REAL AF with Andy Frisella - August 01, 2024


754. Q&AF： Raising Young Entrepreneurs, Tackling Self-Sabotage & Winning Test Days

Topics
raising entrepreneurs self-sabotage and financial discipline
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Andy Frisella
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In this episode of Ask Andy For Selling, Andy and Q and A F talk about how to raise a kid that thinks outside the box, who works for every dime he makes and appreciates and values money.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies the 0.99
00:00:21.080 fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we 0.92
00:00:25.540 have q and a f little midweek get better session now if you want to ask questions on the show you 0.55
00:00:31.800 can submit your questions a couple different ways the first way is guys email these questions into
00:00:36.160 ask andy at andy for seller.com or you go on youtube in the uh q and a f episode drop your
00:00:41.700 question in the comments we'll pick some from there as well uh we're just gonna get right into
00:00:45.820 it today i like doing the intro the first half of the week if you want to hear what it's all about
00:00:49.500 go listen to yesterday's episode uh what is today today is the uh thursday first thursday yeah
00:00:56.460 today today's when they're hearing it though august 1st so we got cti again tomorrow right
00:01:00.920 we're gonna start cranking out more ctis for you guys and then as mfceo uh project launches we're
00:01:06.300 gonna do personal development over there and uh you know keep society culture and funny business over
00:01:12.700 here cranking it out yeah so anyway uh what's up dude hey we got a little switch up there on
00:01:19.480 the desk will desk-a-roo switch up right you guys know we don't take uh take take sponsorship 0.99
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00:01:45.020 of the can i'm gonna take it to church next week you are yell that for church oh my oh heavens 0.99
00:01:52.940 like they weren't out with their titties out one time exactly yeah exactly how the fuck you think 1.00
00:01:57.620 we got here uh-huh grandma's doing all kinds of nasty shit yeah you ain't slick margie all right 1.00
00:02:03.280 yeah you think about how how and you think about how nasty they were bro we got population 1.00
00:02:07.380 decline right now so you know they were nastier yeah so don't let them grandmas fool you yeah 0.99
00:02:12.180 they're in retirement phase oh you hurt my feeling bullshit all right anyway 1.00
00:02:17.240 it is bullshit you guys made 30 fucking kids each yeah fuck man they were having big big families bro 1.00
00:02:25.440 yeah just cranking it out 1.00
00:02:27.580 yeah man all right well let's uh let's make some people better i'm glad you guys are still
00:02:35.000 everybody all the parents are explaining their kids right now go listen to that part of andy
00:02:39.060 listen that's what yeah you know any parents come out to me and they're like mom are you in 0.97
00:02:45.720 retirement oh what's he talking about oh shit it's funny you know what i'm glad you know what i'm 0.99
00:02:57.260 happy about though dude is that like everybody just lets us do our thing they don't fuck with us 1.00
00:03:01.540 i like it nobody bitches no and if you do fuck off yeah so what i pronounce a few words wrong here and 0.99
00:03:08.080 there yeah so what you can't read so what i so what you got a face for audio 1.00
00:03:13.320 what so what you stole a bike
00:03:24.100 all right let's get serious now let's do it man this is the serious part of the show we're getting
00:03:34.260 better today yep mama you out of retirement all right guys guys andy question number one i got
00:03:42.780 three good ones for you as always let's let's dive into these um andy question number one i have a real
00:03:48.580 question for you uh my goal is to raise a human that thinks outside the box who works for every dime
00:03:56.060 he makes and appreciates and values money with that being said he had a great idea to pull weeds and help
00:04:03.440 people bring their garbage bins to the road and back up to their house every week to make money
00:04:07.980 uh to put into his own bank account i obviously would be there to help him as he is still a young child
00:04:15.680 i posted about it on our town page and have received a lot of backlash for it here's why he's four years
00:04:23.040 old uh but this was his idea and i am just there to help him and support him and not knock his ideas
00:04:29.700 my question is do you think this is too young or do you think i'm raising an entrepreneur and should
00:04:36.260 keep trying to help him how how how young is too young for entrepreneurship i i just think it's 0.97
