REAL AF with Andy Frisella - August 01, 2017


How To Manage Money To Get and Stay Rich, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO162


Episode Stats

Length

59 minutes

Words per Minute

212.85971

Word Count

12,592

Sentence Count

8

Misogynist Sentences

8

Hate Speech Sentences

157


Summary

In this episode of The MFCEO Project, we talk about how to become the CEO of your own company or organization. We talk about what it takes to be a successful CEO and why it s important to have an entrepreneurial mindset.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what is up guys you're listening to the MFCEO project I'm Andy I'm your host and I am the
00:00:10.700 motherfucking CEO guys real quick before we get started I want to remind you guys that we are
00:00:16.180 doing a review contest we're going to extend that contest for a couple more weeks the contest is
00:00:21.640 we're going to pick five people who go on iTunes leave a review to do a live Skype with me for 20
00:00:27.980 30 minutes where I can answer all your questions get in you know help you with anything you need
00:00:32.080 help with so guys if you find value in the podcast if you want to do a live Skype please go on leave
00:00:40.240 a review on iTunes let us know what you think and we'll pick five people who have left a review
00:00:46.620 about the about the show now I said we're going to extend the contest originally we were going to
00:00:52.620 call the contest today it's been going very well I think what we'll do is we'll go ahead and end
00:00:57.780 the contest on August 8th so we're going to do it two more weeks so guys if you haven't left a
00:01:04.800 review please go leave a review and subscribe to the podcast because that's how we get our podcast
00:01:11.080 ranked a lot of these guys go out and they interview all these other people and they they they leverage
00:01:19.000 other people's followings to get the podcast following built and ranked and all that guys we
00:01:25.760 just do what we know how to do we share the information we know how to share occasionally
00:01:30.200 we'll bring a guest on but we're not constantly trying to throw these worthless guests that don't
00:01:34.800 know shit and have you know x amount of followers on social but haven't really done anything your way
00:01:40.720 okay when we have people on the show there are people who have done things in real life who have
00:01:45.760 made real businesses who have sold real fucking products and made real fucking money and guys that's what
00:01:51.640 the show's about okay it's not about just being an entrepreneur all right yes it's an entrepreneurial
00:01:57.300 podcast but the entrepreneurial mindset is what is important to take away because the entrepreneurial
00:02:03.640 mindset is what is going to get you from where you are to where you want to be no matter if you're the
00:02:08.960 guy at the lowest level inside of a company or if you're the CEO you know not everybody's cut out to own
00:02:15.320 their own business it's a statistical fact that seven to eight percent of people in the general
00:02:20.440 population are entrepreneurs that means most of you aren't but having the entrepreneurial mindset
00:02:27.180 okay living every day like an entrepreneur and treating yourself and becoming the CEO of yourself
00:02:35.460 is what is going to get you to become successful it's what's going to create the value in yourself
00:02:41.580 within an organization now Vaughn where can these people go to subscribe and also leave the review
00:02:49.620 well for clear instructions they can go to the mfco.com forward slash review or the mfco.com
00:02:57.300 forward slash subscribe but as far as um you know screenshotting their their reviews and emailing it
00:03:04.280 i assume we just send them to what uh vaughn at the mfceo.com or something like that yeah send
00:03:09.560 them to me guys vaughn at the mfceo.com v-a-u-g-h-n i think that's where most of them have been coming
00:03:16.720 anyway so um but yeah if you need instructions we give pretty clear instructions so i think you can
00:03:23.840 figure it out yeah so guys if you're new to the show that's the co-host vaughn the impaler the pastor
00:03:29.300 of disaster and then we've got the producer uh tyler mc salmon but today he's wearing white so
00:03:35.480 we'll call him mc white i guess i don't know you're such a racist mc cod yeah mc mc uh mc powderpuff
00:03:46.280 that's that's more appropriate all right guys so vaughn let's talk about what we're going to talk
00:03:53.640 about today what are we going to talk about today well first can i say i'm grateful that we're actually
00:03:59.020 recording it's been too long it has yeah yeah so well you know we are busy in the summer man
00:04:03.720 yeah right now is the time of year where we're trying to plan for next year in our company
00:04:07.600 um you know we're getting everything done so the schedule gets kind of screwed up right so and we've
00:04:12.820 got other projects going on yeah a lot of other projects yeah so man we're talking about obviously
00:04:17.200 most of the people that listen here on this podcast are either already engaged in somewhat of a wealthy
00:04:24.880 lifestyle or it's it's a lifestyle that they're wanting to pursue you know they want money right
00:04:29.680 they want lots of it so i thought you know we were talking earlier which by the way is a great thing
00:04:33.860 yeah and anybody who tells you differently doesn't have any or hasn't ever been around any or has no
00:04:38.960 fucking clue you know anybody who tells you oh money is such a bad thing and it ruins people and this
00:04:44.380 and that no it doesn't money i made a post yesterday on uh on instagram with matthew mcconaughey's video
00:04:52.460 did you see that it was awesome yeah dude it was awesome and the what frustrates me so much is you
00:04:58.840 have these two groups of people right you have and we're getting off track but that's okay you have
00:05:03.820 this group of people who aspire to have money and they like they think like you know having a fucking
00:05:11.000 lambo and a rolls and a big house and a plane and all this shit is what life's about all right and then
00:05:17.640 you have the people who say you don't fucking need money to be happy you don't need money blah blah blah
00:05:23.280 money's money's evil and bad blah blah blah you know what both groups are fucking wrong like both
00:05:29.260 groups are wrong like money's a great thing because it allows you to add to the experiences of life
00:05:35.460 it's not about owning a car okay and people are but andy you own fucking 16 cars you know what
00:05:41.380 yeah and every single one of those cars it's not about owning the car it's that it adds to my life
00:05:46.980 experience and that's what people don't understand about money it can accelerate and create
00:05:52.520 awesome things that you wouldn't otherwise be able to do that add to your life experience
00:05:57.880 it's not about the house it's not about the car it's about the experience and if you can use money
00:06:03.880 to create a better experience and make a better impact on the people around you how can you say
00:06:09.340 that's a bad thing and it's just so ignorant that people fucking either a only want the fucking
00:06:15.960 shiny object or b think it's the worst thing in the world and and the funny thing is is all the
00:06:22.780 people with the money the real money they don't think either of those things they're thinking the
00:06:26.740 way i'm telling telling you you know that we think it's not about the money per se it's about adding to
00:06:34.060 the life experience and you guys have to understand that if you just chase the next shiny object and the
00:06:39.360 next car and the next house and the next plane you know what you might make some money you might be able
00:06:43.820 to do that but dude you always feel fucking empty inside you always feel like there's something
00:06:47.340 missing you're always going to feel like you did something wrong you're always going to regret
00:06:50.440 you know the way you're living your life because dude there's never going to be enough you know what i
00:06:56.900 mean it's never going to be enough and and i think it's important to recognize that especially with
00:07:01.720 young people because i know when i was young and and and don't get me wrong dude chasing the shiny
00:07:06.200 object is really good motivation because when i was young that was a big huge motivation for me
00:07:10.260 but i'm just saying you know recognize that that owning that thing is still just an experience it's
00:07:17.380 not actual ownership does it make sense right i think if you replace the word money with the word
00:07:22.860 resource and you said to somebody well if you could have a bunch of resources to impact the world would
00:07:29.080 you want it they say yeah exactly but then you say well that's what money is money is a resource to
00:07:33.980 impact the world you can impact it positively or you can impact it negatively but it's it's a morally
