nd Generation Business Owner & Teaching Kids About Earning

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the real let's say goodbye to the 0.98

00:00:20.640 lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today

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00:00:47.800 to click subscribe now your questions they can be about anything they can be about what's going on 0.86

00:00:52.340 in the world but on this particular show we like to keep it more so how the fuck we can make you 0.79

00:00:58.100 better okay uh personal development business entrepreneurship how to improve your life 0.60

00:01:04.420 all right this show if you weren't aware used to be called the mfceo project and the mfceo project

00:01:11.960 was the number one entrepreneurial podcast of all time hosted by yours truly and uh the reason people

00:01:18.800 listen is because i'm one of the few people out here who doesn't speculate on the things that they

00:01:24.120 teach but actually has a stack of proof to show you what i've actually built so uh what we like to do

00:01:31.080 on this show is help you win so if you have questions about business personal development how to get better

00:01:36.140 how to build things uh this would be the place to ask those shows okay entrepreneurship success personal

00:01:42.020 development is the backbone of the content that we provide here even with the popularity of cti and

00:01:49.060 by the way if you don't know what cti is that stands for cruise the internet that's what we do every

00:01:54.020 tuesday and friday that's where we put up topics on the screen we talk about and speculate what we think

00:01:59.560 is true what we think is bullshit and then we talk about how we the people are responsible for fixing

00:02:05.300 these problems in society and you might be asking why do we have cti and qnaf entrepreneur content why 0.54

00:02:13.400 do we do that well because it's very simple without freedom we can't win without freedom we can't build

00:02:20.700 businesses without freedom we can't build success without freedom we can't be entrepreneurs so we have

00:02:26.960 to pay attention to the soil which is the freedom and also what we plant in the soil which are our lives

00:02:33.680 all right so that's how these things go together it's kind of like peanut butter and jelly so those

00:02:38.280 are two main shows that we do and then we have these other shows that we do as well one of them's

00:02:42.700 called real talk real talk is just five to twenty minutes of me giving you some real talk uh then we

00:02:47.000 have full length which is very similar to what you see on every other podcast on the internet where we

00:02:52.260 bring in someone who's got something to offer and we have a conversation with them uh kind of like what

00:02:56.740 we did with uh curtis bowers which we talked about communism in the united states he's dedicated his life to it

00:03:02.620 and we just have a conversation if you haven't listened to that episode i think it's one of the

00:03:06.000 best we've ever done by the way and then we do this thing called 75 hard verses 75 hard verses is where

00:03:12.720 we bring people who have completed the 75 hard program who have transformed their lives with the

00:03:17.940 75 hard program we bring them here live in studio we talk about how they were before we talk about how

00:03:23.380 they are now and then we talk about how you as well can change your life with the 75 hard program

00:03:28.780 which you can get for free okay it's the world's most popular biggest whatever you want to say

00:03:35.120 mental toughness transformation program okay it's mega viral and the reason that you've probably heard

00:03:42.720 about it is because it actually works and it's also free so if you want that program you go to episode

00:03:47.780 208 you can listen to it uh there's also a book on my website which is unnecessary because i give you

00:03:53.100 the whole program on episode 208 which is on the audio feeds only um but if you like the book uh if

00:03:58.880 you like to know the ins and outs and whys like i do uh it's for me i can't get into something unless

00:04:04.680 i understand it completely i did write a book the book is available on my website andyprisella.com

00:04:10.120 totally unnecessary you can still get the program for free so uh that's the rundown of the show now

00:04:15.280 a special thing that we have here on the show is uh we tell you to pay a fee the fee isn't venmo it's not 0.52

00:04:21.540 subscribe to my shit it's very simple share the show share the show all right if you get value 0.84

00:04:29.140 from the show share the show that's what we call pay the fee so uh makes you think makes you laugh 0.98

00:04:34.800 it gives you some information if you learn some things which you're going to uh all we ask is that

00:04:39.960 you don't be a hoe and you actually go share the show all right so what's up man hey how's it going 1.00

00:04:45.700 good yeah yeah what's up with you oh you know just thinking about that peanut butter jelly you

00:04:51.280 you alluded to peanut butter and jelly yeah you said it that's all i've been focusing on 0.88

00:04:55.760 oh in the intro shit peanut butter and jelly is good bro it's a classic it's a classic but it's 0.69

00:05:03.280 one of those things man you can i like i get pretty fancy with my pb and j's i get fancy with mine i will 0.99

00:05:09.500 out pb and j you any day of the week bro prove it i fucking out we can hold an online we can invite 0.97

00:05:16.920 listeners to come do a live taste test i'll make my sandwich you make your sandwich we'll invite 0.96

00:05:22.620 taste test we'll invite some special list yes a blind taste test we'll invite some special listeners

00:05:27.880 to come and we will see who makes the better pb and j and i am 100 certain you will lose well

00:05:34.580 they're gonna know who's who's sandwiches who's though well how because you're gonna use white bread 0.99

00:05:39.600 i'm gonna use wheat motherfucker you're more likely to use white bread than me bro 0.99

00:05:46.200 no i'm telling you i got a pretty gangster fucking pb and j how do you do it oh i'm not gonna tell you 1.00

00:05:51.680 okay all right we can't tell because then people will know that's what i'm saying all right but i'm 0.98

00:05:55.480 telling you right now it's life-changing yeah all right well we're doing it uh i don't know how

00:06:00.140 we're gonna do this but stay tuned because we're doing this some of you guys are coming to

00:06:04.640 st louis it's my pb and j judge our pb and j's we're doing it bro we're doing we're in all right

00:06:11.320 this is happening i'm down i am gonna be the champion as i always am you know and it's gonna

00:06:17.120 be awesome i'm gonna get a crown i'm gonna get a peanut butter and jelly crown it's gonna be

00:06:20.980 fucking amazing yeah i'm gonna put my foot in mine that's that's a saying what's that mean 0.89

00:06:26.780 you know you put your foot in it you know is that black thing yeah yeah oh okay yeah is it i 1.00

00:06:32.180 don't fuck i've never heard that before that's a yeah that's a saying is that a black saying yeah 0.99

00:06:35.900 it is is it like when the food is joe all right joe's my official resource oh man we gotta get a 1.00

00:06:44.680 camera on him just so people understand how wild that just was that's how wild the man spent his

00:06:51.800 whole life as a hip-hop recording artist producer and making beats the guy's the guy's been around 0.95

00:06:57.640 the biggest hip-hop names in the world bro he's way more black than you way more way more all right 0.95

00:07:04.640 man well is that true yeah you see yeah that's right look at his haircut i had a fade i just had to let

00:07:11.140 it go you had to fire it bro whip it out yeah that's all i say you had to whip it out all right

00:07:17.760 listen to this guy you heard that everybody gets quiet

00:07:21.480 no man no we got a good show though man let's set that pb and j up though all right for real i'm in

00:07:29.980 i'm down yeah i'm down um but outside of pb and j's man i got some good ones for you all right good

00:07:36.100 let's let's get into this andy guys question number one andy uh hey andy i'm a fairly new listener

00:07:42.360 uh your show was recommended to me by a friend of mine i would love to get your take on something

00:07:47.460 that i've been wondering about for a while we talk about this obvious corruption in our government

00:07:53.580 and it's becoming clearer who the head of the snake is my question is how deep does it actually go

00:08:00.500 i do believe our government is bloated to no end but how deep down the chain do you think it goes

00:08:07.040 is it just a bunch of mindless npcs working fax machines in these government organizations or are