00:04:44.060 interesting that it's okay for a four-year-old to choose their fucking gender but it's not okay for a 0.98
00:04:50.820 four-year-old to embody the principles and the cultural guidelines of becoming a capitalist entrepreneur 0.98
00:04:57.300 which is what it takes to survive and succeed here in this country that's interesting that is 1.00
00:05:02.120 interesting you know so here's my advice to you tell those neighbors to eat a fucking dick that's 1.00
00:05:06.960 what i tell them and i would continue to raise your son uh the way that you feel he needs to be raised 1.00
00:05:12.860 which if you're asking me and i'm no parent but uh i'm gonna guess i think that's a great thing i think
00:05:23.280 you're teaching them exceptional value system i think you're teaching them the actual rules of
00:05:28.120 the world not the fake idealistic rules of the world which so many parents teach their kids their
00:05:34.100 kids grow up they get out in the real world they can't figure out why nothing that they do works in
00:05:39.600 the real world because their parents and their teachers and their aunts and their uncles and everybody
00:05:43.880 they've known has taught this fake version of reality to them which is you were born you breathe air
00:05:51.560 therefore you are entitled to the best possible life ever and if you don't get it you should go protest
00:05:57.620 that is not reality that person will fail 100 times out of 100 and if you are a parent raising your kid
00:06:06.580 and not teaching them the reality and the tools and the and the guidelines and the value system that
00:06:12.160 it takes to become successful in reality you are failing as a parent okay so to all the parents 0.99
00:06:19.160 that are yip yapping at you tell them to eat shit okay be a be a leader don't let these people group 1.00
00:06:27.240 raise your kids look around at the world has group raising the kids by these crazy far left liberal 1.00
00:06:35.920 fucking middle class white women who've got something to say about every motherfucking thing 1.00
00:06:40.600 that we do has that worked out has that has that worked out good do we think that's working because i 1.00
00:06:47.020 don't think that it is because we got grown adults bringing their fucking parents to job interviews now 0.98
00:06:52.020 okay we got people who are in their 20s and mid-20s screaming and pouting and crying about how come 0.99
00:06:58.920 they can't get a job when they got their whole face tattooed and they got 50 000 piercings in their 0.99
00:07:03.300 fucking face there is a reality and then there is idealism and most parents these days teach their kids 0.99
00:07:09.520 idealism they teach their kids the way it should be not the way it is and if you want to win 0.98
00:07:14.000 you got to play the way it is so i think that's awesome that you're doing that i would spend way 0.97
00:07:20.460 more time doing things like that than listening to the fucking crowd who all their kids are wondering 1.00
00:07:26.420 if they should like cut off their fucking genitals right and your kids actually out here operating in 1.00
00:07:31.540 reality learning the the you know the do's and don'ts of how to become a functional and successful 1.00
00:07:36.920 man i was raised very similarly to what you are doing with your child i was taught from a very
00:07:43.720 young age that things aren't fair i was taught that if i wanted things i had to work uh i wasn't 0.72
00:07:49.180 given bikes and toys and shit like that i was told hey here's something to do to do that you can wash car 0.96
00:07:56.660 you can clean the yard you can rake the leaves you can go door to door selling shit yeah these are this 0.99
00:08:02.480 principle yes bro and i did that from a very young age which is why the fuck i am here now and while you 0.99
00:08:09.360 may not want to be where i am that's okay but those principles still apply and you can take them 0.67
00:08:14.800 as far as you want okay so by no means am i saying that someone has to be an entrepreneur but what i am
00:08:20.160 saying is that those values are consistent with anything you want to do in life joe has a multi
00:08:26.500 platinum what do you have two platinum records okay as an audio producer did you get that by being lazy 0.98
00:08:33.540 as fuck did you get that by someone giving that to you bro my dad started jujitsu three years ago 0.98
00:08:40.100 he's kicking ass he's winning tournaments he shows up every day and works hard that is the reality of 1.00
00:08:45.660 winning you have to show up every day you have to work hard and eventually you gain skills and then
