REAL AF with Andy Frisella - May 02, 2024


698. Q&AF： Success Definitions, Kids Dominating Sports & Differences Between Cocky And Confident


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In this episode of The Realists, DJ and Andy talk about what it's like going back to training after a long break. DJ talks about his struggles with injuries and how he's trying to get back on track with his training.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Purcell and this is the show for the realists, say goodbye
00:00:20.500 to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking
00:00:24.840 reality.
00:00:25.200 Guys, today we have Q and AF, that's where you submit the questions and we give you the
00:00:29.920 answers.
00:00:30.380 Now you can submit your questions a few different ways to be answered on the show.
00:00:34.640 The first way is?
00:00:35.680 Guys, you can email those questions to askandy at andy for cello.com.
00:00:40.400 That's DJ.
00:00:41.080 Hey guys.
00:00:43.040 Hey, hello children.
00:00:43.920 There you go.
00:00:45.040 Gotta do it right.
00:00:46.860 All right.
00:00:47.300 That's it.
00:00:47.860 You can also ask some questions in the comment section on the shows and we'll pick some from
00:00:52.700 there as well.
00:00:54.880 Now, I'm not going to do the whole intro because I usually do that on Mondays.
00:00:59.140 So, uh, if you want to know what we do here, go on Monday show.
00:01:03.060 Uh, I am going to say though, that we would appreciate you to pay the fee.
00:01:08.200 The fee is very simple.
00:01:10.100 It means share the show.
00:01:11.640 We don't run ads on the show.
00:01:13.200 I'm not going to talk for 30 minutes about shit that I don't use.
00:01:16.080 I don't want to answer to any of these other companies about what I say.
00:01:20.320 Uh, you know, we keep it real here.
00:01:21.880 So, um, I just don't want to deal with that.
00:01:26.360 So in exchange for that, I ask very simply that you help, uh, spread the word.
00:01:30.940 Okay.
00:01:31.200 We're constantly battling censorship and shadow bands and all the good stuff they do these
00:01:36.360 days.
00:01:37.220 And, uh, for us to get the word out, it's going to take your help.
00:01:40.180 So what I ask very simply is that if the show makes you laugh, it makes you think, if it
00:01:46.520 gives you a new perspective, it helps you bring me one person, man, bring me one person, pay
00:01:52.480 the fee.
00:01:53.280 Okay.
00:01:53.920 Make a post, tell somebody, have a conversation, uh, help us grow the show and get it out there.
00:01:58.840 If everybody just brought one person, we would double the size of the show and, uh, we would
00:02:04.360 do that rapidly.
00:02:05.020 So help us get the message out.
00:02:07.940 Don't be a hoe. 1.00
00:02:08.640 Sure the show.
00:02:09.480 All right.
00:02:09.940 Hey, what's up, man?
00:02:10.960 How's it going?
00:02:11.600 Good.
00:02:12.160 Yeah.
00:02:12.540 Yeah.
00:02:12.900 What's up with you?
00:02:13.520 I'm all right.
00:02:14.080 We had a good leg day.
00:02:15.580 Yeah.
00:02:16.180 Yeah.
00:02:16.400 I see you're, you've decided to start training again.
00:02:19.520 Yeah.
00:02:19.900 My legs were shaking like prom night.
00:02:22.220 Yeah.
00:02:22.400 Well, that's what happens when you stop working out for fucking four months.
00:02:26.040 It wasn't four months.
00:02:27.320 Mm-hmm.
00:02:27.880 It was like two, two and a half.
00:02:30.160 It was like, it was like two and a half, three months.
00:02:32.180 It was like, I'm being nice about four.
00:02:33.580 I think it was like six.
00:02:35.020 Anyway.
00:02:35.380 It wasn't no fucking six months.
00:02:36.640 The fuck it wasn't.
00:02:37.660 It was like, it was like three.
00:02:38.940 It was November.
00:02:41.360 No.
00:02:41.900 That's six, seven months ago.
00:02:44.380 It was a long fucking time ago, bro.
00:02:46.040 That's what happens.
00:02:46.720 Right.
00:02:46.900 When you stop training, you fucking get weak.
00:02:50.260 Get the shakes.
00:02:50.740 Yeah.
00:02:51.080 Yeah.
00:02:51.500 Yeah.
00:02:51.900 It was a good workout though.
00:02:52.700 So what are you, what are you working on?
00:02:53.820 What are you trying to do?
00:02:54.880 Hey man, listen, ribs and dick.
00:02:56.640 Can I say that on Q and A's?
00:02:57.880 Yeah.
00:02:58.200 You can say whatever you want.
00:02:59.340 Ribs and dick, man. 0.72
00:03:00.080 Fuck them.
00:03:00.400 That's the goal.
00:03:01.220 Yeah.
00:03:01.360 No, I'm going to, I mean, we had talked about this yesterday.
00:03:03.180 I'm going to get down, I think the goal should be like two 40 and then just come back up
00:03:08.060 a little bit to like two 60.
00:03:09.520 I think that's a great goal for you.
00:03:11.260 Yeah.
00:03:11.740 It's doable, man.
00:03:12.920 And I know it's doable.
00:03:13.960 It's what you should do.
00:03:14.840 Yeah.
00:03:15.260 Yeah.
00:03:15.500 Well, we'll go, we're getting to it, man.
00:03:17.940 Leg day.
00:03:18.760 It's just.
00:03:19.540 Yeah.
00:03:19.860 That was a good leg day.
00:03:20.920 My legs are pretty sore.
00:03:22.260 And then that fucking incline, I did the incline a fucking treadmill, man.
00:03:26.380 Yeah.
00:03:26.700 I saw you.
00:03:27.260 That took me out.
00:03:28.100 Yeah.
00:03:28.600 Yeah.
00:03:28.760 What did you get?
00:03:29.320 Three, four minutes on there?
00:03:30.320 Five.
00:03:30.800 Yeah.
00:03:31.160 Yeah.
00:03:31.340 No, I mean, it was just a cool down, but it fucking sucks.
00:03:34.880 You really only did five minutes?
00:03:36.320 Yeah.
00:03:36.740 No, bro.
00:03:37.220 You do 20 minutes after your workout.
00:03:39.240 20?
00:03:39.940 At least 20.
00:03:41.640 For a cool down?
00:03:42.840 Bro, I'm fucking ripped, bro.
00:03:44.640 And I did 20.
00:03:45.140 I mean, I get that.
00:03:45.720 I get that.
00:03:47.020 But 20 for a cool down?
00:03:49.620 All right.
