754. Q&AF： Raising Young Entrepreneurs, Tackling Self-Sabotage & Winning Test Days
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In this episode of Ask Andy For Selling, Andy and Q and A F talk about how to raise a kid that thinks outside the box, who works for every dime he makes and appreciates and values money.
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what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies the
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fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
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have q and a f little midweek get better session now if you want to ask questions on the show you
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can submit your questions a couple different ways the first way is guys email these questions into
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ask andy at andy for seller.com or you go on youtube in the uh q and a f episode drop your
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question in the comments we'll pick some from there as well uh we're just gonna get right into
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it today i like doing the intro the first half of the week if you want to hear what it's all about
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go listen to yesterday's episode uh what is today today is the uh thursday first thursday yeah
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today today's when they're hearing it though august 1st so we got cti again tomorrow right
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we're gonna start cranking out more ctis for you guys and then as mfceo uh project launches we're
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gonna do personal development over there and uh you know keep society culture and funny business over
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here cranking it out yeah so anyway uh what's up dude hey we got a little switch up there on
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the desk will desk-a-roo switch up right you guys know we don't take uh take take sponsorship
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oh there goes the neighborhood yeah you gotta say you gotta say it like that when you open the
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tropic lightning dude it's it's the rule if you don't say that it the drink won't even come out
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of the can i'm gonna take it to church next week you are yell that for church oh my oh heavens
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like they weren't out with their titties out one time exactly yeah exactly how the fuck you think
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we got here uh-huh grandma's doing all kinds of nasty shit yeah you ain't slick margie all right
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yeah you think about how how and you think about how nasty they were bro we got population
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decline right now so you know they were nastier yeah so don't let them grandmas fool you yeah
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they're in retirement phase oh you hurt my feeling bullshit all right anyway
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it is bullshit you guys made 30 fucking kids each yeah fuck man they were having big big families bro
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yeah man all right well let's uh let's make some people better i'm glad you guys are still
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everybody all the parents are explaining their kids right now go listen to that part of andy
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listen that's what yeah you know any parents come out to me and they're like mom are you in
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retirement oh what's he talking about oh shit it's funny you know what i'm glad you know what i'm
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happy about though dude is that like everybody just lets us do our thing they don't fuck with us
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i like it nobody bitches no and if you do fuck off yeah so what i pronounce a few words wrong here and
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there yeah so what you can't read so what i so what you got a face for audio
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all right let's get serious now let's do it man this is the serious part of the show we're getting
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better today yep mama you out of retirement all right guys guys andy question number one i got
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three good ones for you as always let's let's dive into these um andy question number one i have a real
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question for you uh my goal is to raise a human that thinks outside the box who works for every dime
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he makes and appreciates and values money with that being said he had a great idea to pull weeds and help
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people bring their garbage bins to the road and back up to their house every week to make money
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uh to put into his own bank account i obviously would be there to help him as he is still a young child
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i posted about it on our town page and have received a lot of backlash for it here's why he's four years
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old uh but this was his idea and i am just there to help him and support him and not knock his ideas
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my question is do you think this is too young or do you think i'm raising an entrepreneur and should
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keep trying to help him how how how young is too young for entrepreneurship i i just think it's
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interesting that it's okay for a four-year-old to choose their fucking gender but it's not okay for a
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four-year-old to embody the principles and the cultural guidelines of becoming a capitalist entrepreneur
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which is what it takes to survive and succeed here in this country that's interesting that is
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interesting you know so here's my advice to you tell those neighbors to eat a fucking dick that's
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what i tell them and i would continue to raise your son uh the way that you feel he needs to be raised
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which if you're asking me and i'm no parent but uh i'm gonna guess i think that's a great thing i think
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you're teaching them exceptional value system i think you're teaching them the actual rules of
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the world not the fake idealistic rules of the world which so many parents teach their kids their
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kids grow up they get out in the real world they can't figure out why nothing that they do works in
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the real world because their parents and their teachers and their aunts and their uncles and everybody
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they've known has taught this fake version of reality to them which is you were born you breathe air
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therefore you are entitled to the best possible life ever and if you don't get it you should go protest
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that is not reality that person will fail 100 times out of 100 and if you are a parent raising your kid
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and not teaching them the reality and the tools and the and the guidelines and the value system that
