REAL AF with Andy Frisella - July 13, 2018


Everybody Wants To Go To Heaven, But Nobody Wants to Die, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO246

Topics
winning and dominating
Hosted by
Andy Frisella
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12 minutes

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Word count

1,965

Sentence count

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In this episode of the MFCEO Project, I talk about a common mistake people make when it comes to becoming a CEO, and how to overcome it. I also talk about how important it is to understand that you were meant to be the CEO of your life, and not the next guy to you.

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00:00:00.420 I can stack them hundreds to the roof. I ain't stopping till they stack to the moon.
00:00:04.900 Without me, my family wouldn't have food. Anybody go against me gotta lose.
00:00:12.540 What is up guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy, I'm your host, and I am the motherfucking CEO.
00:00:19.440 Guys, the goal of this movement, and this is a movement, it's not just a podcast. 0.99
00:00:25.080 We could be categorized under business, we could be categorized under self-help, we could be categorized under personal development, or a bunch of other motherfucking shit. 0.99
00:00:34.480 But the truth is, is this is a fucking movement, and the goal of this movement is to get you to understand that you were meant to be the motherfucking CEO of your life. 0.99
00:00:47.340 Today I'm going to talk about something that should be obvious, but it's not obvious, because I see it every day. 0.99
00:00:54.380 I see it in the DMs I get, I see it in the questions that some of y'all ask, I see it in my own employees, in the way that they conduct themselves sometimes.
00:01:05.740 Not all of them, we have an amazing team here, but I'm saying this is something that has to do with younger people.
00:01:15.140 I read a study, and I can't remember where I read it, so I might misquote it, but you'll get the point.
00:01:22.380 Back in the 1950s, 12% of the people felt that they would become a millionaire in their life.
00:01:31.480 And of the 12%, 10% of the 12% had an actual plan to become that.
00:01:40.020 Now, they polled people recently with the same question, and over 80% of the people expected that they were going to become a millionaire.
00:01:50.500 But less than 2% of those 80% had an actual plan. 0.96
00:01:58.080 What the fuck do you think that means? 1.00
00:02:01.140 Well, I'm going to tell you what it means, because I see it every day in the shit that a lot of you guys say, and the way you behave. 1.00
00:02:08.920 What it means is this. 0.99
00:02:11.440 You think that whatever you're doing right now, whatever it is you do for a job, whatever habits you have, whatever it is that you are doing right at this moment,
00:02:23.340 you believe that it doesn't actually matter, and that no matter what happens, you're eventually going to figure it out.
00:02:33.120 And you're eventually just going to become successful, and that it's just going to, quote, unquote, materialize and come together. 0.99
00:02:44.980 And guys, I'm going to tell you that couldn't be further from the fucking truth. 0.90
00:02:49.920 The truth is, as I've told you over and over and over again, but some of you refuse to listen, is that what you're doing now, 0.97
00:03:02.200 no matter how insignificant it might seem, no matter how dead end it might seem, no matter how pointless it might seem,
00:03:10.760 is shaping your habits for the future.
00:03:14.260 A lot of you guys are under the age of 25, and you're doing jobs that you don't feel you have a future in.
00:03:22.420 And if you're lucky enough to be in a company, like my companies, where the ownership actually works to create careers 0.91
00:03:30.500 for the people who are 20 and 21 and 22 and 23, or whatever the fuck your age is, 0.60
00:03:38.300 and you don't think that the bottom-level job that you have to do at the beginning 0.98
00:03:45.060 is pertinent or important to your development, and you actually becoming a millionaire is ridiculous.
00:03:58.880 Because we've all heard the saying, how you do one thing is how you do everything. 0.99
00:04:04.900 And that is the fucking truth. 1.00
00:04:06.720 No matter if you're cooking fucking french fries, or making Big Macs, or sweeping the fucking warehouse floor, 1.00
00:04:14.520 your job right now, and how you execute that job, the level of excellence that you put into that job, 0.99
00:04:24.320 is going to create the habits.
00:04:27.820 It's going to create the success habits that you're going to need down the road. 0.99
