REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 25, 2024


693. Q&AF： Stepping On Bosses Toes, Going With The Flow & Dealing With Anxiety


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In this episode of The Realists, DJ and Andy discuss the importance of mental toughness and how it can be applied in all areas of your life. DJ talks about his experience with mental toughness, and how he uses it to achieve success in life and in business.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Purcell and this is the show for the realists, say goodbye
00:00:20.600 to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking
00:00:26.260 reality.
00:00:26.780 Guys, today we have Q and AF, that's where you submit the Qs and we give you the AFs.
00:00:33.620 Now you can submit your questions a few different ways.
00:00:36.320 The first way is, guys, you can email those questions into askandy at andyfricella.com
00:00:41.800 and ask DJ.
00:00:42.960 Hey guys.
00:00:43.680 What's up?
00:00:44.220 Hey.
00:00:45.340 Or you can go on YouTube and you can drop your question in the comment section and we'll pick
00:00:50.420 some from there as well.
00:00:51.920 If you're a regular listener to the show, you know we have shows within the show.
00:00:55.500 Tomorrow you're going to get CTI, that stands for Cruise the Internet.
00:00:59.720 That's where we put topics up on the screen, we talk about what's happening, we speculate
00:01:03.360 on what's true and what's not true, and then we talk about how we, the people, have to solve
00:01:08.260 these problems that are created by these dumb motherfuckers. 1.00
00:01:13.420 That's right, huh?
00:01:14.400 Yeah, that's spot on.
00:01:15.540 Yeah.
00:01:15.960 That's it.
00:01:16.380 And then we got some other shows too.
00:01:18.520 We got Real Talk.
00:01:20.840 Those usually come out on Saturdays, sometimes middle of the week, however we're feeling it.
00:01:25.860 Then we have 75 Hard Verses.
00:01:27.740 75 Hard Verses, where someone who's completed the 75 Hard program, which is the initial phase
00:01:33.480 of the Live Hard program, comes on the show, talks about how their life was a shit dumpster
00:01:37.660 before, and how they un-shit dumpstered it, and how you can too.
00:01:44.220 That's episode 208, you get the program for free.
00:01:47.560 There's also a book on my website, andyfrusella.com, called The Book on Mental Toughness, and you
00:01:52.300 can get the entire Live Hard program in that book, plus 10 chapters on mental toughness,
00:01:56.020 why it's important, how you can use it to build the life that you're looking for.
00:01:59.620 It also has some case studies of some very famous people that you will recognize that talk
00:02:04.660 about how they use mental toughness to create their legacy as well.
00:02:09.200 So like I said, you don't have to buy the book, but you can get the program for free
00:02:12.160 on episode 208.
00:02:14.000 And then the last thing is, we have this thing we call the fee.
00:02:17.300 The fee is very simple.
00:02:18.600 It means share the show.
00:02:20.080 We don't run ads on the show.
00:02:21.500 I'm probably the only show on the whole fucking internet that finances itself without ads.
00:02:26.580 And you're probably asking, well, why would you do that?
00:02:29.420 We have a top-ranked show in the world.
00:02:31.520 And we can make a lot of money running ads.
00:02:35.360 Well, here's the deal, guys.
00:02:36.340 I don't like being told what to say or do.
00:02:38.460 And I want to keep this show as real as I can.
00:02:41.160 So I don't take that money.
00:02:42.300 And I ask in exchange just very simply that you support what we got going on.
00:02:46.460 You know, if you got to buy some nutritional supplements, buy some First Form.
00:02:49.720 Hit that First Form energy drink and share the show.
00:02:54.200 Okay?
00:02:54.520 We're always battling censorship.
00:02:56.000 We're battling shadow bans and all kinds of ridiculous stuff on the internet.
00:03:01.800 And if you guys think the message is valuable, if it makes you think, if it makes you laugh,
00:03:05.160 it gives you a new perspective, if it teaches you something, we need you to share the show
00:03:09.240 for it to get out.
00:03:10.080 So don't be a hoe. 1.00
00:03:11.480 Share the show.
00:03:12.340 All right.
00:03:12.860 What's up, dude?
00:03:13.600 What's going on, man?
00:03:14.560 Nothing.
00:03:15.100 Yeah?
00:03:15.620 Yeah.
00:03:15.880 Did you...
00:03:16.600 I got the water out.
00:03:18.280 Yeah.
00:03:18.660 That's what I was going to ask you.
00:03:19.540 Yeah.
00:03:19.680 I got the water out.
00:03:21.960 And...
00:03:22.280 Now, were you able to save the water?
00:03:24.260 No.
00:03:24.900 I didn't think so.
00:03:25.800 No.
00:03:26.540 No.
00:03:27.160 I didn't think so.
00:03:27.520 I just, yeah, pumped it down the hill to the common ground and shit, you know?
00:03:31.400 And, yeah.
00:03:33.200 So pool's empty.
00:03:34.220 Yeah.
00:03:35.220 Got to move it.
00:03:36.880 And then...
00:03:38.020 You going to level it out?
00:03:40.040 I'm not going to level it out.
00:03:41.100 Dan's going to do it.
00:03:41.620 Dan, yeah.
00:03:42.280 Yeah, Dan's going to do it.
00:03:43.300 Okay.
00:03:43.620 I'm going to level it out.
00:03:44.360 And hopefully it will be good, man.
00:03:46.420 Yeah.
00:03:46.660 You know?
00:03:47.440 Now I just got to learn how to swim.
00:03:49.960 Swim.
00:03:50.600 Swim.
00:03:52.180 Now, that's a lie.
00:03:53.240 I've seen you swim.
00:03:54.520 DJ's a pretty good swimmer.
00:03:55.540 I'm a pretty good swimmer.
00:03:56.320 Yeah.
00:03:56.660 Yeah.
00:03:57.220 That's how I got here.
00:03:58.080 You know, I was the fastest one.
00:03:59.240 Yeah.
00:04:01.960 How the fuck is that possible?
00:04:04.200 Was that...
00:04:04.600 That you were the fucking fastest one?
00:04:07.140 Hmm.
00:04:08.360 I'm just saying.
00:04:09.420 Mm-hmm.
00:04:10.620 You must be competing against some special ones.
00:04:14.460 Yeah.
00:04:15.040 All right.
00:04:15.900 All right.
00:04:17.100 Okay.
00:04:17.800 All right.
00:04:18.280 I like it.
00:04:18.940 Yeah.
00:04:19.220 I like it.
00:04:19.660 That's right.
00:04:20.080 I like it.
00:04:20.460 That's right.
00:04:21.140 You know?
00:04:21.980 A 1-1 race.
00:04:23.380 Yeah, you did.
00:04:24.360 Yeah.
00:04:24.580 Count that one.
00:04:25.360 Yep.