00:08:13.120 they indirectly or directly involved and culpable as well i would love to hear your thoughts and

00:08:17.780 input on this oh dude i think most government employees have no idea what's actually going on

00:08:23.080 i think i think most of the police don't know i think most of the military is unaware i think most of

00:08:28.240 the three-letter agencies are unaware i think i think they're all just doing a job and that's why

00:08:34.380 i would agree with that yeah i don't i don't feel like your average you know uh atf agent or your 0.98

00:08:42.500 average fbi person is like they're being like yeah i'm gonna fuck the american people like your 0.89

00:08:47.320 mail lady i'm here yeah or you know like i don't i think they get a bad rep because um you know there's 0.97

00:08:54.020 a there's a few ways that this needs to be talked about okay they get a bad rep because people

00:09:01.340 understand that the police and the military and these agencies have taken an oath to protect the people

00:09:08.580 and when they don't see the those people protecting the people such as when they arrest people on a

00:09:15.700 beach when they're alone and during covid right right and cops were arresting business owners for

00:09:21.360 trying to keep their business open which way they were fully within their rights to do and and you

00:09:26.480 know zooming back now that's all been proven correct right um when they see these agencies

00:09:33.060 do these things they start to believe that the average officer or the average member of the

00:09:41.580 military the average three-letter person is part of the quote-unquote you know corruption which i don't

00:09:48.420 see it that way at all i actually think most of those people are just people who have a job who

00:09:54.540 probably are in debt who probably are leveraged just like you guys are leveraged um who have bills to

00:10:01.840 pay who are afraid to stand up because they're afraid that it's going to cost them their own

00:10:07.400 ability to do their thing you know pay their bills take care of their family but the problem with that

00:10:12.020 is is that when these people just go along and they say well this is my job that's how the most

00:10:18.680 incredibly horrible horrific you know things in human history have happened you know people who were

00:10:26.740 in a position to stand up and say this is not right refuse to do so because their own individual

00:10:32.520 situation depended on it and so that's what i see happening here and that's not excusing that

00:10:39.180 behavior because i believe that even my personal opinion is and you guys could say whatever you want

00:10:45.820 i know we have a lot of police and a lot of you guys listen this show especially you know you guys

00:10:49.620 are assigned to listen to the show too right so yeah so like shout out to you guys uh you guys are 0.99

00:10:56.780 being fucking cowards man and because you're being cowards people are starting to think you're evil 0.99

00:11:01.620 and you guys have an obligation to stand up for the oath that you took you know for years and years 1.00

00:11:07.700 and years and years and years for decades that oath didn't really mean anything because there

00:11:12.660 was no there wasn't this kind of disruption happening in our society but now we're in a position

00:11:17.820 where you know people are seeing the direction of the corruption and the evil that it could

00:11:23.300 potentially lead to and is leading to and uh not enough of these people are speaking up not enough

00:11:29.620 of these people are making a stand and here's the thing if all the police and all the three-letter 1.00

00:11:35.240 people just stood together and said no this is bullshit this shit would be over tomorrow this shit 0.99

00:11:40.760 would be over tomorrow so um as far as how deep it goes i don't believe those people are quote 1.00

00:11:47.620 unquote in on it but a number of them are becoming complicit in it with their silence and their

00:11:53.240 passivity and in their desire to protect their own lives and what you guys who are listening you know 1.00

00:12:00.040 and you're listening right now and you're saying yeah well fuck you you know well bro i'm risking shit 0.99

00:12:04.380 too we're all risking shit to talk about this okay and real talk every single one of you that i'm 1.00

00:12:10.900 talking to i'm risking much more than you much much more all right so yeah it's hard and yeah it sucks 0.92

00:12:17.740 and yeah it's scary but also at the end of our lives we're gonna have to come to a point where we

00:12:22.460 have to analyze the actions that we took during our lives and for me being able to look myself in

00:12:27.740 the mirror and say bro you did the right thing you did what you knew was right is the most important

00:12:32.300 thing and uh you know i think that's where people got to get to but i do think that if we don't see

00:12:39.480 some sort of awakening and whistleblowing at a mass scale amongst the people who we the people pay

00:12:47.780 their salaries with our taxes to protect us we're gonna have big problems here in the country and um

00:12:56.680 you know so how far does it go are they in on it no i don't think they're in on the planning of it but

00:13:01.940 it's becoming up to a point where they're complicit in it because they're passive in the situation

00:13:07.000 so who's behind it well those are the people we talk about on the show all the time these are these

00:13:12.080 people who are you know mega mega mega mega the wealthiest people in the world who meet once a

00:13:18.840 year in davos and you know to to discuss the direction of the entire western world and uh that is

00:13:26.080 you know the world economic forum um the build a bird group and these people who have been in power

00:13:33.540 for generations and uh on generations on generations um and they they make deals with each other and and

00:13:40.120 it's them and us they are very clear on that that's why we're not invited to those parties that's why

00:13:45.920 we're not invited to take place that's why when you try to go to davos when the world economic forum

00:13:50.360 unless you're part of their club you're not allowed in it so they understand very clearly that it's them

00:13:56.400 and us but we don't understand that right and that's the biggest problem the biggest problem is is that we

00:14:01.840 all have good hearts we have good intentions and we care about people they don't and there's not a

00:14:09.620 single one of us listening here that would say hey let's start a group and let's meet once a year

00:14:15.400 and then let's pull our resources and let's make all these rules to make life harder on the rest of 0.65

00:14:20.940 the fucking world like we would never do that would you do that would you would you guys do that 0.97

00:14:25.740 i wouldn't do that either and i know none of you listening would we're all good people but there's 0.98

00:14:30.180 people out here that do this this is why there's good and evil and i think the biggest problem that

00:14:35.500 we have in this country is that we have we we have been so conditioned to be passive and give people

00:14:41.540 to benefit in the doubt and to say you know well you know i'm sure it's a coincidence or i'm sure

00:14:46.620 it's incompetence instead of looking at the reality of there's good and evil and these people doing this

00:14:54.100 stuff to us are evil and they don't care about us and they're willing to sacrifice us they're willing

00:14:59.100 to kill us they're willing to make our lives incredibly hard like when you guys think about what

00:15:06.160 you learned in high school and you think about what what you learn now now look at what they're

00:15:10.080 teaching today which is many times less valuable than what we even learn but even when when i was

00:15:15.600 in high school and i went to at the time what what what was a very very very high-ranked academic high

00:15:21.840 school um they didn't teach me about you know debt they didn't teach me about how to balance finances

00:15:31.180 they didn't teach me how to protect myself from you know all of these things that we deal with as a

00:15:37.620 human being once we're kicked out into the real world like and that's because our debt is their

00:15:43.240 asset and our struggle is their win and they want us to struggle and they want us to be indebted and

00:15:48.900 they want us to struggle in a way where it's hard for us to get ahead because if we're in debt we're in

00:15:54.320 debt to them that makes them rich and if we struggle to get ahead that means we're less powerful to provide

00:16:01.040 any sort of resistance to anything that they do and so when we really like break this down

00:16:07.220 you have to understand that our entire system is corrupted even down to the way that uh the things

00:16:13.480 that they teach us at a basic level and so you know when you guys think about where does it start

00:16:18.240 where's it end what it is it who's doing it this and that it's not as simple as saying oh it's joe biden

00:16:23.720 like bro this has been going on for a hundred years this is this is our systems this is our way