00:03:50.020 Yes.
00:03:50.580 All right.
00:03:51.260 For you, it's 40.
00:03:52.760 It's 40.
00:03:52.840 Does that sound appropriate?
00:03:57.380 Shut the fuck up, Madot. 0.67
00:03:58.600 No, no.
00:03:58.920 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:03:59.500 It should be 60 minutes.
00:04:00.640 Yeah.
00:04:00.880 Maybe 70 even.
00:04:02.420 Yeah.
00:04:02.720 All right.
00:04:03.260 Yeah.
00:04:03.700 I got 60 for you.
00:04:05.960 I'm not sure what that means, but it means fucking something dangerous.
00:04:08.560 Yeah.
00:04:09.660 Terrified.
00:04:10.500 It sounds like some jail shit.
00:04:14.880 Like you're going to touch his wiener or something.
00:04:16.800 Yeah, maybe.
00:04:17.660 Yeah.
00:04:17.900 Yeah.
00:04:18.280 All right.
00:04:18.920 Well, let's make some people better today.
00:04:21.780 All right.
00:04:22.220 Let's do it.
00:04:22.640 That's what we're all about here.
00:04:23.720 Yeah.
00:04:24.040 And let's get into it, guys.
00:04:25.820 Andy, question number one.
00:04:27.220 Andy, very, very simple question here.
00:04:30.160 What is the right way and the wrong way to look at success?
00:04:35.340 Good and bad definitions, your outlooks, and why do so many people not succeed?
00:04:41.160 What are people missing when you think about success, overall success, just life success?
00:04:46.540 Look, there's two schools of thought, right?
00:04:50.060 First of all, I'll say this.
00:04:51.320 Success for everybody looks differently, okay?
00:04:55.280 Some people, they don't care as much about money, and I think that's a mistake because
00:05:01.500 it severely handicaps them on their enjoyment of life.
00:05:03.980 But some people pretend, I'll say this, pretend like they don't care about money until they
00:05:10.600 fucking need it, right?
00:05:11.500 And then they're calling people like me.
00:05:12.720 And they care a lot.
00:05:13.420 Yeah, they care a whole lot.
00:05:14.940 And, you know, they say things like, oh, I don't give a shit about money.
00:05:19.580 I just want to live my life.
00:05:20.780 I just want to enjoy my life.
00:05:22.100 I just want to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:05:24.180 You're full of shit.
00:05:25.200 And I'll tell you why.
00:05:26.020 Because you'd enjoy your life a lot more if you had some money, all right?
00:05:29.540 So we have this, like, two schools of thought, right?
00:05:32.940 We have the school of thought that I'm going to float through life.
00:05:35.840 I'm going to, you know, I'm going to define my own success.
00:05:40.220 And usually, not always, usually, that is some sort of excuse as to why they aren't doing
00:05:51.000 anything.
00:05:51.320 It's a justification for them to get out of the hard things that would have been required
00:05:57.440 to build what their original dream was.
00:06:00.400 And so what most people do is they have a dream when they're young.
00:06:03.800 And as they get older and older and older, they get through high school, college, and
00:06:08.800 then just older in life, their dream gets beaten out of them by everybody around them,
00:06:13.300 right?
00:06:13.560 Everybody's telling them that they're not realistic.
00:06:15.960 Everybody's telling them that they're immoral for wanting more.
00:06:19.740 Everybody's telling them it's a waste of time because they're going to fail.
00:06:22.840 And so what ends up happening is they give up on what their original dream was, and then
00:06:27.360 they replace it with some sort of shit that resembles what they currently have.
00:06:31.220 And then they start talking about how that's what they actually want.
00:06:34.080 And so it's a justification for the lack of results, for the lack of actions that
00:06:38.780 they're not willing to take.
00:06:39.920 And that's what most people do.
00:06:41.980 Okay?
00:06:42.280 That's just honest.
00:06:43.160 That's a hard pill to swallow.
00:06:44.140 It's real talk, dude.
00:06:45.260 Most people are just fucking weak, and they fucking quit, and then they pretend their whole
00:06:50.440 life they're more virtuous than everybody else because they have some quote-unquote humble
00:06:55.540 definition of success.
00:06:57.420 All right?
00:06:57.840 So that's one person.
00:06:59.040 That's the majority of people.
00:07:01.340 Then there's this group of people who looks at it and says, you know, I really do want
00:07:07.960 a simple life.
00:07:08.780 I really do want a simple life.
00:07:10.220 I want to work.
00:07:12.040 I want to make enough money to be okay.
00:07:14.480 And then, you know, after that, I kind of want to enjoy my life.
00:07:17.700 And it's genuine.
00:07:18.920 Okay?
00:07:19.480 And that's what success looks like for them.
00:07:21.580 And that's okay.
00:07:22.480 And there's a big difference between the first group and the second group because the first
00:07:26.260 group, they're lying.
00:07:27.400 The second group, it's true. 0.91
00:07:29.120 Okay?
00:07:29.780 And then there's like a third group.
00:07:31.440 And the third group are people who are highly ambitious.
00:07:34.280 They have big goals.
00:07:35.400 They want to level up.
00:07:36.340 They want to become more.
00:07:37.320 They want to create more.
00:07:38.260 They want to build things.
00:07:39.940 And those people are highly ambitious, and they're usually keeping score by about not
00:07:45.220 only the money they make, but the money they make is a big part of the scorecard, what
00:07:49.620 they create, the benefits they create.
00:07:53.920 And that's kind of the third category.
00:07:56.040 So to say what defines success for the individual is hard to define because everybody's different.
00:08:04.560 But being authentic with your true desires and then chasing them with all of your potential
00:08:12.160 and all of your skill set and all of your effort is what's most important.
00:08:16.480 And so what I actually define success is the pursuit of the fulfillment of your ultimate
00:08:23.140 potential.
00:08:23.740 And the reason that I say it's the pursuit of the fulfillment of your ultimate potential
00:08:29.100 is because you can't ever actually reach your full potential.
00:08:33.380 Because where you are today, as you go down the path and learn new skills, the potential
00:08:39.760 is going to expand, which means eventually you're going to run out of time, right?
00:08:46.200 You're going to gain new skills.
00:08:47.920 Your potential expands.
00:08:49.300 You fulfill more of your potential because you have the new skills.
00:08:53.020 But and then you acquire more skills on top of that.
00:08:55.900 The potential expands again.
00:08:57.500 So there is no actual fulfillment of your true potential.
00:09:01.900 So it's just a pursuit, which lends to the saying, you know, success is a journey, not
00:09:08.820 a destination.