00:07:38.220 neutral thing that you either use for good or evil i agree 100 so so we were talking you know
00:07:43.440 earlier about obviously people wanting money and you have a good amount of money probably not as much
00:07:49.940 as you will eventually but um i thought it would be really helpful to talk to people just about
00:07:55.400 i mean practical nuts and bolts on how to think about your money how to think about it and how to
00:08:02.580 how to manage it in a way that you can get wealthy and stay wealthy and that andy i think the first
00:08:08.100 thing this is like common sense to anybody so it's not going to surprise anybody but everybody says
00:08:13.980 you know the gurus say you got to stay on a budget is that true when you make 40 000 is it as true when
00:08:22.060 you make 400 000 i think that you know people most people don't even understand what the fuck that
00:08:30.660 means i think most people have a spending problem and they also have an earning problem they don't
00:08:35.640 earn enough and they spend too much and i think that people whenever they look at their spending
00:08:40.980 habits if you're one of these people who spends too much and doesn't earn enough when you're earning
00:08:45.620 40 grand and you're doing that it's going to be the same when you're when you're earning 400 grand
00:08:49.880 or when you're earning 4 million you're going to spend way more than you have and you're not going
00:08:54.200 to fucking be earning enough and that is a problem you know it's a problem no matter how much you earn
00:08:59.960 if you're spending more than you earn and it sounds like common sense but but i guarantee you most of
00:09:04.200 you are shaking your head yeah that's me on if not on the outside especially on the inside you can't
00:09:09.060 live beyond your means you've got to live below your means you know and people will look at they'll look
00:09:13.280 at me and they'll say oh well you look like you're living beyond how the fuck do you know that
00:09:16.940 i spend less than 10 of the money i make 10 that means i'm saving 90 fucking percent of the money
00:09:22.940 i make right you know what i mean so your thought is if you overspend when you're poor you're going
00:09:26.540 to overspend when you're rich always yeah and and it has to do with you know your habits so this is a
00:09:31.580 habit that you could correct now you could correct now by you know laying it out on a spreadsheet
00:09:36.640 it's as simple as laying it out on an excel spreadsheet i earn this much i spend this much
00:09:42.000 okay i'm if i'm earning five grand a month and i'm spending six how can i cut it out to where i'm
00:09:46.920 spending three you know what i mean and you've got to make those cuts that's the biggest reason most
00:09:51.640 people get trapped in a regular job because they can't cut back their lifestyle because of you know
00:09:57.360 ego or pride or whatever it is to actually become uh cash flow positive in their life so that they can
00:10:05.140 actually go out and take that money and spend it on starting some sort of business or whatever it is
00:10:10.860 they truly want to do you know what i mean they get caught up into keeping up with the joint with
00:10:15.080 the joneses and that's that's something that sticks with you it doesn't matter how much money you make
00:10:19.820 it reminds me of that podcast the where you talk about are your goals really your goals right
00:10:23.740 exactly right it's easy to say oh my goals are to my goals are to become financially independent
00:10:28.780 and save all this money and do all this but dude if you're not willing to make the cuts and live
00:10:32.380 below your means then that's not really what the fuck you want your weekends are telling you
00:10:35.600 different exactly car you're driving look man when your actions are saying different than what your
00:10:40.080 mouth says what your mouth says is inaccurate right and the biggest proof i think of what you're
00:10:44.300 saying is is everybody knows it's it's become cliche of the of the guy who came from a you know
00:10:51.260 low-income background he goes and signs you know millions of dollars to become a professional
00:10:56.540 athlete and 10 years later he's broke right right but but the reason that is is because no one's
00:11:01.220 ever sat him down and talked to him to a point where he's those i could go on about that for hours
00:11:07.000 right because the major league sports uh organizations do not do a good enough job
00:11:11.640 to help these people understand personal finance the reason those guys get paid the amount of money
00:11:16.240 they get paid is they're getting paid a lifetime of salary within a number within like six seven
00:11:21.360 years right that money's supposed to last for a lifetime but they go out and they do exactly what
00:11:26.080 i'm saying now they not only do they spend their three four million dollars a year they leverage it
00:11:32.660 on credit and try to live like they're making 10 million dollars a year and then they do that
00:11:37.620 until all their money's gone and then they're fucking 15 million dollars in debt or 20 or 50
00:11:42.480 million dollars in debt like floyd mayweather is right and they they never learn to say no to their
00:11:46.940 family either exactly right i mean there's all or to anybody yeah and the thing is is like dude i just
00:11:51.980 got a call from a good friend who just recently started making really good money uh about two weeks
00:11:57.200 ago and she was asking me about you know her friend who was asking her borrow five thousand
00:12:01.900 dollars and what should i do i said don't fucking give it to her and she's like well she's gonna be
00:12:05.620 mad at me i'm like she'd be mad at you either way because you're either gonna give it to her now
00:12:09.220 and she's gonna be happy and then when you want it back she'll be mad at you and she's gonna say oh
00:12:13.420 you don't need it back why are you trying to hassle me back or she'd be mad at you now and i would
00:12:17.460 just make it a policy now you don't do that i just don't do it i don't fucking do it right
00:12:21.120 you know what i mean right um but the point is is that you know you have to understand that
00:12:26.860 the only way you're ever gonna you're ever gonna be financially independent for your life
00:12:31.920 is to to spend far less than what the fuck you make and most people just aren't willing to do that
00:12:37.820 you know they see they see their neighbor pull up in their driveway with their new fucking
00:12:41.280 $75,000 escalade or uh you know gmc fucking denali and they think they're a baller so they go
00:12:48.560 out and leverage all their money on that and you know for what well for you know what i mean you
00:12:53.840 go out spend 20 grand on a fucking 1971 k fucking 20 blazer which looks 10 times cooler and gets 10
00:13:01.540 times as much attention and be fucking way better off financially but they want to keep up with the
00:13:07.020 fucking i mean dude come on you know what i'm saying oh i know totally what you're saying when
00:13:11.040 my wife was in residency she had seminars that actually told them most doctors live paycheck to
00:13:17.500 paycheck and they do and it's crazy because they make good money but they feel like they need to
00:13:22.500 keep up with other people i've said it i don't know how many times in this podcast their doctors are the
00:13:27.940 worst fucking business people the worst they are they are the worst and they act like they're the
00:13:32.600 biggest fucking ballers too you know oh i went to school for 12 years so i know everything they're
00:13:37.360 so fucking arrogant they don't know anything outside of their bubble but they think they know
00:13:41.080 everything and they fucking are all of them are basically broke right that's why they work till
00:13:45.140 they're 70 fucking years old right because they have to and it's insane because because there are
00:13:50.300 people in kasha's class that i'm sure are like well why do vaughn and kasha live in a middle income
00:13:56.720 house and and drive used cars why because we're paying off all that debt and using our money wisely
00:14:02.180 so that in the long term we're going to have a lot more money than anybody else but meanwhile they
00:14:06.160 haven't dented their debt that has a huge huge interest level they're too fucking busy
00:14:12.360 drinking their fucking uh their fucking sonoma fucking valley chardonnay i remember the fuck
00:14:18.360 people drink right their fucking pinkies up acting like they're better than everybody right
00:14:22.640 you know exactly so if you're a doctor and you're listening this is you you're a fucking idiot
00:14:27.140 so uh so live within your means obviously budget regardless of what your income is right yeah
00:14:33.260 um so so speaking of budgets you know i was i was researching this a little bit and it seems
00:14:39.200 like a lot of these um different entrepreneurial sites they have things like what are the 10
00:14:43.560 greatest habits of wealthy people and uh and one of them is you know one of them that i thought just