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it takes to become successful in reality you are failing as a parent okay so to all the parents
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that are yip yapping at you tell them to eat shit okay be a be a leader don't let these people group
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raise your kids look around at the world has group raising the kids by these crazy far left liberal
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fucking middle class white women who've got something to say about every motherfucking thing
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that we do has that worked out has that has that worked out good do we think that's working because i
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don't think that it is because we got grown adults bringing their fucking parents to job interviews now
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okay we got people who are in their 20s and mid-20s screaming and pouting and crying about how come
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they can't get a job when they got their whole face tattooed and they got 50 000 piercings in their
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fucking face there is a reality and then there is idealism and most parents these days teach their kids
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idealism they teach their kids the way it should be not the way it is and if you want to win
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you got to play the way it is so i think that's awesome that you're doing that i would spend way
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more time doing things like that than listening to the fucking crowd who all their kids are wondering
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if they should like cut off their fucking genitals right and your kids actually out here operating in
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reality learning the the you know the do's and don'ts of how to become a functional and successful
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man i was raised very similarly to what you are doing with your child i was taught from a very
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young age that things aren't fair i was taught that if i wanted things i had to work uh i wasn't
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given bikes and toys and shit like that i was told hey here's something to do to do that you can wash car
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you can clean the yard you can rake the leaves you can go door to door selling shit yeah these are this
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principle yes bro and i did that from a very young age which is why the fuck i am here now and while you
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may not want to be where i am that's okay but those principles still apply and you can take them
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as far as you want okay so by no means am i saying that someone has to be an entrepreneur but what i am
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saying is that those values are consistent with anything you want to do in life joe has a multi
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platinum what do you have two platinum records okay as an audio producer did you get that by being lazy
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as fuck did you get that by someone giving that to you bro my dad started jujitsu three years ago
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he's kicking ass he's winning tournaments he shows up every day and works hard that is the reality of
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winning you have to show up every day you have to work hard and eventually you gain skills and then
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you start winning and these parents like the ones in your little town's facebook group who are raising
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a bunch of fucking loser kids that ain't going to do shit in their lives should have zero bearing on how
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you raise your kid stop asking for validation from fucking weak ass parents and start being the
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strong ass parent and be an example and maybe they will join you stop asking these crazy fucks for
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their opinion they're so not only that these are the same people that insert their opinion on everybody's
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shit i i don't know about you but i think that if you're going to insert your opinion on everybody's
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stuff you should have your own shit together right why is it like when everybody says they're going to
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have a kid all the other fucking moms decide to chirp in and tell them how to raise their kids
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when their kids are shit why why why when someone says i'm going to get in shape all these fat people
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talk about what they should and shouldn't do to get in shape these are low iq people that you're asking
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for their approval so what does that make you what does it make you when you ask low iq people for
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their validation and approval think about that it makes you dumb as fuck okay so you're doing a good
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job i know you've never been a parent before i haven't either but what i know about being raised
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by good parents is that you're teaching your children the right shit and you should feel good
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about that you're being a leader you're being a parent you're not being the best friend you're
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teaching them reality and that's what the fuck this is about i just keep thinking about like when that kid
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turns 18 and then the other little kids in the neighborhood turn 18 like he's gonna run he's
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gonna run him over dude bro listen dude that is the game right now if you are a young person
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and you are fucking 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 you're in that age range if you have any understanding
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of reality as i just explained it meaning go learn the lessons get better go make mistakes learn the
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lessons get better and you're willing to do that you're gonna crush everybody everybody because
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they've been raised by idealistic parents who don't know shit who and even worse think they know it all
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like i've never understood how people can look around at their fucking bullshit life and think they
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know anything another authority of how how how can you be the authority on fucking on anything when
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your life looks like dog shit how are you the authority on parents when your kids are turds
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okay and they play video games all day how are you the authority on fucking anything bro you look like
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shit you make no money your households are wrecked your kids suck but you're on facebook telling other
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people how to parent their fucking kids fuck you raise your kids the way you think you should raise
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them i love it i love it i would do more shit bro if i was you know why god never gave me