00:09:09.860 And so that's what that actually means.
00:09:12.080 So when I look at success and how I judge success is, am I utilizing all my potential?
00:09:17.940 Am I pouring that into the mission that I'm on?
00:09:20.440 Am I trying to be the best that I can be at the thing that I want to be?
00:09:23.740 And if I am and I'm giving that my all every single day in a real way, not in a bullshit
00:09:29.480 way, I consider that to be a successful individual.
00:09:32.860 So, you know, it's not just about money.
00:09:35.400 It's not just about material shit.
00:09:37.880 And for some people, it's not about any of that shit and they can still be successful.
00:09:41.200 But the truth of the matter is, if we're being real, most people fall into that first
00:09:46.580 category, which is why most people can't get anywhere and why most people are so unhappy.
00:09:52.140 OK, they tell you that's what they want.
00:09:54.400 But why if that's what they want?
00:09:55.620 Why are they so miserable?
00:09:57.160 Why are they so frustrated?
00:09:58.960 Why are they so depressed?
00:10:00.280 Why are they so angry?
00:10:01.360 Why are they so bitter?
00:10:02.580 Why do they hate other people's success so much?
00:10:05.300 The reason that they hate other people's success so much is because that was their original
00:10:11.240 dream that they got beat out of them that caused them to accept the reality and now lie
00:10:16.880 to everybody, including themselves, that this is what I actually wanted the whole time.
00:10:21.720 It's a way to save face.
00:10:23.220 So if you were the second group of person and that was your genuine definition of success,
00:10:29.240 why would you be judgmental or hate on anybody else's success?
00:10:32.960 You see what I'm saying?
00:10:34.160 Right, right.
00:10:34.580 It wouldn't exist.
00:10:35.420 No, you wouldn't.
00:10:37.140 The first person is lying to themselves and the second two are actually creating their reality.
00:10:44.260 But ultimately, guys, this comes down to deciding what life you want and then giving everything
00:10:49.760 that you have to it, going down the path.
00:10:52.100 And as you go down the path, you make mistakes.
00:10:54.520 And as you make mistakes, if you don't have a 30 IQ, you're able to learn lessons.
00:10:59.520 Those lessons are tools and they're skills and they help you move forward.
00:11:02.960 And as you move forward with those new skills, your potential gets bigger.
00:11:06.520 And that means you have longer to go, but you're still in a much better spot as you go down
00:11:12.340 the path.
00:11:12.960 So, you know, you're never going to actually get there because eventually you're going
00:11:17.080 to fucking die, right?
00:11:18.220 Like, dude, you have a guy who's 75 years old and lived 75 years of life and has 75 years
00:11:24.320 worth of skills.
00:11:25.880 I mean, he's going, what's he going to live?
00:11:27.400 10 more years, 20 more years max.
00:11:29.340 He's going to eventually run out of time, right?
00:11:31.120 But he's the most equipped for success because he knows the most shit.
00:11:35.540 So this is why it's also important to, you know, not just ignore old people like they're
00:11:41.280 crazy, dude.
00:11:41.820 They know way more than you.
00:11:43.080 Yeah.
00:11:43.340 Just don't let them run the country.
00:11:44.620 Yeah, that's exactly right.
00:11:45.620 Let me ask you this because I feel like there's also, there's a connection there.
00:11:50.020 You know, you talk about this, you know, we don't really know when our time is going
00:11:54.200 to expire.
00:11:55.140 Yep.
00:11:55.360 Would you say that that is your fear that also creates the urgency of that pursuit of your
00:12:00.900 full potential?
00:12:01.820 Yeah, I think, well, and there's actually, uh, I read a study about it.
00:12:05.540 There's actually a commonality among very highly successful people and almost all of
00:12:13.180 them had a near death experience at one point in their life, which caused them to understand
00:12:17.600 that they are mortal and that they are not, they are going to run out of time.
00:12:21.060 And so when you have, when you have something happen to you, like when I got stabbed or when
00:12:26.460 I thought I had a brain tumor for two weeks that was misdiagnosed and I thought I was going
00:12:30.420 to fucking die, you begin to understand things differently and see things differently. 0.93
00:12:35.920 And it's not enough to see your friend die or your mom die or dad died to light that fire.
00:12:41.380 It's got to be you.
00:12:42.480 And when you have that experience where you legit almost die, you realize that shit can
00:12:47.600 be over like that, which creates a massive sense of urgency.
00:12:50.680 I was very fortunate to have that stabbing incident happened to me when I was 23 years
00:12:55.440 old and it changed my life because I realized, holy shit, dude, like I could run out of time
00:13:01.740 tomorrow.
00:13:02.200 I didn't do shit.
00:13:03.020 So now I, now I run as fast as I can every single day.
00:13:06.480 So that at least, you know, hopefully something matters down the road and maybe it won't, but
00:13:11.240 it, but I think it will while I'm here and I'm going to feel like it does when I die.
00:13:14.660 So that's, isn't that what matters?
00:13:17.060 Yeah.
00:13:17.380 You know what I'm saying?
00:13:18.140 So I think that sense of urgency is common amongst people who have had an experience that
00:13:24.260 has reminded them of their own mortality and that's why they run so hard.
00:13:28.720 And I think that's a very real thing.
00:13:30.180 And I don't think that people who haven't had that, I don't, I'm not, I don't think they
00:13:35.060 run as hard.
00:13:35.640 I just don't think they do.
00:13:36.920 Yeah.
00:13:37.460 Well, I think, I think the evidence shows, cause if they did, they'd probably be, the world
00:13:41.660 would look a little bit different.
00:13:42.760 Yeah.
00:13:42.960 You know, I think most people, they, they fucking think they have all the time in the
00:13:47.240 world.
00:13:47.560 They think they're never going to die.
00:13:48.860 And then one day they wake up and they're 65, 70 years old.
00:13:52.000 They're like, fuck dude, I didn't do anything.
00:13:53.520 And then they got to live the rest of their life being bitter about what they didn't do.
00:13:57.200 Like, I can't really imagine anything worse than that, dude.
00:13:59.920 Yeah.
00:14:00.460 Yeah.
00:14:00.840 That's real shit, man.
00:14:02.260 I love it.
00:14:03.220 Guys, Andy, question number two, uh, Andy, my son is five years old and plays in rec soccer
00:14:08.900 league.
00:14:09.220 Uh, we teach our sons to play hard and be dedicated when you sign up for a sport.
00:14:13.620 Currently, my five-year-old is dominating the soccer field, uh, after the first three
00:14:18.460 games.
