How to Create Killer Content, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO135
Episode Stats
Length
1 hour and 15 minutes
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204.70334
Hate Speech Sentences
232
Summary
In this episode of The MfCEO Project, Andi and Andi finally reveal the secret weapon that they ve been holding back and not telling anybody for a long time. The secret weapon you ve all been waiting for them to reveal is finally here!
Transcript
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what is up guys you're listening to the mf ceo project i'm andy i'm your host and i am
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the motherfucking ceo guys this is a great practical podcast uh we're gonna talk about
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something that all of you need to get invested in all of you need to get your minds wrapped around
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and uh your fingers and your hands dirty on because it's something that's going to define
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our entrepreneurial culture uh whether you actually own a business or how valuable you are
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as an employee over the next you know unforeseen amount of years because of the way that society
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is changing we live in a world right now where uh social media matters and as we've spoken before
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on the podcast we've talked about how your social media whether you're an employee whether you're a
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company uh no matter who you are is going to become relevant to the amount of value that you deliver
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and is ultimately going to affect the way you get paid um before i get into that uh i've got to
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introduce my co-host you guys know him vaughn the impaler the pastor of disaster what's up my man
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dude i feel like the co-pilot on the plane that's going to drop the bomb on hiroshima
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fuck yeah and you know why you know why why because i know that it's in this episode that
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finally at long last you're going to reveal the secret weapon that you've been holding back and
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not telling anybody dude the secret weapon is now so so lay it on us drop the bomb so before we get
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into the secret fucking weapon i made the post yesterday about uh the picture of me sweeping the
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floor and i had to block like fucking 15 people on my instagram and please note that if you follow me
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on instagram and you write fucking ignorant shit i will fucking block you okay like you will get
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blocked without a response if you have feedback constructive feedback that you want to give
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absolutely open to it please write us let us know questions at the mfceo.com or leave me a comment
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but be fucking polite if you're rude if you talk shit if you're a smart ass i will fucking ban you
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without hesitation and i had to ban a bunch of motherfuckers half of them said this oh andy i bet
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that's the first time you picked up a broom yeah motherfucker that's how i've been able to develop
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a following of fucking uh 120 fucking full-time employees and three to four thousand outside reps
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that are fucking bleeding the colors of our company because i've never picked up a motherfucking
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broom okay so half of them said that i sweep the motherfucking warehouse on a regular basis
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you know why not because i have to but to prove fucking point and you're too fucking stupid i understand
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that that means that you are probably going to be broke your entire fucking life the other half of
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the people i had to ban said something like this oh well oh that's real nice to say when you're at
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the fucking top you know and you know i'm not working any harder for my fucking paycheck and you know
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what and you know this i'm a big fan of you andy but you know this post is bullshit ban you know why
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because you are so fucking off the attitude that this podcast and my brand represents that i don't
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want to deal with your fucking ass okay you may not get promoted you may not become the ceo or a high
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valued executive at your company but working hard at your skill set taking pride in what you do doing
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the most you possibly can to contribute is going to develop skills and when you develop skills you
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develop value and when you develop value people recognize it will it be the person at the company that
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you're at maybe not but if you're playing your cards right you're going to develop enough fucking
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value to where you're going to have a shitload of other companies willing to pay you to work for them
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because of the skills you possess if you get fired or if you leave the company you're at now
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and if you're that big of a fucking loser and i said loser because that's what you fucking are
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that you can't understand that concept and aren't willing to do that you deserve every fucking punch in the
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nuts that life is going to give you you deserve to be broke you deserve to be miserable you deserve
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to struggle you deserve to hate your life because you're too big of a fucking pussy to do the work that
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everybody else is willing to fucking do period and if you're going to get on my page and talk that shit
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you don't belong here i will put my integrity on the line and say not only have i seen you regularly
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push a broom around here i've seen you polish the table i've seen you clean the freaking uh toilets
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before and here here's my take on this the reason that they don't believe you is because they can't
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envision because they wouldn't do it right they can't envision being a ceo and doing that kind of
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ceo means chief executive asshole and put your fucking feet up on the fucking desk and boss everybody
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around you're the boss it's not about boss right it's about leading right and like dude you can't
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develop the proper company culture unless you're a leader it ain't about bossing you know when i say
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i sweep the floor better than anyone i'm on my hands and knees in the back of the fucking warehouse
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scraping every piece of tape off the fucking floor those guys out there don't do that shit and you
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know the only time they start doing it is when they see me doing it that's what leadership is and
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i'm not tooting my own horn the only reason i'm saying this shit is because you motherfuckers are
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thinking any differently you're on the wrong fucking track period you know we have these kids nowadays
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who think that fucking like we talk about all the time that ceo is the fucking new rapper entrepreneur
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is the new rapper and you just get the fucking ball out no it starts with fucking simple shit like
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taking pride in how your fucking table looks or taking pride in how clean your desk is or taking
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pride in what the bathroom looks like taking initiative to do shit that needs to be done no
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matter what your level is and if you're gonna come on my page and talk that shit you ain't gonna be on
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my fucking page that's the bottom line i'm i'm done dealing like dude it's so disgusting how
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pussified our society has been and then i get the motherfucker i that i showed you who texted says
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oh regarding our our intro last week where i talked about next level content and he goes i don't think
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next level content is stating do the work in every fucking podcast in a bunch of different ways all
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right well if that's what you think about the podcast why the fuck are you listening asshole
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you clearly do you're clearly listening for some reason i give you fucking practical advice on sales
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on marketing on fucking how to hire how to fire how to open a business i have people in who have run
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fucking businesses telling you what to do you're still looking for that extra thing you know what
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the extra thing is it is execution it is fucking work it is doing the work and the reason that i say
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it over and over and over again is because you motherfuckers don't get it you're still looking for the
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fucking thing the secret weapon you're still looking for the fucking atomic bomb that could
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be dropped and you will just have no competition and you'll you'll ease on into fucking living in a
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10 000 square foot house driving a fucking lambo and dude that isn't how it works the reason i hit on
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the fucking work is because it's the fundamentals it's the same reason when you go to basketball
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practice they don't practice fucking dunks for the whole fucking practice they don't practice
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crossover dribbles you know what they fucking practice they fucking practice layups you know why
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because layups win fucking championships it may not be beautiful it may not be fucking uh glorified
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it may not be this amazing thing that wows people but it's the fucking truth layups win the fucking game
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dunks add excitement you want to talk about the exciting shit and the fancy shit and the get rich shit
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in 12 months shit go fucking follow someone else because around here we're talking about the
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fucking work because the work is what fucking matters wooden was even more fundamental than layups