00:08:50.060 you start winning and these parents like the ones in your little town's facebook group who are raising 0.99
00:08:55.060 a bunch of fucking loser kids that ain't going to do shit in their lives should have zero bearing on how 1.00
00:09:00.440 you raise your kid stop asking for validation from fucking weak ass parents and start being the 1.00
00:09:05.560 strong ass parent and be an example and maybe they will join you stop asking these crazy fucks for 1.00
00:09:11.220 their opinion they're so not only that these are the same people that insert their opinion on everybody's 0.99
00:09:17.560 shit i i don't know about you but i think that if you're going to insert your opinion on everybody's 0.97
00:09:23.340 stuff you should have your own shit together right why is it like when everybody says they're going to 0.99
00:09:28.460 have a kid all the other fucking moms decide to chirp in and tell them how to raise their kids 1.00
00:09:33.780 when their kids are shit why why why when someone says i'm going to get in shape all these fat people 1.00
00:09:41.120 talk about what they should and shouldn't do to get in shape these are low iq people that you're asking 1.00
00:09:46.800 for their approval so what does that make you what does it make you when you ask low iq people for 0.99
00:09:53.320 their validation and approval think about that it makes you dumb as fuck okay so you're doing a good 0.99
00:09:58.940 job i know you've never been a parent before i haven't either but what i know about being raised 1.00
00:10:04.740 by good parents is that you're teaching your children the right shit and you should feel good 0.97
00:10:10.060 about that you're being a leader you're being a parent you're not being the best friend you're 0.99
00:10:14.200 teaching them reality and that's what the fuck this is about i just keep thinking about like when that kid 0.99
00:10:19.100 turns 18 and then the other little kids in the neighborhood turn 18 like he's gonna run he's 0.99
00:10:24.160 gonna run him over dude bro listen dude that is the game right now if you are a young person 0.97
00:10:31.120 and you are fucking 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 you're in that age range if you have any understanding 0.99
00:10:41.080 of reality as i just explained it meaning go learn the lessons get better go make mistakes learn the 1.00
00:10:50.000 lessons get better and you're willing to do that you're gonna crush everybody everybody because 0.97
00:10:55.740 they've been raised by idealistic parents who don't know shit who and even worse think they know it all 1.00
00:11:02.020 like i've never understood how people can look around at their fucking bullshit life and think they 1.00
00:11:06.700 know anything another authority of how how how can you be the authority on fucking on anything when 1.00
00:11:12.440 your life looks like dog shit how are you the authority on parents when your kids are turds 1.00
00:11:17.280 okay and they play video games all day how are you the authority on fucking anything bro you look like 1.00
00:11:22.880 shit you make no money your households are wrecked your kids suck but you're on facebook telling other 1.00
00:11:27.900 people how to parent their fucking kids fuck you raise your kids the way you think you should raise 1.00
00:11:32.120 them i love it i love it i would do more shit bro if i was you know why god never gave me 1.00
00:11:36.660 kids because i'd kill all those parents bro i could dude they'd come up to me and they'd say you 1.00
00:11:42.180 know and i'd be like shut the fuck up you would i you would yeah you would fuck away from me and i 1.00
00:11:49.100 would even do more man dude do fucking like when it snows put them out there with a shovel 1.00
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00:12:10.260 an entrepreneur and i built these books and got these books together for you because i know that
00:12:16.780 a lot of parents are confused about what to teach their kids so every book is a story about my actual
00:12:23.100 bulldogs otis and charlie and them going through life learning the lessons that your kids are going to
00:12:27.680 need to learn to become successful effective fulfilled individuals impactful individuals
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00:12:38.680 god that pisses me off dude yeah like why is it it's always these same fucking people it's these same 0.99
00:12:46.940 people you know what i'm saying they don't have shit going for them but they got the fucking biggest 1.00
00:12:52.080 mouth in the world on the internet telling parents that they're raising their kids wrong because 1.00
00:12:57.020 they're teaching them reality bro dude how do you think this country was built this country was built 0.99
