REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 04, 2024


625. Real Talkļ¼š The Power Of Choice


Episode Stats

Length

18 minutes

Words per Minute

154.43901

Word Count

2,792

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary

You deserve exactly the life you deserve. You deserve exactly what you deserve and you deserve exactly who you deserve to be. You have earned it. You ve earned it, and you ve earned the future you deserve, and it s time to wake up to it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
00:00:21.140 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
00:00:25.380 have a real talk and uh i'm just gonna get right into it well well well where are we oh we're four
00:00:37.480 days into the new year one two three four days and what'd you say you were gonna do on new years
00:00:47.120 what'd you tell yourself you were gonna do did you say you were gonna get in shape finally i mean it
00:00:52.460 this time i'm serious this time i'm gonna do it did you say you were gonna build your career
00:00:59.820 take that seriously how many times you told yourself that now how many times you told yourself
00:01:07.240 you're gonna fix your shit and here we are four days into the new year and what have you done
00:01:14.800 now some of you have done it some of you have went out you made the commitment you followed through
00:01:20.840 and you're gonna make good progress some of you are still talking about you know what i'll just
00:01:29.520 do that tomorrow i just do that tomorrow i just do it tomorrow you know what probably right about now
00:01:36.180 you're saying i'm just gonna wait till monday for the fresh start and you're just starting all over
00:01:41.420 again the same cycle that's produced this exact scenario that you're in that you cannot stand
00:01:49.540 that you are completely dissatisfied and frustrated and angry with
00:01:54.020 you're starting it over again
00:01:57.260 hmm and you know what's interesting about people like you
00:02:03.500 is that people like you somehow pretend 10 years from now 15 years from now 20 years from now when
00:02:11.580 you end up with a terrible life with a dumpster fire of a life you pretend like you're surprised
00:02:19.580 that this has occurred and then you look around you start look for who can you blame on this
00:02:26.860 it was your teachers it was your parents it was who you were born to it was a situation you grew up
00:02:34.140 in it was the government it was rich people it was white people it was black people it was racism
00:02:43.500 it was all this shit
00:02:45.420 but we know the truth
00:02:49.740 and the truth is the only person that you're going to be able to blame is that person that's going to be
00:02:55.280 looking back in the mirror that fat sloppy disgusting unhealthy broke sad example of a human being
00:03:04.860 that's who you're going to get to blame
00:03:07.280 and it doesn't have to be that way but you're making it that way
00:03:12.880 you see we all end up where we're supposed to be
00:03:16.620 we talk a lot about where you're going to end up
00:03:20.980 and what life you deserve but here's the secret that nobody wants to talk about and the secret is
00:03:28.420 this is that everybody gets what they deserve everybody people that produce the life that they
00:03:36.040 want they understand very simply that they must make investments and difficult things and do hard
00:03:42.660 things on the front side to get a reward later
00:03:46.380 and people who don't
00:03:48.720 they somehow believe
00:03:50.960 that this great life or this great dream or this great
00:03:54.580 existence they see for themselves
00:03:56.600 is somehow going to materialize
00:03:58.760 because they get to a certain age
00:04:00.480 or things fall into place
00:04:02.320 and so they feel right now
00:04:04.380 that they can coast
00:04:06.300 and they can waste time
00:04:08.120 and they can wait
00:04:10.260 for tomorrow
00:04:12.260 but here's the thing guys
00:04:14.900 you only get so many tomorrows
00:04:17.360 and the truth of the matter is
00:04:19.860 is eventually when those tomorrows run out
00:04:22.220 you're going to have to answer for the decisions that you've made
00:04:25.600 and the decisions that you didn't make
00:04:27.680 and so I want to solve this puzzle for you
00:04:32.080 in your mind
00:04:33.300 permanently right now
00:04:35.100 you are going to get