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you've told that story before dude he started with socks right when you started the greatest coach in
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fucking history okay run the most ncaa titles almost consecutively by the way of any coach or any
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coach in any fucking organization the most championships he started with fucking socks how to put your
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motherfucking socks on the right way you know why because that's what mattered you know why it
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mattered because you run eight miles in a basketball game when you run eight fucking miles and your socks
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are on wrong guess what happens you get fucking blisters and you can't run eight miles and then you can't do
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all the other shit so it starts with the foundation and you know what the fucking foundation is of
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entrepreneurship it's work that's why i talk about it so much and that's why you aren't where the fuck you
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want to be because you haven't developed the foundation of a strong enough fucking work ethic
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you might think you have but you fucking have it otherwise you'd be where the fuck you wanted to be
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so fuck you and your fucking higher level content and we could stop right there yeah and they'd get their
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money's worth how much we charging for this exactly exactly you know what that's a whole nother fucking
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thing i told that motherfucker he he doesn't value the content because he didn't have to fucking pay for
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it if i was pay if i was charging five thousand dollars which is what i should be charging for a
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fucking course that motherfucker would be fucking valuing the shit that i said and be oh yeah dude by
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the way that's great content instead he's saying oh oh you know you're not giving me enough because
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he's entitled little bitch right speaking of great content that's what we're going to talk about
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today right actually yeah that is what we're going to talk about yeah so we are going to talk about
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that was a good transition man that's why you pay me the big bucks yeah man that was fucking good
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yeah you're stepping up your game can i just tell you that i have this like you are on the game i am
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but i have this thing that someday it's all that march madness you've been watching it's got you it is
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yeah well i know you're not a basketball guy and we're getting off on a tangent here but i mean
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have you watched it at all i don't watch it oh yeah okay i read books so i can make money all
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right that's good that's a good plan tyler do i not read books you read one on the plane on the
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way out to miami that's right have you heard of the book ask no okay it's apparently a awesome book
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mike what the chiropractor he doesn't want me to call him the chiropractor the back pain guy he was
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telling me how great that book was but i'll move you mike yeah move you mike yeah check it out yeah
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all right so this is what we're going to talk about today guys
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we talked a little bit about this already in the intro you know social media is becoming such a
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huge part of the way that we earn our income and a lot of you guys are sitting on the sidelines
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because you don't know what to do you don't know how to create content you don't know what
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to create and you don't know you know where to start and like i think a lot of people um start that
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way you know i wrote a post today i got featured did you see the thing yeah it was awesome man so i got
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featured as the number one uh the number one uh instagram account for my industry uh by forbes
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so i thought that was really cool um and that was you know i told a little story about how how
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instagram came about for me and i'll tell that story now because in case people didn't see the post
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you know i didn't even know what instagram was um i was at a dinner with a bunch of colleagues that
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own other supplement brands in 2014 in vegas and uh there was this guy there who you know you know
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what a tommy topper is like tommy toppers like we call him it's like the dude when you tell a story
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then he's already got a story oh no i don't it's better for you i don't you know guys like that
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though right you're telling i'm always the guy that tells the best story so i don't know what
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yeah i'm a tommy topper so we call him tommy toppers and this dude was like tommy topper and me the
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whole night about everything about our company and then eventually he found he figured out that
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like he really did have something that was better and it was that he had an instagram account and i
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didn't i didn't know what the fuck instagram was i thought it was a photo editing app like something
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to make you put a filter on your photo it looked cool you post it right you know i had no clue about
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how it worked and he's telling me like oh yeah dude we're fucking killing it on instagram blah blah
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blah and he's making fun of me about like oh for such a business guy you don't even know what
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instagram is ha and like all like just rubbing it in right so like i was getting like pissed but i
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wasn't showing it right so so immediately i start to like ask him questions because like i already
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know in my head i'm gonna figure this shit out and throw in your fucking face right so i started asking
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well how does this work and how does that work while i'm pissed inside right and uh anyway so the
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next day i got up i started fucking instagram account and uh and my whole mission was to learn
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instagram better than this dude and and grow to be bigger than this guy and this guy had like
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you know 11 000 followers on his company page or something this isn't like the muscle-bound guy
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that looks like homer simpson is it you know who i'm talking about no but there's a lot of guys that
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look like that okay in our industry well there was a guy that run another supplement company that
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there's a whole bunch of guys that run something like that but um but anyhow so uh you know i started
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instagram i started you know um i started i didn't really know what to do and this actually
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leads right into the first point um can i make can i make a quick clarification because i think
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just so people are tracking with us in terms of social media one of the things andy's not going
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to talk about necessarily approach we're not talking about social media uh strategy we're literally
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talking about composing content right right right so i want i wanted people to be clear on that as
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we move forward so so i didn't ignorance sometimes is the best thing right like i didn't know what to
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do right so i just started posting my life right and i started posting shit i was interested in and
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talking about shit i was interested in and i just happened to be interested and always been interested
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in the the success psychology and the principles of success and so uh i started taking pictures of
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like our trucks here at first form or our warehouse or things and telling stories um and that leads
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into the first principle which is tell the truth you know nothing as entertaining or as compelling as
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a truth people resonate with the truth too many of you guys overthink it you try to create something
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instead of just being who you are and uh you know if you really want to get people's attention
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you've got to tell the fucking truth but the thing is about telling the truth is that you know a lot
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of people just don't know how to tell the truth because they're still trying to manufacture an image
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and that comes from their personality in real life you know that's the people who go up to other people
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and try to be try to like pretend they're somebody that this person might like instead of being authentic
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and the funny thing about being authentic and telling the truth is is it's fucking noticeable and it's
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attractive so it works not not just attractive in relationships but in business people want to do
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business with people who are authentic and tell the truth and every single one of you guys knows when
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someone's telling you truth versus when someone doesn't it's that little gut feeling that you have
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that you're not sure what it is that's somebody lying to you that's somebody giving you bad vibes
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and all of you have human lie detectors built in that's why you naturally like people who tell the
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truth you get a good vibe you get a good feeling and and you want to do things with that person
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whether it's date them or do business with them um it's very parallel uh but one thing i was going
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to say was is it's not just important the thing that's so incredible about telling the truth in in
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today's day and age is that people are tempted to to present something about themselves that's not
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really accurate and they're very tempted to to tell frankly lies about their products and services