00:14:18.760 I asked the league if we can move them up in the age bracket, but they said, uh, they
00:14:23.040 can't play.
00:14:23.700 Uh, they can't at this point today, uh, in the second half, my son already had 15 goals
00:14:29.300 and they were winning 15 to zero.
00:14:31.720 Uh, the coach, uh, made my son start back by the goal and then let them cross midfield
00:14:37.580 before he was allowed to play any defense.
00:14:39.700 Uh, we tell our son to pass and find teammates, but minimal kids understand the game like he
00:14:44.720 does.
00:14:45.140 Now in the second half, a trainer, uh, of a player on the other team came over to myself,
00:14:51.500 my wife, my seven-year-old, along with my son's grandparents and stopped the game to
00:14:55.880 bitch at us. 1.00
00:14:56.480 He said, our son has had enough goals and not to let him score again.
00:15:01.080 When I told him, we already tell him to pass and said, he must be a better parent.
00:15:05.660 Uh, and then he said, uh, he must be a better parent because his kids listened to him, uh,
00:15:10.620 tells me my son shouldn't be allowed to play in this league and needs to be on the travel
00:15:14.500 team.
00:15:14.940 Uh, then says his son would score 30 goals a game.
00:15:18.340 Uh, I told my son to get another 15.
00:15:20.620 Uh, the guy then challenges me to a one-on-one game.
00:15:23.620 I'd rather put the gloves and throw down.
00:15:25.240 Uh, but I keep my composure, uh, which prior to 75 hard, might not, uh, might not have had
00:15:30.680 the discipline in this scenario.
00:15:32.960 Do you like the, do we step on the gas here?
00:15:35.880 Yes.
00:15:36.760 Like what do we teach him a fucking lesson?
00:15:38.600 Yeah.
00:15:38.880 A hundred percent.
00:15:39.800 Yeah.
00:15:40.220 Kill those motherfuckers score 75 fucking goals a game and then run around, take a shirt 1.00
00:15:45.840 off and be an asshole. 0.93
00:15:46.860 Now I wouldn't say that to anybody else.
00:15:49.260 I'm being serious now under normal circumstances.
00:15:51.900 I wouldn't do that, but this is just what I think.
00:15:54.500 When someone acts like a fucking cocksucker, you fucking jam it down their throat. 1.00
00:15:58.540 Okay.
00:15:59.160 So that guy's being an asshole.
00:16:00.840 That guy's talking shit.
00:16:02.760 That guy's pissed off.
00:16:04.220 And the other parents are pissed off because they don't go out and spend time with their
00:16:09.080 kids.
00:16:09.540 They stick them on a video game.
00:16:11.400 They fucking stick them on an iPad and then they expect them to go out and be competitive
00:16:15.580 against kids where their parents play with them.
00:16:18.140 All right.
00:16:18.600 You, I'm guarantee you, you're out practicing with your kid.
00:16:21.240 I guarantee you, you're, you're, you're teaching them the real shit.
00:16:24.120 Otherwise he's not scoring 15 goals in the game.
00:16:26.920 That's fucking awesome.
00:16:27.940 Yeah.
00:16:28.860 Didn't this happen to Sal?
00:16:30.140 This happened to, this happened to me and Sal as kids all the time because we were fucking
00:16:33.460 dominant on, on, on, in athletes too.
00:16:35.560 Yeah.
00:16:35.740 So like we, when we were kids, kids, bro, we'd score seven, eight goals.
00:16:39.660 Parents get fucking pissed off, you know?
00:16:41.900 I'm fucking for cellos.
00:16:42.840 Oh yeah.
00:16:43.100 They would go fucking try and start a fight with my dad.
00:16:45.220 But you know what they didn't see was that my dad was out in the yard with us every fucking
00:16:49.980 day playing baseball, playing soccer, playing, we, we played roller hockey, but that translated
00:16:55.540 into ice hockey, right?
00:16:56.580 Yeah.
00:16:56.860 Like we were practicing all the time.
00:16:58.440 He was taking us on runs, bro.
00:17:01.060 Six mile runs when we were fucking six to seven years old.
00:17:03.860 I still in my whole life ain't run six miles again.
00:17:06.940 You know what I'm saying?
00:17:07.780 Like that's the shit my dad did with us.
00:17:10.400 So of course we're better than everybody else.
00:17:13.300 And if you got kids that suck at sports, maybe you should fucking practice with them instead
00:17:18.640 of complaining to the other parents about how it's not fair.
00:17:21.560 That's right.
00:17:22.240 It's not fair.
00:17:23.260 And that motherfucker should go out and score 35 goals a game and teach all the other kids 0.98
00:17:27.880 that they better get their fucking asses to work. 0.96
00:17:29.820 Excuse my profanity on this, but I don't give a shit.
00:17:32.140 Yeah.
00:17:32.300 Hey, it's real shit.
00:17:32.980 Bro, that pisses me off.
00:17:35.000 Yeah.
00:17:35.600 Well, because there's real consequences.
00:17:36.880 There's no virtue to holding back.
00:17:40.320 Like, bro, there's no virtue to taking it easy on someone.
00:17:44.800 You're actually hurting them by taking it easy.
00:17:47.080 You are hurting those other kids by telling your son to take it easy because they need
00:17:53.000 to witness what the result is when you put the time and effort into practicing to be great.
00:17:59.680 Those other kids that are getting run all over, they should be having, the parents should
00:18:04.440 be having conversations with them and be like, yeah, little Stevie scored 15 goals.
00:18:08.480 You know why?
00:18:09.380 Because he practices while you're on the fucking computer, dude.
00:18:12.740 If you want to score 15 goals, then you got to practice too.
00:18:16.580 And then go practice with them.
00:18:18.560 A lot of you parents shouldn't even have fucking kids in sports because you don't spend any
00:18:23.180 time with them whatsoever.
00:18:24.620 You fucking don't even care about your own motherfucking kids. 0.99
00:18:27.760 Real talk.
00:18:28.820 We see it all the time.
00:18:30.080 Bro, I had this situation.
00:18:32.640 Fucking, we went to Sal's game and this fucking fat motherfucker pulled off his shirt at the 0.76
00:18:37.760 game and started threatening Sal and I'm like, bro, I'm like, this dude, I'm like, Sal will
00:18:43.180 fucking murder you, dude. 0.99
00:18:44.940 Yeah.
00:18:45.340 Like, you're a fat, drunk, middle-aged Hoosier man.
00:18:49.560 Like, get the fuck out of here and go practice with your fucking kid. 0.99
00:18:52.780 Maybe if you ran around the soccer field with your kid, you wouldn't be such a fat fuck.