00:04:33.540 And you young motherfuckers have such a hard time understanding this. 1.00
00:04:38.620 You think I'm speaking some fucking crazy shit, like I'm pulling some rainbows and unicorns bullshit out of the clouds, 1.00
00:04:47.960 and trying to throw some sort of like, like I'm not being literal with what I say. 1.00
00:04:52.640 No, I'm being fucking literal. 0.99
00:04:54.280 If you can't sweep the fucking floor, and you can't pull the little pieces of tape off the floor, 0.99
00:05:00.920 and you can't sweep the fucking floor better than the next guy next to you, 0.99
00:05:05.140 and you can't do that job perfectly, and better than everybody else, 1.00
00:05:09.960 what makes you fucking think that you're going to be able to all of a sudden turn this shit on 0.99
00:05:16.320 when the opportunity presents itself? 1.00
00:05:18.760 You're not.
00:05:20.980 See, becoming successful is a situation of developing certain habits.
00:05:28.080 Discipline, persistence, patience, grit, character traits that you don't just get, 0.78
00:05:36.760 you are not fucking born with, leadership, management of other people, 0.91
00:05:42.060 how to sell, skills that you aren't just born with. 1.00
00:05:46.320 See, you guys think that you're going to fucking sit in your job, 0.99
00:05:52.160 and you're going to do a half-ass job, and you're going to do it half-ass, 0.99
00:05:56.420 and eventually someone's going to come along and say,
00:05:58.640 hey, why don't you become this in the company,
00:06:02.420 and this being some important role that's high-paying,
00:06:05.340 and that's not going to happen.
00:06:09.020 And you guys, for some reason, your generation thinks that that is going to happen,
00:06:15.000 and that's not how it works.
00:06:16.320 You guys laugh when I say, if you leave piss droplets on the toilet seat,
00:06:22.620 you're never going to be successful. 1.00
00:06:24.860 That's the fucking truth. 1.00
00:06:26.640 That's literal. 0.99
00:06:27.880 I'm being literal when I say that. 1.00
00:06:30.600 If you are so fucking lazy, and so inconsiderate, 1.00
00:06:34.420 and take so little pride in the details of you, 1.00
00:06:38.180 that you're going to leave a piss droplet on the motherfucking toilet seat, 0.99
00:06:42.560 you will never, ever, ever have what it takes to be successful. 1.00
00:06:49.160 And that's the fucking truth. 1.00
00:06:51.620 Success, money, all the shit that you guys are out there trying to get, 1.00
00:06:56.400 it doesn't just happen. 0.98
00:06:57.960 It's not going to just materialize.
00:07:00.420 If you can't master the simple job that you have now,
00:07:04.420 whether that be, like I said, making Big Macs,
00:07:07.100 if you ain't making the best Big Macs in your McDonald's,
00:07:09.660 guess what? 1.00
00:07:10.480 You're going to fucking lose a life. 1.00
00:07:12.240 If it's making fries, 1.00
00:07:13.260 if you ain't making the best motherfucking fries every fucking time, 0.99
00:07:16.000 because you know that's what's going to contribute to the business, 0.99
00:07:18.620 and make customers come back to that specific McDonald's,
00:07:21.520 guess what? 0.99
00:07:22.200 You ain't going to fucking make it. 0.99
00:07:23.400 If you can't sweep the warehouse floor better than the next guy, 0.99
00:07:26.460 you ain't going to fucking make it. 0.95
00:07:27.860 If you can't manage your three or four employees, 0.99
00:07:30.200 and help develop them into fucking winners, 0.99
00:07:32.280 guess what? 1.00
00:07:32.880 You ain't going to fucking make it. 0.99
00:07:34.220 Because here's the truth. 1.00
00:07:36.000 Losers always talk about how they hate to lose, 0.99
00:07:39.080 but they don't do anything about it.
00:07:41.340 But you know what winners do? 0.99
00:07:43.040 Winners will do whatever the fuck it takes. 1.00
00:07:45.320 Winners will show up and stay late every fucking day until they're winning. 0.99
00:07:50.820 Winners will talk to anybody they can that can help them 0.99
00:07:55.060 and take the lessons to heart and put them in play. 1.00
00:07:58.220 Winners will eat fucking dog shit sandwiches every meal of the fucking day 1.00
00:08:04.100 if that means that's what's going to happen is that they're going to win. 1.00
00:08:08.620 That's what winners do. 0.98
00:08:10.860 Losers talk about hating to lose. 0.99
00:08:12.800 Losers say they hate to lose. 1.00
00:08:14.660 Losers talk about how they want to win. 1.00
00:08:17.040 Winners do what the fuck it takes. 1.00
00:08:19.440 And that means beating the next guy. 0.99
00:08:21.300 And that's it.
00:08:22.320 It means being better than the next guy.
00:08:24.260 It means dominating the next guy.
00:08:26.440 It means being the best contributor to your company's mission, 0.99