00:04:27.600 Anything new with you, man?
00:04:29.860 I don't think so.
00:04:31.160 Yeah?
00:04:31.980 Just playing with the ducks.
00:04:35.560 Mm-hmm.
00:04:35.920 Spent a lot.
00:04:36.160 Dude, they're getting big, man.
00:04:37.220 Dude.
00:04:37.660 I didn't know.
00:04:38.500 I didn't think ducks grew that fast.
00:04:39.860 I didn't know they grow that fast either, bro.
00:04:41.900 They're like those little...
00:04:42.780 You ever seen those things that were like capsules?
00:04:45.460 When you're a kid, you drop them in the water, and like an hour later, you come back, and
00:04:48.780 they're fucking like this big?
00:04:50.240 Mm-hmm.
00:04:50.740 They're like...
00:04:51.560 I don't know.
00:04:52.200 Old people used to have them. 1.00
00:04:53.300 They were like sponge toys.
00:04:54.220 I don't know if they still make them.
00:04:55.600 But it's like a little capsule.
00:04:56.880 You throw it in the water, and then it turns into like a fucking gorilla or something, right?
00:05:00.680 Oh.
00:05:01.160 Yeah.
00:05:01.500 So...
00:05:01.860 What?
00:05:02.900 Hmm?
00:05:03.900 Dude, what's wrong with you?
00:05:06.800 So anyway, sometimes it's a dragon or some shit, too, all right?
00:05:09.820 Oh, crap.
00:05:10.260 Yeah.
00:05:10.660 Diverse.
00:05:11.300 Yeah.
00:05:11.520 Right.
00:05:12.340 Well, yes.
00:05:13.760 Sometimes this is giraffe, you know?
00:05:18.660 So anyway, yeah, those things.
00:05:21.380 Let me see.
00:05:21.780 What is that?
00:05:22.300 A rooster?
00:05:23.140 An elephant?
00:05:24.740 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:25.540 I know those things.
00:05:26.440 Yeah.
00:05:27.280 So that's what the ducks are like, man.
00:05:29.060 Like you put a little water in their cage.
00:05:31.360 Yeah.
00:05:31.760 They get in the water.
00:05:32.660 You come back the next day.
00:05:33.660 Bro, they're fucking twice as big.
00:05:35.000 They grow...
00:05:35.500 They're growing really, really fast.
00:05:36.400 I've never seen anything like it.
00:05:37.800 No.
00:05:38.020 I didn't know they grow that fast.
00:05:39.200 That's like, I'm going to take some of their blood out and put it in me so I can get huge,
00:05:43.700 too.
00:05:44.760 Yeah.
00:05:45.920 All right.
00:05:46.700 You know, that's what they say about semen. 1.00
00:05:49.280 What do they say about semen?
00:05:50.080 Well, it grows a whole fucking baby in nine months, bro.
00:05:52.520 Think how big you would get if you drank it.
00:06:01.480 Why do you think these gay dudes are so ripped, bro? 1.00
00:06:03.460 It's true.
00:06:13.040 That might be true.
00:06:13.680 That might be true.
00:06:14.640 Yeah.
00:06:15.140 Shit, man.
00:06:15.660 Why are gay dudes so jacked? 1.00
00:06:17.060 I'm telling you, it's the fucking growth factors in the fucking jizz.
00:06:21.600 Yeah, man.
00:06:22.200 Make it fucking jacked.
00:06:23.060 But like it only works like if you have testosterone in your body or something?
00:06:26.240 I don't know.
00:06:26.840 Because like...
00:06:27.300 I never tried it, but I fucking...
00:06:28.920 I would think it would work.
00:06:30.100 Yeah.
00:06:30.600 Huh.
00:06:31.520 Interesting.
00:06:32.760 Might be a new business there.
00:06:33.760 We're going to have a bunch of dudes out there fucking... 1.00
00:06:35.440 Drinking semen.
00:06:36.680 Bro, you've seen them dudes on the internet that are fucking drinking their own piss and
00:06:40.200 injecting their own piss?
00:06:41.560 Nope.
00:06:41.960 Not in my news feed.
00:06:42.620 There's like these health dudes out here who are talking about how they inject their own
00:06:46.800 piss and drink their own piss for help. 0.98
00:06:48.460 You can't inject your piss, bro.
00:06:49.340 Bro, I swear.
00:06:50.220 I swear.
00:06:51.460 Like I saw it.
00:06:52.260 You're talking Ivy in the fucking veins.
00:06:54.340 I don't know, bro.
00:06:55.380 I fucking heard it and I just turned the shit off because I don't give a fuck what it does.
00:06:59.320 I don't care if it makes me live for fucking ever.
00:07:01.860 I ain't drinking my own piss.
00:07:03.700 And if I have fucking being like the world fucking collapses and all I got to do is drink
00:07:08.800 my own piss to live, peace. 0.52
00:07:11.320 It ain't fucking happening, bro.
00:07:13.180 And these dudes out here are fucking trying to be health nuts.
00:07:16.660 Yeah.
00:07:16.980 Talking about like...
00:07:18.240 Come on, man.
00:07:19.000 That's the new health fad?
00:07:19.980 Yeah.
00:07:20.280 Dude, I guess so.
00:07:21.440 Fuck.
00:07:22.440 I feel like they're punking a lot of people, bro.
00:07:24.840 Yeah.
00:07:25.100 A lot of that shit.
00:07:25.700 It's like...
00:07:25.980 You know, they got fucking these old dudes out there peeing in a cup. 1.00
00:07:29.080 Fucking...
00:07:29.880 I don't know what they do, bro.
00:07:31.480 Mm-hmm.
00:07:32.720 Nasty, though.
00:07:33.440 I'm okay.
00:07:34.540 I'm all right.
00:07:35.340 Me too.
00:07:35.840 I'm all right.
00:07:36.920 Now, I mean, like a survival situation.
00:07:40.240 I don't care, bro.
00:07:41.180 I've lived a good life.
00:07:42.160 Like Bear Grylls.
00:07:43.480 He drank his piss.
00:07:45.360 Did he?
00:07:45.900 Yeah.
00:07:46.640 Yeah, he drank his piss.
00:07:47.680 Really?
00:07:48.160 Mm-hmm.
00:07:49.040 I'd just get eaten by the bear, bro.
00:07:50.900 Yeah.
00:07:51.780 I mean, they listen.
00:07:52.600 If I got stranded like that, and I was gonna...
00:07:56.360 I would just run up to the bear and start fighting it.
00:07:59.580 Yeah.
00:08:00.320 I mean, I know it would kill me, but, like, that's some fucking badass shit.
00:08:05.140 They'd be like, oh, yeah, bro, he fought a bear and fucking ate him.
00:08:07.580 Yeah.
00:08:08.140 Like, I'll do that.
00:08:09.780 Yeah.