00:18:58.140 Just being real, dude.
00:18:59.500 I hate that shit.
00:19:00.580 Yeah.
00:19:00.820 Like, when we see these kids get fucking, these coaches get fired because they score,
00:19:05.640 you know, they win the basketball game 100 points to fucking four. 0.89
00:19:08.940 Like, bro, practice.
00:19:12.200 Hold a standard.
00:19:13.960 Like, the real world doesn't care.
00:19:16.280 The real world does not care what's fair.
00:19:18.740 It doesn't care what's easy.
00:19:20.680 All it cares about is what the result is.
00:19:23.940 And it doesn't matter how much people cry about it or how much they complain about it or what
00:19:30.340 they think is right or wrong morally, at the end of the day, the real world will and always
00:19:37.780 has for the last 10,000 fucking years valued results. 0.92
00:19:44.480 Okay?
00:19:44.740 That's what the fuck it's done.
00:19:46.260 Whatever the results are is what you get compensated on.
00:19:49.360 And if you don't teach your kids that, bro, you're doing them a disservice.
00:19:52.360 You buy into all this politically correct nonsense about kids getting celebrated for showing up
00:19:58.400 and everything needs to be fair.
00:20:00.740 Bro, you're handicapping your kid for life, bro. 0.96
00:20:02.760 They're going to lose.
00:20:04.380 So, yeah, score 15 more goals, run around, rub it in their fucking faces,
00:20:10.040 and fucking be good and happy about how much work you did, bro. 0.80
00:20:13.040 I'm all about that.
00:20:14.260 A hundred percent.
00:20:15.340 You think I fucking hold back against my competition?
00:20:18.420 You think I sit here and think, fuck, dude.
00:20:20.320 You know what?
00:20:21.600 We're so far ahead of everybody else.
00:20:23.240 I might as well slow down so they can catch up.
00:20:25.160 Yeah.
00:20:25.560 You know, that's not the way it works.
00:20:26.840 We ain't got to score no more.
00:20:28.200 That is not the way it works, bro.
00:20:30.080 You have to keep putting points on the board day in and day out, day in and day out,
00:20:34.120 day in and day out.
00:20:35.400 And, yeah, there is scenarios where, you know, we get to a point where, you know,
00:20:42.280 you pull your starters from the team and shit, right?
00:20:44.820 Yeah.
00:20:45.040 But now when they come bitching you like that, I can tell you that. 0.66
00:20:47.500 Put the motherfuckers right back in. 1.00
00:20:48.320 That's right.
00:20:48.760 Yeah, right back in.
00:20:49.260 That's right.
00:20:50.080 Bro, at the end of the day, I'd shove it down their throats so fucking hard they fucking choke.
00:20:55.760 Yeah.
00:20:56.560 Well, so, but there is a difference here, right?
00:21:01.040 Because I feel like a lot of people will, you know, scream and complain, well, that's
00:21:04.100 bad sportsmanship.
00:21:05.460 It's not bad sportsmanship.
00:21:07.100 That's different.
00:21:07.940 No.
00:21:08.300 Bad sportsmanship is crying and pouting about the other team kicking your ass. 0.83
00:21:13.620 That's bad sportsmanship, bro.
00:21:14.960 Yeah.
00:21:15.960 The goal of the game is to put points on the board.
00:21:19.600 That is the goal.
00:21:20.820 So don't go no higher.
00:21:21.980 Your goal is to stop them.
00:21:23.860 Right.
00:21:24.500 Now, just because you're inept at stopping them does not mean that the goal of the game
00:21:28.400 changes.
00:21:30.180 That's real shit.
00:21:31.200 I know.
00:21:31.860 That's real shit, man.
00:21:32.940 And bro, if you weak ass motherfucking parents out there will start teaching your kids the 0.96
00:21:37.220 real shit about competition, maybe we wouldn't have a land of the United States of pussies. 1.00
00:21:44.540 You know what I'm saying?
00:21:46.320 Yeah.
00:21:46.680 Bro, that's not fair.
00:21:48.060 No shit, bro.
00:21:49.100 Welcome to reality.
00:21:50.080 It's not fucking fair.
00:21:53.020 I love it.
00:21:54.280 I fucking love it.
00:21:55.820 I can't stand that shit.
00:21:58.180 It's fucked up.
00:21:59.100 Now, what I would add, though, is just make sure after your son does score those 30 fucking
00:22:02.520 goals that when they do the handshake line, he goes up and shakes everybody's hand and
00:22:05.720 keeps it moving.
00:22:06.520 Yeah.
00:22:06.900 Keeps it fucking moving.
00:22:07.740 That's after the celebration.
00:22:08.900 Yeah.
00:22:09.360 Yeah.
00:22:09.800 And then you teach him to tell the other kids all of the shit he does so they can get
00:22:13.280 better.
00:22:13.700 Yeah.
00:22:14.120 You know what I'm saying?
00:22:14.700 You know, when they fall down because he broke their ankles, because he's got some
00:22:18.300 good jukes, he can pick them up after he scores the goal.
00:22:21.480 You know what I'm saying?
00:22:22.720 Yeah.
00:22:22.880 Put a little dirt on that shit.
00:22:23.540 Your ankle all right there?
00:22:24.460 Yeah.
00:22:25.800 Bro, we got to teach our kids to win, bro.
00:22:27.800 We got to get back to it.
00:22:28.460 We got to teach our kids to dominate.
00:22:30.660 100 to fucking zero, bro, should be the score. 0.64
00:22:33.440 You should be offended that they even showed up to play.
00:22:37.300 That's how good you should be.
00:22:39.100 That's what I think.
00:22:40.180 Yeah.
00:22:40.880 Yeah, fuck.
00:22:41.380 I'm offended when somebody thinks they're going to compete with me, bro.
00:22:43.840 Like, I'm offended you even think that.
00:22:46.200 You take it personally.
00:22:46.840 I do.
00:22:47.360 Yeah.
00:22:47.700 I do.
00:22:48.480 It is what it is.
00:22:49.300 I fucking love it.
00:22:50.060 Like, I can celebrate my friends' wins.
00:22:52.440 I can learn from my friends' wins.
00:22:53.980 I can respect them.
00:22:55.600 But if you're going to step to my line, bro, you're going to learn a fucking lesson.
00:23:00.340 That's the truth.
00:23:01.180 Yeah.
00:23:01.460 I'm offended that they even showed up.
00:23:03.180 That's my mentality.
00:23:04.540 I love it, man.
