REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 15, 2024


632. Q&AF： Unifying With Crazy People, Male And Female Dynamic & Overcoming Guilt Owning Family Business


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In this episode of The Real Reel Podcast, we have Q and A on the show and they give us their take on the current events going on in the world and how we can fix them. We also talk about the new year and how to deal with it.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the real let's say goodbye to the lies
00:00:20.960 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
00:00:25.660 have q and af that's where you submit the q's and we uh give you the afs now you can submit your
00:00:30.920 questions to be answered on this show uh one of a few different ways the first way is guys email
00:00:36.660 those questions into ask andy at andy for seller.com or you can go in the comments right here
00:00:41.940 on this episode that posts every single monday and i drop your question in the comments we'll pick
00:00:46.100 some from there as well other times you're going to hear cti that stands for cruise the internet
00:00:51.080 that's where we talk about current events what's going on in the world we post headlines on the
00:00:54.980 screen we speculate on what's true and what's not true and then we talk about how we the people
00:00:59.020 have an obligation to fix some of these problems in the world other times we have real talk real
00:01:03.240 talk usually comes out on uh thursdays sometimes saturdays where it's just five to 20 minutes of
00:01:08.440 me giving you some real talk then we have full length is uh like what you see on most other
00:01:13.420 podcasts all right we have interesting people come in we have a conversation and then we have uh 75
00:01:18.740 hard verses 75 hard verses where someone who has completed the 75 hard program comes in and talks
00:01:24.560 about how their life was before and how their life is after uh and it's usually tremendously better
00:01:30.680 a hundred percent of the time we talk about how you could do the same if you're unfamiliar with the
00:01:36.520 75 hard program uh you can get the program for free which is part of the live hard program at episode
00:01:42.060 208 on the audio feed you can also buy the book the book is available on andy for seller.com
00:01:50.400 if you go to andy for seller.com there's a book called the book on mental toughness
00:01:54.260 this book includes the full live hard program plus a plethora of information many chapters many many
00:02:02.020 chapters on mental toughness okay so you don't need the book because you get the program for free
00:02:08.480 but i think you'll like the book it sells very well and people seem to like it so go check that out
00:02:12.980 now we have this thing called the fee the fee is very simple um i don't run ads on the show i'm not
00:02:19.020 signed with a big network i say no to those things all the time and i do that because i don't want
00:02:24.940 to be told what i can and can't talk about we keep it real here that's why it's called real af i don't
00:02:29.160 want to be told what i can and can't say or leveraged or any which way so i don't have ads on the show
00:02:33.580 you're going to notice that and i ask in exchange for that very simply that you help share the show
00:02:38.620 and spread the word we get throttled we get traffic banned shadow ban whatever you want to call it
00:02:43.280 all the time because of the nature of the show and keeping it real
00:02:46.560 and uh if you would like this show to continue to spread i'm going to need your help so
00:02:51.280 when i say pay the fee that means share the show um
00:02:55.260 so yeah don't be a hoe share the show all right what's up man what's going on oh not much yeah 0.97
00:03:02.120 what's up with you cracking open that uh bougie success water that's right you say booty 0.59
00:03:08.120 bougie oh bougie yeah booty water yeah booty water yeah oh this is booty water yeah what's going on with
00:03:13.760 you man happy monday yeah man yeah just getting it done yeah yep i wonder how many people quit
00:03:20.260 their new year's resolution already i wonder how many listeners did i wonder how many of the people
00:03:24.280 they wouldn't tell you if they did i know they wouldn't they wouldn't that's that's the thing
00:03:28.800 yeah they just keep now they're going to start the cycle back up again where they keep telling each
00:03:32.500 other they're going to start they're going to go monday tuesday half the day of wednesday and then
00:03:36.360 say fuck it i'm gonna start again on monday because i deserve it and then they're going to spend the next 0.99
00:03:40.480 five or six or 20 years doing that and then they're going to look back and they're going to
00:03:44.580 say man i wish i hadn't done that yeah because it's going to cost them everything they don't
00:03:48.200 realize i think most people's thing i mean tell me if you agree with this but i feel like most people
00:03:52.420 they just don't they have to understand like the momentum is created right and they just don't
00:03:57.280 give it enough time for the momentum to like get going yeah you know i'm saying well i mean you got