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kids because i'd kill all those parents bro i could dude they'd come up to me and they'd say you
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know and i'd be like shut the fuck up you would i you would yeah you would fuck away from me and i
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would even do more man dude do fucking like when it snows put them out there with a shovel
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lemonade stands all of that shit man yeah and if you really wanted to be winners bro i got a tool for
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that by the way i got some of the best-selling kids books in the whole fucking world and you know
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what they're about they're about how to become an operator and an effective person in reality as
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an entrepreneur and i built these books and got these books together for you because i know that
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a lot of parents are confused about what to teach their kids so every book is a story about my actual
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in their life so uh there's a little plug for that you can get them at andyfrustella.com i love it man
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god that pisses me off dude yeah like why is it it's always these same fucking people it's these same
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people you know what i'm saying they don't have shit going for them but they got the fucking biggest
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mouth in the world on the internet telling parents that they're raising their kids wrong because
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they're teaching them reality bro dude how do you think this country was built this country was built
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by fucking parents raising their kids on work ethic and and how to show up every day even when you
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don't want to and like i'm i'm fucking over it yeah fucking losers dude that's what it is man
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uh guys any question number two andy i hope this message finds you and the team well it does i like
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that start that's a that's a polite start that's a very polite yeah i like it um i am aware of my
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purpose and make an effort every day to pursue that however i find myself in moments of self-sabotage
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uh though they are brief they can be extremely careless and later on affect my productivity or
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ability to do certain things or activities more specifically my bank account tends to take
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a nosedive due to bad decision making while it may be on a smaller level and have less consequences
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now what are some ways to stop myself from spending unnecessary money when i know ultimately
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most of these choices i am making do not benefit me in the long term or even short term most of the
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time i feel like an enemy of myself self-sabotage where you got anything on that what's your thoughts
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on that you know i i've never really understood what self-sabotage means or what people mean when
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they talk about it like it never made sense to me self-sabotage like are we talking about procrastination
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we talking about just bad decision making i mean are we like what are we talking i think that's more
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it's like the awareness that you're making bad decisions you still fucking make them so why would
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you do that right no i'm being serious like if i know something's wrong and it's a fucking bad
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decision why would you do that why would you do that i i've never connected with that yeah you
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know i'm not saying i make every decision the right way i made a lot of bad ones but i you didn't make
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them knowing they were bad i mean there's been a few times yeah but like dude that was just me becoming
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a mature human being right growing out of that phase of understanding that like really what it came
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down to for me dude was i started to understand like this is my life and it's now it's not i'm not
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going to be here forever i'm not going to have forever to start making the right decisions so i
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need to start making them right now and um you know that honestly took me until i was about 35 36 years
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old to figure that out uh had i figured that out when i was in my 20s i'd be much further along
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but you know i i i think the best thing that you can do is to always keep in mind here's what i think
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i think that people make decisions that are poor in the short term and the long term because they
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are not clear and they are not focused consistently on what they are trying to achieve i think most
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people don't put enough planning into who they want to become what they want to build what they want
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to create what kind of life they want to live and because they can't clearly see it they don't have
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the ability to make the decisions that put them in that spot so whether it's through ignorance or
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whether it's through uh lack of discipline or whether it's through just not having that image
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in your brain all the time they make the wrong decisions and so we have to you know solve those
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three areas right if it's ignorance it's not you know you know that you're making the wrong decision
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that's why you're asking okay so it's not ignorance is a lack of discipline could be how disciplined are
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you how how much how able are you to make the correct decision to where you want to go even
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when you don't feel like making that decision okay you got to be honest about that and if you aren't
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able to make the decision that you know you need to make then that's a discipline problem and you got
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to work on developing discipline which is the purpose of the live hard program which you can get
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for free at episode 208 okay and then the third thing is lack of vision and clarity and focus on what
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you're trying to become if you don't know what you're trying to become how can you make the
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right decisions to get you to there you see what i'm saying and i think that those three things are
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the things that you should probably try to work out within yourself okay am i ignorant i don't think
