REAL AF with Andy Frisella - February 17, 2017


Haters Vs. Criticism, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO127

Topics
haters vs. criticism
Hosted by
Andy Frisella
Mentioned
Diana Fleischman
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Episode Stats


Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

161.44

Word count

925

Sentence count

53

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

sentences flagged

Toxicity

37

sentences flagged

Hate speech

12

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

There's a big giant difference between haters and criticism, and if you don't know the difference, you're not going to be successful in life because you're too stupid to distinguish the difference. You're not stupid because you haven't done anything worth hating on. You don't care what your haters think, you care what they think, so shut the fuck up about them.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
Topics generated with Qwen2.5-3B-Instruct.
Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 What is up guys, you're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy, I'm your host, and I am
00:00:11.940 the motherfucking CEO. Today, we've got some Friday fire for you. If it's your first time 0.99
00:00:18.540 listening, welcome. All we ask is if you love the podcast, if you got value out of it, if
00:00:24.480 you enjoyed it, if it pumped you up, if you fired up, if you learned something, please
00:00:30.620 share it with at least one friend. That's all we ask. Guys, today is Friday fire, and that
00:00:37.060 means I'm going to talk about something that is just getting on my fucking nerves, all 0.97
00:00:41.780 right? And that is the misunderstanding of haters versus criticism, okay? Everywhere you 0.97
00:00:51.720 look right now, I see these young entrepreneurs, guys who are trying to make it, people trying
00:00:57.500 to do something, people trying to become something, people trying to create a new life, which is
00:01:03.820 awesome by the way, but they're talking about haters. They're talking about all these people
00:01:10.460 who are talking shit on me, or all these people who hate on me, or all these motherfuckers 1.00
00:01:15.720 holding me back. Look, nobody's holding you back. The only person that's holding you back 1.00
00:01:21.880 is you, and that's you in your brain telling you that imaginary people that don't really exist 0.98
00:01:29.440 are talking shit about you, and that's keeping you from doing the things that you want to do, 0.98
00:01:35.120 okay? You have to do something relevant at the bare minimum to justify real haters. You know 0.99
00:01:43.140 what real haters are? Real haters are people who slash the tires of your car, who fucking 1.00
00:01:48.520 throw poison dog treats over your fence because they want to kill your fucking dogs, okay? Who 1.00
00:01:54.460 fucking kidnap your kids. That's fucking haters. Somebody writing a fucking status about you on the 1.00
00:02:01.300 internet, or saying something, or gossiping, which 99.9% of the time doesn't even fucking happen, 1.00
00:02:09.380 and for you to go out and make statuses about your haters, you look like a fucking moron, 1.00
00:02:16.600 okay? Most of you motherfuckers listening to this haven't done a goddamn thing. Let's be honest. 1.00
00:02:21.100 The reason you're listening is because you're trying to learn something. I'm going to tell you right
00:02:25.140 now that 99.9% of you listening haven't fucking done anything worth hating on, so shut the fuck up 1.00
00:02:33.980 about your haters. You don't have fucking haters. All you have is your fucking imagination telling 1.00
00:02:40.600 you that people are saying things about you when they really aren't, and that's keeping you from 0.99
00:02:45.460 doing things that you want to do. That's what haters are. Haters are a made-up figment of your
00:02:51.920 imagination, and even if they are real and they say some shit, sticks and stones will break my 1.00
00:02:57.280 motherfucking bones, okay? We've all heard it. Shut the fuck up, and let's cross over to the second 1.00
00:03:03.840 half of the Friday Fire, actual criticism. People are going to say things about your product, about 0.99
00:03:10.800 your service, about your whatever it is you're trying to do. Hopefully, you have enough fucking 0.99
00:03:17.120 intelligence to delineate between, is this person legitimately offering some information that I can 1.00
00:03:24.820 improve myself on, or is this person just being an asshole, okay? And too many of you look at all 0.99
00:03:31.720 criticism as if it's somebody treating you poorly, or somebody being an asshole, when in reality, a lot 1.00
00:03:38.800 of the criticism you get is people trying to help you to be better, but you're just too fucking thick-headed 0.99
00:03:45.520 to listen to it, or too sensitive, or too insecure, or too something to process information about how you can 0.97
00:03:54.260 improve. And if you're not open-minded enough, and smart enough, and intelligent enough, and perceptive
00:04:00.820 enough to comprehend when someone's actually offering you constructive criticism, and you
00:04:07.080 automatically throw it in the hater category every time, let me tell you what, you're not going to be 1.00
00:04:11.840 very successful because you're too fucking stupid to learn how to improve. There's a big giant difference 1.00
00:04:17.280 between haters and criticism, and if you want to be successful in life, you're going to have to learn the 0.99
00:04:23.100 fucking difference. So, and then one more thing. By the way, when you make these statuses on the 0.98
00:04:29.060 fucking internet that say, oh, I don't care what my haters think, I don't care what my haters think, 1.00
00:04:33.960 I don't care what my haters think, you haven't done anything, you look fucking stupid. Because first of 1.00
00:04:39.900 all, you haven't done anything worth hating on. Second of all, you do care what your haters think
00:04:45.960 because you're acknowledging. Okay, there's a good saying out there that my friend Dan Fleischman likes
00:04:51.420 to say, and it's don't feed the fucking trolls. Somebody says something ignorant on your page, block 1.00
00:04:56.380 them, delete them, and move the fuck on. You don't need that shit in your life. And you sure as fuck don't 1.00
00:05:01.980 need to be shining your shine on people who fucking don't justify your attention. Learn the difference 0.99
00:05:12.180 between people are being assholes and when people are being constructively critical. And sometimes 0.99
00:05:16.840 when people are constructively critical, they sound like assholes. But it's still your job to ask the 0.99
00:05:21.460 question, does this person have a valid point? Can I improve from this? Can I make my product better?
00:05:28.700 Can I make my service better? Can it make me better? Because that's how you're going to improve.
00:05:34.160 That's how you're going to be successful. That's how you're going to win in a very competitive
00:05:38.620 marketplace. And that's how you're going to make money. So learn the fucking difference.