00:16:29.560 our our like when you really like if you're you guys who are business owners out here like

00:16:34.640 if you were an average person and you actually understood how small and medium-sized businesses

00:16:43.120 get taxed and you actually understood how they tax you exactly the right way so that you can barely

00:16:50.420 get ahead and then they have the biggest companies in the world pay zero tax and then these biggest

00:16:58.140 companies in the world then put out propaganda to you to get you fired up saying tax the rich

00:17:05.180 like that tax the rich message that you see from aoc that comes from the richest people in the world

00:17:11.680 and they want you to look at your neighbor or your local entrepreneur and burn their business down

00:17:17.200 because they you know they're they're the rich to you right they know that you're not going to look 1.00

00:17:22.160 at them and think they're the rich you're going to look at your neighbor driving a bmw and say fuck 0.99

00:17:26.340 that guy and this is all psychological societal propaganda that we've been dealing with for a 0.99

00:17:31.720 long time so like where who's in charge where does it go i mean dude that's a history lesson that would

00:17:37.080 take me literally 10 fucking hours to unpack but at the end of the day uh the world economic forum is the 0.93

00:17:44.100 centerpiece for it in my opinion along with all the governments that align with them along with uh 0.96

00:17:50.580 you know really that's it all the governments that align with the world economic forum and the people

00:17:55.420 of the world economic forum are causing 98 of the disruption in society and that's why when trump 0.98

00:18:02.880 was in office he went in there and fucking fucked with them and pulled out and uh you know we shouldn't 0.98

00:18:07.680 be a part of that no no i just pulled up some of these uh federal tax rates on some of these companies 1.00

00:18:14.960 man this shit is sickening like there's companies that are operating on a negative tax rate i don't 0.99

00:18:20.880 even know how the fuck that's possible yeah they're getting tax grants from our gut so like this is what 1.00

00:18:25.560 people don't understand when they say tax the rich they want you to yell at me okay while the biggest 0.97

00:18:31.700 companies in the world get government funding for their projects you see what i'm saying that's insane

00:18:37.820 no bro people don't understand it they don't teach you they don't teach you the show game like like you

00:18:44.240 know like you walk down the street in new york and you see the dude with the three cups and the ball

00:18:47.740 they're not going to teach you the trick no but i can promise you the trick is to keep you struggling

00:18:53.520 to keep you unhealthy to keep you sick to keep you dependent to keep you confused so that they can

00:19:00.360 maintain control and power and and uh prestige over us and and and bro it's us versus them they

00:19:06.300 understand that very clearly we don't understand that we're not smart enough to understand it they

00:19:11.000 don't allow us to be smart enough to understand it like if you were operating from this place

00:19:15.760 and you would you and now you're them now real talk now i know you're a good dude and like you

00:19:23.980 wouldn't really do this but let's say you're them okay and you have everything in the world

00:19:29.180 the you've been brought up to believe the world is yours and that these people do not matter they

00:19:35.160 these are no different than you or i would look at and and people get mad when i say this but this is

00:19:40.460 true they don't have any more care for us than we would have care for a cockroach infestation in our

00:19:47.260 garage okay so if you were them why would you teach us how to win why would you teach us how to be

00:19:57.440 healthy why would you teach us how to make money why would you teach us how to become independent

00:20:03.080 why would you teach us any of the things that are required to actually become better human beings

00:20:08.940 there's no motivation there to do so no because all of those things threaten my position correct

00:20:13.500 yeah so we have to understand the position to understand why things are the way they are 0.98

00:20:18.180 and when we unload the educational system as a load of shit which we all know it is 0.99

00:20:22.700 it makes sense as to why it's a load of shit right they want us to be incapable of any sort 0.99

00:20:29.300 of resistance and at the same time they need us to produce their taxable income that they can then 0.99

00:20:35.200 go spend and use and steal that's what the fuck it is and that's the system we live in and if we 0.95

00:20:42.300 paid a 10 tax uh you know as a as like if this country was truly patriotic and truly cared about its 0.99

00:20:50.140 people and truly stood for the things that they people say it stands for that we've been led to

00:20:55.340 believe it stands for then we would tax the citizens the minimum amount it would need to make this

00:21:01.600 country safe and uh and and powerful enough to protect itself and then you know uh prominent in terms

00:21:08.520 of financial success but that's not what happens okay because you could do that on a 10 tax rate

00:21:14.860 all right if everybody paid 10 percent those those global corporations you're googling 0.90

00:21:19.660 your neighbor the the all the fucking people that don't pay any taxes if everybody paid 10 percent 0.98

00:21:26.660 we'd have more than enough money to make this country exactly what it's supposed to be 0.99

00:21:31.180 and enough left over to make it even better than that but but dude like you guys are not

00:21:36.640 understanding like that 50 60 70 percent of tax you pay when you uh add up all the taxes you pay

00:21:43.500 right not just income tax but you know sales sales tax your your property tax all these things that

00:21:49.980 you stack up you're paying plus 50 percent of that to the government and they're stealing that and that

00:21:55.580 makes you a slave you're a slave you pay more tax to the government when you add it all up then you 0.95

00:22:04.880 get to take home that means you exist to provide for them and that is the fucking dot the connecting of 0.98

00:22:11.900 the dots that is not connecting for people people are not understanding it because they're constantly 0.97

00:22:17.020 distracting us with propaganda saying tax the rich but they're really talking about the middle class

00:22:22.480 business owner or the successful middle-sized business owner like me right and not the biggest 0.90

00:22:28.460 companies in the world that are worth fucking 100 billion 50 billion fucking dollars okay they let 0.92

00:22:35.360 those guys off the hook why do they not attack those guys why do they not hold on why why do 0.98

00:22:41.640 they not go after those guys why do they make it the mid-level guys because they need the societal

00:22:45.880 disruption the class warfare to divide for their agenda and they don't want to piss off the people 0.93

00:22:50.840 who actually fund their shit this is why you have such a uh big disparity amongst people who vote for 0.96

00:22:57.120 the democrats democrats are only two kinds of people to vote what kind are they they're broke 0.99

00:23:03.000 super broke super poor super destitute or they're super wealthy and don't have a care in the world

00:23:09.320 and the super wealthy ones lie straight up to get the broke ones to vote for them and then make laws

00:23:16.400 to make those people suffer more and they profit off that suffering and that's that's what we're dealing

00:23:21.140 with with the left the right ain't much better but they're not as bad as the left the right has its 0.95

00:23:25.560 own problems they're cowards okay they're not standing for what this country's supposed to be

00:23:29.940 they're in on the take too in a certain ways but they're not in on the take like these guys on the 0.98

00:23:34.320 progressive left are these people are straight up unethical crooks so we could talk about this and

00:23:40.220 talk about this and talk about this but at the end of the day we're peasants they're them they hate us

00:23:46.400 and we have to learn that they're our enemy and we're going to make any progress and we have to stop

00:23:50.580 infighting we have to stop arguing stop you know picking each other apart and we have to start realizing

00:23:55.680 that it's us versus them just like they understand that it's them versus us they very clearly understand 0.85

00:24:01.280 that try to go to a build a bird party try to go to the fucking world economic forum try to go to 0.99

00:24:06.600 one of these try to go talk to these people they got their own police bro they don't give a fuck 1.00

00:24:10.580 they'll spit in your fucking face bro you are a cockroach to them and until we start understanding 1.00

00:24:16.740 this at scale nothing can ever change because the division the identity politics the arguments over 1.00