00:08:10.160 Huh.
00:08:10.720 Hmm.
00:08:12.460 I just drink my piss.
00:08:13.900 They probably like me, dude.
00:08:15.520 All animals like me, dude.
00:08:16.780 Animals do like you.
00:08:17.440 I got a gift with them.
00:08:18.200 Yeah.
00:08:19.040 I'm like the animal whisperer.
00:08:20.600 Mm-hmm.
00:08:21.220 Doesn't matter which one they are.
00:08:22.600 This is true.
00:08:23.280 I've seen it in action.
00:08:24.560 I've seen it in action.
00:08:25.580 Yeah.
00:08:26.100 Yeah.
00:08:26.380 Anyway, what's going on?
00:08:28.840 Yeah, let's make some people better.
00:08:30.180 Yeah.
00:08:30.580 We got Q&AF today.
00:08:31.740 It's Q&AF, and, uh...
00:08:33.500 We're not gonna recommend that you drink your piss.
00:08:35.580 Yeah, don't drink your piss.
00:08:36.340 Yeah.
00:08:37.180 So...
00:08:37.580 Unless you have to...
00:08:38.260 I mean, like, listen, man.
00:08:39.140 Like, you know, I can see a survival situation.
00:08:41.320 I'd do it.
00:08:42.120 How much would it cost for you to eat a piece of your own poop?
00:08:46.340 Oh, it would cost...
00:08:47.580 I mean, that would cost...
00:08:49.420 Much.
00:08:49.480 And, like, what type of poop?
00:08:50.640 Are we saying, like, my normals?
00:08:51.780 No, like a nugget.
00:08:53.680 Just...
00:08:53.920 Like, just a little nugget?
00:08:55.040 Yeah.
00:08:55.740 I mean, I'm gonna need...
00:08:56.720 I'm gonna need something.
00:08:57.740 I'm gonna need some...
00:08:58.360 I'm gonna need some coins.
00:08:59.580 What is it?
00:09:00.200 What is it?
00:09:01.200 Oh, it's like...
00:09:01.700 Give me your number.
00:09:01.980 It's like...
00:09:02.560 I'm gonna need at least a...
00:09:04.100 Like, you gotta give me, like, at least 10 million, bro.
00:09:06.520 10 million?
00:09:07.160 10 million.
00:09:07.640 That's a big number, man.
00:09:08.840 10 million.
00:09:09.400 Like, I mean, that's reasonable.
00:09:10.720 10 million?
00:09:11.320 Eat a piece of your shit. 0.75
00:09:12.460 Your own shit?
00:09:13.200 My own shit.
00:09:13.900 Like, three inches.
00:09:14.620 Not even a big one.
00:09:15.200 Okay, now you're increasing it.
00:09:16.340 No, like this.
00:09:16.660 You see a little nugget.
00:09:17.720 Like this?
00:09:18.800 Like your six inches?
00:09:22.540 Like that size?
00:09:24.980 What would it take?
00:09:27.940 I'd say for every inch, it'd be another 10.
00:09:30.540 10 million?
00:09:31.180 So that's 30.
00:09:31.680 30 million?
00:09:32.360 30 million dollars, bro.
00:09:33.480 Bro, I'd need a three-inch piece of poop for 30 million. 0.51
00:09:35.660 That's what I'm saying.
00:09:36.400 No question.
00:09:37.300 Yeah, I'd do it.
00:09:37.920 I know how hard it is to make that shit.
00:09:40.180 With the poop?
00:09:41.140 No, the fucking 30 billion.
00:09:45.820 Yeah.
00:09:47.060 Sometimes the poop, too.
00:09:48.660 Anyway.
00:09:49.340 You get to wash it down.
00:09:50.080 Yeah, hey, this is, we're getting right into the personal development.
00:09:53.820 Yeah, this is it.
00:09:54.420 We're the only show that goes from-
00:09:56.420 Capitalism.
00:09:56.980 Yes.
00:09:57.480 From eating your own poop to talking about how to be better.
00:10:01.320 Yeah, that's it, man.
00:10:01.960 Yeah.
00:10:02.380 Well, let's do it.
00:10:02.820 So we're going to make you so wealthy that you don't have to eat your own poop.
00:10:06.100 That's a tagline right there.
00:10:07.220 I see what you did there.
00:10:07.860 Yeah, I like it.
00:10:08.780 Well, guys, Andy, let's get into it.
00:10:12.440 Guys, Andy, question number one.
00:10:14.180 Andy, I'm an entrepreneur at a medium-sized company.
00:10:18.340 A few Q&As ago, you talked about how entrepreneurs should be striving to create value and how the
00:10:24.440 really great ones take initiative and fix issues on their own.
00:10:28.960 My direct leadership has been slacking in a few areas.
00:10:32.200 There's been some growls in the team.
00:10:34.200 And so I took some initiative and addressed a few things for the team.
00:10:37.340 And the team absolutely loved it.
00:10:39.980 Fast forward a few days.
00:10:41.640 I get called into his office and was told that I stepped on his toes.
00:10:46.600 Long story short, I vented about what it was causing in the team and how I take responsibility
00:10:52.320 for it and what my intentions were.
00:10:54.740 And he wasn't trying to hear him.
00:10:56.080 Now, there's a few people above him in management.
00:10:59.720 Should I consult them?
00:11:01.200 Do I try to mend the trust and kiss ass?
00:11:04.160 This dude's a pussy and I'm just trying to win. 1.00
00:11:06.140 What's your thoughts?
00:11:07.640 Well, look.
00:11:10.320 This is a legitimate question because when you are trying to make a difference in the
00:11:15.600 company and you take initiative, especially with leadership, and you have someone that
00:11:19.960 you report to, if they're not a strong leader, if they're not a very confident, capable,
00:11:26.860 strong leader, there will probably be some defensiveness from that person.
00:11:31.420 Because what they'll see it as is this person's trying, exactly like he said, step on my toes,
00:11:37.360 steal my thunder, undermine my authority. 0.55
00:11:40.100 When in reality, you're just trying to do your job so that we can win.
00:11:44.680 So we don't get fired.
00:11:45.380 It's not about getting fired, bro.
00:11:47.460 It's, you know, there's just management and certain companies who have the wrong attitude.
00:11:55.080 They have the attitude of, I rule over you instead of, we are on a team and we need to win.
00:12:02.460 And a good manager, someone who is competent and capable and understands that this doesn't
00:12:10.560 take away from them when they win, they're going to celebrate initiative.
00:12:15.060 They're going to be happy for initiative.
00:12:17.000 Even if it's wrong, they're going to say, fuck, dude, I appreciate that you took initiative,
00:12:22.060 but next time let's do it like this.
00:12:24.520 Right.
00:12:24.840 Because they understand that that doesn't make them look bad.