00:04:03.360 two days away from fucking like massive momentum it's it's it's not even that dude it's it's the idea 0.92
00:04:11.440 the instant gratification mentality is so prevalent in our society that people get frustrated when they
00:04:19.900 have to like do anything that is even minorly inconvenient and they seek comfort and they look
00:04:28.180 for the easy way and they look for the way that's going to be the most convenient right now and
00:04:34.180 totally disregard what the cost of that is you know they don't think like oh man if i do this now it's
00:04:39.920 going to cost me this later and most people live their lives that way and they live very unsatisfied
00:04:45.180 unfulfilling frustrating existences because they never realize that you know every single time you
00:04:52.940 choose the easy path now you have to pay that later with a harder price and once you start to
00:04:57.920 understand that that's reality and there's no way to get around it your perspective changes and the
00:05:03.580 idea i talked about this a little bit on on a friday show but the idea of chasing comfort is a false
00:05:10.940 expectation of reality you know we do all these things and we chase all these pleasures and these
00:05:18.360 instant gratifications and all of these things that are quote unquote comfortable in in the pursuit of
00:05:26.920 comfort and what we fail to realize is that later on in life it makes us very uncomfortable and the
00:05:34.940 whole idea of getting to a place of comfort is only achievable if you build yourself into someone
00:05:41.540 who can do the hard things and perceive them to be comfortable you have to get comfortable doing the hard
00:05:49.300 things because the path to life never gets any easier so the only comfort that you're ever really
00:05:54.240 going to have without trading a massive price for it on the back side is to build yourself into someone
00:05:59.640 who can handle the uncomfortable journey and not really notice that it's that uncomfortable because
00:06:04.980 it's not we're talking about basic shit we're talking about putting certain things in your mouth and not 0.87
00:06:10.580 putting other certain things in your mouth we're talking about moving your body a couple hours a day
00:06:15.360 we're talking about putting some good information in your brain this shit ain't that hard like it's just 0.73
00:06:20.860 really easy stuff that will build your life into a tremendously beneficial uh and fulfilling and
00:06:29.460 and quite frankly an existence that you're proud of that we skip out on a daily basis and then the
00:06:36.120 price that we pay is is immense it's massive because it costs us everything it costs us the whole quality
00:06:41.520 of life you know and that's that's the point of the live hard program and 75 hard that's why i wrote
00:06:48.200 75 hard that's why i wrote the book on mental toughness because i people need to understand
00:06:52.300 that if you could just adjust a few things about yourself you can have everything you want it's
00:06:59.420 it's there there becomes no trade-off now now there's no trade because once you get to that place where
00:07:04.660 things are comfortable when you're uncomfortable what's the trade that you're you're not you're not
00:07:11.620 feeling any pain when you're really doing the thing and you're still getting all the benefit so the
00:07:16.500 only way to really win and not have to do that thing where you have to pay the price now or pay
00:07:21.140 the price later is to get so comfortable with the hard path that you don't notice it being uncomfortable
00:07:25.660 and then you win all the time yeah you accept that that's what it bro and it's we're talking listen bro
00:07:31.280 we're talking about this right we're talking stop putting shit in your mouth start moving read some 0.93
00:07:41.940 books drink some water lift some weights this is basic shit man and most people are so fucking and 0.94
00:07:50.160 by the way this is no judgment because i was that person okay but most people are so far outside of
00:07:56.740 the ability to just do those simple things they see them as painful not realizing what it actually
00:08:01.800 gains you you see what i'm saying yeah so you think 15 20 years down the line bro you're gonna be
00:08:08.320 having to pay hospital bills bro if you're 100 pounds overweight right now where are you gonna
00:08:12.620 be in 20 years yeah you see what i'm saying like if you're in your 20s dude and you're 100 pounds
00:08:17.900 you're gonna be 300 pounds overweight by the time you're 40 are you ready for that life are you ready
00:08:23.420 to walk through life like having to ride the car around walmart and shit are you ready not being able 0.82
00:08:28.120 to fit in a chair are you ready to like be looked at and gawked at and feel weird everywhere because
00:08:33.520 everybody is looking at you because you're four times the size of an actual other human beings
00:08:37.640 like that's a whole nother thing we could get on to this fat acceptance shit where these people 0.55
00:08:42.840 fucking think that they can go to the airport and get two seats because they're fucking because they 0.89