00:24:23.380 abortion the arguments over race the arguments over class warfare the arguments over the black 0.78

00:24:30.760 square the vaccine the mask ukraine now the middle east these are all surface level arguments that they 0.89

00:24:37.600 that they prop up in society for people to fucking divide each divide over which allows them to 0.81

00:24:44.060 maintain control so that we're getting hit from all these different places right we're getting hit from 0.96

00:24:48.860 our education system we're getting hit from our financial structure we're getting hit from the

00:24:53.220 media and the propaganda and because we're getting hit from all these places and we're always 0.99

00:24:57.660 fucking being overwhelmed by this shit how do we ever sit down and have a conversation like oh bro 0.99

00:25:02.580 whoa whoa whoa these people are fucking us all that's what they're afraid of they're that's why they 1.00

00:25:08.780 banned fucking bars during covid bro because the seeds of revolution were sown in taverns that's a 0.99

00:25:14.660 that's a famous saying that's been around for 250 fucking years like restrict the action yeah bro 0.99

00:25:20.380 everybody bonds over a beer it doesn't matter what your fucking politics are and like bro you're 0.97

00:25:25.260 sitting across you know i'm sitting in a bar and there's a bunch of dudes over there that you know 0.99

00:25:29.340 maybe they look a little different than me in whatever way might be drinking but yeah whatever

00:25:34.200 bro like yeah they can do whatever and and you know eventually you look up and you're like what's up

00:25:40.260 guys and they're like nah man what's up with you we're good bro what do you guys think of this 1.00

00:25:44.980 bullshit well fuck man we think this shit is bullshit well fuck we do too and they don't want 1.00

00:25:49.960 us finding out that everybody thinks it's bullshit so like dude until and this is what i was getting 1.00

00:25:54.960 on with on cti last week with the conservative influencers like you pro-freedom influencers that 0.99

00:26:01.000 continue to propagate for these people you're a fucking pawn in their machine without even 0.98

00:26:05.820 understanding it like we need fucking real unity bro we need people to get along at the street 0.99

00:26:11.140 level we need people to commit to personal excellence and the only thing that we have right 0.88

00:26:15.280 now that we're in control of is our own individual commitment to break free of the matrix by becoming 0.97

00:26:22.440 personally excellent if they want us fat you can't be a fat ass if they want you broke you got to try 0.99

00:26:27.860 not to be broke if they want you consuming all these pills do your best to fucking be healthy so you 0.99

00:26:33.060 don't need them if they want you streaming all this bullshit data and scrolling on your phone go touch 1.00

00:26:38.380 some fucking grass man and create some shit in real life like unplug yourself by becoming personally 1.00

00:26:44.920 excellent that's the only thing we can do besides unite as an as a as a people which i don't think 1.00

00:26:51.900 we're ready to do yet i still see these people falling for this thing over and over and over again

00:26:56.440 and real talk you guys the millions of you that listen to this show you should be yelling at those 1.00

00:27:02.680 people and saying bro you fucking guys are part of the fucking problem man like you guys are on here 0.99

00:27:07.600 every day dividing everybody hyping everybody up you're not trying to solve anything how about let's 1.00

00:27:13.460 hear what your solutions are because i got a thing in my businesses it's real simple you're not allowed 0.97

00:27:18.860 to bring me a problem unless you bring me a fucking solution and we got lots of people out here crying 0.98

00:27:23.880 about the problems everybody knows the problems everybody can open their wallet everybody can go to 1.00

00:27:28.380 the gas pump everybody can go to the fucking grocery store everybody can look at their fucking 0.99

00:27:32.760 adjustable mortgage rate everybody can look at rent we know there's a fucking problem what are we going 0.99

00:27:38.420 to do about it that's what i want to hear that's what i would like to see where's the solutions because 0.77

00:27:44.080 as far as i know there's me and like maybe three other people out there providing actual solutions

00:27:50.360 what are the solutions the only solutions i know besides legitimately creating violence which 0.92

00:27:58.260 dude i think is a bad idea i think we lose that battle is to fucking become personally excellent 0.98

00:28:04.980 commit to that as individuals bring that example home change the culture in our communities and then 0.94

00:28:11.260 also work to unite people those are the only two things i can think that will fucking fix what's going 0.87

00:28:16.080 on because if you went and did a violent revolution do you think they're not going to do what they did 0.68

00:28:20.380 a j6 do you think they're not like let's everybody's like oh it's time for violence well okay so you get 0.99

00:28:28.340 the the the most violent people together to go do this violence and they drone strike the entire group 1.00

00:28:36.380 and then you have no leaders now what you fucking guys are you guys are fucking idiots like you can't 1.00

00:28:41.780 think through shit you need we need people to have the track record of critically thinking their way 1.00

00:28:49.640 through life i happen to be one of those people i've been very fucking successful in real life and 0.99

00:28:54.880 i'm telling you i've thought about this i've dedicated a major part of my life to this i understand exactly 0.85

00:28:59.960 what the fuck is going on within my capacity to understand it and the only two solutions we have 0.79

00:29:04.960 here are to take individual responsibility for ourselves to become unplugged from the matrix meaning 1.00

00:29:10.900 don't be fat don't be broke don't be lazy don't be stupid and work to be a great example of a human 0.99

00:29:17.240 being and then work to unite people those are the only two things that we have the capacity to 0.99

00:29:22.140 actually do and control and those happen to be the two things that will restore greatness to america in 0.82

00:29:27.620 a real way not trump comes in as a new president or fucking whoever right me or anybody bro even if you 1.00

00:29:35.060 guys elected me as president which you know i can't fix your fucking shit i can't fix your life i can't 0.99

00:29:41.020 make you not fat i can't make you smarter i can't make you wealthy only you can do that and until 1.00

00:29:45.980 everybody takes control of that and says bro i'm gonna live at a high standard regardless of what

00:29:49.540 the fuck is going on in the world we got nothing to talk about it ain't gonna get fixed and the reason 0.90

00:29:54.200 people shy away from this as a solution is because it takes personal effort to execute it's not easy 0.99

00:29:59.600 no it's hard to do it's real shit man but we got a big problem and and i can tell you this as hard 0.90

00:30:04.820 as that will be to do it's going to be easier than what the what they're going to do to us which is 0.95

00:30:09.680 making us eat bugs and starve and have nothing and you'll be happy i mean they tell you right to your

00:30:14.580 face 2030 you'll own nothing and be happy you know they've already got half of you convinced 1.00

00:30:20.060 that's a good idea because you don't own shit anyway because yeah fuck me you know they go to 1.00

00:30:26.160 these gen z impossible to own shit bro they go to these they go to these gen z kids who haven't 1.00

00:30:31.100 and by the way there's a lot of good gen z kids too i'm not going to sit here i'm not going to be one 0.99

00:30:35.240 of these douchebags that throws them all under the bus because it ain't true there's a lot of great 0.99

00:30:39.260 ones but they go to these kids of any age they did it to fucking they did it to fucking 1.00

00:30:45.100 millennials they did it to they done it to every generation the the the communist left goes to the 0.99

00:30:51.820 kids who haven't had any time in real life to build anything real and then they like sell them on this 0.99

00:30:58.920 idea of how unfair it is that bro you're 17 you're not supposed to have shit you know i'm saying like 1.00

00:31:06.180 you're fucking 25 you're supposed to not have shit yet just because you don't have shit in your life 1.00

00:31:11.540 yet doesn't mean you're getting fucked it means you're 20 fucking five that's the game yes it's 1.00