00:12:27.780 It makes them look good when they win.
00:12:29.760 All right.
00:12:30.300 So you might have an issue here with someone, you know, who is insecure because they know
00:12:35.160 they're slacking and they don't necessarily want to own up to that.
00:12:39.240 So they take it defensively and they believe that you are trying to undermine them.
00:12:44.780 And in that case, there's a couple different options.
00:12:47.640 One, you can have a more conversation with him and that's not kiss an ass.
00:12:54.380 That's, Hey bro, listen, you pay me to help you win.
00:12:59.320 Okay.
00:12:59.760 That's what I do here.
00:13:00.840 I'm trying to help you win.
00:13:02.660 You asked me to help you win.
00:13:04.540 You're paying me to help you win.
00:13:06.380 I want you to win.
00:13:07.760 That's all I'm trying to do it.
00:13:09.280 And, and that sort of conversation where you kind of stand up for yourself can go a long
00:13:13.860 way with people like that.
00:13:15.500 Um, I'm not trying to undermine you, dude.
00:13:17.560 I'm trying to help the team.
00:13:19.820 And I know you're busy.
00:13:21.440 I know you're trying to do your thing.
00:13:22.980 You know, don't call him out on his slacking.
00:13:24.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:13:25.580 But say, Hey, I know you're busy with other things.
00:13:27.780 I know you've got this going on.
00:13:29.060 Let me fucking step in and do this.
00:13:30.960 And the fear on their point is that you will become so good at what you do that it will
00:13:36.360 be recognized that you are better than them.
00:13:39.260 But in that scenario, it's good that you take the initiative if you're in the right company,
00:13:44.240 because it'll progress your career and it'll also make that guy start to move.
00:13:49.220 Okay.
00:13:49.740 The reason that these managers get complacent and they don't move is because they don't
00:13:54.800 have people underneath them, pressing them with the results that they're producing.
00:13:59.240 So as someone who's subordinate to an insecure leader, like it sounds like you are, you need
00:14:06.080 to push them to improve with their performance by having great performance yourself.
00:14:11.520 Now that's one way to handle it.
00:14:13.180 Now, if you went around the office and you said, well, fucking Joe is not doing his job.
00:14:18.840 So I got to do it.
00:14:19.760 Yeah.
00:14:20.100 You're, you are undermining him and he does have a right to be pissed.
00:14:23.860 Those conversations need to be happening behind closed doors, not out with other people,
00:14:28.060 because that makes you a cancer.
00:14:29.760 If that were happening in my company, I would fire that person immediately.
00:14:33.220 No matter how true it is.
00:14:34.200 Yes.
00:14:34.760 Because it's cancerous.
00:14:36.280 Okay.
00:14:36.680 Or now you can go out and you continue to do what you're doing.
00:14:42.240 You keep getting better.
00:14:43.560 And if this guy steps in your way again, you can go to someone above him and say, Hey,
00:14:48.320 look, I'm having a lot of trouble, man.
00:14:49.800 I'm not trying to throw anybody on the bus.
00:14:51.680 I like this guy, Steve.
00:14:53.200 He's all right, dude, but I'm trying hard to win.
00:14:55.960 And I'm, I'm being told to not do these things.
00:14:59.280 And you know, that's, that's a way you could go, but there's going to be in some situations,
00:15:05.320 there could be some backlash to that.
00:15:06.920 In reality, I don't think that's a bad thing because if you that, if your initiative and
00:15:12.060 your drive and your want and will to win isn't appreciated where you are, then you need to
00:15:18.220 be somewhere where it is appreciated so that you have upward mobility for yourself and your
00:15:22.900 family.
00:15:23.420 All right.
00:15:24.100 So this is, this comes down to just doing the right thing, working as hard as you can
00:15:29.280 being professional, handling things like an adult.
00:15:32.500 And if it's not welcome, bro, it's time to find a place where you would be welcome.
00:15:36.760 I can tell you this initiative is one of our core values.
00:15:40.540 Okay.
00:15:41.020 The three most valuable skills an entrepreneur can have is the ability to sell the ability
00:15:46.240 to lead and the ability to take initiative and move a project from a concept to completion
00:15:52.880 without having to be told exactly what to do.
00:15:56.180 If you have those three skills and you're good at it, you're going to write your own check
00:16:00.920 in almost any company that's hungry to win.
00:16:03.340 And this goes for a lot of you guys, a lot of you guys that are entrepreneurs, you need
00:16:07.280 to understand that not every company is trying to grow.
00:16:10.720 Not every company is trying to be big enough to where you can actually build your career
00:16:15.600 inside of it.
00:16:16.680 You want to get with an aggressive company.
00:16:18.480 You want to get with a company that has huge plans and huge dreams and then backs that up
00:16:23.540 with action.
00:16:24.040 Because what that means is that you will have opportunity to build an amazing career underneath
00:16:29.200 that.
00:16:30.060 And dude, a lot of companies just ain't like that.
00:16:32.080 So you got to have the acuity to be able to observe and sense, are you with a company
00:16:39.460 that's going the right way?
00:16:40.880 Are you with a company that's trying to win?
00:16:43.120 Are you with a company that's trying to become so big that you can build your entire life within
00:16:48.900 that framework of that company?
00:16:50.560 And dude, the answer for most companies is no, most companies want to be medium sized
00:16:55.300 companies.
00:16:55.880 That's all they want to be.
00:16:56.900 The owners want to collect a moderate check and they don't really give a fuck about growing
00:17:01.340 the careers of the people that work there.
00:17:03.420 You know, for me, dude, I could have quit trying to grow first form and S2 and all the
00:17:09.840 shit we got going on years and years and years ago. 0.76
00:17:12.980 But I figured out along the way that that wasn't okay because I have people who have invested
00:17:18.780 their whole professional lives since they were 19 years old inside this company that
00:17:24.100 deserve to have a chance to build their dreams.
00:17:26.380 And that means when they invested up there in the beginning and they believed in me and
00:17:31.380 then I just get to the point where I'm good and then I fucking bolt. 0.82
00:17:35.200 What kind of person does that make me?
00:17:37.100 That's an unloyal, disloyal motherfucker, bro.
00:17:40.640 And I ain't that kind of person.
00:17:42.480 So I come in here every day.
00:17:44.460 I give everything I got so that the people in this building can build their careers as
00:17:48.680 well.
00:17:49.000 And that's another thing you should look for your leadership and your ownership should
00:17:53.100 give a fuck about building careers for their employees.
00:17:57.140 And if they don't, you need to find somewhere that does because you'll waste your whole life
00:18:01.640 there.
00:18:02.140 Yeah.
00:18:02.600 And let me ask you this because I feel like, you know, and I don't know how old this person
00:18:06.680 is, but I feel like there's a, there's a lot of people out there that just have a problem
00:18:10.440 just simply standing up for themselves, right?
