REAL AF with Andy Frisella - August 06, 2015


ASK ANDY: Choosing Partners, Slaying Giants - MFQA2


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

194.01483

Word Count

3,086

Sentence Count

296

Misogynist Sentences

1

Hate Speech Sentences

2


Summary

LL Cool J joins us to talk about his love of The MFC Project and how he would like to be on the show one day. We also talk about how we plan to get him on The CEO Project.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Hey guys, what's up? It's Andy and you're listening to the MF CEO project. This is the motherfucking
00:00:22.180 CEO project and you're listening to it. Like I said a second ago, if you're a first time
00:00:27.320 listener, I started my entrepreneurial journey at the age of 19 with $12,000 that I earned from
00:00:33.480 painting the stripes on parking lots with my business partner, Chris. Um, 16 years later,
00:00:39.940 we own multiple companies with combined revenue of over a hundred million dollars. This is an
00:00:44.480 entrepreneurial show. Uh, we tell bad jokes, we say fuck pussy and shit. And if those things are
00:00:52.300 not appealing to you, you might not want to listen. Um, I'm here with my cohost Vaughn
00:00:57.720 Kohler. What's up, dude? I'm trying not to laugh. I'm just telling the truth. All right. Today
00:01:04.480 we have a very special guest. I'm going to get kicked out of church. Hey man, today, just
00:01:08.920 blame it on me. I don't care. Yeah. Today we have a very special guest. He's a big fan of
00:01:12.500 the show. Um, his name is LL Cool J. You guys know him? Yeah. Yeah. I wish. Actually, we're
00:01:18.140 just going to do Q and A's. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, hype everybody up, but, uh, I, I would
00:01:22.880 love to have him on the show. He shares my stuff all the time on Instagram. Yeah. And
00:01:26.820 LL, come on, man. Yeah. Let's get on. I found out recently that LL stands for something like
00:01:32.180 ladies love. I didn't know that. Cool James. I didn't know that dude. He's the fucking
00:01:35.660 man. I was listening to, um, I was listening on the way here. I drove the four. I drove the
00:01:40.260 four today, the GT and I was listening to doing it on the way here. It was on a 100.3, the
00:01:44.980 beat, which is old school, uh, hip hop and R&B here in St. Louis, which I love. Um, but
00:01:51.320 anyhow, it was really cool. He started sharing my stuff and I wrote him a message. He wrote
00:01:54.740 me back and like, I don't know, like I felt like, I was like, holy shit, this is awesome.
00:01:59.560 Maybe you can be on that show. He's a, isn't he on some lip singing show? Like dude, no,
00:02:03.740 but there's a, there's a cop show, right? Isn't he? Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I thought he
00:02:06.880 was on that. So dude, LL's the man. Like the fact that he wrote me back, I mean, and you
00:02:11.140 could tell it was him by what he said. Yeah. Just very genuine and humble dude. It was really
00:02:14.800 fucking cool. Yeah. So if open invitation, yeah, that would be cool. Come on guys. Help
00:02:20.160 us get the word out to LL. Yeah. So, uh, yeah. You know who else I'd like to have is the rock.
00:02:24.980 The rock would be fucking awesome. Yeah. I looked, I looked into that. I know it's, yeah. It's
00:02:28.660 like half a million dollars to my plan is to like, you know, eventually just become friends
00:02:33.680 with them and then he'll do it for free. Yeah. That'd be awesome. Yeah. Who doesn't want
00:02:37.160 to be friends with the rock? Seriously. Fucking awesome. Yeah. Yes. If you don't like the rock,
00:02:41.160 there's something wrong. Had you already introduced the fact that this is not our typical. Yeah. This
00:02:45.920 isn't our typical broadcast guys. We're going to hit some Q and A's. Um, which is what we're
00:02:49.840 going to start doing now on Thursdays. I think that's going to be the day is Thursday. Yeah.
00:02:53.320 We're going to start hitting some Q and A's. Uh, it's going to be a 20 to 25 minute cast. Um,
00:02:59.400 and I guess in order for us to keep it at that, we better get started. Yeah. And I am,
00:03:03.380 because we're early on in it, I'm just going to very, very quickly run through the pointers
00:03:06.820 for, for getting your question answered on, on, uh, the MFCEO project. Three things. Number one,
00:03:12.580 you're more likely to get your question answered. If your question is actually in the subject line.
00:03:16.860 Number two, uh, understand that a lot of you guys have really awesome things to share,
00:03:21.000 but keep the backstory like till later, just ask the question right up front and then say,