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but the great thing about telling the truth is it has staying power in today's day and age uh you tell a lie
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somebody's gonna find out it's gonna come out and you're gonna have to pull pull down the information
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pull down the post you're gonna change it but if you tell the truth that that's evergreen right it's
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like your mom and dad told you you know if you if you if you never lie you never got to worry about
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somebody you know you never have to worry about covering it up and tell another lie right you know
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that's the thing about lying is it's like a slippery slope right like you tell one lie then you tell
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another then you tell another then tell another and it eventually unravels and i'm guessing that since you
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started this two two or three years ago and i know you weren't just on instagram you're also doing
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stuff on facebook very rarely there might have been once or twice where you thought maybe i
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shouldn't have said that but you've pretty much left up every post that you ever posted yeah you
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know because you were true to yourself repost shit right okay so like i'll repost a post like if it's
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been up for like a year and it was a very popular post and i've gained a hundred thousand followers
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since then i'll take a post from a year ago and go repost it because there's new audience there
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right you know a lot of and then the old audience always say oh you're reposting shit well no shit
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motherfucker you should right by the way listen to me you should do that you should repost old content
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you should go back and reuse your content because you made some fucking good content a long time ago
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and you got a new audience so why the fuck would you not reuse it so that they can see it too it makes
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perfect sense so think that through by the way small point but when you repost it do you use the
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same image uh sometimes sometimes i take a new image okay maybe a similar image yeah so um so telling
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truth is very advantageous as well because of what you said though man like everybody is so
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fucking used to like lying that when you tell the truth it stands out it makes you stick it makes you
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memorable and people know uh not only that you're telling the truth but they appreciate it and they
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remember it because it's so fucking rare so telling the truth is a huge deal about your content don't try
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to manufacture some bullshit image don't try to manufacture some sort of you know um persona
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right you know don't try to be gary vaynerchuk don't try to be grant cardone don't try to be andy
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be you right you know you don't have to curse and get all hype and do this and that like dude you could
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just be who you are and people resonate with that you know what i mean there's a lot of people out
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there that have huge followings that don't act anything like these other guys act they're just them
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an authentic character which is you you're born with an authentic character uh is a very powerful
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asset so like you know the first point is realize that being true to yourself and being authentic
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and telling the truth to everybody and telling the real stories of your life is powerful you know you
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you might think and we all have a tendency to think that nobody cares about our stories but there's always
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a way to tell your story in an entertaining way if you type it out absolutely you know what i'm saying
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like dude there's there's a way to make it sound interesting you just have to put some effort in
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doing that so so that's the first point of great content it's got to be truthful okay absolutely now
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um let's move on to the second point because i want to keep this real simple for everybody and real
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practical so you can't say oh all your podcasts are just about doing the fucking work like a stupid
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motherfucker as if that's a worthless thing to say exactly like dude if i could have reached through
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instagram and punch this motherfucker in the face i would have that'd be the fucking work i would have
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done so i the second point is you got to identify your audience who are the people you want to attract
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who is your content for what are you trying to do what is the purpose you know uh i could go on to my mfceo
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website or instagram account and post uh a terrific recipe for fucking uh barbecue ribs but guess what
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nobody's going to resonate with that because that's not what my brand is that's not who i am it's not
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what i'm about um it could be you know perfect recipe it could be well written it could make you
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fucking it could make your mouth water and it's still going to get half the fucking likes that that
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something else would get because even though it's a great post it's not geared towards my audience that
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i've built so you have to start from the beginning with an audience in mind and really i see a people
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try to they try to create content for everybody like they try to create this content that's really
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cool for this one segment of audience and then they look at it and then they start picking it apart and
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they say man you know what that's really cool but like what about this person what are they going to
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think and they think about like their aunt uh their aunt right from you know three generations ago
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what's she going to think whenever she sees this she's going to think i'm a dick and so then they
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take the the content they fucking chop it up to make it less interesting to the people who would
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have really loved it and and to make it more interesting to this aunt who isn't going to give
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a fuck either way right and then they end up with some boring shit that nobody cares about right
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everybody does that right so you know you have to remember and that's a sub point of know who the
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content is for is to to keep your content focused don't worry about the people who aren't going to
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be in that group don't worry about what they think because it's not for them eventually they'll
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unfollow you and you want to fucking worry about it or do what i do block the motherfuckers when they
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make ignorant comments block them out i purposely post shit to bring the fucking haters out look
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the people who don't agree so that they'll comment and i can figure out who they are and block them
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you know what i'm saying right it's like thinning of the herd right so like don't feel bad and
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there's nothing wrong with blocking people like i you know sometimes like i've had some
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motherfuckers make like fake accounts and then come back on my page i can't believe you blocked me
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well dude you're being an asshole right what do you expect i don't come on your page to be an
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asshole don't feel bad about blocking people that are assholes you know what i mean constructive
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criticism honest feedback in a respectful way 100 awesome but when you're an asshole you get blocked
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right there's nothing wrong with that so that's why they put a fucking block feature in there right
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exactly so going back to what you're saying though because i want to draw a principle from this you're
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saying with regard to the barbecue recipe a lot of people are like but andy it was awesome content
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awesome content has to be relevant has to be relevant it has to be awesome for the right that's
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right audience right relevant to your audience right you know what i mean and of the you could always
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have like maybe one or two sub interests but the best like for me right like i'll post entrepreneur
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videos and and then i'll post a picture of my car right and then a picture of my dog but outside of
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those three kind of posts you won't see another kind of post on my page usually now you're starting
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to see fitness kind of posts because i'm getting in shape but that you know so we've got little
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subcategories but under those subcategories the picture might be a subcategory but most of the time
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i'll tell a story based around my main category under the caption which is why when you see i talk
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show a picture of my car yes i'm into cars but i'll use the car to teach a lesson that has to do
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with entrepreneurship you follow what i'm saying yeah i do and that that's a huge question and you
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and i talked about it briefly in prep preparing for this i mean obviously social media is that weird
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thing where you're straddling like personal and professional so you're going to have some interests
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that you're that your followers don't necessarily have no but that's good because that shows people that
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you're a real person right right so like and it might bring new followers exactly you're going to
00:23:14.820