00:14:49.860 really did not sound accurate is wealthy people don't make impulsive purchases come on everybody
00:14:56.160 makes impulsive purchases i mean let's be real dude like their shit i mean have you ever gotten on
00:15:01.280 fucking amazon and all this i mean everybody does it like they're going to fucking target everybody's
00:15:06.440 done this you go to target you're like oh i need this one thing right you walk out with 300 400
00:15:10.740 dollars worth of shit right everybody does that dude impulsive purchases are the fucking killer right
00:15:15.880 it's just when you make a lot of money they're a lot more expensive right like dude i've bought
00:15:19.300 fucking cars on ebay impulsively like hey like when i've been drinking i've been laying on the
00:15:23.720 fucking couch and i'm like hey there's fucking this truck looks awesome you know what i did saturday
00:15:29.480 the motherfucker shows up like three days later you know what well we were we were billy cheese and
00:15:36.540 uh andy and i were drinking a little bit got back home and uh yeah bought some bought some new yeezys
00:15:42.140 that night yeah they're probably what 800 bucks i didn't even remember till the next day how much
00:15:46.240 were they no they were 300 i'm waiting for the uh what do they call those i'm waiting for those
00:15:50.400 drones the amazon to use the drones so that the drones are just like constantly converging in your house
00:15:54.980 everybody does the impulsive purchases so then what's the answer the answer is to fucking plan
00:15:59.260 for the impulsive purchases okay you know what i'm saying take a part of your budget and say hey
00:16:02.780 i got you know 500 this month or maybe you don't have 500 maybe it's 200 or maybe it's fucking 5 000
00:16:10.220 depending on how much you make but say hey i'm budgeting x amount of dollars for impulsive my
00:16:16.560 impulsive purchase purchase and know that number in your head and like track it you know what i'm saying
00:16:21.700 like like if it's 500 bucks and you spend uh 170 bucks on a pair of oakley's on amazon
00:16:27.860 know that you've only got like 300 bucks left right you know what i'm saying and for the rest
00:16:31.780 of the month you just you just got to plan it out and work it into your budget and that's what people
00:16:36.580 don't people never plan for those impulsive purchases which is which the impulsive purchases
00:16:41.400 are what bury people whenever it comes to financial you know independence it's kind of paradoxical
00:16:46.360 because it's like planning spontaneity but it makes it makes total sense if you do that
00:16:50.040 then you don't have to feel guilty about it right you know dude i think that's one of the most
00:16:53.660 important things that people can do is just plan for the impulsiveness you know plan plan you're
00:16:58.180 going to spend a night out with your fellas drinking it's going to cost you 150 bucks or whatever you
00:17:03.920 know what i'm saying right those things and stick to it you know what i mean if you're if you're at if
00:17:10.220 you're at your 500 limit for the month and you're at uh you know it's the 19th go on a fucking diet and
00:17:17.080 say hey i'm not leaving the house for fucking the rest of the month you know what i'm saying
00:17:20.320 like dude figure it out but that's that's how you do it man i mean that's it's just you've got to plan
00:17:27.800 for those things so across the board the chronic problem that i think most people have when they
00:17:32.340 start acquiring wealth is that they basically say okay the rules are one way for me when i'm poor or
00:17:39.760 middle income but then the rules change when i'm when i'm really wealthy what would be an example of
00:17:46.120 something that where that because i know that i can think of a lot of them but no you know no it's
00:17:50.560 like if people fucking especially when you start making money people think that you that you change
00:17:56.280 your standards right like like if i go out right now and like dude this just fucking pisses me off
00:18:01.240 too every time but like when i take uh when i take people to dinner all right like i've got to take a
00:18:06.980 lot of people to dinner a lot a lot of times and that's fine it comes with the territory i just i had to
00:18:11.700 spend six thousand dollars on a fucking dinner two weeks ago okay first of all what you'll find is
00:18:19.940 that people don't thank you because they expect it they expect you to pay which is really fucking
00:18:25.100 irritating yeah okay because like six grand for fucking dinner is ridiculous so at least say fucking
00:18:32.360 thank you second of all six grand is still fucking six grand right you know what i'm saying it's it's
00:18:38.520 like people people look at you and they say oh well there ain't nothing to you it's not much of a
00:18:42.100 sacrifice fuck dude yeah you know i don't like spending that money that is not fun for me you
00:18:47.360 know do i mind if people are appreciative no i don't but the point is is that i still think of that
00:18:53.300 that much money as what i thought of it whenever i was you know not making any money and like dude it's
00:19:00.000 just like you know when people get pulled over for a fucking speeding ticket when they're making
00:19:04.340 fucking 20 grand a year and it's 300 they freak the fuck out right well dude i still freak the fuck
00:19:10.380 out over that 300 you know i'm not like oh fuck that i don't care i'm like dude that sucks it pisses
00:19:16.120 me off and i think that's reflective of people's mentality right like people start making some
00:19:21.720 money and they're like oh i don't fucking care i don't care about the six grand because you know i
00:19:25.740 got fucking x amount my bank account doesn't fucking matter or or i don't care about that 300 bucks
00:19:30.340 because i'm making i'm making four million dollars this year like they don't fucking get like that
00:19:36.140 you you can't think like that it should you know your habits and the thing your standards that you
00:19:40.960 have should stick with you with the amount of money that you make but people don't do that you know like
00:19:46.180 they they just they adjust their their perception of what's expensive and what's not and that ends up
00:19:52.560 hurting them real bad because like dude when money's coming in most people assume that it's always
00:19:57.880 going to be coming in like that and it's not the case you know there's been times in business where
00:20:02.960 we haven't made anything there's been times in business where i've made obscene amounts of money
00:20:06.720 and then i've gone back to not making anything for fuck dude fucking two years ago i went two years
00:20:12.740 without getting a paycheck you know what i mean but the three years before that i was making obscene
00:20:17.000 amount of money but i had to take the money that i was making and put it in the business for it to grow
00:20:20.800 i had to hire a bunch of new people i had to pay for a bunch of new marketing i had to build a new
00:20:24.700 building i had to do all kinds of shit and it took basically two years of my fucking paycheck away
00:20:29.480 so like dude had i had those bad habits you know of spending all my money i would have been in real
00:20:35.120 deep shit because a i wouldn't have been able to live the lifestyle i was living and b i wouldn't
00:20:39.720 have been able to grow the company so you have to think ahead of time you know which is another
00:20:43.980 point we'll get to in a minute that that makes total sense and i think it is funny i mean people just
00:20:49.220 think that if if they have the money then they can waste it and i think i'm always i've said this
00:20:54.900 before even on the podcast but i'm always really really impressed that you know here you got your
00:20:59.760 wife she's doing all these entrepreneurial things she's got fit home and health she's got the cookbook
00:21:03.900 she's killing it right she still goes to aldi and she goes to aldi fucking clips coupons dude and she
00:21:09.400 goes to aldi to get fruit that you could get i'm not going to say it but there's another local store
00:21:14.360 in town it's a local family store it is so freaking overpriced emily could pay it yeah she could pay it
00:21:19.580 but she doesn't but dude if you go in there every motherfucker in there is is earning 30 to 50 grand
00:21:25.220 a year and they're fucking buying it right because it's convenient right because it's convenient but
00:21:28.980 it's it's it is crazy but i it is a huge principle that's the perception of people that are people who
00:21:34.140 are earning an average income of people who are earning a high income they think that the people
00:21:39.940 who earn a high income don't care about that shit right that because they don't care about it now
00:21:44.580 so why would they care about it then but the reason they're not earning a high income or have a bunch
00:21:48.760 of money in the bank is because they don't care about it now right that that's that's the fucking