00:04:38.560 exactly the life that you deserve
00:04:41.520 every single one of you listening
00:04:43.900 now you can tell yourself all these stories
00:04:46.580 and you can tell yourself all these excuses
00:04:49.200 and you can point the finger of blame
00:04:51.520 and you can say
00:04:52.880 circumstances are different
00:04:54.760 and you can say all of these things
00:04:57.100 but at the end of the day
00:04:58.100 you're going to get exactly what you deserve
00:05:00.860 and what do you deserve
00:05:02.720 if we're being honest
00:05:04.820 what do you deserve
00:05:06.140 go look in the mirror
00:05:08.160 are you happy with what you see
00:05:10.580 go look at your bank account
00:05:12.520 are you happy with what you have
00:05:13.840 go look at your relationships
00:05:15.640 how do those look
00:05:16.480 and then
00:05:17.840 let's think about the last
00:05:19.840 365 days
00:05:22.560 let's go further back
00:05:24.180 let's think about the last 1000 days
00:05:26.180 and let's think about the decisions you made
00:05:29.400 did you become that version of yourself
00:05:32.340 that you see in the mirror
00:05:33.320 over the last week
00:05:35.260 or did you become that version of yourself
00:05:37.940 over the last 1000 days
00:05:40.000 telling yourself the same fucking bullshit story
00:05:42.320 that you're telling yourself
00:05:43.160 literally right now
00:05:44.560 that's the scenario
00:05:47.120 that's the truth
00:05:48.280 you've earned
00:05:50.180 this situation
00:05:51.560 whether you understand that or not
00:05:53.600 all those times you missed workouts
00:05:56.040 all those times you didn't eat
00:05:57.800 what you knew you should eat
00:05:58.820 all those times you didn't make
00:06:00.580 those decisions that you should have made
00:06:02.400 all those times you chose not to apply yourself
00:06:04.720 you've earned what you have
00:06:07.040 and some people
00:06:08.900 who have a better situation than you
00:06:10.840 they've earned it as well
00:06:12.400 they've earned it over the last 1000 days
00:06:15.180 with the right decisions
00:06:16.780 the right mentality
00:06:18.440 the right actions
00:06:19.360 and what they see is very different than you
00:06:22.260 and so what you have to understand is
00:06:25.020 you're earning your future right now
00:06:27.300 whether you like it or not
00:06:29.720 whether you agree with it or not
00:06:31.520 and when it comes time to
00:06:34.240 be accountable to yourself
00:06:35.840 for the decisions that you made
00:06:37.520 and the life that you've built
00:06:38.560 I hope that you're mature enough
00:06:41.180 and grown up enough
00:06:42.500 to admit to yourself
00:06:44.600 that you created this
00:06:45.740 because it's not until you admit to yourself
00:06:49.440 what you have created
00:06:50.700 that you can change
00:06:53.440 what you are going to create
00:06:55.200 and that's what I want to talk to you about
00:06:58.580 you see every single year
00:07:01.120 this time comes around
00:07:02.440 every single year
00:07:03.940 people talk about
00:07:05.260 what they're going to do
00:07:06.600 and how great they're going to be
00:07:07.980 and what they're going to build
00:07:09.040 and here we are
00:07:09.840 four motherfucking days in
00:07:11.560 and you haven't even started yet
00:07:13.400 you haven't done any of the shit
00:07:16.440 that you said you were going to do
00:07:17.840 and because you haven't done
00:07:21.560 any of those things
00:07:22.500 you're never going to get
00:07:23.860 any of those things
00:07:24.760 that's the reality
00:07:27.280 that you have to understand
00:07:28.480 and come to terms with
00:07:29.480 now I'm not here to tell you
00:07:31.020 how you should or shouldn't
00:07:32.040 live your life
00:07:32.720 but I am sick and tired
00:07:34.220 of motherfuckers earning
00:07:35.380 a shitty spot in this world
00:07:37.640 and then blaming
00:07:38.340 every single person around them
00:07:39.900 I'm sick of watching people
00:07:41.400 stuff their fucking faces
00:07:42.780 and do nothing
00:07:43.840 and expect to have this great life
00:07:46.020 I'm sick of people showing up
00:07:47.820 and doing the minimum
00:07:49.500 and expect to be wealthy
00:07:51.280 and successful
00:07:52.060 and all the things
00:07:53.340 that they say they want
00:07:55.620 it just doesn't work that way
00:07:57.900 and it's never going to work that way