attract some people that are interested in those things they're going to find your content say oh
00:23:17.980
you know what this is cool shit okay so so when you're when you're you don't want to be robotic like
00:23:24.660
you see these guys on the on instagram and on youtube and all the shit and all they post is like
00:23:30.340
memes right motivational memes that is not going to get you anywhere that's not going to build you a real
00:23:35.740
following that's going to get you some likes and people are going to like it but they're not going
00:23:39.700
to know who the fuck you are and they're not going to buy your shit which is ultimately what this is
00:23:43.140
about right you want to monetize your content eventually you want to become the expert figure
00:23:47.060
out how to monetize this shit make some fucking money okay right now you can't do that without
00:23:52.180
personal content now if i just posted videos all day long every single post of motivational video
00:23:57.380
people would think i was robotic and what they would do is they would not think i'm a real person
00:24:01.920
they wouldn't have a personal connection to me and eventually the shit would get old and they
00:24:07.300
would go away you see what i mean right so by by me posting and i'm basically giving you guys my
00:24:11.980
instagram strategy here and content strategy by me posting shit of my real life via snapchat or insta
00:24:19.240
story you know i show uh what i'm doing during the day i show me working out i show me you know
00:24:24.340
doing the things i do instead of just like fucking words on a page right people relate and they
00:24:31.340
connect and so that's that's a very important like um if we're going to talk about real concepts here
00:24:36.220
snap using snapchat and insta story and insta story is going to smash snapchat by the way if they
00:24:42.220
aren't already um to complement your your main platform content whether that be uh youtube or
00:24:51.500
instagram or whatever by showing what you really do helps create a connection with your audience so
00:24:57.420
they feel like they know you okay um behind the scenes is a way to think about it right now uh
00:25:05.620
with that being said you know all of your content should be within the realm of your main focus so
00:25:14.760
like i was saying a minute ago like when i post something about uh my car i'll tell a story about
00:25:20.800
the car i'll tell a story how i got the car i'll tell a story about how people told me i couldn't get
00:25:24.200
the car or i'll tell a story about how long it took to get or what i had to do and all these things
00:25:27.960
that are relevant to the main point of of being successful right because that's what i'm known as
00:25:32.360
i'm known as a success entrepreneur uh empowerment guy right that no bullshit blah blah blah so all of
00:25:40.340
my shit will tie into that somehow now sometimes you'll see me post a picture of my dogs or my family
00:25:44.700
and i'll make a post about you know gratitude or about staying grounded or about uh you know keeping
00:25:50.940
things in perspective and that's important in entrepreneurship so even though it's not directly
00:25:55.640
about making money people value that because they see that those are things that matter still and they
00:26:02.280
don't feel like they're selling their soul to the devil for success which you shouldn't you know what
00:26:06.540
i mean so it helps round out the whole picture so like everything i do is is by design absolutely you
00:26:13.740
know what i mean and and it's authentic it's the truth so i keep so i cover the first two points
00:26:19.680
very clearly i tell the truth i use my real life and i know exactly what i'm trying to accomplish and
00:26:27.080
what my audience i'm trying to do yeah now now if you watch other people now i'm not going to name
00:26:32.920
names but there's other people in what i would say the entrepreneur success space who are very
00:26:37.680
fucking popular who their content is all highly produced it's always the hustle hustle hustle hustle
00:26:44.040
hustle hustle hustle right they have no idea who you're talking about right and
00:26:48.240
and it's always words on a meme or a video and it doesn't show well-rounded personality it shows
00:26:55.380
one aspect and let me ask you something would you want that life i wouldn't nobody fucking wants that
00:27:01.820
life let me let me throw out you get what i'm saying yeah absolutely so let me throw out three
00:27:05.420
other things that i i i know you agree with a thousand percent um these are three mistakes that
00:27:11.040
people make too you you mentioned that don't just uh post memes like inspirational memes or
00:27:16.440
motivational memes the other thing i notice is that there are a lot of people who do a pretty
00:27:19.600
good job of creating what i would call the talking head motivational videos like you do like a little
00:27:25.260
snip the problem is they post them one after the next after the next so visually when you look at
00:27:31.040
somebody's account all you see is still shots of that guy right dude like literally that's all it's
00:27:37.220
just this one monolithic visual it just looks like crap right and you don't do that you really
00:27:43.240
really mix it up with different things right the other thing people do that uh and like grant and
00:27:47.440
now let me say this now now and you're gonna some people say well yeah well those couple those guys
00:27:52.000
have twice as many followers as you let me tell you why they've been on the fucking instagram three
00:27:56.700
years longer than i have second of all they spend a fucking they spend twenty five thousand dollars
00:28:02.180
every fucking three days to promote their page on other pages which i don't spend any money right
00:28:05.760
right my shit is organic i would also argue and maybe maybe this is wrong because i know that we
00:28:10.440
the speed of business is very very you know very fast and you can go uh you know you can go from
00:28:15.980
one platform to the next without even blinking but i also think we're in it for the long game right
00:28:20.760
so i think a lot of a lot of people binge on that kind of content and then they move on yeah but i think
00:28:26.420
if you're if you do what you're doing which is to mix it up you're going to keep looking for the
00:28:30.500
long haul exactly so it's it flows with the idea of retaining people right we talked about that uh in
00:28:38.240
aggressive retention or retention aggression we we you have to understand that people will get worn
00:28:44.160
out on your shit if it's the same shit over and over and over like over and over and over and you're
00:28:48.400
like you could do too much content way too much and there's people out there that do they're posting
00:28:52.960
literally 30 fucking times a day uh across all platforms and they're trying to create a situation
00:29:01.040
of omnipresence i'm everywhere at once that's all you see is me and that's good in theory but the
00:29:07.840
problem with that is is that people get fucking tired of you they're tired of your fucking face
00:29:12.640
they don't like the way you look they don't like the way you fucking sound they get annoyed with you
00:29:17.160
it's like that motherfucker that follows you around everywhere and like everywhere you look there he is
00:29:21.120
like he's staring at you and eventually you're like dude get the fuck off my back you're in my
00:29:25.900
personal space and right and some of these some of these social media quote-unquote gurus are seeing
00:29:32.460
that happen to them you know you're seeing it like you're seeing people say dude i'm fucking sick of
00:29:37.260
that dude like in the comments you know and the comments always get deleted but i mean if you pay
00:29:41.400
close attention that's what you're seeing right you know and so by bombarding and bombarding and
00:29:46.360
bombarding you know you can overdo it so you have to understand and find um be very in tune with what
00:29:53.880
a good balance of content amount is you know another thing i'm confused about and this is off subject
00:29:58.700
but like how the fuck do these guys actually work i saw the funniest video the other day that said
00:30:04.200
oh you know this content is just me uh running my company no it fucking isn't it's you making
00:30:11.100
fucking videos and memes all fucking day which is time consuming yes and posting it so you could get
00:30:16.920
fucking you know boosted up like dude how the fuck do you run a i run a fucking company you know i'm not
00:30:23.760
social media fucking that's an excellent point yeah like like i actually run a company actually
00:30:28.940
multiple companies you know what i mean like i can't be on social media 27 hours a day
00:30:33.340
you know like and we can't even record you working because it's not exactly the most glamorous thing
00:30:39.260
because you do most of the work through your phone so be right you're gonna sit here and fucking watch
00:30:43.420
me on my phone right you know you're gonna sit here and watch me and i'm sitting in my brother's
00:30:46.640
office talking about shit that we're gonna do like you know it's it's you have to
00:30:52.540
i mean i could go off on some of these other dudes but like you guys all know the shit i'm
00:30:58.440
talking about right yeah you know there's there's a bunch of people out there doing great shit right
00:31:02.180
now gary doing great shit fucking lewis putting out great content uh gerard adams putting out great
00:31:08.680
content uh you know there's dudes doing this shit the right way that's relevant content where they're
00:31:14.920
not just selling you their fucking program um some of these dudes do sell a program and that's okay
00:31:20.520
because they've done shit right you know what i mean but like you know and by the way i'm always
00:31:25.760
a backer of someone who sells info products if they've actually built something right um there's
00:31:31.120
a lot of guys out there and i'm not afraid to share you know one of my like i said you know don't do
00:31:36.980
memes all the time which my buddy steve mayor agent steven does memes all the time that's why his page
00:31:42.200
isn't verified that's why he's not that's why he has a million something followers no verification
00:31:46.320
because it's not a real personality but he doesn't want that because because steve is running a
00:31:52.120
business his own life and he's very private so that's okay that's what he wants i'm speaking if
00:31:57.060
uh you know if you want to become your own brand or your company's brand or the expert in your
00:32:02.740
industry uh but steve i like steve content i share a lot of his content because it's fucking good man
00:32:08.080
no that dude's really fucking smart too yeah um like you've mentioned him before yeah very very smart
00:32:13.100
everybody knows agent steven's page i mean it's a huge page but uh but if you go out and try to
00:32:18.360
copy that you're never going to build your own brand because people don't know you you know what
00:32:22.180
i mean so like you have two extremes right there that's two extremes you have agent steven you have
00:32:25.660
gary right gary's so fucking focused and so on his own that he could burn you out on his content
00:32:31.960
right but you know he's doing something right because he's fucking doing really well right agent steven's
00:32:39.880
doing really well but he's never going to be known as that he's never going to have that personal clout
00:32:43.560
brand that you're that a lot of guys are trying to build right now so you've got two extremes right
00:32:48.280
you want to kind of mix those two together right you know i'm saying absolutely balance all right um
00:32:54.440
i had some things i was going to say about structure but i could say that later let's let's
00:32:59.240
no we can go into that but let's recap right tell the truth yeah know your fucking audience right
00:33:03.140
all right stick to that be human show your humanity show your real life be vulnerable don't
00:33:09.400
be afraid to share your real shit because that's what people resonate with whatever you're really
00:33:14.320
feeling whatever you're really uh you know struggles you're really going through be real with that shit
00:33:19.000
because other people are going to say fuck yeah dude i know what that's about yeah right but in a
00:33:23.160
positive not a moping way yeah no bitch no you know what i mean all right so let's talk about
00:33:28.140
structure for a minute yeah so when i'm you know when you give me all this content and when i'm
00:33:34.780
working on different people's uh books and such one of the standard go-to structures is something
00:33:42.220
called monroe's motivated sequence and i would tell your your our listeners here guys look up monroe's