00:23:05.580 I love it.
00:23:06.260 That's every fucking winner's mentality, by the way.
00:23:10.260 Go read Tim Grover's books.
00:23:11.020 It's not just you.
00:23:12.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:23:12.520 I see what you do.
00:23:12.860 Yeah, yeah.
00:23:13.540 It ain't unique.
00:23:15.300 Yeah.
00:23:16.540 I fucking love it.
00:23:17.040 I fucking think you're going to compete.
00:23:18.960 You better go home.
00:23:21.140 You're still fucking snow-coating on the way home.
00:23:23.200 Right, right.
00:23:23.860 It'd be a lot easier than fucking competing against me.
00:23:26.020 That's what you should be teaching your kid, bro.
00:23:27.780 Yep.
00:23:28.400 I fucking love it.
00:23:28.640 I'd teach him a little Conor McGregor swag after he scores his goals just to piss off
00:23:33.580 the parents.
00:23:34.200 Bro, get him a little custom fuck you jersey.
00:23:36.560 I'd give him a jersey and say, what the fuck you going to do?
00:23:39.960 And my dad will beat your ass. 0.95
00:23:42.680 Yeah.
00:23:44.580 Bro, my dad, back in the day, dude, we played soccer.
00:23:48.640 If we scored a goal or we hurt another kid, he bought us a fucking toy, bro. 0.56
00:23:53.520 That's crazy.
00:23:54.320 That's great.
00:23:54.940 I know.
00:23:55.220 He go to jail now.
00:23:56.180 Yeah, he goes to jail.
00:23:57.720 Dude, I swear he did that.
00:23:59.140 That's not bullshit.
00:23:59.820 That's crazy.
00:24:00.140 We would go and he would buy us like a G.I. Joe for like five bucks, right?
00:24:04.640 So like, if we, I mean, he taught us how to win.
00:24:09.520 Yeah.
00:24:10.220 Well, because winning is incentivized.
00:24:12.200 Yeah.
00:24:12.340 You get something when you win.
00:24:13.720 Yeah.
00:24:13.840 He didn't say go out and like beat the other kids up, but he just said like, if you run
00:24:17.640 over a kid, like his big thing was just run them over.
00:24:20.040 Yeah.
00:24:20.200 Run them over.
00:24:20.780 Yeah.
00:24:21.060 Like when they get in your way, just keep running.
00:24:22.760 That's great.
00:24:23.340 Which we did.
00:24:24.180 Sal and I were like little fat kids.
00:24:25.540 We ran them the fuck over, bro.
00:24:27.420 So many parents tried to fight my dad.
00:24:29.340 Like, yeah, that's fucking awesome.
00:24:32.320 I love what it is, bro.
00:24:33.560 You know, I think we turned out the way we're supposed to turn out.
00:24:37.080 You know what I'm saying?
00:24:37.800 Like, why don't you teach your kids the rules of reality, not the rules of idealism?
00:24:42.240 Yeah.
00:24:42.660 Competition is real.
00:24:43.980 You have to be good.
00:24:45.060 You have to have skills.
00:24:46.020 You have to put in practice.
00:24:47.340 And if someone beats you, it means you're not good enough.
00:24:49.720 If you sell a product and no one buys it, it means your product sucks.
00:24:53.160 Teach them the real shit of competition.
00:24:56.020 Anything less than that will handicap them for their entire lives.
00:25:00.480 You teach them to be nice.
00:25:01.940 You teach them to have, you know, feel sorry for putting points on the board.
00:25:05.820 Bro, they're going to get their asses beat in life.
00:25:07.840 It's going to be your fault.
00:25:09.220 They should be happy about scoring goals.
00:25:11.780 That kid, I buy him 15 GI Joes, bro. 0.63
00:25:14.620 Or whatever the fuck they're into now.
00:25:16.000 Yeah.
00:25:16.580 I fucking love it, man.
00:25:17.700 Yeah.
00:25:17.960 I love it.
00:25:18.840 Well, guys, Andy, our third and final question, question number three.
00:25:22.580 This is a good one.
00:25:23.280 Andy, so I've been listening to you for almost a year.
00:25:27.920 I did 75 hard two times in the last eight months.
00:25:30.780 I am so fucking happy and proud of myself.
00:25:33.600 And I have regained confidence in myself and gained even more than I thought I had.
00:25:38.680 That's all fucking great.
00:25:39.860 Here's the issue.
00:25:41.200 With my newfound confidence, I feel I can walk through a brick wall, bro.
00:25:44.900 And I've had a few close people, people I trust and value, tell me that I've become, quote, unquote, too cocky.
00:25:53.200 How do I know if I'm actually being, quote, unquote, cocky?
00:25:57.460 Or is this just my newfound confidence?
00:25:59.620 What's the difference here?
00:26:01.040 I mean, anybody appears cocky that puts up results and then is happy about it.
00:26:05.080 People aren't used to that because most people don't produce any results.
00:26:09.680 So they're used to saying, well, I don't produce any results because I'm humble.
00:26:14.560 So when you actually produce results, no matter what you say about it, no matter how nice you are, no matter how kind you are, no matter how quiet you are about it, they're going to say you're fucking cocky, dude.
00:26:24.360 There's nothing wrong with being cocky either as long as you back it up.
00:26:27.540 There's nothing wrong with that.
00:26:28.920 Like, there's nothing wrong with that.
00:26:30.140 It adds some spice to your life.
00:26:32.220 It's good to have some swagger.
00:26:34.060 It's fun.
00:26:34.940 It's fun to walk around like you've got a 30-foot dick.
00:26:37.580 Like, that's fun shit.
00:26:38.680 Make sure you have it.
00:26:39.680 Yeah, that's right.
00:26:40.880 But that is only because you're producing results.
00:26:45.040 And so it's okay to feel cocky as long as you can still be humble in the process.
00:26:50.660 And people are like, well, you can't do that.
00:26:52.900 Bullshit.
00:26:53.700 It's confidence in game time and humble in preparation.
00:26:58.580 Okay?
00:26:58.980 When I walk out on the field, dude, I know what I've put in.
00:27:01.980 I know the work I've done.
00:27:03.300 I'm going to walk out there with some swagger.
00:27:05.220 I'm going to put some points on the board.
00:27:06.820 You ain't going to fucking touch me.
00:27:08.600 Okay?
00:27:08.960 And if you do, I'm going to run you the fuck over. 0.94
00:27:11.060 All right?