00:13:02.200 by fucking parents raising their kids on work ethic and and how to show up every day even when you 1.00
00:13:08.140 don't want to and like i'm i'm fucking over it yeah fucking losers dude that's what it is man 1.00
00:13:15.220 uh guys any question number two andy i hope this message finds you and the team well it does i like 0.97
00:13:23.860 that start that's a that's a polite start that's a very polite yeah i like it um i am aware of my
00:13:29.360 purpose and make an effort every day to pursue that however i find myself in moments of self-sabotage
00:13:38.260 uh though they are brief they can be extremely careless and later on affect my productivity or
00:13:45.000 ability to do certain things or activities more specifically my bank account tends to take
00:13:50.400 a nosedive due to bad decision making while it may be on a smaller level and have less consequences
00:13:56.400 now what are some ways to stop myself from spending unnecessary money when i know ultimately
00:14:02.480 most of these choices i am making do not benefit me in the long term or even short term most of the
00:14:08.540 time i feel like an enemy of myself self-sabotage where you got anything on that what's your thoughts
00:14:14.340 on that you know i i've never really understood what self-sabotage means or what people mean when
00:14:21.500 they talk about it like it never made sense to me self-sabotage like are we talking about procrastination
00:14:26.460 we talking about just bad decision making i mean are we like what are we talking i think that's more 0.96
00:14:30.960 it's like the awareness that you're making bad decisions you still fucking make them so why would 0.98
00:14:35.480 you do that right no i'm being serious like if i know something's wrong and it's a fucking bad 0.98
00:14:41.600 decision why would you do that why would you do that i i've never connected with that yeah you
00:14:48.220 know i'm not saying i make every decision the right way i made a lot of bad ones but i you didn't make
00:14:53.380 them knowing they were bad i mean there's been a few times yeah but like dude that was just me becoming
00:14:58.760 a mature human being right growing out of that phase of understanding that like really what it came
00:15:04.400 down to for me dude was i started to understand like this is my life and it's now it's not i'm not
00:15:10.000 going to be here forever i'm not going to have forever to start making the right decisions so i
00:15:14.320 need to start making them right now and um you know that honestly took me until i was about 35 36 years
00:15:20.640 old to figure that out uh had i figured that out when i was in my 20s i'd be much further along
00:15:25.380 but you know i i i think the best thing that you can do is to always keep in mind here's what i think
00:15:33.880 i think that people make decisions that are poor in the short term and the long term because they
00:15:40.140 are not clear and they are not focused consistently on what they are trying to achieve i think most
00:15:46.520 people don't put enough planning into who they want to become what they want to build what they want
00:15:54.220 to create what kind of life they want to live and because they can't clearly see it they don't have
00:16:00.480 the ability to make the decisions that put them in that spot so whether it's through ignorance or
00:16:05.380 whether it's through uh lack of discipline or whether it's through just not having that image
00:16:11.680 in your brain all the time they make the wrong decisions and so we have to you know solve those
00:16:18.820 three areas right if it's ignorance it's not you know you know that you're making the wrong decision
00:16:23.400 that's why you're asking okay so it's not ignorance is a lack of discipline could be how disciplined are
00:16:30.100 you how how much how able are you to make the correct decision to where you want to go even
00:16:36.020 when you don't feel like making that decision okay you got to be honest about that and if you aren't
00:16:41.180 able to make the decision that you know you need to make then that's a discipline problem and you got
00:16:46.700 to work on developing discipline which is the purpose of the live hard program which you can get
00:16:50.320 for free at episode 208 okay and then the third thing is lack of vision and clarity and focus on what
00:16:56.600 you're trying to become if you don't know what you're trying to become how can you make the
00:16:59.960 right decisions to get you to there you see what i'm saying and i think that those three things are
00:17:04.440 the things that you should probably try to work out within yourself okay am i ignorant i don't think