00:33:48.400
motivated sequence it's it's a tried and true method of structuring something basically it's attention
00:33:53.520
grab people all right very nice thing is you you help you identify a need then you satisfy the need
00:34:00.900
then you visualize like you you say hey so what would it look like if you all started using uh
00:34:07.600
level one protein powder and then you maybe address a an objection and then you have a call for action
00:34:15.600
and i didn't really illustrate all that but it's pretty straightforward and like i said if you look
00:34:19.620
up just google monroe's motivated sequence it's a time tested like it's literally rooted in ancient
00:34:24.520
rhetorical principles that go back to aristotle attention identify need satisfy the need visualize
00:34:33.060
what it would look like if people you know did what you said yes address an objection and then call to
00:34:39.480
action okay so i want to i want to say visualize what it would look like that's a key point in relative
00:34:44.360
in relevant content every time i write a post or make a post or make a video i watch it and i think
00:34:49.600
all right i go back to point two know the audience and i try to put myself as one of them what are
00:34:55.260
they going to think how are they going to react to this what is the reaction going to be and that's
00:35:00.680
you know you've got to be able to play that role so that you you can predict if this is going to be
00:35:05.900
good or bad a lot of people just post mindless shit which actually brings me to the third point
00:35:11.180
okay and i want you to remember these two fucking words if you're taking notes write these two words
00:35:16.720
down make and take and what i mean by that is like we've all read these posts that you know we look
00:35:23.380
at and it's got a really cool picture um and then underneath you read it and by the way captions
00:35:29.360
fucking matter when i first started instagram everybody yelled at me so your captions are too
00:35:33.600
long now everybody's doing long captions right you know i'm saying um but captions fucking matter
00:35:38.720
okay i could post a picture of my dog shit and if i wrote a great caption it's going to get
00:35:43.120
15 000 likes right all right it's truth no it is true while you're on captions my audience is
00:35:49.620
wants the caption my audience don't give a fuck about the picture right that's my audience when
00:35:54.100
they type people in your photos it's caption bro i know my fucking audience right they love the
00:35:58.820
caption i got a smart audience you motherfuckers listen to me and watch my shit are smart you know
00:36:04.260
how to fucking read half these motherfuckers on instagram don't know how to read or write right
00:36:08.680
and this is going to bring my point up right here we've all seen these pictures right you see us a
00:36:13.240
lot with the instagram models beautiful fucking female super fucking smoking hot and then like
00:36:19.400
it's like a bible quote you know i'm saying and you're like looking at it and you're like
00:36:24.680
why don't you just say like damn this picture is hot you know i'm saying i look good right like dude
00:36:31.100
i would like that more like if someone would just own their shit i'd be like fuck yeah this shit is
00:36:35.580
hot or at least a relevant bible verse like behold they were yeah they were naked and unashamed
00:36:40.700
that's right exactly right dude like rate something that's like relevant and and if you can't write
00:36:46.980
anything relevant at least go back to point number one which is tell the truth if you look fucking good
00:36:51.220
say damn i look fucking good i like that other people like that and they're you know some people
00:36:56.520
are gonna say oh that's conceited hey man it is what it fucking is if you look good you look fucking
00:37:00.940
good right so you said there were two key words did i miss it make and take right and take
00:37:05.560
okay make a point all right be strong with the point that you make don't write this fucking
00:37:12.180
weak ass bullshit because you're afraid of what aunt martha is going to think of it
00:37:15.940
make a fucking strong point and take a stand don't ride the fence don't try to create a caption
00:37:23.160
base for fucking 100 of the people like i've always said and told you guys 50 of the people are not
00:37:29.900
going to like you no matter what the fuck you do it's a good example is republican democrat if you're
00:37:35.680
a fucking democrat you're usually your mind is made up all this billion dollar campaign bullshit
00:37:41.020
is useless how many fucking people do you know personally that are registered democrats that
00:37:47.080
actually change their mind or register rub republicans that actually change their mind
00:37:51.400
it's fucking four percent of the population by statistical fact it's four percent out of a hundred
00:37:57.460
why the fuck are you going to try to appease four percent of the people with your content
00:38:01.680
when you should just go for the fucking 48 that are going to fucking love you make content for that
00:38:07.620
48 and fuck the rest of them right okay so make a point be clear with your fucking point be clear with
00:38:15.080
what you're trying to explain and take a stand on the point don't ride the fence nobody likes riding
00:38:20.760
the fence you can't get passionate about riding the fence nobody's going to fucking be passionate
00:38:26.240
about your product or your brand or following you if you ride the fucking fence be polarizing
00:38:32.600
okay be the person who takes a stand because most of society won't it's going to make you stand out
00:38:39.180
just like telling the truth will all right absolutely let me add something to that just from the
00:38:43.420
standpoint of a writer when it comes to writing a thesis there's a difference between making an
00:38:47.620
observation and having a thesis an observation that's even if it's opinionated is something like
00:38:52.900
saying taylor swift is awesome well that that's an opinion and that's basically an observation
00:38:58.320
a thesis is something like what you're saying is taking is taking a stand and being specific
00:39:03.200
based on her romantic lyrics taylor swift is the greatest lyricist who has ever lived and that is a
00:39:10.780
specific pointed thesis you want to make a point you're making a point you're taking a stand right
00:39:18.880
and you're gonna have people that disagree with you right and they're gonna say no and but you're
00:39:23.080
gonna start a discussion and when you start discussions you become relevant right and you
00:39:26.960
want to be specific sharp yes agree 100 so make and take make a point take a stand that's what's
00:39:34.380
going to create people to passionately follow your content right so that's point three point one is
00:39:40.320
tell the truth point two is know your audience point three is make and take okay now we're gonna move
00:39:48.700
on to point four all right now before you create your content you have to ask yourself what's going
00:39:56.900
to be the best approach to persuading people how are you going to get people to resonate with your
00:40:04.820
content is it going to be through authority is it going to be through logic you're going to explain
00:40:10.560
it or is it going to be through emotion all right those are three ways that you can get people to
00:40:15.380
resonate with your content you can either tell them the way it fucking is which i do a lot and
00:40:20.760
that's effective yeah if you have the if you have the credibility to say you know i mean parents do it
00:40:25.740
all the time because i said so that's right and you know what i do have the credibility so i need to
00:40:29.860
fucking say that if you don't have credibility you're probably going to have to explain yourself a
00:40:33.720
little more which means logical logical explanation all right you're going to have to convince people
00:40:38.720
um or you could appeal to their emotion you can make something that's emotionally compelling and
00:40:44.580
that could be the combination and should be the combination of a picture video and a caption don't
00:40:50.680
rely on one or the other try to make both fit together that's where great content is going to come
00:40:56.180
together with emotion can i make a point about that i and unfortunately i'm going to use an example
00:41:00.620
that's a it's sort of a tragic thing with the the thing that recently happened to jenna and chris fail
00:41:05.120
you know like uh yeah okay so so they these guys they're they're good friends of ours they're good
00:41:11.000
friends they're part of the legion of boom right first form right the family they're outside sales
00:41:14.780
reps right and they and their and their house burned down it was really tragic they lost their pets right
00:41:19.260
so so there were some appeals going out for to help you know basically to help them that would be in a
00:41:27.560
completely inappropriate time to just base your appeal on logic like well here's what they lost in
00:41:34.760
terms of financial losses and here's here here's a here's a list of the the itemized things no you
00:41:40.220
you appeal to these are people we love they're part of our family we stand by our family right that's
00:41:46.320
where you say that's that's the best approach to to moving people you know what i'm saying oh yeah
00:41:50.980
whereas other times you are going to say okay i just need a more measured approach i need to just
00:41:55.940
hear the facts i think great i think if you're going to be a great sense yeah okay it makes sense to
00:42:01.180
me um i think if you're going to become a great persuasive brand builder of either your personal
00:42:08.120
brand your company's brand it's going to require all three of those now depending where you are along
00:42:13.560
your progress the authority one is going to be limited you know if you're just starting out on
00:42:18.700
day one and you're trying to you're trying to talk to people like you're the authority you're gonna
00:42:22.540
get a lot of fucking pushback you're gonna get a lot of arguments you're gonna get a lot of fights
00:42:25.780
you're gonna get a lot of negative comments because people are gonna be like dude who the fuck are you
00:42:29.240
you don't have any credibility so the authority one comes with credibility now with logic or emotion
00:42:34.540
if you're just starting out those are really good ways to go because you like like let's say you
00:42:39.300
know you're starting a new company you can explain why you're better or what is compelling about your
00:42:44.940
company or the and you can appeal to the logic and also the emotion but trying to speak like you're
00:42:50.560
the authority is very hard to do in fact one of the most effective things you could do when you're
00:42:54.340
just starting out is own the fact that you're not the authority yet right you know what i mean i'm not
00:42:58.860
i'm i you know what i don't know all the answers but i'll find out for you you know that's extremely
00:43:05.880
effective technique when you're becoming good in sales right you know what i don't fucking know
00:43:10.240
right you know why because it goes back to point number one which is tell the truth right when you
00:43:14.920
bullshit people and try to pretend you're the authority when you're not people know it and that
00:43:19.140
makes you that discredits you and makes people not trust you right which breaks down the loyalty
00:43:24.640
aspect of people wanting to do business with you right you mentioned loyalty and that that's the
00:43:29.120
flip side of authority though that authority when you can't base your authority on credibility
00:43:33.400
you can base it on relationship you can base it on well okay at this point bob may not you know be a
00:43:43.020
millionaire but i know that i can trust bob so if bob says i you know you can trust me so do this for
00:43:50.300
me you know what i'm saying like you can base your authority on a relationship that's dangerous though
00:43:53.960
because because you better be a fucking authority before you fucking start talking like an authority
00:43:58.600
because if you speak like an authority and give people a sense of confidence and you're not and
00:44:02.900
then you make a mistake they ruin the trust forever i i see what you're saying i'm i'm i guess maybe i'm
00:44:07.440
talking about something different but that's that's okay i i too many people try to be the authority
00:44:11.660
when they're not qualified to be the authority you find this out and you see this a lot in politics
00:44:15.620
like mother pretty much you know every motherfucker out there right they pretend like they're an expert