00:31:16.340 the first quarter like bro so they sell them this idea yeah they sell them this idea that the world is 0.98

00:31:22.060 not a fair place but the reality is if you go out there and talk to anybody who's actually built

00:31:26.840 anything they're gonna tell you yeah it's really fucking hard but you'll get out what you put in why do 0.87

00:31:32.400 you think every successful person says that why do you think that you think they're all just got 0.99

00:31:36.500 together on a story no motherfucker that's how it works like it's hard but if you do the work it 0.99

00:31:43.120 produces a result that's it like mowing the grass in july when it's 115 fucking degrees outside guess 0.99

00:31:49.700 what that's hard but if you do it the grass still gets cut you see what i'm saying like this is a this 0.78

00:31:55.300 is a fallacy that is sold to our youth that doesn't have the life perspective to understand

00:32:03.800 that they're not supposed to have anything yet yeah you know what i mean absolutely and that's

00:32:08.680 how they mobilize these young kids but like a lot of these young kids are getting smart enough to

00:32:12.060 where they're realizing like fuck if i buy into this i'll never have anything that's refreshing to 0.67

00:32:16.400 see as well absolutely man absolutely love it man guys any question number two 0.92

00:32:20.700 andy i am currently working for my father who owns a very successful business which is continuously

00:32:27.680 growing my father built the business from the ground up which puts tons of pressure on me to continue

00:32:34.780 his success i know statistically speaking second generation businesses typically don't survive

00:32:39.620 i use this as motivation to not only maintain what my father has built but to continue to grow

00:32:45.300 and prove that i can do what he did and more what advice do you have for second generation business

00:32:51.240 owners like myself who refuse to be another failed business statistic the fact that you're aware of

00:32:57.720 this and that this drives you already is really what you need okay so here's that's fundamental no

00:33:05.100 that's the reason you're not going to be that person awareness is the key here dude this is why 75 hard

00:33:10.960 works so well because it's not because it's a diet program or it like bro it brings you to a level

00:33:18.860 of awareness that you can now discern between two distinct influences in your life your boss voice 0.99

00:33:25.800 which tells you to do all the shit you know you're supposed to do and your bitch voice which works 1.00

00:33:30.360 tirelessly to talk you out of doing those things and when you become aware of those things then all 1.00

00:33:37.020 of a sudden it's a different game because you don't want to be a fucking loser so you tell the 1.00

00:33:40.320 bitch voice shut the fuck up and you become aware of it now you have a skill that your whole life 1.00

00:33:44.280 called awareness right most people live their life with no awareness and the reason most second 1.00

00:33:49.320 generation businesses fail isn't because there's some like disadvantage to second generation businesses

00:33:55.300 it's because they lack the awareness to what this individual just described in his question or in

00:34:00.360 her question which is this i understand that second generation businesses fail i don't want to be one of

00:34:08.860 those people i have taken it upon myself to prove to myself and everybody around me that this second 0.99

00:34:16.740 generation business person isn't going to fucking tank like all those other pussies okay you are already 1.00

00:34:23.320 aware of this which gives you a huge competitive advantage because the people who kill their parents 1.00

00:34:28.880 businesses they kill them because they they don't have what you have in your brain in your heart right now

00:34:34.700 they have an entirely different set of programming which goes like this i'm rich my dad was rich my

00:34:41.080 parents were rich now i'm rich and i get to keep being rich and because i grew up rich and because i

00:34:46.860 grew up with money and because that means i'm always going to have these things so it really doesn't matter

00:34:50.660 what i do look at my bank account it looks great i drive a mercedes that's awesome i have a nice house i 1.00

00:34:56.120 have a lake house and they don't worry about a motherfucking thing until the shit is burnt to the ground and then 1.00

00:35:00.660 they're like oh fuck and that's where they learn their awareness they're going to learn the awareness 1.00

00:35:04.940 eventually but because they're not aware on the front side they get taught the awareness on the 0.99

00:35:09.920 back side which is in the form of a failed business so a lot of times guys and this goes for any problem

00:35:15.540 in your life if you are just aware enough to to be understanding of the position that you're in

00:35:23.200 in a real way this is why this show's called uh real af by the way welcome to reality that's why we say 0.80

00:35:29.360 welcome to reality because this is fucking reality okay if you're aware of reality and where you sit 0.78

00:35:36.460 in it it makes it very easy to navigate it's when you tell yourself stories that aren't true 0.98

00:35:42.000 that that gets you in positions you don't want to be in so you know when you think about like

00:35:46.800 yourself right now this person who asked this question i would personally bet and i would bet this

00:35:52.980 for real that that person will go on to take the business to multiple levels above their parents

00:35:59.200 because that happens a lot too there's a lot of second generation business people who took what 0.88

00:36:04.160 their parents built and fucking 100 exit right that's how you should look at it that's the mentality 0.76

00:36:11.260 you should have what your parents did they set you up for a good a good base and that's okay some 1.00

00:36:17.280 people are going to talk shit and the bigger you get they're going to say daddy gave him a silver 1.00

00:36:21.020 spoon and all this other fucking loser shit okay here's how you shove it down their fucking 1.00

00:36:25.980 throats by taking what the fuck your parents built and building it to a hundred x that level 1.00

00:36:31.000 and then what are people going to say nothing well they're going to say the same shit but you're going 1.00

00:36:35.760 to look at and be like suck my dick bro i don't give a fuck you know what i'm saying so my dad's 1.00

00:36:39.860 did give me a silver spoon i made it gold how the fuck did my dad get me here my dad didn't even get 1.00

00:36:44.400 here he don't know how to fucking get here you see what i'm saying like that's the story so like 0.99

00:36:49.020 you know how you it's kind of funny because that's for people who were born into their parents 0.97

00:36:55.220 business that's their biggest uh insecurity right people saying you were born with a silver spoon or

00:37:01.400 daddy gave you something or this or that and and i know this because this is a question i get all the

00:37:05.940 time from people who who are in this situation how do i get people to stop saying that like this is 0.94

00:37:11.080 fuck blah blah go build something that's so undeniably massively more impactful and bigger than what 0.99

00:37:18.500 your parents built and shove it down their fucking throats yeah so that's my answer the fact that 1.00

00:37:24.200 you're aware is what's going to save you from becoming that and i i think you're thinking about 1.00

00:37:29.560 it the right way i think that should be your mission and i think anybody who finds themselves

00:37:34.380 in a position where they were taught things by their parents they should escalate those things many

00:37:40.620 times over that's the why your parents taught you that you know my dad was an entrepreneur now he 0.97

00:37:45.340 never gave me anything he never wrote me a check he never handed me shit but i did learn a lot of 0.97

00:37:50.240 shit right i was around his business i got to see how it ran i learned a lot of things and you know 0.99

00:37:55.820 and and quite honestly this is just real shit i've taken it to about a hundred fucking times the level 0.98

00:38:00.960 that he did actually mathematically more than that all right so what are you going to say that's my dad's 0.98

00:38:08.640 proud of that right he's right over there he's got an office he's on my payroll i can see his i see him

00:38:13.900 he's right there see if i go over there and ask him if he's proud that we went out and built something 0.99

00:38:20.100 many multiple times bigger than what he's going to say yeah that's why the fuck i taught you that 0.97

00:38:24.420 that was a point yes and so you have an obligation to think about it the way you think about it 0.95

00:38:30.040 and uh and and the reason that people fail is because they're not afraid of what you're afraid of