00:17:09.500 so because you're asking the question do i lack discipline i think you do because otherwise you
00:17:14.300 would it sounds like you're aware that you're making the wrong decisions as you're making them
00:17:18.760 all right so if you're making wrong decisions and you're aware you're making wrong decisions as you
00:17:24.220 make them that means you're lacking discipline to make the proper decision so you can work on that
00:17:28.540 you could build that discipline grit fortitude self-belief self-esteem these things are all
00:17:33.980 tied together and you have to practice them in order for them to get better it's just like a muscle
00:17:38.620 if you work out your arms your arms are going to get stronger if you work out your discipline your
00:17:42.160 discipline is going to get stronger so i would practice on that and then the lack of clarity where
00:17:47.140 do you want to go what are you trying to do who are you trying to become what kind of life
00:17:50.140 you're trying to live if you keep that in mind all the time it makes it that much easier
00:17:53.960 to make the proper decision to get there um you're saying when you know what your goal your
00:17:59.700 end goal is the decisions you microly make should all be every decision yeah brother every decision
00:18:06.140 that you make this is the thing see younger people think they have all the time in the world yeah and
00:18:10.700 when you get to be a little bit older like in your 30s you start to realize you don't and then when
00:18:15.460 you get in your 40s you're like oh fuck i don't have that much time left so your urgency to make the 0.79
00:18:19.860 right decisions increases but your time and the ability to produce that result decreases so you 0.97
00:18:25.180 want to figure this out as early as possible in your life bro had i figured out what i'm talking 0.91
00:18:30.380 about right now when i was in my 20s fuck bro it would my life would be completely different right 0.93
00:18:36.380 and i'm not saying it's bad i've done a lot with what i've got another regret state no i'm not saying 0.76
00:18:41.100 that i'm just saying i'd be a lot further along which is the goal right um so yeah man i think it's 0.70
00:18:47.300 we i think it comes down to those three things you know are you ignorant to to what you're trying
00:18:54.760 to do do you do you even know right and can you make the decision even when you don't want to make 0.64
00:18:59.200 it if not build your discipline up do you know where you're trying to go are you focused on that
00:19:05.140 all the time and and then dude we have to understand that our decisions that every decision we make for
00:19:11.140 me to what every meal i eat every exercise i choose to do every post i make or everything i say
00:19:18.380 these things either move me forward closer to where i'm trying to be or further away there is
00:19:24.960 no neutral moves it's what's this decision going to do is this decision going to move me further
00:19:30.740 to where i'm trying to be or further away from where i'm trying to be and if you can learn to have
00:19:34.960 that level awareness on a micro scale combined with discipline you know that's where you get
00:19:40.240 in the sweet spot of being very effective in in your life i love that i want to ask you this too
00:19:45.020 because uh this person touched on this uh you know having specifically issues with when it comes to
00:19:50.960 money and i know for you you know it's been you become disciplined financially because you were in
00:19:58.580 situations where you had no other options right like i mean that that's just what it was and then those
00:20:02.840 those uh those skills that you learned that it kind of just overflowed to when you started having
00:20:07.500 money do you is there a difference for for people i guess you know who like yourself went through that
00:20:13.520 same process versus people who you know never had to really worry about that and so are they more
00:20:19.220 frugal like how do you develop that that discipline if you never really had the i guess the quote
00:20:24.900 unquote struggle part of it i don't know because i was never one of those people yeah i always had to
00:20:31.320 watch my money and remember when you and i talked about this yeah you know and i had a talk with dj
00:20:36.860 i don't know a while back a couple of months ago yeah about the importance of having and developing
00:20:44.720 money skills when you don't have a lot of money right because people think that if they earn earn earn
00:20:50.320 earn earn that they will just have lots of money but that's not what happens what happens is
00:20:55.460 is whatever discipline that you have around money when you don't have any carries into the situation