00:44:21.100
and they try to tell you where the way it is and instead of like learning and being open and actually
00:44:27.380
growing they try to win the conversation by being authoritative how much further would you get if you
00:44:33.300
actually wrote a just an uh had an open slate conversation in politics based on logic and and actual
00:44:41.820
emotional appeal you know you get people to hear your view the problem the reason people don't
00:44:46.660
respond well in politics because everybody tries to win it's not about winning right it's about
00:44:51.760
growing you know what i'm saying yeah absolutely i think what i was trying to say is that sometimes
00:44:56.120
when we're trying to persuade people we can persuade them because we know all the answers but other
00:45:00.820
times we can persuade them simply on the strength of our character like they they know we're good
00:45:05.580
people right they know we have the best yeah i get that i'm just saying you don't want to
00:45:09.320
authority comes later man right like authority comes when you start to become a legitimately an
00:45:15.180
expert with the experience right you know what i mean so for most of you out there when you when
00:45:19.600
you create content try to go try to go logical and emotional emotion and if you can combine the two
00:45:25.300
that's that's a good combination i know a couple young entrepreneurs that i follow you know uh in our
00:45:30.960
industry and they try to they try to speak like the authority and they just started out a year ago you
00:45:36.300
know and it doesn't work it comes off cheesy because everybody's like dude you're fucking 21
00:45:40.340
like you're not the fucking authority you know what i mean um so work with what you have and let
00:45:46.580
and let the sliding scale naturally evolve you know what i mean that's why you see people when they adopt
00:45:52.480
personas like we talked about uh about being authentic and telling truth in the first point you
00:45:57.340
know that's why you see people who try to be other people they try to be grant or they try to be
00:46:01.220
gary or they try to be andy they try to develop these personas that's why nobody fucking that's
00:46:06.020
why they get tuned out because people are like well dude this guy who the fuck is this guy talk like
00:46:09.560
that because all three of us use authority heavily we use our credibility and what we've built and what
00:46:16.140
we've done and we're able to speak with authority and like dude that's a huge that i do 90 percent of
00:46:22.700
my shit is authority based but i have earned that right you know if you haven't earned that and you
00:46:27.160
haven't built that and you haven't come you know to that part of your journey it's not going to be
00:46:32.760
an effective way to communicate so just remember that it's a very it's a very effective uh way to
00:46:39.400
present your content but you have to be of a position of credibility to do it that way absolutely so yeah
00:46:45.300
absolutely you want me okay so uh so i wanted to share another structure that's very helpful for you
00:46:52.720
guys it's called the i we point we you and uh i actually stole it from a preacher who uses this
00:46:59.380
but he uses a little different version of it and basically the idea is like this it's i we
00:47:03.380
point we you so basically you start and say you know the other day i was you know having trouble
00:47:09.580
getting along with my wife and you tell a personal story and you kind of open yourself up which which
00:47:14.260
establishes a connection with your audience then you say we you transfer it from a personal thing to
00:47:19.600
kind of a universal thing where you're saying you know all of us have a different difficult time
00:47:23.280
getting along with one another and then you make you know some different uh illustrations and then
00:47:28.240
you go into your point and you just deliver it and you say but you know what what i've learned
00:47:31.640
is that principle number one two three is really easy uh to implement that helps improve your
00:47:38.400
relationships and then once again you go to the we and you visualize what would it look like if we all
00:47:43.720
put these principles into practice and you just paint a picture for people and then the last thing is
00:47:49.300
again you you say this is what i'm asking you to do call to action it's very similar to monroe's
00:47:54.500
motivated sequence but this structure actually emphasizes the connection that you have
00:47:58.860
interpersonally with somebody by kind of telling a story right up front so it's i we make your point
00:48:04.660
we you and if you want to look it up there's a great book called communicating for a change
00:48:09.200
by andy stanley you could take a look at that book but does that make sense yeah so i want to point
00:48:13.840
this out too on the two structure parts that we covered and when you're first starting out and writing
00:48:18.380
content you know this shit see it feels very methodical or technical and it is right yeah okay
00:48:26.060
so like you should look at it that way a lot of people think like oh andy you just write you just
00:48:30.880
you just write great shit and you're dude when i started writing i started with technical formulas
00:48:36.280
just like you're going through and structures right and and eventually it's just like anything
00:48:40.240
they become habit and they become part of what you do so if you go back and dissect some of the
00:48:45.900
content that i do you'll see patterns in the content not you know like this and that's just
00:48:51.420
something that i do naturally now but when i first started you guys it was very weird for me too so it
00:48:57.000
feels fucking weird right right you sit down you try to write out like i we point we you and put these
00:49:02.760
little two sentence uh parts together to create something that fits that structure and it feels weird
00:49:09.160
right but that's normal let me ask you this what's your favorite movie of all time oh man
00:49:14.180
dude that's that's a really hard question just throw throw at a a favorite movie a saving private
00:49:20.400
ryan saving private ryan one of my favorite movies of all time is braveheart another favorite movie for
00:49:25.640
most people of all time is star wars movies guess what there are literally thousands of different
00:49:30.500
movies they all have the same fucking plot well they have they all have very similar plots and
00:49:34.880
they're all based on a three act structure right and so if people say you know why do i have to
00:49:40.240
learn this formula stuff because it works that's what i meant and that's plot structure yeah it you
00:49:44.880
you it it works right so learn learn the structures and then tweak it to your use right because because
00:49:51.980
that's what they're there for right you don't have to reinvent the wheel right so um but but like
00:49:56.920
what i always want everybody to know like it feels weird for everybody when you first start yeah
00:49:59.620
absolutely yeah absolutely so um the last point that i want to cover is 0.5 so right now we're
00:50:08.040
sitting at number one tell the truth number two know your audience number three make a point and take
00:50:14.060
a stand number four use authority logic or emotion and decide which which way you're going to write
00:50:20.600
your content what point of view uh and number five guys this is a huge point okay there is a massive
00:50:27.360
difference between writing conversationally and writing sloppily all right a lot of people and
00:50:33.960
it's an art it isn't something that uh you just do like a lot of people say dude man i can i can hear
00:50:40.220
your voice when whenever you write your content well yeah that's because i know what the fuck i'm doing
00:50:44.340
like it's not just me throwing some barfing some words onto a post it's me knowing my style knowing
00:50:51.360
how to make it sound that way and it's you know i feel like we're in like like english class right now
00:50:56.660
but you know and i might not be the best at grammar but i know how to write to where it sounds like
00:51:01.180
it's coming from me right you know what i mean and those things need to be congruent um you know i
00:51:06.020
don't i don't try to uh you know over impress people with my intelligence through my grammar
00:51:12.000
i try to make my voice sound like my fucking voice you know what i mean right so that's extremely
00:51:17.900
important guys don't just throw shit out there if you're doing something that's incongruent with
00:51:23.660
your actual voice especially if you do a lot of video like youtube or instagram videos or you're
00:51:29.620
on a podcast and you want people to like relate if you're too if you're writing and your voice style
00:51:35.320
are not congruent it won't make sense to people so you have to understand like throwing out some
00:51:40.520
sloppy shit that you didn't think about you know and i see that people do this all the time like i have
00:51:45.740
people copy my captions like literally i bust them like at least once a week copying my straight up
00:51:50.520
captions onto their instagram posts with their picture and i'm laughing because i'm like dude
00:51:55.100
not only is that fucking rude and wrong but you're only doing yourself a disservice because when you
00:52:01.860
copy other people's shit people a they know it's not you talking b they know that's not your style and
00:52:08.160
c you're you're limiting the development that would naturally become your greatest asset which is your
00:52:14.240
own fucking voice so quit trying to plagiarize other people's characters and their voices and
00:52:19.480
their sayings and develop yours and then you're going to have a tool just like i have a tool you know
00:52:24.380
my tool has brought me all kinds of success dude we've got one of the top rated podcasts i've got one
00:52:30.200
of the best instagram accounts i get asked to speak with all these famous fucking people all the time
00:52:35.420
and do all this cool shit because i've become my own product and you have to let yourself become
00:52:41.540
that and when you copy somebody and you try to be somebody else or a version of this or try to be
00:52:46.880
like this person you're limiting your own development you know absolutely and and so this kind of got off
00:52:52.520
point but well what i want to say real quick is sometimes you'll hear people say well yeah but i mean
00:52:59.080
in today's social media everything's really like you know unproduced and it's it's it's it's real raw so
00:53:05.760
it's okay if if i'm kind of like stream of consciousness no because the reality is even as
00:53:11.040
casual as we've gotten on the internet the reality is is if a person especially a person who's claiming
00:53:16.280
to be in business but if a person has misspelled words or typos your your response to that is
00:53:23.300
this person is an idiot yeah now now dude i will say this too don't write your fucking instagram posts
00:53:29.540
and your long form content in text talk like no like when i hate when people fucking do that like
00:53:36.300
when they say though and they fucking type th o or you know all the little fucking bullshit that like
00:53:41.760
the abbreviation right don't do that in long form content you sound like a fucking idiot you know
00:53:46.620
what i mean absolutely yeah like you sound literally like a moron yeah so use the real words yeah so go on
00:53:54.320
i didn't mean to interrupt you no no no that's fine so i i i was gonna actually ask you to add a
00:53:58.960
bonus point but you tell me if we have time well what's the bonus point i'll tell you well the
00:54:03.420
bonus point is we have 47 seconds okay so bonus point and i actually wanted to give i actually
00:54:08.900
want to hit at least one or two questions at the end of this because i know we got some on the email
00:54:12.080
oh okay so give me this and then we'll do some questions okay okay so and then i also wanted to
00:54:18.400
give tyler 30 seconds because i do think with all the video stuff he does i think any quick best
00:54:23.760
practices you could you could share you can think about that just in a second i got a question i'm
00:54:28.480
going to ask him okay it's going to cover that okay my my thing is at the end of the day if people
00:54:34.320
do nothing else sharing a personal story that something they learned you know so and you do
00:54:41.580
that really well like whether it's telling you the kill kill kill story or the kool-aid story or
00:54:46.320
whatever i'm talking about so like tell the truth be authentic like do we all have interesting stories
00:54:50.700
