REAL AF with Andy Frisella - June 16, 2025


894. Real Talkļ¼š Champions Embrace The Battle, Amateurs Pretend


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

136.6522

Word count

1,313

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

sentences flagged

Hate speech

11

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Summary

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Today we have a real talk about why most people can t win and why they will never become great at what they do because they are too fucking scared to look stupid in order to not look stupid. This is the biggest fucking lie we are told about success and it s time to wake up and wake up to the REALIST.

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realist say goodbye to the lies
00:00:21.980 the thickness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today
00:00:26.960 we have a real talk all right we weren't able to do q and a f so uh we hit you with the real talk
00:00:34.180 today get the week started right look dude i'm just gonna get right into it man i want to talk
00:00:39.600 to you guys about something that literally every single person deals with okay and they will never
00:00:47.420 admit it they'll never admit it but here's the thing the reason why most people can't win the
00:00:54.600 reason why most people are still broke still soft still average still wanting more for their lives
00:01:02.020 and can't figure out why it's not happening it's not because they don't have all the tools we live in the
00:01:09.080 greatest age of information that's ever existed it's because they are too fucking scared to look 0.90
00:01:18.120 stupid that is it now i want you to think about that i want you to think how ridiculous that is 0.93
00:01:25.480 that means that most people are willing to trade their entire lives their dreams their potentials
00:01:35.420 their income their relevancy everything in order to not look stupid in front of who in front of a whole
00:01:46.340 bunch of motherfuckers that are never going to do anything their entire lives okay most people
00:01:53.960 care more about looking like they know what they're doing than actually becoming great at what they do
00:02:01.640 they'd rather stay comfortable and respected at a level two than actually look like a beginner
00:02:08.580 trying to compete at a level 10 and that mindset is exactly why they will never ever move from where
00:02:18.620 they are because here's the thing you guys got to understand winning demands that you look stupid
00:02:25.600 first that's the game i didn't make up the rules that's just the way it is you're gonna look like a clown
00:02:32.760 the first time you try anything worthwhile you want to learn a new skill you're gonna suck you want to
00:02:39.280 start a new business you're gonna look stupid you want to develop discipline guess what you're gonna
00:02:45.200 fail a few times that's part of the deal that's the rules and the people who win are the ones who
00:02:53.020 accept that cost and keep moving anyway they don't care if they got laughed at you think that the
00:03:00.000 greatest people that ever built anything didn't get laughed at you think that the legends that
00:03:06.820 you look up to in sports and business and life you think they started out like that you think they
00:03:13.400 just like started up and they were like oh shit i'm great at this that is the biggest fucking lie 0.93
00:03:18.720 that we are told about success every single person that's ever tried to do anything started off
00:03:27.640 looking terrible and guess why they became the amazing version of themselves that you look up to
00:03:35.120 because they didn't give a fuck they didn't give a fuck what anyone had to say they didn't care if 0.94
00:03:43.060 they laughed they didn't care if they snickered they didn't care if they told them they weren't
00:03:47.280 going to be able to do it because they knew that what they were doing was the most important thing
00:03:54.240 they would ever do most people can't do that and the reason that most people can't do that is
00:04:00.740 because they care way more about their image than they do their future they want the praise now not
00:04:08.520 the proof later it's about instant gratification here's what that really means man these people
00:04:15.260 maybe you are choosing your own ego over actual growth you're choosing fake status over actual power
00:04:25.380 and the people you're trying to not look stupid in front of they aren't even doing anything
00:04:31.480 they're never going to do anything so why do you give a shit how you look to these people
00:04:39.600 okay every master that has ever existed look like a fucking moron in the beginning okay that guy that 0.93
00:04:50.140 you see at the gym with the perfect physique guess what he looked like shit the first day he walked in
00:04:56.680 the gym he didn't know what he was doing he didn't know how to eat he didn't know how to train he had
00:05:03.000 no idea he was just like you that guy that you see driving the car that you want living in the house
00:05:10.260 that you want with the business that you want dude he suffered he got made fun of he got laughed at he was
00:05:19.420 embarrassed okay he was broke he was unsure all of the things that you are all right that leader that you
00:05:29.920 look up to that champion it doesn't matter every single person that's ever been relevant in the
00:05:38.500 history of fucking earth looked bad when they first started out they were embarrassed they felt stupid 0.95
00:05:46.400 the only difference is they cared more about what they were becoming than what they look like today
00:05:53.800 okay they kept going they kept practicing they persevered they ground through the process they didn't care how
00:06:04.580 hard it was they didn't care how stupid they looked they failed over and over and over again and every single
00:06:13.420 time they failed they learned and while everyone else was laughing they got better and guess what
00:06:23.420 now they're getting results now they've become that version of themselves that only they saw in their
00:06:35.460 hearts while everybody else was laughing and the people who laughed guess what they're doing they're still
00:06:44.300 broke they're still watching they're still pretending and they're gonna be doing that their whole lives
00:06:51.520 here's the truth guys if you're not willing to look stupid if you're gonna get hung up on what other
00:06:58.440 people think you are not capable of winning because this test the test that you pass in the beginning
00:07:07.320 about feeling stupid and looking stupid and having doubt and having people laugh that is the hardest test to
00:07:15.140 pass and if you pass and if you can't pass it you can't win and every new level requires this skill
00:07:23.100 set over and over and over again you start out at level one you suck you master level one you got to go 0.72
00:07:29.600 to level two when you go to level two you suck you master level two you go to level three you suck that is 0.96
00:07:36.060 the process so this isn't a one-time thing okay you have to stay humble you have to be willing to stretch
00:07:43.900 yourself and yes it's going to feel uncomfortable it's going to feel like you are exposed like you're
00:07:52.320 a fraud but on the other side of that embarrassment is the elevation that you're looking for that's
00:08:01.660 where the evolution is that's where the growth is that's where the prizes are everything comes on the
00:08:10.860 other side of embarrassment everything so you have to ask yourself do you want to be respected today
00:08:19.040 or do you want to be impactful forever because the ones who win long term the people who change history
00:08:28.600 the people who create the greatest stories in the history of earth they ate and swallowed all the laughs
00:08:38.140 all the criticism all the doubt all the negativity and guess what they smiled and they asked for more
00:08:46.600 because that's the game and that's what it requires so be willing to look stupid in front of a bunch of
00:08:53.580 motherfuckers who aren't ever going to do anything and you will have passed the hardest test that keeps 1.00
00:09:00.340 almost everybody exactly where they are
00:09:03.840 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in the 1.00
00:09:11.000 cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00
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