00:27:12.380 Humble is studying the film, preparing, learning about your opponent, practicing the skills, doing the drills,
00:27:20.260 and doing all that shit with the proper intensity and an intent. 0.78
00:27:24.440 So, like, you can be cocky in execution and humble in preparation, but most people's minds are too simple to understand that.
00:27:33.720 So, all they see is, you know, Conor McGregor walking out with his swag, right?
00:27:38.340 I fucking hate that guy because he's cocky.
00:27:40.240 Well, the reason he's cocky is because he works his ass off behind closed doors and he knows what he's bringing to the table.
00:27:47.680 And there's nothing wrong with that.
00:27:49.040 That just rubs people who don't do shit the wrong way.
00:27:52.120 But, remember, that's who they watch.
00:27:55.640 Those are the people they enjoy watching.
00:27:57.700 Who do people love to watch?
00:27:59.520 Oh, they love to watch people they don't like because they're cocky because that's something they've never had.
00:28:04.620 They wish they had that.
00:28:06.020 They wish they could walk in a room with a strut, with a three-piece suit, looking like a fucking pimp,
00:28:12.100 knowing that you're going to walk out in the fucking ring and beat some dude's ass and you're going to walk back to your yacht. 0.95
00:28:17.000 They wish they could have that, but they lack the courage.
00:28:19.720 They lack the work ethic.
00:28:21.100 They lack the understanding of what it means to be that kind of a person.
00:28:25.260 So, you can't expect a mediocre mind to understand a mind that is wired for greatness.
00:28:31.780 It will never happen.
00:28:33.140 So, how do you know if you're cocky?
00:28:36.360 You're cocky if you don't think you have anything to learn.
00:28:39.080 You're cocky if you think you're great and you're not putting in the work.
00:28:42.600 You're cocky if you think you're getting good and it's because you're just good.
00:28:48.200 It's not the work that you put in, right?
00:28:50.460 That's too cocky.
00:28:51.960 But as long as you're putting in the work, as long as you're putting up the results, as long as you're doing your thing,
00:28:58.540 bro, people are going to interpret it cocky, so you might as well enjoy it anyway.
00:29:02.440 You know what I'm saying?
00:29:03.940 Let me ask you this, though.
00:29:05.880 So, how long can you be cocky on the win?
00:29:11.540 One day?
00:29:12.920 Like, what's the rule?
00:29:13.820 24 hours?
00:29:14.640 Yeah.
00:29:15.100 Celebrate for 24 hours, get back to work?
00:29:17.120 That's my rule.
00:29:18.380 That's champion rule, bro.
00:29:19.600 You ever see Nick Saban do an interview, Bill Belichick do an interview after they won national championship or Super Bowl?
00:29:25.540 You know what they're talking about already?
00:29:26.800 What's next, coach?
00:29:27.380 They're talking about next year.
00:29:28.680 Yeah.
00:29:29.080 They're talking about waking up tomorrow and getting to work on next year.
00:29:33.580 That's what champions do.
00:29:34.840 That's why they're fucking champions, because they celebrate a very short time.
00:29:39.340 Losers will win one time.
00:29:41.360 You know, they get the MVP of the high school football game.
00:29:43.760 They're talking about it 20 years later.
00:29:45.580 You know what I'm saying?
00:29:46.960 That's what losers do. 1.00
00:29:48.140 So, 24-hour rule on celebrating, 24-hour rule on talking shit, 24-hour rule to feel good about your win, and then it's back to work so that you can keep being cocky.
00:29:59.480 Right, right.
00:30:00.540 And if you're winning every fucking day, then you're celebrating every fucking day.
00:30:04.180 Bro, listen, I like people that are cocky.
00:30:06.720 I like people with swag.
00:30:08.560 Everybody likes people with swag, because it makes you feel like you could have some swag.
00:30:12.060 Like, the only people that don't like it are people that are totally weak, totally, they're the first group of people that I described on question one.
00:30:19.260 They're the people who have given up on their dreams.
00:30:21.460 They turn their nose up at anybody who's doing shit more than them.
00:30:24.960 They say shit like, it must be nice.
00:30:27.900 You know, I'm sure that's a great way to live.
00:30:30.960 They say all kinds of dumb shit, and it's because they fucking quit on themselves, dude.
00:30:35.260 That's the reality.
00:30:36.020 You can't expect those people to ever understand you, and your friends and your family, they're the worst ones.
00:30:42.100 They're the ones that have known you your whole life.
00:30:45.120 They're going to hate on you the most, because they see you changing.
00:30:48.320 They see you breaking out of the mold, and they're like, oh, well, you're different now.
00:30:52.640 No shit.
00:30:53.340 That's the point.
00:30:54.240 The point is for me to get different.
00:30:56.180 The point is for me to not be like you.
00:30:58.400 That's why I'm doing this, because when I look at you, and I look at the way you live, and I look at the way you guys are miserable,
00:31:03.860 I don't want that for myself.
00:31:05.280 I want to be better.
00:31:06.240 I want to put in more work.
00:31:07.480 I want to be great at what I do.
00:31:09.080 I want to be fit.
00:31:09.880 I want to make money.
00:31:10.660 I want to do all this shit, and you don't.
00:31:13.760 So thanks for motivating me, okay?
00:31:15.920 So, like, your friends and family are the first ones that are going to hate when you first step out.
00:31:20.280 That's the reality.
00:31:21.200 It just hurts more because they're closer.
00:31:23.380 Yeah.
00:31:23.760 You think that's it?
00:31:24.320 Yeah, you're not used to it.
00:31:25.320 Yeah.
00:31:25.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:31:26.420 You think that those people are going to celebrate you.
00:31:28.660 They're going to have your back.
00:31:30.940 They're going to push you down the path, but that's rarely the case, bro,
00:31:34.620 with people that you've known your whole life because they always see you as that old version of you.
00:31:38.760 You know, they don't see you as that new version of you.
00:31:40.920 You know how many people in my life see me as the version of me that existed 5, 10, 15 years ago
00:31:46.460 that I'm not even close to that anymore?
00:31:48.480 See what I'm saying?
00:31:49.040 So your identity in those people's eyes is very small and limited, just like their identity is.
00:31:54.720 And when you start breaking that identity and you start moving forward and you start progressing
00:31:58.300 and you get better and you get in shape and you start making some money
00:32:00.980 and you start having some success, they hate it because they realize,
00:32:05.420 fuck, they could have done the same, but they were too lazy.
00:32:07.840 They didn't have the belief in themselves.
00:32:09.420 They didn't want to do the work.
00:32:10.780 They were too afraid.
00:32:11.740 And they got to live with those decisions for their whole life.
00:32:14.660 And they're bitter at themselves.