00:18:12.840 Just simply handling those hard or tough conversations, right?
00:18:16.700 Like, do you have any tips, um, or tricks or things that you've learned, you know, going
00:18:21.360 cause I mean, did you started in business when you were 19 where, you know, the world might
00:18:25.280 look at you as this young person right now, really take you serious.
00:18:28.120 How do you handle those difficult conversations?
00:18:30.260 How do you handle that conflict resolution?
00:18:32.420 How do you handle that?
00:18:33.720 Dude, look, that's a, that's a skill in itself.
00:18:36.520 Okay.
00:18:36.920 What you have to realize is that you are in charge of your own progress.
00:18:43.600 And if you lack the ability to give feedback or have difficult conversations, what usually
00:18:50.140 ends up happening with those people is they start to observe a bunch of things they don't
00:18:54.680 like.
00:18:55.160 I don't like this.
00:18:56.340 I don't like that.
00:18:57.460 I don't like this.
00:18:58.520 I don't like that.
00:18:59.720 And because they lack the courage or the understanding of how to address it properly, meaning going to
00:19:06.700 your leadership, sitting down saying, Hey, this is, this is, this is a problem.
00:19:11.560 This is a problem.
00:19:12.340 This is a problem.
00:19:13.120 You guys aren't seeing this, you know, whether you got HR, whoever your direct leadership
00:19:17.280 is, you go to them, you sit down, you tell the truth.
00:19:21.680 What usually happens to these people who bottle everything up is they start to get bitter and
00:19:27.620 they get resentful.
00:19:28.800 And then they come in one day and they're like, fuck this place.
00:19:31.980 I fucking hate this place.
00:19:33.260 And they fucking leave.
00:19:34.460 And like they leave without ever bringing it to the leadership, thinking that we can
00:19:42.140 just guess on what the problem is.
00:19:44.800 You know what I'm saying?
00:19:45.600 Like my readers.
00:19:46.600 Yeah, bro.
00:19:47.840 And nobody is.
00:19:48.960 And so you have to understand that there is no value and just shutting up.
00:19:56.020 There is tremendous value in speaking up and telling the truth to HR or your direct leaders,
00:20:03.740 because most of the time, the problems that you're having are oversights because everybody
00:20:09.540 else is worried about what's going on in the playing field.
00:20:13.500 So it's hard to see holes when you're worried about offense and you're worried about putting
00:20:19.300 points on the board.
00:20:20.120 It's hard to see those things.
00:20:21.120 So if you are an entrepreneur and you can bring those issues to your leadership tactfully as
00:20:27.540 a team player, not as a bitching high maintenance nag employee, but as a contributor, hey, here's 0.99
00:20:36.020 a couple of problems I noticed.
00:20:37.260 I've experienced this.
00:20:38.200 I've experienced this.
00:20:39.440 I think we need to fix these things so that we don't cause an issue with the culture.
00:20:44.660 And there's also this other little thing.
00:20:47.400 And, you know, I'm not upset, but I want you guys to know, and I think we do need to
00:20:51.720 fix it because it's starting to get a little chattery.
00:20:53.620 All right.
00:20:54.540 That kind of feedback is fucking immensely valuable because most of the people that are running
00:21:00.160 things, they just can't see that shit. 0.80
00:21:02.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:21:03.400 It's like it's like I'm the general.
00:21:05.440 Right.
00:21:05.860 And we're we're in battle.
00:21:07.240 And you're fucking 30 miles out there on the fucking line, you know, way over here and
00:21:13.600 you're getting fucking killed. 0.99
00:21:15.020 Right.
00:21:15.400 But because you don't want to bother me or you don't want to give me feedback or you
00:21:19.780 don't want to report back bad news, you just continue to get killed and we lose the fucking 0.99
00:21:24.420 battle.
00:21:25.060 You see what I'm saying?
00:21:26.220 So feedback back and forth as a contribution and a team is super important.
00:21:32.600 And if you can be an intrapreneur that can have, you know, they're not difficult conversations,
00:21:38.340 dude.
00:21:38.860 These are just conversations.
00:21:40.480 You got to stop prefacing this thing is like difficult conversations.
00:21:45.380 They're not fucking difficult.
00:21:47.240 They're fucking factual.
00:21:48.820 OK, so have a factual conversation.
00:21:51.840 Don't bring drama.
00:21:53.420 Don't bring gossip.
00:21:55.020 Don't bring bullshit.
00:21:56.620 Bring fucking facts and bring a solution to the problem. 0.99
00:22:01.180 If you can become someone that does that, your value goes way the fuck up because the
00:22:07.300 leadership says, hey, that guy's bought in, that guy cares, that guy looks out for the
00:22:12.060 company.
00:22:12.620 And when the time comes for, you know, the conversation about who the next leadership
00:22:17.420 is or who can be trusted to do this or that, that person gets talked about.
00:22:22.840 And eventually, if their skill set's good enough, they get to move.
00:22:25.900 So there's this false idea of being stoic and not complaining that actually holds your
00:22:37.020 value back because it's not complaining and it's not a difficult conversation.
00:22:41.340 It is a factual conversation and we bring solutions to try to make the team better.
00:22:46.080 And dude, how do you do this?
00:22:47.780 You just fucking do it.
00:22:49.140 You fucking do it.
00:22:51.200 You go do it.
00:22:52.060 You sit down.
00:22:52.760 The first time you're going to be nervous and don't do none of this shit either where
00:22:56.740 you go, well, I'm not trying to, you know, like complain and I'm not trying to, you know,
00:23:01.520 blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:23:03.600 Well, then don't complain and don't bitch. 1.00
00:23:06.000 Just say the facts.
00:23:07.140 Hey, here's a hole in the game.
00:23:08.640 Here's a hole in the game.
00:23:09.700 We got to fix these holes.
00:23:11.260 And, you know, I just want to let you guys know.
00:23:13.960 Yeah.
00:23:14.320 You know, I was thinking too, you know, you're like those people that, you know, bottle it
00:23:17.600 up and then they just walk in one day and like, Oh fuck.
00:23:20.560 I feel like that's, that's what happens if they're lucky.
00:23:23.260 I think what a lot of people happen to is they bottle that shit up and then they just learn
00:23:26.920 to accept it.
00:23:27.720 Well, no dude, change shit about it.
00:23:29.420 Not only that, dude, here's what happens.
00:23:31.480 They start because they're fucking pussies. 1.00
00:23:33.940 They start talking to everybody around them, bro.
00:23:36.500 They start complaining to everybody around them and they start trying to destroy things in
00:23:40.720 the company because they're too fucking pussy to have a conversation. 1.00
00:23:44.540 That's exactly what it is.
00:23:46.040 Yeah.
00:23:46.320 Okay.