and content but do you have a net do you have kind of a best practice for how to tell a story
00:54:55.160
effectively um there's definitely some books that people can can read that i think okay well
00:55:01.460
you can recommend those but i think for me i i do have a natural storytelling ability you know what
00:55:07.400
i mean like i'm like and this is like dude if you go out and have beers with me i'm gonna entertain
00:55:12.080
the fuck out of you like i'm gonna tell you a lot of fucking stories and you're gonna laugh your ass off
00:55:15.720
yeah that's a natural character trait of mine you know what i mean anybody who's like friends with
00:55:19.920
me we need to tell more stories i know but like you met my dad he's a storyteller oh yeah like that's
00:55:24.960
where i get it from yeah you know what i mean so like storytelling is sort of something that i just
00:55:29.800
do naturally so i've never i like i've never had to go back and like try to figure out how to do that
00:55:34.900
so uh for those of you who aren't natural storytellers how can somebody become better at that
00:55:41.660
well i first i get it requires living and doing stuff living is very important but if you sit in
00:55:47.340
your mom's basement eat fucking licorice all day and fucking right i think that's like call of duty
00:55:51.380
you you know drink red bull you you don't have anything to fucking talk about so that's a given
00:55:55.600
right you got to live an interesting life well i would say just across the board a general principle
00:56:01.320
is emotion in the speaker emotion in the hearer and what i mean by that is enthusiasm and tell a
00:56:08.460
story that you that you feel deeply whether it be funny whether it's funny or angry or painful
00:56:14.420
right exactly because you're gonna you're gonna that's gonna necessarily be infused into you telling
00:56:19.740
that story and you're gonna know well and you're not gonna need to really think about it too much
00:56:23.780
you're just gonna tell it and uh that so i mean they always say in writing you know tears and tears
00:56:28.940
in the uh writer tears in the reader and i mean it transfers over into the general principle
00:56:33.800
storytelling emotion in the teller emotion in the hearer and and that's that's my basic but other
00:56:39.760
than that uh so peter guber's book tell to win how do you how to use stories to get it get ahead
00:56:45.280
in business and like link that book in the bio for the oh i absolutely will and then nancy duarte
00:56:49.480
has a book called resonate which is really good and one of the key points that she makes like in
00:56:54.460
terms of content is you are not the hero like when you're trying to motivate other people you are
00:57:00.220
not the hero of the story you're listeners are the hero of the story and you're yoda they're luke
00:57:04.880
skywalker and you're yoda and you've done a lot of you've done a really good job like in the whole
00:57:08.700
mf ceo project you've always said guys i'm the mentor you guys are the ones out doing it and and
00:57:14.700
you've kind of positioned yourself as yoda and i think that's the way to do it it's not oh it's all
00:57:19.160
about me i'm the hero i'm the center of the story much of that shit right on fucking content wise and
00:57:24.500
it's like nobody gives a fuck if you went to the store and made a fucking salad absolutely like no one
00:57:28.460
cares right and no one also cares about the same fucking story 70 times right like i see people in
00:57:34.840
this is in the fitness industry that runs rapid people who post transformation photos every fucking
00:57:39.880
day of themselves every day realize that you're talking to the same people every day and those
00:57:46.000
same people that's not new people that you haven't got that's the same people right so for you
00:57:51.060
you know what i'm saying absolutely if you tell us like dude think of it in real life what if every
00:57:56.800
time i saw you i told the same fucking story what eventually happens you start to see you would see
00:58:02.340
me coming and you turn around go the other way like that's what happens with social like think about
00:58:06.840
that when you tell the same fucking story every day when you post the same fucking before and afters
00:58:11.340
or the same fucking uh you know selfie or this or that every day not only are you not making it about
00:58:18.860
them but you're you're turning them off so much that they're gonna be like oh not this motherfucker
00:58:25.900
again like i'm i'm fucking out of here right like that's what i was trying to say about bombarding
00:58:30.320
people with the same sort of content when we were talking earlier you know like dude when you see
00:58:34.140
it coming you're like oh yeah yeah yeah i fucking heard it bro you know what i mean to kind of
00:58:38.220
build on that too one thing i was going to say is you know don't force content you're going to look
00:58:42.900
at people like andy or grant or uh you know uh gary and you're going to see all this well-produced
00:58:49.040
content and you're not going to have that in the beginning more more than likely that goes along with
00:58:53.180
the question i want to ask you so like like a lot of people they make excuses and they say
00:58:57.340
well i don't have fucking tyler or i don't have a d-rock or i don't have a guy that follows me around
00:59:03.520
and produces this badass content all right so let's solve that right now you're going to have to learn
00:59:09.500
how to do it yourself you're going to have to learn how to do shit yourself so what are some
00:59:13.960
tools and apps that people can download on their phone and on their computer that that they would
00:59:19.580
need to learn to create good content and when i'm just you know what i'm saying yeah yeah like i'm
00:59:24.140
lucky because i you know i'm in a situation where well i'm not lucky i'm just in a situation where
00:59:30.520
i've earned the position to have somebody like you or you know dave or fucking adam help build that
00:59:37.900
content you know but if i was starting out i didn't have the income or the ability to pay you
00:59:42.860
guys or hire somebody like that and you're just starting out on your own tell these guys like
00:59:47.900
some basic shit that they should start working on to learn i mean i mean let's get really fucking
00:59:53.980
basic here basic if you have an iphone yeah that can do 90 of what i do with you yeah almost almost
01:00:02.120
better than this five thousand dollar camera most of the time right like you you know do super slow-mo
01:00:06.840
so tell people the app so i mean literally the the app is the camera app okay you know i mean that
01:00:12.220
has almost everything that you need uh iMovie which is an app that can do with that you can edit the
01:00:19.840
videos you can splice clips together you can you can create videos on there okay and there's tutorials
01:00:25.160
on youtube on how to do oh my god yeah that's how i learned everything exactly so like guys you have
01:00:29.640
all the tools we say this all the time absolutely so any other apps besides well i mean also i think a lot
01:00:35.060
of people underutilize uh the timer function on their phone you don't even have to ask somebody
01:00:42.140
to hold the phone you can literally set it up there's suction cups you can buy to put it on your
01:00:46.100
mirror right you know put it up wherever and set the timer to 10 seconds pose you got a picture right
01:00:52.080
so i i think that's a very underutilized uh you know tool inside a phone was timer uh photoshop's
01:01:00.400
great for if you want to go so photoshop's a little bit more advanced yeah you're gonna spend some
01:01:05.440
money on it it's not cheap right oh you i'm talking about on your phone the actual app i think it's
01:01:10.460
like 4.99 or some shit but it just it allows you to enhance your pictures and that's what i was going
01:01:14.780
to say is earlier when it comes to forcing content like if you've got low quality photo or you know
01:01:22.800
something that's questionable don't fucking post it i agree yeah what's the number one problem people
01:01:28.200
make so wait let's talk about intermediate but people think they have to post like every single
01:01:32.400
day no people think they need to post like seven times right and like i haven't posted in days
01:01:37.040
in like i'm not worried about that you have to remember i know the gay community is in an uproar
01:01:41.360
yeah they are yeah so so tyler does have an extreme amount of gay followers and that's totally cool but
01:01:48.480
i'm just saying it's because he wears his sister shorts all the time but dude they're shorter than my
01:01:53.320
sisters but dude let's be real man like um good content starts with a good image yeah you know if
01:02:02.640
you have a shitty image it's not gonna work because you gotta have something to catch people's attention
01:02:07.260
like vaughn talked about in his first structure talk now i personally think and i've told you this
01:02:13.340
before that great editing great photography uh the ability to create video content is going to become
01:02:20.940
the most in-demand fucking job in the next 10 years no question there's no question so if you're
01:02:26.160
looking for something to learn a skill there's i'll tell you two skills you need to learn one you
01:02:31.120
need to learn how to edit fucking video shoot video edit video shoot photos edit photos now you were
01:02:35.920
sitting at my computer yesterday and i showed you a very simple thing on how to extend it easy it was
01:02:40.800
yeah it's almost no i thought about today i'm like dude i'm gonna have him start teaching me how
01:02:44.320
to do my own shit it's so easy so you can fire him yeah pretty much so i do have to ask tyler is
01:02:51.620
there a is there a trick i mean obviously you can use photoshop but one of the things that i almost
01:02:56.380
never watch is if people have their lighting is just horrible like well i mean recording and they
01:03:01.560
look photography and video lighting is everything well technically sound is everything if you're doing
01:03:05.860
video content sound is always going to supersede image quality because if you have horrible sound who
01:03:11.880
the fuck wants to listen to that at least you can not look at the screen but still get the
01:03:15.820
information through the audio right uh but yeah lighting lighting is so key it's not even funny
01:03:21.740
that's why movies look like movies and that's why you know your video phone looks like a video shot on a
01:03:27.720
phone right is there a app that does pretty decent uh lighting fixes no you just need to understand
01:03:35.920
light sources and you know like backlighting and all that stuff that just makes very contrasty and
01:03:43.480
horrible photos and these are things i think we should point out and i think you essentially just taught
01:03:48.380
yourself with youtube and yeah yeah literally anybody can do this you don't have to pay five thousand
01:03:53.440
dollars to go to some sort of photoshop no anybody yeah if anybody goes to school for that shit you're
01:03:59.120
stupid well uh guys if you're not following us on social media do andy is at andy frisella on
01:04:06.380
instagram mfceo dash one on snapchat and then andrew.frisella on facebook facebook.com forward slash
01:04:14.440
andrew.frisella if you uh there's no dot isn't there no oh there isn't okay so andrew uh forward slash
01:04:21.880
andrew frisella tyler is at my tyler m-a-i underscore t-y-l-e-r i'm at von kohler v-a-u-g-h-n-k-o-h-l-e-r
01:04:30.900
for everything instagram snapchat and uh i don't know what else i have i guess that's it but you did
01:04:37.640
one other thing uh andy did want some apps so if you do have a mac get final cut pro if you're going
01:04:44.560
into video editing it is most user-friendly it's cheap it's 200 bucks definitely well worth the
01:04:50.320
investment okay now we had some questions because we started the the email questions at the mfceo
01:04:58.260
today we had a very practical podcast and as you know some days it will be mindset those are also
01:05:04.560
practical podcasts you have to remember that like how to think is just as important as how to do
01:05:10.100
so today was a very practical technical podcast our next podcast may be something completely
01:05:17.660
different it has to do with mindset that's the great thing you're going to get here you're going
01:05:21.040
to get a mix of self-improvement and actual entrepreneurship now those things are both
01:05:27.420
important but we struggle all the time which category do we fit in do we fit in fucking self-help
01:05:32.580
or do we fit in entrepreneurship we chose entrepreneurship because i feel like all these