00:03:25.500 okay, here's some backstory. And then finally do your best to try to make sure that we haven't
00:03:29.440 already answered the, uh, the question on, on a podcast or really anywhere. Uh, because you know,
00:03:35.740 that's a little repetitive. So with those pointers in mind, you know, obviously it's
00:03:39.580 askandyatthemfceo.com. We're loving your questions. We really want to respond to all of them. Give us
00:03:45.220 time because, uh, we're getting a lot of them, which is good. That's why we're at, that's actually
00:03:49.420 why we're doing what we're doing. We're adding the Thursday podcast because we can't work them
00:03:52.660 in on the Tuesday show. It's just too, it'll be too long. Yeah. So the first question, uh, is
00:03:57.800 actually, you know, last, uh, episode I did this and this is, I'm going to do it again. Uh, this is a
00:04:04.020 question that's been asked by a lot of people. Okay. So it's, it's not from any one person,
00:04:07.900 but, uh, you obviously went into business with your best friend. Um, he's your business partner.
00:04:12.580 So you knew a lot about him prior to forging this business partner relationship. But a lot of people
00:04:18.600 are asking, how do you size up a potential business partner? Like, what do you look for?
00:04:24.220 What are some red flags? Man, I could give my best answer to that. Obviously, you know,
00:04:28.940 I've been very fortunate to have a tremendous business partner. Um, we work together very,
00:04:34.720 very well. I will give you my best advice on this, but realize that I don't speak from experience
00:04:40.820 on this because I, we started so young and it's just worked out. Um, I've seen so many businesses,
00:04:50.280 you know, uh, people getting into business with their friends and it's just turns out to be a total
00:04:57.440 clusterfuck, you know? And usually when I see it turn into a total clusterfuck, it's because
00:05:06.540 both people are trying to play business. They're trying to be the man they're trying to own a
00:05:13.560 business and say, Oh, I'm the CEO. And it just isn't about that. And you have to accept that from
00:05:20.180 day one. So I would say, get somebody who is genuinely interested in being a business person and
00:05:25.240 making a business, get up and run and do some shit in this world above being somebody who just
00:05:31.840 wants somebody to put shine a light on them and say they're fucking because 99% of business is
00:05:38.400 grueling, hard grunt work and make sure that that's the kind of guy you're getting into business with.
00:05:44.540 You know, for me, you know, finding someone who, who likes to do and is good at the things that you
00:05:51.420 are not good at is something that I think you would want to check first. Okay. First of all,
00:05:55.800 do you like the person? Can you talk to the person? Do you have respect for the person? Do you
00:06:01.220 get along with the person? Would you like to have a beer with the guy? You know, cause you're going
00:06:05.820 to spend a lot of time together, right? Um, secondly, does this person bring skills or money
00:06:12.580 or ability to grow a business in a way that you do not possess? Because there is no reason to bring a
00:06:20.320 partner into business. If you possess all the things that he already brings to the table. A lot
00:06:26.120 of people want to get into business because they think, Oh, it'd be cool to bring my friends along.
00:06:31.160 And it is cool to bring your friends along, but you don't want to bring an unnecessary partner in
00:06:35.840 just because you're excited about your business. You want to think this through. You want to make
00:06:40.360 sure that it makes smart business sense for you. And if the person is bringing things that you
00:06:45.480 already possess, you're likely not, not only are you giving up half of your, of your, um, equity,
00:06:52.580 you know, or a portion of your equity, you're bringing in somebody that you're going to argue
00:06:56.580 with over these same skills that you both possess. Okay. Which is not a good thing. So I like to align
00:07:04.440 myself and I think it's best to align yourself with people who possess things that you do not have.
00:07:10.660 Um, you know, and obviously core value character traits, you know, is this person a good moral
00:07:18.360 person? Are they a thief? Are they a cheater? Did they get where they are, um, by doing things
00:07:24.480 that are immoral? Because the reality is if they did, they're going to do those same things to you.
00:07:29.100 You know, that always cracks me up about like dudes who like are women who, who are in marriages
