REAL AF with Andy Frisella


It's Lonely At The Top, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO129


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In this episode of the Mf ceo Project, I address a common question that is so often asked of me, "what do I do about my friends that don't believe in me?" and how do I deal with it?

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys you're listening to the mf ceo project i'm andy i'm your host and i am the 0.98
00:00:11.440 motherfucking ceo what is a motherfucking ceo i know some of you ask and i know you wonder but 0.97
00:00:18.500 i'm gonna tell you what it is it's somebody who takes absolute control and responsibility 1.00
00:00:23.580 for their life it's somebody who doesn't let society tell them what they should be it's
00:00:30.980 somebody who goes through life doing what they need to do the way they need to do it
00:00:37.460 and lives life with a confidence and a swagger that shows other people that it's okay to be you
00:00:46.060 okay today we're gonna have a friday fire and i want to talk to you guys about something
00:00:52.880 that is so often asked of me and i want to address it um a lot of times i have these motivational talks
00:01:02.080 today it's more about a practical thought that i want you guys to realize okay i get this in my dms
00:01:09.040 i get this in email i get it a number of times it's always a version of this what do i do about
00:01:16.500 my friends that don't believe in me what do i do about you know if i become successful and i lose all
00:01:22.080 my friends what do i do if i have these people who uh i'm around right now and then i become successful
00:01:29.300 and then and then they don't become successful i want to address that with you guys and make you
00:01:34.320 understand one thing you have to worry about you you have to realize that you came into this life
00:01:43.100 alone and you are going to go out of this life alone and the way that you're going to enrich and
00:01:49.980 fulfill and feel good about your life is by doing the best that you possibly can for yourself and that
00:01:59.200 doesn't mean you're selfish technically is that the definition of selfish maybe but the reality of
00:02:06.260 life is this the higher you go the more you evolve the better you become the more people are going to
00:02:14.320 be improved around you and that's a very noble thing okay so you can't worry about what your high 0.91
00:02:22.200 school buddies are going to fucking think about you and you know say about you when you're on this 0.89
00:02:28.860 journey because in the reality of of how it works is this you're going to start out with an idea you're 0.99
00:02:34.600 going to execute on the idea and you're going to execute long enough on the idea that these people
00:02:39.420 that you hang out with right now are probably not going to relate to you the same way they relate to
00:02:44.340 you now your life's going to change your income's going to change what you do is going to change
00:02:49.140 and probably if you're fortunate enough your life is going to become so fucking cool that when you 0.78
00:02:55.560 talk about it other people who are from the old times of your life are going to perceive it as you
00:03:01.740 bragging when in reality it's just your life and let me tell you something if you can get to a point
00:03:07.280 where when you talk about your real life and other people perceive it as you bragging
00:03:12.780 that's not a bad thing okay you talking about the way you live driving the cars you want to drive
00:03:20.840 going and doing the things you want to do living where you want to live is not bragging that's just
00:03:26.980 your life okay and the reason i bring this up to you guys is you have to understand that along the way
00:03:34.820 people are going to start to perceive you as a different person and you are becoming a different
00:03:39.120 person and there's nothing wrong with that because life is about evolution but the main point that i
00:03:43.920 want to drive home with you guys is that people think that when they get to a certain point they're
00:03:49.600 going to be alone because this certain group of friends that they have or their certain group of
00:03:54.200 family that they have now isn't going to be able to relate but here's what happens guys you're going to
00:04:01.360 lose some people some people are going to fall off some people are going to start not to like you 0.99
00:04:05.460 they're going to be jealous of you they're going to talk shit and they're not talking shit because 1.00
00:04:10.140 they hate you they're talking shit because they came from the same motherfucking place that you came 1.00
00:04:16.340 from but you were able to create something that they were not that means they hate themselves all right 1.00
00:04:22.280 so you can't take it personal for one and for two when you evolve when you become something else when
00:04:29.220 you become better when you become further down the road on your goals and progress further and and
00:04:36.860 become this person that you desperately want to be on the inside and you're working your ass off to be 0.75
00:04:42.720 on the inside you are going to develop new relationships you're going to develop relationships with people
00:04:48.520 that complement those goals and become part of pushing you forward improving and ultimately those
00:04:55.540 relationships are so much more fulfilling because they are aligned with what you want out of your life
00:05:02.280 and it's hard for people to understand that because when they're at the beginning and they start to lose
00:05:07.240 some people they feel like man what did I do to lose these people but you got to be patient you know we
00:05:12.320 talk about patience a lot you have to understand as you go as you move as you progress you're going to
00:05:18.040 meet these new people and these new people are going to bring new things into your life that the old
00:05:22.140 people couldn't bring and you're going to evolve and everything about life is about evolution it's
00:05:27.120 about change it's about moving forward it's about growing and let's be real if you were loyal to the
00:05:33.160 way these people thought about you from back in the day you'd be just like them which is not what you want 0.76
00:05:38.520 so you have to realize guys that that saying it's lonely at the top is complete bullshit that's what
00:05:44.940 broke people say that's what people who struggle in life say that's the way they justify their lack of
00:05:50.840 action that's the way they think about quote-unquote rich people to justify them staying exactly where 0.97
00:05:58.420 they're at well my relationships are more important and I don't want to fucking lose them well 0.99
00:06:01.640 motherfucker you don't lose those relationships you move and evolve and create new ones that are 0.99
00:06:06.080 ultimately more serving more beneficial and more fulfilling for you so when you write me these emails 0.99
00:06:11.980 and say Andy I'm going to lose my friends I understand what you're saying but that's not the way that it
00:06:17.400 works so when you think about what you're trying to do and you start to think about the people that
00:06:24.000 right now don't believe in you discourage you and uh tell you you shouldn't do that and tell you you 0.96
00:06:30.380 know that this is a bad thing to do or a bad idea or unrealistic now think about all those fucking 0.98
00:06:35.760 people that tell you that it could be your mom it could be your dad it could be whoever now what if you 0.99
00:06:40.860 replaced every single one of those motherfuckers with somebody who said dude that's awesome let's do that 0.99
00:06:46.560 together here I know a guy who could help you do that here I know this group that could help you 0.99
00:06:51.420 with that oh you want to become a billionaire do you need to meet this guy and do what if you replaced
00:06:56.860 all your negativity with people who did that what would your life be like that's what you need to
00:07:02.400 think about when you when you think about what you're going to lose and what you're going to gain
00:07:06.160 because I could tell you right now the relationships you lose are so worth losing when it comes to what
00:07:16.820 you're going to gain on the back end if you decide to go down this path so don't be loyal to relationships
00:07:23.860 that hold you in the same spot be loyal to yourself trust yourself trust your own dreams and move forward
00:07:33.300 on your goals and ultimately those relationships will start to materialize that support you drive you
00:07:40.860 and pull you along versus anchoring you back
00:07:43.540 you