00:21:53.320 paradox right you know what i'm saying yeah like they think oh dude you spent you know like dude we
00:21:58.800 had a couple parties like we had a first form party and we probably spent fucking i don't know 15
00:22:03.120 grand on the party because we had a bunch of shit like we had a bartender and all kinds of stuff and
00:22:08.160 it was done right right but you know what like dude i that's that's a rare occasion for us that's
00:22:14.840 not something we do every fucking weekend or every we do that once a year it's a big deal for the
00:22:19.620 company you know you know what i'm saying right but it also has a business purpose right but people
00:22:24.580 but people think but people see that and they think that's your lifestyle all the time right you
00:22:29.640 know or they like for example they see my cars and they're like oh well you got all these cars dude
00:22:34.040 i've accumulated those cars over amounts of you know over time i think i'll buy them at once
00:22:40.420 and most of my cars go up in value not down you know what i mean right and a really good point that
00:22:45.800 you've made before is even even as much as those cars cost they still represent a smaller portion of
00:22:51.800 your overall income right than somebody who goes and buys a brand new toyota corolla or something
00:22:57.280 exactly and they can't even afford that right you know plus he's not stupid about the cars that he buys
00:23:01.300 like you rarely lose money on a car right exactly but like dude people people assume when they see
00:23:07.220 those cars that you're outspending your income because of how much those cars cost what they
00:23:11.600 don't realize is that we have six other companies that fucking are bringing in we're gonna talk about
00:23:15.560 that too but you know that i've built over the course of almost 20 years now and they don't
00:23:20.840 understand that they just it's it's like pure nonsense thinking like you're just not even
00:23:27.560 comprehending what the fuck is going on my plan and life has been going step by step by step by step
00:23:32.940 by step over the course of the last 18 years and the shit that we're talking about today is all shit
00:23:39.000 that i've done over 18 years now have i gotten myself in trouble yeah but that's why i'm talking
00:23:44.140 to you about this right so you know i like to put things in little pithy ways so uh so the way i
00:23:49.580 would just kind of summarize what you've said so far is don't adjust your tolerance level for wasting
00:23:54.260 money right don't adjust your tolerance level for wasting money more money does not mean that you
00:23:59.220 can have more waste so um okay so i you know there's so many opinions about credit cards obviously
00:24:05.820 credit cards are abused right that's what well that's what i was just talking about a minute ago
00:24:09.300 when i said i've got myself in trouble okay you know what i'm saying yeah like but at the end of
00:24:14.660 the day it paid off for me you know because i financed our whole business on credit cards so when i've
00:24:20.040 you know three or four years into our company dude i owed almost six around 60 grand worth of
00:24:26.340 fucking credit card debt but i that was all shit that i had bought and used for inventory or the
00:24:32.180 company or this and that and luckily i was in i was in a position where i couldn't pay it off but i
00:24:38.400 could at least maintain the debt and then over the course of the next three or four years i was able
00:24:42.400 to pay that debt off but the point of it is is that you know most people don't use credit cards that way
00:24:49.480 they use credit cards to go out and fucking buy lewitt baton red bottoms for the fucking instagram
00:24:54.640 account you know i'm saying or they go out and buy a fucking uh you know a rolex so they can pretend
00:24:59.720 like they're fucking balling on the internet and it's like bro you don't want to do that because you
00:25:05.140 don't you don't know when or if that money is gonna you're gonna need that money so a good way to
00:25:12.280 have credit i am a huge endorser of having credit huge it's a super important and it's super important
00:25:18.800 to carry a small balance if you have a thousand dollar limit or a ten thousand dollar limit
00:25:22.980 carry a two hundred dollar balance and pay the minimum because that builds your credit but don't
00:25:28.360 fucking use credit cards to live your life you know what i'm saying right don't go out and fucking
00:25:33.020 finance uh dude i know a guy who bought a fucking car on a credit card i know you know what i'm saying
00:25:38.380 i've known people who pay tuition with dude that's what i'm saying insane right you're yeah no
00:25:42.420 you're paying you're paying the oh yeah don't even get me started but i know it is crazy right
00:25:46.540 so so i you know i know people who fucking took out student loans spent the student loans on
00:25:52.120 fucking fun shit and life shit then finance their tuition on credit cards so they're paying double
00:25:57.060 interest like and the motherfuckers were finance majors there's not even a word for how stupid that
00:26:03.800 is dude but you know what that you know what nobody in the world really teaches this a it's not a sexy
00:26:11.180 subject because people have a hard time understanding it's not fun to talk about because it really usually
00:26:15.680 involves you having to cut your lifestyle back and b the other thing is is that the society wants you
00:26:23.060 to do that society is designed for you to do that school wants you to go out and spend as much student
00:26:29.020 loan money as you can and credit card companies want you to do the fucking same and dude and your
00:26:35.560 your boss at work probably and the people around you they probably want you to do that too because you
00:26:40.860 know what when you're chained up to a fucking debt guess what you have to do you have to fucking work
00:26:46.240 and dude it's it's the total opposite mentality of what it should be what you should be is in an
00:26:53.540 organization that wants you to be free and focused on the job at hand so that you can actually improve
00:26:59.400 and create value but the problem is is that we get so wrapped up in credit debt student loan debt and
00:27:05.380 all the shit that society has designed for us to get wrapped into to get chained to a job that we
00:27:11.980 never are able to focus on improving ourselves improving our ability to create value and improving
00:27:18.320 our personal situation out of our hearts instead of being forced to and that's a big deal that's why
00:27:25.000 most people can never break the hamster wheel mentality right you know that's exactly the image that i was
00:27:29.980 thinking the hamster way right yeah and and dude you know nobody teaches us this shit nobody teaches us
00:27:35.140 how to how to fucking manage this shit because dude most of the people that would be the guys who
00:27:39.560 were quote unquote teaching this they don't want you to fucking be out of debt right they need you to
00:27:44.760 be in debt they need you to be chained up absolutely right and so dude what i'm talking about here like
00:27:50.800 dude how good of a job can you do if you go to work every day and you're constantly stressed out about
00:27:55.340 your credit cards being overdue and you're not making enough money at work like dude the mentality of
00:28:01.180 most corporations is fucking outdated like dude you want if you're a ceo you want your people to
00:28:06.520 be financially healthy and you want them to be in a situation where they spend their money wisely
00:28:10.900 because then they could come to work and with a free open mind to contribute and that goes for their
00:28:17.240 personal relationships that goes for their kids that goes for everything and that's why as a ceo or
00:28:22.780 manager your job shouldn't be just to manage their tasks at work it should be to be a mentor to their
00:28:29.100 lives help them solve these problems they're having problems with their wife they're having
00:28:33.820 problems with their girlfriends be a person who can offer advice or listen to them or you know help
00:28:39.060 them talk them through it's really about being a good fucking friend right you know what i mean but
00:28:43.400 you you can't have employees that are going through all these major life things and finance is the
00:28:48.920 biggest one it's the number one thing and expect them to be these awesome contributing creative
00:28:54.440 linchpins of your company it's just not going to fucking happen you know what i mean so that's why
00:28:59.940 like dude if you're the ceo if you're a manager pulling your team aside and talking to them about
00:29:04.460 finance about how to manage their salary how to budget and all that shit is extremely important
00:29:09.240 this is kind of an application of another thing you've always talked about which is the
00:29:13.480 whole concept of being the guy so in the so in a sales context you've talked about being a resource
00:29:19.140 for people who you know your customers and now here i hear you saying as a leader as a ceo you