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so because you're asking the question do i lack discipline i think you do because otherwise you
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would it sounds like you're aware that you're making the wrong decisions as you're making them
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all right so if you're making wrong decisions and you're aware you're making wrong decisions as you
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make them that means you're lacking discipline to make the proper decision so you can work on that
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you could build that discipline grit fortitude self-belief self-esteem these things are all
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tied together and you have to practice them in order for them to get better it's just like a muscle
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if you work out your arms your arms are going to get stronger if you work out your discipline your
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discipline is going to get stronger so i would practice on that and then the lack of clarity where
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do you want to go what are you trying to do who are you trying to become what kind of life
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you're trying to live if you keep that in mind all the time it makes it that much easier
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to make the proper decision to get there um you're saying when you know what your goal your
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end goal is the decisions you microly make should all be every decision yeah brother every decision
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that you make this is the thing see younger people think they have all the time in the world yeah and
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when you get to be a little bit older like in your 30s you start to realize you don't and then when
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you get in your 40s you're like oh fuck i don't have that much time left so your urgency to make the
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right decisions increases but your time and the ability to produce that result decreases so you
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want to figure this out as early as possible in your life bro had i figured out what i'm talking
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about right now when i was in my 20s fuck bro it would my life would be completely different right
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and i'm not saying it's bad i've done a lot with what i've got another regret state no i'm not saying
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that i'm just saying i'd be a lot further along which is the goal right um so yeah man i think it's
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we i think it comes down to those three things you know are you ignorant to to what you're trying
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to do do you do you even know right and can you make the decision even when you don't want to make
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it if not build your discipline up do you know where you're trying to go are you focused on that
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all the time and and then dude we have to understand that our decisions that every decision we make for
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me to what every meal i eat every exercise i choose to do every post i make or everything i say
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these things either move me forward closer to where i'm trying to be or further away there is
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no neutral moves it's what's this decision going to do is this decision going to move me further
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to where i'm trying to be or further away from where i'm trying to be and if you can learn to have
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that level awareness on a micro scale combined with discipline you know that's where you get
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in the sweet spot of being very effective in in your life i love that i want to ask you this too
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because uh this person touched on this uh you know having specifically issues with when it comes to
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money and i know for you you know it's been you become disciplined financially because you were in
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situations where you had no other options right like i mean that that's just what it was and then those
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those uh those skills that you learned that it kind of just overflowed to when you started having
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money do you is there a difference for for people i guess you know who like yourself went through that
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same process versus people who you know never had to really worry about that and so are they more
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frugal like how do you develop that that discipline if you never really had the i guess the quote
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unquote struggle part of it i don't know because i was never one of those people yeah i always had to
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watch my money and remember when you and i talked about this yeah you know and i had a talk with dj
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i don't know a while back a couple of months ago yeah about the importance of having and developing
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money skills when you don't have a lot of money right because people think that if they earn earn earn
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earn earn that they will just have lots of money but that's not what happens what happens is
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is whatever discipline that you have around money when you don't have any carries into the situation
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when you have more so if you develop good financial habits when you are let's say making less money or
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struggling and it's you know it's lean times right if you develop that's a great that's a great time to
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develop the financial skills that you need because then as you get more money you are more disciplined
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in your system of you know income and and bills and cash flow and as bad as it sucks yeah it's it's
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just way better to develop when we don't have money and and it's not the idea that people think they're
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going to make more money and they're going to change their habits is not true because if you lack
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discipline with a little money you're really going to fucking like it when you have a lot you're going
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to be giving it away you're going to be spending on dumb shit you're going to be doing this and people
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could say to me oh you got you're the one with all these cars and shit yeah motherfucker i make money
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on my cars right that's like stocks my shit goes up you know what i'm saying yeah so it's just you
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know develop the habits now and as you go they'll get you know you'll be in a much better spot yeah i
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love it i love it guys andy our thought-provoking question number three andy i've been a fan for a