00:08:46.780 can't stop themselves from gorging their fucking faces and everybody else got to pay for it yeah 0.90
00:08:50.740 and then we got a deal and then and then like when we notice that they're the size of five fucking 0.96
00:08:54.940 human beings and we notice it we're some sort of bigot bro motherfucker i know what it's like to be 0.92
00:09:00.600 fat all you fat motherfuckers i know i was fat too okay and i can tell you this all those lies 0.98
00:09:05.600 you tell about you know oh i love myself dude you're a liar no you don't you you the only people
00:09:11.240 the only people that believe that are people who have never experienced being fat there's the thin
00:09:18.940 people you know the virtue signaling bruncher moms who have the wealthy husband and drive the bmw 1.00
00:09:24.560 they might believe your shit because they never been fat but i'm gonna tell you right now i've been 0.87
00:09:28.800 a fat motherfucker and i know what it's like and you ain't fooling people like me so i have no 0.99
00:09:32.700 problem telling you the way it is and you know why people look at you because you're the size of
00:09:36.840 five humans that's abnormal yeah so try being the size of one human put in the work to yourself
00:09:44.200 become the ultimate version of yourself be proud of yourself your life will change dude see how much
00:09:48.600 you love yourself bro that's self-love dude that's the thing that's self-love self-love is doing the
00:09:53.700 hard things required to build yourself into ultimate uh version of yourself you know this
00:09:58.780 idea of self-love being self-acceptance of your shitty habits and your shitty lifestyle and your
00:10:04.820 and basically your life being shit that's not self-love dude that's a fake narrative that society 0.63
00:10:10.720 has put down to make people feel okay with being a level one when they're supposed to be a level 10 in
00:10:18.940 their own life that's a control mechanism too by the way that's a whole that's for cti though yeah
00:10:23.740 that's that's tomorrow's episode yeah i mean that they want that they want you to love yourself
00:10:28.600 being 400 and 500 pounds 300 pounds because they know that if you're that you're ineffective in any
00:10:35.820 other area and you're dependent on them you're you're you're a hyper consumer of food you're a hyper
00:10:40.620 consumer of likely alcohol you're a hyper consumer of medication you're a hyper consumer of digital
00:10:46.240 content streaming okay you're making these people money in every which way bro the like yeah and
00:10:52.500 we'll put you on all the magazines yeah give you we'll say we'll say it's healthy the social media
00:10:56.840 verifications you want yeah we'll give you all of it yeah and and i love how these people are trying
00:11:00.720 to pretend like they're a protected class now like you can't criticize dude shit but you you're you are 0.90
00:11:07.040 the way you are because you haven't gotten enough criticism yeah real shit from the right people 0.77
00:11:11.180 yeah including yourself yeah yeah man it's real shit man if you really love yourself you fix that
00:11:17.400 problem no i don't know some people can help fix that you don't ever hear someone who was 400 pounds
00:11:22.800 that gets down to like a normal weight and gets their shit together saying man i wish i hadn't done 0.78
00:11:26.880 that right never felt you never not one same thing rich people you never hear rich people say man i wish i
00:11:32.480 hadn't made all that money that's what these people that's the internet that's like they want they
00:11:38.480 want you to believe that bro that's what we were talking about a real talk last week yeah where i
00:11:41.680 was talking about that dude did you see that video that dude that uh the black guy driving a lamborghini
00:11:46.580 i don't know if you saw it and he's like ripping the gears having a blast bro all the comments 90
00:11:52.160 of the comments were hater comments like oh you think money buys your hat goddamn right bro i'm going 0.84
00:11:56.900 out lamborghini 100 miles an hour my fucking head's sticking out the roof look pretty happy it's fucking 0.98
00:12:01.140 awesome you ever done that yeah it's a good time anyway dude quit quit believing the lies man yeah
00:12:11.180 man well guys andy it is uh q a we got a special q a today so all of these questions on today's q a is
00:12:19.940 coming straight from the tube oh really straight from youtube yeah straight from the tube okay yeah
00:12:25.440 so let's get into it all right well all right i like the new graphics yeah that's nice this is
00:12:31.860 the first time we had those mm-hmm yeah i look good yeah all right all right all right let's go
00:12:38.200 trying to shit on you man i know he'll fucking kill you though it's debatable you you better not get 0.99
00:12:45.400 close to him yeah i'll steal his car tires fuck a jiu-jitsu master over here he's gonna lay on the 1.00
00:12:52.500 ground come on dj come at me
00:12:55.340 guys 80 question number one uh this question comes from at chin music 27 22 uh 80 how do you unify
00:13:08.160 with crazy people you don't this is the common misconception of unification there's going to be