00:32:16.020 They're mad at themselves for giving up on their original dream to accept their reality
00:32:20.400 and lie about it as if it is their dream.
00:32:23.200 And you're actually going out and doing something.
00:32:25.560 So you can expect that.
00:32:26.880 You're going to get more of it, but you're going to get it the worst from your family and friends.
00:32:30.200 So I wouldn't, as long as you're doing the work and as long as you're putting up results
00:32:34.480 and as long as you realize that you always have a lot to get better on
00:32:37.760 and a lot to improve and you're willing to do that work
00:32:39.860 and you don't think that you're great just because you're you,
00:32:44.300 it's okay to feel good about yourself.
00:32:46.780 You know, when you look at how people's ego affects them in a negative way,
00:32:53.040 you know, imagine a bell curve, all right?
00:32:55.300 And on the left side of the bell curve where you're at the low point,
00:32:59.080 you know, you don't know what the fuck you're doing. 0.74
00:33:00.600 You don't know what to do.
00:33:01.980 You don't know the skills.
00:33:02.900 You don't know the moves.
00:33:03.700 You don't know the work ethic.
00:33:04.540 You don't know shit.
00:33:05.500 So you know that you don't know shit.
00:33:07.760 So you're willing to start to take action, okay?
00:33:09.940 I don't know what to do.
00:33:11.200 I don't know.
00:33:12.380 Tell me what to do and I'll do it, right?
00:33:14.320 So they do this.
00:33:15.300 They start doing the things.
00:33:16.560 They take the actions.
00:33:17.740 They take the habits of successful people
00:33:19.820 and they start to move up the bell curve and they start to improve.
00:33:22.960 And they improve and keep improving and keep improving and keep improving.
00:33:26.660 And then for most people, what happens is they get to a point
00:33:30.540 where they forget about all this work that they put in
00:33:34.140 and they start believing that the success they are seeing is just because they're special.
00:33:38.920 It's like reading your own news clippings.
00:33:41.220 I'm great because I'm great.
00:33:43.400 And that's how you can always identify the people who are about to fall on their fucking face.
00:33:48.400 When they start talking about how they're the best ever or they're the best
00:33:52.120 or they're better than everybody else, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:33:55.060 They're about to eat shit, all right?
00:33:56.940 Because what happens is they start to believe that it's them
00:34:00.120 instead of remembering that it's actually the actions that they've been taking
00:34:03.860 and they are living in the results of those actions.
00:34:06.560 And then what happens is they stop doing the actions
00:34:08.880 because they don't think they have to because they think they're just great.
00:34:11.700 And then they fall down the fucking bell curve real fast the other side, okay?
00:34:15.600 And then they start back to a point where they're like,
00:34:18.180 fuck, I don't know what just happened.
00:34:19.880 I just lost everything.
00:34:21.320 I lost all my friends.
00:34:22.400 I lost all my money.
00:34:23.340 I lost all my...
00:34:24.060 And then they're like, fuck, I don't know what to do.
00:34:25.640 And then eventually they come to the conclusion of,
00:34:28.440 well, I'll start doing what I did before.
00:34:30.080 So they start taking the actions before and they start to see results.
00:34:33.800 And then they get to a point where they're doing real good again
00:34:36.140 and they will either have learned the lesson the first time
00:34:38.780 or they'll repeat what they did the first time.
00:34:41.160 So they'll either say to themselves,
00:34:42.800 hey, I got here last time and I quit doing the work and I lost everything.
00:34:46.760 And they'll keep doing the work,
00:34:47.740 which allows them to continue to escalate up the curve without peaking, right?
00:34:51.720 But if they get to the top again
00:34:55.060 and they start saying, oh, I'm great.
00:34:56.360 And they stop doing the shit, they're going to lose again.
00:34:58.220 And so most people live their lives in this wave of success and failure,
00:35:04.580 success and failure.
00:35:05.840 And the reason they live their lives in that wave
00:35:08.440 is because they can't ever figure out
00:35:10.260 that it's their own ego getting in their way of their humility,
00:35:13.340 understanding that they have much more to learn
00:35:16.560 and many more skills to go.
00:35:18.180 And all you got to do to really remember this
00:35:19.980 is just compare yourself to the best in the world ever.
00:35:22.240 Like, are you winning compared to Bezos?
00:35:24.940 Are you winning compared to Elon?
00:35:26.680 Are you winning compared to Phil Knight?
00:35:28.500 That's the questions I ask me.
00:35:30.520 That's what I ask myself.
00:35:31.860 Like, when I start feeling like I'm doing good,
00:35:33.340 I look at fucking Bezos and I'm like,
00:35:35.460 yeah, I ain't doing shit.
00:35:37.380 Still got some work to do.
00:35:38.280 No, I ain't doing shit.
00:35:39.820 And then I get back to work.
00:35:40.880 This is why I use the language I use day one, right?
00:35:44.260 A long way to go.
00:35:45.640 When people say, oh, congratulations on all the success.
00:35:48.420 I'm like, fuck, bro.
00:35:49.820 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:35:50.600 I haven't even started.
00:35:51.920 You know what I mean?
00:35:52.540 Like, I hate that shit.
00:35:53.540 It's poisonous to progress.
00:35:55.480 Hearing, you know, congratulations
00:35:57.780 and believing you're successful.
00:35:59.960 Like, dude, when people start calling themselves great
00:36:03.780 and calling themselves successful,
00:36:06.440 you know they're on the fucking down, bro. 0.79
00:36:08.140 It's only a matter of time
00:36:09.320 because they're losing the ability to understand
00:36:11.620 that they really aren't anything.
00:36:13.560 They're a speck of dust in the grand scheme.
00:36:16.000 There are millions of people who have done more than you,
00:36:19.400 who have come from worse than you.
00:36:21.020 So for you to think that you're great
00:36:22.620 is an inaccurate representation of self.
00:36:25.360 See what I'm saying?
00:36:26.660 So you go.
00:36:28.080 Yeah.
00:36:28.400 So you just have to be careful for that.
00:36:30.180 Remember, the life that you're currently living
00:36:32.880 is the result of the actions
00:36:34.780 that the old you has been taking for a long time.
00:36:37.620 If the new you doesn't continue to take those actions,
00:36:40.300 you won't be living in that state for very much longer.
00:36:42.840 See what I'm saying?
00:36:43.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:36:45.400 I fucking love it, man.
00:36:46.460 Yeah, I love it.
00:36:48.000 Well, guys, Andy, that was three.
00:36:50.580 Yep, guys, go pay the fee.