00:29:24.480 can't just manage your people when it comes to business you have to be the guy in their life
00:29:28.660 who can be a resource for a lot of different aspects of their life and also think about that
00:29:32.860 think about think about if you took the opportunity to do that with people and spent your time doing
00:29:38.300 that how healthy of a relationship you would have with your team think what it does for culture
00:29:42.660 think about what it does for loyalty exactly that's amazing like dude yeah you know and it's the right
00:29:47.220 thing to do yeah so much of what we talk about is just the right thing to do it's yeah fucking
00:29:51.300 it's really not that hard you know what i'm saying yeah like if it's if it feels right if it's the
00:29:55.780 right thing morally right that's probably what you should do and it's usually going to be a thing that
00:29:59.680 pays the most too in the long run yeah absolutely so i mean about a year or so ago i had a great
00:30:05.440 conversation with your business partner chris and he was telling me just certain practical things
00:30:09.840 about how to use credit cards that people don't you know always think about but he said these are
00:30:14.700 things that it seems like wealthy people have figured out one is just a little thing he said
00:30:18.760 and i'd be curious but he said use a credit card over a debit card always because well for one reason
00:30:24.100 there's there's greater security you know in terms of fraud and that sort of thing you'd agree with
00:30:27.960 that yeah yeah and then and then he also if you're we're talking about a business context right well
00:30:33.460 we're talking both okay so in a business context i yes and i've talked about this before and i've got a
00:30:39.420 lot of emails on this we always use a credit card to purchase our inventory because we can earn
00:30:44.180 literally one and a half to two points back percentage points back in cash which actually
00:30:50.420 creates a situation where a like i said we pay our whole creative team off of off of that money that
00:30:55.860 we make off our inventory right okay it's free money but let's say you don't have a creative team
00:31:00.040 and let's say you just have you all right would you not like one and one to two extra margin points
00:31:05.320 on your fucking product i mean dude it's a huge deal over the course of a year depending on the
00:31:10.060 size of your company i mean it could be millions of dollars it could be fucking a thousand dollars
00:31:14.140 but dude what a small business a thousand dollars is a huge fucking deal you know i've been that size
00:31:19.700 business i know what a thousand dollars can do when you don't have it you know and so you have to
00:31:24.240 be strategic about how you utilize you know your your credit cards and if you're a business owner
00:31:30.540 you know you want to encourage people to fucking use their debit cards because there is no fucking
00:31:37.740 fee for the you have to pay the the the credit card company out of your merchant account which takes
00:31:43.180 away those one to two points that's that's an interesting point from a business standpoint yeah
00:31:47.880 so if you're if you're at the business and you're running the cash register it's a good idea
00:31:51.260 to encourage people to use a debit card yeah you know so uh well from a personal standpoint what
00:31:57.700 chris was telling me and it's it's worked great and this obviously requires discipline but what we
00:32:03.700 do in our household is we literally put every household thing on our credit card and we pay it
00:32:08.380 off because what it does is it earns points it earns travel rewards it earns cash back he and so it
00:32:13.880 works really well for us but we pay it off dude that's the discipline yeah right like you have to a
00:32:20.740 have the discipline to research for the credit cards what's going to be the most beneficial because
00:32:26.140 there are credit cards out there that have really good benefits for your particular situation whether
00:32:32.440 you travel a lot uh you want cash back i mean dude they're getting pretty pretty good at creating an
00:32:39.300 incentive to use their car um which you know why they do that right because they want you to use it
00:32:47.620 yeah because they get the fee that i just talked about right right at the point of sale so like
00:32:51.440 the thing that you have to understand is that you know you've got to be willing to do the research
00:32:57.540 you've got to be disciplined in paying it off right and like i said you always want to carry a small
00:33:01.920 balance on your car if you have a thousand dollar car carry a hundred bucks on it you know what i mean
00:33:06.200 because dude that's going to build your credit um i'm a big proponent of having multiple credit cards
00:33:12.640 because the amount of credit that you're issued also affects your credit score in a positive way
00:33:16.440 uh so there's lots of things that can that can you can do or not do that can hurt or or or help
00:33:23.960 we'd actually do a whole episode on credit but i think that the the biggest thing is is to fucking
00:33:29.580 a be disciplined to pay it and b be disciplined how you use it and c be disciplined to use the
00:33:35.260 right card that's going to affect your life the best way yeah and i'm probably slow to the party but
00:33:40.180 just i'd like to share a mistake i made which is i thought i was being really responsible by paying
00:33:45.200 things every every month but what what my wife and i were doing wrong was we were we were actually
00:33:50.720 using too much of our credit limit within the credit card in other words utilization yeah
00:33:56.000 utilization so a lot of people don't realize that you could be very very faithful to uh to pay off
00:34:01.200 your credit card every week or excuse me every month but if you're using too much of the credit
00:34:05.640 card what you want to do is you want to you want to call them and you want to ask them to increase
00:34:09.160 the limit right um because then then your credit score goes up right or it stabilizes i should say and we
00:34:14.280 we had to learn that lesson so yeah that's that's that's not that hard of a lesson though really
00:34:19.680 no it isn't but i'm hard lesson is like getting 100 grand in credit card debt and trying to figure
00:34:23.680 out how the fuck you're paid off when you when you make 40 no i agree i agree but but you know it's
00:34:28.380 still i mean if you're conscientious when you get some email saying you know you here you're doing
00:34:33.180 your best to pay off all your debts and do that and you get this email that says your credit score
00:34:37.140 went down you're like no a big mistake people make too and it's worth what's worth uh talking about
00:34:42.060 real quick is that they want to get out of debt so bad they pay their cards off and then they close
00:34:46.140 their cards oh yeah and that'll kill your fucking credit score yeah no that's a good point yeah
00:34:50.500 that's a good point so so uh i mean just in general uh credit card take a fucking a weekend and study up
00:34:58.320 on credit yeah it'll help my fico.com is that the one you like best source ever i spent a year
00:35:03.400 fucking learning about credit yeah when i lived in florida yeah well and credit karma does it credit
00:35:07.620 yeah but my fico's got the message boards and there's tons of they do it all it's all there's
00:35:12.260 tons of free yeah let's just do some research but bottom line for me is that credit cards are like
00:35:16.520 alcohol i mean most of the time you should be responsible every now and then you can have a
00:35:20.540 little fun but if you're irresponsible consistently right it's gonna fuck you up yeah and i actually
00:35:24.960 have a way of blending those two having fun and being responsible i only take a vacation now when i
00:35:29.300 can pay for 90 with credit card rewards that's what we do so agreed if you if you really want to be
00:35:36.120 responsible drink a whole lot and use all your credit cards boom because those things happen to
00:35:40.240 go together yeah exactly so we i mean i know you wanted to talk about credit we we've already done
00:35:46.060 that in terms of or were you we specifically talked about credit cards but i don't know if you wanted to
00:35:51.100 talk about credit in general or leave that no i think we could do a whole podcast on that actually
00:35:54.940 i think that'd be i've got a couple friends who actually do credit repair for a living that'd be kind
00:35:58.900 of a cool yeah cool uh podcast to do i think yeah whatever you don't do credit consolidation
00:36:04.740 because those are you generally generally scams right because that just kills your credit or debt
00:36:10.040 consolidation excuse me debt consolidation doesn't that usually it's just it's a hack it's not a real
00:36:14.500 solution yeah yeah yeah yeah exactly so let me uh let me read i was jotting down uh your points here
00:36:19.980 so number one hold yourself to a buzz excuse me number one hold yourself to a budget even if you have