00:07:35.440 and they end up cheating with somebody. And like these two people that are married couples have
00:07:40.880 an affair and they get married. Right. You know, and what the fuck do you, why would you do that?
00:07:46.780 Yeah. You know, and then all of a sudden these people are out cheating again later and then
00:07:50.160 they're surprised by it. Right. It's like, dude, come the fuck on. People show you who they are.
00:07:54.400 Okay. So, um, make sure you're paying attention. I think that, you know, I think that's basically it,
00:08:02.020 man. You know, I think that's, that's really all I could say about that. Yeah. You know?
00:08:05.340 Yeah. No, that's good. I like it. All right. Well, hopefully that was no matter what,
00:08:10.040 there's going to be a sense of risk to it. Okay. Like realize everything you do in business is
00:08:14.500 going to have risk, including your business partner. You're there's a very good chance you
00:08:20.420 might have a bad business relationship, but if you have the opportunity to do something great with
00:08:25.620 somebody who possesses skills that you don't have, and you guys can forge together and create
00:08:30.260 something great, don't stop just because you're afraid of what might happen bad. You know,
00:08:36.640 fucking, you got to go at it. And when those bad things happen, you got to work through them.
00:08:40.480 You know, Chris and I, we've had our, we have our disagreements, but the fact of the matter is,
00:08:44.480 you know, he likes the shit that I don't like. I like the shit he doesn't like. Right. So it works.
00:08:50.360 You know, um, he's good at things I'm not good at, and I'm good at things that he's not good at.
00:08:54.760 So it works. And, and that's really, I'm, I've been, you know, somewhat lucky because it just
00:09:01.400 worked out that that was really my first business partner, um, that it worked out that way. But I
00:09:06.500 think a lot of that is learned too. You know, you kind of pick up what the other person doesn't like
00:09:12.120 to do and you pick that up and you kind of just work together. It's, it's, uh, it's an interesting
00:09:18.180 journey. It's going to be interesting no matter what. Makes sense. Yeah. Makes sense. Okay. Next
00:09:23.000 question is by a guy named Matt Edwards. And this is what he says. He says, um, I've entered an
00:09:30.580 industry that's dominated by one company controlling roughly 50% of the market share. They own the
00:09:36.740 shelf space. If you were going into an industry that was controlled by one company, how would you
00:09:41.460 do it? Almost all sales take place inside retailers, convenience stores, grocery stores,
00:09:46.100 et cetera. If it were me, I would look at other avenues that these, that that company is not
00:09:53.240 pursuing to sell your product. You know, we're in the age of technology when there's, there's,
00:09:59.140 there's different avenues to distribute and sell your product every single day. Um, and I think a lot
00:10:06.220 of people fall into the trap of seeing somebody be successful. For example, right now we have a brand
00:10:11.900 we're talking about that owns 50% of the market. I don't know the product. Well, you know, it's
00:10:17.220 funny. What can I say the product? I didn't realize when I read it. Oh, did he give the product? Yeah,
00:10:21.700 he did. What is it? It's the Moab beef jerky guy. Oh, all right. Yeah. All right. Cool. And dude,
00:10:26.180 Moab's good shit. All right, dude, here, look, I'll give you some advice. I tried Moab the other guy
00:10:31.760 the other day. I fucking love it. All right. So what I would do is I would start looking into other
00:10:36.980 avenues to promote your brand that would get tremendous word of mouth behind it. Find people
00:10:42.840 who have a voice, find people who have the ability to influence other people and get them on the,
00:10:50.340 on the Moab train, get them behind your product and get them talking about it, get them posting
00:10:55.180 about it. And you'll create momentum, which will create demand, which will give you the ability
00:10:59.420 to break into that space. Um, or at least you'll create a big enough disruption to where maybe,
00:11:04.760 um, your competitor, which is Jack links. I already know it's going to come in and fucking
00:11:10.820 buy you out. Okay. Which isn't a bad situation. Right. But either way you're creating value by
00:11:16.540 being disruptive and you're creating, uh, maybe you create an innovative business model, how to move
00:11:21.280 product, uh, that other companies aren't utilizing, you know, Jack's links isn't having, you know, the rock