00:08:00.000 now people spend their entire lives
00:08:04.280 confused by this concept
00:08:06.540 they look at people
00:08:08.420 who are successful
00:08:09.340 they look at people
00:08:10.240 who are fit
00:08:10.880 they look at people
00:08:11.960 who are building exceptional lives
00:08:13.900 and they say
00:08:14.900 that person's lucky
00:08:16.400 that person was blessed
00:08:18.220 that person started off
00:08:19.940 better than me
00:08:20.580 that person had better this than me
00:08:23.040 and they find every single possible excuse
00:08:25.960 as to why they aren't
00:08:27.760 what they want to be
00:08:28.960 and they work to tear down
00:08:30.600 the people that are
00:08:31.420 what they want to be
00:08:32.480 and see what you don't understand
00:08:34.460 is that most people
00:08:36.320 waste their whole lives doing this
00:08:37.760 most people waste
00:08:39.780 their entire fucking lives doing this
00:08:42.280 and we have a very short amount
00:08:44.380 of time to live
00:08:45.200 and ironically
00:08:47.480 that's how they justify it
00:08:48.920 oh
00:08:50.080 YOLO
00:08:51.240 you only live once
00:08:52.840 you better party
00:08:53.560 you're leaving everything
00:08:56.280 on the table
00:08:56.920 you're leaving all of the great shit
00:08:59.400 that you could be
00:09:00.360 on the fucking table
00:09:01.600 because you can't build yourself
00:09:03.720 into someone
00:09:04.440 who can make decisions
00:09:06.060 and follow through with them
00:09:07.460 and you're going to waste
00:09:09.840 your entire life
00:09:10.980 telling yourself
00:09:11.880 bullshit story
00:09:13.620 after bullshit story
00:09:15.940 after bullshit story
00:09:17.920 and then you're going to wonder
00:09:20.140 why it is you end up
00:09:21.720 where you end up
00:09:22.540 you shouldn't be surprised
00:09:24.780 because whatever actions
00:09:26.620 you've taken
00:09:27.180 for the last 1,000 days
00:09:28.800 are earning your future
00:09:30.980 and they've earned where you are
00:09:32.380 and if you're winning
00:09:35.100 good for you
00:09:35.700 that means you've been making
00:09:36.500 good decisions
00:09:37.080 and if you're losing
00:09:37.820 you probably need to start
00:09:40.560 making some better decisions
00:09:41.660 now I didn't come on here
00:09:44.240 to shame you
00:09:45.320 and make you feel like shit
00:09:46.860 even though you probably should
00:09:48.540 you probably should be ashamed
00:09:49.980 you probably should feel like shit
00:09:51.900 and that's nobody's fault
00:09:53.820 but your own
00:09:54.440 but what I did come on here to do
00:09:57.120 is to explain to you
00:09:58.520 how the game works
00:09:59.440 the game is very simple
00:10:02.380 you are going to pay a price
00:10:05.040 now whether you pay that price now
00:10:07.800 or whether you pay that price later
00:10:10.360 that price is going to be paid
00:10:12.860 paying the price now
00:10:15.380 means doing what you need to do
00:10:17.240 right now
00:10:18.140 to build that version of yourself
00:10:20.140 that's going to create the life
00:10:22.060 that you desire in the future
00:10:23.500 and there's a reward
00:10:25.060 for paying that price up front
00:10:27.200 you get something out of paying that price
00:10:30.240 and then there's people
00:10:32.220 who choose to pay it later
00:10:33.360 those are people who say
00:10:35.060 I'm in my 20s
00:10:36.280 my 20s should be spent having fun
00:10:38.260 and enjoying all this shit
00:10:40.080 and my 30s too
00:10:41.840 and by the way
00:10:42.380 by the time I'm 40
00:10:43.240 I don't know how it'll work out
00:10:44.400 but it will
00:10:44.960 and those people pay a price
00:10:47.240 but they pay it later
00:10:48.740 right now they're having fun
00:10:50.700 right now they're carefree
00:10:51.960 right now they're living a life
00:10:54.120 of leisure
00:10:55.320 but they're destroying their future
00:10:59.340 and by the time they get to be
00:11:02.500 35 or 40 or 50 years old
00:11:04.720 they're going to be pinned
00:11:06.560 into an existence
00:11:07.640 that they cannot
00:11:09.020 fucking tolerate
00:11:10.740 and that's the price
00:11:12.640 that they're going to have to pay later
00:11:14.020 and so for those of you
00:11:16.120 who woke up on January 1st
00:11:19.300 after telling yourselves
00:11:20.640 you were going to make the change