00:36:25.640 millions number two have a budget category for your impulsive purchases number three don't adjust your
00:36:32.320 tolerance level for wasting money number four care about credit use credit cards strategically okay
00:36:38.740 what else um i think you know you've got to know your financial priorities uh you know a lot like we
00:36:46.480 talked about a minute ago about impulsive spending a lot of people don't understand that like they don't
00:36:53.760 even know when they're spending aimless stupid shit right they get paid they get some money in their
00:36:59.580 account and they're like oh i'm rich and they go out and they spend a hundred bucks on fucking
00:37:05.560 fishing equipment because they decide they're going to get into fishing but they're really not getting
00:37:10.040 into fishing they fucking saw a post on instagram that was like oh yeah fishing's cool and and it's
00:37:15.280 some pointless bullshit that you're never going to follow through on that you spend money on and a lot
00:37:21.320 of people do this i fucking do this but i also count it as my impulsive shit right right like uh
00:37:27.720 you know we tell ourselves all kinds of things that we're going to do or that we're going to get
00:37:32.480 into this is especially true with hobbies uh or you know a lot of people do this with supplements
00:37:37.800 they fucking they go out and they buy three or four hundred dollars worth of supplements or vitamins or
00:37:43.780 and they're like okay i'm gonna do it and they never do it you know and you have to catch yourself
00:37:48.440 um you have to catch your catch yourself when you're feeling that way like dude am i is this
00:37:55.140 pointless or is this something i'm really going to do and you have to be able to ask yourself at
00:37:59.560 the point of sale when that happens you know what i'm saying what about priorities you were
00:38:04.200 mentioned priorities in terms of financial priorities what you wanted to do you know retirement
00:38:08.220 that sort of thing what about priorities i mean obviously wealthy people get hit up a lot for money
00:38:12.780 for charity right what about how does like knowing your priorities help you deal with those
00:38:17.440 conversations yeah you know what i'm saying big deal dude because like especially because i know we do
00:38:22.900 have a lot of listeners that make a lot of money and you guys all will know exactly what i'm talking
00:38:26.660 about here but like dude when you start making money and people know you make money you're gonna
00:38:30.560 get hit up by fucking everybody you know and their fucking brothers and sisters to donate to their
00:38:37.020 gofundme their charity their this their that and they're gonna use guilt to try to make you feel
00:38:42.640 like you are obligated to give okay and you know getting getting your priorities especially
00:38:52.120 charitable priorities uh identified and known as important um i used to be really scared to let
00:39:00.840 people know like where i gave money to but what i learned is that you know i because i thought people
00:39:07.460 would be like oh you're bragging about where how you give money well when you make a lot of fucking
00:39:11.240 money and everybody knows it you almost have to do that because if you don't do that people assume
00:39:15.360 that you fucking don't give any money to anybody and then they judge you for that so it's better just
00:39:19.800 let people know i found where you donate to and make it known and let that be the way it is so
00:39:26.780 like dude you know i give to my high school like i'm not chris and i both do we are we were very
00:39:33.000 fortunate to be able to attend an amazing high school who was very very big part of where we are today
00:39:38.520 a lot of our friends we do business with or went to that school um a lot of the teachers are still
00:39:43.460 mentors to us and friends of ours now and we feel like that we need to give back because it's our
00:39:49.720 obligation to help those kids just like there was people because they're not publicly funded it's a
00:39:54.540 private school right so there was men who gave to our school when we were there that allowed us to
00:39:59.960 have those opportunities and we feel obligated to give those back and do we give a lot of money to
00:40:03.700 them it's seven figures not fucking a little bit of money you know what i mean and uh so when people
00:40:08.580 come up and they say hey you know you need to donate to this or that now if it's a special
00:40:12.340 situation you know uh obviously there's always exceptions you know what i mean but generally i
00:40:18.000 just say hey look man you know we have our our charity budget and it's all you know it's all
00:40:23.720 allocated for this year uh we give to this this organization this is where we always give
00:40:29.300 you know um this is just isn't for us and you know what people do get upset with you but
00:40:34.640 there's really nothing you can do to stop yeah i mean just because you have money does it doesn't
00:40:39.240 obligate you to give everybody like that's something that people don't understand is like
00:40:43.140 like dude i'll post pictures of like because like uh you know we're big into bulldogs so i'll post
00:40:50.300 pictures or share posts of bulldogs that need help and they might need a thousand dollars or something
00:40:55.040 you know because they're rescue bulldogs and i have people comment why don't you just give them a
00:40:58.820 thousand dollars well dude i can't give a thousand dollars every fucking bulldog needs help i mean dude this is
00:41:03.400 like something we can all contribute to and people just don't they don't understand and i don't
00:41:09.620 really give a fuck they understand or not but i'm just saying like when you have a lot of money
00:41:12.680 be prepared for that like people just aren't going to fucking get it and the first couple times they
00:41:16.860 say shit to you you are going to feel guilty you're going to feel bad and and you feel guilty
00:41:20.460 because you're a decent person i mean that's what i would tell people and i always used to say when
00:41:24.020 i was a pastor to people i said listen every need you're presented is not a cause you have to
00:41:28.320 commit to right i mean there's just a lot of need in the world right and you just have to decide
00:41:31.880 there's nothing wrong with sharing those needs right and not being the guy that fucking gives
00:41:36.380 all the money to it yeah you could still share it and make it known and be aware of it and not be
00:41:41.000 the one who's writing the check absolutely you know what i mean it's just you have but i mean if you're
00:41:45.820 the guy who never writes a check and you're making a lot of money i don't know i feel like you have an
00:41:49.860 obligation to give back somewhere yeah you know what i mean yeah that's my personal opinion good
00:41:53.800 thoughts but uh and a lot of people don't man you know there's a lot of wealthy people that don't
00:41:58.660 and i would say to you guys if you're one of those people that says oh well fuck nobody fucking
00:42:03.040 helped me when i'm coming up no there's a lot of motherfuckers that helped you you're just not
00:42:06.580 taking accurate fucking inventory of who they were nobody got here nobody got here alone there was a
00:42:12.520 teacher there was a mentor there was somebody there was somebody somewhere somehow that allowed you and
00:42:18.580 you may not have ever even met them that allowed you the opportunity to succeed that's the beautiful
00:42:22.860 part of living in this country is that there's a lot of selfless people that create
00:42:27.660 opportunities that you'll never know who the fuck they were and it creates an obligation for
00:42:31.620 you to give back and a lot of people ignore that obligation they don't give back whenever they you
00:42:36.740 know and i would say the majority of people who have a lot of money give a lot of money but there
00:42:40.520 is people that don't and i would say to those people dude karma's a fucking bitch man and if you
00:42:45.340 don't do some kind of good with what with what you've been fortunate enough to have or blessed with
00:42:49.520 or however you want to say it don't be surprised if it goes away right well you were earlier talking
00:42:54.700 about the two extreme groups in with regard to money i feel like the two extreme groups are the
00:42:59.160 people who think that rugged individualism like american rugged individualism means that you didn't
00:43:05.600 get help for anything you literally did everything by yourself such a bullshit it is like the opposite
00:43:12.080 extreme of course is that is equally you know equally yeah it's like what obama said to everybody
00:43:17.080 like you didn't build that right motherfucker i built this right you know what i'm saying
00:43:21.300 right but i'd be very ignorant to say that i built it alone right you know what i mean right
00:43:27.040 and so like you you have to understand that anybody that's successful out there the guy at the head of