01:05:37.300
things are relevant to that i'm pretty sure if we were in self-help we'd have the number one podcast
01:05:41.160
in the fucking world probably but here's the deal we set up a email address for you guys to send your
01:05:47.420
questions in because i want to make sure that we're providing you guys with the real answers
01:05:51.400
so it's questions at the mfceo.com do i want to do at least a couple questions sure i hey you're you're
01:05:59.640
the man yeah so i know we've stretched over an hour here but i want i want to commit to these people
01:06:03.800
that we're going to answer their questions yeah yeah i'm so let's let's do let's do like one or two
01:06:07.240
depending on how long they are all right do you have them in front of you no you got to open
01:06:10.660
well he's sending you sending them to you telepathically you might have to edit this part
01:06:16.900
out all right let me get let me get into it here uh okay questions at the mfceo.com
01:06:31.120
yeah so just edit out this uh okay all right let me read the uh
01:06:47.220
okay questions for me drop shipping versus buying inventory when starting e-co
01:06:53.580
well no i'm just going to read them the different options and you tell me so i want you
01:06:58.000
oh so drop shipping just fucking just fucking hit me with them raw like and then also say who
01:07:20.840
do you know anything about e-commerce what about it when starting an e-commerce store how do you get
01:07:39.460
started when you have little capital most online e-commerce have a hundred plus products which
01:07:43.520
requires a lot of capital drop shipping is sometimes an option but then from my research shows most
01:07:48.920
retailers competitors are priced so aggressive i can't even get five to ten percent markup
01:07:53.660
right yeah i can talk about that okay so i'll read the whole question and then i'll tell you all
01:07:57.840
right get let's do two okay so try to find one one that's like a practical one try to find one
01:08:04.460
that's like mindset too okay all right so let's okay this is the uh first question by randy fuentes
01:08:11.820
and he says and he says uh dear mfers when starting an e-commerce store how do you get started when you
01:08:20.460
have little capital and then he says most online e-commerce uh stores have 100 plus products which
01:08:26.880
requires a lot of capital drop shipping is sometimes an option but then from my research it shows that
01:08:31.980
most retailers or competitors are priced so aggressively that i can't even get a five to ten
01:08:36.660
percent markup can changing the game and selling two to three products work what are your thoughts
01:08:42.440
absolutely absolutely you're comparing yourself right now randy to um you're the normal dude trying
01:08:50.760
to start a business you're comparing yourself to the guys who have been doing it for three or four
01:08:55.740
years or five years or ten years and you can't do that every single person who starts out whether
01:09:01.960
it's brick and mortar or e-commerce starts out with one or two or three core products and then what
01:09:07.700
they do is they go out and they sell enough of those products roll the profits of those products
01:09:12.660
into inventory and you you extend your line out from there now with drop shipping guys like you know that
01:09:20.220
you you heard what randy said it makes it hard to compete you know i a lot of people can do it um
01:09:27.180
i have found that that it is just easier and more profitable um to ship the products yourself we
01:09:37.400
ship all our products ourselves we fulfill all our products ourselves and guess what we started with
01:09:42.140
one product dude you know what i'm saying like that's the thing with with online e-tailing is like
01:09:48.000
you you aren't going to make the margin that you would make in brick and mortar because the internet
01:09:52.480
hasn't settled down yet most of the internet's not charging sales tax yet which creates an unfair
01:09:57.160
advantage most of the distributors are cutting crazy deals to these dudes that are doing huge
01:10:01.840
volume real not realizing that they're hurting the fucking little guys who are running you know
01:10:06.840
mom and pop type businesses even online so uh randy i know you want to be like the big dog
01:10:14.020
because we all hey that's like randy jackson right he wants to be the big dog you know which by the way
01:10:19.040
randy jackson's cool as fuck i spent some time with him last time i was in la um but everybody wants to
01:10:24.800
be the big dog right away but dude it's just like any other business you know you got to sell one
01:10:29.320
product you take the profits of that product you sell enough of it you roll it into a second product
01:10:34.040
you know we didn't start out with the with first form a complete line we started out with one flavor
01:10:38.940
of one protein powder you know what i mean then we sold enough of that uh you know that we created
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another protein flavor it's aggressive patience yes and it just takes time so like thinking of it any
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other way is very discouraging so like dude take your take your focus off of the big picture of
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trying to be the big dog and focus on being the best little dog you could be right now and and work
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with that because that's what's going to ultimately happen awesome all right thanks randy and it's
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totally possible that's how most businesses start like if you're a no capital dude like i've always been
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i've never had anybody invest in me that's how you have to do it but let me tell you the positive of
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that nobody ever owns your shit i don't have to report to anybody and yeah it took me a lot longer
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but but at the same time i'm still a young man you know what i mean so it's worth it so if you're
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going to do it that way um the other option is if you're going to be a low margin e-tail guy you got
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to become really good at fucking marketing and sell high volume but i've always found that that's just
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uh that's more of a pipe dream than anything most people can't succeed at that
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so uh you got to connect with somebody whose profession is is internet marketing you know
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like affiliates and things like that that can do that for you but um but at the end of the day man
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you start with one you make some profit you roll that profit in number two you make some more profit
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you roll that profit number three and after a few years of doing that hustling you got a full line
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a full you know you've got 20 30 products that you're selling and you've got a company going
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so that's just the way it goes yeah totally possible and by the way normal yeah all right
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thanks randy for having your question featured on the ms ceo project you get nothing but thanks for
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submitting i like it yeah i like it it was a good yeah good one okay the next question is actually by
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a guy i know he's good good dude uh but he sent you a question rich rose not to be confused with rick
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ross i know rich rose he's always on my page yeah yeah he's good dude anyway he said rich rose with
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all of the content rich forever rich forever uh with all the content out there his add is off the
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charts he's like andy how do you lock in how do you how do you remove distractions and lock in so you
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can finish your power list come on man come on who says that tyler come on man well it depends
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who you ask yeah bradley or grant cardone that's that's uncle g saying come on man rich i know you've
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got more focus than that bro rich is talented i talked i know you got more focus than that put your
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fucking phone down look at the fucking list and make it happen i mean come on i know he's got more than
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that you know what i think you should like people put a lot of put a lot of stock in in this so i think
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you should like give him a secret magical word that's going to take away his yeah i'm going to
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hypnotize you yeah and the magical word is broke which is what the fuck you're going to be if you
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don't put your fucking power list in play all right just think of broke every time you catch yourself
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looking at your fucking phone and watching content by all the fucking gurus including me and not
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executing that's something i respect a lot about gary vaynerchuk and and it makes a lot of sense to me
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is he tells people like he doesn't want you watching his shit he wants you out doing shit
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and i respect that because that's the truth that's the truth i would also much rather have you out
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executing on that list i've given you the fucking tools bro it's a non it's a non-risk non-failing
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way to succeed all you have to do is do it so just think man when you're looking at catch yourself
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looking at all this fucking shit on the internet all the hot chicks all the fucking rich get rich quick
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all the fucking you know funny videos and memes which by the way i love me some memes
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dude just think about how broke you're going to be if you don't fucking compete your power list
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it's really simple you know that should become your priority your priority should be to make
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your power list happen before 11 a.m so you have the rest of the day do whatever the fuck you want
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that's the beauty of the power list the power list which by the way is in episode 107
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i believe so yes um win the day very complete comprehensive explanation of the power list
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is designed for you to be productive but also have free time that's what it's designed for so if
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you're spending all your free time before you do your power list that's not what you're supposed to
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do you're not following the plan power list first free time we learned this shit what we were like
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seven years old you gotta do your homework before you could play fucking nintendo you know what i'm
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saying like dude do your fucking power list then fuck off on the internet shit will get done
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and i know rich you fucking know this shit don't even ask the question i don't have to give you
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permission you already fucking know i know because he pays attention he's always on my shit so i know
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he already knows this so that's it that's it guys thank you so much as always we don't ask a fee all i
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