00:23:47.040 So the reality is, is dude, if you can't have difficult conversations, quote unquote, difficult
00:23:52.340 conversations that aren't even difficult, you lack the ability to succeed and get paid.
00:23:56.740 That's it.
00:23:57.460 Yeah.
00:23:57.920 I love it.
00:23:58.940 I love it guys.
00:23:59.860 Andy question.
00:24:00.800 Number two, Andy, I hear people talk about how important it is to be flexible and to go
00:24:07.280 with the flow.
00:24:07.960 I've been told to be more easygoing and I should try to take it easy, let it go or worry
00:24:13.540 about it tomorrow.
00:24:14.820 Maybe I'm not quite understanding what the message is, but I definitely do have a difficult
00:24:21.180 time just going with the flow.
00:24:23.700 There's been times where being flexible slows down my progress and also times where not being
00:24:28.600 flexible may have worked against me.
00:24:30.760 I'd love your opinion on when it's time to be flexible in life when pursuing great health
00:24:35.920 and success.
00:24:36.980 Go with the flow.
00:24:38.580 What's your, what's your, what's your take on that?
00:24:40.560 95% of the time it's, that's something that's said by fucking lazy loser people who don't
00:24:47.280 want to be held to a standard that you're holding for yourself.
00:24:50.260 So you're out here trying to hold a high standard.
00:24:52.940 You're trying to work hard.
00:24:54.400 You're doing all this shit and they're saying, Oh, just go with the flow, man.
00:24:57.300 Don't work too hard here.
00:24:58.660 They don't, it's loser shit.
00:25:00.400 Those people will always be broke.
00:25:02.000 And let me tell you something else, bro.
00:25:03.920 If you're going to build anything great in your life, it's going to be through fucking
00:25:07.840 force.
00:25:08.520 It's going to be through complete rigid dedication and discipline to move forward.
00:25:15.600 And when the people come and they get in your ear and they say, take it easy.
00:25:19.280 You're working too hard.
00:25:20.940 You gotta, you gotta learn to go with the flow.
00:25:23.960 Just know that if you listen to those people, you will be exactly like those people.
00:25:29.860 Do you think fucking Kobe Bryant went with the flow?
00:25:33.240 Do you think Tom Brady went with the flow?
00:25:36.060 Do you think Muhammad Ali went with the flow?
00:25:39.100 Do you think any fucking person, Elon Musk, any person that you look up to went with the
00:25:45.860 fucking flow?
00:25:47.160 No, they didn't.
00:25:48.640 They said, I'm going here and anybody who gets in my fucking way, I'm going to run them
00:25:53.000 the fuck over.
00:25:54.000 That's what they said.
00:25:54.980 That's the attitude they have.
00:25:56.440 And that's the attitude of champions.
00:25:57.940 So that's how I look at those kinds of statements.
00:26:01.100 Go with the flow.
00:26:02.280 Take it easy.
00:26:03.500 Now, are there times where you're wrong and you do need to go with the other?
00:26:09.700 Yes, a hundred percent.
00:26:11.220 But you have to have the ability to audit yourself and remove your ego.
00:26:17.180 You need to be able to discern between, am I stuck to this idea because it's my idea?
00:26:25.180 Or am I wrong?
00:26:26.440 And these guys have the best idea.
00:26:28.400 You see what I'm saying?
00:26:29.360 And if you can't evaluate that by removing your ego and honest, you'd lack the ability
00:26:34.040 to lead, you lack the ability to progress.
00:26:36.260 But 90% of the time, these people who say this shit are completely weak.
00:26:41.000 They're super lazy.
00:26:42.300 They're never going to amount to shit and they're going to fuck your life up if they get in
00:26:46.000 your ear.
00:26:46.420 So I would ignore them.
00:26:47.580 I would look at them and I would say, what do they look like?
00:26:50.280 What kind of money do they make?
00:26:51.760 What kind of house do they live in?
00:26:53.160 What kind of car do they have?
00:26:54.320 What kind of life do they live?
00:26:55.940 And I'd say, do I want that?
00:26:58.660 And then if they tell me to go with the flow and I don't, I'd be like, fuck, I ain't going
00:27:01.840 with your flow.
00:27:02.620 Yeah, right.
00:27:02.980 What's their flow look like?
00:27:03.980 Yeah, right.
00:27:04.420 It looks like shit 95% of the time.
00:27:06.920 Yeah.
00:27:07.220 All right.
00:27:07.600 So are there times when you got to give a little bit?
00:27:10.220 Yeah.
00:27:10.680 Are there times when you got to concede that maybe you didn't have their best idea, but
00:27:15.400 somebody else did?
00:27:16.780 Yes.
00:27:17.260 That's called being a smart guy.
00:27:19.240 Don't you want to win?
00:27:20.260 You said, oh, being go with the flow, held my progress back.
00:27:24.680 Why would you fucking let anything hold your progress back?
00:27:27.720 If you know you're not supposed to go with the flow, don't go with the fucking flow.
00:27:32.120 It's that simple, dude.
00:27:33.580 Yeah.
00:27:33.780 Become the flow shit.
00:27:35.480 Well, dude, that's the thing.
00:27:36.620 Your job is to be able to walk in the room and influence the fucking room because you 0.92
00:27:42.760 have a consistent track record of willing things and forcing things into reality.
00:27:49.480 And when you've done that for a number of years, you won't have to convince anybody anymore
00:27:54.100 because they will look at you and they will say, DJ fucking gets it, bro. 0.80
00:27:59.000 I think we need to listen to what he's saying.
00:28:00.960 You see what I'm saying?
00:28:02.040 Yeah.
00:28:02.760 Yeah.
00:28:02.980 But most of that shit's loser shit.
00:28:05.100 I wouldn't listen to anybody about fucking anything that you don't want their life.
00:28:10.160 For real.
00:28:10.940 Yeah, that's real shit.
00:28:12.480 That's real shit.
00:28:13.160 Well, guys, Andy, our third and final question.
00:28:15.360 Andy, the question number three.
00:28:16.840 Andy, this may be more of a thought-provoking question for you, but I'm really curious to
00:28:22.280 hear your thoughts on this.
00:28:23.840 At this point in your life, 25 years in, all the work, the blood, the tears you've put
00:28:29.060 in, do you still have any anxiety, big or small, that it won't work?
00:28:36.020 No.
00:28:38.540 I've never thought that it won't work.
00:28:41.200 I've never thought that even when I started.
00:28:43.360 I never thought it.
00:28:44.760 I thought we'll figure it out.
00:28:46.160 We'll make it happen.
00:28:47.420 That's what I always thought, dude.
00:28:48.820 And that's the attitude you have to have, okay?
00:28:50.680 You're not going to get something given to you.
00:28:52.740 It's not going to come easy.
00:28:54.400 It's not going to be stress-free.
00:28:55.780 It's not going to be anxiety-free.