00:43:36.140 the table who's making all the money he definitely didn't do that by himself there's just no fucking
00:43:42.800 way to do it but at the same time that's probably the guy that did all the shit when nobody was around
00:43:48.760 came up with the ideas laid the framework created the opportunity and and became a good enough
00:43:54.900 manager of people to create the situation that it was able to fucking accelerate greatly but you know
00:44:01.620 to sit there and say oh nobody fucking did anything for me i did this all on my own dude you're so full
00:44:06.520 of shit you don't even fucking recognize it right your ego needs to get checked of course we're gonna
00:44:10.560 have aster coals who listened to early early episodes saying hey andy i thought you defended obama when
00:44:15.280 he said that well i i do kind of because obama i think people took it really wrong i think people
00:44:21.400 took it out of context yeah i think he's saying what i'm saying he's saying like hey you didn't
00:44:26.600 build that alone that would be a much better way to say it because that's accurate right but saying
00:44:31.760 you didn't fucking build that is absolutely wrong to somebody like me who's put fucking 16 hours a day
00:44:37.740 in for 20 fucking years is insulting and anybody who's at the head of a fucking table who has built
00:44:43.500 something like that is going to be upset about hearing that they just don't absolutely absolutely
00:44:48.140 you just could have said it better i also think most of the people that would be upset with that
00:44:51.540 if you were to say you didn't build that alone you had amazing people that helped you along the way
00:44:57.280 you had these people create opportunities for you they would agree with that too you know what i mean
00:45:01.900 absolutely but to say it like so polarizing it's just fucking stupid absolutely so we're obviously
00:45:07.700 talking about priorities financial priorities which has to do with kind of long term one of the things
00:45:12.320 that i know you've talked about is the importance over time of cultivating multiple revenue streams
00:45:18.080 right exactly you know um i think like i mentioned people don't understand we have multiple companies
00:45:27.660 right they think all they think is first form that's all they see uh they don't understand that
00:45:33.380 we've taken the cash that we've been able to accumulate and created multiple income streams across
00:45:38.780 the board and we're continuing to create multiple ones i mean we have two or three companies in the
00:45:43.500 works right now that haven't even been talked about ever before um but the thing is is that
00:45:50.840 people get in a hurry to do that right they start making a little bit of money and then all of a sudden
00:45:56.680 they're like like oh i'm gonna be a fucking real estate guru now or i'm gonna be now i'm gonna be this
00:46:02.100 kind of guy now now i'm gonna do this and i'm gonna do that and they get what i call the midas touch
00:46:07.140 uh disease they think that because they were able to do something a little bit in one area
00:46:12.440 that they everything they touch is going to work equally as well instead of taking their time and
00:46:17.100 saying hey this might be a good opportunity let me learn this from the beginning as a beginner
00:46:22.040 because something that successful entrepreneurs generally have a hard time doing is remembering that
00:46:27.800 they're only proven in one area right like you're proven in this one area and very few entrepreneurs
00:46:35.860 are able to take their skills from this one area and put it in this other area and make it work just
00:46:44.260 as well those are true entrepreneurs there's very few people that can do that i can fucking do that
00:46:49.640 and i have done that i've proven myself to do that but very few people i would say are able to do that
00:46:56.680 most people need to stick inside their realm and they need to focus on that realm and accelerate on
00:47:03.400 that realm as far as far as they can fucking go now let's say you do want to let's say okay like i've
00:47:10.700 got a couple guys here in the office that do real estate on the side they buy homes rehab homes they buy
00:47:15.640 multifamily units they're taking the money they earn here and they're turning it into a fucking business
00:47:21.720 which will probably ultimately become their main business all right and they'll probably become
00:47:26.620 multi-millionaires from that business but they're not going out and trying to fucking you know
00:47:32.240 leverage every amount ounce of credit they have to buy 10 houses they're buying one fucking house
00:47:37.000 they're learning how to rehab that one house they're buying one unit they're learning how to manage that
00:47:41.680 one unit you know they're taking their money they're going to real estate seminars they're they're learning
00:47:46.500 from people who have proven to do it and you know what that's how you do shit you take your time and so if
00:47:51.560 you're a successful guy and you've got some money coming in be humble enough to know that you're a
00:47:56.520 beginner over here whatever other business you're trying to start up and that you're going to have
00:48:00.800 to go back to square one and learn from the beginning and take your time open one new fucking store or one
00:48:07.340 new business one new website not 20 not 10 just because you had the money because that's how you're
00:48:12.860 going to fucking get ruined dude i've seen people who i know that made lots of money dude i saw somebody who
00:48:17.680 made um who's making a hundred million dollars a year of their core business and go out and start
00:48:23.860 a real estate company and buy up all this fucking real estate the market crashed they went fucking
00:48:28.120 broke they lost both businesses now they're broke i now mean broke not not kind of broke i mean broke
00:48:34.480 you know what i'm saying i've seen that and uh you know so rushing into um you know multiple streams
00:48:41.720 of income just because you see a bunch of memes on in the internet the average millionaire has seven
00:48:46.320 fucking streams of income okay you know what i'm saying so let me go out and create seven things
00:48:52.140 today like that's what people think right like no dude you're talking that's what they want them to
00:48:56.140 think so that they buy their course exactly right right yeah so you know take your time find the right
00:49:02.020 projects find the right investments uh educate yourself on those areas before you go jumping into
00:49:07.440 them and normally i say go all in but this is a case where i say take your fucking time because you
00:49:12.440 went all in on on your area number one to get that point where it's cash flowing to the point where
00:49:17.600 you're even looking at something else you know what i mean and dude the the thing is is that people
00:49:22.320 people tend to jump from their one their main gig uh too quickly right like they they let's say they
00:49:30.760 own a business and they're making 200 grand a year or 300 grand a year and they're like fuck you know
00:49:36.980 i could take this and i could buy these multi-families and do this this and this but what they're what
00:49:41.300 they're neglecting to see is how far wide their current business that they're already clearly
00:49:47.140 somewhat of an expert in could be they could take that business in five or six seven more years
00:49:52.240 and that 200 000 could be fucking 15 million but instead they they take that 200 grand and they go
00:49:58.860 start doing these other things and they lose focus on their main thing and that you know if you talk
00:50:04.060 about what that they they look at it like oh i'm making all this extra money over here but no really
00:50:08.980 you're fucking losing a lot of money because you don't even you're leaving so much on the table
00:50:12.620 you're diluting your effort right and so that's something you need to be aware of you know i'm a
00:50:17.460 big proponent of exhausting your current business to the point where you can't make any more money or
00:50:23.240 it's a operating at an 80 uh autonomy where you're you're only running 10 or putting 10 of your time
00:50:30.260 into it to where you go to something else you know and that's where people fuck up man they it's the
00:50:35.860 midas touch thing they think they can do everything and they want to do everything because they want
00:50:39.300 to walk into a meeting and they want to say oh yeah i'm the fucking ceo of abc heating and cooling but
00:50:45.000 yeah i own uh abc asphalt and abc fucking uh holdings and abc this and you know and they want to talk
00:50:53.860 about themselves yeah it's an ego thing it's not a money thing right and like dude i don't know about
00:50:58.320 you but i'd rather have the fucking money you know what i'm saying yeah so so i want you to wrap up
00:51:04.760 with your whatever final point that you're going to make in just a second but i can i can i do two