00:11:21.920 I commend that
00:11:22.940 congratulations
00:11:24.100 keep going
00:11:25.440 the world needs your example
00:11:27.160 more than it's ever been needed
00:11:28.340 ever
00:11:29.060 in the history of this country
00:11:31.120 and probably humanity
00:11:32.200 but for those of you
00:11:34.200 who are sitting there
00:11:35.120 and you're still telling yourself
00:11:37.040 I'm going to start on Monday
00:11:38.740 you know fresh start
00:11:39.700 first week of the new year
00:11:40.860 I took it easy
00:11:42.940 I had a hard 2023
00:11:44.680 bro you didn't do shit in 2023
00:11:47.120 you didn't do shit in 2022 either
00:11:49.920 you didn't do shit in 2021
00:11:51.740 and that's why you look the way you look
00:11:54.080 and your life is in the order that it's in
00:11:56.680 this is why you want to change
00:11:59.480 so you need to understand
00:12:02.460 and make a decision
00:12:04.240 when are you going to pay this price
00:12:07.240 are you going to continue
00:12:09.160 to coast
00:12:10.220 are you going to decide
00:12:12.520 to pay the price now
00:12:13.680 so that later on
00:12:15.420 you can be what you wished
00:12:17.600 and want
00:12:18.480 and dream
00:12:19.640 that you could be
00:12:21.540 or are you going to continue
00:12:24.400 down this path of mediocrity
00:12:26.060 this path
00:12:27.160 of lying to yourself
00:12:29.340 this path
00:12:30.560 of the self-deception
00:12:32.100 and waste your entire life
00:12:38.380 and by the time
00:12:39.860 10-15 years
00:12:41.340 comes around
00:12:41.960 from now
00:12:42.500 you're in a situation
00:12:44.000 that you can't escape
00:12:44.980 you don't have any options
00:12:46.900 you don't have time
00:12:47.860 you don't have the ability
00:12:49.400 to recreate
00:12:50.000 you don't have your youth
00:12:51.540 you drank your youth away
00:12:52.700 you parted your youth away
00:12:53.940 you YOLO'd
00:12:55.400 your life away
00:12:56.600 and your youth away
00:12:58.280 what's the decision
00:13:02.460 going to be
00:13:02.980 because I'm pretty
00:13:05.120 fucking sure
00:13:05.800 you told yourself
00:13:06.520 you were going to start
00:13:07.220 on the first
00:13:07.800 and I'm pretty sure
00:13:09.500 you told yourself again
00:13:10.540 you were going to start
00:13:11.180 on the second
00:13:11.760 and I'm pretty sure
00:13:13.560 you told yourself
00:13:14.300 you were going to start
00:13:15.000 on the third
00:13:15.540 and I'm pretty sure
00:13:16.580 you've done this
00:13:17.280 year after year
00:13:18.780 after motherfucking year
00:13:20.640 when's it going to be
00:13:22.600 when is it going to be
00:13:28.140 that you are finally
00:13:29.660 not full of shit
00:13:31.360 join us this year
00:13:34.480 take on live hard
00:13:37.480 take on 75 hard
00:13:39.240 make the fucking change
00:13:41.400 that you need to make
00:13:42.280 become the person
00:13:43.980 you need to become
00:13:44.860 this isn't about
00:13:46.340 losing 20 pounds
00:13:47.560 or 30 pounds
00:13:48.400 or 100 fucking pounds
00:13:49.580 this is about
00:13:50.480 becoming a person
00:13:51.460 that can control
00:13:52.800 their external environment
00:13:54.420 and make decisions
00:13:55.500 that serve them
00:13:56.400 no matter how hard
00:13:57.720 those decisions might be
00:13:59.060 no matter how inconvenient
00:14:00.620 those decisions might be
00:14:01.960 that's the only way
00:14:03.840 you're going to solve
00:14:04.500 this problem long term
00:14:05.640 and there's a whole bunch
00:14:07.700 of us committed to that
00:14:08.720 I'm in on that
00:14:10.220 there's hundreds
00:14:11.840 of thousands of people
00:14:12.920 who are in on that
00:14:13.600 right now
00:14:14.100 and you're still sitting
00:14:15.560 on the fucking bench
00:14:16.700 thinking that you're
00:14:17.640 going to fix this
00:14:18.460 now is the time
00:14:20.760 to fix it
00:14:21.620 so don't wait
00:14:22.780 another day
00:14:23.520 don't wait till Monday
00:14:25.440 don't wait
00:14:26.800 another fucking year
00:14:28.900 where you're going
00:14:29.560 to get fatter
00:14:30.240 and broker
00:14:31.140 and more miserable
00:14:32.380 start today
00:14:34.900 and if you don't
00:14:37.060 you're full of
00:14:38.020 fucking shit
00:14:38.720 now if you don't
00:14:40.360 want to be full of shit
00:14:41.400 you got to understand
00:14:43.120 this isn't going to be easy