00:38:35.800 i want to ask you this because and correct me if i'm wrong you know but like when i was thinking

00:38:40.540 about this question i imagine like you know you're a 1970 chevelle right yep that chevy when it was

00:38:46.060 made in 1970 it was a beautiful beautiful vehicle runs great right you know but it's 2023 but you know

00:38:53.320 it's a different time there's new tires that have come out you know maybe new synthetic oil how do you

00:38:58.820 know what to change on that 1970 to keep it running it's already oh you mean in terms of the business

00:39:04.020 in terms of the business oh well bro that's the greatest thing so so you know once you see and 0.51

00:39:10.620 this is a great this is that's a fucking great question okay so i'm glad you asked that a lot

00:39:16.940 of these younger people they understand the world in such a different way yeah than what like somebody 0.99

00:39:23.020 who's that see i'm lucky bro like i'm in that very fucking like and very very rarely will i say i'm 0.86

00:39:29.360 lucky you will never hear me say it but i'm going to say here's where i got lucky i was lucky to be 0.89

00:39:33.980 born at the exact fucking right time where i built a fucking very successful business pre-internet and 0.93

00:39:41.820 then i was able to fucking build another one post-internet you see what i'm saying both sides yes and 0.97

00:39:47.580 that's what makes me understand what we do and why i'm successful at it a lot of these other brands 0.86

00:39:52.900 the reason they struggle so hard is because they only have been around for five seven ten years

00:39:58.280 in a post-internet world they don't understand how business was done before because they're too young 0.99

00:40:02.680 to understand it that's where my advantage is like dude that's a gift yeah like that's a fucking 0.95

00:40:07.540 blessing dude i do not say i got lucky but i got lucky about that i can't control where when i got 0.83

00:40:13.240 fucking bored all right well i mean wasn't it was it lucky or did you make the the did you make the 0.89

00:40:18.600 right pivots as an entrepreneur i was born when 2001 happened i was 21 years old okay that's when 0.97

00:40:27.060 the internet started going the next seven or eight years social media wasn't really a thing that's

00:40:33.220 when i made my first built my first eight-figure business that was successful right i pivoted those

00:40:40.240 same principles into the technology that we have my point in saying all this is that the world

00:40:45.680 continues to evolve and so if you're a parent like in this scenario where the parents have built a

00:40:51.280 good base this young person who might have a different perspective because they've grown up

00:40:56.100 in an entire different world might be able to come in and be like well why don't we do this for that

00:41:01.500 why don't we try to do that and as long as there's open discussion where you don't just discount the

00:41:06.540 parents because you think they're old and you don't just uh you know run with your ideas because you

00:41:11.600 think this is the way it's supposed to be now you're going to come to this peanut butter and 0.78

00:41:17.080 jelly sandwich right that tastes really fucking good much better than yours it probably tastes like 0.84

00:41:21.200 mine okay but you're going to come to this level of of of coming together that's going to bring 0.93

00:41:28.940 together the things that you did right the old way and the things that can be done to improve upon

00:41:33.820 them with the new technology and now you have something that other people don't have

00:41:37.800 so what this person has is an opportunity to sort of do what i've done in a different way by leveraging

00:41:43.820 their parents knowledge of their business you see what i'm saying so uh and i think that's the game

00:41:51.180 i think the game i think and i don't think this i have like stacks and stacks of stacks of undeniable 0.71

00:41:58.840 fucking track record and evidence over the last 24 and a half years 20 i'll be in business 25 years on 0.93

00:42:04.700 january 1st bro it's wild so knowing what i know and understanding what i understand 0.97

00:42:10.860 this person's situation is almost perfectly aligned with my situation if their ability to understand the

00:42:20.320 way business was done before is translated into the way technology is now and and what i was getting

00:42:26.440 the point out here is that in my opinion which isn't really opinion it's a fact because we can look

00:42:31.720 at all the evidence is that that's the game the game is to take old school business and then utilize 0.84

00:42:37.420 technology to do the business yeah it's real shit man guys andy our third and final question question 0.93

00:42:45.660 number three andy andy i got a five-year-old and i wanted to ask you how would you teach the concept 0.99

00:42:53.240 of earning the things i'd beat them yeah well just beat them just beat your kids hey listen 0.99

00:43:02.060 make a tiktok out of that shit i turned out just fine yeah just beat them 0.99

00:43:05.400 uh but how would you how would you go about teaching the concept of earning the things 0.99

00:43:11.320 that they want for example she's got a long list of toys dolls dresses etc that she wants us to buy

00:43:17.120 uh but because there are not those aren't needs i don't feel comfortable just buying her whatever

00:43:23.000 she wants is this question from you no no it's real oh okay no that's what it's not for me 0.91

00:43:26.800 no i i i knew the answer i'd beat the shit out of them like 0.91

00:43:29.740 no surprise oh yeah they don't want to say i know traditionally parents well i know you guys got a

00:43:37.840 little princess over there bro yeah yeah two of them it's hard it is hard to say no but i mean 0.95

00:43:43.780 how do you do it say fucking no all right well answer mine mine not old hold on let's ask the 0.98

00:43:49.380 question she's still in that phase like i just you know you can get it right now she ain't oh so you 1.00

00:43:54.260 oh she's young man i got it all right she ain't there yet all right so we got a big shit talker in 0.99

00:43:59.280 the house that's right there he is all right let's let's get a fucking cup we'll get to that in a 0.99

00:44:04.340 second sorry i keep interrupting no you're good um she says i know traditionally parents use things like 0.95

00:44:09.620 uh completing chores and getting good grades and school work to accomplish this but these days i've

00:44:14.520 heard that bribing kids can actually backfire because ultimately we want them to learn to be

00:44:19.280 internally motivated instead of externally motivated any thoughts on this yeah a lot but let's get back

00:44:25.320 to what we were talking about okay first off my peanut butter jelly's beating yours all day second 0.99

00:44:30.180 off how do you handle this in your house yeah i mean like i said i think i think for me it's a

00:44:35.080 like my daughter like she's three years old man like it's very hard to say no you're not beating

00:44:40.920 her yet no not yet no um i'm sure she's gonna get there man because she's getting a little sassy 0.99

00:44:47.300 yeah she's sassy as shit she's a star bro yeah man listen she's uh so you wrote this question you 0.68

00:44:53.780 want me to answer it no no i got it we'll be approaching this for sure but i mean because like 0.93

00:44:57.980 that is a dj submitting his own questions hi you too all right both you guys yours is fine 0.94

00:45:04.860 this is actually joe's fuck joe i knew it was one of you guys all right so um but earning right 0.94

00:45:14.040 like internal motivation like earning principal basics so it's very important that you understand 0.98

00:45:22.400 the kids can understand reality very very simply when i was a young kid my dad took me to the graveyard

00:45:31.060 and where his uh his adopted father is buried and i was only like i don't know three or four

00:45:40.640 we went and he's like see that right there he's like that's your grandpa he's in the ground there

00:45:46.720 and guess what he ain't coming back and i'm like what do you mean he said once you're dead you're dead 0.98

00:45:51.900 you can't come back he said that's why you can't do anything stupid that's why you don't run in the 0.98

00:45:56.020 street that's why you don't because once it happens you're in the ground forever all right 0.99

00:46:00.840 and dude i'm fucking i'm 44 years old i still remember that shit all right i got it right away 0.99

00:46:06.640 like fucking be careful got it no yeah yeah so so we have to understand that kids have the capacity 0.98