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little over a year now and you are one of the biggest influences for my personal development i love
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listening to the show and getting your take on things my question is andy how do you deal with
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adverse circumstances it seems as of late in my personal life i am inundated with choices and
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situations that conflict with my interest i have a full-time job that pays the bills but i'm also
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putting in what free time i have to woodwork i've made some outdoor furniture for friends and family
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and have been told that i could possibly sell some of it since receiving let's stop this what do you
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mean you've been told you could sell some of it no shit you could sell some of it make some good
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shit and people will buy it you don't need people to tell you that you're fucking qualified bro i'm
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gonna stop you right there keep practicing and make some cool shit go sell dude you know what the common
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theme is with all the questions we get here it always has to do with getting validation from outside
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motherfuckers you do not need them to believe in you you do not need your friends to tell you you're
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great all you have to do is go become great and they will recognize it you don't have to
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fucking get a permission from fat suzy homemaker over here fucking at your fucking pta meeting or
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how to raise your kid you don't need permission from bob the builder to become a fucking woodworker
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like you don't need permission motherfuckers stop framing your questions that way i'm gonna make funny
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every time you fucking do it you don't need nobody nobody ever came to me and said andy you have what
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it takes to become a successful entrepreneur or andy you have what it takes to build multiple
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successful podcasts actually i got told i was a fucking idiot actually i got told that i couldn't
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do shit actually i got told i should get a real job actually i got told that i wasn't capable of any of
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the things that i've done i'm not trying to do them i've done them okay if i went around and fucking
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asked people what i could and couldn't do i'd be sitting in the same spot i was 20 fucking years ago
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so stop it proceed with your question oh man um but they say uh since receiving these uh these
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comments and compliments i've started to shift my focus to start selling my projects um since making
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this shift it seems like the world's against me uh once i get off work i go straight to the uh to
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building i only have a couple of hours every day during the week to get stuff done i bank on the
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weekends to get the majority of my work done but it never fails that something else always comes up
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whether it's birthday parties company parties date night obligations law and care property
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maintenance and all and even other bullshit uh like i break a tool or someone stops by the house
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randomly or calls to talking bullshit does this has this ever happened to you nah man you know what
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i wake up every day everything goes exactly as i planned yeah nothing wrong ever happens it's smooth
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as fuck and i just make all kinds of money bro this is super unique listen dude it's just you
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and honestly if i were you i'd just quit because it sounds like the whole world's against you man
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fucking tools break people call you on the phone who the fuck calls someone on the phone oh you got
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to mow your yard fuck bro that's a disadvantage i'm sorry this happens to everybody bro it's hard
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it's not easy every day you wake up you're gonna have shit go wrong every day you wake up you're gonna
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have bad things happen how you need to look at this as a fucking test it's a test do you pass the
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test are you not pass the test you need to fucking when you have a bad day bro you wake up and and
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fucking everything's going wrong and by the way none of that shit is that's called life that's not
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even hard shit bro what are you gonna do when hard shit happens okay what are you that's you're you're
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talking about life oh my wife called me oh god i'm fucking gonna die like what the fuck dude
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that's life there's gonna be distractions your job is to fucking discipline yourself to a point
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where these distractions don't pull you off track or you're able to manage them okay but ultimately
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here's the reality it's never going to go your way it's never going to be easy there are always going
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to be things that break there are always going to be things that go wrong and your job is to get
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through this regardless of what comes your way and the best perspective that you can take is to
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fucking look at it like a test okay when i wake up in the morning i already know and by the time i wake
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up in the morning i've already got 40 fucking texts on my phone at least okay and do you think any of
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those texts are good not a single one of them is like hey andy i love you bro i hope you have a good
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day every one of them wants something from me every one of them needs an answer from me every
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one of them is a problem to solve by the time i get out of fucking bed you know what i'd say when
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i get out of bed i'm the baddest motherfucker on the planet doesn't matter what happens today it
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doesn't matter if there's a fucking fire or earthquake or tornado or the fucking heavens rain
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down fire and brimstone on my motherfucking face i'm getting my shit done okay and i pass the test
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and that's the difference between people who lose and people who win they have a mentality that you
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are not going to fucking touch me you are not going to throw me off track and it doesn't matter