00:13:15.060 people on the outside of the unification they're called the enemy right they're not crazy no everybody
00:13:20.920 thinks everybody thinks that unity requires everybody that's not what unity means i think
00:13:27.320 we can all agree in society right now we have 10 of the population eight of it's on the far left and
00:13:34.060 two of it's on the far right that are fucking insane okay and no matter how much common sense people come 0.84
00:13:39.680 together and no matter how much you know and by the way we need to okay but if the 90 of us all come
00:13:47.040 together what the fuck are they gonna do we're not gonna get them and so like that's this is a big 0.86
00:13:53.760 problem with a lot of the movements and uh causes and and really political division that's going on
00:14:00.520 right now is that people think that we can't get unity um because we'll never be able to you i'll never
00:14:05.820 unify with one of these pedos no shit you're not supposed to no that's them and we're us the rest of 0.60
00:14:12.040 us are supposed to unify and there's hundreds of millions of common sense americans aligned with
00:14:17.720 all political ideologies that are tired of what's going on in culture they understand right and wrong
00:14:23.400 they understand that there's good people of every race and bad people of every race there's good
00:14:28.860 people of every religion and bad people of every religion you know somebody mentioned something to
00:14:34.560 me when i was talking about the the the tunnels that were dug in new york city and how some of the
00:14:40.840 jewish people were allegedly fucking with kids and they were like what about catholic priests yeah i 0.96
00:14:46.720 agree in the wood chipper yeah right with them fucking anybody i don't give a fuck i don't care 0.99
00:14:50.660 what race i don't care what religion i don't care i don't care they do not belong in us correct and it 1.00
00:14:55.980 doesn't matter what race or if they're catholic or white or black or i don't care straight into the
00:15:02.080 wood chipper dude and that's that's how it should be and we allow all of these stupid uh ideologies
00:15:08.320 and divisions to divide us based upon labels that we adopt that are given to us by the people who
00:15:14.600 are trying to divide us most you're you're you're a black person you're not supposed to talk to this 1.00
00:15:19.340 person right you think like that you're a republican you don't you don't talk to those people party
00:15:24.280 lines you're you're straight you don't talk to these people you see what i'm saying these are all
00:15:29.060 artificial divisions when in reality dude we're all people and there's good people and bad people and
00:15:33.780 good people have to unite and there's going to be some bad people on the outside and the crazy people
00:15:38.260 that you're talking about here are not going to unify with us they're going to end up on the outside
00:15:42.700 and that's that's how you so you don't that's the answer to the question love it man guys andy
00:15:49.920 question number two this question comes from at tara geesey 33 75 she says andy and dj y'all have
00:15:58.140 recently made comments about how you could talk relationships for entire episodes and i'm here for
00:16:03.740 it i'm a two-time entrepreneur with an extreme drive and i live daily to be better i keep ending
00:16:10.480 up on dates with men and when i ask what their goals are i get responses like i don't make goals
00:16:16.880 i get better every year without goals what is your thoughts on dating and finding a guy who can be the
00:16:23.260 hype man to a woman who takes no shit leads a company with 25 employees solo and makes it happen 1.00
00:16:29.580 because she has no other options my business always comes first but i'll give a partner the same
00:16:35.000 but how can i be motivated by someone who doesn't have goals on what they want to accomplish in life
00:16:40.900 all right well first of all i'm gonna start with a statement it's very difficult to lead a company on
00:16:47.340 your own kudos to you that's amazing you're doing a great job it's interesting to me that you
00:16:52.580 feel that you need to be motivated by someone when you're already creating a company with 25
00:16:57.220 employees on your own seems to me you're self-motivated so i would throw the idea of
00:17:01.280 being motivated by someone as part of your relationship requirements out the window all right
00:17:05.900 secondly you say uh i you say you want a man who makes goals and has ambition but you also say that
00:17:13.960 you want a man who could be a hype man to you so are you saying that you want this man to make his
00:17:20.240 goals and ambitions to being your hype man so that you can go do your thing because if so you what
00:17:24.260 you're saying is that your goals and dreams and what you're doing is more important than what this
00:17:28.320 person is doing and if we're going to break this down into pure sexual attraction which is what we're
00:17:33.620 talking about here are you really going to be attracted to long term some supplicating support