00:11:28.400 fucking use Jack links and post a picture of it on the fucking Instagram. Right. Maybe you try something
00:11:32.760 like that. At least that we know of. I don't, I don't, I'm just saying they're, they're traditional
00:11:37.200 business, you know? So you're a small business. You've got to think of your advantages. You're
00:11:41.060 fluid. You're able to change. You're able to do things that they cannot do. So be resourceful.
00:11:46.880 You know, you have a great product by the way. I fucking love the product. Yeah. No, I had it too.
00:11:50.500 It was really good. I had the teriyaki. Yeah. So Matt, like, dude, you've got an awesome product.
00:11:55.940 You have a product and I, and I've, I eat a ton of Jack's links. I it's on the list. Yeah. I mean,
00:12:00.220 it's every bit as good as that, if not better. So in fact, you know what, dude, I actually think
00:12:05.880 it is a lot better. It's softer. It's fresher. I mean, it's fucking good shit. So you have a great
00:12:10.240 product. Okay. A superior product. So if you want to send us some that we can use promotional
00:12:14.920 type stuff, let us know. But the point is, is that you want to get people talking about your brand.
00:12:20.700 You know, the way that people buy is changing every single day and, and you've got to utilize
00:12:26.700 that and be fluid. And I know I'm not giving you a very specific answer, but you're going
00:12:32.200 to have to get creative and, and, and be the people's brand versus the big brand, you know,
00:12:39.680 get, take a one, take a one person at a time, you know, win over one person at a time that
00:12:45.020 has influence. You know, I don't see a lot of beef jerky companies going out there and trying
00:12:48.340 to like get people to have influence on social avenues to promote them. Maybe there's an idea
00:12:54.100 for you right there. You know, um, I don't know. I, I, I mean, it's a great question.
00:13:01.700 Yeah, it is. It's very challenging. You know, it's very challenging, but your goal should
00:13:05.800 be to either create enough word of mouth that people are buying your brand directly from
00:13:10.320 you. Okay. And then that creates the, the retailers want and demand for your product.
00:13:16.520 That's how I built my, that's how we built first form. We built first form that way.
00:13:20.360 Um, or it should be to create enough disruption in your, in their, uh, their market share for
00:13:31.420 them to come to you and say, dude, we're going to buy you, you know? Um, and that's, that's
00:13:36.040 what I would do. Sounds great. Yeah. Sounds great. So that's all we're going to have time
00:13:40.800 for that, that little beep. You guys heard my timer go off. Um, I hope I answered the questions
00:13:45.340 good. Uh, keep pouring the questions in guys. This is going to be a cool, I enjoy this. This
00:13:51.540 is cool. Um, you know, sitting here just kind of rapping about you already shared. Did you share
00:13:55.240 your Periscope and all your social media? Yeah. No, I didn't. Um, guys download the Periscope app.
00:14:00.660 Follow me on Periscope at Andy for sell. It's a really cool app. It's a live broadcast app. I do
00:14:05.480 daily Q and A's or at least every other day. It's a way for us to interact directly in real time.
00:14:10.320 Very, very cool app. I believe the app is going to change the world and the way that we do things
00:14:15.320 in business, um, and socially. It's definitely worth checking out. So check that out. Um,
00:14:21.720 you can follow me on Instagram at Andy for seller or Snapchat at MFCEO.1, uh, dash one MFCEO dash one
00:14:28.280 Vaughn tell the people where you're at on the, uh, on the old social medias on Instagram. And I'm
00:14:33.280 pretty excited, man. I've got two more and I'm, I'm up to a thousand. There you go. Yeah. Uh,
00:14:37.660 V a U G H N K O H L E R for Instagram. Same with Twitter. And, uh, and then I did start Periscope.
00:14:44.960 I'll probably do that sometime soon. And that's, uh, at Vaughn Kohler. So cool. All right,
00:14:50.460 guys, thank you so much. Thanks for giving a shit about what we have to say. Um, it's awesome.
00:14:56.020 We're, we're having a lot of fun with this. I hope you guys are too. Please keep the questions
00:15:00.500 coming in, email them to ask Andy at the MFCEO.com. Please put your question in the subject
00:15:07.580 line so that we can get to it quickly. Um, and you know, we'll, we'll keep doing these
00:15:12.440 little Q and a podcasts and see, uh, how they go. All right. Sounds good. All right. We'll see you
00:15:18.360 later.
00:15:48.360 you know, we'll see you next time.
00:15:49.360 Bye.
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