00:08:30.380 whether that mission is to fucking make burgers or sell supplements 1.00
00:08:34.220 or build fucking skyscrapers. 1.00
00:08:36.180 It don't fucking matter. 1.00
00:08:37.500 It's about being the best value. 0.98
00:08:39.720 And guess how you be the best value? 1.00
00:08:41.480 By dominating the motherfucker that stands next to you. 0.99
00:08:44.800 If you aren't going to work at your job every day 1.00
00:08:47.580 and looking at all the other motherfuckers and thinking, 1.00
00:08:50.040 dude, I'm going to beat the shit out of all of you, 1.00
00:08:51.820 you don't have what it takes. 1.00
00:08:53.500 You don't have it.
00:08:55.980 Winners want to be the best.
00:08:57.940 Winners have pride in being the best.
00:09:00.200 Winners have pride in being dominant amongst their teammates. 1.00
00:09:04.140 You think the fucking football players at Alabama 1.00
00:09:07.760 don't want to be better than every other motherfucker 1.00
00:09:10.620 on their same motherfucking team first 1.00
00:09:13.060 before they go out and dominate the competition? 1.00
00:09:16.540 This shit is not going to just happen for you. 0.99
00:09:19.720 It is not going to materialize 1.00
00:09:21.660 because you do something for X amount of years. 1.00
00:09:24.680 A lot of you motherfuckers were brought up by parents 1.00
00:09:26.980 who quite frankly haven't accomplished fucking shit in their lives. 1.00
00:09:30.460 And you've been told that if you fucking work X amount of years, 1.00
00:09:34.620 you'll get promoted X amount of times 0.99
00:09:36.740 and you'll make X amount of money.
00:09:38.660 And you know what you'll be doing? 1.00
00:09:40.120 You'll be sitting on your fucking driveway, 1.00
00:09:42.320 drinking a fucking beer with your neighbors like everybody else. 1.00
00:09:47.940 The default of fucking not becoming the best 1.00
00:09:52.460 is becoming broke. 1.00
00:09:54.400 It's becoming poor.
00:09:56.280 It's struggling.
00:09:57.660 That's the default.
00:09:58.800 If you aren't working to become the best, 0.96
00:10:01.520 you're going to lose so fucking hard 0.99
00:10:04.320 that you can't afford to do a fucking thing in your life. 1.00
00:10:08.500 You're not going to be okay. 1.00
00:10:10.680 You're not just going to get by.
00:10:12.360 Your parents, oh, you know what?
00:10:14.160 You'll be okay.
00:10:15.260 Just relax.
00:10:16.400 Enjoy life.
00:10:17.720 It's okay. 1.00
00:10:18.480 You got to live your fucking life. 1.00
00:10:19.760 You know what, motherfucker? 1.00
00:10:21.040 I don't care what anybody says. 1.00
00:10:22.720 Life is a lot more enjoyable 1.00
00:10:23.880 when you don't have to worry about your fucking money. 1.00
00:10:25.460 And you can listen to all these fucking liberal hippie motherfuckers out there 1.00
00:10:30.020 to tell you this feel good bullshit about how, oh, you know what? 1.00
00:10:35.120 There's more to life than this and there's more to life than that 0.98
00:10:38.040 and there's more to life than working hard and this and that. 1.00
00:10:40.720 Look at their fucking lives. 1.00
00:10:42.480 Their fucking lives suck. 1.00
00:10:44.920 They say one thing and they fucking live another thing. 1.00
00:10:47.700 You can't believe what they post on Instagram. 1.00
00:10:52.240 Oh, I'm out in the middle of a fucking field, you know, 0.99
00:10:55.140 or I'm out on the lake drinking a Budweiser. 0.99
00:10:57.300 I'm out on the golf course doing this. 1.00
00:10:59.460 Yeah, but the motherfucker can't pay his bills. 1.00
00:11:02.140 Yeah, but his credit score sucks. 1.00
00:11:04.480 Yeah, and what's he going to do when he's 50 years old? 1.00
00:11:07.500 Is he going to be doing the same fucking shit, 1.00
00:11:08.980 posting on Instagram as an old man? 1.00
00:11:10.500 What's cool about that? 1.00
00:11:13.420 A lot of you motherfuckers need to get your fucking heads out of your asses 1.00
00:11:16.140 and that's the bottom line. 1.00
00:11:17.700 Shit is not going to fucking materialize. 1.00
00:11:20.400 It's not just going to happen. 1.00
00:11:22.220 And what you're doing now and the pride you take and what you do now
00:11:25.980 is going to 100% dictate the character traits and the skills
00:11:31.920 that you're going to need to get where it is you say you want to go.
00:11:36.960 And the reason I say where you say you want to go 0.99
00:11:39.720 is because a lot of you fuckers say you want to go there, 0.99
00:11:43.020 but you don't really want to go there. 1.00
00:11:44.560 Everybody wants to go to heaven, 0.99
00:11:47.840 but nobody wants to fucking die. 0.99
00:11:50.140 I think you want to go there, 0.98
00:11:53.920 they'll be the same thing for them.
00:11:55.240 See you next time.
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