00:46:14.700 to understand these things if we explain them and we also have to understand that we have an 0.98

00:46:18.740 obligation to teach these kids the way things actually work in real life from a very young age

00:46:23.160 and where i see parents getting a lot of trouble and this is perpetuated with the school system and

00:46:28.640 the way that these values have been taught over the last 20 plus years you know if you got a person

00:46:33.320 who went to high school and and they're coming out right now bro like real talk you guys have been 0.86

00:46:38.780 fucked like you've been taught the wrong things and if you want to look at the what the wrong things 0.93

00:46:43.640 are versus what the right things are we can look at all the things society says which is everything's 0.98

00:46:50.060 supposed to be fair everything's supposed to be equal everybody gets what they want everybody's

00:46:54.940 a superstar if they're loyal to themselves i'm not in competition with anyone i'm only in competition

00:47:00.200 with myself participation trophies matter people's feelings matter we can we can scoop all that over

00:47:07.720 here and probably a whole bunch of other stuff right i'm missing but in real life let's go watch a

00:47:13.900 football game and let's think about what goes into the football game okay football game these dudes are

00:47:20.400 on the verge of a physical fight to the point of injuring themselves and sometimes even killing

00:47:25.680 themselves to win it they practice their entire lives they practice hard they lift weights they eat 0.97

00:47:32.700 the right foods and they did that for 20 fucking years before you ever saw them on a college football 0.88

00:47:37.600 saturday all right in most cases now what do that what does that example show us it shows us that

00:47:46.040 work in equals results it shows us that work must be done over the course of a long time it shows us

00:47:53.420 that competition is very real and it shows us that winners are rewarded for winning the competition

00:47:58.260 at a very exponentially uh high rate okay like nobody gives a fuck about who lost the super bowl last year 0.98

00:48:06.540 who gives a fuck you know what i'm saying nobody cares about who fucking lost the world series the 0.99

00:48:12.320 other day like people are talking about the team that won that's that's life okay so we have two very 0.99

00:48:18.020 distinct ideologies in society where both are valued which is super interesting right like how do you

00:48:25.280 convince the population that real life is this idealistic nonsense where there is no competition

00:48:32.080 competition and people win for showing up and life just takes how do you and then still get them to 0.56

00:48:38.320 pay for football like that doesn't make any fucking sense at least to me so when we think about if we

00:48:44.800 want our kids to win we have to show them the model that wins and the model that wins is the game of 0.87

00:48:50.300 football or the game of athletics that we can observe in real life it's called natural order the best 0.99

00:48:55.480 people win and they get rewarded and all this other shit that they teach that's fucking that you're 1.00

00:49:00.900 handicapping your fucking child okay so when your kid wants a uh you know a fucking bike you know 1.00

00:49:08.220 i would do something like what my dad did my dad made me earn all my shit all right and and my dad 1.00

00:49:13.960 had the means to buy me a bike or you know whatever the fuck he wanted to buy me but when i went to him

00:49:20.120 when i was like seven or eight i said dad i want a bike i wanted a mongoose mongoose back in the day i don't 0.98

00:49:26.820 know if mongoose is good still but mongoose used to be the shit that's the shit all right so i wanted 0.97

00:49:31.380 a mongoose fucking bmx bike so i could be cool right and do bunny hops but the reality was is my 0.99

00:49:37.580 dad was like no i'm not getting you a fucking bike like you're gonna go earn the bike because that's 0.99

00:49:42.140 the way the world works and you know what i did i went door to door and i sold fucking light bulbs 0.98

00:49:47.340 until i earned enough money to buy the bike now where did i get the light bulbs well i got them from 0.94

00:49:52.800 my dad he helped me out that's what's called good parenting right he gave me a vessel to do the 0.96

00:49:57.320 work i learned the lesson it stuck with me and here the fuck i am okay but like that's those things 0.93

00:50:03.620 stuck with me since i was a kid right like when i when i talk about when i first saw the lamborghini 0.98

00:50:08.360 and i said dad what's that he's like that's a lamborghini and i'm like holy shit the next thing 0.75

00:50:13.020 he followed it up with was hey you got to work really hard to have a car like that i don't know 0.66

00:50:18.560 mongoose no yeah he's like look and and do you know where most parents would look at that guy and 0.99

00:50:23.420 be like you don't want to be that guy that guy's a greedy fuck my dad did the opposite my dad said hey 0.99

00:50:28.320 you know what if that's what you want this is what it's going to take when we would drive down the 1.00

00:50:33.500 street and i said look at that he'd be like all right well if you want that this is what that's

00:50:36.700 going to take and that was a constant reinforcement that sal and i both got from our dad sal wanted to

00:50:42.660 be a professional baseball player and so you know what my dad told him he said well you're gonna have to 0.99

00:50:47.180 fucking practice every motherfucking day and you know why sal was uh fucking you know the baseball 0.99

00:50:51.700 player that he was because he practiced every motherfucking day you know why he's 10 times 1.00

00:50:56.080 better than me at baseball because while he was practicing i was playing fucking video games 0.99

00:50:59.960 you understand so like i you we learn these things um through practical lessons as a parent you just have 0.60

00:51:09.860 to be brave enough to teach them this is also why i write the children's books i write the children's

00:51:14.940 books a lot of you guys don't know i write children's books and have since 2016 and the

00:51:20.420 whole entire reason that we fucking produce these books is to provide a tool for parents like this

00:51:25.980 person who may not understand exactly what to teach or maybe they haven't been able to find success yet 0.92

00:51:31.600 in their life and how do you expect someone who's never found success to teach their children the

00:51:36.920 principles of success confidently well we have to give them tools and so this set of children's books

00:51:42.620 which are available on my website um basically provide the tools for the parents to teach the

00:51:48.860 values that apply to the football model of life which is parallel to real life yeah okay yeah can you

00:51:56.380 touch on two real quick on on because you know she mentioned like you know this being internally

00:52:00.540 motivated versus externally motivated you know and i feel like the like there's a certain point

00:52:05.560 or or segment of society that like they're they're still kind of like looking down on on materialistic

00:52:11.620 goals and you know the way i would yeah there is you know what you know those people are called

00:52:16.600 losers yeah that's what i'm saying yeah but it's like there's nothing wrong with material goals

00:52:21.120 especially not only is there nothing wrong with it material goals actually lead to a tremendous 0.98

00:52:26.200 amount of good things let me explain this to you okay so gary v used to bust my balls about material

00:52:32.280 shit and i love gary i wouldn't be here without gary okay so this is not a knock on gary gary's one of 0.58

00:52:37.400 the smartest guys i've ever known but gary also is from new york all right he's taking cab everywhere 0.99

00:52:42.240 his whole fucking life he doesn't understand cars i'm a car guy i've been playing with hot wheels 0.96

00:52:47.080 since i was fucking five four years old and micro machines and rc cars i fucking love cars bro 0.99

00:52:53.240 and so and and come you know in all fairness his argument is don't get the car just to show off 0.97

00:53:00.560 okay like and that's a fair argument but gary and i have had this conversation so many times over the 0.97

00:53:06.120 years and i always explain this to people you know people who shit on material success

00:53:10.940 there is a time in your life when you have nothing where material success could potentially be the only 0.86

00:53:20.020 thing that will pull you through the hard times and so when we villainize material success we're taking

00:53:26.460 away people's dreams and saying you're immoral for having those dreams and when we tell people

00:53:31.940 they're morally inferior for having dreams of personal success when they have nothing we're