00:51:08.860 things real quick number one guys uh you know that in 160 episodes we hardly ever push anything in
00:51:15.900 terms of of product and i you also know that the mfco project is not just a podcast it's a movement
00:51:21.480 one of the ways that you expand a movement and make it really powerful is you capture the hearts of
00:51:27.460 the youth and andy has written a book otis and charlie he's actually creating a series of books
00:51:33.440 for kids otis and charlie's hard-working tales the first book uh charlie the bulldog's fantastic
00:51:39.500 fruit stand has been super popular i just want to throw that out there you guys one way to really
00:51:44.320 support the podcast is to buy the kid in your life that book and get the second book coming out
00:51:49.620 real soon which we're not going to tell you about but the theme is awesome so all you need to do
00:51:53.980 is go to amazon.com google andy frisella you'll find uh you'll find the book but that that would
00:51:59.360 be a great way for you to support the podcast secondly on the subject of books people are
00:52:04.360 constantly asking you what your favorite books are we do have a pdf you can download of andy's
00:52:09.240 favorite books it's themfceo.com forward slash badass books and uh if you want to see a list of his
00:52:15.700 of his book uh favorite books you can get that well while we're at it before you go back why don't
00:52:20.420 you just throw out a couple books you've read lately or one or ones that sort of classic for
00:52:24.600 you that that you recommend because people are literally always asking you that the book the
00:52:29.580 books if you've been listening to the podcast that i always go to for people who are not really into
00:52:33.520 reading which by the way if you're not into reading you're costing yourself tons of opportunity
00:52:38.540 but uh the magic of thinking big by david schwartz is probably my all-time favorite book i think it's
00:52:44.180 super important for anybody to read that's goal-oriented oriented um i like relentless by tim grover i think
00:52:49.840 that's probably my top three favorites um anything by seth godin is relevant uh it really teaches you
00:52:58.240 how to think differently um i can't really name one book the purple cow was the first book i read by him
00:53:04.580 and that's what got me hooked on all of his stuff the guy's a fucking genius um sometimes he can be hard
00:53:10.520 to read because the guy's so smart and you know he's going to be smarter than you if you're listening to
00:53:15.460 this and just is uh um wooden on leadership is an amazing book um lombardi rules lombardi rules
00:53:25.420 that's a quick easy read yeah 10x yeah 10x by grant cardone is a fucking amazing book um you know
00:53:32.960 anything by tony robbins is a great read uh again he's he can be hard to read he sometimes he's easier
00:53:39.720 to listen to um you know i mean oh the third circle theory pj yeah um that's a great book i mean
00:53:51.480 those are all those are all books that i would recommend to anybody to read i mean i could i
00:53:54.740 have hundreds of books that i've read but those books uh stand above and uh above everybody else's
00:54:01.840 content i think um but back to the the summary of the podcast i think really the problem here
00:54:10.200 guys is it's the same problem why people can't be successful is that it's instant gratification right
00:54:16.640 and an instant gratification really fucks things up it fucks up your relationships it fucks up your
00:54:21.900 business it fucks up your finances and your ability to plan for the future and i think the biggest thing
00:54:27.400 that you need to take away from this podcast is this you need to always be thinking long term
00:54:31.620 and people you know they have this fucking stupid sayings like yolo and this and that like whenever
00:54:38.500 they think about spending money and all this shit but the problem is is that you know by by letting
00:54:44.380 the short-term things getting the short-term purchases the short-term impulsive buys the short-term
00:54:50.440 lack of planning that you do when it comes to your finances that means you're always going to be a slave to
00:54:56.300 the system okay you're always going to be the guy who has to have this job that you fucking hate
00:55:00.760 in order to survive so you've got to you know when you're young and you're under 30 or even under 40
00:55:06.360 you know it's a good idea to live below your means it's a good idea to do your homework it's a good
00:55:11.460 idea to read up on investments and take the money you do have the little money you've been able to save
00:55:16.040 and and pursue those investments on the side it's a good idea to not try to become get rich quick
00:55:22.420 overnight okay that shit doesn't exist it's it's it's it is the ultimate bait and hook of people
00:55:30.200 who want to take your money out of your pocket and put it in their fucking pocket um you know you need
00:55:35.640 to look like a big thing now is like day trading and fucking trading stocks and shit or uh currencies
00:55:41.440 and bitcoin and this and that and everybody wants they're hearing the glory stories you know i made
00:55:45.900 fucking 70 grand in six months and this and that dude you need to look for the businesses that are
00:55:51.980 going to be here when you're fucking you know if you're 20 when you're 40 look at the companies that
00:55:57.100 you think are going to be here and invest in those companies you know what i mean warren buffett doesn't
00:56:01.140 go for get get rich quick he took his time he did his homework he understood that you know industries
00:56:07.760 are going to change and the ones that are going to make you the money are the companies that are going
00:56:10.760 to withstand that change you know um don't be investing in the fucking sexy overnight fly-by-night
00:56:16.980 businesses you know you need to think really hard about not just how you're making your money which
00:56:21.620 is normally what we focus on here but how you're investing your money and how you're spending your
00:56:25.600 money a big part of becoming wealthy long term is not what you bring in it's how much you let go out
00:56:31.820 and a lot of people forget that you know they see all these people and dude you know what if you
00:56:36.240 follow me you you know i'm probably guilty of it too you see me posting my cars or you post when i
00:56:41.600 fly in a jet when you post this and that you need to keep in mind that that's a very small percentage
00:56:46.260 of my income and those things are planned for and budgeted for it's not me doing this you know like
00:56:53.720 these motherfuckers that post stacks of money on the internet or like they throw fucking hundred
00:56:57.920 they're at the club and they throw a thousand dollars or ten thousand dollars in the fucking air
00:57:01.720 and let it go to you know like dude that's not real life that's not how wealthy people operate
00:57:07.380 that's not what they do they make smart decisions they plan their decisions and they budget those
00:57:12.300 decisions over the long haul they don't just go fucking crazy and dude so many of you young guys
00:57:17.760 are trying to live that baller lifestyle trying to fucking keep up with somebody who isn't going to
00:57:24.520 fucking matter to you in five years or even a year you know you're watching these motherfuckers on the
00:57:29.500 internet or these people on tv and you're making decisions about your future the next 10 years who
00:57:35.720 you're going to be 10 years from now or 15 years from now based on what some dumb fuck celebrity is
00:57:40.600 doing or what car he's driving or what fucking you know this or that he's doing and guys you got to be
00:57:46.320 smarter than that quit buying into the fucking bait you know and start thinking about what realistically
00:57:51.080 it's going to take for you to get where you want to go and i think you know so to sum it up
00:57:55.400 you know quit thinking about today or tomorrow or next month and start thinking about where you're
00:58:00.660 going to be in 10 fucking years and usually we talk offense usually we talk make a lot of money
00:58:05.000 usually we talk how much money you're going to make in this case let's talk about how much money
00:58:08.940 you're going to fucking keep because that is what's going to ultimately determine your lifestyle
00:58:13.060 for the rest of your life because once you get to a critical mass where you have a lot of assets
00:58:19.240 and they're they're bringing you money and they're bringing you income you're going to get to a
00:58:23.060 situation where a you're comfortable where you are and b you're making a lot more money than what's
00:58:27.660 creating the comfort in your life and dude when you get that situation that's a good situation to
00:58:32.500 be in so i would say guys you know take your time do your homework think long term don't buy into the
00:58:39.100 fucking hype all right you got plenty of time you can do a lot of good shit right now be fucking smart
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