00:28:57.140 It's not going to be frustration-free.
00:28:59.760 That's the thing you guys miss about going out here and building success.
00:29:04.240 Nobody's bringing it to you.
00:29:05.760 It's not coming to you.
00:29:07.100 You don't deserve it.
00:29:08.240 It's not fair.
00:29:09.780 You're going to have to earn every fucking bit of it.
00:29:12.800 And bro, quite honestly, you're going to have to go fucking take it.
00:29:15.560 And you can't go take it if you're worried about it not working, okay?
00:29:19.660 Because it takes 100% of your energy to go out and make shit happen.
00:29:24.500 And if you're spending 10% or 20% or 30% of the energy afraid that it's not going to work,
00:29:30.180 you can't put the proper amount into moving forward into giving the right amount of offense,
00:29:35.420 which is the key to getting this built, okay?
00:29:38.540 So you have to force this into reality.
00:29:42.100 The internet has made business and entrepreneurship seem and success seem like it is easy and it's
00:29:51.200 abundant and it's for everybody.
00:29:53.740 And the reality is it fucking isn't, okay?
00:29:56.900 There are limited spaces at the fucking top.
00:29:59.560 There are limited slots on the fucking playing field for you to get a starting position.
00:30:05.100 Bro, just because I want to be an NFL football player doesn't mean that I can fucking manifest
00:30:10.160 myself into an NFL football player.
00:30:12.480 There is a limited number of spots and I've got to compete and be great to be in one of those.
00:30:17.920 And your income bracket and your position in the world is the same exact way.
00:30:22.500 And we have all these fucking knuckleheads out here on the internet talking about how 0.88
00:30:27.480 it's unlimited success and you could do...
00:30:31.580 Bro, no, it's not, okay?
00:30:34.080 You are competing with actual human beings.
00:30:36.920 There are limited number of spots.
00:30:38.700 If you want to be in the game, if you want to be on the field, if you want to be an all-star,
00:30:43.140 if you want to be a hall of famer, you are going to have to get aggressive and you are
00:30:48.660 going to have to force your will into existence, into reality.
00:30:52.960 There is no easy way.
00:30:55.800 There's no quick way.
00:30:57.040 There's no risk-free way.
00:30:59.240 There's no anxiety-free way.
00:31:01.140 And when you think there is, you're setting yourself up for failure.
00:31:04.420 This is why this idealistic viewpoint of entrepreneurship and business is so damaging, okay?
00:31:12.160 You see all these dumb fuck coaches out here selling programs who've never done a motherfucking
00:31:17.660 thing, who have never built a business, who have never truly become successful outside
00:31:22.580 of the money that they make selling programs.
00:31:25.480 And they are telling you all this crazy shit that just isn't fucking true.
00:31:30.240 You need to come to terms with the reality and you need to learn how to listen to people
00:31:35.280 who have built real things that are teaching you.
00:31:38.540 You guys need to quit listening to these internet dumb fucks who don't know what they're talking
00:31:42.700 about.
00:31:43.000 They've never built anything real outside of selling you a program about how to do something
00:31:47.580 that they never actually did.
00:31:49.080 And if you don't learn how to vet people and you don't learn how to ask, do they have a
00:31:53.200 business?
00:31:53.700 Do they have customers?
00:31:55.020 Do they have employees?
00:31:56.260 Can I buy their product?
00:31:57.500 How long have they been doing it?
00:31:58.620 How good are they at it?
00:32:00.180 What's the business do?
00:32:02.120 What's it worth?
00:32:03.100 How is it?
00:32:03.900 Is it dominant?
00:32:04.880 Is it shitty?
00:32:06.000 Can I even see it?
00:32:07.180 Or it was one of these magical things that doesn't exist.
00:32:10.120 Oh, you know, I made a hundred million dollars back in the day.
00:32:12.800 No, you fucking did it.
00:32:14.260 You didn't.
00:32:15.060 Let's see it.
00:32:15.740 Let's see your career, right?
00:32:17.800 Okay.
00:32:18.880 And then on top of it, I don't get anxiety because I have a very comprehensive understanding
00:32:23.980 of what the equation of success is.
00:32:26.740 It is inputs and it is outputs.
00:32:29.180 It is math.
00:32:30.420 It is two plus two equals motherfucking four.
00:32:33.940 And that is as simple as it gets.
00:32:36.480 Okay.
00:32:36.960 So when you understand how it works and you remove this idea that it's not competition
00:32:44.520 and, you know, you're going to eventually make it just because you want to and, you know,
00:32:50.260 success is for everybody and you get your ass to work the way that you need to work and 0.65
00:32:55.040 you understand that the inputs you get in, the seeds you plant today are going to produce
00:32:59.160 fruit in time.
00:33:02.100 Now you're on the right track.
00:33:03.680 But, but dude, if you understood the formula, you wouldn't have anxiety.
00:33:07.640 I just understand it better than you because I've been down it.
00:33:10.440 And a lot of people don't.
00:33:11.720 A lot of people listen to all this idealistic shit on the internet and they get the wrong
00:33:15.980 idea.
00:33:16.460 And then when they get the wrong idea, they go execute on the wrong idea.
00:33:19.440 And then when they execute on the wrong idea, they don't get any results.
00:33:22.080 And you know what they end up doing?
00:33:23.400 They end up saying, fuck, it's me.
00:33:25.120 I don't have what it takes.
00:33:26.620 No, you, it's not that you don't have what it takes.
00:33:28.820 It's that you're following a bad plan that's told to you by someone who doesn't know what
00:33:32.500 the fuck they're talking about.
00:33:33.780 And then you believe that it's you because, you know, apparently everybody else is winning
00:33:39.040 with this when it isn't even true in the first place.
00:33:41.460 You guys got to stop believing the shit on the internet.
00:33:44.120 This bullshit.
00:33:45.200 This is why I've started to like flex my actual companies a little bit because y'all need
00:33:49.540 to know what real motherfuckers look like versus the internet. 1.00
00:33:51.960 It's a big difference.
00:33:52.840 But at the end of the day, here it is.
00:33:55.220 It's real competition.
00:33:56.240 You better go hard or you're not going to get on the fucking team.
00:33:59.480 You're certainly not going to be an all-star and you're not going to be a hall of famer.
00:34:02.360 And you know what a hall of famer is?
00:34:03.680 That's someone who makes millions and millions and millions of dollars, which is, I assume,
00:34:07.520 is what the fuck you want. 0.69
00:34:08.740 If you don't want that, maybe you could be an all-star, but that person's still pretty
00:34:12.040 fucking good.
00:34:12.900 And if you just want to be on the team, bro, you're not going to do very well.
00:34:16.060 You got to be great.
00:34:17.180 And you got to understand that you're in competition.