00:21:01.500 when you have more so if you develop good financial habits when you are let's say making less money or
00:21:07.760 struggling and it's you know it's lean times right if you develop that's a great that's a great time to
00:21:14.040 develop the financial skills that you need because then as you get more money you are more disciplined
00:21:18.800 in your system of you know income and and bills and cash flow and as bad as it sucks yeah it's it's
00:21:26.220 just way better to develop when we don't have money and and it's not the idea that people think they're
00:21:31.380 going to make more money and they're going to change their habits is not true because if you lack
00:21:34.580 discipline with a little money you're really going to fucking like it when you have a lot you're going 0.99
00:21:38.460 to be giving it away you're going to be spending on dumb shit you're going to be doing this and people 1.00
00:21:42.180 could say to me oh you got you're the one with all these cars and shit yeah motherfucker i make money 1.00
00:21:45.940 on my cars right that's like stocks my shit goes up you know what i'm saying yeah so it's just you 1.00
00:21:51.880 know develop the habits now and as you go they'll get you know you'll be in a much better spot yeah i 0.91
00:21:57.720 love it i love it guys andy our thought-provoking question number three andy i've been a fan for a
00:22:07.220 little over a year now and you are one of the biggest influences for my personal development i love
00:22:13.020 listening to the show and getting your take on things my question is andy how do you deal with
00:22:18.520 adverse circumstances it seems as of late in my personal life i am inundated with choices and
00:22:25.620 situations that conflict with my interest i have a full-time job that pays the bills but i'm also
00:22:31.660 putting in what free time i have to woodwork i've made some outdoor furniture for friends and family
00:22:37.280 and have been told that i could possibly sell some of it since receiving let's stop this what do you 0.95
00:22:42.880 mean you've been told you could sell some of it no shit you could sell some of it make some good 0.99
00:22:47.100 shit and people will buy it you don't need people to tell you that you're fucking qualified bro i'm 0.99
00:22:51.280 gonna stop you right there keep practicing and make some cool shit go sell dude you know what the common 1.00
00:22:56.300 theme is with all the questions we get here it always has to do with getting validation from outside 0.99
00:23:00.760 motherfuckers you do not need them to believe in you you do not need your friends to tell you you're 0.98
00:23:05.360 great all you have to do is go become great and they will recognize it you don't have to 1.00
00:23:10.460 fucking get a permission from fat suzy homemaker over here fucking at your fucking pta meeting or 1.00
00:23:16.840 how to raise your kid you don't need permission from bob the builder to become a fucking woodworker 1.00
00:23:21.820 like you don't need permission motherfuckers stop framing your questions that way i'm gonna make funny 1.00
00:23:26.700 every time you fucking do it you don't need nobody nobody ever came to me and said andy you have what 1.00
00:23:33.500 it takes to become a successful entrepreneur or andy you have what it takes to build multiple 1.00
00:23:40.180 successful podcasts actually i got told i was a fucking idiot actually i got told that i couldn't 0.99
00:23:45.500 do shit actually i got told i should get a real job actually i got told that i wasn't capable of any of 0.99
00:23:51.240 the things that i've done i'm not trying to do them i've done them okay if i went around and fucking 0.99
00:23:56.820 asked people what i could and couldn't do i'd be sitting in the same spot i was 20 fucking years ago 0.94
00:24:01.800 so stop it proceed with your question oh man um but they say uh since receiving these uh these 0.54
00:24:10.380 comments and compliments i've started to shift my focus to start selling my projects um since making
00:24:16.160 this shift it seems like the world's against me uh once i get off work i go straight to the uh to
00:24:21.100 building i only have a couple of hours every day during the week to get stuff done i bank on the
00:24:26.220 weekends to get the majority of my work done but it never fails that something else always comes up
00:24:31.400 whether it's birthday parties company parties date night obligations law and care property
00:24:35.640 maintenance and all and even other bullshit uh like i break a tool or someone stops by the house 0.98
00:24:41.020 randomly or calls to talking bullshit does this has this ever happened to you nah man you know what 0.98