00:14:45.580 this is not going to be
00:14:47.380 quick
00:14:47.800 this is not going to be
00:14:49.480 eight minute abs
00:14:50.480 or a 30 day
00:14:52.060 transformation
00:14:52.740 this is going to be
00:14:54.800 a full commitment
00:14:55.720 to creating the kind
00:14:57.200 of person
00:14:57.780 that can make
00:14:58.840 the right decision
00:15:00.080 even when it's
00:15:01.160 the last thing
00:15:02.040 they want to do
00:15:02.880 when they're tired
00:15:05.100 when they're sore
00:15:06.360 when they're hungry
00:15:07.560 they will still make
00:15:09.000 the right decision
00:15:09.860 when they're stressed
00:15:11.200 when they're frustrated
00:15:12.580 when they're angry
00:15:13.800 they will still make
00:15:15.120 the right decision
00:15:16.140 when the world
00:15:17.080 is crashing down
00:15:18.420 on their fucking shoulders
00:15:20.160 they will still
00:15:21.640 make the right decision
00:15:23.340 your only solution
00:15:24.580 is to become
00:15:25.860 that kind of a person
00:15:26.980 your only solution
00:15:29.060 is to become
00:15:30.140 the kind of person
00:15:31.160 who can do
00:15:32.260 the hard things
00:15:33.340 when everybody else
00:15:34.540 stops
00:15:35.080 when everybody else
00:15:36.380 takes a break
00:15:37.260 when everybody else
00:15:38.400 quits
00:15:38.920 you keep going
00:15:40.380 that is your only solution
00:15:41.660 that is your only option
00:15:42.820 if you truly
00:15:44.040 want what you say
00:15:46.160 you want
00:15:46.600 and I'm not sure
00:15:47.540 that you do
00:15:48.120 your track record
00:15:50.200 doesn't say
00:15:50.740 that you do
00:15:51.320 your history
00:15:53.260 doesn't say
00:15:53.860 that you do
00:15:54.460 now you can change it
00:15:57.060 but it's unlikely
00:15:57.840 it's unlikely
00:16:00.440 but I'm going to ask you
00:16:02.600 one more time
00:16:03.340 I'm going to ask you
00:16:04.960 to go look in the mirror
00:16:05.820 I'm going to ask you
00:16:07.500 to take responsibility
00:16:08.900 for where you are
00:16:10.120 and admit to yourself
00:16:11.840 that you are
00:16:12.900 where you are
00:16:13.940 because of decisions
00:16:15.020 that you made
00:16:16.180 because of weakness
00:16:17.180 that you had
00:16:18.420 because of your lack
00:16:19.580 of ability
00:16:20.220 to do the hard things
00:16:22.060 when things got hard
00:16:23.560 that's why you are
00:16:25.000 where you are
00:16:25.620 you know it
00:16:26.720 and I know it
00:16:27.820 so take responsibility
00:16:30.000 for that
00:16:30.780 take ownership
00:16:32.140 of that
00:16:32.740 and start right now
00:16:36.400 fixing that
00:16:37.460 become the person
00:16:40.800 who cannot quit
00:16:42.780 become the person
00:16:45.260 who can say no
00:16:47.020 to the things
00:16:48.520 that they know
00:16:49.020 they're supposed
00:16:49.580 to say no to
00:16:50.460 become the person
00:16:52.300 who makes the right decision
00:16:54.100 regardless of the circumstances
00:16:56.540 regardless of the hardships
00:16:58.640 regardless of the pain
00:17:00.700 regardless of the frustration
00:17:02.840 if you become
00:17:04.080 that person
00:17:04.840 you have
00:17:05.920 no limits
00:17:07.260 in your life
00:17:08.400 there is no
00:17:10.060 stopping that person
00:17:11.420 and that is the only way
00:17:13.880 to become who it is
00:17:15.400 you truly want to be
00:17:16.920 and so I invite you
00:17:19.400 one last time
00:17:20.280 this year
00:17:20.720 start today
00:17:22.560 and in 365 days
00:17:25.620 you will look back
00:17:26.420 and you will say
00:17:27.420 that was the day
00:17:28.900 that was the day
00:17:30.860 that everything changed
00:17:32.460 that was the day
00:17:33.780 that my life changed
00:17:35.340 that was the day
00:17:36.660 that my family changed
00:17:38.300 that was the day
00:17:39.640 my community changed
00:17:41.340 my state changed
00:17:43.220 and my country changed
00:17:45.000 because I changed
00:17:46.740 make that day
00:17:48.820 today
00:17:50.400 went from sleeping
00:17:52.140 on the floor
00:17:52.980 now my jewelry
00:17:53.800 box froze
00:17:54.700 fuck a pole
00:17:55.480 fuck a stove
00:17:56.320 counted millions
00:17:57.200 in the cold
00:17:58.000 bad bitch
00:17:58.860 booted swole
00:17:59.680 got her on
00:18:00.540 bankroll
00:18:01.300 can't fold
00:18:02.180 that's a no
00:18:02.960 headshot
00:18:03.800 case closed