00:17:39.960 system dude who waits on you hand and foot or are you going to be attracted to somebody who has
00:17:45.600 ambition has goals is a kick-ass motherfucker and is out building their own thing because what it 0.73
00:17:50.740 seems to me is you're fishing in the wrong pond you're fishing in the pond of losers when you
00:17:55.540 should be fishing in the pond of people who have their own things going on who are going to be
00:17:59.800 attracted to who you are going to be into and the reason you're going to be into them is because
00:18:03.940 they are a challenge for you to get their attention because you are a woman and since the time of 1.00
00:18:08.460 purity you have had every single dude that you have ever known who has claimed to be friends
00:18:12.620 with you secretly wanting to have sex with you this is the reality of basic stuff this is the
00:18:16.740 reality of being a woman the reality of being a man is we have to hunt and kill and chase and achieve 1.00
00:18:23.000 and become to become sexually desirable it's a completely different life that a lot of you women 1.00
00:18:29.540 don't understand for men all right men walk into a buffet and women walk into a buffet and we have
00:18:36.960 totally different experiences you walk into the buffet and you fucking say okay well that looks 0.79
00:18:43.480 good that looks good over there i think i'll have a bite of that i think i'll have some of that too
00:18:49.160 you know what put a little bit of extra over here on this you know that wasn't cooked right to my
00:18:53.220 liking that's the experience of a woman when it comes to the dating pool do you know what it's like
00:18:58.020 for a man he walks into the buffet and he says fuck i think i'd get a cracker yeah i'll kill some 0.99
00:19:04.040 yeah like this is what you guys don't understand okay and this goes into the this conversation should
00:19:10.480 be directed at men too a lot of you men do not understand the sexual dynamic between men and
00:19:16.140 women which is why you consistently end up being their friend and not someone who they're having 1.00
00:19:20.360 sex with and while you're being their friend and waiting on them hand and foot and doing all this 0.66
00:19:24.620 nice shit sending them flowers and shit they're all fucking the asshole and you're like what are you 0.99
00:19:28.180 fucking the asshole because of what i just said because by the time they reach puberty 0.99
00:19:34.000 every single dude they know and every single man that they've ever met and every single friend
00:19:38.980 that they claim to have wants to have sex with them so they get to make the decisions they're the
00:19:44.260 decision maker all right and you as a dude when you just chase the women and do all the shit and 0.55
00:19:51.460 then you wonder why they go fuck the asshole they fuck the asshole because he's the first guy in their 0.99
00:19:55.300 entire existence who hasn't chased them and you and then and then here men make it a further they
00:20:01.760 take this for they're like well then if i want to get laid i have to be an asshole actually that's not 0.52
00:20:05.840 true they don't really they don't really like the asshole they just like the fact that he's a 0.73
00:20:09.560 challenge and he doesn't supplicate and he's not a bitch they're not marrying the they don't like 1.00
00:20:13.420 the asshole they just can't figure him out so they think they can fuck him and figure it out and 0.99
00:20:17.520 that doesn't work either and then they end up bitching about him at brunch with their brunch
00:20:20.780 bitches then he's on child support yeah right so like dude we have to understand you have to be 0.99
00:20:29.780 women are attracted to men they are not attracted to men that smell and look and behave like women 1.00
00:20:38.980 they are attracted to men that is a masculine thing men are attracted to women they are attracted to the
00:20:48.540 feminine the soft the the nurturing the uh the opposite of what the fuck they're supposed to be
00:20:57.040 they're the opposite okay and so you get these men who want to be the the partner to go to taylor swift
00:21:06.320 and then yeah and then they can't understand why these women won't want to have sex with them yeah 1.00
00:21:12.760 okay like work out bro dude here look this is the best philosophy for men and women understand
00:21:20.880 men and women culture is totally fucked up feminism has convinced women that they don't need a man 1.00
00:21:27.120 and now we have a epidemic of a bunch of women who who no man was ever good enough so they end up 1.00
00:21:34.060 alone okay then on the other hand on the other flip side of that we have this red pill culture where 0.98
00:21:39.680 young men are being taught that women are just pieces of shit and don't ever marry them don't 1.00
00:21:45.440 ever do this don't ever do that don't ever let them close and get a vasectomy when you're 25 and
00:21:51.780 just use them for what they're good for and so we have these two polar opposite mentalities that are
00:21:58.080 actually preventing men and women from coming together and realizing what role each plays in creating a
00:22:03.820 life yeah okay and by the way this nobody does this perfect men fuck it up women fuck it up but 0.78