00:24:47.800 i wake up every day everything goes exactly as i planned yeah nothing wrong ever happens it's smooth 0.99
00:24:53.600 as fuck and i just make all kinds of money bro this is super unique listen dude it's just you 0.96
00:24:58.240 and honestly if i were you i'd just quit because it sounds like the whole world's against you man 1.00
00:25:02.780 fucking tools break people call you on the phone who the fuck calls someone on the phone oh you got 1.00
00:25:08.180 to mow your yard fuck bro that's a disadvantage i'm sorry this happens to everybody bro it's hard 1.00
00:25:14.340 it's not easy every day you wake up you're gonna have shit go wrong every day you wake up you're gonna 1.00
00:25:19.780 have bad things happen how you need to look at this as a fucking test it's a test do you pass the 0.98
00:25:26.600 test are you not pass the test you need to fucking when you have a bad day bro you wake up and and 0.99
00:25:32.420 fucking everything's going wrong and by the way none of that shit is that's called life that's not 1.00
00:25:37.600 even hard shit bro what are you gonna do when hard shit happens okay what are you that's you're you're 1.00
00:25:44.380 talking about life oh my wife called me oh god i'm fucking gonna die like what the fuck dude 1.00
00:25:51.800 that's life there's gonna be distractions your job is to fucking discipline yourself to a point 1.00
00:26:00.420 where these distractions don't pull you off track or you're able to manage them okay but ultimately 0.89
00:26:07.580 here's the reality it's never going to go your way it's never going to be easy there are always going
00:26:13.820 to be things that break there are always going to be things that go wrong and your job is to get
00:26:19.000 through this regardless of what comes your way and the best perspective that you can take is to 0.88
00:26:26.140 fucking look at it like a test okay when i wake up in the morning i already know and by the time i wake 0.97
00:26:33.280 up in the morning i've already got 40 fucking texts on my phone at least okay and do you think any of 0.99
00:26:37.940 those texts are good not a single one of them is like hey andy i love you bro i hope you have a good 0.95
00:26:44.600 day every one of them wants something from me every one of them needs an answer from me every 0.96
00:26:49.260 one of them is a problem to solve by the time i get out of fucking bed you know what i'd say when 1.00
00:26:53.720 i get out of bed i'm the baddest motherfucker on the planet doesn't matter what happens today it 1.00
00:26:59.520 doesn't matter if there's a fucking fire or earthquake or tornado or the fucking heavens rain 1.00
00:27:05.120 down fire and brimstone on my motherfucking face i'm getting my shit done okay and i pass the test 1.00
00:27:11.520 and that's the difference between people who lose and people who win they have a mentality that you 0.99
00:27:17.520 are not going to fucking touch me you are not going to throw me off track and it doesn't matter 0.99
00:27:23.080 if it takes until three o'clock in the morning my list of shit gets done every motherfucking day 0.99
00:27:29.320 this is why live hard is such a good program for people like you because if you actually do it the 0.99
00:27:35.140 way it's laid out it'll take care of all these problems that you have in terms of all these little
00:27:40.500 distractions like it's absurd bro what do you think it's like do you really think that all these 0.99
00:27:48.340 people that went out and built all this shit drive up and down your street fucking kfc one of the 0.99
00:27:54.060 greatest fucking success stories of all time colonel sanders didn't get his fucking chicken recipe 1.00
00:27:59.020 in any stores till he was after 60 years old he got his balls kicked in for 60 fucking years 0.99
00:28:06.420 you're complaining about mowing the grass and going to birthday parties okay drive up and down the 1.00
00:28:13.280 street and look at all the shit that everybody's built do you really fucking think they did that 0.99
00:28:18.320 with no distractions do you really think they did that with no hard times do you really think they 1.00
00:28:24.380 did that without breaking a fucking tool get the fuck out of here bro this shit's hard if it was easy 0.99
00:28:30.920 everybody be doing it everybody have the biggest furniture company on the planet you got an opportunity in 0.99
00:28:36.160 front of you because you have a skill set you should hone that skill set in and become great at what
00:28:41.200 you do and then become great as a human meaning effective meaning i can work through these things
00:28:47.020 as they happen and you'll you'll you'll get there dude but i'm gonna tell you this what you're going 0.98