00:53:37.600 taking away maybe the only thing that these people will have that will pull them through

00:53:41.600 all right so there's the first problem with it yeah the second problem with it is that nobody thinks

00:53:46.880 of the big picture implications of what material things can actually provide by having those goals

00:53:53.200 now when i started in business i didn't know shit about business but here's what i did know i wanted 0.86

00:53:58.340 to be rich and i wanted to have cool cars and i wanted to do cool shit with my friends all right so 0.98

00:54:03.260 the first fucking three years where i didn't get paid shit all i thought about was hey man this is 0.97

00:54:08.180 going to be worth it because i'm going to get to here okay and then the next seven years where i got 0.99

00:54:13.720 paid 695 a month you know what i thought about i thought man you know what this is really hard but

00:54:19.480 i'm already three years in that means i'm three years closer to my lamborghini than i ever was

00:54:24.140 before right and these thoughts pulled me through because there's going to be this gap between where

00:54:30.740 you are currently and where you want to be that's going to have to you're going to have to have

00:54:35.040 something to look forward to to pull you through otherwise you have no hope all right and when you're

00:54:40.280 young and you have nothing the hope is hopefully i won't always have nothing right so so you you paint

00:54:47.400 these pictures in your head of like driving up to the restaurant and the lamborghini and getting out 0.99

00:54:52.320 and everybody being like damn and like you know that shit's great like it's fucking one of the 0.98

00:54:55.880 coolest things ever i hope you get to experience it it's awesome but the reality is is that eventually 0.99

00:55:01.400 what happens is is you mature and you get a little bit older and you start to value other things and and

00:55:07.800 so without the material things you can't ever get to the point to actually value the real things which is

00:55:13.860 the people that you're doing the things with and the people you're trying to provide value for okay

00:55:18.820 so you you go from your ambition being selfish to your ambition being selfless with a over the course

00:55:27.580 of time especially after you've experienced some of these things right like what cars mean to me now

00:55:32.480 are not the same thing they meant to me 10 years ago like i don't walk in my garage like everybody else 0.58

00:55:38.460 does it walks in my garage it's like holy shit to me i'm just walking through the garage i don't give a 0.84

00:55:42.880 fuck right i could do with or without any of those things my passion now has grown into this bigger 0.96

00:55:49.040 mission that i care about which is providing careers for the people that go to war with me every day and 0.97

00:55:55.120 doing so in a way that actually benefits other people and though that mission becomes the passion

00:56:01.280 whereas for the first 10 years it was about what the fuck i could get and here's the ironic thing and 0.56

00:56:06.920 this is the best lesson of the whole thing once you actually make that switch you actually do much

00:56:12.040 better in business because business has to do with you trading something of value for money so when

00:56:17.560 you become more focused on the value that you're creating for your employees and your customers

00:56:21.960 those people go out and do a better job and they get better benefit and then all of a sudden your

00:56:27.500 business does better so you actually become way more successful by making it about other people but

00:56:32.300 you can't get to that point without the selfish desires whatever that might be

00:56:36.020 and so when people shit on success and material things they're not thinking about that because 1.00

00:56:41.300 they've never experienced it which goes back to my fucking point of motherfuckers talking about shit 1.00

00:56:46.380 they've never been through which is the entire fucking internet now gary has a fair perspective 1.00

00:56:51.660 because his perspective is don't buy the shit and put yourself in a negative situation to uh you know 0.99

00:57:00.100 financially and hold up your success to show off that's also true yeah but that's reasonable yes 0.99

00:57:06.880 so and and you know so there's nuance to the discussion but ultimately no there's nothing wrong

00:57:14.440 with material things in fact material things are oftentimes very necessary for people to pull through

00:57:20.660 the hardest times of their lives so that they can succeed through that and you can't listen to any 0.99

00:57:25.400 fucking loser on the internet bro we have so much loser talk on the internet it's 90% losers like 90% 1.00

00:57:32.500 of what you consume on the internet is from fucking losers and you let that you cannot you should mute 1.00

00:57:37.920 every single person you should fucking unfollow every single person all of them who spew that user 1.00

00:57:44.340 that loser shit real talk like it's here's what it is it's people because here's what people do and 0.99

00:57:53.360 i've been alive long enough to notice this they start out with ambitions those people wanted 1.00

00:57:58.280 material success too they wanted the shit too they wanted a bank account too they wanted all that 0.98

00:58:02.760 shit but here's what they found out they weren't able to actually cut it okay and then they adjust 0.99

00:58:08.160 their whole dream and then they come out in in the social media and they say i've re-evaluated my 1.00

00:58:13.780 priorities in life and you know all the shit that i used to think was cool i think is for losers now and 0.96

00:58:19.540 what i actually think cool is what i was calling a loser just a year ago right and really what it is 0.97

00:58:26.620 is they've given up on their hopes on their dreams on their success and they've adopted a new persona

00:58:32.400 to fit what it is they're doing now so that they're not embarrassed and they can save face

00:58:37.040 and that's what you have to know what you're looking at and people i'm gonna get a lot of people 0.99

00:58:41.880 being like oh this is always what it is yeah it is that's what the fuck it is you couldn't fucking 0.99

00:58:46.240 cut it you did it for long enough then he has some sort of fucking decision to make and you said 0.99

00:58:51.840 well instead of me fighting harder through the time to get where i ultimately wanted to go i'm just 0.97

00:58:56.400 going to accept my reality and i'm going to pretend what it's it what it's always wanted to start with

00:59:00.840 which isn't even true yeah just gracefully yes yeah so you have to understand what they're looking

00:59:05.680 at and who this loser language comes from that's it comes from people who have literally given up on 0.99

00:59:11.080 themselves that's who's telling you this shit so pay it no mind these people don't know anything 0.99

00:59:16.660 they're not more enlightened they're not morally superior to you because because that's where they 0.99

00:59:21.300 try to take it they always try to take it as i'm enlightened and i'm morally superior than you

00:59:26.320 because i don't like material things okay cool man yeah i rubbed myself with lavender and smoked

00:59:30.940 ayahuasca that's all you got hold on hold on what else do they got yeah what else can they talk 0.90

00:59:38.180 about what else can they say that's all they can fucking say and if that's all they can say 0.92

00:59:43.420 that their opinion doesn't mean anything because they have no option to have a relevant opinion 0.95

00:59:47.900 outside of the only thing they they're available they have available to say so why would you give 1.00

00:59:53.540 them any weight in anything that you do you shouldn't like those people are fucking losers 1.00

00:59:58.020 20 years ago when they spewed that shit we called those people losers in fact the internet should bring 1.00

01:00:03.580 that back like get that loser talk out of here loser like these are fucking losers 1.00

01:00:08.020 they're fucking losers bro and they're gonna lose and if you hang around with them you'll lose too 1.00

01:00:11.940 if you listen to them you'll lose too yeah i love it man well guys andy that was three go pay the fee 1.00

01:00:18.200 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in 1.00

01:00:25.260 the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold just a no headshot case close 1.00

01:00:32.420 close 1.00

REAL AF with Andy Frisella - November 06, 2023

595. Q&AF： Deep Government Corruption, 2nd Generation Business Owner & Teaching Kids About Earning

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - November 06, 2023

595. Q&#x26;AF： Deep Government Corruption, 2nd Generation Business Owner &#x26; Teaching Kids About Earning

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595. Q&AF： Deep Government Corruption, 2nd Generation Business Owner & Teaching Kids About Earning