00:22:12.000 we have to examine the overall mentality of what society says we should have and what we want and
00:22:19.180 what we actually want and what this woman actually wants is a badass motherfucker with his own shit going 1.00
00:22:25.500 on that she can fucking be motivated from observing him okay and a challenge to get his time that will 0.92
00:22:34.840 make her attracted to him but what she says she wants is you know a guy who could be her hype man
00:22:42.360 you're not going to listen those are conflicting ideas your dude that you want that you're going to be
00:22:48.120 attracted to that you're looking for is going to have his own shit going on and you're going to have 0.87
00:22:53.240 your own shit going on and if you were a woman who didn't have her own shit going on then your role 1.00
00:22:57.700 would be to support him in other ways and vice versa but like it doesn't really work vice versa because
00:23:03.160 women are never attracted to men that don't provide it's not reality it's a fucking fake thing and it's 0.96
00:23:08.380 a feminism narrative that's not true it's not true it doesn't exist the dad bod's bullshit no women are 1.00
00:23:13.040 attracted to a dad bod no not for real if they are it's because they're insecure and they don't want
00:23:17.720 their dude fucking going around and you know traveling the neighborhood you know what i'm saying 0.96
00:23:21.980 um so there's a lot of fucking things here but like real talk here you don't need somebody to 0.94
00:23:28.880 motivate you you need somebody with their own shit going on who you're going to be attracted to
00:23:33.180 because they have goals and they have ambitions and they are a badass just like you are so stop
00:23:37.340 fishing in the wrong pond start fishing the right one it's real shit man well guys andy question number 0.77
00:23:43.500 three question number three comes from at caleb oh yum 3098 hey andy i'm 24 years old and i've been
00:23:50.600 listening to you since 2018 i am currently working with my family at our fec that we bought a little
00:23:55.860 over a year ago my dad's been working in the industry his whole life so i feel that i have a
00:24:00.420 good grasp of the base of working of fecs we've managed to completely change the reputation of the
00:24:07.140 business and i know that i've been an integral part of that especially with creating the culture of
00:24:12.020 customer service driven staff with our younger employees started out as a normal employee working for
00:24:17.360 my mom and sister but was quickly promoted to assistant gm after the previous one decided to
00:24:22.980 move on even though i'm working hard i can't shake the feeling of everything being handed to me because
00:24:29.460 i'm family any advice on how to navigate this yeah absolutely um that's first of all you're 24
00:24:37.200 second of all you probably did have a little bit of preference because of your family and that's okay
00:24:42.440 that's why your family did all that work by the way they did all that work so you'd have this
00:24:46.120 opportunity but the way you get around this because i have lots of friends who are second
00:24:50.100 generation business owners who come to me with the same concern they're like man you know i always
00:24:55.640 feel weird because i didn't really build this and i said okay so what do you think your job is what do
00:25:01.320 you think your role is your role in this situation is to take this business that has already existed
00:25:07.300 and yes people are always going to say because they're fucking losers that you got shit handed to you 0.69
00:25:13.260 who cares who cares what the fuck they say all right in fact you were with me when i met one of 0.65
00:25:19.800 the most famous people on the fucking planet and this was the first thing he said to me he said 0.69
00:25:26.700 man you know no one takes me serious because i grew up the son of a multi-billionaire that ever
00:25:32.260 and by the way i'm always in that spot this man is one of the most famous man's men in the world
00:25:36.660 y'all know who the fuck he is y'all knew both of they are both of them are and he says to me he says 0.89
00:25:41.960 nobody ever he's like dude i really appreciate you know our friendship because uh no one ever
00:25:47.760 really takes me serious because i grew up the son of a billionaire bro that's not your fault how the
00:25:52.200 fuck can you control that okay so all these people that criticize these kids who grew up they can't
00:25:57.800 control that that presents a whole different set of insecurities for people you know and and people
00:26:03.280 who grew up in a regular family or a less uh fortunate family are always hypercritical of that
00:26:09.200 because they believe that being born in that family will somehow create a situation where you
00:26:13.140 have zero problems which isn't true you have a whole different set of problems one of which is
00:26:18.100 you never actually feel like you're the responsible party for your own success and that is very very
00:26:24.760 difficult to deal with for someone in this situation so the best thing here for caleb is to acknowledge