00:28:52.520 through everybody goes through and probably worse that sounds like some weak ass shit i'm not trying 0.99
00:28:57.420 to be an asshole okay that's life you're dealing with life yeah that's just the tuesday bro yeah 1.00
00:29:02.840 i love it man bro i i just it's like fuck guys i love you guys man i want you to win but fuck 1.00
00:29:10.520 you know yeah we got we got changed that mindset dude it's a test you're the baddest motherfucker on 1.00
00:29:16.820 the planet nothing's gonna stop you who the fuck's gonna stop you i don't care what they say i don't 1.00
00:29:22.420 care what they have to what they post on the internet i don't fucking care all i know is that 0.99
00:29:27.040 i keep taking steps forward shit happens good shit that's all you got to do just keep moving 0.99
00:29:34.120 doesn't matter nothing else matters bro not dude that's the thing the thing about this whole game 0.98
00:29:41.260 is that nothing else matters other than what you do okay people think there's like this
00:29:51.420 outside circumstance that controls success i used to think this too by the way
00:29:57.440 and they think like they're going to need approval from somebody who's credible you know i used to
00:30:04.240 think like the success fairy flies down from the universe and taps people on the head and i used to
00:30:10.440 think like i wonder if i'll get to be one of these successful people and it's just the wrong way it's just
00:30:17.980 not what it is and once you climb the mountain or climb a few mountains you look back and you're
00:30:23.240 like that's all it took like when i bought my first lamborghini bro it was 2012 2011
00:30:29.540 and owning a lamborghini was a huge thing for me huge huge huge huge huge massive thing for me
00:30:35.960 and when i got it sal was with me when i got it i mean it was awesome it was fucking surreal 0.73
00:30:43.340 dude it was the cool one of the coolest experiences i'll never forget in my life
00:30:46.620 but in that instance i realized what i'm telling you today which is 0.97
00:30:53.940 all it is is showing up every day doing the shit you know you're supposed to do 0.86
00:31:02.200 going to bed and repeating that as long as it takes and making sure that no distractions 0.99
00:31:08.180 no bullshit no people nothing gets in your fucking way you have to have the attitude of a 0.99
00:31:16.140 fucking warrior to become successful it is not easy it is not for everybody it takes more than what 0.99
00:31:23.420 everybody else is trying to give which is why nobody else has it okay but if you can teach yourself 0.97
00:31:30.460 to be disciplined and you can teach yourself to not quit and you can learn the lessons along the way 0.99
00:31:37.920 from the shit that you fuck up you cannot lose as long as you keep going you will get where you 1.00
00:31:43.800 want to go if you fucking have the ability to persevere you have the discipline to do the things 1.00
00:31:49.580 you want to do when you don't want to do them and you have the ability to keep going no matter how long 0.98
00:31:55.900 it takes okay that's called passing the test i'm passing a test today what did i say to you right
00:32:03.000 before i walked in today right before we got in there what i say to you guys what i say i said i 1.00
00:32:08.460 felt like fucking shit today slept bad yeah i slept terrible i got i fucking threw up in my fucking 1.00
00:32:14.400 sleep last night because i got acid reflux right i fucking didn't get an hour of sleep today you know 1.00
00:32:19.940 what though i'm beating shit's ass today i just killed it in the workout i'm killing it on this podcast 0.99
00:32:27.200 i'm about to go kill it and everything else i do and when i go to bed it won't matter that i 0.99
00:32:30.880 fucking felt like shit it'll be an a plus productive day so if you could take all the 0.99
00:32:36.180 days that you feel like shit or all the days that you're distracted or all the days you're pissed off 1.00
00:32:40.180 you don't feel like doing it and you make those a plus productive days how the fuck can you lose 0.98
00:32:44.820 the answer is you can't okay so start looking at these things differently this is a test that you 0.97
00:32:51.240 need to pass and there will be tests every day that you need to pass and the more tests you pass
00:32:56.920 the easier it is to pass them that's the truth and that's how you need to look at it i love it man
00:33:01.960 i absolutely love it guys andy that was three yeah go pay the fee 0.99
00:33:08.020 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in 1.00
00:33:15.460 the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case close 1.00
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