774. The Accountability Crisis： No One Is Coming To Save You
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Summary
We have to take responsibility for the life that we have created and stop pointing fingers and defer responsibility to everything and everything except the one thing that can change their entire lives, and that s looking in the mirror and saying fuck you man, you made me this way and I m gonna fix it.
Transcript
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what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realist's sake about the lies
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the fitness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today
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we're gonna start off the week with a real talk i'm just gonna get right into it okay we have a big
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problem in society these days and you're a part of it everywhere we look everywhere we turn on the tv
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or scroll through the internet we are inundated by people who refuse to take responsibility for the
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life that they have created and i got bad news for you there's nobody coming there's nobody coming to
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save you there's nobody coming to help you donald trump's not going to save you kamala harris isn't
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going to save you a knight in shining armor isn't going to ride in and save you you are the only one
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that's going to be able to save you and all this time you point your finger and you say i can't do
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that because i was born here or i can't do that because i have this issue or i can't do that
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because they made fun of me and you know what's going to happen nothing you're going to get more
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of the same you're going to get laughed at more you're going to be ashamed more you're going to
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be frustrated more and you're going to really regret at the end of your life that you put off
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taking responsibility for yourself and building yourself into what could be and when we look around
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at the world and we look at all the problems and we look at all the chaos we have to take
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responsibility for ourselves for creating it you're not living the best life that you want to live
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you're not the person you want to be you're not the person the eight-year-old you wanted to be and i bet
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you're not even taking steps to become that person are you and that's what's wrong with the world
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that's what's wrong with this country we have a bunch of people that want to point fingers and
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defer responsibility off to anything and everything except the one thing that can change their entire
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lives and that's looking in the fucking mirror and saying fuck you man you did this to me you made me
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this way and i'm gonna fix it and i'm gonna fix it by controlling all the things i could control
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i'm gonna control what i eat i'm gonna control what i drink i'm gonna control how i move i'm gonna
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control the information i put in my brain i'm gonna control how i treat people and who i surround
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myself with and if you control those things you are now in the driver's seat to create what it is
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you've always known that you were here to create because you always do know what you're here to create
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it's that little version of yourself that hides deep inside your heart that you are so afraid to
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even talk about because you're afraid the people around you are gonna laugh well guess what motherfucker
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they're gonna laugh and they're gonna laugh more if you don't do anything you're gonna get criticized
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no matter what you do if you go hard people are gonna criticize you if you stay lazy piece of shit
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people are gonna criticize you so you gotta realize that it's up to you to decide what it is you truly
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want and it's up to you to accept what pain you are willing to accept because if you struggle and you
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flounder and you refuse to take responsibility for yourself and become that version that you know
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you're supposed to become you will be miserable 100 you will have every single regret a human being
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could ever fucking have in their entire lives and the flip side is this you could put in the work
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you could put in the time you could say I am not going to settle I am going to become exactly who I'm meant
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to become because I know that it's not just going to serve me it's going to serve my family it's going to
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serve my community it's going to serve my city my state and my country and it's going to create an
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immeasurable ripple effect of people who know that they can do it too and guess what that's going to be
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hard but at the end of the day even if you come up short even if you don't become exactly what it is
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you want to become you will have created so much good in this world that you will not have regrets
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when you die so the choice is yours the choice is stay how you are keep pointing the finger keep
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blaming everybody and we'll continue to be this shitty version of society that doesn't take
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responsibility for anything and defers responsibility to all these people that want to sick and fat and
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lazy and dependent on them or you could say I am done with this today is the day today is the day
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that I will look back 10 years from now and say that was the day that everything changed and because
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you took that responsibility and because you took that responsibility and because you became that
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person that you know you're supposed to become the world will become a better place and until all of
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us understand that nothing changes society doesn't change until we recognize that we are society and we
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must change until that happens to you to me to your neighbors to your brothers to your sisters to your
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parents nothing will change it is on us our society our culture our country is a reflection of us as
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individuals and if we want to see how we're living then we need to go look in the fucking mirror
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how are you living are you the best physical shape that you can be are you the best mental shape that you
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can be how's your finances what'd you do today did you do what you're supposed to do or did you fuck off
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another day and put your dreams off until tomorrow and then tomorrow you're going to do the same thing
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and then the next day you're going to do the same thing and eventually you're going to run out of time
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and you're going to say oh shit that was my life and when that happens guys you're going to wish you had
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the time back I love you guys I love this country and I know it can be great and I know you can be great
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but we have to start taking responsibility for ourselves we have to stop putting it off
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and making excuses for why we aren't where we want to be yeah we all have unique hardships
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yeah we all have frustrations yes some hard things happen to you that haven't happened to me but guess
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what there's some hard things that have happened to me that will never happen to you and we all have
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a choice to make we all get to choose what hard are we going to have are we going to have the hard
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of creating and becoming and being a great example for everybody else honoring the people who came
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before us and setting a great example for the people coming after us or are we going to cruise
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or are we going to coast or are we just going to be another poor little me another drag on society
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another person that dies with all the hopes and dreams and amazing ideas that could have helped
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people while you were here who says at the end of their life I could have I should have I wish I had
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are you going to be the person that says at the end of their life I fucking did it
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went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in the
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cold bad bitch booted slow got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case close