00:26:31.960 yes this is true but now i have the responsibility to take this company and make it exponentially
00:26:39.000 more great than what my parents were able to do yeah okay so your responsibility now as a 24 year
00:26:45.640 old man is to become the best version of yourself to kick ass with this business respect and value what
00:26:52.940 your parents have built and then take it and build it into something that they could have never done
00:26:57.600 in the time that they were allowed to work on the business and make them proud of what you did with
00:27:01.920 the business make it your own make this next phase of growth caleb's phase to where it's a thousand x
00:27:09.500 what they built okay and then you will have you probably still going to have the same people say
00:27:14.740 you aren't you got an inherited fuck those people you'll know where you got it and you'll know where 0.94
00:27:19.880 you took it and that's what ultimately matters we we cannot control where we start in life
00:27:24.280 we can control where we take it though you know a lot of people are born on third base and they stay
00:27:29.440 on third base their whole life thinking that they got there on their own that's reality some people
00:27:33.920 are like that you're not like that you're you're concerned that you're being judged which you are
00:27:41.360 for being born into this situation okay most of these people who are you know inheritance wealthy
00:27:49.720 they don't give a fuck about they're just happy they have the wealth and those people are some of
00:27:53.780 the most miserable people on the earth because they have no purpose you have a gigantic purpose here
00:27:57.380 your purpose is to take what you were gifted and expand upon it in an exponential way so that you
00:28:04.140 could say this is this was my legacy and then you know maybe you have kids one day and you pass it
00:28:08.400 down to their legacy see what i'm saying absolutely so you have to take ownership in a different way
00:28:13.120 man and like you got to let that go people are going to judge you no matter what you know even if
00:28:18.580 you're self-made people are going to say stupid shit they got different shit to say then
00:28:23.080 yeah you know like they're going to tell you oh man your dad golden spoon in your mouth silver spoon
00:28:29.240 in your mouth born on third base thinks he hit a triple they're going to say all that shit but what 0.94
00:28:34.520 they don't say to you is things like what they say to me which is oh you dedicate your whole life for
00:28:39.860 money all you give a fuck about is this all you go i'm so much happier with these people are 0.85
00:28:45.860 miserable fucking people they are going to knock every single situation and every single 0.99
00:28:52.740 set of circumstances to make them feel better about their their existence to knock on you it's
00:28:59.660 nothing personal towards you these people are miserable with themselves in their own situation
00:29:03.220 yeah so forget about it dude go take what you were given expand upon it build it make it a hundred
00:29:08.780 times better and you're gonna feel you won't feel like this yeah that's real you certainly won't care
00:29:13.400 yeah yeah you got handed an opportunity what are you gonna do yeah go run with it dude because you
00:29:18.200 could easily fuck it up yeah and they're gonna talk shit about your offense yeah that's right 0.71
00:29:21.680 here's the kid who ruined the business exactly exactly which is not your family hates you too
00:29:25.900 that's statistically the way it goes too so you have a big family like second yeah second and third
00:29:31.840 generation owners very rarely successful compared to first okay they didn't have to fight they didn't 1.00
00:29:37.080 have to scrounge they weren't there when there was no business and that's a different dog mentality
00:29:41.480 that you and by the way caleb you need to learn this you need to learn that mentality yeah but um
00:29:47.000 you know if you don't have that mentality you end up like the second and third generation businesses
00:29:52.500 would typically fail so yeah man i would say not worry about it i would say understand that you're
00:29:59.740 getting the same criticism that a self-made person will get in a different way from the same people
00:30:04.060 these people are miserable they're never going to accomplish anything and in 20 years you're going to
00:30:09.120 remember their names but the only reason you're going to remember their names is because you're
00:30:12.160 thankful that they talked that shit because it drove you to fucking be successful i remember all 0.88
00:30:16.280 my critics all the motherfuckers that told me that dumb shit i think about them all the time you know 0.93
00:30:21.320 like when i'm pulling up to my house or i'm pulling up here to hq or i'm driving in one of my cars
00:30:25.720 i'm like man i'm grateful for that dude i'm grateful that person fucking said that hurtful shit to me 0.95
00:30:30.260 because here i am and there they are that's how you're gonna feel it's real shit man well guys this 0.80
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