00:34:18.920 And you got to understand that what you put in today will produce results tomorrow, 90,
00:34:24.780 126 months, a year from now, which will be reflective and in proportion to the effort
00:34:31.700 that you put in day by day by day by day by day.
00:34:34.300 So whatever seeds you're planting today, whatever seeds you're planting tomorrow, whatever seeds
00:34:39.200 you're planting the next day, those will bear fruit out and over the course of time in proportion
00:34:46.920 to how much you do now.
00:34:48.860 And that is it, dude.
00:34:50.220 There's no other magic to this.
00:34:51.780 There's no secret formula.
00:34:52.940 There's no hack.
00:34:53.800 You can't speed it up.
00:34:55.160 It just is.
00:34:56.140 It's what it is.
00:34:57.260 It is like gravity is.
00:34:59.860 That's what, like the sun is.
00:35:01.360 Okay?
00:35:01.680 It just is.
00:35:02.940 And then lastly, you know why I don't have anxiety?
00:35:05.760 Because what the fuck else am I going to do?
00:35:07.880 I don't even have a college education, bro.
00:35:10.500 What am I going to go dig ditches?
00:35:11.860 I'm not digging ditches.
00:35:13.020 I'm going to make this fucking work.
00:35:14.620 So if you take away the options of failure and you take away the options of it not working
00:35:20.820 out, you have to be all in because it's the only option.
00:35:24.720 And dude, when you start a business, when I started my business, it was the only option.
00:35:29.780 If I didn't do it, I would be working construction, bro.
00:35:33.000 And no offense to construction workers.
00:35:34.620 I respect the fuck out of them.
00:35:36.200 But bro, I didn't want to do that hard ass work my whole life.
00:35:38.780 I know my family's from construction, bro.
00:35:41.460 I know what 40 years of construction does to someone.
00:35:44.420 It's hard on them, bro.
00:35:45.680 And I respect the fuck out of it.
00:35:47.240 Those are real men.
00:35:48.440 But dude, be real.
00:35:49.900 I'm too soft to do it.
00:35:50.920 I didn't want to do it my whole life.
00:35:52.320 So to me, I didn't have a fucking option.
00:35:55.600 My option was go fucking make it work or do something that was unacceptable for me to do.
00:36:01.260 And that was it.
00:36:01.800 And dude, as you get down the path, as you become more successful and you do have options,
00:36:07.560 you have to figure out ways to make it feel like and seem like you don't have any more options,
00:36:13.340 which continues you down the path.
00:36:15.420 So like, bro, I don't deal with anxiety in that regard.
00:36:20.440 The only anxiety that I deal with is when I'm not executing at that pace and I'm not going hard.
00:36:26.260 And my body's telling me, man, you should be doing this because that's what anxiety really is.
00:36:32.640 Anxiety is an indicator, a physical manifestation of an indicator that you need to do something that you aren't doing.
00:36:41.760 And because I am one of those people who is built for the fucking game, I am built for the fight.
00:36:47.200 Anytime I try to go on vacation, anytime I try to take it easy, anytime I try to go find balance, I am fucking miserable.
00:36:55.340 And dude, that might not sound okay to you, but there are people that are different.
00:37:00.360 Not everybody's out here trying to go on picnics and have lemon.
00:37:03.260 I don't give a fuck about that.
00:37:04.740 I want to fight.
00:37:05.920 I want to win.
00:37:06.900 I want to kick ass.
00:37:08.220 That's who I am.
00:37:09.260 And if I'm not doing that, I feel like shit.
00:37:11.600 Okay, so I go do it.
00:37:14.500 And I think you'll feel the same because we as human beings need a purpose.
00:37:19.880 We need a mission.
00:37:20.880 And all these motherfuckers out here who are complaining about their mental health, 1.00
00:37:23.960 their biggest problem is they don't have a big enough mission.
00:37:26.400 They're not committed to something.
00:37:28.020 They're searching for the meaning of life instead of creating the meaning for their own life.
00:37:33.220 Okay, so no, I don't get the anxiety you're describing.
00:37:36.780 I get it for other reasons.
00:37:37.720 I get it because I'm not going hard enough or I'm trying to take a break or I'm trying to put
00:37:41.620 myself in a box that all these other fucking people on the internet do. 0.98
00:37:44.600 When we're bombarded by self-care and victimhood culture and all this shit, it creeps into us.
00:37:56.120 And we start thinking like, damn, dude, maybe there's something wrong with me for going hard.
00:38:01.520 Maybe there's something wrong with me for wanting more.
00:38:03.840 But, dude, I'm going to tell you right now that's bullshit because the world fucking needs it.
00:38:06.840 The world needs people to go out there, build companies, provide careers, create success,
00:38:12.280 sponsor Little League teams, take care of the community, inspire other people with the lives
00:38:17.060 that they live, and create a ripple effect that other people want to follow.
00:38:21.820 And without those people, our culture is fucking dead.
00:38:25.180 We need people who are straight up motherfucking killers going out and building amazing shit
00:38:31.100 so that your neighbors and their kids and your kids and everybody sees it.
00:38:35.840 And they say, damn, dude, that's possible.
00:38:38.060 I can do that.
00:38:39.520 He did it.
00:38:40.200 I know that guy.
00:38:40.980 He's just a normal guy.
00:38:42.060 Puts his pants on the same way I do.
00:38:44.100 And look what he did.
00:38:45.300 The world needs that shit more than it's ever needed it.
00:38:47.960 So, dude, go fucking hard.
00:38:50.280 Stop listening to these people who cry and complain and bitch about everything in their lives 0.93
00:38:55.380 and realize that the happiest you're going to be in your entire life is when you look back on it
00:39:00.540 and you say, goddamn, dude, I fucking did some real shit. 0.92
00:39:03.620 I helped some real people.
00:39:05.180 I inspired people.
00:39:06.600 I built shit that mattered.
00:39:08.280 I provided this and this and this for my community.
00:39:11.460 Those are the things that are going to make you proud.
00:39:13.500 And you're not going to die with a bunch of regret like 99% of people.
00:39:17.680 I love it, man.
00:39:18.660 I love it.
00:39:19.160 Well, guys, Andy, that was three.
00:39:21.840 Yep.
00:39:23.080 Don't be a hoe. 1.00
00:39:24.020 Share the show.
00:39:25.740 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:39:27.660 Now my jury box froze.
00:39:29.380 Fuck a pole.
00:39:30.000 Fuck a stole.
00:39:30.980 Counted millions in the cold.
00:39:32.700 Bad bitch. 1.00
00:39:33.520 Boot it swole. 0.99
00:39:34.360 Got her on bankroll.
00:39:35.980 Can't fold.
00:39:36.900 Doesn't know.
00:39:37.640 Headshot.
00:39:38.520 Case closed.
00:39:39.220 Closed.
00:39:39.640 Thank you.