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if it takes until three o'clock in the morning my list of shit gets done every motherfucking day
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this is why live hard is such a good program for people like you because if you actually do it the
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way it's laid out it'll take care of all these problems that you have in terms of all these little
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distractions like it's absurd bro what do you think it's like do you really think that all these
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people that went out and built all this shit drive up and down your street fucking kfc one of the
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greatest fucking success stories of all time colonel sanders didn't get his fucking chicken recipe
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in any stores till he was after 60 years old he got his balls kicked in for 60 fucking years
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you're complaining about mowing the grass and going to birthday parties okay drive up and down the
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street and look at all the shit that everybody's built do you really fucking think they did that
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with no distractions do you really think they did that with no hard times do you really think they
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did that without breaking a fucking tool get the fuck out of here bro this shit's hard if it was easy
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everybody be doing it everybody have the biggest furniture company on the planet you got an opportunity in
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front of you because you have a skill set you should hone that skill set in and become great at what
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you do and then become great as a human meaning effective meaning i can work through these things
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as they happen and you'll you'll you'll get there dude but i'm gonna tell you this what you're going
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through everybody goes through and probably worse that sounds like some weak ass shit i'm not trying
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to be an asshole okay that's life you're dealing with life yeah that's just the tuesday bro yeah
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i love it man bro i i just it's like fuck guys i love you guys man i want you to win but fuck
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you know yeah we got we got changed that mindset dude it's a test you're the baddest motherfucker on
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the planet nothing's gonna stop you who the fuck's gonna stop you i don't care what they say i don't
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care what they have to what they post on the internet i don't fucking care all i know is that
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i keep taking steps forward shit happens good shit that's all you got to do just keep moving
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doesn't matter nothing else matters bro not dude that's the thing the thing about this whole game
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is that nothing else matters other than what you do okay people think there's like this
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outside circumstance that controls success i used to think this too by the way
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and they think like they're going to need approval from somebody who's credible you know i used to
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think like the success fairy flies down from the universe and taps people on the head and i used to
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think like i wonder if i'll get to be one of these successful people and it's just the wrong way it's just
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not what it is and once you climb the mountain or climb a few mountains you look back and you're
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like that's all it took like when i bought my first lamborghini bro it was 2012 2011
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and owning a lamborghini was a huge thing for me huge huge huge huge huge massive thing for me
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and when i got it sal was with me when i got it i mean it was awesome it was fucking surreal
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dude it was the cool one of the coolest experiences i'll never forget in my life
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but in that instance i realized what i'm telling you today which is
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all it is is showing up every day doing the shit you know you're supposed to do
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going to bed and repeating that as long as it takes and making sure that no distractions
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no bullshit no people nothing gets in your fucking way you have to have the attitude of a
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fucking warrior to become successful it is not easy it is not for everybody it takes more than what
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everybody else is trying to give which is why nobody else has it okay but if you can teach yourself
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to be disciplined and you can teach yourself to not quit and you can learn the lessons along the way
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from the shit that you fuck up you cannot lose as long as you keep going you will get where you
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want to go if you fucking have the ability to persevere you have the discipline to do the things
00:31:49.580
you want to do when you don't want to do them and you have the ability to keep going no matter how long
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it takes okay that's called passing the test i'm passing a test today what did i say to you right
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before i walked in today right before we got in there what i say to you guys what i say i said i
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felt like fucking shit today slept bad yeah i slept terrible i got i fucking threw up in my fucking
00:32:14.400
sleep last night because i got acid reflux right i fucking didn't get an hour of sleep today you know
00:32:19.940
what though i'm beating shit's ass today i just killed it in the workout i'm killing it on this podcast
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i'm about to go kill it and everything else i do and when i go to bed it won't matter that i
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fucking felt like shit it'll be an a plus productive day so if you could take all the
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days that you feel like shit or all the days that you're distracted or all the days you're pissed off
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you don't feel like doing it and you make those a plus productive days how the fuck can you lose
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the answer is you can't okay so start looking at these things differently this is a test that you
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need to pass and there will be tests every day that you need to pass and the more tests you pass
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the easier it is to pass them that's the truth and that's how you need to look at it i love it man
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i absolutely love it guys andy that was three yeah go pay the fee
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went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in
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the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case close